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					<description><![CDATA[<p>As 2025 winds down, it’s time for my annual Childfree Trending post! I started this in 2016 as a way to look back on a given year. Here are three highlights that stand out for me in 2025. The Pronatalism &#8216;Movement&#8217; In the last two year’s Childfree Trending posts I have spoken to the increase [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As 2025 winds down, it’s time for my annual Childfree Trending post!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I started this in <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/positive-trends-childfree-2016/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2016</a> as a way to look back on a given year. Here are three highlights that stand out for me in 2025.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">The Pronatalism &#8216;Movement&#8217;</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In the <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=childfree+trending" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">last two year’s Childfree Trending posts</a> I have spoken to the increase in inaccurate discourse about the &#8216;recent rise&#8217; of the pronatalism ‘movement’, and it has continued this year. As those of you who have read my work know, <a href="https://amzn.to/3YlAMzA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">pronatalism is far from new</a>. It has run societies since circa 5000 years ago, when civilizations needed more people in order to grow and gain power.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Today, from the media, governments, to religious institutions and the arts, the pro-baby messaging that promotes and encourages reproduction is still all around us with this end game. Why don’t more people see that pronatalism is not new? Pronatalist forces have been with us for so long people too often are just not conscious of them at work. And pronatalism is not rising; it’s been here all along. What we are seeing today are just current efforts and influences after what pronatalism has always sought to do — convince people they need to have children.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Childfree people are not following this most valued pronatalist path for their own reasons. Why should they care about the continued dominance of pronatalism? As long as pronatalism drives the social and cultural hardware of societies, it works against the normalization of the childfree choice. It works against social and cultural acceptance of this choice and those who make it.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Even in the midst of this, year by year things are happening that move toward positive social change. Here are the two areas I have noticed most this year.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Online Childfree Community Building</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Over the years I have actively participated across multiple social media channels, and more recently post only on <a href="https://bsky.app/profile/lauracarroll88.bsky.social" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">BlueSky </a>and <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/carrollcommunicationsconsultin/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">LinkedIn</a>. While I have issues with the current X and Meta’s algorithms, privacy and monitoring, I continue to track childfree-related posting and discourse on these channels. Each year I also closely monitor the media and new research.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This year I have been particularly impressed with Instagram as a childfree community building platform. There are more childfree-oriented accounts there than ever, and they support childfree people in connecting, learning, and sharing their lives. For some childfree Instagramers, it also serves as a platform for presenting their audio and YouTube podcasts on a variety of childfree topics. If it ‘s anything like what we’re seeing more of with other podcasts, in the year ahead I predict we’ll see fewer audio-then-video podcasts, and more that go straight to short-form content video on childfree and related topics.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Marketing to the Childfree</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 2025 we’ve seen businesses begin to market specifically to childfree people. Over the past several years we have seen growth in counseling services for people trying to decide whether they want children. This year, added to this niche have been more counseling and coaching businesses which focus on assisting childfree people with the personal, social and cultural challenges which can come with this lifestyle choice.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Also worthy of mention are two new types of business: financial planning and estate planning for childfree and permanently childless people. These first-of-its-kind businesses have been spearheaded by Jay Zigmont, who runs <a href="https://childfreewealth.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Childfree Wealth</a> and <a href="https://childfreetrust.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Childree Trust</a>. Financial planning for those with no children is truly different than for those with children (or who plan to have them in the future). This is what Childfree Wealth is about. Childfree Trust&#8217;s mission is also something no business has done before; it will be the “first service to provide medical and financial power of attorney, executor and trustee representation for Childfree and Permanently Childless in all 50 states.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">May these businesses join more in the coming year that see the need to service the no-children demographic. The need has been there for <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/target-non-moms-holiday-season/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">some time</a>. For example, at holiday time when advertisers spend billions of dollars for holiday shopping, revenue is lost because of the high percentage of American women shoppers of childbearing age who are not mothers.&nbsp;</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Looking Ahead</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Given that some recent research has reported that a growing percentage of respondents indicated they don’t intend to have children, may 2026 bring a fuller trend in marketing to this demographic. May we see a rise in even more online community building. May we also even begin to see organized efforts to address social issues related to those with no children, e.g., inequitable workplace and government policies that favor those with children.</p>



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<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Happy 2026! 🍾</h5>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It’s time for my annual childfree trending post! I am calling this year’s theme, ‘sprouting’. Why? We’ve seen some sprouting of good and bad trends this year. Let’s start with the bad. Problematic Sprouting The&#160;sprouting of pronatalist discussion grew a bit from last year, but not in productive ways, thanks to voices like Elon Musk [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It’s time for my annual childfree trending post! I am calling this year’s theme, ‘sprouting’. Why? We’ve seen some sprouting of good and bad trends this year. Let’s start with the bad.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Problematic Sprouting</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The&nbsp;sprouting of pronatalist discussion grew a bit from <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/2023-childfree-trending/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">last year</a>, but not in productive ways, thanks to voices like Elon Musk and others. Among pronatalist beliefs that affect all people, they also include negative attitudes towards those who do not have children, particularly when it is a conscious choice. This year it is more clear that they want attention to scarily germinate a white, tech, eugenic, Silicon Valley limb on a very ancient pronatalist tree. Wrongly freaked out by declining birthrates, as a <a href="https://www.mercatornet.com/pronatalism_silicon_valley" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Mercator article</a> relates, they tend to “promote, in practice if not in speech, a selective pronatalism: more babies of a&nbsp;<em>certain</em>&nbsp;kind.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The voices of Malcom and Simone Collins came on the scene last year, and we’ve seen more of them on their own podcast, as guests on a few others, and getting more <a href="https://theweek.com/culture-life/pronatalist-movement-usa" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">digital ink</a> as ‘premier pronatalists’. Titles coming out like this one in <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/audio/2024/dec/28/revisited-actor-jeff-goldblum-at-71-americas-top-pronatalists-on-having-tons-of-kids-to-save-the-world-podcast" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The Guardian</a> send such a damaging message: “America’s top pronatalists on having ‘tons of kids’ to save the world.” The last thing we need to be doing is doubling down on old pronatalist messaging to keep the economic <a href="https://www.benzinga.com/startups/24/09/40735063/elon-musk-fires-back-at-fortune-magazine-something-deeply-misanthropic-about-these-people-for-saying" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Ponzi scheme</a> of growth going at all costs.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">And often it has been falsely talked about like pronatalism as a new ‘<a href="https://www.sunjournal.com/2024/08/18/pronatalism-is-the-latest-silicon-valley-trend-what-is-it-and-why-is-it-disturbing/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">trend</a>’, or something ‘<a href="https://www.crikey.com.au/2024/09/10/pronatalist-politicians-want-voters-have-more-babies/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">on the rise’</a>. The truth is it’s been baked into the engine of society for so long. What we are seeing is just another twist in the same old pronatalist playbook.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">However, while not enough, the good news is some media have called out this misinformation, like <a href="https://nymag.com/intelligencer/article/the-truth-about-pronatalists-simone-and-malcolm-collins.html" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Sarah Jones</a> in New York Magazine, “There’s Nothing New About Pronatalism.” Emily Klancher Merchant from University of California, Davis and Win Brown, of University of Washington, discuss the Ponzi scheme truths in “<a href="https://www.upi.com/Voices/2024/08/09/pronatalism-wont-solve-social-economic-problems-ponzi-scheme/8071723207804/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pronatalism won&#8217;t solve our social, economic problems</a>.” Yes! We need to see a lot more of this.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Positive Sprouting</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Two sprouts of note are political in nature. In the run up to the election, the Alliance of Childfree Voters was started by Shannon Coulter (who also heads the organization, Grab Your Wallet) and <a href="https://x.com/childfreevoters" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">is described </a>as “a nonpartisan grassroots coalition of individuals and organizations fighting for the rights and voices of childfree and childless voters worldwide.” This is an example of what I discuss in my <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/2022-childfree-trending/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">2022 Childfree Trending</a> piece regarding efforts that move toward the Coalescence stage of movement building.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Similarly, how can I not mention the Vance ‘childless cat lady’ comment that spurred big waves of discourse not only about and from childfree people, but from the wider demographic of those who have no children for whatever reason. It is a sign that given the right conditions, childfree, childless and all in between who have no children can join as one voice, which I contend is a necessary step for the no-children collective to progress as a movement to its Coalescence stage.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Other Notes of Interest</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"></p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Algorithmic Mischief</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Along the lines of promoting this new pronatalist propaganda twist, I have seen more algorithmic mischief on sites like Musk’s X. For example, search for #childfree, one commonly sees very little that is current, and way more tweets that are old. On Facebook, algorithms continue to push pronatalist results in feeds. Case in point, my Families of Two: Childfree and Beyond feed has seen a huge rise in posts having to do with families, birth, pregnancy, and on and on.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Childfree YouTube Videos</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Now there has been a growing number of videos on YouTube for some time, but this last year I observed a tick upwards by people from more countries. This sure helps the childfree conversation reach more audiences globally. Podcasts are migrating to videos as well, which I hope in turn will bring more faces to podcast hosts taking on a wide range of childfree-related topics.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Global Discussions Leveled</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In past annual childfree trending pieces I have highlighted discussions on childfree topics globally. This year I have seen a little leveling off of this, with the exception of pieces out of <a href="https://www.malaymail.com/news/malaysia/2024/07/14/yes-we-dont-want-kids-malaysian-couples-say-the-choice-is-theirs-and-theirs-alone/143353" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Malaysia</a>, and Indonesia.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Childfree-Related Terms</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Also in the past annual <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=trending" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">childfree trending pieces</a> I have lamented about the continued unclear use of terms related to those who have no children by choice. In 2024, I have especially noticed more use of ‘childfree by choice’ and ‘child-free’ than ‘childfree’. I still contend that given the origination of ‘childfree’ in textbooks back in the 70s to mean those with no children by choice, to use ‘childfree by choice’ is redundant. You also still see the use of &#8216;child-free&#8217; and &#8216;childfree&#8217; out there to mean not having children right now. No matter the intended usage, it continues to reflect algorithmic strategy &#8211; the use of specific terms and phrases to get clicks despite unclearness or inaccuracy. Me, I just use childfree when I am referring to those who have no children by choice. You will always know what I mean!</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I want to close with a call to action. In the coming year, when you see the white, eugenic techs on their pronatalist podium, we need to call out their agenda and its purpose, and defend reproductive freedom and ethics. In 2025, please join me in supporting <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/support-advocacy/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">important advocacy work</a> dedicated to this cause and more!</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Pew Research Center’s recent study on people who don’t have children gives us an informative multidimensional survey of “2,542 adults ages 50 and older who have never had children and 770 adults ages 18 to 49 who don’t have children and say they are not too or not at all likely to have them.” In [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Pew Research Center’s <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2024/07/25/the-experiences-of-u-s-adults-who-dont-have-children/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">recent study </a>on people who don’t have children gives us an informative multidimensional survey of “2,542 adults ages 50 and older who have never had children and 770 adults ages 18 to 49 who don’t have children and say they are not too or not at all likely to have them.” In reviewing it I looked mostly at the separate document with the survey <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2024/07/PST_2024.7.26_adults-without-children_W147-18-49_topline.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">questions</a> <a href="https://www.pewresearch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/20/2024/07/PST_2024.7.26_adults-without-children_W147-50_topline.pdf" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">themselves </a>for each group and corresponding response percentages. Taking the long view since I started studying people who don&#8217;t want children (see <a href="https://amzn.to/4dBSR29" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Families of Two</em></a>, my chapter in <a href="https://amzn.to/3Ad5YIA" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Voluntary and Involuntary Childlessness: The Joys of Otherhood</em></a>?, <a href="https://amzn.to/4fFTyJr" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>25 Over 10: A Childfree Longitudinal Study</em></a>, and the last section of <a href="https://amzn.to/3LYRJcX" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>The Baby Matrix</em></a>) and tracking childfree-related research over time, below are some things that stood out to me with a little commentary.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Sample of 18-49 Age Group Who Are Not Parents and Say They Are Unlikely to Have Children</h4>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Life Fulfillment</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked who has it easier — people who don’t have children or people who do, seventy-seven percent of respondents in this group chose the option: “doesn’t have much to do with having children.” I like to think that this is a sign that more people are seeing through the pronatalist Fulfillment Assumption (see <em>The Baby Matrix</em>) and to the reality that parenthood <em>can</em> be <em>one </em>path to fulfillment in life.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Major Reasons for Not Having Children</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On this item, fifty-seven percent responded a major reason is that they “just don’t want to.” In my interviews two plus decades ago with childfree people this was harder for them to directly come out and say! I say this high of a percentage is a sign that more people are more comfortable being honest about this reason to make the childfree choice.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Forty-four percent responded that they wanted “to focus on other things, like [their] job or other interests.” In the last two decades, this has been a common reason childfree people express as a reason they don&#8217;t want children. </p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Thirty-eight percent responded “concerns about the state of the world, other than the environment.” Childfree couples I’ve interviewed since the late 90s did not specifically speak to this reason. While not in the top three reasons, concerns about overpopulation were concerns made by some, but not as important as just not having the desire to parent.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Work-Related Experiences</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked about having “felt left out of conversations with coworkers who have children,” seventy-one percent responded “No.” Sixty-five percent responded “No” to ever having been &nbsp;“expected to take on extra work or responsibilities.”&nbsp; Both of these percentages are higher than I would expect. In my interviews and seeing in social media for many years now, childfree women (in particular) feeling left out and being expected to take on more has been common commentary.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sixty percent responded “No” to having been given less flexibility than people with children. This too is different than common commentary out there, e.g., childfree people experiencing parents getting more flexible work hours and having an easier time taking time off for child-related responsibilities.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Perhaps this points toward some current-day progress of the experiences of people who aren&#8217;t parents in the workplace.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">The Topic of Having Children in Conversation</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sixty-eight percent responded that this topic came up with friends “rarely” or “never.” Seventy-two percent responded that it came up “rarely or “never” with their parent(s). That’s pretty high.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">The Dating Scene</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked what impact they think being unlikely to have children has had on their dating life, seventy-eight percent responded “neither positive or negative.” A good sign.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Sample of Age 50 or Older Who Are Not Parents</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Here are a few percentages that stuck out to me in this sample group:</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Thoughts on Having Children</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked what best describes their thoughts on having children, thirty-eight percent responded there was a time when they wanted children. Thirty-two percent responded they never had wanted children. Twenty-five percent responded they weren’t sure whether or not they wanted to have children.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Regarding those who responded that had never wanted children, thirty-two percent is higher than other numbers we have seen over time. For many years, census numbers have hovered at about one in five of women ages forty to forty-four who did not have children without delineating the reason(s). On the other side, for over sixty percent of respondents it was not always the case that they did not want them. This lends credence to the value of longitudinal study to hone on these experiences.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Major Reasons for Not Having Children</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For the item asking the major reason they did not have children, thirty-nine percent responded that “It just never happened,” thirty-three percent responded they “didn’t find the right partner,” and thirty-one percent responded they “just did not want to.” It’s great to finally be getting more research delineations like this!</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Pressure</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked when they were younger, how often did they feel pressure from spouse/partner, family, friends, and society in general, responses ranged eight percent or less for “extremely often”/“very often” and forty-three to fifty-seven percent “Never.”&nbsp; This suggests a sign of progress!</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Impact on Relationships</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked how has not having children impacted their relationships, sixty-four to seventy-seven percent responded that it has had neither positive nor negative with these groups: their spouse/partner, friends with children, parents, and siblings. This suggests this may be experienced less now than in the past. </p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Worry About the Future</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For the item asking how much they worry about the future in certain areas, forty-four percent responded either “rarely or “never” to worrying about being lonely as they age. This decent percentage runs contrary to the pronatalist messaging that those with no children will be lonely in their elder years.</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Parent Care</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When asked how much of a reason are certain factors for why they would provide more care for their parents than their siblings, the highest major reason response was forty-seven percent for saying they would due to “living closer” to their parents than their siblings. Almost half —  forty-nine percent —<a> </a>responded that not having children was <em>not</em> a reason that they would provide more care for their parents than their siblings. This goes contrary to common thinking and what many childfree people have shared in interviews over the years.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">The Two Group Sample</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">While the survey gives us a good deal of interesting information about two large age-range groups, a more specific breakdown by age in the 18 to 49-year-old sample group would have told us more and possibly better explained some percentages in this study that seemed higher than expected. For example, a sample divided into ten year age increments (and by gender), may have told us more about how the experiences of those on the younger end versus those on the older end of the age spectrum of this sample group.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A longitudinal look would also tell us even more about people’s thinking and experience. Think about it; an eighteen year-old’s thinking can be very different than a forty-nine-year old! In my longitudinal study (the only one I know of to date) that tracked twenty-five women over ten years starting in their twenties, twenty-four percent had what I termed ‘shifts in sureness’ about not wanting children over the course of the study. Their answers to the questions I asked them each year changed over time. See <a href="https://amzn.to/46DzdR7" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>25 Over 10</em></a> for these stories and where they landed at the end of the study (and many other interesting findings).</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I know that many childfree people get frustrated when others claim they will change their minds about kids in time, but the truth is life evolves and so can feelings. Research has shown that &#8220;early articulators&#8221; or those who know early in life they don&#8217;t want children are more likely to not change their minds, but more study needs to be done in general about the experiences of those with the intent not to have children and the evolution of their reproductive lives over time.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">Final Note</h4>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I have also noticed a good number of articles discussing this research saying it has indicated a growing number of people “are choosing not to have kids” or something similar. I would contend that more accurately, the Pew Research Center study found that forty-seven percent of adults between the ages eighteen and forty-nine who don’t have children responded “they are unlikely to ever have children in the future.” The former wording suggests the choice has been fully made; the latter wording reported in the study indicates intention. It’s important to describe the results as the research states it.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">All and all, this Pew Research Center study sheds 2024 light on a good number of areas related to research on not having children!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/pew-research-center-report/">Commentary on the New Pew Research Center Report on U.S. Adults Who Don’t Have Children</a> appeared first on <a href="https://lauracarroll.com">Laura Carroll</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Mar 2024 16:03:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>In celebration of Women&#8217;s History Month, throughout the month on Instagram I am posting highlights of women that build on the women in my book, A Special Sisterhood! Also watch for giveaway deals! Upon its availability for stocking stuffer deals last holiday season, A Special Sisterhood ranked in the top 5 on Amazon Hot New [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/womens-history-month-2024/">Celebrating Women&#8217;s History Month!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://lauracarroll.com">Laura Carroll</a>.</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In celebration of Women&#8217;s History Month, throughout the month on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lauralcarroll88/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Instagram</a> I am posting highlights of women that build on the women in my book, <em><a href="http://amzn.to/3uV3MmI" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">A Special Sisterhood</a></em>! Also watch for giveaway deals!</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Upon its availability for stocking stuffer deals last holiday season, <em>A Special Sisterhood</em> ranked in the top 5 on Amazon Hot New Releases in its category for a month! Now the whole month of March is continuing to celebrate women from history who never had children.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Along with wanting to educate young people in an entertaining way that having no children is not a new phenomenon, I want <em>A Special Sisterhood </em>to be a way to build the larger community of women who have no children, no matter the reason.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">One of the biggest things women who have no children no matter the reason are the pronatalistic ways society (ies) treat those who do not reproduce.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On a meta level, this book is a way to strenghten this larger collective is necessary to mobilize toward efforts to challenge pronatalism in social, cultural and policy realms of society.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Developing this inspiring book was a great experience, including collaborating with gifted illustrator, Nataliia Tonyeva. The most difficult part was deciding on just 100 &#8211; there are so many amazing women from history who never had children that this could be a whole series!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/womens-history-month-2024/">Celebrating Women&#8217;s History Month!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://lauracarroll.com">Laura Carroll</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Dec 2023 17:34:37 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It’s the time of year to talk childfree trending for 2023! Two big themes that stick out for me this year: Continued Expansion As I have commented in previous childfree trending pieces, the amount of ink, print and digital, on a range of childfree-related topics has done nothing but continue to grow! Having watched what’s [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It’s the time of year to talk childfree trending for 2023! Two big themes that stick out for me this year:</p>



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<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Continued Expansion</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As I have commented in previous <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=childfree+trending" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">childfree trending pieces</a>, the amount of ink, print and digital, on a range of childfree-related topics has done nothing but continue to grow!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Having watched what’s been out there on childfree topics since I started my top blog, La Vie Childfree in 2009 (which is now a childfree writings library in the <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/category/childfree/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Childfree Zone</a> of this site), from one year to the next certain topics get more discussion. This year, I have noticed there’s been a bit more focus on a couple of stubborn stereotype areas: the myth that somehow all people who make the childfree choice are selfish and predicting regret as childfree women in particular reach the end of their reproductive lives.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">One area I’ve seen more attention paid to this year has to do with the claim that there are now more childfree people than ever before. Are there more childfree people, or is it more that the print and online exposure has grown such that more and more childfree people <em>can </em>be seen and heard? &nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Over twenty years ago when I set out to find happily married childfree couples for <em>Families of Two</em>, the digital world was nowhere near what it is today. But childfree people were out there; they came out in droves to be interviewed. This told me that at the time, at least in the United States, many childfree people lived in the tributaries of society. Unlike then, today there is such a more expansive space for childfree people to be seen, heard, and find community.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Over the last year, I have seen more online discourse on more women starting at age eighteen saying they do not want to have children. And a Michigan State University study that came out this year indicates one in five adults (adults being age 18 and up) said they did not want children. More gen Z’s are weighing in these days, and <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/latest-release-25-over-10-a-childfree-longitudinal-study/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">more longitudinal research</a><a href="https://lauracarroll.com/book-review/25-over-10/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> </a>can help to hone in on what actually happens over time.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Discourse on Pronatalism</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I am thrilled that this past year pronatalism has been talked about more than ever before. More articles, op-eds, papers, and publications have made more people aware of the negative impacts of pronatalism. Let’s just say about a decade ago, publishers would not even consider picking up a book on this topic. And getting publicity for <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Matrix-Outmoded-Parenthood-Reproduction/dp/0615642993/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1702661173&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>The Baby Matrix</em> </a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Matrix-Outmoded-Parenthood-Reproduction/dp/0615642993/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1702661173&amp;sr=8-1">&nbsp;</a>was tough to say the least. No one wanted to talk about it. But since its release, I&#8217;ve tried to help this topic get into public discourse, and thanks to academia, NGOs, and the media, 2023 has been the best I’ve seen yet.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This is important to childfree people because the more people see through pronatalist assumptions and beliefs that have to do with choosing not to have children, the more these assumptions and beliefs can be abandoned. Seeing through pronatalism’s untruths and myths especially as it relates to childfree people supports the acceptance of the childfree choice. It also sets the stage to live with mindsets that reflect truths and today’s realities.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Emerging Pronatalist Forces </h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Along with the positive, unfortunately there has also been a new emergence of pronatalist forces that work against chipping away at pronatalism. This year a contingent of people have come out as wealthy, proud pronatalists who are very worried about falling birthrates. The spotlight started with Simone and Malcolm Collins who founded pronatalist.org, which has a mission to have wealthy elites have as many children as possible to <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12003601/American-couple-head-pronatalist-movement-insist-NOT-eugenics-despite-using-embryo-selection.html" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">“combat falling birthrates.”</a>&nbsp; To do so, they want to create a movement that “encompasses various initiatives, including government policies that provide financial incentives for families to have more children, cultural campaigns that promote the idea that parenthood is the most important role for women, and religious or ideological beliefs that emphasize the importance of procreation.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">We see governments trying (unsuccessfully) to increase births through incentivization, which is a top down type of effort, but this new effort can be characterized as by wealthy citizens from the ground up. And it is becoming more organized. Recently, there was an entire <a href="https://www.natalism.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">conference</a> in Austin, Texas, to find solutions to a supposed tragic situation of birthrate collapse. Meanwhile as of this writing the world population has a <a href="https://www.census.gov/popclock/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">net gain</a> of one person every 22 seconds.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In the coming year, I hope that this force will be outdone by more highlighting of the negative impacts of pronatalism and the serious problems with seeing population and birthrate numbers only through a human-centric and economic lens. &nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As I have been hammering for a while now, taking down pronatalism is in the best interest of us all, not just those who don’t have or want children. Its decimation also anchors the end game of the childfree choice being just as socially and culturally acceptable as having children.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Bring on 2024</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Going into 2024, I anticipate even more Gen Y and Z voices speaking out about multifaceted aspects of the childfree choice and moving the needle towards fuller acceptance. Bring it on! I am here to offer long-view perspective and wisdom gained from years of giving it my best to work toward this societal change.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Happy 2024!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/2023-childfree-trending/">2023 Childfree Trending</a> appeared first on <a href="https://lauracarroll.com">Laura Carroll</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Mar 2023 17:35:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>After founding and heading International Childfree Day awards and social media for ten years, I have passed torch to Childfree Media Ltd., who has the passion, skills and vision to take this Day into its next chapter of global awareness and celebration! * Onward and upward!*</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/passing-icd-torch/">Passing the International Childfree Day Torch!</a> appeared first on <a href="https://lauracarroll.com">Laura Carroll</a>.</p>
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<p class="has-text-align-left wp-block-paragraph"><strong>After founding and heading<a href="https://internationalchildfreeday.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"> International Childfree Day</a> awards and social media for ten years, I have passed torch to <a href="https://childfreemedia.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Childfree Media Ltd</a>., who has the passion, skills and vision to take this Day into its next chapter of global awareness and celebration! </strong></p>



<p class="has-text-align-center wp-block-paragraph"><strong>* <em>Onward and upward!</em>*</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2023 17:46:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>After ten years of heading all that goes into International Childfree Day (ICD) Awards each year and running its social media year round, it is time for me to pass the torch to new leadership! If you are interested in learning what it takes to make the annual awards happen and running ICD’s presence online, [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">After ten years of heading all that goes into <a href="https://internationalchildfreeday.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">International Childfree Day (ICD)</a> Awards each year and running its social media year round, it is time for me to pass the torch to new leadership!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If you are interested in learning what it takes to make the annual awards happen and running ICD’s presence online, contact me at&nbsp;lauralcarroll88@gmail.com!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Let’s keep the awards going and expanding global awareness of ICD!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Laura Carroll, ICD Founder</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2022 17:28:06 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>For my annual Childfree Trending piece, this year I want to focus on one of the leading trends I have observed in 2022: a notable increase in childfree people as a collective being referred to as &#8220;the childfree movement.&#8221; So, for 2022, the fifth year of Childfree Trending, I want to take a general look [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For my <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=trending" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">annual</a><a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=trending"> </a>Childfree Trending piece, this year I want to focus on one of the leading trends I have observed in 2022: a notable increase in childfree people as a collective being referred to as &#8220;the childfree movement.&#8221; So, for 2022, the fifth year of Childfree Trending, I want to take a general look at where we are as a social movement. Established sociology theories of social movements include a four-stage life cycle model. Let’s briefly look at each stage through the childfree window.</p>



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<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Emergence</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Emergence is the first stage of a social movement. In this stage, there is dissatisfaction with a social condition or policy, and people are putting it out there. During this stage, media commonly increases on the situation or issue. Over the last twenty plus years, the rise in media attention on childfree topics and people has surely been the case! The huge increase in all types of media has been nothing short of amazing. Then add to it the surge of other forms in the digital sphere, from blogs and forums to social media platforms and sites that address misperceptions and treatment of childfree people and build childfree community.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Coalescence</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In the next stage, the Coalescence stage, the discontent becomes more focused and organized. It goes beyond a group of discontented people to one that mobilizes to become more strategic and develop plans of action. While the efforts of the childfree collective are supporting the path to its normalization and strengthening as a community, we have yet to see more formal organization to create types of action.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">However, we are seeing sprouts of this. For example, in 2022, the second annual <a href="https://childfreeconvention.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Childfree Convention</a> showcased sessions with speakers from a variety of countries discussing a range of childfree-related topics. On one hand, the Childfree Convention exemplifies an organized effort to build childfree community, and a global one at that. Future conventions are ripe to become a platform for focusing on strategic ways for childfree people to organize in areas we would like to see tangible change.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The new organization, <a href="https://newlegacyinstitute.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">New Legacy Institute</a> (NLI), a social justice advocacy institute exemplifies a Coalescence stage effort. In addition to childfree people, it seeks to bring together the larger cohort of people without children to “address the social and policy inequities” faced by them. Founder Christine Erickson states its mission is “to generate constructive change in cultural, organizational, and institutional policies that exhibit biases against people without children.” NLI initiatives seek the equitable treatment of those with no children in “workplaces and public institutions, supported by public policy, and accurately reflected in media and cultural narratives.”</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Bureaucratization</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The next phase is the Bureaucratization stage of the social movement life cycle. In this phase, we see an increasing number of formal organizations, e.g., NGOs, and coalitions form, as the goals of the collective become more structured. When the childfree movement transitions to this stage we will see more organizations with formal campaigns and coalitions to eliminate things like inequitable workplace policies that favor those who are parents and legislative policies that give tax advantages to people with children. We would also potentially see more formalized campaigns to address needed changes regarding pronatalist issues in the media, entertainment industy, healthcare (e.g., sterilization denial), and school curricula. </p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Decline</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Stage four, the Decline stage, can occur when the movement has achieved its goals and there is no reason to continue, which in the case of the childfree movement would mean the attainment of normalization and mainstream acceptance of the childfree choice, and reflected as such, socially, culturally, and through policy. The Decline state can also mean the failure of a movement, but that is not going to happen with the childfree movement!</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">On Other Channels</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Briefly on other channels, this year we have seen more out there that attacks pronatalism. This of course benefits seeing through the stereotypes, negative judgments and untruths about the childfree choice and those who make it. On other upsides, as in <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=trending" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">past</a> Childfree Trending pieces, this year we have seen even more global exposure in the media. There also continues to be more childfree voices than ever creating great content, podcasts, and engaged in efforts to strengthen the global childfree community.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On the downside, as in previous Childfree Trending pieces, the inconsistent language usage of childfree, child free, childfree, childfree by choice, and childless frustratingly remains. Algorithmic strategy may ultimately drive this, but it does not help the understanding of those who do not have children by choice, and all the other ways in which people can end up not becoming parents. &nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">And on a mixed channel, as we hit eight billion people this year and continue to see the climate crisis deepen, we have seen more discussion and highlighting of people choosing not to have children. While it is for a sad reason, it has been a way for the childfree choice to get more coverage and publicity.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">With 2022 coming to a close, as I look back at my 20+ years of work as a childfree researcher, writer, and activist, I continue to feel optimistic about where this collective effort for social and cultural change is headed. May we continue to strengthen as a community and progress as a social movement in 2023!</p>
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		<title>Ruminations on Reactions to the Childfree Longitudinal Study, 25 Over 10</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Since 25 Over 10: A Childfree Longitudinal Study has been out, I have received many communications from readers ~ thank you! There have been a few themes by the type of readers, which I hope you find as interesting as I have. From Childfree Readers The two biggest themes of reactions to this longitudinal study [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Since <em><a href="https://lauracarroll.com/book-review/25-over-10/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">25 Over 10: A Childfree Longitudinal Study</a></em> has been out, I have received many communications from readers ~ thank you! There have been a few themes by the type of readers, which I hope you find as interesting as I have.</p>



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<h5 class="wp-block-heading">From Childfree Readers</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The two biggest themes of reactions to this longitudinal study from childfree readers have included:</p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Validating</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">By and large, childfree people who have written me used this word to describe what they learned about the childfree women in this study, particularly those who remained 100% childfree for its duration. Participant reasons for being childfree, the benefits, the challenges, and the tenth year “looking back” questions pertaining to their childfree life over the course of a decade resonated with these readers.  </p>



<h6 class="wp-block-heading">Surprising</h6>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I’ll start by saying <em>I</em> was surprised by how many childfree readers were surprised, sometimes literally shocked by the stories of the participants in what I call the “Shifts in Sureness” (SS) group — those who experienced times over the course of the decade when they did not feel 100% childfree.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The surprise and shock also related to the women who, by the end of the study, had taken on a parental role in their lives. Even though this happened to two of the twenty-five women, some readers who wrote me expressed how they just could not believe that they ended up making such a different choice.  </p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As we know, society has stereotypes about the childfree choice and those who make it. These reader reactions got me thinking about something different — strong mindsets childfree people themselves can have about the childfree in general. Two include:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">&#8211; Most childfree people decide early in life.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This was the case for the women in this longitudinal study, other research has spoken to this utilizing the term “early articulators,” and <a href="https://www.washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/the-rise-of-child-free-americans" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">found</a> that the decision to be childfree was made when people in the sample were younger, yet I caution the belief that this is what&#8217;s most common. For example, as I discuss in a chapter in <em><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Voluntary-Involuntary-Childlessness-Otherhood-Reproduction/dp/1787543641/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1AJTCVB8XC1OV&amp;keywords=Voluntary+and+Involuntary+childlessness&amp;qid=1661532189&amp;sprefix=voluntary+and+involuntary+childlessness%2Caps%2C125&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Voluntary and Involuntary Childlessness: The Joys of Otherhood?</a></em> (2018), my data collection since the year 2000 from online surveys and 5000+ electronic interviews and communications with childfree opposite-gender, cisgender, heterosexual, married couples indicate that about a quarter of the time the childfree decision was not made until they were married. And this age could be well into the couple’s thirties.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The point here is that while deciding early in life <em>can</em> happen, and even often happen, it is wise not to flatly assume that this is what is true for most childfree people.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">&#8211; Childfree people don’t change their mind.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Here as well, this <em>can</em> be the case, and even often the case, but wise not to treat it as blanketly true. I wonder if part of the common position that childfree people don’t change their minds stems from having to deal with being <em>expected</em> to change their minds. From the pressure that we will change our minds can come a heel-digging reaction and stand that we don’t and won’t. As the longitudinal study reveals, and I can say from years of communicating with many people about their childfree choice, sureness can fluctuate and change. And when this happens against a backdrop that childfree people don’t change their minds, it makes it difficult to admit when they do.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Shifts in Sureness &amp; Ambivalent Readers</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Readers who had experienced shifts in sureness or considered themselves ambivalent about whether they wanted kids have written me about how the SS group in the study brought feelings of relief. They have also expressed how the stories of the SS women opened their minds to the many ways shifts in sureness and ambivalence can play out in life over the course of time. Learning the stories of those who had similar emotions yet with a whole different story and context helped them not feel as alone in their own experience.</p>



<h5 class="wp-block-heading">Loved Ones Readers</h5>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Other readers have included loved ones related to those who are either childfree or leaning in that direction. These readers include parents of adult children, relatives and friends who are parents. They have written how following the lives of the women in the study helped them have a better understanding of and relationship with their childfree loved ones, as well as those who currently feel ambivalent.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Readers&#8217; reactions and their forthcoming stories have been very informative and moving. The study and its invaluable group of twenty-five women who committed to it have given many readers a larger, deeper understanding of the childfree life, the evolution of women&#8217;s identities, and how to navigate living fully, inside and out, over time.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Thank you to all readers, and keep the communications coming!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/25-over-10/">Ruminations on Reactions to the Childfree Longitudinal Study, 25 Over 10</a> appeared first on <a href="https://lauracarroll.com">Laura Carroll</a>.</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>On July 30 and 31st, Childfree Media presented a two-day Virtual Childfree Convention. Run by Cody Hetzel, LeNora Faye and Jared Hansen, it had a wide array of topics! I was delighted to be part of a panel session with Cody, LeNora and Nandita Bajaj, the Executive Director of Population Balance to discuss the topic: [&#8230;]</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On July 30 and 31st, Childfree Media presented a two-day Virtual <a href="https://childfreeconvention.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Childfree Convention</a>. Run by Cody Hetzel, LeNora Faye and Jared Hansen, it had a wide array of topics! I was delighted to be part of a panel session with Cody, LeNora and Nandita Bajaj, the Executive Director of <a href="https://www.populationbalance.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Population Balance</a> to discuss the topic: <a href="https://lauracarroll.com/?s=pronatalism" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Pronatalism</a>. We talked about why it is important for childfree people to understand and help chip away at pronatalism and more! Check it out beginning at about 4:32:30 below!</p>



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