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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" gd:etag="W/&quot;C0UCQHY4eCp7ImA9WxNUGUo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070</id><updated>2009-11-11T14:27:41.830-06:00</updated><title>Fannie's Room</title><subtitle type="html" /><link rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/" /><link rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><link rel="next" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25&amp;redirect=false&amp;v=2" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>679</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><link rel="self" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/FanniesRoom" type="application/atom+xml" /><feedburner:emailServiceId xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0">FanniesRoom</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0">http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com" /><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;C0UCQHY_eSp7ImA9WxNUGUo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-3689975218713374977</id><published>2009-11-11T09:30:00.003-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-11T14:27:41.841-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-11T14:27:41.841-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Spirituality" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Race" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogs I Like" /><title>Stuff Progressive Anti-Racist White Guys Do: Erase Sex/Gender</title><content type="html">We have seen &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2008/10/voting-with-little-hood.html"&gt;before&lt;/a&gt; how white male anti-racist writers have a tendency to erase issues of sex and gender from their critiques of society.  For as much insight as some progressives, liberals, and anti-racist folks have with respect to race, some people have remarkably little insight when it comes to their own blind spots with respect to sex, gender, and other privileges.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all have our blind spots, to be sure.  I certainly do.  The trouble with blind spots is that, by definition, we can't see them.  And so, I write this post with all due respect to macon d. and his &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://stuffwhitepeopledo.blogspot.com/"&gt;stuff white people do&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; blog.  He's often spot on in his posts.  Importantly, he's a white guy thinking about race in a thoughtful, non-hyper-defensive way.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, generally, the biggest blind spot that some anti-racist (and liberal and progressive and leftist) white guys have is that they collapse the white female experience and the white male experience together as though the two are sufficiently similar enough to be presented as the experience of White Personhood.  I know that all of the various "Stuff [insert group] Do/Like" blogs are not truly intended to represent the experiences of all those who belong to the relevant identity group.  Yet, unless they are &lt;a href="http://gracethespot.com/?cat=73"&gt;obviously cheeky and fun&lt;/a&gt;, there is a real danger in coming off as though one is deigning to represent &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;the&lt;/span&gt; [Insert Identity] Experience.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, while I generally appreciate macon d's &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;stuff white people do&lt;/span&gt; blog, I was disappointed in the way that &lt;a href="http://stuffwhitepeopledo.blogspot.com/2009/04/recreate-jesus-in-their-own-image.html"&gt;his post regarding how one of the things white people do is "recreate jesus in their own image"&lt;/a&gt; so blatantly ignored gender.  I think we need to be very clear about in who's image white "people" have created Jesus because this supposed representative of god certainly was not created in the image of all of us white people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here, I should be clear about something.  Assuming for the sake of argument that Jesus existed as a historical figure, I am not disputing that he was a man, as opposed to a woman.  Where I take issue with Christianity, and one large reason as to why I am not a Christian, is that I do not believe that the historical Jesus was imbued with divinity (at least as Christianity conceives it).  In fact, I think one of the greatest failing of Christianity is that it has gendered God Incarnate, as represented by Jesus, as a white male.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Given the degree to which &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2008/05/book-review-feminism-religion.html"&gt;male-centrism&lt;/a&gt; is built into Christianity (and Judaism and Islam), erasing gender from a critique of the creation of white Jesus does a real disservice to the alienation that so many women and girls experience because of god and "God Incarnate's" alleged white maleness.  So, with respect to white people re-creating "jesus in their own image," I'm not sure that white women had all that much to do with the re-creation or that they benefit from it to the extent that white men do.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My criticism here is not a petty one and I don't write this to "let white women off the hook," as it were.  Rather, the gendering of god/Jesus as male is, &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/07/still-seeking-genderless-god.html"&gt;I believe, one of the greatest purveyors of male privilege and sexism in the world.&lt;/a&gt;  Yes.  &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;In the world.&lt;/span&gt;  What a &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2008/12/book-review-when-god-was-woman.html"&gt;sense of entitlement white men and boys must learn at such an early age to know that, not only the greatest being in the sky looks just like them, but so does his incarnate son.  And, because men have gendered god and god incarnate as male, Christianity tells us that it was men who were created in god's image and that it was women who came from men, rather than what we know to be the biological truth.&lt;/a&gt;  It is yet another way we learn that white men are the standard human being and everyone else is an aberration from that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As the links within macon's post rightly note, we do most certainly learn from the white Jesus that white is good and non-white is not good.  But to build on that, we also learn from white &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;male&lt;/span&gt; Jesus that maleness is good and not maleness is not good.  In fact, from various sects of Christianity, we learn that the maleness of Jesus was so integral to his identity that it precludes women from being priests.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In short, men and women do not- indeed cannot- experience Christianity in the same way.  What has been to white men a great privilege- the white maleness of Jesus- is to women an oppressive force.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-3689975218713374977?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/3689975218713374977/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=3689975218713374977&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/3689975218713374977?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/3689975218713374977?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/stuff-progressive-anti-racist-white.html" title="Stuff Progressive Anti-Racist White Guys Do: Erase Sex/Gender" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;A0MMSX4-eCp7ImA9WxNUGEo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-8196975697020164550</id><published>2009-11-10T09:30:00.002-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-10T12:58:08.050-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-10T12:58:08.050-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Asinine for Attention?" /><title>My "Marriage Defense" Referendum</title><content type="html">I have decided to initiate a new "marriage defense" referendum that will piggyback off of California nad Maine's referenudms that de-legalized same-sex marriage.  My referendum will be nationwide in scope and will prohibit reality television shows that center around two heterosexual parents and their children.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My reasons are simple:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1.  First and foremost, the way that heterosexuals parade their sex lives in everyone's faces for fame and money is disgusting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't care what people do in their private bedrooms, but I for one am sick of heterosexuals flaunting their sexualities in public.  An innocent shopper can't even make it through a grocery store line without, on the cover of virtually every gossip rag, seeing those &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jon_&amp;_Kate_Plus_8"&gt;8 little reminders of the fact that Jon humped Kate&lt;/a&gt;.  Whilst flipping through the channel menu on the television, one cannot but be reminded of the fact that &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/18_Kids_and_Counting"&gt;Mr. and Mrs. Jim Bob Duggar have had sex at least 18 times (and counting).&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is a concept called "too much information."  Fame-seeking families and television producers should become familiar with it, instead of coming up with cutesy hyper-sexualized names for in-your-face television shows revolving around the sexualities of heterosexual couples and their litters.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2.  When reality television parents break up, which they almost inevitably do, it severs the link between procreation and marriage.  Americans everywhere learn that marriage is not about having and raising children, &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Colorado_balloon_incident"&gt;it's about how to best market one's family for purposes of reality television opportunities.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We must defend marriage, and indeed all of society, from the dangers posted to it by unscripted television programming.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please, won't somebody think of the children?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-8196975697020164550?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/8196975697020164550/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=8196975697020164550&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/8196975697020164550?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/8196975697020164550?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/my-marriage-defense-referendum.html" title="My &quot;Marriage Defense&quot; Referendum" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkEEQX06eSp7ImA9WxNUF0U.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-6796118779334086394</id><published>2009-11-09T09:30:00.011-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T09:30:00.311-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-09T09:30:00.311-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blawgs" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="I See Gay People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Oogedy Boogedy" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Identity" /><title>Obama Signs Hate Crimes Act: Anti-gays Hyperventilate, Crimes Against Ladies Ignored</title><content type="html">In October 2009, President Obama &lt;a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/10/28/hate.crimes/index.html"&gt;signed the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr. Hate Crimes Prevention Act&lt;/a&gt; that expands federal hate crime law to include crimes motivated by a person's actual or perceived gender, sexual orientation, gender identity, or disability.  The previous law permitted prosecution of hate crimes committed on the basis of a person's &lt;a href="http://www.justice.gov/crt/crim/245.php"&gt;race, color, religion, or national origin.&lt;/a&gt;  Effectively, this meant that &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/05/fred-phelps-is-protected-under-current.html"&gt;Fred Phelps, his church of God Hates Fags, and every other anti-gay Persecuted Christian in the US was protected under federal hate crimes laws whilst the targets of their animus, LGBT people, were not.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Among other specifics, the new law also requires the FBI to track statistics on hate crimes against transgender people.  Prior to this law, the &lt;a href="http://www.fbi.gov/ucr/hc2007/table_01.htm"&gt;FBI tracked only statistics of hate crimes committed based on a persons's race, religion, sexual orientation, ethnicity, and disability.&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You may remember this legislation as anti-gays &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/05/professional-anti-gays-insult-our.html"&gt;notoriously warned that expanding hate crimes laws to include "sexual orientation" would protect pedophiles and other sexual deviants.&lt;/a&gt;  Their various fear-mongering claims were ridiculous, of course.  However, Ed Brayton, who is "no big fan" of the new law (for other reasons), &lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/dispatches/2009/10/betting_with_barber.php"&gt;has made a wager with Matt Barber, who has breathlessly reported that Christians are now on "high alert" because of the law.&lt;/a&gt;  Writes Ed:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"I am willing to bet that not a single minister will be convicted in this country under the hate crimes legislation for preaching against homosexuality. And since we can't have such bet be open-ended, here are my proposed terms. We start with $100 for the first year. At the end of the first year, if someone has been convicted of such a 'crime' I'll pay up. If not, you can either up or go double or nothing on the second year.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Every year that goes by without such a conviction, the amount of the bet doubles. You can bail out at any time, admit that you were wrong and pay the accumulated money owed. And if, at any time, someone is convicted merely of speaking out against homosexuality in this country, I pay up whatever amount of money is currently on the line based on the above formula. At the end of ten years, the loser pays up and the bet is concluded."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The fun part about pro-LGBT laws going into effect is that we can measure what actually happens against what the anti-gay crowd said would happen.  I suspect they are going to end up looking as foolish as all of those many other historical purveyors of Great Harm myths. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In addition, while I have my doubts about the effectiveness of hate crimes laws in actually preventing hate crimes, I think it is important that gender is included.  We, meaning feminists, have been saying for many many years, and in various different ways, that we &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/08/not-so-breaking-news-some-dudez-really.html"&gt;live in a culture that encourages violence against women as women.&lt;/a&gt;  Or, as Bob Herbert wrote in &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;The New York Times,&lt;/span&gt; "We have become so accustomed to living in a society saturated with misogyny that the barbaric treatment of women and girls has come to be more or less expected."  Violence and aggression against women motivated by the fact that they are women is so ubiquitous as to be unremarkable.  It would be revolutionary, yet appropriate, to frame many acts of violence against women as hate crimes. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, as the Reclusive Leftist &lt;a href="http://www.reclusiveleftist.com/2009/10/28/one-of-these-hate-crimes-is-not-like-the-others/"&gt;has aptly noted&lt;/a&gt;, the mainstream media, LGBT groups, and anti-gay groups are almost completely overlooking the inclusion of gender in this hate crimes expansion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wonder, what is the intent of the US Department of Justice with respect to prosecuting gender-based hate crimes?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-6796118779334086394?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/6796118779334086394/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=6796118779334086394&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/6796118779334086394?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/6796118779334086394?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/obama-signs-hate-crimes-act-anti-gays.html" title="Obama Signs Hate Crimes Act: Anti-gays Hyperventilate, Crimes Against Ladies Ignored" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkIAQX88fCp7ImA9WxNUF0U.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-4086977309150972405</id><published>2009-11-09T09:29:00.000-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-09T09:29:00.174-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-09T09:29:00.174-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Leftist Gender Warrior Chronicles" /><title>Blogcation</title><content type="html">Hello dear and loyal readers!  I will be posting articles this week.  However, I am away and access to the intertubes for purposes of responding to comments and emails will be limited.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My alter-ego Leftist Gender Warrior will be in charge of things while I'm away and will hopefully frighten anyone from leaving spam and other obnoxious comments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://s223.photobucket.com/albums/dd31/fanniesroom/?action=view&amp;current=Fannie-1-1.jpg" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd31/fanniesroom/Fannie-1-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have a great week!  Arrrrrrrggghhhhhhhh!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-4086977309150972405?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/4086977309150972405/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=4086977309150972405&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4086977309150972405?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4086977309150972405?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/blogcation.html" title="Blogcation" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;Ck4BSH85eCp7ImA9WxNUFUs.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-7247112058475514534</id><published>2009-11-06T09:30:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-06T20:29:19.120-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-06T20:29:19.120-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ScArY hEaLtH NeWs" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Oogedy Boogedy" /><title>Scary But Unhelpful Health Advice for Ladies: Ovarian Cancer Edition</title><content type="html">I received this chain email the other day from a well-meaning friend.  The email did not attribute it to any source, but I used the Google and I think it may have come from &lt;a href="http://www.ovarian.org/images/73ce3riskbookmark.pdf"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; (PDF).  It's title is "Ovarian Cancer Whispers- So Listen!" and here is what it says:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Watch for Pelvic or abdominal pain or discomfort; vague but persistent gastrointestinal upsets such as gas, nausea, and indigestion; frequency and/or urgency of urination in the absence of an infection; unexplained weight gain or weight loss; pelvic and/or abdominal swelling, bloating and/or feeling of fullness; ongoing unusual fatigue; or unexplained changes in bowel habits. Aching legs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If symptoms persist for more than 2 weeks, ask your doctor for a combination pelvic/rectal exam, CA-125 blood test, and transvaginal ultrasound. A Pap Test WILL NOT detect ovarian cancer." &lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cyberchondria"&gt;Cyberchondriac&lt;/a&gt; that I am, I already knew all of this, actually, and during the course of my life have already convinced myself multiple times that I've had ovarian cancer even though I'm not in an age group that is considered "risky" for the disease.  How do I know I'm not in a "risky" age group?  Because I came across those statistics whilst looking up survival rates to see how long I had left to live.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, despite my own hypochondriac tendencies, I don't know that many women would &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;not&lt;/span&gt; think they had ovarian cancer upon reading the above symptoms.  What woman, or man for that matter, doesn't experience those symptoms from time to time?  Look out for "vague but persistent" stomach upsets, upsets that are quite common and have innumerable causes?  Gee, thanks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm sure this screening tool was well-intentioned.  But I have to wonder, how helpful is it really?  And, most importantly, shouldn't psychological distress caused by ScArY CaNcEr ScReEnIng tools be factored into the equation at some point?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-7247112058475514534?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/7247112058475514534/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=7247112058475514534&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/7247112058475514534?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/7247112058475514534?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/scary-but-unhelpful-health-advice-for.html" title="Scary But Unhelpful Health Advice for Ladies: Ovarian Cancer Edition" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DkUFRn0_fyp7ImA9WxNUFEs.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-9216158392051855619</id><published>2009-11-05T09:30:00.004-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-05T17:36:57.347-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-05T17:36:57.347-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blawgs" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="I See Gay People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><title>11/3/09 Election News: LGBT Rights Edition</title><content type="html">I want to take a moment today to acknowledge the LGBT items that voters decided on recently in Michigan, Maine, and Washington.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;1.  Michigan&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In June 2009, in Kalamazoo, Michigan &lt;a href="http://www.publicbroadcasting.net/michigan/news.newsmain/article/1/0/1573038/Michigan.News/Kalamazoo.Voters.to.Decide.Gay.Rights.Question."&gt;the city council unanimously approved&lt;/a&gt; an ordinance protecting gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender people from discrimination in employment, housing, or public accommodations.  An anti-gay group then gathered enough signatures to put the issue up for decision by Kalamazoo voters.  November 3, 2009, &lt;a href="http://www.tips-q.com/1559332-breaking-voters-kalamazoo-mi-approve-non-discrimination-ordinance"&gt;Kalamazoo 65% of voters approved the ordinance.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;2.  Maine&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last May, &lt;a href="http://firstread.msnbc.msn.com/archive/2009/05/06/1924233.aspx"&gt;the Maine legislature passed a law that would have allowed same-sex couples to marry.&lt;/a&gt;  Before the law could take effect, &lt;a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/POLITICS/10/25/maine.same.sex/index.html"&gt;opposition groups gathered enough signatures to put the issue up for decision by Maine voters.&lt;/a&gt;  While &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/dna-bloggers-call-kettle-black.html"&gt;most of the donations on the pro-LGBT side were from individual donors, contributions from the New Jersey-based National Organization for Marriage accounted for almost half of Stand for Marriage Maine's budget&lt;/a&gt;.  November 3, 2009, approximately &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5hKqb3RxCU1QIaXz4Ov2E30pGwxzg"&gt;53% percent of Maine voters rejected this law, effectively de-legalizing same-sex marriage.&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Anti-gay activists are celebratory.  Some are even gloating, because really, other than spread hatred and misinformation, that's sort of what they do best on the internet when they "win."  Then, because these are little more than contests that have no real impact on their lives, they move on to more important things, like trying to defeat the next pro-LGBT measure.  However, I'd like to look on the bright side.  Given that only 5-10% of the population is LGBT, the margin of victory could have been much greater.  Indeed, as little as 20 years ago, an election this close would have been unthinkable.  Their ever-decreasing margins of victory underscores the fact that the anti-gay, anti-equality ideology is slowly, stubbornly dying.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;3. Washington&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last but not least, in Washington, &lt;a href="http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/localnews/2010193401_apwadomesticpartnerships1stldwritethru.html"&gt;the state legislature passed an "everything but marriage" law that expanded the state's domestic partnership law that grants over 200 rights and benefits to domestic partners.&lt;/a&gt;  A group called &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Washington_Referendum_71_%282009%29"&gt;Protect Marriage Washington collected enough signatures&lt;/a&gt; to, you guessed it, put it on the ballot for a vote.  November 3, 2009, &lt;a href="http://vote.wa.gov/Elections/WEI/Results.aspx?RaceTypeCode=M&amp;JurisdictionTypeID=-2&amp;ElectionID=32&amp;ViewMode=Results"&gt;voters affirmed the "everything but marriage" law.&lt;/a&gt;  We won!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, I certainly do see Washington as a large victory despite the omission of the word "marriage."  Personally, I am in favor of "everything but marriage" laws and would accept this as a compromise &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;only if DOMA were repealed and same-sex couples were given all of the federal rights, benefits, and privileges of marriage.&lt;/span&gt;  For me, the main issue with respect to marriage equality is the issue of equal rights.  As long as state governments have singled out this thing called "marriage" and, along with the federal government, is conferring special rights and benefits upon those withing it, those rights and benefits should be open to same-sex couples as well.  If having those rights means calling it something else, that is okay with me, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;because I would call it a marriage anyway in my private life.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, and this is somewhat of a tangent, the government has no business calling unions "marriage," as that decision should be up to the parties involved and/or religious institutions.  Instead, the government should call all benefit-collecting unions "civil unions" and let the individuals within those unions decide what their relationship is called.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To end here, these cases represent an interesting trend with respect to LGBT rights.  Historically, when LGBT rights have been won in the courts, opponents cried that the tyranny of &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2008/10/activist-judges-again.html"&gt;Activist Judges&lt;/a&gt; (tm) had been imposed upon The People and, therefore, the rights were not legitimately won.  Now that LGBT rights are also being won through legislative bodies, anti-gay groups have moved the goalposts further back and now claim that Activist Lawmakers (tm) are imposing upon the will of The People.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When it comes to LGBT rights, apparently only direct democracy in the most literal sense of the word will suffice to grant true legitimacy.  That means we have a long road ahead of us and a lot of people to convince.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bravo to Kalamazoo and Washington voters.  Now that The People (tm) are granting rights to LGBT people, and anti-gays are becoming a minority, I wonder what the future cry will be.  For, we already know that Tyranny of the Majority is not an injustice with which they are concerned.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-9216158392051855619?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/9216158392051855619/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=9216158392051855619&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/9216158392051855619?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/9216158392051855619?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/11309-election-news-lgbt-rights-edition.html" title="11/3/09 Election News: LGBT Rights Edition" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;Dk8MQHo5eip7ImA9WxNUE0g.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-4098568463599248925</id><published>2009-11-04T09:30:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-04T11:14:41.422-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-04T11:14:41.422-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogs I Like" /><title>Beauty and the Geek FAIL</title><content type="html">Noting the dood-centricity of the programming and engineering fields, commenter Sarah sent me &lt;a href="http://www.dailytech.com/article.aspx?newsid=16570"&gt;this article&lt;/a&gt;, in which Yahoo is apparently "sorry" for offering lap dances at a developers event in Taiwan.  Oh, note: the lap dancers were female, the lap dancees were male.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yahoo pulled this stunt last year also.  It was only after photos surfaced on the world wide webs from this year's event did the company apologize.  (Leading me to wonder what Yahoo is more sorry for- offering the lap dances, or getting caught?).  It's not clear what exactly scantily-clad women giving doods in highwaters lap dances has to do with technology, but someone somewhere at Yahoo apparently thought it was a neat-o idea.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Judging by the comments, many folks (and by folks I mean "men," mostly) do not understand why this is such a big deal.  It is, as they say, further evidence of Political Correctness Gone Awry.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, if I may speak in Geek for a moment, let's all imagine that we live in an alternate reality in which men comprise about 20-30% of those in the computer science fields.  At work, these men are surrounded by women mostly, who silently or not-so-silently doubt that the men are "hard-wired" for such an endeavor and ponder whether each man in the office is some sort of incompetent affirmative-action case.  When these men log in to technology forums under male handles, women deluge them with date requests, dick jokes, and &lt;a href="http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?file=/c/a/2007/03/29/MNGT3OTVAO1.DTL"&gt;harassment&lt;/a&gt; that is in no way germane to talking about technology.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In short, whenever a man is present, his sex is always noted.  If he is bad at computer stuff, it is a statement on the competence of all men, whereas if a woman is bad at computer stuff, it's only a reflection of her own self.  If he is good at computer stuff, it is his individual achievement alone.  Whereas women are seen as Normal Default Tech Geek, men are cast as outsiders to this Girls Club.  At conferences, the ladies in charge sometimes cater directly to the desires of Normal Default Tech Geek by bringing in scantily-clad male strippers to give highwater-wearing ladies lap dances.  While sensitive prudish types might interpret this as sending some sort of message that men are to be valued for their bodies, most people recognize that it is all great fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But then, someone takes pictures, circulates them on the internets, and the politically correct bullshit male advocate crowd cries sexism and whines about how male strippers make them feel "uncomfortable" and as though they do not belong to this Girls Club of a profession.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many ladies, upon hearing about these shenanigans think "Wow, cool!"  Many ladies, entitled as they are to the male body, tell the whining men to just get over it because there are More Important Things to worry about like engineering, coding, and when the next &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Buffy&lt;/span&gt; convention will be.  And obviously, any women opposed to a conference having male strippers is a boring, ugly lesbian.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whew!  That was interesting to be on the other side of things for a change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In related news, check out the &lt;a href="http://geekfeminism.org/"&gt;Geek Feminism Blog.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-4098568463599248925?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/4098568463599248925/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=4098568463599248925&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4098568463599248925?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4098568463599248925?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/beauty-and-geek-fail.html" title="Beauty and the Geek FAIL" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEUEQXc5cSp7ImA9WxNUEks.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-1890324164869825606</id><published>2009-11-03T09:30:00.001-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-03T09:30:00.929-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-03T09:30:00.929-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="I See Gay People" /><title>More Anti-Gay Harassment in Schools</title><content type="html">Those who believe homosexuality to be morally wrong often make a big fuss about the prospect of homosexuality even being mentioned in schools.  Many anti-gays are quite opposed to events like the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network's (GLSEN) &lt;a href="http://www.dayofsilence.org/index.cfm"&gt;Day of Silence&lt;/a&gt;, which is designed to bring attention to anti-LGBT name-calling, bullying, and harassment in schools, believing this event to really be about &lt;a href="http://www.dayoftruth.org/main/default.aspx"&gt;the promotion of an unhealthy, immoral homosexual lifestyle.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wonder, then, what anti-gays think about students who make other kids feel unsafe and unwelcome in schools by using slurs?  I wonder, also, what they think when teachers do the same?  Do they deny that kids calling people "gay," "homo," and "fag" is a regular playground occurrence?  Do they deny that this type of harassment, whether inflicted on actual LGBT people or not, can then lead to physical violence?  How do these anti-gay folks propose to deal with this very real harassment?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or, do they think that this harassment is just some figment of the overactive homo imagination?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This month, a public high school teacher near Chicago has been accused of making racist and homophobic remarks in front of his classroom.  Allegedly, the teacher made the remarks in front of several of his classes.  During a lecture on the use of tax money, &lt;a href="http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/1821529,CST-NWS-teacher13.article"&gt;the teacher allegedly quipped&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"How would you feel about your tax dollars going to pay some black fag in New York to take pictures of other black fags?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to the teacher's attorney, the teacher's "biggest problem is he does not want to intentionally offend anybody and if he did, he apologizes." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nah.  I can think of several bigger problems with the teacher who, you will notice, does not deny the accusations.  For one, he sucks at apologizing.  Two, if we take his statement as true that he "does not want to intentionally offend anybody," it's a ginormous problem that an educator does not already know that calling people "black fags" &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;is&lt;/span&gt; offensive to many people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No word on the disciplinary action the school district will take against the teacher.  Also, those opposed to the Day of Silence have been remarkably... silent with respect to this issue.  And pretty much every other instance of verbal or physical assaults on an LGBT person.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-1890324164869825606?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/1890324164869825606/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=1890324164869825606&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/1890324164869825606?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/1890324164869825606?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/more-anti-gay-harassment-in-schools.html" title="More Anti-Gay Harassment in Schools" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DU8NQX0zfCp7ImA9WxNUEUo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-6184686798469783763</id><published>2009-11-02T09:30:00.007-06:00</published><updated>2009-11-02T10:04:50.384-06:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-11-02T10:04:50.384-06:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Spirituality" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Identity" /><title>No Longer Quivering: Carnival</title><content type="html">I write about gender identity, feminism, and sex/gender issues quite a bit in &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Fannie's Room.&lt;/span&gt;  Generally, I think evidence is all around us that supports the conclusion that we still live in a male-dominated society despite the fact that &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/time-magazine-proves-that-sexism-has.html"&gt;popular magazines&lt;/a&gt; often declare feminism to be dead and sexism to have been solved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is sometimes an in-joke amongst feminist-minded folks these days to talk about The Patriarchy, given the degree to which it non-feminists declare it to have been completely dismantled, that is when they aren't declaring it to have been a figment of the hysterical feminist imagination.  Nonetheless, sometimes feminist bloggers still use the word in a tongue-in-cheek manner, sometimes we use it when speaking in generalities, and other times, we use it because it is, actually, the most apt descriptor of reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One such instance of appropriate labeling is when discussing what is commonly called the Quiverfull Movement.  I have previously written about this movement &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/03/no-longer-quivering.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt; after coming across the blog, called &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://nolongerquivering.com/"&gt;No Longer Quivering&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, of a woman named Vyckie who used to be a part of this movement.  As she &lt;a href="http://nolongerquivering.com/2009/06/09/nlq-faq-what-is-quiverfull/"&gt;explains&lt;/a&gt; it, it is a movement steeped in the ideologies of &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/01/on-gender-complementarity-part-i.html"&gt;gender complementarity&lt;/a&gt; and heterosexism and sprinkled with loads of babymaking fun.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whereas "God" created men to be dominant, it is said, "he" created women to be submissive.  Marriage is for the purpose of uniting one man and his female "helpmeet," two beings with unique roles in life.  In a sense, the movement treats women as communally-owned fetal vessels wherein the married couple abstains from using birth control and instead lets "God" do the family planning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words, it is a literal Christian Patriarchy movement.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I bring the Christian Patriarchy movement to your attention once more as &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;No Longer Quivering&lt;/span&gt; is currently hosting a &lt;a href="http://nolongerquivering.com/category/nlq-carnival-grandstand/"&gt;Carnival&lt;/a&gt; of anti-patriarchy excitement.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like other systems of dominance, patriarchy marks a difference- biological sex- and then exaggerates the meaning of that difference in order to structure what types of people hold power.  In the case of patriarchy, we learn that men are inherently fit to hold power.  Whether or not that is made explicit varies, of course.  The Quiverfull Movement is remarkably blunt about it.  But oftentimes, gender complementarists and religious folk will claim they aren't sexist, it's just that feminist types don't understand the &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/07/still-seeking-genderless-god.html"&gt;great myssssstery of the equal hierarchical relationship that men and women have with each other.&lt;/a&gt;  Of course, the only pertinent bit of information any logical person takes away from such an oxymoronic concept is that "equal hierarchical" really means that some people get to be "more equal" than others.  Under a belief system that posits that "God" is a male being, that men were created in "his" image, and in which women are mere "helpmeets" to men, created from the rib of man, well, you can guess who gets the privilege of being "more equal."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Humans have shown a historical tendency to go to great lengths to create power structures based upon difference.  In the case of the Christian Patriarchy movement, we see how ancient mythology is used to trap men and women in preordained roles that work to deny them their full humanity.  I am rarely under the illusion that the moral progress of humankind is completely linear.  That this movement somewhat thrives in the US, despite the feminist movements, signifies this.  I wonder, will we reach the point where we allow each other just be fully human individuals, whose membership within a certain identity group does not dictate our every other characteristic?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-6184686798469783763?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/6184686798469783763/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=6184686798469783763&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/6184686798469783763?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/6184686798469783763?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/11/no-longer-quivering-carnival.html" title="No Longer Quivering: Carnival" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DkEGRn47eyp7ImA9WxNVGU8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-1219280835269427101</id><published>2009-10-30T09:30:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T12:43:47.003-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-30T12:43:47.003-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><title>More Important Things Than Rape: Health Insurance Edition</title><content type="html">&lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/franken-amendment-and-more-important.html"&gt;Yesterday, we saw how money is one of they many things that are More Important than rape.&lt;/a&gt;  Today, let's continue that theme.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Via the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://huffpostfund.org/stories/2009/10/rape-victims-choice-risk-aids-or-health-insurance"&gt;Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;, we have learned that health insurance companies are refusing to insure women (and presumably men, although none have come forward in this particular article) whom men have sexually assaulted.  For some background, those who have been sexually assaulted will sometimes take HIV medications for a month in order to prevent HIV infection.  Sometimes, they will seek counseling for post traumatic stress disorder as a result of sexual assault.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In an ideal world, we would have a health care system whose primary purpose was to keep people healthy.  Of course, we do not live in that world.  In the US, we have a health care system, but as many experience everyday, it is a system for doing something else.  It is a system in which health insurance companies, seeking to minimize risk rather than maximize public health, have been denying coverage to those whose medical records show that they have used HIV medications and/or mental health treatment in the past, even if those people are not actually infected with HIV.  While these companies may intend no discrimination targeted at sexual assault victims or, say, healthcare workers who have been pricked with needles, their policies certainly have a discriminatory impact on such people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From the Huffington Post, we read one woman's account:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Even after she explained the assault, the insurers would not sell her a policy because the HIV medication raised too many health questions. They told her they might reconsider in three or more years if she could prove that she was still AIDS-free....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some women have contacted the Investigative Fund to say they were deemed ineligible for health insurance because they had a pre-existing condition as a result of a rape, such as post traumatic stress disorder or a sexually transmitted disease. Other patients and therapists wrote in with allegations that insurers are routinely denying long-term mental health care to women who have been sexually assaulted."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I understand that health insurance companies are running a business and, as such, they seek to minimize risk.  Yet, in addition to the basic unfairness of denying coverage to someone who obtained a "pre-existing condition" via rape, the chances of someone contracting HIV after sexual assault &lt;a href="http://www.thefreelibrary.com/Research+on+postexposure+prophylaxis+for+HIV.-a0135337952"&gt;has been estimated to be about 0.46%.  The chances are even lower if a person takes HIV antiretroviral medication (called "Post-Exposure Prophylaxis") within 36 hours of the assault.&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I further understand that, if people are denied coverage, they are "free" to purchase their own medical care.  Yet, I also understand that that's not a realistic option for many (most?) people.    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Acknowledging these realities, I was genuinely infuriated reading through some of the others accounts in the article juxtaposed with statements from insurance representatives who smugly declared that discrimination wasn't going on and that  that people denied coverage could just buy the care they needed on their own.  That sort of out-of-touch covering of a company's ass, makes one imagine, in vivid detail, that special place in Tartarus reserved for health insurance bureaucrats.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those of us who are lucky enough to have insurance, isn't it strange to know that our insurers are happiest and most successful when we aren't utilizing services and when they can deny our claims?  I wonder, in a society where money is More Important than helping people deal with trauma and preventing HIV, is anyone truly surprised that some rape victims must weight the benefits of taking HIV medications against the cost of possibly becoming "too risky" to insure?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When will we decide that the health of human beings is a More Important Thing than the health of insurance companies?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-1219280835269427101?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/1219280835269427101/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=1219280835269427101&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/1219280835269427101?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/1219280835269427101?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/more-important-things-than-rape-health.html" title="More Important Things Than Rape: Health Insurance Edition" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0cNQ3g9fSp7ImA9WxNVGUw.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-2362054519864813401</id><published>2009-10-29T09:30:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-30T10:04:52.665-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-30T10:04:52.665-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blawgs" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><title>Franken Amendment and More Important Things Than Rape, Again</title><content type="html">&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;(Trigger warning- this post contains descriptions of sexual assault)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many things, we learn all the time, are more important than a man raping a woman, girl, man, or boy.  Just a few of these things are &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/07/superstars-and-sexual-assault.html"&gt;sports careers&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/on-poor-roman-polanski.html"&gt;movies&lt;/a&gt;, and the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catholic_sex_abuse_cases"&gt;Catholic Church's literal patriarchy&lt;/a&gt;.  A man putting his dick in whomever he wishes, apparently just isn't that big of deal compared to things that are, actually, Big Deals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Perhaps the biggest of these Big Deals that is &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;definitely&lt;/span&gt; more important than rape is money.  Specifically, a non-human corporation's gathering of it.  Let's explore that today and &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/more-important-things-than-rape-health.html"&gt;tomorrow&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Previously, I &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/fucked-up-priorities-of-30-republican.html"&gt;wrote about&lt;/a&gt; Al Franken's no-brainer &lt;a href="http://senate.gov/legislative/LIS/roll_call_lists/roll_call_vote_cfm.cfm?congress=111&amp;session=1&amp;vote=00308"&gt;amendment&lt;/a&gt; that would prevent federal defense contracts from going to companies that require their employees to sign away their right to sue with respect to employment discrimination claims "or any tort related to or arising out of sexual assault or harassment, including assault and battery, intentional infliction of emotional distress, false imprisonment, or negligent hiring, supervision, or retention."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This amendment stems from a case in which a group of defense contractors allegedly gang-raped a fellow employee, who was then locked in a cell and prohibited from contacting anyone &lt;a href="http://news.findlaw.com/andrews/em/emp/20070525/20070525_jones.html/"&gt;(the account and more background information can be read here)&lt;/a&gt;.  Because of the fine print in her employment contract, which mandated that any disputes be settled by private arbitration, KBR (her employer) argued that she was not able to bring a civil lawsuit.  Consequently, a little over a month ago, and after three years of litigation, &lt;a href="http://thinkprogress.org/2009/09/16/jones-sue-kbr/"&gt;the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals has held that she can bring a civil lawsuit since the alleged gang rape was not related to her employment and thus outside the scope of the contract's arbitration clause.&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Department of Justice has not pursued criminal charges against the men or KBR.  Representative Ted Poe (R-TX), who assisted with the State Department's rescue of Jones, has &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/22221847/"&gt;said&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"We have asked soon after this event occurred, to find out what became of the six or seven perpetrators, who they were, and what the investigation was.  And we haven‘t received any response at all."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, many people have expressed disgust with respect to the fact that 30 Republican men voted against Franken's amendment (the 4 Republican ladies voted for it), noing that it takes a really messed up set of priorities to side with non-human defense contracting companies over rape victims.  Nonetheless, despite Republican opposition, the Senate passed the amendment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, Senator Dan Inouye, a Democrat from Hawaii, is considering removing or altering the amendment after having been lobbied by defense contractors.  According to a source speaking to the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/10/22/frankens-anti-rape-amendm_n_329896.html"&gt;Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Inouye either will get the amendment taken out altogether, or water it down significantly. If they water it down, they will take out the Title VII claims. This means that in discrimination cases, they will still force you into a secret forced arbitration on KBR's (or other contractors') own terms -- with your chances of prevailing practically zero. The House seems to be very supportive of the original Franken amendment and all in line, but their hands are tied since it originated in the Senate. And since Inouye runs the show on this bill, he can easily take it out to get Republicans and the defense contractors off his back, which looks increasingly likely."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Understandably, the defense contractors expressed fear that the "Franken amendment would leave them overly exposed to lawsuits and at constant risk of having contracts dry up."  Yes, that certainly may be true.  Yet I wonder if these corporations forget that the federal government puts restrictions on the money it doles out all the time.  A corporation can freely contract with its employees to its non-beating heart's extent.  However, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;if it wants federal money&lt;/span&gt;, it has to adhere to certain conditions.  That is, it has to play by the rules and not demand that its employees give up their legal rights.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So yep, I am okay with the risk that this amendment poses to companies.  They aren't real people, after all, even though we sometimes pretend they are in the legal world.  In fact, I'd say that the ability to bring rapists to justice is infinitely More Important than leaving a company "overly exposed" to lawsuits.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Isn't the point to give everyone their day in court?  What are these companies really afraid of?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-2362054519864813401?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/2362054519864813401/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=2362054519864813401&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/2362054519864813401?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/2362054519864813401?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/franken-amendment-and-more-important.html" title="Franken Amendment and More Important Things Than Rape, Again" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkUEQXYyfip7ImA9WxNVF0k.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-7179659279295852028</id><published>2009-10-28T09:30:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-28T09:30:00.896-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-28T09:30:00.896-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Media Reviews" /><title>Review- Y: The Last Man, Volume 2: Cycles</title><content type="html">For those of you who read my &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/review-y-last-man-vol-1-unmanned.html"&gt;review of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y: The Last Man&lt;/span&gt;, Volume 1,&lt;/a&gt; you may remember that I was quite critical.  I found that Volume 1 of the series, which is about life on Earth after a mystery plague has killed every living thing with a Y chromosome with the exception of one man and his boy monkey, depicted women in problematic ways.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Volume 2, however, gets a bit better.  In it, the protagonist Yorick comes across an apparent utopian society of ladies in the middle of Ohio.  I immediately liked these ladies as they come in stark contrast to many of the other ones who seem to fall into the categories of (a) cartoonish man-hating extremists or (b) women who have lost all sense of self-worth in a man-less world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not only do these Ohio ladies get to wear normal person clothes like how men get to (this can be rare in comic books), they come in all different shapes, ages, races, sizes, and sexual orientations!  Rather than putting pistols to their heads and running amok in utter panic because all the men have died, these women have created a small self-sufficient society of their own.  One of my particular favorites is a character called Lydia, a crotchety, gray-haired woman who snidely responds to Yorick's utter surprise to have stumbled upon a functioning little city full of women thusly:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Hard to believe that helpless little women can get by without &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;your kind&lt;/span&gt;, eh?" (page 44).  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lydia then explains how, during World War II, women &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;were&lt;/span&gt; the workforce while men were overseas.  Demonstrating the artifice of gender roles, women during this time showed that they were quite capable of competently working in male-dominated fields whereas, before the war, a woman's "natural" occupation was considered to be homemaker.  Once men returned from war, however, these Rosie the Riveters were expected to go back into the home or back into traditional lady jobs like clerical work.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What Lydia doesn't explain, but what Yorick later finds out, is that the ladies in this idyllic Ohio town have a little secret that explains their success.  Namely, they have all escaped from a nearby women's prison, which (supposedly) explains how this relatively well-functioning community exists.  While I have my doubts as to the adequacy of that explanation, I do think the metaphor is apt.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a world in which both men and women exist, but in which men are defined as the default human, women are often defined in relation to men.  Whatever men are, women are sometimes thought of as "not that" or "opposite of that."  Because of the inherent nature and capacities of men and women, each sex has its own sphere of operation in life.  This is what many feminists mean when referring to the "prison" of gender roles.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a world with no men, however, women become the human norm.  Being defined on their own terms, as opposed to in relation to men, they have "escaped" woman-hood and the pre-ordained gender role that being a woman demands.  Thus, we find the escaped "convicts" in Ohio existing, as people.  And, they're doing it better than the women who continue to define themselves in relation to the loss of men- the Amazons and those who find no inherent value in themselves without men around.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is my interpretation of the convict town and, in my opinion, somewhat redeems the travesty that is Volume 1.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-7179659279295852028?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/7179659279295852028/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=7179659279295852028&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/7179659279295852028?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/7179659279295852028?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/review-y-last-man-volume-2-cycles.html" title="Review- Y: The Last Man, Volume 2: Cycles" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CE4CQH49cCp7ImA9WxNVFks.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-7169860489928036336</id><published>2009-10-27T09:30:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-27T12:02:41.068-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-27T12:02:41.068-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Buzzkills and Other Destructions of Fun" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><title>Italian Prime Minister Objectifies His Vagina-Human Rival</title><content type="html">Italian women are not at all happy about remarks Prime Minister Silvio Berlusconi made to a female rival, Rosy Bindi.  &lt;a href="http://www.reuters.com/article/newsOne/idUSTRE59J3F520091020"&gt;Specifically&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Berlusconi told the matronly, bespectacled leftist Rosy Bindi that she was 'more beautiful than intelligent' in a swipe at both her looks and brains."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I am going to precede my comments below by noting that nothing is "wrong" about being unattractive or overweight.  Unfortunately, those who value women primarily for their looks put us in the position of having to make it explicit that these characteristics say nothing about a person's intelligence or character.  And, that they certainly aren't relevant to a political debate.  I know it is some sort of "self-evident truth" among anti-feminist men that only ugly women would be feminists, but really, I think such men just don't know how not to conceive of a world in which they are not in the center.  Such men are, sadly, incapable of understanding that women become feminists, not because it has to with being able or unable to snag a man, but because they value their own lives, bodies, and autonomy in the same way that men value their lives, bodies, and autonomy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, that being said, it should be noted that, as another Senator said, Berlusconi himself is "no George Clooney."  His case of a pot calling the kettle black is relevant as, whenever a particularly not-good-looking man criticizes a woman's looks within a political conversation, it suggests that the critic has that fun male-centric worldview in which women are objects and men are subjects in the world.  Whereas, in a world in which the heterosexual male is in the center, a woman is to be judged on her appeal to his gaze; meanwhile, a man is to be judged on more substantive factors like his intelligence, competence, and wit.  Whereas &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;he&lt;/span&gt;, a man, would not expect his own looks to be mentioned in a political debate, he nonetheless finds it relevant to bring up a woman's looks and offer his own qualitative, unsolicited opinion of them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Indeed, he has a history of "womanizing and sex scandals," of referring "to women in aesthetic terms," and of saying that women are "God's most beautiful gift to men."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In other words (&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/A_League_of_Their_Own"&gt;Jimmy Dugan's specifically&lt;/a&gt;), "Girls are what you sleep with after the game, not what you coach &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;during&lt;/span&gt; the game."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Women are not to be taken seriously in the public sphere because what is most important about ladies is whether or not a man considers them attractive.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We see this attitude often, especially among the likes of, himself-no-George-Clooney, Rush Limbaugh and &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/02/feminists-are-ugly-again.html"&gt;his mental masturbators&lt;/a&gt; who cite his &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;oh so hilarious&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://thinkexist.com/quotation/feminism_was_established_to_allow_unattractive/223847.html"&gt;"feminism was established to allow unattractive women easier access to the mainstream"&lt;/a&gt; quote.  Rather than addressing the arguments of a woman who does not happen to agree with them, these men instead dismiss her based on her looks, whether she's "ugly" or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These jabs are an attempt to keep women in their rightful place as objects for the male gaze rather than as Important Actors in the world like how men are.  It suggests a threatened sense of masculinity where if women succeed, then men necessarily fail and where if women are truly equal, then masculinity doesn't mean as much as it used to back in the good old days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My quibble with the article I linked to above?  Note the title:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Berlusconi sparks feminist backlash in Italy"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why is this framed as a "feminist" issue?  For that matter, why is virtually every issue that pertains to the status of women framed as a "feminist" one?   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Aren't some issues ones that all decent people can rally around?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-7169860489928036336?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/7169860489928036336/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=7169860489928036336&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/7169860489928036336?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/7169860489928036336?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/italian-prime-minister-objectifies-his.html" title="Italian Prime Minister Objectifies His Vagina-Human Rival" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUYGQn07fSp7ImA9WxNVFUQ.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-4098562146626848104</id><published>2009-10-26T09:30:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-26T16:38:43.305-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-26T16:38:43.305-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Propaganda Watch" /><title>Time Magazine Proves That Sexism Has Been Solved!</title><content type="html">It was with much glee that I opened the October 26, 2009 issue of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; magazine.  It promised to deliver a Special Report on &lt;a href="http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,1930277_1930145,00.html?xid=rss-topstories-cnnpartner"&gt;"The State of the American Woman."&lt;/a&gt;  Prime blogging fodder, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It did not disappoint.  Upon opening the magazine, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; Managing Editor Richard Stengel straight away informs us that their "Time/Rockefeller Foundation poll shows that women have become dominant in our society" (page 6).  (All subsequent quotes and statistics from &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; article, unless otherwise noted).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a Vagina-American myself, I was quite eager to see this quantitative proof that sexism is over and that we now live in a matriarchy.  Turning to the Special Lady Report, complete with pink charts and graphs of course, I was treated to the results of the alluded to poll of 3,413 American adults.  Indeed, I saw, women have come a long way baby since &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; last reported on the status of women back in 1972.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Back then, for instance, women only made 58 cents for every dollar a man earned whereas now we earn 77 cents for every dollar a dude earns.  Now, 57% of college students are women, while in 1972 43% were.  Now, 38% of TV news correspondents are women compared to 5% back in '72.  And, now we have 2 female Supreme Court justices, 6 female governors, and 7 female Cabinet members compared to 0 in 1972.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The statistics continued on like that.  And, well, unless my lady brain was missing something, most of the statistics didn't actually demonstrate that ladies are now "dominant" in society.  While it is undeniable that women have made measurable progress in society since 1972, it is absolutely bizarre that &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; and Mr. Stengel would frame the progress that women have made as though the "battle of sexes" is over, feminism is irrelevant, and that full equality has been achieved.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While it is true that 57% of college students are now women, many of the statistics that Time presents as well as the fact that so few women are in leadership positions in the public sphere, underscores how erroneous Mr. Stengel's conclusion is regarding the "dominance" of women in society today.  Let's remember that women comprise roughly half of the American population and, therefore, statistics showing that they comprise less than half of any given profession utterly fail to prove women's "dominance."  In fact, they sort of prove the opposite of that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For instance, even though women comprise about half of law school classrooms, women comprise 22% of the Supreme Court.  In its history, only 3 out of 101 justices on that court have been women.  &lt;a href="http://womensissues.about.com/od/milestonesadvancements/a/congress2009.htm"&gt;17 out of 100 US Senators are women and 74 out of 435 US Representatives are women&lt;/a&gt;.  6 US governors out of 50, as &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; mentions, are women.  Still, while one woman has come close, no woman has ever been President of the US.  While many women are responsible for purchasing decisions in their own private homes, only &lt;a href="http://money.cnn.com/magazines/fortune/fortune500/2008/womenceos/"&gt;12 Fortune 500 companies are run by women.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time's&lt;/span&gt; Managing Editor doesn't give his readers very much credit by concluding that women are now "dominant" in society as anyone who actually looks at the statistics would be hardpressed to draw the same conclusion.  That's why I wonder if Mr. Stengel's comments speak more about the State of the American Man and, specifically, his possible angst with respect to women's progress.  Although women have not actually achieved full political equality, does Joe Everyman instead misinterpret the progress that women have made as Woman's Dominance of Society?  Are people just sick of listening to feminists complain about shit and so they hope that if they tell people over and over again that women are now equal (or dominant) that feminism will end?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It always makes me chuckle a little when men tell women that we are already equal in society.  As men, they may believe themselves to be neutral and objective, but they really don't have the lived experience to be able to make that call, do they?  I always wonder why, in light of the objective evidence that says otherwise, some men nonetheless insist that Sexism Has Been Solved and Society Has Been Feminized!  Are they so scared of equality that they try to convince women that their battles are over?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Articles such as &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time's&lt;/span&gt;, relegating women's concerns to "special" issues as though every other issue is devoted to men and More Important Things, are not often done well by mainstream magazines.  Rarely do they go beyond a surface level and sometimes, as we have seen here, they even make claims that counter the statistical evidence they themselves present.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For instance, upon reading this article, I'm sure I wasn't the only one left wondering, if women are going to college in greater numbers than men, then why do they lag behind men in leadership positions in the public arena?  Are they opting out of careers to raise children, is sexism at play, and/or is something else going on?  And, while &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; ominously claims that women are "more powerful- but less happy," they fail to explore that in any detail, letting readers assume that women's increased power has led to their greater unhappiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The two biggest failings I see in &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time's&lt;/span&gt; "Special Report" are that (a) its conclusions contradict its own evidence, and (b) it emanates a subtext that tries to convince women they are already equal and will become even more unhappy if they become any more "equal."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For another take on things, I recommend checking out &lt;a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/opinion/commentary/la-oe-ehrenreich14-2009oct14,0,7471297.story"&gt;Barbara Ehrenreich's recent smackdown&lt;/a&gt; of the jubiliant anti-feminist "I told you so" in response to studies "showing" that women are more unhappy with their improved status in society.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To end, it would have been interesting had &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; chosen to include American women with same-sex partners in their report on American women.  As two ladies live in my household, I don't find the "battle of the sexes" and the resulting "constant negotiation" of role expectations to be all that relevant to my experience at home.  (Two ladies in the house means &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;lots&lt;/span&gt; of housework gets done, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;total bonus&lt;/span&gt;!)  It could have been telling to see how women in same-sex couples fared with respect to happiness, success, and division of labor compared to women who lived with male partners.   The failure to even consider or include women in same-sex relationships left me wondering the answer to the question that &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Time&lt;/span&gt; raises but fails to answer.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What, if any, is the state of the American woman as defined on her own terms, and not by her relation to men?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-4098562146626848104?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/4098562146626848104/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=4098562146626848104&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4098562146626848104?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4098562146626848104?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/time-magazine-proves-that-sexism-has.html" title="Time Magazine Proves That Sexism Has Been Solved!" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;AkAHRHs4fyp7ImA9WxNVE0w.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-2268669906064618679</id><published>2009-10-23T09:30:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-23T12:25:35.537-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-23T12:25:35.537-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><title>WWII Vet on Same-Sex Marriage</title><content type="html">Maybe I'm a sap, but this &lt;a href="http://www.boingboing.net/2009/10/20/86-year-old-wwii-vet.html?awesm=fbshare.me_PTD"&gt;video&lt;/a&gt; of an 86-year-old World War II vet who supports same-sex marriage brought tears to my eyes.    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We already know that many of those who oppose same-sex marriage, and even those who are neutral on the topic, are not persuaded by images of LGBT families pleading for equal rights.  To many, we are too different.  Believing us to be caricatures rather than human beings like themselves, we are seen as too different to garner sympathy.  Accordingly, I would not discount the value a self-identified Republican, white, male veteran who happens to have a gay son and who also embodies the extreme Right's ideal of the Real American standing up for us.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To him, I say thank you sir, for using your authoritative voice for the benefit of people like me. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In an America where haters and intolerants have co-opted what it means to be a Real American, it is not often that LGBT citizens are made to feel that we too are part of the America that is worth fighting for.  So thank you, also, for that.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-2268669906064618679?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/2268669906064618679/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=2268669906064618679&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/2268669906064618679?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/2268669906064618679?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/wwii-vet-on-same-sex-marriage.html" title="WWII Vet on Same-Sex Marriage" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DEUNQXY5fyp7ImA9WxNVEk8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-4371003919393744003</id><published>2009-10-22T09:30:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-22T10:44:50.827-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-22T10:44:50.827-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Weapons of Mass Projection" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Propaganda Watch" /><title>Historical Revisionist Fun With "Marriage Defenders"- Women's Suffrage Edition</title><content type="html">Previously, we've seen internet "marriage defender" On Lawn claim that same-sex marriage is just like racial segregation because both are, apparently, a "pollution of equality."  &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/09/marriage-equality-and-segregation-part.html"&gt;Here&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/marriage-equality-and-segregation-part.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;, I demonstrated that, actually, same-sex marriage is nothing at all like racial segregation and, in fact, it is On Lawn's "defense of marriage" that is the perpetrator of inequality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Instead of responding to my arguments or addressing the noted flaws in his own, On Lawn has chosen to extend the absurdity further by making even more unsupported conclusions that supposedly prove that sex/gender integration in marriage "brings equality."  (Don't be confused, even though he titles his post &lt;a href="http://opine-editorials.blogspot.com/2009/10/marriage-brings-equality.html"&gt;"Marriage brings equality,"&lt;/a&gt; within the article he changes his mind, saying "My premise is not that marriage itself brings equality.")  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, On Lawn, being a &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/men-who-know-things.html"&gt;Man Who Knows Things&lt;/a&gt;, does not always feel compelled to support his claims with evidence, research, or links.  Perhaps he expects folks to just take his word on stuff, relying on the weight of his &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/09/demonstration-of-weight-of-white-male.html"&gt;Authoritative Male Voice.&lt;/a&gt;  True to form, he has created his own version of history and is now claiming that, in the case of women's suffrage, it was the magical integration of the man-woman marriage that acted as the main "conduit to gain" the power to vote.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In his own words:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"For woman's suffrage, it was a bloodless revolution. I do not know of another case in history where power was shared so voluntarily as the husbands shared voting power with women. If women had a better conduit to gain that power then [sic] their marriage, you tell me what that was.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My premise is not that marriage itself brings equality. Its not just a name or title or the fact there are two people heading a household. My premise is that integration brings equality, in this case the integration of two distinctly different types of people -- men and women. &lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;However superficial and deep the distinctions are between them, they are obvious.&lt;/span&gt;" (emphasis added)&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.npg.si.edu/col/seneca/senfalls1.htm"&gt;Seneca Falls&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://womenshistory.about.com/od/stonelucy/a/lucy_stone.htm"&gt;Lucy Stone&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://womenshistory.about.com/od/stantonelizabeth/a/stanton.htm"&gt;Elizabeth Cady Stanton&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Susan_B._Anthony"&gt;Susan B. Anthony&lt;/a&gt;, the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Men%27s_League_for_Women%27s_Suffrage"&gt;Men's League for Women's Suffrage&lt;/a&gt;, marches and parades that sometimes turned violent when angry male mobs &lt;a href="http://memory.loc.gov/ammem/awhhtml/aw01e/aw01e.html"&gt;"jeered, tripped, grabbed, and shoved"&lt;/a&gt; the marching women?  All relatively meaningless.  What women &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;really&lt;/span&gt; needed to do to get the right to vote was marry men.  (Oh, erm, let's just set aside the fact that many &lt;a href="http://www.glbtq.com/social-sciences/womens_suffrage_movement,2.html"&gt;leaders of the women's suffrage movement were lesbians&lt;/a&gt;).  It wasn't the tireless efforts of female and male suffragists that led to voting equality, it was &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;marriage.&lt;/span&gt; Why?  Because On Lawn says so, that's why.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, before addressing On Lawn's claim about the history of women's suffrage, let's notice that highlighted last sentence of his second paragraph where he claims that the distinctions between men and women are "obvious."  &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/01/on-gender-complementarity-part-ii.html"&gt;While the anatomical and physiological differences between men and women are (often, but not always) "obvious," the psychological, temperamental, and spiritual distinctions are hardly so.&lt;/a&gt;  In On Lawn's statement, we see a clear &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;argumentum ad gastrum&lt;/span&gt;- an argument from the gut.  Perhaps because the "superficial and deep" distinctions between men and women are "obvious" to On Lawn, he claims that these distinctions are "obvious" as though that is some sort of universal truth observable in reality.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, like most &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/01/on-gender-complementarity-part-i.html"&gt;gender complementarists&lt;/a&gt;, he doesn't actually describe these distinctions.  And really, I wonder why he doesn't.  If these distinctions are so very "obvious," one would have no trouble actually listing them out, would one?  Therein, you see, lies the greatest failing of On Lawn's entire ideology.  He, and other adherents of gender complementarity, take it as some sort of commonsensical self-evident truth that &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Men And Women Are Very Very Different From One Another.&lt;/span&gt;  And thus these folks rarely, if ever, feel the need to actually iterate these differences.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meanwhile, the rest of us sit here, unconvinced, shaking our heads as to why people believe shit that they can't even explain.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, moving along to On Lawn's main contention, those having a familiarity with the history of women's suffrage will find it highly ironic that a gender complementarist is claiming that women won the vote because of marriage.  See, back in the Good 'Ole Days when women couldn't vote, the "antis" used to say things about ladies that sound quite similar to what gender complementarists sometimes say about ladies.  In fact, the overarching anti theme was that &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Men and Women Were Very Very Different From One Another&lt;/span&gt; and specifically, women- unlike men- just weren't cut out for haaaard things like voting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Observe, the &lt;a href="http://www.history.rochester.edu/class/suffrage/Anti.html"&gt;antis&lt;/a&gt; in &lt;a href="http://www.history.rochester.edu/class/suffrage/Ant-oth.html"&gt;action&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"[Women's] delicate emotional equilibrium could easily upset by a strain-like voting."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"Once a woman arrived [at the poll] she would have to mingle, among the crowds of men who gather around the polls...and to press her way through them to the ballot box. Assuming she reached the polling place, she might get caught in a brawl and given women's natural fragility, she would be the one to get hurt."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"Women in politics would mean corruption and irrationality."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;"The question to be decided...is simply this: Is it desirable to have women become masculine, instead of retaining the characteristics of her own sex?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In these arguments we see two familiar sentiments.  One, granting equal rights to a certain group of people would utterly destroy society and two, women were inherently much different and less-than men.  That the "marriage defense" movement, consequently, echoes both of these sentiments underscores the absurdity of On Lawn's historical revisionism.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is notable that our internet "marriage defense" friend presents no evidence that it was the integration of the sexes within marriage that led to women's suffrage.  It is further notable that he merely notes a phenomenon, that marriage existed, and then notes an "effect," that women's suffrage "then" occurred.  If my delicate lady brain wanted to show off, and I find that it does, it would note that On Lawn has committed a classic &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.skepdic.com/posthoc.html"&gt;post hoc ergo propter hoc&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; fallacy: &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Integration of the sexes existed in marriage, then women won the right to vote; therefore integration of the sexes in marriage caused women to win the right to vote.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which, of course, begs a very important question.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If it is a given that the oh-so-valuable integration of the sexes within marriage has existed &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;throughout pretty much all of human history&lt;/span&gt; (as "marriage defenders" so often tell us), isn't the fact that it took thousands of years for women to achieve equal rights with men indeed an incredibly sorry testament to the institution's capacity to &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;cause&lt;/span&gt; sex equality in the larger society?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Which then leads to more questions, like...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Given that integration of the sexes within marriage exists in, say, Saudia Arabia, why don't women there have the right to vote if marriage is the single greatest catalyst of women's equality?  If the sex integration that is inherent in man-woman marriage indeed fosters so much &lt;a href="http://opine-editorials.blogspot.com/2009/10/marriage-brings-equality.html?showComment=1255843242111#c1497073887033417026"&gt;"love and tolerance"&lt;/a&gt; between men and women, as On Lawn claims, why have women required multiple activist movements in order to convince men that they deserve equal rights?  If sex integration in marriage led to equality, why did this magical property only affect &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;some&lt;/span&gt; men and not the many other husbands who opposed (and still oppose) women's suffrage?  Why did so many men historically use marriage, not to advance the status of women in society, but to keep them subordinated?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;These are some more ginormous elephants shitting in marriage's room, aren't they? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, instead of acknowledging the crappy smell, On Lawn has conjured up a fantastical version of history in which the mere fact of men and women uniting together in a sacred marital bond magically convinced loving husbands to cede power and allow their ladies to vote.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One wonders why On Lawn doesn't more seriously question whether it was some other factor(s), rather than marriage, that was the real impetus for social change.  My guess is that to contemplate other factors that led to women's suffrage would force him to re-think a host of other issues, and that could be very scary.  &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Interestingly, however, &lt;a href=" http://www.eale.nl/Conference2009/Programme/PapersC/add103140_95XeMl7X4W.pdf"&gt;this article&lt;/a&gt; purports the exact opposite of On Lawn's claim that sex integration caused women's suffrage.  As a brief overview, before the 19th Amendment, women won the right to vote in a state-by-state pattern (somewhat similar to how marriage equality is being won today).  Before World War I, women's suffrage was mainly confined to Western states like Wyoming and Utah.  Specifically, the economists who authored this article noted that "high sex ratio jurisdictions" where women were scarce compared to men, enfranchised women much earlier than in "jurisdictions in which the sex ratio was more balanced."  That is, to use On Lawn-speak, women were more likely to have equal voting rights in jurisdictions that had less sex/gender integration than in jurisdictions where the ratio of men and women was more even.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The explanation for this?  Acknowledging that it "was always men, that is male electorates and male state legislators, that granted women access to the ballot," the authors noted that any explanation as to why men did so must necessarily consider the incentives and risks to men in doing so.  Whereas On Lawn claims (without providing evidence) that the integration of the sexes led to women's suffrage, the authors of the study concluded:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"[W]ith women being a scarcity, the net benefit of adopting woman suffrage carried lower potential costs to men in terms of risks and devaluation of their political influence; and for legislators in the West, woman suffrage had the added benefit of potentially attracting female settlers."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That is, in states where fewer women existed, men were less politically threatened by the prospect of female voters than in other states.  Thus, men were more likely to support women's suffrage when fewer women were around.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Shorter me: Integration FAIL.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All this being said, I do think that marriage could have made some (or even many) men sympathetic to the cause of women's suffrage.  If a husband wasn't an asswipe, he would accept the person he vowed to share his life with as his equal.  Yet, in the same vein, the importance of other, non-marital, familial relationships between men and women cannot be denied.  Men, in addition to sometimes having wives, also have sisters, mothers, daughters, friends, and other loved ones whom they have important relationships with.  So, rather than it being some sort of speshul marriage-induced integration of the sexes which caused women's suffrage, we cannot discount the role that these other relationships played in making men sympathetic to the cause.  In fact, &lt;a href="http://womenshistory.about.com/od/suffrage1900/a/august_26_wed.htm"&gt;the legislator who cast the deciding vote for the 19th Amendment was said to have done so at his mother's urging.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, it is too bad that On Lawn chose not to provide evidence supporting his claim.  In the absence of evidence, his argument that it was the marital relationship that was the single most important factor that led to women's suffrage is entirely unconvincing.  Indeed, the antis often cited marriage as one of their many reasons as to why women did not require the vote, arguing that it was unnecessary because women would either duplicate or annul the votes of their (more politically important) husbands (&lt;a href="http://jwa.org/teach/primarysources/orgrec_08.pdf"&gt;PDF&lt;/a&gt;).  In that way, marriage actually hindered equality.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To end here, addressing On Lawn's claim is of import only because he demonstrates a tendency "marriage defenders" have of creating these fictional narratives that present marriage as some sort of magical, fantastical entity that births nothing but rainbows, unicorns, and perfect happiness (oh yes, and children too).  The undertone is always that marriage is something that same-sex couples absolutely cannot tamper with for some reason or another (the ripping apart the Fabric of Society is often mentioned).  Yet, when faux-feminist "marriage defense" doods revise the history of a very important women's rights struggle to support an anti-gay agenda, they take their usual boring run-of-the-mill argumentation to an even more abhorrent level.    &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Interestingly, lurking in On Lawn's argument, I see a malignant, perhaps unintended, message he is making about men.  Namely, that men are incapable of recognizing and supporting the equality of women unless they are married to one.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wonder if that says more about one man than it does about all of them, as a class.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-4371003919393744003?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/4371003919393744003/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=4371003919393744003&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4371003919393744003?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/4371003919393744003?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/historical-revisionist-fun-with.html" title="Historical Revisionist Fun With &quot;Marriage Defenders&quot;- Women's Suffrage Edition" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0MEQH4zeCp7ImA9WxNVEU4.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-8809180626909199198</id><published>2009-10-21T09:30:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T09:30:01.080-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-21T09:30:01.080-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="I See Gay People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Hellmouths" /><title>Odds 'N Ends</title><content type="html">&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;1.  Required Reading For Public Transportation Patrons?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I found &lt;a href="http://kateharding.net/2009/10/08/guest-blogger-starling-schrodinger%E2%80%99s-rapist-or-a-guy%E2%80%99s-guide-to-approaching-strange-women-without-being-maced/"&gt;this post,&lt;/a&gt; a handy-dandy "guy's guide for approaching strange women without getting maced" to be informative, true, and amusing.  To her gentleman readers, Phaedra Starling writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Now, you want to become acquainted with a woman you see in public. The first thing you need to understand is that women are dealing with a set of challenges and concerns that are strange to you, a man. To begin with, we would rather not be killed or otherwise violently assaulted.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;'But wait! I don’t want that, either!'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Well, no. But do you think about it all the time? Is preventing violent assault or murder part of your daily routine, rather than merely something you do when you venture into war zones? Because, for women, it is. When I go on a date, I always leave the man’s full name and contact information written next to my computer monitor. This is so the cops can find my body if I go missing. My best friend will call or e-mail me the next morning, and I must answer that call or e-mail before noon-ish, or she begins to worry. If she doesn’t hear from me by three or so, she’ll call the police. My activities after dark are curtailed. Unless I am in a densely-occupied, well-lit space, I won’t go out alone. Even then, I prefer to have a friend or two, or my dogs, with me. Do you follow rules like these?"&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It's worth a read, even though perhaps those most in need of reading it will never see it. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;2.  Roman Polanski Update&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A Swiss &lt;a href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2009/10/roman-polanski-flight-risk-high-court-says-in-rejecting-bail-.html"&gt;court has refused to release Roman Polanski on bail, deeming him to be a "high" flight risk.&lt;/a&gt;  Hmm, ya think?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight:bold;"&gt;3.  Tradition is Tradition (for the most part, anyway) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seizing on a golden opportunity to recruit, the Vatican has announced that it will be making it easier for Anglicans to convert, &lt;a href="http://online.wsj.com/article/SB125604916994796545.html?mod=googlenews_wsj"&gt;"reaching out to those who are disaffected by the election of female and gay bishops."&lt;/a&gt;  From the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Wall Street Journal&lt;/span&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"The new canonical structure is a response to the many requests that have come to the Vatican over the years from Anglicans who want to come back, increasingly disillusioned with the progressive bent of the Anglican Communion. Many have already left and consider themselves Catholic but have not found an official home in the 1.1-billion strong Catholic Church.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;By welcoming them possibly at the expense of good relations with the Anglican Communion, Pope Benedict has confirmed the increasingly conservative bent of his church. The decision follows his recent move to rehabilitate four excommunicated ultra-conservative bishops, including one who denied the full extent of the Holocaust, in a bid to bring their faithful back under the Vatican's wing."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Vatican will also allow married (male, of course) Anglican priests to become ordained Catholic priests. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Isn't it fun that the Vatican can bend or create special rules for some groups of people but adamantly refuse to reconsider rules with respect to others?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-8809180626909199198?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/8809180626909199198/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=8809180626909199198&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/8809180626909199198?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/8809180626909199198?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/odds-n-ends_20.html" title="Odds 'N Ends" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEANQ389eyp7ImA9WxNVF0k.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-1729547858253070358</id><published>2009-10-20T09:30:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-28T10:13:12.163-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-28T10:13:12.163-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Buzzkills and Other Destructions of Fun" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Media Reviews" /><title>Review- Y: The Last Man, Vol 1: Unmanned</title><content type="html">I first came across the graphic novel series &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dccomics.com/vertigo/graphic_novels/?gn=1736"&gt;Y: The Last Man&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; when I was searching for the latest &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Buffy&lt;/span&gt; Season 7 comic. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yep, I read comics.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I first started reading them when I was much younger.  Even back then, I had this vague uneasiness about it all, as most of the comics I read, and even knew of, were about male heroes, female victims, and were obviously targeted toward boys.  Eventually, I grew out of my comic book phase during high school, when I was Obviously Much Too Cool for such things.  Only recently have I gotten back into the habit a couple of years ago after watching the entire &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Buffy the Vampire Slayer&lt;/span&gt; TV series.  After the end of Season 6, the canon continued via comic book.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And alas, here I am, reviewing a comic book, oh- excuse me- a &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;graphic novel&lt;/span&gt;, on my blog.  While I have already read most of the volumes of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y: The Last Man&lt;/span&gt;, I will review them one by one without including spoilers contained within subsequent volumes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The premise of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y: The Last Man&lt;/span&gt; is simple.  In 2002, a plague destroyed every living thing containing a Y chromosome with the exception of of one guy and his monkey.  So, Volume 1 finds us observing, 29 minutes before the big plague, the life of the one dude who's going to be left on Earth.  And when you think about it, isn't it, like, so very &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;revolutionary&lt;/span&gt; for a comic book to be about a man, even if he's the only man in the entire world?!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Oh, I should probably mention that some people might find this review Not Fun, especially in light of the "critical acclaim" this graphic novel has received and the buttloads of amazing reviews that doods have given the series on Amazon.com.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Moving on then, to summarize, this mysterious man-killing plague-thingy instantaneously kills every male thing on the planet.  Airplanes literally fall from the sky, cars stop on the highway, and females watch on in horror as their male friends and loved ones die right in front of them.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, putting aside the fact that watching masses of humans die would be incredibly traumatic, can we go back to the cars-stopping-on-the-highway bit for a moment?  You see, the cars that had ostensibly been driven by men remained sitting on the highway a month later, effectively blocking ladies from being able to drive on highways!  Why, it is as though, when all the men died, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;women completely forgot how to drive those mechanical vehicular contraptions that stubbornly blocked their paths&lt;/span&gt;.  Women simply could not figure out how to move all of those cars!  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A bit later, however, we learn that this problematic highway cloggage served an important purpose: the necessity for the protagonist to find a bitchin' motorcycle to weave through the chaos.  Cowabunga!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I know it's silly, the idea that women would just let cars sit on the highway for months on end and not think to move them or anything.  But that, in a nutshell, is Volume 1.  Not only is the protagonist male; it is clear that the author of &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y&lt;/span&gt; is also a male (Brian Vaughan, is his name).  It is not (yet anyway) a serious exploration of a world without men.  It is one man's exploration of what he thinks the world would look like without men.  Which is fine.  But, I think Volume 1's greatest failings lie in the stereotypes and ego porn that it feeds its male audience which, for me personally, don't quite let me forget that a dood wrote it.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;a href="http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/category/knobjectivism/"&gt;knobjectivity&lt;/a&gt; continues on page 41.  There, we meet a woman who is collecting dead male bodies to take to a crematorium.  She, driving a big dump truck, has apparently figured out how to drive (but just barely, as she complains about how &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;haaaard&lt;/span&gt; it is to steer a big ol' truck).  The male protagonist, who is named Yorick by the way, encounters this woman.  He listens as she complains about how she used to have a modeling contract and that she paid loads of money for a boob job.  But, now that all the men are gone, her "tits" are pretty much useless and she is nothing but a "goddamn garbage girl."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is that what men imagine women think of themselves?  That women find no inherent value in their bodies or selves if no men are around to appreciate them?  Is that like the ultimate male fantasy- for women to feel completely worthless in a world with no men?  Indeed, one of the very first images Y gives us is a woman holding a revolver to her head saying "All of the men are dead" (4), as though her life has no purpose, no meaning, in a world without men.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Or, to be more pessimisstic, is Ms. Whatshernam Tit Model a projection of what men (or one man, anyway) thinks of women?  That, if a woman doesn't have big tits and a pretty face to please men with, she's nothing more than a "goddamn garbage girl"?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In any event, the woman tells Yorick that she used to have a "tranny" boyfriend who was murdered.  Aside from wondering why someone would flippantly refer to one's deceased boyfriend as a "tranny," I realized that this was the smooth segue into talking about.... ThE AmAzOnS!  Many possible villains in this particular graphic novel exist, yet the most cartoonish and mustache-twirly are the anti-male extremists oh-so-creatively titled the Daughters of the Amazons.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wait...wait just a minute... say, is "Amazon" a code word for something that starts with an "f."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, I don't know if Vaughan intended for the Amazons to represent feminists, but these extremists certainly fit the caricature that many people think of when they think of feminists.  Many people learn about feminism, not by actually reading feminist works, but by (a) reading the SCUM Manifesto under the belief that it is some sort of feminist agenda, (b) listening to what Rush Limbaugh says about feminists, and/or (c) reading what "Men's Rights Advocates" say feminism is.  So, whether or not it was Vaughan's intent, the Amazons undoubtedly represent, to some readers anyway, Feminist Archetype.  True to their medium, cartoon, they embody virtually every negative stereotype about feminists that exist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Our protagonist Yorick eventually encounters real live Amazons near the end of Volume 1, when he finds them defacing the Washington Monument.  In an eye-roll-inducing indulgence in the ultimate hetero male fantasy, this monument has oh-so-subtly been turned into a memorial to The Men.  Upon this great white prick in the sky, a few suspiciously-dykey looking women are spray-painting "Good Riddence" [sic] (95).  Get it?  They hate the menz, and on top of that they can't spell.  &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;The Amazons are stoopid.&lt;/span&gt;  With that gimmick, I wondered if Vaughan took a page from the &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Ayn Rand Manual on Villain Creation&lt;/span&gt;, imbuing his villains with unflattering, unattractive, and mock-worthy traits so the readers will relate to the author's beloved hero rather than the idiot villains.  In Rand's case, of course, her villains were pasty, unattractive socialist types; in &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y&lt;/span&gt;, the villains are, so far, moronic man-hating feminazis who spray-paint the memorial that honors a horrific tragedy.   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prior to this incident, we see the remaining members of the US government, all ladies of course, trying to figure out how the government is going to function without the menz.  A secret service agent taps the Secretary of Agriculture to become President because, after all of the men died, it is &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;she&lt;/span&gt; who happens to be next in the chain of command.  Actually, to give credit to Vaughan, I appreciated this scene.  Because of the sex composition of the US government, it wasn't until we got to the position of the relatively-lowly Secretary of Agriculture that the survivors were able to find their next Commander-in-Chief.  And that was the result of the previous world, where women comprised a whopping half of the human population.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, this lady Secretary also suffers from Lack of Self-Worth Without Male Approval Syndrome.  Insisting that she is not qualified for the office of presidency, she laments that she is just a "stupid farm girl who misses her worthless ex-husband" (45).  Not only is she herself nothing, her husband is nothing and thus she is, like, doubly nothing without him.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This woman later, however, has some sort of transformation once she accepts her role of President.  Later on, we find her facing down some gun-wielding ladies who have gotten themselves into a Republicans vs. Democrats fight and she intervenes.  Apparently, the ladies were bickering about succession and questioning how it should be done- in accordance with the existing legal framework, or by new standards?  Madame President declares that the rules of the Founding Fathers were sort of null, given the extreme circumstances.  However, Yorick- appearing from nowhere- jumps in and says oh hell to the no is he going to sit back and watch "this great nation, which millions of [his] brothers shed their blood to forge, [be] completely undone by--" (77).  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hint: Yorick doesn't finish his sentence, but I bet he was going to say women, ladies, bitches, or cunts.  Choose your own adventure, kids.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In his statement, we see the last man on Earth desperately trying to keep men relevant in a world full of women.  In reading Yorick stand up to those women, ladies, cunts, or bitches who audaciously want to craft a government that works for them, we reads more ego porn for the modern man's soul.  Even though our Founding Fathers often acted as though men &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;were&lt;/span&gt; the only relevant beings on the planet despite the abundance of women, Yorick voices the great fear of Today's Everyman.  Namely, that as women become more and more relevant to the public sphere, men will become less so.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The dystopian future presented by &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y,&lt;/span&gt; combined with the enormous success it has amongst male readers, perhaps gives us some insight into their psyches.  Undoubtedly, as women have made great headway in the public arena, some dudes already feel as though women are Taking Over the World.  As we advance toward equality of the sexes, some men instead interpret equality as the Mass Feminization of Everything in Society. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In reality, men are only becoming de-centered as the human norm.  It will be interesting to see how Yorick negotiates that.  It will also be interesting to see how one dude envisions another dude coping with the fact that, by definition, females are the new Default Human- a condition that men have had the privilege of experiencing for much of history, despite comprising only half the human population.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To end, I know this review is a bit harsh.  I don't actually think &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Y&lt;/span&gt; is all bad.  In Yorick's bodyguard, for instance, Vaughn gives us a smart, strong, competent woman of color who kind of plays &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Double_act"&gt;"straight man"&lt;/a&gt; to Yorick, who has a quirky sense of humor and who struggles to keep his strong emotions in check.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, the premise of the series &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;is&lt;/span&gt; an interesting thought experiment, even though I question whether a man can adequately envision a world comprised almost entirely of women.  I had high hopes for the series.  It could have been done in a really thoughtful way, or it could be done &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;really&lt;/span&gt; badly- relying on caricatures and stereotypes, rather than nuance and subtlety.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, for now, I still like Ursula La Guin's &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/08/story-review-matter-of-seggrei.html"&gt;version&lt;/a&gt; better.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Related Links:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/review-y-last-man-volume-2-cycles.html"&gt;My review of Volume 2: Cycles&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-1729547858253070358?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/1729547858253070358/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=1729547858253070358&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/1729547858253070358?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/1729547858253070358?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/review-y-last-man-vol-1-unmanned.html" title="Review- Y: The Last Man, Vol 1: Unmanned" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEcCRnk8eyp7ImA9WxNWGUo.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-548836412761432189</id><published>2009-10-19T09:30:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T12:07:47.773-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-19T12:07:47.773-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Propaganda Watch" /><title>DNA Bloggers Call the Kettle Black</title><content type="html">In a strange non-substantive complaint against marriage equality advocates, members of the alleged "grassroots" anti-gay group &lt;a href="http://www.digitalnetworkarmy.com/tandemserver/"&gt;Digital Network Army&lt;/a&gt; (DNA) have been ridiculing marriage equality advocates and organizations for contributing to the marriage battle in Maine.  Breathlessly titling her post &lt;a href="http://beetlebabee.wordpress.com/2009/09/24/grass-roots-fail-equality-maine-in-astro-snafu/"&gt;"Equality Maine- Epic Grass Roots FAIL!"&lt;/a&gt; DNA-er Beetle Blogger "exposes" Top Secret and Very Elusive information about LGBT advocates that she scooped from the Twitter and the World Wide Web.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After first highlighting how someone in California tweeted about running a phone bank for marriage equality in Maine, Beetle then cited an article from the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force that encouraged out-of-state volunteers to head to Maine to support marriage equality.  Beetle's blogging buddy Pearl has also written a breathless post of her own boasting of Beetle's sleuthery with respect to Equality Maine's &lt;a href="http://pearl-diving.blogspot.com/2009/09/maine-marriage-initiative-grass-roots.html"&gt;"Grass Roots Fail Fail Fail!"&lt;/a&gt;  (I think if you repeat something enough times, it makes it true).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Alluding to, but failing to cite, "promises made in the beginning of the campaign that this would be a local deal," the overarching point of Beetle's faux-expose is apparently to demonstrate that equality advocates are a bunch of lying liars.  Alluding to, but failing to cite, the outrage that some LGBT advocates felt with respect to anti-gay organizations' utilization of out-of-state volunteers during California's Proposition 8 battle, the overarching point of Pearl's post is apparently to demonstrate that equality advocates are "pretty darn hypocritical."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;None of this, of course, has a lick to do with the substantive marriage debate.  It does, however, serve the all-important purpose of fitting into an overarching message that frames LGBT people and equality advocates as Very Bad People Who Are Engaged in Unfair Shenanigans.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/banana-sex.html"&gt;like those who claim to be tolerant while also comparing homosexuality to sticking bananas in one's ears&lt;/a&gt;, a bizarre cognitive dissonance can be observed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Neither Beetle nor Pearl, you see, live in Maine.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Nonetheless, on her own site, Beetle sports a bright yellow "Stand for Marriage Maine" button, has devoted &lt;a href="http://beetlebabee.wordpress.com/2009/10/11/facebooks-yellow-wave-in-support-of-marriage/"&gt;a rather long post to encouraging other bloggers to "Go yellow"&lt;/a&gt; themselves, and &lt;a href="http://beetlebabee.wordpress.com/2009/10/06/stand-for-marriage-maine-safe-schools/"&gt;has posted (with sketchy attribution) anti-equality organization Stand For Marriage Maine's talking points&lt;/a&gt; regarding the Maine marriage battle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Pearl, on her site, &lt;a href="http://pearl-diving.blogspot.com/2009/09/donate-to-natural-marriage-in-maine.html"&gt;has posted&lt;/a&gt; a cut-n-paste message from the Digital Network Army (whatever that actually is) encouraging defenders of marriage to contribute to Stand For Marriage Maine.  That post followed one in which Pearl &lt;a href="http://pearl-diving.blogspot.com/2009/09/maine-marriage-initiative-grass-roots.html"&gt;complains&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Equality CALIFORNIA waging a culture war in MAINE. CALIFORNIA – MAINE. Wow. EQCA has a loooooooong arm." &lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consequently, whereas the majority of the No on 1 (Maine's pro-equality group) contributions have come &lt;a href="http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2009/10/14/15548"&gt;from a multitude of small donations, the New Jersey-based National Organization for Marriage has contributed $425,000&lt;/a&gt; to Stand for Marriage Maine- &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;accounting for almost half of the Maine anti-equality group's budget.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You know, I often wonder if it is physically painful for one person's brain to hold two logically inconsistent positions.  To Pearl, it is wow-able that an equality organization is "waging a culture war" in another state, but not at all notable for herself, her like-minded bloggers, or &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;the most prominent anti-equality organization in the nation&lt;/span&gt; to use their looooooong arms to do the exact. same. thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Enhancing the irony, Beetle also alludes to &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astroturfing"&gt;astroturfing.&lt;/a&gt;  I wonder if her Great and Powerful DNA Team Captain fed her that term.  What's interesting about the "grassroots" DNA group is that a Team Captain regularly feeds DNA bloggers topics to write about.  DNA bloggers then sometimes regurgitate these talking points, which read like statements from professional anti-gay organizations, almost verbatim.  It makes one wonder, how "grass roots" is the DNA, really?  Who and/or what entity is &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;really&lt;/span&gt; behind it?  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I ask these questions only because, with respect to the DNA, astroturfing does come to mind.  It is fine for professional organizations to mobilize those who share their ideologies and goals.  That's not the issue.  The issue is that the public deserves to know whether the mobilization of a group of people has been orchestrated by those whose livelihoods depend on a certain issue remaining relevant.  I may be mistaken, but I have my doubts about both the size and "grassroots" nature of the DNA.  Anyone from the DNA is welcome to clarify, elaborate, or object to my opinion here.  Inquiring minds certainly want to know the answer to these questions.  In fact, with respect to this truth-finding mission, DNA responses are highly encouraged!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Otherwise:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://s223.photobucket.com/albums/dd31/fanniesroom/?action=view&amp;current=vader-fail-1.jpg" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img src="http://i223.photobucket.com/albums/dd31/fanniesroom/vader-fail-1.jpg" border="0" alt="Photobucket"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-548836412761432189?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/548836412761432189/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=548836412761432189&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/548836412761432189?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/548836412761432189?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/dna-bloggers-call-kettle-black.html" title="DNA Bloggers Call the Kettle Black" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUMEQXk6fSp7ImA9WxNWF00.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-881961514258429985</id><published>2009-10-16T09:30:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T09:30:00.715-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-16T09:30:00.715-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blawgs" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Politics" /><title>Fucked Up Priorities of 30 Republican Doods</title><content type="html">Earlier this year, &lt;a href="http://minnesotaindependent.com/46483/franken-amendment-to-protect-victims-of-sexual-assault-passes"&gt;Senator Al Franken proposed an amendment&lt;/a&gt; that would prohibit defense contracts going to companies that required employees to sign away their right to sue.  The amendment stems from &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2008/01/that-other-collateral-damage-of-war.html"&gt;the case of Jamie Leigh Jones&lt;/a&gt;, who a group of men allegedly gang-raped in Iraq and then locked in a crate to prevent her from reporting the crime.  The fine print in her employment contract prevented her from suing her employer (a former Halliburton subsidiary).  Her alleged assailants will never face a judge or jury because of this loophole.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Now, to most civil, compassionate people, banning such a clause would be a slam-dunk.  The right to sue in the case of a sexual assault should never be allowed to be "contracted away" from a person.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, 30 Republicans voted against this amendment.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;30.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consequently, none of the 4 lady Republicans in the Senate were part of the "nays."  Women, wise ones or not, sometimes vote differently than men when it comes to certain issues.  I know, it's very difficult for some Republican doods to sympathize with rape victims, especially when More Important Things like business and freedom of contract are at stake.  But, well, I think Jon Stewart sums it up nicely &lt;a href="http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/wed-october-14-2009/rape-nuts"&gt;in this video&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"If to protect Halliburton, you have to side against rape victims, you might want to rethink your allegiances"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keep on stumbling toward irrelevancy, boys.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-881961514258429985?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/881961514258429985/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=881961514258429985&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/881961514258429985?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/881961514258429985?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/fucked-up-priorities-of-30-republican.html" title="Fucked Up Priorities of 30 Republican Doods" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0cBQXkyeip7ImA9WxNWFk8.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-217364847450259251</id><published>2009-10-15T09:30:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T11:44:10.792-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-15T11:44:10.792-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><title>The Girl Effect</title><content type="html">I will be out of town for the next few days and may or may not access the internets during that time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the meantime, behave yourselves here.  And also, this:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="425" height="355"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/WIvmE4_KMNw&amp;hl=en"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;/param&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/WIvmE4_KMNw&amp;hl=en" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" width="425" height="355"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;No word on the extent that Heresiarch, &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/09/feminism-and-more-important-things.html"&gt;critic of all things Western Feminist,&lt;/a&gt; is involved with this important project.  He's probably, like, the CEO or something though.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-217364847450259251?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/217364847450259251/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=217364847450259251&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/217364847450259251?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/217364847450259251?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/girl-effect.html" title="The Girl Effect" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEEER34-fip7ImA9WxNWFU4.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-5025590932294188773</id><published>2009-10-14T09:30:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T10:03:26.056-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-14T10:03:26.056-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Breakable Literal Bible Rules" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><title>Breakable Literal Bible Rule of the Week: Non-Virgin Ladies</title><content type="html">Christian organization Focus on the Family informs us about many moral issues, one of their large focuses being homosexuality.  For instance, &lt;a href="http://www.focusonthefamily.com/socialissues/sexual_identity/progay_revisionist_theology/talking_points.aspx"&gt;they observe&lt;/a&gt;: "Scriptures against homosexual behavior – including Leviticus 18:22, 20:13; Romans 1:26-27; 1 Corinthians 6:9-10; 1 Timothy 1:9-10 – are so clear and specific that they defy reinterpretation."  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So you see, when anti-gay individuals and organizations cite these verses, they aren't doing so because they hate gay people or anything.  They are just relaying what God says about all this stuff.  As Focus on the Family continues:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"It is intellectually dishonest to say that conservative individuals and leaders 'interpret' such clear verses as 'Thou shalt not lie with a man as with a woman' out of prejudice against homosexuals and use them for selfish gain."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some verses, after all, are very clear.  And that's what this series on Breakable Literal Bible Rules is about.  Assuming for the sake of argument that English translations of YHWH's messages to we mortals are correct, it can be fun to explore what it means to take verses from the Old Testament literally.  Christians do this all the time.  With respect to some verses, that is.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today's verse, &lt;a href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Deuteronomy+22%3A13-21&amp;version=KJV"&gt;plucked from Deuteronomy&lt;/a&gt;, is about damsels and what happens when they're unlikable and whore-y.  Specifically, if a man takes a wife and decides he doesn't like her, he can claim that the woman wasn't a virgin when they married.  If the vagina-human's father cannot produce the bloody cloths evidencing her virginity:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Then they shall bring out the damsel to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her with stones that she die: because she hath wrought folly in Israel, to play the whore in her father's house: so shalt thou put evil away from among you."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The men in a city must stone a non-virgin married lady with stones (and really, what else would one stone a person with, if not stones?).  Now, obviously in this day and age, especially in large metropolitan areas, I suspect that part of the reason these stonings no longer occur is because it is difficult for half a million or so men to coordinate their schedules with one another.  So with respect to this rule, I am wondering how one should logistically go about gathering all of the men of a city together to perform these stonings.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I mean, let's be real here, lots of women these days are definitely not virgins when they marry, and furthermore, given the high rates of divorce, thousands upon thousands of men just aren't that into their wives.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, for the sake of these fellas who, let's face it are seriously slacking in the Deuteronomy department, is it permissible for men to use the world wide webs and/or social networking sites to connect with other men seeking to fulfill their biblical duties?  Can they create some sort of application for their mobile devices that informs them of the time and location of stoning events?  Should we create a National Wifewhore Stoning Day, specifically excusing all men from work so they may participate in stonings?  (Although, that last one may have some separation of church/state issues, so perhaps not).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And most importantly, if there are not enough stones in a city for every single man, is it permissible for him to use other objects to kill the woman?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ugh! The Bible is so hard.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-5025590932294188773?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/5025590932294188773/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=5025590932294188773&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/5025590932294188773?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/5025590932294188773?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/breakable-literal-bible-rule-of-week.html" title="Breakable Literal Bible Rule of the Week: Non-Virgin Ladies" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DEUBQn8-eyp7ImA9WxNWFEk.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-6613381749322859606</id><published>2009-10-13T09:30:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-13T10:04:13.153-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-13T10:04:13.153-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="I See Gay People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Race" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><title>Pew Survey on Homosexuality</title><content type="html">The &lt;a href="http://pewforum.org/docs/?DocID=481"&gt;Pew Forum on Religion and Public Life recently released results&lt;/a&gt; from a survey on Americans' opinions on homosexuality, marriage, and civil unions.  57% of Americans now support allowing gay and lesbian couples to enter into civil unions "that would give them many of the same rights as married couples."  In 2003, this percentage was at 45%.  39% of Americans favor allowing gay and lesbian couples to marry.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Disturbingly, 49% of Americans still believe that homosexuality is "morally wrong."  64% of Americans believe that gays and lesbians face "a lot" of discrimination.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Demographically, among those most opposed to same-sex marriage are men (59%), blacks (66%), those 65 and older (67%), those with a high school diploma or less (59%), conservative Republicans (81%), white Evangelicals attending church weekly (77%), and those living in the South (60%).  Those who are more likely to support same-sex marriage are women (43%), Hispanics (45%), 18-29 year-olds (58%), college graduates (49%), liberal Democrats (72%), those unaffiliated with religious groups (60%), and those living in the West (47%).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For the most part, these statistics are not surprising.  Support for marriage equality and civil unions has been increasing over the years and levels of tolerance differ largely among political, sex, racial, age, and religious lines.  For instance, it is not surprising that men are more opposed to marriage equality than are women, given that &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/09/marriage-equality-and-segregation-part.html"&gt;"marriage defense" and "gender complementarity" rests on an ideology of male supremacy.&lt;/a&gt;  And also, many doods are just icked out by the thought of two guys getting it on.  Further, given that conservative Republicanism combined with Christian ideology is pretty much the unexaggerated real-life embodiment of The Patriarchy, there's a reason that the archetype of Mr. Average Marriage Defender is an &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/05/breaking-news-white-conservative-anti.html"&gt;old, white, conservative Christian dood.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, I was a bit surprised by the percentage of Hispanics who reported favoring same-sex marriage, given that this population also tends to be Catholic.  Although, Catholics reported being most supportive of LGBT rights over white protestant mainline, white protestant evangelical, and black protestant respondents.  Are some Catholics, unlike Protestants who tend to take things so literally, just so used to rejecting what the Pope says when it comes to matters of morality that they take his condemnations of homosexuality with a grain of salt?  In any event, I do find it encouraging that the fastest-growing minority group in the US is relatively supportive of LGBT rights.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-6613381749322859606?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/6613381749322859606/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=6613381749322859606&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/6613381749322859606?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/6613381749322859606?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/pew-survey-on-homosexuality.html" title="Pew Survey on Homosexuality" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;DU8EQH4-cSp7ImA9WxNWE0g.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-5126115920360158319</id><published>2009-10-12T09:30:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-12T09:30:01.059-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-12T09:30:01.059-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Anti-Gays" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="We the People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="I See Gay People" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Identity" /><title>Banana Sex</title><content type="html">An interesting cognitive dissonance exists within some anti-gay circles.  Having caught on that it's not cool to be a bigot these days, some anti-gay people are more concerned that they might appear to be a bigot than they are with actually being one.  Some of them say really shitty, offensive, and hurtful things and then back up with their hands in the air as if to say "Whoa, I'm not a bigot or anything though."  It's sort of like those friends we all have who will mock our new haircut and then say "Don't get mad, I was just &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;joking.&lt;/span&gt;"  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the same way, some anti-gays retreat from their more bold, yet honest(?), statements and re-frame their message as one, not of hatred or dislike, but of love and respect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let's explore this theme today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Generally, heterosupremacy is the belief that heterosexuality is the default, superior sexual identity.  To the extreme anti-gay, two circles represent human sexuality.  Inside the circle representing "normal" sexuality, is heterosexuality.  Inside the circle marked "Other," are homosexuality, bestiality, adultery, incest, polyamory, and every other sexual identity or behavior that is Not Heterosexual.  Heterosexual sex within the bounds of marriage is centered and any sexual behavior or attraction that is Not That is marginalized.  Extending this idea further, and demonstrating no capacity or willingness to make distinctions, sexualities and behavior that are not heterosexual are lumped together as equivalent.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a demonstration, we only need to look at our &lt;a href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/search?q=Playful+Walrus"&gt;reliably anti-gay friend&lt;/a&gt; the Playful Walrus.  In a post &lt;a href="http://opine-editorials.blogspot.com/2009/09/milking-it.html"&gt;questioning why Harvey Milk should get a day of honor in California&lt;/a&gt;, Walrus equates a consensual sexual relationship between two people of the same sex with, well, sticking inanimate objects in one's ear:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"So because he was attracted to men and/or because he engaged in homosexual behavior, he should be honored with a special day? What if someone who announced that he likes to stick peeled bananas into his ear gets elected - should he get a special day, too? What's the difference?"&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He has to genuinely ask what the difference is between banana-ear-poking and two guys having sex?  I waver between helping Walrus out and even dignifying his asininity with a response.  For, even a cursory examination of the two practices reveals a multitude of differences, the most important being that "homosexual behavior" generally occurs between two human beings and has been marked by society as a variation significant enough from the "heterosexual norm" to justify discrimination, violence, and oppression.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And, well, banana-ear-poking (he he, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;banana&lt;/span&gt;, get it, guys?  &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;Get. It?!&lt;/span&gt;), that has what to do with what, again?  Maybe I missed this somewhere in my edjumacation, but has society had a strong historical contempt for and aversion against people who stick bananas in their ears?  Have people who stick bananas in their ears faced widespread intolerance, stigmatization, discrimination, witch hunts, violence, and murder throughout history?  And, despite that historical oppression, has an open banana-lovin' politician been elected in a banana-tolerant jurisdiction anyway?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The point of Harvey Milk Day is not to celebrate the fact that he fucked other men.  The point is to acknowledge the reality that LGBT were, and are still, oppressed in some ways and thus, to recognize &lt;a href="http://www.eqca.org/atf/cf/%7B687df34f-6480-4bcd-9c2b-1f33fd8e1294%7D/AB%202567%20FACT%20SHEET.PDF"&gt;"the social contributions Harvey Milk made to our nation as a civil rights leader."&lt;/a&gt;  The only person incapable of seeing Harvey Milk Day about anything other than his sex life is Playful Walrus, and other anti-gays, who apparently cannot think of homosexuality without becoming fixated on what two &lt;del&gt;bananas&lt;/del&gt; dudes do together in bed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So Walrus' "analogy," in short, is heterosupremacy in action.  By equating the non-heterosexual orientation of homosexuality with sticking fruit in ears, he effectively centers heterosexuality and collapses all other behaviors and sexualities into one equivalent, aberrant blob.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yet, one when combines Walrus' hetero supremacy with some of his other hetero supremacist statements like &lt;a href="http://walrus.blogtownhall.com/?tag=same-sex"&gt;"We have somehow allowed a tiny minority to enshrine in law that a 'sexual'* act that does nothing tangible except spread disease and injure the participants is the equivalent to a sexual act that has perpetuated society for all of human existence and created almost every single one of us"&lt;/a&gt; with his statement that &lt;a href="http://opine-editorials.blogspot.com/2009/10/why-marriage-is-different.html"&gt;"there are even those of us who see nothing wrong with homosexual behavior....We are tolerant,"&lt;/a&gt; we see a truly bizarre cognitive dissonance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Walrus clearly &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;does&lt;/span&gt; see many things "wrong" with "homosexual behavior," not the least of which that it "does nothing tangible except spread disease."  Yet, perhaps fearing being called out as a homobigot, he backs up with his hands up and insists that he sees "nothing wrong with homosexual behavior" and that, incredibly, he is "tolerant."  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't generally find it useful to suggest that anti-gays are bigots.  I like to think that people mean well and approach the debate with an open-mind and a modicum of sincerity.  Although, when people flippantly suggest that there is no difference between "homosexual" behavior and sticking a banana in one's ear while claiming to be tolerant, I think it is worth pointing out that maybe one's definition of "tolerance" deserves re-examining.  I think that, oftentimes, homo-bigotry is an observable fact in reality no matter how much anti-gays insist that they love us, they really really love us.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, I also know that the quickest way to get our substantive arguments dismissed is to call out bigotry when we see it.  Anti-gay individuals and organizations have a lot invested in believing that They Are Doing The Right thing.  So, they re-frame reality and perpetuate the message that when other people call them bigots, they are being persecuted.  And so, when some anti-gays read my above discussion of how gay sex is, actually, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;nothing at all&lt;/span&gt; like sticking a banana in one's ear, I suspect that all they see is "Bor, beven a bigoted bexamination of the two bigots beveals a bigittude of bifferences..." and so forth.  Once the b-word is suggested, panic ensues!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I can only offer a suggestion.  Those opposed to LGBT rights and who devote their online and/or professional presences to doing so, &lt;span style="font-style:italic;"&gt;think&lt;/span&gt; about what you are saying.  Chances are, if you're comparing a sexual relationship between two adults to sticking inanimate pieces of fruit in one's ear, maybe it's time to re-think your overall opinion of what homosexuality is.  Think really really hard about why that could be considered asinine and construed as bigoted.  And remember, being called a "bigot" isn't the point.  The point is that your words, on top of being absurd, can also be hurtful.  And that's something a decent, and logical, person would care about.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;*I'm not sure why Walrus put scare-tastic quotes around "sexual" in reference to gay sex.  If the implication is that gay sex is not Real Sex, my response is (a) then why does he spend so much time writing about something that is not real and (b) who died and made Walrus the Decider of what constitutes Real Sex.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-5126115920360158319?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/5126115920360158319/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=5126115920360158319&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/5126115920360158319?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/5126115920360158319?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/banana-sex.html" title="Banana Sex" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CEcBR3k9fCp7ImA9WxNWEU0.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1001299071723048070.post-3296101469388091557</id><published>2009-10-09T09:30:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-10-09T10:27:36.764-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-10-09T10:27:36.764-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Gender Identity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Well-behaved women" /><title>Men Unknowingly Attack Cage Fighters Dressed as Women</title><content type="html">Well, isn't &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1218651/Thugs-attack-men-dresses--turn-cage-fighters.html"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt; just instant karma:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"Two thugs who attacked what they thought were a pair of transvestites picked on the wrong men - when their intended victims turned out to be cage fighters on a night out in fancy dress.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dean Gardener, 19, and Jason Fender, 22, singled out the two men walking along a street in wigs, short skirts and high heels....Gardener and Fender were left dazed and seen staggering to their feet after their failed attack."&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As a note, it's unclear from the article as to how the two cage fighters identify, gender-wise.  I would also be curious to know whether the attackers picked out their victims believing them to fit the defenseless-woman mold or because they had &lt;a href="http://www.firelily.com/gender/resources/defs.html"&gt;clocked&lt;/a&gt; the two as being "men dressed as women." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I am generally opposed to violence, I have to admit there is a certain satisfaction in seeing would-be victims successfully defend themselves from an attack.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/1001299071723048070-3296101469388091557?l=fanniesroom.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/feeds/3296101469388091557/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=1001299071723048070&amp;postID=3296101469388091557&amp;isPopup=true" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/3296101469388091557?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/1001299071723048070/posts/default/3296101469388091557?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://fanniesroom.blogspot.com/2009/10/men-unknowingly-attack-cage-fighters.html" title="Men Unknowingly Attack Cage Fighters Dressed as Women" /><author><name>Fannie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04296502470605119779</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty name="OpenSocialUserId" value="03183651104147382375" /></author><thr:total xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0">0</thr:total></entry></feed>
