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Make Eye Contact and Smile

You want the guy to notice you, and one of the best ways to do that is with a simple smile. Don’t stare in his direction waiting for him to turn and look in yours, but casually glance at him. When your eyes meet, don’t look away in shyness. Smile! It makes you seem friendly and approachable. If he smiles back, that’s an excellent sign. If he doesn’t, it’s not a bad sign. You’ll just need to do more.
Work Out Regularly

If you pop in and out of the gym randomly, the chances that you’ll see the cute guy you like are greatly reduced. If you don’t go to the gym regularly, he won’t have many opportunities to think about you. Try to pay attention to what time of the day he’s there, and make it a point to stick to a similar workout schedule. You don’t want to stalk the parking lot for his car. You just want to start a regular pattern of working out so you’ll see each other more often. You’ll start to become a familiar face to him.
Don’t Listen to Music

If that cute guy wants to approach you, he might not do it if you’re listening to music. When you have your ear buds in, he’ll assume that you’re too focused on your workout to want to chat, and he doesn’t want to risk looking like a fool when he says hello and you don’t even hear him. If you aren’t listening to music, you’ll be much more approachable.
Start a Conversation

You don’t have to wait for him to come to you. Casually strike up a conversation with him. Create an opportunity by using workout equipment nearby, or going to the water cooler when he does. All you have to do is say, “Hi. How are you?” It doesn’t take much. He’ll answer, and you can continue with a quip you thought of before, or ask him a question about the gym or his workout. Just saying anything at all will show him you’re interested, and most guys will jump on the chance to talk to a cute girl.
Try to Look Good

People at the gym are sweaty, and they’re certainly not dressed up or worrying about their hair or makeup. You shouldn’t come to the gym obviously dressed up or too overdone, but you should avoid looking sloppy. Wear workout clothes that fit, for example, and put on a tiny bit of neutral makeup or mascara. You won’t attract the cute guy wearing a sweat suit that’s three sizes too big.

About Author: Michelle Leigh is a fashion expert and experienced dater who loves to share and write about relationships.

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Make a Sincere Attempt to Change Their Minds

If your parents hate your new boyfriend, they probably don’t know him very well. If they’re being judgmental, you should at least try to change their minds. Ask your parents and your boyfriend if they would feel comfortable having dinner together or playing a game of Monopoly. A neutral activity that everyone enjoys can help break the ice. Let them know how important it is to you that they at least open themselves up to getting to know your boyfriend a little better. Most parents who care about their daughter won’t refuse to do something that matters so much to her.
Talk to Your Boyfriend About It

It can be a hard subject to discuss, but you should talk to your boyfriend about your parents’ feelings toward him. Is he aware of how they feel? Maybe there is something in particular he does that they don’t like, and if he wants to win them over he could consider changing it or toning it down around them. Maybe they have no fair reason for disliking him, and you should talk to your boyfriend about how you want to handle things in the future. If the two of you are intent on staying together, you’ll try to come up with the least painful solution.
Take a Good, Honest Look at Your Relationship

This can be the hardest thing to do, but you should stop for a moment and consider what your parents are saying to you. Could they actually be right? When you’re blinded by love or lust, it’s very hard to see the flaws in your relationship or the person you’re with. However, the people who are closest to you will notice the flaws immediately. The truth is that your parents care about you a lot, and they want you to be happy and with a good partner. If your parents don’t like your boyfriend, maybe they have a legitimate reason that you should consider a little more carefully. Lots of times, they’re right.
Ignore Them and Move On

If your parents simply won’t come to their senses or even consider changing their minds, you might have to give up on trying to convince them. It’s never easy to be in a relationship that your parents don’t approve of, but you have to consider your own happiness first. If you and your boyfriend truly love each other and make each other happy, you should not let your parents’ opinions stop you from enjoying that. As much as you can, try to ignore their criticisms. Don’t talk about your relationship in front of them, and go on with your life.

About Author: Michelle Leigh is a self proclaimed relationship expert and fashionista who loves to write about her passions. Her goal is to survive her teen years with a minimum amount of dating mistakes.

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A human being passes through many stages in life as I mentioned in my earlier articles of philosophy of sex. There are many possible branching at every step in the life. Two people cannot be exactly same in every aspect. But for successful relationship the requirement is higher compatibility. Greater the compatibility, shorter will be distance. Shorter the distance, stronger will be love. Stronger the love, greater will be sexual fulfillment. Greater the sexual fulfillment, happier will be the person. Happier the person is, more he/she loves the partner. Again it recycles as follow

Relationship between Love, sexual fulfillment and Happyness

Nobody will tell you that who is compatible for you? Nobody!!! Even if someone is willing to help you they cannot do much as nobody knows you better than yourself. So try to explore the world, try to understand the world. Larger the circle of probable candidates more will be your options. Try to interact with lots of people. Try to spend time together. And golden rule for any beginner and trained person is same – ask, ask and ask. If you don’t ask, you will never know. Ask orally, ask visually; and you will get the answer. If even after lots of effort (oral and visual) to know compatibility you are unable to get anything then either your communication power is not good or she doesn’t like to be explored at least by you (prejudice). If you are able to communicate (orally and visually) then next you can decide and select best out of those tested candidates.

So guys, all the best for your relationships.

If two individual love each other and want to have sex, then first point come in their mind is fear (fear of society and fear of family). They feel that his is wrong at the moment according to the society. And next question is what will happen if somebody other than us knows about our intimacy?

Next decision is governed by intensity of sexual urge and self control. If sexual urge is stronger than self control then it results in sexual encounter. No matter, society likes this or not. If self control is stronger than sexual urge then planning for marriage come in mind. Marriage is nothing but society license to do everything with your loved one. Marriage is asked after sex even in first case. If marriage is denied/ opposed by any of them; it results in “break up”. False consent results in few more sex before “break up” in first case and delayed “break up” in second case.

Break up can results in either unwillingness for opposite sex partner or fresh search. Psychological help is needed in first case. Search for new partner is different this time. Now she/he has a parameter/ standard to compare with. She/ he will compare everything about the new partner with their old partner. Except this difference everything is repeated again and has same consequences. Story repeated again and again till compatibility matches and till results in marriage.

If sexual urge is very high in girls or boys then they may encounter much sex with different partner before getting fixed with someone. The only explanation for person with such mentality is that sex always results in enjoyment and pleasure if you really want. Having sex doesn’t mean you are fulfilled. An emotional touch along with physical attachment is must for sexual fulfillment. Even any of the two partner not giving their 100% efforts then enjoyment cannot be 100%.

Unless a lady/ guy has emotional attachment their relationship (particularly sex) will not ends long. No matters howsoever beautiful or handsome a girl or boy might be. Attraction starts decreasing by seeing and doing same thing again and again. Desire for variety arises. Again search begins. This is the beginning of extra-marital affairs. Motto here is again same – sexual desire and need for emotional attachment. Financial condition of husband/ wife matters here. If some better mate found, divorce is must. Divorce can result even without getting any new partner if sexual dis-satisfaction and emotional detachment is strong.

Search may starts soon after the divorce. But mind of person along all these stages of life are different. Their maturity level is different. Their thinking is different. Their need is different. Only reason for compromise in unsatisfied relationship is money and fear of future of child. In western countries money doesn’t matter, both have enough money. Also both people can easily take care of child because of money and status. So divorce rate is very high there.

Article will be continue with our next article – Philosophy of sex Part 4

Society can stop you from having sex in public but you are free to do anything whenever alone. As you need some secret space to fulfill your desire; the first things come in mind is that this things is not right. Otherwise why everybody is stopping him/ her? Now next question is whether her/ his selected partner also thinks this is wrong. This question acts as bridge for communication. Answer can be yes or no. both starts exploring the possibilities. If someone is talking with you positively it does not mean that she/ he will like to have sex. So efforts continue. This is the beginning of the concept of boyfriends and girlfriends. They start giving time to each other. Sex is the thing which most of the people want but nobody tell (generally) directly (unless she. He is sex maniac). Only God knows that what is in the mind of a girl or boy and God is not mercy less. He provided us with eye and body through which we can communicate indirectly. You can read mind of your loved one through her eyes or body language. As oral communication capacity is different for different individual, similarly the visual communication capability is also different. If a guy is able to send and receive message indirectly with high efficiency then he is romantic. If a girl is able to send and receive message indirectly with high efficiency then she is sexy. Lack of visual communication is dull. All others are in between dull and romantic/sexy. Society says if you are giving message directly then you are playboy or slut.

If both are able to communicate visually/ indirectly then mutual consent is made. Once these requirements are fulfilled then it is guy (in most cases) who proposes to the girl and even asks to be intimate. Therefore “I love you” should be followed by “I want to have sex with you”. Vice-versa is not allowed. This is not sex because of which I love you but this is love because for which I want to have sex with you. Sex is created to enjoy and grow closer in soul and spirit. The sexual act bonds people together with the deepest of roots, giving a sense of trust and love. When a woman and man love together they become one.

Article will be continue with our next article – Philosophy of sex Part 3

Sex is not a man-made activity. It is God who makes physique of male and female appropriate for sex. Sexual desire is affected mainly by body hormones. Major role is played by sex hormones like testosterone in male and oestrogen in female. Liking the other person is first requisite for getting closure. In childhood also boys gets attracted towards girl and vice versa. But their desire is only to spent time together. Their hormonal levels are low. Similarly sensual organ are under development. Once they grown up both hormonal and sense organs become active. They start getting sexual urges. They starts thinking their body should be loved by someone. Here society and culture play a major role. Sexual tension inside body starts building up. This is the origin for need of a body or girl. He/ she start looking for appropriate partner. The more compatible the person is with him/ her more likely is the selection. But this selection is only out of known candidates. Now society and culture play a major role here. If society doesn’t favor free sex then selection doesn’t mean sex. Now this is the beginning of fantasy and masturbation. Nature declare that you are matured enough to have sex but society doesn’t allow you since they think you are not experienced/ intelligent enough (at that moment) to think for who is better candidate for you. Society thinks that you don’t have high thinking capabilities at that moment. Society also feared that you are driven by physical attraction and sexual urge.

Article will be continue with our next article – Philosophy of sex Part 2

Lovemaking should not be done in hurry. Enough time to arouse and getting aroused ultimately helps to have better experience of sex.

But is it only permission and time which can make a sex great. No, even if you permitted your buddy to explore everything and giving him/her sufficient time is not guarantee for complete sexual fulfillment. It is generally believed that body should take the lead to arouse girl and do everything that is required for sex while girl are only receptive. But this is not only his job to bring you to sexual ecstasy. Girls should also allow her to open fully to sexual pleasure. Each (boy and girl) should take responsibilities for fulfilling their sexual desire. You should be consciously present/ stay at the moment. Deep emotional connection is required. Do whatever you want to do at the moment and allow him/ her also to do whatever he/she like. But beware of forcefully doing some objectionable activities. One should be aware of things to do during foreplay. In short it includes kissing, touching and of course listen each other.

Now nothing can stop you from getting sexual fulfillment.

Second indicator of love is willingness to help. Unless the next person is spouse, one cannot/ will not ask for help on every topic. But if you understand her then you can see and feel that she needs help.

Next thing which is not part of love but it makes love stronger. You should believe your love and should give sufficient freedom. Loving someone doesn’t mean owning her. She is also a complete individual. Loving someone doen’t permits you to disliked her from the social circle.  She also has sufficient right to interact with variety of people/ friends around her.

Everybody’s priorities are different. Mentalities are also different. Many things which is not good may be correct from her point of view. These mentalities may be harmful for her.  You should guide her to suppress such mentality and thoughts.

Everybody has a personal boundary in which one separate different people. The unknown comes on the corner of the circle. And most loved one comes near to the center of circle. If she loves you most, she will keep you closer to the center and allow you to come closest and be intimate.

All requirements listed above is required for loving someone. If one or two of above mentioned requirements are missing then it simply means that there is a blockage in love. For example

1)      Only understanding: You are deep observer. You know how good the person is with whom you are talking with.

2)      Only help: You are good friends.

3)      Only guidance: You are good psychologist and helper/ friend.

4)      Only intimacy: You are in lust. Once get intimate you will need more. If the intimacy is not supplemented further then your relationship is over.