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		<title>I’m honored and thrilled to be a panelist in this workshop…</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Strange Bedfellows: New Horizons in Therapy and Somatic Work This workshop will review the research on sexological work, the stigma of working with the body...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Strange Bedfellows: New Horizons in Therapy and Somatic Work</em><br />
This workshop will review the research on sexological work, the stigma of working with the body in sexual and non-sexual ways, and explore the possibilities of inter-professional collaboration between somatic professionals and talk therapists.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.tashra.org/events/strange-bedfellows-new-horizons-in-therapy-and-somatic-work"><strong>REGISTER HERE</strong></a></p>
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		<title>What is Chastity?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2020 06:24:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>ONLINE: Lock and Load: From Tie and Tease to Chastity Please NOTE: This will be an online class via Zoom. Zoom information will be sent...</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">ONLINE: <a href="https://www.brownpapertickets.com/event/4592580">Lock and Load: From Tie and Tease</a> to Chastity Please NOTE: This will be an online class via Zoom. Zoom information will be sent to all participants one hour before the event.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Tease and Denial is truly delightful for all involved. Advanced techniques for controlling orgasms can have a remarkable impact when sexually training your slave. Come learn how to take your tease and denial to the next level. We will discuss solo play, forced orgasms, and ways of taking what is normally pleasurable and making it painful. Chastity training is central to any regimen of orgasm control, so we will discuss general considerations, remote vs 24/7 live in, specific devices, psychology, monitoring, and chastity games. And what would chastity be without those wonderful accompaniments: ruined orgasms, prostate milking, multiple orgasms and extreme teasing? Of course Keyholding and reward/punishment will also be discussed. Find out how to keep the plumbing in order while still keeping your slave denied and on the edge of their seat. This class encourages Dom/mes/subs of all genders and experience levels.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">PRESENTER:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Eve is a veteran BDSM educator, author and pro dominant who extols the power of healing through BDSM with humor and care. Dubbed the &#8220;Approachable Pervert&#8221; by her peers, Minax delights in sharing kinky carnal knowledge and training all who crave deep insight into the arts of erotic domination and submission. Minax cultivated a BDSM repertoire in France, Australia and the United States. She has sat on the boards of CARAS and TASHRA, honed her pedagogical skills at a vast array of conferences, and served as coordinator for both CineKink: Chicago and the Leather Archives &amp; Museum Road Show. In 2002 Minax was named Lead Staff Instructor at the Cleo Dubois Academy of SM Arts in San Francisco, where she continues to teach today. She is also a certified Urban Tantrika and Bondassage practitioner and trainer. Minax has self-produced over 100 videos, also shooting for well known bondage sites like BondageLand and SeriousBondage.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Fet: @minax<br>Twitter: @eveminax<br>Instagram: @eveminax</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Book a class: eveminax.com<br>Book a session: linktr.ee/eveminax</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">TICKETING:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">$15 &#8211; $35. Advance tickets required through Brown Paper Tickets.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This will be a live, online class offered through Zoom. To participate, you will need to download the free, basic version of the Zoom app before the class! This class will not be recorded and is not available for later viewing.</p>



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		<title>Can BDSM Help a Relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2020 06:16:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Can BDSM help a relationship? I&#8217;d like to think so. Whether the relationship is new and you&#8217;re exploring or it&#8217;s mature and you are searching...</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Can BDSM help a relationship? I&#8217;d like to think so. Whether the relationship is new and you&#8217;re exploring or it&#8217;s mature and you are searching for new ways of connecting, there is a HUGE spectrum of choice for everyone. If you&#8217;re like me, variety is the spice of life. I liken it to soup- some people have a consommé daily, some people mix it up a bit with clam chowder Fridays, or some people have a different soup each day. It&#8217;s all up to you, and your partner(s) of course!  </p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In a word, BDSM can help you know yourself better and if you know yourself well, you&#8217;ll be a better partner; and with better partnering comes great joy. I&#8217;ve been writing and teaching about kink, <a href="https://www.eveminax.com/bdsm-healing-process/">BDSM, healing,</a> personal growth, and relationships for twenty some years. Fact? The reason I am still so passionate about this work is because I am a sucker for personal growth and development. There are an infinite number of reasons why and how BDSM can help you and your relationship. Listen to this interview or ask me directly. I&#8217;m here to help.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.shamelesssex.com/podcast/2020/4/21/159-kink-and-bdsm-in-relationships-with-eve-minax?fbclid=IwAR0MJRhzA6AHNXGnhMkWh-UCH_qr-izgN89ArkvjK4XDUCm5EwaDCHD4aEY" target="_blank">Here&#8217;s a wonderful interview with Shameless Sex Podcast</a>. I hope you find it useful and as always, I value your thoughts and questions! </p>



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		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Mar 2020 00:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Support During These Very Tough Times, ie The COVID-19 Crisis</title>
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<p>I really appreciate <a href="http://sunnymegatron.com/support-during-coronavirus/?fbclid=IwAR3z5cfcZuVBmKo60_SXQwnmRAfXaZ0S1P31ow8tpwvRtgRXLgZQQazFYK4">Sunny Megatron&#8217;s&nbsp;</a> magnificent suggestions on how to support &#8220;creators, entertainers, and gigi workers&#8221; hint: sex workers also during these tough times of self isolation, social distancing, and Quarantine during the Corona Virus Crisis.</p>
<p>Personally, due to cancellations this month, I&#8217;ve lost over $3,000 in income already, (roughly two months rent), and nothing else coming in. I&#8217;ve also had a couple loved ones offer to lend me some floater dough, but if I don&#8217;t know from whence the next bulk of my income is coming, how will I pay them back? MORE stress.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m currently looking at NiteFlirt and Only Fans as options to create more income but I&#8217;ve gotta slog through the tech (any help with tech there?). I was told after I made an account that Patreon is not as accepting of adult content, so I&#8217;m thinking Niteflirt and Only Fans as best options to start. It will be an even bumpier road getting all that together.</p>
<p>In the meantime, as a shameless request to help me and my fellow artists hit hard and fast by this virus, please read the article!</p>
<p>AND for support to ME directly here are some options:</p>
<p>Easy support:</p>
<p><a href="https://www.eveminax.com/blog/">Go to my blog </a>&#8211; I&#8217;ve been writing for over twenty years! Read and share likes, thoughts, dislikes:)</p>
<p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=eve+minax">Go to my youtube channel</a> and watch and share some of my videos!</p>
<p>Sadly many have been deleted for adult content although none ever had nudity or action, blergh) there are great interviews with NCSF on desire, trafficking, and sexual liberation though!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve also got some <a href="https://vimeo.com/user37091824">vids up on vimeo</a> if you prefer</p>
<p><a href="https://twitter.com/EveMinax">Follow and RT me on Twitter:</a> <br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/eveminax/">Follow like and share on IG:</a></p>
<p>TRADE: got tech skills? like podcasting, (have my own mic), only fans content, nite flirt, iwantclips.com let&#8217;s trade skills? I&#8217;m great at copy and design or can share deeper aspects of BDSM/Dominatrix skills! TALK TO ME.</p>
<p>A little pocket change:</p>
<p>SO, Want to watch some action and support my cause? <a href="https://www.eveminax.com/videos-of-mistress/">Here are a few VIDEO options to choose from! V</a><br>intage shoots also. Collect them all!</p>
<p>Pay what you can directly to me:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.venmo.com/eveminax">Venmo</a> <br><a href="eveminaxconsulting@gmail.com">Paypal</a></p>
<p>A bit more:</p>
<p>NOW is the time to do more online work!</p>
<p>Sign up for online coaching and training directly with me!<br>There are SO many things we can do together from actual skills, D/s relationship dynamics, guided visualizations for your kinky/top/bottom self, fetishes, and more. I create the program based on your needs and income.</p>
<p><a href="https://www.eveminax.com">eveminax.com</a></p>
<p>I deeply appreciate how we all have the opportunity here to help each other out. So let&#8217;s do it during this Corona Virus crisis and always!</p>
<p>Feel free to copy and put in your own links and please share.</p>
<p>Love,</p>
<p>Eve</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Apr 2019 22:01:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people are talking about the Netflix show about a young Dominatrix. So far, I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s the equivalent of a waitress putting...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people are talking about the Netflix show about a young Dominatrix. So far, I&#8217;d say it&#8217;s the equivalent of a waitress putting herself through school being called a professional restaurateur. She&#8217;s no pro, perhaps she will become one. We&#8217;ll see. In the meantime, here&#8217;s a little revision on a piece I wrote back in 2010 on the beauty and diversity of the Dominatrix.</p>
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<p>Bear in mind, most Dominatrices use the pronoun &#8220;she&#8221; no matter the gender identity and some of use have been using Masculine pronouns in scenes for years&#8230;more on that later.</p>
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<h2><em>“Come to the edge, he said. They said: We are afraid. Come to the edge, he said. They came. He pushed them and they flew.”&nbsp;</em></h2>
<h2><em>Guillaume Apollinaire</em></h2>
<div>One of my Sisyphean challenges in life is to demystify the myth of the Dominatrix – to fill out the missing gaps and one-dimensional characteristics that permeate our culture. The unique histories of Dominatrices inform their brave work and pioneering spirit. If you could look closely, (where are the stats anyway?), you would see an illustrious array of talent, skills, philosophies, and courage.</div>
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<div>Like many other professionals I know, I too, have a unique history. Raised urban poor, in my family I went on to obtain the first High School degree, and eventually a Master’s degree. Literary and theatrical studies combined with extensive pedagogical experience continue to inform my work as a BDSM lecturer, educator, and writer. Years before I would begin to fully understand my own leanings towards Female Domination and BDSM practices, I wrote my graduate thesis on “Subversive Practices in Feminist Performance Art”. Further, like many of my colleagues, I may not fit the stereotype of the Hollywood-produced leather cat suit clad man-eating vixen, but I have practiced the art of Domination with intention and commitment for many years.</div>
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<div>The media stereotype of the Dominatrix is rather one-dimensional. The infiltration of SM culture into mainstream society leans primarily towards the fetishistic and aesthetic aspects of BDSM culture, avoiding any deeper underlying issues to the person and her work. In “real” life, Dominatrices are generally stunning; though not always mainstream beauties. We often stand out in a crowd because we tend to be individualistic, living life to the fullest and more often than not standing out as a leader – the one to take control in any number of ways.&nbsp;</div>
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<div>I’d love to see more research done that would illuminate the complexity of a profession that has been misrepresented and misunderstood by sociaty. Like within most professions, a spectrum of representation exists, eg, not all lawyers are bad and not all police officers are good. The Dominatrix also has many layers to her persona, and I have been pondering the many variations exist for some time.&nbsp;</div>
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<div>Here is a partial list of some of the different types of Dominatrices, with basic names that I came up with off the top of my head, many of which can overlap with each other, and others that never mix.</div>
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<div><strong>The Domestic Disciplinarian:</strong> Could be your Aunty or Woman next door, until she puts you over her knee.</div>
<div><strong>The Medical Specialist:</strong> Plays Doctor or Nurse to perfection.</div>
<div><strong>The Rubber Mistress:</strong> Has all the rubber clothes and gear you could possible imagine.</div>
<div><strong>The Goddess:</strong> Demands worship.</div>
<div><strong>The Fetishist:</strong> Fetish is her motivator.</div>
<div><strong>The Bondage Mistress/Top:</strong> Loves rope and knows how to use it.</div>
<div><strong>The Whip Mistress:</strong> Whip wielding from single tail to cat o’ nine.</div>
<div><strong>The Predator:</strong> Hunts you down and take you down.</div>
<div><strong>The Philosopher:</strong>&nbsp;Keeps you in line with her words and ethics.</div>
<div><strong>The Classic:</strong> Domestic Disciplinarian, Whip Wielder, Bondage Expert and more! The General Practitioner, (also with specialties) of Dominatrices.</div>
<div><strong>The Good Girl Gone Bad:</strong> Looks angelic or like the girl next door.</div>
<div><strong>The Seductress:</strong>&nbsp;Casts her spell to entice you.</div>
<div><strong>The Counselor/Guide:&nbsp;</strong>Takes you where you need to go.&nbsp;</div>
<div><strong>The Emasculator:</strong>&nbsp;Wants your balls, you don’t need them.</div>
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<div>Of course, this list is not exhaustive and as I began noting all the variations I realized that not only are there so many types, but that many of us embody any number of Strong Female Authoritarian Archetypes within our Dominatrix Personas which we invoke when appropriate to the scene: Queen, Priestess, Warrior, and Mother to name a few. Just because a Dominatrix self-presents in one archetypal role does not mean she cannot employ another type when necessary however, the Bondage Mistress can care for her bound subject in a very Maternal or Motherly way and once the Predator has captured her prey, she can employ the Goddess to finalize her objectives. Conversely, it would be quite useless for the Whip Mistress to whip the Domestic Discipline client as a Medical Specialist while wearing a black rubber cat suit. Not only do the genres not go together, but the Domestic Discipline aficionado’s needs will not be met and no catharsis would ensue leaving the session flat and ineffectual.&nbsp;</div>
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<div>I have often said that Dominatrices are Psychic Waste Managers, encouraging people to excavate parts of themselves that society deeply discourages: the primal sexual selves. If the libido is not allowed to emerge in a positive creative way, it can be destructive. I also say that the sacred and lascivious are flip sides of the same coin. Knowing who you are as a Dominatrix and how to go about employing different aspects of your self in the work helps achieve therapeutic results with your clientele. There is an old adage to the profession, we may not be therapists, but the work is therapeutic. Knowing oneself in Domination is particularly crucial because of the nature of psycho-sexual work. Libidinal drives inform our every movement, hence the work itself elicits the question of what drives us sexually. Personally, although I love whipping, I do not consider myself a whip Mistress. When I see my esteemed Whip Mistress colleagues doing the dance of fire and precision, I am truly humbled by their abilities. Would I desire to be them? Yes, but honestly, I must honor my primary arousal in order to be a better Dominant. I suppose I am an Archeologist of BDSM. I love exploring and excavating psycho-sexual terrain, and the whips and other accoutrements are simply tools that help me unearth buried artifacts.</div>
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<div>In examining difference, we must also examine similarity. We Dominatrices all have sadistic streaks, or at the very least enjoy giving pleasure – and if a masochist seeks pain for their pleasure, we are happy to accommodate. We also, ideally, have hard skills in Domination, be they rope rigging, electro-play, or whip wielding.&nbsp; Often motivated by deep fetishistic desires, we all care about our clientele in a professional fashion. Dominatrices have many similarities but perhaps only one commonality: whatever the archetype or role that we play, we need to push our subjects and ourselves a little deeper into the dark so that we all may extend our psychosexual travels a little further, returning each time with a bit more knowledge and a lot more savvy.&nbsp;</div>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who doesn&#8217;t love a sexy gift? Whatever the reason, be it holiday, birthday, or just because, sexy gifts can bring laughter, joy, pleasure, intimacy, knowledge and power. And what&#8217;s more sexy than power? Ideas!</p>
<p>People often ask me what my favorite sexy gifts are,-&nbsp; and I have many many options at my disposal. As I was pulling together my kinky gift list for a friend this year, I realized it has become much more comprehensive over time From a range of prices to areas of interest, (within sexy), there are lost of options. Keep this list handy, feel free to share. I trust you&#8217;ll find the appropriate gift for your loved one(s).</p>
<p>Oh, and by the way, some of these links will pay me back, so you&#8217;ll be gifting me as well!</p>
<p>1. Gift Books and Games</p>
<p><a href="https://www.sexquestioncards.com/?fbclid=IwAR23gz1H9DncBK6CueDDwjBoLWFAjdpAFcgD6ocrRPtIz-hd-z9-B6-vr0s">Sex Cards</a></p>
<p>It is possible to talk about sex the way foodies talk about food, with great detail and delight? Anyone can learn to be more comfortable on this terrain, it just takes practice. Part of the mission for these cards is to provide a fun way to talk about sex, not only between lovers, but between friends and groups of friends too. We are sexual beings all the time, whether or not we have a partner(s) at any given time. Have fun and be curious!</p>
<p><a href="https://www.sexquestioncards.com/?fbclid=IwAR23gz1H9DncBK6CueDDwjBoLWFAjdpAFcgD6ocrRPtIz-hd-z9-B6-vr0s">https://www.sexquestioncards.com/?fbclid=IwAR23gz1H9DncBK6CueDDwjBoLWFAjdpAFcgD6ocrRPtIz-hd-z9-B6-vr0s</a></p>
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<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Bondassage-Kinky-Erotic-Massage-Lovers-ebook/dp/B00ESKA0Q2">Bondassage Book</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.bondassage.com">Jaeleen Bennis</a> created this sexy sequence for lovers and I helped her write the book. In it you&#8217;ll learn basic massage and bondage techniques, with tons of information on sensory play. There are lots of practice exercises also!</p>
<p><iframe title="Bondassage: Kinky Erotic Massage Tips for Lovers" type="text/html" width="500" height="550" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen style="max-width:100%" src="https://read.amazon.com/kp/card?preview=inline&#038;linkCode=kpd&#038;ref_=k4w_oembed_9vdAvwe84CAqOw&#038;asin=B00ESKA0Q2&#038;tag=kpembed-20"></iframe></p>
<p>2. Gift Toys</p>
<p><a href="https://newlovecreations.com/">Injoyus</a></p>
<p>My favorite strap-on &#8220;less&#8221; toy. So comfy! You attach one of the insertables in you and the more dildo shaped piece acts for the receiver’s pleasure. In a word, once in place, the wearer/giver can squat, walk, lie, even dance and the Injoyus will not fall out. Honestly, having mutual sexual pleasure with your partner from the inside out is quite like nothing else available to us on earth, only fantasies! <a href="https://newlovecreations.com/">https://newlovecreations.com/</a></p>
<p>I love mine so much I’ve named her Francis. Yep, our relationship is that special, and if you would like to own one go <strong><a href="http://newlovecreations.com/">HERE and be sure to put in EVE1 for 10% off.</a></strong>&nbsp; It&#8217;s 100 per cent fully refundable too. Here&#8217;s to a world where the Injoyus becomes a widely used pleasure device within the expansive world of sex and exploration!</p>
<p>For a more in depth review, go here&#8230;</p>
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<p>If you want to create a combo pleasure gift of two pieces, here are two of my favorites:</p>
<p>The <a href="http://dodsonandross.com/product/bettys-vaginal-barbell-vb30">Betty Dodson Vaginal Barbell </a>combined with the <a href="https://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/GV13516/magic-wand/magic-wand-rechargeable">Hitachi Magic Wand</a> https://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/GV13516/magic-wand/magic-wand-rechargeable are the BEST!</p>
<p>Although the barbell says &#8220;vaginal&#8221;, it actually works amazingly well on the prostate and anally for women also. Easy to clean, sterilizable, lasts for life, it’s worth every cent and then some too.<br />
Pair it with the Hitachi Magic Wand for buzz, buzz and you’re set for life for around $200!</p>
<p>OR if you are maybe a bit more greedy, my absolute favorite girthy and lengthy toy is the</p>
<p><a href="https://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/1-3-BF-0801/njoy/eleven-stainless-steel-dildo-?lref=Srch|njoy%2Beleven|a|1|c|0|-relevance|search_page|0">Eleven</a>&nbsp; made by N&#8217;Joy Toys</p>
<p>Eleven inches long and weighing over just over 2lbs&#8230;.you&#8217;ll feel it and it doubles as a workout toy!</p>
<p><a href="https://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/1-3-BF-0801/njoy/eleven-stainless-steel-dildo-?lref=Srch|njoy%2Beleven|a|1|c|0|-relevance|search_page|0">https://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/1-3-BF-0801/njoy/eleven-stainless-steel-dildo-?lref=Srch|njoy%2Beleven|a|1|c|0|-relevance|search_page|0</a></p>
<p><a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/ass-hammer-large-stainless-steel/?acc=eveminax">My other favorite insertable</a> The Ass Hammer is just as versatile as the Eleven, but oh, so much lighter in weight. Once in, it stays in beautifully!</p>
<p><a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/ass-hammer-large-stainless-steel/?acc=eveminax">https://www.mr-s-leather.com/ass-hammer-large-stainless-steel/?acc=eveminax</a></p>
<p>3. Choose Your Own Gift! Perhaps my suggestions are not quite what you&#8217;re looking for? Then go to one of these sites for your pleasure&#8230;gift cards available also:)</p>
<p>toys, toys, and lingerie!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml?kbid=214489">Good Vibrations&nbsp; </a><a href="http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml?kbid=214489">http://www.goodvibes.com/main.jhtml?kbid=214489</a></p>
<p>Gears, Toys, Latex, more&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://www.stockroom.com/home.aspx?ref=1885813">Stockroom</a> <a href="http://www.stockroom.com/home.aspx?ref=1885813">http://www.stockroom.com/home.aspx?ref=1885813</a></p>
<p>Gears, Toys, Furniture, more&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/?acc=eveminax">Mr S</a> <a href="https://www.mr-s-leather.com/?acc=eveminax">https://www.mr-s-leather.com/?acc=eveminax</a></p>
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<p>4. Porn Gifts</p>
<p>Maybe a little streaming time for you and/or your partner?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been making my own videos for years, <a href="http://www.clips4sale.com/studio/15436">Mistress Minax FemDomme</a> porn delights!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.clips4sale.com/studio/15436">http://www.clips4sale.com/studio/15436</a></p>
<p>Or you may not know I did a great series with <a href="http://www.pinklabel.tv/on-demand/studio/point-of-contact-minax/?affiliate=2452008">Pink and White Productions?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.pinklabel.tv/on-demand/studio/point-of-contact-minax/?affiliate=2452008">http://www.pinklabel.tv/on-demand/studio/point-of-contact-minax/?affiliate=2452008</a></p>
<p>Perhaps rubber and crossdressing works for you? Works for me! I love the shoots I&#8217;ve done with <a href="http://www.aliceinbondageland.com/?ref=2461044">Alice In Bondageland</a>.&nbsp; You will too!</p>
<p><a href="http://www.aliceinbondageland.com/?ref=2461044">http://www.aliceinbondageland.com/?ref=2461044</a></p>
<p>5. Educational Gifts<strong><br />
</strong></p>
<p>Streaming:</p>
<p>Education you say? Learn from Me and Many Many Others anytime anywhere!</p>
<p><a href="http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=942299-0000&amp;PA=2460509&amp;HTML=http://www.kinkacademy.com/"> Kink Academy </a></p>
<p><a href="http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=942299-0000&amp;PA=2460509&amp;HTML=http://www.kinkacademy.com/">http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=942299-0000&amp;PA=2460509&amp;HTML=http://www.kinkacademy.com/</a></p>
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<p>Whatever your propensities, any of the above are sure to please. I hope these options have opened your mind and piqued your&nbsp; curiosity!</p>
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<p>Limited to 8 students, specialized hands-on training with 8 amazing demo bottoms, 4 incredible instructors, and 2 gracious assistants&#8230;it&#8217;s a weekend long Intensive you will never forget! I should know, I took the very first one in 2002 and have been instructing with the Cléo Dubois Academy ever since. That&#8217;s 16 years of instruction!</p>
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<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/eveminax/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="alignleft wp-image-1799 size-medium" src="https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-300x300.jpg" alt="bdsm and its healing powers" width="300" height="300" srcset="https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-300x300.jpg 300w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-80x80.jpg 80w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-768x768.jpg 768w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-1030x1030.jpg 1030w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-36x36.jpg 36w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-180x180.jpg 180w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-1500x1500.jpg 1500w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-705x705.jpg 705w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-120x120.jpg 120w, https://www.eveminax.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/dominatrix-eve-minax-450x450.jpg 450w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a>If you’ve been following my writing over the years, you may have learned that I live with transgenerational trauma which led me to experience BDSM as instrumental to my healing process. Although technically I was kinky from the beginning of my sexual explorations, it was only when I read about a Dominatrix in a New Yorker piece back in 1991, that I had an Ahah! moment. I said to myself, “I could do that. I would be great, and I would love it”. Honestly though, I didn’t realize exactly what I was drawn to around kink and BDSM. Initially I also had internalized shame and confusion around being a deviant, pervert, outsider, (choose your term), and I eventually came to realize what drew me in and kept me coming back: healing through BDSM.</p>
<p>No matter your background or what drives you to explore the vast realms of BDSM, you can still benefit from possibilities. I’d like to share with you a few ways in which BDSM has facilitated the healing process for me.</p>
<p><strong>Transparency</strong> Any practice can claim to encourage transparency, <a href="https://www.eveminax.com/talking-about-your-desires-with-your-partner-how/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">or the act of being fully clear and honest in our speech</a>, and actions which leads to deeper trust. Abuse survivors find it, (really), hard to trust. When we know that our partners are fully disclosing any truths that may be harmful to the relationship, we can relax into creating healthy attachment and long term relationships.</p>
<p><strong>Boundaries/Safe words</strong> As part of the act of being transparent, agreements/boundaries are drawn and respected. Safe words are used when boundaries, (often unforeseen), arise, allowing for play to shift to a more manageable space, perhaps even stopping to allow for space and compassion. <a href="https://www.eveminax.com/oops-i-forgot-my-safeword/">When boundaries are respected</a>, once again, trust can be built, rebuilt, and loving healthy relationships can foster and grow.&nbsp;</p>
<p><strong>Consent</strong> Part of the healing process for all of us, is to radically accept who we are, what turns us on, what brings us pleasure, even if society may deem it abnormal. Part of consent is to validate these desires and give permission to each other to do certain things or act certain ways. If you want me to whip you until you cry and I consent, and then I want you to crawl to me on all fours and beg for it and you consent, we have a mutually consensual agreement that can help empower us to feel more authentic &#8211; or in psychological speak, to become more self actualized.</p>
<p><strong>The Practice</strong> Much like yoga, or meditation, or whatever healing art you may practice, half of the work is showing up, the other is the journey of the practice. Creating scenes with our partner, and exercising all of the above practices, will help us know ourselves better, which will expose how fallible we can be, and ideally bring us back to compassion and integrity. What’s more healing than that?</p>
<p><strong>Surrender</strong> Whether you are a top, bottom, switch, Dominant, or submissive, there will always be a process of letting go, surrendering to the moment, (which is why bondage is so imperative! Watch for a forthcoming piece on that). If I decide to suspend you, but your body is too tense in that moment, I may need to surrender my idea of suspending you just then, and explore alternatives to get you there. And you, as bottom, will need to let go of that suspension in that moment and surrender to my lead. It’s a dance of control and surrender.</p>
<p>Energetically, we all are giving, receiving, and validating. Although BDSM is a fulfilling form of adult play and can be quite simply put, amusing as hell, it can also be extremely liberating and healing in the process. Enjoy your new found freedom!</p>
<p>Are you ready to experience your own pleasure and personal growth through BDSM? <a href="/possibilities">Click here for possibilities</a></p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Walking into the lobby of Catalystcon West 2014, I wondered what my purpose was being there. Sure, I had a panel wherein we would discuss...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Walking into the lobby of Catalystcon West 2014, I wondered what my purpose was being there. Sure, I had a panel wherein we would discuss the complications around private vs public in the sex lives of industry people, but surely there was more. Within a half an hour of being in the lobby, I was introduced to the&nbsp;<a href="http://newlovecreations.com/">Injoyus</a>, an incredible harnessless pegging device. As a 20 plus year player of strap on, pegging, harness and dildo play, I had never found an “ultimate solution”.<br />
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<p>Sure, there are many terrific and not so terrific possibilities out there, and they all largely require what is commonly known as a harness. Without going into details about the pros and cons of harness wearing, just imagine this: your tits are perky or you wear a bra, your teeth are straight or you must wear braces…the reality is most female id’ed or non-potruding bodies of any gender don’t have the additional equipment to encourage “hands free” penetration. The harness holds the dildo/phallus/toy in place for comfort and ease. But it digs into your flesh, requires certain body sizes, and oftentimes is simply cumbersome.</p>
<p>Oh yes, there are now several options for “harnessless” strap on and pegging devices, and in my experience, and many others I know, they are simply not up to snuff. They won’t stay in, they flop about, one end is wrong for the receiver of that end, or they’re made of a really crappy material with chemicals.</p>
<p>Bring on the Injoyus! Designed and built by a Physician’s Assistant who took four plus years to painstakingly modify the device, it now stands, as far as I know, as the ONLY two way insertable (harness less strap on), that not only gives the receiver much pleasure, the wearer too can attain incredible orgasmic release and also have the added bonus of feeling what it’s like to actually have another pleasure appendage.</p>
<p>Here’s how it works: the wearer/giver places into their vagina/pussy/hole between the ass and the urethra a round, medical silicone grade insertable piece, that acts as the stay in piece, or “locking device” if you will. I’ll call it the base. It sits against the pelvis, for some of us,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.google.com/search?q=baby+kangaroo+in+mother%27s+pouch&amp;rlz=1C5CHFA_enUS688US688&amp;tbm=isch&amp;source=iu&amp;ictx=1&amp;fir=7nUyWl9wtno0JM%253A%252CoQU7FBNvz0xHMM%252C_&amp;usg=__pScVdSyNmVZuta5d5-Q7U5uxJpM%3D&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=0ahUKEwiyjJuS6-7XAhVSwWMKHUS_BWMQ9QEILTAB#imgrc=s3mfRAnyMREV3M:">like a joey in its mother’s pouch&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</a></p>
<p>So comfy! Then, you can attach one of the insertables, the more dildo shaped piece, for the receiver’s pleasure. In a word, once in place, the wearer/giver can squat, walk, lie, even dance and the Injoyus will not fall out. Honestly, having mutual sexual pleasure with your partner from the inside out is quite like nothing else available to us on earth, only fantasies!</p>
<p>Sure, there are a couple of down sides, the Injoyus base, currently does not “fit” every body. The good news is, they back their products 100%. You can return it if it does not fit! Who ever heard of that?</p>
<p>Also, there are currently, no color options for the base, (and they chose a creamy color), but the attachments come in pink, purple, and black, (see the image).</p>
<p>I enjoyed my time at CatalystCon, and I particularly “Injoyed” the Injoyus, and I have ever since. I love “her” so much I’ve named her Francis. Yep, our relationship is that special, and if you would like to own one go&nbsp;<strong><a href="http://newlovecreations.com/">HERE and be sure to put in EVE1 for 10% off.</a></strong>&nbsp; Here’s to a world where the Injoyus becomes a widely used pleasure device within the expansive world of sex and exploration!</p>
<p>Oh, and for MORE fun, check out <a href="https://vimeo.com/271173963">MY VIDEO</a> talking about and showing the Injoyus!</p>
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