gay sex guide

#8 - The Doggie Style Position

2011-01-07T22:29:00.000+01:00

So, we’ve been covering all the basic anal sex positions as well as the basic of the oral ones, Now we’ll enter into some shorter post, specific for one position, we’ll see in more detail.

As with all anal sex, make sure your partner is adequately lubed and take all necessary precautions for a safe sex.

Doggie Style is one of the most common positions, and also one of the most interesting to practice. It belongs to the class of Rear-Entry positions.

The main difference from the basic Rear-Entry position is that the top guy is not kneeling behind the bottom partner, but is instead squatting behind him. This gives to the position a totally different penetration angle.

So squat behind your partner, have him kneel before you, lifting his ass upward. Penetrate from the top downward, slowly at first. The bottom guy can put his head on a pillow, or on the couch if you’re not in bed. Take care that at first it is very easy to slip out of this position. Which may constitute an interesting variable, but later during the fuck and if controlled.

I believe this is one of the position where you can fuck more deeply and thanks to the downward penetration angle it gives an incredible prostate stimulus, therefore it usually ends with an incredible orgasm. Make sure you stimulate yopur partner, making him cum as well!

Need more ideas to practice anal sex? Have a look at One Fuck a Day picture tumblr.

So… time to practice!

Have fun… safely!

#7 - Standing Sex

2011-01-06T15:38:00.000+01:00

After having covered the basics of Anal Sex posts and of Oral Sex Articles we can enter a bit more into the more “complicated” positions of Gay Anal sex. Why do I include Standing Sex in this category? Simple, because standing sex is not as easy as it seems, and many people fail to enjoy this fully because they rush into this activity without knowing much about it, thus ending into an unsatisfactory experience.

First of all we intend Standing Sex when both partners are… uh… standing. One of them can lean on a wall or put his hands somewhere to get balanced, but generally speaking they are both standing. Which means that you should both be more or less the same height. A couple of cm. of difference won’t create problems, but 10 or so could create an issue, so take care about this!.

Preparation

For this position, lubing the anus is really important. Insertion is not always the easiest, that’s way a good rimming session and loads of lube are needed. Plus it is mandatory that this position is exploited by a bottom that has already sex practice, as it is quite difficult to relax, so it may hurt if this is the first time.

The Position

Time to get ready to start uh? The basic position assumes that both people are standing (as said). Bottom person should bent a bit at the beginning, putting his ass backward in order to allow for an easier penetration. I also suggest that he takes a position near a place he could put his hands on in order to balance himself. This position stimulates a lot the “animal instinct” of the top, so you may want to hold to something when your partner starts fucking you hard.

A wall would make it, as well as a chair, or a tree if you’re brave enough to experience wild-forest sex:-)

Suggestion for the bottom: make sure you spread your legs enough to have an easy penetration. And also adapt the angle of penetration by be leaning more or less forward, this will ensure you manage your inside feelings.

For the top, make sure you enter slowly at first, and give time to your partner to get used to your size at first. This will allow to avoid hurt feelings.

An important trick (which also is the first variation of this position) is for the bottom to lift one leg, putting it onto a chair, a sofa, a step etc.

This position is very often used in porn movies because it is best to show the actual penetration.

In real life, however, it is very useful in two cases:

1) When the bottom is taller then the top, this way it’s easier to bring his ass to a lower position.

2) To widener the anus, facilitating the insertion, especially if you have a tight ass.

Are there other standing options? Yes sure, however they get into the realm of more “acrobatic sex”, therefore suggestion, try them only if you’re sure of what you’re doing!

Front-Standing

This position is very often object of lots of fantasies. It allows the top taking full control of the bottoms body. However, it’s only possible if the top is strong enough to lift the partners’ weight. Plus it is necessary yo have a place to balance yourself, as the whole position can be otherwise quite difficult to manage.

One suggestion is to lean against a wall, thus allowing to push a bit of the weight against it.

This position creates a great intimacy, and, as it does not allow a great movement for any of the two, is very “romantic” as well as creates a great feeling between the two partners, allowing kissing and rubbing each other.

Side Standing

This position is only for the fittest ones, as it involves quite some flexibility.

The picture evokes the most difficult version of it (how many of you can lift a leg that way???).

Another solution is to lift the leg wrapping around your lover’s body. Somehow this position allows a lot of fun, is quite balance, and allows to kiss each other.

However, you need to be exactly same height to get through this.

Summarizing

Standing sex is great in many cases. A typical location for this “performance” is the shower (but attention to the slippery floor), as well as all the places in your home where a bed or a couch is not available. Many people love this position because it feels “natural”. However, I suggest you get to this after having tried some more relaxed ones in bed.

So… time to start practicing!

Have fun… safely!

#6 - Blow-Jobs

2011-01-06T15:27:00.000+01:00

Well, we’ve addressed already the Rimming part, which is also to be considered as “oral sex”. So we now are going to talk a bit about blow-jobs, even if we have to admit that of all the activities you’ll be doing with your mouth, blowing is probably the less important.

We define Blow-Job the act of giving pleasure to one’s cock by using your mouth, tongue, lips, teeth and (if you’re brave enough) throat. And actually that’s how all of these body parts are getting involved in to delivering a seriously engaging sexual activity.

The main suggestion is to follow the flow. Everybody’s who’s expert with oral sex knows that you just need to start, fantasy is the limit. For the less experienced ones, just before we go into some tips, make sure you get to know your partner’s cock. Oral sex is the best way to do it, and proves also a really intimate touch with your lover. But don’t do anything you don’t like!

Hints and Tips

- Well, first of all, make sure you are safe and use a condom. Unless you really know the person (no if you’ve been twice to sauna together, that doesn’t count), don’t risk your life. The hazard of oral sex is debated. However, why taking the risk? Its true that your salive may act as a defense, but it is also true that your tongue can have many weak points (blooding gums for example…) so be safe!

- Don’t just stay there, with your mouth open and do nothing. That can be the worst sexual experience, both for who’s receiving the oral sex and who’s gibing it. Play around with your hand, your lips, your teeth (gently), your tongue,. Change positions, vary in pace and angle.

- Look at him, while you’re sucking his cock, try always to keep en eye contact with your partner. This will increase the arousal, and give you also a better feeling.

- Play around, many of the most erogenous body parta are just at reach: balls, ass, perineum (i.e. the area between the scrotum and the anus), are a great place to fussle and make him appreciate your skills. Use your hands as well, especially while you’re sucking, touch his body, keep his thighs, explore him around.

Positions

Well, fantasy here as well is the only limit to having great Oral Sex. What we’re presenting here is just a selection of some positions, however feel free to experiment, and make sure you listen to your partners sensations in order to understand when he enjoys the most.

Standing

It is one of the most common positions, and is typical of a “quick’n’dirt” style sex. Practiced for ages, it is a very interesting position for both partners involved, as it allows both to move and act.

Typically the giver would take the cock in his mouth and gently suck it, or take it all inside. A good way to enhance this is by taking the partner’s butt with both hands, so to give the correct mouth-fucking pace.

The top guy, in this case, also has various opportunities. Many like to be in control of the situation, keeping the head of the giver and attracting it to the lower portion of the body.

Be careful though, especially if nature’s was kind enough to give you an “important” jewel, not to suffocate your partner.

It may also be good for the giver to masturbate while in this position.

On Bed - Lying

If you’re in bed, option is that you’re lying already. In this case there are different options for you to suck. Depending on the dick size and shape, you either taking from the upper part (like in the picture) or in from the down part (thus lying below your partner).

Again, dick shape may guide you in this respect. In the picture shown you see a great way also to use your hand and masturbate your partners while sucking him off. This will also give an intense feeling.

Seated

Whether on a bed, a couch or so, also seating is another wonderful possibility. Again, the sucker has infinite possibilities, approaching the partner’s shaft from the side (as illustrated) or from the front.

Change position often. Each cock has a different shape, and each mouth is also variously shaped. Moving around is also a way to experiment interesting feelings, making sure you find the best way to arouse you lover.

If you’re receiving the blow-job, don’t just stay there and moan… put your hand gently on your partner’s head, and push it down a bit… and with the other one try to feel his body, and maybe reach his cock… maybe building the way for an interesting 69, or?

Please note the position of the sucker hand. Holding the balls. Always important!

Well ok, maybe what is depicted here on the side is a bit too complicated. Leave the acrobatic sex only to fittest amongst you.

Anyway 69 means… mutual cock sucking (or rimming for that matter).

I suggest you start on a bed or a flat surface, staying side by side in front of each other. This is the best way to practice a 69 if you like, without having somebody stay on top. In this case, there is always the danger of a too violent mouth fucking, the person down doesn’t have loads of freedom to move, and everything might well go complicated.

However, once you’re experience, it will get great as well.

So everything great with 69? Well, somehow is the best way to give mutual pleasure with sex. However, if you’re really into oral sex, you may dislike this position, as you may want to concentrate on the pleasure you’re giving or getting once at a time.

Mouth-fucking

Well, there are various positions for this to happen. Difference with the positions listed so far is hat the sucked person plays an active role as he actually “fucks” his buddy’s mouth with a pelvic movement of in and out.

These activity should be reserved to those that are already accustomed to oral sex. A big important thing relates to the cock size you’re getting. Unless you’re ready to get into deep-throat, make sure you can accomodate that cock in your mouth and or give a limit to your partner in how much he can push inside.

The position you see here on the left is typical to be performed on a bed, but mouth-fucking can be done also standing, seated etc.

Again, here as well, fantasy is the limit!

Recommendation, in this position make sure you’re not stressing your neck too much, as it may result in some injuries.

Reversed Mouth-fuck

One very interesting alternative is to use a reversed mouth fuck, like in the picture here on the side. Hw? The sucker should lay upward on the bed or a table, with the head out of the borders so that it is free to move.

The partner can therefore insert his cock inside the mouth of the guy. it is important to say that this position is perfect for deep-throating, as it aligns the throat perfectly, therefore allowing for a deeper insertion.

However, don’t get in to fast. You need to relax a lot, and because the neck is free the person my also need some support for his head.

Deep Throating

We’ve mentioned this already a couple of time. Deep-throating is the technique where the cock is allowed to enter also into the throat of the receiver, not only the mouth. The biggest obstacle in achieving this is is the tendency of throwing up and suffocating that the sucker may incur into. So never rush into deep-throating. Learn to do it slowly, and with a partner you trust!

However, many people love the feeling of subtle suffocation that holding a big in their throat gives. If you’r lucky to find one of these guys, make sure you don’t exploit it too much and with too much violence, ok?

If you need more suggestive pictures, why not jumping at One BlowJob a Day site?

Summarizing

Enjoying a great oral sex session can be very rewarding. Some people see it as less intense than anal sex. To some extent we may agree, however if you put fantasy and a touch of innovation each time, you’ll get really a lot out of it. In some of my experience, best sexual chemistry you get with one person is when you get good satisfaction also from the oral part. Which is also the perfect solution to have a pleasurable moment also far from home :-)

So, now it’s time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!

#5 - Rimming

2011-01-06T12:21:00.001+01:00

Well’, we’ve covered all the basic sex positions. In the future days you’ll get more details about some more specific positions relating to anal sex.

However, I wanted first to give some insights on the usage of the rest of the body. Starting with one of the most erogenous parts of it: the tongue.

And because we’ve been talking about Anal Sex, let’s start with some good old rimming.

Warning!: rimming includes direct oral contact with your partner’s ass. Which means this practice is not the safest one, as it can lead to various passing of diseases (not just sexually transmitted ones). I suggest you should perform this activity only with somebody you know and trust.

The activity

Rimming is the activity where you stimulate your partner’s anus with your tongue. Of course, it all startswith some attentive cleaning of the area, and I suggest an enema or an internal douche to get as clean as possible. (both activities should anyway be performed in all cases before any anal intercourse).

Some people only like getting rimmed. Some other love rimming. Some like it both. Whatever you prefer, I suggest you anyway give it a try. And BTW, rimming is not activity that belongs to a specific sexual role. Some top types love rimming their partner’s ass before plunging in it. Some bottoms love the idea of the submission behind rimming. Whatever the reason, take good care. And listen to your partner’s body!

Listening to his moaning, his movements, his breathing you’ll immediately notice which are the most sensible areas!

And here some suggestions and remarks:

- Shave the area, I know it may be difficult, but shaving the area ensures a better cleaning of it, and it also increases the sensations you have in the area itself.

- Use your hands around your friend’s ass. This will allow, for example, to spread his legs more, making it easier for you to reach the anus.

- Don’t just plunge inside, rimming is all about details, and very often the more sensitive area is the one around the anus, nit just inside. So make sure you inspect the area fully.

- Use your saliva, by rimming use lots of your saliva in the area, also stepping in into your partner’s hole. This will lube the area, and allow also for more deeper entrance.

- Use your finger, fingering your friend’s hole can be an interesting complementary activity. Make sure he likes it!

- Use different positions as there are many ways of rimming, and try them all. There are many ways to try rimming. Here are the more common ones.

The positions

It’s one of the most common ones and displayed ones. It is done when both partners’ rim each other. I believe it is very erotic and intimate to see… however if you’re like me, and get nuts when rimmed, it might not be the best one (as I cannot concentrate on what I’m doing).

Doggie Style rim

This can lead to a rear-entry or doggie style anal intercourse. The person receiving the rim stays on his four, while the other starts linking the anus from behind.

It is one of the positions where you can get your tongue deeper inside…

So make good use of it, and show appreciation for your partner’s ass, also by rubbing vigorously his cheeks.

On top rimming

This can be the good start of amissionary style anal intercourse.

It starts with the person receiving the rim on his back on the bed (or any other surface for this matter) spreading his legs in favor of his partner, who can easily start his practice. In this position the partner’s cock is also at hand, which makes it easy to join two oral activities at the same time.

Sitting up

In this position the rimmer is on his back, the partner sits on his face and receives the attention. It’s a kind of submissive position, where the person receiving the rim has full control of the situation. Sometime this can be interestingly accompanies with a bit of “suffocation” if he really sits on his partner’s face (but don’t push it too much).

There are different ways of sitting or squatting for this position to happen… try them all:-)

Summarizing

Rimming can be a lot of fun. And it is also one of the most intimate sexual activities. Don’t just limit it to be a quick foreplay, but make sure you practice it, arousing your partner, helping him relaxed. It is the best way to prepare for a long-lasting fuck.

So now it’s time to practice!

Have fun… safely!

#4 - Side Positions

2011-01-06T12:19:00.001+01:00

The side-by-side position is also pretty easy, and it is usually a diversion of the Missionary Style one.

Preparation

As usual like all positions it requires a good preparation and lubrication of your partner’s anus. Usually you don’t start with this position, as it normally is an evolution of another one, also because it is pretty difficult to enter in this position.

Front-facing

Again, here as well we can have two different ways depending on the fact that the two partners are facing each other or not.

You start in the traditional missionary type position, then roll over onto your sides, still facing each other. It’s a relaxing position, you can kiss and talk, and look into each other’s eyes - great if you’re in a relationship - and you can also last a lot longer before you come. This means you can go for a simultaneous orgasm if you want, though it can be fun to watch your partner come, or to take turns with coming first. In this position, the guy doing the penetrating must extend his pelvis between the other’s bent legs. Deep penetration and vigorous thrusting are both possible.

Back-facing

You can also lie side by side with one guy behind the other, both facing in the same direction. This position allows you to relax and you have your hands free to explore each other’s bodies. Also dick entry is easier and you can get deeper inside and the bottom guy doesn’t have to support his partner’s weight. You can also thrust vigorously during sex in this position.

I suggest that you alternate this position with a missionary one or arear-entry one

Summarising

The side by side sex position is a good one for intimate connection and both partners can move their hips. As in all gay anal sex, the longer it goes on, the more relaxed will be the receiving partner’s anus, so that deeper penetration and thrusting becomes progressively easier as sex goes on. But the real beauty of side by side sex for gay men is that they can connect emotionally. There’s something about reaching orgasm in this position which makes it feel more like a shared experience.

So… now is time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!

#3 - Sitting Sex

2011-01-06T12:18:00.001+01:00

Sitting sex is easy! It can develop naturally from a session of kissing and sexual foreplay, or you can move straight into it from any other position in bed as you have sex. Obviously, the man penetrating will feel more comfortable if he lies back on the bed as his partner sits on top of his cock.

This position, with its two basic variations, is particular because there is a sort of “reverse role”. The bottom person takes the active role here, and the top person takes the passive one, simply lying on his back.

Actually it is simplistic to see it this way, as the top guy can d a big part with small movement of his pelvis area.

Preparation

Same warnings as always, make sure your partner is fully relaxed and lubed before starting. This position is perfect for all of you who have a big endowment, or if your partner didn’t have sex in a while, as it allows to have control on the penetration. So, a big suggestion for the bottoms here: use this position to feel your partner’s cock gently intruding into your body, make sure you take control of the speed and rhythm of its entrance.

Front Looking

The first option is to sit on the cock, facing your partner. There are tow alternatives for this position. One is to kneel on the bed, with your thighs against your partner’s sides.

Gently, put your ass on top of his dick, and start spreading you hole. slowly inserting it inside. You might need an help of your hand to give a direction. It is the best option to start with from a hot kissing session, and it allows a full control on the speed of entrance. The top guy in this case once inside can start moving his butt up an down, penetrating his partner, but only to the extend he will allow.

It is a very intimate position in my regard, even if it does not allow for a lot of movement.

The second option is to stand on top of your partner, then bend in the direction of his penis, so to have your feet on his sides, sort of ina frog position.

This position allows for a better control of the insertion and especially allows to get… more of his cock.

It also allows for some interesting play, where the bottom guy keeps up to a certain distance while his partner fuck him vigorously from the bottom. This is an especially interesting position if you sit on a couch or an armchair.

Again, a suggestion for the “bottom”, make sure you experiment on the whole length of your partners’ shaft. This position is perfect to get acquainted with his dick size and form, and can lead to interesting diversion and more positions to follow.

Backward Looking

Sort of the same as the one just described, it differs because the two guys don’t face each other. One of the most interesting aspects of this position is that the guy staying on his back sees the full extent to which his partner takes his cock.

There are two options here as well, depending on the fact that the bottom guys bends backward of forward. I suggest you practice both ways. Best way for entrance is to bend a bit backward, whereas the forward bending option is very interesting because it stretches the top’s cock into unusual position, making it into some interesting feelings.

This position as well can be temptingly played oin a sofa, like in the picture below.

And it allows for some great kissing too.

So, how to choose between backward and forward? Well there are two main reasons you would want to choose one of them depending on:

- Cock shape, and especially if it is curved (again, think that it needs to stimulate the prostate, so if it is curved forward you should use the front looking position for best feeling, opposite if it is curved downward).

- Feeling. Many people like to have their top partner “behind”, and like to be stimulated this way. Others prefer to face him and look into his eyes while fucking.

One variation

It is very easy to convert this position into a “reverse missionary” one… take this into consideration while you practice!

Summarizing

One of the greatest things about this position is that, usually, the top guy has his hands free. Which means he can use them around his lovers’ body, or simply jerk him off.

So… now is time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!

#2 - Missionary Style

2011-01-06T12:07:00.002+01:00

Inspired from the “straight” world, it is surely the most enjoyable position for men in a relationship, because it is the one the allows more intimacy. This is where the partners lie on each other facing each other. It’s an intimate position that allows eye contact and a lot of bodily contact during sex.

There are many different variations on the basic position. The challenge for the man on top will be supporting his weight on his arms as he fucks his partner, though the “edge of the bed” sex position can help with that.

One of the big plus of this position is that allows the top the pleasure of seeing his penis entering and leaving his partner’s body as he thrusts.

Preparation

Anal sex in this position isn’t too difficult. But once again, it can be very helpful to start with some gentle play that opens up the bottoms anus. Good lubrication is always important, maybe starting with a rimming session. Also fingering your partner hole might be a good option, as this position allows a lot of fun on this.

The position

As mentioned the position in itself can have many different variations, depending mainly on the position of the legs of the bottom partner.

Let’s assume we’re on a bed (well, I know it may sound boring but it still is the most common place to practice sex).

The bottom person would need to spread hi legs, while the top lies on top of him. Kissing is a big part of the game here, so bottom guy might need to guide the top’s cock into his anus, if you don’t want to loose the touch at this point.

Make sure you guide him to the lubricated point. It may be necessary to raise your hips a bit, pulling your legs upward and spreading them.

This position also allows a lot of control of the bottom person on how “fast” the top gets inside, also because by moving his legs up or down, the bottom can take control of the angle of penetration (also deciding how much cock he want to let in).

To get the partner fully inside, the best option is to raise your legs completely, circling them around his hips, like in the picture here on the side.

As it can be seen, this position allows the cock to fully enter the lovers’ ass, also allowing for an ample movement of in and out for the top person.

Some hints for the top: don’t just go in and out, try to rate the basin a bit, it will make sure you better “explore” the inside of your partner. Also, make sure not to exit completely. In this position getting back in might be a bit difficult, and if you don’t want to loose the physical touch of the moment you may want to avoid this situation.

Also, this position is the best one if you have a curved cock pointing upward, as it stimulates the prostate fully.

Variation

The biggest variation assumes you simply keep the “face style”, however there are many ways to do it!

Main possibility is the top kneels while the bottom stays on his back, spreading his legs.

This position may be suitable for situations where less intimacy is requested or when the top wants to have a bigger control of the situation.

On the left picture you can see the entrance moment, it might be a good point to start slowly,in this case the bottom looses a bit the control of his hole, so the top needs to make sure not to hurt.

Depending on the sensation you want, you can can change the position of the bottom’s legs as many times as possible, controlling both the angle of entrance and the ass tightness.

Here some possible variations:

Spread Thighs

Pull the legs of your partner apart, keeping them from the thighs and keeping them spread apart.

Crossed Legs

This position allows for the most control, and the most exposed ass. The top is in full control of the situation, and the bottom’s ass is wide spread open.

One Leg Up

In this case, you hold one of your partner’s leg on your shoulder, the other stays on the bed. It allows to have an interesting angle of entrance, as well as to manage in a better way the bottom’s ass widening.

Two legs up

In this case the top keeps both legs up, either by holding his partner ankles (useful also if you like licking feet), or by putting them on your shoulder.

Again, moving your partner’s legs allows to open up or close a bit your partner’s ass.

Take care, this position (especially if done in the standing variation, seen on the left picture) is the one that gets you deeper into you partner’s ass. Which also means this position could be painful for some of your counterparts, so make sure you respect your partner’s exclamations.

Summarizing

This is the most popular sex position, familiar, friendly, intimate and good for expressing some fundamental aspects of who you are: the active participant, the giver of your penis (and the taker of your partner’s body), the powerful, thrusting man, the relaxed, receiving man, and so on. It’s good for men in a relationship to express their intimacy and love. There are many variations to be experienced - how tightly each partner has their legs together, whether one stands or both lie down; indeed, there must be a hundred variations of this sex position to try and enjoy.

Both partners can look at the other as they fuck, and express their emotions in their faces. They can talk, shout or vocalise what they are feeling and see the response on their partner’s face. In many variations of the position, deep and very satisfying penetration is possible.

So… now is time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!

#1 - Rear Entry Sex

2011-01-06T11:34:00.003+01:00

One of the most classical positions is the Rear Entry one.

It’s a powerful, raw and animalistic sex position, very exciting and arousing for men who like to see the act of penetration as they fuck.

The receiving man can thrust his hips vigorously or just enjoy the sensation of being fucked.

It is less intimate than other positions as the two partners’ don’t face each other, and is often used with casual partners where the “top” wants to prevaricate its partner.

Preparation

To get into this position for sex, you may well find it useful to play with your partner’s anus to relax him and open him up. In the early stages of sex, you can stimulate his anus with your fingers or mouth and gently encourage him to relax and get used to the feeling of being penetrated.

A good rimming session could also be useful to star moisten the area helping it to relax even more.

The Position

The position itself happens this way: one partner kneels behind the other.

Pointing the cock on the butt-hole, the top partner should gently but firmly push his cock into the partner’s ass.

Make sure it is well lubricated.

Please take care at the beginning, as in this position the partner might not always be able to relax fully.

Once you’re in completely, wait for your partner to get used to thickness of your cock. Slowly start the movement of in and out.

For a better pleasure, I suggest you first start slowly getting it out half way, then entering slowly again.

Once the feeling is completed, and both of you are used to the position, start thrusting more inside. I suggest you start moving your basin so it rotates a bit, making your partner feel more the cock entering.

This position is the best to get into stimulating your partner prostate especially if you have a curved down cock.

Another interesting option, is to get your cock out completely then shoving it inside back fully. You’ll see your partner enjoying it quite a lot.

Make sure you use your hand across your partner’s back, holding firmly his hips or holding him on his shoulder.

Make sure your partner adapts the penetration angle to enjoy the most of your effort :-)

Variation

There’s also a variation to the same position, when the bottom partner lays on his stomach, possibly keeping his ass raised a bit, maybe by putting a pillow under the basin.

This position does not allow the top to enter inside as deep as in the previous version (which might be good if he’s particularly well endowed). And also doesn’t allow the bottom to move a lot, and particularly to masturbate, which is why it is highly suggested for those of you who cum quite early during the intercourse.

Summarizing

In these anal sex positions, passion and power can really take a hold. It’s certainly a very exciting position for the man who’s thrusting, and he can often get carried away in his excitement! And the excitement isn’t limited to the man on top, for the bottom man can thrust his hips back and forth or move them in a circular movement: he certainly doesn’t have to be passive in this sex position. Many “aggressive” bottoms like this because they can also take control. Try it… let the top stay still and the bottom move back and forth taking it.

Generally, though, most of the pelvic movement will come from the man who’s penetrating his partner - and this may actually be more satisfying for both men. The active partner enjoys the power and sensation of his thrusts, while the passive partner gets the pleasure of receiving the cock, especially if he gets his prostate stimulated.

So… now is time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!

Gay Sex Explained

2011-01-06T11:32:00.002+01:00

It is always difficult to find enough information over gay sex, and particularly over anal sex, or?

That is why I will try to put together a couple of articles on how to *really* enjoy sex (and anal sex particularly) as well as on how to practice it safely, getting the most out of your partners:-)

Will also try to link each article to a series of pictures, so I will try to make sure the visuals are aligned with what is explained.

Make sure you read the About page and the Disclaimer for this site, as they contain some relevant information.

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