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		<title>Comment on Nobel Prize Winners Agree &amp; Have Advice For You by Timeout! « halhamilton</title>
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		<dc:creator>Timeout! « halhamilton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 18:54:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Institute references this story from Tony Schwartz’s Harvard Business Reveiw blog heere:  http://fulleryouthinstitute.org/2012/02/nobel-prize-winners-agree-have-advice-for-you/  Tony quotes one economist:  “Leaders don’t have time for the future because they’re [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Larry Acosta Interview - Fund Development by Larry Acosta on fundraising</title>
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		<dc:creator>Larry Acosta on fundraising</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 17:45:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Fuller’s Center for Youth and Family Ministry recorded an interview with Larry Acosta back in June of 2006. Kara Powell interviewed Larry about strategies for fund development. That recorded resource is still available at their website by clicking here [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Fuller&#8217;s Center for Youth and Family Ministry recorded an interview with Larry Acosta back in June of 2006. Kara Powell interviewed Larry about strategies for fund development. That recorded resource is still available at their website by clicking here [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Short-Term Missions and Missional Youth Ministry by I hated short-term missions… | Youth Missions Trip | Youth Mission Trips | Youth Missions Insider</title>
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		<dc:creator>I hated short-term missions… | Youth Missions Trip | Youth Mission Trips | Youth Missions Insider</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 14:45:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Intergenerational Ministry by The State of Youth Ministry in America Part 3: Intergenerational Service « The Narrow Road</title>
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		<dc:creator>The State of Youth Ministry in America Part 3: Intergenerational Service « The Narrow Road</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 21:59:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Fuller Youth Ministry Institute offers a wealth of information on intergenerational ministry. I encourage you to spend some time reading their articles at “Fuller Youth Ministry Institute: Intergenerational Ministry.” [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on I’ll Share Mine if You Share Yours by J3snyder</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 19:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Teenagers should be taught good security practices their entire lives. Nobody should ever give their passwords out for any reason, especially a show of intimacy. "i love you so much honey, how about the password to your bank accounts?"

I recently had my password sniffed out on public wifi, and had to change all of them, so I may just be paranoid.I protect my passwords like i protect my marriage, behind a lock and key where only two people know how to access them.  Also, free plug for the application 1password on both mac and PC, which is a great way to keep secure passwords.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Teenagers should be taught good security practices their entire lives. Nobody should ever give their passwords out for any reason, especially a show of intimacy. &#8220;i love you so much honey, how about the password to your bank accounts?&#8221;</p>
<p>I recently had my password sniffed out on public wifi, and had to change all of them, so I may just be paranoid.I protect my passwords like i protect my marriage, behind a lock and key where only two people know how to access them.  Also, free plug for the application 1password on both mac and PC, which is a great way to keep secure passwords.</p>
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		<title>Comment on I’ll Share Mine if You Share Yours by Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2012 17:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great thoughts! Thanks for passing this on! </description>
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		<title>Comment on Apple’s “Genius Bar” – The Church Equivalent? by Eric Venable</title>
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		<dc:creator>Eric Venable</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Jan 2012 21:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kara

Interesting that you connected retail to the Church. The guy who is famous for the creation of the Apple Stores is Ron Johnson. He set up and pioneered the stores and also was a big part of Target... if you like them. Currently He has taken over, to many peoples surprise, JC Penney's. (watch them) 

Ron is also a follower of Jesus and has a stellar reputation personally. He might also agree with you.... or "on the other hand" confirm that recreating Christian community in the retail sector has enormous appeal. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kara</p>
<p>Interesting that you connected retail to the Church. The guy who is famous for the creation of the Apple Stores is Ron Johnson. He set up and pioneered the stores and also was a big part of Target&#8230; if you like them. Currently He has taken over, to many peoples surprise, JC Penney&#8217;s. (watch them) </p>
<p>Ron is also a follower of Jesus and has a stellar reputation personally. He might also agree with you&#8230;. or &#8220;on the other hand&#8221; confirm that recreating Christian community in the retail sector has enormous appeal. </p>
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		<title>Comment on Normalize Your Young Teen’s Experiences by Help you Kids feel Normal! « Bel Air Youth Discipleship</title>
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		<dc:creator>Help you Kids feel Normal! « Bel Air Youth Discipleship</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 22:48:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on One-Word Definition for Young Teens by Youth Culture Report</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 21:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree Change is the key word. On one hand processing what Kara wrote and on the other hand a personal note reminded me about the fact that one of my children is in  5th grade,  embarking upon the world of “young teen”. Change is coming TO ME and I believe it is gonna happen on the inside. Kara say’s “Change involves loss” it’s true 12-14 year olds are losing aspects of their early childhood, I just had to think what parents might be losing and gaining during this time  period also? I am looking forward to reading “Young teen” for a better understanding of my child and a new perspective of myself as a parent of a “young teen” to be.  Mike Liebler </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree Change is the key word. On one hand processing what Kara wrote and on the other hand a personal note reminded me about the fact that one of my children is in  5th grade,  embarking upon the world of “young teen”. Change is coming TO ME and I believe it is gonna happen on the inside. Kara say’s “Change involves loss” it’s true 12-14 year olds are losing aspects of their early childhood, I just had to think what parents might be losing and gaining during this time  period also? I am looking forward to reading “Young teen” for a better understanding of my child and a new perspective of myself as a parent of a “young teen” to be.  Mike Liebler</p>
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		<title>Comment on One-Word Definition for Young Teens by kara powell reviews ‘understanding your young teen’</title>
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		<dc:creator>kara powell reviews ‘understanding your young teen’</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 12:01:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Managing Anxiety in the Family - Strategies for Changing our Relationship Dance by DRIVEN Parent Cue – EVOLVE, part 2 « mcbcparents</title>
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		<dc:creator>DRIVEN Parent Cue – EVOLVE, part 2 « mcbcparents</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Jan 2012 15:09:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] families at Highland Park Presbyterian Church in Dallas, Texas explains in his article entitled “Managing Anxiety in the Family: Strategies for Changing our Relationship Dance” (fulleryouthinstitute.org), “If we really want to have healthy families, often we need to [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on How to Mess Kids Up by How to Mess Kids Up | Fuller Youth Institute « The Narrow Road</title>
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		<dc:creator>How to Mess Kids Up | Fuller Youth Institute « The Narrow Road</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 04:24:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Parenting Myths We Can Do Without by Parenting Myths We Can Do Without | Fuller Youth Institute « The Narrow Road</title>
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		<dc:creator>Parenting Myths We Can Do Without | Fuller Youth Institute « The Narrow Road</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 04:22:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Parenting Myths We Can Do Without | Fuller Youth Institute. Share this:TwitterFacebookMoreEmailPrintLinkedInLike this:LikeOne blogger likes this post. [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Don’t Talk Back by Arguing with your parents is good!?! « Bel Air Youth Discipleship</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arguing with your parents is good!?! « Bel Air Youth Discipleship</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 19:05:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Blog by What’s In My RSS Feed (Updated) | seventy8 Productions</title>
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		<dc:creator>What’s In My RSS Feed (Updated) | seventy8 Productions</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 11:01:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Intergenerational Ministry by Reconciling the two accounts.. - Christian Forums</title>
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		<dc:creator>Reconciling the two accounts.. - Christian Forums</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:28:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] one's father/mother" meant one was to not feel any responsibility for their parents. But that doesn't seem to be Biblical.   The example of Abraham is very noteworthy when it comes to that issue.... as the Lord called him [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Don’t Talk Back by Don’t Talk Back | Fuller Youth Institute | The Narrow Road</title>
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		<dc:creator>Don’t Talk Back | Fuller Youth Institute | The Narrow Road</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 17:02:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Don’t Talk Back | Fuller Youth Institute. Share this:TwitterFacebookLike this:LikeBe the first to like this post.   This entry was posted in Parents of Teenagers by cmjones777. Bookmark the permalink. [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Don’t Talk Back by Brad M. Griffin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad M. Griffin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 16:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark, WELL SAID.  Thanks for the great story. And yeah, that character/ego question is huge.

I butt heads with my 9-yr-old over what feels like arguing in a way that disrespects us as parents, but also wonder whether I've modeled disrespect more than respect in the way I've corrected/disciplined her for her mistakes. It's much easier said than done to harness a conflict for positive learning when our own hot buttons are pushed in the midst of the argument...and they nearly always are.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark, WELL SAID.  Thanks for the great story. And yeah, that character/ego question is huge.</p>
<p>I butt heads with my 9-yr-old over what feels like arguing in a way that disrespects us as parents, but also wonder whether I&#8217;ve modeled disrespect more than respect in the way I&#8217;ve corrected/disciplined her for her mistakes. It&#8217;s much easier said than done to harness a conflict for positive learning when our own hot buttons are pushed in the midst of the argument&#8230;and they nearly always are.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Don’t Talk Back by Mark</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jan 2012 16:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A couple random thoughts.
1. I talked back a lot as a kid and as an adult I make a living talking back.

2. As a parent (and I'm just riffing here)  my kids seem to talk back or bristle when they feel an injustice has been done (almost always to them).  It's a fine line to walk as a parent to encourage them standing up for injustice and for themselves, but similtaneously helping them see the bigger picture, the injustice they have caused, or their impact of their demands on others.

3. A few weeks ago, during a time of especially clumbsy 8th grader inattentiveness my son broke something while working with me in the yard.  It was a boneheaded thing he did. Lack of listening to my instructions on what we were doing. Another broken thing because of another boneheaded move in a short amount of time.  I lost my cool and said something like, "Why aren't you listening? I told you want to do, but you did something else." (here comes the worst kind of parenting moment) "you break everything you touch!" I walked away frustrated and came back a few minutes later having cooled off. I asked him to continue helping, and he said, "Why? I'm just going to break it." But there was somethign in the way he said it. He was obviously hurt and some self preservation sort of standing up to dad happening."  I apologized for saying what I said, followed by some other things.  Then I said, "I'm glad you stood up for yourself.  You are strong and it's a good thing for you to speak up when you feel like I've done something wrong."  It was a rough moment and I disappointed him and blew it. In some ways we're still recovering from moments like that. But him standing his ground and talking back is rooted in both the strength of his character and of his ego.  

As i grow older, I notice that I have a difficult time to this day telling the two apart.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A couple random thoughts.<br />
1. I talked back a lot as a kid and as an adult I make a living talking back.</p>
<p>2. As a parent (and I&#8217;m just riffing here)  my kids seem to talk back or bristle when they feel an injustice has been done (almost always to them).  It&#8217;s a fine line to walk as a parent to encourage them standing up for injustice and for themselves, but similtaneously helping them see the bigger picture, the injustice they have caused, or their impact of their demands on others.</p>
<p>3. A few weeks ago, during a time of especially clumbsy 8th grader inattentiveness my son broke something while working with me in the yard.  It was a boneheaded thing he did. Lack of listening to my instructions on what we were doing. Another broken thing because of another boneheaded move in a short amount of time.  I lost my cool and said something like, &#8220;Why aren&#8217;t you listening? I told you want to do, but you did something else.&#8221; (here comes the worst kind of parenting moment) &#8220;you break everything you touch!&#8221; I walked away frustrated and came back a few minutes later having cooled off. I asked him to continue helping, and he said, &#8220;Why? I&#8217;m just going to break it.&#8221; But there was somethign in the way he said it. He was obviously hurt and some self preservation sort of standing up to dad happening.&#8221;  I apologized for saying what I said, followed by some other things.  Then I said, &#8220;I&#8217;m glad you stood up for yourself.  You are strong and it&#8217;s a good thing for you to speak up when you feel like I&#8217;ve done something wrong.&#8221;  It was a rough moment and I disappointed him and blew it. In some ways we&#8217;re still recovering from moments like that. But him standing his ground and talking back is rooted in both the strength of his character and of his ego.  </p>
<p>As i grow older, I notice that I have a difficult time to this day telling the two apart.</p>
<p>riddle</p>
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		<title>Comment on Parenting Myths We Can Do Without by Parenting Myths We Can Do Without | Fuller Youth Institute | The Narrow Road</title>
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		<dc:creator>Parenting Myths We Can Do Without | Fuller Youth Institute | The Narrow Road</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 05:53:20 +0000</pubDate>
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