The confidence is a small part social, but it seems mainly because I can actually FEEL more OF my body.

The more you go to the gym, the more sensation you feel in your muscles, you feel your body growing… it’s a great feeling.

You actually feel a constant changing feeling in your body, if you go 2-3 times a week. You feel the growth and it feels good, you want to flex your arms and body to feel more of it, here is where some of the confidence stems, but it’s just overall a good feeling.

This translates in the club as well… you naturally end up sharing this feeling – feeling good in your body, somehow rubs off on girls also feeling good/ comfortable in their bodies too

Also to add – if I weren’t going to the gym, it’s not like I would feel ‘bad’ about my body, it’s just that going to the gym makes my body actually feel great as opposed to feeling nothing in particular about my body.

Is that not subjective and actually possibly in some cases externally driven by social ideals?

How about

I will always be…

NO MATTER WHAT, you will always exist.

I truly believe that.

“I will always be…” allows NO MEANING to be put on your life, no set of standards, no expectations to live up to, no restraints of EXTREME performance or EXTREME expression.

The only impact you will EVER need on the world is just by a product of your pure existance.

Nothing but existence is all you ever need and is the BARE minimum you can bring, yet has EVERYTHING you can bring at the same time. It is the be all and end all, all roled up into one.

No definitions on life.

No standards

This also allows an unlimited amount of choice, an ever expanding amount – this allows you to be MORE of who you are and who you WANT to be AND what you want to choose…

Take everything that we think about and unfilter it straight out of our mouths, we can come off a bit forward. (sometimes good, sometimes bad)

I’ve noticed if what you’re thinking is out of tune, what your’e saying is out as well.  (actually, that’s a given)

Given that, if we are a grown mature adult, without fantasizing/judging/labelling/pretending, we don’t really have to filter anything….

We are actually FREE to say what we think to women/people because we are comfortable with who we are and to an extent that includes what we’re thinking about at the time.

I’ve found our thoughts and what we think about while doing various things can affect and alter a prefered outcome from the moment at hand a bit more than we think and possibly in different ways as well.

Monitor and observe your thoughts before talking to a girl – see what happens.

What would ‘mature thoughts’ be then?

funnily enough I’ve found that mature people don’t really have a lot of ‘thought’. per se -

more; presence and persona.

The mature mind is more still and silent.

An ever lasting ‘Ready’ state.

It’s this ‘still’ and ready state, you can perceive about 50 million x more effectively.

Kind of where the whole meditative practise is popular.  However, you don’t have to go out to the club, sit on the floor with your legs behind your head trying to empty your mind.

I’ve found it to be pretty easy to do, and easier with practise.

This is what a mature grown person is…

What I’ve also realised is that it’s not about transparency to what you think about, it’s about having transparency to that stillness, to that ready state, to who you really are…

Having transparency to the ‘nothingness’ within you.

Why?

Because it’s this emptiness that contains a MASSIVE DEEP ocean full of personality.

Who you are is not your thoughts, but when you start thinking in weird directions, what you decide to express can come out a little repressed due to the weight and scale of your thought.

If your mind is light and easy, still and ready, woah – super easy breezy beautiful cover girl in your face.

Some go around like out of tune guitars walking around trying to play their woo-notes.  ”baowww!”

Like practicing an instrument, instincts can be tuned in, some people take longer, some people get it straight away… some people need to practice day and night to get good.

The idea of this post is to help make improvement EASIER because sometimes it seems like there is this unbreakable brick wall in our way that seems impossible to let us access success.

no long gahhh!

Parents

I’m now seeing how much parents can limit their offspring with their instinctual development.

It seems to be if they were never brought up with certain standards and discipline about social situations, there is this negative view and reaction when they pop up.  (courting women for example)

There is a guy I work with who is a baby in a man’s body.  I’ve met his parents and it’s just totally obvious to see why he is the way he is…

Funnily enough he isn’t all that bad with girls instinctually, but every other part of his life requires parental guidance.  He walks around in a clueless, unmotivated state.  His whole life his mother has dominated his social life.

Instincts go awry without discipline and positive reinforcement of life values.

Tuning yourself In

Like a guitar, if you’ve never really played one before, you probably don’t know what an in-tune guitar sounds like, so you’d get maybe an electric tuner to match up the notes. (ie like guys learning from internet material posted by other in-tune guys)

Guys come here to re-tune in from others who are in-tune.

We are actually born with pure instincts, but we often aren’t fortunate enough to inherit the discipline and ethic to move in the direction we would rather.

Self discipline is essential.  This hardens you up, so to speak.  The more disciplined you are, the better you are at giving yourself a step up to the next level.

In Harmony

After a while of approaching and talking in varied and different social situations, you start to align along a certain frequency.

You start to match other people’s frequency.  With the right discipline we can improve ourselves to meet people on higher frequencies.

Some people also have trouble with that.

They don’t really learn from the wrong notes – they get frustrated, some smash their guitar and give up.

Practice makes perfect.

The Perfect Melody

The ‘On’ Nights

The Warp drive overload reality smash syndrome.

There is a point where you reach this certain frequency, you become the perfect melody, you are in sync with everything you want, you feel the harmony of everything happening and everyone around you.  Your INSTINCTS are FULLY in tune.

Everything in existence is in alignment with who you are at this very point in time.

This may not happen all that often, but when it happens, it is gleaming bliss.

The audience is everyone around you in complete appreciation and celebration of who you are.  You are in FULL harmonic expression at the highest frequency.

Societies Threshold

There is a bar in which the average frequency of society sits.

There is no reason why you can’t be sitting on the leading edge of the wave.

What do I mean when I say ‘Frequency’

Try and think of low frequency people as just people who aren’t receiving and giving all that much.

Higher frequency is more dots on the graph, more things happening, more action, more manifestation, more positivity…

Motivation vs. Discipline, Discipline vs. Motivation

This is easy.

Take the Vs. out -

Discipline becomes motivation.  Let Motivation motivate your discipline.

Even if you’re just motivated to go see a movie, your are disciplined enough to get there and watch it.

That’s as simple as it needs to be.  They both work together.  Sometimes some people need to get over things, so the key to releasing motivation can just be general acceptance of what is…

In Conclusion

Follow the theme of your excitement.   Explore the nature of who you are and what you enjoy.  Get in harmony with your own instincts.  Build up some discipline and strive for that orchestral overture and give yourself a standing ovation.

Continuity,

it is an effect you witness by making choices.

Every second of your life you are making choices.  Each split frame you experience, you choose…. on some level.

A few years back,

If I sat myself down and asked myself SUPER precise questions for a couple of hours that targeted my direct beliefs that were holding me back, I’d be at the same head space I am right now, no worries.  On some level back then I was choosing to experience anxiety, fear, lack…

right now though, does that matter in the slightest? – no.

that actually doesn’t exist.  The past does not exist.  It did happen and in some form it exists in the moment right now.  But right now it doesn’t exist, what’s in the past is in the past.  - I did experience all that social conditioning back then, HOWEVER, it doesn’t exist now.

What does this have to do with improvement being an illusion?

Where to from here?  Where do I go to ‘get better?’

There is no ‘better’.

Do I get better as time goes on?  yes.

But right now, I am always experiencing the best.

The more I become AWARE of that fact, the more I turn my internal microphone volume UP, the more I receive, the more I learn.  The higher the volume knob goes – (it’s never ending by the way) the more experience I experience AND the more enjoyable my experience becomes.  ce.  I learn more, recieve more of what I want, more of everything I prefer…

It is important to realise that your future ONLY exists right now and is constantly being updated by each and every decision you make… right now.  You are constantly deciding where you want to go…

However, don’t confuse this with going after what you want, that’s totally fine.  The idea is to accept that ANYTHING can happen, good or bad, on track or off track.  It’s about knowing what you want, but also being ready for ANYTHING.  Become totally AWARE that any scenario is equally valid, regardless if it’s what you want or not.  There are an infinite amount of dimensions you can slot yourself into, it’s about choosing which one you want to slot yourself into right now.

The illusion of improvement will dawn on you sometimes just by letting the ‘cards fall where they may’ – Letting things play out (ie. letting go completely)  it allows you to take a step back mentally, it allows you to observe easier.  It takes the narrow foresight of the future and widens your vision of the moment at hand.  You’ll pick up things in your peripheral that were better than you might have thought previous.

Don’t be fooled into thinking the ‘Universe’ will do all the work for you.  Sometimes you just have to MAKE it happen.  You just have to MAKE shit go down, whatever is necessary, you just make it work.  This also requires the same widened foresight.  It’s just that you’re throwing yourself in there head on and getting in the thick of it, taking charge and moving things along at a pace you enjoy.

The idea is there is no next step, or steps

Only the one you are taking right now. At least, this is the most important one.

Know what you want or what excites you, be FULLY aware of what is happening (key!), make shit happen and you will experience more and more of awesome goodness

You have everything and nothing.

Paradox Example No.2:

It is both, It is neither

Paradox Example No.3:

Everything goes on forever yet everything only ever exists right now.

Seeing paradox in life is the ability to be able to see BOTH sides of the argument equally allowing us to see both sides from a ‘centred’ point of view.  Only once we see things from BOTH sides, can we truly be at a place of power and truth.

IF you can really grasp the feeling of what you experience when your mind tries to wrap itself around these unsolvable dilemmas, it’s like a mind-shut down experience.  I feel myself kind of, step back from my body and become instantly silent inside, an instant stillness of mind, an instant peace.

Imagine if you could cultivate that peace in the most TURBULENT of worldly circumstances.  Family drama, picking up a girl at a club or a life or death emergency.  Sometimes in life or death emergencies the body is forced to turn the mind off and go into action-man mode.  “I’m not a hero, I just did what anyone else would’ve done.”

Here is a good paradox

‘How does it feel?’ – How can you answer that with truth?

How you FEEL is just how you feel.  You don’t need to use words.  Although it’s not a true paradox, it’s a question that can lead you closer to one.

Questions like these are very useful.  Questions lead to the root of who you are, they lead to the truth of what you are all about in the very moment.

If you ever come to a barrier in life, it’s just a matter of asking yourself questions.

Say something becomes hard, like trying to pick up.  Nothing is working.  Why?  Why are you finding it hard?  What do you have to believe in order for you to experiences ‘hardness’.

Life is easy or life can be hard.  It is a choice at the end of the day.

One misconception about passion people seem to have, is that they have to have passion for a ‘thing’ or some idea or goal they have going for them that they think will make them happy.  Sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly, this passion fades away.  The key to passion, is to have passion for the passion.  How simple is that?  Just have pure passion for passion itself!  That means you MIGHT change what your goals are but with a consistent awareness on who you are, you see and have a more clear overall VIEW on what does excite you in a longer lasting sense.

Eliminating Trivial Rubbish

My existential realisation is what keeps me happy through out the sleeping masses of falseness, fear, doubt and uncertainty.  Scarcity is an idea, never a truth.  Death is a process of nature, not the end of ones life.

Paradox: We’re already dead, yet we have yet to be born.  We’re physically awake, yet our souls are in a deep slumber.

Existence is an experience.  My eyes, ears, senses, are just electrical impulses floating through my brain at the end of the day.  What is real?  All I really know in this world is me.  Being and experience is the same thing, I’m just being one with the same moment in time, the very moment, the only moment, it’s just I’m looking at the same moment through different viewpoints, different experiences, different impulses, different circumstances.  Who I am and the moment right now is forever, yet only ever exists in this moment.

The ‘I am Everyone, everyone is me’ paradox

It sounds quite solipsistic, in which only the ‘self’ exists… of course, in a way, that’s the only thing we can prove to exist.  However, if we look at whole world, with billions of individuals and we call this big complex group 1 person, we are all one, imagine the amount of dysfunction and pain that would dissipate.  One person, interacting and flowing as a community in touch with who it really is… the depth and truth of its existence totally aware of itself.   This could be a great way to end all wars and poverty in one hit.

Would you start a war between your hand and foot?  It’s complete madness – we’re all just different parts of the 1 species, the 1 whole, the singular body.  Would you also leave some areas of your body malnourished if you were AWARE of the death and pain caused by ignoring it?  I like to brush my teeth and eat healthy.

Awareness

Being aware of what’s going on is inclusive of EVERYTHING.  The greater your own awareness in general, the more you are going to learn, grow, give, understand, relate and take advantage of everything around you.

To be aware and expand is to be inclusive, not exclusive, it is to integrate, not segregate.

How does it feel?

Get excited

Why?

Because whatever it is that makes you excited, is who you really are, your true path to take in life, the one way to overcome any fear, to overcome any doubt, to overcome any belief is to use your imagination to conceive something that excites you because the passion for excitement, the passion for passion does not require any beliefs, just that you be yourself and feel it.  Use your imagination to start you off.  What excites you?

How does it feel?

Have fun with it and let your excitement lead you into a new realm of growth and learning.  Don’t forget, you can ask yourself these questions at ANY time, in ANY circumstance.  Following what excites you is the core of keeping it real, doing what you want to do, when you want to do it. Search deep for the paradox, let it expand your mind into a realm that you’ve never been, again and again. Make it second nature and it will teach you much about the power of your creativity, gratitude and excitement, not that fear and scarcity isn’t VALID, it is, it’s EQUALLY valid. It is to become more aware of the choices you have, to INCLUDE ALL aspects of life, ALLOWING you to stand in your centre, your true core being.

They get stuck in their head.

Logic kicks in and functioning as a socially lubricated human being ceases.

It’s time to Dumb down our logical brains…

Back when I was a kid…

Back when I was in grade 8, I was a popular little kiddie. Most of high school was ok for me. I had fun.

Grade 8; I had an awesome little group of friends and we dominated our classes.

I had a ‘thing’, where i kind of acted dumb a lot of the time. It used to get me MASSIVE amounts of attention.

A lot of it was a little negative, but on the whole it was positive.

Girls were in to me.

I had a flow happening. WE were the in crowd.

People wanted to know what we had been up to and what we were talking about when we started laughing in the middle of class.

I didn’t know why I got the attention I did, but I stood out when I acted dumb.

I was actually kind of just addicted to positive attention in year 8 yet couldn’t always handle the negative due to a weak frame/reality on life.

“What does this have to do with game and getting good?”

It’s a weird concept isn’t it? Being dumb to ‘get’ girls. I mean shouldn’t you be smart and alert to know when to dhv, spike her ioi or some other acronym you should be watching out for?

No.

Being ‘dumb’ is not really the key.

The act of being dumb WILL however completely disengage your logical brain. My frame is pretty solid now so success has been pretty phenomenal.

It’s the ‘slow’ kind of dumb as opposed to the stupid kind…

It helps things flow.

It helps you to slow everything down.

To slow your mind down.

To help you think in a way that isn’t clogged.

To help you become clear.

You can still BE smart. But you don’t have to think.

In fact the idea is to NOT think….

when you find yourself totally racing in “what should i do?” type of thoughts…

try and act DUMB… Almost shut down your brain… hit the kill switch.

Any thinking is bad thinking.

You’ll find this will breed a happy feeling and you’ll start actioning and doing things without even thinking about it.

Like, you’ll be just talking to a super hot girl, she’ll be rubbing against you and you wouldn’t have even ‘remembered’ to get anxiety… you’d just be in there.

This opens a MASSIVE gateway into an emotional world of glory fun times.

It brings you into a state of being TOTALLY in the now.

Similar reason as to why girls act dumb… however… again, it’s not about being ‘dumb’. It’s about opening the emotional lobe and setting it on full flow.

“What is ‘game’ like when you’re in this state?”

Living in the now enables you to get in this emotional flow and shut off logic.

It’s great.

Your voice becomes super slow yet you also become very articulated.

You can compliment the most complimented on things by guys and girls will be really appreciative you noticed…

“you have nice hair” or

“you have nice skin”

and the weird thing is you also point out all the things they want you to point out without realising it…

they just come into your head and you bring it up without thinking about it.

More importantly makes it 100x easier to give off a non-creepy sexual vibe if you want to.

There is no need to play any tactics, teasing games or ‘run’ any attraction ‘material’.

You are essentially carving AWAY insecurities, unnecessary thoughts and societal programming.

You’re going on instinct and a ‘self amusement’ kind of desire.

This is all inbuilt and WIRED into our gene code.

We have evolved to be able to figure this out.

We’ve collected enough junk to become a stunned mullet deep in contemplation (or constipation) of his next move.

‘Figuring out’ requires letting go.

Letting go of that Logic.

Being dumb, you become reaction-less.

You just don’t have the mind power nor care factor to react. Only what’s deemed necessary.

You’ll see girls tests on you and you’ll just look at them with a completely non-judgemental blank face.

They’ll try cover it up and act like nothing happened, but this just solidifies you’re a man of total non reactivity…

to bullshit.

“Won’t people think you’re dumb?”

No. If you have a strong reality, you will impose to people that you’re awesome. It’s not about being dumb, or stupid. So please don’t do that.

It’s about a gateway to disengage logic and start having fun.

“I find when I try it, I just act stupid and immature”

This is not about acting silly or weird. It’s about a state and cutting down on unnecessary thought processes.  I’m associating ‘dumb’ with HIGHER thought processes, and LESS unnecessary mind clutter.

I am able to get there pretty easily by shutting off my logic.

Being slow and in state won’t even mean you’re not a man who takes care of his group.

You are.

You are also totally free to misinterpret and assume whatever you like.

You can just get to a stage where you’ll have nothing left to say but, “wanna make out?” and the next thing you’ll hear is, “well maybe if you sat a bit closer.”

“I need more examples”

I’ve been doing this on the dance floor with ridiculous fun. Combining it with picking up her hand and slowly whispering sweet and sensual compliments really slowly into her ear creating a chemical fusion of knowing it’s on!

Things like,

“you’re absolutely gorgeous/adorable.”

“I like your dress.”

“you smell fan tas tic.”

All said SLOWLY while holding her hands and as if that’s the only thing on my mind… no alterior motives what so ever.

No EGO detected.

Seconds next, make out ensues. There is no thought process going on in my head to do it. It’s all feeling and nimbus.

How do you get to this stage?

Just try acting dumb.

This might make people feel a bit vulnerable or whatever, I’m not sure.

I can’t quite explain it myself, but it’s kind of dumbing yourself down so you stop thinking logical stuff.  It’s like playing a role, but you’re tricking yourself into acting from your REAL desires without holding anything back…

I have a friend who can be SUCH a logical guy that sometimes when he makes a joke, no one gets it because he’s so out of touch (feeling) with the group he’ll have to sit there explaining the semantics of how the joke is funny…

That’s holding on, you gotta let go.

“What made you come to these ideas?”

I wanted more and more to not have to think and then paralyse myself with thought… to be 100% confident when I saw a girl I liked….

It’s just a tool to open a gateway into nimbus state deluxe.

Final Observations

Be dumb Be pulled home by the girl.

It’s a womens fantasy to get with a guy who doesn’t really think in any other period than the ‘now’, who can keep a secret even if she tells other girls about them together, who is totally logic free and emotionally present and who isn’t immature or weird.

It’s a guys fantasy to be this guy while not having to know anything about girls….

This is one of the best metaphors I use to enter 100% natural game as I go about it.

Basically, there are no rules, no techniques, no bullshit.  Just get yourself relaxed and carefree, make a girl feel sexy, have lots of fun, keep it cool and give her the option to flee the venue with you.

No bullshit tricks or games here.  Failure is upon thee who tries.  This is just about keeping it REAL, more real than you’ve ever been before because this is a new idea for you so you want to reach a part of you that you’ve never experienced.

Get out there and beware; crotch-grabs are a side effect.

Truths

Truth is a very broad term, you can have facts that are true, statements and truisms in a practical sense but this article is more for the truth in ones character, the truth under the social and societal blanket and the omniscient truth all around us…

Facts and Data

Facts and Data is true to the point that they are practical tools for and by humans.  They are manufactured by us but these statements and truisms or even words are all they are, face value.  Sure they can be accurate, but they are only signposts or a reference to reality.

Real truth, truth from within can not be manufactured.  It’s something we feel and KNOW in the moment, it cannot be externally provided to us, but felt and known only through being and pure expression.

Labelling, Judgements and Preconceptions

All these points can get in the way of truth. Once you have labelled something, you have narrowly allowed it to divert from that label.  Same thing goes with judging women as ‘bitches’ when they’re just sick and tired of the same type of guys hitting on them all night.

Judgements and labels can go as small as a tree being a tree, and a leaf being a leaf… If we use our mind power to keep these labels as a predominant figure in the forefront of our consciousness, we’ll miss the beauty of it all.  Practical use of labels is fine and of course necessary, but if we let it get to a stage where we start labelling and judging social interactions, behaviour and surface level images of people in a negative light we’re only going to resist with it eventually and waste more energy.

Status in the club is a battle from within, resistance in action.  Comparing yourself with others is also a judgement and label that happens a lot.  Judging people also takes up a lot of internal energy, thought and concentration of the mind.  This constant battle for social status when in the club is debilitating hence the introduction of alcohol where you start to loosen up and let the mind take a break from operating at an exhausting level of social class and position.

What is natural in this world of glamorous lights, pavement and buildings of intoxicating music and stimulation?

Only

You.  In this moment right now.

Who you are is always real in the present moment.

Judging and labelling your past and future isn’t real.  Only who you are and what you do now is the deepest truth of your existence.

Interactions

I can say or do what I like…

Literally.

I have no qualms about revealing anything because I’m already out there.

I’m a glazed layer of never ending clarity-honey forever being sucked at through a societal vortex of a yearning to see someone of truth and realness amongst the fake coco pops.  I’m like honey spread over the bread of a starved civilisation of real substance and fibre.  I’m a rare flavour of love that can flow through wherever I like… sex sometimes happens.

My words have a meaningless centre of definition.  On the surface I say vulgar, crude and lewd words in statements but behind that I come from a place of truth, a core of who I am that goes beyond mere words that is laid out on the table.  I exacerbate the point endlessly with random banter backed by a playful sense of quasi-inebriated love.   I can pull it off because I care not of surface level definitions.  I am a man who is honest with his truest depth.  I know where I am coming from.

I plough and faun after girls with a casual nonchalant importance to the topic as I entertain not only them but mainly myself with a flamboyant swish in my character.    I am on a constant flat line of ‘inner awesome’ regardless of what’s externally happening around me.  Who I am is Avant-garde, random and unpredictable.  I get away with it because I’m coming from a place of truth and love.  Which can only ever be realised once the moment at hand is fully allowed to flow.  I cherish the moment by expressing my cheerful state in an ‘anything goes’ form of flippancy and celebration of me with everyone invited to the party.

Real Freedom

Dissolving away all mind chatter, world labels and social judgements are we truly free to express ourselves.  Freedom is essential to be able to express oneself.  Freedom to say and do as we please is risky from the surface level.  Murder could happen!  Stealing, theft and racism… etc  All these things stem from a weird place.  A place of hatred, angst, scarcity, which is all a part of the ego trying to survive.

The world would have half as many laws if we all came from a place of love and abundance.

We’d be so high on the scale of consciousness there would be no traffic fines (we’d all be very conscious about what we’re doing) we’d be completely forgiving and there would be no criminal acts.

Laws in society are there for a reason.  To keep the general ego and pain of the world in check.

Freedom of expression is a great gift to most of the world and to countries like Australia, USA, UK, etc etc… Unfortunately not yet all countries are this gifted with the awareness of it’s collective human potential for extreme peace, enlightenment and growth.

When Depth is Shallow and Shallowness is Deep

Have you ever been in a social group where the jokes are very hard to get and the pressure to be ‘cool’ is high?  Well, I guess I have.  A mere glance at the situation now and I’m attracted to self amuse in the fields of testy social status players.

Hard to get jokes and in jokes are there to reach a level of depth with ones character.  I’ve often noticed ‘in’ people to be ‘in’ due to a serious grasp on the depth of who we are… those outcast, frustrated with the levels some people run on accuse them of being shallow when it’s just a matter of those people not being in touch with others…

Things don’t always need to be verbalised to be felt.  Some people are left in the dust when it comes to social engagement.  These ‘shallow sounding yet hard to get jokes’ are masked as shallow surface level observations and banter but it reveals what level people are on in a completely non-verbal way.

For example:  Nervous entertaining monkey man approaches a cool demure sassy woman at the bar.  He is trying to be funny but the jokes are running dry.  He walks away and classifies her personality as a ‘bitch’ because she said something that her friends laughed at and monkey man doesn’t get it.  In reality, he’s operating on a level that is not connecting with ANY female.  Eye-coding to make an escape is another obvious sub-communication which is used by both sexes to flee from their pursuers.

All women (well most) are connected much closer to the natural world than men.

Women in general can sense the depth of a man, the truth of his character, the realness of who he is within seconds.  I like that.

Deep End of the shallow pool

Some people who are caught up in ‘image’ and social drama storms get depressed and can get into extreme cases of suffering, sometimes resulting in suicide.  The mind runs through all available avenues yet it sees no escape, not let up; an unrelenting wall of dead ends.

These people are going deep, but they’re in the wrong pool, they’re without the truth.

The truth being that who they are is an OCEAN deep of character and presence, not just a pool.

Going DEEP into trivial issues such as image or what type of car you drive etc… is looking for a means to an end rather than focusing on the process that brings the character out in you.

The skills to surrender and let go are far often neglected in society.  Not ‘surrender’ as in to give up, but ‘surrender’ as in to let go.  Surrender yourself to the moment.  To be without the content of the mind.

To be able to accept what is.

Trusting in the higher mind.  Knowing that whatever comes my way is going to be external to who I am.  I’m enthusiastic about the unknown.  Bring it on.  Everything we experience is just another view point of the same moment we always experience.  There’s also always a choice in what we feel and where we choose to ‘swim’ or care.

Death

Most people who ARE shallow ignore the concept of death, like it’s something they should be afraid of thinking about.  It is a natural progression of life.  You are born, you live a life and die at some stage…

Death is never going to happen and in a different sense, it already HAS happened.  Once you accept you are going to die are you therefore free to do nearly anything.

Fear can always be turned around into an enthusiasm for the moment at hand.

What is Truth?

Truth is you.

The deepest form of you.

What you do and who you are in the moment at hand is true.  100% true.  It’s also the only thing that is ever constant.  FULL constant, there is not a point in time where the moment stopped or was delayed, it’s forever been and forever will stay.  The moment at hand.

Who you are literally cannot be defined.  Truth cannot be 100% defined as well.

It can only be felt from within.

You can feel it between each word.  The gaps and stillness of being in each sentence.  The acknowledgement of, to notice, to listen to the nothingness, the underlying presence in everything that is… is you beaming forth.

Your being is real and it has no label.

It is really another realm, beyond manifested bodies of ‘earthly material’.  To be more in touch with it is to be more in touch with the truth, with who you are and with the deepest truth of your own existence.

Following who you are, following your truth, following your core is following your joy and enthusiasm.  The excitement you get from your imagination, from the conceived ideas you have is a pointer in the direction of who you really are…

The Blind Fold of Truth

When you allow yourself to succumb to an External Authority you then in a way put a blind fold over who you are… denying yourself from acting on your own imagination and desires.

A lot of people get places with authority.  To wake up from it and be lawless is rather attractive for women with men, even vice versa.  However, again, laws wouldn’t be so necessary if we’re all coming from the core of who we are which is a default of abundance, love and truth.

Another form of External Authority people allow into their lives is TV.  Regardless of how educational it CAN be you are still a spectator rather than a player, so it’s a good idea to choose carefully what you watch on TV.

A more subtle form is your own body.  Realise that your body can play a part on what’s really happening, the urges you have, the addictions your feed your body and the different stimulations you provide it can affect your awareness and the way you view the world.

Common Sense Prevails

Imagine a world of EXTREME common sense.  We all have within us a sense of being, we all have access to love and abundance, it is only that we change our view of the world painted with fear and hate that we can choose to look with appreciation and enjoyment.  Common Sense is the truth within all of us.

Each interaction we have has a form of common sense.

When it comes to dating and trying to impress women or men, common sense generally gets thrown out the window and that little inner ‘mind chatter’ starts talking inside our heads saying things that we think the other person might like to hear, instead of just appreciating them for who they are…

Common Sense vs. Anti-Logic and the Higher Mind

Realise that common sense and anti-logic are more often than not the VERY same thing.

Using the higher mind, all Anti-logical confusion in the world suddenly becomes common sense.  We are trained in society to work things out in the physical world with our brains being in control of everything.  When it comes to social engagement and especially attraction between sexes, the logic of it all gets empirically obscure.  To the physical-logical brain, a lot of the time nothing makes sense in this arena.

We all have a higher mind that doesn’t use words to operate.

It is the place that allows things to naturally flow.  It encapsulates everything you know into the moment right now and allows you to place a faith in yourself that allows you to do exactly what you NEED to do in the moment without HAVING to think about it.

A favourite analogy people use to gain more access to the higher mind is that the higher mind is the lookout man at the top of the mountain and your physical brain is the man walking through the valley at the bottom.  When they are both working in harmony together you are your FULL self, your FULL character being guided by the faith of knowing that whatever comes to me, whatever happens, I can still be myself and enjoy/tackle whatever comes next.

What women want

To recognise who they are in the moment that exists.

Relates back to common sense.  That was easy.  That’s a definition anyway.  This could be that there is someone who is looking for sex straight up.  Or perhaps she is in a state that is not quite there yet… depending on what YOUR intentions are and how clear you are to YOURSELF about them determines this more than anything.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what anyone wants except yourself and are you following that?

When it comes to being universally attractive it is achievable through everyone.  Everyone in the world has the ability to connect with another person as who we are UNDERNEATH EVERYTHING is actually the same.

We are all one in the same.  We are all one.

How we choose to express ourselves is what makes us unique and every one of us different.

With the concept that we are ALL one, we can really start to eliminate a lot of the problems in the world when we ALL start taking responsibility for everyone’s well being.

Circumstances don’t matter, ONLY your state of being matters!

You have the ability to affect everything with your own internal state.

Now if you find that your state is affecting how you feel and in turn your current circumstances, it is because of what you believe is true at that moment in time.  Positive or Negative.

Asking yourself questions helps.

“What must be true to make me feel bad about what just happened?”  Whatever the answer is, is a belief in your life.  A definition on how you perceive the world.

To change your state from a negative feeling to a positive feeling is a matter of asking oneself what must be true to make me feel the way I feel.

External reality does not affect the way you feel.  You MUST believe something to be true before it affects the way you feel.  For example, if one were to say “Brunettes are born with an evil gene and only blonde people are pure at heart”, I wouldn’t feel ANYTHING because I don’t believe that to be true in the slightest.  Someone who might believe that may feel high and mighty if they were a blonde, or sad and hurt if they were a brunette.

Once you let go of definitions that define how you should live your life, you start to feel lighter, more open to things happening that you personally prefer and find attractive.

Definitions and beliefs in life that are not yours are HEAVY like baggage, beliefs and definitions that are yours are light that allow your true personality and character to beam forth.

It’s important to be AWARE of these beliefs in life due to the colour they paint your perception of the world.

Abundance and Trusting and Accepting what is…

I’ve found that ALL abundance is, is the ability to do what you need to do when you need to do it.  The FORMS of abundance are very different.

Abundance of women, money…

Abundance of LACK…

Whatever has the LEAST amount of resistance to who you are, you will attract.

A newbie guy who hasn’t been into a club before tries going up to a woman he finds super donk attractive… What is happening inside of him?  FULL ON RESISTANCE.  What’s happening on the outside?  Rejections…

An Internal CHURN of a conflict between the higher mind and the physical mind.  A belief getting in the way of what REALLY excites him…  because what REALLY excites him deep down, is who he is, it’s his REAL character and personality.

The idea is to FULLY accept whatever part of the process is happening, whether it be positive or negative, for the REASON of continuing along the path of putting you in touch with MORE of who you are; your inner joy and enthusiasm.

Full realisation of this is that you will become completely excited about WHATEVER the process has to show you.  This will only speed up the process, expand who you are and increase your drive to follow your passion.

You will NEVER create more impact than you already have by just existing

Just by the fact that you EXIST, means you are creating ALL the impact you need in the world.

The fact that you exist is PURE value and love.  There is no need to do ANY more but just be…

All interactions then have no hidden agenda.  They are occurring for the pure appreciation of learning something new, connecting with new facets of yourself and plain old self-amusement.

This piece of knowledge by itself is soothing.  You automatically put yourself out there and after a while, putting yourself out there becomes habit and it’s like you’re turning off part of your brain.  Like a switch.  Underneath it’s really turning on another part.  The higher mind.  I assigned this the “I no longer care what people or I think” switch.  I only care about stimulating and appreciating the current interaction at hand.  My mind chatter stops and I start being, doing and actioning what I really want to do.

Knowing you strive for the truth, gives you an inner confidence… you really DON’T care what people think, you don’t care about ‘coolness’ or anything trivial because the truth prevails above all.

Life is Meaningless

Life has no meaning.  You have free will to assign whatever meaning you wish.  This also goes back to judging and labelling.  Leaving this unlabelled and open, you allow it to become whatever you like…

Conclusion

There is no part of your universe that you don’t own.  Everything is yours.  Let your own imagination and excitement be your guide.  Whatever excites you, act on it and trust that you will have all the support and abundance with you at all times.  Carry truth with you at all times as the deepest truth of your existence is you.

Bringing and being the Truth isn’t about saying accurate and statistically correct words, it’s about being your CORE self, putting who you are out on the table, allowing your joy and enthusiasm to guide you and being aware of who you are in any moment…

Bring the Truth

Let the truth be known…

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYb83KM4at4

The Epitome of Cool?

Where do you sit?

Top of the pecking order?

Does it even matter where you sit?

Ever wonder how some natural guys and girls have a deluxe social circle but have no idea how to approach a someone, walk up and start a conversation out of nothing?  Kind of like the kings/queens of social circle popularity, but they get too anxious when going up to someone they haven’t yet met.

There is one attribute here that these peeps have that not many other people exercise…

Screening

There is an unspoken process in the human species that determines who gets fed first and who doesn’t.

It’s screening.

Some people know it as a ‘test’ or maybe some might call it qualifying.  Quite a few different terms.

A lot of guys are missing it.

To screen is to feel people.  Feel what they’re about.  Feel where they stand in the biological hierarchy of ‘who gets to eat first’ or ‘who gets laid first’

Screening people is purely for biological survival and mating purposes.

What does that mean? Good news or bad news for you?

Screening can be daunting for some guys and girls.

Coming from an Ego point of view, it instills fear and scarcity.  Especially if you feel you’re the one being screened by everyone.

Are you the ‘screened’ or the ‘screener’?

Allowing yourself to be screened, thoughts start to race through your head, “what if I end up as the outcast?”, “If I get rejected, I’ll be on the outside and excluded!”

Coming from pure Self Esteem, you transcend all judgements and labels.  Self Esteem transcends the physical world.  Biological differences become unimportant.  Pure self esteem is the top of the top.  Eventually, you will become the ‘go to’ guy on what is cool and ‘in’.  Self Esteem is the default and the default state is pure realness.

A lot of guys will get up to the top of the pecking order by purely screening people constantly.  You’ve probably met one.  They highly value their reputation amongst society as the coolest of cool but would never label themselves as such, mainly because Self Esteem can’t easily be labelled.  It’s almost undefinable, hence why so many people have trouble with the question, “how do you be cool”

There is an opposite of screening and that is submission and conforming.  If somebody screens you against what you want to do and you conform into what THEY want, you’re submitting to somebody else’s ideals.

Accepting people for their dorky ways is fine but there is a limit.  Accepting sub-standard or immature behaviour will only hurt your biological position in the pecking order of society.  Accepting ‘bs’ from strangers or immature behaviour from girls will only get you disrespected at the end of the day.

Realise that to get what you want, you have to be strict on what you accept.  Be it, behaviour, appearance, job, girlfriend, etc…

Screening People Governed by the Core of Who You Are

There are two ways that cool guys screen people.

1. To what is a ‘cool’ image

2. To the core what they want and who they are

The first one will only get you so far.

Screening for EXACTLY what you want regardless of society’s conformities is pure Self Esteem in expression.

The ‘cool guy’ at the top of his social group who is too afraid to approach a girl he hasn’t met is screening into the cool image.

The ‘cool guy’ who is up the top of his social group but can pick up any girl who meets his own critieria is screening down to the core of what he wants and who he is…

Screening is Consciousness

Screening people puts you in the moment.

When someone tells you their name, when they’re displaying behaviour, their habits in social dynamics, you can be screening… feeling what they’re about.

Fully alert, you’re listening and seeing what they’re about.  They’re in the hot seat and they have a chance to prove to you whether or not they conform into what you are looking for… or to what you deem as acceptable.

Screening is not just questions to ask a girl.  To see if she ‘fits your type’.  It’s not a best-answers game.

It’s about FEELING what they’re about.  It’s beyond ‘qualification’ job interview style.  It’s about getting to know her properly and seeing if she’s what you like and the type of person you want to talk to… be honest if she’s not as well – you don’t have to bang every girl you see.  Although I’m sure 90% would be acceptable for most guys. he he.

Screening is Calibration

Screen what’s going on.  Do I like where this is going?  Am I wasting my time?  What does this girl have to offer?  Check her out – Feel what she’s about.  Feel the vibe of the venue.  Feel what’s about to happen.  Does she even want to talk to anyone?   Is she ready to be pulled out of the club right now?  Does she feel ok?

Fly Screen Analogy

I guess you could think of it like a fly screen, only letting in the realness of fresh air.

Sometimes I see some guys with no fly screen trying to conform, others with the glass window closed shunning good people out with a superiority complex.

Running out of things to say

A lot of times guys will BLAST open a group of girls or some really cute girl they’ve just met and all of a sudden they’ve run out of things to say and it gets awkward.  This is coming from an impressing frame where you’re trying to keep things positive while entertaining her with forced stories and jokes.

Drop that entirely.

Realise you are a DEEP WELL OVERFLOWING with things to say.  You also don’t have to be talking the whole time either.  Use your eyes to screen her.  Allow some time in between statements and questions to feel what she’s about.  Is she really the type of person you want to be talking to?

Accepting her for who she is

Whatever happens, remain COMPLETELY non-judgemental.  Just be present and alert.

With some girls, whatever it is that you want, if at any time she doesn’t want to be apart of it or has had enough, you have to accept it 100%.

A complete non-judgemental attitude, and ‘next’ mind frame is the best way to keep everyone happy.  Of course… explore the limitations here.

Some girls do play hard to get – FEEL what she’s like, don’t chase her around if you’ve put your cards on the table.  Time to move on.  If she’s having fun with you, have fun back. – Screen yourself hard, are YOU really having fun with her, coming from a place of real truth?

Who is deemed as acceptable with in the social group

Most cool guys who are on the warm end of going for exactly what they want are fairly accepting, but who they hang around with; they are very particular.

Not everyone can hang around me.  There are standards.  Standards being set to exactly what I want… whatever that may be at the time… people can be screened OVER time to see how much TIME I want to spend with them.

If what I WANT is to be around a bunch of people who have a positive abundant mindset, that I have fun with, can be myself and talk about whatever I like, then that’s what I’m deeming as acceptable.

Some guys will fight the ladder, same with girls, they’ll dress to impress, dress to fit in, put on a fake facade, all in the hopes to get in with cooler people.

Then there are some guys and girls who ARE the ladder, people have to climb and warm up to them.  They dress to exrpess and keep it real.

What’s really going on here is the ego’s desire for more.  More status.

Self Esteem and pure consciousness is abundant which is always at the top of the pecking order.

Before I mentioned that screening is consciousness.

Consciousness is also Self Esteem.

It’s the truth.

Real screening is screening for the truth.

Abstract example:

Does Pepe le Pew screen girls?

Yes and no.

Yes in the fact that he knows what he likes, but

More importantly he screens for the truth within and he’s 100% honest about it.

Is he unsettled by the fact she doesn’t want him… at first?  Not at all.

He explores the limits.

Does he explore a bit too hard?  In most cases yes, this is quite extreme ‘pushing’ to see how far to go… but funnily enough if you are bringing the truth, you don’t HAVE to go that extreme.  Women FULLY appreciate CORE honesty.  Core screening of the truth.

When you’re FULL positive and bringing nothing but the truth, that’s when you can be as persistent or ‘chilled out’ as you like.

Combining Full push with Full pull

So we can see how Pepe le Pew kind of pushes himself onto girls without pulling them back onto him playing hard to get and being cocky.

I have a natural friend who will always push right up until sex – then he starts to pull for the different things he likes to do in the bedroom.

Sex is just assumed, he has only to be present and ask questions about what they’re like in bed…

Things I’ve heard him say within the first couple mins, “so, now let me get this straight, are we talking an innie or outie here?”

Or “now, can I ask a question?  Do like guys biting your ass cheek?”

This delivers an honest answer because he’s already screened what he wants from the CORE of himself.

He’ll ask girls the most kinkiest of sex questions constantly and they always give him a truthful answer because they feel comfortable divulging that kind of information about themselves.

They KNOW he’s non-judgemental.  He’s screening them and if they still like him, they know he is coming from a place of value so they are more than happen to submit and conform because that’s what she wants from her core, which is a natural feminine trait of high self esteem around a free and truthful man.

Why does this happen?

Because he’s coming from self esteem – his core – the unplanned moment at hand.

Fake club pulls

One night stands and a lot of ‘fast dating’ is all generally fake.

Not that having sex with someone so quickly can’t be real.  It’s generally so far from real, it just won’t last.

Men who have survived the trenches of WWII together have REAL connections.  Life long and completely unbreakable.  Till death do us part.

Picking up girls from a club is totally trivial.  It’s not a big deal.

Can you find someone with a lasting connection in a club? Yeah sure, but the chances are low enough that looking for that one person alone would not be worth the time and energy involved to count on finding it with the first girl you approach.

That’s why the result is unimportant.

It’s the process that is there to be enjoyed and appreciated.

Realise what really is trivial in life.

Realise, that ‘dating’ in general is bullshit.  Pure fake-ness.  Because 99% of it is after the result.

It’s the process that’s bring you the rewards in life.

The best way we can bring the real out in other people is by searching within.

Searching within for what we REALLY want.

WHATEVER that may be.

Whatever it is, be clear to yourself about it.

Screening is truth

Be true to yourself.  If at some stage you start getting questioned or called out on – screen it up.  Do I want this right here, right now?

e.g. some angry guy comes at you and tries to start a fight with, “or you’re gonna do what?! Huh?”

Screen, “I have no idea.  I go crazy when people put me in a corner, like, FULL crazy.” – Core truth

The top of the pecking order is central to truth.

Screening is bringing the truth.

The epitome of truth.

When I’m going up to a woman I find donk-attractive, I’m not thinking anything. Even if I’m not in a super high energy state, I’m still humming with enthusiasm about going to talk to people, I’ve got this warm energy swirling inside me, it wants to express.

Getting to that ‘in the moment’ place, the time when you’re talking with full dynamism, there’s a buzz inside your chest, just LOVING the moment at hand.  You have this feeling inside that could only be described as an inner shouting, like your inner body is releasing a massive, ‘THIS IS AWESOMMMMMEEEE!’ feeling.

FULL inner explosive expression.

Formless. Like water, flowing.

I don’t know if anyone’s been to an airshow or perhaps an Indy or Formula 1 race but on the first lap, you’re sitting there, on the edge of your seat and slowly the build up of MAJOR earth shattering sounds of thunderous, screaming engines come roaring towards you, you’re TOTALLY excited as they get closer and closer until they come hurtling passed one by one and you just want to shout, ‘ahhhhhh!’ and laugh with a big smile on your face at the same time.

Kind of like the first dip on a roller-coaster. Major excitement ‘AHHHHH! HAHAHAHA – woooo – HOLY SH%T!’

It pumps you up.

Imagine if EVERY…. SINGLE… MOMENT was THAT awesome.

Imagine just harnessing that appreciation for the moment, the joy and enthusiasm and bringing it to everything you do.

Nice.

Ok sure maybe not every moment can be that extreme and we want to keep a bit of self control, but it’s possible to bring more and more good times and positivity at a more consistent intensity through the moment.

At times, you can actually get to that place doing almost nothing at all.

Things align, everything is right and you’re on top of the world.

Inner Awesome

Some random example environments:

You won the lottery

Your car tyre just burst

You got robbed.

These are external events that CAN shape how you feel inside.  Or more accurately, your Ego.

some environments can just be a by-product of you being you.

like;

You just go up a position at work

You just made out with some really cute girl.

How is your ego affected by your environment?

Are you even affected by it?

Are you just awesome all the time?

Or do you react to the awesome things that happen to you?

‘Outer’ awesome times.  Ie.  are not related to who you are or your inner awesomeness.

Inner Awesome, or ‘who you are’, is untouchable.

Ok, so, you get some cute girls number…

‘YESSS!’

Err… not really.

You just don’t think like that when EVERY moment is supremely deserved of your pure and full attention.

Computer games become boring because it’s all fake at the end of the day…

You prefer everything to be as real as possible.

You appreciate ‘realness’ with people and interactions a lot more.

Understand that ‘cool’ stuff you find is your ego filling itself up.

I sometimes imagine my ego to be like an empty wine bottle with a small hole in the bottom.

sometimes empty, sometimes it gets full but eventually, it will empty itself over time.

Say, you buy a HUGE 50″ plasma tv.

You’re ecstatic when you get it home, it’s the coolest thing ever.

But the ‘coolness’ wears off.

After a while, maybe even 1 day of constant watching.  You’d rather be outside playing a sport or walking through a forest, getting the fresh air inside your body.

Dropping or dissolving the ego means looking beyond the bottle.

Realising that there is no bottle.

‘You are enough’

You are the observer behind the bottle.

You don’t need anything.  Anything tangible.

Let go of it, regardless of if it’s full or empty.

Don’t let outer awesome ‘things’ affect who you are.

Just appreciate fully what is…

Inner Awesome is Confidence

Confidence can be an illusory term.

The reason why is because it’s not some ‘thing’ that is tangible.

Confidence can only be who we are at a single moment in time…

We can only BE confident, as opposed to having confidence.

Action breeds confidence.  So you could say that when I ‘act’, I am confident.

Let’s take a simple example of calling a girls number you know really well.

When you call, when you actually take the step, dial in the number and ring that bell, you are in mode of ‘gleam’ type of confidence.  You just don’t even think about it because you have full 100% belief and trust in yourself… and it’s just no big deal…

ok and now, you are calling some cute girl whose number you got two days ago.

Hesitate and you start thinking of weird scenarios and think up a good way to try and make a good impression… big time resistance builds up inside against your natural default non-chalant self belief that just wants to express itself.

Thinking is unnecessary.

Be dumb.

Don’t let thought get in the way.

Get the ball rolling.

How is successfulness measured?

Did you know there is actually a method to measure successfulness? or how successful a person is…

It’s not by their bank account or by how many girls they’ve scored with,

At least, it’s one CONSTANT they’ve realised that’s consistent with every relatively successful person in the top 1% of the world.

It’s rate of implementation.

The actual period of time between each action and decision.

Most of the time, it’s unnecessary thinking that gets in the way.

Sometimes for guys who are constant thinkers or worriers, keeping it dumb is just more authentic and pure.

Centred State

Eventually, tapping into your inner awesome deluxe default self over and over again will result in becoming rock solid centred even during the most harsh and crazy storms of social drama and conflict.

You become totally non-reactive and you are in full self control.

Sure we might get stifled up every now and then, but die to the past, press into the future and enjoy the moment as much as possible.

This requires responsibility.

Take FULL responsibility for who you are and your own state.

Resistance within

Striving for confidence when you feel you have none is only creating resistance within.

You might feel you have none, but this is that time where you’ve got to man up and take responsibility for what is happening now, ‘the moment’.

Resistance can be hard to ‘spot’, especially when looking for it within yourself.

That’s why it can only be felt.

ANY time you feel that clashing of drives within you, the churn that holds you back, THAT is resistance and all that is required is letting go of it.

What’s the easiest and fastest way to dissolve all resistance?

Honesty and being specific to what you want.

With Inner Volume (expression) turned up, Outer volume (external influences) get turned down and everything becomes clear

This is where you start telling the truth to yourself.

Even beyond ‘telling’ the truth to yourself, you realise that you ARE the truth.  You BRING the truth, you bring yourself and you be.

Move yourself
You always live your life
Never thinking of the future
Prove yourself
You are the move you make
Take your chances win or loser

See yourself
You are the steps you take
You and you – and thats the only way

Shake – shake yourself
Youre every move you make
So the story goes

The above lyrics from ‘Owner of a lonely heart’ by Yes are quite rad.

here’s a remix

Owner of A Lonely Heart (Klonhertz Remix)

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/28329/owner_of_a_lonely_heart_klonhertz_remix/

ps. I love that video clip.

External validation – Internal validation

External Validation is Outer awesome times.

“what!? that girl was SO HOT and I GOT HER NUMBER!”  lol – err.

Internal validation is well – better, but it’s probably not the best label, it’s not about validation because I already am valid.  100% valid.

100% belief and faith in yourself is Inner awesome.

Don’t get too spiritual and preachy about life

Realise that the word ‘spiritual’ is just a sign post to a way of living.  Defining it and being proud of that label will attract a bit of weird attention – especially confining it into a place that’s ‘above’ people who are more under the influence of their ego.

So just be cool about it.  Enlightenment and spirituality are labels that do have stigmas, the definition and truth that lies behind them are meanings for everyone to find for themselves.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it drink.

Character

Less resistance = More expression

More expression = more character

The more present you are the better your character.

I believe this is how to express your full character.

The more loveable you are, the more character you have.

Be a player, not a spectator

What ARE you doing when you are watching?

This includes

watching tv
watching guys pick up girls
watching others follow their dreams

What are you contributing?

Go out and express your version of what goes down.

Do it.

Be a player, not a spectator. At all times.

When you’re feeling down – just be a player!

It’s like when you’re a spectator, your emotions kind of take over you and give you weird judgement.

Just being a full flowing player puts you in the moment and you FEEL your way through and everything just clicks.

When you’re a player you’re INVOLVED.  You’re IN THERE. You are on the field… you COUNT, you’re in the game, you’re giving, your taking, you’re receiving, you’re playing, you’re enjoying every minute and every minute counts!

Be a player, not a spectator.

On a finishing note, a story:

I was awesome.  But then I got sad, so I stopped being sad and became awesome again.

True story.

If I’m having a shit night.  There is ALWAYS a reset button.

It comes from within.  The moment, not in the future or the past.

Take resonsibility of the moment, you are the move you make.

Don’t even think about it. Go blow someone’s world and they might even blow yours.