Epitome of a Liar

how to tell when someone is lying

2008-12-19T03:05:00.001-08:00

It is hard to detect if a person speaks the truth, except if you have a knowledge on how to tell when someone is lying through the body movements of a liar.

In fact, a lot of people today used to lie to their acquaintances just to profit on their side. But it's easy how to tell someone is lying if you know how to notice them through their body movements.

Words, without a doubt, can easily be faked to indicate an intent and we can never disagree to this. right? Faked words are made for other people for them to assume on what you want them to know. If you want to know how to tell when someone is lying, then you might notice them through non-verbal proof on whether the person is telling truth or not.

Consider these three tips on how to tell when someone is lying:

1. how to tell when someone is lying if the person talks too much.

Basically one of the easiest way to catch a liar is on the way they speak. Generally, we have a common tempo/speed on the way we speak during conversations, except when we are disturbed about a particular subject matter.

If the person is being talkative and it seemed that it is not the usual appearance, the person might be telling a lie. The explanation for this is that liars feels uneasy when there is a quiet minute in between of a conversation that they are trying to stay away from.

Usually, a liar is focused about one subject matter; then suddenly when there is a moment of silence in between the conversation or a delicate subject matter is being brought up, they babble and aimlessly comes up with another topic in an instant.

2. how to tell someone is lying through eye to eye contact.

A fundamental form of conversation is through eye contact. You can point up the message by looking into the eye of a person you are talking to. In fact, you can easily tell what's in someone's mind just by staring into their eyes.

A liar is preventing an eye contact when talking directly to you. Even for those people who perceive lying as an art, although they practice this art they also find it hard to discipline their eyes from staring anywhere while in the middle of a conversation. This attests that they might be keeping something from you that they don't want you to know.

3. how to tell when someone is lying through their unnecessary gestures

Whenever a liar is confronted with any topic that has an issue, certainly, they make unnecessary gestures. Usually, worried liars begin to rub their hands, set their hair or stroke their nose even their is no need of doing it.

Have you ever noticed that a liar's face turned reddish while thinking fast of their alibies, and also they sweat a lot (even on airconditioned rooms.. lol), they are certainly worried about something. These gestures might help you figure out that their is something wrong with the scene.

kill depression :P

2008-11-21T07:27:00.000-08:00

Being alone is a common piece of our daily routine. We obtain sadness when we are declined by those person that we mostly love. Depression, anyhow, can be more lethal than just any normal loneliness. It could contribute long-lasting consequences that could destroy your pride, mental wellness and happiness.

These three tips may overcome your mood of sadness and achieve the most happiness out of your regular routine.

1. Be Inspired

You will be more hopeful to conquer some feeling of depressed if you are so busy to observe it. Take pleasure to life filled with inspired activities.

Engage into some activities that you love. If you are a bit short of money, you can do things in easy activities like taking casual walk along in the park, read books, take part on some sports, also joining on activities that you have a strong interest for and would like to desire.

Set an ambition - a significant meaning in life. It's not a matter on how painful or upsetting life can be, be stable and have a strong assumption that you are adequate in doing all things that you will desire. With this character of positive mental outlook, you can accomplish a happy being to break the sadness.

2. Give yourself a Break.

I mean it.

Listen to comforting music. Drench in a great warm bath. Get a break from mental pressure and consume your day just bungling around. In short, have fun!

3. Have a Social Life.

Your friends are there for you to give you moral support. It will give you a fulfilled feeling while placing your self in some activities when your are spending time with them.

There is no other good feeling than having friend's support.

Get devoted. Set up a good relationship with your friends and family.

~ The care and love expressed by other people can wonderfuly increase your immune system and defend you from sadness. Most of all, you will live a happier life. ~

ouch. it kinda really hurts,.

2008-11-10T00:52:00.000-08:00

calling your name, everyday, I feel helpless.
it's not fair when you say that I didn't try.
I never knew that I could hurt you like that.

"Breaking-up" and "Love" can be perceived as 2 sides of the same coin. It is perpetually "break-up" after "love". For nearly all of us, it appears unavoidable nowadays. Time is the only question. Some lovers ended the relationship after few months, some even break-up after many years. What about other couples out there? Do you think that you are near to break-ups? Ask yourselves and try to find out if the connection between you and your partner is on boundary now.

Do we have to really know when break-up is in appropriate time? Notice that: at first you enjoy being with him/her, is the feeling identical to the first feeling? OR you just want to have more of your own time and wanted to be more with your buddies: at first you have never speak single word that might cause heartache to your partner, what about now? are you as cautious in choosing words?

These are just a bit of signs that will bring you to delicate changes that were taking place in the so called "affair". Notice these changes and try to find out for yourself that if you are falling into this unavoidable break up. Ask yourself about your care, love, relationship and the desire to be with each other. Small questions will bring you signs about big changes.

Breaking up really hurts bad. But you can not avoid existing after a break-up. No break-up is likable. :|

drop all doubts

2008-10-08T06:06:00.000-07:00

Everyone agonizes from it almost all the time. I do, frequently! "Some" says that it is deeprooted to me being a Libra, but i feel that is a common alibi and doubtless reason. Anyhow, this is how it comes, we thought that we are always on the right path. We STAND for it. All is excellent. We have obtained ambitions; we have obtained foresights. And then, we begin to question ourselves 'what if's ... ?' and then come with the statement "just an assumption" or perhaps should i". Unexpectedly we experience our passion submerge, and doubt our dreams will be certainly come constant. We pause in our paths and begin rotating in cruel sphere. Our ambitions and foresights seems far away. =)

truth really bites... rawr

2008-10-06T22:31:00.000-07:00

It has been actually seen that the reality always hurt, even it is not really meant to be.

I have concluded that why humans get very affected when they knew all about the truth. Of course, everyone is not the same, but more about 65% of humans seems to be affected with a sharp resentment when some cause to differ from a conflicting points of view. This ineradicable occurs on the Inet and not on a person with an antagonist.

Which is more painful, hearing truth or being lied? It is known that some people do not want to speak about the whole damn truth, because they knew that they will hurt the feelings, but is it better left unsaid? Untimately, reality will always surface over time but would it be you to tell an acquaintance? Even that you realize by telling someone the truth might be a source of a point often heated discussion in the relationship you had with the person?

I love you?

2008-10-06T07:02:00.000-07:00

These 3 words are very said often for two lovers. But this is NOT enough. What do you think?

for partners. they have to do all things, i mean everything, by their own selves and they don't need anyone or anything. And if you ask someone to come into your life, the question is, would he/she come with you? And forget everything that she/he have just to come with you? We earthlings don't know what to say and what to feel.

"you said you loved me.. i said i love you... do we mean it? or, are we just running out of words to say?"

Pinocchio is not bad

2008-10-04T01:46:00.000-07:00

It is very frustrating and painful when you are being lied by the one that you love. If this happens to one person for the first time, it is so very easy to him/her to forgive a liar, as well as the second and third time. Well this depends if the victim really felt love for his/her partner. The victim always forgive just to save the relationship. Even though that the victim knows what is best for him/her. Victim of this lie always holds on and hopes that the situation will change.

Ask these questions to yourself : Can you call it a better relationship when your partner lies to you? Do you have an idea that the reason for lying is for covering mistakes to maintain better respect and love? If you are emotionally in loved with somebody, it is hard to answer these questions logically. Because you often makes excuses for your partner who lies to you, just to make yourself feel good by staying with somebody who does not really love you. Do not say that your partner does not really feel love for you when he lie. You and your partner is committed to the relationship that you would like to believe. There are a lot of lies-good lies and worst lies, but still a lie is always a lie, no matter what classes of lie. Focus on this: If your partner can lie so easily to you, even just the small things that is not necessarily to lie about, you can think that he/she will do it to you for the worst one that can do a much bigger damage on your relationship. Think about this: do not think that a lie is always a worse thing to do.

When Everything Seems to Fail

2008-10-02T05:44:00.000-07:00

i come running to a room with only darkness to comprehend.
you held my rescue.
laugh at my inconsistency
but hate my lie.
your lies are as much as my lies to you
i make such lousy lies that makes me vulnerable sometimes.
but your ALWAYS good at it.
maybe i should ... get a life?
.......how?

-mae