Freedom Of Fetish

Freedom of Fetish Episode 36: Mia Martina is back to talk about A Year of Sex & your naughty questions

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 15:22:43 +0000

Episode 36.0: In which Raven speaks with podcaster and smut writer Mia Martina about her new book, A Year of Sex, and answers your open relationship and sex party questions. Check out Mia at AYearOfSex.com, or find her podcast, I Want Your Sex, on iTunes.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

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Mia Martina wants your sex.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 35: Answering your questions with comedian Ted Steier

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 16:39:38 +0000

Episode 35: In which Raven and her guest, standup comedian Ted Steier, discuss (and make fun of) a whole slew of kinky questions, including breaking the fart barrier, feeder/gainer fetish, and more. Here’s to taking things a little less seriously. You can find Ted at http://tedsteier.com.

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Mr. Ted Steier himself.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 34: Princess Kali of Kink Academy, Humiliation, Complimenting a Woman, Labels, & More

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Mon, 26 Sep 2011 00:38:08 +0000

Episode 34.0: In which Raven and her guest, Princess Kali of KinkAcademy.com and PassionateU.com, talk about humiliation, aluminum toys, how to compliment a woman, crossdressing, BDSM labels, and Kink Academy.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Princess Kali is the headmistress of Kink Academy. This is the most fun you'll have at school, guaranteed.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 33: Queen/Knight D/s, Tips for Newbie Dommes, Potential Asexuality, & Mental Abuse Kink

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 14:35:22 +0000

Episode 33: In which Raven talks lady/knight D/s, resources for newbie dominatrixes, potential asexuality, & mental abuse kink.

Want to win a 1-year subscription to KinkAcademy.com? In 100 words or less, tell me why you need a year of online kink education. Email Raven at FreedomofFetish dot com. The best entry gets the goods.

Sometimes it pays to lose.

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Freedom of Fetish Episode 32: Crossdresser Camming, Combating Condom Droop, Kinky Scenes in Mainstream Movies, and More

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Sat, 23 Jul 2011 23:18:02 +0000

Episode 32.0: In which Raven tells you how to pick out the real kinksters from the posers, talks to a crossdresser about his camming and sexuality issues, examines “condom droop,” advises a domme on how to get her wimpy boyfriend to man the fuck up, and lists your recommendations for best kink scenes in mainstream movies and TV.

Maleficent is a total dominatrix, and this picture proves it.

The outtro song for this episode is The Toadies – Possum Kingdom.

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Freedom of Fetish Episode 31: Ageplay & ABDL with Mako & Spacey

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 23:46:56 +0000

Episode 31: In which Raven asks Mako and Spacey of The Big Little Podcast all your ABDL (adult baby, diaper lover) and ageplay questions. Part 2/2. You can find part 1 over on The Big Little Podcast, Episode 15, or just click here: http://www.biglittlepodcast.com/2011/05/episode-15-questions-from-freedom-of-fetish/

The outtro music this week is “Slave” by Tritonal.

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Freedom of Fetish Episode 30: Pegging, Kink Discrimination, Drag Queens, First FetLife Messages, & Crazy Bloodplay

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 26 May 2011 14:58:25 +0000

Episode 30.0: In which Raven answers whether pegging makes you gay (hint: no), finding unique porn, attractions to drag queens, discrimination based on kink, psychotic bloodplay, & first FetLife messages.

Drag queen Raven, of RuPaul's Drag Race fame, has at least a few straight girls pining after her

The outtro this week is “Pretty with the Lights Off” by Megan Jean and the KFB.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, you can reach the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to Raven@FreedomOfFetish.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 29: Kink Shame & Divisive Issues in the Kink Community

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Sat, 07 May 2011 22:31:20 +0000

Episode 29.0: In which Raven discusses being ashamed of your kinks, preserving your privacy in the scene, divisive issues in the fetish community, and post-sex guilt.

The outtro music for this episode is Rihanna featuring Britney Spears – S&M (Remix).

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Masks: a hot way to preserve your kink privacy. Fidelio?

Freedom of Fetish Episode 28: Privacy Protection for Pervs

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 13 Apr 2011 20:14:22 +0000

Episode 28.0: In which Raven gives her presentation on privacy protection for pervs, discussing how to protect your identity and control your information online. Next episode we’re back to dirty sex; I promise.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

The outtro music for this episode is “In Motion” from The Social Network soundtrack by Trent Reznor & Atticus Ross.

Resources related to today’s topic:

- Abine’s PrivacySuite, a free add-on for Firefox & Internet Explorer (http://www.abine.com)

- The Electronic Frontier Foundation (EFF), an organization defending free speech, privacy, innovation, & consumer rights (http://www.eff.org/)

- The Federal Trade Commission’s complaint form, used to report websites and companies that abuse their customers’ privacy (https://econsumer.ftccomplaintassistant.gov/)

- DeleteMe, a service to delete your unwanted info, search results, and accounts online (http://www.abine.com/deleteme)

No, he seriously is.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 27.0: The Definition of “Kinky” & Pro Domme Savannah Sly

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 18:35:37 +0000

Episode 27.0: In which Raven tries to define what the hell it means to be kinky and interviews professional dominatrix Savannah Sly.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Savannah Sly at work.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 26.0: Brother Sister Incest, Fetish Club Fashion, & Male Bicuriosity

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 14:55:10 +0000

Episode 26.0: In which Raven answers your questions about brother/sister incest, how a bicurious guy can get some action, coming off as more dominant without being a dick, addressing age play, and dressing for fetish events.

The outtro song for this episode is Louis XIV – “Pledge of Allegiance.”

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Luke, I am your...genetic match.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 24.0: Talking poly, religious hangups, BDSM titles, and marriage with Kaminaru

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Sun, 16 Jan 2011 20:16:44 +0000

Episode 24.0: In which Raven and her polyamorous guest, Kaminaru, discuss getting a reluctant partner to top, quick and sexy restraint ideas, religious hangups, BDSM titles and honorifics, dynamics of kink/vanilla relationships, and sex in marriage.

This episode’s outtro song is Electric Valentine – Everyone You Know Is On Drugs.

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My guest host for this episode. You have permission to stare.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 23.0: Violet Wands, Email Breakups, TNGs, Kink Clues, and Sneezing Fetish

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Mon, 27 Dec 2010 18:54:41 +0000

Episode 23.0: In which Raven gets her own embarrassing question answered by Dan Savage and covers violet wands as sterilization devices, email breakups, problems of the young and kinky, kink giveaways in a vanilla world, and sneezing fetish.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme, check out www.FreedomOfFetish.com, or visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.

Oh yeah, sneeze for me, baby.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 22.0: Talking FetLife with John Baku

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 15 Dec 2010 05:56:02 +0000

Episode 22.0: In which Raven talks FetLife with its creator, John Baku, covering everything from FetLife etiquette to privacy features…and even some horse cock.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Does John have a furry hat fetish, or is it just cold in Montreal?

Freedom of Fetish Episode 20: Myths, Truths, and a Live Demo of Erotic Hypnosis

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 25 Nov 2010 05:10:52 +0000

Episode 21.0: In which Raven sits down with Buddy and Sibyl, hypnotist and hypnotized, to answer your questions about erotic hypnosis and give a play-by-play as Sibyl gets hypnotized live on the show.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

And the deeper you go, the better you feel...

Freedom of Fetish Episode 20: Rope and Non-Rope Questions with Graydancer

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 00:16:36 +0000

Episode 20: In which Raven sits down with Graydancer of the Ropecast and several bottles of wine to discuss the big deal about rope, penis size preferences, activism and sex education, safe self-bondage, metallic rope, rope hygiene, and much more.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

My co-host, Graydancer, in action

Freedom of Fetish Episode 19: Conn GRUE, Gushing Bloodplay, & Female Anal Orgasms

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 21:30:19 +0000

Episode 19.0: In which Raven records live at the Connecticut GRUE and talks celebrity stalking, kinky starter kits, gushing bloodplay, staying serious in roleplay, maintaining masturbatory focus, and achieving female anal orgasms.

If you like the closing song, Vidooch’s “Alone,” check out their YouTube channel and their website.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

GRUE = "Graydancer's Unconference Extravaganza"

Freedom of Fetish Episode 18.0: Vanilla Fetish Clothes, 19 Year-Old Virgins, Micropenises, & More

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 06:04:53 +0000

Episode 18.0: In which Raven talks vanilla-ish fetish clothes, warming up a partner to both foot fetishism and sexual restraint, getting a geeky 19 year-old laid, and what constitutes a micropenis.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Now HERE'S how you dress like a professor. Well done, Dr. Jones.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 17.0: Professional Submissive Elle & How Not To Be Creepy

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 04:26:53 +0000

Episode 17.0: In which Raven interviews Elle, a professional submissive and lifestyle switch, about the myths verus realities of her job, and the two explain how not to be the creepy guy at fetish parties.

Oh, and if you didn’t get what my simulated freakout was at the end of the episode, I was parodying Bill O’Reilly’s infamous blowup. You can view it in all its glory here.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

We'll tell you all about how NOT to be this guy.

Freedom of Fetish Episode 16.0: Long Distance & 16 Year-Old Woes

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 05:59:07 +0000

Episode 16.0: In which Raven gives some announcements, talks full enclosure fetish with Felix Latexx, advises a 16 year-old listener over Skype regarding his long distance and virginity vow woes, and answers a kinky female’s question about her lack of sexual fulfillment with her long-term vanilla boyfriend.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

This is a vac-bed. Full enclosure at its finest, some would say.

Episode 15.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 03:46:14 +0000

Episode 15.0: In which Raven offers a primer for vanillas at fetish parties, discusses CFNM, fixes the awkwardness of webcamming, opines on why a girlfriend may be running to the bathroom after sex, talks about strip club sex, and advises a sex-positive 15 year-old in a sex-negative city.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

This cannot be explained.

Episode 14.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 05 Aug 2010 14:26:21 +0000

Episode 14: In which Raven and her guest, Mia Martina of the podcast “I Want Your Sex,” tackle all your sex party-related questions, discussing tips for the newbies, a Brooklyn girl’s desire to throw her own sex party, the musical accompaniment to sex-oriented events, strategies for breaking the ice at a sex party, why single males seem to be scorned, etiquette regarding lesbian sex, functional pickup lines, lasting all night, and staying hygenic.

Episode 13.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 04:19:23 +0000

Episode 13: In which Raven interviews special guest Ms. NaughtyEm and the two discuss sexual stamina, whether having multiple partners is wrong, whether someone can talk too much about sex, a listener’s issue with the smell of sex, achieving the elusive female orgasm, and how a bisexual high school girl can meet other girls.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

To contact Raven in writing, send your questions to FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com, tweet her at @RavenLightholme or @FreedomOfFetish, or visit the Freedom Of Fetish formspring at http://www.formspring.me/FreedomOfFetish.

Ms. NaughtyEm is a bit tied up at the moment...

Episode 12.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 03:38:07 +0000

Episode 12.0: In which Raven helps a listener get his girlfriend in the mood, talks about the odd dynamic of a submissive trying to pick up a dominant, addresses a male listener’s female stalker, and gets down and dirty with catfighting and catsuits.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Episode 11.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Sat, 12 Jun 2010 04:15:17 +0000

Episode 11.0: In which Raven provides a term for women who are attracted to crossdressing men, advises a boyfriend whose girlfriend does not want oral sex, addresses the illegality and implications of consensual incest, and discusses the power of taboo.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Episode 10.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 22:02:40 +0000

Episode 10.0: In which Raven interviews latex expert and fetishist 3XL about the appeal of latex, the difference between latex and rubber, what makes “good” latex, bigger people wearing latex, the expense of latex clothing, and custom work. To see the list of latex designers that 3XL and I discussed, visit LatexWiki here. FetLife also has a comprehensive list here.

To leave a voicemail for the podcast, Skype Raven at FreedomOfFetish or leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.

Episode 9.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Thu, 20 May 2010 06:35:41 +0000

Episode 9.0: In which Raven tackles bad breath, discusses how to handle a jealous boyfriend at events, points out several sources of hands-on instruction for rope bondage, and gets psychological with a smattering of related fetishes: humiliation, small penis, cuckolding, “forced” bi, “forced” creampies, and chastity.

Leave your question at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail by calling (860) 756-0308 or email FreedomOfFetish@gmail.com

Episode 8.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 05 May 2010 19:24:23 +0000

Episode 8.0: In which Raven speaks frankly about penis size, advises the brother of the groom on how to attain a crazy bachelor party in New England, talks about erotic photography, and looks into body swap fetish.

Episode 7.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Mon, 26 Apr 2010 04:50:40 +0000

Episode 7.0: In which Raven and her guest, a soon-to-be clinical psychologist, discuss alternative sexuality and psychological health when answering the age-old question: does an interest in BDSM require a history of trauma or abuse? In short, no.

Episode 5.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 23:14:07 +0000

Episode 5.0: In which Raven deals with grammar fetish etiquette, analyzes the ins and outs of threesomes, gives some pointers on how to take the “premature” out of “premature ejaculation,” and talks to a bisexual teenager who likes to wear panties every now and then.

Episode 4.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 03:02:08 +0000

Episode 4.0: In which Raven addresses a girl who is wholly disinterested in sex with her boyfriend, explores potential reasons why a guy would demand to wear a blindfold during foreplay, and advises a rubberist who is seeking a professional Mistress’s services.

Episode 3.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 20:00:00 +0000

Episode 3.0: In which Raven interviews former professional dominatrix Mistress Katia, and both Raven and Katia suggest variations of roleplay, explain how to prepare your body for anal sex, and advise a young man who is unsure of his dominant or submissive sexual personality.

Update: I’ve learned that my voice cuts in and out during this episode. In case you had trouble hearing, I’ve posted the list of roleplaying options that Mistress Katia and I discuss on the site here. Next step: configuring a decent interview setup.

Episode 2.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:38:13 +0000

Episode 2.0: In which Raven extolls the virtues of roleplay, demystifies the fetish scene for those scared to enter, and explains how to increase the likelihood of multiple female orgasms.

Episode 1.0

raven@freedomoffetish.com (Raven Lightholme) — Wed, 17 Mar 2010 06:58:19 +0000

Episode 1.0: In which Raven gives a brief introduction to herself, talks to a woman who’s having a hard time with the “monogamous” label, and gives some tips to budding dominatrices who don’t have that natural killer instinct.