EVERYDAY JOY with SANDRA!

Start Again!

2014-08-14T01:04:00.000-07:00

Find your Joy Everyday!

I cannot believe that a year and a half has passed since I last posted in this blog! Where did the time go! I only meant to take a few weeks and finish a project that I was working on and somehow I never got back to it:( What happen? I don't even know!! But I'm back, and you guys know how I like to find truth "nuggets" and life lessons in everything and every situation, right? So what are the lessons in this one?

Sunset at Ocean Shores! Beautiful!

First of all, I realized that I REALLY missed doing this blog and connecting with people this way. I have always loved finding beauty, joy, encouragement and wisdom in everyday life. I am a teacher and a philosopher at heart...Not the kind of teacher who has earned a degree at a place of higher education, but a teacher of life lessons and wisdom that comes from the heart. A thinker...And I am unashamedly a positive Pollyanna! No matter what, I want to find the "brightside" of the situation. I want to view the glass as half full instead of half empty! I love sharing these thoughts, wisdom, and "brightside Pollyanna stuff" with those around me who are interested in being lifted up, inspired and encouraged. I want to believe that we can get through anything, and we can.

I love this spot in Newport, OR

Next of all, wouldn't you agree that we need inspiration in our day, our lives and our world. That's what I want to give...Inspiration, wisdom, laughter, help...a sunny spot to help you find the joy in your day. There is so much negativity, rudeness (for no good reason), meanness and darkness going on in our world today.We can't ignore it or pretend that it's not happening, but we don't have to allow it to rule our lives and attitudes. I refuse to let someone else's behavior or attitude turn me into "Miss Meanie," Scrooge or the Grinch. I'm gonna spread love, peace, joy and goodness wherever and however I can. I wanna encourage you to do the same.

For the last lesson...Here it is: Start again, try again, get up when you fall, NEVER give up on you! Now I had every intention of keeping this blog going when I started it the last time, but that CLEARLY didn't happen. I could tell myself, "Sandra, this is not working for you, you can't do this, just leave it along." And then I could just walk around feeling like a failure, wishing I could do it. But no way! I like doing this blog, I love connecting with people (you), and I know that I have good "heart stuff" to offer...So that settles it. No matter how many times I have to start, I will keep doing it. That is one of the greatest lessons that I have learned in my life, "Keep on Keeping on." It's the same for you...Whatever it is that you are working on in your life, family, career, health, dreams etc, never give up. It's okay to start over however many times it takes. (I'm not sure that's good grammar, but you get the point, right?) As long as you are willing to try again it's never, ever over. So just like before I will bring you some occasional recipes, my love of life, thrifting and travel, with truth nuggets, life lessons, joy and encouragement in the mix.

I am here to remind you that there is
"Joy in Your Everyday Life." Look for it!

Remember...Start Again...It's okay!

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Joy to you
Sandra

Happy Valentines Day!

2013-02-14T21:12:00.001-08:00

Can you tell that I am ready for some warm
summery weather!! Come on!

Just wanted to take a minute and say HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY to you guys! I hope that your day was full of peace and the knowledge that you are loved. Hope that you celebrated and enjoyed the day in some way, whether you are in a relationship or not. Don't allow your emotions to get hijacked and taken over by sadness and negativity if you're single or in a tough relationship. (I have been in both). Focus on the good, on your blessings and think about the potential that is ahead of you...And I know that there are plenty of people who are CRAZY about you!! Keep your head up, ENJOY, you're blessed!

To you my friend...

Stay tuned...For all of you southerners or those with southern appetites, I will be sharing a great recipe for "Delicious Oven Fried Chicken." Sooo good! As we say in my family, "It tastes so good it makes you wanna slap yo mama." Now you know that it's either really good or someone is OUT OF THEIR MIND...Where I come from you don't slap your mama!...Unless you have nothing planned for your future because that's probably the last thing that you will do!!...Anyway I love this recipe and so will you. Stay tuned.

Enjoy your day!!

Blessings and love
Sandra

Birthdays are for celebrating!

2013-02-07T23:27:00.000-08:00

Happy Birthday to me! Thankful to be here!

Birthdays are for celebrating. Whether you choose to spend your day alone or to gather with family and friends...It's your special day and you should spend it doing what brings you joy.

The day that you were born God sent you into the earth with purpose and life in your heart to share with others...Your life is your time in history...It honors Him when you celebrate your day.

Fun with Lori

In the past few years I
have celebrated my birthday in many ways...I have spent it quiet and alone in reflection, or taking myself shopping, to the spa, then out to dinner. That's a fun day...I have also connected with girlfriends and taken in a movie. That's fun too! One thing that I like to do is to have a good fun party...Friends, food, laughter and dancing...I tell my friends that when you come to my birthday party you are expected to dance and have fun. No wallflowers here! We 'gon' have some fun!....That's what it's all about...Enjoying one another, celebrating each other...celebrating life and God's goodness.

Good friends are what make fun celebrations!

Who cares if we don't know or can't do the latest dance moves...It's just fun, good exercise, keeps your bones and joints from locking up, (trust me, you do think about these kinds of things as you get older; can't have stuff locking up on me!), and gets rid of all the 'party food' calories...And we can get some good fun laughter out of it too...I mean this is the greatest!

I like bringing people together for fun and laughter

This year for my 52nd birthday (where did the time go) I had a party at the home of some really gracious friends, invited some people over and celebrated my arrival day on planet earth...It was fun and beautiful...Unfortunately we were having so much fun I forgot to get pics of us dancing...

Judy and Carol

We did the "Cha Cha Cha Slide" and I taught everybody the "Cupid Shuffle." It's a fun dance and one of my exercise songs...

Sandra, David (my honey) and Mike

If you are interested in learning this dance you can find a demonstration of it on You Tube under "Cupid Shuffle"...(I would have posted it here but as I am new to the blogging world I am still learning all the legalities of such matters)...

Carol a special sister and friend

Anyway here are pics from my birthday party...Just good clean fun...It was great and I absolutely enjoyed it...When your day comes make sure that you do something special and unique just for you. Don't talk yourself out of the celebration of "you." That's not selfish or prideful...It's honoring and acknowledging the creator by honoring HIS creation. I hope that you are experiencing "Everyday Joy."

Love and Blessings
Sandra

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More friends

Guys hanging out

Just chilling

Having fun - Enjoying the evening...

Birthday loot! Sweet!

Sandra's Sun-Dried Tomato Salad

2013-01-26T22:29:00.001-08:00

Looking for a tasty, healthy delicious salad with a bit of kick...Here is the perfect one. This is a "Sandra" special...Keep in mind that you can leave out the peppers if spicy is not for you. You will still enjoy all the different flavors and textures in this salad...Happy healthy eating! (I hardly ever measure when I cook, so these are estimations...This will serve 1-2 people)

Sandra's Sun-Dried Tomato Salad
1/2 cup of finely chopped Spinach
1/2 cup of finely chopped Romaine Lettuce
1/4 to 1/2 chopped Avocado
1/4 cup of frozen peas (thawed)
1/4 cup of frozen corn (thawed)
1-2 chopped mushrooms
1 peeled and chopped Kiwi
1/4 cup of Sun-dried Tomatoes
Chopped Jalapeno (according to taste)
Handful of slivered Almonds or nuts of your choice
Handful of Raisins
A squeeze of Lime
Garlic Powder, (or chopped Garlic Clove), Black Pepper
A little low-fat Sesame Ginger Dressing (or other of your choice)
1-2 Tablespoon of Mango Salsa (Or regular mild or hot salsa)

I like to layer all the ingredients on my plate (toss everything in a bowl if you are making salad for several people)...Next squeeze on a little Lime (Lime is pretty tart so only a little), then sprinkle on Garlic and Black Pepper, and Sesame Ginger dressing...Finally add Mango Salsa on top...This makes a beautiful and tasty salad...Enjoy

Tips...Substitute different veggies like Bell Beppers, Zucchini etc...Use Pineapple or Oranges instead of Kiwis...try different seasonings...Add Black Beans or Kidney Beans.

Love and Blessings
Sandra

A Fun Place to Visit - Gig Harbor

2013-01-24T23:25:00.000-08:00

In Gig Harbor...Posing for the girls!

We all have our favorite kinds of places to visit. Some people like big cities, lots of lights, activities, crowds, noise and lots of things to see. Some people like the water, sand on the beaches and solitude...some like the mountains, forest, quiet and isolation.

Erica, Lisa, and myself getting ready for our drive to
Gig Harbor

I believe that it is important to get out and see the world around you...And the world around you is not necessarily across the country or across the globe. It can be checking out the beauty in your own town or the areas, towns, and cities right next door.

A local Gig Harbor art gallery...We visited several

If beauty is inside you...If it is a part of your perspective and it is the lens that you see the world through, then you'll find beauty no matter where you are.

Lisa and Erica

This is an incredible and beautiful earth that God has given us to live on, and I want to visit lots of different places in it. I have places near and far that are favorites for me...big and small cities...but my favorites are small, quaint, cozy, unique places...quiet with just enough people, places, and shops to be interesting...I like eclectic places and things...

One favorite place near me (In fact there are a lot of beautiful and cool places near me) is a city called Gig Harbor...What a fun cute place...Great boutiques, antique shops, galleries, restaurants...It's quaint, with unbelievable water views, walkable and easy to get around...Great for a quick get away, down time etc...David and I have driven there several times just to hang out and have fun...I also took my daughter there for an overnight birthday stay at a cute B&B...

Lisa and I at the Harbor...Cold and beautiful

A few weeks ago when my friend Lisa was visiting me, I took her and Erica over for a few hours of fun... If you live in this area and are looking for a cute, fun, quick place to visit and unwind then Gig Harbor could be the place for you...

What's your favorite sort of place to visit? Go take a trip and check out the beauty all around...Whether it's far away or right in your own backyard!

love and blessings
Sandra

P. S. One more day!!...(I know...I'm like a kid right!!) My birthday is tomorrow, Friday...Got some birthday goodies today from hubby and a friend...Flowers and a camera stand that I REALLY wanted...You're never too old for gifts:) More pics below

Having some Java!!

Gig Harbor art gallery...Sorry but I can't remember the name of this one

Erica enjoying a sit-down

You have to stop at this cute little place...A coffee and pottery shop called
"Java & Clay Cafe"

"Go enjoy your world!"

Friends and Creativity

2013-01-24T02:21:00.001-08:00

Lisa and I out to lunch

OK as you can see I am still catching up with posting some holiday stuff here...Took a little break but hope to stay on top and up to date (ha ha).

Getting items together for my project...Wood frame, glue, grout
sponge, assorted colored glass gems, big chunk of broken glass bowl

During the holidays I had a good friend (Lisa) from Texas to come and stay with me...Friends are great and the one thing that I love about Lisa is that she totally inspires me to creativity. She is an artist and painter and is crazy creative. I love being around people who inspire me. While she visited me for the holidays we had a ton of fun and made some cool art projects.

Lisa working on her project...Didn't get a picture of the start before she
painted everything. This is midway through the process.

I love creating...painting, repurposing and remixing items, and I love the idea of having things in my home that I did with my own hands. That really excites me...Make me feel all warm and happy when I walk through my house.

One of the projects that we worked on was a glass mosaic using grout. This was my first time doing a mosaic and working with grout...It was no small project but I got it done. Lisa also made a piece and left it at my house! A Lisa original! Happy about that...

My paint supplies...Just finished painting my frame this beautiful
metallic green color

For my piece, I bought some glass gems from the store, but I also had a big chunk of glass from a beautiful bowl that was given to me several years ago as part of a gift after speaking at a conference. It was a really gorgeous piece but got broken in an accident.

I have kept the broken pieces for many years because I knew that I would find something creative to do with it. I named my mosaic project "Redemption." It reminds me of how God is so great at taking the mistakes, broken pieces and fragments of our lives and recreating something amazing and beautiful in spite of it all. Don't ever think that He can't do something great with your mess...I have personal experience that He can!! I am so glad about that.

Lisa has added more paint and glass tiles to her piece

I still have one more piece to finish with my project...I am going to make some sort of tag to hang with it on the wall that has the name "Redemption" on it and a short story of the meaning...Just like you find in some art museums...I think that will be cool!

Adding glass gems and I also added a picture of
David and I in Mexico

How about you? What's your area of creativity? Hope your New Year is going great so far...

Love and Blessings
Sandra

P.S. By the way...I celebrate my birthday THIS Friday, January 25...Yea! Gonna have a fun birthday celebration with some of my dear friends...Very excited!! Very thankful to my amazing and wonderful God to still be here enjoying peace, life and love...Yes very grateful indeed! More pics below.

Lisa's finished art piece! Beautiful!

The cool thing is she finished this and gave it to me
for Christmas! I love it!

Tada!! And here is my piece..."Redemption" I really like it.
I will get a better pic of it for the blog when I finish the
name tag. Not to bad for first timer!

Here is another piece that we worked on. I already had this
piece. It was a plain brown and white so Lisa spiced it up
with some color and I added some gemstones on it.

Fun Fun Fun

My Favorite Scripture!

2013-01-21T00:20:00.002-08:00

I thought that I would share one of my favorite scriptures with you...This particular one is great any time but especially as we enter into a new year...

A good friend shared this with me about 15 years ago and it has since become an important part of my life...I frequently sign it on greeting cards, letters, and emails...Here it is:

I remain confident of this: I will see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living. (Psalm 27:13)

This verse of scripture has brought encouragement and hope to me in times of challenges and trouble. It reminds me to believe and be confident that no matter what I am currently facing, I am headed into more of God's goodness. It's a reminder to me that God wants to be good to me on this side of heaven, while I live...I love that!

Because of this scripture I learned to expect to receive good into my life.

When I come across a scripture, quote, or 'saying' that moves or inspires me, I love to write it down and put it someplace where I can constantly see it...My mirror, refrigerator, kitchen cabinet etc. So write this one down and put it somewhere to remind yourself of all the good things that lie ahead.

I hope that you are expecting to see God's goodness in your life in 2013!!

Love and Blessings
Sandra

Holiday Fun!

2013-01-07T00:13:00.000-08:00

Ready for a fun evening together!

Each year my husband and I attend his company's Holiday Party. The company does a great job of making it special for the employees and their spouses. I look forward to connecting with and getting to know the people that work with my husband. Interacting and socializing with people is something that we both love to do. It has become a fun part of our Christmas Season...And David has been blessed 2 years in a row to win great prizes: an Ipad last year and a Target giftcard this year...Love fun surprises. Whenever he wins I win!

My makeup artist...Pretty cute!

Part of this yearly event is also having my daughter Erica come to my house and apply my makeup. She is very good at special occasion makeup and does a great job. Although I love the way she makes me look, the real treat is that we get to spend several hours together girl talking and she shares her skill and love of makeup with me. We all feel special and valued when we know that what we have to offer blesses and helps another person. Parents are always doing for their children and blessing them and thats great.

But God taught me that it blesses our kids when we let them help us in an area where they are skilled or have talent. We communicate value and worth to them by receiving something that they do for us. So I get Erica to do my makeup for special occasions (and she does a great job of making me look fabulous) and I also let her look through my closet occasionally so she can say to me "Mama, get these old folk clothes out of your closet!!!" What can I say? Sometimes I get in a rut!

Loving this dress! Thanks friend; you know who you are!! Kisses!

Make sure that you make room in your life to receive something from your kids...And take advantage of every opportunity to share life to those around you. Enjoy the pictures below...We had a ton of fun!

Pretty handsome!

Enjoy your Life

Sandra

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My holiday glam bag...name tags and gifts...I'm sorry but I am not
putting that name tag on my dress...No way!

Dessert bar...Beautiful but I stayed away!

I really like this chandelier...Beautiful!

Holiday blessings and Happy New Year to you all!

New Years Wisdom

2013-01-06T21:13:00.000-08:00

Happy New Years guys! I'm really believing that this will be an incredible year for you, filled with God's love, peace, blessing, and adventure. And can I just say THANK YOU very much...I am almost at 1000 views of my blog...I'm excited at the possibility of interacting with people I know and some that I don't know from all over the world...I love it! Thanks again...If you are enjoying my blog so far please share it with those of your friends and family that you think would enjoy it...

I was talking with my daughter just last night and discussing our plans and thoughts for the New Year. She made the statement that "Having a better and different year begins with You, the person deciding to be better and different." Isn't that great insight! It is so true. So I want to share a couple of my own personal insights into having a great year...Also a couple of holidays pics to check out.

A day trip to Gig Harbor with Erica and Lisa...
More on that later!

1. Decide to have a positive faith filled attitude...Simply put, attitude is the difference between having a great year or a terrible year. You can't control everything that happens or the actions of everyone around you, but what you can control is your response, reaction, and attitude towards them or the situation. Make a decision right now that no matter what happens in this year you're gonna have a great attitude. A great attitude means that you have a positive outlook...You believe that ultimately situations work for good and you focus on the positive...

2. No comparing yourself to others...We waste so much time comparing our lives, bodies, finances, careers, talents etc to those of others. That only leads to frustration and depression. Pursue growth, development, change and advancement in the areas of your choice, but learn to be okay with who you are and where you are right now, while you head towards your dreams...Be you and allow others to be themselves...We are all unique and different. Give people the freedom to not have to be like you...

Christmas Dinner...Turkey, Green Bean Casserole,
Collard Greens...Yum!

3. Be kind and treat others well...I firmly believe that it increases joy, peace, and a sense of goodness in my own heart and soul when I am kind and treat others well. We were created by God to release goodness in the world around us. Now that doesn't mean that everyone will be kind to you. And it doesn't mean that you should be someones's "doormat." But don't allow someone else's unkind behavior and attitude dictate who you are. Make up your mind that kindness and goodness will define who you are. Be intentional about being kind and good.

This tree was so beautiful...Took this at my husband's
company Christmas Party...Details and pics later

4. Be thankful...Waking up everyday and thanking God for who He is to you and for the blessings that are in your life is absolutely life changing...It takes your mind off of your problems...It pushes depression, negative emotions and thoughts away from you...It makes you feel better about yourself and your life...It attracts joy and peace to you. It attracts more of God's goodness and blessings to you...How cool is that!! Besides that God loves and enjoys your praise! Make up your mind this year to be a thankful person...

5. Learn to love you...Don't go around feeling bad about yourself, your looks, where you are in life, where you come from, your past etc...If you find yourself thinking negatively about you or beating up on yourself, stop it! It gets you nowhere! Make a decision to work on loving and accepting yourself this year...Accepting yourself doesn't mean that you no longer work to better yourself...It means that you give yourself grace and permission to love and accept yourself today, even though you don't have it all together. Focus on the great attributes that make you who you are.

Dinner with friends at my home

These are just a few of the lessons that God has taught me over the years...I remind myself of them constantly throughout the year, but especially at the beginning of each year...Living this way has absolutely brought great joy, peace, and strength into my life...Looking forward to sharing a great year with you!

Gotta walk off this holiday food!

Love and Blessings
Sandra

Leave a comment about your hopes for the New Year!

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Positive Impact and Christmas Pics

2012-12-27T03:08:00.000-08:00

Really liking this hat I got for Christmas!

Merry Christmas everyone! I do hope that your Christmas Holiday was special, joyful, and full of wonderful memories. I so love this time of year...Don't you? Christmas Day was quiet, restful and relaxing at my house. My husband was out of town visiting family during the holidays...It was our first Christmas in separate locations. We definitely missed each other but stayed connected via Facebook and Facetime on our Iphones.

What an amazing age we live in,

right?!! I remember many years ago when I was young, watching spy movies on TV with James Bond talking on telephones with real time face to face communication. I always thought that was so cool! At that time they were not available.

Now we can send a
letter to the other side of the world from our computer in seconds...And I can enjoy face to face conversation with my hubby via Skype or Facetime even when he is miles away...Amazing!

I took this close up of a beautiful ornament!

Back to Christmas...I spent Christmas with my daughter and a good friend from Texas...We cooked dinner together at my place, enjoyed some great conversation, tried to learn a new dance (I'm still working on it), and watched a couple of Christmas movies. It was great and I enjoyed their company...

My table set for 3

I am so very thankful for my life, family, and friends. I am thankful also for the opportunity to contribute something positive, good, and inspiring to those around me. I love helping and encouraging people. It truly blesses and feeds my heart to love people, to add something good to this world, to be a part of the solution and to not just talk only of what's wrong with everything and everybody. Enough already...I plan to find more ways next year to have positive impact in my world. I invite you to do the same. Everyone of us has something that is valuable, worthwhile, and neccessary to those around us. Believe that. Make your world a better place right where you are. That's what Christmas is about.That's what Jesus came to do...That's what this life is all about...

A friend's Christmas Tree

I hope that your heart is rich and full with love of life, love of family and friends, and most of all God's amazing, incredible love. Check out more of my Christmas pics below.

You're loved...
Sandra

Leave a comment and THANKS for visiting...

My backyard a few days before Christmas!

I almost had a white Christmas!

A window display

My friend Christie's house...I love it!

My First Style Post!

2012-12-13T21:04:00.000-08:00

So this is my first syle post! I'll be sharing my personal style likes and dislikes and hope to learn about yours in the process.
Like most girls I like pretty things...pretty clothes, shoes, jewelry etc. I tell my daughter that "I like to look like a million without spending a million." I love deals and finding great pieces at excellent prices, remixing and repurposing styles and clothes. I will be 52 in January...I can't believe that I am that old!! When DID that happen?! But I don't mind as long as I grow old with passion, grace, and style, and enjoyment of life...I plan to still be wearing my heels at 70 and beyond...Okay we'll see!! HaHa.

Jacket - Gallery (Birthday gift from hubby)
Dress - Chicos (thrifted)
Purse - Kathy Van Zeeland (Garage Sale)
Shoes - Miss Bisou (thrifted)
Belt on dress - Avon

The great thing about growing older is that you have had many years to work through your insecurities, develop your sense of style, learn what you like and don't like, what works and doesn't work for you...Well mostly...I am still working on things! But most of the time I don't go out of the house looking like "a hot mess" as my daughter would say. (In case you don't know, a "hot mess" means that you need to turn around, go back inside and get dressed again! 'Cause child, nobody needs to see the mess you are looking like right now!)

Which reminds me of a funny story...I remember many years ago when my kids had a conversation with me saying something like, "Mom, we want you to promise us that when you get old, you will not leave the house with 3 different kinds of old folks plaids and stripes for your outfits...they were serious, really! What gave them the idea that I would dress that way?! Don't know...

I would describe my style as eclectic...I like a variety of styles...I'm a 70's girl. I love bell bottoms (but I like skinny jeans too) and colors and prints from those years. I like classic pieces but I also like a little style edge and trends...I like to check out the latest styles and trends and add a bit of that to my personal style making it my own. I love dressing up for special occasions or for no occasion at all. Just because I want to!

I'll share some of the websites that I like later. I think the most important thing is that you feel good about you and feel great in what you are wearing. God created us to be beautiful and to feel beautiful...He loves beauty! Have you checked out his handiwork lately, this earth we live on...IT'S AMAZING!! As long as we dress with style and grace, we're good!

This is what I wore to church on Sunday nite...By the way this dress was a part of my Black Friday/Value Village shopping spree...$7!!...I so enjoy thrift shopping and I love me some animal print!...What do you think?

Sandra

Leave me a comment and tell me about your style...

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My Weekend - Part Two

2012-12-13T00:43:00.000-08:00

Check out my fun wild hair!

I love this time of year..So many fun things to do, people to see, things to be thankful for...
Here are the rest of my weekend happenings...I went to a book signing for a friend of mine at a local art gallery here in Olympia. I intend to do a post on the gallery and the artist who had the book signing later. I think that some of you would enjoy visiting there...It's a great place with lots of beautiful stuff.

With David, Robyn, (Sandra) and my David at art gallery...

Later I spent time with some friends at a "Girls Christmas Fun Nite." Good friends, uplifting encouraging words, laughter, good food, and dancing...and a cute little baby to play with. Fun hanging out with these ladies...I feel like I have sisters everywhere...Hope that you are taking time to enjoy all of your love ones and friends...

Although I haven't done much shopping, I did manage to get my Christmas tree. Or actually the truth is that David, got our tree cut and home. But I did help. Here is the one we chose...I love the smell of a fresh cut Christmas tree.

This is the one that's saying "Take me home Sandra."

David making sure there are no critters in our tree and having fun in the process. There is NO WAY that I would have my head in that tree!!!

I'll post some pictures of my tree when we're done with it...Hey I know that although this is a beautiful and wonderful time of year, a lot of people struggle with loneliness, sadness, loss and all sorts of hurting emotions. I call them the "Holiday Blues." They can hit when you least expect it. I know because I have been there before. I want to encourage you to reach out to others...Tell someone what you are feeling. Don't isolate yourself...Don't fall into that pit. It's very hard to get out. I found that the best way to resist the "Holiday Blues" is to get busy and involved with life and helping people. Get involved with your family, church, community center etc. Resist the urge to sit and focus on your problems, finances, emotions or the fact that you or alone at Christmas. You have so much to offer. There are people who need what you have. Focus on that...And remember that God loves you. Allow Him and the people in your life to love and help you...

Blessings and love to you

Sandra

I conquered it baby! Yes you did...

My Weekend - Part One

2012-12-10T00:56:00.000-08:00

Hi all...Hope your weekend was great! Unlike myself I do hope that you got some Holiday shopping done...Because I surely didn't. SANDRA!! What are you waiting on? Seriously I don't know...Help me Jesus! Okay, for real I am going to take care of it this week...Don't let me off of the hook guys!

Here is a little of my weekend...It was a full and busy weekend. On Friday my Honey and I went to my favorite restaurant in Olympia, "Heartfire." (We had a giftcard from some friends that totally took care of the bill...Don't you just love that.) I love the atmosphere and beauty of this place; and it's on the water with a beautiful view...How could you go wrong? The food is good too, but I go because it is a feast for my eyes and my soul...(Sappy, yes) Sometimes when I go out to eat, it is all about the food; I just want to enjoy a great meal. But sometimes it is all about the atmosphere and ambience...I want a cozy place that relaxes and nourishes my soul. So we enjoyed a great meal and evening there.

Right here I will inject some "Sandra Musings"...You need to discover what "nourishes your own soul." It's different things for different people. It is an ongoing journey discovering "you." Several years ago I called my husband at work and told him that I would like to go out for the evening. It was a Friday and he was happy to do it. So together we decided to go to a local bar-b-que place that we love to eat at. The place is pretty basic with no frills or extras, but we like it. Although the food was very good, and the company was excellent, I felt something was missing.

Later that evening I realized what the problem was...I was not just looking for a great meal and great company...My soul needed something more specific. I needed the right environment, cozy atmosphere, beautiful and warm surroundings...I wanted the whole package. It was a surprise to me because I didn't even realize what I needed. (I laugh when I think of women expecting men to always understand and know what we need...I don't even know or always understand MY OWN SELF!!! HaHa)

It has taken me years to learn to think and become aware, to examine and identify what's in my own heart, and then a few more years to have the courage to share it and reach for it...Life is a journey, but that's not all...Discovering "you" is also a lifelong journey...Learning what truly drives you, what you really need and like; learning who God created you to be and being okay with your differences, quirkiness, uniqueness...It's a journey that is worthwhile.

Keep ENJOYING your Holidays...Bless somebody good!
Sandra

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Healthy Recipe - Black Bean and Kiwi Salad

2012-12-05T01:19:00.001-08:00

Hi all...Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!...Hope yours are going great!...

I am still doing my Holiday Healthy Eating Challenge. Although I am enjoying some holiday foods in moderation, I am making sure to exercise and eat plenty of fruits and veggies...The one thing I am not eating is sweets and desserts (except for an occasional vegan dessert) with no butter, white sugar, or eggs...And I love to make fruit sorbet or dessert smoothies in my Vitamix. I am learning that there are some great desserts that taste good and will not be destructive to my health. I'll share some later...Sugar can be very addictive and habit forming for some people. It took me years to realize that was the case for me. It sounds ridiculous, but when I start eating sugar it seems as if the more I eat, the more I crave. I would love to be able to eat some pie, cake and cookies but that doesn't work for me at this time. Maybe never. Anyway here is a salad that I love to make. You can add or remove different veggies according to your own personal taste...

Here is something to keep in mind...I use kale and spinach in this recipe. I like to chop them both really fine and thin. It makes the Kale taste better and it is easier for your body to absorb the nutrients from them. So unless you like your veggies chunky, I would recommend chopping them pretty fine. It may take a while for you to get accustom to the taste of Kale...It can be a bit strong at first...But keep trying it (a little at a time) because it is very good for you...

Black Bean and Kiwi Salad

Black Bean and Kiwi Salad
2-3 Cups of finely chopped Spinach
3-4 Leaves of finely chopped Kale - remove stems
1/2 cup or more of frozen corn (thawed)
1/2 cup or more of frozen green peas (thawed)
1 Avocado chopped
1-2 Kiwis peeled and chopped
Chopped red onion (according to preference)
1 can of Black Beans (low sodium, rinsed and drained)
Black Pepper and Garlic Powder to season
Juice from 1 Lime
Squeeze or 2 of Lemon

Add all ingredients together in bowl and stir...Best when allowed to chill and set for 30 minutes to an hour, but can be eaten immediately. Also you may want to add a litte of your favorite salad dressings to the mix.

Optional: chopped mango, raisans or dried cranberries, tomatoes, jalapenos, red or green peppers, romaine lettuce, dash of cayenne, salt or paprika,

Keep working on your health even during "The Most Wonderful Time of The Year"...
Sandra

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Flashback 2012 - Sisters Vacation Canada

2012-12-03T23:39:00.001-08:00

A couple of years ago my sisters and I started a yearly event called our "Sisters Vacation." Each year one of us gets to choose the place of travel and takes responsibility to make arrangements for the group. Last year we went to Los Vegas and this year...Tadaaa...It was my turn to choose our place of travel and make all the arrangements. So I chose...Victoria, Canada! I LOVE that place...I have been several times and I think that even if I went there once a year I would not tire of it. It's a beautiful, easy to travel city, with lots to do and see.

My sisters

The other thing that I love about Victoria is that it is a very 'walkable' city. I really enjoy going to places that I can explore by walking the downtown areas, checking out quaint, unique shops and boutiques. If you haven't been to Victoria, then you must add it to your list of places to go...You will so enjoy it. This year I wanted to experience Victoria with my sisters. I knew that they would love it.

So I made all the plans and arrangements...And by the way you can get some great combo packages that include the ferry ride, hotel, tour options etc. We began our sisters vacation by meeting at my house and enjoying a couple of days hanging out in "my city." How fun! We went shopping, sightseeing, cooked together, and other such stuff.

The beautiful Butchart Gardens

Then we took a ferry ride from Seattle to Victoria...We spent the next 3 days exploring...We took a tour of the beautiful Butchart Gardens...A must see! We walked the downtown area, took in a jazz show at our hotel and ate at many restaurants. We made some fun and unforgettable memories.

You know every family has what I call it's 'funkiness,' and differences. And mine is no different. But I am so glad that we started this annual "Sisters Vacation." I look forward to it every year. It has been a great time of bonding for my sisters and I. The whole process of trusting God for all the necessary funds, deals, and travel arrangements...Talking on the phone, working out details and anticipating our time together...All of these things have really added to our relationship.

View from our hotel room balcony! Beautiful

(Of course, we make sure to keep this trip short enough so we don't work each others nerves...you understand, right!) These girls are so funny! I am constantly laughing at/with them. Melinda is sooo bossy (I mean that in the nicest, funniest way, she knows she is bossy)... and we have to make sure that we don't lose Charlotte somewhere, because she just doesn't always pay attention to what's going on.

The historic Empress Hotel

These girls could both be comedians!! My goodness, they kept me in stitches laughing! For real! I am the more serious one of course because I am the oldest. So I am there to keep them in line:)...But really, I love these girls and always enjoy our time together. We are already planning and looking forward to next year's trip!!

We make our trip work by (1) mutual respect for one another and by respecting each others values and opinions (we don't have to agree)...(2) By doing things together on our trip...(3) And by scheduling time for each sister to have some independent 'me' time where she gets to do what she likes...It works.

So I want to encourage you to take the time to make some memories with your family...Focus on what you have in common and start there. Everyone has differences...Don't let them stand in the way of what could be a great memory together...

Sandra

Black Friday Blessing

2012-11-30T00:09:00.000-08:00

Sweater - JHCollectibles $4

So anyone that really knows me knows that I absolutely love thrifting or rummaging in second-hand stores, and I have a really good knack for finding good quality stuff for free or cheap. I LOVE it! I have always enjoyed garage sales, flea markets, and thrift stores such as Goodwill, Value Village, and small boutiques and shops. In fact, whenever I travel, whether business or pleasure, I try to always make a point of looking up the local thrift shops, consignments stores, boutiques etc. I have come home with all sorts of treasures such as clothes, shoes, jewelry, furniture and such. I like having a piece in my house or closet that reminds me of a trip, place, or adventure that I had the pleasure of experiencing.

J Crew sweater - $4

Now you may be thinking "Is she a hoarder?" No absolutely not! I have a policy..."Stuff in, stuff out." You GOT to have some balance or else we will see an 18 wheeler backed up to your house and the TV show "Hoarders" filming at your place...Not going to happen here! I like a little bit of order and space around me (mostly) although my home office could use a little bit of work...That's another story.

Anyway as far as Black Friday is concerned I have never felt the need to get up early in the morning at "0dark-Thirty," wait in line, and wade through a sea of humanity. But hey, if that works for you, more power to you! Enjoy! As for me, Value Village was the extent of my Black Friday shopping...I arrived at the late hour of 1:30p.m... Just right for me. I was looking forward to a relaxing couple of hours browsing and hanging out with "me." They were having a 50% off sale so I was excited to search for a few pieces for myself.

LOVE this dress! Chicos - $7

However this was no ordinary shopping spree. After being in the store for a while I ran into a good friend of mine. This lady has an amazing sense of style. The funny thing was, she kept finding items that were perfect for me. She would bring them over and say, "Here, try this on.This looks like it would fit you." And it did every time!! I felt like I had my own personal shopper with me. Sometimes it's good to have someone else shop for you because they pick out clothing and styles that you would not have picked out. Here is the cool thing: Not only did she pick out amazing stuff, but she paid for it! I asked why? Her simple answer, "This is fun and I wanted to bless you!" Really! You had fun and I am the one taking a HUGE bag of goodies home! Okay, works for me!

Tommy Hilfiger $5

But seriously folks, I was so touched and blessed by her thoughtfulness...And did I mentioned that these items were high-end pieces...Ralph Lauren, The Limited, Ann Taylor Loft, Tommy Hilfiger, J Crew etc...God loves to bless us in all kind of cool ways, right! And He knows just what I like.

But the story doesn't end there...This is such a great example of how when we bless others, God makes sure that we are taken care of. He blesses us right back. This friend that blessed me so much went to work the next day and had a friend dump a HUGE blessing on her! She was so excited and could not wait to tell me...We laughed and talked about the goodness of God and how He blesses us and gives us the desire to bless others...I love this life in Him. I love that He is into everything that I am into...shopping, clothes, shoes, friendships, whatever. It's not only the spiritual things that He cares about, but every part of your and my life is important to Him. I hope that you know that is true for you also.

Ralph Lauren $4

Check out the pictures of some of the items that I found...You will see me wearing some of them in my upcoming posts...I will be sure and point them out to you...It makes my day when I find beautiful clothing at great prices in the thrift store...Can't wait to wear these!Doesn't take much to make me happy!

Bisou Bisou $4

Make sure that you take the time to enjoy your Holidays
Sandra

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Lined Worthington Pencil Skirt $4

Grass and soil??

2012-11-27T16:59:00.000-08:00

Here's to your health! Drink up!

HaHa...It's amazing the funny things people say when they see or hear about a "Green Smoothie." This weekend I had some good friends of mine over for dinner. We got to talking about healthy eating...I mentioned to them how I have a Green Smoothie almost everyday and how much better I feel plus I have dropped a few pounds. (You know that I am so glad about that and thanking Jesus)! You should have seen the looks on their faces because they just knew that Green Smoothies must taste horrible and aweful. So I set out to prove them wrong! I decided after dinner that I would make them one of my best smoothies...They were having Ice Cream and I would have smoothie for dessert and give them a taste.

It was hilarious...My friends later told me that they were not looking forward to it but were gonna try it 'for me.' They were sure that it would taste like "grass and soil" and they planned on saving their Ice Cream to use as a 'chaser' to wash the horrible taste of my smoothie out of their mouth!! How funny is that! Needless to say once I convinced them to taste it, they LOVED it and would never have imagined that spinach and kale could taste so good.

This grass and soil taste really good!!!

And you won't believe it either until you try it...So that's my challenge to you: Try a good green health smoothie...It's great for your health, complexion, energy, well being, etc...What other reason do you need to try it?:) Go for it!! You will need a good blender to mix it up well...

I made a believer out of her!

So here is my personal recipe for my Breakfast Smoothie (although you can drink any time of day)
1 cup of Carrot Juice
Splash of Pomegrante Juice
2 Handfuls of Spinach
1-2 leaves of Kale (Collards are also good)
1/2 or more frozen Banana
Handful of frozen Strawberries (or any kind of frozen berries, pineapple, mango, etc...mix it up)
1 apple or orange

Optional...Flaxseed, nuts, water, few pieces of frozen brocolli or cucumber...experiment)

You will totally love this smoothie and the energy that it gives you...

Health in a glass! I love it!

Enjoy as you drink your way to better health!
Sandra

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Happy Thanksgiving!

2012-11-26T00:28:00.000-08:00

Well I hope that you had a great Thanksgiving with good food and loved ones! It was great at our house...We had family and good friends over to share food, games, and even a good nap!

When I am cooking my Thanksgiving Dinner I always love to put on Christmas music or watch a Hallmark Christmas movie...Okay yes I admitt it...I am a total sapp...I love feel good movies with a good ending...And I love the spirit of love and joy that is so tangible during the Holidays...My husband David prepared a Cajun Fried Turkey...Umm umm good is all I can say! That was my Thanksgiving splurge...

As I have said before, I am from the south (where we fry and put gravy on everything) and come from a family that loves to cook and enjoy food. I still love good food but I am learning that it has to be healthy AND good...Not just good! Years ago I would cook all kinds of rich, creamy, high calorie, high carb foods for my Thanksgiving meal; but now my meal is still great but with less high fat and high carb foods and more simple veggies and fruits. It took a change in my thinking but it's happening. Here is my Thanksgiving menu:

Fried Turkey
Seasoned Green Beans
Garlic Mashed Potatoes
Kiwi and Spinach Salad
Asian Noodle Salad
Stuffing
Fruit Salad
Sweet Potato Pie

Anyway it's all about being thankful to God and recognizing the blessings all around us...No matter where you are or what your circumstances are, keep enjoying your holidays!!

Sandra

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Get Happy about this!

2012-11-23T11:45:00.001-08:00

Surely God's goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life; And I will live in the house of the Lord Forever.

(Psalm 23:6)

In my time with the Lord this morning I got stuck on the awesomeness (don't know if that is really a word or if I spelled it right):) of this scripture! It just hit me like a LIGHTNING BOLT! His goodness and mercy is ALWAYS following me...How cool and powerful is that! No matter what is going on in my life...No matter what season of life I find myself in...HIS goodness and mercy is following me. WHY? To do me good...Not to do me bad or to punish me for my sins and mistakes...But to do me good and to have mercy (compassion) on me...I LOVE it!! Now that is a reason to have joy today, right?

Makes me wanna smile and rejoice!

It's the same for you...No matter where you are or what season YOU are in...God's goodness and mercy is following you to do you GOOD...Come on! We can all use some of that...

Meditate on that today and receive it into your life...If you look for HIS goodness and mercy in your life...You'll surely find it somewhere...

Sandra

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Holiday Healthy Eating Challenge

2012-11-21T00:45:00.000-08:00

You know how you always find yourself on the other side of Christmas, after New Years with a few pounds more than when you started. You know what I am talking about, "Holiday weight gain." Well at least that is what happens on my end! I hate it...And sometimes those pounds are pretty stubborn at taking a hike. In fact some of them have been my constant companion for a few years, which is not good. Well this year I decided to do something more then just wish that I wouldn't gain weigh or lose my mind and overeat everything in site! Come on! I will feel so much better if you tell me that you have done the same thing...Anyway this year I decided to be proactive.

My Breakfast Green Smoothie

Last year I discovered an amazing book called "Eat To Live" written by Dr. Joel Fuhrman. I love this book because it is not some crazy fad diet but great information on food, and it's effect on the body, good and bad, and how to use food to heal your body and bring it to it's proper weight. As I said I love this book and have learned so much from it and have implemented many of his suggestions in my life.

So, getting back to the holiday weight gain thing, every year Dr. Fuhrman initiates what's called the "Holiday Healthy Eating Challenge." Instead of over-indulging on too much sugary, fat-laden, unhealthy foods I do the opposite and focus on eating as much healthy, nutrient rich fruits and veggies as possible. (Now you see why it is called a "challenge" in the middle of the holiday season!) But honestly it is not a big challenge for me. (I can't believe that I just said that! Miracles do happen). The reason being that for the past few months my eating syle has changed. I started eating and making more nutrient dense foods and recipes earlier in the year and my appetite is totally changing. I haven't eaten sugary desserts for awhile and I am not...More about that in another post. The challenge goes from November 19 - Jan 8. I am really excited about it...My breakfast is usually a green smoothie with a combination of fruits, spinach and kale etc mixed in my vitamix...My lunch is usually some sort of bean salad with a combination of any salad fixings and beans on top...My dinner is usually a huge green salad with fruit or a delicious veggie soup or veggie casserole...

My Black Bean Salad

So stick with me as I continue this challenge and feel free to join me if it works for you...

Disclaimer: I am not in anyway in the medical field. I am just sharing what I find that works for me...Check with your doctor before starting any sort of eating or exercise program.

Leave me a comment below...

Happy Eating!
Sandra

My Kiwi Salad and Salsa

Sunday fun

2012-11-19T01:12:00.001-08:00

Well it's a rainy chilly day here in the Great Northwest. Up here we call it 'liquid sunshine.' And yes it really does rain about 9 months out of the year. But I LOVE IT HERE!! When the sun comes out it really puts on a delightful and beautiful treat for us, making up for all of the rain drenched days...and the great thing about people in the Northwest is we never let the rain STOP US! (Well actually I just adopted that attitude once I moved here). I realized that if I waited for the rain to go away before doing anything, I would never do anything!! Can't have that!

And that leads me into an excellent Joy Nugget: If you wait for the "rain" (family issues, money problems, trouble, heartache, pain etc) to go away before deciding to be happy and enjoy life, you will spend a huge part of your life waiting instead of living. It is possible to be happy and enjoy yourself even during "the storms of life." Don't wait on perfect conditions. Find some joy today in spite of it all!

On another note my sweet husband decided he would take us to a movie. Great idea! Unfortunately the one that we wanted to see was sold out. Bummer. So it was a great opportunity to do a little shopping since we just happen to be at the mall. We had a great time together and David found himself a great spot to wait as I shopped. I hope that you also enjoyed your day and make sure that you're not waiting on the rain to stop! You know what I mean!!

Leave a comment below and let me know that you are not going to wait on the rain to stop before enjoying your life!

Blessings
Sandra

I really like the color of this Tunic, but I left it here on the rack!

David and his IPhone keeping each other company while I browse. He is a good 'waiter.'

Flashback 2012 - Wyoming Trip

2012-11-15T02:12:00.000-08:00

We took a drive over to Jackson Hole. Beautiful!!

Okay so I just had a really great idea...Since I started this blog last year in November but didn't share any of "Life 2012" I thought that I would do a recap of last year and call it "Flashback 2012." I have about 6 weeks before the end of the year to share some adventures from this year. So I better get started! Here's the first.

One thing that I love to do is travel, and my profession provides great opportunity for that. I am a Bible Teacher/Conference Speaker. One of my greatest passions and source of fulfilment is sharing God's Word with people, encouraging them to believe in this awesome God and in themselves. Earlier this year in May my husband David and I took a trip to Riverton, WY where we spoke at a weekend conference with a friend. What a blessed time we had!

I love meeting new people and taking in new scenery. We saw The Grand Tetons, a beautiful mountain range, and visited the park by the same name. Whenever I travel away to speak I always try and make sure to have a day to play, take in some sites, and do a little thrifting. (I can't tell you how much I enjoy rummaging in 2nd hand stores looking for treasures, clothes, and something unique to bring home).

Here is a joy nugget for you:

If you happen to travel in your line of work, try to make every trip memorable. Do fun stuff, enjoy the beauty of the hotel where you are staying, check out a unique restaurant, take in a show, take a walk downtown or in a beautiful park. Really find something to enjoy about the area. (This is of course if it's not against your company's policy). Anyway, take care of business and make it a great trip!

Enjoy your Life
Sandra

Picking up right where I left off!

2012-11-13T02:38:00.000-08:00

Okay here I am again ~~starting~~ resuming this blog. It's been about a year since I posted anything. Right after I started it, I decided that I wasn't quite ready. Now I feel like I am ready to do it and I am excited about the journey and sharing lots of "fun stuff" on here. (At least I hope so) I debated on deleting my previous posts since there were so few, then I could just start all fresh and new. But I think that I am going to leave it, and just pick up where I left off. It's all part of this 'blog journey.' And hopefully I can grow and learn to keep up with it with minimal neligance. Pray for me because I will surely need it!

I love the colors of Fall...Beautiful!

Now on to other things...I love this time of year! I have began planning my Thanksgiving meal. It will be delicious but mostly healthy. Lots of fruits and veggies and as few processd foods as possible. I began a few years ago paying more attention to the health of my receipes. Even though it's the Holidays and a great time for parties, dinners, and special treats, I still want to keep an eye on health. I will tell you later about a Holiday Challenge that I have entered. So have a great time and enjoy the season but stay healthy!

Here are a couple of great Fall pictures from my morning walks (taken a while back)...Enjoy

Sandra

Our God is so creative...

Nothing like a morning walk to get your day going!

Holiday Work Party

2011-12-17T22:10:00.000-08:00

Every year my husband's company puts on a Holiday Party for their employees. They do a great job choosing a good location, decorating, providing a band, and usually catering a great meal (although I wasn't thrilled this year with my dish). But all in all it was enjoyable. We go every year, and why wouldn't we? A nite out, in a beautiful setting, with my honey, and FREE food and entertainment!! Did you get that all this is free?!

Chandelier and beautiful lights on the ceiling

Yes, right...And on top of that they always have great prizes like trips, money, gift cards, great electronics etc. And guess what? This year my husband won the top prize which was a brand new IPad 2!! Now if you knew my husband and how much he enjoys technology and new gadgets, then you would know how totally excited and blessed he was.

I had a beautiful green dress planned, but was bummed when I got make-up on it...But I was pleased with my back-up outfit. Always have a back-up outfit for a special occasion...Hope that you guys are enjoying your holidays...Have fun and fine someone to bless...It will make your holidays special.

My husband (David) and I

Gotta have sparkles for the holidays

Beautiful Holiday Solitude

2011-12-15T11:35:00.000-08:00

My cozy "comfort" quilt.

I had a slow start this morning...It was intentional and on purpose. I like to start my day with prayer and the Word...Reading my Bible. But I added something else today. In the spirit of the holidays I grabbed a cup of coffee (I am not a coffee drinker, but every now and then I like it), plugged my Christmas tree in, put on some Kenny G Christmas instrumental music, (on my old school CD Player, imagine that), got my favorite quilt, and curled up on the sofa in my jammies. How cool is that?! I sat for about an hour just enjoying the quiet, the music, good thoughts, and counting my blessings. Moments like these feed my soul.

What's left of my coffee!

It's so important to take the time to nourish your soul with some quiet time, good music or a good book...whatever works for you. Find joy today by intentionally grabbing a moment or two to turn down the noise around you and enter into a place of peace and rest. It's so good for your soul and peace of mind... Especially during the holiday season with all the busyness shopping, parties, and to do lists. It also makes you a better companion, mom, dad, and friend. You can find a moment in the morning or late at night...It doesn't matter...Just be intentional about experiencing the joy of a beautiful moment of solitude. Wishing you a great day of blessings and solitude.

Old school CD Player and Kenny G

Sandra