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	<title>Flourishing Today</title>
	
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	<description>Love, Partnership, Transformation &amp; Empowerment</description>
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		<title>Navigating the Grief Process</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Aug 2010 20:30:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I’ve discovered that when someone like a parent, sibling, or spouse dies, during the grief process there is a period of time where your identity is shaken, your loss is bold, and that’s all there is.  The rest of your life isn’t even parenthetical, even though you know it exists: They died… 
It’s like [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rejuvenate.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 23:05:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=932</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Burnt out, stressed, overwhelmed, exhausted, tired, raw, anxious, scared, unappreciated, fried.
These are words that I’ve heard women use to describe themselves over and over, in the last 5 days alone.  These are words I use when I don’t take care of myself.  What most women don’t know, that taking the time to be [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Appearance as Identity, or Accessory?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jun 2010 18:00:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=924</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Normally, I share my processes on my blog and with clients, after I’ve come up with great tools and come out the other side.  This time I’m going to let you in before I’ve come out of the tunnel, because of the value in sharing a process while in the middle of it.  People fear [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Sometimes, flourishing is like learning to drive..</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jun 2010 18:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=900</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[A question from Formspring:
I am so not flourishing&#8230; (in spite of my best efforts!) what can I do?
Thanks for your question!
Flourishing is a commitment, that starts with taking small steps starting with where you&#8217;re at, gradually moving forward, and finding people in your life who will support the changes you&#8217;re choosing to make.  That [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Finding Meaning.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 25 May 2010 15:52:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=889</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[According to Viktor Frankl, despair is suffering minus meaning.  One of the things I know about the human brain and how we work, is that we humans are meaning making machines.  We can turn anything into a moment of meaning, which then shapes how we feel about it.  The meaning we put [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Finding freedom in your partnerships</title>
		<link>http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/foundations/finding-freedom-in-your-partnerships/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Apr 2010 04:11:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=880</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We have this fear that once we settle down in a relationship and  partnership, that we will end up losing ourselves. We become responsible  for someone else, we put our needs on the back burner, and we stop  sharing whats really important to us.  We’re caught up in whether or not  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Falling in Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Apr 2010 06:06:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=867</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Ever stop to think about the a phrase you use all the time, and go, WTF? I just had that experience with the phrase: Falling in Love. You know, that doesn&#8217;t sound so good. 
I think anyone who has seen me and my boyfriend, Christian, would be quick to say that we’re pretty romantic.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>I Hate It, I See Your Face..</title>
		<link>http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/tools/i-hate-it-i-see-your-face/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=864</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As many of you know, I have a background in NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). Part of what that provides me is insight to the places where our unconscious links an experience we have, with something we see, hear, feel, smell, etc..  For example, you hear a song, that reminds you of an ex, and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Secret is: Get in the Game</title>
		<link>http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/advanced/the-secret-is-get-in-the-game/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 08:29:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blog.kayeporter.net/?p=854</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s 3:30am, and I&#8217;m inspired. Yes, I&#8217;m tired but I&#8217;ve had the most amazing experience. I’ve been here at South by Southwest, talking to lots of amazing people, who want to create change. They’ve been anywhere from non-profits, to Tech-Girl geniuses, founders of movements and businesses, and angel investors.  
Tonight, at the Reverse VC [...]]]></description>
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		<title>They do exist!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Feb 2010 23:29:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kaye</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wasn’t sure whether to write this blog post, because I realized as I was writing it, a) it could be super triggering and b) when giving useful tools, it started to turn into a book. Answers to &#8220;There aren&#8217;t any good, single guys in _______________&#8221; is a huge book..

Because there are. We just don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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