No small talk http://www.nosmalltalk.me encouragement & food for fish, which may never make sense. Wed, 22 Feb 2012 19:49:08 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 45.499242-122.452501FoodForFish-MissionsInPolandhttp://feedburner.google.com The path of least resistence http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/FoodForFish-MissionsInPoland/~3/ewgJq0CjEq4/ http://www.nosmalltalk.me/2012/02/22/the-path-of-least-resistence/#comments Wed, 22 Feb 2012 16:00:06 +0000 TravisM http://www.nosmalltalk.me/?p=1993 DSC_0173.JPG

Something I observe multiple times throughout my week is that people fall into two camps, either they are “go getters” or “resisters” and in most cases, people attempt to take the “path of least resistance”.  In nearly every job or role I’ve been placed in I’ve seen this phenomenon, and I’m guilty of it as well… “what’s the easiest,  fastest, and most ‘avoidant’ way of getting X done?” and man it irks me.  It seems to be an especially strong disease throughout my generation.

This is even stronger when it comes to relational dynamics, I see it so many times, people going to all kinds of lengths to avoid a possible “conflict” or “situation” – in my mind though, this kind of avoidance makes waters down our relationships, and actually breaks down the desire for strong friendships and family that we actually want.  It certainly takes guts to overcome our cultural boundaries, and most of the time takes courage since most of us have not been shown how to healthily confront awkward (or simply saying no) situations.

A lot of the time when I’m faced with the decision to resist or “go get it” I have to ask myself, what is the pro-relationship path I could take? What will build up the relationship? What decision might tear it down, or leave it flat? As a person who looks to Jesus for direction, I usually can’t choose to skim past a relation-building choice… (of course if it’s unhealthy and not safe, then that’s another ball-game which actually might be just as challenging to make the choice to step away from a relationship). Often times I find myself wanting to avoid talking to someone because it’s harder than just making my own choice to “skim on by with what’s acceptable” – however, I’m not so sure this is how Jesus goes about ministering to us, and I want to reflect this. I want to go above just the “satisfactory” and I want to be a servant, even when it’s not exactly pleasant for me.

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Well, hello, knock, knock… anybody there?

Yeah, it’s been since October since I posted anything of any substance… except for automatic “weekly summaries” of my twitter feed…  Trust me this is not a ghost, it’s really me.  Recently I’ve been doing a lot of reading, researching, and in return being stuck. I just don’t want to be “cool” and fall into the same noise.  I want my words to mean something (even if only to myself), and at the same time I don’t want to write just to “be something”. This whole paradoxical position I’ve placed myself into is rather… sticky and narcissistic… So, I’ll just start writing, and see what happens, because it doesn’t matter, if it’s “not being cool” then it’s not about anything, right?

My motivation for writing anything always needs to line up with my desire to encourage, engage, and have people think about their lives, see Christianity in a different way, and most of all at least ask questions about walking with God.  Although I meander down different idealistic topics, transportation, land use, education, health-care, and other topics which are typically not highlighted in Christian circles, my most basic idea is to engage the Church culture in thinking about our communities, otherwise, I believe, we can easily become irrelevant to the people around us.

Granted I live in a mostly white, suburban, evangelical, bubble, I keep trying to push the envelope and be some kind of social-church-community-livability-avangelist to the suburban-white-evangelical church-going circle I find myself in.  If God wasn’t so clear in having Alexis and I be where we are, trust us, we would be in an urban, multi-cultural, and very different circle.  In some ways, this blog entry feels like a “coming out” post… which has some fears attached, but since I know this is a two way discussion, and not the “end all” judge me post, I’m ok with it.  I try to not jump to conclusions, nor try to judge people based on one facebook/twitter status update, blog entry, or quote… so I ask the same of my readers…

Congrats, if you read this far… then, well, maybe we have a chance at understanding more about the world we live in, and “not be cool”, together!

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  • I swear I was at Lloyd Center… not 60th… who just teleported my MAX back? #TriMet #
  • In all that you do seek the highest road, the wisdom (not the praise) of those ahead of you, and seek to understand & love more people. #
  • Ominous clouds approaching PDX – http://t.co/PrKhnvlj #
  • The world is not black and white, so let's stop trying to paint it that way & discover the colors of life which have existed since creation. #

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  • My image isn't anything close to how "perfect" it appears, things are not as they appear. There's always more to the story, myself included. #
  • So, when your Android's live wallpaper is connected to your Google photos account, you get pics of friends! Rando… – http://t.co/27mBfovw #
  • @carlybish Looks rather sketch… I would do some investigating and see if Google Shopping has any reviews for that site… :/ #
  • @carlybish I'll find it for you and link it :) #
  • @carlybish meh… these people don't exist on the internet… no mention of them anywhere except this forum: http://t.co/XmwgJXn9 #
  • @thisisjason I don't think the 6:00 train (for me at Civic) ever showed up, and in this wind brrrr. In fact you might be on the same train.. #
  • @PDXtrimetrider lol yes, after about 30th it isn't what I call exciting. #
  • Today's rides: @TriMet Blue Xfer Red @United PDX>>ORD Xfer ORD>>YYZ #
  • @united have no problem flying you guys, always taking care of loyal customers… but please add WiFi on more routes! Thanks! #
  • Toronto! – http://t.co/svYRqFbR #
  • Don Don Izakaya – http://t.co/tEfVZ02z #
  • Oh Canada! – http://t.co/ak0C7NwC #
  • Interesting: LIVE: Boeing 787 Dreamliner is Making an EPIC Flight Path Design http://t.co/f4ErF8Mh #
  • Emma's first lincoln log creation, maybe one day she'll have a collection like I had.: ) – http://t.co/mXIss4ww #
  • Emma and her first Lincoln Log house. :) – http://t.co/JPcEjjcy #

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  • Snuggling at Café D – http://t.co/R727RddE #
  • PDX Today :) – http://t.co/aCEwOQgg #
  • What will I do in this last month as a 20 something?? #
  • There is so much to share in this world, it might sound cliche, but seriously sharing your smile with people is contagious! #Relate amp;Change #
  • Oh boy, poor insane guy loudly playing offensive music and yelling, cursing at everyone at 6:30am #Really #

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  • Well this is a new one… MAX operator announces he needs to leave the cab for a min to take care of some "business" at Gateway. #
  • Well my cold is mostly gone, but now I have a nasty metallic/bitter taste… makes everything taste gross except water. :( #
  • Culture ride: On this rare occasion where my headphone batteries are dead, the lady sitting next to me on #MAX is on her phone, in Spanish. #
  • What's the point of thinking & talking negative? Being positive, optimistic, & encouraging has changed my life – in spite of "reality". #
  • So happy to take @ledub13 suggestion and use @zoomcare! Same day appointment to find out why I still have this cough and phlegm! #
  • @jonusjensen I didn't get no shout out for following you! #justsayin #
  • @jonusjensen touche #
  • My entire family, including me, are still in bed, I'm the only one awake, Emma climbed into our bed & fell back to sleep! #loveSundays #wow #

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  • Weather forecast… tomorrow we leave :( – http://t.co/ezTXAI5B #
  • Well… snow..We're going to a resort pool heated by natural hot springs in an hour :) – http://t.co/7kx1Z2er #
  • Well… snow..We're going to a resort pool heated by natural hot springs in an hour :) – http://t.co/4IgvaCXa #
  • Landing in Vancouver, BC – http://t.co/EfeMZR4R #
  • Saying bye to Aris and Christina in Frankfurt. – http://t.co/Bmprh6Qb #
  • Stranded in Vancouver until 6:40, was suppose to be in SEA at 4… customs process snafu. – http://t.co/XLzvIl0e #
  • Finally aboard our last flight! YVR >> SEA here we come! #
  • Hello America, hello Seattle, hello Snow and GOODNIGHT world. Glad to be safe and warm at Alexis' mom's house. #
  • For our friends in Nowy Targ this is how Seattle greeted us! :) – http://t.co/RTIgwl1c #
  • almost home – http://t.co/AScei1Iy #
  • @TriMet TVM #101 is not working, blank white screen. #
  • Well first day back at the office was decent, although I was a bit tired. The #pdxsnow coverage is so sensational, #sea has a real storm. #
  • Well the snow was great looking last night, now it's a disgusting slushy mess.. wish more people actually had and used snow shovels. #pdxtst #
  • Tell Congress: Don’t censor the web! http://t.co/eDQS9Bns #
  • @carlybish get some Zinc lozenges and you'll kick any kind of cold too. #
  • @TriMet I know it's been crazy, but TVM #101 is still broken. – http://t.co/qCfaNL5f #
  • Nothing like a little coffee to settle down, from a mug with a story bigger than me! – http://t.co/VMfoblgC #
  • @komonews remind pople they can re-book weather related canceled flights (most airlines) online, Sea-Tac has free WiFi, use it! #nowait #
  • Just imagining what the world might look like if everyone who could, was fully active in at least one cause. #Encourage #LoveFirst #Serve #

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  • Well, the snow is melting (again), and the sun is out… weird winter here this year! – http://t.co/13Q8i92z #
  • Well, the snow is melting (again), and the sun is out… weird winter here this year! – http://t.co/q2qyvFVv #
  • Traditional Polish Highlander Menu and Restaurant – http://t.co/QvQ0ngCa #
  • Traditional Polish Highlander Restaurant – http://t.co/EJUOA184 #
  • Today we have near blizzard conditions… – http://t.co/0vT0tbyN #
  • All our bags are packed… we're NOT ready to go…: ( #

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  • @boostpower yeah, I noticed by the end of the article it seemed inconclusive. @intersection #
  • Starbucks, Kraków – http://t.co/rIib95lG #
  • Shopping in the Kraków market – http://t.co/MaPkiAJU #
  • More shopping… just the window type – http://t.co/OkTfxOCZ #
  • Fruit tort.. – http://t.co/IiABZppZ #
  • Silly girls – http://t.co/kQpEZDSS #
  • I guess you don't need to be in London to buy London trinkets. – http://t.co/8N1i3DLs #
  • The college where Kryszek works. – http://t.co/yyzgksoE #
  • Just a little iced coffee. – http://t.co/RZZYc6IT #
  • A meal Weronika made us! yumm – http://t.co/9OJCNg7l #
  • In Kraków, our friends blessed us with a night out alone! #

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  • Emma in her new fairy outfit she from uncle @erickoho :) – http://t.co/gLte3P2Z #
  • This is a problem! Now exploring new routes… yay :/ – http://t.co/Vf6ykw7h #
  • A view from our morning walk in Nowy Targ Poland. – http://t.co/9eVWzrhh #

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