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Benefits to having a VIP membership at TER

2011-10-30T09:04:00.000-07:00

1. Explicit information about the ladies' services, on top of the info already published.

2. Explicit details of past dates with the providers.

3. Greatly enhanced search capabilities for the site, so if you want to find a provider that offers a "BJ without condom" and "Kisses with Tongue" in your "Area Code", you can have your answer within seconds.

4. VIP members a chance to chat with providers around the country live in our Video Chat Rooms. Though all registered users can participate in the chats, only VIP members can see the video chats.

5. Provider Rankings. Check out rankings by city or by service provided.

6. The ability to find other providers using the same phone number.

7. VIP Members can quickly search all of the reviews submitted by other individuals.

8. You can keep track of your best-loved providers by adding them to your Personal Favorites List. Plus, if you consistently want to check up on certain providers, you won't have to wade through every review to locate them. As a VIP Member you are automatically e-mailed the minute a new review about your lady is posted.

9. Our Private Mailing system gives you the ability to e-mail other VIP members. If you want to know more about someone’s review, if you have a question or opinion for one of our members, or if you just want to say hello, send them a PM! What a great way to receive any information you need.

10. We’ve covered our bases and then some, but if you still feel our site lacks a feature or two that might be handy, please tell us. We are always actively working to improve our VIP area, and we welcome any suggestions.

SO, HOW MUCH IS THIS GOING TO COST ME?

Becoming a Basic Member is FREE. Just click HERE and fill out the form. After you have created a username, you will be offered several options on how to become a VIP Member:

A. One way to become a VIP member is to submit reviews. After you have 2 reviews posted on the board, you become eligible to become a member with 30 days worth of access time. You will then receive an additional fifteen days for each additional review that we post. You will need to fill out a Become a registered user before you begin submitting reviews. Your VIP Membership will be activated within 24 hours of us publishing your reviews.

B. If you would rather pay for a VIP Membership, we will gladly accept your money to help cover our expenses for keeping this board in place. We have extremely reasonable monthly and quarterly rates: A full VIP Membership can be yours for only:

$20 per month
$50 for 90 days
or $180 per year

Want to sign up now? Please click HERE and select "Buy Quarterly VIP", "Buy Monthly VIP", or "VIP by Money Order."

Benefits of a Paid Bigdoggie Membership

2011-10-30T08:38:00.001-07:00

* Member's Only Escort Review Database with thousands of reviews

* Members Enjoy Enhanced Posting and Board Searching Abilities on all Public Boards.

* Members Receive Discounts From Participating Escorts

* Member's Only Private Message Boards for frank and open non-moderated discussion

* Escort members have access to a special Ladies Only section after membership approval

* An Exclusive 'Escort Listing' Directory - Members Get Touring Info and Photos

* Premium Technical Support via Email

* Expanded User Options and Functions in BigDoggie Chat

* Fees Guaranteed NEVER To Increase As Long As You Are a Member

* Eligible to become a VIP 'Gold or Pink Poster' After Submitting Posts/Reviews.

* Members receive automatic notices when reviews are posted that match their profile/interests

Monthly: $19.95
Quarterly: $49.95
Annually: $129.95
Credit Card * Cash * Check * Money Order

(Sign Up for a Membership HERE )

Escort Ad Idea #4

2011-10-29T17:49:00.000-07:00

L ((☻)) ((☻)) K ▐ ▐ ▐ ►No Tricks....Just Treats!

I'm Erika, one of St. Louis’s well reviewed and reputable Massage Mistresses. I'm a curvaceous woman with all natural 42DD-30-40 measurements. My brown hair and eyes set off my soft brown skin and full soft lips.

I have an amazing wardrobe of beautiful lingerie. My in call location in the heart of Ferguson is tasteful, private and well decorated in a safe Historical Neighborhood.

I offer competitive rates, which keeps me pretty busy. Make sure to visit my web page for complete details, and lots of photos.

*Must be 35 and over*

SCREENING REQUIRED
Mon - Fri 10am - 5pm
Sat and Sun 4pm - 11pm

please schedule your appt at:
http://thelustychick.com

Ph# 314-400-0275
Website: http://thelustychick.com
Blog: http://thelustychickblog.blogspot.com
Erotic Video Clips: http://www.clips4sale.com/store/22825
Fan club: http://thelustychick.c4slive.com/index.php
Reviews from T-ER (id=62304)
Reviews from TheLustyChick.com: http://thelustychick.com/erotic-review.phtml
Remember that Ads on Backpage can only be a maximum length of 500 characters so you may have to scale it down a bit. But your welcome to use it. Just make sure you don’t forget to add your info instead of mine.

Good Luck!

Have you posted your backpage Ad Today? Do it HERE The Discount Code is (10Discount)

Every Escort should be their own Webmaster...

2011-10-29T17:22:00.000-07:00

There is no reason why an escort can’t be her own webmaster when it comes to simple, everyday tasks.

Top Five Things an Escort Should Be Able To Do!

1. Make Simple Copy Changes. There is no reason you shouldn't be able to change a few words, a page or add a legal disclaimer. Your site should be designed in a way that allows you to change text yourself.

2. Add Your Own Photos. With all the available content management systems, WordPress plug-ins and Flash gallery applications, there is no reason that the site you paid to have designed should not allow you to change your own photos. You should not have to wait three days or three weeks for photo updates.

3. Add Your Own Banners. Link and banner exchanges are an important part of the adult entertainment web world, especially when it comes to search engine optimization, search engine marketing and traffic sharing. You should be able to upload a banner and link it to the affiliated website quickly. You should also know how to embed banner codes (as some directories request).

4. You should know how to access your websites hosting Control Panels. Even if you never use it, you should have access to your domain registration and the place in which your files are hosted.

5. Have Access to a website traffic monitoring program like Google Analytics and Statcounter. You should be able to look at factual statistical data that shows where your web traffic is coming from. Some webmasters can fake this information, so it is best to use a reliable third part source, such as Google Analytics. Once per month, run your site at Alexa.com and see what sites link to yours. This is invaluable when you are paying for advertising. This lets you know if your getting your money’s worth.

Other Things to Consider

Also, you should have a clear understanding of billing practices of your webmaster. Every design professional should tell you whether you are billed hourly or by the update. They should let you know if any minimum fees apply.

As an adult entertainer, it is your job to be savvy about business expenses. Web design & maintenance costs rank right up there with advertising costs.

Exceptions to the Rule….

The one thing you should not attempt, unless you had excellent training, is changing your site’s CSS/HTML/PHP code. You could bring down your whole site structure, so if you want design changes, contact your webmaster, he or she will do these for you.

If you are a professional who works a lot and or maintains a pay site, then it is a wise investment for you to have your webmaster be responsible for banner exchanges, photo changes and continual content updates. Larger scale sites are better off handled by a secondary person so that you are not bogged down with smaller less important tasks. In this industry, cash is king and time is money. So use your best judgment in what you pay for. It is still important for you to know all the above information though.

In closing, remember, you own your site, you paid for it. Your webmaster has no right to hold files, domains or your blog hostage for any reason. If you wish to move or switch companies, they should facilitate the process in a timely, professional manner.

If you have any questions about this, contact me.

Erika@thelustychick.com

Passion Parties and Pure Romance...

2011-09-21T07:47:00.000-07:00

I'm a huge believer in diversifying and trying other alternative business ventures that are closely related to my interest. I recorded this video last year about my interest in Passion Parties and Pure Romance.

**PLEASE BE WARNED**

I am an extremely silly person and this video is a reflection of that! LOL

Enjoy!!

http://www.associatedcontent.com/video/917079/passion_parties_vs_pure_romance.html?cat=5

The latest Discount Codes for Backpage.com

2011-09-14T22:42:00.000-07:00

Periodically backpage.com will give you advertising discount codes. The latest one is

10Discount (Extended through December 31, 2011). This promo code is good for a 10% discount on all sponsored ads and reposts! Use this discount code as often as you wish.

Smart Marketing Practices for Escorts and Other Sex Workers...

2011-09-14T22:33:00.000-07:00

I've worked in the Adult Entertainment Business for 7 years now.

I've been an escort, a sensual masseuse and a porn creator.

I've received advice from women who were in this industry before me and I've given advice to women who have entered this field after me. There is a constant flow of information that should never be interrupted. That flow of information keeps us safe, it keeps us knowledgeable, it helps us with personal growth and it makes us savvier business women.

It has taken 7 years for me learn the inns and out of adult entertainment, the do's and don’ts to cultivate my skills and find my voice in this industry. And the culmination of all those skills now lies here.

In the past two years, there are finally resources for sex workers, women only boards, women written books, ladies networking events and support group.

In order to be successful in this industry, you have to be able to function as a real business. A smart business owner is constantly researching and monitoring her industry. If you don't do this now, it's a great time to start.

Websites You Need

1. The Big Doggie

2. BackPage

3. The Erotic Review

4. http://date-check.com/
5. http://twitter.com/
6. Provider Report

Things to Monitor

1. Set Google alerts for national news on Sex Work and Prostitution in your local area. It tells you the national and regional climate of our industry.
2. Business related forums if you are your own webmaster – http://gofuckyourself.com/   or http://xbiz.com/ .
3. Your website traffic
4. Your http://alexa.com/   data - it’s an easy way to make sure sites that you link to, link to you.
5. Ladies ONLY boards – For Trends News and Alerts

Things to Read

1. My website: http://escortuniversity.blogspot.com/
2. The Internet Escort's Handbook - Amanda Brooks
3. The Business Side of Escorting - J. Roberts
4. Turning Pro: A Guide to Sex Work for the Ambitious and the Intrigued
5. Belle Du Jour: Diary of an Unlikely Call Girl

Backpage Discount Codes

2010-12-24T06:47:00.000-08:00

Periodically backpage.com will give you advertising discount codes. The best ones are

BPCARES (25 % off till December 30th)
2010THANKS (10 % off upgrades, sponsor ads, and auto re-posts)

(Be sure to Post any Holiday and After Christmas Specials)

Title of your ad can say:

Take back your unwanted gifts and get the one you REALLY wanted.

http://www.backpage.com/28611828

Escort Ad Idea #3

2010-12-24T06:30:00.000-08:00

*~*Lonely, Bored and HORNY*~*

Greetings Gentlemen,

Come experience the soft sensual touch of a REAL woman. It’s sure to be a toe curling release of all that pent up tension.

I am a professional and well reviewed Massage Mistress and Escort who practices a combination of massage modalities with Erotic Touch. I am currently accepting new clients but only Gentlemen who are 35 years of age and older. I wish to meet men who appreciate a non rushed experience, and enjoy the company of a full bodied Ebony Goddess.

Hours:

MON- FRI 10am - 2pm
SAT 4pm-11pm

My location is discreet and safe. I offer a shower, clean fluffy towels, fresh linens, unscented body wash and other hygiene supplies as well as bottled water. You may bring a bottle of red wine to share. (St. James Red Velvet).

Please contact me personally for 1on1 personal time.

Ph# (Insert Number)
Email address (Insert Email address)
Website: (Insert Website)
Blog: (Insert Blog and Twitter if you have them)
Reviews: (List your reviews)

*35 and over please*

The Temptations- Bareback

2010-12-20T15:57:00.000-08:00

None of you girls better be riding Bareback. LOL

Alternative Marketing Tools (Blogging, Email Lists, and Newsletters)

2010-12-19T10:58:00.000-08:00

Practically every escort that has a website should have some sort of subscription option for their viewers and followers such as newsletters, email lists, and Blogs.

Without one of these you are at the mercy of the review boards, the forums, your ads, and the unpredictable whims of potential clients. As some of you may already be aware of, I am a HUGE fan of blogging and sending weekly Newsletters. It is important that you don’t abuse this option because it can get annoying like spam if you’re not careful.

What I typically like to do with my Newsletters is give information about the industry; warnings, cool places to hang out, and new adult industry trends and news. Then at the end of the newsletter I post my availability for the upcoming week. Make sure that your emails and newsletters are informative and fun. Don’t just post your Ads in your newsletters, which will quickly make readers unsubscribe.

To start building a networking database of email addresses, and this is if you have one of the free sites Rare-Escort or Escortsite.

(Rare-Escort.com Users)

-Log into your admin panel
-Click the Content Tab on the top
-Then click Mailing List tab on the left side panel.

At the top of the page it will tell you how many people have registered for your mailing list.

(Escortsite.com Users)

-Log into your Admin Panel
-Click on the Dashboard Tab
-Click the Community Tab
-Right under the Community Tab is your Members and Subscribers Tabs.
-Send Newsletters to both groups

On both platforms you can only send Newsletters once a week. I send mine every Saturday Morning. Remember to make it informative and useful for your reader. Watch your grammar and spelling, and be safe!

Good Luck

Build your own free site with.
http://escortsite.com/

Create your own Blog.
http://escortblogs.net/

Creating an Etiquette Page for your website.

2010-12-19T10:12:00.000-08:00

An Etiquette Page should list rules, behavior, and expectations that your potential clients should follow. Below is a copy of the Etiquette page from my website. Please feel free to copy it to your own website.

Enjoy!

First of all, it's good to keep in mind that Providers are real women. We have outside responsibilities, just like you, so we're not always available at the drop of a hat. The rule of thumb is that the less notice you give us for an appointment, the greater the chances that we won't be able to accommodate you. The more notice you give us, the better we can work with your preferred hours and dates.

Cleanliness is really paramount in the type of service you're going to receive. You MUST make sure that you're freshly showered, wearing deodorant, and have very recently brushed teeth. Most women, myself included, will offer to let you use our shower facilities before we begin our time, and we'll often have mouthwash, mints or gum available there for you to use. Even if you showered that morning, a day in the office or in nervous anticipation of our appointment can take it's toll. We'll be fresh, clean and nice smelling - and you should be, too.

Please be polite. I know this sound like common sense, but it needs to be stressed. If you phone or email and use words like 'whore' or 'hooker', chances are 100% good that we'll have zero interest in meeting you.

Read our websites. I know it's time consuming, but we created them for a reason - to help you know more about us. Almost everything you could ever want to know about is on there, so it will save you asking questions we've answered in detail on our sites already.

No means No - no matter what the question. Asking us to bend the rules we've set up for our own safety and comfort level is rude, intrusive and just plain offensive. Accept it, and move on.

Trying to barter or negotiate our rates is tacky. There are girls out there for every budget, no matter how large or small. If you aren't comfortable with a woman's rates, find one whom you are comfortable with, and book with her, instead. Calling us names, whining, or being aggressive is a great way of making us grateful you can't afford us.

Please be on time - and, if you're running late, call us! Don't just send email, as we might not get it in time. We understand that things come up, and plans change - but it's rude to us and to other clients to simply not show up, or to show up hours late. Be considerate of the fact that many Providers see limited clientele, and a scheduling mishap can ruin our entire day's plans.

Finally, try to relax and have fun! We're here to entertain you, and to make a few hours in your life more pleasant. I understand it can be nerve wracking to meet with a new person, so we'll probably want to sit with you for a moment and try to put you at ease. If there's anything you want to tell us, or any questions you have, feel free to talk to us. We want you to have an experience you'll remember with a smile.

Staying safe during the Holidays

2010-12-19T09:50:00.000-08:00

According to the FBI, right around the Holidays is when the crazies emerge. And the worst thing in the world is being victimized during the Holidays. Here are some general tips to help you stay safe.

1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on your body. If You’re close enough to use it, do!

2. If a robber asks for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM.
Toss it away from you. Chances are that he is more interested in your Wallet and/or purse than you, and he will go for the wallet/purse.

RUN LIKE HELL IN THE OTHER DIRECTION!

3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car, kick out the back tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving like crazy. The driver won't see you, but everybody else will. This has saved lives.

4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping, eating, working, etc., and just sit (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DON'T DO THIS!) The predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity for him to get in on the passenger side, put a gun to your head, and tell you where to go.

AS SOON AS YOU GET INTO YOUR CAR, LOCK THE DOORS AND LEAVE.

a. If someone is in the car with a gun to your head DO NOT DRIVE OFF, repeat: DO NOT DRIVE OFF! Instead gun the engine and speed into anything, wrecking the car. Your Air Bag will save you. If the person is in the back seat they will get the worst of it. As soon as the car crashes bail out and run. It is better than having them find your body in a wooded area a week later.

5 .A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, or parking garage:

A.) Be aware: look around you; look into your car, at the passenger side floor, and in the back seat.
B.) If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from the passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pulling them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into their cars.
C.) Look at the car parked on the driver's side of your vehicle, and the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearest your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get a guard/policeman to walk you back out.
IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFE THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)

6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. Always stand near the buttons of the elevator so that you can press the emergency button or alarm if necessary (Stairwells are horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot. This is especially true at NIGHT!)

7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYS RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times; and even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN, preferably in a zigzag pattern!

8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic. STOP. It may get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was a good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathies of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and often asked "for help" into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is when he abducted his next victim.

Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that the world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and it's better to be safe than sorry.

Reviews ARE Important!

2010-12-19T06:43:00.000-08:00

I’ve seen countless escorts around the internet saying that reviews aren’t important, and yet again here is more rubbish that you should never follow. YES, reviews are important but they will not make or break you. Any escort that says reviews aren’t important either had their share of BAD reviews and became bitter; or they were banned from a particular review board. That’s 90% of the reason why girls start hating reviews.

*Get you some reviews ladies*

As the new girl, this will make a world a difference. But please be aware of the men who will ask for discounts, deals, and more time in exchange for reviews. Believe it or not one of my good regulars did that to me when I first started, but every time a new review went up for me, my phone rang constantly.

Don’t be afraid to ask clients to review you. Keep in mind that not only do reviews give you legitimacy; they also help you gain access to private websites, message boards and forums. Every Escorting Board today that has good advertising available REQUIRES that you have some sort of reviews if you want access.

Your reviews are like business testimonials, but if you don’t want your client to give all the dirty details, kindly let him know that.

But please keep in mind ladies that if you request reviews from clients you MUST make sure that you provide the best service imaginable. Be on time, be polite, dress well, smell good, and have fun. Usually when I’m done with the service I’ll lay with the client and tell him how much of a good time I had, and if he says the same, then I’d kindly ask him for a review. Don’t make a big spectacle out of it. Ask him while the two of you are cuddling (If cuddling is something you do).

You may even send a thank you email saying how much you enjoyed your time with him and have a link to your reviews at the end of the greeting. Always make a good impression with your clients, and when they review you, they will help you make that same good impression for the next batch of potential clients.

*Good Luck*

Below are two of the most recognized review boards in the Country.

Escort Ad Idea #2

2010-12-19T05:26:00.000-08:00

Periodically I will post ad ideas here so that you ladies can get an idea of what to say in your ads. Again, these are ads that I use so you may want to change them up a bit to reflect YOU and your services. All I ask is that you don’t copy them word for word. Use them as a guide, but remember to be creative and HONEST.

Go back to the Terminology post and keep a mental note of them. Escorts that offer GFE (Girl Friend Experience) is highly sought after right now. So if you enjoy kissing, cuddling, and DATY (Go look up DATY in the Terminology post) then be sure to put that you offer GFE in your ads.

*NOTE*

Because Backpage.com has major restrictions now, you may want to scale the ad down to something less risqué and wordy. Play around with the ad and see what works best for you.

[Ad Idea #2]

Are you ready for some hot, wet, sticky fun with a sexually insatiable, super busty BBW? Come and play with me, and let's blow each others minds… among other things.

Whether your tastes run to slow and sensual massage, wild and uninhibited erotic fun, or a little bit of each, I promise you one heck of a good time.

I'm offering incalls in the Florissant area.

Please email or call for more details, or to arrange a rendezvous. See my website for more details, photos, reviews, small erotic movie clips, my very popular blog, and other tidbits of information that’s sure to keep you tantalized.

(My Hours):

Mon - Fri 10am - 2pm
Sat and Sun 4pm - 11pm

By Appt Only
I do prescreen.....
Please schedule your appt at:
(Website Here)

Ph# (Phone Number Here)
Website: (Website here)
Blog: (Blog Here)
Reviews from TER: (Reviews Here)
Reviews from Escort.com: (Reviews Here)

*35 and over please* (Optional)

Become a Creature of Habit and Routine

2010-12-18T14:34:00.000-08:00

One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned in the Adult Industry is to become a creature of habit and routine. And what I mean by that is create a daily routine and stick to it constantly. Example:

*From Monday-Friday*

-I wake at 6am
-I make coffee
-I check and answer emails
-I see which clients are on my schedule for the week
-I post ads
-I blog
-I check and return all phone messages and book future dates
-I Clean and straighten my incall for my appointments that day
-I bathe, primp, powder, and get ready.
-I provide the service to the client and collect the fee
-I kiss the client goodbye and kindly ask for a review
-I deposit the money at my bank, and then I go home.

This was my routine EVERY. SINGE. DAY!

I recommend that you don’t live 24 hours a day in hooker mode. Set a daily schedule; mine was Monday-Friday 10am-2pm and Saturdays from 4pm-9pm. When office hours are closed, so should your legs.

Of course my individual rendezvous with clients broke the monotony of my routine, but keeping a set routine kept me organized and sane. Keeping good notes is also a good idea. Purchasing a small notebook, planner, or diary can help you keep appointments organized. PLEASE make sure to guard that notebook with your life because that notebook is your livelihood, and it contains VERY private information about your clients.

Many escorts will advise against keeping notes of your client’s information but that’s absurd. You NEED some kind of record of his information for references, special requests and needs, and what I call “Get that Mother Fucker” notes, just in case you need to turn him into police for foolish behavior such as; violence, stalking, and theft.

And YES ladies, call the police if you’re ever victimized by a client. Prostitute or no Prostitute; he has no right to violate you. I will do a post later about what to do if you’re ever arrested or victimized.

Be Safe ladies!

Trial and Error.....

2010-02-08T08:39:00.000-08:00

You could do a thousand hours of web surfing, book reading, and escort site lurking, and STILL not get a grasp of this industry. Just like anything else you do in life, you got to get your feet wet.

It’s like working at McDonalds; you could shadow your trainer for months and not learn anything. It takes getting behind that cash register, the grill, and waiting on customers. That’s when you’re actually learning and not lurking. Same principle applies with escorting.

This industry is basically 70% trial and error and all of your experiences as an escort will be custom to you. There are a few things that are universal to all escorts like the rules, regulations, and laws, but each individual experience is custom to each girl.

Example- Many girls tour non-stop, city to city to make their income, and for some girls, touring is a waste of time and money. It all depends on the girl.

See what advertising trends work for you. Maybe Eros is where you’ll get 90% of your clients. I got nothing from Eros, so that was $75.00 wasted for me. But for you, it could be a gold mine. Try it!

Test, Trial and Error…

Don’t be afraid to ask for help, but also be ready to not receive any. Many escorts are very tight lipped when it comes to helping a fellow newbie, so don’t get offended. I remember when I first got into the business and I asked a Vet escort for some advice, and her response to me was; “Sorry Sweetheart, you got to learn this business by yourself”.

But no matter what anyone says, you don’t lean this business by yourself. Every successful escort has another escort to thank for her success. Think about it.

-Without other escorts, you can’t get references

-Without other escorts you wouldn’t have black lists

-Without other escorts you wouldn’t know the laws and regulations

-Without other escorts you wouldn’t have white lists

So don’t ever think you are alone. If you have any questions, just ask!

Good Luck!

What "John" Likes

2010-02-07T08:07:00.000-08:00

Hello ladies, sorry for the absense. It's been a busy couple of days and I haven't been able to update. In the mean time I asked one of my most beloved cleints to write a piece about what he expects from an escort, and this was what he had to say.

Enjoy Ladies!

We want to know what we are getting for our money. We dont like getting there and having a bunch of rules that were not listed on her ad. If a man was looking for BBBJ and it was in her ad that is what he expects. I know Providers are not trying to get busted and leave the ad vague but their must be a list of Do's and Dont's for the session. Everyone has things they wont do. Please list them.
Verification of a John. Providers please use a service like Date Check, P411, RSK2000, TER, or Escort .com this way you know the man has seen a provider and is about business and pleasure. If he is smart his likes and dis likes will be in one of the systems.

Setting the date. Phone call providers we don't want to be listening to a bunch of mess when calling goofy ring tones or long messages of how you are busy. (KISS) Keep It Simple Sexy. A regular phone ring with a short brief message is all that is needed. If we agree on a time their should only be 2 more calls. The first call have the John call when 20 minutes away(GIVE THEM A CLEAR LAND MARK OR ZIP CODE) to start their journey to paradise. The next call from the John will be driving up to your place he needs the address and the provider MUST answer the phone at this time. I have passed on dates where you must sit at the gas station and wait for a provider to call you back. Or worst you get the voice message saying I am busy. No guy wants to think that you are doing the nasty while he is driving up to your address. I am in the shower or getting ready is a better message.

First meet. He is there his heart is pounding and his mind may be racing if it it a new Provider am i going to get busted or she won't look like her photo. Providers Open the door and give him a warm hug. Don't be fighting with your pets or friends having him wait outside while you do something. Get him in and have a place for him to sit and lay the donation on the table in so you can see if it is close to the right amount. Don't touch the money yet!!!! Offer a drink (water) when you go get the water tell him to get comfortable. have fun then get up and put your money for your time in a place safe (SAFE $30) at Walmart!!!

What to say when potential clients contact you by email.

2010-02-03T07:31:00.000-08:00

As I’ve stated before, preparation is key when communicating with potential clients. And to avoid repeating the same responses a million times, it’s wise to have a script ready.

So let’s say 5 potential clients saw your ad on an escorting website and decided to contact you by email for more information about your services. Instead of you responding with something impersonal like; “Go visit my website”.

say:

“Good morning my friend,

Thank you for your interest in my services. I have enclosed the link to my website so that you may get a feel of me and my personality. There you will find my bio, information about my extensive training and years of experience, Tons of great photos, my ever popular blogs and video journal, and scheduling information!

My website will contain every piece of information needed for you to make the conscience decision of exploring me, and my kinky realm of Erotica.

Hope to see you soon”

[Add your website here]

This particular response is very personal and will make your potential client feel at ease with you. Although it is a professional response, it’s still sexy.

This is another reason why you need a website that answers all the client’s questions about your services. Everything you do as an escort should be well thought out and planned like any other business.

Always make sure to keep scripts and drafts in a file so that you can refer to them when you need them. Feel free to copy the script above and use it when clients contact you by email.

Building a Website...

2010-01-30T10:00:00.000-08:00

Whether you decide to have a pricey website created for you or just make your own, there are a few important elements that your escorting website should have.

Remember your website is probably your most important marketing tool and is a huge representation of you as a woman and sex worker.

Make it classy.

Be sure that your site is done well and has all the information that your readers and clients will need to make that final decision to use your services.

Your website should have 5 major categories:

Bio:
Photos:
Rates:
Services:
Contact page:

You can also add these *optional* categories:

A Wish list:
Blog:
Guestbook:
Reviews:
Etiquette:
FAQ:
Partner Links:

The idea is to have your website so in-depth that clients will know everything they need to know without having to ask 20 times. Having a website will make your job a lot less stressful.

My website (http://majestichands.com/) was created by a free template at http://rare-escort.com/

Rare-escort is now http://escortsite.com/ . It’s still free to create your own website.

http://escortsite.com/ is a little harder to navigate than the old platform, but the features are FANTASTIC!

Here are some of the fabulous features that I found on the new platform.

-Your own Forum

-Video Chat and Webcam option

-Phone Chat option

-Movie Option

-Newsletters

-Fan Club

-Daily News Sharing Option

-Your own Chat room

And a whole lotta other stuff that I’m still learning.

Just take your time and play around with it.
http://escortsite.com/

If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask.
majestichandsstl@gmail.com

2010-01-29T07:51:00.000-08:00

Tip of the Week – Set an Age Requirement.

2010-01-27T05:33:00.001-08:00

Back when I first started in this industry I saw every man that booked an appointment with me, but soon I began to realize that the older gentlemen made me feel so much more comfortable. I was once so uncomfortable around younger men that I would literally wiggle in my seat like a kid on a sugar high and no Ritalin. Not to mention the amount of No call NO shows, annoying behavior, and bad experiences all came from young guys.

That’s when I decided that I would no longer see clients under a certain age. I began setting an age requirement of 30, but that proved to be too young also, so I upped it to 35. I’m comfortable with 35, but I’ll probably up my age requirement to 40 by the spring time. I don’t have that many young clients anyway, so upping the age requirement won’t make that much of a difference. It probably won’t make that much of a difference for you also because it’s those older men with the disposable income that call the most.

Again, I base all of these tips on my experience, and you should do the same. If you’re comfortable around young guys and have a good experience with them, then by all means, make that money. But if you start to experience any Monkey-business, you should immediately eliminate it.

Always test it first. Most of your callers will be between the ages of 25-60. Listen to how they carry themselves over the phone. If they are polite and gives you all the information you require, then you probably got a winner.

Always be professional and polite even when you’re turning people down. Because eventfully he will become old enough and you want to be worth his wait.

THC

Escort Ad Idea #1

2010-01-26T07:26:00.000-08:00

Ad Deception...Don't do it!

2010-01-26T05:47:00.000-08:00

Being the new girl, you will be tempted to do something that’s largely frowned upon in this community, and that’s posting fake pictures in your ad. Don’t do it.

I know getting out here is scary and all, and you’ll be tempted to use some ones else’s photo. So before you go and wreck your reputation, I’m going to help you make the most of YOUR OWN photographs.

First things first – Your ad needs to be as honest as possible. If you are a big girl, use that as your niche like I do. Advertise yourself as a sensual BBW with curves in all the right places. I used to use the tagline:

“In a world of tiny fast cars, I am your luxury Sedan”

That shit drove men crazy. Even men who generally see petite girls fell in love with my catchy slogans and began booking me on a regular basis. I constantly brag about my curves and the fact that I have 42DD breast. Find your best feature and brag about it in your ads. If you have pretty feet, talk about how your red polished toes are suckable like candy. Accentuate the areas of your body that men might find most attractive and photograph it. If you have nice cleavage but don’t want to show your face, take a picture in a nice push-up bra with some pearls placed softly between each breast

If you need to remain anonymous, there are plenty of programs that can blur and hide faces, such as http://photobucket.com/ and Photoshop.

Some of my best photos were taken by me with a tripod, digital camera, and a picture timer.

A reasonable digital camera can be purchased off amazon.com. You can probably find a good used or refurbished one for around $99-$150. I bought mine used back in 2005 for $140 (Cannon Powershot A630).

Having a camera and taking your own pictures can be your greatest asset because it costs you nothing and you can post new pictures regularly. I try to take new pictures of myself once a month to reflect any changes in my weight or hairstyle.

Once you get a website established then you can post more explicit photos in a “Members ONLY” section where you can make more money.

But be honest with your potential clients and post YOUR OWN pictures and an honest but enticing ad. It’ll carry you to success for years to come.

Marketing and Advertising

2010-01-25T08:29:00.000-08:00

Good Marketing and Advertising is the single most important factor in getting you recognized by paying clients. But since most of you are beginners and I’m pretty sure that money is an issue for many of you right now, it would be unrealistic if I told you to spend a whole lot of money advertising right now.

I know that many veteran escorts would advise against advertising in places such as Backpages.com and Craigslist.com, but let’s face it; those websites are inexpensive, have the BEST traffic, and most potential clients who are looking for girls RIGHT NOW. So don’t assume that if you pay top dollar for advertising that you’d get better results. That’s not always true.

For example- After I had gotten established, I placed an ad on Eros.com, which is one of the largest advertising sites which cost roughly $75-$300 per month depending on your location, added features, and options to your ad. Eros can get pretty pricey after while especially when you’re only getting 1-3 appointments a month from that ad. Most men who are looking for readily available escorts don’t go to Eros, or probably never heard of Eros. And in my neck of the woods Eros only has about 6 girls who consistently advertise there.

I listed a few advertising sites on the side so you can get an idea of good places to advertise. If you stay in this business long enough, you will learn which sites work the best for you.

After I teach you how to screen clients, I’ll show you how to create your very own newsletter so that your clients can get updates on you and your services. This tool is fabulous because you can build an opt-in database full of potential clients.