Finding My Sunshine In Life

Our Not So Little Girl

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Wed, 29 Jul 2015 14:16:00 +0000

Today our little girl is getting married.

She has found her soul mate, her love, the man she is trusting to care for her for all her days.

Where has the time gone? Where did this woman come from?

I remember the first time she looked into my eyes.

I remember all her tears, laughter, joy and sadness.

I remember her dressing up like a princess.

I remember movies that we all knew every line of.

I remember games, plays, and graduation.

I remember prom dresses and stunning photos.

I remember days of pushing her in a swing.

I remember ice cream and gummy worms.

I remember late night talks and big bear hugs.

So many days and nights we watched her grow, become a woman of character, passion and strength.

We watched her fall, succeed, push through and make great strides.

We are proud, honored and overwhelmed by the goodness she has brought into our lives.

Now, our sweet girl will bring that and much more into an other's life.

Our darling daughter, we wish you peace. We wish you forgiveness when times get tough, laughter when times are good. We wish you faith when life gets hard and endurance in times of confusion. We wish you commitment when others fail. We wish you joy, prosperity, trust and grace. We pray you always look to God for answers and each other for strength. We wish you comfort in your home and excitement for what lies ahead. We give you our support, our love and our foundation.

Build a good life, build a family and never let anything or anyone lead you astray or away.

HAPPY WEDDING DAY, the best is yet to come.

Why I Believe

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 07 Jun 2015 01:17:00 +0000

I have family and friends that do not believe in God, that do not believe Jesus is our savior and quite honestly get angry at times when they talk about it. We all have seen on the news those that berate Christians and tear down religion. Christians are even being arrested, murdered and tortured daily.

Why I Believe.

This time in life is what I consider a disaster. With murders on the rise, religious persecution, violation of civil rights, abuse of children and animals, wars, famines, hate and pure selfishness the earth as it stands is on a fast downward spiral. Sure these things have gone on throughout time but today it seems like no one has anything to look forward to, to stand for or to believe in.

I believe in God. I believe Jesus IS my savior and the way to the Father. I believe in good that can defeat the very existence of evil. I believe in hope, honesty and love. I believe in joy, peace and strength even in he toughest of times. I do NOT believe I would have any of that without my relationship with Jesus.

Before I knew him ( and yes, I feel like I know him ) I was destined for destruction in so many ways. Through alcohol, sex, anger, fear and recklessness I was on a path to nowhere. I was searching for people to love me, searching for something to numb me and taking no thought of what was right or wrong. After terrible choices as a teen, a divorce that I thought never would recover from and panic attacks that paralyzed me I can actually realize things I have learned from those experiences. I find myself forgiving those who have wronged me and seek forgiveness for those I have wronged. I have learned to love my ex husband in a whole new amazing way and care for his life and soul. I have found strength in physical and mental challenges none of which were accomplished on my own.

Why do I believe? Because one simple act of faith changed EVERYTHING. It wasn't bells and whistles just a simple conversation (prayer) with God to come into my heart, to forgive me of any sin I had committed and to guide me the rest of my days. Then came transformation.

Slowly I began to trust, to walk in faith ( which simply means by walking without the sight of what lies ahead). Fear began to lesson. I still had fear, but no longer did it paralyze me. I felt the smallest convictions when I started to do something wrong. And when I mean wrong, I mean contrary to good, pure defiance as to the what the bible teaches. Not rules but life's lessons, to be kind, to love, to chose good. I could have very well ended up in jail, the morgue or who knows where without the changes faith brought me. I put away the drinks that caused me to be inebriated. I wanted a clear mind. I recognized my body as something to cherish that could be protected until my husband came along. I turned to people who lived a purer life, people who could teach me to be better. I was excited about becoming someone new. I change daily still.

Oh and how glorious it is to be loved by a man who believes. There is nothing more perfect than a
lover who will pray over you, cry with you, laugh with you and understand you. A man who seeks after God is easier to trust and with him as our core, all things are possible.

I AM NOT PERFECT. Unfortunately non Christians tend to expect Christians to be flawless and make no mistakes but that is the furthest from the truth as we are transforming every day. I make so many mistakes day in and day out but in JESUS I can be forgiven and be encouraged to go forward. I can find laughter as medicine and friends that are lifelong.

The best thing to me is to know that after this life on earth, I can hope for eternal life. Forever in the presence of God. Heaven as it is called. A state where there is no pain and suffering and where I believe the spirits of my loved ones wait. Once my granddaughter died I desired that place called heaven even more.

I can't provide anyone with scientific proof that God exists. Heck, I can't prove anything scientifically except maybe weight gain because I eat entirely too much. I can however prove that in my darkest hours, I can lift my head. In times of sadness I can be comforted. In times of tragedy, war and crime I can believe that there are stil people seeking justice, seeking peace and seeking love.

I as a Christian may have different beliefs than you, different ideas of what is right and wrong but I don't ever want to be known as a hater, a liar, a cheater or a thief. I want people to see the light that lives in me, only because I chose to change. Even if I am wrong ( which I do not believe I am) at least as a believer I am seeking a better way to live life.

DO YOU BELIEVE or know Jesus? Seek him, seek for yourself and be astounded at what you find.

Suicide Has Claimed Another Victim

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sat, 25 Apr 2015 03:00:00 +0000

Suicide has claimed another victim today.

I say that because they are victims. Victims of circumstance, victims of heartache and hopelessness. Victims of pain and anxiety. Victims of depression and defeat. There is no discrimination, it affects the rich, the poor, the black, the white, the famous and the unknown.

In the last 2 years, I personally know of 4 people that have taken their own lives. Most for reasons unknown. Leaving behind friends and family to question everything they knew of their loved ones. I have 2 friends that lost their husbands to suicide. My niece lost a love to suicide. A young woman that I knew in ministry circles committed suicide just a few weeks ago.

Suicide is on the increase for sure. I didn't know of anyone taking their own lives during my childhood or young adult life. My uncle committed suicide in the nineties and at that time, the shock was overwhelming. Today, unfortunately it is reported much more often. I have heard over the last year that suicide is not only an answer to health problems or depression but financial reasons as well. I cannot even fathom taking my own life for any reason, much less money.

Why is suicide the only way out for a lot of people? How do we get to the point where suicide is the answer? How do we get to a place in our lives where our pain is more important than those we leave behind? When does death become more appealing than life? I wish I understood that dark place but to be honest, I cannot even go there. So here I am, trying to make sense of it all. Seeking answers for those left behind hurting and confused.

I am listing some great articles and websites for us all to be aware of, to read and to have handy in order to make a difference.

I guess for now we can all do better at being a friend, a lover, a support system or a kind ear.

Please, if your life gets to the point where it doesn't seem like living, seek help. Seek a friend, a family member, a pastor, a counselor or a doctor. Call the suicide helpline tel:1-800-273-TALK.

Here are the links:

For some great tips Get Help Online.

For general understanding Suicide FAQ

Myths and Warning Signs Prevention and guide

Whoever is reading this or happens upon this know that your life is valuable, you are loved and there is always hope....

Happy Birthday Precious Chloe

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Tue, 21 Apr 2015 01:51:00 +0000

You would be 6 years old now.

6 years ago I remembering walking into the NICU where you literally took my breath away.

So tiny, so fragile. You were hooked up to monitors and machines. You were wrapped in a bandage bigger than you holding your omphalocele in place. Your feet were long and so cute. Your hair dark and plenty. Your skin glistened. I cried as soon as I saw you. Your papa and I were in awe of you.

I never knew I could love someone so much that I had just met. I guess technically we met months before as we talked often at your mommys belly.

Although the tubes and machines scared me, I saw you as a perfect miracle. Deep down I think I knew you wouldn't be with us long. But I hoped, and prayed. I often hear people say their babies and grandchildren are blessings. That God is so good to them. That God has given them favor or good health. I hear them say God answered our prayers. My mind wonders at times, why were ours not answered? It hurts when people say that they are truly blessed as if we weren't.

I was blessed by you. I am blessed by you and I still lose my breath thinking of you.

I won't be attending your kindergarten graduation or sewing you a dress.

I won't be buying you a birthday cake or sneaking you a puppy.

I won't be pushing you in a swing or chasing you around a park.

I won't be watching you nap or eating a cookie.

I won't be seeing you grow.

For you are forever 7 days old.

Missing you more than anyone could ever understand.

Depression, it's real.

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Fri, 13 Mar 2015 20:15:00 +0000

Watching someone you love suffer is brutal.

I have seen many people I love suffer with severe depression. Not just sad days, but life altering, debilitating depression. Overwhelming sadness, unworthiness and fatigue. It's real and it steals the life out of you. Thankfully I personally have only had moments of despair. I fight anxiety but nothing like severe "clinical" depression. It's heartbreaking not being able to fix it.

So I searched the web for answers. I searched for tools, for reasoning, for roots and for hope.

This is the summary of what I found. So if you or someone you know needs help, hopefully you will find some here.

KEEP A ROUTINE. If you’re depressed, you need a routine and psychiatrists agree. Get up at the same time, do chores at the same time, eat at the same time. Keep up with your responsibilities at home and work.

SET PERSONAL GOALS. Decide to do something new. Decide on a hobby. Call a friend. Read a book. Journal your thoughts and dreams.

EXERCISE. It temporarily boosts feel-good chemicals called endorphins. Exercise has long term healthy effects in all aspects of your life. We aren't talking a marathon here. A simple walk, a dance, a bike ride.

EAT HEALTHY. There is no magic diet to cure depression however, clean eating is proven to boost your metabolism, your energy, your mood and your overall health. No chemicals, and most processed, packaged and fast food has chemicals. Soda is a chemical. No sodas! Eat green, eat veggies, fruits, salmons, omega 3's, nuts, seeds and lean meats.

GET ENOUGH SLEEP. Depression can make it hard to sleep but at the same time too much time in bed will paralyze you. 8 hours for health. Go to bed at the same time each night, cut out naps and don't fall asleep to TV.

CHALLENGE EACH THOUGHT. In your fight against depression it's easy to let negativity control your day. Examine every thought. Seek the good and the positive in each situation. It's a mental fight. It's a challenge to NOT give in to worse case scenarios.

MAKE SURE you have a support system in place. Surround yourself with happy people, encouraging friends and non judgmental family members.

IF YOU EVER FEEL OUT OF CONTROL call for help. Call a doctor, a counselor, a pastor, a friend. If ever suicide crosses your mind, seek immediate help. 1-800-273-TALK.
Click here to get help!

And last but never least ALWAYS REMEMBER that God created you, Jesus saved you and the Holy Spirit will comfort you.

Faith crushes fear. Joy comes in he morning & peace that passes understanding can be yours.

Long Time Coming

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Wed, 04 Feb 2015 19:41:00 +0000

Well it has been a long time.

I had considered deleting my blog due to lack of interest.

To be honest my lack of time and effort into this project had me lagging in posts.

I changed my mind.

I believe I had the wrong mindset.

The idea to have followers and people interested in something I have to say is pretty exciting but I found myself trying to find things "interesting enough" for others to be drawn to.

Now it is time to refocus.

I have been on a health journey, a spiritual journey and a life journey that I intend to share realistically to maybe bless or help someone else.

My life's journey is one of happiness, grief, anxiety, excitement and just plain living.

I hope you will stick with me as I figure out how to share finding sunshine in life's precious moments.

The Wonders Of Water

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Thu, 11 Sep 2014 17:01:00 +0000

The wonders of water and why we should be drinking plenty of it!

Here are the benefits (aside from the cure for thirst):

Water Flushes out Toxins

I don't know about you but I don't want any toxins hanging around. Toxins come from chemicals, the air and food that we consume. Toxins cause inflammation, cancers, insomnia, headaches, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, acne, gas, heartburn and bloating. Toxins even promote those dark circles under your eyes!

Water Aids in weight loss

The diets I have been on suggest drinking hall your body weight in ounces. For example, if you weigh 200 pounds, you would drink 100 ounces a day to aid your weight loss. Water boosts metabolism. Dehydration is also often mistaken for hunger. If you feel hungry, and have recently eaten, try water first.

Water Aids Digestion

Water flushes waste and breaks down food we eat. If you are dehydrated the large intestine soaks up he water from your food waste and causes hard stools. Since your waste is traveling from your stomach to intestines to colon, we need to give it some assistance. Lubricate those organs!

Water Hydrates your skin, thus helping your complexion

Dehydration causes dryness in your skin. Water replenishes skin cells. That increases elasticity reducing wrinkles!

Water Prevents Cramps and Sprains

Dehydration causes muscle fatigue. Water lubricates your joints, relieves stiffness and stabilizes circulation.

Water Increases energy

Water increases alertness, concentration and energy. Dehydration keeps us from moving, exercising and staying focused so grab some water today!

A lot of people don't like to drink water, or cannot seem to sip on water. The reasons are taste or lack of. Add some lemon or lime to boost the flavor. Instead of sipping try downing a glass of water every hour. Try different ways that work for you! You will be amazed at how different you feel when you commit to daily hydration. Since half our body is made up of water every system in it depends on it.

Stay hydrated friends!

Week 3 and Still Determined!

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 31 Aug 2014 17:59:00 +0000

I have completed week 3 of my lifestyle change. Some call it a diet.

I have lost 10 pounds!

Here is 10 pounds visually..... Kind of puts my efforts in perspective!

I have been discouraged because it doesn't seem that people are noticing a change in me.

Then I realized the magnitude of 10 actual pounds.

I had to remind myself that it took me 10 years to gain all this weight and in time, it will come off.

The best thing to come out of all of this is I am on the move to healthy living.

It's never to late to start, and nothing should stop you for trying again.

Completion of Week 2- Journey to Health

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 24 Aug 2014 18:26:00 +0000

The transformation has begun. I am now in week 3 of my health journey.

I have lost 8 pounds! I am pretty excited about it even though I can't even tell.

I have learned a lot in 2 weeks of what food choices to make, what foods to avoid and what I was/am addicted to. I am learning new recipes and spice combos just to give my husband and I some variety in the limited food choices we have. Beyond Diet started me off on this journey and I am grateful for the help. (No they did not pay me to say that).

So let me share with you what has transpired in our world.

We haven't eaten out in almost 3 weeks. That is the longest of our almost 20 year married life.

We realized how much we loved food. Ice cream is missing us greatly.

Our taste buds are actually changing.

We feel weak some days which I am sure is the shock of no sugar in our diet.

When we are allowed our cheat day, we actually physically feel bad afterwords. Our body is letting us know what is no longer good for us.

We haven't cheated! Well, I guess we are because we do use creamer in our coffee but that is the only adjustment we felt the need to make. No one is going to alter our coffee time.

We spend a lot of time prepping meals.

I am a little tired of eating the same thing day in and day out.

I do feel discouraged some days but I have to remind myself it took more than 10 years to get this fat and out of shape so I shouldn't expect a miracle in 3 weeks.

BUT... All that being said, I am still determined to go forward and lose more weight.

Stay tuned.........

So I Am On A Journey......

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Tue, 12 Aug 2014 20:32:00 +0000

Tuesday, August 5th I decided to make a change.

Some of you reading this may not know me personally or see me on a daily basis. The only "me" you see is in that tiny profile picture on my blog. The me I see daily is unhealthy, overweight and not too happy with her appearance. That is going to change. I AM GOING TO CHANGE.

I found Beyond Diet through my mom. She signed up and got one free. The free one was mine. It is a "diet" per say that kicks off with a 14 day super meal plan and guide. It completely changed the way I see "dieting". I am on my 6th day.

If you need to lose weight or are just curious about clean eating click here: Beyond Diet

I have to say, it is NOT EASY. I have even been talking about losing weight and making better choices for years. I am not even sure what gave me the strength to do it this time but I am determined to succeed. The first 2 weeks of this plan have very limited choices of food BUT, the plan is teaching me about my metabolic type, organic foods and the horrible ingredients in our diets today.

The cost for this program is $47. Would I spend that, yes. For the tools I have received and the results already it is well worth a look.

Today, I am down 5 pounds. I have lost 5 pounds in 6 days!

I have bought organic vegetables, chicken, eggs, nuts and fish. I have put aside breads, pastas, boxed food and SWEETS. Lord help me, no sweets. I have found the importance of fresh markets, farmer's markets and organic foods.

I now shop the outside perimeter of the grocery store.

I am not going to lie, I feel hungry. At times I miss my sweets really bad. But today is an official cheat day and what I look forward to most is SPAGHETTI. Tonight Spaghetti it is.

I would love for you to go on this journey with me as I try to become healthy. I intend to take it one day at a time to lose weight, to feel better and to live longer.

* I have not been compensated by Beyond Diet for this post.

This is experience and personal opinion only.

Does Anyone Believe In Anything Anymore?

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sat, 28 Jun 2014 15:12:00 +0000

I believe.

I believe in God who sent his son Jesus to save the world.

Therefore, I believe in Love.

Love is eternal, bears all things, endures all things and the greatest of all things.

I believe in Marriage. A lasting one, a covenant.

I believe in Family. I believe in parents that have shown me unconditional love so that I could pour out that same love and support to my daughter.

I believe in extended family- aunts, cousins, uncles, brothers, sisters, nieces and nephews who become great friends. I believe in lasting friendships.

I believe in Angels.

I believe in Man's Best Friend.

I believe in The United States of America.

I believe in Causes and fighting for things you believe in.

I believe in Life.

I believe in Legacies.

Passed down to generations to come...

I believe in Honor and Service.

I believe in Courage, Strength and the Ability to defeat ALL ODDS.

I believe in Promises.

I BELIEVE IN HOPE.

I believe that in this world that has become high paced, confusing, threatening, uneasy and troubled that there ARE still good people. There are still reasons to get up and face each day. I believe that faith, friends and family carry me through trials, tribulations and worrisome days. I believe in laughter and joy in the smallest of things. I believe in sunshine after rain, life after death and eternal peace.

Believe with me and make this world a brighter place.

Life, For Most, Goes On

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sat, 03 May 2014 15:08:00 +0000

For those who have experienced tragedy, life stops. Moments are frozen in time and numbness remains. For us, it was the loss of our grandchild at 7 days old. Time was frozen. At times we are still stuck in those moments and each day we stay in the loss, live the loss and mourn the loss.

For some, life goes on.

I don't understand how. How easily moments and memories and tragedies are forgotten.

This past month is a good example.

We see on the news the people of the Ukraine facing invasion and eminent war. Every day they live in fear and uncertainty so in essence their lives have stopped, the normalcy of it anyway. Yet here we are in the US taking for granted the freedom of walking around in our own neighborhoods. Freedom to work, play and live in war free zones.

There have been landslides, floods, school stabbings, disappearing planes.

Then there is the ferry disaster in South Korea where images of parents screaming for their drowning children haunt my mind, yet we move along as they suffer.

Tornadoes, flattened homes, flattened communities and flattened families. Children dead under rubble and Fathers hailed heroes for saving some. Yet here I sit in my home, strong and stable.

Benghazi. Our own soldiers and staff in another country left to fight on their own to live. And our own government failed them. Their families are still frozen in time as the situation is continuously on the news and being investigated.

Suicide. People taking their lives because life is too much to bear. They are truly frozen as a memory in time.

Those are just a few examples of every day news stories I see. They come in droves and even overwhelming at times the shape the world is in.

My challenge is this. How can we all go on and make a difference?

Remember those who have lost.

Pray for those DAILY who have lost.

Volunteer your time, your money and your resources if you can. Invest your time in children, young adults and the future of this nation. Be vigilant in their lives!

Be watchful and aware of your neighborhoods, schools and communities.

Stand for what is right and don't cave to society.

Reach out in letters, cards, posts, and media to encourage the hurting.

Smile at a stranger.

Hug a veteran.

Be a voice for the voiceless.

Be grateful, thankful for the mercy you have been shown.

Don't forget. Never forget.

Happy Birthday in Heaven Angel

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Mon, 21 Apr 2014 19:47:00 +0000

Today's the day you would turn five,

But you're not here with us.

How we wished you were alive,

So that we could make a fuss.

To see you eat your favorite cake,

Or open a gift or two.

Would love to watch you sleep and wake,

And tie your little shoe.

To see you run, to play and slide,

See dolls you love the best.

To have you run arms open wide,

Into your papa's chest.

Wish we could see your mommys face,

When you sang your first real song.

To see you dance around the room,

So we could tag along.

Could it be that you would fish,

Or play with slimy bugs?

Is it wrong for us to even wish,

To smother you with hugs.

Your birthdays come and then they go,

But the grief remains the same.

We will never see you grow,

But forever glad you came.

Happy birthday angel we miss you bad,

Miss smiles and kisses too.

Each day without you is a day that's sad,

For now we're passing through.

See you there in heaven some day,

For its God's promise from his son.

So for now I will simply say,

I'll love you 'til life is done.

What Brings You Joy?

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Mon, 10 Feb 2014 15:57:00 +0000

What is it that brings you joy?

It seems these days people are generally miserable. The hello's are less, the smiles are less and people don't seem quite as neighborly. Negativity is everywhere you turn. There is a lack of customer service toward the consumer. There is much impatience in traffic and grocery lines. Customers can be just plain rude.

Why? Why is stress and anxiety so rampant when there is much to be joyful about.

So I thought long and hard about the many things that bring me joy and hope perhaps that you find these thing warm your heart as well. If only we could find the good in each day, the wonder.

These are the simple things that warm my heart and bring great joy:

My husband, my lover and best friend- he makes me laugh, keeps me safe and shares life with me.

My dogs, who no matter how long I am away treat me like they are seeing me for the first time.

The Lord Jesus Christ, for he changed my life. I turned away from destruction and found perfect peace.

My family, who encourage me, remember me and make time for me.

My friends, who support me in all my crazy moods, my quirks and my failures.

Coffee, it brings relaxation and warmth in each and every day.

Cookies, yep cookies bring me joy.

A soft breeze that causes my wind chimes to make the most delightful noise.

The sunrise and sunset, a reminder of the depth of God's artistic wonder.

The giggle of a baby.

Flowers and blooming trees.

Autumn leaves and big snowflakes.

Beautiful songs and instruments.

Watching people hug, laugh and love on eachother.

I don't want to be that person in the check out line huffing and puffing or the person screaming in traffic. I don't want to walk by a stanger with a pout or a scowl.

I want to be the smiling, friendly one that brings warmth to another.

How about you?

I Have Been Robbed

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sat, 01 Feb 2014 16:16:00 +0000

I have been robbed. That is how I actually feel.

Not a feel good post I'm afraid.

I thought about the statement we hear so often and decided it applied to my life, or so I think.

I wasn't robbed of anything material, no house robbery or mugging.

I have been robbed of what could have been.

Robbed of watching my granddaughters first word, her first step, her first walk, her first day of school.

I have been robbed of birthday parties and the squeal of the perfect gift.

I have been robbed of telling stories and reading them.

I have been robbed of boo-boos and chocolate hands.

I have been robbed of snuggling, tickling and hide and seek.

I have been robbed of pony tails and dress up play.

I have been robbed of swing sets and monkey bars.

I have been robbed of proms, graduation day.

I have been robbed of her perfect wedding.

I have been robbed of such special things.

With a robbery of material goods you can always replace them, buy newer, or never even miss them.

A memory cannot be replaced.

~ i love you forever my sweet sunshine lil C

Winter Weather Care For Outdoor Pets

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 05 Jan 2014 04:26:00 +0000

Country living. A sanctuary away from busy life, city lights and hustle and bustle.

Along with country living comes animals. Beautiful cats, dogs and even an occasional bunny, horse or goat!

Outside animals are by no means immune to the effects of cold weather. Although they spend the majority of their time outside, a quick drop in temperature can still be a shock.

Below are some winter weather care tips:

Access to fresh water is vital. Consider using a heated water bowl or plastic bowls to keep your pet's water from freezing. I have read that a floating ball will help to stop ice from forming across the entire surface, that is if your dog will leave it there.

Access to plenty of shelter can mean the difference in survival or hypothermia. The cold weather is often accompanied by strong winds, so it is important that a dog kennel provides adequate shelter.

Your dog needs a warm, dry home. A dog house that is well-insulated is ideal. It is important that the house has flooring and is lifted slightly off the ground. When a dog gets cold, he uses his own energy supply to keep warm. So where he lays makes a difference.

For additional warmth use cedar chips, straw or hay. Blankets can be washed so they are also ideal as long as they do not get wet. Make sure your pet has a dry place to lay. Replace straws and blankets when wet!

Convert an old t-shirt into a night shirt for your cat or dog. Buy them a sweater or warming jacket.

We personally hang lighting to provide additional warmth but be extremely cautious when adding anything electrical. Be sure your animals don't chew and that the heat source is safe from any fire starter.

Make sure your dogs are groomed- matted hair cannot hold heat. Fluff up fur for extra warmth. Keep them brushed and smooth.

Access to sheds, barns and garages are definitely a plus to keep the critters snug!

Lean to's, barns and sheds give livestock and farm animals shelter from blistering winds.

DO NOT chain your animals. Chains prevent them from reaching water, shelter and shade. They are so limited in movement so chaining can be inhumane. Imagine seeing the water, but unable to reach it. Imagine peeing and pooping in the same area you sleep. Imagine the urge to run.

Increase an outside dog or cats food rations: They use more energy keeping warm, so this means that they burn more calories and require extra nutrition.

Bring your cats and dogs inside when temps drop below 0 degrees if at all possible, if not keep an eye out for any problems or additional needs.

Finally report any animal neglect you see! Call animal control or authorities if you see animals in need or without appropriate shelter. It only takes one call.

Who We Are IN Christ Jesus

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Fri, 11 Oct 2013 19:48:00 +0000

With all the unrest in our country, our families, our world and trials we seem to face daily I thought this study was a good reminder of a God that never shuts down, never leaves us or forsakes us and loves us always.

I am complete in Him Who is the Head of all principality and power (Colossians 2:10).

I am alive with Christ (Ephesians 2:5).

I am free from the law of sin and death (Romans 8:2).

I am far from oppression, and fear does not come near me (Isaiah 54:14).

I am born of God, and the evil one does not touch me (1 John 5:18).

I am holy and without blame before Him in love (Ephesians 1:4; 1 Peter 1:16).

I have the mind of Christ (1 Corinthians 2:16; Philippians 2:5).

I have the peace of God that passes all understanding (Philippians 4:7).

I have the Greater One living in me; greater is He Who is in me than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4).

I have received the gift of righteousness and reign as a king in life by Jesus Christ (Romans 5:17).

I have received the spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Jesus, the eyes of my understanding being enlightened (Ephesians 1:17,18).

I have received the power of the Holy Spirit to lay hands on the sick and see them recover, to cast out demons, to speak with new tongues. I have power over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means harm me (Mark 16:17,18; Luke 10:17,19).

I have put off the old man and have put on the new man, which is renewed in the knowledge after the image of Him Who created me (Colossians 3:9,10).

I have given, and it is given to me; good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over, men give into my bosom (Luke 6:38).

I have no lack for my God supplies all of my need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19).

I can quench all the fiery darts of the wicked one with my shield of faith (Ephesians 6:16).

I can do all things through Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:13).

I show forth the praises of God Who has called me out of darkness into His marvelous light (1 Peter 2:9).

I am God’s child for I am born again of the incorruptible seed of the Word of God, which lives and abides forever (1 Peter 1:23).

I am God’s workmanship, created in Christ unto good works (Ephesians 2:10).

I am a new creature in Christ (2 Corinthians 5:17).

I am a spirit being alive to God (Romans 6:11;1 Thessalonians 5:23).

I am a believer, and the light of the Gospel shines in my mind (2 Corinthians 4:4).

I am a doer of the Word and blessed in my actions (James 1:22, 25).

I am a joint-heir with Christ (Romans 8:17).

I am more than a conqueror through Him Who loves me (Romans 8:37).

I am an overcomer by the blood of the Lamb and the word of my testimony (Revelation 12:11).

I am a partaker of His divine nature (2 Peter 1:3,4).

I am an ambassador for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20).

I am part of a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a purchased people (1 Peter 2:9).

I am the righteousness of God in Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 5:21).

I am the temple of the Holy Spirit; I am not my own (1 Corinthians 6:19).

I am the head and not the tail; I am above only and not beneath (Deuteronomy 28:13).

I am the light of the world (Matthew 5:14).

I am His elect, full of mercy, kindness, humility, and longsuffering (Romans 8:33; Colossians 3:12).

I am forgiven of all my sins and washed in the Blood (Ephesians 1:7).

I am delivered from the power of darkness and translated into God’s kingdom (Colossians 1:13).

I am redeemed from the curse of sin, sickness, and poverty (Deuteronomy 28:15-68; Galatians 3:13).

I am firmly rooted, built up, established in my faith and overflowing with gratitude (Colossians 2:7).

I am called of God to be the voice of His praise (Psalm 66:8; 2 Timothy 1:9).

I am healed by the stripes of Jesus (Isaiah 53:5; 1 Peter 2:24).

I am raised up with Christ and seated in heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6; Colossians 2:12;).

I am greatly loved by God (Romans 1:7; Ephesians 2:4; Colossians 3:12; 1 Thessalonians 1:4).

I am strengthened with all might according to His glorious power (Colossians 1:11).

I am submitted to God, and the devil flees from me because I resist him in the Name of Jesus (James 4:7).

I press on toward the goal to win the prize to which God in Christ Jesus is calling us upward (Philippians 3:14).

For God has not given us a spirit of fear; but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

It is not I who live, but Christ lives in me (Galatians 2:20).

Copyright © 2008 Joyce Meyer Ministries, Inc.

Do's and Dont's ~ They Are Grieving Parents

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 22 Sep 2013 02:33:00 +0000

No one should ever have to bury a child or a grandchild. It's not natural, it just shouldn't be.

Unfortunately we did in fact bury a grandchild at 7 days old. Losing a baby girl for our family was an unthinkable event. No loss is greater. What makes the loss worse are comments of insincerity, ignorance or just plain thoughtlessness. There are also those people who try to make you feel better who mean well but just cannot possibly understand. So I have come up with guidelines strictly from experience. Maybe this post will help someone else.

1- DO NOT act like the child never existed. It is okay to talk about, remember and share about the child. The worse thing is to feel like your child did not matter. Saying nothing is as bad as saying the wrong thing.

2- DO NOT say it gets better with time. That is not true whatsoever. You learn to go on and deal with your emotions and loss but never ever does it get better with time.

3- DO NOT say God needed another angel. If God wanted more angels he would just create one.

4- DO NOT say you can have other children. It makes the lost child seem disposable. And what if you can't?

5- DO NOT compare the grief to another death. It's not the same, burying a child is different.

6- DO LISTEN. Let us talk about her, let us remember.

7- DO UNDERSTAND. Understand when we don't want to attend baby showers and birthday parties. Please don't take it personally if those events take our breath away. Will it always be that way? Maybe not but it is what it is.

8- DO NOT be offended by "strange" photos. Your child's lives may be full of cake, presents, milestones and growth. Ours consists of hospitals, still shots, grave stones and flowers.

9- DO PRAY for peace, for strength, for mercy and the ability for the grieving to face each day.

10- DO KNOW that everyone grieves in different time tables. No one can predict the length of sorrow you will experience. Though our beautiful child is in heaven it doesn't take away the longing to be with her. Are we grateful she lives in heaven? of course. Do we want her to? NO. We want her here.

Most people mean well, really care and are at a loss how to help. You can't help- but you can love us.

Remembering

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Wed, 11 Sep 2013 13:04:00 +0000

I remember after September the 11^th, 2001 it seemed our country had rallied together and become united, passionate again for patriotism and loving to our neighbors. In perhaps the most horrific tragedy I remember, hope was reborn.

I remember where I was, what I was doing and how I felt when the first World Trade Center tower was hit. It took my breath and I was miles away from NY, just watching the coverage on my work computer yet it still took my breath. I remember almost paralyzing fear when the second trade center tower was hit. I knew at that moment we were facing a terrorist attack- something our nation was not used to. We had seen a small scale of attacks but nothing on our soil of this magnitude.

Then the pentagon was hit and a plane crash in Pennsylvania diverted by our own citizens brave enough to risk their own lives to prevent unknown men from crashing into our nation’s capital.

Even though we were all at work that day- time stood still. The TV and our computers stayed focused on the news. We had all stopped, grabbed hand and prayed for our loved ones, ourselves, our government, and our cities. I knew that I wanted to find my family at that moment and hold on. TIGHTLY.

I could write what transpired in days and weeks to follow but the images I am sure are burned in all of our minds, probably forever. Instead I want to focus on what became of us, as a people. We became stronger, we were relentless to bond together and fight to keep our dreams alive. The spirit of love reigned in our homes and hearts determined to stand strong.

As time passed on and life became “normal” again we became less patriotic, less concerned for our fellow neighbors and drifted slowly back apart.

Why does it take tragedy to bind us together?

Why can we not put aside differences and our own desires and give to others?

Why must we be divided by race, status, gender and even state?

My heart longs for peace.

Grandparents Day Is Bittersweet

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 08 Sep 2013 19:37:00 +0000

Grandparents Day is bittersweet for me.

All of my grandparents are gone. I miss them so much.

Now I too am a grandparent, but my angel is in heaven so she is also missed so much.

Where is the celebration and what is the point? The celebration is the priceless, beautiful memories they left with me deep in my heart.

My fondest memories:

My great grandparents were probably the most loving people I remember.

Granny, Pop and Batja, you are not forgotten. In the depth of my memories I see all of your smiles.

My dad's parents, my grandma and grandpa were the truest example of a successful, loving marriage and I hope to make them proud when my grandchildren say the same.

Tomorrow would have been 74 years they would have been married had they still been alive.

I believe they are part of the reason I live for the Lord Jesus Christ today- their faith was unshakable.

My mom's mother, My Babu was the epitome of strength. She endured unthinkable tragedy in WWII and throughout her life but she was amazing, determined and feisty. In my mind I hear her singing "You are my sunshine" and reminding me "You are my number 1" in her Russian accent I miss so much.

My Pop Pop, died way to young in a motorcycle accident. He was my biggest fan. I remember his love and support, his fun nature and his warm arms. I wish my husband could have met him.

Then there is me. I am a grandma. Not use to be a grandma, or may be a grandma some day.

I AM A GRANDMA.

I miss the chance to spoil my sweet Chloe, miss her growing, miss her becoming the very center of my universe. I remember 7 beautiful days my granddaughter was with us.

Happy Grandparents Day. Cherish your grandparents if you still have them here with you. If you are a grandparent, pour into your grandchildren and memorize each moment.

Feeling Emptiness

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Sun, 25 Aug 2013 03:01:00 +0000

Today I decided to really clean my bedroom and closet - "spring cleaning" in late summer.

I dusted, cleaned under my bed, washed windows and blinds and tackled my closet.

In the top of my closet is a box.

In this box are what could have beens.

A butterfly blanket.

Onezies that say " I love Mommy" & "I am going to Grandma's"

A teddy bear.

A sundress.

A bottle.

A book.

A few newborn outfits.

These were the things we bought for our sweet Chloe. Things she will never wear, never play with or never use. But these "things" are everything to us. Today though, they overwhelmed me with grief.

Not only do I miss the could have been but I am angry with myself that I didn't take more photo's and I took a lot of photo's.

I am angry I didn't think to video the 7 days she was with us.

I am deeply saddened that because of her fragile body, we were not able to hold her. Until the day I die that will overwhelm me. Today, almost 5 years after my beautiful grandchild went to heaven I cannot breathe because I decided to clean my closet.

I miss you angel.

Devastation To Victory

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Tue, 20 Aug 2013 12:16:00 +0000

What is a perfect family? When I was growing up I thought it was me, mom, dad and my brother in our little home for always. Today I know it is love and peace in many forms.

My parents divorced when I was a teenager. My dreams were shattered, my home was broken. My mom was devastated, my family existed in two homes and my heart torn between the two.

It was that time that I began the journey of wanting to make sure my mom was taken care of. She was battling an illness at the time of her divorce that many do not understand or even believe in- anxiety, fear, panic. I have seen the devastation of this illness and have experienced it myself. I was so fearful myself that she wouldn't survive the changes. I was sad that our family ended during a critical time in her life.

Over many years our family had ups and downs. We learned new ways of living and surviving and I learned how to have 2 families. There were good days and bad. I discovered the strengths of both my parents. My mom, my dad and my step-mom have all have been loving, integral parts of my life. Eventually we all moved on to the new normal.

This post is dedicated to the strength of my mother.

Growing up my family attended churches from time to to time and I believed in God, but never really knew him. Neither did my mom. In 1993 I discovered a real relationship with Jesus Christ and gave my heart to him. A couple years later my mom did the same. WOW, did our lives change. We found faith, hope and wonder! We even experienced freedom from the fear we once had that crippled us both.

Year after year I witnessed my mom deal with fear, loss and heartbreak. With the loss of her mom and another marriage I expected her to just crumble. SHE DIDN'T. Yes, she was broken. BUT not defeated.

Recently my mom lost her job she gave her all to. Since she lived on site, she also lost her home. Here we go again. What now? Fear gripped me, but amidst the change my mom was welcomed into her sisters home. For now I know she is taken care of. Even with no income, no insurance, and no job I began to see her become less stressed. It seems the job was tearing her down so bad we hadn't even realized it. My mom has since lost some weight, began moving & exercising more, gained new strength and can breathe easier! For me the best thing she has gained is her smile and laughter. I am amazed that a loss brought about new life.

Do we never fear? Of course not but oh how we conquer it day by day.

Does she have fear of the future? Some, but has the knowledge that God is her provider.

Does she face lonely times? Probably, but is reminded how many love her and she is never ever alone.

Mom, I want you to know that I ADMIRE YOU. You have always been my number one supporter through any thing life has tossed at me. Know that I am yours.

Victory Over Strongholds In Life

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Fri, 02 Aug 2013 19:16:00 +0000

What is a stronghold?

It is defined in some dictionaries as a place dominated by a certain characteristic.

As a Christian we define it as something we feel the need to break off of our lives. Something that has taken hold of our minds, our habits or our character. A lot of my friends and family seem to be facing this right now. Patterns that are hard to break, mind sets that will not change, and habits or addictions that seem utterly impossible! Some of these strongholds have torn apart families.

What can we do? How can we fight?

The answer is described best in 2 Corithians 10:3-5 "For though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ, for the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds."

We benefit from resisting things that are not of God- thoughts and actions that go against his word and spirit. To do this we must know the word of God, what his knowledge is, who HE is.

Ephesians 6:13-18 tells us to "take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all to stand firm. Stand therefore having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness and as shoes for your feet having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish the flaming darts of the enemy. Put on the helmet of Salvation, and the sword of the spirit which is the word of God. "

Hopefully, you are a believer in Christ. Believer's can walk in their faith, shielding themselves from the evil that exists daily. The bible doesnt say life will be easy but we certainly have the tools to make it through situations and struggles.

Strongholds can be broken!

Put on truth.

Clothe yourself in rightousness- do what is morally right.

Walk in peace.

Shield yourself with Christ.

Helmet yourself in Salvation, give you heart to Jesus Christ- FULLY.

Study, learn and remember the word of God.

Remember above all else- Nothing is impossible and you are never, ever alone.

I Am A Rich Woman

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Wed, 24 Jul 2013 12:12:00 +0000

I am a rich woman~

Not in rubies or pearls,

Not in mansions or castles.

I am a rich woman~

Not in diamonds or gold.

Not in speed boats or fast cars.

I am a rich woman~

Not in money or banks accounts.

Not in status or community circles.

I am a rich woman~

I am forgiven and The Lord Jesus loves me.

I have a faithful God loving husband .

I have a beautiful daughter.

I was blessed to have seven glorious days with my granddaughter
who now lives eternally in heaven.

I have health and a sound mind.

I have a roof over my head.

I have a job that pays my bills.

I have great friends.

I have wonderful family.

I have pets that make me smile daily.

I am ALIVE.

I am a rich woman~

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We Cannot Forget ~ Road To Independence

noreply@blogger.com (Just Jenn) — Thu, 04 Jul 2013 22:33:00 +0000

We cannot forget.

We must remember the men and women who died for our freedoms.

We must remember the flag that flies proudly as a symbol of freedom.

We must not look past threats to our freedoms.

We must always be a voice.

We cannot forget the road to Independence.

We must exercise our rights to vote, to challenge, to support and to change.

We must appreciate the things we have been given.

We cannot forget the deaths.

We cannot forget the songs, the pledges and the writings of our forefathers.

We cannot forget that we must continue to fight for freedoms.

We cannot forget those who know NOT freedom.

We cannot forget generations before us who made a way.

We cannot forget.

GOD BLESS AMERICA. LAND THAT I LOVE.