Fei Zi's territory

奥客，对他们你不能讲道理也不能用蛮力

2015-09-18T05:12:00.001+08:00

睡不着。

妈妈遇上了一个难搞房客，处理这件事的时候原本可以很容易解决
但因为对方的态度极差，一直在小题大做搬弄是非
所以她来个硬碰硬火星撞地球的方式来处里
怎么都不肯让步。

当初难搞房客来询问房间时，就一直讨价还价嫌东嫌西
后来妈妈说不想租给他时，他又突然把deposit 和 rental 转到妈妈户口里

后来搬进来后，又有一大堆的麻烦事

多斤斤计较啊
说什么“我是几号搬进来的，所以我的水电费不用share那么多”
但水电费的单又不是因为他几号搬进来，特地为他而开的。
还要求一个他房间专属的电表，以防被骗。

当妈妈发现难搞房客还把他母亲接过来一起住的时候
一住就住了一个多月，为了对所有房客公平起见
妈妈要求难搞房客的母亲也要分担水电费
难搞房客当然不妥协，激到了我妈妈发火说不止水电费要分担还要调整rental
妈妈说“他跟我计较，我就跟他算！”

我认为妈妈不应该跟难搞房客一般见识的~
但怎么说她就是不肯听。。好了~把事情闹僵了吧。。。

搬进来两个月后，难搞房客说厕所马桶阻塞了
因为是condominium 的关系，妈妈得通知management office让他们派人来处理。
同时买了厕所pump给他，让他将就一下直到management office 派人来处理。
但难搞房客当然不耐烦，一直吵着要扣房租和退房。

这几天，难搞房客就拿着“马桶阻塞，扣房租；我母亲有帮忙打扫房子，所以没理由调整房租” 的借口吵说我妈妈很over，所以要退房。

妈妈说那就照着合约上写的，约满前若要退房那就要找replacement
不然 deposit 就会被 forfeit 掉。不过条件是一定要本地人。。
她只是想要刁难一下难搞房客，一心想着说就算难搞房客无法找到人，她也会全数退换deposit.

再说了要是难搞房客找到人了，也应该多多少少会被难搞房客得一面词洗脑也会对妈妈有不好印象。。

我劝了她说不必再浪费时间在这件事上面，对这些奥客不能讲道理也不能用蛮力
因为他们会不择手段的达到他们想要的结果，你只有被气死而已

闭只眼让难搞房客无条件退房，快快赶走难搞房客不就好了？

但在气头上的妈妈，我怎么劝她就是不肯听。

我是一个情绪很容易被影响的人，明明就不关我的事却很在意那过程与结果。
我觉得事情不复杂，如果有一方态度不那么硬的话
理性一点好好解决问题，不用变敌人的。
haiiiii。。。难搞房客和妈妈都睡着了吧，我在这里瞎操心干吗呢？
不能睡呀~~

2nd anniversary =)

2012-01-04T07:45:00.000+08:00

04-01-2012

My 2nd Anniversary

I'm very guilty because i left ahThan alone for 3 months..

i know he must be always emo and thinking a lot of negative thoughts!

because nobody is beside him to distract him and teman him..

Can't imagine that we made it for 2 years.

We went through a lot of stages within these 2 years..

We...

Graduated and look for jobs together

Being employed at the same time and work hard together

Shares problems and give encouragement to each other

Being happy and enjoy all excitements together..

Also still maintaining our relationship with a lot a lot of LOVE

I promise will love him more and be with him whenever he need me!!

*The past 3 months is not counted .hehehe

Happy 2012!

2012-01-01T12:57:00.001+08:00

In Year 2011

First happy thing is "ahThan and i managed to maintain our relationship for a year " ! Yay!

I will treasure all the days we have together.

Then, I got transferred back to second level support around April where i do not need to work under a monster and able to work happily.

Celebrated my 23rd birthday with all my beloved friends and family in few days =.="( Semua berebut-rebut wanna celebrate with me)..

Around July, Knowledge exchange program was introduced and i got chosen from a few candidates after several interviews (well this proved that my performance is good,or else they wont choose me )..This also explain why I am in Germany now..

It was a hard time around August to October, because i couldn't accept the feeling of being apart soon with my family and ahThan.

During this knowledge exchange program (3 months) , I will be assigned in different departments and suppose to learn as much as i could and understand all the workload in other departments and then bring back the knowledge to Malaysia in order to reduce the knowledge gap between both countries.

I suffered from homesick + "Lovesick" within these period, but luckily ahThan and my family are very supportive, they encourage me when I'm down.

Being stressful, because all my colleagues are putting their hope on me, I was really scared that i couldn't absorb all the new knowledge within 3 months.

I never regret to accept this challenge, what I've learned is not only the knowledge in work, but also a new culture, language and community here. I'm glad to be given this opportunity.

Well, not everyone in the world is lucky as i am.

I have big and sweet family , although we sometimes quarrel but we love each other very much.

I have a super duper good boyfriend, although he always bully me but he gives me all his Love without expecting any return.

I have bunch of intimate friends, although i do not have big quantity friends to hang around but i got good quality friends who always there for me when i need help.

I have a chance to travel and explore more at this young age,although i have to sacrifice a bit but i know this experience is rare and precious.

I have a second family in Germany ,although we don't really understand each other because of language barriers but they loves me and treated me as their own daughter and sister.

I had a great year in 2011, and i'm looking forward for a better 2012!

Happy New Year ! For those who reading this , I wish you all the best !

*Going home at 4th January , and the day will be our 2nd anniversary!! but i will be landed in Malaysia at 5th January >.< I can't wait to go home d... ok ok ~ i know i repeated this alot of times..gonna stop right here ..Grüße!

18.12.2011 The snow has finally arrived!

2011-12-19T01:59:00.002+08:00

I woke up with some snow flakes falling from the sky , but it stopped around 10am..
quite disappointing, and because Damian told me that he just look out the weather forecast and told me that it's getting warmer next week and we won't have white Christmas.

I prayed very hard and hope to see the snow since the day i arrived in Germany.

皇天不负苦心 !!!!
The snow finally arrived.. DAMN DAMN DAMN HAPPY !

but then the Kabala family is more excited than me to see the snow.
Aunty Gabi was jumping and screaming "Kwai Fei , Schnee! Schnee! Schnee!Photo!schneller!" LOL..

Anyway , the snow doesn't look like they are going to stay until next week.
We gonna have grey and dirty street tomorrow i think >.<

-This one cannot eat !-


-Uncle Christoph with me-

I miss Mel-Mel...

2011-12-18T21:53:00.001+08:00

I wanna train Mel-Mel to do all these....hehehe..so cute

Embarassing moment

2011-12-07T19:01:00.001+08:00

I currently working in DataIn department , the two colleague who sitting in the same room only come to work at 9am. so i must go to work alone abit later because i do not have keys for the room.

Usually i will nap in the train , and Damian will wake me up when we reach our stop.

As usual , i fell asleep in the train again, when i woke up i was 3 station away from my stop, i quickly stand up(jump up actually) and wanna go out, but i blur blur open the wrong door!!!(It should be the other side) then i sit back down because i couldn't open the door...

Everybody in the same couch were looking at me with O.o look because there's nobody else standing and it was so quite, i bet everybody is wondering why i wanna open the door which leads me to hell...

The worst part is ? I only realized i open the wrong door when i was in the next station , because i'm trying to open the same door again !!!!

Damn sia sui !

Nail Art Animation

2011-12-06T04:17:00.003+08:00

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Do blog hopping on all nail art related blogs today,

and i found this video... it's the first nail art animation in the world according to the description...
Super nice lea....*drooling* when i see there so many bottles of nail polishes in the box..

i wish i can have 1200 bottles of nail polishes too ~

aaaaahhhhhHHHHH! Not only Angel is scolding me..
My papa , mummy , Jamie and ahThan will scold me also >.<

very-random post V2

2011-12-02T05:01:00.000+08:00

The last time i transferred the photos was 1 year and 4 months ago i think...

Never really blog after in started working , so never bother trasnferring those pictures to PC..

Just transfer all the picture from my phone to laptop because few days ago..i want to take some phtos but the camera was not with me , so i took out my phone happily ! but i can only take 3 photos because memory full >.< geram betul ...

Rubbish #1 Celebrations!

All advent calendar has 24 windows which reveal yummy chocolates, sweets or toys (depends which type you buy). You are allowed to open 1 window per day until 24th Dec , then it's the time to celebrate Christmas!!

Bought another one for ahThan too , but my colleague ffk me and said she won't be able to bring it back to M'sia. So i can only bring it back on January. then he have to start opening the windows to count down for Chinese New Year.

Rubbish #2 Who's next?

This was taken last year and those people are the support staffs in DE ST-OPS team. 4 peoples left within 2 years... All of them didn't leave GfK ,other support team and developer team dig them away from our side only.

All new people in ST-OPS DE now , they also not enough experience la, still wanna set the rule of "advise DE team before escalating the ticket"... 等死吧！Already can predict that MY Team will become mati katak very fast , especially if my manager still 不自量力, keep on asking for more task for us ! k la , don't talk so much bad thing..

I was surprised to know that most of European doesn't change their job.. 1st job and work until they retired...they say it's because they already have commitment to the Company wor... haha...like my mummy style lea!

Rubbish #3 Diaper Cakes

FB Page --> ShilaShower

Saw an online deal previously , i contacted the seller directly instead of purchasing the deal online, the seller was very generous and said she will add in something extra for me since she don't need to pay the commission to the online deal company.

SiakTai and i share share to buy this diaper cake for Cindy's new born baby Melissa... I glad she likes it....Something special compared to those baby hampers..

Rubbish #3 Mashed Potato

Bought a box of potato powder ,there's 2 recipe written on the box. Initially i wanted to to Shepherd Pie..but the instruction seems very hard, so i used half of the potato powder to do mashed potato first.. but this was a total failure...

I gave up... instant mashed potato is much better!

Step 1: Add water

Step 2: Wait.....

Step 3: Makan!

Ta da!!!!

Rubbish #4 Keyboard brush =)

It belongs to my colleague who is sitting opposite me... It was facing to him initially..

but one day , i was too stress in work , then he turn this brush to face me and says "Be happy!"

Thats all for now ~ buh byeee

瘦瘦的

2011-11-24T04:46:00.000+08:00

Form5毕业旅行时，文霖一直叫我 “肥肥”。。

从langkawi会来的时候，我突然叫他不要叫我“肥肥”，应该叫 “瘦瘦”

刚讲完没多久，文霖就在巴士上播这首歌，还说这是dedicated for me。。

因为这样，我就把这首歌录进我的手机

换了手机，也还是把它录进去当alarm铃声

可是一直以来，我都不知道这首歌的内容。

直到昨天，在家里很闷，所以在YouTube 随便看mv..

突然发现，原来这首歌的词可以形容我的心情。。

我爱的他

虽然常常弄我生气，大男人主义，不懂浪漫

不过他常常让我感动，很善解人意，蛮体贴的

我爱的他，是我最爱的！

gołąbki

2011-11-11T19:59:00.000+08:00

Omma and Aunty Gabriella reminds me of mummy...

Lucky me, to have 3 of them around me...

No need to cook !

No need to clean my room !

No need to wash my bathroom !

No need to do any housework !

muahahaha....

Eh , let me clarify !!!

I'm not lazy

it just because they already prepare/do everything before i got time to do it. lalallala ~~

Omma like to masuk campur when aunty Gabriella is cooking..

then both of them will end up arguing.. this is why people says 一山不能藏二虎.

So she will only cook if aunty Gabriella is not free.

Last week , she made the side dishes - potato salad! It's super duper nice !!!

i asked for recipe from her , but she said she just simply put in those ingredient and never measure it.. >.< haih...

This time Omma got the chance to cook again ! and it was her hometown (a.k.a Poland) traditional food.

~G.O.L.A.B.K.I ~

It's a Polish specialty ..

cabbage leaves stuffed with minced meat and rice, served with tomato sauce.

super yummy !you know ?!

you wont know ! coz Omma never cook for you... Blek =P

Surprise from aunty Gabriella

2011-10-26T04:17:00.000+08:00

Kabala family are very friendly !

Damian heard that i want to buy Lebkuchen,

then i see these on my table after 2 days....

Yum yummm.....

Lebkuchen is a traditional German Christmas treats

A simple message

2011-10-23T16:06:00.001+08:00

You made my day ^_^

I will practice more , make sure you eat everything i cook ..

haha

Munich one day trip

2011-10-22T05:50:00.000+08:00

16-10-2011

-On the way to the train station, see those lil sheep ?-

-the train that we took, Kabala family says this is as slow as "Bummelzug"-

-marienplatz münchen-

the middle of the Munich City

-taken in hofgarten-

-taken from the Sankt.Peter church, entrance fee is 1.5 euro-

-Surfing on the river @ English garden-

This is the most interesting thing in Munich, dont they feel cold?

who knows the name of this activities?

-Lunch @ Tambosi-

-Pretending only..... haha-

Greetings from Germany

2011-10-22T04:32:00.001+08:00

15th October 2011

Now i know how hard to say good bye... especially seeing your beloved one waving at you from far, and you have to walk further from them.... I almost cry seeing ahThan and papa mummy waving and say bye bye , luckily Yvonne was looking at me or else i can't imagine how ugly i will be.

My flight to Amsterdam was delayed for 35 minutes.. after every passenger is seated and the plane are ready to go , but then they suddenly announced that one of passenger has collapsed , so they need to send him to doctor. We waited blindly in the plane for another 2 hours ...It was a bad experience, sitting in the tiny seats for 2 hours.

Because of the delays, We have to be fast in order to get into the connecting flights in Amsterdam Schipol Airport..That was a damn bloody big airport! we ran for around 20 minutes just to get to the boarding gate. No time to shop at all.... ish...

We have to take the bus to get into the airplane, it was 5 degree celcius and i could stand outside with a t-shirt and jeans.. geng lea?

Peter and Bastian picked us up in Nuremberg airport, and brought us to the hauptmarkt in the city.

-Host family and my "new" house-

-the bed-

Cannot upload other pictures... so if you wanna see more picture, go to my fb ^^

For my husband

2011-08-23T00:02:00.000+08:00

Simply Love

2011-06-18T16:29:00.001+08:00

I ♥ Charlene GohHsien Min . I ♥ Tan Sun Hui . I ♥ Chua Shu Yi .

I ♥ Lee Jin Yu . I ♥ Foo Su Fen . I ♥ Low Syn Dee 。

I ♥ Tan Wen-Xhin . I ♥ Soo Joe Wey . I ♥ Ang Chin Yee .

I ♥ aunty Jenny . I ♥ Lisa Chan May Hwa . I ♥ Chew Kwai Gyee .

I ♥ Chew Kwai Yee . I ♥ Chew Wai Meng . I ♥ Yeo Peck Tee .

I ♥ JONATHAN Chan Ming Fei.

（排名不分先后）

Thank you for giving me a memorable 23rd birthday.

Vacation for this year.

2011-04-28T01:44:00.001+08:00

29 April -2 May Langkawi Gathering Trip

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26 May - 29 May Redang Dive Trip

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25 Aug - 4 Sept Europe Family Trip

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~~9 Nov - 13 Nov Krabi "couple-only" trip~~

14Oct - 4Jan Germany Business Trip

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Still planning for more ....*wink*

This is why i got no savings...sob sob

It's all about HIM

2011-04-05T00:23:00.000+08:00

The best angpau of the year

2011-03-06T18:02:00.000+08:00

被欺负了没关系！傻大姐总会有傻福~

前阵子，我因为做了两个月的晚班。

所以，同事们都很期待可以在一起去吃饭。

当天约好了同事们一起去吃日本餐的。

怎知道，那天也是新任经理来的第一天。

为了他的welcome lunch，我得留下当候补。

人家我都已经很失望了，闷得半死。

他还要假惺惺地问要不要打包。会不会饿，还一直说对不起

你们一定不明白为什么我说他假惺惺吧?因为他好像很关心我。。。

原因？

一，我十二点正要出去的时候，我说“超饿的！我去吃先哦。”（我已经表明了我很饿！）

二，他们差不多一点钟才出去

要关心就要有行动！问了我饿不饿，还那么迟才回来！

而且让我先吃了，我还可以在一点钟前赶回公司！

回来后还一直说对不起,让我饿肚子了这类的话

假到死!岂有此理？！

我看他不顺眼应该是这样开始吧~

不过令我开心的是我的同事竟买了我最最最想试吃的Ireland Potato.

Jiang ! Jiang ! Jiang ! Jiang ~~~~~~

她说今年不能派红包，所以这个也当作是她给我的红包>.<

超级感动！我都差点流眼泪了~

谢谢你了，Pai Ling

（骗你的，没那么夸张啦~嘿嘿)

People i hate the most on the road

2011-01-14T17:26:00.000+08:00

1. Lil Kap chai that want to go on high way instead of using motorcycle lane.
Please la..my lil myvi only can go 100km/h. it's already consider very slow in the high way. Still have to fight the 2nd lane with those lil Kap chai.
Those lil kap chai driver, can u go back to your motorcycle lane or at least don't ride slowly like your father owns the road, go to the slowest lane, you can enjoy all you want !

2. Lil Kap chai and buses that squeeze here and there in Jam or in tight road and scratches all the cars all the way to the end.

4. Modified LOCAL car that thinks their car can go very fast like luxury sedans or sports cars.
Sound like Thunder , but slow like a turtle. Stop producing some more smokes la...how hard u accelerate, you will still be in front of me only.

5. SIBUK fella that slow down when got accidents.

dah lah only 1 lane left ! still want to sibuk...
causing jam only . not like you will help them also.
if you really want to help , go stop at the road side and go down to help.
want to slow down and sibuk sibuk for what?!

i admit that i'm not a patient driver, i sometimes drive recklessly too.
but at least i didn't caused any jam.

04-01-2011

2011-01-12T17:28:00.001+08:00

Date : 04-01-2011

My 1st anniversary ~

why do i says it's only MY anniversary? because ahThan said it's no longer a special day for him , he had a lot of "1st anniversary" with his ex(s)...

so, i thought ahThan wont remember anything and already expecting he wont do anything .
Besides , I worked night shift on the day, so we can't even meet up.

but but, 2 simple messages that i received from him is enough to melt my heart >.<
( received it around 2am. he supposedly sleeping at that time and i just got home after my work)

" Happy anniversary fatfat. i love u very very much =* "

" Half asleep.Just wanna say i love you.Sweet dreams "

My dinner

2010-12-26T16:44:00.000+08:00

yumm yummm ~ Acar-acar for tonight's dinner ....

specially from ahThan's mom <3 i love acar-acar!

Thank you aunty !

MY 1st anniversary.

2010-12-22T01:56:00.001+08:00

i'm counting down for MY 1st anniversary.

14days to go!

because ahThan said it's not that important to him , it will not be his 1st "first anniversary"

he asked me to celebrate the "anniversary" 4 years later with him >.<

ish..spoiled my mood for being happy and wanna be romantic ....

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-It's the 3rd year that we celebrated Christmas together <3-

-See the 1st and 2nd year 's picture ~-

frankly speaking, i don't dare expect for the 4th-year ...

hmmm should i say i can't guarantee anything for this stage,

both of us are still young, playful and fresh for everything

things change from time to time, and unexpected things usually happens suddenly.

but i appreciated and enjoyed every moment spent with him.

i love the feeling of having him in my mind and heart all the times.

i love the feeling of cuddling, hugging and falling asleep on his arm

i love the feeling of seeing every single expression of him

i love the feeling of loving him.

A quick one

2010-12-16T21:19:00.000+08:00

Internet connection in my house is damn damn damn bad ,

how come Bukit Tinggi so lousy? not supporting anything more than 1mbps?!

i want Unifi !! atleast give me 2mbps la !

My lovely Spikey died on 28th Oct.

lots of things happened on that day so couldn't even see him for the last sight.

felt so sorry for him and the previous owner.

some special incident happened on that day too, but i shall keep it within myself ~

i got my confirmation letter this Monday~

got it before the 6 months probation period..muahaha.

still trying hard to adapt to my new role- 1st level support (Global service desk)

felt so sad and shock when they announce i will be in 1st level until they got enough human resources to pull me back to 2nd level support (Technical Support). haih...what to do ~ fresh grad must suffer abit ..

that's all for tonight, sleepy d...
oh ya !

Tomorrow is TaipeiTaipei official opening ...

so please go and support by having your dinner there.

hehe.

altho it's abit pricey, but it worth every single cents.

all ingredients and workers are imported from Taiwan.

want to see leng chais? go TaipeiTaipei tomorrow...

free beer serve after 10pm tomorrow.

please laugh out loud because i did

2010-10-14T22:41:00.001+08:00

watch the 1st one then only watch the 2nd one....

Fei Zi's territory

奥客，对他们 你不能讲道理也不能用蛮力

2nd anniversary =)

Happy 2012!

18.12.2011 The snow has finally arrived!

I miss Mel-Mel...

Embarassing moment

Nail Art Animation

very-random post V2

瘦瘦的

gołąbki

Surprise from aunty Gabriella

A simple message

Munich one day trip

Greetings from Germany

For my husband

Simply Love

Vacation for this year.

It's all about HIM

The best angpau of the year

People i hate the most on the road

04-01-2011

My dinner

MY 1st anniversary.

A quick one

please laugh out loud because i did

奥客，对他们你不能讲道理也不能用蛮力