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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" gd:etag="W/&quot;D08DRHo5fyp7ImA9WxNUGEs.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-194600066391868656</id><updated>2009-11-10T07:11:15.427-08:00</updated><title>Emotions for Engineers</title><subtitle type="html">The language and understanding of emotions are foreign to many who are trained in logic and objectivity. I am including topics that would have helped me if I had understood them earlier in my life. I hope to demystify this language by putting it into a context, words, and displays that an engineer would understand. My hope in this is that the reader gains insights that have a positive impact on his or her life.</subtitle><link rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/feeds/posts/default" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/" /><link rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><link rel="next" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/194600066391868656/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false&amp;v=2" /><author><name>Tony Kenck</name><email>kenckar@gmail.com</email></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>45</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><link rel="self" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/EmotionsForEngineers" type="application/atom+xml" /><feedburner:emailServiceId>EmotionsForEngineers</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname>http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" /><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkEGR387eCp7ImA9WxNVFUw.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-194600066391868656.post-5044667067721629080</id><published>2009-10-25T14:43:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2009-10-25T15:43:46.100-07:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-25T15:43:46.100-07:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="diet" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Physical" /><title>Which Vitamin D Test to Get? 25-hydroxy-vitamin D!</title><content type="html">Swine flu and seasonal flu are in the air. We're close to panic season now. At work, more than 1500 people showed up in one day to get flu shots. They had to turn people away.&lt;br /&gt;
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Some of my family members recently had flu-like symptoms for several days, then recovered. A family doctor said it was in all likelihood the swine flu. I didn't get (some really minor feverishness, followed by a nap and all was ok).&lt;br /&gt;
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There is evidence that sufficient blood levels of Vitamin D is protective against colds, flu, and even cancer. &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2009/04/is-vitamin-d-silver-bullet.html" target="_blank"&gt;Read about Vitamin D here.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;Also &lt;a href="http://www.grassrootshealth.net/"&gt;Grassroots Health&lt;/a&gt; is an excellent resource.&lt;br /&gt;
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When I went to my doctor in the spring, he ordered a vitamin D test, but it was not the "right" one, so I had him change it.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;em&gt;For the record, you should get a 25-hydroxy-vitamin d test, and the results should be 50–80 nanograms per milliliter (ng/mL) or 125–200 nanomoles per liter (nM/l) year-round.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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If you are below that range, consider supplementation with Vitamin D3 (cholecalciferol), not D2 (ergocalciferol). &lt;a href="http://www.ajcn.org/cgi/content/full/84/4/694" target="_blank"&gt;It makes a difference&lt;/a&gt;, although there is &lt;a href="http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/01/080102122306.htm" target="_blank"&gt;some controversy&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;Some claim that oil based caplets offer more reliable absorption than dry pills.&lt;br /&gt;
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Many people like the Carlson Gelcaps.&lt;br /&gt;
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I use &lt;a href="http://www.costco.com/Browse/Product.aspx?Prodid=11467951&amp;amp;search=vitamin%20d3&amp;amp;Mo=5&amp;amp;cm_re=1_en-_-Top_Left_Nav-_-Top_search&amp;amp;lang=en-US&amp;amp;Nr=P_CatalogName:BC&amp;amp;Sp=S&amp;amp;N=5000043&amp;amp;whse=BC&amp;amp;Dx=mode+matchallpartial&amp;amp;Ntk=Text_Search&amp;amp;Dr=P_CatalogName:BC&amp;amp;Ne=4000000&amp;amp;D=vitamin%20d3&amp;amp;Ntt=vitamin%20d3&amp;amp;No=2&amp;amp;Ntx=mode+matchallpartial&amp;amp;Nty=1&amp;amp;topnav=&amp;amp;s=1"&gt;Costco&lt;/a&gt; myself.&lt;br /&gt;
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An excellent overall resource to learn about Vitamin D is the &lt;a href="http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/" target="_blank"&gt;Vitamin D Council&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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If you have trouble with your doctor, you can get a &lt;a href="http://www.grassrootshealth.net/"&gt;mail-order vitamin d tes&lt;/a&gt;t.&lt;br /&gt;
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While you're at it, you might consider &lt;a href="http://wholehealthsource.blogspot.com/2009/03/latest-study-on-vitamin-k-and-coronary.html" target="_blank"&gt;Vitamin K2&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;levels as well...&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;&lt;a href="http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m0ISW/is_280/ai_n16865219/" target="_blank"&gt;What Blood Test Should I Have?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
from an article by John Cannell&lt;br /&gt;
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"The only blood test that can determine vitamin D adequacy is a 25-hydroxy-vitamin D. Whenever I say "vitamin D level," I'm talking about a &lt;b&gt;25-hydroxy-vitamin D&lt;/b&gt;. Ask your doctor to order a 25-hydroxy-vitamin D blood test. Unfortunately, many doctors order an "activated vitamin D" level, thinking it better to measure the most active form of vitamin D. It is not. Activated vitamin D, also known as 1,25-di-hydroxy-vitamin D or calcitriol, should never be obtained to determine vitamin D sufficiency. Calcitriol is often elevated in vitamin D deficiency. You cannot tell anything about your vitamin D nutrition by measuring a calcitriol level. If your doctor insists on ordering a calcitriol level to determine your vitamin D nutrition, find another doctor."&lt;br /&gt;
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"(Although 1,25 dihydroxy-vitamin D (calcitriol) should never be used to diagnose vitamin D deficiency, calcitriol is important in evaluating one cause of high blood calcium, called vitamin D hypersensitivity. High blood calcium rarely occurs due to vitamin D toxicity, but calcium is elevated in people who have vitamin D hypersensitivity, although their vitamin D level will be normal or even low. Primary hyperparathyroidism is a common cause of vitamin D hypersensitivity, as is sarcoidosis and other granulomatous diseases. It can occasionally occur in cancer; about 20% of patients with non-Hodgkin's lymphoma have vitamin D hypersensitivity. Any competent endocrinologist can treat vitamin D hypersensitivity.)"&lt;br /&gt;
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"However, serious problems exist with the technology used by some laboratories to measure vitamin D levels. Different labs will report different results when given the exact same specimen of blood. Furthermore, the same lab often reports significantly different numbers when sent the same specimen of blood at different times. In general, low numbers are more reliable than high numbers because interfering substances can easily give falsely elevated results. Prominent scientists have issued urgent calls for standardization. ...&lt;br /&gt;
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"If you take ergocalciferol, or "vegetarian" vitamin D, be warned. Ergocalciferol is not vitamin D, but a vitamin D-like patent drug whose patent has expired. It does not normally occur in the human body and is probably a weak agonist at the receptor site, meaning it may actually partially block vitamin D actions. Ergocalciferol is the villain in most of the reported cases of toxicity in the world's literature. All bets are off in terms of measuring blood levels if you take ergocalciferol. Some of the labs can pick it up, and some can't. Don't take ergocalciferol; it is not vitamin D."&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-5044667067721629080?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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That wakeup call led to a much deeper understanding of metabolism and hte biochemistry of the body.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I recently had a minor recurrence of gout and it followed a similar pattern to what happened in 2007, so I did more research on it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Pattern&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I noticed in mid-2007, that the day after a really hard workout, usually a leg workout, my feet hurt--not badly though. It almost felt as if I had a bone a little out of joint or something. I attributed it to something about the way I was doing my calf raises. When I had the bad gout in November of 2007, it was after a leg workout, and as it got worse, I thought it was related to an infection on my foot. Finally, it just went away on its own and my podiatrist told me it was probably gout.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have had a few very minor cases since then, each time it went away after a day or two, So last week, after a leg workout, my foot hurt. It was just a little bit, and I thought that it was related to a splinter oro something I had inthe ball of my foot (my feet are a mess). But then it got worse, and I realized that it was the onset of gout. Again, it was following exercise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Findings&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, it is generally accepted that gout is caused by the formation of crystals of uric acid in the joints. It usually expresses itself in the foot. The crystals form when the blood concentration of uric acid reaches a high level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For a long time, the standard cure was lay off organ meats and red wine, because those contain purines (of which uric acid is a by-product). The problem is that I was not eating organ meat, and I wasn't drinking &lt;strong&gt;that&lt;/strong&gt; much red wine. So the standard advice was useless for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I have found a number of interesting things about the acumulation of uric acid in the blood.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Under normal conditions, uric acid is pulled out of the blood and excreted in urine. However, there are some situations that can cause an imbalance and lead to higher levels of uric acid. According to Cordain, the problem in 90% of gout cases is that people underexcrete, not overgenerate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Production&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. +Uric acid production - fructose and alcohol both increase uric acid production in the liver.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Excretion&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. - Lactic acid, as can be generated by strenuous &lt;a href="http://www.cababstractsplus.org/abstracts/Abstract.aspx?AcNo=19941406715" target="_blank"&gt;exercise &lt;/a&gt;, fructose (e.g. from high fructose corn syrup (HFCS)), or alcohol consumption, &lt;a href="http://www.jbc.org/cgi/reprint/110/1/107.pdf" target="_blank"&gt;reduces the excretion of uric acid&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;2. - Insulin in the bloodstream, as from high glycemic foods&lt;br /&gt;3. - Dehydration/lack of proper hydration can inhibit excretion of uric acid&lt;br /&gt;4. - &lt;a href="http://www.jbc.org/cgi/reprint/66/2/521.pdf" target="_blank"&gt;Fasting &lt;/a&gt;or a starvation diet inhibits uric acid excretion&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Neutral Effect&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. +/-High purine foods (organ meat, seafood, protein) increase uric acid production and stimulate excretion. Net effect is very low.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Conclusions:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. The standard medical advice, stop eating purine containing foods and drinking red wine, are not well supported by research. Purine foods have only a minor impact on uric acid and red wine is part of the larger alcohol problem.&lt;br /&gt;2. Sucrose and HFCS have a triple whammy effect on uric acid levels. They increase production, inhibit excretion through both lactic acid and insulin pathways.&lt;br /&gt;3. Alcohol is only a double whammy (increase prodiuction and lactic acid).&lt;br /&gt;4. Strenuous exercise can inhibit excetion of uric acid via the lactic acid pathway.&lt;br /&gt;5. Lack of sufficient water and nutrients can inhibit excretion of uric acid.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;E4E Recommendations&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you find yourself with excruciating pain in your feet, see a doctor. He can make the gout diagnosis. He will likely give you a list of foods to avoid and a prescription for &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Indometacin" target="_blank"&gt;pain killers &lt;/a&gt;and/or &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allopurinol" target="_blank"&gt;allopurinol&lt;/a&gt; for treatment of chronic gout. Gout is really painful and this will help get you through any acute crisis.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since allopurinol was instituted as a cure for gout, little research has been done on prevention through other means. Allopurinol works well for many people. However, in my view, behavioral, interventions are always better than chemical (if they work of course).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So longer term, reduce consumption of fructose, especially in the form of sucrose (table sugar) and HFCS, and reduce alcohol consumption. If you feel gout symptoms coming on, reduce exercise intensity, make sure you are well hydrated, and eat at maintenance calories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Some References&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cordain on &lt;a href="http://www.jbc.org/cgi/reprint/110/1/107.pdf" target="_blank"&gt;Gout&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taubes on &lt;a href="http://blog.zeroinginonhealth.com/?p=938" target="_blank"&gt;Gout&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Lustig from UCSF video about &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/ldgu9k" target="_blank"&gt;fructose&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.goutpal.com/remedies-for-gout.html" target="_blank"&gt;Gout website&lt;/a&gt; with some folk or popular remedies&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-1900018940984534569?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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She recently had a &lt;a href="http://www.chicagotribune.com/features/columnists/chi-0728-ask-amyjul28,0,7819761.column"&gt;letter from a guy whose wife had an affair some years earlier&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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The gist of it is that he caught her, they have rebuilt their relationship, etc. But something bugged him. She had done things for her lover, sexually, that she would not and still does not do with her husband. Amy's response was that he should romance his wife, without any explicit quid pro quo implied, get them out of their various ruts (bills kids, or whatever), and maybe the wife would come around. She ended by saying, " This could prompt both of you to begin a welcome new phase of your marriage."&lt;br /&gt;
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In my opinion, this is weak.  I'll explain why in a minute.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/08/11/AR2009081101786_2.html"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
There was a follow-up letter from a woman's perspective.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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It said in part&lt;br /&gt;
"&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;An affair is an illicit and temporary relationship in which the participants can be different people than they are in their daily lives: This includes trying different things and being more comfortable doing them.&lt;/span&gt;      &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; I can tell you my husband would be shocked if I behaved with him the way I behaved with my lover. But I enjoyed every minute, and I am glad I got to be so free for a brief time.--Been There&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
To Which Amy Responded:&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;DEAR BEEN THERE: It is a shame that you don't feel free to be yourself and try new things in your own marriage. If you learned nothing else from your affair, surely you could take this lesson back home."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
I think this was a better answer from Amy. unless "Been There's" husband is unadventurous, he might actually welcome the variety. But if he is unadventurous, perhaps Been There was fine with her response. She apparently has some needs that are not being fulfilled by her husband, and she should ask for them from him.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;E4E Take On This&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
First I want to review a few things.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Definition of Love:&lt;/span&gt; Remember that love has two phases. In the &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/nature-of-love-part-1-falling-in-love.html"&gt;first one&lt;/a&gt;, love is a feeling. Your hormones and enzymes go into overdrive and turn into an overpowering sense of love that prompts acts of selflessness. The recipient receives these acts as indicative of love.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
In the &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/nature-of-love-part-2-staying-in-love.html"&gt;second phase of love&lt;/a&gt;, the overpowering feeling is gone. Your hormones are back to normal. Sure you feel fondness, loyalty, call it love if you want. But it's different. M. Scott Peck in the &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0743243153?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=390957&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0743243153"&gt;The Road Less Traveled&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0743243153" style="border: medium none ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" width="1" /&gt; says that this is inevitable. The idealistic side of me doesn't want to believe that, but...&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
The second phase of love, is not the overpowering feeling. Rather, it's a mature conscious commitment to acts of love for your spouse. It's not about feeling; it's about doing. It is your choice.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
You may also recall the posts I wrote on &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/08/emotional-needs-in-relationship.html"&gt;Emotional Needs in a Relationship&lt;/a&gt;. It lays out the needs in a few ways, but I personally like the one put together by Steve Harley of &lt;a href="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/"&gt;MarriageBuilders&lt;/a&gt;. There is a list of 10 needs, and in his experience, the normal breakdown by sex is shown below.&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Men:&lt;/span&gt; Sexual Fulfillment, Recreational companionship, Domestic support, Ph&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;ysical attraction, and Admiration&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Women:&lt;/span&gt; Conversation, Affection, Financial support, Honesty and Openness, Family commitment&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
So this is the framework in which to evaluate this question to Amy. So first, about the affair. Amy had it at least partly right when talking about the hum drum bill-paying stuff. It's just not exciting. Wife probably was in phase 2 of love and was wondering why she didn't love her dear hubby (DH) anymore. She just wasn't feeling, it. ...then along comes Prince Charming (Prince). She felt this overpowering surge of phase 1 love, with its flood of hormones. Prince, who was more experienced and aggressive than (DH), suggests she &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pole_dance"&gt;pole dance&lt;/a&gt; (or whatever) for him and she gets caught up in the spirit and does it for him--presumably the first time she has done that.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
So far, so good. I don't know anything about the marriage, what DH's role w&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;as in the disintegration of it, etc, but this seems like a pretty common set of circumstances. After that is where Amy loses it. She says he should just be nice to her, then maybe she will come around.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SpD_VyyEivI/AAAAAAAAAM0/sg2X7IV1Q8M/s1600-h/gifts2.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5373075105327123186" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SpD_VyyEivI/AAAAAAAAAM0/sg2X7IV1Q8M/s320/gifts2.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; float: right; height: 320px; margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; width: 302px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;Let's recap graphically.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: 100%; font-style: italic;"&gt;Now consider a similar scenario.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;Hubbie goes out and has an affair with his secretary. He buys her flowers every week and gifts, while at the same time complaining at home about not having enough money (he was never much of a gift-giver anyway). Now that the affair is over, he still won't buy his wife gifts.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Here's how it looks graphically,&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
The wife writes a letter to Amy who says, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Here's what you should do. Give&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; him staggering, mind-blowing sex as if he were your&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; forbidden lover. Do anything he asks for (and some things he doesn't) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;with no stated "quid pro quo," but just because you want to treat him differently. This could prompt both of you to begin a welcome new phase of your marriage."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
It's pretty much an idiotic answer. The positive is that it focuses on what the wronged person can do to help set things right and is ok as far as it goes. DH should be giving his wife what she needs.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
However, Amy is suggesting that DH grovel to the person who violated her marital vows, in hopes that she will actually fulfill her vows by satisfying his emotional needs. Again, I do not know what stuff he did over the years to set up the conditions precedent in which the wife cheated, but by not giving him the full measure of her abilities as a lover, which he apparently desires, she is withholding love.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Wife should give DH what he needs. She is fully capable of pole dancing, yet she refuses to do it for the one man in the world for whom she absolutely should. I can't imagine an act more disrespectful of her husband or her marriage, unless she were to pole dance  again for someone else.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
She is in a marriage in which she is content (she's probably fond of DH and what sahe gets from him), but unwilling to love him in return. How long will he take that treatment?&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;Edit: Nov 1, 2009 - I have been thinking about this a bit and want to restate the issue that the woman in the drama has. Above I said, "...she refuses to do it for the one man in the world..." In line with the idea that we have limited free will, I think a better characterization of the issue is that when she met Prince and her hormones were screaming, it pushed her to be able to do things that she would otherwise be ashamed to do. When she was back with poor DH her hormones were back to normal and her &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/06/shame-and-guilt.html"&gt;shame&lt;/a&gt; overrode her hormones and her husband's needs.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;Shame can be a healthy emotion, it prevents us from doing things that would truly shake up society. That is not likely the case here. Her pole-dancing would remain only between her and DH, so to be charitable, I will assume that she is not consciously withholding her skills from DH, but rather feels terribly ashamed about it. I think the answer is the same. She should get past it and become able to love her husband.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Another (perhaps offensive) View&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Finally, another blog picked up on this letter and absolutely raked Amy (and the husband) across the coals. Before I give you the link on this one though, I have a few disclaimers. It is a very male oriented blog that usually gets way nasty in its opinions about women. It endorses very dominant (alpha as opposed to beta) male behavior. I do not condone or endorse either the opinions or the way they are voiced. It is an interesting perspective, which if communicated differently, in some cases has some merit. You are likely to be offended by many of the viewpoints there. In any case, it seems to have a lot of people enthusiastic as evidenced by hundreds of comments on every blog post.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
The column that I am linking to explains a rationale for making the husband in the first letter the beta of the month for July. He is candidate number 2.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
In a nutshell, he says that Confused Husband is a candidate for &lt;a href="http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/08/07/july-2009-beta-of-the-month/"&gt;beta of the month&lt;/a&gt; for not a.) insisting that she give him what she gave her lover or b.) sending her packing.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: 100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;What Am I Missing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Does my analysis make sense? Is the analogy good?&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Assuming DH still wants the "treatment," is there &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;any&lt;/span&gt; good excuse for the wife not to give it?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-9005925994542898702?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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Causation arrows are not always clear, and sometimes two factors that correlate to each other are actually caused by a third factor.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My favorite example of correlation not proving causation is that it is not appropriate to say that firemen cause fires because every time there's a fire there are firemen there.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Correlation is expressed as a decimal between -1 and 1.&lt;br /&gt;1 is a perfect positive correlation. An increase in one variable yields a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;proportionate&lt;/span&gt; increase in another one.&lt;br /&gt;-1 is a perfect negative correlation. An increase in one variable yields a &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;proportionate&lt;/span&gt; decrease in &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;another&lt;/span&gt; one.&lt;br /&gt;0 is no correlation. A change in one variable has no relation to changes in another one.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tom &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Naughton&lt;/span&gt;, who made the movie &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B001NRY6R2?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=1789&amp;amp;creative=390957&amp;amp;creativeASIN=B001NRY6R2" target="_blank"&gt;Fat Head&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img style="BORDER-RIGHT: medium none; BORDER-TOP: medium none; MARGIN: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: medium none; BORDER-BOTTOM: medium none" height="1" alt="" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=B001NRY6R2" width="1" border="0" /&gt; writes a blog. A &lt;a href="http://www.fathead-movie.com/index.php/2009/07/07/warning-bologna-may-cause-cancer-headlines/" target="_blank"&gt;recent one&lt;/a&gt; discussed a large study called the NIH-&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;AARP&lt;/span&gt; Diet and Health Study. A number of &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;correlations&lt;/span&gt; between diet and health outcomes were observed with varying levels of correlation. He discusses the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;significance&lt;/span&gt; of the study and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;correlations&lt;/span&gt; and there are some really good comments after the post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He talks about some of the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;correlations&lt;/span&gt; found in the study, and I realized that I didn't have a really good sense of what these &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;correlations&lt;/span&gt; look like, so I generated some.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT10I1IpZI/AAAAAAAAAL0/PD7lq9O7ZPo/s1600-h/UniformCorr.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356176132922713490" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 455px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 306px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT10I1IpZI/AAAAAAAAAL0/PD7lq9O7ZPo/s320/UniformCorr.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;correlations&lt;/span&gt; assuming underlying uniform &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;distributions&lt;/span&gt; between two variables. Note that even a 0.6 correlation has a lot of variability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT1z0q9-qI/AAAAAAAAALs/oa2ueEHvak0/s1600-h/NormalCorr.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356176127511362210" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 453px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 342px" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT1z0q9-qI/AAAAAAAAALs/oa2ueEHvak0/s320/NormalCorr.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;correlations&lt;/span&gt; assuming underlying normal &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;distributions&lt;/span&gt; between the two variables. These points are more centrally grouped because of the nature of the underlying &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;distributions&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT1z0q9-qI/AAAAAAAAALs/oa2ueEHvak0/s1600-h/NormalCorr.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT1z0q9-qI/AAAAAAAAALs/oa2ueEHvak0/s1600-h/NormalCorr.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SlT1z0q9-qI/AAAAAAAAALs/oa2ueEHvak0/s1600-h/NormalCorr.jpg"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A fun allegory on correlation and causation&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object height="350" width="425"&gt;&lt;param value="http://youtube.com/v/R4NEQzZlSDE" name="movie"&gt;&lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://youtube.com/v/R4NEQzZlSDE" height="350" width="425"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Correlation is not causation&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-727790428435646636?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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You may have noticed that the post I did last month didn't count because it was just a bunch of links.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fitness Black Book blog did a nice &lt;a href="http://fitnessblackbook.com/diet-tips/mindless-eating-why-do-we-continue-to-eat-when-we-are-full/" target="_blank"&gt;post &lt;/a&gt;about mind&lt;strong&gt;less&lt;/strong&gt; eating and some of the studies that have demonstrated how external cues indirectly cause people to eat more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may recall that I posted about &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/07/healthful-eating.html" target="_blank"&gt;mind&lt;strong&gt;ful&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/a&gt;eating some time ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will reiterate part of what I said then:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;"Fourth, eat only when you are hungry.&lt;/strong&gt; People eat for reasons besides sustenance. Sometimes there is an emotional attachment to eating in which food is used to medicate one’s psyche. This is a type of addiction. Other times people eat because it just tastes sooooo good or they simply don’t want to waste food. If you find yourself using food for emotional support or overeating at special events, try to find a way to stop that."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was traveling last week, visiting some friends. I found myself eating and drinking because it-was-time-to-eat-and-we-were-at-a-nice-restaurant-with-good-wine. &lt;strong&gt;I wasn't hungry.&lt;/strong&gt; I ate and drank a lot anyway. I gained a nice layer of subcutaneous fat over muscles that had previously been visible. Not just from one meal, but from a whole week of similar temptations and behaviors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is especially a problem at restaurants. They give big portions because they can charge more for them. Then perhaps you eat all of it because it's a hassle to take it home or you don't want to bother. Buffet restaurants are impossible for many people. Holiday celebrations can also be a time of overeating. Don't succumb to the pressure to eat everything, but listen to your hunger and and take your time eating. Hunger is driven by a number of factors including empty stomach, and cells not receiving sufficient nutrients. You can get past the empty stomach part, but if your cells are not receiving enough fuel to do their jobs, it will eventually override your "&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/does-free-will-exist.html" target="_blank"&gt;willpower&lt;/a&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So in thinking about all this, I had a realization. Most people are in a pattern of eating at certain times in the day. We wake up and eat breakfast, then around noon have lunch, then finally at 7 in the evening we have dinner. It is important socially to have meals with other people and especially family. We get our three square meals on a set schedule. But in doing so, we lose the sense of our natural rhythms. We eat when we're not hungry, and we eat what is put in front of us. When that happens, we find ourselves complaining about problems with portion control.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What To Do Then&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The solutions are obvious but there are two prerequisites: &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/07/healthful-eating.html" target="_blank"&gt;a body that is hormonally able to burn its own fat as fuel (low insulin environment)&lt;/a&gt; and mindfulness about eating when you do not feel hungry. Eat very lightly so you can fulfill the social needs without blowing your diet, or if you foresee a big meal coming up, skip the one before it or after it to compensate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other thing to think about is to consider your bad week as a break from your diet. This is actually a good thing as &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-full-diet-break.html" target="_blank"&gt;pointed out&lt;/a&gt; by Lyle McDonald.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Link to the book Mindless Eating by Brian Wansink&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe style="WIDTH: 120px; HEIGHT: 240px" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=0553384481&amp;amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" frameborder="0" scrolling="no"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-5953249610482384774?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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A Letter to Myself</title><content type="html">Dear E4E,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My 20 year old son who lives across the country with his mother, seems to want to have nothing to do with me. I have called him, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;texted&lt;/span&gt; him, and left messages on his &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;facebook&lt;/span&gt; page. I get no response from him.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Recently, he left his job (released for being late). Now he contacts me and wants to visit. &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Yay&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Except, when I try to contact him to set dates, he doesn't respond. It's really odd. For the life of me, I can't think of anything I've done to anger him or drive him away. I feel hurt and sad about this.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What the heck is going on?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Signed, Baffled Engineer&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Baffled,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regardless of whether you slighted him, the answer is the same--continue to reach out. Hold out a hand of unconditional, non-judging love.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, you feel hurt and maybe want to punish. Perhaps you think it's terribly undignified or weak to reach out &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;unrequitedly&lt;/span&gt;. Forget that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But he gave you the cold shoulder and maybe you didn't deserve it. It doesn't matter. But you're a dude. You learned a long time ago not to take crap from anyone. To return disrespect with greater disrespect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That's &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;OK&lt;/span&gt; in battle, but this is not battle. It's not a power or blame game. This is family. Families are not a democracy, they're more like a benevolent dictatorship, or even communism (from each according to his abilities, to each according to his needs).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You are the parent; you are the adult. That is your role in this scenario. Unless a family member is actively hurting the family, your job is to strive to maintain cohesiveness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now try to look at it from your son's perspective. He's 20 years old, he was out earning lots of money and feeling pretty independent. He probably lost sight of the importance of family; maybe he didn't really understand the importance of maintaining contact. Perhaps you could have done a better job over the years of keeping touch with him. &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cat"&gt;(Remember Cat's in the Cradle by Harry &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Chapin&lt;/span&gt;?)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps, he didn't think that he was meeting your expectations (good grades, go to college, etc.) and was feeling &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/06/shame-and-guilt.html"&gt;ashamed &lt;/a&gt;about that. Perhaps he had a secret that he thought would disappoint you in some way. Again, it really doesn't matter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember, it's not your job to judge him or try to change him. Regardless of his emotional age or maturity, he is an adult now. Accept him as he is and do what you can to help him succeed in &lt;strong&gt;his&lt;/strong&gt; life. Be proactive in keeping communications open. Hope that he will come around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Good luck.&lt;br /&gt;E4E&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-4278976980739257964?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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It's just too easy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Paleo Eating&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="445" height="364"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/uCFZoqmKf5M&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;border=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/uCFZoqmKf5M&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="445" height="364"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Paleo Exercise&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="445" height="364"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/wGXep32_qiI&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;border=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/wGXep32_qiI&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="445" height="364"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Fathead: The Movie&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=B001NRY6R2&amp;amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="width: 120px; height: 240px;" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Excellent introduction, with some humor, on many of the subjects that Taubes writes about in Good Calories, Bad Calories (link below).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Good Calories, Bad Calories&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am rereading sections of this book and after a year and a half of studying and reading about health, diet, and exercise, I find myself more impressed than ever at the quality of this book. It's not an easy read, but if it ever can break free from the being labeled in the category of diet books, could actually make a difference in the world.&lt;br /&gt;Paperback&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=1400033462&amp;amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="width: 120px; height: 240px;" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hardcover&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=1400040787&amp;amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="width: 120px; height: 240px;" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mybigfatdiet.net/index.html"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My Big Fat Diet&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Described as "Supersize Me meets Northern Exposure in My Big, Fat Diet when the Namgis First Nation of Alert Bay gives up sugar and junk food, returning to a traditional style of eating for a year to fight obesity and diabetes."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I haven't seen it, but I have heard good things about it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-1294915077067033365?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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But that belief system may be changing for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're not aware, much of the blogosphere, especially low-carb. primal, and/or paleo blogs have been abuzz about the importance of Vitamin D in preventing sickness and disease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, it turns out that &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitamin_d"&gt;Vitamin D&lt;/a&gt; is not technically a vitamin. It is a steroid &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hormone" target="_blank"&gt;hormone&lt;/a&gt; or prohormone. Your body is theoretically capable of creating all it needs in your skin from sunlight (specifically UVB rays), but in wintertime, far from the equator there is not enough sunlight. It is a likely driver of skin color--the reason that those who live near the equator &lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SffWVuadysI/AAAAAAAAAJ0/P2WIOPiX9P8/s1600-h/cancerLatitude.png"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329964352740903618" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; width: 320px; cursor: pointer; height: 168px;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SffWVuadysI/AAAAAAAAAJ0/P2WIOPiX9P8/s320/cancerLatitude.png" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;have darker skin than those closer to the poles. It is why so many people get sick in the winter, yet are healthy all summer, and a likely reason that latitude is a good correlation with cancer incidence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have a multitude of links below, but I would like to share my experience from the past few months. I have been supplementing my vitamins with Costco Vitamin D3 tablets. Each tablet is 1000 i.u. These are dry tablets and I want to note that I have seen some recommendations to take &lt;a href="http://www.carlsonlabs.com/product_detail.phtml?prodid=10001068&amp;amp;categid=0024" target="_blank"&gt;oil-based gel caps&lt;/a&gt; for more reliable absorption.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a typical winter, I get 2 - 4 colds, each one lasting a good week, requiring tons of Nyquil, Dayquil, Mucinex, etc to help get me through. Typically, I would feel some scratchiness in the back of my throat. That would progress to stuffy nose, and soon after down to my lungs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This winter has been different though. I was typically taking about 4000 i.u. per day. When I felt the scratchy throat (two or three times this year), I'd double it for a few days. About a week ago, my daughter was visiting me on spring break. I was a little lax with my Vitamin D--probably missed a day or two. I felt the throat scratchiness and for some reason attributed it to allergies, so I didn't increase D.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The scratchy throat on Wednesday had progressed by Friday to bronchitis. I felt like death warmed over. My doctor told me that it would get worse before it got better. When I went home after the doctor, I took 10,000 i.u. of my Vitamin D as well as some mucinex, (which I had already been taking).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By the next day, I felt 100% better (I took another 6,000 i.u. of Vitamin D) and by Sunday morning I felt almost well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I can't recall &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;ever &lt;/span&gt;recovering from a cold this quickly. The usual caveats apply. I am an &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;n&lt;/span&gt; of 1, and there may be a placebo effect, but I am amazed at how I have felt this winter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A recent &lt;a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19269856?ordinalpos=3&amp;amp;itool=EntrezSystem2.PEntrez.Pubmed.Pubmed_ResultsPanel.Pubmed_DefaultReportPanel.Pubmed_RVDocSum" target="_blank"&gt;study &lt;/a&gt;states that the evidence for Vitamin D is strong enough that it should become a recommendation for cancer prevention and treatment. &lt;a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/sites/entrez?db=PubMed&amp;amp;itool=toolbar" target="_blank"&gt;PubMed&lt;/a&gt;, sponsored by the United States National Institutes of Health has hundreds of papers linking latitude and cancer, latitude and flu, seasonality and disease. The thread running through it all is, the less sunlight, the more disease.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.motherjones.com/politics/1998/05/sunscam" target="_blank"&gt;Melanoma rates are increasing&lt;/a&gt; despite record amounts of sunscreen being used. It turns out that sunscreens filter UVB rays well, but in the past have not done a good job of filtering UVA. UVB causes sunburn and is the driver of Vitamin D synthesis in the body. UVA rays are a big driver of melanoma (the most deadly skin cancer) and other skin disorders. Part of the increase in skin cancer may be due to the false security and comfort from sunscreen, leading people to be in the sun more. I believe that another part is likely due to the dampening effect on Vitamin D production. Could that be creating higher risks for other cancers as well?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SffWVsG7xqI/AAAAAAAAAJs/AV_Uf9zi2v0/s1600-h/CancerD.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329964352122111650" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; width: 320px; cursor: pointer; height: 186px;" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SffWVsG7xqI/AAAAAAAAAJs/AV_Uf9zi2v0/s320/CancerD.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It is apparently unusual to get a Vitamin D overdose from the sun. From the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vitamin_D#Overdose"&gt;Wikipedia article on Vitamin D&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;i&gt; "&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 19px;font-family:-webkit-sans-serif;font-size:13px;"  &gt;&lt;i&gt;Exposure to sunlight for extended periods of time does not normally cause vitamin D toxicity.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;i&gt; This is because within about 20 minutes of ultraviolet exposure in light skinned individuals (3–6 times longer for pigmented skin) the concentration of vitamin D precursors produced in the skin reach an &lt;/i&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chemical_equilibrium" title="Chemical equilibrium" style="text-decoration: none; background-image: none;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"&gt;&lt;i&gt;equilibrium&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;i&gt;, and any further vitamin D that is produced is degraded. Maximum endogenous production with full body exposure to sunlight is 250 µg (10,000 IU) per day."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/964647970.html" target="_blank"&gt;Here &lt;/a&gt;is an excellent article from 2000 from the Medical College of Wisconsin. &lt;a href="http://www.vvv.com/healthnews/dsunscre.html"&gt;Here &lt;/a&gt;is an older article (the recommendations do not align well with the explanatory text, but the explanatory text is good). &lt;a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/18614668/"&gt;Here &lt;/a&gt;is an MSNBC article warning that "sunscreen has not been conclusively shown to protect against melanoma..." Richard at FreeTheAnimal did &lt;a href="http://www.freetheanimal.com/root/2008/12/melanoma-sun-and-its-synthetic-defeat-sunscreen.html"&gt;this &lt;/a&gt;sunscreen post.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here's the e4e recommendation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Get your Vitamin D levels (25(OH) D, Serum 25 Hydroxyvitamin D) tested. If your doctor won't order the test, try &lt;a href="http://www.grassrootshealth.net/" target="_blank"&gt;Grassroots Health&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If your levels are below 40-60 ng/ml, take a Vitamin D3 supplement. People with darker skin and those who do not spend much time outdoors are more likely to have low levels of Vitamin D.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If you don't get the test, but find yourself having lots of colds and upper respiratory tract issues, take a vitamin D3 supplement try 4,000 i.u. for a few months and see if your health improves. This is especially important in the winter months. There appears to be &lt;a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/search/label/Vitamin%20D%20toxicity?" target="_blank"&gt;little danger&lt;/a&gt; of Vitamin D toxicity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Do not fear the sun, but treat it with respect. Try not to burn, cover up, develop a tan when the sun is less intense during the day. Some unprotected sun is ok, but don't overdo it.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.vitamindcouncil.org/" target="_blank"&gt;The Vitamin D Council&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=vitamin-d-and-autism&amp;amp;sc=WR_20090428" target="_blank"&gt;Is Vitamin D Deficiency during pregnancy is a cause of Autism&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.uvadvantage.org/portals/0/pres/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dr. Michael Holick Presentation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.rd.com/blogs/living-healthy/four-steps-that-can-help-protect-against-swine-flu/post9918.html" target="_blank"&gt;Can Vitamin D Help Prevent Swine Flu?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freetheanimal.com/root/2009/01/vitamin-d-anecdotes.html" target="_blank"&gt;Vitamin D Anecdotes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/search/label/Vitamin%20D%20toxicity?" target="_blank"&gt;Vitamin D Toxicity Is Rare&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/search/label/vitamin%20D"&gt;Heartscan Blog Vitamin D Writing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freetheanimal.com/root/2008/11/vitamin-k2-menatetrenone-mk-4.html" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How About Vitamin K2?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/51913.php" target="_blank"&gt;Cool story about Vitamin D and flu&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/2008/03/marshall-protocol-and-other-fairy-tales.html" target="_blank"&gt;Some conditions are worsened by more Vitamin D&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freetheanimal.com/root/supplements/"&gt;Free The Animal blog's Supplements Links&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://drbganimalpharm.blogspot.com/search/label/Vitamin%20D" target="_blank"&gt;Animal Pharm Blog Vitamin D posts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16933060" target="_blank"&gt;Pubmed. An incredible resource for research abstracts.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/2009/02/vitamin-d-for-pharmaceutically.html" target="_blank"&gt;Heartscan Blog - Vitamin D for the pharmaceutically challenged&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wholehealthsource.blogspot.com/2008/10/vitamin-d-its-not-just-another-vitamin.html" target="_blank"&gt;Whole Health Source - a good resource&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.drbriffa.com/blog/2008/12/30/more-research-links-vitamin-d-with-protection-from-cardiovascular-disease/" target="_blank"&gt;Dr. Briffa has information about Vitamin D and heart disease&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-2722435682167443898?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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First, I don't want it to be simply a tip blog. I want to capture &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;principles&lt;/span&gt; that can be applied to life, which keeps it all at a higher level. The other thing is, I don't want it to be a news digest blog. I want the content to be more or less timeless. Not something based on today's news or gossip.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having said that, I will now go against those principles and publish a letter I sent to Oprah Winfrey about her diet. OK, I believe the principles are timeless, but it is a little newsier than I am interested in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also said I would go lighter on diet articles, but here I am with another diet article. I have developed a bit of an obsession around diet. Starting next month, Feb 2009, I will be going back to more general topics. Thanks for staying with me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Letter to Oprah&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I sent a letter to Oprah through her website. That site limited me to 2000 characters and I had much more to say. So following is the original note that I wrote that has much more detail. Any bets on whether she'll leave a comment here?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dear Oprah,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have been reading about your weight loss efforts. I am sure you have received thousands of letters of advice and encouragement. I would like to add one more voice to the din.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;First, I want to say that I admire you and your accomplishments. You have found ways to connect with large numbers of people in ways that are meaningful to them. You have been a source of inspiration and information for millions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But this weight loss thing...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know you have received lots of advice from leading nutritionists and trainers, but they all have the simple calories-in minus calories-out approach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While that is mathematically correct and in accordance with the laws of physics, it misses a key point; starving oneself is not a sustainable lifestyle. Your body needs energy to live. It can obtain that energy from outside through food, or it can literally eat itself by burning its own fat, muscle, and carbohydrates.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To lose weight, you limit the amount of food coming in from the outside so that the body uses itself for energy. You have only about 400 grams of carbohydrate stored in your body, so that is not a significant source of weight loss. You do NOT want to lose muscle, so you therefore want your body to be using its fat stores.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You achieve this state by setting your body up hormonally to burn fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Something for you to think about. Many people believe that binge eating or unhealthy eating is a symptom of poor mental health and represents a failure. People start on diet and exercise programs, then when they fail, blame themselves for being weak or "emotional eating." That is not the reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Think about it. People who kick themselves for emotional eating are often already on a diet and overweight. They feel hungry all the time and struggle to find the energy and time to exercise. Then something happens. Maybe their kid gets sick or their spouse loses a job. Suddenly, the stress level ramps up. Well you may not be able to control the course of sickness or your spouse's job search, but you can reduce the hunger and exercise stress. In a way then, going off a diet may be a very HEALTHY response, not a sick one. In times of stress, your body needs sustenance. Not providing it can lead to your own ill-health.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gary Taubes has written Good Calories, Bad Calories. Many people mistake it for a diet book. Others mistake it for a scientific treatise. It is neither. It is a documentation of how poor science has led to misconceptions about healthy diets. He also lays out an alternative hypothesis about diet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=1400033462&amp;amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" style="width: 120px; height: 240px;" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The key in all this is to eat foods that allow your body to use its own fat as fuel. An important key to this is the hormone, insulin. Insulin is, in essence a storage hormone. It takes nutrients out of your blood and stores them in muscle and fat cells. Fat and sugar are stored as fat, while proteins are either put into muscle or converted to glucose in the liver for use as a fuel. Insulin also prevents fat from leaving fat cells. This is really important so I'll say it again. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The presence of insulin prevents fat from leaving fat cells.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, in general terms, carbohydrates, especially sugars and highly processed flours induce your body to release insulin. This in turn traps the fat cells in your body. When you run out of fuel in your system from the previous meal, an obvious choice to refuel your body's cells &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;immediately&lt;/span&gt; is to eat more carbs. This sets up a vicious circle. you feel hungry so you eat carbs for a pick-me-up. Insulin cleans out your blood stream, you feel hungry again. Your body never has a chance to burn those fat cells.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is the deal with the lower carb diets. They shut down the insulin response to food and let the fat come out of your tissues to be used for fuel. When the fat can flow freely you tend not to feel hunger because your body's cells are fueled.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have to be careful not to overdo it a diet though. Research indicates that your body can burn about 31 calories of its own fat per pound of body fat per day. So you can maintain a caloric deficit of about 31 calories per pound of body fat without cutting into muscle. As an example, a 200 pound person at 35% body fat is therefore carrying about 70 lb. of fat. 70 lb. times 31 calories per pound is 2,170 calories of potential fat loss per day. If you diet harder than that you will cut into muscle. As you lose fat, your maximum daily loss will also decrease. This is one of the reasons that a rate of weight (fat) loss is difficult to maintain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;My Story&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The things I have written above come from a fair amount of research and my own experience in weight loss. In 2007, I weighed 240 lb. (I'm 5'10 and was 50 years old). I had tried losing weight in the past, typically by cutting back on fats, cutting back on calories, and exercising like a maniac.  I could lose 15 lb. or so, before beginning to feel weak, lose muscle, and feel hungry all the time. Inevitably, I would then fall off the wagon and gain it back.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At Thanksgiving of 2007, I got gout in my left foot. I started to research that,  and for some reason stumbled across Gary Taubes lecture at Berkeley. That lecture (&lt;a href="http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216"&gt;http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216&lt;/a&gt;) changed my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I dialed back pasta and bread (I had already cut out sweet sodas) and the weight simply disappeared over the next four months. I lost about 30 pounds with almost no effort. I am now working on the next phase of my weight loss where I will lose another 15 lb. I will be using a very similar approach with a few modifications. Specifically, I will be doing a periodic (weekly or so) carbo load to induce leptin secretion. This follows some of the ideas that Lyle McDonald has laid out at his website (&lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/"&gt;http://www.bodyrecomposition.com&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So I urge you to consider a lower carb diet in your fat loss efforts. In the long run, it is more sustainable, it seems likely that it is a more healthful way of life than low-fat,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have written about diet and other issues at my blog. I invite you to check out Emotions for Engineers at &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com"&gt;http://www.emotionsforengineers.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Best regards,&lt;br /&gt;Tony&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The following is the letter &lt;a href="https://www.oprah.com/plugform.jsp?plugId=220"&gt;as submitted&lt;/a&gt; to O.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I admire you and your accomplishments. You have found ways to connect with people in meaningful ways. You have been a source of inspiration and information for millions. But this weight loss thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Simple calories in minus calories out misses a key point; starving oneself is not a sustainable lifestyle. Your body needs energy to live. When it doesn't get it, it sends hunger signals. We obtain energy from outside through food, or it can literally eat itself by burning its own fat, muscle, and carbohydrates. You want your body to be burning fat. You achieve this state by setting your body up hormonally.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;People who kick themselves for emotional eating are often already on a diet They feel hungry and struggle to find the energy and time to exercise. Then maybe their kid gets sick. Stress increases. You can't control the sickness, but you can reduce the stress from hunger. Going off a diet may be a very HEALTHY response, not a sick one. In times of stress, your body needs sustenance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Gary Taubes lays out another diet hypothesis diet in "Good Calories, Bad Calories." The key is to eat foods that allow your body to use its own fat as fuel by limiting insulin release. It takes nutrients out of the blood and stores them as fat. It prevents fat from leaving fat cells and can cause you to feel hunger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Carbs induce insulin. This is why lower carb diets work. By limiting the insulin response, your body uses its fat as a fuel without hunger.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dietary fat has been vilified by the government and press. It is not bad for you. In fact, when your body burns its own fat, you are burning the equivalent of a high fat diet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I urge you to consider a lower carb diet in your fat loss efforts. In the long run, it is more sustainable and it seems likely that it is a more healthful way of life than low-fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have written about diet and other issues at my blog. I invite you to read at a more detailed version at &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/"&gt;http://www.emotionsforengineers.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Regards, Tony&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-168730371010055341?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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Some people say that they are &lt;a href="http://cleochatra.blogspot.com/2008/12/resolutions-are-waste-of-time.html"&gt;horrible&lt;/a&gt;. They just give people an excuse to binge for a few more days before they start to fail yet again. I think people do that, but it doesn't have to be that way.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Another angle is that a quest for perfection can be damaging by itself. I'm not going to address that aspect, but for now, simply accept that people have worthwhile goals that they want to achieve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The New Year can be a convenient time to take stock and refocus your efforts in important directions. But just like with your job evaluations at work, your resolutions or goals should have specific characteristics and there should be some kind of accountability.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;Be Smart&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The SMART framework is pretty good for goal setting. &lt;a href="http://www.thepracticeofleadership.net/2006/03/11/setting-smart-objectives/"&gt;SMART &lt;/a&gt;is an acronym for:&lt;br /&gt;1. Specific – The objectives should be specific. Don't leave rationalizable loopholes.&lt;br /&gt;2. Measurable – You should be able to determine without ambiguity whether you are meeting the objective.&lt;br /&gt;3. Achievable - Is the objective achievable and attainable at all within the time frame?&lt;br /&gt;4. Relevant – Something you actually care about?&lt;br /&gt;5. Time-Constrained – When do you want to achieve the set objectives?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here's a bad objective: Cure most of world hunger.&lt;br /&gt;It is not very specific or measurable, may not be achievable at all, and certainly not with the resources I have available, and there is no time frame specified, it is relevant to the world at large.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So in a world hunger frame, a better objective might be something like:&lt;br /&gt;Write one blog post per month on the importance of nutrition for the poor. If you are President of the USA, you might have a more ambitious world hunger objective such as: Reduce the amount of non-voluntary hunger in the US by 10% by end of year 2012 as measured by World Health Organization standards..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;Accountability&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other part of it is accountability or support. At work, there is typically some person who judges whether you achieve your objectives. If you do, you get a promotion or a better raise, or maybe you get to keep your job. If you fail to achieve your objectives, there may be negative consequences. The problem is that not all objectives are under the auspices of someone to reward or punish you, so you need another kind of accountability. A support network can be useful for that.&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SVkQ7v4KYKI/AAAAAAAAAI4/SK4FRw9hqwY/s1600-h/smart.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5285274256346341538" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: pointer; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SVkQ7v4KYKI/AAAAAAAAAI4/SK4FRw9hqwY/s320/smart.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ask your spouse or a friend, or even your boss to be your accountability partner on non-job related goals. &lt;a href="http://www.stickk.com/"&gt;Stickk.com&lt;/a&gt; can also give a framework for accountability and support. You specify a goal, name supporters and/or a referee, and you can even specify monetary consequences for failure to meet the objective(s). I am currently using Stickk for a weight loss objective.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;X marks the spot in the diagram.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;Why &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Year"&gt;New Year's Day&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is actually nothing magical about New Year's Day. Set your objective now. Don't allow the pre-start binge that some people object to. Just Do It!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;Emotions For Engineers Resolution&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I recognize that I have not been as diligent at posting here as I would like to be. I have about fifty posts and ideas started and in various levels of completion. So my resolution is the following:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;I will publish at least one Emotions for Engineers post per month in 2009.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Specific - One post per month. Good.&lt;br /&gt;Measurable - One post per month. Not 12 per year, but one per month.&lt;br /&gt;Achievable - It should be. I can do it if I prioritize well. Resources are not an issue.&lt;br /&gt;Relevant - It is relevant to my personal mission.&lt;br /&gt;Time-Constrained - Monthly targets are good.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Accountability - I ask the readers of this blog to please get on my case if I do not fulfill this objective. Thanks, and a happy and prosperous 2009 to all.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Addendum: 1/1/2009&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;One other factor occurred to me regarding resolutions or goal-setting. If your goal is a long-term one, you should have milestone along the way. My resolution above is a good example. If I had said that I will make 12 posts in 2009, knowing me, I might do none until November, then try to cram them into two months. Making the goal one per month puts pressure on me not to procrastinate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was a very short &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="FONT-STYLE: italic" href="http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/08_37/c4099plus071295.htm"&gt;article in Business Week&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt; about research that demonstrates that shorter-term goals are more effective than longer-term ones.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-5618417025993251646?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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The gout prompted me to start studying my diet in depth and for the first time in my life learn about what I put into my body. I went on a generally lower carbohydrate diet and wrote about my successes and findings in the following posts:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/02/take-care-of-black-box-eat-right.html"&gt;Take Care of the Black Box - Eat Right &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/06/unified-feed-theory.html"&gt;Unified Feed Theory &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/07/healthful-eating.html"&gt;Healthful Eating&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/08/obesity.html"&gt;Obesity &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/08/emotions-for-engineers-guest-blog-on.html"&gt;Emotions for Engineers Guest Blog on MizFitOnline&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In all of those posts I have advocated a lower carbohydrate approach.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It has been a year now and I wanted to report on where I am now and what additional learnings I have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This graphic shows my progress since early 2007. You can see the change in slope when I got &lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SS6-S33_iXI/AAAAAAAAAH4/2hBc90CFgHU/s1600-h/progress.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5273361445143153010" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 320px; height: 157px;" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SS6-S33_iXI/AAAAAAAAAH4/2hBc90CFgHU/s320/progress.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;gout, learned about diet and went onto a lower carb/paleo diet track. I hit a plateau in May of 2008 at 206 pounds and so I went on &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/about"&gt;Lyle McDonald's&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/the-rapid-fat-loss-handbook"&gt;Rapid Fat Loss Protocol&lt;/a&gt;, a "Protein Sparing Modified Fast" or PSMF method. On that I lost about 6 pounds in three weeks, then carried that momentum down to 196 pounds. My initial goal was to get to 200 pounds. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;You can also see that since my low point in about August, I have rebounded a bit, but fluctuated around 200 lbs. Unfortunately, 200 is no longer my goal. I hope to continue on down to maybe 180, then drift up a little to 185 or so for maintenance. So what's going on? Why did the weight loss stop?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;First, some rebound (5 pounds or so) is very common as people go off a low carb diet. On low carb, the body depletes glycogen and water in the muscles and liver causing a rapid 5 - 10 pound loss. Coming off low carb simply reverses that. This comes off fast when you go back onto low carb, so is of little concern. That's what happened to me in October of 2008 when I went from 205 to about 197.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;However, I am having trouble now progressing to my new goal. Here are some of the issues I think I have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;1. Goal Clarity - Once I hit 200 I started thinking about putting on some more muscle. I ramped up my workouts and started to eat more. My weightlifting increased pretty quickly, but so did my weight. It might have been some muscle, but there was also some fat. I hated giving up the loss and felt a bit conflicted about it. So I went back onto the PSMF--for about a week. The weight came off fast, but then life stepped in and I exercised less, ate more and put the weight right back on. This brings us to the next issue.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;2. Motivation - Once you state a goal, you have to maintain focus on it and keep at it. Losing weight really is harder than maintaining it. As you approach your goal it gets even harder for a number of reasons including the fact that you are losing fat, which changes your hormonal environment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://fitnessblackbook.com/diet-tips/fat-loss-strong-motivation-is-more-important-than-details/"&gt;This blog &lt;/a&gt;has a good write up about motivation. As you get to a place that is adequate, you may feel tempted to slack off. That is part of my problem right now. I'm pretty happy about losing 35 lbs., blood markers and health are much better, etc. Sometimes artificial motivation can help (like an artificial deadline at the office). &lt;a href="http://www.stickk.com/"&gt;Stickk.com &lt;/a&gt;provides a place to build that artificail motivation. You can place a bet or a challenge with friends and have referees to check. you can set goals with penalties for missing checkpoints. Perhaps you could set it up to send a check to a cause with which you do not agree.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;3. Stick with what got you there - Moving from diet to maintenance will stop your weight loss. If you want to lose weight again, you have to make changes. Going with what got you there (whether Atkins, Paleo, Weight Watchers) in the first place is a good place to start. The ladies who write &lt;a href="http://refusetoregain.typepad.com/my_weblog/" target="_blank"&gt;this blog also have a book about maintaining weight loss called Refuse to Regain (link below).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://refusetoregain.typepad.com/my_weblog/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;a href="http://refusetoregain.typepad.com/my_weblog/" target="_blank"&gt;4. Don't stick with what got you there - As you get to lower levels of body fat (less than 12% for men or 18% for women) Lyle McDonald&lt;/a&gt; has written a really good series &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-hormones-of-bodyweight-regulation-leptin-part-1.html" target="_blank"&gt;(1)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-hormones-of-bodyweight-regulation-leptin-part-2.html" target="_blank"&gt;(2)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-hormones-of-bodyweight-regulation-leptin-part-3.html" target="_blank"&gt;(3)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-hormones-of-bodyweight-regulation-leptin-part-4.html" target="_blank"&gt;(4)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-hormones-of-bodyweight-regulation-leptin-part-6.html" target="_blank"&gt;(5)&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/fat-loss/the-hormones-of-bodyweight-regulation-leptin-part-the-last.html" target="_blank"&gt;(6)&lt;/a&gt; about the impact of leptin on weight loss. Leptin is a hormone that is created in your fat and can help you lose weight. As your fat decreases you secrete less leptin. It's one of several reasons you may have to make changes. He also has a book called &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/the-stubborn-fat-solution"&gt;The Stubborn Fat Solution&lt;/a&gt;, which covers a program to cut that last bit of fat. It's not for everyone, but if you are at that lower level of fat, you might consider it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I am continuing on. I have ramped up my exercise to maintain strength and assist with fat loss, and I am going back to a stricter diet. My goal is still to get down to a maintenance range of 180-185 or so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I still believe that a lower carb approach is better for me, and probably healthier for most people. If you haven't tried eating lower carb, I encourage you to try. I think that Protein Power, Atkins, or Paleo diet approaches (links below) are all potentially good programs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, there are a number of variables that can affect how people respond. Some people simply can't get past the "brain fog" that temporarily occurs during adaptation to low carb. 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If the test detects a high level of a specific protein, patients could reduce their risk of heart disease by using popular statin drugs, the study found.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"This kind of study probably will change cardiac practice," said Dr. Deepak Srivastava, director of the Gladstone Institute of Cardiovascular Disease at UC San Francisco. "The test will likely become part of the panels that are routinely done. The study provides pretty compelling evidence that even if people have normal cholesterol levels, then they would benefit from statins if they have signs of increased inflammation."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Emotions For Engineers Take on the Study&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A more accurate story would be something like,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A small percentage of the population with unusual blood indicators and already at low risk of total mortality can reduce their risk by about 0.5% by taking Crestor in the short-term. The long-term effects remain untested. Only those who do not have immediate side-effects may benefit.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This study &lt;a href="http://www.drbriffa.com/blog/2008/11/10/statins-reduce-cardiovascular-disease-in-health-people-and-why-this-study-is-a-poke-in-the-eye-for-the-cholesterol-hypothesis/"&gt;effectively disproves the cholesterol hypothesis of heart disease&lt;/a&gt;. Although incidence of heart attacks and strokes was higher in the placebo group than in the test group, total mortality from these causes was the same. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It is important to note that very careful screening was done to reduce the number of confounding effects of the study. While this led to more successful outfcomes, it also limits the applicability of the study.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Before the study was cut short, there were indications of increased diabetes in the test group. Some reports have said that C-Reactive Protein is the cause of heart disease, but it is more &lt;a href="http://www.thincs.org/Malcolm.htm#CRP"&gt;likely an indicator&lt;/a&gt;, same as various cholesterol levels, visceral obesity, and high blood pressure.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a nutshell, even though the study showed that for 8900 people with an unusual and very specific blood profile and screened medical histories, taking Crestor for a year and a half will delay 49 deaths. That's a good thing probably. It is tough to generalize this for several reasons.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. The study was terminated early. Long-term effects of statins can be harsh, but did not have time to show up.&lt;br /&gt;2. Very specific filters were applied to the people in the study including age, family history, blood markers, etc.&lt;br /&gt;3. Elimination of people who had very early negative responses to the statins.&lt;br /&gt;4. 25% of the statin group stopped taking the medicine. How did this impact the results? How were they included or not in the findings.&lt;br /&gt;5. There are several conflicts of interest, which may or may not be meaningful, but are of note.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;More information and opinions:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.spacedoc.net/crestor.htm"&gt;Crestor Side Effects&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a href="http://www.spacedoc.net/"&gt;Dr. Duane Graveline&lt;/a&gt;, author of &lt;a href="http://www.spacedoc.net/statin_side_effects.html"&gt;Statin Drugs Side Effects and the Misguided War on Cholesterol&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"...Suddenly, increased numbers of rhabdomyolysis reports began to surface in Crestor users associated with secondary kidney damage and a more ominous threat of specific primary renal toxicity as well and the necessity to issue emergency warnings advising doctors to exercise special caution in the use of this drug with hypothyroidism, renal insufficiency, Asian sub-population groups and cyclosporine and gemfibrozil takers. Not a terribly auspicious welcome for Crestor, this new statin drug known for strength in a market already dominated by other powerful statins.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Crestor is just another strong statin, using the same mechanisms as the others and having all the inherent potential for side effects. My books tell of the inevitable harm to the mevalonate tree by statins but that was the only way drug company biochemists could inhibit cholesterol so they did it anyhow, regardless of the potential for collateral damage. Does this action reflect sound judgment? They knew that inhibiting cholesterol at this point would also inhibit CoQ10, dolichols, normal phosphorylation and selenoprotein. Every doctor once knew this for they were taught it in medical school but few have bothered to review what mevalonate inhibition really means. In my books I refer to this as "girding" of the mevalonate tree.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We have now learned much more about the side effects of Crestor. We have learned that cognitive, muscle and nerve problems, due to the inevitable impairment of glial cell cholesterol synthesis and mevalonate blockade are only part of the problem. The Crestor side effect potential, that it shares with all other statins, is far more basic than this. Now we have learned that mitochondria are an inevitable target of statins. Because of inhibition of CoQ10 availability with its powerful anti-oxidant effect, mitochondria are left fully exposed to the mutagenic effect of free radicals. The resulting mutations of mitochondria are what is causing the legions of permanent, disabling side effects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Permanent neuropathy, permanent myopathy, chronic neuromuscular degeneration, and Parkinsonism and ALS-like cases now are thought by some to be the result of permanent statin-induced, mitochondrial damage. Furthermore, the inherent ability of the body to identify and correct the daily load of mutations is impaired because of the previously unrecognized effect of dolichol inhibition from the earlier mevalonate blockade. If this is beginning to sound like a domino effect, you are right. We still are seeing the dominos topple one by one as time goes by - the result of marketing a class of drugs before it was fully investigated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Dolichols are vital to the synthesis of glycoproteins, which in addition to thousands of other duties must serve in this identification and correction of DNA damage role. Glycohydrolases, a member of the glycoprotein family of molecules is vital to this function. Five years ago we hardly knew what dolichols were and now we find them involved in so many unexpected places. So I must bring to your attention that Crestor shares all this with the other statins. Its potential for damage goes far beyond the original suspicions&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;[E4E note: Whatever that all means...]&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;From &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://heartscanblog.blogspot.com/2008/11/crp-and-jupiter.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Heartscan Blog&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Crestor 20 mg per day, contrary to the study and to many statin studies, will not be tolerated for long by the majority. Muscles aches are not common--they are inevitable, sometimes incapacitating. While JUPITER showed 15% of both treatment and placebo groups experienced muscle effects--no different--this is wildly contrary to real life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://high-fat-nutrition.blogspot.com/2008/11/cholesterol-heart-attacks-and-jupiter.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;From HyperLipid&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;What the JUPITER study found was that in people with low cholesterol levels but elevated hsCRP levels, taking a statin dropped the overall mortality from low to a bit lower.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bodycounts were 198/8901 in the statin group and 247/8901 in the placebo group. Clearly treating 8901 people for a year and a half will prevent 49 deaths. According to the lipid hypothesis, all of these lives saved should be as a result of less cardiovascular disease, such as fatal heart attacks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;He has some other great insights as well and a &lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_xlflFL230eI/SRiegEH9xGI/AAAAAAAAAL8/3xkpoXjeqMM/s1600-h/Jupiter.pjg.jpg"&gt;data table&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/2008/11/when-news-sounds-too-good-statins-new.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Junkfood Science&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; - Exhaustive review analysis and critique of the study&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/%7Er/drmikenutritionblog/%7E3/449183502/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Speculation from Dr Michael Eades,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;strong&gt; Author of Protein Power&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;..."Finally, the fishiest thing of all. They stopped the study right in the middl&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SRn9Z7cKDwI/AAAAAAAAAHg/JvEwchlcGN4/s1600-h/crestorStudy.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5267519861080854274" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 320px; height: 245px;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SRn9Z7cKDwI/AAAAAAAAAHg/JvEwchlcGN4/s320/crestorStudy.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;e of it. When studies are done that might put people at risk by giving them potentially dangerous drugs, it is typical for an outside group to take a peek at the data at certain milestones to make sure the study medication isn’t killing people. When this data is evaluated, and it is found that subjects on the experimental medicine are dying at unacceptably high rates, the study is often halted. I’ve never seen a study halted because the placebo group was dying at higher rates. That really makes me wonder.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"One of the negative findings in this study was that the group on Crestor developed diabetes during the trial at a significantly higher rate than did those on placebo. I suspect that the outside group checked the progress of the study, found that the subjects on Crestor were at the time of the evaluation showing better results than those on placebo, so the decision was made to stop the study while it was looking good. Had it gone on for the full term, the deaths could have evened out, way more people could have developed diabetes, or who knows what might have occurred had the study continued. So, the powers that be decided to quit while ahead."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.marksdailyapple.com/statin-insanity/"&gt;Mark Sisson of Mark's Daily Apple Sums It Up Best&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If anything, this study is just another bit of proof that total cholesterol and even total LDL are not the proximate cause of heart disease. Oxidation and resulting inflammation are. Furthermore, it suggests that reducing inflammation has a far greater benefit than reducing LDL cholesterol. I agree. So why won’t the medical establishment acknowledge this? The bigger question is: why would any doctor agree to prescribe a dangerous, expensive statin to the general public to save a few more lives by reducing inflammation (NOT by reducing cholesterol), when this could be far more easily and more significantly achieved (at far less cost, with far fewer side effects and with far greater effectiveness) with Omega 3-rich oils (I herein disclaim that I &lt;a title="Vital Omegas" href="http://www.primalnutrition.com/vital-omegas-i-1.html" target="_blank"&gt;sell fish oil&lt;/a&gt;) and a few simple dietary adjustments like cutting back on grains and trans fats?&lt;br /&gt;"The fact that the media has bought into this hype again reminds me to remind you that all health decisions are best left to the expert - in this case, it’s YOU. You know what to do."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Remember: Your health choices are yours. Educate yourself. Logic and science are a big part of medicine and your physical and emotional well-being. Just because your surgeonis good with his hands, it does not mean that he is worth squat when it comes to biochemistry. Make intelligent, informed choices. Don't go onto powerful drugs until other less intrusive approaches (like diet, exercise, sun, and sleep) have failed.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-2859798932741841064?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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That is, it is a representation of reality from some perspective. One of the best quotes I have ever heard about models is that &lt;a href="http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/George_Box"&gt;"All models are wrong, some are useful."&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The same holds true of most of my posts on Emotions for Engineers. I attempt to condense things I have seen written and learned and put it into a context that make sense to logical thinkers, e.g. engineers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A good example of a model is the diagram for &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/communication-101.html"&gt;communication&lt;/a&gt;. The diagram shows a sender with some intent, encoding into a language, transmission, decoding into the receiver's language, and message received. All that is followed by a feedback loop to ensure accuracy.&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/Rj4POwl1WCI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cHEih_2t1mY/s1600-h/CommunicationsProcess.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5061499777447188514" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/Rj4POwl1WCI/AAAAAAAAAAU/cHEih_2t1mY/s320/CommunicationsProcess.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is that exactly what really happens? Not normally. People are notorious about not using the feedback loop. There are multiple messages and paths (actual words, tone of voice, body language and seeing and hearing). The actual diagram of a conversation would be much more complex.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But, importantly, it's a useful model. We can use it to debug conversations that go awry, and learn to do better next time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Likewise, the concept that &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/nature-of-love-part-2-staying-in-love.html"&gt;love is defined by a set of actions, not a feeling&lt;/a&gt;. If you look up the word love in the dictionary you might find a definition that says something like, "A feeling of extreme fondness." This is fine, but not a particularly useful perspective. If we think of love as a feeling, it sets up unrealistic expectations--for example, that true love will never die. After all look at all the old married couples. This perspective means that people can "fall out of love." It's not in their control.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Setting up that unrealistic expectation makes the model less than useful. On the other hand, defining love by one's actions, does provide some guidance to us. It gives us a sense of what we need to do in our &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;relationships&lt;/span&gt; in order for them to work. Love is then defined by what we do to or for each other. It therefore give us a guide to something over which we have control. Love becomes a choice, not an uncontrollable outcome.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another example is nutrition. I have, for most of my adult life been in the "Eat Fat, Get Fat and Die" school of thought. After all, the American Heart Association and the US Government said or implied that was how it worked. &lt;a href="http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216"&gt;Gary Taubes' lecture at Berkeley&lt;/a&gt; changed the way I think about it. Many months later, I am coming to realize that his lecture and &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Good-Calories-Bad-Controversial-Science/dp/1400033462/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1220529510&amp;amp;sr=1-2"&gt;book, "Good Calories, Bad Calories"&lt;/a&gt; (soon in paperback) are incomplete. They do not cover some of the biochemical pathways, or the role of some of the other hormones besides insulin. But... They were right enough to be useful and get me started down the right path. A more complete treatment would likely have lost me.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Finally, models can also be simple quantitative &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;representations&lt;/span&gt; of processes. I &lt;a href="http://spreadsheets.google.com/pub?key=pItwOYa6WQ0TReE66pXyoUg"&gt;posted a spreadsheet&lt;/a&gt; a few weeks ago that helps a person think about how much to eat and exercise in order to lose fat. Is it right? No. There are a number of approximations involved. For example, 31 calories per pound of body fat, fat loss, is an average and is representative of people who are basically sedentary. It also does not take into account changes in metabolism over time and as a person's body composition changes.  Your hormonal environment changes based on body fat percent, calorie balance, activity level, and diet. However, it is &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;reasonably&lt;/span&gt; close and gives some guidance around the limits of exercise, eating, and fat loss.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;So keep in mind, what you see and read here is a way of thinking about life, emotions, and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;physical&lt;/span&gt; and mental well-being. Any given post that I put up has a textbook written about it. 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And thanks to all people for whom that writing resonates and have come here as a result.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following links are to some of my best and/or most popular posts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Introductory Post - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/i-are-engineer.html"&gt;I Are Engineer&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Diet Post - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/06/unified-feed-theory.html"&gt;Unified Feed Theory&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Diet Post - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/07/healthful-eating.html"&gt;Healthful Eating&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Relationships - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/08/emotional-needs-in-relationship.html"&gt;Emotional Needs In A Relationship&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Relationships - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/nature-of-love-part-1-falling-in-love.html"&gt;The Nature of Love Part 1, Falling In Love&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Relationships - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/nature-of-love-part-2-staying-in-love.html"&gt;The Nature of Love Part 2, Staying In Love&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Relationships - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/10/in-praise-of-joy-toys-asa-baber.html"&gt;In Praise of Joy Toys&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Communication - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/communication-101.html"&gt;Communication 101&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Communication - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/communication-201.html"&gt;Communication 201&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Communication - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/active-listening-and-feedback.html"&gt;Active Listening and Feedback&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;General Framework - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/does-free-will-exist.html"&gt;Does Free Will Exist?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;General Framework - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/emotions-feelings-are-facts.html"&gt;Feeling are Facts&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Miscellaneous - &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/07/importance-of-vacations.html"&gt;The Importance of Vacations&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please make yourself at home here, sign up for updates and feel free to leave comments.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-1683497715602223248?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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The reporting in the US is disgustingly self-serving and/or pandering.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Disclaimer: The following text is at the end of this as well. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Obesity is a charged word. Some people hear it and think bad things about someone. Others hear it and get angry because we as a society are not "fat-accepting." Whatever your weight is, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong style="font-style: italic;"&gt;you are beautiful.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; You are you. Accept yourself for what you are today. You may wish to make physical changes, but first, love yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A recent article that appeared in newspapers and magazines throughout the country had the following headlines: "&lt;a href="http://www.sciam.com/article.cfm?id=fit-and-fat-us-study-show"&gt;Fit and fat: US study shows it's possible.&lt;/a&gt;" and "&lt;a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2008/08/12/MNKS1290VB.DTL"&gt;Study: Fat people not necessarily heart risks.&lt;/a&gt;" The real headline &lt;span&gt;should have been&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; "Study shows strongly positive correlation between large weight to height ratio and symptoms of metabolic syndrome.&lt;/span&gt;" Of course since excess fat accumulation is also a symptom of &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metabolic_syndrome"&gt;metabolic syndrome&lt;/a&gt;, this would not have been a surprise to anyone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the headlines you would think that the article will say that obesity is OK, and the article kind of does say that. It emphasizes that not all people defined as obese have metabolic problems and many people defined as "normal weight" have metabolic problems.&lt;br /&gt;This table shows what the study actually describes. Obese people have a much higher probability of cardiometabolic abnormalities than lighter weight people. Even if you are light weight, you still have a chance of cardiometabolic problems. The articles do not discuss causality or mitigation techniques, just correlations and associations. The &lt;a href="http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/08/13/for-health-body-size-can-be-misleading/"&gt;New York Times article&lt;/a&gt; was more even-handed than most.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SKKJ1_ACAJI/AAAAAAAAAFU/dai8DvIgalk/s1600-h/ObeseHealth.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5233897277495574674" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SKKJ1_ACAJI/AAAAAAAAAFU/dai8DvIgalk/s320/ObeseHealth.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you read nothing else in this post, I hope you understand how misleading the reporting is on the story.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The articles do not tell the whole tale&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are some interesting potential issues not brought up in the articles. The first is the definition of obesity. Typically, researchers apply the obese label to anybody with more than 30 BMI.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;BMI = [ (weight in lbs) / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Notice there is no mention of fat at all in the equation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;Walter Payton, one of the great running backs in NFL history was 5'10" and 210 lbs. His BMI was 30.1. By this definition he was obese. He was in no way fat. His body fat must have been 10% at that weight. I am no Walter Payton, nor are you, but this points out the flaw in BMI, it makes some gross assumptions about body composition that may not be true for any individual. So of the 31% of "obese" people who had good metabolic indicators, how many were strong athletes?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other send of the spectrum are the skinny fat people. They have a low BMI, but they work really hard with cardio and diet. They have probably had weight problems in the past and have experienced some yo-yo dieting. Their arms and legs are skinny, but maybe they have a bit of a gut. These people can easily have body fat percentage greater than 25%, yet they count in here as skinny. I would estimate that there are more people in this category than fit people in the obese category. There are probably lots of both in the overweight category.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A better metric mitght be the FMI or Fat Mass Index. It is very similar to BMI and is in fact a component of it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Remember BMI is&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;BMI = [ (weight in lbs) / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It can be broken down to&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;BMI = [ (lean weight in lbs + fat weight) / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703&lt;br /&gt;      = [ lean weight in lbs / (height in inches)^2 + fat weight / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Removing the lean weight part, we are left with the Fat Mass Index (FMI or BFMI)&lt;br /&gt;FMI = [ fat weight / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Removing the fat weight from the BMI equation gives the Fat Free Mass Index (FFMI)&lt;br /&gt;FFMI = [ (lean weight in lbs / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.naturalphysiques.com/cms/index.php?itemid=23"&gt;Adjusted FFMI&lt;/a&gt; = [ (lean weight in lbs / (height in inches)^2 ] * 703 + 6.0 * ( Height (m) - 1.8 )&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to &lt;a href="http://www.naturalphysiques.com/tools.php?itemid=28"&gt;this link (which also has an FFMI calculator)&lt;/a&gt;, an upper limit FFMI for a steroid-free person is about 25. This &lt;a href="http://cat.inist.fr/?aModele=afficheN&amp;amp;cpsidt=14921852"&gt;abstract&lt;/a&gt; addresses the variations in FMI and FFMI associatedf with given BMIs. Here's another &lt;a href="http://www.nutritionjrnl.com/article/S0899-9007%2803%2900061-3/abstract"&gt;one&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Second, there were no indicators of age in the articles. What factor would age play in cardiovascular and metabolic risk. Does it matter how long a person has been overfat? Wouldn't a person become more insulin resistant over time. How many of the healthy overweight and obese people in the study were still young and have not had time to build up insulin resistance?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, the measures used were blood pressure, cholesterol, triglycerides, and blood sugar. It did not measure actual mortality, only factors that correlate with problems. We don't know if heavier people would have lower mortality from other causes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;So I believe we should define obese in terms of body fat, not BMI. It's a continuum really and different people carry fat differently and our measurement techniques for body fat are inaccurate, so I will define obesity as follows: If you are a male and have more than 20% body fat or a female and have more than 25% body fat you probably have some health issues causing fat accumulation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you don't have access to a reliable body fat measuring device, consider the following. If you have a BMI over 30 and think that maybe you are not actually obese, one way to measure it is through strength. If you are a male, drop and do 25 high quality push-ups. if you can't pretty easily, you probably have too much fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;So What? Is fat bad?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm not sure really. Excess fat is often a symptom of some underlying physical problems, although it may not be bad in and of itself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;We are taught from an early age that "beauty is only skin deep" and "don't judge a book by its cover." That doesn't change our visceral response to obesity.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Limits options:&lt;/span&gt; One of the &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/08/emotional-needs-in-relationship.html"&gt;ten emotional needs in a marriage&lt;/a&gt; according to &lt;a href="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/"&gt;Stephen Harley&lt;/a&gt; is physical attractiveness. If you are not physically attractive to someone due to obesity, the chemistry so important in the early stages of a relationship may not be there. Likewise, if you have become overfat since the start of the relationship, you may not be able to provide that emotional need for your partner. By all means try to change our societal view of beauty, but the current reality is what it is,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Self-esteem:&lt;/span&gt; If you are obese, love yourself. It is a physical condition, not reflective of who or what you are as a human being. Nonetheless when people judge you continually it is hard to to keep your head up.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;External perception:&lt;/span&gt; If you are obese, it is likely that many people will look at you differently. People do judge books by their covers. It's not fair. It's real. &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2008/08/14/opinion/14collins.html?partner=rssnyt&amp;amp;emc=rss"&gt;It crosses all cultures.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Underlying issues:&lt;/span&gt; If obesity is a reflection of an underlying issue such as &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metabolic_syndrome"&gt;metabolic syndrome &lt;/a&gt;(insulin resistance, high blood pressure, high triglycerides, low HDL, and central body obesity), it may be a signal of unhealthy lifestyle and eating habits that can lead to heart disease. Much obesity in the United States is reflective of these underlying issues. Do not use the articles cited at the beginning of this post as a reason to not take care of yourself. Obesity either carries risks or is symptomatic of other risks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/2008/08/caring-for-peoples-health.html"&gt;This blogger has an interesting perspective.&lt;/a&gt; Her viewpoint is that obesity is a fact and part of our culture. We should learn how to medically treat people with obesity rather than simply blaming their problems on the obesity.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Obesity is a charged word. Some people hear it and think bad things about someone. Others hear it and get angry because we as a society are not "fat-accepting." Whatever your weight is, &lt;strong&gt;you are beautiful.&lt;/strong&gt; You are you. Accept yourself for what you are today. You may wish to make changes, but first, love yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following link is a tool that can assist you in measuring your body fat percentage. 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Next up, exercise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many people believe that exercise is a great way to lose weight and keep trim. This fits in with our societal beliefs that obesity is caused by eating to much and not exercising enough, or as &lt;a href="http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216"&gt;Taubes&lt;/a&gt; calls it, "gluttony and sloth." That is generally not true, and research backs it up. &lt;a href="http://archinte.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/abstract/168/14/1550"&gt;This recent study &lt;/a&gt;conducted by the University of Pittsburgh shows little difference between the exercise groups on a low fat diet (&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:85%;"  &gt;'Weight loss did not differ among the randomized&lt;sup&gt; &lt;/sup&gt;groups at 6 months' (8%-10% of initial body weight) or 24 months'&lt;sup&gt; &lt;/sup&gt;(5% of ini&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:85%;"  &gt;tial body weight) follow-up.") &lt;/span&gt;and the initial weight loss comes back on the same trajectory regardless of amount of exercise. Their conclusion was that 275 mins per week of vigorous exercise in addition to calorie reduction is &lt;span style=";font-family:verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif;font-size:85%;"  &gt;"important&lt;sup&gt; &lt;/sup&gt;in allowing overweight women to sustain a weight loss of more&lt;sup&gt; &lt;/sup&gt;than 10%."&lt;/span&gt; They didn't mention that the women who actually ended up 10% lower weight were also restricting their Calories more than the others. This is a typical case of &lt;a href="http://sparkofreason.blogspot.com/2008/04/cognitive-dissonance-and-scientific.html"&gt;cognitive dissonance&lt;/a&gt;, seen in research all the time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/2008/07/exercise-diet-that-wasnt.html"&gt;Here&lt;/a&gt; is a pretty good analysis of the study. She has access to the paper and data that I don't. Be careful though. She also says that long term weight loss doesn't happen at all, because of the "setpoint." She's wrong about that. &lt;a href="http://sparkofreason.blogspot.com/2008/07/dissonance-redux.html"&gt;Here&lt;/a&gt;'s an analysis of another study that shows that physical activity correlates with higher weight. It doesn't address the composition of the weight however (fat vs. muscle).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://junkfoodscience.blogspot.com/2008/06/myth-of-sloth-slayed-again.html"&gt;This&lt;/a&gt; is a discussion of another study that shows that society has increased its level of activity, even while obesity rates have been increasing. It puts another nail in the coffin of sloth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So why doesn't exercise work for fat or weight loss? There are a few ways to look at it. First, and most simply, burning significant calories through exercise takes lots of time and work. An hour of heavy aerobic work by a medium sized person might burn 600 Calories or so above your basal metabolic rate. One hamburger undoes all that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other more basic issue is that when you burn those calories through exercise, you are using the fuel in your body. Your cells still need fuel and to the extent you exceed the fat burning capacity of your system, you will feel hunger. Fundamentally, exercise does not blunt hunger like a proper diet can, so it becomes much less automatic and prone to failure. Some people ramp up the exercise and "willpower" their way into additional weight loss, but if you exceed the capacity of your body to burn its own fat, the weight loss will come from muscle instead of fat, and your metabolism will slow down because it senses starvation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Thought Experiment - Some Weight Loss Scenarios&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You have a guy. He's in ok cardiovascular shape, carrying a little extra fat. Let's say he's are 6' tall, 200 lbs and 20% body fat. His daily &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/Articles/metrate.html"&gt;energy need&lt;/a&gt; is 2,500 Calories. He decides to lose weight. What will be the outcome of the different approaches?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Note: In physics class you learned that a calorie is the amount of heat needed to change the temperature of 1 ml of water by 1 degree centigrade. In nutrition, a Calorie is actually a kilo-calorie (kcal). I have generally tried to follow the convention that capital-C Calorie is a kcal.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Scenarios&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Diet-only Approach&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cut carbs, get plenty of protein, restrict calories to 1500 calories per day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Exercise-only Approach&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eat normal, standard American diet (65% carbs, 20% protein, 15% fat), exercise 600 calories beyond BMR per day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Intense Exercise and Diet Approach&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cut back on calories as in the diet-only approach. Do lots of aerobics and resistance training (600 calories per day) to enhance the calorie deficit.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Outcomes&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Diet-Only Approach&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The subject will have a caloric deficit of about 1,000 Calories per day. This will result in a weight loss equivalent of 7,000 Calories or 2 lbs of fat per week. He is carrying about 40 pounds of fat initially, so he will be able to burn a maximum of 1,240 Calories of fat from his body per day. Assuming his low-carbohydrate approach minimizes insulin response, the majority of the calories should be from fat. As he loses weight his ability to burn fat reduces, so he will have to run less of a deficit. Once his body adapts to fat burning, he will likely not feel terribly hungry most of the time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Exercise-Only Approach&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The subject will have a caloric deficit of about 600 Calories per day. This will result in a weight loss equivalent of 4,200 Calories or 1.2 lbs of fat per week. He is carrying about 40 pounds of fat initially, so he can support up to 1,240 Calories of fat from his body per day. One troubling aspect of this approach is that the realtively high carbohydrate content of his diet will likely induce an insulin response and thus inhibit fat-burning. Even though the net calorie restriction is less than the diet-only approach, the subject will feel hungry more and will have to "willpower" his way through to losing weight. With this type of approach, weight gain is highly likely if his routine is interrupted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Exercise and Diet Approach&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The subject will have a caloric deficit of about 1,600 Calories per day. This will result in a weight loss of 10,200 calories per week, or almost 3 lbs of fat. There is a potential pitfall here though. He will be exceeding his body's ability to use its own fat stores by about 360 Calories per day. His low-carb approach will allow for use of his fat as fuel, but once that reaches its limit, he will cannibalize muscle for fuel. This will cause hunger, and likely big drops in his metabolic rate. He will have a lack of energy and his physical capacity will decline.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What Does This Tell Us?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The bottom line is that fat-loss is limited by the body's ability to use internal fat as fuel. Fat loss can occur through either exercise or diet. Just don't push it too hard. Resistance exercise will help maintain muscle strength and also signal your body to send protein to the muscles that have been worked. If the combination of what you eat, plus what you burn from your fat stores is equal to or greater than your caloric needs your muscle loss (or catabolism) will be minimized.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On a low carbohydrate diet, your ability to replenish fuel for your muscles will likely be inhibited in the case of high-intensity or longer medium intensity exercise, so you may wish to increase carbs somewhat for those purposes. I think of it as "buying carbs" with high-intensity exercise. If you don't get sufficient carbs before high-intensity exercise you may &lt;a href="http://www.bikeradar.com/road/fitness/article/beat-the-bonk-17082"&gt;bonk&lt;/a&gt; (run out of muscle fuel). Here's another interesting perspective on the &lt;a href="http://www.active.com/story.cfm?CHECKSSO=0&amp;amp;STORY_ID=13188"&gt;bonk&lt;/a&gt;. With low intensity exercise (walking or light aerobics), you should be able to use fat for the majority of your energy needs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://spreadsheets.google.com/pub?key=pItwOYa6WQ0TReE66pXyoUg"&gt;This&lt;/a&gt; link will allow you to look at your own numbers. you will need to export the spreadsheet to your own computer.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But Lots of People Use Aerobics to Keep Trim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all know people who eat whatever they want, then maintain a super-active lifestyle and so never put on any weight. So those people can argue that exercise is what keeps them thin. But the method contains the seeds of failure. Eventually, most people will get injured or sick. When that happen, people with poor diets and lots of activity will tend to put weight on rapidly. They are swimming upstream with their approach to weight loss and maintenance. You can make progress, but if they stop paddling for a second, they lose everything and then some.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Net calories matter, but it's only part of the story for weight loss. Spark of Reason blog has a great &lt;a href="http://sparkofreason.blogspot.com/2008/07/energy-conservation-its-not-just-good.html"&gt;write-up &lt;/a&gt;on conservation of energy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;To lose or maintain weight, get your diet right first as spelled out in my previous posts &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/02/take-care-of-black-box-eat-right.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/06/unified-feed-theory.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2008/07/healthful-eating.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. Do exercise to build and maintain muscle and fitness. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;If you are going to make one change in your life to affect your weight and fitness, fix your diet first.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;Why Exercise Then&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Exercise carries many benefits not related to weight loss. Regardless of the weight issue, exercise has a number of benefits including: physical appearance, maintenance of muscle, confidence/self esteem, ability to be active, improved blood pressure, plus chemical advantages, such as increased High Density Lipoproteins (HDLs). I will cover that in future posts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Addendum 8/15/08: Exercise, especially resistance exercise, might cause weight to increase (by increasing muscle mass). It's good weight though. 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I believe that our responses in any given moment are driven by the complicated balance of the chemistry of our bodies combined with how it interconnects through our neural network. So in a sense, we are big complicated computer programs that are constantly being recast by our experiences, learnings, and interactions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From Pink Floyd Eclipse:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;...All that you eat&lt;br /&gt;And everyone you meet&lt;br /&gt;All that you slight&lt;br /&gt;And everyone you fight.&lt;br /&gt;All that is now&lt;br /&gt;All that is gone&lt;br /&gt;All that's to come&lt;br /&gt;and everything under the sun is in tune..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It follows that if we want to change outcomes in our lives, we have to change either the inputs to our body, change our body, or both (because changing the inputs changes our bodies—reprograms it).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have written about &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/communication-101.html"&gt;communication&lt;/a&gt;, the &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/05/nature-of-love-part-1-falling-in-love.html"&gt;nature of love&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/07/importance-of-vacations.html"&gt;vacation&lt;/a&gt;, and other issues dealing with emotions and &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/08/emotional-needs-in-relationship.html"&gt;relationships&lt;/a&gt;, but only recently have I delved into the physical side, specifically diet. These have proven to be my most popular writings since I started writing Emotions for Engineers about a year ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After a run-in with gout right before Thanksgiving in 2007, I decided I really needed to do something about my diet. I set out on my voyage of discovery. I chanced across Gary Taubes' "Good Calories, Bad Calories" and &lt;a href="http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216"&gt;this &lt;/a&gt;lecture that he gave at Berkeley. It completely changed my views on eating and diet. Since Thanksgiving, I have lost 30 lbs of mostly fat, and for the first time in my life feel in control of my body.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why we want so much to “be thin” troubles me. Most of us have two competing emotions—love and fear—that drive our decisions. If we want to lose weight because we want to look good for our spouses, that’s love. If we think that he or she will leave us for that ditzy young secretary if we don’t lose weight, that’s fear. Eating right because you don’t want to die is fear. Eating right because you want to be active and live long to see your grandkids is love. It can only be good if eating right and being at a healthy weight helps you feel better about yourself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fear is a harmful emotion that is driven by unknowns and doubts. As such, when we feel out of control concerning weight and fitness, as many do, the lack of control leads to fear, which can lead to depression, anxiety, co-dependence, and other bad things (&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philosophy_and_religion_in_Star_Wars"&gt;not to mention the dark side&lt;/a&gt;). At the foundation of all we are, is our physical health. If you can gain some degree of control over that, the world will be better. You will have less fear in your life and allow room for love and growth.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My message is to look deep and be brutally honest with yourself. M. Scott Peck says that mental health is “Commitment to reality at any cost.” Find your motivations and if they are negative, try to recast them in a positive light.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then take control...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;Disclaimer: I have done a lot of independent study on this material and believe it to be true, safe, and effective, but I am a blogger, not a doctor. I am my own guinea pig and am not recommending anything that I have not done myself. Nonetheless, everyone is different. Your mileage may vary on this. If problems develop from any recommendations, seek professional help.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It's Not About Losing Weight--It's About Losing Fat&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Weighing yourself may or may not be a good indicator of progress. Our bodies are made up of muscle, fat, water, and everything else. When most people talk about losing weight, they are hoping to lose fat. Water weight is easy. You can gain or lose five pounds in a day. But then you can't repeat it the next day. If you think you're overweight and want to shrink your muscles because you're too bulky, you are kidding yourself. Those aren't muscles—that’s the marbling making you big. Shrink the muscles and you'll be left with fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You want to convert your body and lifestyle into one that encourages usage of fat stores for fuel and discourages storage of fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So here are the two steps to a more healthy relationship with food.&lt;br /&gt;1. Learn how to eat right.&lt;br /&gt;2. Eat right.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Education&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Most people blow it at step one. They read the government's food pyramid, follow weight watchers, or just cut back on portions. That might work for some people, but not most. So here are some facts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. You do not need carbohydrates to live and thrive.&lt;br /&gt;2. Fat is an excellent fuel for low intensity activity (99.9% of the day for most of us).&lt;br /&gt;3. Dietary protein and some fats (essential fatty acids or EFAs) are necessary for good health.&lt;br /&gt;4. To lose weight you have to ingest fewer calories than you burn. (No surprise).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So there's the education part. Now here’s what to do about it. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Eat Mindfully&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now that you know what you need, you have a basis for acting on it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;First&lt;/strong&gt;, make sure you get plenty of protein (shoot for 1 gram per lb of desired body weight). If you weigh 150, this means at least 150 grams (600 calories) of protein. Lean meat has 7 grams of protein per ounce. [Edit: I think that for active people probably 0.5 to 1 gram is ok. If you are actually trying to lose weight, i.e. restricting calories, cheat towards the high end on protein. Finally, if you are very obese (e.g. more than 50% above your target weight), you might want to think more in terms of desired weight rather than current weight.].&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Second&lt;/strong&gt;, limit carbohydrates, but get plenty of vegetables. Eat non-starchy vegetables like greens, cabbage, and peppers. Generally stay away from grain products including corn, bread, and pasta. If you must eat grains, eat whole grains in limited amounts. Definitely stay away from anything with added sugar, including High Fructose Corn Syrup (HFCS). Limit you total grams of carbohydrate to about 50 - 100 per day (200 to 400 calories). Sadly, ironically, artificial sweeteners, although they do not hurt you from a calorie standpoint may induce an insulin response, which can slow down your metabolism or make you hungrier. If you engage in high intensity activities, you can handle higher levels of carbohydrates.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Third&lt;/strong&gt;, make sure you get some fats, especially omega 3s (fish oil). Don't worry too much about saturated vs. unsaturated, but stay away from hydrogenated oils (trans fats). The remainder of the calories needed should come from fat and more protein. There are lots of places on the web that will help you calculate your base metabolic rate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Fourth&lt;/strong&gt;, eat only when you are hungry. People eat for reasons besides sustenance. Sometimes there is an emotional attachment to eating in which food is used to medicate one’s psyche. This is a type of addiction. Other times people eat because it just tastes sooooo good or they simply don’t want to waste food. If you find yourself using food for emotional support or overeating at special events, try to find a way to stop that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Fifth&lt;/strong&gt;, keep an eye on the scale or your measurements or some objective measure. If you are eating as above it will be hard to gain fat. Most weight loss would be from fat. Gains would more likely be muscle than fat. If you are gaining unexpectedly, cut back on carb and fat calories. You still need a calorie deficit to lose weight. I like to look at my weight on Thursday or Friday morning because it’s right before the weekend. Keep a log or spreadsheet if you wish.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sixth&lt;/strong&gt;, do resistance exercises that challenge your muscles. Exercise is not an effective way to lose weight for most people. You should exercise anyway. It is good for you in many ways. Resistance exercise is good for everyone. It makes you stronger and sends a chemical message to your body to maintain muscle, even as you lose weight. Lift heavy enough to challenge yourself. If you can lift a weight more than 12 times, go to a heavier weight. The word “toning” has no meaning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Following the above, most people should be able to maintain weight. The good news is that if you do want to lose weight, most of it would be from fat, not muscle. Your body will lose its reliance on sugar as a fuel and you will start to burn fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Seventh&lt;/strong&gt;, limit weight loss to what your body can support. If you want to lose weight, the amount of fat you can lose is limited by the amount of fat you carry. You can burn approximately 31 calories per pound of bodyfat (bodyfat percentage times weight, e.g. 150 lbs at 30% bodyfat is 45 pounds of fat). Restricting calories more than that will lead to loss of non-fat weight. So in the example, total calories should be no less than your daily metabolic rate minus 1395 calories). The implication is that, at 3500 calories per pound of fat, this person can lose a maximum of about 2.8 pounds per week before crossing into non-fat weight loss. As you lose fat, this loss capacity diminishes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Eighth&lt;/strong&gt; and last, stick to the basics until you are on the right track. Once you do that, think about more details. There is an infinite amount of information on foods and supplements that you can pursue. Grass fed vs corn fed beef, farmed vs wild salmon, are thermogenics (like an ephedrine-caffeine stack) ok, sodium-potassium balance, meal frequencies, food combinations, etc. These things may make a difference in the long run, but you can be overwhelmed by the details, and for a start these issues are probably lost in the noise for most people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Why Does This Work?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nobody disputes the facts in the education section. But note how little resemblance there is to the food pyramid. When people follow the food pyramid recommendations, strange things happen to the body. The excess carbohydrates (grains especially) induce an insulin response, which drives nutrients into your fat and muscle cells. After a short time you feel hungry again. Even though you may have had a big meal, your cells are starving for energy. My grandmother used to talk about foods “sticking to your ribs.” Carbs do not do that; Protein does.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The body has many compensatory mechanisms, but excess carbs throw off the homeostatic mechanisms enough to cause fat gain. It doesn’t take much. Averaging 10 calories of fat deposition per day will add a pound in a year. Until my recent weight loss effort, I had been gaining about 3 lbs per year. That is only 30 calories per day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This low carb approach has proponents and detractors. The problems I had with the other approaches is that I would lose muscle mass and energy. My experience with low carb has been incredible. I have lost 24 lbs since Jan 1, 2008, my weight lifts have stayed the same or improved, and I have seldom felt hungry. This has been close to an automatic program for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some people say that losing weight is simply willpower. I don’t believe it. With low fat-high carb diets, people set up conditions that literally starve the cells in their bodies. In this starvation lies the seed of failure. Nobody can willingly starve himself or herself indefinitely. I don’t care how much willpower you have. You can’t hold your breath to death either. There’s too much science showing that these semi-starvation diets will not work. You need to give your cells enough fuel to keep them powered with the approach outlined above, the fuel not in your diet will come mainly from the fat in your body.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Eating a lower carbohydrate diet does have some potential side effects. At times, you may deplete your body’s stores of glycogen. This is especially true if you do high intensity exercise, which needs the sugar to fuel your muscles. At these times many people feel light-headed and foggy. I get the shakes a little and get a metallic taste in my mouth. It is called ketosis. Your body will adapt to this, but many people find it uncomfortable and stop the diet. The purpose of ketosis in this plan is to convert your body from needing sugar to fuel your low intensity needs, to using fat to fuel low intensity efforts. This is what the &lt;a href="http://www.atkins.com/Program/FourPhases.aspx"&gt;Atkins &lt;/a&gt;diet does in the induction phase. Some diets have a carbohydrate reefed day to refuel muscle glycogen and help reset the body’s metabolism.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The main takeaway for you is that most people can control their physical state. It is a question of positive motivation and the knowledge of how to do it. Removing health risks will allow you to focus on &lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/2007/08/more-on-needs-in-relationship.html"&gt;higher values&lt;/a&gt;. That can only be good. Happy trails.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Links:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.emotionsforengineers.com/"&gt;Emotions For Engineers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216"&gt;Gary Taubes' Berkeley Lecture&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Good-Calories-Bad-Gary-Taubes/dp/1400040787/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1214408334&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;Good Calories, Bad Calories Book&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/"&gt;Lyle McDonald&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0553574752?_encoding=UTF8"&gt;Protein Power Book&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Protein-Power-Lifeplan-Michael-Eades/dp/0446678678/ref=cm_cr_pr_pb_t"&gt;Protein Power Lifeplan Book&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.proteinpower.com/drmike/"&gt;Blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.crossfit.com/cf-info/what-crossfit.html"&gt;Cross Fit&lt;/a&gt; – a combination of resistance and aerobic activity – if you dare&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ispub.com/ostia/index.php?xmlFilePath=journals/ijnw/vol4n2/diet.xml"&gt;Ketogenic Diets&lt;/a&gt; – Comprehensive summary of advantages&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.projectfit.org/iflifeblog/fatlossguide.htm"&gt;Fat Loss Troubleshooting Guide from ProjectFit.org&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://content.nejm.org/cgi/content/full/359/3/229"&gt;Recent research comparing Low Carb, Mediterranean, and Low Fat diets&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following link is to a tool that can help you measure your progress on the road to better health.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe style="WIDTH: 120px; HEIGHT: 240px" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;p=8&amp;amp;l=as1&amp;amp;asins=B000G7YW74&amp;amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;amp;fc1=000000&amp;amp;IS2=1&amp;amp;lt1=_blank&amp;amp;m=amazon&amp;amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;amp;bc1=000000&amp;amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;amp;f=ifr" frameborder="0" scrolling="no"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-2977603727287339469?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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It lacked an engineering elegance, so I set out to express it in a way we engineers can understand--equations and graphs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before I even start, I want to clarify that the focus is on losing fat, not losing weight. Basically, we are all composed of fat, muscle, water, and everything else. We can think of "everything else" as a constant. Yes, bone density can change, organ size can change, but those are outside of the scope of this topic. Water weight can be lost and gained quickly by drinking water, eating, going to the bathroom, letting yourself get dehydrated, eating carbs. It can fluctuate by 5 or more pounds in a given day. We need a minimum level of hydration. We need to compensate for those changes. That leaves fat and muscle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In general, more muscle = good, more fat = bad, all within limits of course. So when we talk about losing weight, the focus needs to be on fat. You don't want to lose muscle, and water weight is not relevant.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So the equation, expressed in Excelese is&lt;br /&gt;DeltaBF = MIN ( MAX ( deltaE, -31.5 * lbs. body fat), k + f (Max(0, carbs in - 50)))&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SDUOevt1FzI/AAAAAAAAAEw/UIqqgt6RLC8/s1600-h/unifiedFeed.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/SDUOevt1FzI/AAAAAAAAAEw/UIqqgt6RLC8/s320/unifiedFeed.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5203080865864030002" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;where:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;deltaE&lt;/span&gt; is simply calories in - calories out (be careful, it's not quite that simple though).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;lbs. body fat&lt;/span&gt; is weight * % body fat.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;f (carbs in-50)&lt;/span&gt; is the slope of the upper limit on fat deposition related to the biochemical need of spent carbs in your system to store fat in your fat cells after allowing for 50 grams to fuel the brain.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;k&lt;/span&gt; is some amount of body fat that can be deposited even on a zero carb diet through alternate biochemical pathways.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Lower Limit on Delta(FatDeposition)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A recent paper called "&lt;a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15615615"&gt;A limit on the energy transfer rate from the human fat store in hypophagia&lt;/a&gt;" helps us begin to understand how much fat we can take off in a given day. This estimates the amount of energy that can be removed from fat to fuel your body. The answer is (290+/-25) kJ/kgd.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Converting 290 *(239 calories/kJ)*(1Calorie/1000calories)*(1kg/2.2lb)= 31.5 Cal/lb fat +/-2.7&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This effectively sets a limit on the maximum amount of fat you can burn each day with moderate activity and no steroids. It may be possible to lose more fat with activity because of the hormones excreted by that activity, but it seems like a reasonable way to think about it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Note: As you lose body fat, the amount of fat you can lose in a day will decrease. Consider a 200 lb guy with 20% body fat. He is carrying 40 lbs of fat. So if he cuts his food intake by 1240 calories per day below basal metabolic rate, he can lose that much fat per day without eating into his muscle (lean body mass or LBM). Once he loses 10 lbs. of body fat, for example, he must limit his intake cut to 930 calories. Other metabolic changes are likely happening, for example, with cut in intake metabolism slows down, so that adjustment needs to be considered as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Upper Limit on Delta(FatDeposition)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The other day, I saw something on a blog. The author said something like, "If you're low carbin', calories aren't important. If you're low fattin', calories count."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the low carb-ingestion cases,  you &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;can&lt;/span&gt; gain weight by eating lots of calories, but your body adapts to the high calories by upping your metabolism and giving you a sense of high energy. Even though ingesting low-carb, you will put on fat through some alternative metabolic pathways. It's just not as fast.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As you increase the amount of carbs that you eat. You open up a more efficient pathway for fat conversion. Your body uses the spent carbs to create triglyceride molecules. This is the primary storage form of fat. The slope of the line is a ratio of fat to carbs in a triglyceride molecule. I don't have that number.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Ratchet Effect&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;You all know how a ratchet wrench works. It has a gear and a pawl, which prevent the socket from moving backwards. Its analog in electronics is a diode and in plumbing a check valve.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;Simplified, biochemically you can store excess fat only if there are spent glucose molecules in your system. That is a well known, undisputed fact. So if you do not have spent glucose molecules, you can't store fat. Your body does not have a way to transport fats in your bloodstream into the fat cells. Your fat cells acts like a ratchet. It lets fat out if you are eating less than you burn, but if you eat more than you burn, your body has to find some other way to get rid of the fat (increasing your metabolism, fidgeting, pushing you out of your seat). &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;This is why if you're not eating any carbs, calories don't matter much. At worst, no fat leaves the fat cells. You can't get fatter.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The delta E Trap&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What you lose is equal to what you eat minus what you burn. Burn more than you eat you lose weight; eat more than you burn you gain weight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DeltaE is a common way of thinking about weight loss. It is a true relationship, but there is complexity in the relationship between the composition of what you eat and delta E. In fact, there is reason to believe that what you eat, more than simply being an independent variable is actually a driver of deltaE. I think the basic energy equation should be written as&lt;br /&gt;E(out) = E(in) - deltaE. In fact, it is perhaps better to think of it as a giant feedback loop, because the calories you eat actually alter your metabolism as well over time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;E (in)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We as a society often see obese people and think that they have no willpower. They must be either pigs (gluttons) or lazy (sloths). But they are no different than any of us. When they feel hunger they eat, when they have energy they play. Let's think about this. People eat because a. they feel hungry or b. social pressures or pleasure. Hunger is not a character defect. We all know obese people who do not eat much, but stay obese anyway. What is the driver there? Something is altering the energy balance away from the balance that leaner people have.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In general, if you don't feel hungry, you should not eat. Your body's cells do not need anything in that moment. If is likely that sustenance will be stored as fat. The key is to eat right so you don't feel hungry before you need the sustenance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Delta E&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When you eat carbohydrates, especially simple carbs like sugar, white rice, or white flour, your blood sugar increases. This causes your body to put out insulin to regulate blood sugar. It does this by pushing that sugar into your cells, where it can be used for fuel. At the end the spent glucose then allows for deposition of fat into fat cells.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now because the insulin has swept your blood clean of sugar, you begin to feel hungry. If you respond by eating carbs, the cycle starts again. The fundamental issue is that your body really wants to store carbs for later.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Repeat this, as we tend to with a Standard American Diet (SAD), and your muscles become resistant to the effects of insulin. You need more and more sugar to fuel yourself. Your body has trouble using its fat stores for fuel. This drives deltaE up and therefore E(Out) down. You gain weight.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You do &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;not&lt;/span&gt; need carbohydrates to survive, your body will convert protein to sugar and use fat for fuel, but you &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;want&lt;/span&gt; to ingest some carbohydrates to prevent the conversion of muscle into sugar (gluconeogenesis), as well as to prevent the feeling of foggy headedness that some people get when they eat low-carb. &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/"&gt;Lyle McDonald&lt;/a&gt; estimates a minimum of 50 - 100 g of carbs per day is good, more if you're doing resistance training.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Low Fat Enhances Storage of Fat&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;If you're on a low fat diet, it's different. In order to maintain your calories, you will likely be eating lots of carbs. This will then leave lots of spent carbs laying around in your bloodstream to hook up with those fatty acids. So if you are eating less than you're burning, you will lose weight. If you are eating more than you're burning, your body will push the excess into your fat cells.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Mindful Eating&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At the end of the day, if you are paying attention to your weight, you can, in theory, lose weight by simple willpower. Those who have hormonal and enzyme issues, such as insulin resistance will have a more difficult time of it unless they eat right. For most of us though, we do not obsess over every calorie or gram that we eat. So we need a more automatic method. For me, limiting carbs has been a pretty reasonable automatic method. I have felt stronger than I have before when limiting calories and so far have lost almost 40 pounds.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But even with low carbs you have to eat mindfully. Eat only when you're hungry. Limit sweets. Pass up the cake at the company function. It's too easy to fall back into bad habits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;References:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.proteinpower.com/drmike/weight-loss/low-carb-and-calories-2/"&gt;Protein Power&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/"&gt;BodyRecomposition&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The following link is to a tool that can help you measure your progress on the road to better health.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=emotforengi-20&amp;o=1&amp;p=8&amp;l=as1&amp;asins=B000G7YW74&amp;md=10FE9736YVPPT7A0FBG2&amp;fc1=000000&amp;IS2=1&amp;lt1=_blank&amp;m=amazon&amp;lc1=0000FF&amp;bc1=000000&amp;bg1=FFFFFF&amp;f=ifr" style="width:120px;height:240px;" scrolling="no" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/194600066391868656-6532483602076518597?l=www.emotionsforengineers.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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The idea is that whatever you think, whatever you do, whatever actions you take or words you speak are initiated by chemical reactions in your body.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is an easy step to go from there to ...therefore, a healthy body gives you a healthy mind.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have recently had an intense focus on getting my body to a healthier state. There are two parts to that: diet and exercise. This post is about diet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A recent book, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Good-Calories-Bad-Gary-Taubes/dp/1400040787/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1205105142&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;Good Calories, Bad Calories&lt;/a&gt; by Gary Taubes has rocked my world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taubes has researched and documented the history of obesity and nutritional research since the mid 1800s. What he has revealed in the book is the likely cause of the slow motion train wreck of obesity and diabetes in the United States.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/R9R3YhhgnkI/AAAAAAAAAEI/m3c3R00GE3I/s1600-h/obesityTrends.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5175893134955028034" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/R9R3YhhgnkI/AAAAAAAAAEI/m3c3R00GE3I/s320/obesityTrends.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;As you can see in the maps to the right, the incidence of obesity in the US has increased greatly since 1991. Diabetes, hypertension, and other chronic syndromes have followed similar trajectories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taubes has documented how and when the thinking about good diet changed from the idea that carbohydrates (especially highly processed carbohydrates) make you fat, to the current concept that carbohydrates are good for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the line graph, obesity increases starting in the mid-1970s when George McGovern announced the publication of "Dietary Goals for the United States." This publication marked the beginning of the carbohydrate age. The American Heart Association began pushing a low fat, low cholesterol diet, and the USDA did the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/R9VeVBhgnlI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/oUJxUWPQJoY/s1600-h/Obesity6004.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5176147062011502162" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/R9VeVBhgnlI/AAAAAAAAAEQ/oUJxUWPQJoY/s320/Obesity6004.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In recent years, there has been an important paradigm, that weight change/obesity is driven simply by calories in minus calories out. Proponents of this paradigm cite the first law of thermodynamics. Their thinking is that energy in (what you eat) and energy out (what you use) are the independent variables with delta E being the simple difference between the two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Taubes contends, with an enormous amount of reference material, that the composition of your diet actually drives the delta E, then your body does what it needs to do in order to either "force" you to eat more (by triggering hunger pangs for example) or by changing your base metabolism or activity levels. &lt;strong&gt;The laws of thermodynamics still apply.&lt;/strong&gt; It's just that your body changes its requirements dynamically. In this model, obesity is not a failure of willpower or laziness (gluttony and sloth), but rather a biological imperative. It treats the body and metabolism as not just a calorie counter, but as a metabolically active organism. This perspective is more consistent with the results of multitudes of studies than the inert metabolically static model.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This bothers many people, because their belief is that obese people just don't care about themselves. Nothing could be further from the truth. We all know overweight people who eat tremendously low calorie diets and are unable to lose weight. Of course even when they go off the diet, they gain it right back and more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nutritionists have long known the following: Carbohydrate consumption drives insulin secretion. They also know that Insulin secretion drive fat deposition. These are known facts. As engineers you know that this is logically equivalent to "Carbohydrate consumption drives fat deposition."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So eating that tends to drive insulin secretion will tend to cause deposition of fat. This is known and has been known for a very long time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In general, all else being equal, lower calorie intake will result in lower body weight. In an uncontrolled caloric environment (i.e. the real world), higher levels of carbohydrate ingestion will trigger an insulin response in your body, which will then leave your body craving more food. Repeat this many time and the cells of your body become insulin resistant, which will drive higher levels of insulin secretion. This leads eventually to &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metabolic_syndrome"&gt;metabolic syndrome&lt;/a&gt;, symptoms of which are diabetes, high blood pressure, central obesity, decreased HDL level, and elevated triglycerides. You can also get increased uric acid levels in your system, which can lead to gout.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The point is not strictly that carbohydrates are bad for you, but rather that the people who have been claiming that carbohydrates are good for you have done that without regard for basic scientific principles. And by the way, there is a preponderance of evidence that indicates that excessive carbohydrates are bad for you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;E4E's Advice&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had gained almost three pounds per year since I graduated from college in 1979. I have tried diets from time to time as well as exercise. What I found was that when I would try to do both, after a short time, it was really hard for me to exercise. I would become sluggish and feel unmotivated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In late 2007, I decided to learn about this stuff and really make an effort to become a better animal by becoming more fit and losing body fat (not just losing weight). A bout with gout right before Thanksgiving really motivated me to learn about nutrition.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I started digging into website of people that I was familiar with. One of the first was Lyle McDonald's &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/"&gt;body recompostion&lt;/a&gt; website. Lyle is a science nerd who really likes to pore through research and extract the relevant and important information. This was a really good start. I learned a few things on this. First make sure you get enough protein. Try to consume at least 1 gram of protein per lb of body weight (this is a lot of protein). Second, you can cut up to 31 calories per pound of body fat out of your diet and lose minimal lean body mass.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From there I found several paths:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This Gary Taubes &lt;a href="http://webcast.berkeley.edu/event_details.php?webcastid=21216"&gt;lecture&lt;/a&gt; at Berkeley contains the basics of what is in Good Calories, Bad Calories.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Paleo diet websites - These are all a little different in what they consider to be appropriate diet. I think they all favor lower carbohydrates (especially no grains).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thepaleodiet.com/"&gt;The Paleo Diet&lt;/a&gt; has a lot of the science&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://paleorecipes.blogspot.com/"&gt;Paleo Recipes&lt;/a&gt; recipes that follow a gluten-free philosophy&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://mypaleokitchen.blogspot.com/"&gt;My Paleo Kitchen&lt;/a&gt; heavy on vegetables, fruits, and meats&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Disclaimer: I am not a doctor or trained nutritionist. If you are contemplating changes in your diet or exercise, you should first check with a doctor. I also recommend that you learn about fat and carbohydrate metabolism, as I suspect that many doctors are not up to date on all those topics. &lt;/span&gt;Remember in all this, your mileage may vary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Having said that, my basic conclusions from all of this are as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Exercise is good for you, but it will not be the biggest driver of weight loss. It is important for your health and well-being to do both aerobic, resistance, and flexibility training.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. Diet is an important source of good health and weight loss, so...&lt;br /&gt;a. Eat plenty of protein. Somewhere around &lt;a href="http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/Articles/calorieacalorie.html"&gt;1 gram of protein per pound of weight&lt;/a&gt; seems like a good number. (note: if you have problems with your kidneys, check with your doctor first).&lt;br /&gt;b. Eating fat is OK. Stay away from trans fats generally.&lt;br /&gt;c. If you are trying to lose weight, cut back on (primarily) carbohydrates to the tune of &lt;a href="http://www.mindandmuscle.net/articles/lyle_mcdonald/maximum_fatloss"&gt;about 31 calories per pound of body fat&lt;/a&gt;. In my case, when I started out I was about 230 lbs at 20% bodyfat. I cut about 1200 calories per day. I could have cut more (230 * 20% * 31 = 1426), but this seems to be working. I'm losing so far about a pound per week, with very little decrease in my resistance training abilities. So far I'm down about 20 lbs. Use a Tanita scale or get a fat caliper measurement to determine your body fat.&lt;br /&gt;d. Do not add sugar to food, stay away from sweets in general, and do not drink sweetened soft drinks. Even artificial sweeteners can elicit an insulin response.&lt;br /&gt;e. When you do eat carbohydrates, generally try to stick to vegetables and fruit. Nuts are OK too (not sugared ones though).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, take care of your body, and keep yourself in a place where you want to be physically. 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ABC stands for Antecedent, Behavior, Consequences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;The basic idea is that Behaviors are a feedback system, mainly between Behaviors and Consequences.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;A possibly useful way of looking at our responses to our emotions is the other ABC framework laid out by &lt;a href="http://webspace.ship.edu/cgboer/ellis.html"&gt;Albert Ellis&lt;/a&gt;, which I found in the book, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Adult-Psychological-Spiritual-Integration/dp/0809132230/ref=sr_1_1/103-3579675-1389409?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1180556987&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;How to Be An Adult by David Richo&lt;/a&gt;. "A" stands for activation, "B" is Beliefs, and "C" is consequences. It has to do with the topic of "owning your feelings" and anger. From my perspective owning your feelings means to understand where those feelings come from and responding to them appropriately. Understanding where the feelings come from is the key.&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/Rl2Ob9Ey2VI/AAAAAAAAABE/xNSS21W_gsQ/s1600-h/coommABC.jpg"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5070365366391331154" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right;" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_JVUJMIhUdcI/Rl2Ob9Ey2VI/AAAAAAAAABE/xNSS21W_gsQ/s320/coommABC.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;If we take our communication diagram from a &lt;a href="http://emotionsforengineers.blogspot.com/2007/05/communication-101.html"&gt;previous post&lt;/a&gt;, we can group &lt;strong&gt;this&lt;/strong&gt; ABC quite nicely in that framework.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consider a situation in which you are driving down the freeway minding your own business, when suddenly, someone zooms past you and cuts right in front of you (Activation). You're ticked off, angry that this guy would cut you off, so you make some naughty hand gesture (Consequence). You might say that you are mad because he cut you off. In the ABC framework, the anger is not caused by being cut off, but rather by your belief as to his motives.  In your belief system, people who cut you off are jerks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Would you see it differently if you knew that his daughter was bleeding to death in the front seat and he was rushing her to the hospiital? If that were the case, your feeling might be one of pity rather than anger and you would move out of the way willingly.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is closely related to the Fundamental Attribution Error (a very common bias), in which we attribute bad motives to others when we do not know their motives. A nice definition from &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error"&gt;Wikipedia&lt;/a&gt; is that &lt;i style="font-style: italic;"&gt;people have an unjustified tendency to assume that a person's actions depend on what "kind" of person that person is rather than on the social and environmental forces influencing the person. Overattribution is less likely, perhaps even inverted, when people explain their own&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; behavior.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;This is a variation on the standard communication flow. The difference being  that the message is often sent by an action. So when you feel a strong emotion over what someone has done, try to examine your beliefs and preconceptions, then verify with feedback before you respond. 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