Dear Tania,
I just wanted to put fingers to keys and email you some thoughts I have had about our latest session using the Deep State Repatterning therapy you have developed.

As you know I have worked with EFT and other healing modalities for many years to try and clear the baggage we all seem to carry around with us on ‘our journey’.

I have found EFT very useful as a tool I can use myself to tap out stuff and feel I have made good progress.  There always seems more to do though and I am sure I am not on my own regarding this.

A short while ago you very kindly worked with me using Deep State Repatterning and this allowed me to access information I had been unable to access previously at a subconscious level.  The issue we worked on was related to relationships, specifically trust and being let down.

Since that time when I experienced an enormous shift other aspects relating to relationships have come to light.  Not all of them gently I might add but each time I have tried to deal with this problems using meditation, TAT, EFT and Reiki.

I find each of these methods has it’s own place and use as I work on myself but I now realise that although they assist me to let go of aspects of the issue at the time and in the moment, I have never been able to get down to the core of the issue like I did the first time we did Deep State Repatterning.

The issue that came up for me last night was again about relationships and specifically about and the words that resonating in a conversation I had with someone very close to me were resentment, burden, and responsibility.  There was a phrase used that really hit a button which was ‘it’s all about you’.  During this conversation which was initially about my father in law but turned into being ‘all about me’ I took a sharp intake of breath at the words said.  To help you to understand they were:  ‘There have been times when I resented you.  You have been a burden.’ (At this point sharp intake of breath, absorb emotion, retrauma). The next sentence ‘Why are you making it all about you?’  At this point I couldn’t converse any more I needed to withdraw.

For 2 and a half hours the next morning I meditated, reikied myself.  Did a little TAT and lots of EFT but could not shift these feelings that kept coming and going.  Waves of heavy energy kept coming up and down my body until I got to the point when I had to shut down to myself and go to work.  I literally put it behind me and got on with life.
When I arrived at work my first two clients had cancelled so I decided to tap a little more and new stuff was coming up that I didn’t know where to go with.  Hence my call to you to ask your advice.  Bless you and thank you for coming to my rescue with Deep State Repatterning.  As you know we had limited time because I had a client in half an hour and you offered me the opportunity to work on this issue (in the back of my mind I was telling myself ‘no, it wasn’t why I rang you’, I have a client coming, I have a duty of care to them.)  This I didn’t tell you at the time but you probably knew it anyway. You asked me what I was feeling and some other questions that I can’t really remember but I know I gave you the answers and was surprised as they came up so quickly. You also asked me an age which I answered without thinking – in fact it was in my head before you even asked me and it was 7.  You then asked me to put up a picture which I did and it was so clear but when we started tapping it didn’t match the age and this baffled me.  I think I told you and we went back further to a strange place when I was 7 and taking care of my sister who was 2.

In all the time I have been working on issues especially relationship ones, I never ever thought about this time and was amazed when I realised how young I was to develop the belief that it was my responsibility to make everyone happy.  I can’t remember in detail what was said but the effect of the therapy was profound.  When I rang you later tonight and we talked about the effect it had on me again you said it had reached a subconscious level but I have to say that it had reach a level deeper than that.  I know the subconscious level at which I work with Reiki and Meditation and this was way beyond that.  What is next, the superconscious level?  I think so as I do not understand how I had access to this information that I could not access before when I did inner child work.  Today after our work together, I experienced such an incredible sense of inner peace that is still with me now.  Also I have the belief that I am not responsible for everyone else’s journey or their happiness and I have an enormous sense of freedom and a sense of self which I don’t believe I have ever felt.

I am so grateful to you and this amazing therapy you are developing and am truly looking forward to coming on the workshop so that I can continue to take steps (giant ones) on my journey to inner peace.
June xxx

Well, never too soon to start organising, especially with such a big event. The proposed dates for the conference are the second weekend in October 2009.

As to the venue, ummm. I am looking. My favorite so far is:

One has to have vision for this one.

All the best,

Tania

A colleague of mine who went to one of the first EFT events set up in the US dealing with people with issues told me how many of the attendees had tapped on so many life events they were struggling to find something to tap on, YET, they clearly still had their problem. It is not unusual.

In my experience having worked with thousands of clients, UNLESS you clear the deepest roots, issues do not clear, at least completely. These people had cleared events from after birth. But what about the birth events, pre-birth (in the womb experiences) and anything even further back?

 In many of the sessions that I have done with clients I have gone back to birth experiences, pre-birth, in the womb experiences and even further back. I have seen astounding results occur as a consequence of tapping on and clearing these experiences.

I developed Deep State Repatterning to address this issue, however the approach works equally well finding and dealing with events that occur after birth.

What is Deep State RePatterning?

It is a combination of some of the most powerful techniques available today, NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), EFT and Inner Child/ parts work.

I am going to be publishing more about this approach in the coming weeks. I show cased this new approach at the EFT International Masterclass in London, October 2008. All great fun. Great audience.

The first Deep State Repatterning Course will be held on the 30th of November in Manchester.

But how can you find the emotional underpinnings? 

At my recent EFT supervision session in Manchester, one of the supervisees at the event volunteered for her fellow students to work on a knee problem she was experiencing.

She had previously tapped on the pain in her knee to no avail. She had been to the doctor and tests had been carried out to see what was wrong. These tests had been unable to find a physical problem, yet she was in pain as if her knee cap was not fixed in place. Surgery had even been mentioned as an option to treat he problem.

Normal practice in EFT is to question the client and ask the usual set of questions such as, “What was happening in your life when this began?” - good question- she answered, “nothing”

In fact she put the problem down to her playing golf. Another question asked was “what emotions do you have around playing golf” her answer was, “a little frustrated”.

It became obvious quite soon that questioning the client directly was not really getting that far. So, we decided to address the knee directly.

She was asked to tap on the karate point and then told to ask her knee, “What does it need to communicate to allow the knee to heal?”

She went quiet as she tapped and went inside to ask the question. After a few moments her head popped up and she smiled and said, “it said it is fed up of supporting me”.

Questioning the knee further it was obvious the pain was connected to her not being able to ask for help off anyone. The group then tapped on this theme for the client. The pain subsided to next to nothing. She was able to walk around the room as her previous limp subsided. In fact she said that the last time the pain had gone like that, was when she had been given a cortisone injection.

The pain stayed away most of the evening and only returned later when she was experiencing some big emotions related to what was happening in her life.

The interesting points to note is that the pain went for several hours- this was an unusual experience for her

Also the team of people working on the problem did not tap out the underlying emotion issues which the exploration of the problem had highlighted but merely stated a process. In my opinion there is far more work to be done in order to clear the emotional roots. For one thing she needs to get past the block that stops her asking for help.

Since that point she has started tapping and communicating with the symptom in the knee and being guided by that communication as to what to tap on.

The publication goes on sale at the end of this week.

I am taking them down to the EFT Masterclass in London conference, which is on the 11/12th of October,  they should be on sale there for anyone who wants to buy them. They cover a zast range of subjects from binge eating to being stuck career wise, procrastination and fear of public speaking. 

All the best,

Tania

I think it is really important to have high standards especially in the training of a powerful technique such as EFT. All three of us are very passionate about helping get EFT out to the world and therefore setting high standards in the training of EFT has been essential in order to help achieve this. Although EFT is a simple technique, there is an absolute art and skill to using it effectively.

Now after a year of doing that, it is time to move on. I think it has been an interesting if not time consuming experience, challenging as well. Now I want to focus on other things in my life as do my two colleagues.

I wish the new committee luck with their new venture.

 All the best,

Tania

Tania A Prince, EFT Master

I recently worked with Ruth over the phone dealing with her snake phobia using EFT. Ruth kindly agreed to allow the session to be recorded and gave permission for others to be able to listen to that recording.

Below is the follow up interview I did with Ruth. When using any form of therapy it is important to really test the results.

If anyone is interested in listening to the EFT therapy session itself, please drop me an email.

All the best,

Tania

The following quote is from a lady who attended my recent EFT Level 1 training.

“……my desire for chocolate has settled to a hot chocolate at Starbucks with friends rather than the frenzied chocolate eating habits of a woman possessed…….”

Umm….

How did we get at the deep underlying issues that created the “woman possessed” behaviour/ Simple I asked, “if I said you can’t have that chocolate, what happens?”

She said that she felt like a little kid and wanted to throw a tantrum. I asked, “and what age is that little kid?”

This took us right down to the issues we needed to clear in order to help her have a choice as to whether she really wanted to eat the chocolate or not.