Just an update on the conference. Take a peek at the conference venue. Talk about the Law of Attraction- Early October 2008, I announced at the EFT Masterclass 2008 that I would organise the 2009 event. I knew then I wanted the venue to be really close to where I live- what can I say, I like the area:-)

Within a week I drove past a hotel in the village I live in near to Manchester Airport and felt compelled to drive in and ask them about their conferencing facilities.

They told me they where having a new conference centre built and took me to see the footings- hence the picture. I knew then that was where I was going to have the event. So after much negotiation and getting expert advice from some colleagues, the contracts were signed in April.

To look at the programme for the Masterclass. We have loads of presentations by an international array of EFT’ers. There are presentations by EFT Masters Gwyneth Moss, Ann Ross, Andy Bryce, Tam Llewellyn- Edwards, Mair Llewellyn, Jaqui Crookes, Emma Roberts, Sue Beer, Judy Byrne and myself.

We have Tapas Fleming developer of TAT and Grant Connolly developer of Z Point Process giving special demonstrations of their processes.

We also have a guest presenters from the world of EFT, including a rare European appearance of Robert Smith (FasterEFT) and many more.

Anyone who does book onto the event before the 31st of August will receive free ebooks.

I am getting back to working on producing some PowerPoint’s for the Deep State RePatterning process.

All the best,

Tania

Receiving a cancer diagnosis and then going through the treatment programme can be highly traumatic and draining to the system. EFT can be a tremendous help in getting your life back on track and getting your body back into balance. Below is the Pauline’s account of how EFT helped her. This account is not edited. Pauline has given permission to put her name to what is written below.

Pauline’s Story

On a spur of the moment decision I booked onto the Level 1 EFT course in Manchester, led by Tania Prince.

Two weeks previously I had completed Radiotherapy treatment for Breast Cancer. I had been feeling increasingly more fatigued during those two weeks and my skin in the treatment area was inflamed and sore. I had been given a good prognosis as the cancer was picked up at an early stage and the medical treatment I had received had been excellent. However, I had had six months of feeling cut off from my life, in fact
I felt plunged into another reality altogether…. and actually, I still couldn’t believe I had CANCER.
I am a counsellor with ten years experience in the NHS, well able to take care of myself, or so I thought. I am accustomed to accessing personal therapy when I have needed it in the past but had not sought any therapy during my period of illness.
When I booked on the course I still felt so tired I didn’t even know if I could cope with a full days training! Friends and family were saying, “WHAT, you’re going on a training course?” They had all seen the listless, tired creature I had been over the past few weeks and could not see how I would have the stamina. However they all said, once they were over the shock, “Brilliant, might be just what you need.”
So I arrived on the course feeling fragile but keen to experience what I could, maybe learn some more about EFT to use for me, and maybe, just maybe think about using EFT with clients.
Tania was immediately warm and welcoming, down to earth, and funny. She was also clearly a highly skilled and experienced therapist. I started to learn, and for the first time in six months I connected with the part of me that can help others. That was such a good feeling, a bit like meeting up with a dear and valued old friend I hadn’t seen for a long time!
I shared with the group when we introduced ourselves that I had been diagnosed with cancer and had just completed my treatment. Then as we started to work together I realised that I felt safe enough in the group to work on my own issues. I began to work on my anxieties about returning to work, a source of some quite intense feelings over the past few months. Each time I thought about work, even the building itself, I was aware of a strong negative sensation. Being told I had cancer and subsequently leaving work very suddenly had led me to feel disconnected with my life and coupled with the shock of the diagnosis I had spent the last few months feeling as if I had been dumped into an alternative reality in which I had little or no control.
By the end of the first day I felt excited and wanted to know more about EFT and find out whether I could continue the process I had started of freeing myself from some of the trauma of the last six months.
Still feeling the radiotherapy fatigue, I arranged to come back the next day (for the
Level 2 course) if I felt up to it!
I did go back and completed level 2 over the next 2 days
By the time I had completed three days training I felt a different energy emerging in me, like the “old” me but different. I felt literally freed up from the trauma of the cancer diagnosis and all the accompanying difficulties, so much so I was able to make plans for the future and carry them through in a way I had been completely unable to do before the course. I had been emotionally stuck in the events of the last six months but I am now able to look ahead with a greater degree of positivism than I have had for a very long time. The radiotherapy fatigue is slowly improving and the skin damage from the radiotherapy has all but gone. I feel more confident in my abilities and excited about the future. I intend to learn more about EFT and energy therapies in general with a view to offering this way of working to clients. But perhaps more importantly I have got back in touch with my personal resources and energies in a very real sense and this has helped me enormously in my ongoing recovery from the emotional impact of the cancer.

One of my plans is now to develop my skills with EFT and to offer it to others who have had cancer and who may feel stuck in the emotional trauma of the diagnosis and treatment. Happily many more people survive cancer than ever before but it is still a life threatening disease and the journey through it is frightening, depressing and ultimately challenges us to the core. Alongside other therapies I hope EFT will come to be recognised as a major tool in this particular arena as well as in many others.

Pauline S

May 2009

All the best,

Tania

The EFT Masterclass Conference is now live. Finally after months of background work the bookings are open. I am really excited at the line up of presentations we have at the conference this year. I love innovation, we certainly have that!

Tapas Fleming the developer of TAT is our special guest. She is going to demonstrate TAT to the conference attendees and as a special bonus to the conference will run a pre- workshop TAT Basics workshop.

Amongst our many guests we have Andy Bryce, a Canadian EFT Master. This is the first time that Andy will be presenting at the conference. He is doing a very topical presentation: “Raising above the Downturn with EFT”, this is going to be a very interactive presentation.

We also have Robert Smith over from the USA. This is a rare opportunity to see Robert’s work, “FasterEFT” live. To catch Robert on youtube follow this link.

I, myself am going to be demonstration how to clear the legacy passed onto us from our ancestors- (I might perhaps add- the legacy you had rather they had not passed on),this is a part of the Deep State RePatterning process that I developed.

I am going to add here, you do not need to have any experience of EFT to come to this event- you can learn as you go or alternatively attend the EFT Basics- FASTRACK workshop. This is an event for new and experienced EFT’ers.

The Masterclass Website is www.eftmasterclass2009.com The conference will be near Manchester in England.

By the way if you are interested in attending you might like to book soon and take advantage of the early booking discount.

 All the best,

Tania

This is a follow on from: The Beginners Guide to EFT: Part 1

In the first part of this series we looked at how to tap; where to tap and how to combine that with words.

In The Beginners Guide to EFT: Part 2, we looked at the structure of the set-up phrase and how we find the reminder phrase:

This is a complex area. EFT has moved on dramatically since it was first developed and with its evolution has come a blossoming out in the way language is used. For this simple guide I am (at least initially) going to focus on the most simple type of wording that can be used.

The most simple way to address any issue with EFT is to find the words that represent “the problem”. (More complex versions of EFT use words that represent the problem but also use positive wording)

 Part 1 used the phrase “the problem” to represent your issue. In reality we actually used the words that truly represent the problem, such as:

If a person has a headache and they are experiencing a “tight band of pain across the front of the head” then the words used would be:

Set Up

“Even though I have this tight band of pain across the front of the head, I completely and totally love and approve of myself”

The reminder phrase are the words that you say as you tap on each acupoint. In this example the phrase would be:

 ”this tight band of pain across the front of the head”

This phrase would be repeated as you tap on each point as follows;

Eyebrow Point: “this tight band of pain across the front of the head”

Side of the Eye Point: “this tight band of pain across the front of the head”

Under the Eye Point: “this tight band of pain across the front of the head”

Etc

Another example:

Person who feels nervous at the thought of standing in front of an audience. They know they are nervous because of a jittery, butterfly feeling in their stomach.

EFT could be set up as follows:

Karate Point: “So even though I have this nervous jittery feeling in my stomach when I think about standing in front of an audience, I completely and totally love and approve of myself”.

“this nervous jittery feeling in my stomach when I think about standing in front of an audience” would be the reminder phrase.

Generally the more specific you are the better the results you will achieve with EFT.  So get specific with your words.

All the best,

Tania

Since this issue came up at a recent EFT Training course that I ran, I thought it might be useful to post on this point.

Clearing the blocks that can stop EFT working is crucial if you want to get results. Dehydration is a common block, one that can generally be simply rectified by just drinking water.

A less obvious block is being unclear about the EFT process itself. I have often seen people block EFT because they fear that if they focus on “the problem”  and keep repeating the words that represent the problem,  they are somehow embedding it and making the problem worse. They mistakenly think that repeating the words that represent their problem is the same as repeatedly stating an affirmation.

The truth is that it isn’t the same. In EFT we tune into the problem by using the words that represent the issue and then we tap on different acupoints on the body and re-balance the energy. When this is done a person could say the same words that represent their problem but would find now that those words no longer resonate with them, they are just words. Effectively speaking the power has been taken from the words.  

Understanding and accepting that EFTs focus on the problem is not embedding it but is in fact taking the power away from it, can clear this block to EFT working. 

 All the best,

Tania

Deep State RePatterning (DSR) is an approach that I developed based on EFT, NLP, Inner Child Work amongst other things.

One of the interesting points about Deep State RePatterning is that you do not need to feel the emotion to use this approach. In fact Deep State RePatterning works by viewing the event from the past (that is the cause) related to your current issue on a screen. This effectively dissociates you from the experience. The person on the screen is treated as separate to you. Also because the person is on a screen you can move it further away or closer and thus have a lot of control over remaining calm and at peace whilst using this approach (Other simple strategies are used alongside this to help maintain tranquility). Because of this you can work with events that were very emotionally intense.

So what are the benefits in working this way?

There are lots; one is that you do not need to feel the emotions as I said before. Another is that generally you can SEE the changes occurring in front of you (you don’t have to be good at visualising to use this approach). So therefore you can map your progress.

Another great benefit is that it allows you to get at the hidden, unconscious stuff going on. Why would that occur? Well in Deep State RePatterning as in NLP parts work we can talk with the part. This actually results in bypassing the conscious mind. The answers can often be totally enlightening. Clients often preface it by saying, “this may seem totally ridiculous, but this is what I am getting” (or words similar to this). Dealing with the  stuff that lies beyond our conscious awareness can be an extremely powerful way of getting results.

You can find out more about the Deep State RePatterning: Energy Practitioner course and also listen to an interview with one of the attendees

She talks about how in a 15 minute session with DSR, she cleared her panic issue but also felt she discovered who is. Since the training she has noticed she has become very intuitive.

All the best,

Tania

My next AAMET certified EFT Training courses in Manchester, England will be on the 8th (level 1), 9/10th Level 2.

If anyone is interested in attending they can find out more about the EFT courses from my website.

All the best,

Tania

Whilst in the mood I just thought I would write something for my blog.

LOA (Law of Attraction) is a fascinating subject and I am guessing with all that is happening in the world at this point in time a subject that many people want to master.

I think a great way to begin to attract into your life what you want, is to ask yourself what will having this do for me?
For example is you are wanting more money, what will having more money do for you?
Typical examples might be:

It will make me feel safe
It will make me feel free
etc

Once you have this list ask yourself using the above example, what stops me feeling safe now?

This will give you a list of tappable issues. Clear them using the EFT and see what happens to your ability to attract money.

Of course you could also use the TAT technique on this.

All the best,
Tania

I started my first business at 22 years of age and have run businesses continually since that point.

From a Law of Attraction point of view it is very difficult to draw success to you when you are in survival mode wondering how you are going to get the pennies for the next meal. It is so much easier to get stability financially and then create the mindset to move into EFT.

It has also been my experience that most successful people don’t just put themselves into a positive state of mind, they take action in some form, whether that is marketing such writing articles, social networking etc

I think it is crucial to use techniques such as EFT to help move into a mindset which is conflict free in order to run a successful EFT Business. The less conflict you have internally about running the business the more smoothly in my experience things begin to happen in a positive way. In fact sometimes it is just amazing what opportunities present themselves when you clear blocks.

What type of conflicts might you need to tap out. There are many possibilities, these include;

• Your family, are they supportive of what you are doing? If they are not you may need to tap on the emotions you have around this, until you are at a place of peace concerning this issue.
• Are you desperate to be successful? If you are, this is a block. Things happen more easily when you are focussed and at peace about it. Desperation can be tapped out.
• When you think of the therapy you want to practice, do you think others will think it is wacky, strange etc. Tap this out until you are emotionally at peace about this. When you are emotionally at peace about it, you will find it easier to put across to people the benefits of that therapy in a way that interests people. If you don’t tap these emotions out people will pick up on it at a subconscious level.
• When you think of yourself running your therapy business do you have concerns about clients thinking you are not worth the money they are spending? I have worked with many potential therapists who have visualized their clients not happy with their work. This fear is something that needs to be tapped out.

The consequences of having this fear can lead to either not starting the business at all, feeling the need to keep studying and studying and studying and never quite reaching a point where you feel you know enough, or it can lead to charging very little for the services you offer.

• Is your mind focussed on the “competition”? Many therapists I have met focus so much on what the other therapists are doing and get into a mindset of thinking that because the other person works in certain areas that they cannot do that.  This puts you into a mindset of lack, “there is not enough to go around”. This again is something that needs to be tapped out until you are at peace about it. Ideally you need to be focused on what you are doing and feeling inspired and good about that.
• When you think of marketing your therapy practice do you feel uncomfortable? These are issues that you can tap out with EFT. You are never going to fully commit to promoting your business if you feel uncomfortable doing so.

I am running a course dealing with clearing the blocks to running a successful therapy practice on the 5th of April in central Manchester. It will also cover some simple marketing strategies.

All the best,

Tania