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    <updated>2009-12-03T09:09:00-08:00</updated>
    <subtitle>Dr. Romance's musings on love, relationships, celebrities, culture and life in general. In top 10 Sexperts! Redbook.com's Blog of the Month:  'If anyone can call herself "DR. Romance," it's REDBOOK Love Expert Tina Tessina. With a Ph.D., eight books and 30 years counseling experiencing under her belt, Tina has a lot to say about the everydays of life and love.    Get to know the Doc. "

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        <title>I just missed her so much that I didnt know what to do. </title>
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        <published>2009-12-03T09:09:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-12-03T09:09:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Dr. Romance I am 36 and a single dad. For the first time I have met someone who I feel I could spend the rest of my life with. We were together for two months and I know she...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>he starts hollering and goes out of control</title>
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        <published>2009-11-30T09:54:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-30T09:54:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Dr. Romance: I hope you can be of help to me. My husband and I will be celebrating our 23rd anniversary next week - this is a 2nd marriage for both of us. I was widowed after 10 yrs...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>Life Lessons</title>
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        <published>2009-11-26T09:51:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-26T09:51:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>In this month of giving thanks, I am grateful for the lessons of my life. Perhaps the most important lesson I’ve learned is that a meaningful life is about growing your soul, and it happens slowly, in the process of...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>I got upset when he said he wants to stop fornicating with me </title>
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        <published>2009-11-23T09:49:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-23T09:49:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Dr. Romance: My male friend likes to look at good looking women a second time and more and if the woman is looking at him, he will stare at her. I have a friend that is nine years younger...</summary>
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        <title>Your Bestest Friend – You</title>
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        <published>2009-11-19T09:06:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-19T09:06:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>I have a friend, Maggie, who has been my friend since 1968, and she calls me her “bestest”friend as a way of appreciating our connection. It always makes me smile, and I feel the same about her. Often, my clients...</summary>
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        <title>my wife has control and anger problems</title>
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        <published>2009-11-16T09:29:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-16T09:29:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Dr. Romance: I saw your responses from divorce 360 web site and was really impressed with your thoughts on relationships! I've been married for 18 years with 3 children. I am a very active Dad (Basketball/baseball coach for all...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>I'm getting frustrated and fed up with gay dating</title>
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        <published>2009-11-12T09:18:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-12T09:18:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Dr. Romance, I'm in my early twenties, and I've read a couple of your books and think they are awesome, but I'm just writing to you today because I'm getting frustrated and fed up with dating and don't really...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>Fair Fight Guidelines</title>
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        <published>2009-11-09T09:30:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-09T11:05:27-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Thirty years of counseling couples and twenty-seven years of my second marriage have convinced me that fights are not necessary in a marriage. Married couples need to have discussions, they need to solve problems, and sometimes they need to disagree,...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>Dr. Romance and  Charles J. Orlando weigh in on masculinity</title>
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        <published>2009-11-08T16:14:14-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-12T00:46:46-08:00</updated>
        <summary>This week, I was asked the following question by a journalist, and thought I'd invited Charles J. Orlando, author of The Problem with Women is...Men to dialogue about it. Journalist: Does it make a man less masculine if he’s too...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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        <title>Will my self-improvement end my relationship?</title>
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        <published>2009-11-05T09:20:00-08:00</published>
        <updated>2009-11-05T09:20:00-08:00</updated>
        <summary>Dear Dr. Romance: Yesterday I purchased your book It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction I plan to read it intently and to complete the exercises with self-honesty and motivation. I have a few questions, though, which...</summary>
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            <name>Tina Tessina</name>
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