Feet, Spankings and Bondage OH MY!

2012-03-18T21:33:00.001-07:00

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Tiki's first post...back in time...Trampling, an educational essay.

2012-02-28T09:55:00.000-08:00

Welcome to my blog -- my first ever post in my first ever blog. Try to bare with me.:) This first post will be a bit longer as I introduce myself and the reason behind this blog.

The purpose of this blog is to help members of our community be aware of safety in scenes and play responsibly. I don't claim to offer all the answers, and I welcome educational comments noting things I have missed or telling everyone about techniques they can use to allow more severe play.

Before you read, please be aware of what the acronyms SSC and RACK mean. These are the philosophies you will most encounter when trying to educate yourself about safety. SSC means "Safe, Sane, and Consensual", while RACK means "Risk Aware Consensual Kink". RACK is typically something experienced players relate to as they are in a position to assess risk more clearly than a newcomer will be.

My first post will focus on something near and dear to Miss Vonn's heart -- trampling.

Trampling is defined as having the Top quite literally walk all over you.:) There are a wide variety of ways this can be done. Sometimes the Top will support her/his weight with his arms and step lightly on you. At other times, s/he may choose to put her/his full weight onto your body, possibly stomping on you for extra force. Often the Top will have some sort of support available, be it hanging chains, a raised bar, or even something like a counter top. This is so that if s/he slips or missteps, s/he can catch her/his weight before any damage occurs. However, for experienced Tops, it is not at all unusual to forgo this support.

Trampling can be done barefoot, in socks/stockings, in shoes, sneakers, boots, heels, and just about anything else that can be classified as footwear.:) It is considered by many as being very physical play, and by some as edge-play. (Edge-play is a type of play that can be extremely dangerous and/or something very severe. It's typically associated with RACK more than SSC.)

Now, take a minute or so to picture trampling as I have defined it. Try to imagine what could go wrong with something like this. Hopefully, you'll come up with at least one or two things.:) This point may possibly be the most important point I will ever make in this blog. Remember this. While a bottom or submissive relies and trusts her/his Top to be careful and to play safely, ultimately the bottom is responsible for her/his own safety! There is a reason that the bottom is, usually, given a safeword. Play without safe words should only be done with someone the bottom trusts with your life, because that may be exactly what is at stake. Bottoms are obligated to educate themselves about safety. If they see something about to happen that they believe is unsafe, there is no harm in calling "Yellow", meaning "Hold on a second. I need to talk with you."

Now, to some specific trampling safety. Firstly, if you have a respiratory condition, heart trouble, high blood pressure, poor circulation, or are someone of advanced age, be sure your Top knows this. There are certain techniques that are not advised, and if your Top doesn't know about your condition s/he won't know what safety measures s/he should take. One remedy that is available is the use of a "trampling board". This board helps to distribute the Top's weight and protects the Bottom's body. This device still provides the crush of trampling, but the over all pressure of the Top's weight is focused on a larger area. One added feature of many of these boards is a hole through which a male Bottom's genitalia can be pulled. "Cock and ball trampling" is not for everyone. Be absolutely sure your Top has done this before. It only takes twelve pounds of pressure to break the penis, and testicles are of course fragile.

There are certain areas of the body that are particularly vulnerable. Your Top should avoid trampling your kidneys and directly on your spine. Also, the collarbone is extremely breakable, and it is very easy to step on if the Top is not careful.

There are many Bottoms who imagine having their faces stepped on or stood upon, and many Tops who have the same interest. This is not for the faint of heart, particularly if the face stepping or standing is full weight. If the Top steps on the side of your face, (your ear, cheek, ETC.) things are generally safe. The Top needs to be aware of your jawbone, as too much weight focused on it can break it. If, on the other hand, you and your Top want to have her/him step on your upturned face, the biggest danger is to your nose. The nose is easily broken by a footstep, so your Top should be very careful. S/he should step on either side of the nose, either with her/his toes on your forehead and heels on your chin, or facing the other direction. The Top must be very careful that your nose is between her/his feet. The Top can also step or stand such that one foot is across the forehead and eyes and the other is across your mouth or chin. Your lips are going to be hurting either way.:) This is not for everyone. Be sure you understand what you're getting into if you do this. I would most definitely advise not doing this with spikes or high heels. Your Top must be VERY experienced if s/he is going to do this with you. Also, particularly in the case of face standing, I would advise working your way up to full weight. The Top should be supporting her/his weight and slowly building the amount of weight directly on an upturned face. This is also true of just about everywhere else on your body, but the face is particularly vulnerable.

If you are new to being trampled, you might want to consider having some padding under you. My first trampling was on a bed, with my partner using the ceiling so that she did not fall. Even today I prefer having a pillow for my head. This might be a good idea if head or neck trampling is involved, particularly if the Top wants to step on the back of the bottom's head. In that case, I always put my hands under the pillow to cradle my face. It helps to spread out the pressure when her/his foot comes down.

Be aware that certain forms of trampling may leave a mark. This is especially true of ribbed sneakers and boots with heavy tread. High heels also leave a very distinct mark, so if you will be trampled under heels, be sure you have planned for marks.

Finally, perhaps a subtler point. Remember that being stood upon hurts a lot more than being trampled.:) As long as the Top is moving, the pressure keeps changing to different parts of the body. This means that no one spot really feels a prolonged crush. When the Top stands still, her/his weight is baring down in one spot, and you'll definitely notice. Some people call this type of play "crushing", though that word is used to describe many other things as well. It's probably a good idea to start "standing still" on the chest or back, but an experienced Top can judge for her/himself.

I hope this has been enlightening. Feel free to leave comments, particularly if you see something I've misrepresented or if you have your own safety tips for trampling.

Miss Vonn's Tiki

I love my life

2012-02-24T17:01:00.000-08:00

While looking for something...somewhere on the nets sometime today...I stumbled upon a link to Cinekink...Which HAPPENED to be featuring (in this article) Crusaders of Kink...which HAPPENS to feature some of my dearest friends (and a few men whom I hold in great esteem...) from the leather community. When BAM whut to my wandering eyes did appear? My girls from Sanctuary right along side the boys... BAM BABY...

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams. Miss Vonn www.missvonn.com

time for bed

2012-02-08T00:42:00.001-08:00

This is how the mistress rolls. After the boy locked himself up for night. He brushed his teeth while getting ready for bed.

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Having an amazing morning lying here

2011-11-21T10:29:00.001-08:00

In a warm cozy bed with ma PuP. Snuggling and snogging...pinching and poking, scratching...more snogging and COFFEE!

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New Site!

2011-10-17T22:36:00.000-07:00

Working VERY hard on the new site...will have some COOL new stuffs on it. I do hope that it will be much more streamlined than it currently is. However, it, like me, is a work in progress.

Enjoy pets!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
BBW Mistress and Professional Dominatrix
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Mistress Liliane Hunt of San Francisco!

2011-09-21T11:34:00.000-07:00

I love this woman pets! By far the most wonderful FREE Professional Dominatrix website I have ever seen!

If you ever travel to San Francisco pets, you must arrange to meet with this put together, sexy siren!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com

Newest playmate at work! Busty Bijou!

2011-09-07T16:40:00.000-07:00

As some of you undoubtedly know I LOVE love love me some predicament bondage, as some of you also know I lubs me some chubby chik tata's ... well today's lunchtime activities included both! Introducing Busty Bijou!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

Great night with shadow and mouse!

2011-09-04T11:11:00.001-07:00

Hello pets! Had an amazing time at Sanctuary LAX last night. The boy brought me a sacrificial back to party with in the hades room. I dont think it's quite what he had envisioned but it turned out to be am amazing night if friendly cameos...including Lady Jane, one of the other dommes here at LAX, a bite size asian powerhouse who joined in or scene for a bit of heavy spanking. Wow, if youre a heavy bottom....shes a sight to watch! Thanks for joining us!

shadow and I teamed up to play with mouse, putting her in a harness initially intended to tire her up on the spider web, but instead the two of them found themselves in quite a predicament with shadows nipple ring chain passed through his pa and a short rope attatched to mouses harness.

I took turns flogging, tickling and spanking the two if them, all the while the boy has to maintain control of his squirmy tormentor! It was amazing watching them console one another as play became more and more intense. We ended our 2.5 hour scene with an intense flogging of the little mousers....shes amazing!

On the ride home I drifted in and out..listening to their conversation and baking in my exhaustion and the smiles I could hear in each of their voices.

This morning I sure here soaking in my tub recalling the way shadows tattoo raises as I beat his back, and the jiggle of mouses tush as I flogged the panties right off of it. Sigh.

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Tonight at 7pm Inside

2011-08-30T14:26:00.000-07:00

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

Missing my pet

2011-08-28T01:12:00.001-07:00

Pony boy went off to lake for a weekend with the boys and I'm home alone...what to do....what to do.

Brought home new mattress. Set up for ars and crafts day tomorrow with lapcc....time for hot tub time machine !!

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Getting with the times

2011-08-27T12:05:00.001-07:00

Hello bitches!

Miss Vonn is finally on the road to the 21st century...can you stand it?

Soon you will be able to follow me on twitter, facebook, kinkarena, Sanctuary LAX, and here on blogger just by subscription. I know I know it seems an idea whose time has come and gone for some, but after seeing the giant spike in traffic after I reloaded my site...I've decided to treat you all to more access to my inner circle.

Also coming soon are stories and blogs from my two pets! I can't wait for you to see what your missing. Along with the stories and blogs will come a members section to contain some really hot video clips, session photos and short stories.

Not to mention a whole new layout for the site.

Want to subscribe to my blog now? Click on the subscription link on the right column of this blog.

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.

Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com

pet taking mistress to see

2011-08-25T16:07:00.000-07:00

Rise of the planet of the apes!

hope they have deep popcorn buckets!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

Working Working Working .... an update on the new site

2011-08-25T14:47:00.000-07:00

So Ive been SLAVING away pets, joining forums and picking up all sorts of new blog partners...a really fun one i found was Twisted Blogstwisted blogs I swear you can find ANYTHING on this site! Panties, bukakke, celebrity faux pas, and big bear orgies!

Another GREAT blog list that I have joined today is Adult Blog Directory I like this site better for Fetishists...facials, feet and legs, hairy's, pda's and spankings can all be found here in one place!

Last but by NO means least is ......ENJOY PERVS!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

I am who I am

2011-08-21T18:43:00.000-07:00

I was not given a title at birth, I am special because I am who I am, a woman named Miss Vonn who likes to humiliate and hurt people. I call you by whatever name I give you, you will address me as Miss Vonn. You are common, a quivering pile of man goo who must beg for the attention of a woman. You have fantasies that involve your pathetic prickette being tied to a board and being punished for the wicked thoughts it causes you. That is simply sad that you feel this is your only source of release.

Sad. Really. I must say I am glad you exist for my entertainment, because this world would much more boring without you at my feet scrubbing the gum from the bottom of my shoes.

Subs a pleanty here at Sanctuary....

2011-08-18T18:15:00.000-07:00

Today was NOT a productive day by any means...it was however fun...submissives Anne Marie and Princess Scarlet got a BDSM education today. We Switch Spanky, Mistress Ashley and Genesis showed the new subs about canning, simple predicament bondage, cages, bastinado, BDSM Terms and all sorts of good stuffs...

I discovered, Anne Marie has a very high tolerance for tit torture with canes. Quite impressive and very pretty little tits. And that her imagination is quite sexy. When asked to describe a medical scene she told us all about how she wanted the client to be a doctor and one of the other girls to be a patient, and have the doctor correct her mistakes while she was taking vitals and testing the patients reflexes.

While tied up, in a back to back predicament bondage scenario the girls were both given happy knots by yours truly of course...her response is "wow stop I'll have to change my panties" SO Cute... Ok ok I need to get back to work, but I just wanted to drop by and say thank you to all of you who have come back, I have been so thrilled with the welcome backs!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn

www.missvonn.com

Im baaaaack....!

2011-08-16T08:44:00.001-07:00

That's right Guys and Gals, sluts and sissy's hold on to your junk, www.pleasemymistress.com is back and soon will be better than ever. BUT WAIT! There's more, I can be seen regularly for sessions at Sanctuary LAX (www.sanctuarylax.com). Foot sessions, wrestling, GS, corporal, Mudding....sploshing... all sorts of debaucherous fun to be had in their newly renovated 7000 sf play space!

240.00 for one hour with ME the trampling queen! Stay tuned for how you can payonline and get special rates for sessions with me at Sanctuary!

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonn www.missvonn.com

Folsom Street Fair 2010!

2010-09-27T10:16:00.000-07:00

So Folsom started with the flu...boo.

However I woke up Sunday morning raring to go and what an amazing pony day it was. Ferrari, pup mochi and I met up with Maddoc and Beauty for breakfast at Roccos. Discussed the benefits of semen and hand grips for pony's hands on a cart, protein is sticky you know.

The only thing I am completely bummed out about is the fact that all three of us forgot our cameras. :(

I am SO thinking about hooking up solar panels to the cart and doing a live feed from palm springs, we shall see.

for now.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xHiOj3B8f0U we are at 1:20 ... well our backs are. I will post more as I find them.

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

International Olympus August 14, 2010 at 8p.m.

2010-08-02T08:19:00.000-07:00

See more about International Olympus and the Pantheon of Leather!

Pinches and spanks pets.
Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com

Vonn Voyage

2010-08-02T08:09:00.000-07:00

Ok guys and gals,

Olympus is 12 days away. I expect you all to be there. My FUNraiser was a wonderful success...here are my thank yous!

TO MY AMAZING FAMILY - Mike & Socks. You two are my rock, love and light. I could not have done this without your hours of listening, lifting, and what must have been intolerable suffrage at the end of a phone during this last two weeks. (don't worry there's only 13 days left till Olympus, its almost over boys).

To those who stepped up, showed up, and ponied up. Even with the slow night, we made $130.00 for Hearing from the Heart(!!!), and have eased my mind to focus on prep for interviews and fantasy portions of International Olympus, you kids rawk! I wish I could be more eloquent at the moment, but I was able to finally relax after what was possibly the most awful couple of weeks evar.

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

Ima comic book character! (almost published even!)

2010-07-07T07:59:00.000-07:00

So yeah, I am so excited! There is so much happening. This weekend is the Carnal Carnival at Threshold in North Hollywood. Want to see me? I'll be there ALL weekend. Last night at the Fetish Noir board meeting the leaders of the group agreed to allow some % of the proceeds of their bake sale to go towards my International Olympus Fund. I am so thankful to this amazing TNG group for all that they are doing and trying to do for the community. I am very proud to be part of this wonderful group. Please come out and support us/me/them in the kitchen at the bake sale, Saturday July 10, 2010 from 12pm-6pm.

International Olympus Leather will be held during the Pantheon of Leather August 12-15 in Los Angeles at the LAX Hilton Hotel. Come see me represent the Los Angeles / Southern California / Western US Region as I compete against 5 other AMAZING women from across the US and Canada. This is a Pansexual Leather Title and I have to say I feel my toughest competition will be from Sythen of Salt Lake City.

Pinches and spanks pets.
Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com

San Francisco Pride 2010

2010-06-29T10:08:00.000-07:00

First of, thank you to Mike Tramel, Franco Perrota, HellPuppy and Tindala for a fan fucking tastic weekend. A huge hug and thank you to Mistress Liliane Hunt of San Francisco for inviting me to participate in the Leather Contingency's pony cart pull in the parade.

Pinches and spanks pets.
Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com

See me playing with Bondage Kitty

2010-06-23T10:53:00.000-07:00

As promised me and BK in the Critter freestyle at the Pony and Critter Jamboree in Los Angeles, CA

Pinches and spanks pets. Till next we meet dark dreams.Miss Vonnwww.missvonn.com

one hell of a weekend!

2010-06-21T08:47:00.000-07:00

Friday night was kinky karaoke (no i didnt sing) with the south oc kinksters...what an amazing group of peeps. Entropy, Ren, Puppy paws, kinky californian and a slew of others about 15 all together came out...how much fun was had.

Saturday... WOW the Pony and Critter Jamboree...What fun fun fun..kitty and I took 3rd and fourth place in our respective event's. Tindala did very well as well. I'll be posting video and pics very soon. LiquidErotica shot lots of portraits and I had the chance to meet with Lady Robing and D, who judged the event. Dinner at Dennys with Lady Robin and D then off to Sanctuary, Whew home by 3. Such an amazing night.

Oh yeah, Cyan has convinced me to run for International Olympus Leather. What an amazing event, and I am honored to have her unquestioned support. I've been considering it for some time now, but have fully committed to it now.

Hugs and Love to everyone who made this weekend one to remember!

Pinches and spanks pets.
Till next we meet dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com
www.internationalolympus.com
www.rockymoutnainolympus.com

1st meeting with K

2010-06-17T08:48:00.001-07:00

Wow bitches. I am out of shape, shame on you for letting me get this bad. Holy crap my arm is sore.

That said, what a little jewel this boy is. After a smidge of conversation, I invited K into my play room. Really, after the disaster that was DC my playroom isn't much to behold, but wow, last night it's four little walls and harsh florescent light became a fantasy land. With no warm up he took my rubber equalizer (3/4 inch thick rubber with 1 inch holes), then my rope flogger and my rubber dragons tongue.

I really found his sweet spot after "accidentally" smackin his nuts to get his attention. Tuggin, smacking, thumping and squeezing of his scrotum ensued for how long I dont know, all I know is it isn't often one can take enough to make me cum in my panties. Well done slut. I can't wait to play again.

Pinches and spanks pets.
Till next we meetm, dark dreams.
Miss Vonn
www.missvonn.com