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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" media="screen" href="/~d/styles/atom10full.xsl"?><?xml-stylesheet type="text/css" media="screen" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~d/styles/itemcontent.css"?><feed xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:openSearch="http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearch/1.1/" xmlns:georss="http://www.georss.org/georss" xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr="http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0" xmlns:feedburner="http://rssnamespace.org/feedburner/ext/1.0" gd:etag="W/&quot;D0UNQH0ycSp7ImA9WhRUFEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666</id><updated>2012-01-25T04:54:51.399-05:00</updated><category term="Consulting" /><category term="Diversity" /><category term="Humour" /><category term="Resumes" /><category term="Office Politics" /><category term="Interviews" /><category term="Networking" /><category term="Blogging" /><category term="Career" /><title>Generation Y Consultant</title><subtitle type="html">&lt;b&gt;Practical professional and personal development advice from a millennial &lt;br/&gt;with GenX's rebelliousness and Baby Boomers' solid work ethic.

&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;If you're interested, follow me...&lt;/b&gt;</subtitle><link rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><generator version="7.00" uri="http://www.blogger.com">Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>16</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/GenYConsultant" /><feedburner:info uri="genyconsultant" /><atom10:link xmlns:atom10="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/" /><feedburner:emailServiceId>GenYConsultant</feedburner:emailServiceId><feedburner:feedburnerHostname>http://feedburner.google.com</feedburner:feedburnerHostname><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CkcAQng_cCp7ImA9WxRTGU4.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-8339741269985638229</id><published>2008-09-07T22:58:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-08T23:14:03.648-04:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-09-08T23:14:03.648-04:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Office Politics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><title>Turns out I'm not Corporate!</title><content type="html">&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;It seems that my &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/07/being-part-of-corporate-america-canada.html"&gt;last update&lt;/a&gt; here over 2 months ago was somewhat of a premonition...&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After just under 20 entries, I've decided to close up shop here at Gen Y Consultant and return to &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/"&gt;my original blog&lt;/a&gt; that's almost 4 years old now! I came to realize that the common thread on both blogs is "growing up". I was considering what to do with the blogs for a while.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The final straw came when &lt;a href="http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/"&gt;Penelope Trunk&lt;/a&gt; asked me why I would start all over again (here) after I've built a good amount of social capital into my personal blog. She was right; I'm blogging for myself, not for Brazen Careerist, so I shouldn't have started a separate blog in the first place!&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;All that being said, here's what I'm going to do...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;Growing up with Ian&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;For those interested in more of my personal stories, whether they're about &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/03/picking-up-women-in-bars-social.html"&gt;picking up girls&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/07/purchasing-my-first-property.html"&gt;being a new/young landlord&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/08/quoted-in-globe-and-mail.html"&gt;being quoted in the papers&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2007/03/malefemale-relationship-age-difference.html"&gt;relationship theories&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/08/picture-gallery.html"&gt;travel&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-do-you-define-work.html"&gt;business&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/01/life-changing-decisions-and-actions.html"&gt;life changing decisions&lt;/a&gt;, etc., I invite you back to "&lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/"&gt;Growing up with Ian&lt;/a&gt;". Where, you'll be able to read along and hopefully learn from some of my mistakes since I'm one of those people who often insists on learning things the hard way!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SMXdkXLYUuI/AAAAAAAAAWE/pw7YOsKb5v0/s320/DSC_0055_smaller.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243840957909586658" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.officetricks.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;OfficeTricks.com&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;For those of you interested in more of the corporate/business stuff, I've recently launched a new website: &lt;a style="font-style: italic;" href="http://www.officetricks.com/"&gt;OfficeTricks.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; - The Next Generation of Office Politics&lt;/span&gt; with a group of similar-minded twenty-somethings. The goal of the site is to &lt;a href="http://www.officetricks.com/about/"&gt;generate ideas and conversations&lt;/a&gt; around points of interest related to office politics. Office politics is something everyone has to deal with and as a friend of mine said: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Office politics is the one area where our generation can ruin their careers without even realizing it!"&lt;/span&gt;. That's where OfficeTricks comes in!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.officetricks.com/"&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SMXcXJ-q8xI/AAAAAAAAAV8/wYj1y_7fmng/s320/OT_symbol_144_175.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5243839631516693266" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Thanks a lot for reading what I've had to share here and hopefully you'll follow at least one of my other sites!&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Cheers!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-8339741269985638229?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/QqQekxx6CUI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/8339741269985638229/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=8339741269985638229" title="1 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/8339741269985638229?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/8339741269985638229?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/QqQekxx6CUI/turns-out-im-not-corporate.html" title="Turns out I'm not Corporate!" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SMXdkXLYUuI/AAAAAAAAAWE/pw7YOsKb5v0/s72-c/DSC_0055_smaller.JPG" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>1</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/09/turns-out-im-not-corporate.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQH05cSp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-4164187190455074472</id><published>2008-07-02T19:40:00.028-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:31.329-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:31.329-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Interviews" /><title>Being Part of Corporate America / Canada</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SGubxRwQXLI/AAAAAAAAAOQ/s_vqXsrGHA8/s320/Corporate.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5218435864120548530" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;"You know what the problem is with people like you?"&lt;/span&gt;, asked the gray haired gentleman, looking at me through his thick glasses from across the small, square table. I remember the table top being a crimson red that sharply contrasted the fading yellow paint on the walls of the old living room that had been converted into a makeshift office.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;With a slight smirk, obviously faking curiosity, I leaned forward and inquired: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"People like...&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;me?&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Corporate people.&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, he said in a stern voice while shaking his head &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;disapprovingly&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; "I bet the budget for the sofa in your lounge is more than we spend on marketing in a year!"&lt;/span&gt;, he continued with mild disgust in his voice.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was in the middle of a job interview in the non-profit sector and he already decided he would give me a hard time. I was working at &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/12/e-commerce-ikea.html"&gt;IKEA&lt;/a&gt; at the time, so after a moment, I gave a response about how Swedish culture is very minimalistic and I was used to &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/08/how-being-lazy-has-helped-me.html"&gt;managing projects with modest resources&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Good answer!"&lt;/span&gt;, he said cheerfully, but clearly unconvinced.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I didn't care&lt;/span&gt;; I already had an offer from a &lt;a href="http://www.merck.com/"&gt;global pharmaceutical firm&lt;/a&gt; for my internship that semester. However, I had just been referred to as &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Corporate"&lt;/span&gt; and at age 20, I wasn't sure how I felt about that. When I returned to the office, I recounted the story to my manager stressing on my confusion with the name-calling. He proudly put his hand on my shoulder and with a big smile said: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Trust me, in the next few years of your career, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;that's going to be a compliment!&lt;/span&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over 5 years later, I am, without a doubt, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Corporate"&lt;/span&gt;. Unfortunately, I'm still not sure how I feel about it...&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Are you corporate?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-4164187190455074472?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/d4rgOdPNbCo" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/4164187190455074472/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=4164187190455074472" title="7 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/4164187190455074472?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/4164187190455074472?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/d4rgOdPNbCo/being-part-of-corporate-america-canada.html" title="Being Part of Corporate America / Canada" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SGubxRwQXLI/AAAAAAAAAOQ/s_vqXsrGHA8/s72-c/Corporate.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>7</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/07/being-part-of-corporate-america-canada.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQHozeCp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-8986617956026508811</id><published>2008-05-19T19:44:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:31.480-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:31.480-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><title>What's in a Job Title / Name?</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://www.mulley.net/"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SDIPzsThQJI/AAAAAAAAAOA/KpHWNXXsrkc/s320/DMulleyBusinessCard.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5202237900307120274" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;Love this job title!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I learned a valuable lesson while chatting up a girl in a shoe store a few weeks ago &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/05/my-first-lesbian-wedding-experience.html"&gt;when I was in Toronto&lt;/a&gt;. I could tell by her British accent that she wasn't from there, so we started talking and she told me she was there for business.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"So, what do you do?"&lt;/span&gt;, I asked.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;"I'm a health economist."&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Really?&lt;/span&gt; [pause] &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;So...what do you do?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She laughed and explained a little about public health and how she was there for an industry conference. She then asked me the same question, to which I responded: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"&lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2007/04/im-sap-certified-consultant.html"&gt;I'm an SAP consultant&lt;/a&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;. With a laugh, she said: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"So...what do you do?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This made me realize that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;job titles are ridiculous&lt;/span&gt; and how these titles are somehow expected to define us. My job title was something that &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/02/do-i-hate-my-job-clarification.html"&gt;frustrated me to no end&lt;/a&gt; especially when several senior people would say: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"I've looked at &lt;a href="http://the-life-and-times-of-mr-selvarajah.googlegroups.com/web/CLEANSED%20Selvarajah_Ian_CoverLetter_Apr2008_Review.pdf?gda=bDEPcmcAAADXgD9gy5-WXbUdlV-IM3EOHCMubuSunKPsYGrInY-4LmG1qiJ7UbTIup-M2XPURDTTQlYFImknrRsYGBzHpUn23uIlZtcqhggSdJU-eyKQ1lSx4ZACgnXYUucl-EbcfRW8q8nf5qU9Xk1kFIOnoGFC"&gt;your resume&lt;/a&gt;, why are you an analyst??"&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I've come to terms that one of the downsides of large organizations is that you have to go through their technicalities/framework &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;regardless of your actual skill set&lt;/span&gt;. The good news is that it pisses me off a lot less these days!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Lesson learned: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Don't let your job title define who you are!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-8986617956026508811?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/fZaWLk3xEBM" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/8986617956026508811/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=8986617956026508811" title="10 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/8986617956026508811?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/8986617956026508811?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/fZaWLk3xEBM/whats-in-job-title-name.html" title="What's in a Job Title / Name?" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SDIPzsThQJI/AAAAAAAAAOA/KpHWNXXsrkc/s72-c/DMulleyBusinessCard.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>10</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/05/whats-in-job-title-name.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQHsyeCp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-607830631559508302</id><published>2008-05-12T23:41:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:31.590-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:31.590-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Office Politics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Interviews" /><title>Take Any Advice with A Grain of Salt!</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SCkG0MThQII/AAAAAAAAAN4/9C44TX-hG1o/s320/Salt.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5199694738502008962" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Is there an empty window office in your vicinity? You should move in without asking permission. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2006/10/me-in-window-office-already.html"&gt;It has worked for me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; and someone else I know. Trust me.*&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;"Why are you asking me for advice if you don't listen anyway?!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;, is something I'm told fairly often. Here's the thing: ALL advice, regardless of who it's coming from, should be &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_does_the_old_saying_%27take_it_with_a_grain_of_salt%27_mean"&gt;taken with a grain of salt&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;. That's why I generally &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;ask for opinions and not advice&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;dvice is based and framed on personal world views, experiences and biases&lt;/span&gt;. Everything is about perspective, so it's important to try and see where the advice is coming from before taking it as gospel truth. Yes, this includes advice coming from parents, mentors, religious leaders, bosses, friends, blogs, etc.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;What do you do when 2 people are giving conflicting advice?&lt;/span&gt; Here's a recent case in point when it comes to taking advice from "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/how-do-you-define-authority.html"&gt;the new authority&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;" (aka blogs) about job interviews:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Mark suggests that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://arselickocracy.blogspot.com/2008/04/when-they-say-be-yourself-how-much-of.html"&gt;you shouldn't really be yourself in an interview&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; even at the cost of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;"slight dishonesty"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;. He later agreed that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://fdcareer.com/edgeblog/2008/05/01/be-yourself-in-the-interview/#comment-3"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"dishonest"&lt;/span&gt; was a bit much&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; and would use &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;"embellish"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; instead. He said that his strategy has had a 100% success rate for all 4 of his post university jobs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Jun, on the other hand, disagrees completely and suggests &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://fdcareer.com/edgeblog/2008/05/01/be-yourself-in-the-interview/"&gt;you should be yourself&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://fdcareer.com/edgeblog/2008/05/01/be-yourself-in-the-interview/"&gt; in the interview&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;"If your honest self does not get the job, then the job just wasn’t meant for you."&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;. Although he has done many more interviews than Mark, he doesn't have a 100% success rate.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I've just presented 2 well written articles that make compelling points as well as a little about the authors' experience. Who's advice do you take? Tough call! I try to ask myself the following questions before taking anyone's advice:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;What's my gut feeling? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Does the advice make sense? Does this person &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://www.answers.com/topic/hidden-agenda?"&gt;have an agenda&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;? &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It has worked for them, but will it work for me?&lt;/span&gt; Why has it worked for them? Are the situations more or less the same? Does my personality/experience fit the advice?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Consider all these things and never forget that ultimately it's your life and you're responsible for your decisions and subsequent actions:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"If you're smart, you'll learn from your mistakes. If you're wise, you'll learn from the mistakes of others."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;*Please let me know if you try this and it works for you too!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-607830631559508302?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/HEZzkpY3w2o" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/607830631559508302/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=607830631559508302" title="6 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/607830631559508302?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/607830631559508302?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/HEZzkpY3w2o/take-any-advice-with-grain-of-salt.html" title="Take Any Advice with A Grain of Salt!" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SCkG0MThQII/AAAAAAAAAN4/9C44TX-hG1o/s72-c/Salt.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>6</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/05/take-any-advice-with-grain-of-salt.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQHg7cSp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-7910309089452367024</id><published>2008-04-30T02:22:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:31.609-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:31.609-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><title>How do You Define Authority?</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SBfil3wsfwI/AAAAAAAAANQ/jAi5NUPhH6s/s320/Colbert_wikiality.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5194869835446386434" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;"Well, anyone who knows me knows I'm no fan of dictionaries or reference books. I don't trust books. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;They're all fact&lt;/span&gt;, no heart."&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;-&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephen_Colbert_%28character%29"&gt;Stephen Colbert&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Like Dilbert comics, comedy often isn't far from reality: some bloggers aren't fans of dictionaries either:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Ian, this all started with a discussion about accepting the new authority. “New” implies there is an old version of authority, which is the definition you found in the dictionary."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;-Monica O'Brien of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://twentyset.com/"&gt;Twenty Set&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It appears they're also the ones with the authority to define new words. This, my friends, is &lt;a href="http://www.wikiality.com/"&gt;Wikiality&lt;/a&gt;. If enough people say it's true, it becomes reality. A few weeks ago, a friend of mine mentioned how the proliferation of blogs is diluting information and facts are no longer important; opinions, rather than facts, are king and this is what the "new authority" seems to be. Have they started accepting blogs as references in university assignments yet?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I had a &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/2008/04/28/why-i-won’t-regret-blogging-ten-years-later/"&gt;lengthy debate&lt;/a&gt; today over at Brazen Careerist about what authority bloggers, especially GenY ones, have when it comes to workplace issues. It would appear that my understanding of authority is outdated; we should be embracing the "new authority", which is, in essence, a popularity contest rather than actual experience or expertise as the dictionary suggests.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you had two different opinions on a career decision, would you take advice from someone with a year of experience because they have 1,000 blog subscribers? Or would you take advice from someone who's actually experienced the results of their advice?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Am I old school or crazy!? Maybe both?&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-7910309089452367024?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/riELUhJot68" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/7910309089452367024/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=7910309089452367024" title="4 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7910309089452367024?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7910309089452367024?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/riELUhJot68/how-do-you-define-authority.html" title="How do You Define Authority?" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SBfil3wsfwI/AAAAAAAAANQ/jAi5NUPhH6s/s72-c/Colbert_wikiality.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/how-do-you-define-authority.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQ3o8cCp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-1265908950742095135</id><published>2008-04-24T02:29:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:32.478-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:32.478-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Networking" /><title>10 Tips for Networking / Recruiting Events</title><content type="html">&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;With school coming to an end, recent graduates are searching for jobs and if they've done any research, they know that the &lt;a href="http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m3495/is_/ai_58738492"&gt;best&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.consumeraffairs.com/news04/2007/02/job_search.html"&gt;way&lt;/a&gt; to find a job is by networking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;At some point or another we've all been to a career fair or a networking/recruiting event. Many people (both candidates and recruiters) find these events stressful. Here are some &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;strategies to make this a more pleasant and fruitful experience&lt;/span&gt;! These strategies are from the candidate's viewpoint and later on we'll talk about the recruiters' standpoint.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SA_9eHwsfsI/AAAAAAAAAMw/IXJ0LomZaPU/s320/Smile.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5192647589302664898" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;1. Smile&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;We're all drawn to happy, positive people. When you walk in and maintain a smile, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;you're instantly more inviting and approachable&lt;/span&gt;; the recruiters will want to talk to you. A smile conveys confidence, positivity and is one of the most important things I recommend!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;2. Don't Drink too Much&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I'd be lying if I said I've never attended a recruiting event just for the free drinks. However, I've never been [really] hammered at a recruiting event and only once have I seen someone acting stupid at a networking event after drinking too much; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;obviously he wasn't getting a call back&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;3. Talk to the Recruiters&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;This should be obvious, but I've seen many people at these events stand around talking to their buddies rather than connecting with the recruiters/company employees. Although some recruiters will approach you, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;it's your responsibility to approach them&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;4. Be Nice to Everyone&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The other extreme is only talking to the recruiters. Although this is your primary objective, it doesn't hurt to make friends with some of the other people at the event. Being nice also &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;means giving others the opportunity to speak&lt;/span&gt; to the recruiters and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;not hijacking conversations&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;5. Find Common Ground&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;If you have something in common with the recruiter, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;make sure to take advantage of it.&lt;/span&gt; You'll be amazed at how quickly that person will open up. It could be that you went to the same school, were part of the same association, enjoy the same sport, anything. Having something in common will give you an edge and give the recruiter something to talk about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;6. Have Something Interesting to Say&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Rattling off a laundry list of accomplishments followed by &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;your GPA is not interesting&lt;/span&gt;. Choose a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;couple of accomplishments you're most proud of&lt;/span&gt; and discuss how those skills/lessons learned would be useful to the firm.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;7. Don't Ramble&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Some people ramble when they're nervous because they feel they have to say something at all times. This is not true. You should &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;be clear and concise&lt;/span&gt;; if what you have to say is interesting enough, the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;recruiter will probe you for more information&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;8. Ask Pertinent/Relevant Questions&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SA_95HwsftI/AAAAAAAAAM4/-1JpH0cPQuY/s200/Question.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5192648053159132882" border="0" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;conversation is a two way street&lt;/span&gt;. You shouldn't be doing all the talking; you should be asking questions not only about the job you're going for, but about their experiences as well.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;9. Collect Business Cards&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Ask for a business card after you've spoken to someone and have hopefully built &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SA_-E3wsfuI/AAAAAAAAANA/u8FVNMTJYUU/s200/BusinessCard2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5192648255022595810" border="0" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;some rapport. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Quick &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;tip&lt;/span&gt;: If you're collecting lots of cards, take a few seconds to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;write some quick notes on the back of the card&lt;/span&gt; about the person you just met. These notes are very handy later on&lt;s&gt;, especially if you've been drinking&lt;/s&gt;!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;10. Follow-up by Email&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is something most people do, so the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;recruiters will receive several&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Thanks, it was nice meeting you! Keep in touch."&lt;/span&gt;-type emails. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;You need to stand out&lt;/span&gt;: write something more specific about the conversation you had. Your &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;email should be brief, but memorable&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;If you want some more networking tips, here are a few recent posts:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://personalbrandingblog.wordpress.com/2008/04/23/college-students-fail-when-they-ask-for-jobs-instead-of-relationships/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;College Students Fail When They Ask For Jobs Instead of Relationships&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.defendingpandora.com/2008/04/how-to-work-event.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;How to Work an Event&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://savethelobsters.wordpress.com/2008/04/20/a-new-approach/"&gt;A New Approach&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'll have a follow up post about how I applied these concepts to the last networking event I was at...as a student.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have you got some tips/tricks to share about making it through a networking event?&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-1265908950742095135?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/nBuuj7Aei_A" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/1265908950742095135/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=1265908950742095135" title="9 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/1265908950742095135?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/1265908950742095135?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/nBuuj7Aei_A/10-tips-for-networking-recruiting.html" title="10 Tips for Networking / Recruiting Events" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SA_9eHwsfsI/AAAAAAAAAMw/IXJ0LomZaPU/s72-c/Smile.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>9</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/10-tips-for-networking-recruiting.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQ3g7fSp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-7166113470843681250</id><published>2008-04-18T01:06:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:32.605-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:32.605-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Office Politics" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Consulting" /><title>The Only Right Answers to Status Report Questions</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SAdj2Zq6vpI/AAAAAAAAAMY/J1U0QsVnWLc/s320/StatusReport_imgAnapasoft.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5190226881822768786" border="0" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;Status Report pic from &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" href="http://www.anapasoft.com/features/status_reporting.html"&gt;Anapasoft.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;As I wrote this, I noticed that Ryan had published a related post about &lt;a href="http://www.employeeevolution.com/archives/2008/04/17/lame-office-excuses/"&gt;making excuses&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While on my mandate in Pittsburgh, I was working with a project manager who has been in the consulting industry for quite some time. I always appreciated his direct honesty and sense of humour. Every once in a while, he'd come out with random &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;nuggets of wisdom&lt;/span&gt; (does wisdom come in nuggets?) that I'd never forget.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We were having our weekly team meeting and someone asked: &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"What's the status on x?"&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've been in a few situations where &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;the response is often some sort of excuse&lt;/span&gt;: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Oh, sorry, I forgot."&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"I didn't realize we were working on that."&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"That's not my responsibility"&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"I didn't get the email"&lt;/span&gt;, etc. In this case, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;the response was essentially an excuse as to why no one had even looked into x.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I always do my best not to make excuses and take responsibility, but I'll always remember what the PM said next...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Whenever a client asks about the status of something, you should only be giving one of two answers: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;'It's done.'&lt;/span&gt; or &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;'I'm on it.'&lt;/span&gt;, nothing else."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-7166113470843681250?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/wxn5kFIYbU8" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/7166113470843681250/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=7166113470843681250" title="8 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7166113470843681250?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7166113470843681250?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/wxn5kFIYbU8/only-right-answers-to-status-report.html" title="The Only Right Answers to Status Report Questions" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SAdj2Zq6vpI/AAAAAAAAAMY/J1U0QsVnWLc/s72-c/StatusReport_imgAnapasoft.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>8</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/only-right-answers-to-status-report.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQn8_cCp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-8175507729565937443</id><published>2008-04-15T02:38:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:33.148-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:33.148-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Diversity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Humour" /><title>Are You Ugly? Find Out Now!</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SAQh1Jq6vnI/AAAAAAAAAMI/7B0F2PCJK50/s200/MJ_PlasticSurgery.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5189309867650367090" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Last week, Penelope Trunk suggested that &lt;a href="http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/2008/04/08/plastic-surgery-is-the-next-must-have-career-tool-maybe/"&gt;plastic surgery might be the next must-have career tool&lt;/a&gt;. I'm afraid that people will be running to their friendly neighbourhood plastic surgeon after Penelope's advice, so as a public service, allow me to help you decide if such drastic measures are necessary.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I would hope that, unlike incompetence, people are aware if they're unattractive. However, in case you're unsure (i.e. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;if you'd rate yourself between 4-6&lt;/span&gt;), here are my top 3 methods to determine if you are, in fact, fugly.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;3. You Make Babies Cry&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SAQhopq6vmI/AAAAAAAAAMA/CI_VhVGu164/s200/CryingBaby.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5189309652902002274" border="0" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Studies have shown that even &lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/science/2004/sep/06/science.research2"&gt;newborn infants can identify attractive faces&lt;/a&gt;. It's worth mentioning that newborns can distinguish symmetry and it appears that &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/hottopics/love/attraction.shtml"&gt;perfect symmetry&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; is what's considered attractive&lt;/span&gt;. This method is probably the least reliable for the simple fact that many babies are &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;cry babies&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;2. Other People's Comments&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Have several people referred to you as hot or attractive? They're probably right. Have people &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SAQhfpq6vlI/AAAAAAAAAL4/7O4p8zi7SMw/s200/Bush_Chimp.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5189309498283179602" border="0" /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;compared you to monkeys or farm animals? They might be right too. This method is better than the first, but other people's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;comments may be biased by what they know about you&lt;/span&gt;. I've seen very attractive women be described as ugly because they had a disgusting personality. Note that family members and/or &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;people who are inebriated don't count&lt;/span&gt;!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;1. &lt;a href="http://www.hotornot.com/"&gt;HotOrNot.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is probably the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;most accurate/objective method&lt;/span&gt; because people's opinions aren't biased (positively or negatively) by your personality. It's based strictly on looks. What's the downside? People obviously mess with the results or get their friends to rate them. If you want something truly objective, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;don't tell your friends&lt;/span&gt; until you've got a few hundred votes from strangers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I joined a couple of years ago after a colleague told me I was "OK" looking, but that my personality made me attractive. I had to prove to her that even if I was a jerk, I was certainly higher than a 5.5!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The ratings seem pretty accurate by my standards; my &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;rating is typically +/-.5 from the average&lt;/span&gt;. If you rank anywhere above 7, you're probably doing alright and plastic surgery shouldn't cross your mind. If you're below a 3, continue reading...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Do You Need Plastic Surgery?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The easy answer: Unlikely. Regardless of what people think, if you're comfortable in your skin, that's what matters. Although I admit that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'm somewhat superficial (who isn't!?)&lt;/span&gt;, I also believe that beauty is skin deep and can disappear in an instant. Regardless of what happens to the outside, your inside (intelligence, personality) remains.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you haven't already read the hilarious &lt;a href="http://www.dealbreaker.com/2007/10/that_craigslist_ad_the_one_pos.php"&gt;Craigslist gold digger email&lt;/a&gt; that went out back in October, I strongly suggest you do! There's a clear explanation of how looks don't last. Here's a highlight:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;...your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity...in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;So, in economic terms &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;you are a depreciating asset&lt;/span&gt; and I am an earning asset...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ultimately, if your looks seriously affect your self-confidence, consider the points above, consider if it's your personality that needs work and as a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;last resort consider plastic surgery&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-8175507729565937443?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/zdvcjF2j9dg" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/8175507729565937443/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=8175507729565937443" title="11 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/8175507729565937443?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/8175507729565937443?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/zdvcjF2j9dg/are-you-ugly-find-out-now.html" title="Are You Ugly? Find Out Now!" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/SAQh1Jq6vnI/AAAAAAAAAMI/7B0F2PCJK50/s72-c/MJ_PlasticSurgery.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>11</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/are-you-ugly-find-out-now.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQn04eSp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-4116543194169033267</id><published>2008-04-10T03:29:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:33.331-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:33.331-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><title>How to Choose a Good Blog Post Title</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_2XdIFYJMI/AAAAAAAAALo/JCXpXcxgQWg/s200/ExcellentFeedback.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5187468872442717378" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I've noticed that a lot of bloggers don't &lt;span&gt;realize the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; importance of post titles&lt;/span&gt;. This might explain why the &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/"&gt;Brazen Careerist&lt;/a&gt; website changes several titles of the posts they publish. Let's look at how to come up with better post titles...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Make Sure it's Google Friendly!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Back when &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2004/09/its-been-whilebut-im-finally-here.html"&gt;I first started blogging&lt;/a&gt; a few years ago, I used to title my posts haphazardly and whenever possible, I would do my best to come up with something clever. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Clever titles will certainly show how witty you are, but Google doesn't catch wit!&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you have relevant information to share and you want people to find it, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;key words/ideas of your post should be in the title&lt;/span&gt;. Think about what someone will be searching for in order to find the information you want to share. Some useful key words are: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"How To", "Top Ten", "Tips/Ideas for"&lt;/span&gt;,&lt;/span&gt; etc.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; This blog has only been around for a few weeks now and it's already showing up in some relevant Google searches.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Controversial and/or Enticing Titles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I'm not a fan of making outlandish statements for shock value to get attention, but everyone knows this works! &lt;span&gt;C&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;ontroversial or nonsensical titles&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; will likely arouse curiosity&lt;/span&gt; and make people want to read the entry. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://modite.com/blog"&gt;Some&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://blog.penelopetrunk.com/"&gt;bloggers&lt;/a&gt; are quite good at using this technique. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Provided you follow the first point, this strategy works as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Renaming Post Titles on Brazen Careerist&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I'm sure I'm not the only one who noticed that &lt;span&gt;BC frequently changes the original post title&lt;/span&gt;. The new title is generally more relevant, controversial, enticing or all of the above.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The only downside to this, is that the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;new title may not convey the message the author intended&lt;/span&gt;. At the very worst, and I've seen this happen twice now, a commenter will misconstrue the post and the &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/2008/04/07/warning-once-you-graduate-all-the-doors-close/#comment-2040"&gt;main sticking point is the title&lt;/a&gt; (i.e. &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"If that's not what you meant, why is the title xxx?"&lt;/span&gt;). I'll use a personal example:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Original Title: &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-to-get-job-in-consulting.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;How to Get a Job in Consulting&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;New Title: &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/2008/03/19/getting-my-first-job-how-i-rose-to-the-top-of-a-200-applicant-pool/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Getting My First Job: How I Rose to the Top of a 200-Applicant Pool&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You'll probably agree that the 2nd one is more enticing, however, I'm aware that people sometimes perceive me as arrogant, so there's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;no way I would have titled my post that way&lt;/span&gt;. I wondered if some chose not to read it thinking: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Wow, that guy sounds like a cocky bastard, I don't want to read his stuff."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I've told &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/author/ryan-paugh/"&gt;Ryan Paugh&lt;/a&gt; on several occasions that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;they're doing a great job over at BC&lt;/span&gt; and I'm sure they're still learning and adapting as they go along. Relevant posts are manually reviewed and selected, which is a big job in itself, but I'm sure things can get better. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The BC community is a great learning environment for all of us and hopefully as we get better at titling our posts there will be less of a need to change them!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-4116543194169033267?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/Wl37CexUB54" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/4116543194169033267/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=4116543194169033267" title="5 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/4116543194169033267?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/4116543194169033267?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/Wl37CexUB54/how-to-choose-good-blog-post-title.html" title="How to Choose a Good Blog Post Title" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_2XdIFYJMI/AAAAAAAAALo/JCXpXcxgQWg/s72-c/ExcellentFeedback.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>5</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/how-to-choose-good-blog-post-title.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQns6cCp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-5485903250068761177</id><published>2008-04-09T02:14:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:33.518-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:33.518-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><title>Don't Let Anyone Stop You!</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5187077816620622210" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_wzyrn7IYI/AAAAAAAAALg/TwLEIFrzjVk/s200/RedTape.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Continuing &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-to-get-job-in-consulting.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;my job story&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;...&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was October of 2005 and despite having &lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;received a personal invitation to the recruiting cocktail&lt;/span&gt;, I was told I had to register with my university's career placement center. I assumed they were somehow tracking the candidates, so I showed up a few hours before the event to register.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was greeted by a friendly woman who confirmed that the event was, indeed, that evening. She pulled up my profile and said:&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Oh, I'm sorry, you can't attend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- (Surprised) &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Why not?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Well, they're looking to hire people immediately and &lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;you're only graduating in June, so you can't go&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Really?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Yes, I'm very sorry, but make sure you attend next year!&lt;/span&gt; (Smiles)&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- (Thinking) &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Well, &lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;are they going to check my ID at the door&lt;/span&gt;?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- (Pause) &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;I guess not?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Great, I'll see you there!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;- &lt;span style="FONT-STYLE: italic"&gt;Yeah, but...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I didn't stick around to hear to the rest. I've never been a fan of &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red_tape"&gt;red tape&lt;/a&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;In hindsight, it's a very &lt;span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"&gt;good thing I didn't listen&lt;/span&gt;; that could have been the end of this story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; I went to grab a quick supper and headed over to the event... &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-5485903250068761177?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/07_Fl4K9lSc" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/5485903250068761177/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=5485903250068761177" title="0 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/5485903250068761177?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/5485903250068761177?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/07_Fl4K9lSc/dont-let-anyone-stop-you.html" title="Don't Let Anyone Stop You!" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_wzyrn7IYI/AAAAAAAAALg/TwLEIFrzjVk/s72-c/RedTape.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>0</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/dont-let-anyone-stop-you.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDQnY-eyp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-7723305461651295846</id><published>2008-04-07T03:14:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:33.853-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:33.853-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Resumes" /><title>Consulting Resume Tips for Recent Graduates</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_mMmLn7IVI/AAAAAAAAALI/CyhIzG9b6N4/s320/Envelope.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5186331033476997458" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;I've helped (and still help) several of my friends review their &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/movie-review-cover-letter.html"&gt;cover letters&lt;/a&gt; and resumes. The one thing I always remind them of is this: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;any resume advice should be taken with a grain of salt&lt;/span&gt;. Some people like bullets, others like paragraphs that tell a story; some like the single page, others feel you should list everything; some like fancy colors and/or paper while others like to keep it simple.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You can find resume tips all over the internet, but the following are &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;my personal top 10 that have &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-to-get-job-in-consulting.html"&gt;worked for me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;. I'll be using my resume as the template if you'd like to follow along.&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://the-life-and-times-of-mr-selvarajah.googlegroups.com/web/CLEANSED%20Selvarajah_Ian_Resume_2008_FINAL.pdf?gda=r67Evl4AAADXgD9gy5-WXbUdlV-IM3EODPwf67Lg4PgHV7WnUGZhemG1qiJ7UbTIup-M2XPURDTTQlYFImknrRsYGBzHpUn2tznMRrFTgo_hRAf6dho7qtQgC21QCEoILkO07rAxDhs"&gt;Ian Selvarajah Resume (February 2008)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 0);font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold; font-family: verdana;" href="http://the-life-and-times-of-mr-selvarajah.googlegroups.com/web/CLEANSED%20Selvarajah_Ian_CoverLetter_Apr2008_Review.pdf?gda=bDEPcmcAAADXgD9gy5-WXbUdlV-IM3EOHCMubuSunKPsYGrInY-4LmG1qiJ7UbTIup-M2XPURDTTQlYFImknrRsYGBzHpUn23uIlZtcqhggSdJU-eyKQ1lSx4ZACgnXYUucl-EbcfRW8q8nf5qU9Xk1kFIOnoGFC"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(255, 0, 0);"&gt;UPDATE&lt;/span&gt;: After &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/2008/04/07/ten-resume-tips-for-recent-graduates/#comments"&gt;receiving some great feedback&lt;/a&gt; from &lt;a href="http://keppiecareers.wordpress.com/about/"&gt;Miriam Salpeter&lt;/a&gt; of &lt;a href="http://www.keppiecareers.com/"&gt;Keppie Careers&lt;/a&gt;, I've made a few key modifications. Here's the updated one:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;a href="http://the-life-and-times-of-mr-selvarajah.googlegroups.com/web/CLEANSED%20Selvarajah_Ian_CoverLetter_Apr2008_Review.pdf?gda=bDEPcmcAAADXgD9gy5-WXbUdlV-IM3EOHCMubuSunKPsYGrInY-4LmG1qiJ7UbTIup-M2XPURDTTQlYFImknrRsYGBzHpUn23uIlZtcqhggSdJU-eyKQ1lSx4ZACgnXYUucl-EbcfRW8q8nf5qU9Xk1kFIOnoGFC"&gt;Ian Selvarajah Resume (April 2008)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) Examples, examples, examples. If you take one point away from this article, please make sure it's this one: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Whether it's on your cover letter or resume, examples are critical.&lt;/span&gt; You don't need a "Core Skills" section that lists things like leadership, team playing, people skills, communication skills. You should be describing your work experience in such a way that these skills are obviously reflected.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_menLn7IXI/AAAAAAAAALY/JtWiWTU6oJc/s1600-h/McDonalds.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_menLn7IXI/AAAAAAAAALY/JtWiWTU6oJc/s200/McDonalds.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5186350841866166642" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:verdana;font-size:85%;"  &gt;2) &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;List accomplishments, not tasks.&lt;/span&gt; Employers are looking for people who go over and above what's required. Simply listing tasks is not value added because most of us know what tasks a typical job requires. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Regardless of the job&lt;/span&gt; or job description, you want to describe your experience in a way that sets you apart from your peers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;3) &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Quantify examples&lt;/span&gt; whenever possible. People's eyes tend to be drawn to numbers on resumes. Saying: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Sales increased from $500K to over $3M"&lt;/span&gt; is much more effective than &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Sales increased substantially"&lt;/span&gt; or &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Consistently served 20% more clients than average"&lt;/span&gt; is better than &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Served lots of clients"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4) Put &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;your best foot forward&lt;/span&gt;: In terms of the order of the resume, if you've done a lot academically, have your education section up front. If you feel your work experience is a better reflection (as in my case), put that up front.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;5) Unless your previous experience is very relevant to the role, try for &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;not more than 2 pages&lt;/span&gt; especially when applying for entry level roles. The office newb has a great idea about keeping a &lt;a href="http://theofficenewb.wordpress.com/2008/03/19/5-quick-and-easy-ways-to-improve-your-resume/"&gt;"Master Resume" (point 3)&lt;/a&gt; with all the descriptions and then cutting out points that are irrelevant to the job you're applying for.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;6) If your GPA isn't great (i.e. at least &gt; 3.5), don't bother including it unless the target company requires you to do so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;7) Dates - &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Putting dates ages you&lt;/span&gt;, so it's not necessary to put the dates you attended college/university. If you have a lot of relevant experience, you don't want to be cut because they can tell your age by when you went to college. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Employment dates on the other hand, are very important&lt;/span&gt; as recruiters are concerned with gaps in your history.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;8) Objective - I've never been a fan of the objective section. If you can &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;have a brief paragraph introducing your core skills instead&lt;/span&gt;, that would be preferable. I didn't have that initial paragraph when I applied, but it was added so clients could read a quick summary before I'm sold on an engagement. I liked what was written, so I kept it.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;9) Unless you're applying for a job in the same industry and you know the recruiter/HR person will definitely understand, do your best to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;avoid acronyms or industry-specific jargon&lt;/span&gt;. Note that I've left some of the jargon (UAT, FICO, BW, SD, CATT, etc.) on my resume because people in SAP would understand what all of that means.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;10) The items in blue text are hyperlinks. One advantage to sending softcopies of resumes today, is that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;you can use hyperlinks&lt;/span&gt; in case someone would like to explore something beyond your resume.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-7723305461651295846?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/o1OoyM-SURQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/7723305461651295846/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=7723305461651295846" title="11 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7723305461651295846?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7723305461651295846?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/o1OoyM-SURQ/consulting-resume-tips-for-recent.html" title="Consulting Resume Tips for Recent Graduates" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_mMmLn7IVI/AAAAAAAAALI/CyhIzG9b6N4/s72-c/Envelope.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>11</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/consulting-resume-tips-for-recent.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDRXwzfyp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-7038024623186330021</id><published>2008-04-02T11:02:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:34.287-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:34.287-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Diversity" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Office Politics" /><title>Workplace Discrimination - The Easy Way Out</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_L5ILn7IPI/AAAAAAAAAKY/uRyXp8PNvXk/s320/Casual_Discrimination.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5184480040011374834" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;With the amount of progress our generation has made with discrimination in the workplace, I'm quite disappointed (and somewhat disgusted, to be honest) when I read articles from seemingly progressive individuals about "casual" discrimination. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I'm not blind. I know &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;discrimination still exists&lt;/span&gt; and it's a sensitive topic, but let's dig deeper into this "casual discrimination" business...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I'm assuming the initial thought of "casual sexism" was triggered by &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://twentyset.com/deal-with-sexism-in-the-workplace/"&gt;Monica's post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;, which, in her defense, sounded like a more balanced version of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/"&gt;Rebecca's post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;. Monica also seems to understand that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;both men and women &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;can use gender as an edge&lt;/span&gt;. Funny how when gender works to our advantage it's fine, but if not, it turns into a problem. I guess it takes controversy to stir people's emotions because Rebecca's post got lots of comments, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/#comment-47535"&gt;including&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/#comment-47604"&gt;our&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/#comment-47735"&gt;back&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/#comment-48931"&gt;and&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/#comment-49056"&gt;forth&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I threw in my 2 cents because I was quite perturbed by the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Rah rah rah!"&lt;/span&gt; tone of the post and the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"you go girl!"&lt;/span&gt; comments. It also seemed that the central point of the casual sexism argument, a comment someone had made, was deemed not to be sexist after all. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://quietthethunder.blogspot.com/"&gt;Milena&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: verdana;" href="http://modite.com/blog/2008/03/25/gen-y-women-%e2%80%93-out-of-the-workplace-woods/#comment-49108"&gt;finally mention&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;ed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; that this isn't just an issue of sexism, but rather, discrimination in general.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Casual" Discrimination and The Gender/Race/Age Card&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm defining casual discrimination as any situation or statement you can &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;choose &lt;/span&gt;to interpret as discriminatory&lt;/span&gt;. Of course, as soon as there's the potential of discrimination, we pull one of our handy cards. Clearly, if you're a young, dark skinned, homosexual female, you have several cards to choose from!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is very easy and almost instinctive to pull one of these cards, because it essentially absolves one of responsibility. Most &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;people are quick to pass blame, rather than looking inwardly&lt;/span&gt; or trying to see if there may be an actual problem; they decide to blame it on circumstance and that the problem is someone else being biased.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Why am I always the one taking notes&lt;/span&gt; on the whiteboards during meetings? Because... I'm a woman? No. I'm the youngest? Perhaps. I'm brown? Unlikely. I might have the clearest writing of the bunch? Probably.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why was I asked to pick up lunch for management visitors several years ago? Because... I was a woman? No. I was 20? Maybe. I'm brown? Maybe. My work was always done and I had spare time to go? Probably.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Hundreds of situations can be deemed as "casual discrimination" if you look hard enough. However, if you have the option to &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;perceive something in a positive way&lt;/span&gt;, I would encourage and challenge you to do so. I promise it will be more beneficial to you in the long run!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Discrimination = No Personal Responsibility&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;I always try to think: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Will this thought/statement/idea add value to the present situation?"&lt;/span&gt;. If the answer is no, I try to find an alternative or let it go. If you're quick to assume discrimination, you'll never better yourself because it's always &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;someone else's fault&lt;/span&gt;. There is &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;no value added when you assume discrimination&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I don't even want to think of where I'd be today in terms of my career and self-esteem if I assumed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_MAPLn7ITI/AAAAAAAAAK4/8l1PtSTOGLk/s1600-h/Ian_Montparnasse_Paris.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_MAPLn7ITI/AAAAAAAAAK4/8l1PtSTOGLk/s200/Ian_Montparnasse_Paris.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5184487856851853618" border="0" height="115" width="160" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; things happened (or didn't happen) to me because of the &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;color of my skin, my gender or any other factor that is beyond my control. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Is it possible&lt;/span&gt; that I was passed up for a job or promotion because of my skin color or race? &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Sure it is&lt;/span&gt;, but you'll &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;never&lt;/span&gt; hear me say: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"It's because I'm brown."&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'm&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;confident and intrinsically motivated&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;, so I don't attribute successes or failures to external forces.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;I hope to keep it that way&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Casual Discrimination" is an easy cop out&lt;/span&gt;. If it's not obvious or blatant, I would be very careful when playing any of the discrimination cards. In my experience, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;perception is, quite often, not reality&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-7038024623186330021?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/_HUJ9qzsZoI" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/7038024623186330021/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=7038024623186330021" title="31 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7038024623186330021?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/7038024623186330021?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/_HUJ9qzsZoI/workplace-discrimination-easy-way-out.html" title="Workplace Discrimination - The Easy Way Out" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_L5ILn7IPI/AAAAAAAAAKY/uRyXp8PNvXk/s72-c/Casual_Discrimination.png" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>31</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/workplace-discrimination-easy-way-out.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;D0YDQ3s6eSp7ImA9WxVXFEg.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-2656041709548609143</id><published>2008-03-31T10:44:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-02-12T11:12:52.511-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2009-02-12T11:12:52.511-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Resumes" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Humour" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Interviews" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Networking" /><title>Overusing Business Buzzwords</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5183753894185607394" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_Bks7n7IOI/AAAAAAAAAKQ/ld3PQYL7Hb0/s320/Corporate_BS_Generator.jpg" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Consultants love buzzwords. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I hate them&lt;/span&gt;. Thankfully, in IT consulting, rather than management consulting, I don't have to deal with this too frequently. However, when I sit in the airport, I cringe whenever I hear a suit say things like:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;"We need to target seamless functionality while harnessing customized, holistic models in order to innovate revolutionary user-centric platforms!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Right! That's exactly what we need to do! &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Wait...what?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Get to the point and get to it quickly.&lt;/span&gt; If I can get the same value/information out of 10 pages, I don't need a 30 page report. Those who believe that time is correlated to value, would say that a 30 page report would take longer to write, so that makes it better! &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/03/time-is-not-always-correlated-to-value.html"&gt;I disagree.&lt;/a&gt; Here's why I avoid buzzwords:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1) The wrong word in a given context will make you look like a &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;complete idiot&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2) Too many big words in a sentence can come off as &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;trying to sound smart&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;3) The words might make sense, but &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;in fact sound like BS&lt;/span&gt; due to terms like &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"holistic*"&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;4) Simple words that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;get your point across in a clear and concise manner&lt;/span&gt; are always appreciated.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Unfortunately, as a workforce rookie, &lt;span style="font-size:0;"&gt;you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; may be asked to "add verbiage/meat &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:0;"&gt;to"&lt;/span&gt; or "fluff up" a document using all the fancy words you learned in your MBA program. Should this be the case, no problem, I've got your back! Here's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;a very handy tool&lt;/span&gt; that I've used in the past: The &lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.tommybutler.me/bs-generator.html"&gt;Corporate Bullshit Generator&lt;/a&gt;. Make sure your sound is on to hear the cash register! Have fun!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:78%;"&gt;*Truth be told: I really like the word "holistic"; that and "leverage"!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-2656041709548609143?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/BEZx8NYRDK0" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/2656041709548609143/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=2656041709548609143" title="4 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/2656041709548609143?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/2656041709548609143?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/BEZx8NYRDK0/overusing-business-buzzwords.html" title="Overusing Business Buzzwords" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R_Bks7n7IOI/AAAAAAAAAKQ/ld3PQYL7Hb0/s72-c/Corporate_BS_Generator.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>4</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/overusing-business-buzzwords.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDRH88eCp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-3161706230145028057</id><published>2008-03-24T13:55:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:35.170-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:35.170-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Resumes" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><title>The "Movie Review" Cover Letter</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;img src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-G4kLn7IMI/AAAAAAAAAKA/wG3iABOGUoY/s320/Envelope.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5179623978187825346" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Most people I know, myself included, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;dread creating cover letters&lt;/span&gt;! The cover letter can be tricky because it has to be tailored specifically to the company and the role you're applying for. This difficulty is compounded by the fact that most cover letters, unfortunately, tend to be boring. Remember that it's &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;unnecessary to go into full detail&lt;/span&gt; on a cover letter; be creative and succinct: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;it&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;should be &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;a "sneak peek" to encourage someone to review your resume&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-to-get-job-in-consulting.html"&gt;applying to a consulting firm&lt;/a&gt; and I knew the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;typical skills&lt;/span&gt; they (and most companies) look for are things like: &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;leadership, critical thinking, analytical, communication and teamwork&lt;/span&gt;. How does one convey all these skills in a succinct cover letter?&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I call my format &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"The Movie Review"&lt;/span&gt; cover letter. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I came up with the initial concept and I was fortunate enough to have some &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;good people providing quotes&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;friends in marketing to help with the formatting&lt;/span&gt;. The final product &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;looked more like a movie review&lt;/span&gt; than a cover letter!&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://the-life-and-times-of-mr-selvarajah.googlegroups.com/web/CLEANSED%20Selvarajah_Ian_CoverLetter_2008_FINAL.pdf?gda=BrothGMAAACeGag-5duIPvIKdx7NqBgdx0E9D23lll7Vy8j8qGvobWG1qiJ7UbTIup-M2XPURDTTQlYFImknrRsYGBzHpUn23uIlZtcqhggSdJU-eyKQ1nhU3guar0tmL02cte4NrTIrhigBfcRETQMLVQP4zNIx"&gt;Click here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; to see my cover letter&lt;/span&gt; (individual names have been removed for privacy).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I either &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;requested or remembered things people had said about me&lt;/span&gt; and asked them if they wouldn't mind me including their quote in a cover letter. After I finalized the best ones, I wrote up a small blurb explaining some of the quotes that may not have been clear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I've never liked writing cover letters, but at the start of one's career they're a necessary evil. However, I like to believe that as time passes and your career progresses, your contacts should be your "cover letter".&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;It's one thing for &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;you&lt;/span&gt; to say you're good, but getting &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;others &lt;/span&gt;to say it is even better!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-3161706230145028057?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/V2wyZ918H8g" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/3161706230145028057/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=3161706230145028057" title="5 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/3161706230145028057?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/3161706230145028057?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/V2wyZ918H8g/movie-review-cover-letter.html" title="The &quot;Movie Review&quot; Cover Letter" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-G4kLn7IMI/AAAAAAAAAKA/wG3iABOGUoY/s72-c/Envelope.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>5</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/movie-review-cover-letter.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDRHc7eyp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-6867939589717022288</id><published>2008-03-19T17:21:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:35.903-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:35.903-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Resumes" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Consulting" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Interviews" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Networking" /><title>How to Get a Job in Consulting</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-FObIzqEMI/AAAAAAAAAJM/RmrDTvpH4TU/s1600-h/Consulting_Despair.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-FObIzqEMI/AAAAAAAAAJM/RmrDTvpH4TU/s320/Consulting_Despair.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5179507274580365506" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"&gt;Everyone rips on Consultants...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The story of how I got into my current job is quite interesting and there are a few lessons I learned along the way. I'll put the short[er] version up and write each section in further detail later. I'll share my story and then refer back to it once we get into the "Lessons Learned". Here we go...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/movie-review-cover-letter.html"&gt;Cover Letter&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/consulting-resume-tips-for-recent.html"&gt;Resume&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I prepared my &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;cover letter and resume for another firm&lt;/span&gt; in September of 2005 although I was graduating in June 2006. I hadn't realized that consulting firms starting recruiting this early, but a friend who worked for one, suggested I apply. Turns out, I was filtered out of the first round due to my grades at my friend's place, but the same application package got me into my new role!&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The Networking/Recruiting Cocktail&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 5px 0px; float: right;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-FV4IzqEPI/AAAAAAAAAJk/8CEselPa2mg/s200/Whiskey.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5179515469377966322" border="0" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The day started off with someone at the career center telling me &lt;a href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/04/dont-let-anyone-stop-you.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I wasn't allowed to attend the cocktail&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; because I was graduating in June and they were looking to hire people immediately. Needless to say, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I went anyway.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I listened to all the presentations and eventually &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;met Angie (an SAP recruiter)&lt;/span&gt; who I immediately connected with; turns out &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;we knew a lot of the same people&lt;/span&gt; and though neither of us knew it at the time, she would eventually become a friend and yet another one of my career mentors.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;span&gt;very next day&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I sent a follow up email&lt;/span&gt; to Angie containing my application package. She suggested that despite my grades that I also send my application through the conventional application process.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;The First 3 Interviews&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was told &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;200+ people had applied for the job&lt;/span&gt; and that they had selected an initial 12 to go through their interview process. Once again, odds are I would have been screened, but thanks to Angie, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was put in the first 12 to be interviewed&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The first interview was a "Case Study" type round where candidates were put into mixed functional groups and had to solve a case. Thankfully, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was exempted&lt;/span&gt; from this round because &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was in an actual case competition&lt;/span&gt; at the time (&lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/11/2005-international-business-challenge.html"&gt;International Business Challenge in Austin, TX&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The second interview went very smoothly; it ended up primarily being a friendly chat with her and I discussing my trip to Sri Lanka and the most recent business case competition I was in.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The third went just as well, however, this was when the damning issue of my &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;not so stellar grades&lt;/span&gt; came up. He eventually said: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Don't worry about it. You've got &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;MORE than enough practical experience&lt;/span&gt; to make up for your grades!"&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;The Final Interview&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was informed that of all the applicants, &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was one of the 2 finalists&lt;/span&gt; selected to meet the partner of the practice. I wasn't that nervous, but very excited that I had made the final cut! This turned out to be &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;the most challenging interview of my life&lt;/span&gt; and I know interviewing is my strong point! When I left the office, I was almost certain I wouldn't get the job, but I &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;hoped for the best&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The Offer / Negotiation&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 10px 5px 0px 0pt; float: left;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-FYu4zqEQI/AAAAAAAAAJs/m8TFoOGFQMc/s200/CanadianCash.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5179518608999059714" border="0" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;About a week later, I was &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/11/my-first-real-career-job.html"&gt;very pleasantly surprised&lt;/a&gt; when I got a phone call saying that &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was the one they selected!&lt;/span&gt; They made an offer, I countered, they accepted and we signed the papers. &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Done and done.&lt;/span&gt; I was in and didn't have to stress out about looking for a job when I graduated the following June!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-6867939589717022288?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/rakOL4qHvpQ" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/6867939589717022288/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=6867939589717022288" title="2 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/6867939589717022288?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/6867939589717022288?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/rakOL4qHvpQ/how-to-get-job-in-consulting.html" title="How to Get a Job in Consulting" /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R-FObIzqEMI/AAAAAAAAAJM/RmrDTvpH4TU/s72-c/Consulting_Despair.jpg" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-to-get-job-in-consulting.html</feedburner:origLink></entry><entry gd:etag="W/&quot;CUcDR34zcSp7ImA9WxRbGEU.&quot;"><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-900045598816675666.post-2870216891795384854</id><published>2008-03-18T01:43:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T23:24:36.089-05:00</updated><app:edited xmlns:app="http://www.w3.org/2007/app">2008-12-09T23:24:36.089-05:00</app:edited><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Blogging" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Consulting" /><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Career" /><title>A New Beginning...</title><content type="html">&lt;center&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R98nW4zqEAI/AAAAAAAAAFs/ZRwEsGl_Bm4/s1600-h/NewBlog0Posts.png"&gt;&lt;img style="cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R98nW4zqEAI/AAAAAAAAAFs/ZRwEsGl_Bm4/s320/NewBlog0Posts.png" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5178901370659016706" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;"You haven't created a blog post yet!"&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/center&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;The Past&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;I've been considering &lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebranding"&gt;rebranding&lt;/a&gt; my &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/"&gt;existing blog&lt;/a&gt; for quite some time now. After blogging for more than 3 1/2 years about the random happenings in my life, I think it's finally time for me to have a blog that has a little more focus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Since [re]entering the corporate world, my life has taken quite a different turn relative to what I &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2007/10/why-i-havent-been-blogging.html"&gt;used to blog about&lt;/a&gt;. I &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2005/11/my-first-real-career-job.html"&gt;expected my new career to be very exciting and challenging&lt;/a&gt;, but quickly realized that although I was in a prestigious firm, being in an entry level role after having been a manager was just &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/02/boreout-new-office-disease.html"&gt;too boring&lt;/a&gt;. I'm in the consulting industry and have yet to &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/03/how-do-you-define-work.html"&gt;do a 70 hour work week&lt;/a&gt; (not that I'm asking for it!! :) ). I'm &lt;a href="http://the1truecoolguy.blogspot.com/2008/02/geny-youre-overqualified-prove-it.html"&gt;consistently referred to as a "top performer"&lt;/a&gt; despite not actually working very hard at all.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:verdana;" &gt;The Future&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Now is the time to start over. It's time for a new beginning.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;My decision to finally take the step and start a more professionally focused blog was triggered when I was asked to be a &lt;a href="http://www.brazencareerist.com/author/ian-selvarajah/"&gt;contributor at BrazenCareerist.com&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;As to my career, I've decided I'm going to give my organization another chance. I'm going to forget about how bored I've been for the last year and a half and focus on things getting better. I'm starting a new project where I'm being trusted with a lot of responsibility and will be spending the majority of time on my own with little to no supervision and a new experience at hand. As my coach said: &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;"Now you'll have the chance to show us what we need to see!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here's to new beginnings!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/900045598816675666-2870216891795384854?l=genyconsultant.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~4/QbEr6JYsxMY" height="1" width="1"/&gt;</content><link rel="replies" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/feeds/2870216891795384854/comments/default" title="Post Comments" /><link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=900045598816675666&amp;postID=2870216891795384854" title="2 Comments" /><link rel="edit" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/2870216891795384854?v=2" /><link rel="self" type="application/atom+xml" href="http://www.blogger.com/feeds/900045598816675666/posts/default/2870216891795384854?v=2" /><link rel="alternate" type="text/html" href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/GenYConsultant/~3/QbEr6JYsxMY/new-beginning.html" title="A New Beginning..." /><author><name>Ian Selvarajah</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17145922677723726634</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail" width="32" height="24" src="http://bp2.blogger.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R0s_Ffk4OiI/AAAAAAAAADA/q7hgDA1jmUk/s320/Ian_MontparnasseMirror.JPG" /></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_s0owTvKYzgQ/R98nW4zqEAI/AAAAAAAAAFs/ZRwEsGl_Bm4/s72-c/NewBlog0Posts.png" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>2</thr:total><feedburner:origLink>http://genyconsultant.blogspot.com/2008/03/new-beginning.html</feedburner:origLink></entry></feed>

