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Once you’ve figured out how to attract women, you’re bound to find one who’s particularly interesting to you.One that you might actually, um, love.One that you might want to keep around for a bit. Hey, you might even meet someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with.Even though I’ve made most of this book about meeting women, I don’t feel that it would be complete without at least a

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Have you ever noticed how women will say, “I like him, but only as a FRIEND.”Don’t you hate that?I thought about that one for a long time, and a friend of mine and I have figured out how to turn this one around. Now I always make reference to ‘making friends’ and ‘let’s get together and make friends’ and ‘if nothing else, we can be friends’ in the first conversation and when setting up the first

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First, I looked at myself. I asked, “If I were the type of woman who I would like to attract (I like super hot, very intelligent women), what would make me want to bewith a man?”So I started reading, listening to tapes, going to seminars… you name it. And I started to work on my ‘presentation’ of myself.I now think that it’s important to get EVERY POSSIBLE thing going for you that you can.Here’s

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Always end conversations, meetings, and phone calls first.I got this idea from the book “The Rules” by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider...You remember that book that was written about how to get a man to marry you? Well, it’s a great book. But I don’t think the authors would like the reasons why I think it’s great. I take all of ‘the rules’ and turn them around. When you play the games that women

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I think that it’s important to look at the differences between men and women from an objective perspective.Remember that just about every thought and behaviour that a woman has, no matter how little sense it may make to you, has some positive intention behind it. Drama is often to get attention. Jealousy is often a way of protecting a relationship. Games are often used to make sure that a man is

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First of all, I’m going to explain my mindset: I have decided that I need about 20-30 minutes to get to know a woman before I decide to invest in getting to ‘really’ know her.I actually like women for their company, and who I’d enjoy seeing for more than just one ‘get laid’ session.So I like to meet a woman for a cup of tea and talk for a bit, or even let that lead to a bite to eat sometimes. So

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In my opinion, women are attracted to things like fame, money, and power because they are genetically and socially programmed on an unconscious level to believe that these men are more intelligent, more fun, more interesting, more able to give them the lifestyle – and MOST IMPORTANTLY – more able to give them the Influence, RobertFEELINGS that they want. In his book Cialdini talks about a

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By studying marketing and sales, I’ve learned that humans are attracted to things that are unique. They are also attracted to things that are superior. So I have a phrase that I use: “Different in a preferential way.” In the mating game, it pays to be different in an ATTRACTIVE way.What I’m about to share with you is a group of ingredients. These are the different ingredients to which women are

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It’s funny to me that so many people expect to fail. For instance, I once heard someone say, “A woman won’t get into an unmade bed.” This is actually pretty interesting if you think about it. My point here is to encourage you to not only expect success in your mind, but also expect success in the real world.Here are a couple of ways to expect and plan for success:See where I’m going with this?If

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MOST IMPORTANTLY I found and started to hang around guys who WERE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN. This was the biggie. I owe much of my success to the guys who showed me in the real world what they did. It wasn’t the books and the people selling tapes and seminars. It was the guys who were successful in the real world. What I do now resembles nothing that I’ve really read in a book or learned from an

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Women love things like Astrology, Tarot Cards, Palmistry, Handwriting Analysis, Psychics, and anything else you can think of that most men aren’t interested in.Here’s what to do:Go get the books “Handwriting Analysis” by Karen Amend, “Palm Reading: A Little Guide To Life’s Secrets” by Dennis Fairchild. and “An Introduction to Hand Reflexology” by Denise Brown. You can order all of them at

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So let’s start off with this shift in thinking: Think about what the woman who you’re interested in needs and wants and don’t assume that these are the same things that YOU need and want.And don’t assume that what women want is going to make any sense at all to you, because it probably won’t. This shift in thinking was a big one for me personally to understand. Almost none of what I do to be

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After spending the last ten years or so studying psychology and behaviour, I’ve come to the opinion that MOST of our desires, drives, preferences, strengths, weaknesses, behaviours, and personality traits are determined by our DNA and some by our socialconditioning. I’m talking about both men and women here.Even differences like whether a person prefers adventure or couch riding are largely a

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Here’s a common problem: A man tries to impress a woman by doing things that show that he’s a good LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP kind of guy, but the woman responds by being stand-offish.I have read some interesting research that shows that women have a few main categories in their minds in which they slot men.These are:Here’s the interesting part: If a woman sees a man as a good potential ‘long-term’

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Ever been sitting with a group of attractive women and your buddies when out of nowhere one of the women says, “You guys are lucky to be at the same table withus.”Well I have. So I came up with a few zingers to throw out should this happen again:Also, quit EXPECTING to “pick up girls” and instead go make friends and give the women the opportunity to get to know you. A couple more ideas for

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After many years of studying, researching, and trying many different things, I’ve now realized that there is a conspiracy against men being successful with women.It’s very real, and it’s very pervasive in our culture.Let me explain.Most men that I know have some kind of ‘feeling’ that it’s wrong in some way to sleep with more than one woman at a time. (I’m not even referring to a Ménage à Trois,

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OK, so we’re on the way home from coffee (because I said, “OK, let’s go…”) and we’re back at my house. Here’s one that I love… If it’s at night, look at your watch andsay, “Well, I have to get up early in the morning… but… OK, you can come in for a few minutes…”This is perfect! You’re talking to her like she’s trying to convince you to let her in, and she hasn’t said anything! Nice. (Read it

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I made the decision a few years ago that I needed to get the area of my life ‘handled’ called ‘dealing with women’. So I made a decision and a commitment to myself and my best friend that I would do whatever it took to learn and ‘figure this out’. (Read Chapter 1 from “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill for more on thismindset.)Some background: The girlfriends that I had in the past were

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An important distinction that I’ve made which attracts women is to never act too happy.Women are intrigued by men who are calm and almost unaffected. The real hotties are used to having men get nervous when talking to them, and they can sense that you’re different when you stay very cool and calmly talk to them.NEVER let them sense that you’re too interested in the beginning.I just read tonight

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My experience is that women love chivalry.I personally like to open doors for women, etc.Here are a few things that you can do that women will find irresistible:Open doors for them. I open all doors. Car doors, house doors, restaurant doors... any door that shows up. If you step just a little ahead and open each door, this will create an impression.Pull out their chairs. Only do this if it makes

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There is a lot controversy around the differences between men and women. My perspective is that men and women are different in many ways and that they usually respond differently to various types of communication.And as politically incorrect as this might sound, I believe that most women respond very strongly to ‘masculine’ men. The more confident, arrogant, and dominant I’ve acted, the more

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Finally, I’m going to address the idea of your ‘states’. By ‘state’ I mean the feeling that you have in your body.Can you remember a time when you felt happy and excited?Can you remember a time when you felt powerful and energetic?If you can, then you can HAVE THESE FEELINGS ANY TIME YOU WANT THEM. Most people don’t use their memories to help them feel good because they say, “Well, that’s not

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Here’s the deal: If you want to meet more women, you have to go to the places where they go.If you like athletic women, go to the gym or spend time at the coffee shop or juice bar next to a gym.If you like spiritual women, take yoga or meditation classes.If you like large women, hang out at Weight Watchers.Are you with me here?The point is that you have to put yourself in a ‘high probability’

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I personally love to cuddle. I discovered something almost entirely by accident one time when I was talking to a girl on the phone one night. We were having a discussion about the differences between men and women and I said something to this effect:“Do you like to cuddle? I really like to cuddle… as a matter of fact, if I had to choose between cuddling and sex, I’d choose cuddling. Now don’t get

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I’ve done a lot of research on this topic, and I believe that women are most attracted to these six things:Now, numbers one through five are largely out of your immediate control. If you’re not rich, you’re probably not going to get rich this week. If you’re not famous or tall, you’re probably not going to be in a hit movie or grow 6 inches in the next 24 hours.So that leaves us with number six:

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