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BREAKING: Popular Kikuyu singer of MOMO song Murimi Wa Kahalf Dead

2015-06-04T21:13:00.000-07:00

The kikuyu singer famed for the song ino ni Momo is dead. Murimi wa kahalf popularised the plus size woman with his hit song momo. Murimi searched far and wide to find a true momo and even gave a cash reward of kshs 5000 for any one who would help get that woman to do the momo song with him. It is with sadness that his fans received the news of his demise.

Is Moody Awori Really Dead

2015-05-28T05:51:00.001-07:00

Is Moody Awori really dead? The answer to that question is a solid NO. These were rumors started
by a certain blogger for reasons best known to himself. Moody Awori or uncle Moody as he is most commonly referred to is alive and kicking. Some prominent people tweeted that Moody had died and other people started re tweeting those tweets thus fueling the bad rumor.
Arthur Moody Awori was born on December 5 1927. He rose to prominence after becoming the 9th vice president of Kenya from 25 September 2003 to 9 January 2008.

Most women do not shower daily says recent survey

2015-02-28T04:10:00.002-08:00

A recent survey showed that 4 out of 5 women do not take a shower when they wake up. That is 80% . 2 in every 5 men do not take a daily shower. Growing up girls are always told the importance of taking a bath at least twice daily. For girls and women it is more crucial to take that twice daily bath but it seems that they are the lazy ones here. It is surprising to hear that some women even go for days without taking that all important shower. Most women attribute this to tight schedules and motherhood. In other words some women are too busy to take care of themselves. After a hard day at work they would rather hit the blankets rather that hit the showers. Some other women claimed that they would rather save on water costs rather than waste the commodity.

In Africa where in some parts women have to walk for many miles to look for the all precious commodity, water it is only natural that they use it for cooking and drinking than showering. However their counterparts in the urban cities would only have a busy schedule to blame for not showering. In some parts of the cities where there are large populations, water is scarce and thus households

would rather save it than use it carelessly bathing.

Lupita Nyong'o Back in the Oscars Again

2015-02-22T03:54:00.001-08:00

Lupiter Nyongo the 31 year old Kenyan actress who took the world by storm when she won an Oscar for best supporting female actress for the movie 12 years a slave will be back again in this year's Oscars. Lupiter is among a host of Hollywood stars that will be presenting the Oscars in the 87th edition that goes night tonight.

Best actor- Nominees
Steve Carell-Foxcatcher
Bradley Cooper-American Sniper
Benedict Cumberbatch- The imitation Game
Michael Keaton- Birdman
Eddy Redmayne- The theory of everything

Best Actress- Nominees
Marion Cotillard- Two days, one night
Felicity Jones- The theory of everything
Julianne Moore- Still Ice
Rasamund Pike- Gone Girl
Reese Witherspoon- Wild

Best Supporting Actress- Nominees

Patricia Arquette- Boyhood
Laura Dern-Wild
Keira Nightley- The imitation game
Emma Stone- Birdman
Meryl Streep- Into the Woods

Best Supporting Actor- Nominees
Robert Duvall- The Judge
Ethan Hawk- Boyhood
Edward Norton- Birdman
Mark Ruffalo- Foxcatcher
J.K Simmon- Whiplash

Best Picture- Nominees
American Sniper
Birdman
Boyhood
The Grand Budapest Hotel
The Imitation Game
Selma
The Theory of Everything
Whiplash

As usual the Oscar present a platform for fashion houses to showcase the latest trends. During last year's
Oscars Lupiter wore a blue flowing Prada by stylist Micaela Erlanger. All eyes will be on Lupiter to see who she will showcase.

First Lady Trains with Media Divas For March 8 Half Marathon

2015-02-19T23:35:00.001-08:00

First Lady Margaret Kenyatta trained for her forthcoming March 8 half marathon with media ladies at state house on Thursday. This will be the second edition of the Beyond Zero initiative a brainchild of The First lady. The Media Divas included Radio Africa's Caroline Mutoko, Citizen's Judy Gichuru, NTV'S Sheila Mwanyigha

If you were wondering where all those beautiful News anchors from Citizen, Ktn and Ntv have been up to especially since their Media houses were taken off air by the digital migration, now you know. Some 42 thousand shillings was raised by the divas for the Beyond Zero initiative. Beyond zero Initiative seeks to combat HIV/AIDS and prevent maternal death by providing mobile clinics.

How to treat your woman on Valentines day and thereafter

2015-02-08T03:54:00.000-08:00

Valentines day is fast approaching and men all over the world are a worried lot. A lot has happened since the last Valentines day, and if you ask any woman, things went back to normal. No more flowers and Candy and sexy lingerie. No more saying I love you and just cuddling. That ended on he 15th of February after a romantic night of dinner, wine and sex. Now that the day is approaching men are calculating how to make their moves. Most of them have already been consumed by other pleasures starting with the world cup, then the English premiere league and of late the AFCON. Well the woman has been there all along looking and yearning for some love and affection. What a woman wants most is to be loved. It is that simple, yet many men say that women are complicated. Show a woman some love and affection and you have won her over. This however should be all through and not only during Valentines day. I recently met my friend who lives in the United Kingdom. He had come for a short visit here in Kenya and called me for some drinks. Well when I arrived at the venue I met him at the car park accompanied by his wife. We proceeded inside the restaurant and as I sat down on a chair I noticed that he did not, instead he pulled a chair for his wife to sit on and only did so himself after her wife had sat down. I was flabbergasted and asked him whether he did that all the time to which he replied to the affirmative. I told him that kind of thing we only see in movies.

Well a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step and we can all learn something from our British men. Well they might not be the most romantic men compared with their Italian and French counterpart but at least they still open car doors for their partners and pull out chairs in restaurants

Back to Valentines and the question most men are asking is, how do i impress my partner on Valentines day and thereafter. Well first men can begin slowly getting their communication right. Maybe you have not been calling your woman as often as possible. Call her at least three times a day.
Text her a dozen times. A study by the university of Maryland College of medicine found that women speak 20,000 words in one day. This is almost three time what a man speaks which is 7,000 words.
Therefore call her, ask her how her day is and then when you go home in the evening talk to her some more and then listen to what she has to say. By listening I mean listen, not hear.
Buy her small gifts, this might be a chocolate, a sweet a handkerchief. Remember this is not D Day yet we are just prepping. Tell her how much you love her and value her. When it is time for bed don't think about sex first, think about cuddling. Men are visual beings and they are always ready for sex at any instance. The moment a man sees his woman all he thinks of is getting over with the sex bit and then? Slumber land follows. A woman is an emotional being and even though sex is important it comes gradually. Think of it this way, a man is a gas cooker and a woman is an electric cooker. A gas cooker ignites immediately and extinguishes instantly. An electric cooker on the other hand ignites slowly and also when it comes to cooling off it does so gradually. Men should learn how to strike a balance so that they can ensure their women are well catered for emotionally. So therefore Cuddling is a key word.
Romantic dinners is also important. Take her out to a Chinese restaurant or whatever restaurant that might bring out the romance. Just the two of you in a get away and candle lit dinner.

Prepping is done and now comes the day itself how do you treat your queen on this very special Valentines day?

Message

Keep sending her a lot of sweet nothing messages and as the day wears on get naughty with the texts
so that she knows what she is in for. This will make her start gradually heating up, remember the electric cooker story? So by the time you get home she will be hot and ready for you.

Flowers

Buy some red roses for her. Red roses symbolizes Love and passion and what better way to tell her you love her than to buy her red roses this valentines. By red roses i mean real live roses and not plastic flowers that are popular during this season.

Red Wine and Chocolate

Red wine and chocolate are an aphrodisiac. This Valentines day don't forget that all important bottle of wine for the two of you lovers. This gets you both in the mood and the woman who we are looking at showing that love will love this a lot

Sexy Lingerie

Of course after all this Love and affection and communication the real thing is going down. Sex is definitely happening. Real Valentines love doesn't need to be boring with the woman
donning your old T shirt. Invest in some sexy Lingerie for the night. Either red or black would do. Bring this day to a close by giving her passionate love that she will remember for a long, long time. After the love making don't forget to cuddle.

NFL Superbowl Action Goes down this weekend

2015-02-01T06:22:00.000-08:00

Millions of fans world wide will be watching the finals of the 2015 American super bawl49. This events brings together football fans from all over the world. Seattle seahawks Vs New England Russel wilson will be the man to watch. The NFL is divided between 32 even teams of NFC National football conference and AFC American football Conference. Apart from footbal NFL fans this event is fully booked in terms of advertisement spots. The NFL draws together 100 million viewers and that is something that makes the advertisers mouths water. It is funny that the sporting event actually draws much commercial interest than sports appetite.

NFL is always overbooked and this year is no different, thousands of fans stand to miss the action due to tickets brokers selling tickets that are not valid.

Open Letter To Reverend Kathy Kiuna

2015-01-27T08:34:00.000-08:00

Dear Reverend Kathy Kiuna. I see you always. In my television every Sunday preaching the good word In the JCC program-me on KTN. I together with millions of others get inspired by your captivating, inspiring uplifting messages. I follow you on your program-me Woman without limits that airs every Sunday on NTV. You are a Woman of substance. You have been sent to this generation at such a time as this for a purpose especially for the young women. To uplift them from the captivity of negativity. For many years the girl child has been told that her place is at the bottom of the ladder. But Dear Reverend Kathy Kiuna I watch you speak words of life unto our girls and women.

When God found Adam hiding from Him at the Garden of Eden with his wife, He asked him, Adam why are you hiding? And he answered, because I am naked. God asked him a very powerful question.
Who told you that you are naked?

Many generations of girl children have been told many things. You can never amount to anything. Your place is in the Kitchen not the Corporate boardrooms. Dear reverend Kathy Kiuna, there are many voices talking to our girls today. But your voice has emerged to speak positive things. You told them during Daughters of Zion, You have overcome because the one inside you is greater than him that is in the world. Positivity overwhelms the Daughters of Zion meetings. Dear Kathy Kiuna, please continue and don't stop. Tell our women that they can drive Mercedes Benzes and Four wheelers. Tell them please that indeed they can live in Runda and Lavington and Kileleshwa and Lavington. Who told them that they can only live in eastlands? I want to see a Kenyan girl dressed in a power suit, with keys to her house and to her car that she has bought with her money. I want to see a kenyan girl that can run a board meeting without batting an eyelid.

Dear reverend Kathy Kiuna. I salute you for the job you are doing. I wish my daughters would pass through your hands and brush shoulders with you. That their eyes would be open and that shackles of the captivity of negativity van be broken. Dear Reverend Kathy Kiuna because you are one in a million. Millions are held in the Captivity of negativity. Eric Wainaina once sang nchi ya kitu kidogo, nchi ya watu wadogo. When one of our own shines we refuse to believe. We refuse to believe that Victor Wanyama is playing in the English Premier league. We refuse to accept our runners who are treated like gods abroad. Therefore dear Reverend Kathy Kiuna dont stop yet. There are million of girls in all our counties that are hiding from the world, they cannot go forth and unleash their full potentials. Preach on Mum. Preach on.

House girl forces small boy under her care to suck her private parts

2015-01-26T03:16:00.000-08:00

A house girl in Zimmerman area of Nairobi county in Kenya surprised many people when it was found out that she has been secretly forcing a boy under her care to lick he private parts. The little boy whose mother was a working mother going away daily to look for money for upkeep was always left behind with the nanny. The nanny taking advantage of the freedom of being alone with the boy decided to experiment her dirty thoughts with the boy. According to the boy's mum, she came home one day and noticed that her son was tagging along her every move. That is when she decided to ask her son what was the problem. The boy then proceeded to spill all the beans and told her mom that "aunty" has been telling him to lick her private parts. This incidence raises a lot of questions about the safety of our children when we leave them with nannies for the better part of the day. Parents should also do a thorough background check of the nannies they want to employ before leaving their children with total strangers. Recently a Ugandan nanny was caught on tape mercilessly beating a two year toddler. The footage which was taken by a CCTV camera went viral on social media generating a lot of hatred towards the nanny. In the Zimmerman incidence the nanny tried to defend herself by saying that she only removed her skirt and not everything. At this rate many career women and men too might be forced to quit their jobs and take parenting as a full time job

Gloria Muliro Ends her five year Marriage with preacher Omba

2015-01-15T22:36:00.000-08:00

Gloria Muliro ukampa niwake pastor Omba....... so goes the song tam tam by willy Paul and Size 8.
Well, its over now. Gloria Muliro ended the five year Marriage with her Congolese born Husband pastor Omba. It has been a rollercoaster marriage being on the spotlight and blamed the myriad of girls that always surrounded her husband. So now Gloria and Omba have gone separate ways.Recently celebrity couple Nameless and Wahu were romoured to have been separated but it turned out to be just that, romours. Gloria Muliro rose into fame back in the year 2012 when she released her hit song Sitolia which she sang in collaboration with award winning artiste Willy Paul. They later won Female and Male artiste of the year respectively in The Mwafaka awards and Groove awards.

Sonko draws a pistol to reporters live on National TV

2015-01-10T06:18:00.001-08:00

When it comes to showmanship you got to leave it up to one Mike Mbuvi Sonko, Nairobi county senator. Ever since he got into the limelight Mike Sonko as he is popularly referred to has caused ripples and ruffled feathers. From punching iron grills to lying on streets to insulting airport staff in the Hague to putting the very president on loudspeaker while calling him.
Hate him or love him, Mike Sonko is the man that will always be on the news.
Over the Christmas holidays Sonko was seen on the coast side of Kenya splashing his millions with friends and family. The flamboyant senator says that whoever is uncomfortable with the way he flashes his millions should pound glass and swallow or better still swallow razor blades. In other words the man is not ashamed of showing off his millions to whoever cares to see them. On Facebook recently he showed off his stacks of millions to the awe of millions of Facebook users. He later posted on Facebook requesting people who had any need to comment and say their needs which he would sort by the end of the day. The post went viral with thousands of likes, comments and shares.
The latest Sonko Saga is one in which he showed up in one of the city funeral homes with his entourage complete with armed bodyguards. This according to security analyst raises very sharp concerns as it is not good for guards not uniformed to display fire arms. Talking to pressmen sonko disclosed that he too is always armed with a gun and he went on to brandish a pistol right in front of the cameras. He argues that he would rather be caught prepared rather that being caught like a sitting duck.
His guards have been accused of intimidating motorists while Sonko drove on the wrong side of the rode as his entourage blared its sirens.
Well hate him or love him, but one thing is clear, sonko is gonna continue springing surprises at us for as long as we have him around.

Ida Odinga loses son Fidel Odinga in mysterious circumstances

2015-01-04T04:31:00.001-08:00

The world woke up on Sunday 4th January 2015 to the sad news of Fidel Castro Odinga, son of Kenya's opposition leader and former prime minister Honorable Raila Amolo Odinga. According to the family spokesperson Suba MP John Mbadi, Fidel spent a better part of Saturday with his immediate family before joining his friends. Fidel did not return to his Karen home until early Sunday morning and according to his gate man he was in a jovial mood. Fidel was later discovered dead by his wife who informed his dad. It is indeed a great loss for Ida, the former PM and all Kenyans at large. We wish The family of former PM God's grace at this moment of great loss.

Why The Ruthless Nanny Torturing baby Story is not adding up

2014-11-23T01:51:00.002-08:00

East africa and perhaps was thrown into a frenzy on Friday evening after a Nanny video went viral. The video which was circulated mainly via whats-app and later Facebook and twitter showed a nanny mercilessly mistreating a two year old. The video shows the house-help(pun intended) stuffing food into the mouth of the child who was either sick or sleepy. The child, was not keeping up with the nanny's speed. At one point the nanny eats the food herself. A few minutes later the toddle vomits the food obviously because it had been stuffed into her at a very high speed.

The Househelp then proceeded to slap the poor toddler thrice on the face, slaps even a full grown up adult would reel at. In the video now gone viral she proceeds to roughly push her off the chair and sends her sprawling on the hard floor head first. As if that is not enough she picks a torch and uses it to spank her hard on her small bare behind. As if that is not enough she steps on her little back, poor kid that spinal kid must have snapped. The footage ends when she roughly picks the wailing toddler and walks to an inner room.

Of course this videohttps://www.facebook.com/video.php?v=737492969675004&set=vb.128467260577581&type=2&theater has gone viral but one thing still baffles me. Where is the mother? why doesn't she come out to say anything about this nanny from hell. Why haven't we been shown the nanny after her arrest.

In a previous blog years back I emphasized on the need to treat our nannies well This might be a game changer in avoiding ruthless nannies.

Women all over east Africa where this inhumane occurence were utterly shocked. But ironically they still have to go to work the following day to fend for their young ones.The mostly career women have to still leave their children with house helps. What most of them will have to invest in Hidden Nanny cameras. For this case if it was not for that hidden camera the nanny would have continued with her ruthless torturous escapades for a long time. In fact we dont know for how long this innocent child had suffered before this day.

This heightens my reserve over the whole thing. If indeed there was a hidden camera then it means that was the very first day it had been insalled otherwise a nanny does not just wake up one day and decides to unleash hell on earth on an innocent life.

Whichever way you look at it one thing stands out. Women need to be very careful who they leave their child with.

Stripping Women In Kenya: Have Kenyan Men Degenerated into Animals?

2014-11-15T02:06:00.000-08:00

A recent Spate of shameless acts by a bunch of touts in Nairobi and Mombasa has left many speechless. Above is one of the videos. The other video from Mombasa was too gross that YouTube had to pull it down.

Bottom line is, what those men did was barbaric, evil and should not be tolerated. Stripping women
in the name of indecency should never be allowed. We should all protect the girl child by condoning these heinous acts. But I think we should also sensitize the boy child. The men who did these beastly act have a deep seated problem. They suffer from low self esteem. It is high time that we stem the problem from the root. All parents of boys should instill a deep sense of respect to their children.

Beware Your HouseGirl Might Be Showing Porn To your Kids

2012-07-02T01:52:00.002-07:00

This might come as a surprise but it is indeed true that your Housegirl might not be that innocent. I recently discovered that my two innocent girls might have been shown porn by the housegirl in my absence.This came as a shocker to me seeing that the girls are only three and four. But all in all the milk is already spilt and all I can do is try and teach pump some other materials in their young brains.

Girls are the future of a generation, Lets treat them right. I dont blame the housegirl for what she did maybe she had the same encounter while growing up. But the fact is that it is happening out there.Beware.

Swaggeristic Bend-over Show- Kenya Not Ready Yet

2011-04-26T05:09:00.000-07:00

This past Week was Easter holiday and many Celebrated in different ways. The Swaggeristic Party held at the KICC grounds was one such way of ushering in the resurrection of Christ, though a very evil way to do so. The type of Bend over moves that were witnessed there is like never witnessed before http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkF-tB0YfsU&feature=related .Our Kenyan girls were subjected to very suggestive moves and exposed more than the eyes could take. What is it that the bend over duo of DING DONG gave to our innocent girls to cause them to do such satanic and demonic things?

Swaggeristic or not Swaggeristic, i dont think that Kenyan girls should be exposed to lewd people from outside.
Has Kenya become such a walk over that every Tom Dick and Harry to come and take over our princesses?

I think Kenyan legislators should come out of there deep slumber and address this issue with the urgency it demands.

Conjestina Achieng Hospitalised At Mathari Mental Hospital

2011-01-20T06:55:00.000-08:00

She gave her all. Boxed for her country Kenya and even had the dreams of flooring Leila Ali daughter of Boxing legend Mohamed Ali. Congestina is now hospitalized at Mathari Mental Hospital after running Berserk. No matter what Congestina remains to be a big najme and we can only hope that the government of Kenya will act fast to ensure that she is given the heroines treatment she deserves. It is reported that Congestina ran mad and started burning her sportswear. She also removed her thirteen year old son from school.

Someone STOP This Rape Madness And Sex Organs Trade Give Our Innocent Girls A Chance At Life

2010-10-15T02:14:00.000-07:00

The Brutal murder of eight year old standard three girl from Kiambu Kenya sent shock waves throughout the entire Nation.When one of the local TV stations featured a story on the booming Sex organs trade, many brushed it aside thinking it was just a passing cloud. When innocent Jane Wambui Muregi's life was cut short by her assailants then the real grim picture of the situation was felt. Rape is the worst thing that can happen to a woman, happening to a girl so innocent and so young this is unacceptable.All humanity should stand up against rape.Visit www.stoprapenow.org and register to help fight rape against our innocent girls. My heart goes out to the mother and father of the girl who lost her life at a tender age of eight years.
On the other hand the sex organs business should be squashed from the root to avoid future cases of rape and murder.Above all we should all pray that God restores our nation from the evil plans of the devil.

Orie Rogo Manduli Embodiment Of Inspiration Makes Me Proud Of The Women

2010-09-16T07:51:00.000-07:00

She has the oomph, she is confident she is alive and always bubbling with energy. Thats Orie Rogo Manduli for you. She is an inspiration to the millions of Young girls and women who seek role models. Stand up women and be counted, be inspired be empowered. Orie at her age can still do the catwalk so dont stay in the house and feel sorry for yourself.

Stand up and be an inspiration to your generation. Inspire the girl child and make her meet her potential. Orie Rogo Manduli, Thanks for being a woman of passion, a woman of inspiration a woman who embodies positivity.

Ten Reasons Why You Should Vote Margaret Wanjiru Back To Parliament In The Forthcoming Starehe By-Elections

2010-09-15T01:11:00.000-07:00

    The Starehe constituency by-elections are just around the Corner and Mama Margaret Wanjiru or rather Bishop doctor Margaret Wanjiru is bracing herself for a win. She of the famous JIAM or Jesus is alive Ministries
Will battle it up with Maina Kamanda. The disputed seat fell vacant after Maina successfully petitioned in the High court and won.The campaigns are getting hotter and hotter andv the two contestants have by far overshadowed the other contestants. Starehe is a vast constituency and is marred by the perpetual problems of poverty and insecurity. So far the two contestants have had a shot at Parliament and are aware of what is expected of them.

      The Ten Reason why yo should Vote Mama back are:

         She is A Woman:

               The Millennium Development Goals-2015 seeks to put women and children who are marginalised at a higher place. It seeks to have equal opportunities for both men and women and thus lets vote more women into leadership positions

           Mama na Maendeleo: This simply means that Bishop doctor Margaret Wanjiru is a development oriented leader.She sincerely seeks to change the face of starehe and bring total change

             Track Record: Mama Bishop Doctor Margaret Wanjiru has a track record of tangible development that she has achieved during her stint in Parliament.She managed to counter the culture of flying toilets in the constituency and currently has a feeding Program for the less fortunate in society.

   Leadership Qualities: Margaret Has strong leadership qualities having been former MP for Starehe and assistant minister for housing. She is also a senior pastor for JIAM Jesus is Alive Ministries International.

                   Fearless: Vote this Woman back to Parliament for her outspoken nature and fearless personalities. In dealing with pertinent issues such as the Jua Kali land issue in Ngara.

                  God-Fearing: Voting back Bishop doctor Margaret Wanjiru to lead Starehe constituency, is bringing a God-Fearing Woman and thus good leadership.

                Motherly: She has a motherly nature as shown by her feeding programs which do not discriminate Muslims to Christians and all denominations.

                  Strong: Through All the rough time she has had to pass through from her Ordeal with the late Kimangu to her failed wedding to her former South African Fiance Margaret has maintained a strong personality and continues to inspire many.

                   Principled: She sticks to her principles as shown during the just concluded Referendum. She stuck to her NO vote and never swayed like some leaders did, and when YES prevailed she was ready to work together with the other leaders for the new constitution.
   Role Model: Bishop doctor Margaret Wanjiru has continued to inspire millions of young girls that indeed one can arise from the dust and rise to the highest positions of power. Being a single mother who has educated her sons alone she shows all the single ladies that indeed all you need is to be passionate in anything you do and be focused and you shall surely achieve your dream.

So come 20th September if you are voting lets give this woman of substance a chance to prove to us that she can actually transform Starehe.

Relationship Getting Complex As Singles Turn To Priests For Prayers As Demonstrated By Recent Singles Fellowships By Pastor Chris Ojigbani

2010-09-06T09:56:00.000-07:00

Kenyan singles both men and women have been entangled in the dating and relationship game for some time and now its only getting more complicated with the entrance with special pastors who offer prayers for the single and lonely. Enter Pastor Chris Ojigbani, from Nigeria and all the single ladies went gaga. The recent Census carried out some months ago in Kenya put the ratio of women to men at 1:1, This should be happy news to millions of young attractive women looking to be hooked up and walked down the isle. However the relationship game only keeps getting into a miry clay as the singles continue to increase.

Pastor Chris came to Kenya with one mission, to pray for the singles and break every yoke that has been preventing them to be married. The singles flocked the venue,KICC Building right in the heart of Nairobi in the hope that finally prince charming will propose.

You may call this desperate or faith or whatever you want but its good to first understand why we have many single men and women. Is the marriage institution becoming outdated? Are many young people being prevented to go into marriage by their careers?

First of all, we are in the 21st century and I believe no woman wants to be entangled in a marriage situation whereby they are left in the house to cook for their husbands and bear children. So what do women look for in a relationship?

 Security

A woman wants a sense of security. She wants to know that her man can protect her from any threat that may come her way. The other form of security is financial. A woman wants to know that her man will provide for all her needs which include food, clothing shelter and beauty.

 Mr Handsome

The ideal man should be as handsome as they come. No wonder the western ideas of six pack and all. Every woman dreams of a tall handsome well buit man. No wonder our local television stations are flooded with Mexican soaps depicting the likes of Alehandros and the single women just love these.

 Trust

Of course good old trustworthy is also essential in this relationship and singles game. Women are basically emotional beings and when they get into a relationship they need to know that you wont break their hearts. Many men are the complete opposite of this and will be more often than not the ones to be unfaithful. That is why many women are single because they that men cannot be trusted in a relationship.

 Performer

A woman wants a man that can satisfy her in bed. Otherwise even if you possess all the above and you fail in this then the relationship is bound to fail. In the olden days women kept quiet about the issue of sex, and many suffered silently with men that could not satisfy their sexual needs. But now in this digital age many women are empowered and demand their rights.

 Space

A woman wants a man that will above all give her space. Women don’t want to be micromanaged and followed everywhere. A woman wants to be able to go for a girls night out just the same way the man goes out with the boys to watch a football match.

Enough said about women, what do single men look for in a woman?

 Beauty

The woman should be gorgeous so that at least the man can boast to his friends about his new catch.

 Intelligent

No man wants to be stuck with a blond so the ideal partner should be intelligent. A university degree is preferable because the man wants to know that his spouse can pursue her career and be able to chip in in the home budget.

 Great in Bed

This in fact should be number one. As opposed to women who are emotional beings, men are very much physical and want to get it whenever wherever. So women don’t be saying that my man is a sex maniac, just adapt.

Well so much about the likes and dislike, the fact is that Singles, men and women are going to be their always. Whether or not they are going to walk each other down the isle is a story for another day.

Luthuli Girls Give Quickies By The Roadside But Your Wallet Is Not Safe

2010-08-23T09:36:00.000-07:00

This blog majorly is for empowering the woman and giving her the power to conquer the world and excel in a male dominated world. But in so doing we need to address issues affecting the woman especially the girl child. In the hustle and bustles of the city of Nairobi you will come across a street called Luthuli avenue.As you approach river road there are many girls lined up by the street calling the passing men for a good time. For as little as less than a dollar you can enjoy yourself,they will tell you.That figure is music to some of the men most of whom are first timers in this our great city.Once the deal has been sealed the girl will lead the man to a corner just a long the street and start doing her thing.Meanwhile the other girls will mill around the action place pretending to be on the lookout. As the girl excites the man one of her hands is busy in the pockets and it wont be long before the mans wallet and phone are gone.It is hard for him to notice anything amiss as he is lost in this short time high.When the man comes to i guess it is an anticlimax as he realizes what has happened.The interesting thing is that he cannot report to the authorities because of the shame associated with the act.
Well i guess the girls are reaping big because i have watched the quorum grow from a few girls to tens of girls as i write this.
I have said before here that the sex industry is big in Nairobi and it is amazing the number of young innocent girls that are joining by the day.The city council of nairobi which has a task of riding the city of the call girls is either overwhelmed or it has taken the wrong approach to this matter.There are dangers involved in this new pick pocketing game that the girls are involving themselves in.Non governmental organizations and the government itself need to up their game in ensuring that this girls are given a better option.It wont be long before they pick the pockets of a killer or bad person.
My heart bleeds for them and i am appealing to anyone who can as much as take a girl out of the street to do so.

A Case Of Zena's Failed Coma Inducement Drugs And Men Turned Wolves In SheepSkin

2010-06-29T04:32:00.000-07:00

Every year millions of women die during child birth.A huge percentage of these deaths occur in the sub-Sahara Africa.Indeed one of the United Nations millenium development goals (MDGs)is to bring those figures drastically down and save the lives of women and children.
The case of Zena,a sixteen year old girl in Kendu-bey a town in Kenya,east africa pierced through my heart like a sharp knife.My heart bleeds for the innocent girl whose hope of delivering a bundle of joy has turned sour and bitter at the same time.About a year ago she walked into a local hospital to deliver her baby but the doctors decided to do a Cesarean section.Unfortunately the comma inducement drugs that were administered on her have put her down ever since.Her baby has since died for lack of motherly care.Naturally,the doctors don't want to admit to negligence on there part.Who shall come to the rescue of this innocent child?With the only care coming from her poor old grandmother,why did the hospital discharge her before she recovered fully? All these questions beg for answers.Something is truly amiss and the lives of our women and girls need to be protected especially when they are due to deliver.
While this is happening it is disheartening to hear of men who have turned into wolves in sheepskin.The Kenya Union of Teachers (KNUT)came out strongly in defense of their teachers against allegations of school girls rape.It is sort of weird because the victims narrated their ordeal on national tv.Dirty men who cannot put their zippers up.Shame on them.
And now the disease has spread to the clergy.In the same province of Nyanza,the case of a catholic priest who defiled a minor then tried bribing her with a hundred shillings,about one American dollar,beats all.The priest then unashamedly visited the girl's family and said mass.The story of wolves in sheepskin has never hit home as it did this past week.
As for Zena,i wish her a quick recovery and hope against all hope that the man responsible for her current situation is not somewhere drinking beer and making merry with friends.

Take Charge Of Your Thought Patterns And Be Empowered

2010-06-23T23:34:00.000-07:00

Each and every single day millions of thoughts drop into our minds.These thoughts determine the kinds of lives we eventually live.Some people live victorious lives while others live defeated,frustrated desperate lives.Some people due to their upbringing don't seem to be able to be rid of Negative thoughts.Its all they have been pumped with since they were children.Maybe your teacher told you that you are stupid,or fat or good for nothing.And that has stuck and continued to rule your life.
It is important to know that thoughts become things.Everything that we see with our physical eyes initially was a thought.That is why we hear things like premeditated murder.The moment we learn to train ourselves to think positively and not negatively we are on our way to rich victorious lives.Whatever you constantly put your thoughts on or you dwell on eventually becomes manifest.Millionaires think of new conquests and more innovative businesses and they continue smiling all the way to the banks.
Just for a moment pose and ask yourself, what constitutes your daily thoughts?
Whatever is your answer will tell you who you are as a person.A train of thought that is destructive will not want to encounter a positive thought.So if you have been having these destructive thoughts what you really need to do is to slowly but surely train your mind to think positive.This may be hard at first but with practice you will see that it becomes second nature.Read a lot of inspirational books.In fact have a book to read at any given time.
Yes it is possible to be a victor and not be a victim throughout your life.Today go out there and think positive.Even if a few negative thoughts enter your mind,don't worry,tomorrow we do this all over again until we break the chain of negativity.

De-Mystifying The Lady's Handbag

2010-06-18T05:50:00.000-07:00

As the years have advanced,women have continued to be more and more conscious of themselves.Women want to look attractive.Actually a woman will not leave the house without being a hundred percent sure that she looks good.Even after checking and counter checking herself in the mirror,she will still put a small mirror in her handbag so that she repeats the process again;At the bus stop,in the bus,on her way to the office,in the ladies and at her office station.The lady's handbag has grown bigger and bigger as the years advanced.Men always ask themselves what is in a woman's bag.But there is a taboo surrounding the lady's handbag that a man is not allowed to peep inside otherwise he might be met with the unspeakable.All that is myth and fiction because the fact is that the woman's handbag no wonder how big carries the things that the lady need in order to be chique.
Contents Demystified
Lip-gloss/Lipstick/Lip-balm
Face cream/eye pods/eye pencil/mascara
Perfume/Roll-on/
Tissue/wet-wipes/face towel/
Scarf/Umbrella/pair of shoes/
Nail polish/remover/file/manicure set/pedicure set
Sanitary towels
Phone/wallet/mirror/a book or two for reading
Hand lotion/face cream
PEPPER SPREY for security
notebook/sweets/comb/
Business card holder/credit cards/debit cards
Usb cable/spare earings/flash disk/loose change/hankies/earphones

These are just but a summary of the many things found in the ladies handbags.As you can see it is not rocket science.In one of her talk shows Tyra was interviewing some women who had extra big handbags and she tried helping them to at least reduce the package.Ladies are detailed people.You can see that even their cash is well planned.A woman paying for bus fare will not give out a note if she has loose change.She will sort the small money first before using the big notes.
All in all our women teach us a lot about being organised.Kudos Queens.No wonder you are always looking fresh,smelling fresh-the whole day as we men continue to sweat the day out.