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sleeping on the cart

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 10:33:00 +0000

Image555
Originally uploaded by zulkef97

my last daughter is sleeping on the cart while we are shopping in Tesco, Melaka Malaysia..
We love to shop here because we can find our fav product easily and comfort.. Look she can even sleep on the cart soundly

Run Your Car on Water

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 15:20:00 +0000

I'm responding to Tun Mahathir's comment on Oil Price hike as written on his blog. The link is stated below.

Dr Mahathir Mohamad: Oil Price

Dear Tun, and fellow Malaysians

Why don't we use Water as a replacement for Fuel.
There are several system available and has been proven to work. Take a look at this review.
http://simurl.com/WaterFuelReview

I believe this is a cheaper alternative than NGV. And we never know, one day Pak Lah will just increase the price of NGV without warning, and without discussing it first with our elected representatives. (why Pak Lah why?)

I hope the guy who cried all night( I was touched and my wife cried reading his comment) with his family & intend to quit his study can stay on and use this water for fuel technology and avoid quitting.

Check it out here http://simurl.com/WaterFuelReview

Looks simple and can be plugged in our car easily.

Fill up quickly. many people waiting in line behind you! :)

Something to watch with the kids

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 07:48:00 +0000

The Kungfu Panda animation movie. They'll be thrilled. :)

Kung Fu Panda - Trailer

Example of a successfull Malay Muslim Oversea!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 00:14:00 +0000

Imam Sabri is popular in Australia

Utusan Malaysia Online - Bicara Agama

You have to add values to wherever you go. Like the Malay Idiom, " Benih yang baik di campak ke laut menjadi pulau" - " A good seed will grow to be a n island if you throw it into the sea"err something like that. I'm not too sure myself..:) Imam Sabri is a good role model.

In youtube, if you search for "melayu" many X rated clips are shown. Maybe there's what the user upload to youtube and it usually has a big viewing number. anyway here is one video from youtube below. I got this using the scribefire youtube search engine.

It's a different pictures of a few malay girls put together and a nice song added to it. Look at these beautiful girls being portrayed there. I'm not too sure if all of them are malay, one must have mixed blood. But all are pretty nonetheless..

Anyway I was watching Oprah last night and something caught my attention. Girls should be educated by the education system because then only will they educate their children. It think that's are absolutely true and the only way for 3rd world country to move forward is to educate their women, and let the women contribute to the development of their country. :)

My sis-in-law son.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 03 May 2008 20:21:00 +0000

Image511
Originally uploaded by zulkef97

another try to put flickr photo on my blog.

Testing: Use a picture with CC from Flickr

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 03 May 2008 20:17:00 +0000

dinner - a Boca burger on low-carb bread with fat-free cheese and fat-free mayo, veggies on side
Originally uploaded by size8jeans

How does it look like on my blog?

Everyday we tried and we learned something new eh? :)

The caption dy size8jeans:
dinner - a Boca burger on low-carb bread with fat-free cheese and fat-free mayo, veggies on side

Tips for Saving Money.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 03 Nov 2007 00:08:00 +0000

I was involved in patrolling my neighborhood from 3am-5am today(28 October 2007). So I do feel a bit sleepy in the morning. However I met a sparkling interesting guy by the name of Ah Chai who is our new partner. This is because our previous group leader was too scared( his own words) to walk alone after our shift finishes.

He’s 40 something successful businessman and we had discussions on our life, managing families, and the economics.

We discusses and He said do not believe too much on Feng Shui( I didn’t believe a bit - but you readers may do). He had to believe some of it because his friend who practiced feng shui helped him out.

In addition buy smaller cc cars with good mileage. This is because of the escalating prices of fuel. I read today that the government will think of some power generations including nuclear due to this never ending need for that expensive black fuel.

Don’t portray yourself as having too much money because it attracts the thief or house breaker. Be humble and lay low. We work real hard for our money and when he move to a better neighborhood the thieves just want to take that away thinking that we have a lot of money.

That’s all I can think off for now. To be continued.

They Sang the Song "Dewi" from the Group "Dewa" in my Avanza.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 17:44:00 +0000

This RAya or Eid, was very special because we have our long lost relatives back from Sabah and join us for the celebration. So My parents in law get 3 grandchildren extra at one go.

Anyway this is one of the occasion where I'm driving them around to go to relatives house to visits and have fun and enjoy the food. They sang so loud, They jump so wild, and they make me laugh. I love 'em all.

Pictures during Hari Raya

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 23 Oct 2007 07:05:00 +0000

Pictures during Hari Raya
Originally uploaded by zulkef97

We went to a lot of places to visit relatives. Here are some of the pictures.

Baby Sitting Services

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 22 Jun 2007 18:47:00 +0000

I used to have a maid. Well I had two of them previously. Then, they had some problem back home and they went back. Now I really have a tough time whenever myself or my wife has to go outstation just the two of us enjoying some time at the movie or dinner. I wish Malaysia have something like this baby sitting service in USA. it'll be a great service. Which entrepreneur will take up this challenge?

Trying out New Clothes

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 09 Jun 2007 17:26:00 +0000

try out new cloth

Here are my kids at one departmenatl-cum-warehouse outlet. They are trying out for new clothes fro last Hari Raya or Eidul Fitri. I think we were fasting at that time but I'm not too sure. :)

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My son hard at work!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Sat, 09 Jun 2007 17:21:00 +0000

My son Ba-e studying hard.

He has a test or something that day! My wife suspected that Ba-e has Dyslexic. Well he's a very active, hyperactive I would say and he has problems remembering the alphabets. We are looking for ways to help him our so that he won't feel left out in school.

My wife being agood researcher, did some research and found our that many famous, intellectuals are also Dyslexic, so there's future for Ba-e. I'll touch on that later.

technorati tags:Dyslexic, Study, Son, Syle, Attitude

Jendela Hikmah: Ilmu keibubapaan jamin tarbiah anak

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 19 Mar 2007 01:17:00 +0000

From Berita Harian http://www.bharian.com.my/m/BHarian/Friday/Agama/20070315233211/Article/

The need to always improve our knowledge about our parenting!

Oleh Rosnah Ahmad

Perkongsian pintar penting dalam merealisasikan matlamat pendidikan keluarga

DIDIKAN TERBAIK: Ibu bapa berperanan dalam mendidik masa depan

anak dari segi akhlak untuk melahirkan individu yang salih.

BELAJAR rajin-rajin, abah tak ada harta dan ilmu adalah harta paling berharga yang abah boleh tinggalkan kepada anak.

Begitulah ungkapan yang sering dilafazkan oleh ayah ketika kecil dan ia
adalah motivasi paling berkesan kepada diri saya hingga ke hari ini,
terutama selepas mempunyai anak sendiri.

Abah dan arwah emak
dalam kepayahan hidup sentiasa berkorban dan berusaha untuk mendidik
kami adik beradik. Pilu mengingatkan bagaimana abah yang hanya
berpendapatan kecil, berkebun dan memancing selepas pulang kerja demi
menampung perbelanjaan harian dan arwah ibu bangun seawal jam 3 pagi
untuk membuat kuih untuk dijual, di samping mengambil tempahan menjahit
baju.

Rumah kami dulu juga tidak ada banyak perabot dan
perkakas, yang ada hanya keperluan asas. Abah sering mengingatkan arwah
emak supaya tidak membazir duit dan sentiasa mendahulukan pendidikan
anak.

Pengorbanan dan semangat tinggi ditunjukkan ibu bapa
saya mungkin juga dapat dirasai oleh pembaca dan kita mesti sentiasa
menghargai jasa ibu bapa kita. Siapalah kita tanpa pengorbanan besar
mereka.

Konsep pengorbanan diajar kepada kita dalam al-Quran
antaranya kisah Nabi Ibrahim a.s dan Siti Hajar sebagai ibu bapa serta
Nabi Ismail a.s sebagai anak yang patuh dan taat kepada Allah.

Setiap ibu bapa harus bersikap gembira apabila mendapat rezeki berupa
anak. Allah menceritakan di dalam al-Quran bagaimana Nabi Ibrahim a.s
apabila diberi khabar oleh malaikat bahawa Allah akan mengurniakan
seorang anak lelaki, lalu Nabi Ibrahim a.s menyatakan kegembiraannya
dengan mengucapkan selamat sejahtera seperti firman Allah dalam
al-Quran yang maksudnya: “Dan sesungguhnya telah datang utusan-utusan
Kami kepada Ibrahim dengan membawa khabar gembira, sambil mereka
berkata: “Selamatlah! Dia menjawab, “Selamat! (Surah Hud, ayat 69)

Kegembiraan ini mestilah disyukuri dengan menyiapkan diri dan berusaha
untuk menjadi ibu bapa berjaya mendidik anak yang taat dan mendapat
keredaan Allah SWT. Tugas ini bukan suatu yang mudah dan ia menuntut
pengorbanan besar.

“Setiap anak dilahirkan secara fitrah,
kedua ibu bapanya yang menjadikannya Yahudi, Nasrani atau Majusi.” (
Hadis Riwayat Bukhari dan Muslim)

Antara pengorbanan yang
perlu sentiasa dilakukan ibu bapa adalah sentiasa menimba ilmu
keibubapaan tidak kira pada peringkat mana umur anak.

Ilmu
sangat penting demi menjamin tarbiah anak dan kesejahteraan keluarga.
Ilmu dapat membantu ibu bapa untuk lebih peka kepada tahap dan kaedah
yang paling berkesan dalam pendidikan dan menangani masalah anak.

Mendalami ilmu memerlukan pengorbanan masa, tenaga dan wang ringgit yang bukan sedikit.

Sejak dari dalam kandungan seorang ibu bapa juga perlu banyak berkorban
dengan menjaga akhlak dan ibu mendapat makanan berkhasiat serta
sentiasa berdoa kepada Allah supaya anak dikandung sihat dan menjadi
anak yang salih.

Anak dalam kandungan hendaklah dibacakan
dengan ayat suci al-Quran supaya anak sentiasa mendengar kalimah Allah
sejak dari kandungan lagi.

Proses kelahiran dan menyusukan
adalah pengorbanan yang tidak terhingga seorang ibu. Ibu bapa
berkewajipan memenuhi keperluan anak baik berupa kebendaan mahupun
kerohanian.

Ibu bapa tidak boleh mengabaikan tanggungjawab ini.
Dalam hal ini Rasulullah SAW bersabda yang bermaksud: “Seseorang telah
cukup dikatakan berbuat dosa, apabila mensia-siakan orang-orang yang
menjadi tanggungan makan minumnya.” (Riwayat Abu Daud)

Hari
ini selain daripada bapa, ramai ibu yang keluar bekerja demi memenuhi
tuntutan ini. Bukan sedikit pengorbanan yang perlu kita lakukan ketika
berusaha bekerja dan memastikan rezeki dicari adalah halal.

Dalam kesibukan mencari rezeki, ibu bapa tidak boleh memberi alasan membiarkan saja pendidikan agama/rohani anak.

Institusi sokongan seperti pusat asuhan kanak-kanak (taska), pusat
jagaan harian, taman didikan kanak-kanak (tadika), sekolah, pusat
pengajian al-Quran dan fardu ain adalah perkongsian pintar dalam
merealisasikan matlamat pendidikan anak.

Ibu bapa perlu bijak
memilih institusi untuk menghantar anak mereka. Pilihlah institusi yang
menitikberatkan agama dan terutama solat kerana cara paling tepat
mendidik anak mengenal Allah ialah dengan melatih mereka untuk
mengerjakan solat.

Memandangkan betapa pentingnya solat
sebagai jalan untuk menjadikan manusia tunduk kepada Allah, maka Nabi
Ibrahim a.s memohon kepada Allah agar dirinya dan keturunannya
dijadikan sebagai orang yang tetap menegakkan solat seperti firman
Allah yang maksudnya: “Wahai tuhanku, jadikanlah aku orang yang
mendirikan solat dan (begitu juga) anak cucuku, wahai tuhan kami,
terimalah doaku.” (Surah Ibrahim, ayat 40)

Begitu juga
Luqman, salah satu wasiat kepada anaknya seperti disebut dalam al-Quran
yang maksudnya: “Hai anakku, dirikanlah solat.” ( Surah Luqman, ayat 17)

Dengan ini sewajarnya ibu bapa menjadikan solat sebagai pilihan utama
untuk mendidik anak beraqidah tauhid. Mereka mesti terlebih dulu
mendirikan solat dan sentiasa berbincang dan meneruskan kesinambungan
pentarbiahan anak di rumah dan tidak menyerahkan tugas ini seratus
peratus kepada pengasuh atau guru sahaja.

Anak hendaklah
dibelai dengan penuh kasih sayang. Untuk tujuan ini ibu bapa mesti
terlebih dulu sentiasa membaiki akhlak diri supaya anak sentiasa
dilihat dengan pekerti mulia dan insya-Allah terdorong untuk mencontohi
ibu bapa mereka.

Hadis yang maksudnya: “Allah memberi rahmat kepada ayah yang membantu anaknya untuk berbakti kepada-Nya.” ( Riwayat Abu Saikh)

Dalam hal ini Allah memberi petunjuk supaya ibu bapa tidak mudah marah
dan hendaklah gemar memaafkan kekeliruan anaknya seperti firmannya yang
bermaksud: “Dan orang-orang yang menahan marah serta memaafkan orang
lain dan Allah mencintai orang-orang yang berlaku baik.” ( Surah Al-
Imran, ayat 134)

Proses pentarbiahan anak mengambil masa yang
panjang dan ia sudah tentu menuntut ibu bapa untuk istiqamah dalam apa
juga bentuk pengorbanan dilakukan di samping terus berdoa untuk
kesejahteraan anak.

“Wahai tuhan kami, anugerahkanlah kepada
kami dari isteri-isteri dan keturunan kami perkara-perkara yang
menyenangkan hati melihatnya, dan jadikanlah kami imam bagi orang-orang
yang bertaqwa.,” (Surah Al- Furqan, ayat 74)

Setiap pengorbanan
juga menuntut kita supaya melakukan perubahan bermula dengan diri kita
sendiri setiap hari. Sebagai ibu bapa kita mesti sentiasa berusaha
menjadi contoh kepada anak kita dan ia kunci kejayaan dalam melahirkan
anak yang salih wal musleh.

Penulis adalah seorang pengusaha Taska dan Tadika. Boleh dihubungi di emel wanitajim0@yahoo.com

Bahaya makanan segera -- 200 jenis produk digemari jadi punca pelbagai penyakit

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 21 Feb 2007 03:03:00 +0000

Utusan Malaysia Online - Muka Hadapan

gula2, burger, mi segera, minuman bergas, dan coklat.

well nana, family kita kalau ke Giant or Tesco or Jusco or Carrefour akan membeli almost all of this. Walau kita tak minum coke or pepsi dgn byk kita masih beli teh crysanthenum. selalu juga makan maggi. urger + ayam goreng sejuk beku juga selalu kita makan. coklat apa tu yang kita beli...hmmm yang satu balang besar tu.

takpela sambil kita min PS2 dan tgk ASTRO nanti kita exercise dgn stationery bike. Di rumah baru kita banyakkan makan buah2 & sayur2an. kita kena tanam hydrophonik kut ek di belakang rumah tu..:)

TIPS FOR THE SAFETY OF KIDS

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 26 Jan 2007 04:20:00 +0000

To be a parent, you must be fully equipped! :)

What we should do?

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1, Always keep the baby neat and clean.

2, Cut the nails properly with utmost care.

3, Wet nappy should be removed and parts should be cleaned with soap.

4, Take care of the genitals because fungal infection is common in that area. Parts should be kept dry.

5,Care of the scalp is very important.Fungal infections, dermatitis etc can be prevented by proper cleaning.

6,Tight dress can cause irritation, hence dress should be loose and should allow entry of air.

7,Room should have sufficient light and ventilation.It should be free from dust and insects.

8,Separate bed preferably water proof is needed for kids .It should be arranged near mother's bed.

9, Always keep some music making toys near the baby.

10, While carrying the baby support the head with hand.Since the neck muscles are weak sudden fall of head can be dangerous.

11, Mothers milk is the best nutrition for the baby,it also gives emotional attachment.Breast milk should be given as per the babies need preferably in mother sitting position.Proper cleaning of nipple is also necessary.Mother should take good nutritious diet throughout lactating period.

12, If there is some contraindication for breast feeding cows milk can be given.Feeding bottle should be cleaned with warm water and should be kept dry till next use.

13, Cows milk should be boiled and cooled.Some diseases like bovine tuberculosis,brucellosis ect spread through raw milk.

14, Some children are allergic to some substances like food,milk,dress,cosmetics etc.. Try to find out the material causing allergy and avoid such things.

15, Mosquito nets should be used regularly.Diseases like malaria,dengue ,filariasis,yellow fever and etc spread through mosquito bites. Mosquito bite can also produce skin eruptions with some allergic reactions.It also disturbs sound sleep.

16, A calm atmosphere should be maintained for a good sleep.Compared to adults infants need more sleep.It is said that growth hormone secretion is activated during sleep.

17, Growth development,behavioral development,motor development,personal social development,language development etc should be noted down in relation to age. However parents need not be over anxious because slight variations are seen from individual to individual.

18,Assessment of growth by measuring height and weight is necessary.

19, In the early months of life infant may defecate after every feed.Proper toilet training should be given when the infant grows.The infant can be placed on the toilet seat by the age of ten months.

20, The toilet seat (potty seat) should be cleaned with antiseptic liquid before and after use.It should not be shared by other children.

21, If the baby shows some signs of distress like excessive crying,convulsions,fever with rigor,stiffness of neck,frequent vomiting and diarrhea,bluish discoloration of the body,difficult breathing with grunting, ect pay attention and consult your doctor.

22,A first aid box should be kept in the room ,which should contain sterile cotton,dressing materials,antiseptic lotion and ointment and forceps.Separate book should be maintained to note down the phone numbers of doctors, ambulance,police etc.

23,Child's medicines should be kept in separate box.Information regarding dose and mode of administration should be written in a paper and affixed on the box.

24, while driving keep the baby in separate seat belt.

25, When you are going out with the baby keep an identity card with your phone number and address inside his small pocket.

26, When the infant starts walking always accompany him to prevent a fall and injuries thereby.

27, In emergencies take the first aid measures and take the victim to nearby hospital.

Choking :--The baby may swallow some solid objects and cause obstruction. Immediately make the baby to lie on the abdomen in head low position and press the abdomen backwards and towards the chest. Stroking the upper back is also useful. If no result call a trained person to take the material with the help of forceps.

Accidental poisoning:-- Try to takeout the poisonous substance and induce vomiting (except kerosene acids). Wash the body with water to reduce absorption through skin.Identify the poison and take the victim to the hospital.

Burns:--First of all remove the source of heat and put clean cold water.Burned cloths should not be removed immediately. Cover the wound with sterile cotton and take to nearby hospital.

Wounds :--Clean the wound with clean water and stop the bleeding by compressing,raising the wound above the level of heart or use a tourniquet to compress blood vessels. Then dress the wound with sterile cotton and bandage and consult a doctor.

Drowning in bath tub:--Take the baby immediately and keep in head low position ,press the abdomen gently or give a mouth to mouth sucking till the air way is clear. Give mouth to mouth breathing and cardiac massage and take the victim to the hospital.

Electric shock:--Stop the source of current. Then observe the victim,if no breathing give mouth to mouth breath along with cardiac massage and take to the hospital.

28, And the last but not the least, give your child maximum care, love and support to make him healthy and happy for ever.

What we should not do?

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1, Never shake the baby, it can cause damage to the brain.

2,Don't keep any small articles near the baby .

3,Sharp pointed articles like pen, pencil, etc should not be given to kids.

4,Avoid entry of water in to the ear while giving a bath.

5,Food should not be given forcibly when the baby is crying or coughing continuously.

6,Should not overfeed the baby.

7,Articles like mosquito repellents ,moth balls,ink,gum,medicines,etc should be kept away.

8,Avoid tight clothings.

9,Should not be placed near the edge of the bed.

10,Should not give the baby to strangers and avoid close contact with others.

11,All electrical instruments should be kept away,and bed should not be arranged near electrical sockets and wires.

12,Kitchen is a dangerous place for children.Don't keep them alone in the kitchen.

13,Water level in the bath tub should be minimum and don't go for any other works(to attend phone call or calling bell etc) when the baby is in the tub.

14,Avoid smoking inside the house.

15,Should not allow pet animals to be in very close contact with the kids.(anti rabies injections should be given to pets and cut their nails properly)

16,When the child starts walking should not be kept alone on the upstairs and should not allow them to climb the steps.

17,Strong light should be avoided in the room.

18,When you are traveling don't give the food articles given by co passengers.

19,Baby should not be allowed to crawl on the soil.

20,If you are sick or someone else is sick be away from the kids.

21,Don't take the baby to hospital wards,crowded market places and polluted dusty areas.

22,Table lamp should not be kept near the kids,this will attract insects at night and cause problems.

23,Others medicine should not be given to the children.

24,Medicine which has crossed the expiry date should not be used.

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The Death of Internet Marketing- The changing times, and YOU must know it.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 15 Nov 2006 01:59:00 +0000

Hi Again...

Zulkef here..

I just got an email about Mike Filsaime's Free Report called - "The Death of Internet Marketing"

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...Turns out I was wrong. Way wrong.

The bottom line is, this report really opened my eyes to what really is the death of Internet marketing. The good news is, the report also shows you what you need to know to succeed in the near future.

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Success and self-confidence

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 03 Nov 2006 08:56:00 +0000

When you want to make sure that you are doing the best in life, you have to make sure that you are fully confident in yourself. You need to find the ways that you can make your life better with the highest amount of self-confidence. There is no need to feel bad about whom you are because this will only make your life depressing and sad.

Many people that have low self-confidence are not happy. They may have a fake exterior when they are in the company of others because they do not want others to know how they are truly feeling inside. It may be hard for them to let others see that they are not happy and that they are having trouble with their self-confidence.

Many times when people want to do something with their life they will have to have the right amount of self-confidence. When they are short of having the self-confidence that is necessary, they may find that success is not something that they have in their life. Having confidence and success are two things that need to go together in life.

Getting to have the success that you want and need is important. This is so because you need to be happy and successful in life to make the most of our life. We have to find something that we like to do and feel good doing. When we have these things, we will find it a lot easy to make the most of what life has to offer us. Having the self-confidence to do well is important because you will have the will power to go after dreams and goals in life.

When you have self-confidence, you will want to show it off. This will make you more productive and more anxious to meet new people and do better. You will have a higher rate of success and more fun getting there at the same time. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have more and going after it. With the right amount of self-confidence, you will have success and get to where you want to be in life.

This is true for success in life with everything. You will want to have great self-confidence no matter if you are at work or play. When you have self-confidence, you will have more success at work and in many relationships that you are in. You will find more happiness and have more goals to meet for yourself in both areas. You have a better time meeting your needs and wants in life and find that you can have it all just by getting your self-confidence back.

Where's the male species?

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 27 Sep 2006 06:04:00 +0000

Currently the universities are dominated by female & this has worried even the highest rank of ministries. The question is where is the male? They are not interested in school, become dropouts and some even take up drugs and become petty criminal or become ‘mayat-hidup’ (living corpses) read useless. What happen to the male especially the teenagers? One Prof, Prof Zahari from UM, our visiting Prof, told us that his son was also confused/undecided/unsure on the need to further his education. It seems they can’t see the future in higher education, being someone, contributing back. Maybe the fun culture-just have fun everyday, have some effects to them. The son of a professor feels that way, what about the son of a regular Joe? What do you think? Comments are welcome.

No more eating 'hidang' style. Must use Buffet!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 27 Sep 2006 06:03:00 +0000

This is the aftermath of our recent kenduri. My parents-in-law have decided that they used the regular 'hidang' style as oppose to buffet style. It was a big mess, a big headache & I'll never want to do kenduri this style again. Buffet is in order. Forever Buffet. Buffet Rules!

Me & Hambali, among the Excellence Recepient Award Of KUTKM for 2005

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 27 Sep 2006 05:58:00 +0000

I was recently awarded the Staf Excellence Recepient Award translated to Anugerah Khidmat Cemerlang in KUTKM, my workplace. Hambali is my colleague. We've been working from 2001 here & KUTKM sponsored our Master & in we're honoured to be given this Award in 2005. Long Live KUTKM.

My son's trouble with his peers & teacher!

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Wed, 27 Sep 2006 05:13:00 +0000

My son’s teacher is complaining that my son is a bit slow, a dreamer, not focused, doing his own thing, and can’t catch up with the other kids. I & my wife try to understand the situation. We read somewhere that male at their young age tend to be less smart than the female. I think it’s true with our 3 daughters, 3G (3 girls) as I called them. My young daughter of 4, looks much smarter than his brother age 6. But my eldest daughter of 7 years old is the smartest of 'em all. A friend of mine, Shahir has a son, and looks like he’s a bit slow too in term of speech development. I don’t remember her age maybe 4, like my daughter. Shahir presume that this is because his son is alone for quite sometime without any siblings (only recently that he get another daughter). I think being male & also without any siblings do make the male kids a bit slow in development. I was happy though that men do catch up as early as 17 or 18. A survey by the controversial, what his name Prof from University of Western Ontario (hey …I graduated here), states that men’s IQ are about 4 units more than women at that age. He further states that the fact that women don’t really move forward in their career is because of this fact. Previous study shows that we are almost equal in term of IQ although male & female differ but we do score almost the same at the end.

3G - Guling2, Geletek & Gusti with the Kids

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Tue, 12 Sep 2006 04:49:00 +0000

Sapa yang busy pun kena jogging ni, untuk kesihatan. Mlm kang boleh sambung kerja...errr tapi kalau yang keluarganya ada bersama dgn anak kecik2 mlm sure tak boleh sambung kerja punya.
OBJ-'org bini jauh' mungkin boleh sambung kerja malam, atau org yang anak2nya dah besar dan tak nak lagi guling2, geletek2 & gusti (3G) dgn parentnya lagi.
Anyway, just to share, I baca latest readers' digest- comedy issue. Laughing is good. Belly laughing for a few minutes seakan2 bersenam beberapa puluh minit. Belly laughing saya tak pasti macam mana, perut ada goyang kut, Hassan sure tau...hehe. Last sekali belly laughing sambil guling2 geletek
anak2 adalah very good to your health according to that study.
So kalau ada anak, do this often, sambil eratkan hubungan family. Family first kan... kalau takde anak, usik bini pun ok. Kalau takde bini, mungkin geletek kawan2 atau geletek la diri sendiri. Harap anda tersenyum baca...:)

p/s: OBJ je yang kesian, Ramai dah ni OBJ di FKP, boleh buat kelab. Bos boleh jadi presiden....:)
All the best!
Zulkeflee Abdullah
FKP,KUTKM
-----Original Message-----
From: SAMSI BIN MD SAID
Sent: 11 September 2006 18:33
To: Kumpulan Akademik FKP
Subject: jogging 6.40
Jom jogging 6 - to 6.30 petang bagi sape yg tak busy kat hutan lipur air keroh tq
Kolej Universiti Teknikal Kebangsaan Malaysia, Karung Berkunci 1200, Ayer Keroh, 75450 Melaka, Malaysia.

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Mon, 04 Sep 2006 04:39:00 +0000

Innova's tag line is something about for Royal or it'll treat you like royalty. I can agree with that , especially with the big space and 2.0 engine, with VVTI, it'll make you feel like royal.

However I opt for it's little brother, Avanza. It's 1.3 VVTI. It makes more economic sense. If my wife's internet biz explode, maybe I'll change to Innova. It's always good to have good money management.

NGV Community Forum - to save on petrol

noreply@blogger.com (Unknown) — Fri, 25 Aug 2006 03:33:00 +0000

NGV Community Forum

Honeyyy...let's save some moneyyy...:)

There's a section for newbies & advanced users. Our Friend Hadzley have been using it for 1 month ++, and he was extremely satisfied with the mileage. However there's a problem with pick-up. He use 1.6 Ford, and he hardly overtake a lorry on teh highway. But as you know lorry in Malaysia has the same speed limit like any othe rvehicles, and they drive pretty fast too.

You can check out the forum & learn more. I'm thinking of adding NGV to my old (but still beautiful..ehem) Saga 1.5.
He only need RM4 from Melaka to UPM. it's a pretty darn good deal. However the initial cost is RM3000 new & RM1500 used. So have to theink abt the ROI.