Foundations Devotional

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 35 - Love Is Found

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sun, 15 Mar 2015 18:13:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 3:3, 8:17, 10:12, 16:6, 17:9, 25:21-22

The Bible is a book of love. God’s love for us is declared almost chapter-by-chapter. Our call to love Him in response is highlighted. Then there’s our duty to love others extravagantly. Finally, we are told to avoid a “love of the world”, those things that are counter to the spirit of Christ.

Proverbs does not speak much of love, but it is in there. And we can say with complete confidence that love is behind much that is shared because love is wise! In fact, early in the book we’re told to, “let love and faithfulness never leave you; bind them around your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart” (3:3). Love is to be a constant companion in our life. How much we would gain if we kept God’s love for us and our call to love others before us? The love we’re spurred on to in Proverbs is to extend wide and deep, even to our enemies.

We’re also told in Proverbs to actually love wisdom. To love wisdom is to love God. This is a profound truth if we’ll meditate on it! Wisdom cries out in the book of Proverbs, “I love those who love me and those who seek me will find me” (8:17). Doesn’t this sound like God? Really, it’s God saying to us – be wise!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time thanking God for the book of Proverbs. Praise Him for not leaving us without a testimony of who He is, and His Ways. Praise Him for leading you throughout this book.

2. Spend some time in God’s presence, asking to reveal His love to you in a deeper way, whether through thoughts, words, pictures, verses or even feelings. Ask Him to reveal His heart for others as well. Pray for the power to love!

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 34 - Friendship Can Help Or Hinder

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sat, 14 Mar 2015 23:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 13:20, 17:17, 18:24 27:6, 27:17

Ask any pastor of young people what one of the most important factors in spiritual growth is and you’ll find that they emphasize friendship. Of course, the significance of friendship doesn’t end at a certain age and Proverbs teaches that our friendships can play a huge role in who we become. Put simply, friendships can help OR hinder. What is some specific advice that Proverbs offers?

First, who we spend time with can greatly impact who we become. Or in the words of Proverbs, “whoever walks with the wise becomes wise but the companion of fools suffer harm” (13:20). When we spend time with those who are mature or maturing, we gain much. On the other hand, when we invest lots of time with the foolish we’ll struggle to stay strong. Instead, we place ourselves in the position of ALWAYS having to fight against the tide. Very few can do this successfully.

Second, our friendship time should involve support and spurring on of each other. These are the valuable friendships! We do need those who will stick by us when troubles come. And who will speak truth into our lives when lukewarmness is setting in, or compromise? Listen to Proverbs - “faithful are the wounds of a friend . . .” (27:6) And truly, “one man sharpens another.”

Finally, Proverbs encourages us against having TOO many friends. When we spread ourselves too thin, the impact of the best ones can be diluted. Certainly, “a man of many companions may come to ruin . . .” (18:24). It is good to regularly evaluate our friendships, for quantity and quality.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time reflecting on how specific friendships have both helped and hindered your spiritual growth. Praise God for the positive impact you’ve received and ask Him to forgive you for letting others negatively influence you.

2. Take stock of your current group of friends. How is the quality? What about the quantity? If you’re struggling to find friends, ask God where He wants you to step out in finding friends. Perhaps it’ll involve getting involved more in serving, or cell groups, OR being more open and friendly in the groups you’re in right now. It’s vital that we don’t chase after friends, or demand friendship, but seek to be friends and leave the rest up to God.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 33 - A Blessed Marriage Requires Work

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Fri, 13 Mar 2015 23:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 5:15-20, 21:9, 31:12, 31:25, 31:28

In the previous devotional, we noted that reaching the potential for marriage that God intended involves following His prescription for marriage. It’s important at this point to note what hard work this is! However, it’s hard work that’s MORE than worth it. Do we believe this? Whether or not we actually can affirm this truth will greatly impact whether we’ll persevere through the ups and downs that come with any close relationship.

What kind of hard work does Proverbs emphasize? First, this work includes staying pure and being attentive to each other sexually. Purity in marriage is far more than not having sexual relationships with others. It includes not giving our hearts or eyes over to another in any way. You see, there’s the world’s standard, the standard of our flesh and THEN there’s God standard. God’s standard includes serving our spouses sexually. It’s not just what to avoid, but also what TO DO!

Second, we’re called to do the hard work of working against conflict. Proverbs says, “it is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife” (21:9). Some men love quoting this, but in all seriousness, God is asking men and women to eliminate behaviours that cause unnecessary conflict. This does not mean suppressing our feelings, but with God’s help, expressing them in a godly, gentle and generous spirit.

Third, not only should we seek to eliminate unnecessary conflict, we should also desire to be good to each other! The women in Proverbs 31 is commended with these words, “she does him good, and not harm, all the days of her life” (31:12). This is the CALL that God has for both husband and wife. Are both of them intentionally taking steps to DO good to their spouse? This includes praising each other, before others and to one another. We must speak highly of our spouses!

Finally, the hard work of marriage includes using the strength of our marriages to bless others. Put another way, a blessed marriage will also bless others. Again, we look to the woman of Proverbs 31 as an example, “she opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy” (31:20).

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. If married, ask God to affirm where YOU have worked hard to contribute to your marriage. Look at the various things noted in this devotional as a guide. Then ask Him, where have you been lazy or shown a lack of diligence? Ask Him for some immediate steps to correct this.

2. If single, pray that God would work in your life so that if He grants you the gift of marriage, you’ll be prepared. Also spend some time lifting up in prayer those who are married, that God may give them the strength to obey His Word.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 32 - The Joy Of A Godly Spouse

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Thu, 12 Mar 2015 23:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 12:4, 18:22, 31:10-11, 31:30

Marriage is an incredible blessing from God! There’s a consistent testimony throughout God’s Word that, “he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD” (18:22). One of the most significant blessings that come from the marriage relationship is the joy of partnership, of a shared life. It’s good for those who are married to ask – is this my experience of marriage? Is it truly something I thank God for?

Of course, a couple of key things will dramatically impact whether or not we experience the potential of marriage. First, the choice we make in choosing a spouse can greatly impact our enjoyment. Many have discovered this reality. If we chase or chased after only physical attraction or lust, or popularity or matched interests, difficulties can result later on. Proverbs is clear - a godly spouse is ultimately what brings happiness within marriage. Or as Proverbs puts it, “Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised” (31:30). Now some who are reading this may say – “well, it’s too late now.” To this, Proverbs would say “no” and that takes us to a second key.

The second key is that living out the wisdom of the book of Proverbs, is supported by the rest of the Word, prayer and the power of the Holy Spirit. Fulfilling the potential of what God intended for marriage is tied to our obedience to wisdom. Even a difficult marriage, or a difficult partner, can be navigated by OUR choice to pursue righteousness. There’s always hope for more in our marriage, if only we’ll seek to live by God’s prescription for relationships.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. If married, think back to the pursuit of your spouse and the decision to get married. What was the decision to marry based on? If needed, confess where you walked this path independent of the Lord. If, on the other hand, if you walked with God in that time, thank Him for what He’s graciously done. Also spend some time thanking God for your spouse. If single, ask God to give you His heart for marriage and YOUR specific situation.

2. Reflect on this question, if married, – are you living according to God’s prescription for marriage? Do you have a commitment of regular time in His Word, so that He can speak to you clearly?

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 31 - The Joy Of Godly Children

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Wed, 11 Mar 2015 23:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 13:1, 13:24, 15:20, 19:18, 22:6, 29:15

The Bible is clear that children are gift from God. So many blessings flow from having children. Some of the blessings include: they are cute(!), they have an innocence that can be a shining example of the type of faith we’re to have as followers of Christ, they can bring much joy through their enthusiasm, they allow us to multiply ourselves in our goal to further God’s Kingdom, they can help us when we get older (seriously!), they can show us an example of Christ’s love when we make mistakes (very forgiving when they’re young), they can help us become more like Jesus through the need for personal growth and they cause us to rely on Christ’s strength and wisdom.

However, this gift and its blessings are harder to receive with joy if our children end up foolish. Or as Proverbs notes, “a wise son makes a glad father, but a foolish man despises his mother” (15:20). The pain that is felt when children go astray is very wide and deep. While they do have free will, Proverbs also emphasizes that HOW we parent can really impact how they develop and mature. When we invest the time as parents (and as churches) to raise godly children, we benefit many times over.

“Train up a child in the way he should go . . .”, Proverbs 22:6 challenges. Training has many elements. It involves being intentional, hard work, prayer, having a plan and regularly re-evaluating the plan. Effective training is done through both teaching AND modelling. Finally, such training should include discipline. “Discipline your son, for there is hope; do not set your heart on putting him to death” (19:18). All of this can seem overwhelming, but OUR Father can lead us as we seek to shepherd our children. Praise His Name, as He grants us such precious gifts!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Reflect on the qualities of young children. What is it about young children that God wants us to imitate? Ask God to develop these qualities in you.

2. If you have children, ask God to show you how you can grow as a parent (even if your children are adults already). Ask Him to grant you both the wisdom and grace for this huge responsibility. Thank Him for how being a parent has shaped you. If you don’t have children, pray for the parents that you know – that God may give them everything they need. Also ask God – is there any way that I can encourage specific parents or children?

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 30 - Cautiousness In Speech

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Tue, 10 Mar 2015 18:09:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 16:23, 18:2, 25:15

In the last number of devotionals, we’ve been looking at a variety of aspects of speech. In this final one on the topic, an overarching key will be highlighted. We should be regularly weighing what we say. Throughout Proverbs, cautiousness is emphasized. Proverbs 16:23 says, “the heart of the wise makes his speech judicious . . .” (16:23). To be “judicious” means to be careful or thoughtful. We should take time to think before we speak. Ever heard that before? There’s a reason it’s a popular saying because it’s at the core of godly speech.

Our goal must not be to simply state what we think! “A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion” (18:2). Oh, the wisdom of listening. Some have transformed their speech by having seasons where they “fast” from words. Some spouses have turned around their communication by deciding to ask what their significant other thinks, rather than simply pouring out their own thoughts.

Even where we want or need to persuade others, careful speech is the way to go! Or as Proverbs says, “with patience a ruler may be persuaded . . .” (25:15). Cautiousness in speech is a habit to be developed, but we can be encouraged that the goal is possible. Many have done it, with Christ’s help!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Take some time to think about your speech – are your words too little or too many? Ask God to show you if you need to make any specific adjustments, in any specific setting.

2. Is there someone that you need to influence right now, or get a message across to? This can be a good thing, but HOW we do it really matters. Ask God to give you wisdom on the HOW. What words? When? What should you NOT say? (this can be very wise to figure out ahead of time)

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 29 - Honesty Must Reign

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Mon, 09 Mar 2015 18:08:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 6:16-17, 12:19, 12:22, 17:20, 21:6

The book of Proverbs speaks most harshly about lying, or deception. Lying is actually something God hates, or in the words of Proverbs, “lying lips are an abomination to the LORD . . .” (12:22). This is probably convicting to all of us. As followers of Christ, we must commit to truthfulness in every matter. Every human being has fallen into lying and we must face the challenge of rising up to God’s standard. Perhaps it’s useful for us to ask - why do we lie?

Sometimes we think we can gain advantages by lying. Maybe we can improve what people think of us, or pry open a door where others will want to be our friends, or give us material items. But no advantage is gained long-term! Instead, “truthful lips endure forever, but a lying tongue is but for a moment” (12:19). It’s only for a moment that we gain any advantage! Truthfulness has great value long-term and it’s imitating the Truth Himself!

Truthfulness includes the avoidance of exaggeration. For sure, in a joking manner, where people know that we’re not serious, exaggeration has its place – “I feel like I could eat a cow right now!” However, if exaggeration is used to impress or deceive, we have fallen into sin. Thankfully God is SO good at revealing the motives of our hearts! In assessing what lying is we can ask - what is going on in our hearts? Are we trying to manipulate a person’s response?

Truthfulness also involves following through on our promises, or not making promises that we have no intention of keeping. As servants of the ultimate Promise Keeper, we’re called to carefully consider what we commit to AND pay the price of following through.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Are you a truthful person and do you keep your promises? Not only is our own name on the line, but also God’s reputation. Spend some time confessing any dishonesty and make a commitment to truthfulness, no matter how hard it’ll be.

2. Spend some time interceding for an increase in truthfulness in Canada, in all spheres of society. Also pray that more and more people would come to know Jesus, the Way, the Truth and the Life.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 28 - Words That Lift Up Others

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sun, 08 Mar 2015 23:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 10:31, 12:18, 16:24, 25:11-12

Just as words can be used to destroy, they can be used to lift others up! Oh what a joy this is as a ministry! This is intentional, not something we simply hope will happen once in a while. Our motivation to be consistent with this is twofold. First, there’s the unconditional love of God serving as a fuel! He rejoices over us with singing and so why wouldn’t we bless others with specific words that uplift?

Second, as God’s love motivates us, so too does our knowledge of what this can do for others. “A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver” (25:11), Proverbs declares. Apples of gold in a setting of silver? That would’ve cost a fortune back then AND today. Proverbs is saying that a fitly spoken word is priceless. This is motivating!

At times our words need to be directed to a hurting soul. As people take the brunt of the difficulties of life, we can provide words that make a massive difference. We must be specific, as lead by the Spirit. Sometimes simple words such as, “I’m praying for you” mean much, but at other times, we need to ask God for something that’s way more detailed. Let’s remember that, “. . . the tongue of the wise brings healing . . .” (12:18). Even where people are hurting because of their own sin or temptations, we must be gracious. We too can identify with their weaknesses, if we’re humble.

Finally, lifting up others can include passing on wisdom, or as Proverbs affirms, “the mouth of the righteous brings forth wisdom . . .” (10:31). Of course, our wisdom should be well-timed, and given at a point where it will be received. Nor should we ever assume that we’re meant to pass on ALL our wisdom!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Think of those times when the words of others have built you up. Reflect on how they made you feel. Praise God for these people, whether family, friends or strangers.

2. Ask God to show you specific people that you could lift up with your words in the near future. Ask God to show you any specific words, thoughts, pictures or verses that you can use.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 27 - Words That Destroy Others

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sun, 08 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 10:18-19, 11:12-13, 20:19

There are many ways to destroy others with our words. Maybe all of us have felt the sting of what others have said to us, whether serious or “in jest”. As we consider our own words, let’s not forget the pain of what we’ve received. Such pain can cause us to more seriously consider our ways.

According to Proverbs, it’s foolish to slander. It’s sinful. It’s taking our words, and destroying that which God has created in His image. What is slander? Slander includes intentional efforts to degrade another person, or even careless words that serve to lower them in the eyes of others. Slander often happens when our words are too many, and because of this silence can be VERY good. As Proverbs declares, “when words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent” (10:19).

Another way is to destroy others is to belittle them. This is making a person smaller than they are. How dare we do this, as God made them! Proverbs reminds us that, “whoever belittles his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding remains silent” (11:12). Again, silence is valued! Slander and belittling are so vile that we need to walk away from such things, even being willing to not associate with those who engage it this behaviour. It’s that important to God!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Obviously it’s important that we seek to note where we slander or belittle others. Ask God to help you be honest on where you fail in this way. It also may be important to seek to apologize to anyone who has been hurt by your words or to others who have heard such words.

2. Ask God to show you any pain you’re still carrying from the words of others. Are there things that your parents, in-laws, teachers, spouse, friends or “enemies” have said that have caused pain? Ask God to speak to this pain. Also forgive these people in prayer.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 26 - Guarding Our Speech As A Part Of Wisdom

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sat, 07 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 4:24, 10:11, 13:3, 15:1

One of the wisest things we can do, according to Proverbs, is guard our speech. This is SO hard to do, isn’t it? Yet we have to intentionally and diligently seek to move in this direction. We’re clearly told, after all, to, “put away from you crooked speech, and put devious talk far from you” (4:24). Improper speech should be put away from us and devious talk should be far from us. These are strong words. It means we should double our efforts to change our speech if we’re struggling in this area.

Of course, as in all things that are wise, guarding our speech benefits both others and us. We’ll discuss this more in a later day, but it’s important to note that, “the mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life . . .” (10:11). Think of the imagery that’s being used here! A fountain would serve as such a relief and blessing to a thirsty body! Our words can accomplish the same for a thirsty soul. What a wonderful invitation then to use our words in a way that brings life to others. An exciting goal to have! Something powerful to live for!

On the flipside, much chaos can flow from what people say, or as Proverbs notes, “. . . he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin” (13:3). Because of this, the next four devotionals will go into greater detail about our speech. The time spent is worth it, because of the power of the tongue to do great good or cause great harm.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time in prayer taking stock of where you feel you use your words in a godly manner, and where you need to grow. Thank God that He’s willing to go on this journey with you. Praise Him for any growth that has taken place in the past.

2. Read James 3:1-12 and take notes on what it says about the tongue and our use of words.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 25 - How We Obtain Money Really Matters

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Fri, 06 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 11:18, 16:8, 21:17

Since money creates many possibilities for us, Proverbs warns of using improper and ungodly means to obtain more money and stuff. It’s another trap we can fall into, or in the words of Proverbs, “the wicked earns deceptive wages, but one who sows righteousness gets a sure reward” (11:18). What do we want? Money that comes from wickedness, which is fleeting, or the SURE reward that God promises? We may cringe a bit at the use of the word, “wickedness”, but to obtain money in improper ways is wickedness in God’s eyes. This should humble us all.

The starting point in steering clear of this trap is to make sure that we have right motives about money. What is our goal for money? Proverbs warns that personal pleasure cannot be our goal, “whoever loves pleasure will be a poor man . . .” (21:17). When we seek personal pleasure through money and stuff we’re saying loud and clear – “God is lacking.” Greed, is idolatry, the Bible declares. We must ask God to forgive us if we’ve fallen into this, an easy thing to do in our culture.

Once our motive is right, much is taken care of. But we still must guard our hearts and watch for the temptations to gain money through deceit, stealing, or other forms of ungodliness. One day God will reward us greatly if we remain faithful to doing things His way.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Take some time to consider this question – is my hope in stuff and money, or in God? What do your emotions, your desires, your bank account say about this? What would those who are close to you say?

2. Have you ever stolen from a workplace, or not reported all of your income on your taxes? Have you ever not paid someone what they deserved for work they did? These are ungodly ways of obtaining money. Spend time in confession and repentance, asking God to show you if there are any steps to make things right.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 24 - Be Careful With Whom You Make Financial Arrangements

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Thu, 05 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 6:1-3, 11:15, 17:18, 22:26-27

There are many ways that money can lead us into a trap. Today, we’ll look at two specific ways. First, out of greed or a desire to get ahead in life really fast (even with good motives – “to give more”), we can try to take shortcuts. One such shortcut is to enter into financial partnerships with people who have not chosen to live out consistent godliness. Proverbs warns of this and the amount of stress this can create in our lives is massive. Such unwise financial partnerships can involve entrusting ourselves to the wrong employer, starting a business with the wrong people, or seeking assistance from people without clearly agreeing on the cost of labor, etc. So often a good deal ends up being a bad deal!

A second trap is to continue to provide financial support or security for someone who has an unrepentant heart. Or as Proverbs says, “do not be a man who strikes hands in pledge or puts up security for debts; if you lack the means to pay, your very bed will be snatched from under you” (22:26-27). Why would we get ourselves in such trouble? At times, we can commit to false compassion. We feel guilty about a person’s situation and don’t want to be accused of not caring. However, in reality, our false compassion is actually an act of selfishness and not out of love. It’s about how WE feel, not what’s best for the person.

There are other traps we can fall into with money. Our awareness of this should cause us to carefully consider our use of almost every dollar or things we have. Proverbs encourages us to be wise in this way.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Have you ever taken shortcuts in attempt to get ahead really fast? Have you ever made poor financial decisions that caused you stress? If yes, try to reflect on what went wrong at this time.

2. Ask God if there are people that you’re showing false compassion towards. Are there people that you are helping because you feel guilty? Are there people who need to experience the consequences of their choices? Since there’s no formula on what we should and shouldn’t do, make sure that you diligently pursue God for His heart.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 23 - Let’s Honour God With The Wealth We Have

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Wed, 04 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 3:9-10, 11:4, 11:24, 11:28, 15:16, 19:6, 19:17

We all have different amounts of wealth, as there is certainly a randomness to what we have. Rather than concern ourselves with the exact number, Proverbs invites us to honor God with whatever we have. This is a consistent command throughout God’s Word and might be best illustrated when Jesus affirms the widow who gave even out of her poverty. “Honor the LORD with your wealth and with the first fruits of your produce” (3:9), Proverbs challenges us.

How can we honor God with what we have? Practice generosity – this is the starting point! When we’re generous we imitate God. In doing so, we often gain the favour of others. Or as Proverbs declares, “many seek the favor of a generous man and everyone is a friend to a man who gives gifts” (19:6). Of course, when we gain influence because of our generosity, the purpose is to then use this influence for God’s glory as well. It’s all about God, but certainly we attain incredible fulfillment in drawing people to His kingdom through our actions.

We also honor God with our wealth by not trusting in what we have. There’s a warning in Proverbs about this, stating that, “whoever trusts in his riches will fall, but the righteous will flourish like a green leaf” (11:28). At times, God may bless us with certain advantages that we can be tempted to trust in. This is a very slippery slope to find ourselves on! We must realize that, “even little is good, when we combine it with a fear of God.” It’s not wealth that we need, but God. This is a simple truth, but life-transforming if we walk it out.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time in prayer and ask God – do you honor Him with your wealth? (this can include savings, your paychecks, and the material items you have) Also ask Him if adjustments need to be made.

2. Spend some time praising God for His provision in your life. Also praise Him that He is trustworthy. Confess any lack of trust that you have shown, which is often exhibited in worry and stress.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 22 - Be Careful What You Pursue

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Tue, 03 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 12:11, 13:4, 21:25

In our culture, we are bombarded with the relentless message that we need more stuff, better stuff, newer stuff. Since we also are encouraged to live in the moment, we can forget that there will be consequences for chasing after things that we don’t need. Many people have ruined their marriages, their health and their witness for God by being unwise about what they pursue.

Proverbs has a stark reminder of what happens when we chase after what the world promotes, “whoever works his land will have plenty of bread but he who follows worthless pursuits lacks sense” (12:11). How many times pastors have had to sit with people who are in complete despair and financial ruin because of their ungodly pursuits! Let’s exhibit good “sense” as followers of Christ and never allow ourselves to get to this point.

Proverbs has another related warning, declaring that, “the desire of the sluggard kills him, for his hands refuse to labor” (21:25). This refusal to labor can relate to work, but also in our homes. It’s the “desire” of the sluggard that causes great problems. Many boys and girls are growing up without emotional bonds with their fathers and/or mothers due to the desire to chase after many things. They may be home, but they can be absent because of the desire for video games, excessive sports, incredible amounts of time on Facebook. These may seem like trivial matters, but Proverbs is suggesting that we must weigh carefully what we’re pursuing. We are wise if we take this warning seriously. Any changes we make now will be worth it in the present AND for eternity.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Ask God to show you a time where you: i) pursued something which ended up in an unwise decision AND, ii) when you decided to let go of a pursuit and was blessed as a result. Ask Him to alert you to things that you may be chasing which are unwise.

2. If you have children, ask God to give you an honest assessment on whether or not you are emotionally available to them. Then, ask THEM if they feel that you’re regularly distracted by something. If anything negative is revealed through this assessment, ask God to give you wisdom on how to make necessary adjustments.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 21 - Hard Work Honours God!

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Mon, 02 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 10:4-5, 12:24, 14:23, 16:26, 18:9, 22:29

Certainly there is an apparent randomness to life and wealth. This can be frustrating at times, but in the New Testament we’re encouraged to be content with the basic things of life (food, clothing, shelter). However, we must not swing to an extreme where we begin to think that hard work doesn’t matter! Generally, there are blessings that flow from being a person who “works unto God.”

As Proverbs says, “the hand of the diligent will rule, while the slothful will be put to forced labor” (12:24). We can find exceptions to this principle in our corrupt world (the book of Proverbs contains general principles). Nevertheless, many end up surprised by raises or promotions if they are a faithful employee or employer. And if things don’t work out this way? Well, we’ll be content if we work for God first, not prosperity.

Another advantage of working hard is that it serves as a shining light to our boss, to our co-workers and to any children we have. Not everyone will enjoy this light, but many will. In a sense, we’ll be making a positive contribution to our society and this too is important to God. Finally, our motivation for hard work can be the food we’re to eat. Brothers and sisters, we may be closer sometimes to poverty than we realize. Rather than panic at this potential, we simply should commit to hard work. Or as Proverbs states, “a worker’s appetite works for him; his mouth urges him on” (16:26).

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Are you a hard worker? Are you obedient to God’s Word on this? What about at your job? At home? In serving at church? Ask God to give you incredible strength to be one of the hardest workers around.

2. Spend some time thanking God for providing you with skills and abilities. Even if health has limited you, have you been able to eat? Do you have shelter and clothing? These are blessings from God! Let’s be grateful for these necessary things.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 20 - God Really Matters, So We Must Trust Him

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sun, 01 Mar 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 3:5-6, 16:20, 29:26

In the previous devotional, we considered how central God is in everything. As a result, our call is to fear Him. But what is a proper fear of the Lord? Certainly it has to do with making godly choices. However, it is much bigger than this, really. There is something that supports a fear of the Lord. What is it? Trust. To be able to fear God, we must trust Him. We must BELIEVE that He is worthy to be followed and submitted to.

Probably the most famous verse in Proverbs is, “trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding” (3:5). We’re invited here to stop leaning on our own thinking and “figuring out of things”. This is trusting in self! We are to bring ALL of our hearts to God (this means every topic of concern, all our dreams, etc.) and say, “I trust you.” If we develop a simple, childlike faith, we’ll find immediate growth in our fear of the Lord.

While we’re always tempted to trust self, over God (which is so foolish, really!), we can also be aggressively wooed by the temptation to trust or seek to please others. Be warned – this gives God competition! Or as Proverbs so powerfully notes, “the fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the LORD is safe” (29:25). Our safety lies in trusting God, and fearing His Name. Trust in anything else will leave us feeling empty in the end, possibly frustrated, or even worse, spiritually bankrupt. This is one of the primary messages of Proverbs.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

Read over Proverbs 3:5-6 again. Spend some time meditating and journaling on many of the words. In many ways, the Christian life could be summed up somewhat by these two verse.
Ask God where in your life right now is there an opportunity to trust Him at a deeper level than you ever have in the past. Ask Him to strengthen you for this journey.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 19 - God Really Matters

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sat, 28 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 3:11-12, 3:25-26, 14:26-27, 16:3, 18:10

As we continue to look at wisdom principles, we must not forget that God really matters in all this. He is the author of wisdom. He is Truth! Or as Proverbs declares, “the fear of the LORD is a foundation of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death” (14:27). A proper fear of the Lord requires a regular consideration of our ways and our choices. Sometimes we need to turn off the noise in our lives and really spend some time thinking about the path we’re on. While distractions can sometimes drown out guilt, it doesn’t change the fact that we’ll stand before Him one day and give account.

Thankfully, He is our strength in carrying out His Word and Ways. He is a strong tower. He can be our confidence. God doesn’t just call us to the high standards of Proverbs. He’s also willing to empower us to live them, IF we walk humbly with Him. And when we stray? OUT OF LOVE, He will discipline us.

When we’re disciplined by God, we have a vital choice on how we’ll respond. As Proverbs suggests, “my son, do not despise the LORD’s discipline or be weary of his reproof, for the Lord reproves him whom he loves, as a father the son in whom he delights” (3:11-12). As we’re disciplined, we can thank Him for loving us enough to get us back on the wonderful path that He has for those who love Him. Praise God!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time praising God. Lift up His Name! He deserves it. All that is good and true and right is from Him. As You praise Him, commit to spending time each day to praising Him. Don’t let hesitation stop you from cultivating a habit of praise.

2. Do you have a fear of the Lord? Ask God to give you words, thoughts and pictures that would help you understand what this looks like.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 18 - Reaping Will Happen

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Fri, 27 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 25:28

As we continue our journey in the book of Proverbs, we do well to pause for a moment and consider an underlying truth that supports much of what it says. What is this truth? It’s simply that we truly reap what we sow. Indeed, there are certain circumstances that we cannot control. However, to a large extent, in the consequences or “reaping” of life, we can.

At times, people’s lives descend into chaos. Why? For many, it is a simple reaping. Or as Proverbs says, “a man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls” (25:28). Of course, from our limited perspective, we may not always view things as being so neat and tidy. Sometimes lots of “sowing” happens, but seemingly no “reaping”. However, this is where we trust God. Our “business” is simply to continue to sow good things.

Sowing good things means making good choice after good choice, day-by-day, hour-by-hour. At times it may seem hard, but the FRUIT will be wonderful. This is the powerful message of much of what Proverbs says.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time reflecting on your past. Where have you reaped what you’ve sown? Thank God for teaching you many lessons over the years, for the discipline AND for the mercy.

2. Ask God to show you any “sowing” you’re doing that will result in a poor harvest. Commit to make any necessary changes. Also spend some time interceding for others who are “sowing” negative seeds. Cry out to God for them!

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 17 - The Beauty Of Self-Control And Kindness

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Thu, 26 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 11:16-17, 12:10, 14:29-30, 15:18, 16:32, 17:27, 25:28, 28:8

Our world often loves stories of kindness, but individuals rarely value it as a way to approach life. It’s kind of ironic – we can cry over a YouTube video showing unusual kindness, but disregard such an approach in relating to others – especially to those who we feel don’t deserve it. However, Proverbs causes us to consider the reality that kindness is our wisest choice.

Why is kindness wise? Because kindness has a way of returning to us. “A man who is kind benefits himself, but a cruel man hurts himself” (11:17). Proverbs goes even as far to command us to treat animals with kindness. Kindness, we can say, bounces back to us. Even someone who desires to harm us can experience strong conviction when we refuse to return insult with insult. Many times people doubt this reality because they haven’t tried it!

Of course, kindness tends not to reign when we lose control over our emotions and thought life. In fact, the opposite happens. We start to destroy people. As Proverbs states, “a hot-tempered man sirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention” (15:18). Look at the choice we can make! Relational conflicts, even war, often hinge on the choice between kindness or losing control.

It is up to us to remain under control and to ask the Holy Spirit for help. We do have a measure of choice in this, as Proverbs speaks of the one, “who rules his spirit”. Let’s commit to lives that are beautiful and story-worth, rather than the way of the world.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time asking God to give you words, thoughts, pictures and stories that demonstrate His kindness. Praise Him for His everlasting kindness!

2. Examine the different areas of your life – marriage, parenting, work, extended family, ministry, friendships. What do you demonstrate – kindness or a lack of self-control? Ask God to reveal truth to you. And ask Him to fill you with His Spirit, as the fruit of His Work includes kindness and self-control.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 16 - The Call to Integrity

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Wed, 25 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 10:9, 11:3, 19:1, 20:7, 28:18

The book of Proverbs calls us to a high standard and there are a few characteristics that stand tall. One such “stand-out” is summed up in the word, “integrity”. If we are people of integrity, we’ll be consistent, steady, unwavering. To be a person of integrity means what we SAY, what we DESIRE and what WE do in private and public will be the same. To have this kind of life brings GREAT pleasure to God!

Proverbs says that, “whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out” (10:9). We see here that there is peace in being consistent! When our ways get crooked, when we start wavering in our integrity, we invite worry into our lives. What will happen if I get found out? What will happen if that wrong word or action brings me negative consequences? Those who do not walk in integrity can suddenly fall. Proverbs makes this clear. People who consistently walk in integrity have no such worries. What an abundant life that is! Let’s commit to integrity then!

Another benefit of integrity is that, “the integrity of the upright guides them . . .” (11:3). Put simply, we will know what to do and when to do it! People who have integrity have incredible confidence. They often know without confusion, what to do. Those who struggle to be consistent will find that confusion reigns in their life. Who would want this? A further benefit of integrity is that future generations will be blessed by the integrity of their parents. It is incredibly rare to find a wayward teenager or young adult who has come from a home that is filled with integrity.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Praise God that He is consistent, that He never changes. Thank Him that He is a Rock to stand on. Maybe even picture a massive rock as you pray, with you standing on it. This is who He is and wants to be for us!

2. “To be a person of integrity means what we SAY, what we DESIRE and what WE do in private and public will be the same.” Spend some time meditating on this definition of integrity and ask God to examine your life. Receive His affirmation for where you’re doing well, but also correction for anywhere you are “crooked” in your ways, words or desires.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 15 - The Power of Humility

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Tue, 24 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 3:34, 11:2, 15:33, 16:18-19, 22:4

Humility has the power to bring God’s blessing in our lives. Who wouldn’t want this? When we think of words such as “blessing”, “favour”, “honour”, our hearts jump and we think – “sign me up!” Humility is the direct pathway to these things, according to Proverbs. For example, Proverbs 15:33 proclaims, “The fear of the LORD is instruction in wisdom, and humility comes before honor.” However, our flesh, the world and the devil all promote the opposite – pride!

We must choose humility. Indeed, humility is far from automatic. It is an attitude, a heart posture. It’s reminding ourselves that we are human, but God is God. It’s also a choice to look for the good in others and to be aware of our own tendency towards evil. When we choose this thing called humility, we become wise. That’s what Proverbs emphasizes and human history would echo this loud and clear.

Proverbs also says, “Towards the scorners he his scornful, but to the humble he gives favor” (3:34). Scorning and humility are placed in opposition to each other. When we are prideful we lower the value of others – this is scorning. A big part of this is disengaging from others is not submitting. One of the biggest signs of pride is never being able to submit to anyone or anything. Humility, on the other hand, relates to support and engagement.

God is just waiting to bless the humble! He loves to shower favour upon those who demonstrate the same character and life as His Son, Jesus. Will we choose this path?

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Ask God to search your heart for pride and/or humility. We need His help in this, as such things often are hidden deep in us. Do any necessary confession or praising. Ask Him to cultivate a humble heart within you.

2. Spend some time in journaling in reflection – do you treat anyone as having little or no value? Are there people that you are willingly submitting to? Humility will mean submission and treating people with great value.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 14 - Final Justice Comes From God

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Mon, 23 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 20:22, 21:15, 24:12, 29:26

We’ve looked at God’s passion for justice and the need for us to care for the poor, and practice of measuring things carefully. But what about when WE are treated poorly, or are oppressed? What should we do? Our human nature is to take matters into our own hands. We may want to fight back, directly or indirectly. Constant complaining, self-pity, even despair can become our friends. This is the easy path, BUT we are called to the narrow road.

Proverbs directs us clearly - “Do not say, ‘I will repay evil’; wait for the LORD, and he will deliver you” (20:22). One of the key words in this verse is, “wait”. How hard this is! We’re not a patient people, are we? To wait for God to work is difficult but we must realize that as One who is All-Wise and Good, He has reasons for waiting. This is worth repeating – He has reasons for waiting! Of course, this waiting does not mean we passively sit around and do nothing.

As we wait, we pray. As we wait, we pray for strategies on any steps we can take (including loving people who have hurt us, or setting boundaries). As we wait, we cry out to God for deliverance. As we wait, we pray for promises. There is much we can do while we wait. And above all, we praise Him in faith for the justice He will bring. It will bring us great joy when we see His justice, wisdom and love lifted up high! And we’ll be glad in the waiting.

God knows ALL! “If you say, ‘behold, we did not know this,’ does not he who weighs the heart perceive it?” (24:12). He knows even the motive our hearts and so we can entrust all things to Him, even as we follow any specific steps He provides.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time writing down any injustices you’ve experienced or are currently experiencing. Imagine placing them before Jesus. Thank Him and praise Him for having a plan, and for His desire to bring justice.

2. Ask God to help you to grow in being patient. If you’re facing a difficult situation right now, ask Him for: 1) any strategies He wants to give you 2) any promises He wants to provide.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 13 - We Must Measure Things Carefully

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sun, 22 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 11:1, 16:11, 20:23; 31:9

Life is full of opportunities to either choose to be truthful or not. One form of truthfulness is being accurate with how we weigh things! Accuracy can include: reporting stories or facts with the right details, how we charge people if we are involved in business or sales or customer service, reporting all of our income on our tax forms. People of this world would laugh, even scoff at such accuracy, but we’re to be part of another kingdom, the kingdom of light.

Proverbs tells us that, “a false balance is an abomination to the Lord, but a just weight is his delight” (11:1). Listen to those words – “abomination” or “delight”. This is our choice. We must resolve to do what is right, and being accurate is always the best choice. If we’ll keep soft hearts before God, He will direct us clearly in these matters. This is our job – making sure we’ll be responsive to God! Let’s take a look at our lives and see if we have been inaccurate in any way.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Ask God – have I reported things inaccurately? Have I been charging people improperly at work? Have I reported all of my income on my taxes? Let Him direct you to any required changes.

2. Having a soft heart ensures that we’ll be responsive to God’s promptings on matters of obedience. Spend some time praising God for where He’s used discipline/suffering in the past to bring an increased softness.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 12 - How We Treat The Poor Really Matters

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Sat, 21 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 14:31, 17:5, 21:13, 22:22-23, 29:7, 29:14

In the last devotional, we looked at God’s passion for justice. A huge aspect of this justice is how we personally treat those who are poor. Proverbs has many statements, commands and warnings about this matter. Who are the poor? We often think of those who lack food, health, clothing or shelter. However, the poor can also include the lonely. Mother Teresa, after years of ministering to the sick and poor, called loneliness the greatest disease.

Will we help the poor? Proverbs declares, “whoever closes his ear to the cry of the poor will himself call out and not be answered” (21:13). Sometimes we don’t see (or hear) the poor because we don’t want to be bothered. This won’t be a valid excuse when we stand before God one day. We must wrestle with our obligations, out of love for God and others. Even those who are “across the world” are our concern. The early church helped those who lived on the other side of the known world and we too must prayerfully consider what we can do as well.

On the other side of helping the poor are two behaviours that we must steer clear of intentionally. One is to not enjoy or look down on the struggles of the poor. If we’re honest, it can be easy to do this . . . If we can always blame their poverty on their actions, then we can release ourselves responsibility. Proverbs addresses this sinful attitude with very direct words, “whoever mocks the poor insults his Maker; he who is glad at calamity will not go unpunished” (17:5).

Second, we must seek to, “. . . not rob the poor because he is poor . . .” (22:22) Business owners, land owners, salespeople – these groups have to be especially careful that their practices do not heap additional oppression on the poor. It is the job of all of us to very deliberately check our lives for such behaviour. Why? Because how we treat the poor really matters!

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Spend some time in prayer and reflection, asking God if you’ve ever mocked or blamed the poor OR taken advantage of them in any way. Repent of these actions and ask if there are any steps to take in making things right.

2. Ask God to show you how in your sin, you were destitute and without hope. Ask God to also show you the riches of what God has done for you.

Foundations: Proverbs - Day 11 - God Is Passionate About Justice

noreply@blogger.com (Southland Church) — Fri, 20 Feb 2015 00:00:00 +0000

READ: Proverbs 2:21; 11:11, 17:23, 18:5, 21:15

The word “passion” is a strong one. It can mean to be filled with emotion for something or someone. What is God passionate about? Have you ever asked that question? If we read Proverbs, alongside the prophets, we see that He’s VERY passionate about justice. He cares deeply about the situation of those who are being oppressed and who are being treated poorly. On the flipside He can be angered by those who cause others to unnecessarily suffer.

Proverbs doesn’t simply speak of God’s desire for justice. As His servants, we’re called to commit to living as people who demonstrate justice and who seek to bring relief to those who are oppressed. And can say with complete confidence that justice makes a difference! First, God promises that, “. . . the upright will inhabit the land, and those with integrity will remain in it” (2:21). Does it always work out this way? No. There’s a lot of desire for wickedness in the world. However, we’d be very surprised to discover that in spite of the appetite for sin in our world, those with a consistent walk of being just, often rise to the top.

Second, we’re told that, “by the blessing of the upright a city is exalted” (11:11). Again, while there’ll be much wickedness in the world, God can and will establish “pockets of grace” as leaders and His people commit to being upright. And brothers and sisters, because God sees all, this call to acting justly extends to our private lives. Wickedness can be done in secret, but this too God sees and resists. We must choose wisely in secret. Even what we do online or how we treat our families can bring or release people from oppression.

Justice is of great value to God! And justice makes a difference. These are things Proverbs would have us keep in mind.

JOURNALING AND PRAYER

1. Praise God that He is passionate about those who have been oppressed and taken advantage of in their lives. Praise Him for caring about the pain that has been inflicted upon you/them. Ask Him to speak to any of the pain that you still carry.

2. Ask God – are any of your current actions or attitudes causing others oppression, or tearing them down? If yes, repent and seek His wisdom on how to make things right. Also ask Him – “God, who in my life could use some support and/or justice? Are there any steps that I need to take?”