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Validation And The Frame

2012-02-28T21:43:00.002+07:00

Before I start this article, I must add a warning: Success with women is not just about the dynamics of
validation in the sense of being "nice" or being "not nice". OK, cool, let's begin then:

Sex is great, but validation is even better. Because VALIDATION is GREATER than sex. If all this sounds hard to believe, trust me, it's TRUE. It's a totally INVALIDATING experience for her, and for women who are attractive,in general. Remember, VALIDATION is GREATER than sex.

Yup. Our society has allowed this to happen, a combination of the fact that guys have become slaves to beauty and forgotten that character is just as important, guys have forgotten their own value, most
guys have given over all their dignity to women, guys have been brainwashed to think that it's normal to kiss up to a woman just because she is attractive, etc.

Also, as guys, we definitely have our share as well of bad apples, guys who are dumbasses and abusers of women, etc. But in general, you must learn to DANGLE the carrot of validation to a woman without
giving it to her completely. A woman will tell you she is MADLY in love with you, and MEAN IT, and be
the sweetest woman on earth. Then, if you give her full validation, it will quickly all disappear.

Also, once you have a woman in private, better help her unleash her repression! Think about it:
MEN supposedly have to buy women things, like dinner. MEN are supposed to be "gentlemanly".
MEN have to show they have financial security, etc.

It pours into every aspect of your interaction with a woman you are picking up.
So in fact, all we're doing by what **I'M** advocating, is restoring the BALANCE to the dynamics between men and women. Helping fill in the gaps (no pun intended) and actually help women get some balance back in THEIR lives.

This BALANCE is what WOMEN need as well to feel the JOY of attraction!!!!!!
I'm not for causing pain to women, I'm for causing harmony between men and women.

I must say it clearly again, once a woman is attracted, it's important that you also show kindness and respect. Once a woman is ATTRACTED seriously to you, THEN the GREATEST gift you can
give her is your validation- that you feel she is WORTHY of you. Most guys give this validation over to a
woman before the woman even CARES about the GUY.

The world of women isn't all like those cute Teletubbies on TV if you know what I mean. That last one above is really funny, because women hang out at clubs and shake their butt and tell everyone
they just want to dance, and that guys are pigs, meanwhile the reality is that if there were no guys at the club, women wouldn't ever go.

Because then there would be NO VALIDATION--- no guys to OGLE and WATCH them shake
their butts!!!!! If you ever approach a woman in a club, withhold all the validation stuff, instead just strike up a fun conversation, or tease her on her outfit, and in fact if she seems to be treating you great, don't act all so surprised and happy as if this never happens to you. The fact is, no matter where you meet a woman, and no matter what stage you are in with her, you MUST control the frame.

"You mean you can NEVER EVER EVER let a woman have things her way?"

Yeah, this happens all the time with most women, if you are giving a WEAK FRAME to begin with.
It won't happen though nearly as often if you just establish the right frame to begin with. You might think that a woman would LIKE to be validated. So giving women every trivial thing they want
so easily, only digs you deeper into the abyss of abuse.

Not only that, but women are SICK of guys who just want to do what women want- because the reality is
that women who are hot often really have never had a chance to think about what they really want, since everyone keeps GIVING them everything!

Ask a woman what she wants: She'll tell you a nice guy. Women need men who have very CLEAR ideas
of what the MEN want. So be even SMOOTHER than women are, for both women's benefit and
your own. By the way, don't get me wrong: I don't advocate being a JERK with women.

In the days of the romantic tales, women gave men a certain amount of automatic respect.

The Emotion Of Power

2012-02-20T15:15:00.009+07:00

The most addictive emotion is the emotion of POWER. It's actually more powerful than sex. Even the most raunchy, porno-style sex, is still not just about sex.

What I want to say though is that if you want to ATTRACT a woman, the goal is to make HER feel those emotions as well. What's interesting is that even for MEN, the truth is that a woman's sexiness is MASSIVELY ENHANCED by factors we are not even conscious of-which are all the attractive BEHAVIOURS that women have perfected over thousands of years.

Think it's all a coincidence that women, who are the physically weaker gender, simultaneously developed the greater powers of seduction?

Women's powers of seduction through their behaviors and through their sense of fashion and style make them seem far more attractive than they really are. Most women, not all women, but most women are great at this stuff.

Creating attraction is the ULTIMATE art. And a lot of it involves creating the aura of superior worth and power. Remember that power is not just physical strength, it's the ability to create EMOTIONAL IMPACT.

And now that women have equality as well, the scales have totally tipped over and women actually have superiority over most men, something that doesn't have to be this way, but is for most clueless guys. Sounds simple? That stuff is over.

Use the power of your VOICE. You can put a woman into a trance simply by the super calm and soothing sound of your voice. I know guys who are SO MESSED UP, but from their voice they sound so totally in control of their lives, they sound so calm, and it's totally powerful when they do pick up on women. It's ATTRACTIVE.

Become CONSCIOUS of how often you are laughing out of discomfort rather than laughing because something was FUNNY. Also, notice if you are laughing at your own jokes.

If something isn't funny, and the woman is hot, then most likely the reason you are laughing is because you are TRYING TOO HARD to bridge the gap with the other person.

TIME IS VALUABLE, SO ACT ACCORDINGLY. It's amazing how guys will suddenly behave with women as if they have all the time in the world. If you have value, then your time is valuable. It feels like you DON'T just spend all day talking to women, which you honestly shouldn't be doing, you should have a life beyond women as well.

Also, in general, if you are valuable and you know your time is valuable, then you don't have time for trivial arguments and negativities.

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Sexual Tension: It's What Women WANT

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Sexual Tension: It's What Women WANT

2012-02-15T21:39:00.003+07:00

What makes women really FEEL that they are experiencing an earth-shaking ROMANCE? One of the MAJOR keys to this is something known as sexual TENSION.

Sexual tension is the FOUNDATION for every effective romantic story from the beginning of time right up till today.

The best way to understand sexual tension is to see it as the OBSTACLE between FEELING sexual desire and being able to FULFILL that feeling.

The OBSTACLE is what actually makes the desire even STRONGER.

The element of sexual tension is so powerful that TONS of stories incorporate it into their MAIN story.

Sexual tension always works because we always APPRECIATE something MORE when we DON’T get it easily.

There’s no DYNAMIC in place to help these hotties experience the CHALLENGE so that they can then ENJOY the REWARD of getting that man!

Listen, I really LOVE the idea of being in a great relationship. I LOVE romance.

The problem is most men think of ROMANCE in terms of how good it would be to GET the woman, not in terms of how much fun it would be make the PROCESS exciting.

So what are some examples of OBSTACLES that you can create that BLOCK a woman from “getting you” even as you also simultaneously chase her? If you meet a woman who is not very confident, you will HURT her feelings and make her feel INSECURE.

If you meet a woman who is SUPER CONFIDENT, she will EAT IT UP and love you for it because she finally feels that element of challenge.

So for example, I remember being on the bus once and this super hottie got on, and she was taking forever to find her change for the fare.

It’s not FUN for her.

Imagine if you were Superman and the only sports teams you could play against were HUMAN. It wouldn’t be FUN. You wouldn’t enjoy WINNING. You’d want to play against some SUPER BAD-ASSES.

Here’s another point about sexual tension: It’s not just in your WORDS.
By the way, I learned some of this from women a long time ago.

Chess is a good game!”

The key here is to be operating from a standpoint of GOODWILL, CONFIDENCE, ADVENTURE, and FUN.This is NOT about how to HURT a woman.

The Charismatic Man

2012-02-12T22:46:00.004+07:00

A lot of men ask the following question: "Is there a SHORT CUT to attracting women?"
When a man has CHARISMA, he can “break every rule” about attraction and STILL attract fantastic women.

Here's An Example of How Charisma Works to Make A Woman Sexually ADDICTED To A Man:

Let me illustrate with one quick point. Women are just as sexual as men, but we as men have been made to believe that they aren’t.

So men try to appeal to women with things like MONEY. Now, meanwhile, women are just as sexual and WANT sex.

While Most Men Work In Vain To "Impress" Women, The Man That Woman ACTUALLY Go To Is...

Women go to the man who KNOWS women are sexual, who doesn’t PRETEND that women need presents and kissing-up and money and all these other things.

Now, most men have been brainwashed to believe they need to be all these OTHER things to women, things that women really DON'T need!

Men have been conditioned to think that men must also HAVE all these other things, in order to be “allowed” into the land of sex with women. "Working To Impress A Woman" Actually Makes Her REPULSED!

The very fact that most men try so hard to impress women with all the wrong things makes women feel, on a deep subconscious level, that these men are somehow INFERIOR in some way, and therefore need to “compensate” a woman for being with them.

So the women subconsciously feel those guys are LESS attractive. As you can see, it’s not just that women see him as more SEXUAL, women ALSO feel he is MORE attractive than all the other guys.

PLUS, for most women life is stressful enough as it is, so one of the big things when approaching any woman, ESPECIALLY a woman who is a total stranger, is the ability to RELAX her.

BEING WITH THIS GUY IS LIVING!!!
BEING WITH OTHER GUYS IS BORING!”'

In a nutshell, you are her MAN. The charismatic man is the man who has the ULTIMATE in choice with women.

Climbing Out Of Darkness

2012-02-12T21:56:00.003+07:00

Hey Guys,

One of the BIGGEST MISTAKES that I used to make regarding the whole idea of attraction is that I thought you were supposed to be this type of STOIC, serious guy. Brooding.

I was this decent guy, who would never cheat on a girl, who was totally genuine and meant every word I said, and yet the girls I really wanted just didn't seem to feel the same way.

I used to call a girl again and again to show her that I did NOT take her for granted. This just pushed the girls away even more and this made me even more brooding, angry and pissed off.

I became blunt with girls, doing NOTHING for them, no favors, sick and tired of being abused and used.

I gave no compliments because I was sure girls didn't deserve them. I promised girls nothing, and had more girls than I could count, so I really didn't mind much if some of them didn't like the way I rolled.

Most girls are compelled and intrigued and attracted to a guy who really is THE MAN in the sense that he is emotionally strong, doesn't need anything from anybody, certainly not from a woman.

When trying to actually PICK UP girls in 'HAPPY' environments like parties, (where TONS of girls hang out) my behavior wasn't helping very much.

I hated the music, I hated the whole happy thing actually. Hated it. Not a great paradigm or formula for happiness, on your own, or with women.

I also grew to understand that YOUR STATE OF MIND is the GREATEST POWER ON EARTH you can possibly EVER have with women.

Suddenly, you no longer have to 'run game'on women. You are able to make women feel great because you KNOW IN YOUR GUT that you are THE guy who will make her feel GREAT.

If state of mind is SO CRITICAL for success in your interactions with women,then what the hell should a guy do if he is feeling like total crap???

Yup.
For example if some EX-GIRLFRIEND who treated a guy like crap is making a guy feel bad, then the BEST thing he can do is GO OUT AND INTERACT WITH WOMEN!!!

The reason for this is because interacting with women requires ALL OF YOUR SENSES TOBE ENGAGED. Your sense of timing, your sense of humor, your visual senses, your alertness and dominance, your tone of voice and vocal abilities.

YOUR FOCUS IS THUS PUT IN THE RIGHT PLACE: YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN, rather than some negative PAST event or even some negative current emotion.

Also, remember that chances are if any woman ever did something CRUEL to you, (this is different than simply not being attracted), chances are INSANELY HIGH that she did this to you because SHE FELT INSECURE.

Beautiful Women Quotes

Beautiful Women Quotes

2012-01-17T11:10:00.003+07:00

Beautiful Women Quotes

When I was in College. I have female friend. Her name is Novi. We are closed friend.

She is not pretty but she has an attractive personality. One day I asked her what her dream?

She said she want to get married and pregnant. That’s weird because she is only 19 at that time.

I asked her again why you want to get married in such young age? She explains to me when she reaches age 40, her children will be 20 and she has a lot of time to be her children best friend.

Her dream come true, she pregnant but by accident. And father of the children don’t want to responsible.

I asked her do you regret. She said yes I’m so pissed off and regret. She said again yes it is too late, the rice has turned into porridge, but Deden (My names) I will make porridge the best porridge as good as possible.

That is the best Beautiful Women Quotes I’ve ever heard. Is not the face, is not the body. But is about confidence and faith that life must go on even though bad happen come to us.

10 years I’ve not meet her. But her words still in my mind. Whenever I make mistake and I feel regret I always remind myself. I will make the porridge the best porridge as I could.

Baltic Women

Baltic Women

2012-01-13T16:47:00.003+07:00

Ladies in the Baltic countries are unique. They make a great number of men return again and again to Estonia, Lithuania and Latvia. They make the same men stop in bewilderment on the street. They are well educated’s most of them speak at least three languages’s have good intuition and are stunningly beautiful.

In order to begin to understand Baltic women we have to consider what the word "comfort" means to them. Feeling "comfortable" is not quite being relaxed, as many would consider it, but rather feeling beautiful.

High heels are extremely comfortable as they make the legs longer. Skirts are comfortable even when traveling because skirts are elegant. A wooden chair is more comfortable than a sofa because it helps them sit straight.

For the local ladies, the traditional interpretation of comfort, in which it becomes an end in itself, is the greatest enemy of their elegance.

Every woman needs attention, something that is even truer for the women of the Baltic’s. With full knowledge of what they are ready to give, they also know what they want to take.

American style values such as "sharing the bill" or "not opening the door in front of a lady" could be considered a joke here.

Showing an emotional investment is even more important. Because of centuries of cultural integration people from the Baltic States are more open than many Europeans. Never be afraid to seem too eager in building a relationship with a Baltic lady. Here in the Baltic’s, being interested in a woman's feelings and needs is much better than putting on a show of being cold and distant.

Though Baltic ladies may at first seem a confusing enigma, puzzling through their complexes may prove well worth it to those men who really do understand their luck at being surrounded by the beautiful and intelligent women of the Baltic’s.

Iranian Dating

Iranian Dating

2011-12-19T22:55:00.004+07:00

Iranian Dating - Here, There and Everywhere

The Iranian population has soared since the 1979 revolution, and in 2005 over 70% of Iranians were under 30 years old. Like counterparts in other countries, this generation of young Iranian adults has been exposed to the Internet, satellite TV and all the gadgets and know-how that make the world a smaller place in the 21st Century.

I found an article featuring a journal written by an Iranian woman in 2005 when internet dating surged in Iran. She was surprised by the amount of potential dates that flood in to her computer via her IM service. The author first assumed the chats are coming in from Iranians in LA, but was intrigued to learn her would-be cyberdates are actually based in Tehran.

How Don't You Do?

Even the most seemingly harmless forms of dating are forbidden in Iran, where authorities patrol the streets to ensure that modesty and chastity are upheld. With modern technology and the influx of influence from the worldwide whatever, the government is having a hard time controlling where young Iranians see and be seen in cyberspace: especially when it comes to love, dating and sex.

Even in the most religious parts of the Islamic Republic, young Iranians log from the safety of their homes, and as the author asserts: "flirt away to their hearts' content, even arranging secret rendezvous with someone who may turn out to be a neighbor."

She goes on to name a few of the most popular sites where members, some of whom are from Iran's most holiest cities, post pictures of themselves and are rated by visitors.

The Cyber Sweetheart...

40-something-year-old lawyer Mehran, who travels frequently between New York and Tehran, having officially left Iran in 1979 and having made a point of dating non-Iranians in his new home, the United States. Now he's more open to women from his homeland. Mehran uses Iranian dating sites to set up dates for when he returns to Iran on a long visit each year. "I've met great women," he said.

Such sites are proving popular among young Iranians, although in some instances, Islamic officials seek to block access to them.

The Author is interested in Arab and Middle Eastern societies, with a special interest in Arab dating and Arab singles.

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Horoscope Dates

2011-12-15T16:05:00.002+07:00

New Horoscope Dates

If you are someone who checks their daily horoscope in order to gain guidance on your decision-making, get more insight into your personality, get an idea about any upcoming challenges or opportunities for the day, or test your romantic compatibility with a potential significant other, then you probably have heard the recent news that there are now new horoscope dates to consider. The prospect of changing zodiac signs is especially frightening for those who may have their valued astrological sign permanently tattooed on their skin.

Of course, once anything as significant as a change in astrological signs occurs, there are going to be many people who have questions and concerns, as well as confusion about why the change in horoscope dates has occurred, and of course the usual debates and controversy over whether or not the change is even valid. In this article, we are going to provide you with information about what the new horoscope dates are, why the dates have changed, and what steps you should now take considering that various astrology experts can’t seem to agree on this change.

Below we’ve listed the new dates for each horoscope sign, with the old zodiac dates in parentheses. Take a look:

Capricorn: Jan. 20-Feb. 16 (Old: Dec. 22 – Jan. 20)
Aquarius: Feb. 16-March 11 (Old: Jan. 21 – Feb. 19)
Pisces: March 11-April 18 (Old: Feb. 20 – March 20)
Aries: April 18-May 13 (Old: March 21 – April 20)
Taurus: May 13-June 21 (Old: April 21 – May 21)
Gemini: June 21-July 20 (Old: May 22 – June 21)
Cancer: July 20-Aug. 10 (Old: June 22 – July 22)
Leo: Aug. 10-Sept. 16 (Old: July 23 – Aug. 22)
Virgo: Sept. 16-Oct. 30 (Old: Aug. 23 – Sept. 21)
Libra: Oct. 30-Nov. 23 (Old: Sept. 22 – October 22)
Scorpio: Nov. 23-Dec. 17 (Old: Oct. 23 – Nov. 21)
Sagittarius: Dec. 17-Jan. 20 (Old: Nov. 22 – Dec. 21)

As you can see, these are very significant changes, and there is a very strong chance that most of you will have to change your horoscope signs, assuming that you choose to accept these changes. But why did the zodiac even change at all? As we will see, there are varying answers to this question depending on who you ask.

New Horoscope Dates – Why Have They Changed?

Parke Kunkle, an astronomer with the Minnesota Astronomical Society, was the first to come to the conclusion that there were new horoscope dates. His reasoning? According to Parke and several of his colleagues, the gravitational pull of the moon has caused our planet to “wobble” around its axis for the past 2000 years. This wobbling process is called procession and has changed the alignment of the stars by about one month. Thus, because our horoscopes are based on these constellations, we would see drastic changes in our zodiac signs. In fact, Kunkle has proposed a 13th sign, a constellation known as Ophiuchus (Ooh-FEE-yew-kus), which would actually run Nov. 29 – Dec. 17.

One of the arguments in this ongoing debate stems around the fact that most of the Western world wouldn’t be affected by these changes, because we follow Tropical Astrology. Tropical Astrology uses seasons to determine our horoscopes. This is in contrast to the eastern-based Vedic astrology which is, in fact, based on the alignment of the stars.

New Horoscope Dates – So What Does This Mean For You?

Some of you may welcome any changes in astrological signs, especially if your proposed new sign comes with personality traits that you always wished to possess. Others of you may be so attached to your zodiac symbol, adorning your body with tattoos of your beloved sign, a closet full of and shelves full of knick-knacks that proudly display your sign, and even choosing who you decide to establish a serious relationship with based on the supposed “compatibility” of your birth signs, that this kind of change is too much to have to deal with.

For now it appears that most of you have opted to remain loyal to the zodiac sign that you have come to know and love for your entire lives. And only the extreme believers of Parke’s theory have opted to make any changes in their lives based on this new information. Until more information comes out about the proposed new horoscope dates, the best course of action is to wait for the astrological experts to come to an agreement.

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Heart Dating

2011-12-13T17:32:00.002+07:00

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2011-12-13T17:26:00.003+07:00

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European Dating Sites

2011-12-10T17:14:00.004+07:00

European Dating Sites: How to Date a Beautiful East European Woman

I am sure many of you have looked at the internet dating sites for Russian women or had scam emails through your mail system and thought "Wow they are stunning, can they be real"

The answer to your question is an unreserved Yes, they are real. Having been many times to Ukraine, Belarus, Russia and Latvia the most astounding aspect of these trips is the abundance of simply beautiful, elegant women. One can only wonder in awe at the gene pool.

For some strange reason it appears in our western society, women either in the US or Europe have lost that element of femininity and like nothing better than competing against men and trying to prove they are superior in many aspects. Skirts, dresses, high heels, make up appear to be apparel items of the past, trousers flat shoes and unisex blouses/tops are the in togs to wear! Beer to slake the thirst and a loud voice to tell men to go away!

Oh well thank goodness for the female of the species from Eastern Europe. Aha but how to meet them is the Million Dollar question.

There are plenty internet dating sites offering you the most gorgeous women but not all are what they seem. Many articles have been written in newspapers, TV documentaries made about the scams involved with these sites and the traps and pitfalls awaiting the lonely unsuspecting westerner!

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Emo Dating

2011-12-04T21:24:00.005+07:00

Are emo girls dateable, you ask? Why, yes they are. I've dated them, so that is definitely true. However, emo girls are difficult to get, as it takes time and patience. They're harder to get than ordinary, nerd, or sports girls, but are easier to get than popular girls or cheerleaders.

Emo girls are really hot due to their unique hair styles and cool clothing and their "don't fuck with me" attitude. Don't go on a date with them without reading this. It will help you, a lot, seriously.

Before we begin, you need to know the two types of emos, nice emos and mean emos.

The most common type of emo girl is the nice one. Nice emo girls are quite gentle and act like ordinary girls. Most emo girls tend to hang around in girl groups, and don't cut themselves or talk or think about suicide. They may, however, get a little emotional at times.

The rarer type of emo girl is the mean one. They are called this, surprisingly, because they have little to no respect towards other people. Mean emo girls are usually bitter and just want to be alone because they hate their life and everything in it.

What you need to do is be nice even if she is insulting you or throwing death threats at you. You don't even have to tie her up, at least, not right away. They tend to cut themselves, so that’s something you should work on removing from their daily activities.

You may notice that there are no images of a mean emo in this section, so just imagine an emo gone mad. Scary sight, isn't it? Don't ask how I know this, because I refuse to tell.

How to know if that girl is an Emo Girl

Many people tend to get emo girls mixed up with other stereotypes, like punks, goths, and posers. Before you approach an emo girl you’ve got to make sure she's not a goth or a punk. Goths and punks wear different clothing and do not suffer from the same sort of depression as emos do, nor do emos have Mohawks like punks or wear skirts like goths.

To tell the difference between a emo girl and a poser, you must know these facts: Her mascara is bought in bulk, wrist cut lines run across the street and not down the river (applies only to mean emos), she does not own any Hannah Montana pajamas, bathrobes or comforter sets, and her angst is not primarily directed at the latest Gossip Girl episode but rather at softer targets like her parents and her upbringing.

If she does not fit this description, she's a poser, plain and simple. You can still date a poser if you like, but we’re here to learn how to date emo girls. No excuses and no substitutions. Let’s move on.

dubai dating

Dubai Dating

2011-12-04T21:20:00.002+07:00

What You Need To Know Dubai Dating

Not all Emirati women are covered head to toe -- and Dubai's international club scene is rowdy.
The nightlife is distinctly Western, but whatever you do, never touch.
Sex outside of marriage is illegal here. Always tell people you're married.

The first rule of dating in Dubai is that you don’t talk about dating in Dubai -- at least that’s what the scaremongers will have you believe before you enter the Muslim state. But is that just a fallacy, and can guys practice the art of seduction in a religiously strict country without fear of castration?

Yes and no. Wooing the fairer sex is fine, provided you adopt a subtle approach. But kissing in public or peeling off to indulge in some al fresco lovemaking will conjure a sh*tstorm the likes of which you have never seen. Couples caught in the act can expect a stint in the slammer and deportation, not to mention a lifetime of embarrassment after seeing their sordid tale splashed across newspapers back home.

Incarceration in a Dubai prison is no picnic; chances are you’ll be forced to fend off the advances of at least one burly cellmate looking for some hands-on fun. But even the threat of a dangerous liaison can suppress men’s sexual urges for only so long. Asking that they suppress them indefinitely is like asking Charlie Sheen to go easy on the booze and drugs.

So what are the hard-and-fast rules of dating in a Muslim country, where sex before marriage and cohabiting unless wed are forbidden? Follow these simple guidelines, and you can at least attempt to score a hot lady’s phone number without the law breathing down your neck.

Rule No. 1: Be Discreet
Contrary to popular belief, women aren’t covered from head to toe and forced to live a sheltered life away from men. Dubai is bursting with nightclubs and bars where astoundingly attractive ladies of all nationalities congregate. And where hot women congregate, men will surely lurk.

The party scene is distinctly Western, with free-flowing alcohol and beach parties the norm to accommodate the 90% expatriate population. But you still need to keep your wits about you when engaging the local talent. Approaching and talking to women in nightclubs and bars is fine; you may even manage to steal a quick kiss before being accosted by one of the sweaty, incoherent bouncers. But whatever you do, don’t let your hands do the talking.

A slap on the bum might seem playfully cheeky to you, but the venue’s management will take a dimmer view. At best, you’ll be warned about your ungentlemanly conduct and possibly kicked out of the club. At worst, the lady in question will scream her lungs out, throw her ridiculously expensive cocktail in your face, and see to it that any male companions she’s with subject you to a public beating.

Rule No. 2: Never Hit On Local Women
Undressing that hot Emirati lady with your eyes from afar is fine. But hitting on her with the express intent of finding out what lies beneath that mysterious black veil is strictly forbidden. In your mind, suggesting her father might be a baker because she has a lovely set of buns may seem charmingly seductive. She, however, will be far from impressed. Rather than giggle flirtatiously, the lady will most likely emit a bansheelike wail to ward off your advances. She’ll then scream abuse and accuse you of all sorts in Arabic, rendering you powerless to protest your innocence. Expect to find yourself at the nearest prison within the hour.

Rule No. 3: No Kissing In Public
Your suave, sophisticated patter has worked a charm, and the lady is ready to lock lips. But before launching in, remember this is a Muslim country. Many couples have been jailed for a seemingly innocuous peck on the lips, so don’t, under any circumstances, indulge in a spot of tonsil tennis when out and about. Just go home if you’re really desperate to get more intimate.

Rule No. 4: Have Her Accompany You When Buying Lingerie
Definitely, without question, take the new lady in your life shopping with you when buying her some sexy underwear. It will spoil the surprise, but better that than enduring the shame of scouring for a hot little item amid the fairer sex’s collectively scornful glare. Guys who go it alone will stumble around nervously while trying to avoid making eye contact with women who can barely mask their contempt for the pervert in their midst. Let’s face it: Picking out women’s lingerie is horrible at the best of times, so why subject yourself to such a tortuous task in a Muslim country? Especially if it ends in your being publicly humiliated when asked to leave by a sour-faced store clerk.

Rule No. 5: Tell People You’re Married
Letting close friends and colleagues know you’re going steady is fine. But anyone else is without question a potential threat to your blossoming romance. While most people turn a blind eye, sex outside of marriage is illegal in the emirate. Annoy the landlord, and he won’t think twice about letting the authorities know that those noises emanating from your apartment aren’t the result of a game of Twister. So tell anyone you don’t know that the sexy female on your arm is your wife; that way you can enjoy some physical fun without fear of reprisals.

dating website reviews

Dating Website Reviews

2011-12-03T13:06:00.002+07:00

Dating Website Reviews

What's the best dating website? Usually the one that gives you the most options, the best matches and the greatest success!

With so many to choose from it can be hard to know which is best for you, especially when there are some people online looking for a life partner and others who are only looking for fun. Either way if you're committed to finding a match online, our adult dating website reviews will help you decide which is the best dating website for you.

Match.com

Match.com is one of the best dating website simply because of the huge amount of traffic it gets. Combining with Yahoo Personals as of July 2010, the sheer volume of people logging on can only mean one thing: More opportunities and a higher success rate for you!

Like most single dating websites, Match.com allows you to join for free, browse their catalogue of profiles and make brief contact with other members by posting pictures and sending winks. When you want to further your communication you will need to join their subscription to have full access to profiles and communication tools.

The benefit of joining Match.com as a member is the 5 Daily Matches it recommends to you. It works by searching its database for likeminded people based on its personality test that you are required to take when joining. This is a fun way for you to match with people you might not have normally considered, however after it while it can feel like the system is churning out just about anyone to you.

Regardless Match.com is a well established dating website and with such a huge database of singles its guaranteed to open new doors for you in the dating world if you choose to pursue it.

eHarmony

eHarmony is for those who are really at the business end of pursuing a loving partnership and is only for those who are serious about making a long lasting relationship. So if you are just looking for a bit of fun or seeking a partner without the view of it turning in to something serious, then eharmony is not for you.

eHarmony differs itself from other dating sites with its scientific approach to match making. Becoming a member involves completing a rigorous and detailed questionnaire that is then used to match you with other members. Their belief is that the best matches come from the key dimensions of personality testing, rather than just leaving love up to chance.

Unlike other tops dating websites, at no point can you browse profiles of other members. This may be off putting to some but the point is to break any usual dating patterns that in the past haven't lead to successful matches. Instead it finds matches for you based on your core values and beliefs. The benefit of this is that not only can this be incredibly exciting it also saves you a lot of time trying to get to know someone and figuring out if their qualities and ideals match yours.

eHarmony's commitment to its members is such that it won't send you matches if there is no one in their database that matches you. They will only contact you if a member joins who is deemed suitable. They also do not accept married or separated members, guaranteeing that all parties involved are free of relationship commitments.

So if you're looking for a long lasting union, husband or life partner, eHarmony is definitely the best dating website for you.

Lavalife

Lavalife currently only operates in the US, Canada and Australia but this well established company is one of the best internet dating websites around. Lavalife is the place where singles click and although you have to pay to play the benefit of this website is that it has so many different products at your very fingertips.

Aside from its regular catalogue of profiles your can search through, what makes it one of the top dating websites is that it offers a variety of communication tools such as Lavalife VOICE, Lavalife PRIME and lavalife MOBILE to name just a few.

Lavalife VOICE is where you can record your personal profile and have other interested singles respond 24/7 Then if desired you can also connect live one and one and actually speak to each other, personalizing your 'meeting' all the more.

Lavalife PRIME can be considered the best dating website for singles exclusively 45 plus. It offers the usual browsing of profiles and emails but also encourages members to participate in chat forums and read feature articles offering tips and relevant information regarding a mature lifestyle.

LavaMOBILE for the modern single on the move, this allows members to search profiles, exchange text messages, view pictures, receive text alerts, play flirting games and engage in mobile chat.

Chemistry.com

Chemistry.com is another one of the best internet dating websites. The sister site to Match.com it matches people through its online chemistry test. While their questionnaire is quite extensive, the questions themselves are lighthearted yet sensible for getting to know someone who is likeminded. Examples of their questions include, 'Where would you rather live? Big city, small town, by the sea or lake?' and their answers are all multiply choice.

What makes Chemistry.com one of the top dating websites is that they pride themselves on helping you get to know the person behind the profile. And although they like to try to convince you that they are the best dating website claiming that their chemistry test matching is the best in the business and will find you the perfect match, the good thing about this site is that it keeps things light and fun. Which is just what single dating websites should do.

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Dating In Wales

2011-12-03T13:02:00.003+07:00

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DatingInWales is a safe online dating site for Wales and the whole of Wales – sign up is free, fun and fast. We have new singles joining every day, and you can sign up for free.

Tired of speed dating? Try speed dating online with Dating In Wales matchmaking service. Whether you are looking for serious relationships, friendship, girlfriend, boyfriend, lover or even pen pals we have it all.

date asian women

Date Asian Women

2011-12-03T12:58:00.004+07:00

How to Date Asian Women

Interracial dating has been growing these days as the advent of the internet has made communication from all over the world convenient and easy. With a few clicks of the mouse, you can actually get to talk to a woman you would love to date. If you love Asians and you want to learn how to date Asian women, here are a few tips you might find useful.

- Asian women, like any other women, love to be treated special. This has nothing to do with whether she is Asian or not. Women in general loves to be treated special by any man.

- Break the traditional first dates. Break the formality of first dates. You don't have to ask her to a dinner date or a movie or an awkward first class dining. Be a good friend and make your first few dates and meetings fun. These traditional dates may cause more pressure and awkwardness for Asian ladies and your efforts may all be put to waste. Try those fun and relaxed meetings or invitations for coffee or going out and enjoying something that may interest both of you.

- Asian ladies are often reserved and not openly vocal about their feelings and their thoughts, thus if you truly like the woman, invest in making her feel comfortable at first. It may take time to get to know her better. Keep in mind too that Asian girls may play hard-to-get as a test of sincerity for them, so if you want to learn how to date Asian women, try to be patient.

- Impress them by your actions. Asian ladies are not expressive and vocal in terms of their feelings and in displaying affection publicly, thus they often do it through their actions. If you want to impress them, you impress them through actions as well and not just by merely saying everything.

- Asian families have strong family ties. Most often, dating also involves getting to know the family as well and getting along with the rest of the family members. if you want to win an Asian girl's heart, then you have to have an effort to get along well with the rest of the family as well.

- Don't tell an Asian woman that 'you love Asian women' or you have an 'Asian fetish,' or anything that may emphasize racial differences. They may get easily turned off and may end your opportunity to bond with them. End the stereotypes. Offensive comments may forever turn off women and may stay away from you forever. Treat her like a any woman special to you should be treated.

- Be cautious in opening up the subject of sex. Asian ladies are generally conservative and do not find it comfortable talking about sex with a guy, thus you have to take extra caution in bringing up this subject with her.

- Learn the Asian culture. You don't have to act like an Asian if you want to learn how to date Asian women, but it helps a lot to learn about their culture and practices. Being able to respect that difference will help you become more admirable to Asians and their women as well.

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Bangalore Dating

2011-12-03T12:47:00.005+07:00

Bangalore dating girls are so sweet and nice

They are shy initially

They are small but very smart

They are fresh and pretty

They are submissive to their lovers

They will try hard to satisfy their men

They are fond of sex but will never expose it to their men

They will satisfy their men with their actions and love and care

afro dating

Afro Dating

2011-12-03T12:41:00.004+07:00

Afro Dating - Guide to the Online Websites

By Steve Armstrong

Are you an afro-american person? Do you seek that special someone? This article will try making it easy for you in getting an on-line date. I will try to underline some of the ups and downs in on-line dating; why should you and why shouldn't you try this type of dating.

Is it O.K.?

What's the difference between initial eye contact across a crowded room and an email via a busy dating website? Perhaps less than you think. The bottom line: you can be as wrong - or right - about someone you slap eyes on in a bar as you can online. And your instincts will still be the only guiding force when it comes to weeding out the lovers from the losers. Fate certainly ensures that we kiss a few frogs before coming up trumps with a Prince - however we meet him. So, as a conclusion, if you want to try on-line dating, go right ahead, because, love can hit you from all the different places.

Just in case you decide to sign up with an online dating agency, here are a few web sites where you can do this, and a few details about them.

http://www.blackplanet.com

BlackPlanet.com is your space to meet people in your community, express yourself, and find information that reflects our cultures and our perspectives.

Here you can find all kind of things from games to forums and news. But the main topic of this site are the afro-american dates.

http://www.afroconnections.com

Not like any other dating site, they offer a Scientific Personality Profile Analysis. Using their test you will discover yourself as well as be able to identify your desired match. The service will pick up your true compatible match, or so they say.

There you can find automated match finder, which will do the work for you. As there are thousands of members just now and just as many joining all the time, keeping up with potentially suitable matches can be time-consuming. All you need to do is give CyberCupid your match criteria and it will scout the database for you on a regular basis. When it finds a match, you will be notified by e-mail or by SMS if you have upgraded to the full service

http://www.love.org/black_dating.htm

Black Dating is Free at Love.Org

Love is the newest and best Black Dating site with ZIP code lookup, large photos & slide show. With the "Mutual Interest" feature, you can rate your level of interest in each member whose profile you review, and members are automatically notified if you are interested. To start, simply create an account and enter a search criterion. Your search patterns can be saved, you can return at any time to resume your search.

http://www.ebonyfriends.com

A great place for black singles to interact with each other, and talk about religion, work, sports, life, relationship, and more by offering valuable services to all the single friends in your city and around the world. You can view dynamic, informative personal profiles of other members! Free registration!

Now there's no excuses - give online dating a go today!

Steve Armstrong is editor of [http://www.blackvelvetinthecity.com] - a website dedicated to providing black dating resources.

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Hard-Wired Attraction

2011-11-10T09:30:00.000+07:00

Hey Guys,

In order to excel at attracting women,
it’s crucial to understand that on the
DEEPEST level, ALL attraction boils
down to ONE thing: SURVIVAL.

All the attractive things, from STATUS,
to flawless social skills, even to a brilliant
sense of HUMOR, as well as many OTHER
skills and traits, all enhance your ability to
attract a woman because on a subconscious,
evolutionary level, these things represent
a survival advantage.

A woman isn’t THINKING “survival advantage”,
she just FEELS attraction, but the reason she feels
attraction is because it’s HARDWIRED in her
brain to feel attraction. It’s not just a cultural
thing, it’s DEEPLY imprinted into the most
primal part of her emotions and DNA.

This is the reason that for men, LOOKS alone
is not the limiting factor that most guys THINK
it is when it comes to attracting a woman.

The thing is, OF COURSE looks HELPS if a
guy already HAS it. But it ABSOLUTELY
IS NOT THE LIMITING FACTOR THAT MOST
GUYS THINK IT IS if it's not there.

The crazy thing, is that you can SEE this
for yourself just by taking a look at who the
most beautiful women in the world are with:
They are NEVER with the male equivalent
of themselves!!!!

Here’s proof number 2:
There are INFINITE strip clubs where women
take off their clothes for men.

There are EXTREMELY few strip clubs where
men take off their clothes for women.

This is even in an era where women are liberated,
there was Sex And The City, etc, etc, etc.

In fact, it’s mostly gay men that are into things
like Playgirl, etc, etc.

Here’s the other thing too:
I’ve conducted bootcamps for about ten YEARS.

Over the years, I’ve had several clients who were
EXTREMELY good looking, in fact when I first
started out, and got some of these guys who looked
like male models for bootcamps, I thought these
guys were not legitimate, i.e. that they were
working for some media organization with
secret cameras, etc.

Then I realized, that the reality is even if
you are a male model, it’s not ENOUGH to
attract a woman if you don’t ALSO have the
INTERNAL POWER of UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE.

Waltz into any club, and you will see guys
who look like footballs players, and who in
fact might very well be university football
players, and jocks, TRYING to chat up
women but then running out of what to
say and then LEAVING out of the fear
and discomfort of not knowing what to
say or do and not wanting to get rejected
or look weird.

Men and women ARE different when it comes
to attraction.

And here’s the IRONY:
MOST WOMEN ARE ACTUALLY FAR
MORE CONFIDENT THAN MEN WHEN
IT COMES TO THE WHOLE SOCIALIZING
ARENA!!!!!

So, what happens is that women end up feeling
like THEY are the MAN, and the man seems
like HE is the woman!

You can imagine what this does to attraction:
IT DESTROYS IT.

When you meet a woman, especially in
those first few moments, she knows
NOTHING about you.

So, her ENTIRE feeling of you will be based
on what you do THEN.

It’s absolutely crucial that you give off the
VIBES of POWER emanating from deep
within you.

Now, you might be saying, “But I don’t
have a cool job, or a cool car, or a nice
apartment or house, or lots of money”

You might even be saying things like.
“I’m too old/young/short/tall/thin/fat”.

Guess what?
For everything you DON’T have, it takes
MORE balls and MORE confidence and
MORE charisma to TALK TO HER ANYWAY,
which means this very “problem” is actually
the COOLEST way to show you have
INFINITE CONFIDENCE, which is what
a woman is REALLY attracted to anyway!

So, please, go right ahead and give the
BIGGEST EXCUSE ON EARTH for
why you should NOT approach a woman,
and in fact you should make sure NOT
to hide your flaws, because it’s BETTER
THAT A WOMAN KNOWS YOU HAVE
BALLS MADE OF STEEL!

The more reasons you think you DON’T
have what it takes, is the very REASON
for why you become MORE ATTRACTIVE
by actually TAKING ACTION ANYWAY.

In fact, I like to call this the “SEPARATOR EFFECT”.

THIS is what separates the men from the boys.

And trust me, I have the RIGHT to speak on
this topic. I suffered from so much anxiety, and
this anxiety was not just some superficial thing,
it was a pretty deep rooted issue, that the LAST
THING ON EARTH I HAD WAS “CONFIDENCE”.

When I would go to approach women, even back
in university where there were knockouts exploding
from all angles all over the place, and there should
have been NO SCARCITY FEELINGS about
women, my heart felt like it was going to burst
right out my chest from pumping so hard every
time I actually approached a woman there.

The more you FEAR something, the GREATER
the courage is by actually EMBRACING that
fear and the worst case scenario.

Subconsciously, I was saying to myself, YES
EVEN IF THE ENTIRE THOUSAND STUDENTS
IN THE LECTURE HALL SEE ME GETTING
REJECTED IT’S TOTALLY WORTH IT TO
ME FOR A CHANCE TO GET WITH THIS
SUPREMELY HOT FEMININE CREATURE
IF SHE ALSO IS A COOL PERSON INSIDE.

Yes, PLEASE REJECT ME IF THAT’S WHAT
IT TAKES TO KNOW I GAVE IT A SHOT.

Now, here’s the thing to realize:
What starts out as courage, ends up becoming
CONFIDENCE.

At first, YES, you are scared as hell, but the
thing is the greater the fear, the GREATER
the confidence you will get from doing this
again and again.

After all, it’s no big gain to do something
you DON’T fear. What can you gain from
that, confidence wise?????

If a woman sees that you are the kind of guy
who doesn’t let fear STOP him, she knows
that you are the kind of guy that probably
already has a lot of confidence in OTHER
areas of his life that are important to him,
because you are clearly the kind of man
who does NOT let fear stop him.

Remember, every time you feel anxiety
about approaching a woman, that THIS
is the SEPARATOR between the men
and the boys.

Give into the fear, and you become part
of the PACK of most guys who DON’T
get the woman.

DEFY the fear, and you SEPARATE yourself
from the pack.

And remember, the greater the fear, the
MORE you will separate yourself from
the pack. And if you think you have
PARTICULAR issues that should stop
you, the truth is that those issues are
MORE of a reason to GO talk to her,
because it means you have even greater
balls if you DO it.

So you can’t lose by going for it, EVER.

Now, there are THINGS you can do to
HELP ensure you take action, and also
things you can do to make the approach
as powerful as possible.

That’s where I come in.

For example, you can create a COUNTER
CAMPAIGN to the current voices inside
of you that tell you to NOT approach.

For YEARS now, you’ve probably been
telling yourself all the reasons why you
should NOT approach a woman, and
why it’s SAFER to avoid the whole thing.

Well, what you need to do is take EVERY
EXCUSE AND REASON YOU GIVE
FOR NOT APPROACHING, AND YOU
MUST WRITE DOWN WHY IT’S MORE
IMPORTANT TO APPROACH EVEN IF THAT
WORST FEAR/EXCUSE FOR NOT APPROACHING
IS TRUE!

So even if that fear IS true, even if that worst
case scenario WERE to happen, you must
write down why it’s STILL more important
to APPROACH HER ANYWAY!!!!!!!

And in fact, it IS cooler to the woman,
the more guts it took for you to take
action based on your situation.

By the way, you can already SEE the
evolutionary reasons for this, right?

It’s because the man who didn’t give into
his FEARS was the man who got the FARTHEST,
and this is true even today, VERIFIED by
research easily found in books like
"Emotional Intelligence" by Goleman.

The world tries to DESTROY you with FEAR.
Give into it, and say goodbye to yourself.
DEFY it, and EMBRACE YOUR FULL POWER!

So, you MUST create a counter campaign
to fight against the messages telling you to
NOT take action.

In fact, record all this onto a CD, MP3, etc,
and PLAY it 24/7 if you can!!!!!!!
Even when sleeping!!!

Make SIGNS, put them all over the place
so you can’t miss them!

This is the only way to COUNTER the other
campaign that has been going on inside your
brain for YEARS!

It’s kind of like this:

Imagine how big the campaign would have to be
to get kids to want to eat HEALTHY considering
BILLIONS OF DOLLARS are spent on getting kids
to want to eat fast food and junk food- by
commercials, cartoon characters on junk food
labels, etc, etc, etc.

The COUNTER-CAMPAIGN to junk food would have
to be in the BILLIONS of dollars as well,
getting Mickey Mouse and Miley Cyrus and
Superman etc, etc, to promote grapes and
fruits and carrots, etc.

In fact, CAMPAIGNS DO ABSOLUTELY WORK, and
you must do the same for YOUR OWN MIND.

By the way, this is just the TIP of the iceberg
of what you will learn in my programs regarding
beating 'approach anxiety'.

Remember, ENHANCED SURVIVAL is
the root of all ATTRACTION:

So not only is it important to defy your fears,
because of the message that courage and
confidence sends to a woman’s “attraction
cortex” in the primal regions of her brain,
but there are OTHER things as well that
you must do for FULL effect.

For example, start to dress in a way
that incorporates COOL accessories.

I thought at one time this was silly, till I
TRIED it.

So, I went to a few stores, and I found this cool
dark red STONE pendant.

Without thinking much of it, except that
it somehow LOOKED AND FELT primal
and ancient, like a tribal thing, I got it.

That night, I went to a lounge, and I swear
within MINUTES, the girl who was the
bartender (and as you might know, the
bartenders are usually knockouts, and she
was no exception) comes over to me,
AWAY from the bar, and starts playing
with the pendant around my neck and
starting a conversation.

At the time, years ago, I was so new to all this,
that I didn’t even BELIEVE it was really happening,
I thought "it can't be this easy - probably she
does this all the time", till I realized how
RARE IT IS for this kind of thing to happen.

Allow me to PROVE to you how powerful
this stuff is: It’s so powerful, that it goes
beyond all cultural forces, and into the
arena of PRIMAL HARDWIRING again.

Professor Denis Dutton has explained that
ART has been used as a way to create
EMOTIONAL IMPACT, demonstrate STATUS,
and ATTRACT WOMEN, since ancient times.

Yes, archeologists have found proof of this.
They found these thin stone blades, (hand-axes)
that had been shaped into these captivating,
symmetrical, pointed, tear-drop forms.

They were discovered in the THOUSANDS
across Asia, Europe, and Africa, almost
EVERYWHERE people roamed at the time.

The massive NUMBER of these “hand-axes”
prove that they CAN’T have been made for
slaughtering animals.

The fact that the majority of these blades,
unlike OTHER tools being used at the time,
show absolutely NO WEAR on their delicate blade
edges, prove that they were NOT designed for
ANY practical use.

Their symmetry, their attractive materials,
and their detailed workmanship are
ATTRACTIVE TO THE HUMAN EYE.

So what were these ancient artifacts for?
Dutton explains the BEST available answer is
that they were the EARLIEST FORMS OF ART!

“Practical tools transformed into captivating,
aesthetic shapes, admired for their elegant
shape and their virtuoso craftsmanship.

Hand axes mark an evolutionary advance
in human history, tools fashioned to function
as “fitness signals” – displays like the peacock’s
tail, except unlike hair and feathers, the hand
axes are CONSCIOUSLY, cleverly crafted.

These hand axes indicated desirable personal
qualities- fine motor skills, intelligence, planning
ability, conscientiousness, and sometimes access
to rare materials.

Over tens of thousands of generations, these
skills increased the status of those who
DISPLAYED them, and gained a reproductive
advantage over the less capable’”

What’s even MORE mind-boggling is that these
particular hand axes were made between 50
and 100 THOUSAND years before humans
even had LANGUAGE!!!!!!!

By the end of the "hand axe" era, humans had
found NEW ways to amaze each other: Things
like being FUNNY, coming up with STYLES
of clothing, and body paint, coming up with
MUSIC, and STORYTELLING in ways such
as theatre.

When these things are done WELL, the
human brain RESPONDS.

And guess what is one of the most POWERFUL
forms of CAPTURING people’s attention,
a form that comes into relevance EVERY
DAY, especially when you meet WOMEN????

EXCELLENT SOCIAL SKILLS!!

DEMONSTRATING your social skills to a
woman is ATTRACTIVE when done WELL.

It is a SKILL and an ART, no different than
playing the piano or painting a picture.

This skill and art of MASTERING social skills
with women BLENDS TOGETHER elements
of MANY other fields and arts, such as humor,
rapport, storytelling, style, psychology.

Mastering the power of these human
communications and social dynamics
indicates both POWER and STATUS.

Human survival and achievement is based
not just on what you can do alone, but also
on how well you can LEAD people, work
with people, understand people, and inspire
people.

By demonstrating superior mastery of these
social skills, which includes even what you
WEAR, you attract a woman whether she
wants to feel attraction or not, it’s THAT
powerful.

Allow me to give another example of
attraction in real life:

Let’s say you see a woman at a food court.
You are standing far away from her.

In your mind, you’re thinking, “Hmmm, if
I walk over to her from far away, she’ll
see I’m trying too hard to get her, and
that is needy, so it won’t work”.

Or maybe you’re thinking “Hmm,
does this stuff really work??? Won’t
she wonder why a TOTAL STRANGER
is coming up to her?????”

So the answer to this question is that
EVERYTHING CHANGES the MOMENT
you take on the right FILTER for how you
are seeing the situation:

If YOU see it as a BIG investment with
BIG risks, you’ll feel weird about it.

Of course, you should STILL take action.

However, to make it EASIER, you should
CHANGE the way you look at it, because
this will actually AFFECT the way you
think and feel and the way you talk to her.

And THAT will AMPLIFY the attraction
she feels for you.

Think of it this way:

YOU are a man.
That means that in general, YOU are the
one who has the role of MAKING THE
FIRST MOVE, risks and all.

SHE is the woman, at best she can ACCEPT
the guy she wants if HE makes the move, but
she can’t PURSUE it as directly as a man.

So, now, you look at this woman far away
and realize THAT THIS IS QUITE NORMAL
because women will NEVER be the ones
who do much of the PURSUING in terms
of first moves.

So, TAKE that “label” of being the “psycho”
and EMBRACE IT!!!

If you think this makes you a PSYCHO,
then LOVE that label! Don’t fight it!

Of course, this DOESN’T make you a psycho,
just remember that all those women out there
have gone out with what you think are “psychos”
because I guarantee you that if she is attractive,
there have been SOME guys that tried this
and she actually LIKED it, but probably the
guy was so confident that he couldn’t SETTLE
to just be with her, so he probably cheated on
her!

Now, you feel less of a psycho, because you
know she has said yes to other “psychos”
and in fact she WISHES she could just meet
a "good psycho!!!!"

That’s number one.
Number two, is to realize that you are
probably turning what should be FUN
into something SERIOUS.

Instead of THINKING for an hour of what
to say to her, just HAVE FUN with the
moment!

It’s also FAR more cool this way.
By having FUN with it, you make it clear
that you are NOT focused on the OUTCOME.

As soon as SHE senses that you are NOT obsessed
with the outcome of this chat, SHE lightens up as
well and starts to have fun chatting with you,
she might even be the one to joke right back
with you.

So, for example, you might say, if it’s lunch
hour, “Hey there, I was thinking, what if
NOBODY went back to work after lunch???
could we ALL get fired if we ALL did it???”

She might say back to you “You mean everyone
HERE??? Or everywhere in the world?”

And you might respond with: “I like the way
you’re thinking!! GLOBALLY!!! We start
with this place, and then work our way to
every major CITY!”

And then, just as she’s getting into it,
you say something like “Just one second
as we put the global plans on hold- is that
my favorite kind of PIZZA you’re having
there- VEGETARIAN???”

Or you could do the opposite “WHOA.
Hold on- I think you’re having a
VEGETARIAN slice of pizza there,
I can’t even talk to you anymore!!!”

Do you feel the VIBE going on here?
It’s having FUN.
You’re ADDING to the situation.

There is nothing for her to resist, because
you’re not TAKING.

You’ve also been funny in two different
ways, it’s not like you’re hanging for
dear life to the “Global plan to not
go back to work” idea, either.

You’ve also demonstrated an understanding
of human psychology and about “vibe” as well,
by going about the approach this way, plus
you’ve shown confidence by approaching a
total stranger.

At THIS point, you can sit down, have
your lunch as well, and enjoy a “normal”
chat with her, because you have passed
that point of being a ‘stranger’.

I suggest you transition into some light
stuff like what you both really enjoy doing,
etc, and THEN move into the next higher
gear where you build a powerful connection.

It’s important to CHANGE GEARS and
not STAY in the “funny” zone for too
long, or she thinks you’re JUST there to
play around.

If you come across like you’re just there
to play around, it seems weird, or that you’re
too afraid to escalate to the next level, which
is obviously not attractive either.

You need to PROGRESS the interaction
FORWARD and be “THE MAN” here as well.

NEVER wait for her to have to
SPELL IT OUT FOR YOU.

So for example, if you have a great chat,
don’t wait for her to give you her number,
just ASK for it at the end of the chat, or
even better, LOOK her in the eyes with
TOTAL CONVICTION and say:

“You should leave me your number”.

THAT'S the kind of statement that
makes her want to GIVE it to you
and get closer to you.

If you want to get the FULL PICTURE on how
to attract the kind of women that make most
men go weak in the knees, I seriously suggest
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This program is the way to get results with
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You can spend the time on your own, without
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Learning it the hard way will drain yourself
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Why Women Aren't Attracted To 'INNOCENT' Guys - And What To Do About It

2011-11-07T19:20:00.000+07:00

Hey Guys,

Getting past certain old beliefs is
one of the keys to attracting an
amazing woman, but for most men,
these beliefs are rooted so deep,
they NEVER get past them- and
never get the woman they want.

It took me many years (and many women
that slipped through my fingers!) to realize
just how FREAKY POWERFUL you can become
if you can just get PAST these old beliefs
about what is "good" behavior to a woman
and what is "bad".

Allow me to share with you a recent email
that will show you exactly what I mean:

***LETTER FROM A READER***

Hi Michael Marks,

I don’t know what the hell I’m doing wrong
but it seems that when I’m out and about,
I make eye contact with a female and I’m
not looking too hard, just an innocent look,
and for some reason they shoot a “OMG why
the hell is he looking at me?”,or the “What
the hell you looking at?” look!

I know I’m not an ugly guy so what am I
doing wrong and what books or CD's/DVDs
do you have that deal with this subject
matter?

>>>MY REPLY<<<

First of all, thanks for sharing your story
and being so up front.

Guess what?
You keep thinking, like most men, that
this should not happen because you
are giving a look that is so “INNOCENT”.

However, the REASON this is happening
is actually BECAUSE your look was so
“innocent”.

“Say WHAT Michael??????”

Stay with me here, and let’s look at all
this from the perspective of a woman
who is attractive, and has a lot of choice,
and ALSO has high standards in terms
of personality:

Every single time she steps out into the
public eye, ANYWHERE, guys are giving
her “innocent” looks.

The thing is, these looks, although quite
normal and an instinctive reaction from
most guys, are not exactly as “innocent”
as they seem.

For one thing, 99% of these “innocent”
looks would all like to do some very
naughty things with her.

And that’s still all fine and good, except,
INNOCENT is not NAUGHTY.

And so, it’s kind of being DISHONEST!
And WHY is it that 99% of men are
being this way that is less than honest?

Because of FEAR that it’s “inappropriate”.
Because of FEAR that if she knows that
we are thinking NAUGHTY thoughts, then
she’s gonna get upset or something and
we’re going to lose her approval.

On a subconscious level, she can SENSE
all this.

And this is all a massive DESTROYER of
attraction.

Instead of being a turn ON, it’s a turn OFF.

Again, this is where guys get confused about
why some JERKS do well with women.

It’s not the JERKINESS part of him, it’s the
CONFIDENCE AND SELF-ESTEEM AND ZERO
GUILT IN HIS OWN SEXUALITY AND IN
BRINGING OUT HER SEXUALITY.

There is no reason on earth why any GOOD
guy cannot or should not do this.

And in fact, the good guys who know this,
are the guys who get the BEST women,
because they are giving the ultimate
combination that ignites ATTRACTION
in a woman.

If only more GOOD GUYS knew how to radiate
sexuality withOUT being a jerk, it would
be the end of jerks. But I know that day
will never come, because just like
'the dark side of the force' being a
jerk is the easier way- even thought
of course the 'jerk' method is a timebomb
and ends up CRASHING and causing the girl
to LEAVE as she loses TRUST in him.

Try it as an experiment to prove what
I’m saying:

Try going out and getting RID of the
INNOCENT look when checking out
and approaching a woman, vs. the
“innocent” look.

You can still have a warm smile and not
look so antiseptic, so innocent, so sterile
of masculinity. Or you can even not smile
at all. Yup, no smile at all.

You can look “NOT SO INNOCENT” because
in fact, you really want to be a little more
NAUGHTY, right?

It’s was pretty mind-blowing for me to first
discover all this, but from a “certain point of
view”, to quote Obi Wan Kenobi, this is
actually more TRUE, more HONEST, more
SEXUAL, more MASCULINE, and more
ATTRACTIVE, and it also shows more
INTEGRITY!

And it’s a billion times more of a TURN-ON
for her!

It’s really a form of FEAR that makes us
act all “squeaky anti-septic clean” around
women, mixed with a brainwashing that
tells us it’s “polite” to be this non-sexual
man.

And of course, FEAR is not attractive to
a woman, and not believing you have the
VALUE is also not attractive either, and
acting non-sexual is also BORING.

And what really makes my blood boil is
when virtually the ONLY GUYS that get
this and understand it intuitively and
apply it and get any results are the
JERKS!

If only the GOOD GUYS would understand
this and apply it, good guys would RULE.

This is why in real life there are so few
JAMES BONDS and so many STIFFLERS!
(if you remember the guy from American
Pie who just wants to get into women’s
Pants using ANY means)

Stiffler has ZERO GUILT about ANYTHING
he does to get into women’s pants, even
if he DOES have to lie, but BOND is so
EXPLODING with confidence and self-esteem
that he EXPECTS women to want to be with
the REAL him no matter what.

This is why the Stiffler’s of the world at least
get some SHORT-TERM results, but of course
they never get to KEEP a woman attracted.

It’s the BOND type confidence that keeps a
woman craving a man LONG TERM.

Now, there’s yet ANOTHER level to all this:

When you act or look all “innocent”, you
are actually making a woman feel LESS
feminine.

This is because since you are acting so
“innocent”, she knows the only way this
could ever lead to the sexual is through
HER having to make it all happen, and
that is simply NOT the role that 99% of
women prefer.

She wants YOU to be THE MAN, and HER
to be THE WOMAN.

In her mind, a desirable woman does not
have to plead with a man to act masculine,
and does not have to tell him to have
confidence, and does not have to help him
to approach her, and to create sexual vibes,
and to have to make up for the lack of his
comfort with being sexual by HER being
overtly sexual, unless SHE feels she is a
tramp or desperate for attention!

By being THE MAN, and a little less “innocent”
(and you know that this is really not a
bad thing, as I explained above) you allow
her to fall into the role of being “the woman”
and you into the role of being “the man”
who just “made it all happen” so she feels
it wasn’t like she was this desperate tramp.

Women are still socially programmed to
feel awkward about being the ones to
LEAD the show when it comes to the
whole sexual thing.

By you behaving more as THE MAN, she
can be more of THE WOMAN.

This goes even DEEPER, by the way, all the
way into the sex part of a relationship.
Specifically, what I mean is that it's
CRUCIAL that you make a woman feel FREE
to be A WILD ANIMAL in bed.

You see, this is one of the crazy things
nobody talks about, and it's a real tragedy.

The NICEST girls out there, you think they
aren't INFINITELY SEXUAL??????????????????

It's a CRIME that 'nice girls' who don't want
a CREEP often get guys that are so 'innocent'
and 'nice' that the guy never really makes
her feel like it's OKAY AND GOOD IN FACT
to be a total sex wild crazy fun person!

And to be honest, sex is the most powerful
fun drug there is, without side effects.

So it's really very MEAN to be so 'innocent'
and deprive a woman of the psychological
FREEDOM to feel GOOD about being 'bad'
in the fun sex sense.

Too much 'innocence' on your part makes her
feel like you will JUDGE HER IN A BAD WAY
if she gets sexual with you to the maximum
extreme.

Being too 'innocent' reeks of LACK of sexuality,
or even worse, GUILT about sexuality.

And there’s yet ANOTHER level to all this:

When a guy checks her out looking “all
innocent”, it’s telling her that he feels he
isn’t good enough, because if he KNEW
HE WAS THE “REAL DEAL”, then he wouldn’t
need to cover his tracks, cover up his desire
to flirt, cover up his masculinity, etc.

So why on earth would a woman want
to get involved with a man who HIMSELF
thinks he’s not good enough? How is
SHE supposed to feel about him if
HE doesn’t feel he has value himself?

Notice how so much of this problem is
INTERNAL, it’s all part of the “inner game”.

In fact, even things like wearing COOL
CLOTHING and accessories, the reasons
they can help your success with women
are more to do with the MESSAGES being
sent to your mind and to hers about how
YOU PERCEIVE YOURSELF than to do with
the clothing actually having such a great
“look”.

For example, you might even be in
a store that has COOL clothing, but
you figure it’s not for you, because
you aren’t COOL ENOUGH to wear
that kind of clothing.

This, by the way, is one way that SEPARATES
different groups in society- the people who
feel COOL about themselves and the people
who DON’T.

And the irony is that it’s this self-fulfilling
prophecy, because if you haven’t ever been
wearing cool stuff, you start to feel that you
are not ALLOWED to, as if you simply don’t
have the RIGHT to be a cool guy.

So it’s not only the way it makes you LOOK,
it’s the MESSAGE you are giving off to yourself
and to women that says whether you do NOT
or whether you DO HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE
DESIRABLE.

When you give yourself PERMISSION
to be THE MAN, the world of women
opens up at your feet.

Until then, the doors remain SHUT.

Try it- try going to the mall, to the
coolest clothing stores, and notice
how it even FEELS when you try on
clothing and accessories that are
“cooler” than you think is really
“you”.

Your mind will say “this is not my thing.”

That is your MIND playing games on you.

WEAR it long enough, and you start to
think DIFFERENTLY of yourself INTERNALLY.

It’s not so much the clothes, it’s what the
clothes did to your MIND, to your 'inner game'
as they say.

And one of the biggest elements to success
with women is your 'inner game', what is
happening deep WITHIN yourself and your
thoughts regarding women, dating, approaching
women, and getting sexual, getting intimate,
and more.

This 'INNER' game is a big part of what’s
calling the shots in the 'OUTER' world.

How To OBLITERATE Approach Anxiety

2011-11-07T19:17:00.000+07:00

Hey Guys,

You know how the "experts" out there tell men to
"think POSITIVE" when it comes to approaching
women?

They say things Like “You can get her! Go up to
her and approach her!!! She’s yours!”

Or how about this one:

“Don’t worry about rejection! She WON’T reject you!”

Well, the truth is, a LOT of this “THINK POSITIVE”
advice only works if you ALREADY are 99% of
the way “in”!

It's kind of like an athlete who is ALREADY doing
AMAZING, will do EVEN BETTER if he "thinks
positive”.

So positive thinking when it comes to women is
great, IF you are ALREADY doing AMAZING.

But this lucky situation, when it comes to approaching
women, does NOT apply to 99% of MANKIND.

Most of us are just NORMAL human beings, who
need something MORE powerful than just "positive
thinking" to overcome the barriers we feel internally
when we want to approach women.

In fact, if you are trying to get your "foot in the door",
so to speak, when wanting to approach a woman,
then trying to "thinking positive" is the absolute
WORST thing you can do for yourself!!!!

Trying to think "positive" can actually make you
far MORE ANXIOUS about yourself and about
your chances of success!

The reason for this is because when you TELL
yourself not to worry because 'everything will be
great and she will want me', you end up even
LESS confident, as deep down, the NEGATIVE
thought burns even stronger:
"WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T?????????????"

The contrast between the "perfect positive wish"
and the fear of the actual WORST makes the
fear feel even more overwhelming!

I should know, I used to try to "pump myself up"
with just using "positive thinking" for YEARS and
it often made me LESS confident.

Here’s the other thing to realize as well: You gain
deep, inner core confidence NOT from "thinking
nice positive confident thoughts" so much as from
TAKING THE RIGHT ACTIONS!

After learning all this the HARD WAY, I have
broken it all down into an EASY to understand,
step-by-step PROVEN METHOD for destroying
ALL inner doubts, anxieties, and fears about
approaching women.

I designed this course so that you can master these
skills QUICKLY.

It's all been perfectly organized into a JAM-PACKED
1 HOUR AUDIO program that is pure GOLD.

The bottom line is, if you don’t approach women,
then no matter how skilled you are, NOTHING will
happen. You can’t stand around expecting women
to initiate or you are really just depending on luck.

It's not that women are lazy about approaching men,
as once a woman is attracted to a man, she will
pursue him to the ends of the earth.

Women don't want to have to do the first approach
because women feel that it is more MANLY for the
MAN to do the initial approach.

In addition this, there's ANOTHER important reason
why YOU should do the approach: It sends the right
message to a woman when she sees that YOU
approached her, and the same way you did that,
you could approach OTHER women even if they
are total strangers, if she doesn’t treat you right.

This helps ensure that she never takes you for
granted.

Being pro-active about approaching women first
tells a woman ALL THE RIGHT THINGS about you
before you even open your mouth!

Waiting for a woman to approach YOU says all the
WRONG things.

Right now, at the very moment you are reading this,
there are TONS of women around you who are
single! In fact there have never been more single
women in history than there are today.

But nothing will happen if you don’t take action to
approach these women in the first place.

And although you can meet women online, the
REALITY is that the CONFIDENCE that comes
from being able to approach women ANYWHERE
in the REAL world SPILLS OVER into ALL of your
interactions with women, no matter where you
meet them.

Women can tell right away that they are dealing with
a man who has OPTIONS.

You will be radiating this confidence without even
thinking about it, it will come through in your thoughts,
body language, and tonality.

Plus, when a woman senses you can approach other
women, you ALWAYS become more attractive
to her, it’s far more VALIDATING to her self-esteem
because she knows you could have chosen a billion
other women INSTEAD OF HER, but you decided to
approach and chat with HER.

She can detect this confidence in a MICROSECOND,
I promise you that.

She can also detect a LACK of this confidence just
as instantaneously.

OBLITERATING "Approach Anxiety" is absolutely
crucial.

Get Laid Tonight - How To Meet A Sexy Girl Online Quickly

2011-10-27T14:41:00.000+07:00

Are you trying to use the internet dating sites to get laid tonight? If so you may have run into some roadblocks and aren't meeting as many women as you like online. If this is your case then read on.

The reality of trying to get laid off the internet is mainly a numbers game. It all works off law of averages as well as the laws of attraction. No I'm not talking physical attraction although it does help to present yourself the best if you're looking to pull some"strange" off the internet.

The god news is while women are superficial, they aren't as superficial as us men are. If you think about it and have read enough womens online dating profiles, you will notice most have 1 thing in common. Are you thinking? Has it hit you yet what most women are looking for... Well besides the"nice guy".

It's a guy who's funny. Is it hitting you now that you've read countless times on profiles a girl wants a guy who's funny? Or someone who loves to laugh? It's kind of ridiculous but really does anyone enjoy sitting around with a frown on their face all day long? I know I sure as heck don't. So do you need to be hilarious funny to get laid online?

The simple answer is no. You don't need to be Dane Cook funny to meet girls. Ok that was kind of a joke in itself, especially if you're not much of a Dane Cook fan like me. But in reality you don't want to try hard to be funny but just be playful. Some guys get into the whole funny thing to get laid on the internet and turn into dancing monkeys.

You don't want to try to entertain these girls but just be playful and funny. Think about David Deangelo who I'm sure you've heard of. He has a whole program he calls cocky comedy. You can check some of his stuff out on Youtube if you haven't done so yet.

The basic idea of it is kind of making fun of and teasing girls. Now this doesn't mean teasing her if she's overweight or has acne. The idea is to get laid here, not make a girl feel like crap about herself. If she wears something extreme like funny shoes or socks, lightly jab on them. I busted on a girls picture of her wearing a bike helmet on a moped. I seriously found it funny so teased her on it and she just ate it up.

I don't care how hot the girl is, and this works better on girls the hotter she is believe it or not. Deep down when we're all by ourselves we're all just huge dorks as humans. Even the hot girl does nerdy and even gross things in private. Add alcohol to the situation and she will even do stupid things in public.

So if you're looking to get laid tonight or sometime in the last few days make your messages and interactions with females playful, fun and friendly. Just like you're not to compliment their looks, you are not to tease their looks as well.

Make Women Laugh - Using Cocky & Funny Successfully

2011-10-27T14:38:00.000+07:00

By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Chris_B_Sanchez]Chris B Sanchez

It is no secret that women want men that can make them laugh. If you are boring, not having fun, or uptight, women will not give you the time of day. Women are looking for men who can bring them more excitement to their lives. Make women laugh, and you will present yourself as an exciting option.

Think about it. Who would you rather talk to? A fun, confident, funny, and outgoing person, or a boring, depressed, or uptight person. Dumb question, right?

You need to be fresh, exciting, and outgoing. One way to do that is to make a woman laugh with cocky comedy.

Being cocky & funny sets you apart from other guys, and that's a very good thing when it comes to meeting women. It shows women that you are the alpha male of the group, and that you have enough balls to make a joke that might meet some resistance.

Why be cocky? A cocky attitude is simply an alpha male trait. Girls know to look for this, and an alpha male is what women are looking for.

That doesn't mean that you have to be a jerk. The key is just to be funny. Make cocky jokes from time to time, and be sure to tease the women you are interested in, if you can. Basically, if you have the opportunity to tease a woman or make a joke to a group or woman, JUST DO IT. Don't worry about who might take offense.

If a woman drops her jaw open and calls you a jerk, do scare away from your tactics. Keep up the routine. Backing down from a joke or tease is a beta trait, and it will kill any attraction you have built up.

In fact, when a girl says, "You're a jerk", you are actually witnessing one of the more obvious signs that your methods are working. Especially when that phrase is accompanied by a push, punch to the shoulder, etc.... You should never apologize.

Have fun with it, and don't be afraid to shock someone with your sense of humor. Learn to make women laugh, and you will have them lining up to date you!

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How To Win Over A Reluctant Woman

2011-08-01T10:43:00.000+07:00

Hey Guys,

One of the things that is a simple fact is
that a woman who is attractive will always test
a guy before allowing herself to be with him.

They have always done this, and they
ESPECIALLY do it today. There are
ALL KINDS of reasons for this, ranging
from being spoiled (these days especially)
to more noble reasons such as a girl
not wanting to be "cheap" and having
high self-esteem and showing she has
standards, etc.

It's REALLY important to realize that even
a girl with the SWEETEST of personalities
will test a guy during the initial pick-up and
sometimes beyond as well. The key difference
is that a girl who is sweet will test a guy in
a way that is not b-i-t--c-h--y, but she will
still throw him tests, she will try to "JAM"
his radar, try to throw him off, try to discourage
him, try to make him feel he has no chance
with her.

Let me give you a few examples:

1. While initially chatting to her, she may
tell you that her background is too different
from yours and that she's sorry but she
guesses it won't work and have a nice
day. (This actually happened to me in
real life with a girl who ended up being
a great long term relationship!)

2. She may tell you she is in a rush and
can't talk.

3. She may chat with you for a good
TWENTY minutes where clearly you
were cool, witty, and dominant, and
STILL she may suddenly put up a struggle
with giving you her number and tell
you that she really has to get going,
and that maybe "you'll see her around"
even though you KNOW she LOVED
the chat.

4. All the above is from real life pickups.
But for example, online, you may have
a girl chat with you for a while and
you know she is enjoying it and that
she hasn't had as cool of a guy chat
with her before, and still she may
be reluctant to send you a pic.

I could go on and on, forever, but I
think you get the idea.

It's SOOOOO important to be able to
KNOW what is really going on in
these situations. Sometimes, yes,
the girl is being genuine and she
really does have to go. But MOST
of the time, or at least DAMN OFTEN,
she is simply TESTING YOU or
she is feeling that she is simply
playing a ROLE of hard to get.

Either way, you CAN'T accept what
she says at face value, or you will
get NOWHERE.

The key to responding to her tests is
to NEVER get upset, and yet also to
know where to draw the line. If a woman
is being outright RUDE, then even though
you CAN get her, she is going to be
TROUBLE and you should weed her
OUT of your life right then and there.

But let's say a woman tells you something
like "Oh, I'm of such and such background,
(very different than yours) sorry!"

If you accept that, she is thinking to herself,
"What a pathetic guy! If he REALLY
wanted me, he would understand that I have
to play a little hard to get, and plus if he was
REALLY a MAN, he would not be deterred
by such an innocent "act" that is not insulting
you at all."

And she is thinking:
"I don't WANT a guy who doesn't really
want me."

NOTE: WANTING a woman is VERY different
than being NEEDY for her. I mean VERY
VERY VERY different.

You ever hear a woman say she wants a man
"Who knows what he wants and knows how
to get it"??? That's because she's talking
about things like CONFIDENCE and KNOWING
what you want, including wanting HER,
and wanting YOU to know how to GET her.

If she has to TEACH you how to get her,
then it's not going to be attractive to her
at all.

So, if a woman gives you a reason why she
has to go, OVER-RIDE it with something
INTERESTING and EMOTIONALLY
RELEVANT, don't ARGUE LOGICALLY
with her. Either CONTINUE the pick-up
as if she didn't even say anything negative,
or you can sometimes CALL HER ON HER
HARD TO GET ACT but do it in a confident,
playful way that reframes her behavior as
a sign of a compliment to you:
i.e. "Are you always this hard to get with guys
that you like?"

Sometimes girls actually feel UNCOMFORTABLE
when they are feeling ATTRACTION very FAST,
which is what happens when you get good at this
stuff.

So what a girl will do is try to JAM your game
and mess YOUR THOUGHTS AND CONFIDENCE
up as she's afraid that if she doesn't mess you up,
she's going to end up in bed with a guy that she
hardly knows (you)simply because she feels
ATTRACTED to you.

So for example, she may suddenly tell you,
after you have attracted her and intrigued
her and made her feel like you are one
in a billion, she may say:
"You're odd."

She really means "You're UNBELIEVABLE"
but to give you such a compliment, unless
SHE is super confident herself, well she
feels to give you such a compliment so
fast would render her vulnerable.

The key then is not to RIP her to shreds
verbally for saying "You're odd" but also
not to accept her words either.

Again, REFRAME, because the truth is,
It IS a compliment.

"So what makes you so attracted to odd?"

This leads me to a SECOND major point,
related to this whole shit test thing, but
also important in GENERAL in all pick-ups.

YOU MUST BE SUPERIOR TO HER

I was the guy who said this long ago, and
it was massively politically incorrect. And
yet, if you know me, you know that I am
not into thinking of women as "hos and
b***ches" and I actually enjoy a relationship
when I'm in it. I do respect women, believe
it or not. HOWEVER, I ALSO know that
attraction is a ruthless thing, and that
superiority IS essential.

What do I mean by this?
Being WITTIER than her.
Being FUNNIER than her.
Being MORE dominant than her.
Being FASTER in response than her.
Being SHARPER than her.
Having more CONVICTION in your frame
than she does in hers.
Better use of tonality.
Better ability to lead a group and withstand
social pressure.
Greater status, even if it comes from simply
being better with PEOPLE.

And much more.

Do you have to be ALL these things?
No, but the idea is to be as powerful as possible.

This is the ruthless reality of attraction.

When a hottie SENSES this, it's RARE.
Usually, she OWNS the guy.
And here, with you, when you have
these skills, you are OWNING
the frame, you are KICKING butt,
and she knows it.

And the craziest thing of all, is that she
LOVES it.

She doesn't WANT to WIN!
If she "wins" over the guy, she feels she
has LOST.

But she can't just LET you win, as that's
not a real win.

Hence, we get back to the first point,
the TESTS.

And yet, the more COOL you are in general,
the LESS of course she will ever need to
TEST you.

Remember, also that WINNING can ONLY
come from being SMOOTH. If you think
that getting angry is a form of dominance,
you're wrong, at least when it comes to
the actual pick-up.

Now, getting AGGRESSIVE when getting
physical with a woman is something else,
and there's a time and place for everything,
but that's not really the same as anger.

Another CRITICAL point I want to make
is that when I say that you don't need
any GIMMICKS to attract a woman,
that doesn't mean that there isn't
WORK to be done.

In fact, becoming a true NATURAL with women
is the HARDEST TRAINING you will ever
find yourself doing on EARTH.

The reason for this is because this attraction
is flowing from the power of your PERSONALITY,
which means you must develop and build
the characteristics inside of yourself just
like a natural bodybuilder develops his
muscles to the greatest development
possible with arduous effort in the gym.

And to quote Arnold, who once said that
the greatest feeling in the world comes
from the PUMP that you feel in the muscles
that you get from lifting weights, so too with
enhancing the sexy personality traits that are
in you right now and are waiting to BLOSSOM
as you build them up to PEAK levels,
it requires EFFORT, but is at the same
time ENJOYABLE.

The feeling is AWESOME.
I'm not just talking about the RESULTS you
get with women, of course that's awesome,
but I'm talking about the FEELING you
get FROM developing these traits and
emotions within you.

It's hard work, and sometimes you have to
take it ONE trait at a time.

For example, at first, you may have to just
work on being more DOMINANT.

But that's just a first step, as you then have
to LAYER IN other traits, such as being
PLAYFUL.

Then, another trait can be layered in, such
as being INTRIGUING.

Then, more SEXUAL. Then, more UPBEAT.
Then, learning to develop a more
"WARM INNER GLOW".

One last point I want to mention, and that
is the PHYSICAL SET UP you encounter
when you are doing pick-up.

If you approach a group of women or
one woman who is SEATED, and there
are no SEATS for YOU, then it's going
to look weird if you STAND the entire
time while she gets to be comfy and
sitting. It makes YOU look like you
are TRYING hard. After all, she is
all comfy and you are standing.

And of course, if there IS a place to
sit and you STILL stand, then you
look not only as if you are trying
hard, but you also look as if you
are afraid to make yourself comfortable,
as if you needed her permission or
invitation to sit down.

So, always strive to make yourself
COMFORTABLE. If there are no
seats, then at least lean against the
wall if possible. Don't EXAGGERATE
these things, just get comfortable.

I really do want every single good guy
to succeed with women, and I believe
that's a realistic goal if any guy is
COMMITTED to this skill.