Author-Garima Pradhan

How To Stop Being Irritated At Small Stuff?

2022-05-10T06:50:00.001-07:00

Who are you- A Captious Person or A Tranquil Person..!!

2017-06-15T06:38:00.000-07:00

A Will to excel in life sometimes make you lose original side.

Some swim higher to become tranquil while some drow into the ocean of captious nature. With growing age, some of us find ourself tightly wrapped in the shackles of ambiguity. Let's take a quick test to know what we actually are on the basis of traits we possess?

Traits You Possess-(A)

-You are focussed on your own life and don't like to poke nose into others life.

-You look out for 90% goodness, not flaws understanding no human is perfect.

-You are not judgemental of others.

-You circle positives of others.

-It's easy for you to accept others.

-You go around appreciating others.

-You are excited about others success just like your own.

-You give compliments because you want people to succeed.

Traits You Possess-(B)
-You have a tendency of fault-finding in others or their work.
-You look out for 10% flaws ignoring the fact no human is perfect.
-You love to judge others
-You circle negatives of others.

-You don't go around appreciating others.
-You can't stand others success, it pricks your eyes.
-You don't give compliments because you can't see others succeed.

Mine is Tranquil, Whats Yours?

Excited for result? Guess What your trait zone is?

If the maximum of your qualities match(B) then you are a captious person.But If the maximum of your qualities has the match(A)then you are a Tranquil person. If you like the post do share and comment.

Definition of terms used-
Captious-tending to find fault or raise petty objections.
Tranquil- free from disturbance; calm.
A blog post on "Who are you- A Captious Person or A Tranquil Person..!!"

By-Garima Pradhan

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World need more of Original💝 Than of Copies..💕

2017-05-18T06:50:00.000-07:00

Childhood is the most Beautiful Phase of our life, that we still cherish💕
Everybody created some special memories when they were innocent brains, not affected by worries and troubles.

What innocent journey it was when we stepped into our childhood phase. We fell in love with the originality of people and not their physical appearance- look or body. We were so mature in understanding this concept when we were innocent kids.

But with the passage of time, with years, we leveled up from teenager phase to adulthood.
As soon as we entered this level of adulthood, things appeared so different. When we looked around closer there were so many smiling mask surrounding us, making it appear as a wonderful place like heaven. We were so excited to grow up and finally we did.
But suddenly everybody started behaving differently. With the touch of ribbon on completing the race of job, we felt so proud of getting into a company. Finally we proved ourself we were worthy enough.

Everything was good at sight
But

With the passage of time,

Some showed their real side.

Some showed their real faces saying "don't come in my way, else you will be perished"and
removed their mask that they wore when you shared this news of job with them which then
said to you- " i am happy for you".

They make you look to the real side of story.
They made you believe not everybody is happy for your success when you aim it.
You discovered the fact that originality has lost its identity a century before you arrived to this phase of adulthood. And which is perishing with the passage of time.
If no change is brought into being, the day is not far when real souls and genuine souls, will fall under extinct category like that of species, etc.

You also encountered few that accepted your real side and who were actually happy to see you climb up in life these faces were of the-"the genuine ones", who actually cared for you and wished for your success.
Then you were introduced to some who were envious of you,
who were friends at face but
we're competitor at heart.
Some smiled to have cordial relations with you so that they can use you in times of need.
There were some really sweet friends around, who were sugar coated species that always prayed for your misfortune in abundance just because they can't be like you.
They were jealous when you started running in the race faster than them. Now you know where you landed in the name of "adulthood".
When you become an adult you realized the essence of maintaining relations so for that you need to fake it a bit to make it workout peacefully.

But majority of us took the

"Overdose of Fakeness💓"

made us kill the innocent child inside of us.

It was killed by our ignorance and by our craze for being acceptable by others in society.
We forgot our society promotes fake ones over real ones, so we let it damage our organs and perish originality from this world.

We need more of original than of copies.
You know why, people don't get difficult books easily?
Not because of the mind blowing vocab but because of the wrong interpretation of it at first.
Similarly
Some people won't interpret you at first but with willingness to understand you they will love you for the person you are.
Some will know your dark side and
will still choose to stand by your side.
While some will leave you for not turning up as a person they expected out of you.
Because such people are deprived of originality as they have lost one for them.

"Originality is Hard to hold💝 But Easy to drop💔".
If you enjoy your original side💗 you will never need fakeness 💓 by your side.

Originality is the biggest attire we can wear to make us more acceptable in society.
Be yourself and the world would adjust and make changes for you to become more acceptable to this society.
It will never let you face things you never wanted to face.
It will protect you from everything you thought you can't face it until you fake it.
The Only thing we forget when we grow as adults is:

"Our Beauty" ❤that came along

with the "Originality"👌 we possessed

from the time of "Birth"💫..

Be your Original copy not a Pirate one

Don't become a copycat 👯 to be Acceptable to 👉 this World,

Rather

Become a masterpiece 👌 to be Irreplaceable to 👉 this World.

-Garima Pradhan

Live like a Boss or Live like a Slave...Now the Choice is Yours..👉

2017-04-09T09:37:00.000-07:00

Live like a Boss or Live like a Slave...Now the Choice is Yours..👉

As soon as we grow up we discover the word called "Independence".
You might be thinking how does this word come into picture but the fact is it does.
It entered our life from the point we complete with our graduation or post graduation degree and opt for getting a job for oneself to prove that "Yes,we are worthy enough to get one".

From the time of completion of our degree we have an igniting fire within us that forces us to prove our worth to society to our parents by"getting a job"and by "earning".

Sadly i too believed this as truth and opted for the same and started with my first job and gave my two hundred percent in a company and was not rewarded for my work and in the end i
got one year experience of job and after doing that i came up with a conclusion for myself that i am not born to be a worker, i am born to be a boss.

Ask yourself these questions and if any of the below stated questions come up with an answer as "YES", trust me you have stepped up on your dreams and have killed it with your own hands.

I have no worth so i need to prove my worth to others and to society?

My company doesn't provides me with exact salary that i deserve?

Is your growth in company being hindered by anyone in your company?

Have i compromised with my self respect to serve a job which is uncertain in a company?

I hate my job and i am just doing it for the sake of getting experience of few years?

If any of above questions dragged you to "YES", sorry to bring out the reality that you have buried your dreams,so you are being hired to fulfill someone's else dreams.

"If you will not work for your dreams,someone will hire you to fulfill their dream.."

Wake up and start working for your dreams,
Your only fear is "Failure" that is what is stopping you to Go for your dreams..
If JK Rowling would have given up after facing so many rejection do you think harry potter would have been a huge success.

When we were kids and when we couldn't stand up on our feet what does our parents used to teach us "Keep Going,

Don't Quit

you will do it.."

They believed in us when we were not aware of our hidden powers and guess what we all stood up on our feet because our parents didn't give up in us.
Then what happens to us when we grow mature. Why do we fear failure so much what if it worked out and you become an overnight sensation.
What if the things you always feared becomes your strength with which you were deprived off.

Its a long journey that i have to travel but that's because i am taking my self respect along.
Success can come to those who are ready to give up on their self respect but i can never compromise on my originality and will kick every job that ask me to sacrifice one in the name sake of job.

You know why?I am happy now,

Its only because i took a call of my dreams and went for it at the right time and the result is i am happy with my life with the way i am as a person.

Its never too late to go for your dreams, all it really takes is that one bold decision for your future that will being about the change you were looking for.

Even if you fail, just go for it because that is what makes you happy at the end that is what you call your "Dream"...

Dare to dream it and take actions in reality to make it happen for yourself...

Its never too old to start with your dreams, all it takes is the courage to see it for yourself, to believe in yourself that yes "you can do it"..

Now the choice is yours to invest your time in a job that builds someones palace or build your own palace.

Now the choice is your either-

"To be a slave of an empire or To be a king of one.."

Have a Good Day...
Keep Smiling.. :)

-Garima Pradhan

Dream it to make it HAPPEN... !!

2017-03-18T00:47:00.000-07:00

Dreamer's Are Ultimate Winner's...✌

Life is uncertain and so is are ambitions.
but the best part is life gets us through all odds and channelizes our energy for the things that we are made for.

Dream's are the pathway that guides us about life's next chapter or alerts us about the changes that can harm us.
Researches have proven that people who dream more are tend to shape their future in that direction.
We all have the incredible power to imagine things for our future and we all can make it happen.
all it really takes is to have the-

"Keep Going Mentality".

People who are ready to work hard and who are ready to fail more times then people who would never even try to change their life are the ones who achieve "Success" as a medal for running in a battle that many were scared off.

Dreamer's are ultimate Winner.
so never give up in your power to architect your future.

Never forget:
"If you Can Dream it then you can do it..."

Keep Going and never stop..
More power to you guys..
Keep rocking..
God bless...!!

First Blog by- Garima Pradhan