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		<title>Big Brothers are So Much Fun!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 03:07:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week I asked Sean if he would play with Sienna so I could watch part of Sawyer &#8216;s last baseball game this year.  Boy did she love that!! Sienna yells &#8220;SEAN!!!!&#8221; when she sees him get off his bus &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2849">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week I asked Sean if he would play with Sienna so I could watch part of Sawyer &#8216;s last baseball game this year.  Boy did she love that!!</p>
<p><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6127.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2850" title="DSC_6127" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6127-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6139.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2851" title="DSC_6139" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6139-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6140.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2852" title="DSC_6140" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6140-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6141.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2853" title="DSC_6141" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6141-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a>Sienna yells &#8220;SEAN!!!!&#8221; when she sees him get off his bus in the afternoon. This week we were outside when his bus arrived and she yelled, &#8220;Sean!!!&#8221; and started running down the sidewalk towards him.  Unlike other times, when Sean held out his arms, she outstretched her own and ran into his arms. He picked her up and she kissed him on the cheek. WOW! Highlight of our day! It is just the most fun thing to watch her open up and enjoy life!!</p>
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		<title>Sad But Thankful</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 13:11:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>alli</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I have a sad day. Sad that I am the one that Sienna is patting on the shoulder and pretending to go bye-bye. The one that she is blowing kisses to and making the &#8220;I Love You&#8221; hand sign &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2827">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I have a sad day. Sad that I am the one that Sienna is patting on the shoulder and pretending to go bye-bye. The one that she is blowing kisses to and making the &#8220;I Love You&#8221; hand sign as she waves.</p>
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<p>Sad that her birth mom (and dad) are not the ones that are getting to snuggle when she wakes from her nap or watch this sweet girl grow and grow!<a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6115.jpg"><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-2842" title="DSC_6115" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/DSC_6115-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a><br />
At the same time, I am so incredibly thankful. Thankful that GOD has protected this girl&#8217;s life and brought her here so we can be a channel of His love. So thankful when I come across articles like this <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2012/04/30/world/asia/china-forced-abortions/index.html">one</a> from CNN (May 1-2012) and am reminded of what could have been.  This article shows some of the atrocities in China where women are forced to experience abortions and worse.  As I took a walk with Greg yesterday explaining the article, we both were overwhelmed with God&#8217;s grace over Sienna and other adopted boys and girls (there are others still waiting in orphanages all over the world).  Just amazed watching God&#8217;s plan unfold before our eyes.</p>
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		<title>Leading out of Overflow- Roots, Fruits, and Branches</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 13:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This blog is called Overflow.  The reason has a lot to do with John 15:1-17 and the analogy of vines, branches, roots, fruit, etc.  A leader&#8217;s best gift to those they lead is who and how they follow.  We all &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2834">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This blog is called <strong>Overflow</strong>.  The reason has a lot to do with John 15:1-17 and the analogy of vines, branches, roots, fruit, etc.  A leader&#8217;s best gift to those they lead is who and how they follow.  <em>We all will follow someone or some thing</em>.  Jesus shares some critical principles for our leadership in John 15.  These principles have a lot to do with the vines and branches, perhaps of a grapevine.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">The life of Overflow is easier said than done and in order to live it with all the gusto and fervor we have we must know what it looks like.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Three characters appear in John 15:  Vine Roots, Vine Fruit, and Vine Branches.  There is another character, namely the one who does the pruning, lifting, cutting, etc. of the Vine, that is the VINEDRESSER.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Jesus is the TRUE vine, as opposed to someone who is false.  The vine is closely linked to Israel&#8217;s heritage.  God is the vinedresser, the one who works towards the fruitfulness of the vine.  You and I are the branches and what we produce is either fruit, no fruit, more fruit or much fruit.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>There is not a more intimate portrayal of a leader&#8217;s relationship with the LORD than found in this picture of ABIDING IN THE VINE.</strong></p>
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<p>The word <strong>ABIDE</strong> means to stay at or with, to continue, remain in a place, to persevere, and/or continue.  This is as intimate as it gets&#8230;Staying close to Jesus even though there are more &#8220;productive&#8221; things to be done.  Leadership understands that our <strong>OVERFLOW</strong> is only as productive and powerful according to what is coming out.  Our lives can be well oiled machines of organizational and productive prowess that is worth <strong>NOTHING</strong> spiritually.  Stories will not be told of those whose house is organized and clean but whose house is held captive by knowing and making God known.  The Leader must figure out how to produce fruit, abide in the vine, and extend through obedience and joy in family, work and ministry relationships.</p>
<p><strong>LEADERSHIP PRINCIPLES OF THE LIFE OF OVERFLOW</strong>:</p>
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<li><strong>Send Deep Roots &#8220;ABIDE&#8221; into God and His Word.</strong>  Success in leadership is derived from my ability to abide and lead from that source of overflow.</li>
<li><strong>Yield to the supernatural &#8220;FRUIT&#8221; that comes from God&#8217;s work in a person.</strong>  We can&#8217;t bear fruit apart from abiding and God prunes so we can bear MUCH FRUIT not just a little fruit.  Grape vines grow very fast but if not managed well their fruit will be limited.</li>
<li><strong>Allow the &#8220;BRANCHES&#8221; to extend near and far.</strong>  God has chosen us to bear fruit and that fruit should remain and dare I say reproduce in others.</li>
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<p><strong><em>TOWARDS A DEFINITION OF WHAT IT MEANS TO ABIDE:</em></strong></p>
<blockquote><p><strong> A</strong>ttention- What steps do you need to take to regain a focus that gives God your attention daily?</p>
<p><strong>B</strong>reathe- Have you learned to breathe spiritually by exhaling sin and inhaling God&#8217;s word and the influence of God&#8217;s Spirit?</p>
<p><strong>I</strong>nputs- Do you always miss the chance to spend time in God&#8217;s word and miss the heart of God?</p>
<p><strong>D</strong>evelop- Have you ever connected with the heart of Jesus for people, because people matter to God?</p>
<p><strong>E</strong>ncourage- Do you have intentional plans to encourage believers to stay in the game and involve those who haven&#8217;t decided to follow Christ to get in the game spiritually?</p></blockquote>
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		<title>What Does She Think?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 May 2012 03:07:52 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One day a few weeks ago, I caught Sienna playing with her new reflection in the mirror and snapped a few quick shots&#8230;<a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5922.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2817" title="DSC_5922" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5922-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5923_2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2818" title="DSC_5923_2" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5923_2-1024x682.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="426" /></a><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5924.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2819" title="DSC_5924" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5924-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a><a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5925.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2820" title="DSC_5925" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5925-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a>I think she is liking it!!</p>
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		<title>She Will Be a Daddy’s Girl Yet!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Apr 2012 21:55:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>greg</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week is the one year anniversary of when we saw Sienna&#8217;s beautiful face for the first time (in her referral file).  She looks so very different now&#8230;she has grown 4 inches in four months and the word that has &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2802">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week is the one year anniversary of when we saw Sienna&#8217;s beautiful face for the first time (in her referral file).  She looks so very different now&#8230;she has grown 4 inches in four months and the word that has come up repeatedly when people see her for the first time since her surgery is that she is a &#8220;miracle.&#8221;<a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5867_2.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2808" title="DSC_5867_2" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5867_2-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a></p>
<p>What is so encouraging to me is how she is noticing her dad more and more.  Every picture she points him out.  This week, most nights Greg read her all of her bedtime stories and she even fell asleep a few nights with just him before I was back from tucking the others in.  Last night, she was at the table having a snack (thanks Pappaw for the noodles!), and I told her I was going to run to the store and I would be right back.  I told her Daddy would be here with her.  We exchanged a kiss and I left and she lasted the whole time I was gone without a tear.  <a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5864.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2809" title="DSC_5864" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5864-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a>Today in church I gave her to Greg to hold during the singing part of worship to give my arms a break and she rested her head on his chest.  When we were walking out to the car she actually passed up her big sis to hold onto her dad&#8217;s finger.  And then when Greg opened the car door to get her out of her carseat he said she actually held her arms up to him for him to get her out.  This is BIG STUFF around here! It has been 5 months since she was put into our arms, and five is now this Dad&#8217;s favorite number!!<a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5866.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2810" title="DSC_5866" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5866-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a></p>
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		<title>What “Greater Things” is God Doing Through You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2012 12:57:45 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Wednesday mornings a group of men get together to learn how to lead better at home first, then work, then in ministry.  <strong><em>By far the greatest challenge to leadership is at home. </em></strong> We are asking whether there are any ministry principles in John 14 that we can apply to these areas of our lives.</p>
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<p><strong>Potential Ministry Principles:  LEADERS BELIEVE, KNOW and ASK in John 14:1-17-<br />
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<li><strong>Belief</strong> is an imperative for the life of the leader (14:1).  Trusting Jesus in all situations is critical.  We can build our trust by remembering how he has worked in our life.  He is trustworthy.</li>
<li>Future hope is the fuel for everyday obedience (14:1) .</li>
<li>Abiding is most important; Jesus prepares a place for us to be with Him (14:2).  Jesus is preparing the disciples for his departure, we should allow him to prepare us for the trials we will face.</li>
<li><strong>Knowing</strong> Jesus is more important than knowing about Jesus (14:6).</li>
<li>Philip is a picture of all of us; needing assurances, intimacy and more knowledge of God (14:8).</li>
<li><strong>A LEADER&#8217;S WORDS AND WORKS MUST LINE UP FOR THE MOST POWERFUL SPIRITUAL INFLUENCE POSSIBLE</strong> (14:10-12)</li>
<li>In Jesus&#8217; Name is not a tag on to prayer (14:13-14).  <strong>PRAYER IS THE WORK OF LEADERSHIP</strong>.  Our prayers must be motivated by glorifying God, we can&#8217;t allow selfish motives to remain in our prayers.  Leaders always <strong>ASK</strong> for God&#8217;s power to lead at home.</li>
<li>Just saying they love God is not enough; LEADERS show it off through action (14:15).</li>
<li>They are absolutely Spiritually powerless without the empowering Holy Spirit (14:16-17).</li>
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<blockquote><p><strong>When it is all said and done the leader believes Jesus will do greater things through them.  Greater things at home, at work and in the church.  It is our responsibility to flesh out the LIFE OF CHRIST in those areas.</strong></p></blockquote>
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		<title>Greater Things from Strong Weak People</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Leaders humbly believe Jesus was talking to them when He said, &#8220;Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I am &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2791">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leaders humbly believe Jesus was talking to them when He said, &#8220;Truly, truly, I say to you, whoever believes in me will also do the works that I do; and greater works than these will he do, because I am going to the Father.&#8221;  (John 14:12)</p>
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<p><strong>Greater Things-</strong> How can we do greater things than Jesus?  Leaders may not know how but they are sure that Jesus is speaking directly to them and so they pursue Greater Things in order that more glory can be given to God.</p>
<p>Jesus leads us away from Peter&#8217;s impulsive self-confidence.  There may not be a more damaging choice than to be self-reliant which is really God-defiance.  Our weaknesses and failures trouble us, so we try and overcome them with more doing and strategic sin management or we just don&#8217;t think about them at all.  Jesus&#8217; solution for troubled weak hearts was TRUST and OBEY.  Believing is more than just saying it but living it out.  Trusting does not mean we are pretending to be STRONG.  If we know we are weak but want the strength that God gives it brings God joy and glory if we rely on His resources.  If we believe for a moment that we can follow Jesus in our own strength, we will fail miserably just like Peter failed.</p>
<p><strong>What other observations/principles should we not overlook in the life of the leader from John 14?</strong></p>
<ol>
<li>Is Believe an imperative or simply a statement? (14:1)</li>
<li>Does Jesus have a mansion for all of his children? (14:2)</li>
<li>What does the word &#8220;If&#8221; mean in 14:3? (14:3)</li>
<li>Thomas shows a Map is only as good as a destination (14:5).</li>
<li>Is Jesus saying three different realities (Way, Truth, Life)? or is he saying, &#8220;ONE- The way and the truth and the life describe the way?&#8221; (14:6)</li>
<li>Who is Jesus talking to in 14:7 (Thomas or the disciples and us also)? (14:7)</li>
<li>Are Thomas and Philip really a picture of all of us?  What are they asking for really? (14:5, 14:8)</li>
<li>Is Jesus sad, hurt, scolding, or other in 14:9?</li>
<li>What place do Words, Works, Believe, and Know have in the life of the leader? (14:10-12)</li>
<li>What does Jesus mean by greater works? (14:12)</li>
<li>What does Jesus mean by telling his guys to Pray &#8220;In His Name?&#8221; (14:13-14)</li>
<li>What is Love to Jesus? (14:15)</li>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 02:51:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sienna is doing great adjusting to her new pucker She is drinking from a cup now instead of the syringe, and is getting her appetite back as well. Our doctor visit showed that although her weight post-surgery dropped back to &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2773">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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Sienna is doing great adjusting to her new pucker <img src='http://gregdespres.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  She is drinking from a cup now instead of the syringe, and is getting her appetite back as well. Our doctor visit showed that although her weight post-surgery dropped back to what it was when we got her in China, she has grown close to 3 inches since then!  She will keep the nose stint in for 2 more weeks and those stitches inside are still in process healing.  We are so thankful and amazed at her doctors&#8217; handiwork.  I can&#8217;t imagine what that must be like to be &#8220;knitting together&#8221; like God does in the womb.  This girl is ready to start on her 7 book bedtime routine so, GOOD NIGHT from the Despres Family!!<a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5852.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2787" title="DSC_5852" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_5852-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Morning of Sienna&#8217;s surgery, our sweet friends brought us a letter for Sienna that their daughter made for her.  Kaylynn is seven years old and in the first grade.She wrote it all on her own.  Just asked her dad &#8230; <a href="http://gregdespres.com/?p=2768">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Morning of Sienna&#8217;s surgery, our sweet friends brought us a letter for Sienna that their daughter made for her.  Kaylynn is seven years old and in the first grade.<img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2769" title="Kaylin 1" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/photo-16-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="853" />She wrote it all on her own.  Just asked her dad how to spell &#8220;beautiful.&#8221;</p>
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<p>What a precious gift to have a friend like Kaylynn!!  Such beautiful girls that are teaching us so much about strength and grace.  We are thankful to Steve and Mary, Kaylyn&#8217;s parents for how they are mentoring us through this journey.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: center;">The morning after Sienna&#8217;s surgery I woke up in tears. I quickly grabbed my phone and ran back throught the pictures I had of the sweet girl&#8217;s smiles and the face I had etched deep into my heart. Just plain grieving.  I think Sienna may have done a little herself when she first saw her reflection in the mirror&#8211;seeing lots of things that needed some healing time, perhaps, and maybe not quite understanding it.  The next morning though as we passed a mirror she waved to her reflection.  Here are some photos of a few minutes that the two of us sat in front of our mirror so she could get a better look&#8230;<a href="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_57891.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-large wp-image-2763" title="DSC_5789" src="http://gregdespres.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/04/DSC_57891-1024x678.jpg" alt="" width="640" height="423" /></a>                                    They may be a little blurry but precious none-the-less.  Thank you for sharing in this adventure with us! We are still pretty exhausted as everyone is following a big surgery, but are so glad to see her personality start to come back to life!</p>
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