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&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/H4Ta4Qf8lgt5yaj5kW4NEgR3lkI/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/H4Ta4Qf8lgt5yaj5kW4NEgR3lkI/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Here's an excerpt from mini-essay that appears in the Gutnik translation under the title "The Motives of a Critic":&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The tribes appeared to have convincing proof that Pinchas' motives were not pure (see Rashi) but they were mistaken. This teaches us an important lesson whenever [sic] we are tempted to find fault with another person's good deeds and questions their motives: One can never know another's true intentions.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Can you read these words without wanting to shove them down the throat of every anti-WTG Rabbi you've ever met? When a woman wants to daven with other women,  every Rabbi to the right of Avi Weiss screams feminism, or makes insulting guesses about her ulterior motives. This doesn't happen to men. Our motives aren't ever subjected to the same degree of scrutiny. When a man takes on something new, no one questions his intentions. No one says, "Hey I bet he's only doing that to secure a better match for his daughter, or to make people forget about the target vomiting last year during Hakafot."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But let a women try to improve herself, and she goes right under the microscope.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why the double standard?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-3514612844320909118?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/kk6GjkSi3GU" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/kk6GjkSi3GU/why-parshas-pinchas-always-makes-me.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/why-parshas-pinchas-always-makes-me.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-5966231517761216929</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 23:49:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-13T04:40:47.400-07:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">by EFink</category><title>What Is Going On With Kupat Ha'ir?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WCigOE2CyuUDhNArQBrkvxl2TyY/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WCigOE2CyuUDhNArQBrkvxl2TyY/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WCigOE2CyuUDhNArQBrkvxl2TyY/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WCigOE2CyuUDhNArQBrkvxl2TyY/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" color="#336666"&gt;A Guest Post By E. Fink&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" color="#336666"&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/one-more-step-further-away.html"&gt;Rafi G wrote a great post about the distancing of the Gedolim from their people due to Kupat Ha'ir&lt;/a&gt;. To summarize, if one wants an activist to speak to a Gadol for him, he can donate to Kupat Hair and the activist will speak to the Gadol on his behalf. Rafi G. points out that this actually distances the Gedolim from us by putting the activist as a "go-between".&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;I don't mean to turn DovBear.blogspot.com into a Kupat Ha'ir bashapalooza and I hope that Kupat Hair will not turn into a punching bag, but after the advertising campaign sent in this weekend's Hamodia, something must be said.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;First we get a quote from R' Chaim Kanievsky. "Kupat Hair has done well to come out with a special appeal for the bein hametzarim period". Somehow this is twisted to mean that to save yourself from danger in the 3 weeks you must donate to Kupat Ha'ir. There is even a completely convoluted explanation for how this works. Since the Temple was destroyed because of baseless hatred, we can bring the Temple back with love for one another. Giving Tzedaka demonstrates love for each other. The next page says "The best advice for the Bein Hametzarim period is to contribute to Kupat Ha'ir". What? Where? When?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;Why Kupat Ha'ir over any other charity? Why are they trying to pull the wool over our eyes?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;I also read, that before going on a trip R' Ahron Leib Steinmen, henceforth called Maran in the brochure, wished to give Tzedaka to Kupat Ha'ir. His handlers brought him a Kupat Ha'ir Tzedaka box and he gave a "considerable contribution" to Kupat Ha'ir. Then, "an almost magical atmosphere enveloped everyone present". (And of course the photographers were there to capture it all for perpetuity.)&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;Thus, the brochure says, if we wish to survive the deadly summer months we must give money to Kupat Ha'ir for any hope of being saved.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;The next page tells us that before (paraphrase) "any journey... [Maran] contributes to Kupat Hair. Maran has this specific moment in mind, whenever we go on a journey we must donate to Kupat Ha'ir."&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;Wait a second, Maran almost never travels, he leaves Bnei Brak once in a while and this time he wished to give Tzedaka. Maran never said, we must mimic his every move. In fact he never said anything about how we should give Tzedaka. It was his personal choice. The handlers are doing all the thinking for us. "Maran wants you to give to Kupat Ha'ir." Please.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;We also get some great hyperbole. Like "The best safeguard for your journey - a donation to Kupat Ha'ir." Says who? Maran never even said that! The ad says that. But there is no authority for this strong statement.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;The entire ad campaign is hyperbole and misdirection. Kupat Ha'ir is a fine charity, but their campaign claiming to be the only choice of the Gedolim is disturbing to say the least.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;In addition, the deifying of R' Steinman is frightening. Do I need to use the same toilet paper he uses? How about his favorite soda? Seriously, does his (alleged) flavor of Tzedaka usurp all other charities? Maran &lt;b&gt;never said in any of the quotes that &lt;i&gt;we&lt;/i&gt; should donate to Kupat Hair&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;Finally, the idea that if you wish to be safe you must donate to Kupat Ha'ir smacks of scare tactics. Most people drive safely and return home safely. We do need to be careful if we are driving in the Catskills and driving recklessly is a recipe for disaster. A little Tzedaka is a wonderful idea as well. But to make them dependent on each other is not telling the whole story.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;As &lt;a href="http://parsha.blogspot.com/2009/07/donate-to-kupat-hair-or-hashem-may.html"&gt;Josh pointed out on his blog&lt;/a&gt; now that we have Kupat Ha'ir the Gedolim will pray for your children if you donate. But if you do not, the Gedolim will not pray for your children?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/e_fink/statuses/2592630987"&gt;I posted (tongue in cheek) on Twitter&lt;/a&gt; after DovBear mentioned his Tzlafchad pet peeves, "if Tzlafchad had donated to Kupat Hair he never would have died". That is what this ad campaign would have us believe.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;I fully blame the handlers for this misrepresentation of the words and actions of the Gedolim. I met R' Steinman (Maran) once and I am pretty sure he has no clue what these ads say or purport.&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;font class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"&gt;It seems to me that something is very wrong with the Kupat Ha'ir campaign. Do you have the same feeling? Am I wrong?&lt;/font&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Search for more information about [Kupat Hair's disingenuous marketing blitz] at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-5966231517761216929?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/xYKX9X89qVo" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/xYKX9X89qVo/what-is-going-on-with-kupat-hair.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (EFink)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/what-is-going-on-with-kupat-hair.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-4499879703879469384</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 13:16:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-12T06:25:12.772-07:00</atom:updated><title>One more step further away</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dZG-9QnUjU-QUGmjhy-UJrIzDrc/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dZG-9QnUjU-QUGmjhy-UJrIzDrc/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dZG-9QnUjU-QUGmjhy-UJrIzDrc/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dZG-9QnUjU-QUGmjhy-UJrIzDrc/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center; font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"&gt;A Guest Post by Rafi G&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you thought the gedolim were too disconnected from the people already, and controlled [to a certain extent] by askanim you will love the latest idea.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Kupat Ha'Ir, the lovely tzedaka organization from Bnei Brak that frequently is pushing segulahs on potential donors, along with creating hopes of salvation for the mere act of giving with the inability to live a normal life unless one gives to them, along with having images of gedolim supermodels dropping their dimes in the pushke as fundraisers, has come up with a great new fundraising idea.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bhol.co.il/news_read.asp?id=10735&amp;amp;cat_id=2" target="_blank"&gt;The new idea&lt;/a&gt; is that instead of waiting in line at the rav's house - everybody knows how long the line is to get into Rav Kanievsky's room to ask a question - you can now (if they implement the idea) make a donation of 350NIS (minimum) to Kupat Ha'Ir, and they will ask the question for you. An answer is gauranteed within 48 hours.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't know how they will be able to give over all the details and nuances necessary to ask the question properly so the rav understands the question and the petitioner, but I guess that is not important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So now the average Joe and the little connection he already has to the gedolim is going to be encouraged to give that up and go through more middlemen and askanim... Kol Hakavod!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about [Kupat Ha'Ir] at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-4499879703879469384?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/lx_7B6lWFeI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/lx_7B6lWFeI/one-more-step-further-away.html</link><author>israeli.jew@gmail.com (Rafi G.)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/one-more-step-further-away.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-5900538237967609775</guid><pubDate>Sun, 12 Jul 2009 02:39:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-11T19:51:18.241-07:00</atom:updated><title>Parasha Pet Peeves</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/SNQU--fHcVrM9dMDY6BkoOlobMs/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/SNQU--fHcVrM9dMDY6BkoOlobMs/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/SNQU--fHcVrM9dMDY6BkoOlobMs/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/SNQU--fHcVrM9dMDY6BkoOlobMs/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div&gt;Here's a Parshas Pinchas pet peeve of mine: Rabbis who say Tzlafchad was the woodcutter. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Rabbi Shimon  (the tanna) would like a word with you*. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;My other pet peeve is rabbis who say the "father of the bnos Tzlafchad"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;* Explanation: Rabbi Shimon  says Tzlafchad was among those who attempted to enter Israel illicitly. He disagrees with Rabbi Akiva who says Tzlafchad was the woodcutter. Rashi cites them both, but for reasons unknown, Jewish teachers only ever mention Rabbi Akiva's opinion. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-5900538237967609775?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/TnLLHnD4tN4" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/TnLLHnD4tN4/parasha-pet-peeves.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/parasha-pet-peeves.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-2304918479272255870</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 13:39:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-10T07:01:30.039-07:00</atom:updated><title>Answering to a Higher Authority</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/19djcLKNX_B_QbzIK5OgUO7LqZ4/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/19djcLKNX_B_QbzIK5OgUO7LqZ4/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/19djcLKNX_B_QbzIK5OgUO7LqZ4/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/19djcLKNX_B_QbzIK5OgUO7LqZ4/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 51, 255);"&gt;A guest post by &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;JS&lt;/span&gt; on behalf of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;DYS&lt;/span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A &lt;a href="http://www.jewishtimes.com/index.php/jewishtimes/news/jt/cover_story/hebrew_national_kosher_politics/"&gt;phenomenal article&lt;/a&gt; was provided by &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;DYS&lt;/span&gt; yesterday about the controversy surrounding Hebrew National brand &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;hotdogs&lt;/span&gt; (and other meat products).  I should note that the link to the phenomenal article was posted on the equally phenomenal post I had yesterday on the 17&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz and why we fast on the 17&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; and not the 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz (and now that people's brains are clear from eating, maybe will garner some interest).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some interesting facts from the article:&lt;br /&gt;1) Hebrew National &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;hotdogs&lt;/span&gt; are ranked the #1 &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;hotdog&lt;/span&gt; in America;&lt;br /&gt;2) Hebrew National is the largest kosher meat processor in the world;&lt;br /&gt;3) An anonymous quote from a prominent Orthodox rabbi that "&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;kashrut&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt; 'is 2 percent &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Halachah&lt;/span&gt; and 98 percent ego and money and politics'”;&lt;br /&gt;4) Hebrew National is currently under "triangle K" which is Rabbi &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Ralbag's&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;hechser&lt;/span&gt; (have to admit I was surprised by his and his sons' credentials which are listed in the article);&lt;br /&gt;5) The &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;Conservative&lt;/span&gt; movement approved Hebrew National for its members after Rabbi &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;Ralbag&lt;/span&gt; took over in 2004;&lt;br /&gt;6) Hebrew National is not &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt;, however many Orthodox rabbis believe most animals labeled as &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt; aren't really &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt; anyways;&lt;br /&gt;7) Rabbi &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;Abadi&lt;/span&gt; (studied under &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19"&gt;Rav&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20"&gt;Kotler&lt;/span&gt; and was once exclusive &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21"&gt;poseik&lt;/span&gt; for Lakewood) has ruled Hebrew National is kosher for those who do not eat only &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt;;&lt;br /&gt;8) The push to eat only &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt; in America apparently started in the 1970's - until that time the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_24"&gt;OU&lt;/span&gt; gave its &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;hechsher&lt;/span&gt; to both &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt; and non-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_27"&gt;glatt&lt;/span&gt;; and&lt;br /&gt;9) The &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_28"&gt;OU&lt;/span&gt; refuses to comment on other &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_29"&gt;hashgachas&lt;/span&gt; and the "Star K" simply says it's "unreliable."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Although I brought up some points from the article, PLEASE read it.  The above doesn't do it justice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about kosher &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_30"&gt;hotdogs&lt;/span&gt; at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_31"&gt;torah&lt;/span&gt;.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-2304918479272255870?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/gYQkS9ygTCE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/gYQkS9ygTCE/answering-to-higher-authority.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (JS)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/answering-to-higher-authority.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-4020054257535088298</guid><pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 00:07:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-09T13:08:19.169-07:00</atom:updated><title>Why are you fasting today?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/yprlzVBrRw5XCObiWAAGotnEjjM/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/yprlzVBrRw5XCObiWAAGotnEjjM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/yprlzVBrRw5XCObiWAAGotnEjjM/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/yprlzVBrRw5XCObiWAAGotnEjjM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Yes, yes &lt;em&gt;thank you&lt;/em&gt; I know its 17 Tamuz and I know things happened in the distant past, things that so distrubed the Rabbis that they established a day of mourning, and announced it binding on every Jew in all times and all places.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My question is This: Why have you chosen to play along?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(I'm fasting. Always do.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about 17 Tamuz at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-4020054257535088298?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/Gg149gC4FkI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/Gg149gC4FkI/why-are-you-fasting-today.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/why-are-you-fasting-today.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-3035338930564723412</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 22:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-09T10:54:38.454-07:00</atom:updated><title>The 17th of Tammuz</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/iZRTTUY9ggM2q-y-er_rLg3NKuY/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/iZRTTUY9ggM2q-y-er_rLg3NKuY/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/iZRTTUY9ggM2q-y-er_rLg3NKuY/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/iZRTTUY9ggM2q-y-er_rLg3NKuY/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 51, 255);"&gt;A guest post by &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;JS&lt;/span&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Writers are often told to "write what you know" so it is with that caveat that I admit I'm wandering into territory I'm not fully familiar with.  I do so to spur &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;conversation&lt;/span&gt; and bring up questions I have which I hope other people wonder about as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today is the "minor fast day" of Shiva &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Asar&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;B'Tammuz&lt;/span&gt; - The 17&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz.  We fast because on this day the walls of Jerusalem were breached.  It begins a 3 week period of mourning culminating in Tisha &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;B'Av&lt;/span&gt; - The 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Av in which the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Beit&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;HaMikdash&lt;/span&gt; was destroyed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;Mishna&lt;/span&gt; in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Taanit&lt;/span&gt; (4:6) lists 5 reasons for fasting on this day:&lt;br /&gt;1) Moshe broke the Ten &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Commandments&lt;/span&gt;;&lt;br /&gt;2) The daily offering (&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;Korban&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;Tamid&lt;/span&gt;) ceased - there weren't enough animals during the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;seige&lt;/span&gt; of Jerusalem;&lt;br /&gt;3) The walls of Jerusalem were breached;&lt;br /&gt;4) An officer of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_15"&gt;Antiochus&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_16"&gt;Epiphenes&lt;/span&gt; named &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_17"&gt;Apostomos&lt;/span&gt; burned a Torah scroll; and&lt;br /&gt;5) An idol was set up in the sanctuary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I find interesting is that we only focus on #3 (it seems the other 4 alone would not be important enough to warrant a fast day) as the minor fast days are &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_18"&gt;collectively&lt;/span&gt; seen as a mini-chronology leading to the end of Jewish rule: &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_19"&gt;Asara&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_20"&gt;B'Tevet&lt;/span&gt; (siege of Jerusalem), Shiva &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_21"&gt;Asar&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_22"&gt;B'Tammuz&lt;/span&gt; (breach of the walls of Jerusalem), Tisha &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_23"&gt;B'Av&lt;/span&gt; (destruction of the temple), and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_24"&gt;Tzom&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;Gedaliah&lt;/span&gt; (end of Jewish rule).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Each of these fast days finds textual support in various books of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_26"&gt;Tanach&lt;/span&gt;.  For example:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The siege of Jerusalem is recounted in 2 Kings 25:1-4 and Jeremiah 52:4 as occurring on the 10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_27"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; day of the 10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_28"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; month (10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_29"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tevet) and the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_30"&gt;assassination&lt;/span&gt; of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_25"&gt;Gedaliah&lt;/span&gt; is referenced in 2 Kings 25:25 and Jeremiah 41 as &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_32"&gt;occurring&lt;/span&gt; in the 7&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_33"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; month (&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_34"&gt;Tishrei&lt;/span&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, the textual support for the 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_35"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Av of the 17&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_36"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz are less clear:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The destruction of the Temple is recounted in 2 Kings 25:8-9 as occurring on the 7&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_37"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of 5&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_38"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; month (7&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_39"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Av) and in Jeremiah 52:12-13 as occurring on the 10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_40"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of the 5&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_41"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; month (10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_42"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Av) .  This is &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_43"&gt;traditionally&lt;/span&gt; understood as meaning the inner sanctum of the Temple was entered on the 7&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_44"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;, the fire was started on the 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_45"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;, and it burned into the 10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_46"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt;.  See &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_47"&gt;Taanit&lt;/span&gt; 29a.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, when were the walls breached?  2 Kings 25:3-4 and Jeremiah 52:6-7 indicate it took place on the 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_48"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; day of 4&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_49"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; month (9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_50"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz).  In fact, in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_51"&gt;Taanit&lt;/span&gt; 28b, the Babylonian Talmud expressly states that the 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_52"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz is when the walls of Jerusalem were breached during the First Temple period and the 17&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_53"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz is when the walls of Jerusalem were breached during the Second Temple period.  So when all of the other events are so clearly related to the First Temple, why do we not fast on the 9&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_54"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; of Tammuz?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_55"&gt;Interestingly&lt;/span&gt;, the Jerusalem Talmud in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_56"&gt;Taanit&lt;/span&gt; 4:4 states that our &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_57"&gt;Tanach&lt;/span&gt; is wrong!!!  The correct date is the 17th.  It says there "קילקול חשבונות" - the prophet's thought process was disturbed and thus a mistake in the date was made.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Both the approach of the Babylonian Talmud and Jerusalem Talmud is odd.  The former because all other fast days relate to the First Temple, the latter because they're arguing there's a significant distortion in two different places in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_58"&gt;Tanach&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;More interesting is that the verses for the destruction of the temple are nearly identical except for the date, 7&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_59"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; versus 10&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_60"&gt;th&lt;/span&gt; and yet no one (to the best of my knowledge) suggests "קילקול חשבונות" - the prophet's thought process was disturbed and thus a mistake in the date was made.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about minor fast days at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_61"&gt;torah&lt;/span&gt;.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-3035338930564723412?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/8DZpRP_SXnQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/8DZpRP_SXnQ/17th-of-tammuz.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (JS)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/17th-of-tammuz.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-3240651622406567449</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 16:33:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-09T09:38:44.713-07:00</atom:updated><title>Some of Billam, some of Pinchas</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PuiY-QcK1F_B-CNYu9l28GqW-FI/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PuiY-QcK1F_B-CNYu9l28GqW-FI/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PuiY-QcK1F_B-CNYu9l28GqW-FI/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/PuiY-QcK1F_B-CNYu9l28GqW-FI/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A people the dwells apart / כי מראש צרים אראנו ומגבעות אשורנו הן עם לבדד ישכן ובגוים לא יתחשב׃&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is Billam's grand declaration about the Jewish people, and indeed, in the Billam story we are presented as God's own people, separated from all other nations, and divinely protected from curses, enchantments and foreign influences. The very next story, however, tells a different tale. Suddenly, we are intertwined with the neighboring tribes, and sharing both women and rituals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What's the link?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why did the editor/author (ie: God) choose to put these two stories side by side? Why are given a thesis (Israel dwells alone) followed by a contradictory antithesis (Israel intermingles with other nations)? Unless the point is the punishment?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Baal Peor / בעל פעור&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Per the Talmud, the name Peor puns on a Hebrew verb that means "to gape open." A connection between the name and the mode of worship is suggested by the sexual acts described in this chapter, but the Talmud additionally links the worship of Peor to defecation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Was Peor actualy worshipped with both sex and filth, or was the latter added by Rabbis seeking to further denigrate the idolatry. Anyone know? I tweeted this question the other day, but no one replied.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;And he went after the man of Israel into the tent, and thrust both of them through, the man of Israel, and the woman through her belly / ויבא אחר איש ישראל אל הקבה וידקר את שניהם--את איש ישראל ואת האשה אל קבתה&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The translation I've given here follows the KJV, which is tricky because no one really knows what is meant by the word קבה. It appears here alone, and is translated variously as tent, pavillion or Tabernacle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jewish tradition tells us the word means "Tabernacle" but this is hard because nowhere else is the Mishkan called a qubah.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert Alter links it to the Arabic &lt;em&gt;qubbe&lt;/em&gt;, a red tent used for conjugal and cultic purposes and adds that our word "alcove" (ie: a recessed space) is derived from al-qubbe.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second use of word (everyone knows) is a euphamism for the female sexual part, but it puns on the hebrew for "belly" and works as a euphamism only because קבה and קבתה might be the same word, both referring to a space of some kind used for sexual purposes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;[Source: Robert Alter; &lt;em&gt;Five Books of Moses&lt;/em&gt;]&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-3240651622406567449?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/b1ffLbUesms" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/b1ffLbUesms/some-of-billam-some-of-pinchas.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/some-of-billam-some-of-pinchas.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-8345590028246522666</guid><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 13:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-09T06:14:00.670-07:00</atom:updated><title>tripped over some Jewish music in Hong Kong of all places!</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d32IY1k6lTCVpvEtshdn3Fqqea0/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d32IY1k6lTCVpvEtshdn3Fqqea0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d32IY1k6lTCVpvEtshdn3Fqqea0/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/d32IY1k6lTCVpvEtshdn3Fqqea0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;A Guest Post by Rafi G.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You will never believe this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I just had to call Hong Kong. The person I was talking to put me on hold. The hold music was extremely familiar, but classier than what i was familiar with. I knew the tune, but could not think of the words.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I called over three different people and had them listen to the hold music, so I have witnesses. I then did some research (i.e. I called my musical wife) and hummed the tune and asked what the song is. Lo and Behold, the song is Abie Rotenberg's Adon Olam.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I quickly found it on the internet and played it for the people I had played the hold music to, and they concurred it was exactly the same tune.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had not called some Jewish office in Hong Kong where the Jewish owner might have set his hold music to his favorite Jewish soing, I called the largest ISP in Hong Kong, and this was their hold music!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, did they take Abie Rotenberg's tune and use it (granted, if they did, it was probably somebody else who took it and made it into general music which they then used), or did Abie Rotenberg take someone else's music and put Jewish words to it.... I hope it was the former. It is really a great song, as are almost all of Abie Rotenbergs songs...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about [Hong Kong and Jewish Music] at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-8345590028246522666?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/IeVRNpPqsq4" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/IeVRNpPqsq4/tripped-over-some-jewish-music-in-hong.html</link><author>israeli.jew@gmail.com (Rafi G.)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/tripped-over-some-jewish-music-in-hong.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-4028508180956858631</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-08T10:42:21.432-07:00</atom:updated><title>Smoking and the yeshivishe velt</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WKQefpzCNigEJHrUb3nvbejrnjc/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WKQefpzCNigEJHrUb3nvbejrnjc/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WKQefpzCNigEJHrUb3nvbejrnjc/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/WKQefpzCNigEJHrUb3nvbejrnjc/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;A guest post by Hadassah Sabo Milner&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why is smoking acceptable in most yeshivot? Ok, maybe not acceptable, but not banned. Not actively discouraged. Why is it that there is no hue and cry over this dangerous pastime? My son who is entering Grade 9 has informed me that most of the boys in his class have smoked at least one cigarette, while others are well in the process of nurturing a full blown nicotine addiction. My son thank G-d has a head on his shoulders and has told me that it’s a disgusting thing to do and he would never smoke. Ever. (Yeah I know you are laughing, but you wait till you have teenage kids, you will desperately want to believe them too).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He has even told me the lengths his school chums go to to get hold of cigarettes, as they are all underage. Money changing hands for goods in front of Montreal Kosher. Older bochurim procuring for the younger ones.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many of the rebbeim and roshei yeshivah smoke, and if they do, it stands to reason that the young men they are overseeing will copy them. But interestingly enough if you are a frum yeshivishe woman, you will never be seen smoking. The women will be excommunicated if they so much as touched a cancer stick. Obviously us women have far more sense than some of the menfolk. We know smoking kills. (although we had a French teacher in high school, totally frum and bewigged, and we saw her smoking a time or two – scandalous! Her wig coulda caught on fire!!!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have read that some Rebbeim have outlawed smoking due to the harmful effects, and others have discouraged it as it is bitul zman, a waste of time. Didn’t Rav Moshe Feinstein of blessed memory himself say (Teshuvot Igrot Moshe Choshen Mishpat 2:76) there was an issur against starting smoking?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My son told me that the boys in his yeshivah explain that learning full time is stressful and smoking eases the stress. Then why are they not smoking marijuana, for the spiritual high it could bring? (I am not seriously advocating drug use…just making a point)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walking my son to school sometimes we pass by the beis medrash entrance. We see a ton of cigarette butts outside. There is never a time when it is free from this disgusting evidence of death waiting to happen. Where are the “no smoking” signs? Oh wait, I should be thankful they are not allowed to smoke IN the beis medrash?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;SMOKING KILLS! Hello? Anyone know that in white shirt black shiny suit world?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These people would not even dream of putting a slice of ham in their mouths, but poison is ok?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to &lt;a href="http://www.quitsmokingsupport.com/whatsinit.htm"&gt;this website &lt;/a&gt;there are over 4000 ingredients in a cigarette including wine and yeast and chocolate – all kosher? I never saw a &lt;em&gt;hechsher&lt;/em&gt; on a cigarette pack in my life…. Here is &lt;a href="http://www.quitsmokingsupport.com/ingredients.htm"&gt;a list of 599 ingredients in a cigarette &lt;/a&gt;- - smoking a stick of treife pepperoni would probably be better healthwise than smoking a cigarette. But the pepperoni would be treife…and cigarettes aren’t?? What’s the halachic ruling on that? Anyone?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On pesach they even certify as kosher for Passover products that don’t go near the mouth – toilet paper, cleaning products etc. Yet these odious pieces of death are inhaled and ingested and need no certification? It makes no sense. As far as I am aware (and I have four boys in the yeshiva world) our educational establishments are doing nothing to deter the young males in their care away from nicotine. The rest of the world knows it is not cool to smoke. Yeshivish boys apparently still think it is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Venishmartem meod lenafshoteichem (Devarim 4.15)– “you should carefully guard your soul”. Smoking is the total opposite to this mitzvah. You can be as learned and as “frum” as you like, but in my book, if you smoke you may as well go out and eat treife. You have no respect for you body that was created b’tzelem elokim – would you blow smoke in G-d’s face?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-4028508180956858631?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/hAaRkXfmEUQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/hAaRkXfmEUQ/smoking-and-yeshivishe-velt.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/smoking-and-yeshivishe-velt.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-8223563399400749882</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 14:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-08T07:50:26.294-07:00</atom:updated><title>God as a blogger?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/L8dPKY84yAjxB8yin0c1wN2z8WU/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/L8dPKY84yAjxB8yin0c1wN2z8WU/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/L8dPKY84yAjxB8yin0c1wN2z8WU/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/L8dPKY84yAjxB8yin0c1wN2z8WU/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;In Parshas Chukas, God behaves almost like a blogger. Rather than authoring his own material, our Lord and Creator twice references the published work of other people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first occurrence is a cite from the the &lt;em&gt;Book of the Wars of the Lord&lt;/em&gt; a book that was lost, and excluded from the canon. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Robert Alter speculates that the book was not preserved because the dieties and events it describes were too mythological.  Later authorities, he says, were uncomfortable with a book that represented God as a warrior, in direct combat with Israel's enemies, rather than working through the agency of Israel. I'm not entirely sure why Alter feels comfortable with such a speculation given that just a brief  snippet from the book is extant, but there it is.  If Judaism has another theory to explain why this book was forgotten, I don't know it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The little bit of this book that we have seems seriously wierd. In the King James translation, it reads as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"...Waheb in Suphah and the ravines, the Arnon and the slopes of the ravines that lead to the site of Ar and lie along the border of Moab."&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What this means is anyone's guess, forcing us to ask: If God had something to say, why didn't He put it in His own ordinary, easy to understand words instead of borrowing something impenetrable from someone else's book?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second occurrence of divine blogging is even more mysterious. After describing an Israelite victory over Sihon king of the Amorites, the Torah tells us the land Israel took from Sihon first belonged to Moab. The claim is supported not with a historical notice, or a narrative assertion, but with a snippet of poetry. Yes, poetry. The lines are attributed, vaguely, to "moshlim" who (Alter again) may have been something like the Celtic bards who composed and recited verses celebrating the legendary exploits of chieftains and heroes. Today, we might call them folk singers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the KJV, their song is translated this way:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Come to Heshbon, let it be built, Let the city of Sihon be repaired.&lt;br /&gt;For fire went out from Heshbon, A flame from the city of Sihon;&lt;br /&gt;It consumed Ar of Moab, The lords of the heights of the Arnon.&lt;br /&gt;Woe to you, Moab! You have perished, O people of Chemosh!&lt;br /&gt;He has given his sons as fugitives, And his daughters into captivity,&lt;br /&gt;To Sihon king of the Amorites. “But we have shot at them; Heshbon has perished as far as Dibon.&lt;br /&gt;Then we laid waste as far as Nophah, Which reaches to Medeba&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those of us saddled with a Torah-true perspective this is about as queer as a three dollar bill. Secular poetry? In the Holy Torah? It's a little like using a Bob Dylan verse to clinch an argument about halacha. (This doesn't work) (Unless getting tossed out of class is your goal)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Again, we're fleft wondering why God preferred this poem to His own writing.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-8223563399400749882?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/O1FOgVRNsLE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/O1FOgVRNsLE/god-as-blogger.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/god-as-blogger.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-6136636071158954775</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 19:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-07T12:14:30.904-07:00</atom:updated><title>Silence</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/YQbRnjUlUeUv0vXNihH7zkVQ568/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/YQbRnjUlUeUv0vXNihH7zkVQ568/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/YQbRnjUlUeUv0vXNihH7zkVQ568/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/YQbRnjUlUeUv0vXNihH7zkVQ568/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#990000;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A guest post by KosherAcademic&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am not one hundred percent happy with Halakhah. Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m observant to the best of my ability; I keep strictly kosher, I observe Shabbat and the Chagim, and I keep the mitzvot…again, to the best of my ability. I live in a Modern Orthodox community which I love, and I am surrounded by others who hold the mitzvot in a very similar fashion to the way that I hold them. But I struggle with certain mitzvot. I pretend to the outside world that everything is copasetic, because I am terrified to admit to someone that I have some issues, to see the (imagined) look on their faces when they learn that I have a hard time doing x mitzvah, or that I see y mitzvah as completely backwards and pointless. But I remain silent.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No one is able to do all 613 of the commandments. To be an observant Jew, one’s purpose is to &lt;em&gt;strive&lt;/em&gt; to observe all the mitzvot. There is, however, a problem of Orthodox Jews going off the derekh, a problem we seem to hear about more and more these days – and while the discussion of Jews leaving Orthodoxy is not the main focus of this post, it is related, an extension, a possible consequence of the enforced silence that I am addressing here. What I do not see or hear about, but what I imagine &lt;em&gt;must&lt;/em&gt; be there, is that others struggle with certain mitzvot, too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why the enforced silence? Is it from community pressure to perform—or at least look like one is performing— up to par with what is considered acceptable? It may very well be. When we moved from a fairly black-hat community in Chicago (where we certainly didn’t fit in) to the very liberal, nay, very, &lt;em&gt;very &lt;/em&gt;liberal community in Cambridge, Massachusetts when I did my Masters degree, initially the laxity felt like freedom from oppression. Finally, I didn’t have to worry about the weird looks I would get when I went out in a pair of pants (of course, I did get weird looks when I kept my hair covered, but that is another story). But what I realized, after living there for two years, is that the community serves a purpose in this regard. It helps keep one in line. Strangely enough, that worry that someone might see you doing something that may be considered…inappropriate…can keep you from doing it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But why should that community pressure require silence? One of the reasons I became observant was because of the openness—I thought—with which we could ask questions about &lt;em&gt;anything&lt;/em&gt;. And when I was first becoming observant I could ask questions and challenge ideas, and my questions and challenges were tolerated and even encouraged. But once you know enough to “fit in” to a community, you are (silently) required to do just that: fit in. Do not rock the boat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let me explain it this way: Imagine one is walking down the derekh to do a mitzvah, and one encounters a roadblock. It doesn’t really make a difference what the roadblock is—it may be only in one’s mind or it may be larger, perhaps a cultural issue. However, if one can’t find the way around the roadblock, then one never reaches the &lt;em&gt;mitzvah&lt;/em&gt;. At that point, you are basically stuck at the roadblock for the rest of your life, perhaps striving toward but never actually reaching the mitzvah, or, you end up just going off the road (ie off the derekh). How much easier would it be for one who is encountering a roadblock to be able to have a frank and honest discussion with others who have encountered similar roadblocks? But these discussions are not happening. People are too embarrassed or ashamed to admit they’ve hit a roadblock.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This silence, I think, is unhealthy. I am not suggesting support circles that acknowledge people’s lack of commitment without holding them accountable. We are, after all, responsible for the mitzvot, and as mentioned above, as observant Jews we should be striving to do all we can do. But if there was open dialogue with less judgment, perhaps those of us who do have issues with certain mitzvot would find a better way to overcome our hesitation in working towards observing them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But if all you’re going to do is tell me to get past the roadblock, to just do the mitzvah, without offering possible solutions to get past it the issues, well, you’re not helping.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Related&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;li&gt;Please be sure to read DYS's guest post from this morning &lt;a href="http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-meat-slaughtered-by-women-kosher.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-6136636071158954775?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/QNMw5AQOe9Y" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/QNMw5AQOe9Y/silence.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/silence.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-3765036579831722399</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:33:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-07T09:33:13.203-07:00</atom:updated><title>DovBear on the Parsha</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Uo9LDFwSTwr0PJ9M59CGtxQzUOs/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Uo9LDFwSTwr0PJ9M59CGtxQzUOs/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Uo9LDFwSTwr0PJ9M59CGtxQzUOs/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Uo9LDFwSTwr0PJ9M59CGtxQzUOs/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;I swear I'm blushing as I type this, but please go read the &lt;a href="http://rabbifink.wordpress.com/2009/07/06/book-review-dovbear-on-the-parsha/" rel="nofollow"&gt;super kind review of my book posted by E-Fink.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-3765036579831722399?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/1oIZKr-VwwI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/1oIZKr-VwwI/dovbear-on-parsha.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/dovbear-on-parsha.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-2151211350254913533</guid><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 16:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-07T09:14:35.556-07:00</atom:updated><title>Is meat slaughtered by women kosher?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B9cqEGEVlQdkwQqaVO56lrirMOI/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B9cqEGEVlQdkwQqaVO56lrirMOI/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B9cqEGEVlQdkwQqaVO56lrirMOI/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B9cqEGEVlQdkwQqaVO56lrirMOI/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc0000;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;A guest post by DYS&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gil Student, over at &lt;a href="http://hirhurim.blogspot.com/2009/06/women-slaughterers.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;Hirhurim&lt;/a&gt;, recently posted “a loose translation of notes from lectures by R. Joseph B. Soloveitchik” examining the issue of whether women can be slaughterers (shochatot). Gil, in his introduction, links it to the issue of women Rabbis and concludes that if shochatot are not allowed, neither are female Rabbis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Rav brings a number of sources that essentially prohibit women slaughterers based on the fact that a shochet is a communal position and women cannot hold communal positions. But the &lt;a href="http://en.wikisource.org/wiki/Shulchan_Aruch/Yoreh_Deah/1" rel="nofollow"&gt;Shulchan Aruch&lt;/a&gt; writes that women can be shochatot. The Rama, however, says that they may not serve in that capacity because the custom is that they haven't been doing so. That seems like an extremely poor and circular argument. We don't allow it because we haven't been allowing it. So all the arguments against women slaughterers seem to be based only on social considerations, not solid halacha. And many do allow women to slaughter for themselves, just forbidding it for the community. So Gil is right in a way, by tying female rabbis to female slaughterers. The argument against both are based only on social considerations and there seems to be plenty of halachic room to permit them now when social circumstances have changed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(By the way, since the Shulchan Aruch permits women slaughterers, and Sephardim follow the Shulchan Aruch without the supplement of the Rama, do they allow shochatot today? If not, why not?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So should shochatot be permitted? Basically, even according to those who forbid it, it seems to me that they would probably permit it b’dieved, after the fact. Meaning, if someone ate meat slaughtered by a woman skilled in all the halachot of shechita, there was no sin. The meat was kosher.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But despite my progressive stance on most issues relating to women and Judaism, I'm going to invoke social considerations to explain my opinion that except in limited situations, it probably would be unwise to institute it as a general custom at this time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's first be clear about what we're asking and who would care about such an innovation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are several type of people who keep kosher. There's the "kosher by ingredients" crowd. There's the "any hechsher, as long as it's on the package" crowd. And then there's the Orthodox standard, meaning hechsherim generally accepted by the community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let’s break it down by denomination. The Reform movement doesn't have any official kashrut standards, though some individual members may keep some personal strictures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Conservative movement has official standards, but doesn't have a kashrut supervision infrastructure of their own. So they generally rely on Orthodox hechsherim, but will use ones that aren’t widely accepted in the Orthodox community. For example, while the Conservative movement &lt;a href="http://www.uscj.org/Kosher_Enough__A_New6815.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;officially endorses Hebrew National &lt;/a&gt;as acceptable for consumption, they do so on the basis of HN's new Orthodox hechsher, Triangle-K. (While T-K isn't accepted in much of the Orthodox community, the Rabbis there are Orthodox. The issue of T-K certifying HN's non-glatt meat is another post.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That leaves the Orthodox community, which will only consume meat certified by communally accepted agencies.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What if the Conservative movement had its own kashrut supervision agency? Then I see nothing wrong with their using women slaughterers. Orthodox people wouldn't be eating that meat anyway, no matter what gender slaughtered the animal.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But within the world of Orthodox hechsherim, it's a different story. What if Rabbi Avi Weiss decided to create a kashrut agency? (Please note that the following scenario is totally hypothetical and is just to illustrate my point and does not represent any known plans of Rabbi Weiss)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He has already created the new female equivalent of Rabbi, the Maharat, a development of which I wholeheartedly approve. And I presume that to receive smicha, a Maharat must study the same traditional curriculum as a male Rabbi, which would include Yoreh Deah, the volume of Shulchan Aruch that contains the laws of kashrut, including shechita.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So what if this hypothetical kashrut agency started using shochatot?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The institution of the Maharat is already controversial. But its effect is limited to the communities in which these women serve and doesn't spill over. But kashrut is a social intitution as much as a halachic one. People eat in one another's homes and celebratory affairs based on shared assumptions of kashrut reliability. Were Rabbi Weiss, or any figure in Left Wing Modern Orthodoxy to institute the practice of shochatot, there would immediately be a split in the social fabric of Orthodoxy. The implicit assumption of reliable kashrut upon entering the home of someone who was LWMO or observant Conservative would be gone. And the uproar would cause fissures and public discord on a huge scale. The unspoken social compact of kashrut would be broken. It is for that reason that I would be wary of such an innovation at this time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, what if Rabbi David Silber, of Drisha, (again, totally hypothetical) decided that a shochetet was halachically permissable, but rather than endorse the practice for the wider community, decided to have a special event at Drisha with meat slaughtered by a shochetet. If he was comfortable of the halachic permissibility, why not?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Social reasons should not hold back halachically permissible practices. However, extreme social disruption should be considered before moving too far, too fast&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-2151211350254913533?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/7ecXno3xLq8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/7ecXno3xLq8/is-meat-slaughtered-by-women-kosher.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/is-meat-slaughtered-by-women-kosher.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-4307209425677818732</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 18:40:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-06T11:51:30.719-07:00</atom:updated><title>Am I a Prophet ..or What?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/sjjBl4wquJyamHjfx6sywiC2e6w/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/sjjBl4wquJyamHjfx6sywiC2e6w/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/sjjBl4wquJyamHjfx6sywiC2e6w/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/sjjBl4wquJyamHjfx6sywiC2e6w/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;by the Bray of Fundie&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Banned from commenting I must seek alternative outlets for my blogging addiction by posting, frequently and annoyingly. So although I posted a little talked about &lt;a href="http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/on-authority-and-autonomy.html"&gt;masterpiece&lt;/a&gt; this morning I am here again to tell you that...I CALLED IT.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For years I have been confidently predicting that various egalitarian and hip, politically correct movements championed by Orthodoxies extreme left wing would, some day soon,  foment the next great schism in world Jewry and ultimately lead to yet another branch to further split a fractured nation/faith community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well it seems that day is &lt;a href="http://www.vosizneias.com/34573/2009/07/05/israel-rabbi-shapira-time-to-fight-neo-reformists-in-our-midst/"&gt;nigh&lt;/a&gt;.  Modern Orthodoxy...beware your own left flank.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about branches of Judaism and the schisms that caused them at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-4307209425677818732?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/PpoO5Zjq254" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/PpoO5Zjq254/am-i-prophet-or-what.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (The Bray of Fundie)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/am-i-prophet-or-what.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-4098827570522941903</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 16:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-06T09:47:26.680-07:00</atom:updated><title>Extreme Hair Covering: Kimchit's reward</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B06WYFw8gvMzNe7OCPiuRNbW_wU/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B06WYFw8gvMzNe7OCPiuRNbW_wU/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B06WYFw8gvMzNe7OCPiuRNbW_wU/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/B06WYFw8gvMzNe7OCPiuRNbW_wU/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Down below, the learned readers of the DovBear community are discussing Hadassah's post about hair-covering. There are over 100 comments, but Kimchit hasn't been mentioned yet. This is something of a surprise, as Kimchit and her extreme-hair covering almost always come up when the subject is wigs and snoods. Who was she? Here's how &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.askmoses.com/en/article/235,2070068/Does-a-married-woman-need-to-cover-her-hair-in-the-privacy-of-her-home.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Ask Moses&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt; tells her story: &lt;em&gt;In the Talmud there is a famous story about a certain woman by the name of Kimchit who was careful that “the walls of her house should not see the hairs of her head.” She was rewarded with seven sons who served as High Priests.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is the popular version of the Kimchit story, though I've heard people say the reward was merely seven sons, and not necessarily seven High Priests. In any event many women, including my own sister-in-law, imitate Kimchit's practice in the hopes of sharing in Kimchit's reward. Unfortunately for the Kimchit copycats, the popular/Ask Moses version is a significant distortion of what the Talmud actually says.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's my translation of the passage from Yoma 47a: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;Tanu Rabanan: Kimchit had seven sons and all of them served as Kohen Godol. The Sages said to her: "What did you do to merit this?" She replied: "The walls of my house never saw the hairs on my head" Replied the Sages: "Many women have done this, but didn't receive your reward." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;See the difference? In the popular/Ask Moses version there's no doubt that Kimchit's sons are a reward for extreme hair covering. A clear cause and effect is implied. In the Talmud itself, however, the idea that extreme hair covering yields a reward is Kimchit's own theory, and the Sages debunk it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about Kimchit at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-4098827570522941903?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/XLtZ1uqmMpc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/XLtZ1uqmMpc/extreme-hair-covering-kimchits-reward.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/extreme-hair-covering-kimchits-reward.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-5584860558769263290</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 13:22:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-06T07:20:57.627-07:00</atom:updated><title>On Authority and Autonomy</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0HgvuOutR89ALKpaVmXeWEUhoVg/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0HgvuOutR89ALKpaVmXeWEUhoVg/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0HgvuOutR89ALKpaVmXeWEUhoVg/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0HgvuOutR89ALKpaVmXeWEUhoVg/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#3333ff;"&gt;A classic Mussar Schmuess by Rav Chaim Shmuelevitz in Sha'arei Chaim-Sikhos Mussar 78&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;Mistranslated, misconstrued and maladatpted&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#660000;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;by the Bray of Fundie,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many Meforshim puzzle over the description of the Mitzvah of &lt;em&gt;Parah Adumah&lt;/em&gt; as &lt;strong&gt;the &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Khukas HaTorah&lt;/em&gt; = the statute of the Torah rather than as the &lt;em&gt;Khukas haTaharah&lt;/em&gt;= "the statute of purity" or &lt;em&gt;Khukas HaTumah&lt;/em&gt;="the statute of impurity". The &lt;strong&gt;Ohr HaKhayim&lt;/strong&gt; answers that observance of this most inscrutable of Khukim= the irrational Mitzvos that offend reason and lack rationale, is reckoned as observance of the &lt;em&gt;entire&lt;/em&gt; Torah. Fulfilling a Mitzvah absent a rational reason testifies to the faith one invests in the M&lt;em&gt;etzaveh&lt;/em&gt;=Commander and assent to fulfill &lt;em&gt;all&lt;/em&gt; that the Creators desires.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Elaborating on this Rav Chaim Shmuelevitz makes several observations:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. That when people "do the right thing" because of their internal moral compass they are not manifesting subservience to HaShems authority. The likelihood of their internal moral compass being their motivation for doing good and eschewing evil rather than being motivated by subservience to HaShems authority is much greater when they are observing Mishpatim=the rational Mitzvos. They do those Mitzvos because THEY hold it is the right thing to do. In fact when the Mitzvah in question is a "khok" then, by definition, it is almost impossible that the motivation to perform it is internal. On the contrary, the mind cannot accept it and the emotions often recoil as a result. Performing Khukim brings a new "subservience to HaShems authority" sensibility even to ones performance of Mishpatim.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Human nature is very resistant to this type of subservience or to anything that will keep us chained or bound. Human beings affirm their own autonomy and it's trappings of freedom of conscience and of movement whenever possible and recoil from any authority even, or especially, a Divine one, that would demand total surrender of personal autonomy. This authoritarian compulsion is another word for slavery and humans desire freedom and &lt;em&gt;total &lt;/em&gt;autonomy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Among his many proofs is the case of Shimee ben Geirah whom Shlomo HaMelekh "tricked" into incurring the death penalty (to fulfill his fathers deathbed vendetta) by limiting his movement to the Jerusalem City limits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3. &lt;em&gt;Ba'al Pe'or&lt;/em&gt; was the idolatry that the daughters of Moav seduced the Bnei Yisrael into worshipping as a precondition for fornication. Rav Chaim opines that the bizarre cult of Ba'al Pe'or is predicated on the human desire for autonomy and TOTAL liberation from external authority. It was worshipped by defecation upon the icon itself. It was, says Rav Chaim, the religion of non-religion, the worship of denigrating worship and subservience. The exercise and demonstration of "Nothing being sacred". In essence the creed of Baa'l Peor can be summarized as follows: "So you're my god? So YOU"RE gonna tell ME what to do and not do? I s**t on you!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But it is not merely some quirky historic relic of a bygone ANE culture. It is, concludes Rav Chaim, the defining &lt;em&gt;Zeitgeist&lt;/em&gt; of our own era.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="color:#cc33cc;"&gt;Addendum: Rav Chaim's approach makes me wonder; were all the esteemed authors in the genre of &lt;em&gt;Taamei haMitzvos&lt;/em&gt; literature, including works e.g. the &lt;em&gt;Moreh Nevukhim&lt;/em&gt;, the &lt;em&gt;Kuzari&lt;/em&gt;, the S&lt;em&gt;efer Hakhinukh&lt;/em&gt;, to name a few, guilty of וְלִפְנֵי עִוֵּר, לֹא תִתֵּן מִכְשֹׁל= "Don't bait another to sin" by providing intellectually and emotionally satisfying reasons "tastes/flavors" for so many of the Mitzvos,-Khukim and Mishpatim alike? Aren't they making it exponentially harder for us to become &lt;em&gt;Avdei HaShem&lt;/em&gt;= Slaves of G-d?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;i&gt;Search for more information about the Red Heifer and Ba'al Peor at &lt;a href="http://4torah.com/" rel="nofollow"&gt;4torah.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-5584860558769263290?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/rUaScuvUWWM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/rUaScuvUWWM/on-authority-and-autonomy.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (The Bray of Fundie)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/on-authority-and-autonomy.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-7017300477565674102</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 23:54:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-05T17:26:11.489-07:00</atom:updated><title>Bilaam: Fun facts to know and tell</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5-6z_0EgLYCzNzRuZEiDIcwyCrs/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5-6z_0EgLYCzNzRuZEiDIcwyCrs/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5-6z_0EgLYCzNzRuZEiDIcwyCrs/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5-6z_0EgLYCzNzRuZEiDIcwyCrs/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;Here are two things you might have said on Friday night to regale your guests and impress your wife or live in boyfriend as the case may be.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1 - The star of the sedra, Bilaam, is also the star of the the earliest reference in archaeological sources to an individual named in the Torah. A plaster inscription, found in 1967 on the wall of a temple at &lt;a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/deir-alla"&gt;Deir Alla&lt;/a&gt; in Jordan, makes reference to the night vision of a seer called Bilaam son of Beor. It dates to 840-760 BCE.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(And allow me to bring redemption to the world by noting that I heard this from the lips (or fingers) of Mis-nagid, four years ago, back when he was brave enough to blog.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 - Bilaam was NOT (&lt;a href="http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2005/02/batteling-about-ballam-mis-nagid-our.html"&gt;not, not, not, NOT&lt;/a&gt;) a prophet -- at least according to two of the top three Rishonim. Here is the Ramban's commentary to Num 22:31. The translation is Chaval's (pg 258):"...and God-Forbid that they should stretch forth a hand against a prophet of God." On the same verse the Ramban says: "From this verse we learn the Balaam was not a prophet because had he been a prophet how could it be that he required "opening of the eyes... and indeed scripture calls him a Bilaam ben Beor, the soothsayer[Kosaim]"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know this quote from the Ramban will come as a bit of a surprise to members of the reading audience who were brought up to believe that Rashi is the last, final, and only word on any subject, but the issue of Bilaam's prophecy is hotly debated. Arguments against include the one cited above, along with the fact that he was both handicapped and evil. (The Spanish rishonim, almost to a man, believed that both would have disqualified him from prophecy.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The correct view on the question of Ballam's prophecy, therefore, is this: WE DON'T KNOW. Anyone who takes a more certain stance is ignorant or trying to sell you something&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-7017300477565674102?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/1BcDFZH_T70" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/1BcDFZH_T70/bilaam-fun-facts-to-know-and-tell.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/bilaam-fun-facts-to-know-and-tell.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-5335038252587384271</guid><pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 20:09:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-05T13:09:15.524-07:00</atom:updated><title>Biden Suggests U.S. Not Twisting Israel's Arm</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/kVeOQCSW9HOT7sYw5Olu1F7bB4A/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/kVeOQCSW9HOT7sYw5Olu1F7bB4A/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/kVeOQCSW9HOT7sYw5Olu1F7bB4A/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/kVeOQCSW9HOT7sYw5Olu1F7bB4A/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;em&gt;"&lt;strong&gt;The United States cannot dictate to another sovereign nation what they can and cannot do&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;strong&gt;Israel can determine for itself -- it's a sovereign nation -- what's in their interest and what they decide to do relative to Iran and anyone else&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;." - &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/06/us/politics/06biden.html?ref=world"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Joe Biden&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This can't be right. According to the Torah-true wisdom of the RW Israeli bloggers anything the US says Israel must do. This is why they lie awake at night, shaking with fear over the unsubstantiated rumors that president Obama might soon make some pronouncement or another about Jerusalem.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-5335038252587384271?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/kDd7byG2qdY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/kDd7byG2qdY/biden-suggests-us-not-twisting-israels.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/biden-suggests-us-not-twisting-israels.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-8893225891986747769</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 15:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-03T08:39:53.505-07:00</atom:updated><title>Bad Medicine</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lvJQyUGDsWOGjAlPrW6JZ_TNog0/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lvJQyUGDsWOGjAlPrW6JZ_TNog0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lvJQyUGDsWOGjAlPrW6JZ_TNog0/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/lvJQyUGDsWOGjAlPrW6JZ_TNog0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Now it is a well-known principle that all people bitten by poisonous creatures become dangerously ill when they see them... as it is written in medical books...[.] Doctors have already mentioned the empirical fact amongst the wonders of reproductions that if the urine of a person bitten by a mad dog is put in a glass receptacle... there will appear in that urine the likeness of the young of small dogs. --&lt;/em&gt; Ramban on Num 21:9 (Chavel's translation)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My purpose here is not to mock the Ramban who was a man of his own time and can't be faulted for reflexively relying on unexamined, received wisdom. Instead, I note simply that he was pleased to cite "medical books" and "doctors" as his authorities; thus, he isn't claiming to have acquired medical knowledge via the study of Torah, but through consultations with the (mistaken) experts of his own time and place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As an aside, I'm still waiting for someone to provide the &lt;a href="http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/03/searching-for-sketch.html"&gt;famous Chazon Ish sketch&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-8893225891986747769?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/fgAoy9d-z24" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/fgAoy9d-z24/bad-medicine.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/bad-medicine.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-8735113829043573960</guid><pubDate>Fri, 03 Jul 2009 14:10:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-03T08:42:30.657-07:00</atom:updated><title>Falliable Rashi (Or a long and perhaps boring Torah argument with some kefira-lite tacked on at the end)</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5p1UGksW1WkM1DUF1sRYb8wILF0/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5p1UGksW1WkM1DUF1sRYb8wILF0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5p1UGksW1WkM1DUF1sRYb8wILF0/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/5p1UGksW1WkM1DUF1sRYb8wILF0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;The story of Arad's attack on Klal Yisroel is told twice in the Torah*. The first time (Num 21:1) the Hebrew looks like this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;וַיִּשְׁמַ֞ע הַכְּנַעֲנִ֤י מֶֽלֶךְ־עֲרָד֙ יֹשֵׁ֣ב הַנֶּ֔גֶב כִּ֚י בָּ֣א יִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל דֶּ֖רֶךְ הָאֲתָרִ֑ים וַיִּלָּ֙חֶם֙ בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֔ל וַיִּ֥שְׁבְּ ׀ מִמֶּ֖נּוּ שֶֽׁבִי׃&lt;br /&gt;(My (literal) translation: The &lt;em&gt;Canaanite king (of) Arad, who lived in the Negev, heard that Israel was coming on the Atarim road (and) he went to war with the Israelites and took some captives&lt;/em&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second time (Num 33:40) it looks like this:&lt;br /&gt;וַיִּשְׁמַ֗ע הַֽכְּנַעֲנִי֙ מֶ֣לֶךְ עֲרָ֔ד וְהֽוּא־יֹשֵׁ֥ב בַּנֶּ֖גֶב בְּאֶ֣רֶץ כְּנָ֑עַן בְּבֹ֖א בְּנֵ֥י יִשְׂרָאֵֽל׃&lt;br /&gt;(My (literal) translation: &lt;em&gt;The Canaanite king of Arad, who lived in the Negev of Canaan, heard about the coming Israelites&lt;/em&gt;.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the first mention, Rashi repeats the famous drash from BT Rosh Hashana: &lt;em&gt;What report did [the king] hear? He heard that Araron had died and the Clouds of Glory had departed, and he reasoned that permission has been granted to attack Israel. And the proof text: (the preceding verse Num 20:29) The entire assembly saw that Aaron had died.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As R. Abahu explains (there), the drash is based on a pun. The word for "they saw" (Va'yir'u) can be vowelized as "they appeared" (Va'yay'ro'u) and the word for "that" (kee) also means "because", thus: &lt;em&gt;The entire assembly appeared because Aaron had died.... and the king heard, etc.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The question that should be on everyone's lips, is this: &lt;strong&gt;Why is Rashi citing the drash?&lt;/strong&gt; According to his own mission statement, Rashi doesn't cite random or amusing midrashim. He's not grandpa at the head of the table sharing interesting &lt;em&gt;vortlach&lt;/em&gt;. His purpose is to smooth out the Torah text, and he only mentions midrashim that can be used (and sometimes only after being altered) to solve textual anomalies. Here, our text is flawless. We know what the King heard. He heard that Israel was on the Atarim road.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tosphos asks this question (BT Rosh Hashana 3a) and concludes that the drash actually belongs to the second mention where the reader is not told precisely what the king heard.  (i.e. Num 33:40)  Rashi, says Tosphos,  was sloppy. (&lt;em&gt;v'rashi lo dak b'peirush chumash&lt;/em&gt;)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Gur Aryeh, of course, offers a spirited defense of Rashi. He says that the fact that Israel was on the Atarim road was not enough to provoke an attack; therefore it had to have been something else. Not that I want to go to hell for arguing with the Gur Aryeh but, with all due respect, if the Torah says specifically and in plain Hebew that he attacked because he heard that Israel was on the Atarim Road, who are we to say, "no, no, that couldn't be why he attacked... Had to have been something else."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I understand that Gur Aryeh believes the word &lt;em&gt;Vayishma&lt;/em&gt; "and he heard" always, always indicates that something new and exciting was heard, but this is an interpretation that doesn't seem supported by the plain meaning. We're told what the king heard, and if this seems insufficiently new and exciting, well, perhaps the interpretation of &lt;em&gt;Vayishma&lt;/em&gt; is what's incorrect. Anyway, Tosphos didn't seem to understand &lt;em&gt;Vayishma&lt;/em&gt; the Gur Aryeh's way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As for me, I wonder if the true solution isn't something simpler. The first mention says "kee bo yisroael"; the parallel says "b'voh yisroel". The difference between the two phrases is one tiny letter (a yud) and the small drop of ink that would convert a &lt;em&gt;beys&lt;/em&gt; into a &lt;em&gt;kaf&lt;/em&gt;. Perhaps some copyist's hand slipped during the 2000 years between when this was written and the Talmud? If so, there originally was no ambiguity at all about what the King heard.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(And if you doubt such a thing could happen, well, look at Rashi's comment on Num 20:29 where he says flat out that mistakes were made in the transmission of Targum Onkelos. Only about 1200 years elapsed from Onkelos to Rashi. Is it really our position that copyist errors could sneak into every book (including Rashi's very own commentary) ever written aside from the 24 books that make up the Bible? How realistic is that? I know that theologicaly we say that such mistakes were never made, &lt;a href="http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2005/09/dovbear-on-eighth-v.html"&gt;but there is much evidence to the contrary&lt;/a&gt;.)&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-8735113829043573960?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/gIH9Q6pE8VY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/gIH9Q6pE8VY/falliable-rashi-or-long-and-perhaps.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/falliable-rashi-or-long-and-perhaps.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-5832880264954399104</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 22:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-02T15:20:00.662-07:00</atom:updated><title>What was Moses's sin?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/n7gZGHMsfLvBE11OPSqYhuIF5F4/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/n7gZGHMsfLvBE11OPSqYhuIF5F4/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/n7gZGHMsfLvBE11OPSqYhuIF5F4/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/n7gZGHMsfLvBE11OPSqYhuIF5F4/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;This week Moshe commits some unforgivable sin, and is banned from entering the promised land. But what did he do wrong? The nature of Moshe's sin is the source of much controversy among the big names.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Rashi, recycling an aggada first found in Sifrei, says Moshe's mistake was hitting the rock instead of speaking to it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Ramban gives Rashi what comes across as a condescending pat on the head (There, there. What a nice aggada.) before asking: "If he wasn't supposed to hit the rock, why did God tell him to take the staff?" In the view of the Ramban Moshe sinned when he said "can we get water from this rock?" This made it seem like the miracle would be done through his own powers, and not by the hand of God. (Hasidic Rabbis who perform &lt;em&gt;mofsim&lt;/em&gt; are hereby put on notice)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Rambam in &lt;em&gt;Shemonah Perakim &lt;/em&gt;says Moshe sinned by getting angry, and thereby suggesting to the people that God was angry when He was not. The Ramban thinks this suggestion is "vanities on top of vanities" i.e. a lousy answer in the extreme.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Ibn Ezra goes a little Kabbalistic, and says some things about Moshe and his prayerful concentration before concluding the the sin was hitting the rock twice instead of once. Ramban's reaction to this answer brings to mind Nelson Muntz (Hah-Ha!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Abravanel is a bit more polite then the Ramban as he goes through the pros and cons of ten possible sins, all expertly weighed and considered by Josh Waxman &lt;a href="http://parsha.blogspot.com/search/label/chukat" target="blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. (scroll down)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- Shadal, reacting to all of this, has the best line. He says: "Moshe Rabbenu only sinned one sin, but the commentators burdened upon him 13 sins and more, for each one invented of his own heart a new sin." (saw it on Josh's blog)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No disrespect to the medieval commentators (who, as you know, I adore) but they're late to the party. Often, the earliest commentators can tell us more about how the verses were first understood. One such early commentator, usually left unconsidered when the various interpretations of Moshe's sin are reviewed, is the opinion of King David. He, also, was a bible commentator, and his commentary can be found in the Book of Psalms when Biblical events are described. Tehillim 106 mentions Moshe's sin, and describes it his way (KJV): &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;They angered him also at the waters of strife, so that it went ill with Moses for their sakes; Because they provoked his spirit, so that he spake unadvisedly with his lips.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How do you read this? Josh says it means the Psalmist thought Moshe sinned by become angry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So score one for Rambam?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-5832880264954399104?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/Tpgrvo6GEWE" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/Tpgrvo6GEWE/what-was-mosess-sin.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/what-was-mosess-sin.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-3205740626230712064</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:26:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-02T13:37:15.771-07:00</atom:updated><title>Kikar Safra</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6NE2XuFyTo3YUCFbSG-thy_pYBM/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6NE2XuFyTo3YUCFbSG-thy_pYBM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6NE2XuFyTo3YUCFbSG-thy_pYBM/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6NE2XuFyTo3YUCFbSG-thy_pYBM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;One of the bloggers who politely corresponds with me in private, yet treats me like a stranger in public is highly aggrieved about the &lt;a href="http://www.jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FShowFull&amp;amp;cid=1244035010988"&gt;dirty-diaper throwing demonstrations &lt;/a&gt;that take place in Jerusalem for the sake of Shabbos. He's right to be upset about this Jew-on-Jew violence ("A Jew Doesn't Evict a Jew"? Fine. So pelting him with human feces is OK?)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've made this point in real life, but most people I know are quick with excuses for the rock throwers... oh, he's so sincere... oh its only because he cares so much about shabbos; isn't that a wonderful thing?  Others, like the goon-enablers at Cross Currents, imagine that such public desecrations of God's name are either exaggerated by the Jew-hating media, or blessed and coordinated by the all-knowing gedolim.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I say the problem starts with the schools where young Jewish boys and girls are trained in the ways of the timid and prepared to live their lives as hyper-defensive conformists.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-3205740626230712064?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/kA8zeb93tuQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/kA8zeb93tuQ/kikar-safra.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/kikar-safra.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-5710026846320483605</guid><pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 14:25:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-02T07:27:13.544-07:00</atom:updated><title>Hair Covering Reflections</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Q_hoa6XK1eIOyg9m4kWZoroOoQY/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Q_hoa6XK1eIOyg9m4kWZoroOoQY/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Q_hoa6XK1eIOyg9m4kWZoroOoQY/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Q_hoa6XK1eIOyg9m4kWZoroOoQY/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A guest post by &lt;a href="http://hadassahsabo.wordpress.com/" rel="'nofollow"&gt;Hadassah Sabo Milner &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I was first married, years ago, I didn’t want to cover my hair, I just did it because it was asked of me. Almost every time I covered it I felt like I was putting shackles on. I never researched it, never wanted to understand the reasons why. I just went along with the flow – shalom bayit, y’know? I know there are a lot of women out there who feel the same way, and yet they plod along because it is expected of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the time that I uncovered my hair, about 10 days after receiving my Get, I did so after a lot of conscious thought and reflection. It wasn’t a case of “so sad too bad”! Yes, some people around me were shocked and didn’t understand; some people went as far as to assume that it meant I threw away religion in totality. Not so. Those very close to me were not surprised.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The way I looked at it then, was as follows: when a person G-d forbid passes away we rip our clothes, we sit shiva and observe a period of mourning, and we take physical things upon ourselves for the next year to remind us of our loss – no celebrations, no music, men don’t shave etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My Get happened mere weeks after we separated. I was in so much deep pain and suffering and at that time, I needed, for myself, to physically show signs of my grief (other than crying all day long wherever I was – that gets old quickly), to work through the grief and the pain and the anguish and all of that. It was never about “not married any more so who needs to cover their hair, I am doing what I want”. I needed to do it to help heal my spirit. I needed to show myself and the world that I was not the same person I was when I was married.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the time last year’s barmitzvah preparations were in full swing and the barmitzvah boy asked that I wear a sheitel and not a hat to the festivities, I had to do some tremendous soul searching. Of course the fact that he reminded me that I had told him this was HIS day, and was about HIM and no one else – that put more pressure. (I hate when they actually listen to what I say!) He said he would be “ok” if I wore a hat, but would prefer me to wear a sheitel. It’s what all his friends’ mothers do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Standing there, on the day of the barmitzvah, watching my son lain his parshah, my heart swelling with enormous pride and love and gratitude to G-d, I knew I had come full circle. I knew my mourning was very much over. I let go of the past, of the pain, of the anger and bitterness. That day marked my son’s barmitzvah but also in some ways my rebirth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since that day I have been lucky in finding my soul mate, and in February we celebrated our wedding, and the merging of two lively households. I wore a sheitel to my wedding. I cover my hair now when I leave the house. I am a married lady, and it is what’s right for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many religious men take it for granted that their wives will cover their hair, but they have no idea what a difficult mitzvah this is to keep. I struggled for so long with it, and it was only in the absence of keeping this mitzvah that I learned to appreciate the finer points of it. I wish that when I had first got married that there were classes to explain the whys and wherefores of hair covering, to help us come to terms with it. As girls and teenagers, we obsess about our hair, and then all of a sudden we are expected to cover it. It’s a lot to have to deal with.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I now cover my hair on my terms, because it is what I feel is right for where I am in life. No one is forcing me to do it. My husband would never demand it of me. If you want to look down on me because my hair was once uncovered, that’s your choice. If you think my kashrut is suspect because my ponytail sticks out of my baseball cap – that’s your problem. If you want to judge someone based solely on whether the wife wears a sheitel or a snood or a beret, or only covers outside the house or not at all– you are a small minded individual.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hair covering is a mitzvah that’s extremely visible – maybe a lady doesn’t cover her hair but keeps everything else 100% - how is one to know? Until such a time as a person keeps all mitzvoth perfectly themselves, they have no right to judge any women on how they keep this mitzvah.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am currently researching all aspects of hair covering for an upcoming publication, and it has been very eye opening. I would be very interested on hearing views from people of all walks of life.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-5710026846320483605?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/VoeQizyo8-g" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/VoeQizyo8-g/hair-covering-reflections.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/hair-covering-reflections.html</feedburner:origLink></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8861063.post-4272063562494824451</guid><pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 22:11:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2009-07-02T07:57:44.081-07:00</atom:updated><title>Your Daily Moron</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-BN28uiA58zdQcDACEe28Kk-0X8/0/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-BN28uiA58zdQcDACEe28Kk-0X8/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-BN28uiA58zdQcDACEe28Kk-0X8/1/da"&gt;&lt;img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/-BN28uiA58zdQcDACEe28Kk-0X8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"&gt;&lt;/img&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.newsmax.com/insidecover/obama_holocaust_museum/2009/06/10/223863.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;Rabbi Dr. Morton H. Pomerantz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Poor little Rabbi Doctor Pomerantz thinks big bad Obama is using his magic hypnotic charisma powers to make the mean gentiles hate us. Pomerantz is another doofus who seems incapable of understanding that the Cairo speech was directed at the nearly 1 billion Muslims who aren't Islamofacists, and was meant as a friendly overture and a fresh start, not an exhaustive history lesson.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Updates: (1) The Good Rabbi Doctor is a Reform Rabbi. Put that in your pipe and smoke it.&lt;br /&gt;(2) As noted by many on the thread, Rabbi Doctor P. is under the mistaken belief that the Crusaders were a friendly and benevolent group.  See, even as he criticizes Obama for being selective and imprecise about history this Jewish genius finds it hard to tell the whole historical truth when telling the whole truth might undermine his cherished beliefs about the world.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8861063-4272063562494824451?l=dovbear.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~4/5uRJMFcRK2Q" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</description><link>http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/DovbearReturns/~3/5uRJMFcRK2Q/your-daily-moron.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (DovBear)</author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://dovbear.blogspot.com/2009/07/your-daily-moron.html</feedburner:origLink></item></channel></rss>
