Sex is Fun

Special Message from Jade Kaper

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Wed, 12 Oct 2011 06:28:06 PDT

Learn about Jade's most recent discoveries, experiments, musings and such at Jade and Kidder Kaper's new blog Kaperlife.com

SiF #297 - Why Sex is Fun PREVIEW

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 03 Oct 2011 16:56:17 PDT

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As Laura Rad and Gay Rick take over as hosts, they discuss with Coochie what the name "Sex is Fun!" means to them. The gang talks about some of the limits of the name and why being sex-positive is important. Is the gang about to get too nerdy and alienate folks? They wrap things up by talking about goals for the show moving forward.

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SiF #296 Kidder's Farewell Part 2

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 02 Oct 2011 10:37:01 PDT

Kidder Kaper says goodbye to the Sex is Fun Podcast by sharing memories about the most amazing sex party ever. Pansexuality is not a big deal.

Now that Kidder is off the show he can now view and talk about Laura Rad in sexually inappropriate ways.

Coochie has learned to talk dirty and to massage a prostate incredibly well. Coochie gives Kidder an orgasm and the ejaculate was nowhere to be found.

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SiF #295 Kidder's Farewell

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 26 Sep 2011 22:27:39 PDT

Kidder Kaper says goodbye and the team finds out why.

How long has Sex is Fun existed and when was the first broadcast?
Is Kidder leaving for personal reasons?
Is Kidder more or less angry at the world than when he began?
What's going on with the teen sex education series at www.newsexed.com
Are Jade and Kidder Kaper going to become bloggers at www.KaperLife.com

What is going to happen to Sex is Fun now?
Gay Rick and Laura Rad are taking over the show and they have big fan base to serve.

Kidder Kaper's goal with Sex is Fun was to teach the world to be unafraid of sex. He leaves the show knowing that he has.

SiF #294 Big Sex Little Death: A Memoir - An interview with Susie Bright

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 19 Sep 2011 20:35:18 PDT

Who's one of the most influential surviving pro-sex generals from the "feminist sex wars?"

Susie Bright lives a life that is less than ordinary and here is her memoir that spells it out, Big Sex Little Death. Her Audible radio show, In Bed with Susie Bright, has been going strong for over 11 years.

Susie and Laura Rad discuss being pro-sex parents. Why are sexperts the only people who get asked, "do you ever get sick of talking about sex?"

Sif #293 Tarot Card Reading for Coochie!!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:53:18 PDT

After some lengthy discussion about Hermione Jean Granger's breasts, we launch into Coochie's Sexy Tarot reading

What do we learn about Coochie?

Currently she's in a precarious position with a penis touching her clitoris. A lot of risk abounds Coochie's sexual practices right now. In her immediate future, she'll be encountering a lot of hesitancy and restraint revolving a booby-grabbing orgy. The magician appears and that means that her bum has been getting a lot of play and anal sex is an overwhelming part of her intimacy.

Coochie is all about getting off for anyone for any reason. There are rings on the fingers of a lot of these cards, will marriage play a role in Coochie's future?

Sif #292 Tarot Card Reading for Lorax

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 06 Sep 2011 17:43:36 PDT

Lorax is gonna lay back and be selfish while she's being served by many sexual beings. Lorax's recent past includes a lecherous emperor. Lorax is grounded in feminine energy and is surrounded in boobies. Lorax's possible paths all include a lot of bending over and taking it from behind.

Lorax asked the cards how she could get her hubby to share some of his dirty desires with her. The cards say that he likes female ejaculation.

SiF #291 We interview Kidder Kaper from Sex is Fun!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 29 Aug 2011 22:39:53 PDT

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years.

What was Kidder's biggest worry about doing the show when he first began?

Where is the show going?

Kidder discusses entering autumn and his darkest phase of the year and reality that continuing to attempt changing the world is going to continue making some people upset.

Why has Sex is Fun maintained the leading position in the podcast ranks even though established names in sex education have shown up in the podcast medium?

How did you choose your co-hosts and how do each of them contribute to the show?

Kidder talks about how working on the show has affected his relationship with his wife.

Kidder talks about his fleeting contentment with all of his accomplishments.

Kidder Kaper is great friends with some of the staff on the show outside of work, except for Laura Rad, with whom he maintains a purely professional relationship. Kidder remembers a time when he thinks he may have offended Laura Rad.

Kidder talks about his ultimate super-human power if he could have any super power.

Which Star Wars Movie was the very best?

Laura Rad asks out of nowhere, "Are you happy?"

Has Kidder Kaper picked up any new fetishes after being on the show?

Is Kidder a sex snob?

Kidder hates stupid people.

Kidder is Samurai, Jade is Geisha.

If Kidder could have a completely different career, what would it be?

What's up with Bathtalk?

Do you believe in life after death?

What would cause you change your belief in God?

SiF #290 We interview Laura Rad from Sex is Fun!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 06:25:49 PDT

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years.

Laura Rad dusts off the memory of her first time on the show.

What was Laura's most difficult creative disagreement she's had with Kidder?

Where does Laura see the show going in the future? Where does she want the show to go?

What's Laura learning at skool? What's she gonna be when she grows up? Where does one go to skool to have a career in sexual health?

Laura discovered that the universe is kicking her ass into where she's supposed to be.

When Laura graduates and becomes a professional sexual health expert, will she keep her public persona?

Laura Rad discusses humility, books, and worrying about sharing intimate details about her sex life. But she does want her husband to dress up in costume.

How does Laura intend to teach her kids about sex?

Have you ever given any advice that turned out to be bad advice?

Does your husband resent that you spend so much time working on Sex is Fun?

What is your relationship with other SiF members outside of SiF?

Has being on SiF changed your relationship with your other friends?

Have you ever been treated like a famous person for being on SiF?

What is your religious identity?

SiF #289 We interview Gay Rick from Sex is Fun!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 15 Aug 2011 19:31:08 PDT

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years.

Gay Rick recalls his first episode as a guest on the show and being asked to join the staff.

Do you get a lot of feedback from our listeners?

How has being on the show changed your view on sex? Still vulva-phobic?

Gay Rick asks, "What would Kidder Kaper do?" while at a gay bathhouse. WWKD?

Gay Rick comes out as a crazy-hippy and talks about the spiritual side of his sexuality. He looked into witchcraft but it didn't stick. Rick is an empath.

Have you or would you ever kill someone? What puts you in a dark place and causes you to Hulk-OUT?

Do you want a puppy?

Rick tells us how to rid yourself of self-hate and love yourself.

Does Rick like the taste of cum after having an orgasm?

Everyone on Sex is Fun wants to see Gay Rick have sex with another man, except for Laura Rad, who just wants to be friends.

SiF #288 We interview Lorax from Sex is Fun!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 08 Aug 2011 21:36:21 PDT

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years.

This week we interview Lorax!

Has anyone outed you for being on the show?

How has the show helped or hindered your sex life?

Tell us a story from your childhood.

How do you identify?

What is the hottest, sexiest, dirtiest thing you've done lately?

SiF #287 We interview Coochie from Sex is Fun!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 22:22:42 PDT

For the month of August we delve into each hosts' psyches. We interviewed each host in 2008. See how they thought about the world three years ago, and if their outlook on their future will be correct in three years.

First up is Coochie!

Kidder describes Coochie's personality using Winnie the Pooh analogies.

Coochie describes her greatest accomplishments.

Does she miss the days when the show was less professional?

What would make the shows better?

Coochie's FB account is Coo Chie http://www.facebook.com/sexisfuncoochie

Coochie tells a story from her childhood. They are all quite naughty "let's play doctor" stories.

Coochie recalls the first time she experienced cunnilingus.

What kinds of sexual tastes have you developed over time?

Coochie talks about her first sexual experience with another woman.

Coochie describes her perfect relationship.

What's Coochie's favorite video game?

Coochie hates pink!

Where does Coochie LOVE to receive a load of cum?

What's Coochie's ultimate sexual fantasy?

Coochie's advice for young bi-curious women.

Is Coochie shameless?

SiF #286 Boudoir Photos with Natalie Kita

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 19:58:05 PDT

Getshotnaked.com with Natalie Kita
"There's no such thing as an ugly woman, only lazy ones." Coco Chanel

How to weed out the creepy photography subjects.
How to look your best for a boudoir photo shoot.
Makeup, posing, lighting, and Photoshop are your friends!

How to take sexy, seductive photos of men.
Kidder believes you can't.

What should you look for in a good boudoir photographer?
How much does a boudoir photographer cost?

How to find local boudoir photographers.
http://www.boudoirphotographers.net/
Use wedding photographers as references.

Who of the hosts has a sexy naked photo?

We learn Kidder hates sexy photos of men, and what parts he actually thinks can be sexy on a man.

Rick waxes poetically over potential nude photos of Kidder.

SiF #285 Jade's Hot Date

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 19 Jul 2011 00:10:12 PDT

Filmmaker, Kevin Smith, got off while reading Kidder Kaper's book, "Sex is Fun! Creative Ideas for Exciting Sex" and Tweeted it all over the internet.

Laura Rad suggests that we write him a scene for his next film.

Jade tells us about her lady-date with a blogger who is looking for an opportunity to have, "full on lesbian sex" with a super hot woman.

SiF #284 Interview with Queer Porn Icon Courtney Trouble

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 21:32:03 PDT

How do you become the leading director of queer pornography? Our interview with Courtney Trouble will tell you all you know about queer porn including how it is made and who loves to watch it.

Did you know that "chicks-with-dicks" porn is fake and offensive? Neither did Kidder until he asked (which he didn't, but found out anyway).

SiF #283 Homemade Sex is Fun Porn

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 05 Jul 2011 23:00:48 PDT

What kind of people make amateur porn? Apparently it is people like Kidder, Jade, and The Lorax Girl because they made one and in their opinion it is way more fun to watch than any of the pro stuff. How'd this all come about? It started with Jade finding her sexy-self and sending a little movie of her orgasm to a couple of friends. Then came the big idea of making an actual porn with a cheezy story, props, costumes, and a two very sexy women. Kidder has absolutely NO desire to see himself acting in a porno.

Thinks to keep in mind if you should try to make your own porn:
• Natural lighting is your friend
• Modern prosumer gear is better in auto-mode than most shooters are in manual modes
• If you don't have a boom mic operator, hang a shotgun from a light or ceiling fan
• Allow the talent to spend the first 15 minutes doing whatever they want without any direction
• Think about the target audience and take requests for what they want to see in the movie
• Utilize programs that hide files on your system from your kids and co-workers

After the discussion about the porno, Kidder tells a story about being dominated by Jade.

SiF #282 Birds and Bees and Kids Part 2

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 27 Jun 2011 19:48:05 PDT

Amy Lang, from Birds and Bees and Kids, joins us again to answer some tough questions like, "How much information is too much?" and "If my daughter comes to me and I help her get birth control, does that mean I'm also supposed to let her bone her boyfriend in her room whenever she pleases?" Also mentioned in this episode, "Harmful to Minors" a book about protecting kids from sex.

SiF #281 Birds and Bees and Kids

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 21 Jun 2011 20:38:46 PDT

Birds and Bees - What kids should and shouldn't be told about sex.

Do you want your kids to have the same sex talk you did? That is the big question for Amy Lang who's the frontwoman for Birds and Bees and Kids, a website dedicated to helping adults talk to their kids about love, relationships, sex, and whether or not to talk about putting it in the butt.

SiF #280 Cosmo Sex Tips

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 20:46:18 PDT

On tonight's episode we come back to the long promised Cosmo Sex Tips! Learn if the beaded necklace makes a good sex toy. What about nylons? Will you learn a new position or make shift sex toy for the next time you and your partner need a quick fix?

Laura Rad finds the positives of all the tips, while Kidder Kaper's cynicism shines bright.

While Cosmo may not have the best tips, Sex is Fun will set you up with some great ideas for the next time you want to surprise your partner.

SiF #279 - A Long Climb up a Twisted Staircase

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 01:14:21 PDT

Kidder Kaper talks about rebuilding a relationship and THEN Jade and Kidder break in with a brand-spank'n new Bathtalk where Jade tells everyon her side of the story.

SiF #278 - The Downward Spiral (when a great relationship takes a bad turn.

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 31 May 2011 12:23:45 PDT

This was an extremely tough episode for all of us and it reflects an extremely hard time in Jade and Kidder's relationship. This is what's going down. Some references are made to a show we aired back on May 16th. SiF #276 Jade and Kidder's Relationship Changes. There's really not much to say except what is said...

We're hoping for better times in the future for this couple as they do there very best to work it out.

SiF #277 Smitten Kitten Porn Project

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 23 May 2011 15:35:39 PDT

On tonight's episode we interview Benjamin Noble and Jennifer Pritchett from Smitten Kitten, about the new and exciting porn project Benjamin Noble is working on.

CALL FOR CAST MEMBERS ON MAY 27TH!!!!!!

His project is with real people and produced in MN, he needs actors, are you ready to star in a porn!?

APPLICATION INSTRUCTIONS:

• Email jennifer@smittenkittenonline.com

• Include whatever photos you are comfortable with; they will not publish or use them for any reason other than to cast performers. If you would prefer to establish contact with us before submitting photos, feel free to do so via the email address provided. Photos need not be explicit. Your comfort is our first priority.

• Include any questions or concerns you may have. Testimonials from models who participated in test shots we did earlier this month are available.

"Synopsis:

Creating an experimental pornographic film utilizing a nontraditional narrative structure with the goal of advancing the genre as a form of art, entertainment and arousal. Basically, what this means is that porn can be different from what it is now, and we would like to open up the dialogue of what it could be. Some of the themes explored in this project include; the illusory dichotomy of hetero/homosexuality by depicting the fluidity of desire, the sources, causes and subtleties of pleasure that have traditionally been ignored in the visual frenzy of "traditional" and "mainstream" hardcore pornography, and the roles porn plays in both documenting and simultaneously constructing sexual desire. Also, it's going to be hot!"

SiF #276 Jade and Kidder's Relationship Changes.

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 16 May 2011 15:10:54 PDT

Back on March 21st, 2011 we intended to talk about Cosmo Sex Tips, but call Jade and get very distracted. Cosmo Sex Tips, coming up on a future episode!

Jade tells us about changes in her and her relationship with Kidder since they got back from Desire. Jade says she is having an easier time with all has happened since Desire that Kidder has. She finds it interesting how easy and comfortable it is for her to continue her relationship with the man she full-swapped with in Desire and isn't spending much time processing or thinking about it or what it means to her relationship with Kidder.

Jade talks about her, "disclosure glitch." She has a very hard time admitting that she was lying to Kidder but eventually explains that she broke a promise she made to Kidder about full disclosure.

Kidder brings up a conflict between what Jade wants and what Kidder is comfortable giving her. Jade wants to go, meet new people, flirt and make out. Kidder isn't comfortable opening their relationship anymore than it currently is at this time.

Laura Rad wants to know if Jade and Kidder intend to play separately since they aren't comfortable doing the same stuff.

Kidder admits that he's dealing with some debilitating insecurities and won't be able to continue playing unless he becomes completely comfortable with it. Their relationship has incurred some very major trust-threatening setbacks and Kidder is having trouble moving forward.

Kidder asks if there is anything more than time that can fix his insecurity he feels about Jade breaking trusts in the relationship. Gay Rick says that if Jade makes sure to make Kidder feel very special and important in the relationship it will help him cope with the breach in trust. (Stay tuned to future episodes to find out if Jade did this or just did the exact opposite).

Laura Rad suggests that they look into their past and find meaning into the future.

Jade doesn't think that lying is all that big of a deal when she's lying to Kidder. Kidder and the rest of the staff may disagree with her. (Stay tuned to future episodes of to find out if Jade's lies end up not being a big deal or continue and seriously destroy the relationship).

This look into the past is very telling about where their relationship is now.

SiF #275 - Tristan Toarmino gives Sex Advice to Sex is Fun! - mp3

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 09 May 2011 10:58:24 PDT

Do you want to get into working in pornography? Have you ever felt a significant amount of anxiety when you'e seen your partner flirting with someone else? Have you ever had so much anal sex that you hurt your butt? Have you had problems getting your orgasms back after having a baby? Yeah? Us too and Tristan Taormino gives us best sex advice to all of these questions and more.

This episode of Sex is Fun is distributed by SexisFun.net

Sex is Fun is sponsored by:

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Sex is Fun! Creative Ideas for Exciting Sex

SiF #274 Interview with Tristan Taormino

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 02 May 2011 06:51:42 PDT

How can you get over your fears about opening up a relationship? How can you learn how to make anal sex enjoyable for you and your partner? How can you open your partner's mind to the concept of rough sex? Tristan Taormino is a sex educator that has an enormous library of movies and books that help couples make their sex and relationships exciting, fun, safe, and healthy.

Tristan gives us the news on a Sex is Fun exclusive secret. She's working on new project for Cleis Press that is "Super Kinky."

Is it possible to teach yourself how to have orgasms from different kinds of stimulation? If you cannot achieve orgasm from vaginal thrusting, is it even worth trying to change that? Tristan teaches us about patterns that develop through masturbation that may make it more difficult for us to achieve climax in different kinds of positions or stimulation.

SiF #273 Interview with Twisted Monk

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 08:19:20 PDT

On today's show Coochie sits down to talk with Twisted Monk of twistedmonk.com, some of the finest hemp rope in the world.

Coochie probes into the hisotry of twistedmonk.com and then she and Monk wax philosophical about love, family, and open relationships.

SiF #272 Interview with Nina Hartley Part 2

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Thu, 14 Apr 2011 19:12:34 PDT

We continue the interview of Nina Harltey.

NIna Hartley is a porn star, porn director, sex educator, feminist, author, and all around entertaining person to talk with.

How to keep monogamy hot?
How did she transition from a nurse to a sex performer?
Nina tells us all her favorite sex educators.

SiF #271 Interview with Nina Hartley

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 10 Apr 2011 22:54:03 PDT

On today's episode we interview Nina Hartley.

Nina Hartley is a porn star, porn director, sex educator, feminist, author, and all around entertaining person to talk with.

How is she able to perform and get motivated to work?
What is in the sex for her?

SiF #270 Mixing Vanilla and Non-Vanillas

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 15:16:51 PDT

In today's episode Kidder and Lorax discuss a party that went bad.

Learn what not to do when you have a mixed party, how to set rules and keep your vanillas friends from feeling uncomfortable and vice versa.

SiF #269 Interview Kendra Holliday of The Beautiful Kind

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:03:39 PDT

On today's episode we interview Kendra Holliday from The Beautiful Kind.

Kendra came out and is feeling the ramifications of how that affects her life and her child.

Learn all about her views on being an open, sex-positive adult.

SiF #268 Interview with Christopher Ryan

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Fri, 18 Mar 2011 14:19:28 PDT

On today's show we interview Christopher Ryan, the author of Sex at Dawn

Sex at Dawn fills in many holes with evolutionary theory that help us understand sexual evolution.

Learn how Christopher wants his book to affect change, and what his plans are for the future.

SiF #267 Desire Trip Report

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 08:46:06 PDT

Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!

Sex is Fun hosts a trip for 30 couples to the clothing optional, sex inspired resort and spa, Desire in Cancun Mexico.

Interesting Events in this show:

• Guy on guy blow-job in hot tub

• Lorax hosts a 12 person orgy in the great outdoors

• Kidder learns to manage his yucky feelings and knows how to communicate them so that Jade can help him get back to feeling special.

• Lorax is the cruise director.

• Jade finds a man (Dr. Hoot) that she's very attracted to and realizes that her attraction to him and the connection she's made with him is making her feel a new desire to go further than they ever have before

• Kidder and Jade begin communicating in a whole new way and it is good

• Kidder and Jade plan a full swap which half becomes a reality

• Kidder, Jade, Lorax and Jade have a slumber party

• Lorax and Kidder Kaper engage in an epic make-out session that ends 5 years of pent up sexual tension

• Kidder, Jade, Lorax, FKS, Dr. Hoot and, Mrs. Hoot have a Sixum

• Reclamation sex is good

• Lorax and FKS hook up with a hot British couple that rock and can rock all night long

• Lorax notices that FKS is being distant and realizes that perhaps her hickey collection is making him uncomfortable

• FKS is working on his communication skills, Kidder is trying to be a bit more like FKS

Listen to the Enhanced Podcast now!

SiF #266 Sex on the Swingset is Fun! - First Impressions from Desire!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 15:12:07 PST

Kidder, Lorax, Cooper and Marylin sit down at Desire and give first impressions on the resort.

You'll learn about guy on guy action, how emotions can become super intense, and how everyone's relationships are growing and changing.

Learn more about Life on the Swingset

Join Smitten Kitten and Ana Voog on March 11th! Selections from Ana Voog's webcam on display.

SiF #265 - Sex News and Product Reviews Part 2

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 07 Mar 2011 13:52:00 PST

Listen to the show now!

We finish the review show with a correction on the Xplozion Pills. Kidder was right, Lorax was wrong.

Coochie finds she likes a little vibrating action in her ass with the Trinity Vibrating Butt Plugs! Read Coochie's Article.

Laura Rad, Rick and Lorax review the entire line of products from Good Clean Love. They all have different opinions on the Body Candy, Love Oil, and Personal Lubricant. Read Rick's Article, read Laura Rad's Article

Kidder has his favorite product of the year and it's only March, with the Liberator Heart Wedge. Read Kidder's Article.

Listen to the show now!

SiF #264 - Sex News & Product Reviews

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 06:13:42 PST

Here is the show file for download.

Lorax and Kidder are having it out with each other at the beginning of this show. It is winter and they both need a tropical vacation.

Kidder's teen sex education comic book series is being produced as we speak. Money is starting to flow in and it may perhaps be time to create a non-profit organization and separate all our teen sex educational efforts from our adult sex ed. Craig Gross and Kidder have continued lengthy discussion about the comic series and finished the first book to be written by Kidder with Craig as an adviser. Heather Corinna from Scarleteen.com opts to not help us with the Teen Sex Education Series because of Craig Gross's involvement which means that she won't be involved with the comic series at all. This bums us out because we thought she was super cool.

Dildo Product Review - Real Deal Cock and Balls
Gay Rick tests so many butt toys that he gets a hemorrhoid.

Real Deal Dildo - $16.95

Product Review - OOO Boutique Condoms

These condoms are small (as in made for smaller penises) expensive, but nicely packaged.

Product Review - Xplozion Ejaculation Pills

Kidder goes headstrong into the shit-storm once again and reviews a penis pill. Xplozion pills are supposed to make your ejaculations massive. Kidder and Gay Rick take two and head off to the hand-job room to see if they work.

SiF #263 - Mormon Porn

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 14 Feb 2011 11:04:57 PST

Download SiF #263 - Mormon Porn??

Max works for a company that produces gay porn staring Mormons for Mormons. In this most interesting show we learn all about the complete and utter insanity that is the Mormon faith, including magic underwear. Mormons aren't known for being gay-friendly, in fact they are quite often the most politically active opposition for gay rights that currently exist in America. They've taken control of the BoyScouts and have integrated themselves into a massive number of very profitable businesses. It is very likely that you are unknowingly funding their sex-negative, anti-homosexual dirty politics by simply buying the products that you use every single day.

So www.mormonboyz.com exists to help gay Mormon men escape the insanity by providing a revenue stream for them so that they have some support as their church and family disown them from the world that they were born into.

SiF #262 - Advanced Masturbation for Improving Sexual Performance

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 11:49:07 PST

Today Kidder goes over one of his talks from the Adult Entertainment Expo while the rest of the hosts sit in and offer critiques.

We learn all about Advanced Masturbation for Improving Sexual Performance!

Watch the Complete Presentation now!

SiF #261 - When Good Orgies Go Bad

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 31 Jan 2011 15:05:23 PST

SiF gets a letter from a listener who's recently experienced her first group sex play and learned later that her husband snuck in a little PiV action while she was rounding up a double-ended dildo in the other room. She had a great time but is hurt by the fact that he broke the rules.
She writes,

Hey Kidder -- My husband and I had two very hot and sexy single friends over last night. We all ended up naked in the kitchen and fooling around...and that leads me to my question. I'll break it down like this: The good news is that I finally got some girl on girl action. It was awesome! I got to play with boobies, finger her and eat box! :) I thought the whole thing went swimmingly well until my husband told me The Bad News: my he had some P.I.V. action with the other girl, which happened on the staircase while going to get a toy. I was not there. It was minimal, in and out 2 times before they recovered their senses and stopped. We were all pretty tipsy, and we didn't discuss boundaries before our impromptu sexytime. That may make me a very irresponsible SIF listener, but be that as it is...I feel SO betrayed and hurt. Alan KNOWS my boundaries with PIV and also with this particular woman. We've spent 9 years rebuilding the trust he broke when he cheated on me before we were married. I also feel like he ruined a perfectly INCREDIBLE, hot sexy encounter with our two friends. As you know, I've never done that before, it was a huge and much anticipated experience for me, and I think it rocked except for my seriously hurt feelings and his whackadooooo bullshit PIV action. :( Anyway, I'm pretty confused and I'm trying to be cool about it. He knows how I feel.

Thanks for listening, any advice from you, Jade, or anyone else would be helpful and welcome.

ps--Salt on the wound: I surprised him and got an iud for xmas so we could be fluid bonded, and now I want him to get screened for STIs, because the PIV was not protected. I'm so bummed. What is the incubation period?

pps--It's nice to hear you dropping the F-bomb again :)

SiF #260 - Adult Entertainment Expo (After Parties)

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 24 Jan 2011 16:27:00 PST

We have a few drinks with Greg Delong of Njoy Toys. Kidder discovers that Nina Hartley is a fan of what Sex is Fun does. WOW! Kidder also discovers that Jamye Waxman is also a big fan of the show and book. Smitten Kitten knows how to throw a party. Extreme Restraints takes us out for dinner and we talk extreme toys and board games. Gay Rick went out with Smitten Kitten to a gay d ance club and has a fantastic time. Kidder kicks ass at craps.

Gay Rick ditches the straights and heads out to get laid, which he

does. Lorax and Kidder go to the Kasidie after-party at the Green Door on-premise Sex Club. Kidder makes stupid mistake after stupid mistake but eventually just ends up making out with a hot woman who makes it all A-OK. Then Ron Jeremy walks in...

Porn is dying as free access to porn is killing the industry. The industry is beginning to realize that the prices on our games are reasonable as every other sex game sucks.

Awesome people we met/saw:
Ron Jeremy
Jen Pritchett of Smitten Kitten
Greg Delong
Kasadie
Buck Angle
Nina Hartley
Jamye Waxman

SiF #259 - AVN & AEE Conference 2011 (part 1)

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 17 Jan 2011 18:29:00 PST

If you've ever wanted to know what it feels like to go to the AVN conference, listen to this show. While waiting for the taxi at the airport we played the game, "One of Ours?" to see if we could correctly guess who was headed to AVN or to the CES conference. The flags are simple. People who go to porn shows have a lot of bling, flash, and "look-at-me" flair on them.

Kidder's talks were difficult to present due to all the strippers everywhere. Kidder also was invited into a sex educators panel which was one of the most important things he did at the show.

Kidder met with the various churches that were there to save all the porn addicted heathens at the show. One church was called "The Naked Truth," The other was called "XXXChurch." Kidder showed Craig Gross the teen sex ed comic series and Craig liked it and proposed they do it together.

Awesome people we met/saw:
Buck Angle
Leo Laporte
Nina Hartley
Jamye Waxman
Craig Gross

SiF #258 - Pride Parade 2010

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 16:46:00 PST

While we're away at the AVN conference, Coochie gets an HIV and Syphilis test at the Pride Festival. Listen to Laura Rad, Gay Rick and Coochie as they wander around pride and interview all the happy people.

SiF #257 - The Tarot & the Mysteries of Love & Sex

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 21:29:00 PST

In this episode the Tarot tells Kidder what he should expect this year when it comes to love and sex. Sexy tarot cards provided by www.oestarapublishing.com.

The gang also discusses a male blogger who recently made the news after he got caught pretending to be a female sex educator who was also soliciting illicit photos from underage peeps over the internet.

Listen to the episode now.

SiF #256 - Anal Lube Increasing Chance of Infection?

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 20 Dec 2010 16:02:00 PST

Kidder Kaper talks to the people who don't like the fact that he uses the F-word or the Frak-word. He'd like you all to relax and grow up. Some of the lube we're using to make our butts slippery may not be good for us. Other lubes are great at making butt sex fun without wiping out our beneficial anal bacteria.

SiF #255 - 2010 Holiday Buyer's Guide

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 07 Dec 2010 19:11:00 PST

This year's picks for the best sex products.

Listen to the show Now!

Wet & Slippery

Boy Butter Personal Lubricant

Dear Santa,

This year has truly been a year of self-exploration. And by this I mean masturbation. Lots and lots of masturbation. Really...a lot of it. I mean at least two times a day on work days. So, it is with this in mind that I ask you for my Holiday Buyer's Guide Pick-of-the-Year: Boy Butter Personal Lubricant.

Now Santa, I understand you're probably thinking - that Gay Rick is such a f$%&#*g sell-out; Boy Butter is his freakin' sponsor on the Sex is Fun podcast. But Santa, everyone knows my favorite anal sex lubes; this is my masturbation lube. I want to use this to pull one out before watching Matt Lauer on the Today Show and to squirt on the wall behind me after Chelsea Lately.

This stuff stays slick when I'm choking the chicken. As you probably [creepily] know, I like to jack off for an hour at a time. Reapplication is rare. When I'm getting a hand job, I hate it when my partner needs to stop in order to reapply lube. In order to change the world, I want you to give this to every masturbating man out there. If I were Oprah, I'd give a bottle of this to the 300 screaming soccer moms in my studio audience so they could give world-class stroke jobs.

You're probably wondering if this stuff is going to be safe with my sex toys. You know what, Santa? Boy Butter can be used with silicone, rubber and glass sex toys. All this stuff will do is aid the process of cramming something up my ass!

This coconut oil-based lubricant is blended with an organic silicone ingredient that is often used in massage oils and hair conditioners. As I'm sure you're aware, when I'm a decent boy, I use conditioners to jack off my partners in the shower. If you were to bring me numerous bottles of Boy Butter, I'd use that instead in order to give hand jobs while lying in my bed post drunken-debauchery. Then I'd always be on the Nice List.

As you probably know from your stalker-like watching of the world's population, most of the silicone lubes that I like stain my sheets. I'm pretty sure you can find stains all over my bed from the activities that put me on your Naughty List. If Rudolph were to buck-kick bottles of Boy Butter down the chimney clogging the flume, my computer chair would be stain-free. I would only need to throw down a hand-towel to catch my jizz instead of the full-size, plush, jumbo-towel that protects the chair from my lube and seed.

Post-coitus my room reeks of sex - nasty, piggy, upside-down, face-in-the-pillow, screaming-so-loud-the-neighbors-two-floors-up-can hear, toe-curling sex. Let's be honest - jizz and butt-sex have some pretty obvious odors. And to be even more honest, that's all I want to smell. Not some glycerin-filled lube. Boy Butter is odorless which is why your pudgy, little hands need to wrap up 30 bottles to put under my XXX-mas tree.

I do indeed remember that this is an oil-based lubricant and should not be used with latex condoms. As your fat-ass is probably also aware of, I am a HIV educator. This stuff will wear down latex. It should only be used for masturbation or if I'm having sex with a fluid-bonded partner.

So Santa, bring me some Boy Butter Personal Lubricant. If you're good, I may even give you a handy.

BFF,

Gay Rick

P.S. Please don't worry about me thinking about Mrs. Claus' cookies. I'm gay.

LELO Personal Moisturizer

LELO Personal Moisturizer is an unscented, glycerin and paraben-free water- based lube. It is safe to use with all of your favorite LELO toys. You can also use it condoms and silicone toys.

LELO Personal Moisturizer comes in 75mL (2.5 fl. oz.) and 150mL (5 oz.) sizes so you can even pack it in your carry-on. The 75mL bottle comes with a convenient flip top for single-handed use, and the 150mL bottle is equipped with a pump.

The consistency is fairly thin so be aware when you pop the top so as not to use too much. A little bit goes a long way with this! Have no fear if too much comes out of the bottle and drips onto your sheets - it wonʼt leave a stain and will come right out in the wash.

We have all used lube that is not exactly delightful to the taste buds, but LELO Personal Moisturizer Is surprisingly sweet - likely due to the Aspartame. Other ingredients include Aloe Barbadensis leaf juice, Guarana extract, and Ginseng extract. As I would expect from LELO, they fully disclose the ingredients so you can be an informed consumer!

If you are looking to expand your LELO collection beyond toys, then pick up a bottle of LELO Personal Moisturizer and let the orgasms begin!

Tristan Taorminoʼs Rough Sex 2

I was extremely excited when Vivid released Tristan Taorminoʼs Rough Sex DVD in 2009. Chock full of really hot fantasies, Rough Sex was one of my favorite porn flicks last year. You can imagine my excitement when I heard wind of Rough Sex 2! Rough Sex 2 depicts six different fantasies and pushes farther into the realm of BDSM.

Rough Sex 2 features some of the same sexy stars as the first film, and introduces some new hotties to the mix. Adrianna Nicole, Madison Young, Dylan Ryan, James Deen, Bobbi Starr, and all the others offer up fantasies from food to pony play, knives to strap-ons and gang bangs to spanking. There is something for everyone!

Each scene begins with an interview of all the actors involved so you hear a bit of background before you see their scenes play out. In addition to the assurance that all the actors are engaging in consensual sex, itʼs a really nice touch to get to know the actors and hear about their desires before watching the super hot sex!

If you are looking for some new things to fantasize about or try out in real life, Rough Sex 2 will give you plenty of ideas!

Reviewed by Coochie

Lelo Siri

Coochie's Review

The SIRI is the newest exquisite vibrator from LELO. Following the style of the MONA and INA, the SIRI offers a small yet incredibly powerful vibrator perfect for those who are looking for something more compact. The SIRI has six different modes to offer you just the right thing at that crucial moment.

The small size guarantees a concentrated vibration, for those who want direct stimulation. But donʼt be fooled by its size - the SIRI packs a lot of power while measuring low on decibels. You will feel the vibration in your hand, due to its small size. If this bothers you I would steer you towards the MONA, IRIS, ELISE, LIV, or GIGI that will put more distance between your hand and the motor.

The SIRI is good for use with partners. Its small footprint nestles well between bodies, though it is a little bulkier than the NEA and LILY. It will also easily fit into luggage, handbags, or glove compartments so you can take it anywhere you go. It even comes with a carrying pouch. With its locking feature you will be able to conserve battery power and avoid a mysterious buzzing sound at an inopportune moment.

Unlike the rest of the LELO vibrators, the SIRIʼs controls are on the top. This makes it impossible to access them with oneʼs thumb and I found it a little difficult to change the settings while in use. I was able to quickly orient myself with each of the four buttons so as not to accidentally change the mode.

The SIRI is a great addition to the newer line of LELO vibrators and will round out your collection nicely so youʼre sure to have the right tool for the right orgasm!

Lorax's Review

The SIRI is a small rechargeable vibe that fits in your hand. It is slightly bigger than the the LELO NEA and LILY. It claims to be the most powerful LELO vibe.

The SIRI is contoured to nestle between your labia and focus the vibrations on your clitoris. I found the shape of the SIRI did a very good job of focusing the vibrations to your clitoris and keeping the rest of your labia from becoming numb.

The SIRI is fully adjustable, with constant vibration and various pulsating modes. I found the constant vibration modes to be the most useful. The SIRI is also amazingly quite, you will be able to use it with another person laying right next to you and they will not know.

The SIRI is larger than the NEA or LILY, and therefore is a little awkward to use during intercourse. In standard missionary position it got in the way and was uncomfortable to keep between you and your partner. In doggie-style position it was easier to hold in place and keep from being pressed into my pubic bone, but the vibrations are focused to such a spot that you want to place it lower on your labia, and it did get in the way of the penetration.

As with all LELO products the SIRI is rechargeable and runs for four hours once charged. It comes in a black case with a satin pouch, in red, purple, or pink.

Lelo's New Bondage Line

Intima Silk Blindfold

Tired of the knots on you neckties coming undone? Intimidated by blindfolds from your local kink store? Annoyed with the handkerchief slipping down your partner's face while you're trying to surprise them with a nipple-pinch? The LELO Intima Silk Blindfold may be just what you need.

This sensual, elegant silk blindfold adds an element of intrigue and surprise to your sexual rendezvous. In true LELO form, the Intima comes in enticing and rich colors - purple, black and red. Never worry about buckles or snaps again! The 1.5" (4.5cm) width Intima wraps around the head and keeps a snug fit with its elastic adjuster on the back of the head. In all, the silk blindfold fits heads just over 25" (64cm) around; make sure to measure your head because the Intima can feel snug at first. Just like tight clothing, it will loosen up with time the longer and more frequently it is worn. The gentle silk is breathable, eliminating uncomfortable eye-sweat.

Pair the Intima Silk Blindfold with other LELO accessories such as the Tantra Feather Teaser, the Boa Pleasure Ties, or to really ramp it up, the Sensua Suede Whip. The Intima provides the framework for new sexual experiences that will keep your partner on their toes.

Review by Gay Rick

Tantra Feather Teaser

Review by Gay Rick

Lelo®, purveyor of high-quality toys, has taken a dive into the world of sensation play with this fun, new toy: the Tantra Feather Teaser. This luxurious 8.5" erotic tool combines a polished metal and acrylic handle with soft, down feathers that come in three, royal colors: black, red and purple.

Put on a bowtie and a pair of briefs, or some stilettos and an apron while your partner watches you gently dust the insides of their thighs, along their ribs and around their nipples. Add an element of control to the experience by blindfolding your partner as you tease shivers of delight out of them. Take it a step further by tying them to the bed while you elicit uncontrollable laughter from deep within them by brushing the underside of their feet.

The metal and acrylic handle has noticeable weight; add gentle impact-play to your sex session. Tap the inside arches of your partners feet, the insides of their thighs, their buttocks or any large muscle. The change in sensation will keep your partner clueless as to what you'll do next.

This gift may seem small but with a creative mind it provides enormous sensation. To add an element of anticipation, give your partner a coupon promising an evening of sexual delight and sensation overload. For $24 USD, the Lelo® Tantra Feather Teaser is the gift that continues to surprise even after it is unwrapped.

Review by Coochie

LELO is expanding their line of products into the world of non-mechanical luxurious accessories. If you are looking to tease your partnerʼs nipples, tickle their inner thighs, or heat up their hind end the Sensua Suede Whip is the right toy for you. Its attractive translucent acrylic and metal handle fits comfortably in oneʼs hand, allowing accurate control over the 8.5-inch falls.

The suede is very soft, so it makes for a great toy for the novice user. For more advanced players it is a nice addition to oneʼs collection, offering a nice warm up, sensory experience, or learning tool. Swung hard enough there is a bit of a bite to the Sensua Suede Whip, but due to the soft suede its effects are relatively short-lived.

The LELO Sensua Suede Whip is also a nice toy for use on those delicate body parts like breasts, thighs, armpits, vulvas, and penises. Its short length will allow you to come closer to your partner and make eye contact as you treat their body to various sensations. Just be aware that it is suede and will be difficult to clean if you are concerned with safer sex measures.

If youʼre looking to add to your collection a versatile toy that travels well and tantalizes all the senses, check out the LELO Sensua Suede Whip.

Fun Factory Cobra Libre

BZZZZ...BZZZZ....BZZZ...BZZ...BZZZ

Is that your cell phone, good sir? Oh my! That certainly is not your cell phone! That's the newest toy from Fun Factory, the Cobra Libre and it's resting on the head of your cock!

The Cobra Libre is Fun Factory's latest product to enhance male masturbation. It is 6" x 3" with a 2 ½" sleeve for penetration. The plastic body is wrapped around a colorful, silicone sleeve. It is sleek, easy to hold and comes in a variety of colors.

Typically, male masturbation toys are either stroking devices or prostate stimulators; the Libre provides a third option - two motors that vibrate independently, stimulating the glans (head) of the penis. This new experience can help make a firm erection steel-hard.

The sleeve is put directly onto the head of the cock. The user then decides whether to hold it still, use short thrusts, roll it around, or all of the above. Some men may be able to ejaculate from the sensations. In order to promote ejaculation, abstain from regular masturbation prior to using this glorious toy. Sex is Fun recommends using a water-based lubricant prior to penetrating the toy.

The Cobra Libre has varying motor speeds, which shapes a unique masturbatory session - enjoy short, strong pulses followed by long, mild pulses; maximize your pleasure with one ongoing vibration. This toy may be overwhelming for those with a sensitive glans.

Up the ante by restraining your partner and then using the Libre to edge them to the brink of orgasm; the hands-free orgasm can be shocking and most welcome. Try the Cobra Libre this holiday season - your cock (or your partner's) will thank you.

Review by Gay Rick

Feeldoe More

I canʼt say enough about the Feeldoe line of toys! These strapless strap-ons are great for more spontaneous sex and an open, free feeling. The Feeldoe More offers well, more! More length, more girth, and more pleasure. I particularly enjoy it because other versions have left me wanting more length, due to the position of the dildo. With the Feeldoe More I feel I have plenty of length to position myself in just the right spot to get my partner off.

With more girth and length comes more weight, so this will really give your muscles a workout. Iʼve found a couple different positions work better than others to help keep the dildo in place. On the occasions where my thrusting was so vigorous that I couldn't keep my grip, I held onto the base of the More and used my arms to finish the job.

Despite its apple red color I really feel like the Feeldoe More is my cock and thoroughly enjoy fucking my partners. It offers up a great view, a rare treat that is different from my usual perspective. The design works well for vaginal, anal and oral sex. And letʼs not forget that itʼs a great cock to masturbate with!

Check out the Feeldoe More and open your world to more pleasure.

Review by Coochie

Pump It Up

Draw a bath and soap up your goodies. You'll want them clean and fresh for the experience you are about to have with his extraordinary new toy. It is the The Bathmate Hydro Penis Pump and it is a revolutionary negative pressure device. Unlike other penis pumps that use negative air pressure with a vacuum pump, The Bathmate gently sucks your penis with warm water. The result is a sensation that rivals the feeling of a warm mouth with the vacuum pressure that exceeds any air pump we've tried.

It is quite easy to use. Simply submerge it under water and allow it to fill completely so that it is completely void of air. Then place it over your penis and push it downward. As you press down water will be squeezed out of the one-way valve at the top. Then simply let go of the contraption and the device will begin to engage sucking you inside with all its might. Watch through the plastic as you swell inside to gargantuan proportions. When you feel as though you are ready for more just press it a little more tightly to your body and it will increase its suction on you like a thirsty prostitute named Trixy.

When you've had enough fun getting sucked harder than you've ever believed possible, simply break the seal around the base and it will slowly release you and your greatly enlarged member.

Negative pressure increases circulation which increases sensation as well as girth and length. The resulting erection is one that is larger but somewhat softer than the standard variety. The kind of cock that is perfect for oral sex or any activity where fullness is more important than

stiffness.

Review by Kidder Kaper

Outlaw Leather Harnesses

Outlaw Leather is a small company that makes great quality harnesses. Their harnesses are two-strap, made of leather and sit lower than many others. Their design places the hole for the dildo directly on your pubic mound allowing the harness to rub against your clit with use. The makes the harness extremely fun for both people! The lower placement also makes the harness very stable and the dildo very easy to control.

I have found while using my Outlaw Leather harness I can get into just the right angle and position to cum. I can thrust while rubbing my clit against the harness and the movement is the kind of movement the bottom likes as well. Some find the straps of the harness rub against their skin a little, and this can easily be solved by wearing it over a sexy pair of panties, or by placing a small piece of cloth between the harness and their pubic mound.

Outlaw leather's unique design of two holes allows the wearer to use a double ended dildo, or two dildos and penetrate themselves while they are penetrating someone else. The holes are offset just a tad, so I have always used two separate dildos, but with a little adjusting a double ended dildo should work as well.

If you find during play that you want to change the dildo, Outlaw Leather has made this rather easy. The face plate of the harness unsnaps allowing you to easily change out the dildo without removing the harness. Outlaw Leather includes a single O ring and a single nitrile ring. My recommendation to make this even easier is to buy a couple extra nitrile rings, place them on your dildos before you begin and then you are able to just re-snap the harness with the new rings and not worry about shoving the new dildo through the same ring.

Outlaw leather makes several different styles. Whether you are looking for something a little feminine or something more punk, they have you covered.

Reviewed by Lorax

Sex is Fun - Creative Ideas for Exciting Sex

From sex educator Kidder Kaper comes the first fully illustrated sex manual to blend a graphic novel format with interactive exercises. Carefully designed to include all genders, orientations, and preferences, this book really does have something for everyone.

Sex is Fun, The Book - $20

Games for Couples

Sex is Fun, Game.

Open up to your partner and start communicating in ways that make sexual exploration easy and fun. Find out how well you know your partner and get ready to move your relationship to the next level of sexual adventure. Seven different banks of cards challenge you and your partner to explore desires, fantasies, and predict each other's next move. Six completely different card categories allow for daring, wagering, bluffing, and competing with each other to take it a step further with each card drawn. No other game that has existed before or since has been this easy to play, and covered such a wide variety of sexual interest. Pick up a copy and unleash the sexual potential of your relationship today.

Unpredictable.

Do you ever feel like you are doing the same old routine in the bedroom? Unpredictable will get you out of that rut. Take ten minutes to sit down with your partner(s), deal each person four cards and let the fun begin. By game's end you will have determined foreplay, core-play, intercourse, and after-play. With over 50 cards to choose from and thousands of possibilities, sex has never been so varied and spontaneous!

The ultimate gift for couples

Sex is Fun Trip to Desire

Spend a week in a clothing optional paradise with your friends from Sex is Fun. Experience a sensual Eden of sexual permissiveness with a whole bunch of friendly and open minded people. Take the trip of a lifetime and give your relationship an experience that will bring you enough intimacy and excitement to serve you both for the rest of your lives together.

Desire in Cancun, February 19th-26th 2011. It isn't just a vacation, it is a fantasy come true.

Desire in Cancun - $510 Per night

Sex Games for Parties

The Adventures of Dick & Virginia

Through Dick and Virginia, you and your friends will compete to give the best advice. Find out how well your advice is received and how other players handle sex and relationship quandaries. Challenge your friends to a contest of scruples, persuasion, and friendly debate over the most common sex and relationship issues.

The Adventures of Dick & Virginia - $13

Super Thoughts & Actions Daredevil

If Truth and Dare got a mainline injection of steroids and aphrodisiacs and ate nothing but a diet of hardcore pornography, it would still be only a fraction of fun compared to this latest release of the classic Thoughts and Actions party game. Made for all players regardless of orientation or relationship status.

Super Thoughts & Actions - $30

SwingSet - The Card Game

Swing Set challenges players to fulfill sexy adventures with each other in a fast-paced, competitive arena that is unlike anything you have played before. Whether you are a woman interested in trying some girl-on-girl activities or a guy who'd like to be buried up to his eyeballs in warm naked breasts, this game has something for you.

SwigSet - $20

Sex is Fun Spin The Bottle

From sex-educator Kidder Kaper of the Sex is Fun Podcast, book and adult party games comes the most advanced version of spin the bottle you will ever play. Tell the game whether you want to kiss men, women or both, and secretly opt out of kissing certain individuals. Available for iPhone, iPod Touch, and iPad.

Sex is Fun Spin the Bottle for iPhone and iPad - $2

SiF # 254 - Vagina

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 29 Nov 2010 19:36:00 PST

Laura Rad wants to talk about vagina, so we do. She's noticed some changes to her vagina since she gave birth and is worried that it may not return to its former glory.

Voicemails in this episode:
• Response to the worry of a Muslim nation, the answer is Turkey!
• Kidder's anxiety drives him to do good and important work.
• Make the teen sex ed series of comics because the world NEEDS it!
• A poly-lesbian-bisexual-genderfluid couple that has not had sex yet is going to use the Sex is Fun book as a springboard to kick off their relationship, after they get back together.
• Gratuitous backslapping for the show.

SiF# 253 - Teen Sex Ed Comic Series too Offensive to Publish?

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 15:12:00 PST

Laura Rad is back from having a baby! Kidder's been busy working on a new teen sex ed series that has scared the heck out of even really open minded sex educators. Get a first glimpse of it at http://www.sexisfun.net/teensite.html

SiF# 252 - Sex Before, During and After Pregnancy

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 14 Nov 2010 15:08:00 PST

Laura Rad and Coochie discuss the kind of sex you have while trying to get pregnant, while you are pregnant, and after the baby arrives.

Then we learn about a new lube from BoyButter, it is fresh and refreshing. It is BoyButter Fresca! Call in and leave a message for the show at 206-350-8823.

SiF #251 - 5th Anniversary Show for all the fanboys, girls and people with both.

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 07 Nov 2010 15:27:00 PST

Lorax, Coochie and Kidder look back five years and discuss all that has changed. Kidder now has some grey hair, Lorax is a full swap swinger, and Coochie has become a hardcore BDSM freakazoid. Lorax is now Kidder's boss and can fire him whenever he gets out of line. Coochie and Lorax have IUDs and use the Diva Cup to keep their menstruation where it belongs. What should they do with their menstrual blood now? Coochie thinks she should use it to fertilize her herb garden.

Kidder looks like a douche-bag with a mohawk. Lorax talks to Kidder about his abrasive nature. Kidder's doctor thinks he needs to be treated for anxiety.

SiF #250 - Erotica #4

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 01 Nov 2010 17:41:00 PDT

Lorax and Coochie read some naughty stories for your enjoyment. Kidder gives all the fecalphiliacs what they've been waiting for.

SiF #249 - Erotica #3

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Thu, 28 Oct 2010 19:08:00 PDT

Tonight we Kidder reads an erotic story that he wrote for Jade and Gay Rick reads a steamy tale from his favorite erotic author.

SiF #248 - Breastfeeding and Boning

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 02:30:00 PDT

Laura Rad and Coochie discuss all the amazing changes that occur when you squeeze a baby out of your vagina.

SiF #247 - A New Sex Game (Enhanced Podcast)

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 00:20:00 PDT

Listen to this show RIGHT NOW!

GreatSexGames.com has been selling the finest sex games and adult party games that has ever been created since 2003. In this podcast we review all of the games and introduce a brand new game that is going to rock your world. Be sure and visit sexisfun.net.

SiF #246 - Live at the Smitten Kitten (part 2)

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 14:59:00 PDT

This show was recorded live before a studio audience at the Smitten Kitten in Minneapolis. We must apologize for the audio, despite Coochie's best efforts, she neglected to turn on a few of the microphones. Oops.

The audience asks Sex is Fun some personal questions in this half, including, "What it the most embarrassing sexual experience of your lives?" and, "What was the dirtiest thing you've ever done?" That is when Coochie tells us that bukake is not all that big of a deal, it is just fun. Kidder tells the audience about his very first experience with group sex.

SiF #245 - Live at the Smitten Kitten

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 26 Sep 2010 23:43:00 PDT

SiF #244 - I Dare You with Susie Bright

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 20 Sep 2010 16:26:00 PDT

Today Susie Bright joins the cast on the Sex is Fun show to talk about her game, "I Dare You!" Of course our conversation runs the gamut from games, to g-spots, to Ricky Lake.

SiF #243 - Erotic Dream Interpretation

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 13 Sep 2010 17:48:00 PDT

Kidder can't ever seem to get laid in his dreams and on the rare occasion he does, he can't ever achieve orgasm.

The gang discusses the sex dreams they've had.

We do our best to interpret the erotic dreams of our listeners.

SiF #242 - Aftercare and Kreplit Theory

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 15:03:00 PDT

Aftercare and Kreplit theory. You know that feeling after really intense sex that lets you know you need a little extra emotional care? We do and we're going to talk about that. What should you do when you do not have the energy or the desire to give your partner aftercare? What should you do if your partner won't give you aftercare?

Kreplit: A unit of time and energy, love and affection that you have to give yourself and others in your life. Everyone needs a certain amount to be happy and content and everyone has a finite amount to give to others. Some need more than others and some have more to give than others. Coined by sex educator, author, and podcaster, Kidder Kaper on the Sex is Fun show to help make people aware that non-monogamyrequires you to understand how much time, energy, love and affection you have to give to each new relationship you start.

Lorax and Kidder recently encountered a kreplit famine and it resulted in some strange behaviors. Introverts regenerate kreplits from being alone and extroverts regenerate kreplits from spending time with other people. Coochie is solar powered so she can save Kidder and Lorax from falling into a hideous vortex of spiraling kreplit deficit.

SiF #241 - Write Congress about Pro-Sex Issues

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 13:08:00 PDT

Sex shouldn't be a partisan issue but it does appear that democrats seem to swing toward comprehensive sex education and republican candidates push an abstinence-only agenda. It is important that our elected officials hear from you. Write a letter and you will be heard. Tell them you want medically accurate sex education.

SiF #240 - Sex, Politics, and Advocacy

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 22 Aug 2010 15:40:00 PDT

After a quick discussion about shaving pubic hair we dig in and start talking about sex, politics and advocacy. Our guest, Amy Brugh drops a crazy new theory on us about oatmeal and sexual health. When did human kind become so sex negative. 89%-90% of Minnesotan's want comprehensive sex education for their children. Now we just gotta figure out how to get rid of the stupidest 10%. How does an idea turn into a sex-positive bill? How does a sex-positive bill become a sex-positive law? Want to change the world? Get five people to write a letter to a congress-person.

Kidder tells his comprehensive sex education story. It has very little drama so it is not much fun to hear. Kidder's super-human ability is that people tell him about their sex lives. Amy gives him some tips for being a good advocate when using his special ability.

SiF #239 - Desire 2011

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 16 Aug 2010 15:14:00 PDT

Tonight we interview with Gary Booth from Dream Pleasure Tours, the company setting up our trip to Desire in Cancun, February 19th-26th 2011. We learn all about the resort, the activities, restaurants, and various entertainment option available at this clothing optional, pro-sex resort. Apparently couples containing two women are welcome to come, but couples containing two men are not allowed. So if you are gay men and want to join, you have to hook up a lesbian couple and sign-up with. Gay Rick thinks it is recockulous to have a club that doesn't allow gay men to join but has trouble himself finding even ONE gay bath house that allows straight, bi, or gay women to join the fun. So it would appear that sometimes everyone gets excluded from time to time.

SiF #238 - How to Talk Your Partner into having a Threesome

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 08 Aug 2010 17:41:00 PDT

Realizing that this show title has already offended some of our listeners, we discuss the prospects, benefits, and pitfalls that may occur when trying to talk your partner into anything. Why is the threesome fantasy so common and what can partaking in a threesome bring to your relationship? Who should you choose to join you in your threesome and who should you avoid? What do you do after the threesome?

SiF #237 - Bidets, Pleasure Balls, and Mythology

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 01 Aug 2010 16:22:00 PDT

See us at the Adult Entertainment Expo, January 6-9, 2011 at the Sands Expo Center in Las Vegas! Kidder gets a super futuristic bidet from http://www.biolifetechnologies.com and his ass will never be the same.

A listener writes us regarding episode #176 and #177 Breast Cancer and the Post-Mastectomy Body. She had a different take on what was best for her after her mastectomy.

Laura Rad reviews the Pleasure Ball from Extreme Restraints. A 77 year-old caller loves the book, and his G-Rider he got from Smitten Kitten. A caller tells Kidder that he doesn't know crap about Mythology. That begins a rant about samurai and Jedi, and how Yoda doesn't have the foresight of a donkey with blinders on. A caller wants to know how she too can make a fortune from being a sex educator.

Kidder and the gang attempt to use the word, "frak" instead of its better known but more offensive cousin in an attempt to make their more prudish listeners happy. Chances are they'll still get offended because they'll eventually figure out that a word is just a word and the meaning is the same no matter how you pronounce it and they are just being irrationally sensitive about that which is merely a word. Even if they said, "Shucks," "gosh-darn," "golly," and "heck," every time they wanted to say, "fuck," they'd still mean, "fuck," so it hardly matters, now does it?

SiF #236 - Swinging with Life on the Swingset

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 20:07:00 PDT

Today we interview, Cooper and Dylan from Life on the Swingset. If you've ever considered playing with another couple, this is a great show to peep. We discuss, getting started, jealousy, bisexuality, oral barriers and a new sexual revolution of couples entertaining various forms of non-monogamy.

SiF #235 - New Prostate Massager, Gang-Bangs, Sexual Incompatibility

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Wed, 21 Jul 2010 20:17:00 PDT

Kidder, Lorax, and Laura Rad have a threesome and review the Pro Pal Male Dual Massager from extreme restraints.

A caller wants to hook up his girlfriend with a gang-bang with four to five other guys and wants to know why he wants to do this and how he should go about finding men who'd help them out.

Another caller finds herself in a relationship with an asexual who has never been interested in sex and wants to know what she should do.

SiF #234 - G-Spots and lots more with Deborah Sundahl

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 17:35:00 PDT

Deborah Sundahl comes in for a fun chat about the G-Spot, King's College London, older people having sex, menopause, Maud, female ejaculation, the many moods of a vagina throughout the monthly cycle, chronic pelvic tension syndrome, the Catholic Church, sex education, George Rekers, wetspots, and Joycelyn Elders.

SIF #233 - Itchy Penis after Anal, Vulvodynia, Adult Language is for Adults

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 02:44:00 PDT

Today on Sex is Fun, we answer a question from a listener who has an itchy penis after having unprotected anal sex. Kidder suggests a new regular segment to Sex is Fun called, "Oooh Pee On That! Watersports News!"

Caller chides us a bit for not talking about the differences between the different kinds of clitoral piercings. Another caller suggests that we record a show about Vulvodynia and wants to know how she can get a career in the lucrative arena of professional sex educators.

Kidder receives a letter from a listener who will no longer be tuning into the show until Kidder becomes less "macho" and trades in the f'n-hymer for language that would be acceptable on the ABC Family Network.

SiF #232 - Censorship of Vulva Leads to Popularization of Labiaplasty

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 00:56:00 PDT

Tonight we're talking about Labiaplasty which means surgical augmentation of the vulva usually to reduce the appearance of the labia for aesthetic purposes.

It has come to our attention that this procedure which used to be reserved only for restoration after injury is being performed on more and more women each year at an exponential rate.

We've also learned that censors who requires Photoshop alteration of the protruding labia minora may be causing an unnecessary panic among women who see nothing but doctored photos causing them to feel that their vulvas are abnormal. Because most women only see vulvas in pornography or magazines, and because ALL the magazines are artificially doctored, large numbers of women are gaining an unrealistic perception of what vulvas should look like.

SiF #231 - Breaking into Porn, No Threesomes with Sober Wife

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 05:28:00 PDT

A listener wants to be a porn star but has no idea how to get into the work force. Another caller used to have super hot threesomes with his wife when she used to rock and roll but has since stopped drinking and is no longer interested in Ménage à trois with a sober mindset.

SiF #230 - Sex is Fun Book Launch Party and Sex Toy Review

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:57:00 PDT

Laura Rad is beginning to get violent impulses in her last stages of pregnancy. The group discusses the Sex is Fun! book launch. Kidder shares his fears of being a failure, letting everyone down, and dying alone.

Laura Rad reviews the Feeldoe Stout from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder reviews the Trinity Seven-Speed Massager and Rechargeable Massager from Extreme Restraints.

Coochie reviews the Devil's Tail Slapper from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder wants to try the Bathmate Hydro Penis Pump from Extreme Restraints.

The Federal Trade Commission has decided to target bloggers and podcasters who get paid to review toys. Good thing we don't get paid to review toys.

SiF #229 - Married Bisexual Action, Prostate Milking, Herpes

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 17:41:00 PDT

Today we take a call from a listener who has contracted herpes and wants to know if she'll ever have a fulfilling sex life again.

Our next caller is happily married but is crushing big-time on another married woman and wants to know how she should go about breaching the topic of getting it on with her crush.

The game Dick and Virginia was custom made to help people have these conversations, but GreatSexGames.com can't even give them away. The final caller really loves prostate milking but unfortunately his wife is getting sore fingers and wants to know if there are toys that could help them get the job done. The Sex is Fun! book is now available everywhere fine books are sold.

SiF #228 - A Chat with Ducky Doolittle

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 01 Jun 2010 11:56:00 PDT

Sex educator Ducky Doolittle tells us all about her recent projects, including LoveUParties, a home sex toy party company that is changing the world for the better.

SiF #227 - Orgasm Difficulty and Nexus G-Rider Review

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 23 May 2010 01:44:00 PDT

Today we take two calls from listeners who are having trouble reaching orgasm. We also review the Nexus G Rider. Call all your friends and mark your calendar for June 1st, cause we're throwing a major party to celebrate the Sex is Fun! book launch party at The Smitten Kitten. Get the book and get it signed by the whole staff.

SiF #226 - Sarah Sloan and the Mind Frak

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 17 May 2010 04:34:00 PDT

Tune in as Gay Rick and Coochie interview Sarah Sloane, with special guest LqqkOut. Sarah Sloane is a sexuality & relationship educator based in the Washington, D.C. metro area. She has taught literally hundreds of classes for Sex-Positive, BDSM, and Relationship-oriented organizations and events throughout the US, Canada, and overseas for 9 years. On today's show she teaches us a bit about mindfucks.

SiF #225 - Silicon, Bisexuals, Lelo, and Nipple Clamps

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 10 May 2010 17:48:00 PDT

A caller asks about using Silicone lube with Silicone toys. Coochie reviews an exceptionally mean set of nipple clamps called the Japanese Clover Clamps ($19.50) from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder wishes for a Sexual Failblog tv show to entertain him and his immature sense of humor. A bisexual caller asks us to discuss the difficulties of being monogamous and straight.

Coochie reviews the Lelo Mona & Ina.

SiF #224 - The Most Common Sexually Transmissible Infection (HPV)

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Thu, 29 Apr 2010 18:45:00 PDT

Today we're going to war with the Human Papilloma Virus and we're armed only with knowledge and a squirt gun filled with mojito.

Our guest, Lindsey Hoskins from Family Tree Clinic brings us her expertise regarding, prevention, treatment, and the Gardasil® vaccine.

SiF #223 - Boy Butter and the first Sex is Fun App

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 19 Apr 2010 00:00:00 PDT

Pre-order Kidder's book and get access to extra content. You've only got a few weeks so get on it.

We interview the inventor of Boy Butter, lubricant for men.

Sex is Fun releases the most advanced version of spin the bottle EVER! Get it at Apple's App Store.

SiF #222 - Heat Party 2010

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 19:59:00 PDT

Every year we throw a clothing optional play party in the dead of winter.

Listen to our description of the 2010 HEAT Party.

Download a genuine HEAT Party invitation and party guidelines here.

SiF #221 - Making Sex Spontaneous and Unpredictable

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 04 Apr 2010 15:12:00 PDT

Sex educator, author, blogger, podcaster, and game designer, Kidder Kaper, releases his 12th sex game and this time he's pushed the production quality to the max with his first fully illustrated, mass-produced game.

SiF #220 - How to have a Fantastic Date

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 29 Mar 2010 03:00:00 PDT

Sex is Fun's best advice for having a great date night that brings couples closer together and seriously increases sexual intimacy.

Call us! 206-350-8823

SiF #219 - Clitoral Piercings, Getting Caught in Naughty Pictures & Clit to Nipple Clamp Review

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 20:40:00 PDT

Today we take a call from a woman who got into a spot of trouble after a family member finds her naughty pictures on Craigslist.

Laura Rad reviews the Nipple to Clit Clamp Set. A caller wants to know if she should get her clit pierced.

Call into the show! 206-350-8823

SiF #218 - Australian Censorship Bans Porn and the Internet

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:01:00 PDT

As Australian leadership finishes with its crusade on video games and pornography, they've now got their sites set on the internet.

Call into the show! 206-350-8823

SiF #217 - Sex is Fun Magazine! An eZine for the Sex Positive Revolution

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 07 Mar 2010 21:32:00 PST

Lorax comes in to discuss the new website and magazine at Sexisfun.net. Lorax is now the chief operating officer of GreatSexGames.com and Kidder decides to stay with GreatSexGames.com and signs a contract for his next 3 games titles. The German edition of Sex is Fun is now for sale and the Germans have been buying it and posting reviews that he cannot read, 'cause he doesn't speak German.
Kidder makes a retraction and offers an apology to everyone from England, especially those that have no sense of humor and are insanely protective about their accents. Kidder invites all his listeners to pre-order the "Sex is Fun" book so that our rank is crazy high by the time that the book ships. In barely related news, Der Red Max is still an awesome red rocket!

The SiF gang are headed to Desire in Cancun and invite you all to come with us. The first two couples to sign up get voucher for $500 off their stay. Also if you sign up by June 30th, 2010, you save $50 per night. Desire is a couple's only, all inclusive, clothing optional resort. We're going to have a blast and you should party with us. Email us with your questions and we'll get them answered by the people who run the resort on a future show.

A caller who'd never had an orgasm phoned in to let us know that her friends all got together and bought her an Eroscillator and low and behold, she experience her very first "O" with it.

SiF #216 - Dominant/submissive Relationships

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 03:04:00 PST

What is the difference between a D/s relationship and an abusive relationship? According to our guest Dylan, a senior moderator of Minnesota Kinky Youth (MinKY), if it is consensual and it makes you aroused then it may fit under the classification of a D/s relationship.

Discover more on this episode of Sex is Fun. If you have questions and for more information email Dylan.

SiF #215 - Ecstatic and Orgasmic Birth

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 18:52:00 PST

Today we're learning how to cheat on God's number one punishment to women.

According to our guest, not only can giving birth not be painful, but it can also be orgasmic.

SiF #214 - A New Erotic Audio Book, "Small Things" by John Stark

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 15 Feb 2010 05:07:00 PST

Today we interview John Stark from wesleeptogether.blogspot.com about his new audiobook of erotic open relationship stories.

My mailbox is full of samples from people and companies schlepping something that they believe is the next big thing in the sex industry. On any given day of the week, I'll come into the office and see a box on my desk that may contain alien shaped and colored dildos, a patented penis stretching device, or on a good day, a box of artificial vaginas fresh off the mold from some porn star I've never even heard of. But every once in a while I find a rare gem that really "hits me where I live," to steal a line from Laura Rad.

Today it wasn't a cardboard box, it wasn't a glossy new book, or a KitchenAid powered sex machine, it was a simple CD labeled plainly with a Sharpie marker, "Small Things, by John Stark." For those of you who are longtime fans of the Sex is Fun Podcast, you'll remember that John Stark is the blogger who writes about his open relationship adventures with his wife on his blog wesleeptogether.blogspot.com. He's also earned himself a bit of additional internet fame by being the feature model in our "Male Masturbation Video" featured here, just incase you missed it.

John has been working for the past several years writing his novella that is based on everything from his voyeuristically entertaining dates to him processing the death of his father. Missing from his book is the formulaic storyline that is common in books and movies featuring open-relationship drama. I'm sure you've seen it before, boy and girl are madly in love and begin spicing up their sex lives with a few extra partners. Eventually the main characters realize that having orgasms with others is causing trauma to their very souls and either shed their other partners and solidify their monogamous-normalcy with heartfelt background music, or they disintegrate into a world of drugs and betting on illegal cock-fights in a dingily little town where the locals only speak Esperanto.

Failing to meet publisher's expectations with an after-school message about the dangers of open-relationships, forced John to self-publish his book. But instead of contacting his closest vanity-press in Bangladesh India, he decided to REALLY do it all himself by producing an audiobook, written and narrated by the writer. The result is a very well recorded and well rounded story that at times will have you laughing, touching yourself, or swallowing hard to hold back the emotions that are likely to be brought forth when experiencing this audiobook.

For longtime fans of John Stark, this is a must own. For those that enjoy erotic audio wrapped in a story, this is a purchase that I believe you will enjoy.

Available at CDBaby.com & iTunes for $10 Runtime: ~5 Hours

SiF #213 - How to communicate with your partner.

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 16:55:00 PST

Today's show has been designed for couples to listen to together. Whether your relationship needs a small tuneup or you are in need of a complete relationship overhaul, this show will deliver for you. This is our first interactive show. What does that mean? Well, grab your partner, put you iPod in the stereo and hit play. Before you know it, you and your partner are going to be talking about sex together. Kidder coins the term, "Grover" which is the feeling you get when someone asks a question that they already know the answer to. Listen to the show on your 'puter! Find us on iTunes and leave a review while you are at it. Call into the show! 206-350-8823 Sex is Fun is sponsored by: www.GreatSexGames.com SmittenKittenOnline.com ExtremeRestraints.com HealthyandActive.com Eroscillator.com

SiF #212 - Can Sex & Religion be friends? Is Consensual Incest Wrong? Filament Magazine Review.

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 18:31:00 PST

A caller calls in with a tirade about Kidder's anti-religious tirades. Kidder calmly explains that he isn't anti-religious, he's pro-sex. Kidder often describes himself as an agnostic who prays, but lately he's felt as though he's losing his religion and getting a new one. He's entertaining the idea of Humanism.

Coochie reviews a butt plug called the Tantus Silicone Anal Flirt from Extreme Restraints.

Kidder has invented and perfected a butt plug detector. A caller wants to know if consensual incest is good or bad based on the SiF Code of Conduct. The staff loves it when a caller asks a question that makes them uncomfortable. Kidder's been playing Rock Band.

Laura reviews Filament Magazine, erotica, articles and naughty pictures for women and gay men. A caller wants to know how to become a sex educator and wonders if Kidder is against body mods because he doesn't want to freak people out, thus making him a better sex educator. Kidder, doesn't want to belong to AASECT and believes that Violet Blue is a sex educator no matter what association of standardized thinking says she isn't.

SiF #211 - Erogenous Zones in a Touch Deprived Society

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 10:20:00 PST

Kidder drinks absinth and plays Wii Resort Sports until 4 AM. Viagra delays ejaculations. Kidder reviews Obsello Absinth. Coochie warns that you shouldn't drink and make bad decisions. Kidder hopes for viagra in tea. Laura Rad ponders the sex life of Mr. Rogers.

Eventually the team gets to the point of the show and talk about their favorite erogenous zones. Kidder realizes that his favorites spots are also the most vulnerable ones. Laura Rad loves a sweaty armpit. We are a touch deprived society. Give up the myth that there is ONE place on your partner's body that if touched, will drive them crazy. Take your time and don't have an objective when finding and stimulating erogenous zones. Don't you just HATE it when a partner almost touches your favorite erogenous zone but then moves on before actually touching it.

SiF #210 - King's College London calls the G-Spot a Charlatan

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 06:39:00 PST

Extra Extra: King's College London calls the G-Spot a fraud. G-Spot responds by spitting in King's College London's eye! Sex is Fun responds to the recent King's College London twin study that lead researchers to conclude that there is no G-Spot.

We're honestly amazed that this is even still in debate. It is almost like none of these researchers took the time to finger 20-30 women. If they had, they'd have come to the same conclusion that we all have on Sex is Fun.

SiF #209 - Bill Maher and Ann Coulter get it on as the world ends!

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 09:05:00 PST

A caller who bought 3 vibrators for his wife discovered that she hated them all. She likes internal vibrators and the SiF team has to scramble to find her a model that she'll like that isn't complete and udder crap. Rick reviews his favorite prostate toy ever, the Excel from Nexus.

Jim calls in to ask, "Where's the book at?" The Sex is Fun book will be released to the public on June 1st. 2010. This leads us into a discussion of books, including, "World War Z," Walking Dead," and, "How to Win Friends and Influence People."

A contributor on the forum calls out Coochie for being a fag-hag or something like that. Will Bill Maher and Ann Coulter do blow and have sex together at the dawn of armageddon? We'll discuss this and much much more on this episode of sex is fun.

SiF #208 - Swinging on the American College Campus?

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 02:15:00 PST

Today the gang interviews Paige Vigil who writes for the MN Daily about her recent article on the topic of swinging.

SiF # 207 - Voicemails & Reviews, Erotic Comics and Breakup Sex

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 07:57:00 PST

A caller who is suffering her first heartbreak wants to know how to get her self-pleasuing back on and get her Ex out of her mind. A caller tells us how much IUDs kick ass, we tell the caller how much spermicide sucks ass.

Another callers asks is which is more important to fighting AIDS, education for prevention or scientific research to find a cure.

Laura Rad reviews "Housewives at Play," a VERY dirty book from Eros Comix. Review of Houswives at Play by Laura Rad.

SiF # 206 - Tristan Taoramino Answers Questions from Facebook Fans

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 21 Dec 2009 11:00:00 PST

Tristan and Kidder's wife need the house to themselves to successfully masturbate. Then it is onto butts, enemas and other questions of ass play.

Tristan's colonic goes horribly wrong. Tristan nearly spills the dish on her celebrity play-pals. We fantasize about making a big sex educator porn with Susie Bright, Rachel Kramer Bussel, Betty Dodson, Nina Hartley, Dan Davage, and Violet Blue.

SiF # 205 - A Tryst with Tristan Taormino

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 11:00:00 PST

We discuss the impact that Tristan Taormino book, "Opening Up" has had on the pro-sex population. We agree that Dr. Drew is an anti-anal sex asshat. Tristan is going to talk to Laura Berman about her book. Why does Kidder hate porn? Tristan explains to him what he's really looking for and why he can't find it.

SiF # 204 - Get Your Sex Questions Answered

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 15:55:00 PST

Voicemail show: As a "gift" to our listeners, we've decided to dedicate an entire show to nothing but answering your questions. We start off with some REAL audio erotica.

A Facebook friend wants to find a boyfriend to have sex with. Gay Rick tells us about Grinder, an iPhone app that helps you find hookups wherever you are.

Kidder, Coochie, and Lorax give their best safety tips for not getting slaughtered over a sex hookup. Gay Rick and Laura Rad argue that showing your friends who you are with is often difficult and prescribe a different approach.

Another caller who plays with his butt and enjoys it, can't seem to relax enough to pleasure his partners penis with out a profuse portion of pain.

A caller from Kentucky tells us how much she hates our show. We return in kind by telling her what we think of Kentucky.

A caller tells us about their college orientation where they learned that premarital sex was a terrible thing and that homosexual acts are a form of insanity.

A caller's "sister" keeps breaking her sex toys and needs a recommendation for a tougher model. Another caller's wife wants him have sex with other women and wants to know if "cuckolding" is the proper term to use when the woman gets excited for her partner to sleep around.

SiF # 203 - HiV 101 with HiV/AIDS Educator, Gay Rick

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 15:49:00 PST

Gay Rick teaches everything you ever wanted to know about the virus you never want to contract.

Sex is Fun's 2009 Holiday Buyer's Guide (Enhanced Podcast)

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 22:08:00 PST

Listen to our über sex toy review show! Get the Mp3 version Get it in iTunes and win a prize (in heaven)

Choosing the best is not as easy as it sounds. It isn't as though we just go through our closet of sex toys and pick out the two or three that gave us the best orgasms this year. A sex toy reviewer must consider not only his or her own preferences. A good reviewer must be mindful of the vast tastes and varied penchants of the audience that will inevitably read, and then use this advice to decide how to spend their hard earned non-refundable money.

While the ability to give us pleasure is certainly an important feature to consider when reviewing a sex toy, it is not the only criteria that leads us to our final judgment. We must compare each product against others for aesthetics, longevity, ease of use and price.

It simply isn't good enough for us that the toy gives us an orgasm, it must do so better, than all the other products that we tried in the same class. There are a lot of factors that contribute to customer satisfaction in a sex toy. Even the packaging plays a role in the user's experience.

So with all things considered we again have done our very best to present to you the very best sex products for you and everyone on your gift list. Download and listen to this audio show at iTunes, or download it directly from our website at SexisFun.net Happy Holidays -Kidder Kaper

SiF # 201 - Gay Rick goes to The Folsom Street Fair

kidder@sexisfun.net (www.SexisFun.net) — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 20:28:00 PST

Gay Rick is in San Francisco for the Folsom Street Fair and things get kinky! Who's wearing which? Gay Rick ponders taking a horse and carriage ride.

What are San Francisco's nudity laws? A sister of the order takes a few moments out of her busy day to preach to the choir. Gay Rick's feet contain the power to rule the world.

To learn more about the Folsom Street Fair, head to http://folsomstreetfair.org/