In your journeys pursuing the other sex, just remember: when you get rejected, it’s nothing personal.  Simply fix your methods.  Learning how to create attraction takes practice.  It may be a bumpy road, because…

Many of the methods you learn will go against your habits.

Replacing old habits with new habits may feel strange, but these are growing pains – you will be thankful when you’ve gone through the process and have a shiny new habit in place.

For instance, a common habit some girls have is being too nice.  Always overextending yourself, always available.  This is the way to instantly lower your attractiveness.  Break this habit.  Adding a little edge to your game (know when to playfully tease, alternate distance and closeness) may seem uncomfortable at first, but you are simply learning a new habit.  A habit that will serve you by increasing your attractiveness exponentially.  How do you create new habits?  Practice…

Practice makes perfect.

If you pursue one man and get rejected, just shrug it off.  It’s nothing personal.  Pick Up Artistry is a numbers game and a method game.  By pursuing more men, you are increasing your chances for success.  Simultaneously, you are learning through experience which methods work and which are duds.  One failure is nothing.  Five failures is something to learn from.  Your ratio of success will increase the more you practice, in large part because you will be learning from your failures.  Which brings us to…

Learn from your failures.

Albert Einstein said it best:

“Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

Every human interaction is an opportunity for you to learn from.  If a method isn’t working, change it!  If you see every interaction as a pleasurable learning process, you will be on the fast track to success.  Study how people react to you.  Try different things.  Continually refine your approach and behavior.  Take notes on your approaches and results.  Consider yourself a scientist of human behavior, specializing in attraction.

So don’t beat yourself up over one phone call, one date, or even one dude.  If you get rejected, learn from it, then add your lesson to your arsenal of attraction.  Soon, you will be unstoppable.

If you want to be attractive, get a life.

Get a life where you seek fulfillment in your own pursuits.  What are your passions?  What do you want to achieve? What exciting things have you done lately?  Whether you focus on art, business, or hobbies, achievement is attractive & intrinsically rewarding.

Get/Create/Invent the life you want.  It’s one huge step on the road to attracting the right people.

The road to Female Pick Up Artist success begins with a single step: makin’ conversation.  With anyone and everyone. As a female, it can be intimidating to start a conversation with a hot dude.  There’s the fear of seeming desperate, or dumb. Well, fear no longer, chickas!  Here is your guide to becoming: The Ultimate Conversationalist.

1. Set a Daily Quota

Forget about talent. Pick Up Artistry is a numbers game.  It’s simple: the more you practice, the better you’ll get.  By talking to a mere 5 strangers a day, you’ll have spoken to 150 strangers in a month!  If you get brushed off a few times, it won’t matter: there’s always another stranger around the corner.

2. Chat with Everyone

Chat with everyone: bank tellers, bus drivers, cable dudes.  Open up to the world, & express yourself as a social being.   Make this trait a part of who you are: a girl who talks to everyone.  When the time comes to strike up a conversation with various, cute boy strangers, you’ll be ready.

3. Talk About Cool Stuff

Read different magazines, watch interesting t.v. programs, and remember tidbits to share with people. Did you know that scientists have genetically engineered “supermice” that can run five hours without stopping, and that same gene can be modified in humans? Neither did I, until I read News of the Weird.

4. Act Like You’re Friends Already

If you assume a friendly stance, people will respond in like.  Behaving like you behave with your best friends will loosen you up, and add more relaxed fun and rapport to the situation.

5. Jokin’: Is Serious Business. Naht.

Smile and have fun.  Everyone loves to have a laugh!  Can you make ordering a latte more interesting?  Try high-fivin’ your barista, whispering your order like it’s a secret, or asking for a nonfat sugarfree 8 pump vanilla 2 pump caramel quintuple shot extrahot iced coffee with coffee and ice on the side. Delish.

Then again, you can always order like Borat. “Kin I chav sexy time mocha?  Iz for my lama.  Verrry niiice!”

This site is by a lady, for ladies.  Because it’s time we get our game on.  Comments? Questions? Send them in, and we’ll take care of ya.