Elegant Smut

Wordless, self-gagged

Sapphire J — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 10:14:20 +0000

When I do not have the words, I look for those of someone else to assist me. Below is a song by a group I’ve never heard of. I don’t even know the melody. On a freebasing search across the internet, I stumbled across it somehow, and it resonated with me, very deeply. In a way, it [...]

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Release and Relief

Sapphire J — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 09:14:07 +0000

Update! Fleshbotted by the lovely Always Aroused Girl, who, I daresay, was kept aroused by tales of my squirtage and so forth. Heh. Thanks babe! Much of my time spent in the company of the Big Bad Feline is intense and wonderful. Well, all of the time spent with him is wonderful, but it’s the intensity upon [...]

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Sugasm 173

Sapphire J — Wed, 23 Sep 2009 06:25:17 +0000

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #174? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s Picks Dressing Room Voyeur “I [...]

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Such a pervert

Sapphire J — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 12:16:47 +0000

I am *such* a pervert. You wouldn’t believe it. I certainly can’t. It just never seems to properly sink in. No matter what I do, or what I write — not just here but on Twitter, Fetlife, and various local sites, no matter where or what I write or discuss, the reality of the depth to which my various [...]

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Sugasm 170

Sapphire J — Wed, 05 Aug 2009 08:59:07 +0000

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #171? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s Picks The fundamental things [...]

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Attention slut in subspace

Sapphire J — Fri, 31 Jul 2009 04:05:20 +0000

(That title sounds like a punctuation challenge — something like “eats, shoots and leaves” — don’t you think, gentle reader?) Ahem. Yesterday I attended my first play party. Yes, my first. Forty fucking years old and while unarguably more than adequately experienced in the delights and possibilities of the varied and more notably BDSM-oriented ways of the bedroom, [...]

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Knee-wobbling moment

Sapphire J — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 13:10:00 +0000

Introducing a new category to my already overly-populated list, not to mention a couple of new tags that take my fancy. This is the first of what I hope will be a recurring section when i have a knee-wobbly moment, and feel the urge to document it. Remember when that was what blogging was all about? [...]

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On perception and absolutes

Sapphire J — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 09:44:22 +0000

Driving to work, early morning, and the bright Spring sun dazzles her. At first she shades her eyes with her hand, then, realising the impracticality of doing this and continuing to drive, she pulls down the eye-shade, and suddenly and oddly surprisingly, her world is transformed. The traffic signal ahead remains the same steadfast red [...]

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Give me one

Sapphire J — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 08:58:40 +0000

“Give me one,” he says to me. I am lying spread across the bed, arms and legs secured akimbo, a warm muffler as a blindfold across my eyes. He is half-sitting and half-lying on and over me, stroking my skin, pinching me and flicking me, mini-slapping me with various pervertible slappy devices (beer mat, bookmark, bouncy rubber [...]

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Sugasm 169 — Editor’s Choice!

Sapphire J — Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:28:50 +0000

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants — and the Editor’s Choice which this week is “Belonging” — my piece about the connection of BDSM and love that I have to Purrrrvert. Thanks, Editor — we’re both very touched that [...]

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