<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507</id><updated>2008-07-13T22:14:46.325-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Fundraising for Nonprofits</title><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default'/><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>203</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-2003097572847768328</id><published>2008-06-10T09:31:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-06-10T16:56:54.932-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Blogs'/><title type='text'>Apologies for the old posts showing up in the blog RSS feed</title><content type='html'>For those of you who are subscribed to the &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;RSS&lt;/span&gt; feed of this blog, you may be confused by the random, out-of-date posts that have been recently showing up in your reader or email inbox. You are not alone. For the two months, I have had nothing but troubles with the Blogger software used to power this blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;98 times out of a 100 when I try to publish a post nothing happens. This is actually the first post I've even attempted to publish in a month. When Blogger will decide to actually post it to the web is anyone's guest. Why 3 random old posts have appeared in the external feed during this last month is simply beyond me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My plan is to eventually migrate this blog over to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;WordPress&lt;/span&gt;. I'm not technically minded, so a friend is helping with that. Apparently, there have been some glitches with this as well. Ugh.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All of which is to say, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;thank you for your patience&lt;/span&gt;. Hopefully this situation will be rectified shortly, and you will soon be able to return to you normally scheduled programming.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/06/apologies-for-old-posts-showing-up-in.html' title='Apologies for the old posts showing up in the blog RSS feed'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=2003097572847768328' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/2003097572847768328'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/2003097572847768328'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-5272124346366852663</id><published>2008-04-27T09:48:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-02T17:40:33.105-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jobs'/><title type='text'>Be all you can be</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/help-wanted.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/help-wanted.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Here are a few more job openings, in San Francisco and beyond, recently sent to me. If you know any other development related positions open, locally or elsewhere, please do let me know. Together we can help spread the word.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mission-minded.com/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Senior Communications Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bcaction.org/"&gt;Breast Cancer Action&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Director of Development&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cceb.org/"&gt;Catholic Charities East Bay&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Development Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.familyequality.org/"&gt;Family Equality Council&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Executive Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.frameline.org/"&gt;Frameline&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Director of Development&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.footprintnetwork.org/"&gt;Global Footprint Network&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Grant Writer&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.jcceastbay.org/"&gt;JCC-East Bay&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Manager of Donor Relations&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mbayaq.org/"&gt;Monterey Bay Aquarium&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Project Coordinator&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mission-minded.com/"&gt;Mission Minded&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Director of Development&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.sffriendsschool.org/"&gt;San Francisco Friends School&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Director of Development&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.summersearch.org/"&gt;Summer Search&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/be-all-you-can-be.html' title='Be all you can be'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=5272124346366852663' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5272124346366852663'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5272124346366852663'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-1360155888982079108</id><published>2008-04-18T01:28:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-18T02:09:27.182-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Activism'/><title type='text'>Sir Bob Geldof: Sexiest man in philanthropy</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/geldof.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/geldof.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;With &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bono"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;Bono&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brad_Pitt"&gt;Brad Pitt&lt;/a&gt; and even &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_Branson"&gt;Sir Richard &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;Branson&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; in the running, competition for the "sexiest man in philanthropy" is heating up. However, after my week at the annual conference of the &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/spring-break-in-san-diego-with-4500.html"&gt;International Association of Fundraising Professionals&lt;/a&gt; in San Diego, I’m placing my money on &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob_Geldof"&gt;Sir Bob &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What you say, “An aging rock star whose last hit was over 25 years ago? Are you serious?” Yes, I am. As most of you know, as producer of the 1985 global &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Live_Aid"&gt;Live Aid&lt;/a&gt; music concert brought international attention and over $200 million in direct relief to those facing poverty and starvation in Africa. That enough should get him inducted into the Philanthropy Hall of fame.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, if you are like me, you probably didn't know that his entire life has been consumed by advocacy and philanthropic work. For example in 1965, at age thirteen, he formed the first anti-apartheid organization in his Irish community. In 2005, at age fifty-three, he produced the international &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Live_8"&gt;Live 8&lt;/a&gt; concerts, which resulted in multi-government pledges of &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;$50 billion in annual debt relief and investment in Africa!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rough &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;shaven&lt;/span&gt;, greasy hair and wearing a rumpled suit, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt; paced the San Diego Convention Center stage looking as if he had been up all night playing music. During his talk, he never strayed far from his humble Irish roots of growing up poor under the influence of the Catholic Church and British colonial rule. He shared plainly and directly  his lessons learned to the 2,000 lucky fundraisers present.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_5"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt;, the practice of philanthropy is ubiquitous worldwide, but its purpose and practice varies. In the U.S., philanthropy is often sought to provide support for social change, while elsewhere its primary role is to provide for social stability. In the U.S., individuals are the largest source of giving, while elsewhere the government is the biggest giver. In the U.S., faith-based agencies receive the most donations; however, that is not the case elsewhere. In the U.K. for example, international relief agencies play a more dominant role. Finally, in the U.S., the ultimate target of philanthropy is usually individuals, which is not the case outside our borders. In China, the key role of charity is to strengthen the family. In Africa, its purpose is to strengthen the community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexis_de_Tocqueville"&gt;Alexis &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;de&lt;/span&gt; Tocqueville&lt;/a&gt; got it right over 150 years ago, says &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt;, when he recognized the unique use of American philanthropy to create social groups or “associations.” &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt; also challenged us to recognize that greed, guilt, vanity, pity and even cynicism, are also present under philanthropy’s thin veneer. Today, those with the least means give the highest percentage of their wealth. Yet, as income rises, individuals give less and less a percentage, until many simply reach a point where they say, “They don’t have enough to give anymore.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt; reminded us that the western view of the individual as sovereign and universal comes from patriarchal &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judeo-Christian"&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Judeo&lt;/span&gt;-Christian&lt;/a&gt; teachings. He argued that much of the rest of the world simply &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;doesn&lt;/span&gt;’t operate this way. In African, because of the traditional nomadic lifestyle, their society is founded on the principle of mobility. One could not survive alone as an individual; what they had, they shared. Today this collective ethos is still at the heart of African society. Western ideas of individual aid, development and philanthropy, simply do not work. One must go with the grain of the local culture in order to succeed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;North of the Straits of Gibraltar, food is subsidized in order to destroy it, while eight miles to the south millions starve. A European cow receives a $2.50 a day to be kept off the market, while in Africa the average person receives $0.50 a year to maintain subsistence living. What we call &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Globalization"&gt;globalization&lt;/a&gt;, others call dying. Why are the most resource rich countries today populated with the world’s poorest people? We live in an asymmetrical world that is only becoming more so. Today one man with a bomb can stop the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some progress is being made. The U.S. has actually quadrupled aid to Africa. Unfortunately, according to Geldof Bush cannot promote this success at home because it would result in lost votes and a political backlash. While Chinese, Indians and other are immigrating and making vast business investments in Africa, in the U.S. we have not seen this movement. Today Africa is the leading source of the world’s natural resources, China is the world’s major producer, and America is the number one consumer. Who do you think holds the real power in this equation?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt; stressed the most important lesson he has learned is that while direct charity is important, it can only do so much. One must also engage at the policy level in order to effect lasting change. While the Live Aid concerts reached out to individual donors, the primary goal of the Live 8 concerts was to create multi-governmental policy change. Where the first concerts raised $200 million in direct aid, the later as mentioned above, secured pledges of $50 billion in annual debt relief and investment in Africa.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let’s take a minute to put these efforts into perspective. A movement started a little over two decades ago by one man has resulted in a continent of 350 million people being freed from &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Debt_slavery"&gt;debt slavery&lt;/a&gt;. No longer were they being asked to pay back money that had been lent before they were born to dictators who were no longer alive. Today over 29 million African children are going to school because of Sir Bob &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;Geldof&lt;/span&gt;’s efforts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If that &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;isn&lt;/span&gt;’t sexy, I don’t know what is.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/sir-bob-geldof-sexiest-man-in.html' title='Sir Bob Geldof: Sexiest man in philanthropy'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=1360155888982079108' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/1360155888982079108'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/1360155888982079108'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-5393805134638447324</id><published>2008-04-10T08:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-05-03T14:14:07.251-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Jobs'/><title type='text'>Looking for a few good women and men  to serve their country</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/hiring.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/hiring.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;While the U.S. may be in a recession, that doesn't mean nonprofits have stopped hiring. In the last two weeks alone, I've received announcements in my inbox for the following Bay Area job openings. If you know of somebody who might be interested in any of these positions, perhaps you could let them know about them? If you know of other openings, don't hesitate to send me an email and I'll do the same.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Executive Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.acmhs.org/"&gt;Asian Community Health Services&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Director of Communications&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://beta.blogger.com/www.ciis.edu/"&gt;California Institute of Integral Studies &lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Development Specialist&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.care.org/"&gt;CARE&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Development Manager&lt;br /&gt;Director of Online Programs&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://craigslistfoundation.org/"&gt;Craigslist Foundation&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Development Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.crisissupport.org/"&gt;Crisis Support Services of Alameda&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Grants Manager&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.edsource.org/"&gt;EdSource&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Program Associate&lt;br /&gt;Grants Manager&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.groundspark.org/"&gt;Groundspark&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Executive Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.janetpomeroy.org/"&gt;The Janet Pomeroy Center&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Associate Director of Development&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.motherjones.com/"&gt;Mother Jones&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Associate Director&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.radioproject.org/"&gt;National Radio Project: Making Contact&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.radioproject.org/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/looking-for-few-good-women-and-men-to.html' title='Looking for a few good women and men  to serve their country'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=5393805134638447324' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5393805134638447324'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5393805134638447324'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-2708339420228550945</id><published>2008-04-09T13:23:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-15T10:32:46.481-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Events'/><title type='text'>My spring break in San Diego with 4,500 fundraisers and 35,000 sailors</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/2girls-711188.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/2girls-711156.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Big love all of you who joined me for lunch this past Monday in San Diego during the &lt;a href="http://conference.afpnet.org/getting_to_the_conference.cfm"&gt;45th annual international Association of Fundraising Professionals conference&lt;/a&gt;. Really appreciated Nicci, Jack, Mike, Jay, Robert, Susan, Cheryl, Tod, Sue, Jim, Jay, Sean, Richard, George, Kari, Eleanor, Joy, Colleen and the rest the gang for taking a little break to enjoy a alfresco dinning experience together.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Was particularly flattered to have the lovely Kristel Komakhuk (above left) and her sister make a point of joining us all the way from Anchorage, Alaska! Apparently, she's not the only member of the staff at the &lt;a href="http://www.firstalaskans.org/"&gt;First Alaskans Institute&lt;/a&gt; who regularly reads this blog. I'm sure they can all agree, that if the Kristel is any indication of the next generation of nonprofit leaders, we can stop worrying about the much predicted "leadership gap" right now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm still decompressing after my five day stay stint inside the San Diego Convention Center (though an afternoon trip to the day spa at the &lt;a href="http://www.hoteldel.com/index.cfm"&gt;Del Coronado&lt;/a&gt; after the last session sure helped). Like all big conferences, this one was full of low and high points. The later included several provocative workshops, making connections with many individuals and affinity groups, and moving plenary speeches by &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jane_Goodall"&gt;Jane Goodall&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bob_Geldof"&gt;Sir Bob Geldof&lt;/a&gt; (who I must say ranks among the "most sexy men in philanthropy.") I took plenty of notes, so more details on this and other thoughts in the weeks to come. Do stay tuned.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/spring-break-in-san-diego-with-4500.html' title='My spring break in San Diego with 4,500 fundraisers and 35,000 sailors'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=2708339420228550945' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/2708339420228550945'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/2708339420228550945'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-474287093348863048</id><published>2008-04-08T10:05:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-08T10:33:18.708-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Blogs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><title type='text'>Fundraising from the inside out</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/abundance-772791.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/abundance-772755.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;On this blog, I've briefly &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/06/manifesto-of-abundance.html"&gt;mentioned the Abundance League before&lt;/a&gt;. Last month, I had the pleasure of talking with them in person about the power of fundraising. &lt;span class="post-author"&gt;Co-host Neal Gorenflo&lt;/span&gt; was kind enough to write down a few summary notes. They included:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Fundraising is a great opportunity for transformation for both the fundraiser and those who want to realize their dreams by supporting a good cause.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When you connect to a donor through their passions and help make their dreams come true, there's no need to be shy about asking for money or other help.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Giving is good for your health. You enlarge your soul and better connect to others by increasing your generosity.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Giving and getting are connected. Make room for receiving when you give.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Learning how to give and receive are equally important to creating a culture of generosity. Reward those that give by accepting their gifts fully.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;To be an effective fundraiser, all the rules that apply to building personal relationships apply to donor relations.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;If you'd like to learn more about the Abundance League or get involved, please visit their &lt;a href="http://www.theabundanceleague.org/"&gt;blog&lt;/a&gt; today.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/fundraising-from-inside-out.html' title='Fundraising from the inside out'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=474287093348863048' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/474287093348863048'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/474287093348863048'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-3988099928930211027</id><published>2008-04-06T09:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-04-18T03:01:01.261-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Generosity'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Networking'/><title type='text'>So the Pope emailed me asking for help raising money</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/pope-786780.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/pope-786772.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Last month I received a very flattering email from a Vatican fundraiser inviting me out to lunch. Said he was being relocated from Rome to San Francisco. Wondered if I could provide him “fundraising advice for seeking major gift donors and capacity building for several agencies in the Bay Area and West Coast,” as well as “explore mutual areas of opportunity.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wow, talk about the power of &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/5-steps-to-create-b-r-n-d-new-u-online.html"&gt;online branding&lt;/a&gt;. First, I received a call from a &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/5-steps-to-create-b-r-n-d-new-u-online.html"&gt;Noble Prize&lt;/a&gt; nominee and now the &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pope_Benedict_XVI"&gt;Pope&lt;/a&gt;! Who could be next? &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bono"&gt;Bono&lt;/a&gt;?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To say I was surprised is a huge understatement! Most groups I work with have budgets of a few million dollars, not the billions under the purview of his Italian employers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I consider myself a spiritual person, and am grateful to have worked with groups of different faiths in the past, and hope to do so again in the future. However, as someone who identifies as queer and a feminist, I make a distinction between working with organizations that are supportive or neutral on issues of &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_equality"&gt;LGBT equality&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women%27s_movement"&gt;women’s rights&lt;/a&gt;, and those that oppose them. Therefore, I thought there might be others who might be a better match with his needs and values. So rather than meet with him in person, I provided him referrals to several other skilled Bay Area professionals.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In retrospect, I wish I had responded differently. For it was not like he was asking to “get married,” it was only a request for a “first date.” Rather than immediately declining his invitation, I wish I had simply disclosed my identity and beliefs, and let him decide if he would still like to share a meal. Because while I might not ultimately be the best person to provide him advice, I would like to hope that we could still be colleagues. More importantly, I missed the opportunity to learn more about him and the Catholic Church -- and myself as well.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When practiced mindfully, fundraising can teach us to move through the world with more grace. Points of resistance can often be our greatest teacher. For example, exploring why volunteer solicitors often do not follow through on their commitments can begin to help release them from their own internal fears of money, power and privilege.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In this case, after some reflection I realized two important points. One, I still have some lingering fears about being judged by others. I’m not Catholic, but there was something about a prospective meeting with the Pope’s proxy that I found intimidating. Simply stating this without judgment is the first step toward removing this barrier.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Secondly, my values are important guideposts. However, they become roadblocks when they become inflexible and absolute. If the role of a development professional is to cultivate relationships between individuals and institutions based on shared values, than we must be the first to seek common ground with others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have no illusions that if I had acted differently my efforts would have changed the Church’s positions on important issues that I value. However, is not breaking bread together the first step toward creating peaceful change in the world? If we are to ask others to change on our behalf, must we also be willing to do so ourselves?</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/04/so-pope-emailed-me-asking-for-help.html' title='So the Pope emailed me asking for help raising money'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=3988099928930211027' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3988099928930211027'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3988099928930211027'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-6542713773537169154</id><published>2008-03-26T17:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-03-26T17:41:44.326-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><title type='text'>I'd like to make a donation of $100 to the nonprofit of your choice</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/referral-762601.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/referral-762593.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In my work as a nonprofit fundraising consultant, I’ve found my most rewarding clients always come through referrals. Currently, I have some opening for new clients, so I am writing to ask for your help in connecting me with good causes in need of support. As my way of saying thanks, if you are able to refer me to a new client who signs a contract before the end of April, I pledge to donate $100 to the nonprofit of your choice!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I see my job as providing nonprofit leaders the practical fundraising tools and solutions that they need to make their jobs easier and to succeed in this ever-changing world. Licensed by the state of California, I draw on over twenty-years of nonprofit management, for-profit business ownership and professional fundraising experience. My areas of expertise include:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Annual Fund Support&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Board Development&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Corporate Solicitations&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Event Management&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Executive Coaching&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Grant Writing Assistance&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Major Donor Initiatives&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;As the President of &lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;DER&lt;/a&gt;, a trade association for San Francisco Bay Area fundraisers, I have an extensive network. Please let your connections know I’m always open to providing free referrals or answering simple questions. For more long-term professional assistance, I am also available on an hourly or project contract basis. (Btw, because of a family connection, I now have access to complementary airfare, so am also available to help good causes outside the Bay Area region!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please feel free to download and forward to your colleagues my &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/downloads/gayleroberts_intro.doc"&gt;1-page introduction&lt;/a&gt; or full &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/downloads/gayleroberts_bio.pdf"&gt;biography&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/downloads/gayleroberts_cv.pdf"&gt;resume&lt;/a&gt; or &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/downloads/gayleroberts_testimonials.pdf"&gt;testimonials&lt;/a&gt; sheets. If you have any questions, referrals or suggestions, feel free to contact me anytime at gayle[at]gayleroberts.com.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Thanks so much in advance for all your help and support!</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/03/id-like-to-make-donation-of-100-to.html' title='I&apos;d like to make a donation of $100 to the nonprofit of your choice'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=6542713773537169154' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/6542713773537169154'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/6542713773537169154'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-815789346513618625</id><published>2008-03-26T12:44:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-03-26T13:00:30.746-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Events'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Networking'/><title type='text'>Please join me for lunch this Monday, March 31, at the AFP convention</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/fishtaco-701772.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/fishtaco-701764.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Would you perhaps be attending next week's &lt;a href="http://conference.afpnet.org/getting_to_the_conference.cfm"&gt;Association of Fundraising Professional annual convention in San Diego&lt;/a&gt;? If so, I'd love to connect up with you for lunch this Monday, March 31.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to Yelp San Diego, the best fish tacos in town are only a few blocks away at the &lt;a href="http://tinyurl.com/26lz2e"&gt;Tin Fish Gaslamp cafe&lt;/a&gt;, which has a full lunch menu and offers plenty of outdoor seating as well. If that sounds tasty to you, let's plan to meet-up at the Convention Center's main entrance at 11:20 am. Please drop me an email at gayle[at]gayleroberts.com to confirm, and include your cell phone number, so I can give you a call on Sunday to coordinate the exact meet-up location.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hope to see you soon!</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/03/please-join-me-for-lunch-this-monday.html' title='Please join me for lunch this Monday, March 31, at the AFP convention'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=815789346513618625' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/815789346513618625'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/815789346513618625'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-7508680463146505470</id><published>2008-03-25T09:41:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-03-25T10:18:24.941-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Blogs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Events'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Uncatagorized'/><title type='text'>How to produce your next fundraising event and remain smiling</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/carny2-738517.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/carny2-738484.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Hey kids, the &lt;a href="http://www.everydaygivingblog.com/2008/03/giving-carnival.html"&gt;Giving Carnival&lt;/a&gt; has rolled into town again. Let's all go! Hosted by Roger Carr of the &lt;a href="http://www.everydaygivingblog.com/"&gt;Everyday Giving Blog&lt;/a&gt;, this month's collection of participants offer valuable of tips on how to produce successful fundraising events.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/03/how-to-host-your-next-fundraising-event.html' title='How to produce your next fundraising event and remain smiling'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=7508680463146505470' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7508680463146505470'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7508680463146505470'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-3229293329973831954</id><published>2008-03-18T11:20:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-03-18T11:58:27.283-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Events'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='SF_Bay_Area'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DER'/><title type='text'>Creating and sustaining a fund development culture in your organization</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/Jigsaw-749484.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/Jigsaw-749476.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;How do you promote and sustain a fundraising culture inside your organization, while coping with external pressures, program needs, budget limitations and an overworked staff? Are you a development professional or an Executive Director who has to manage and allocate resources to different areas of your nonprofit? If you so, and you live in the San Francisco Bay Area, please join me Tuesday, March 25th from 3 - 5 p.m. at the &lt;a href="http://foundationcenter.org/sanfrancisco/"&gt;San Francisco Foundation Center &lt;/a&gt;for an important FAB workshop titled, "Creating and Sustaining a Fund Development Culture in Your Organization."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;DER&lt;/a&gt;'s Fundraisers Anxiety Busters (FAB) workshops are quarterly, peer support workshops for intermediate and seasoned fundraisers, and nonprofit staff and volunteers with development responsibilities (3 or more years experience requested), to share fundraising strategies and tactics, meet challenges and solve problems. This month's guest experts will be Lucy Barnett, the Director of Development for &lt;a href="http://www.suttervnaandhospice.org/"&gt;Sutter VNA Hospice&lt;/a&gt; in Santa Rosa, and Regina Neu, a Fundraising Counsel and University Professor, who has spent over 25 years working in the nonprofit sector.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I’ll be co-facilitating this event with fellow DER board member Michael Magnaye, Development Director at the &lt;a href="http://www.swhealthcenter.org/"&gt;SW Community Health Center&lt;/a&gt;, who will be taking over future FAB facilitation duties in 2008.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Seating is limited, so for more information or to register, please visit the &lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;DER&lt;/a&gt; website today.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/03/creating-and-sustaining-fund.html' title='Creating and sustaining a fund development culture in your organization'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=3229293329973831954' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3229293329973831954'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3229293329973831954'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-4811464185151010247</id><published>2008-03-03T10:16:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-03-05T12:27:59.321-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Blogs'/><title type='text'>We interrupt our regularly scheduled programming to give thanks</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/hug_175x137.shkl-716715.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/hug_175x137.shkl-716710.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Given that my posting schedule this new year has been somewhat remiss, I was quite surprised to learn that this blog was recently highlighted on three of the most influential fundraising blogs: &lt;a href="http://www.donorpowerblog.com/donor_power_blog/2008/02/repeat-after-me.html"&gt;Donor Power Blog&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://donttellthedonor.blogspot.com/2008/02/gayle-roberts-continues-to-impress-me.html"&gt;Don't Tell the Donor&lt;/a&gt;, and The Chronicle of Philanthropy's &lt;a href="http://philanthropy.com/giveandtake/article/497/metaphors-and-fund-rising"&gt;Give and Take&lt;/a&gt;. So pardon me while I send out a big virtual hug of thanks to bloggers Jeff Brooks, A Fundraiser and Ian Wilhelm!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first two commentators both found  value in my post &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/02/everything-you-know-about-fundraising.html" target="_blank"&gt;Everything you know about fundraising is wrong&lt;/a&gt;. Jeff wrote that, "If you don't see fundraising that way, you're missing something that will increase your joy in your job -- and your effectiveness." While A.F. wrote, "Gayle Roberts proves (once again) that she is one of the most inspirational fundraisers in the business today." All I can say is, "Wow."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over on Give and Take, Ian linked back to &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/02/appreciate-what-you-have.html"&gt;my most recent post&lt;/a&gt;, noting that a "good metaphor can be crucial to garnering supporters."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One the most important jobs we have as fundraisers is to help people to believe in themselves. We do this by simply reminding them that, "Yes, you can." To have three of my peers say that to me inspires me to return to a more regular blog posting schedule. In fact, I'm already drafting my next missive tentatively called, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;So the Pope emailed me asking for help raising money.&lt;/span&gt;" True story. Stay tune for details.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/03/we-interrupt-our-regularly-scheduled.html' title='We interrupt our regularly scheduled programming to give thanks'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=4811464185151010247' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/4811464185151010247'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/4811464185151010247'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-3767111324224606974</id><published>2008-02-14T07:58:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-14T09:57:59.541-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Videos_Podcasts'/><title type='text'>Appreciate what you have</title><content type='html'>&lt;object height="355" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/rvTFKpIaQhM&amp;amp;rel=0&amp;amp;border=0"&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/rvTFKpIaQhM&amp;amp;rel=0&amp;amp;border=0" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" height="355" width="425"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The idea of reducing the world’s population to a community of only 100 people is very useful and important metaphor. It makes us easily understand the differences in the world, and where we fit in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are many types of reports that use the Earth’s population reduced to 100 people, especially in the Internet. For example, the above video has been viewed by over 1.5 million YouTube viewers alone. Ideas like this should continued to be shared even more, especially today when the world seems to be in need of dialogue and understanding among different cultures.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The text that originated this video was published on May 29, 1990 with the title &lt;a href="http://beta.blogger.com/www.sustainer.org/dhm_archive/index.php?display_article=vn338villageed"&gt;State of the Village Report&lt;/a&gt;, and it was written by Donella Meadows, who passed away in February 2000. Nowadays the &lt;a href="http://www.sustainer.org/"&gt;Sustainability Institute&lt;/a&gt;, through Donella’s Foundation, carries on her ideas and projects.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What powerful metaphor are you using to tell your good cause's story? What if your client base or community was only 100 people? Who would they be? What if you had only 100 donors, how would they be contributing?</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/02/appreciate-what-you-have.html' title='Appreciate what you have'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=3767111324224606974' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3767111324224606974'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3767111324224606974'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-4924301274475297790</id><published>2008-02-05T15:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-05T20:53:15.178-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DER'/><title type='text'>30 tips for effective nonprofit board leadership</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/penguins-702732.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/penguins-702729.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;When you are fundraiser like me, you routinely are asked to join nonprofit boards. In the last 4 weeks alone, I've been asked to join the leadership of 4 different organizations! I couldn't tell you how many times I've been asked the same question in the last 12 months, as I've lost track.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While some people have the capacity to serve on multiple boards, I simply don't. Particularly because I'm the new board president of the &lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;Development Executives Roundtable&lt;/a&gt;, a trade association for nearly 200 Bay Area fundraisers, representing organizations with combined budgets of approximately $1 billion. DER is an all-volunteer group, so we're a "working" board in the fullest sense of the term.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I recently posted a &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/how-to-become-top-ranked-expert-on.html"&gt;question on LinkedIn&lt;/a&gt; asking for advice as a first-term board president. Given how essential this role is to successful fundraising, I thought I'd share with you just some of the invaluable tips I received:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Avoid micromanagement, while making sure you understand the big picture.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Be passionate about your organization, making sure everyone you meet hears about your nonprofit frequently. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Communicate clearly and frequently to the membership and the outside world.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Develop a plan. If you don’t already perform strategic planning, start now. Establish a list of realistic and attainable goals, and make them happen.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Develop individual board member agreements that specify what each member will contribute and what they can expect in terms of support and opportunities.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Ensure all board members play a role in agency fundraising.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Find 15 minutes on the agenda of each board meeting to either reflect upon a big picture trend or to learn about an issue that affects the work of the nonprofit.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Find opportunities to expand the participation of regular members in big and small ways so they have a stake in the organization success. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Have a strong treasurer who keeps true financial oversight. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Hold monthly check-in calls with agency leadership to act as sounding board and provide coaching. Call all board members once per quarter and thank them for specific things they have done, checking in on their sense of engagement.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If you ever decide to hire paid staff, make sure to establish a true partnership with the executive director, rather than a vertical relationship, and keep expectations realistic. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;In advance of board meetings, call key board members to check the pulse. Often important or sensitive matters will emerge in private that may not be suitable to be addressed in a larger context.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Insure that all members of your board share a common vision for the organization. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Keep organized records so when your term is done you can hand off information to your successor. Make sure that officers and committee chairs are doing the same.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Develop patience. Learn how to smile when you really want to cry.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Less is more. Doing the right 1-2 member-driven items is far more valuable than a laundry list of initiatives.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Make sure there is a shared understanding of the importance of board development, and what support directors need to be successful.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Make sure there is an engaging and challenging conversation on the agenda for every board meeting and that it is well framed.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Make sure you have a clear understanding of what you were elected to do and what you are bringing to the table. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Review the year and look at what worked and what could use improvement&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Run effective meetings. Have an agenda, with times, and follow it. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Strengthen collaborations with other organizations in your sector.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Succession planning is critical. Have board officers and committee chairs take the lead in scouting for successors. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Use the board executive committee to preview of the full board meeting agenda and really road test it to work out kinks.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Weed out the people who have nothing better to do than to contribute through negativity or simply want something to put on their resume.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When chairing a meeting, find ways to draw in people who don’t always get a chance to speak or who are newer to the board.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;When people’s terms on the board expire, find ways to hold on to them in some capacity if they contributed a lot: perhaps by forming an advisory group?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;You need a process person and a cheerleader on the board. Decide which you are and then find a partner to play the other role for the organization.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Your primary market is your membership. Just as in any other business, you must assess the needs of your market. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Recommended books: &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Best-Board-Caf%C3%A9-Hands-Solutions/dp/0940069407/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259231&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;The Best of Board Cafe&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Great-Boards-Small-Groups-Governing/dp/1889102040/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259262&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Great Boards for Small Groups&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Heroic-Leadership-Practices-450-Year-Old-Company/dp/0829421157/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259294&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Heroic Leadership&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Nonprofit-Board-Answer-Book-Executives/dp/0787994618/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259316&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Nonprofit Board Answer Book&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/CarverGuide-Principles-Policy-Governance-Carver/dp/0787902969/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259351&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Basic Principles of Policy Governance&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Boards-Difference-Carver-Board-Governance/dp/0787976164/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259376&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Boards that Make a Difference&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/Good%20to%20Great%20and%20The%20Social%20Sector"&gt;Good to Great and The Social Sector&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.boardsource.org/Bookstore.asp?Item=171"&gt;The Source&lt;/a&gt;, and &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Leaders-Who-Make-Difference-Strategies/dp/0787946656/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1202259513&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;Leaders Who Make a Difference&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;Big love to all those who contributed their words of wisdom, including: Aaron Hurst, Beth Yoke, Birgit Van Hout, Brian Weiner, Chris Sinton, Doug Barg, Gayle Uchida, Glen Peterson, Greg Lassonde, John Darrouzet, John Kenyon, Jovida Ross, Juanita Carroll Young, Kliff Kueh, Kliff Kuehl, Lela Davia, Marion Conway, Mike McClure, Morrie Warshawski, Neal Gorenflo, Peggy Hoffman, Sara Farina, Stephen Peelor, Steve Novak, Pam Cook and Sushma Raman.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/02/30-tips-for-effective-nonprofit-board.html' title='30 tips for effective nonprofit board leadership'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=4924301274475297790' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/4924301274475297790'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/4924301274475297790'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-8175161699785009606</id><published>2008-02-03T19:17:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-02-03T23:44:06.841-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Generosity'/><title type='text'>Everything you know about fundraising is wrong</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/gving_tree-733780.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/gving_tree-733776.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;If you think fundraising is merely raising about money, you really are missing the point. The inspired fundraiser understands her job is to foster greater generosity and gratitude in the world. Development is simply the building of valued-based relationships between prospective donors and organizations. Fundraising is a vehicle for donors to act on these values, bringing joy to themselves and others.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm going to let you in on a little secret. Truth is there is no lack of money for good causes. According to &lt;a href="http://www.aafrc.org/gusa/mission.cfm"&gt;Giving USA&lt;/a&gt;, last year $295 billion was given away to nonprofits in the U.S. Over 83%, or $245 billion, came from individuals. All research indicates that individual can provide nonprofits with stable and flexible sources of funding, even in times of recession. The single largest barrier to raising money is your own lack of belief in yourself, donors and your good cause. The first step is healing your own negative relationship to money, power and privilege. If you are having trouble raising money from others, let me suggest you start by increasing your own donation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is also a mistake to think you must know rich people to succeed as a fundraiser. You already know everyone you need to get started. The fact is that low- and middle-income folks give at a higher percentage of their incomes than those of upper incomes. Successful fundraisers welcome donors of all levels. Statistically speaking the regular, small annual fund donor is the best planned giving prospect.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Too many of us have forgotten that the ancient practice of giving and receiving of gifts has the power to transform the lives of individuals, institutions and communities, and even connect us to what is divine in the world. Fundraisers can:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Help those in need to break free of the cycle of poverty, violence and oppression they might face, reminding them there are those who still care.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Help donors express personal values, developing a sense of abundance and generosity by learning they have enough to share. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Reduce isolation in communities by connecting people who share common values, providing them opportunities to organize for social change. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Create sustainable financial support for organizations that have strong community need, yet often little or no perceived for-profit market value.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Through opening hearts to the cycle of giving and receiving, connect people to something larger than themselves, which is the core of every spiritual tradition.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;Think about the last time you wrote a donation check or spent time volunteering at a nonprofit? How does it make you feel months or even years later to remember? Isn’t this one of the best feelings? Don’t you want everyone else to feel as you do right now? You can. All you need do is ask them for a gift.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You see, asking for help is one of the best ways you can tell someone they are important to you. If you decide to not ask, perhaps you think they are not rich enough or do not care enough about the issue. You may think you are protecting them. In fact, you’ve taken away one of their most valuable rights: their right to choose. The truth is, people only rise to the level of expectations we place them. To succeed as a fundraiser you don’t need to change donors, only your belief in them.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The inspired fundraiser provides donors an opportunity to put their values into action, to become the hero of their own life story, and to make their dreams for a better world come true.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So let me ask you. When you ask someone for a donation, whose gift is bigger: their’s or yours?</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/02/everything-you-know-about-fundraising.html' title='Everything you know about fundraising is wrong'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=8175161699785009606' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/8175161699785009606'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/8175161699785009606'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-7088568407430032830</id><published>2008-01-21T11:48:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-01-21T12:24:12.375-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><title type='text'>What is the average fundraising cost per dollar raised?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/good-news-716641.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/good-news-716638.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In the last few days, a couple different consultant friends have both told me about clients quickly growing  frustrated that their fundraising efforts are not “turning a profit” within the first few months. I &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/5-keys-to-individual-fundraising.html"&gt;blogged recently&lt;/a&gt; that in order to successful raising money, nonprofit leadership needs to make a long-term commitment to the process. However, the question remains, “How long must one wait?”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My friend and talented nonprofit technology consultant &lt;a href="http://www.rlweiner.com/"&gt;Robert Weiner&lt;/a&gt; recently turned me on to a few &lt;a href="http://www.supportingadvancement.com/faq/cost_per_dollar_raised.htm"&gt;fundraising benchmarks&lt;/a&gt;. Included are statistics pulled from James Greenfield’s book, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Fund-Raising-Evaluating-Managing-Development/dp/0471320145"&gt;Fund-Raising: Evaluating and Managing the Fund Development Process&lt;/a&gt;. Greenfield states the U.S. national average cost to raise a dollar is 20 cents, which he breaks down into the following:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Capital Campaign/Major Gifts: $0.05 to $0.10 per dollar raised.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Corporations and Foundations (Grant Writing): $0.20 per dollar raised.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Direct Mail Renewal: $0.20 per dollar raised.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Planned Giving: $0.25 per dollar raised (and a lot of patience!)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Benefit/Special Events: $0.50 of gross proceeds.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Direct Mail Acquisition: $1.00 to $1.25 per dollar raised.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;National Average: $ 0.20&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;One of the challenges with such benchmarks are they do not take into account different nonprofit markets and missions. It is a lot easier to raise money for puppy dogs, than say for some rare and unknown disease. As a rule, social welfare nonprofits receive smaller average donations than organizations in other areas, such as education or the arts, and thus must solicit larger numbers to acquire adequate funds. Nor is it fair either to compare a small, community nonprofit with a large, established university. Most importantly, uniform benchmarks do not take into account start-up acquisition costs and the typical donor's giving life-cycle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the past, a general rule of thumb I have used is from the &lt;a href="http://www.marylandnonprofits.org/"&gt;Maryland Association for Nonprofits&lt;/a&gt;. Their recommended Standards for Excellence are that organizations work for a &lt;a href="http://www.cfnpe.org/site.cfm/SFX-info.cfm"&gt;3-to-1 fundraising efficiency ratio over a five-year period&lt;/a&gt;. The important factor here is that fundraising efficiency is measured over a period of years, in which market factors and acquisition costs are accurately weighed against total revenues received.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, I think perhaps &lt;a href="http://www.malwarwick.com/"&gt;Mal Warwick&lt;/a&gt; states it most clearly when he writes:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"The 'overall fundraising Cost to Raise a Dollar' is a myth. There is NO such standard, and anyone who tells you there is one should survey the real world of fundraising in all its diversity. One organization might be embarrassed to spend more than a dime to raise a dollar, while another might be fortunate to squeak by with 40 or 50 cents on a dollar -- and both might be ethically run, well-managed organizations."&lt;/blockquote&gt;Therefore, as with most things the answer to the question is, “it depends.” It depends on the organizational fundraising goals and what financial risk the agency leadership is willing to take to reach them. Most importantly, it depends on how effectively the organization uses monies raised to fulfill its mission. That should always be our primary benchmark.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2008/01/what-is-average-fundraising-cost-per.html' title='What is the average fundraising cost per dollar raised?'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=7088568407430032830' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7088568407430032830'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7088568407430032830'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-7294443247689028020</id><published>2007-12-31T10:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-31T11:11:19.926-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DER'/><title type='text'>All fundraising rises and falls on leadership</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/leaders_within_175x265.shkl-756026.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/leaders_within_175x265.shkl-756020.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;In preparation for my &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/how-fundraising-has-changed-my-life.html"&gt;new role&lt;/a&gt; as Board President of the &lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;Development Executives Roundtable&lt;/a&gt; I’ve been reading a lot of leadership books, by authors ranging from &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Spiritual-Laws-Success-Pocketbook/dp/1878424602/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1199126743&amp;amp;sr=1-9"&gt;Deepak Chopra&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Essential-Drucker-Druckers-Writings-Management/dp/006093574X/ref=pd_bbs_sr_3?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1199126692&amp;amp;sr=1-3"&gt;Peter F. Drucker&lt;/a&gt; to &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Penguin-Classics-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/0140449337/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1199126012&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Marcus Aurelius&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One of my favorites is John C. Maxwell’s classic &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Developing-Leader-Within-John-Maxwell/dp/0785281126/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1199125791&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;Developing the Leader Within You&lt;/a&gt;. It is a must read for anyone leading a nonprofit development team. I agree with Maxwell, who says the world needs leaders:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who use their influence at the right times for the right reasons;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who take a little greater share of the blame and a little smaller share of the credit;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who lead themselves successfully before attempting to lead others;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who continue to search for the best answers, not the familiar one;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who add value to the people and organizations they lead;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who work for the benefit of others  and not for personal gain;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who handle themselves with their heads and handle others with their hearts;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who know the way, go the way, and show the way;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who inspire and motivate rather than intimidate and manipulate;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who live with people to know their problems and live with God in order to solve them;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who realize that their dispositions are more important than their positions;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who mold opinions instead of following opinion polls;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who understand that an institution is the reflection of their character;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who never place themselves above others except in carrying responsibilities;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who will be as honest in small things as in great things&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who discipline themselves so they will not be disciplined by others;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who encounter setbacks and turn them into comebacks;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Who follow a moral compass that points in the right direction regardless of the trends.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; QUESTION: What steps can you take to develop the leader within you in 2008?</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/all-fundraising-rises-and-falls-on.html' title='All fundraising rises and falls on leadership'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=7294443247689028020' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7294443247689028020'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7294443247689028020'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-5216140642700632270</id><published>2007-12-27T17:51:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2008-04-17T10:58:12.168-07:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Networking'/><title type='text'>How to become a top ranked expert on LinkedIn, without really trying</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/expert-734794.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/expert-734791.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I'm rather shocked to tell you that out of &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/"&gt;LinkedIn's&lt;/a&gt; current 15 million users, I am now ranked among the &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/answers?browseExperts=&amp;amp;sort=e&amp;amp;category=GOV_CNP&amp;amp;goback=%2Each_GOV*4CNP"&gt;top 15 Charity and Nonprofit experts&lt;/a&gt; on the site. This after joining just a couple of months ago. If you wish, you too can quickly become one of the top experts on the Internet's leading business networking site. The secret is to take advantage of LinkedIn's powerful &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/answers"&gt;Answers&lt;/a&gt; features.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Search and Share Answers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;LinkedIn’s Answers is somewhat like a modern day &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oracle"&gt;oracle&lt;/a&gt;. Do you have a question -- any question -- that you need answered quickly? Post it online and within hours dozens of people will have shared with you their thoughts and opinions. Some are wise -- some are not so -- but collectively you will have received pretty good advice. Odds are somebody has asked your question already, so often you do not even need to post a new query to get find a good answer. The site archives hundreds of thousands of previous responses that you can easily search.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;LinkedIn Answers offers a “share this” link that appears at the lower right hand corner under each question. Click on the link to e-mail the question to a LinkedIn personal connection, add it to del.icio.us or digg, or grab a permalink to highlight it on your blog or other social networking service like &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt;. This is a great way to strengthen your network by helping your friends get their questions answered quickly, or letting them shine by answering a question within their subject expertise.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Ask Questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Posting a question is an excellent way to quickly survey the community. You can post your question privately and forwarded to just a few of your select contacts; or you can choose to make it public and have it available to be answered by anyone of the site's millions of registered users. It will also then show up on the home pages of all your network connections. This means if even I am the only person you are connected to and you ask a question, it will show up on the home page of over 15,700 people. (If you answer one of my questions, the answer will be linked to the home page of over 1,245,000 people!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When asking a question, just be careful or you can come off looking rather silly. For example, avoid asking something that has been posted before or could be answered through a simple Google search. Remember good grammar and spelling still count. Don't post just to fish for new clients; people can always tell. Most importantly,  be clear about what you are asking and why it is important to you. If you receive permission and give credit, answers make great source content for republication to a blog or elsewhere.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Answer Questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can become a ranked expert like me by consistently providing useful answers to other's questions. LinkedIn uses a rating system to award expertise points. If you follow the above posting advice for asking questions, your reputation will strengthen when responding to others as well. By answering questions, I have made connections with individuals as far away as Australia, India and Israel.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you have a favorite category in which you would like to become a recognized expert? My suggestion is that you subscribe to its RSS feeds. Simply use the "Browse" module in the left hand column of the Answer module to navigate to the category you are interested in subscribing to, where you can find link to that category’s feed. This is one way I'm strategically keeping up to date with the pulse in the &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/answers/browse/government-non-profit/charity-non-profit/GOV_CNP"&gt;Charity and Nonprofit&lt;/a&gt; sector. Many of my answers have ended up inspiring recent posts here on this blog.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/how-to-become-top-ranked-expert-on.html' title='How to become a top ranked expert on LinkedIn, without really trying'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=5216140642700632270' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5216140642700632270'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5216140642700632270'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-7386195812041708087</id><published>2007-12-17T11:04:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-17T12:24:53.860-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Generosity'/><title type='text'>2008: Let it be a year of a thousand invisible kindnesses</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/no-tv-740252.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/no-tv-740238.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I received the following this morning from the good folks at &lt;a href="http://www.breadforthejourney.org/"&gt;Bread for the Journey&lt;/a&gt;. Thought I'd pass it along to you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;QUESTION: What if the healing of the world utterly depends on a thousand invisible kindnesses we offer simply and quietly throughout the pilgrimage of each human life?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are as many ways to make a difference as there are people. One simple way you can contribute to a healthier world is to make 2008 your own "Year of a Thousand Invisible Kindnesses." We’ve compiled a list of ideas to inspire you. Please join us in creating a movement of people, each doing something every day to heal our world and create a life that embodies the best of who we are.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;Turn off your TV, computer and cell phone.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Walk places and say hello to people.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Refrain from gossip.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Get involved and vote.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Say “I love you” every day, more than once.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Bake something and give it to a neighbor.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Find new uses for things you would have thrown away.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Love yourself well. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Fix it even if you didn’t break it.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Forgive someone.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Buy from local merchants and farmers.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Garden, then share your harvest.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Discover what you love and give it to the world.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Sing, dance, be in your body.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Stop and breathe deeply before you react.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Take time each day to meditate.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Take children and dogs to the park and play with them.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Listen well.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Ride your bike instead of driving.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Help carry something heavy.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Do it even if it isn’t convenient.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Baby-sit for someone. &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Seek to understand.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Pick up litter in your neighborhood.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Make a monthly donation to a nonprofit you love.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Honor an elder you know.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Volunteer your time.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Recycle it instead of throwing it away.&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;How would you add to this list? Please add your suggestions in the comments below.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/2008-let-it-be-year-of-thousand.html' title='2008: Let it be a year of a thousand invisible kindnesses'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=7386195812041708087' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7386195812041708087'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7386195812041708087'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-7416756498233425153</id><published>2007-12-13T10:14:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-15T10:47:24.393-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Networking'/><title type='text'>5 steps to create   a “B-R-A-N-D New U” online</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/brand-756094.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/brand-756079.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Last summer I received a phone call from an influential Washington D.C. figure, who had recently been nominated for the 2007 Noble Peace Prize. You might even know his name. He was looking for fundraising advice. However, before I share with you details of that conversation, I’d like to talk to you about why he called me of all people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Let’s face it, we live in an interconnected, intermediated and Internet world. If perception equals reality, than what people learn about you online can influence your career success, whether you are an independent consultant or a long-time staff fundraiser. Tom Peters got it right ten years ago when he developed the concept of &lt;a href="http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/10/brandyou.html"&gt;personal branding&lt;/a&gt;. “We are CEOs of our own companies: Me Inc. To be in business today, our most important job is to be head marketer for the brand called You.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today more than anything else, one thing determines the strength of your personal brand: your Google rankings. What are the total numbers of personal responses returned, how high are your results, and how relevant are they to what you would like to be known about? If you don't have an online presence, in the eyes of a growing number of people, you simply don't exist. For a more comprehensive analysis, visit the &lt;a href="http://www.careerdistinction.com/onlineid/"&gt;Online Identity Calculator&lt;/a&gt; today.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If after evaluating your online identity, you are serious about developing a stronger online brand, I have a turn around strategy for you. Here are my five recommended steps to create a “B-R-A-N-D New U” online.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;B)log&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Start a blog focused in a niche subject area that you would like to become well known. Set yourself a goal of at least 3 posts a week for 6 months. &lt;a href="http://wordpress.org/"&gt;Wordpress&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/"&gt;Blogger&lt;/a&gt; are just 2 of the many free services available. Google rankings are heavily determined by how many links in and out, as well as how fresh is the content of your site. Regular blogging is the easiest and fastest way for an individual to actively increase their rankings. Want to get real serious about blogging? Than subscribe to Darren Rowse’s &lt;a href="http://www.problogger.net/"&gt;ProBlogger&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;R)espond&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Responding to posts on other blogs is the best tip I can give you to becoming an effective blogger, because it forces you to become a blog reader. You will quickly learn what are the most current topics of under discussion in your field. Use &lt;a href="http://www.technorati.com/"&gt;Technorati&lt;/a&gt; to locate the top 10-15 authoritative blogs in your niche. Subscribe to their RSS feeds using &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/reader/"&gt;Google Reader&lt;/a&gt;. Read their posts daily and set yourself a of leaving at least 3 comments a week. Truly contribute to the dialogue, and you will soon find the favor returned.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A)ppropriate&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Assume everything you post online will be accessiable forever and will eventually be linked back to you, including those nasty anonymous comments on a Hollywood gossip blog. Are you sure all the personal information you are posting on &lt;a href="http://www.facebook.com/"&gt;Facebook&lt;/a&gt; is something you’d like to share with strangers ten years from now? Many think public advocacy only means criticizing those in power, but have you ever been impressed with someone who complains all the time without providing solutions? Keep it clean and constructive.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;N)etwork&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The further you progress in your career, the more you understand we are all only as strong as our relationships. The number one rule in networking is that if you want to succeed, help others succeed first. One of the added benefits of using a professional business networking service like &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/08/getting-to-know-linkedin.html"&gt;LinkedIn&lt;/a&gt;, is that Google ranks LinkedIn profiles very highly in its search results. It takes less than an hour to set-up a free profile and invite your friends to join you. In just a couple of months, &lt;a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/gayleroberts"&gt;my business network&lt;/a&gt; there contains 350 people who can help me reach over 1 million professional users on the site.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;D)o It&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We all start as beginners and learn by doing. If as young children we never tried to walk because we were afraid of falling, we’d all still be crawling around on all fours. When I’ve described this B-R-A-N-D New U strategy to others, a common reaction is, “What will I write about?” The great thing is that you don’t need to know, it will come to you. These recommended five steps will not only develop your personal brand, but your personal growth. Today’s thought leaders are bloggers, and by pursuing this strategy you can become one too.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As for the man who called me for fundraising advise? No, it wasn’t Al Gore. It was another good man with a good cause, whose board wasn’t engaged in fundraising, was the sole fundraiser for his agency, and needed help developing back office systems and procedures. Sound familiar? All around the world, our needs are not very different.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally, why did he call me? The answer is simple, because of my strong online personal brand.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/5-steps-to-create-b-r-n-d-new-u-online.html' title='5 steps to create   a “B-R-A-N-D New U” online'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=7416756498233425153' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7416756498233425153'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/7416756498233425153'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-4777760952562528756</id><published>2007-12-12T14:42:00.001-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-12T15:00:16.748-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='SF_Bay_Area'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='DER'/><title type='text'>How fundraising has changed my life</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/royal_queen-735873.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/royal_queen-735869.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Am honored and humbled to announce that I have been elected the president of San Francisco’s &lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;Development Executive Roundtable&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2006/11/center-on-philanthropy-receives-40.html"&gt;Hank Ross&lt;/a&gt;, the godfather of contemporary fundraising, founded DER many decades ago. He had a dream of a group that provided accessible training and peer support to fundraisers at all stages of their careers. Today DER builds thriving organizations and communities by helping nonprofit professionals teach the joy of giving.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those of you who knew Hank, or know of his legacy, he talked a lot about the transformative power of fundraising: the ability to change not only the lives of those who receive, but also those who give gifts.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;However, we do not often talk about the transformative nature of fundraising on those who ask for gifts on behalf of others. What can happen to you when you dedicate your life to fostering generosity in the world? I’d like to share briefly how fundraising has affected me, and the role DER has played in my life.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not too many of us grow up as young children wanting to become fundraisers. Like many of you, I made a mid-career change into this line of work. After being let go of my previous job during the dotcom bust I looked around for other work. Given my background in nonprofit marketing, fundraising wasn’t too big of a stretch. Moreover, if I could learn to raise money, I knew I’d always be employable. It was simply a practical decision.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Soon I went to my first DER meeting, and like many others before and after me, I stood up and introduced myself as an unemployed person hoping to break into the field. That first day I met people who would become my friends and mentors, who would help me find jobs, and whom one day I would later hire.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Like many others, at first I found soliciting gifts very difficult. To be an effective fundraiser, I soon learned I had to come to terms with my own relationship to money and privilege. Over the years, I’ve come to believe that one of the greatest obstacles in raising money is not finding people who will give, but helping people become more comfortable with receiving abundance in their lives. Too many of us in this culture don’t think we are worthy of such attention or affection. In order to foster generosity in others, the first person we need to start with is ourselves. One who is mindful of the practice of fundraising, can develop a spirit of self-acceptance and generosity toward themselves, others and the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today fundraising does help pay my bills, but it is much more than that for me. It is a sacred calling. I believe you and I are inheritors of a tradition of giving and receiving that goes back to our earliest cultural memories. It is at the root of all our major spiritual practices and indigenous cultures. We who help transform the world, cannot help be transformed in the process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you live in the San Francisco Bay Area, I encourage you to &lt;a href="http://www.dersf.org/"&gt;join DER&lt;/a&gt; with me. Individual memberships are only $50. Not too bad a price to pay to transform your life, don’t you think?</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/how-fundraising-has-changed-my-life.html' title='How fundraising has changed my life'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=4777760952562528756' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/4777760952562528756'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/4777760952562528756'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-3869480877656955163</id><published>2007-12-07T07:20:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-12-07T07:34:43.330-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><title type='text'>The 5 keys to individual fundraising success</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/cycle2-748536.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/cycle2-748533.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;For-profit organizations know that developing a new market requires financial risk and takes several years to return a profit. The same can be said for nonprofit individual fundraising. It takes several years of up front investment to develop a strong pool of individual donors, let alone find a return on the initial capital outlay. Success therefore requires leadership committed to a multi-year, 5-part fundraising cycle of planning, prospecting, cultivation, solicitation and stewardship.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Planning&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Internationally know fundraising trainer and consultant &lt;a href="http://www.kleinandroth.com/team.htm"&gt;Kim Klein&lt;/a&gt;, once wrote, "The key to fundraising success is planning, planning, planning and then working your plan." A good fundraising plan is donor-centric. It requires a willingness on the entire agency, from top to bottom, to engage with donors in the most transparent, accountable and professional basis possible. This often requires an internal cultural shift and building the capacity of the organization.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Prospecting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"You already know everyone you need to know to raise money," is one of the truisms of fundraising. Many people think you need to know rich people to be a successful fundraiser. Of course this doesn’t hurt, however wealth is the least reliable indicator of giving. Strength of relationships and the interest in the cause are more reliable factors. Successful fundraising builds on the relationships already in place between an agency, board, staff and community to identify new prospective donors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Cultivation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Prospective donors should be cultivated as agency "friends." If we ask ourselves how we would like to be treated by our own friends, than we have answered the question as to how to treat prospective donors. We should thank them for their interest, maintain regular communication, actively listen to them, spend time with them, be accessible, share information and ask for their advice. New friends whom we want to get to know the best, our major donor prospects, should receive even more regular and personalized interaction from agency leadership.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Solicitation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Many people fear asking others for money or help. Exploring our own personal relationship to money and recognizing that fundraising provides an opportunity for donors to act on their values can often shift this barrier. However, not everyone involved has to ask for money. Fundraising is a team sport. There are always more line roles available than those in the backfield. Yet, without a strong quarterback, there is no point in taking to the field.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Stewardship&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The importance of donor stewardship cannot be over-emphasized. Gifts received by nonprofits are not given to us, but through us in service of the greater community. Donor stewardship includes gift acknowledgement, managing funds effectively, maintaining good donor communication and deepening donor relations. This is good manners as well as good business practice. All gifts should be appreciated. However, the larger the gift, the more personalized the donor attention should be. As a matter of efficiency, cultivation and stewardship activities are often combined.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/12/5-keys-to-individual-fundraising.html' title='The 5 keys to individual fundraising success'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=3869480877656955163' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3869480877656955163'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/3869480877656955163'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-5991911708677420258</id><published>2007-11-23T16:00:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-23T16:31:50.279-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Fundraising_Resources'/><title type='text'>What to look for when prospecting for donors</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/richthammer/141714709/"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/miner-715710.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I was recently asked by someone if, “complete strangers are more generous than close friends?" She asked because she is continually surprised by who donates and who does not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My short and simple answer was “no.”&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My longer answer was that when prospecting for potential donors one traditionally looks for three factors: linkage, interest and ability. The stronger each of these qualities, the more likely your prospect is to make a gift.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Linkage means the closeness of the relationship between you and the potential donor. It is the most critical factor in determining whether someone will be inclined to a good cause. In surveys, the number one reason people give for donating is that someone they knew asked. The fact is, people are more like to give to an individual representing a good cause, rather than a good cause all on its own.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Interest means just that, is the prospect interested in your good cause? How do they spend their time and money, what is their family history, and most importantly, what are their values? At its core, fundraising is simply offering donors an opportunity to act on their values. When you ask somebody to make a donation, you are helping him or her become the hero of their life story by making a difference in the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last -- and of surprisingly least importance -- is ability or how rich someone is. The wealthy may have more money to give away, but statistical speaking lower- and middle-income people give a higher percentage of their wealth than those with higher-incomes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;One other important factor is how routinely has the prospect ever given in the past to other causes? Some people are givers; others are not. Usually this has to do with their own relationship to money, something constructed within all of us at a very early age. It is easier to secure gifts from those who learned “to whom much is given, much is expected.” On the other hand, if they learned, “money is the root of all evil” or “we need to save money for a rainy day,” my friend may have some barriers to overcome. The successful fundraiser is one who actively listens to prospective donors, and through reporting, assessing and reframing helps them build a more healthy and generous relationship to money.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/11/what-to-look-for-when-prospecting-for.html' title='What to look for when prospecting for donors'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=5991911708677420258' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5991911708677420258'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/5991911708677420258'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-1784020098050721041</id><published>2007-11-17T09:21:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-17T09:37:50.844-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Videos_Podcasts'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Activism'/><title type='text'>And the young shall inherit the earth, thankfully</title><content type='html'>&lt;div xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;object height="350" width="425"&gt;&lt;param value="http://youtube.com/v/5g8cmWZOX8Q" name="movie"&gt;&lt;embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" src="http://youtube.com/v/5g8cmWZOX8Q" height="350" width="425"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In 1992, at the age of 12, &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Severn_Cullis-Suzuki"&gt;Severn Cullis-Suzuki&lt;/a&gt; raised money with members of the Environmental Childrens Organization (a group she founded) to travel from Vancouver to speak at the Earth Summit in Rio De Janeiro. Watch this 7-minute video and know there are leaders among us who can be the change. They are our children.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/11/and-young-shall-inherit-earth.html' title='And the young shall inherit the earth, thankfully'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=1784020098050721041' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/1784020098050721041'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/1784020098050721041'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28755507.post-779055007023685754</id><published>2007-11-05T09:09:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2007-11-08T07:32:15.269-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Blogs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Books'/><title type='text'>I'll show you mine, if you show me yours</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/books-742973.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/uploaded_images/books-742971.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; been tagged. Britt Bravo, of the most excellent &lt;a href="http://havefundogood.blogspot.com/"&gt;Have Fun, Do Good&lt;/a&gt; blog, has invited me to participate in a &lt;a href="http://havefundogood.blogspot.com/2007/10/meaningful-book-meme.html"&gt;book meme&lt;/a&gt;. So without further ado:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Total Books I Own&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;275. Thought it would be less, as I enjoy giving away books after reading them. Guess I still have challenges with "letting go."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Last Book I Bought&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Last-American-Man-Elizabeth-Gilbert/dp/0142002836/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194282690&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;The Last American Man&lt;/a&gt; by Elizabeth Gilbert.&lt;br /&gt;If you’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; loved her recent run-away best seller &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Eat-Pray-Love-Everything-Indonesia/dp/0143038419/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194279375&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Eat Pray Love&lt;/a&gt; like both Britt and me, then you'll also enjoy her previous National Book Award finalist looking at life on the other side of the gender line. I'm nearly finished reading this one, and makes me wonder how much her own personal journey of self-discovery in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Eat Pray Love&lt;/span&gt; was inspired by Eustace Conway, the real-life protagonist of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Last American Man&lt;/span&gt;? Also makes me wonder how some people are able to experience life with insight? If I could only live my life with half, no a quarter, no a tenth of the passion Elizabeth or Eustace experience, I'd die happy. But then again, the message of both these artist adventurers is we can. We only need to choose.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Last Book I Read&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="sans"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Co-Active-Coaching-2nd-Skills-Success/dp/0891061983/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194285134&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Co-Active Coaching: New Skills for Coaching People Toward Success in Work and Life&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2"&gt;Whitworth&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3"&gt;Kimsey&lt;/span&gt;-House and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_4"&gt;Sandahl&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;There is nothing I enjoy more than sitting down over a cup of coffee with someone and having a good conversation. So it is no surprise that I am attracted to coaching, which according to this book is the "art of the powerful conversation." What I enjoy about fundraising is its ability to transform lives; coaching has that potential too. I've been seriously considering getting my coaching certificate, because I believe fundraising and coaching together can be very powerful tools for both individual, institutional and social change.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5 Meaningful Books&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Art-Possibility-Transforming-Professional-Personal/dp/0142001104/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194279141&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;The Art of Possibility: Transforming Professional and Personal Life&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_6"&gt;Zander&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_7"&gt;Zander&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;What if we gave each person in our lives an "A plus" grade? What we gave ourselves an "A plus" too? Brimming with optimism, this title written by a husband and wife team argues that life is all invented, so why not invent the life we want to truly live? Filled with engaging antidotes and exercises, it made a believer out of me. Perhaps it will for you too?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/How-Then-Shall-Live-Questions/dp/0553375059"&gt;How Then, Shall We Live?: Four Simple Questions That Reveal the Beauty and Meaning of Our Lives&lt;/a&gt; by Wayne Muller.&lt;br /&gt;I’&lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_8"&gt;ve&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/05/what-is-my-gift-to-family-of-earth.html"&gt;already written&lt;/a&gt; before about this book, given to me as a gift, so no need to write a lot more. Other than to say, isn't there something special about receiving a book as a gift, rather than buying it yourself? Even better when it is unexpected, don't you think? So why wait until the holiday season to bring joy into &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_9"&gt;somebody's&lt;/span&gt; life? Do it today!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/Care-Soul-Cultivating-Sacredness-Everyday/dp/0060922249/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194279101&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Care of the Soul : A Guide for Cultivating Depth and Sacredness in Everyday Life&lt;/a&gt; by Thomas Moore.&lt;br /&gt;Maybe I don’t have to fix everything? In fact, what if within suffering is the source of healing? This is the message of Moore's extraordinary book, which takes a homeopathic approach to what ills our contemporary spirits. Drawing on over 2,500 years of western cultural and spiritual traditions, this Jungian therapist and former Catholic monk, is a literate man of grace and compassion. Reminded me again how important it is to simply treat ourselves, and others, a little more gently.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://http//www.amazon.com/Eat-Pray-Love-Everything-Indonesia/dp/0143038419/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194279375&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within&lt;/a&gt; by Natalie Goldberg.&lt;br /&gt;I used to live in Minneapolis, Minnesota, where among other things I was active in the local literary scene: publishing a community arts newspaper, hosting literary festivals and promoting spoken word artists. One day an editor friend visited my house. He seemed a bit disoriented at first. Then after a long pause he told he had been to this house many times before. This was where Natalie lived a decade before when she wrote her now classic text. Told me how he would come over to her house for a book group; sitting on milk crates they would discuss their dreams of becoming successful writers. See what happens when start sharing your dreams?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/What-Matters-Young-Writers-Artists/dp/0962257435/ref=sr_1_1/002-0292374-0787217?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1194283887&amp;amp;sr=1-1"&gt;What Matters: Young Writers and Artists Speak Out&lt;/a&gt; edited by &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_10"&gt;Jancie&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_11"&gt;Mirikitami&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;Another surprise pick. This poetry collection was written by the children of &lt;a href="http://www.glide.org/"&gt;Glide Memorial Church&lt;/a&gt;, located in San Francisco’s tough Tenderloin Neighborhood. However, I still remember one Sunday listening to the young authors read their work. Afterwards I walked up with tears in my eyes to buy not one, but five copies, so that I would have enough to give away to friends and family members. Rooted in the ethos of the 1960's civil rights movement, Glide is world renowned for its gospel choir and extensive social service programs, including serving up 1.5 million free meals a year out of its basement kitchen. These young authors have lived more by the age of ten than most adults I know.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;5 People to Tag&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So whose book collections would I like to learn more about? Well, here's a short list people I know who occasionally read this blog and have blogs of their own. Perhaps they would like to share what is on their bookshelves with their readers as well?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.tacticalphilanthropy.com/"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.gifthub.org/"&gt;Phil &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_12"&gt;Cubeta&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.philanthromedia.com/"&gt;Susan Herr&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://donttellthedonor.blogspot.com/"&gt;A Fundraiser&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.tacticalphilanthropy.com/"&gt;Sean &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_13"&gt;Stannard&lt;/span&gt;-Stockton&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lentatiblog.com/"&gt;Francesco, &lt;span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_14"&gt;Ioana&lt;/span&gt; and Daniele&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TAG, YOU'RE IT: Don't have a blog? Feel free to add book titles which are meaningful to you to the comments below.</content><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/2007/11/ill-show-you-mine-if-you-show-me-yours.html' title='I&apos;ll show you mine, if you show me yours'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=28755507&amp;postID=779055007023685754' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.gayleroberts.com/blog/feed/atom.xml' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/779055007023685754'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/28755507/posts/default/779055007023685754'/><author><name>Gayle</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01765159653470821033</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author></entry></feed>