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Welcome to the Dating Wizard Archives!

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Tue, 03 Jul 2018 19:26:00 +0000

If you're new here, this site features articles by yours truly, your friendly neighborhood Dating Wizard, all the way back from 2008! Enjoy! And if you are looking for my new site, just head on over to https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com or to my blog https://thedatingwizardreturns.blogspot.com

-Michael Marks

The Dating Wizard Returns Blog!

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Wed, 27 Apr 2016 02:20:00 +0000

Hello again!

Just want to let everyone know my new blog is at: http://thedatingwizardreturns.blogspot.com

See you there!

Best,

Michael

The Dating Wizard Returns

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Wed, 06 Apr 2016 16:32:00 +0000

Hellooooooooooooooooooooo! Just wanted to update everyone on my new site, which is http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com

It is the next level UP in attracting the woman of your dreams.

Check it out. You'll be glad you did.

All the best,

Michael

#1 Thing To Attract Women (You Can't See It In Any "Pick Up" Video)

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sat, 19 Mar 2016 15:44:00 +0000

The most powerful thing a man can do to attract women is something that happens so fast that virtually NO ONE can even DETECT it.

Which is why it can't be learned by watching a pick-up.

I've just completed my most POWERFUL book on attracting women in THIRTEEN YEARS, that reveals MASSIVELY IMPORTANT NEW SECRETS.

Check it out HERE:

http://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/book.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Power Of MEANING For Success With A Truly Good Woman

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Tue, 01 Mar 2016 05:50:00 +0000

Today I want to talk about meaning, and how it

relates to pick up, dating, and relationships.

A sense of meaning is the most important thing

is the most important factor in one experiencing

the highest degree of happiness.

This has not only been proven by experts in the

field of positive psychology such as Martin Seligman,

but you can probably attest to this in your own

experiences in life.

Think back to specific experiences in your own life.

Were you happiest when you just did things like

have a meal packed with sugar, salt, or fat?

Even sex itself, as high as it ranks, is not the MOST

powerful emotion, at least not unless it is combined

with a sense of meaning.

In fact, PLEASURE itself is not necessarily thing that

actually gives the most happiness.

People will go through UNIMAGINABLE SWEAT,

PAIN, AND EFFORT to accomplish actions that

are tied to a sense of MEANING for them.

It can be a million different things depending on the

individual.

However, perhaps something like completing a

marathon that you trained all year for, or seeing

the work you put into helping a community of

kids learn how to read, or some kind of other

really CHALLENGING activity that combined

YOUR skills with helping others; usually it is

THESE KINDS OF THINGS THAT give the most

deep sense of meaning and happiness.

Now, no man and no woman, no matter how

sexy they find each other, can find happiness

in just being with each other.

It has to be part of a larger picture.

And don’t get me wrong for one second-

sex and the entire physical and erotic side

of the man-woman connection is MASSIVELY

important to understand and to be comfortable

with. More on this in the future.

It’s just that most men and women are not

even AWARE of how POWERFUL a sense of

meaning in life is, and how closely linked it is

to a sense of happiness.

Many women try to find this sense of meaning

through their career, and some of them do succeed

in finding this because of the nature of the work

they do, since it connects their skills to helping

others in a massive way.

But many women do not. And, more importantly,

most women when they meet men who try to

pick them up end up finding the conversations

lack any real significance on a deep level.

That is perfectly fine when you are dealing with

women who are promiscuous and just looking

to get drunk and jump into the sack.

But it is not enough for a woman who is actually

looking for a man for a real relationship. Nor should

it be enough for a man looking for a woman for

a real relationship.

And the time to show your ability to appreciate

meaning, to FIND meaning, and to CREATE meaning,

is in the very first interaction you have with the

woman you approach.

Look for all the possibilities in the environment,

in the situation, in the things she is saying and

doing, that can lead to a POWERFUL perspective

that is MEANINGFUL.

For example, let’s say you are on the commuter

train and she is sitting next to you. And the train

is just waiting there for some technical mechanical

issue.

You might strike up a conversation on how lucky

we are to have these kinds of problems, and how

precious time is, and how you are going to do some

meditation in that moment because it is such a great

opportunity for that.

This might lead to her agreeing, laughing, or perhaps

sharing a story with you about places she’s been

where there was no train or commuter travel,

and that might lead to you asking about the culture

there, and how people find as much happiness or

even more over there with even less material

things around them.

Do you see what I am getting at?

A sense of MEANING.

Now, NONE of this means that you can’t or shouldn’t

ALSO be able to flirt, be playful, and all the rest of that

good stuff.

That other stuff should ALWAYS be there.

But it’s not ENOUGH to attract the kind of woman

who appreciates MEANING in her life.

And the best kind of women are the ones that have a

VERY RICH SENSE OF MEANING in their lives.

The reason this is so good is because it means they are

HAPPY ON A DEEP LEVEL, a level much greater than

superficial laughter or superficial temporary pleasure.

And the happier and more at peace they are, the more

THEY CAN BRING TO THE TABLE WHEN IT COMES TO

BEING WITH YOU, as opposed to being miserable,

unpredictable with their temper, or BORED with life

and looking for novelty of the sexual sort with many

partners just to distract themselves from the emotional

emptiness of their lives.

And of course, they are looking for this quality in you

as well.

Now, in my bootcamps, I go DEEP with the guys I teach,

including in developing these skills as well.

These are the kinds of interactions that you won’t

find happening with the drunken women videos

on the internet, because for drunken women

who are promiscuous, it’s all NOT necessary and

may even be “too heavy” for them.

There is nobody else on the planet who has made it

their PRIMARY FOCUS to help men get GREAT girlfriends.

And I have been doing this for THIRTEEN YEARS.

I’ve helped guys in many cities in many countries

around the WORLD. A lot of these men ended

up meeting the women of their DREAMS just

DAYS OR EVEN HOURS after completing my program,

and I’ve heard from them about their amazing marriages

and children that followed.

When you learn new things, when you know what

you are doing, things change RAPIDLY for you.

The largest newspaper in Canada followed my work for
several WEEKS, in helping men meet and attract women
for the exclusive purpose not just of “hooking up” but
rather for getting a great relationship.

It was even called “The Get A Relationship Challenge”.

And the success these men achieved was REAL,
and documented in detail by the paper.

This “stuff” that I teach is REAL.

And it’s about so much more than “getting laid”.

It’s about getting a great girl.

To find out about my bootcamps, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

To find out about my home-study books and programs, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

To find out about PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS with me

on ANY matter regarding attraction, dating, or relationships,

go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Getting A Truly GOOD Woman

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sun, 28 Feb 2016 16:45:00 +0000

Without alcohol and dishonesty, 99% of "pick up artist" videos out
there could not exist.

Also, to a degree, unfortunately, many women kind of suspect that
the guy IS being dishonest, but WANT to indulge in the experience
for the short term but not be held accountable in their own minds for
the long term consequences to their lives because they are too busy
just thinking about the moment, so they indulge in alcohol on
purpose as a way to rationalize later and rationalize in the
moment that it wasn't their fault.

This "it's not my fault" (not taking responsibility) is the number one issue with many women today, and it is a direct result of feminism because it encourages blaming men, and it is also the number one way that a lot of dishonest men, i.e. many of the pick up artists out there, exploit these women, and these women then go on to say that all men they meet are jerks.

These women say that men are jerks, so they can enjoy the experience but later on not be held accountable for the long term destructive effects of promiscuity. These long term effects include the fact that no good man wants to commit to such women. And the truth always comes out eventually, and even if a woman were to try to hide the truth about her, then this itself is a life where she is constantly living a lie, and that is a terrible life as well.

All thanks to feminism which preaches "be like men in the worst
possible interpretation of men", i.e. be promiscuous, be selfish, and
which also preaches blaming men instead of taking responsibility.

And so, getting women to get physical with you is the easiest thing on the planet when you are surrounded with women who want to believe your lies and who are promiscuous and who feel they are in the right to not take responsibility for their behavior.

And this is the reason I created get a GREAT girl, because if a man wants to meet the kind of woman he can actually build a future with, a woman who takes responsibility for her behaviors, a woman who is not promiscuous and who does not need to get drunk to make decisions, it is a completely different thing than getting the kind of women that most pick up artists show in their videos.

Also, I don't film the pick-ups of my clients, because it is WRONG to go around showing films of anyone to millions of people when you never got the permission of those people to film them.

Being with the right woman is the most important thing.
The wrong woman can cost a man his emotions, his energy,
and even MILLIONS of dollars. If you have children with this
woman, she can also cause you MISERY by being a horrible
person to help you raise your children.

The RIGHT woman, however, will PUT THE WIND IN YOUR SAILS,
will motivate you to new heights, and just simply make life more
fun. And she will be a true PARTNER for life.

Don't get caught up in the distractions bombarding you
everywhere with the wrong kinds of women.

Get a GREAT girlfriend.

Go HERE immediately: https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/

To learn the skill of screening women for QUALITY character, and of how to approach and attract in REAL TIME, live, from me directly, in an exclusive and private one-on-one BOOTCAMP, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

For a phone consultation or any other form of coaching
from me, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why BELIEF Is The Key To Success with Women, And How To Get It

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Fri, 26 Feb 2016 22:03:00 +0000

One of the most powerful experiences I've had as an instructor was
with a particularly "salt of the earth" client. He was doing amazing
attracting a two-set at a roof-top lounge. The women, who happened to
be gorgeous, were eating out of the palm of his hand, oblivious to
every other guy in the place and giving him endless indications of
interest.

He then told me that he wanted to speak to me away from the lounge.
So, outside the lounge, he was asking me, "How do you think it's
going?"

I told him he was doing great, obviously.

He asked me, "Do you think they are actually attracted?".
I told him that when women are constantly touching you, smiling
around you, and oblivious to every other guy in the place, that yes,
they are definitely attracted to you.

What was particularly cool about this guy is that he was absolutely
not arrogant, absolutely just a really cool, laid back, totally
CONGRUENT guy in his approach.

But so DEEP is the conditioning in our society for men to think
NEGATIVELY of themselves regarding women, that you can
have all the success in the world happening to you, and
you wouldn't even REALIZE the opportunities that women
are THROWING your way, especially since women tend to be a
bit more subtle than men when showing their interest.

AND THIS is why INNER GAME really IS so absolutely, massively,
overwhelmingly important, and why no amount of watching
pick-up videos can replace ACTUALLY being in the situation of
approaching women yourself, again and again and again, until
you BELIEVE on the DEEPEST levels that you ARE worthy, that
you CAN absolutely succeed.

What you CAN do is get the greatest INSIGHTS into how to make
your interaction as EFFECTIVE as possible, by skyrocketing your
sense of humor, your rapport skills, your sense of dominance,
and by your understandings about female psychology, so that
when you DO approach, you can not only have SPECIFIC things
that you can apply to IMPROVE your results, but also the very
fact you are studying these aspects of a successful interaction
will GIVE your subconscious mind a REASON to FEEL confident.

So you are feeling more CONFIDENT and you are also learning
more things which make you COMPETENT, and the more COMPETENT you know you are, the more CONFIDENT you feel, which leads to you ENTHUSIASTICALLY wanting to learn EVEN MORE, which builds even MORE competence, which builds even more confidence, in a NEVER-ENDING POSITIVE CYCLE!

Along with this CONFIDENCE and COMPETENCE,
it is VITAL to understand that getting a great
girlfriend is DIFFERENT than getting a one-night stand
or getting physical with any of the MILLIONS of
promiscuous women that abound these days.

This getting a great girlfriend is what I specialize in.
So in my programs you are learning a lot more than just
how to get the party girls, or the promiscuous girls who
may be fine in many ways, but who themselves will be the
first to say that they aren't relationship material.

If you want a woman who is the "total package"-
who is attractive and also has the personality
that would make for a fun and TRUSTWORTHY
and FAITHFUL girlfriend, then the material that
you will learn in my programs is of EXTREME
importance.

A woman who is looking for a real relationship is
putting a lot more on the line than just one evening
("one night stand") of her life.

She's putting her emotions, her time, her TRUST,
in you, and she isn't going to do all that for just any
guy who comes up to her with some pick up artist
or "dating guru" tactic.

At "Get A Great Girl", you're learning to master the
full picture of interaction with women, including
but also much more than just the initial words you
are going say to her.

The next time you want to approach a woman you're attracted
to, and you have no idea of what to say, try going up to her
and being honest about the fact you found her attractive.
At the same time, STAY COOL.

The best thing about this is that it eliminates the
"sketchy vibes" problem because it forces you to be
congruent, since you, after all, are being honest.
YOU know in your heart that you are NOT trying to
COVER UP anything, so you FEEL honest because you
ARE being honest.

This is GREAT for your INNER GAME.
You are forcing yourself to ACCEPT that it is OKAY
to be a MAN.

It's also great because it IMMEDIATELY lets the woman
know what's up, in the sense that you are not PRETENDING
to be there for some other reason.

This shows confidence, and it also allows her to VIEW you as a
man from the FIRST impression, rather than immediately seeing
you as just some guy who is going to be immediately slotted
into the friend category.

Then, look for positive situational material- comments on things
going on right then and there, KEEP IT POSITIVE. And give her a
chance to contribute to the conversation; it should NOT just be
YOU doing all the talking anyway.

Now, there are more advanced levels to the approach,
of course, where you indicate all these things without
having to be so blunt about them, but this is a great strategy
to use if you are feeling rusty, just starting into the process
of meeting women again, or if you happen to not have anything
to say.

And if you would like to learn THE FULL PICTURE to success
when it comes to getting a great girlfriend, or KEEPING
a great girlfriend, then I suggest you go HERE immediately:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/catalog.html

To learn the skill of PICK UP in REAL TIME, live, from me
directly, in an exclusive and private one-on-one BOOTCAMP,
go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/bootcamp.html

For a phone consultation or any other form of coaching
from me, go here:

https://www.thedatingwizardreturns.com/consultations.html

Being with the right woman is the most important thing.
The wrong woman can cost a man his emotions, his energy,
and even MILLIONS of dollars.

The RIGHT woman, however, will PUT THE WIND IN YOUR SAILS,
will motivate you to new heights, and just simply make life
more fun.

Don't get caught up in the distractions bombarding you
everywhere with the wrong kinds of women.

Get a GREAT girlfriend.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Giving Vs. Taking For Success With Women

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Thu, 21 Jan 2016 03:12:00 +0000

Sometimes I think that if guys just knew how

much women actually crave men, and how

appreciative they are of a guy who knows

how to not make them feel "cheap" yet still

knows how to UNLEASH women's many

inhibitions, every guy on earth would

then LOVE women in general and would

TOTALLY change his attitudes and his

beliefs. His inner game would SKYROCKET

and he would also feel great about himself,

thereby also unleashing his own sexual

energy in a positive, healthy way.

The thing is, it's HARD to believe this, if

the RESULTS you are getting from your

interactions with women are not so great.

So let me right here state some powerful

insights that will improve your interactions

with women immediately.

Let's first talk about the very APPROACH.

That's where it starts, right?

The problem is that most guys IMMEDIATELY

send off the wrong signals.

They try so hard to come up with the

PERFECT opener, the perfect things to say,

that they are actually showing NOT that they

CARE about the woman, but that they care

about TAKING from the woman.

Yes, you heard me right.

Because if this was about GIVING to the

woman, the guy would feel pretty good already

and not be worried about "HOW" to give,

he would be pretty confident that it's all

going to go GREAT since after all, he is

the GIVER in the situation.

But when you are trying so hard to make sure

that you are not rejected, what you are really

conveying to the woman is that YOU want

something. Actually, worse than WANT.

Wanting is not bad, but NEEEEDING is

horrible.

And the bottom line is, she's right.

If you are trying so hard, you DO want it

so badly that it's more of a NEED for you.

That makes a woman feel PRESSURE.

It's like that feeling you get when you

walk into a store casually, and

IMMEDIATELY some amateur salesperson

creepily gives you a whole "overly clever"

SALES PITCH.

When you go to buy a FERRARI, nobody

tries to give you a desperate sales pitch.

You don't see commercials for it on TV.

YOU go to THEM to find out more.

Because, it's a FERRARI.

It has VALUE.

The FERRARI is GIVING MORE than

it's TAKING. It's giving so much that

PEOPLE go to IT, with pleasure.

In fact, it would make you feel WORSE

if they tried to desperately sell it to you.

Which is why Ferrari doesn't do that.

They don't HAVE to.

No pressure tactics necessary.

This itself shows value, but it's not

some kind of "fake" tactic, it's the

TRUTH about them, they don't need

to do the pressure stuff, so they don't.

It's the same thing with you and a woman

in many ways.

The biggest way to create RESISTANCE

IN A WOMAN is to PUT PRESSURE

on her. And the reverse is true as well,

if you put ZERO pressure on her, she

can't help but start to focus on what it

would be like if she DID decide to

spend more time with you. And it's

starting to sound like a better thing

all the time considering she is feeling

pretty good with you already and most

guys are just making her feel BAD

in infinite ways due to their low self-esteem

which causes fights, causes pressure,

and also ruins the potential for her to

feel any MEANINGFUL self-esteem

boost from them, since after all, they

are coming across as losers, so any

compliment they DO give means

NOTHING.

Guys think they are GIVING by coming

up with the perfect opener, by trying to

find out how to tap-dance around the

fact that they want to talk to her.

In reality though, the guy is simply putting

HIMSELF BELOW HER, so she will

NEVER feel like she is "GETTING"

ANYTHING from him, no matter how

hard he tries, in fact the harder he tries,

the worse it is - the more he comes across

as DRAINING her, as TAKING from her.

The way to GIVE to her, emotionally, is to

not need to TAKE from her. You have to

be EMOTIONALLY ABUNDANT regarding

everything that most guys would WANT

TO TAKE FROM HER.

So most guys want to feel VALIDATED by her?

You need to be VALIDATED yourself.

Most guys want to feel UPBEAT by her

approval?

You must be ALREADY SELF-APPROVED,

and FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEL it.

Most guys want to feel that SENSE OF HUMOR

that comes from the confidence you get when

a girl is NUTS about you?

You must be able to FEEL THAT VIBE without

her.

THIS is why I keep on saying that the ultimate

GAME is really NOT a fake, a tactic, or a "move",

it's about your "inner-game", but the thing is it

takes EXPERIENCE IN THE REAL WORLD

of interacting with women to fully get your

inner game to where it needs to be.

Inner game is a product of many things,

including learning vital aspects of how

your mind works, but it also requires

you actively getting out there and

approaching women as well.

You GROW internally, so that you can

ACTUALLY really be a GIVER IN THE

ALL IMPORTANT EMOTIONAL SENSE.

Not a giver in terms of "I'll do ANYTHING

for this chick", that's actually a TAKER.

You'd do ANYTHING because you feel

you NEED her so bad. She can SENSE

that neediness, it makes her feel that you

are going to USE her, you are going to

DRAIN her, it makes her feel that you

are INFERIOR, that you are going to

bring her down.

And remember, it's not that she is THINKING

this, she is NOT CONSCIOUS of it at ALL.

She is not THINKING it, she is simply

feeling the feeling of REVULSION.

She doesn't necessarily articulate the feeling

to herself, or figure out exactly why she is

feeling it. She just DOES. She just FEELS

it.

You see, in a way, although years ago I was

pissed at the situation at how men had given

up so much official power to women, the truth

is that this has become a GREAT catalyst for

men to BECOME STRONGER THAN EVER,

since they now HAVE to. Men can finally realize

the ULTIMATE POWER they have

INTERNALLY.

And this is waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more attractive

to women than anything else.

So women's lib and all that stuff?

BRING IT ON!

As far as raw attraction is concerned,

feminism still doesn't change anything.

IT DOESN'T CHANGE A THING.

You just have to be careful in selecting the right

woman for a long term relationship, because

relationships require logic as well as attraction,

but as far as attraction is concerned, NOTHING

stands in the way of your attractive power when

you exhibit the right behaviors.

Women will ALWAYS respond to the stuff

I am teaching you; they can't HELP it any

more than you can help feeling HUNGRY

when you are hungry. Any more than

you feeling thirsty when you are thirsty.

The attraction will KICK IN at once,

but you HAVE TO BE CONGRUENT.

You have to work at actually BEING the

best, emotionally strongest, most fun,

YOU, instead of just ACTING it.

Okay, there's more on that even, but I need

to move on here as space and time is limited.

Although of course "courage" is attractive

to women in general, definitely, there's

something else as well.

I'd like to let you in on a little secret regarding

this:

One of the MAIN reasons women say they

want a guy who is COURAGEOUS, in my

humble opinion based on YEARS of interactions

with WOMEN who are STRIKING, is because

THEY interpret courage to mean that he will

LEAD THEM TO "PHYSICAL LEVELS" OF
INTIMACY REGARDLESS OF the fact they may
be acting FEISTY with him and playfully even
doing things like telling him to F-OFF.

Think about it: If there is someone you TRULY
want to AVOID, you IGNORE them. You don't start
trying to get them all riled up.

Women tend to not be direct in their communication.
What they say and think tends to pass through
several layers of FILTERS.

You see, women HAVE to put up a bit of a

FRONT of not being so sexual. It's part of

how women survived throughout history,

by making this aspect of themselves more valuable by

DECREASING the supply, which they

did by acting coy, hard to get, less overtly

sexual, etc. But the thing is, if any guy

thinks women are less sexual than men

even 1%, they have a HUUUUUUUUUUGE

surprise coming. If anything, women are

even MORE sexual than men. Really,

once a woman is into you, she will often

be on you like bees to honey, and won't

get OFF. Your phone will be ringing

non-stop. You will regret having a

cell phone. Which is definitely not the

worst thing in the world especially if

you know how to handle it.

It takes COURAGE to be SEXUAL with

a woman, when women keep on saying

how they "don't need a man", and how they

are supposedly so happy and independent.

It's B.S. Trust me, it's TOTAL B.S.!!!!!

They are NOT happy without a man.

They NEED A MAN just as much as

a man needs a woman.

Anything else you read or hear is just

B.S.!!!!!!!!!!

So stop reading it, cuz it's all B.S. written

usually by pretty miserable women who just

WISH they could get a cool guy, which

they might be able to do if they just stopped

being so miserable which repels any fun

guy they meet.

So you see, it takes COURAGE for a guy

to interact with women these days, and women

KNOW it. So they say they like a guy

with COURAGE.

I'm not saying that's the ONLY kind of

courage they care about, but I'm saying

it's DEFINITELY ONE OF THE BIG

ONES.

So when a woman says this courage thing,

it's almost as if she's saying "I want a guy

who will lead me to getting physical even though I play

some pretty convincing games about being non-sexual."

Now, for any total dumb-asses out there, this

does NOT mean to be AGGRESSIVE in

a creepy way. If a woman tells you to back

off, you back off. But don't expect a

woman to lead YOU to the physical side
of things.

Most women tend to only leave HINTS.

YOU must lead the way, for most women.

At least until you two have already

been physical with each other.

Okay, next:

The key to feeling sexual is feeling GOOD.

People want to ACCEPT THEMSELVES, but

for most people, it's not easy.

If you can help a woman ACCEPT HERSELF,

her self-esteem SKYROCKETS.

And women with high self-esteem

are AWESOME.

The thing is that most guys try to do this with

needy compliments that show the guy is

desperate. So anything he says is not meaningful

then.

So, the IMPORTANT thing in an interaction

with a woman is to NOT DO MUCH!

It's to simply BE the best version of yourself.

A self that is totally self-accepting.

And that you are not there to JUDGE HER.

How can she POSSIBLY feel BETTER

about herself if you are already feeling

BAD about her? i.e. That if she does

not GIVE you what you "want", that

you would feel HURT. And of course,

the whole idea of wanting so badly,

it ruins the whole natural vibe of just

enjoying someone else's PRESENCE.

Think about it:

The reason you hang with people you

like is not because you need anything

in PARTICULAR from them. It's

just BEING with them. That's what

vibe is all about. You enjoy being

with them because you know you

can trust them, you know they accept

you, and you accept them, and you

all give each other that good feeling

from simply accepting each other.

THIS is actually a huge part of the "game".

Getting to THAT point is the real "game".

But most guys start acting WEIRD with women,

the guy CLEARLY is trying to suddenly MAKE

something happen, he feels he NEEDS to get

a reaction, he needs there to be a RESULT.

He totally becomes this guy who is NOT

his real self. He becomes the version of

himself that is all uptight, needy, and

inferior. That's not him, that's the

distorted version of him.

It's not about DOING things for women.

It's about accepting yourself, and accepting

them, and it's about being dominant

enough to LEAD the interaction to

greater physical escalation and

chemistry.

When a woman feels zero pressure, when

she feels accepted, and when she feels

she is with a guy who is self-validated,

who is sexual and playful and loves women

and loves the physical side of relationships
but isn't desperate, and who knows how to
lead the show and be "courageous" and dominant,
all this allows her OWN sexuality to

SKYROCKET and shine on through.

And on that note, let me get to some great

letters that hit upon these crucial ideas.

LETTER FROM A READER

Michael,

I just have to write you this message. It is now

6 o'clock in the morning here in Europe and I

just returned home from one of the most amazing

parties of my life. I read your book last week

(remember me, the Dutch speaking guy who

had some problems speaking French in

Luxemburg?) and I am now eagerly waiting

for your CD's which should arrive early

next week.

Anyway, the party. I busted the balls of

5 different really beautiful girls (background:

If I have ever busted the balls of 1 (ONE)

beautiful girl in the past during 1 night,

it would have made my year).

So thanks to your advice, I have adapted

the mentality of the MAN (which was indeed

already inside me) and spoke without fear

or hesitation with these girls. One, "Ilse",

she was still a student at 27 and I joked

with that fact and afterwards we had some

nice conversation about teaching and parties.

"Nathalie", an aerobic teacher, had a dress

with 'chains' as a pattern and I busted her

balls with asking if she liked "to be chained".

We had a wonderful conversation about

fashion and dating. "Lyndsey" was a cute

blond who liked horse riding and fitness

and came to speak to me three times because

other guys tried to hit on her and she wanted

to be rescued.

With "Patricia" and "Elsie" the same stories.

A great night thus... HOWEVER, all of them,

all 5 (FIVE) have told me during or at the

end of our conversations that I was a guy

with an enormous amount of confidence

and that I really knew how to talk with

women (thank you again Michael). BUT the

fact that they said this, made that they did

not wanted to give me their email, because

they thought I was like this with every

woman...

So my question to you is now: Can you

be too much of the MAN? or did I do

something wrong?

In the end, I do not care. I had a great night

and I lost once and for all my fear of talking

to cute women. But I would like to know if

next time I have to slow down a little bit.

Appreciate your feedback and I am eagerly

waiting for your CD's (to which you certainly

will also receive my feeback).

Enjoy your Sunday!

Ciao!

Max K.

***MY REPLY***

Hi Max,

I just got in from Bootcamp and read your

message. Congratulations first of all

for losing your fear of talking to cute

women and learning how to bust on

them.

The women were actually telling you exactly

the recipe for taking the interaction further:

"Please show me you are not treating me

like a whore, because I do like you a lot."

So when you were clearly teasing every

girl, and ONLY teasing them, it seemed

that you were not the type of guy to

actually have any connection with

any woman. That makes her feel that getting

physical with you would mean she has no

worth, because you don't even care about

her at all enough to get to know her. It would

make her feel low, as explained in the eBook.

So the answer to your question is that you can

never be The Man too much, however, it's

REALLY important to ALSO build up

TRUST, which comes from her feeling

accepted, and from feeling connection

with you, etc.

Trust is crucial for getting intimate, in fact,

the very FIRST WORDS you hear on the

CD Set are going to IMMEDIATELY get

into helping you answer this question of

"am I busting on women too much or not".

It's all ultimately about making women feel

GREAT, and that means ultimately about

enhancing their feelings of self-esteem as

well as you coming across as being

ACCEPTING of yourself and of being

sexual and of having massive worth.

This UNLOCKS the combination to her

own sexuality being unleashed, with you

and by you.

But what happens if you ONLY tease a woman

and you do not start also ADDING to that initial

chemistry the awesome emotions of connection

and trust, and all the other aspects of self-esteem,

then she will start to feel after a certain point that

you are just PLAYING with her.

It's the OPPOSITE of making her feel good.

It's making her feel that you don't REALLY

care at ALL. So now you are coming across

as a guy who COULD have been desirable,

since you HAD value. But the problem is,

since you ONLY showed that side, and

never took her interest as a cue to start

developing a connection, she feels that

you would only HURT her feelings

ultimately. i.e. That you would get physical

with her and just dump her, etc.

You want to actually take that MOMENTUM

that you built with the initial emotions of

attraction you created, because NOW she

WANTS to connect with you. NOW it

would have MEANING.

But if you just tease her, it's as if she could

have been anybody, you never created the

connection with her to find out more about

her, to get to know her, so that she could feel

special with you. So it would be making her

feel CHEAP if she went with you then.

Teasing is a powerful beginning, and often can

be used even sprinkled throughout the interaction,

but you MUST TAKE THE INTERACTION

BEYOND THIS AS WELL, into a place where

she feels not only that you are this super confident

guy, but that you also feel SHE is special.

Of course, all this can only come AFTER

she feels YOU are special.

In the meantime, review the points from the book

on making her feel total trust before she can

unleash herself physically with you. That

will help you immensely for now.

Once again, congrats on breaking through

the fear. Now, it's time to TAKE that raw

power and apply it with laser-beam focus.

LETTER FROM A READER

I recently read another book on understanding

dogs (Cesar's way by Cesar Millan). And I have

to make clear that I am NOT in any way

referring to woman as dogs, but the main

lesson of the book can be applied to human

relations as well. The author is a well-known

expert on dog behavior. He states that dogs

are pack animals and like humans they have

hierarchies where most members tend to be

followers with far fewer leaders.

He emphasizes that dogs universally respond

to a calm assertive personality. This author

states that this state-of-mind displays

leadership to a dog and all dogs tend to

be attracted to and yearn for this type of

leadership.

He goes on to state that excitable, over-emotional

behavior in dog-owners tends to be viewed by

dogs as unstable and it repel dogs and makes

them feel superior to their owners. This in turn

causes many of the behavioral problems that

this expert is consulted about.

Notice any parallels within our human

relationships??

A. X.

MY REPLY

Hey man,

Good to hear from you. Thank you for that

email, your comments and questions are

appreciated.

On understanding dogs and the parallels to

human relationships, the calm yet confident

leader personality makes total sense because

it takes GUTS to be a leader, you take

responsibility, you have to THINK, whereas

followers can shut off their brain, because

thinking and being "awake" and being

emotionally strong (i.e. not giving in to the

weak emotions that make us angry/lazy, etc)

is the "real work" of life.

It takes a LEADER to do it.

So the analogy is VERY useful.

And the CRAZY IRONY TODAY is that it is often not MEN in our society who are acting like leaders, but more often than not it is WOMEN.

It is WOMEN who are being empowered by endless messages of encouragement to go accomplish their goals and dreams, while MEN are being BOMBARDED by endless messages of how they need to be WEAKER and KISS UP more to women, and in general encouraging men to be slaves to feelings of weakness and insecurity rather than to be objective and take charge of their fears.

So, MORE THAN EVER, women TRULY CRAVE MEN WHO BEHAVE LIKE CLASSIC MEN.

And if you are reading this right now, and would like to learn how to attract the women of your choice as FAST as possible, then I seriously suggest you get my two latest books on this important topic:

1. The No-B.S. Book On Success with Women Today.
2. The Energy of Attraction.

These two new essential books will take you out of the DARK AGES and into the most POWERFUL level of attracting women FAST.

You can download these books INSTANTLY and be using them in MINUTES from now to attract the kind of women that make most men MELT:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

More Than HALF Of Women Are Not Truly FAITHFUL, And What To DO About It

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sun, 03 Jan 2016 20:26:00 +0000

This is an EXTREMELY important video and newsletter if you want to attract a woman and make sure she is TRULY INTO YOU, and not thinking about some OTHER guy.

Let's start with the video itself:

I bet you have already heard all the feminist propaganda about how “all men are cheaters” and especially how “men just don’t want to commit”.

Well, it turns out that in a recent study that surveyed over 1000 women, that HALF of ALL women have ANOTHER “BACK UP” DUDE already in their mind when they are in a relationship!

And as if that was not enough, the numbers were HIGHER when it was a woman who was actually MARRIED!

So you would think that in a MARRIAGE, the commitment levels would be HIGHER, and that the idea of having a “back up” guy in mind would be OUT OF THE QUESTION.

But in reality the numbers of women who had a “plan B” guy were HIGHER in marriages.

Also, in some other statistics, for example in Mississippi, the numbers were up to 80% of women having BACK UP DUDES, i.e. “plan Bs” in mind!

And that’s not all, these “plan B” guys were often guys the women knew FOR YEARS, so it would be a SUPER SMOOTH transition to being with that guy!!!

These are the kinds of things that virtually ALL feminists just happen to never mention in their endless tirades and relentless male-bashing.

Now, just in case you might be thinking “Well, this isn’t the same thing as cheating”, the problem is that it is a COMPLETE UNDERMINING of the entire principle of being in an exclusive relationship.

Think of the difference between someone’s attitudes when they are given just ONE opportunity to WIN a prize, or SUCCEED at a game, or prevent being DESTROYED, versus having a million lives on a video game, or getting more chances to keep on playing, or having any kind of safety net so that screwing up means NOTHING.

Well, THAT is the difference in the MIND-SET between a woman who HAS a “plan B” in mind versus a woman who is giving EVERYTHING to her ONE AND ONLY “plan”- her ONE and ONLY man.

The woman with the “ONE AND ONLY” attitude toward her man will TREAT him BETTER, will not take him for granted, will appreciate him more, will put more EFFORT into saving the relationship when problems arise.

The woman with the “plan B” attitude will treat the guy like GARBAGE and be OFF at the first moment things get rough.

This brings to mind a quote from a play called The Skin of Our Teeth, by Thornton Wilder, which I included in a film I made about the issues facing men today in their search for a good woman:

“I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even marry you because I loved you. I married you because you gave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults. And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfect people got married and it was the promise that made the marriage. And when our children were growing up, it wasn't a house that protected them; and it wasn't our love that protected them--it was that promise.”

This level of DEDICATION simply cannot exist in an atmosphere tainted by “PLAN B”.

Also, this is yet ANOTHER reason why attractive women who insist they can have lots of platonic guy friends are just plain DISHONEST, and should be RED FLAG to any guy who is seriously looking for a good woman and wants to avoid the wrong women.

Men are hardwired to feel a certain way about attractive women, and in general it’s a pretty objective thing, it’s not a matter of opinion, and that feeling is not platonic.

It’s also interesting to note how just about ALL MEN already know this, but so many women continue to live in the dark or are fooling themselves on this issue.

Check out these two videos for confirmation of this fact:

AND

And all this brings me to my point about POWER LEAKAGES that I described in the first video at the top of the page.

It also has to do with being a REAL MAN today.

It’s not just about learning how to approach and attract a woman.

It’s also about LAYING DOWN THE LAW right at the beginning in terms of what kind of relationship you will tolerate and what type you won’t.

If you start "jumping through hoops", like I explained in the video at the top of the page, she will IMMEDIATELY detect a POWER LEAKAGE and on a subconscious level she will lose respect for you AND lose attraction to you since she won’t see you as a MAN.

PLUS, on top of all this, she will then see that she can’t find LEADERSHIP in the relationship from you, so she will take her cues from FEMINISTS on how to treat men.

This includes her having BACK UP PLANS and having other GUYS she claims are all “just friends” so she can plan, plan, plan, plan all day long for how she can be set for life with a million different guys in a million different ways if required (in her mind) and enjoy the power that comes from all of that.

The irony is that a lot of seduction experts and pick up advisers ONLY care about getting physical with a woman, and if JUMPING THROUGH HOOPS would work, they would be TOTALLY OKAY with that.

But to me, I already know that we live in a HOOK-UP CULTURE, so getting PHYSICAL with women is NOT REALLY A BIG DEAL.

But getting a GREAT woman, a truly GREAT girlfriend, who is truly faithful and not having BACK UP PLANS in her mind when she is with you, well THAT is VERY important because without it, the entire FOUNDATION of a relationship, a family, a future, is WEAK.

Learn how to be the most POWERFUL man possible with women, and learn how to SCREEN women so that you only give your attention to the GREAT ONES.

You can learn this with me in BOOTCAMP, where you will be trained to do all this in person- you will be detecting, approaching, screening, and attracting QUALITY women for two full days of Bootcamp, with me as your personal coach. I will guide you every step of the way, including providing demonstrations as well.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

If you haven’t yet downloaded my two new books, The Energy of Attraction and The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today then do that IMMEDIATELY at:

The Energy of Attraction
http://getagreatgirl.com/energyofattraction.html

and

The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today
http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Great women ABSOLUTELY DO STILL EXIST, but you have to have the KNOW-HOW to find them, meet them, and attract them.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why Most Men FAIL To Get Good Women Today, And A Solution For You

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Wed, 30 Dec 2015 05:17:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered why it is that it’s only been in the last ten years that there even EXISTS a field dedicated to helping men with women?

This NEVER existed before in history.

Sure, there were books on PICK UP lines, like Eric Weber’s How to Pick Up Girls! in the 1970s, but NOTHING even REMOTELY like the degree of sophistication that men are learning today.

Do you want to know the reason WHY this stuff never existed before?

IT’S BECAUSE IT WASN’T NECESSARY.

The structure of society as well as NATURE took OVER what really SHOULD be the most natural thing on earth- man and woman coming together as one in harmony.

But, in the western world, a lot of HORRIFYING SH*T has taken place since the 1950s and 1960s, and it’s taken place SLOWLY, so that no one noticed the intensification of the issue until it was TOO LATE, just like the myth of the “frog in the boiling pot” analogy I’ve used in the past, where the frog doesn’t notice the increasing heat till it’s too late.

This sh*t goes beyond the horrifying lies spread by feminism. It also includes the fact that making money for one’s SELF only, and being selfish in general, became more important than family, community, or country.

There are many reasons this happened.

One reason is because people saw some corruption in government, e.g. Nixon, and so people started to become disenchanted with all established institutions, “throwing out the baby with the bathwater”, and instead of working on FIXING these institutions, they just REBELLED AGAINST THEM.

Another reason is the widespread use of hallucinogenic drugs in the 60s. People genuinely not in their right states of mind are much more likely to accept bullshit theories and propaganda.

Plus, the invention of the pill made it possible for women, and men, to be less responsible about sex.

Mix in FEMINISM into this, spreading lies about “male power” decade after decade, and now we have a society where many young men who are sincerely looking for serious relationships with young women are PUNISHED by most of these women, and the men who are just looking to “score” are REWARDED by the endless plethora of promiscuous young women who just want to have “fun”.

There is an answer to all this.

It’s something other dating coaches and pick-up artists don’t talk about, because it's too "messy" and complicated and therefore hard to sell.

It's much easier to just pretend that all women are the same and that getting a drunk or promiscuous woman is the same thing as getting a woman who is sober, has strong family values, is loyal, and is not promiscuous.

Also, they think that things like STDs, STIs, including those that cause sterility, are only science-fiction and don’t happen in the real world. Charlie Sheen is a figment of their imagination, they think.

The first thing you need to do to get the right woman involves SCREENING.

You must SCREEN women to make sure you are getting the right woman:

1. See if she speaks negatively about many other
people, including all her ex boyfriends.

If she only has bad things to say about everyone
else, chances are she won't think fondly of you
after a while either.

On the other hand, if she tends to focus on the
positive about people, she will probably be a
much better girlfriend for you as well.

2.Be on the lookout to see how she treats others.

For example, if you two are out at a cafe, restaurant,
or coffee shop, how does she treat the employees,
waiters and waitresses? Is she abusive or is she
sensitive? Kindness is free, so there is no excuse
to be a miser with it.

3. Ask her what are her top values in life,
and ask her to be specific.

If she focuses on things that are purely
superficial, like fame and wealth, chances
are she won't stick it out through the
rough patches in life with anyone when
she is in a relationship with them.

On the flip side, if she values loyalty,
honesty, trust, and health, chances are
she will appreciate a good man who treats
her well.

4. Behave in a casual relaxed manner.

This is important, because in order to
get a woman to reveal her character, it's
essential that you don't make her feel judged
for being herself.

So try to be as relaxed as possible when
interacting with a woman. Asking her about
her values must be done in a way where she
does not feel like there is a right or
wrong answer.

Don't come across as being too serious, or
she will only present to you her "formal"
self which is more of an act, rather than
who she really is naturally.

5. Make note if she is the kind of person who is
able to apologize and own up to making a mistake.

If she is not able to do this, she will be a
horrible person to have a relationship with, for
her ego is so big that she can't admit her
mistakes or learn from them.

6. Pay particular attention to how she behaves
when she is under stress.

If she is still behaving in a way that is
kind and honest and sensitive, she is proving
to be an amazing woman.

However, if she becomes spiteful, hateful,
or abusive, this is an indicator of how she
will be in the future when under any type
of stress. And life definitely will have its
stressful moments, so you can be sure such
a woman will behave badly again in the future.

7. Listen very carefully when she speaks,
because most people give away their personalities
very quickly without realizing it.

This is because most people don't consciously
try to behave badly, so they all think they are
great even if in fact they are abusive or cruel.

8. Take note of how hard she is trying to
UNDERSTAND you.

One of the greatest signs of a woman's personality is
if she makes great efforts to accomplish this goal.

If she makes a consistent effort to try to understand
you and to make you feel respected, this is definitely
a reason to continue dating her.

WARNING: It's ESSENTIAL to pick up **ON** what a woman is saying rather than just being focused on "picking up" women, if you want to actually get a woman that is the right match for you as a great long-term girlfriend.

The SCREENING can also be said to include knowing where to FIND these kinds of quality women, since they are particularly RARE in so many feminist-tainted countries today.

Plus, there is the other component, which is all about getting a quality woman ATTRACTED so she massively WANTS to be with you.

In The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today, I SHOW YOU how you can FIND the kind of women who are NOT brainwashed by the forces of corruption, and I explain SUPER IMPORTANT things you need to know to get a woman attracted to the MAXIMUM.

I honestly believe that every man who wants to meet a GOOD woman needs to read this book. This book has been designed as a digital download so you can be using it in MINUTES from now!

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

I also seriously suggest you download The Energy of Attraction, which is my other newly released book that reveals the latest strategies on attracting women through your behaviors.

Get it NOW at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/energyofattraction.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Turning Any “Obstacles” Into MAGNETS For Attracting Women

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Mon, 28 Dec 2015 06:48:00 +0000

Have you ever wanted to approach a woman, or take positive action with women but then didn’t because you felt there was a reason you were going to fail?

Do you ever feel there's some kind of obstacle you have standing in your way of success with women?

Most men DEFINITELY feel this, and I know I went through this for YEARS.

If you've ever felt this, I suggest you IMMEDIATELY check out the new video I made below that delves into the TRUTH about how obstacles can be used to actually SKYROCKET your success with women.

In this video, I also solve another very common problem, which is getting caught up on ONE woman when she isn’t even doing anything to warrant your interest.

Watch the full video right right here NOW:

And if you haven't yet downloaded my important new book, The Energy Of Attraction: The Newest Strategies for Attracting Women Through Your Behaviors, do that by going to the link below IMMEDIATELY.

Click Here To Download The Energy Of Attraction Book Now!

Till next time,

Michael Marks

THE ROOT OF ATTRACTION: ENERGY & THE PROJECTION OF LIFE-FORCE

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Wed, 23 Dec 2015 19:57:00 +0000

Sometimes, when you have something so earth-shatteringly important to say, it’s hard to control yourself and stay cool. As I am writing this to you, I feel like a man possessed, with one mission on this planet- to show you how SIMPLE and EASY it can be to attract women.

Let me start with the most important thing to understand when it comes to attracting women: Women’s attraction to you is triggered by ANYTHING you do that shows LIFE-FORCE on a POWERFUL level exuding from you.

I use the term “LIFE-FORCE” because it really sums up what it’s all about.

Think about life on EARTH.

What POWERS life here on EARTH?

All life requires a POWER SOURCE.

If you look at most living things around you, you can easily see how they trace their energy back to one MASSIVELY POWERFUL SOURCE.

And that is the SUN.

So, the SUN gives energy to PLANTS, and animals eat those plants, and other animals eat those animals, etc.

Where does LIFE tend to THRIVE?

Think about the location of the AMAZON. Think about how much LIFE there grows because of their location and how that permits them to get more energy from the SUN.

Without the ENERGY source, ALL the REST OF LIFE would wither away. Even the fossil fuels we burn, that too originally came from animals and plants that could not exist without the sun.

So you can see how it is not a crazy theory of mine that there is a DIRECT CONNECTION between the amount of VITALITY, ENERGY, AND POWER you seem to be giving off and a woman’s attraction to you for the following reason:

Her attraction to you is nothing less than a SURVIVAL REFLEX.

It really is no different from responding to VISUAL cues such as appearing like a male model, and in fact for men, being a MALE MODEL is not the same thing as for a WOMAN being a female model.

Playboy magazine catered to men all over the planet by featuring VISUAL stimuli for men in the form of pictures of beautiful women.

There has never been the equivalent popularity of any such thing for women, EVEN in our era of HYPER-FEMINISM.

In fact, when they tried with Playgirl, it went BANKRUPT, and even among the few that DID buy it, it was mostly gay men, not straight women!

FITNESS INDICATORS

Humans respond to what are known as “fitness indicators” with feelings of sexual attraction.

Men tend to be attracted to women who show these visual cues in the form of a particular waist-to-hip ratio, as well as signs of youth.

And even then, men tend to rate women who exude the right “energy” to be more attractive than they really SHOULD be rated based only on the women’s looks.

The vast majority of straight WOMEN, however, tend to be attracted to men based on the way men BEHAVE. Ways that show POWER, CONFIDENCE, and ENERGY.

BEHAVIORS AS FITNESS INDICATORS

THIS is why a woman has no CHOICE but to feel attraction for you when you behave in a way that is truly CONSISTENT with ENERGY/VITALITY/POWER.

The same way plants turn to face the SUN, women will be drawn to YOU.

But ONLY if you behave this way, which requires you to adopt this MINDSET.

To be drawn to energy is the most primal reflex. From plant to insect to the most intelligent person, it DOESN’T MATTER- the REACTION is the same- as humans we are DRAWN to ENERGY.

Being this way will win you the ATTRACTION of the opposite sex, and, by the way, also the RESPECT AND FRIENDSHIP of the same sex.

If you speak in a way that seems you are mumbling or afraid to speak or speaking too quietly because you are concerned about your words being rejected, this shows LOW-LEVEL life-force, even if the TRUTH is you might be a GENIUS whose words are worth more than the rest of all humanity COMBINED.

I describe things in these extremes because I want to make my point CLEAR.

Being too quiet or meek in general, or being too afraid to say a joke because you think maybe people won’t laugh or will judge you badly for it, comes across as having LOW LIFE FORCE.

Not being PLAYFUL AND FUN, especially in a SOCIAL setting, comes across as lacking LIFE FORCE. And that “vibe” does not attract. It repulses.

Let me mention to you how the truth is that it is a scientifically proven principle how things tend to become less efficient and break down over time and require more energy to sustain themselves.

This applies not just to organic life, but even to STARS themselves.

The SUN itself will eventually burn out, and the truth is it TOO is slowly becoming less efficient over time, but its own “engine” is STILL BURNING SO BRIGHT and giving off SO MUCH POWER that even WITH its inefficiency it is still enough to power all life on Earth.

So much power is being given off, in fact, that even though so many organisms are inefficiently using that energy, it’s STILL so much energy being given OFF by the sun that those organisms continue to thrive.

My point though, is that because it is the way of the universe for things to break down over time, you actually make that much more of an IMPACT when you come across as having IMMENSE energy and force, and as being someone who is only GROWING in energy and force.

So, WHATEVER obstacles you think you have to being successful with women, the trick is to just MAKE UP for it by RAMPING UP YOUR “POWER-VIBES” AND STOP GIVING INTO INTERNAL NEGATIVITY, WEAKNESS, and LAZINESS.

This is what makes a woman UNABLE TO RESIST you.

IT’S NOT ABOUT BEING HYPER

Now before I go any further, let me make it clear that projecting energy has nothing to do with acting HYPER. Acting hyper-energetic can come across as actually being very nervous.

Here is one KEY for showing POWER:

SPEAK YOUR WORDS AS ROYAL

When you really BELIEVE you are WORTH being heard, you don’t mumble, you don’t speak too quietly. You naturally speak LOUD ENOUGH.

And on a very PRIMAL LEVEL, women WILL notice this in you, and they will SUBCONSCIOUSLY respond with more attraction.

On a subconscious level, you are saying “I AM AN IMPORTANT PERSON”, and this TRIGGERS the SURVIVAL mechanism in women, which makes them WANT you.

This is EVOLUTION in ACTION.

It’s about SURVIVAL, so of COURSE they will gravitate to the man who is sending off those signals properly.

A REASSURING TONALITY

Similar to above, the way you use your voice should OOZE a sense of “I’ve got EVERYTHING calmly, coolly, under control, and EVERYTHING is going to be FINE”.

This is NOT about your tonality sounding like a kiss-up, it’s about your tonality sounding like the seasoned captain of a good ship: “It’s all under control.”

Women will RESPOND to you according to the NON-VERBAL messages you are giving, and when your TONALITY says that everything is going to be FINE, women tend to BELIEVE it.

THE LESSON OF STOCKHOLM SYNDROME

Have you heard of this before? Basically, it is a phenomenon where people who are kidnapped started LIKING their kidnappers.

This is a SURVIVAL mechanism that kicks in because it makes SENSE for someone to get ALONG with someone who has this power over him or her.

Now, OBVIOUSLY I am not saying to kidnap anyone!!!!!

The reason I bring this up is to PROVE how attraction is a HARDWIRED response; it is ELICITED by many different things, and the one thing they all have in common is that they contribute to SURVIVAL, either of one’s self, or one’s genes.

So, for example, having symmetry has been scientifically proven to be one indicator of health, so it makes sense that over time, women and men would find this pleasing.

In the same way, PROJECTING INFINITE POWER does the same thing.

A woman can’t HELP it any more than she can help responding to OTHER stimuli that work on a hardwired level.

HOW PERSONALITY BEATS ALL OBSTACLES

Most people don’t really think much about the full definition and power of this thing called “personality”.

We tend to think of personality as just being a “good” personality when that person behaves in a way that is pleasant or courteous, and that a person who is nasty or mean has a “bad” personality.

However, personality is so much MORE than all that. A powerful personality can make another person feel more ALIVE than they have EVER felt before.

By ALIVE, I mean feeling FLOODED WITH POWERFUL, POSITIVE EMOTIONS.

People, and especially women, want this more than anything else.

And your PERSONALITY can be so powerful, that it makes women feel ALIVE around you, by making them feel EXCITED, making them feel GIDDY, making them feel LAUGHTER, making them feel INTRIGUE, making them feel DOMINATED by your MASCULINITY.

All while at the same time feeling PROTECTED by you, and making them feel WONDER and CURIOSITY about you and about LIVING.

YOU, strictly through the power of your PERSONALITY, can be a MILLION times more powerful than any DRUG.

And your PERSONALITY can make women FEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEL on a PRIMAL level that you are more POWERFUL than ANY MAN on earth, even if in reality you AREN’T the richest, most famous, or any other “most” of any other positive feature.

What COUNTS on a PRIMAL EMOTIONAL level is how you project PERSONALITY, especially through your BEHAVIORS and the way you decide to perceive things so that as many things as possible are actually working in your FAVOR TO MAKE YOU COME ACROSS AS MORE POWERFUL.

MY NEW BOOK:
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Over the last several years, I’ve noticed how an ocean of so-called attraction, seduction, and dating experts have OVER-COMPLICATED, MISGUIDED, and CONFUSED men, by veering AWAY from the COLD HARD TRUTH:

Women are attracted by men who radiate POWER.

They have managed to confuse men, by focusing on women who are drunk and promiscuous because it is easy to video record quick responses by these kinds of women.

The so called “experts” will then attribute the “success” to an endless array of “magical tactics” which they spend HOURS and HOURS deliberating on that actually are IRRELEVANT.

Every DAY, practically, there are more HOURS AND HOURS AND HOURS of new-fangled gobbly-goop that you are supposed to learn- all of which in reality are IRRELEVANT and actually veer you AWAY from what IS important!

The elephant in the room, in all these situations, is the fact the women are NOT in their right states of mind because they are DRUNK, and ALSO these women tend to be promiscuous women.

For these kinds of women, getting physical need not involve much attraction, in the same way some people don’t go fishing out of hunger, it’s just something they do.
If a woman is drunk and promiscuous, unfortunately her drunken state and her promiscuity are the most RELEVANT factors.

This is why these women tend to turn out to be horrible long-term girlfriends, because the attraction was never really strong to begin with; it was more an issue of drunken partying and a promiscuous lifestyle.

If you’re a man looking for an actual long-term girlfriend, you need to understand how to deeply attract a quality woman.

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The name of the book is: The Energy of Attraction: The Newest Strategies for Attracting Women Through Your Behaviors.

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*How to SUSTAIN the "POWER" version of yourself LONG-TERM.

*A WORD-FOR-WORD real-life example of a conversation between a man and a woman, where the woman went from ALOOF to HIGH ATTRACTION as a result of him conveying POWER in an honest way in the conversation.

· This conversation also includes a play-by-play analysis of the conversation so that you can learn to apply the SAME strategies for YOURSELF.

*Brand new, WORD-FOR-WORD examples of what to SAY to get conversations started with women in DIFFERENT situations and environments.

· I want to make SURE that you TAKE ACTION, and many men have told me that in the moment they see a woman, they often "freeze up" or don’t know what to say, even if they understand the principles.

· So, for this reason, I have included DETAILED word-for-word examples of EXACTLY what to SAY to get the ball rolling in common situations where you find women, such as while at the supermarket or while shopping at the mall.

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*The ANSWER to when using swearing actually increases a woman's attraction to you, even in the very first few moments of the conversation!

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What you will find in this book are the latest strategies that I use myself and that I teach to men in my bootcamps year-round, where I must prove in real-life that these tactics work for thousands of men to deeply attract women of the highest quality.

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Happy Holidays,

Michael Marks

How To FIND a GOOD Woman & ATTRACT Her

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Tue, 22 Dec 2015 18:12:00 +0000

The only two questions that really matter when it comes
to dating are:

1. HOW DO YOU FIND A GOOD WOMAN?

And:

2. HOW DO YOU ATTRACT HER?

The first question is a question that most pick up artists
never ask, because they are not concerned with the
consequences of being with the wrong woman, which
could include things like STDs, and financial and emotional
abuse, being cheated on, etc.

Being with the RIGHT woman COUNTS.

The RIGHT woman helps ENERGIZE you for LIFE.
The WRONG woman RUINS you.

In general, the RIGHT woman not only has to be a
compatible personality to you, but she also cannot
be poisoned by feminism.

Remember, feminism is not what it seems; most
feminists have one agenda on their minds- to
put men in a weak position even if this means
spreading lies.

Most western countries today have been over-taken
by feminist agendas even if most women don’t consciously
identify as feminists.

So you need to find a woman who is either NOT from those
countries, or who has grown up in a very rare home that
has taught her the truth about feminism.

And even if she is from a non-feminist country, if she
grew up in a feminist country because she moved to
a feminist country at a young age, she is likely brainwashed
by feminism unless she was taught otherwise at home,
which is extremely rare since feminism is something that
most people don’t understand and truly think is a noble
thing.

In my book, THE NO-BULLSHIT BOOK ON SUCCESS
WITH WOMEN TODAY, I go into the DETAILS of exactly HOW
to FIND a woman that has NOT been brainwashed by feminism.

And I even show how you can do this without having to
travel, and none of this involves “mail order brides” or anything
like that at ALL. I even show you how can find such a woman
possibly living WITHIN MINUTES of where you live.

Finding a woman who has not been brainwashed by feminism
means you don’t have to PLAY SOME CRAZY GAME to attract
her.

You just have to be a MAN, and you have to UNDERSTAND
some important things about female psychology that make
them DIFFERENT from men. This is something the feminists
don’t want to acknowledge exists, because they are bent
on pretending that men and women are exactly the same.

And BEING A MAN is something that most men have, ironically,
actually FORGOTTEN how to do!

THIS IS NOT A JOKE.

If you were born in a typical western country, you have been
exposed to so much BULLSHIT propaganda regarding what women
want, and this has gone on since they day you were BORN.

Your natural masculine traits have been REPRESSED over
DECADES due to this propaganda.

But in my book, THE NO-BULLSHIT BOOK ON SUCCESS WITH
WOMEN TODAY, I show you the TRUTH about female psychology,
AND I also show you how to unleash your POWER as a man,
and POWER is something that is very ATTRACTIVE to women.

Former Secretary of State, Henry Kissinger, once said that
POWER IS THE ULTIMATE APHRODISIAC, and he was right.

And my book SHOWS YOU how to do ALL of this.

And the greatest thing when you do this, with the woman
that is not brainwashed by feminism, is that your life
becomes SIMPLE regarding the whole attraction process,
since SHE actually WANTS you to be who you REALLY
are, which is MAN.

She won’t get angry at you for being a man, she will CRAVE you for it, she will treat you like a KING for it, and she only get angry if you DON’T act like a man!

No GAMES required, at all!

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The RIGHT woman CHANGES YOUR LIFE entirely, she
fills you with excitement, energy, and passion.

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She SUPPORTS your dreams.

She is HONEST.

She is RESPONSIBLE.

And you don’t have to play GAMES to attract her.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The ENERGY Of Attraction: The Cosmic Secret to Attracting Women

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sun, 20 Dec 2015 19:09:00 +0000

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Hitting the 'THE SWEET SPOT' To Attract Women

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sun, 20 Dec 2015 04:31:00 +0000

Today I need to explain something called THE SWEET SPOT.

It is MASSIVELY IMPORTANT for attracting women.

I wrote about this in the past, but it's been a long time so I have a feeling most guys have forgotten how ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT this is for success in attracting women.

The only thing I CARE about when it comes to this thing called “how to attract women” is getting guys RESULTS. No mumbo-jumbo, no hocus-pocus, no superstition.

It all must actually WORK.

So today, I’m going to share with you some of the GREATEST points of all time regarding how to attract women.

Obviously, these are going to be the BROAD strokes here, as it would be impossible to put every detail in one newsletter and that is the reason I have my actual programs.

So let’s begin.

ONE: HIT “THE SWEET SPOT”

By the “sweet spot” I mean the right BLEND of confidence mixed with kindness.

I often call this mixture the right "balance",
but a client referred to this mixture, or this right
balance I was describing, as "the sweet spot",
and I like the words "the sweet spot" as a term.

And yes, KINDNESS is absolutely attractive to
women, WHEN it is blended with POWER.

If you just show kindness, you are kissing up.
If you just show power/dominance/confidence,
you are coming across as an insecure JERK.

When you BLEND kindness with power, you
become attractive and charismatic.

So, for example, telling a woman she has impeccable
taste in men is a playful way of giving her a compliment
and saying something cool about yourself.

Helping a woman who is looking for directions and then
playfully telling her you will bill her for the help, is
kind and confident.

If a woman gives YOU a compliment, i.e. she says, “You are pretty cool”, and you say, “I know”- THAT shows confidence.

If you then pull her into you and kiss her, that shows affection on top of the confidence.

It’s this MIXING of confidence and kindness that is VERY cool.

Most guys MISS the target. They come in too
arrogant in their effort to show confidence, or
they come in too “nice” in their effort to show
kindness, caring, or affection.

Miss the mark, and get NOTHING.
Hit the mark, and you start a CHAIN REACTION
inside her mind that results in a BURSTING FIRE
OF HEATED ATTRACTION for you.

Here’s an analogy that came up from the same client
during a bootcamp when it “clicked” in his mind,
he said the following, and I paraphrase:

“It’s like that scene at the end of the original
Star Wars, when they blow up the "Death Star".
Luke had to fire into a super NARROW area
and ONLY a direct hit in that super tight
area would work.”

Miss the target, however, and the "Death Star" is left
TOTALLY UNAFFECTED.

HIT the target, and the entire thing IGNITES
into a fireball of a billion glowing splinters.

It’s the same with women but in a positive
way:

MISS the mark, and it’s pretty much NOTHING.

But if you hit the “sweet spot” in their mind
with that combo of CONFIDENCE/POWER
mixed with KINDNESS, and it is quite
literally INSTANT attraction heat they
feel in the most primal sense for you.

TWO: THE THRILL OF THE GAME

What I mean by this is that APPROACHING
WOMEN for the goal of romance, sex, etc,
is ABSOLUTELY THRILLING and so
there is not even a QUESTION of whether it
is “worth it” or not to approach women!

Seriously, aside from having your HEALTH and FOOD or SHELTER, I can’t think of anything MORE rewarding.

And I don’t just mean the end product, I mean that even the PROCESS itself is awesome.

Approaching women is a BLAST.

Let’s say you love football.
Would you ONLY play football if you knew you were going to WIN every single game????

Or does a guy who LOVES football love ALL his games, even if he doesn’t WIN them all?

That’s because to him football is EXCITING.

When you approach women, especially women
who are TOTAL STRANGERS, it is the most
exciting thing in the world, at least to the guys
I know and for myself as well.

I’ll tell you why:
Each time you approach a woman who is a total
stranger, you are INTERFERING with the
entire fabric of your UNIVERSE.

That woman may very well be the woman who
turns out to be your LOVER, and/or the mother
of your children, or the woman who inspires you
to be all you can be.

But if you are not BOLD, you will just sit back
and let it all be, and NOTHING will happen,
an entire DIFFERENT future (possibly boring)
instead of the possibly AMAZING one you could
have had, IF you had taken action to approach her.

And it’s YOU who is changing your own destiny.
YOU are the one TAKING ACTION.

Part of being a MAN in just about every culture
on EARTH is being the one who takes the lead
when it comes to the human “mating”.

Women ARE DEEPLY AFFECTED by a man’s
DARING, his BOLDNESS, his BRAVERY,
his INITIATIVE. And they know full well
how INTIMIDATING it is for most men
to approach women who are total strangers.

So DOING THE APPROACH not only is the only way to MEET her as a stranger, but it ALSO sends the right message
because of the very fact it DOES take guts to do it!

If you want to be successful at approaching women, it is important to realize that the approaches themselves are PART of the excitement.

Also, when you have the skill that comes from doing a lot of approaches, women can SENSE that you have options, because you actually SUBCONSCIOUSLY behave differently, and they pick up on those signals.

Women can often TELL that you have options by sizing up your confidence which shows up in all kinds of subtle subconscious ways when you interact with women.

And when a woman knows you have OPTIONS, she gets even MORE attracted.

And all this is because you DO the approaches.
So it’s NEVER a “waste” of time to approach
women, because the SKILL SET in itself
becomes something women RESPECT
and are ATTRACTED to in you.

Instead of being a man who HOPES that
he will get women, you are the man who
TAKES ACTION.

THREE: ALWAYS BEHAVE AS IF YOU
ALREADY KNEW YOU HAD HER, AND
AS IF A BILLION OTHER SUPER-HOT WOMEN
WERE AT YOUR FINGERTIPS.

What is such a tragedy is that there is so little
TIME to make the right impression on a woman
who is a total stranger.

The GOOD PART of this however, is that if you
do it RIGHT, and you make the right impression,
that impression will STICK LIKE CRAZY GLUE!

In her mind, she knows NOTHING about you.
So you have a PERFECTLY CLEAN SLATE
to create the PERFECT image.

She has NOTHING to contradict any positive
message you create about yourself.

Soooooooooooo, what this means is if you
BEHAVE as if you already HAD her in your
palm, if you behave as if you have a billion
other options but you still are interested in her,
then SHE WILL FEEL THIS IS THE TRUTH
ABOUT YOU.

It’s also a great way to PREVENT coming across
as insecure or a jerk.

Plenty of guys THINK they are acting “confident”
by telling a woman OFF the first second the woman
does something they don’t like.

But if a guy is REALLY confident and secure, he
feels NO NEED to have to PROVE himself or
to insult her. Instead, when a guy is super-secure
he often can see the REAL reasons a woman is
behaving a certain way.

What I mean by this is that it’s NORMAL for
a woman to be a bit CAUTIOUS when meeting
a man who is a total stranger.

A guy who is INSECURE will feel THREATENED
and possibly INSULTED by anything she does that
isn’t a clear sign of her INTEREST.

But a guy who is secure will NOT feel threatened
and is far more likely to respond to anything she
does in the most ATTRACTIVE way.

So for example, if a woman is asking a guy a lot
of questions about “does he pick up lots of women
in stores” or something like that, a SECURE guy
knows she is actually INTERESTED and she just
is trying to find out if HE is serious at all about
her or is she just “woman number one thousand”
to him.

So a secure guy will give a warm smile and possibly
joke to her that indeed she is number one thousand,
(just to get that out of the way since he knows she
is thinking it) and then in a CALM voice tone, say:

“Actually, meeting the RIGHT person is what it’s all about, right? We all meet people, but it’s about meeting the right one.”

TRUST ME, the way you BEHAVE is worth a
TRILLION TIMES more than how much MONEY
you have, what you LOOK like, or how FAMOUS
you are, or whether you are a rockstar or not.

In fact, a client recently emailed me about a guy who was a real rock star who really WAS great with attracting women, and who then traded lives with a dude who was a “regular guy” who was NOT good at all at attracting women.

Somehow they managed to fool most strangers.
In other words, people thought the regular dude
WAS the rock star guy and they thought the rock star
guy was the regular dude.

Well, guess what happened? The guy who really
WAS the authentic rock star dude STILL did
awesome with women, even though he had NONE
of the “rock star” status.

And the guy who could NOT attract women beforehand
STILL couldn’t do well even WITH the “rock star”
status.

That’s because the CHARISMA is what REALLY COUNTS.

You can’t just BUY the right behaviors, attitudes, feelings, etc.
You can’t just “adopt” them from someone else.

And if you DO convey the right behaviors, actions,
attitudes, feelings, etc, then NO ONE can somehow
make you UNDESIRABLE, no matter what they do.

You can see this all the time in real life. Take a look
at any ten random women who are gorgeous, and you will
find out that MOST of these women are with guys
that SEEM ordinary until you actually INTERACT
with them.

As you can tell, EVERYTHING you read here comes from REAL WORLD experience.

And I can ACCELERATE your learning curve in the real world of approaching women. You can save YEARS from learning it all the hard way, because I can show you the DIRECT path instead of you taking the trial-and-error path.

The trial-and-error path of trying to succeed with women not only is INEFFICIENT, but it also can DRAIN your motivation from going through infinite FRUSTRATION.

I seriously suggest you take my Real World Bootcamp because I will PERSONALLY show you EVERYTHING you need to know, and it will all be done for REAL.

The Real World Bootcamp is non-stop IMMERSION in the world of approaching women who are totalstrangers, with a very special twist: You're getting expert coaching, the result of over ten years experience from someone who has been getting men RESULTS with women for all that time, every step of the way.

In the Real World Bootcamp, you learn how to
master the skills for successfully approaching
women right out of the blue, anywhere, who are
total strangers- and then ATTRACTING them.

The Bootcamp makes you self-sufficient because
it teaches you exactly what you need to do to
optimize your approaches to women who are complete
strangers, anywhere, so that you can maximize
the chances of getting them attracted, connected,
and wanting to know you more.

Think of a personal trainer at the gym: He shows
you proper form, strategy, and technique.

WithOUT the expert instruction, one will never
optimize their results, and will also likely get injured
and then not be able to work out at all, possibly for years.

Just going out to the gym with no clue what
you are doing can result in not only very little
to no progress, but it can actually result in
making a guy WORSE OFF than had he never gone
to the gym at all.

Similarly, going out to approach women without
expert training can result in a lot of negative
habits that actually push women AWAY.

It can also create negative emotional associations
in your OWN mind with approaching, to the point
that a guy never does it again, and misses out
on the entire world of possibilities with all
the women that are out there, all the women
that he does not get to meet through rare
"luck" situations.

This bootcamp teaches you how to USE all those opportunities that are available everyday when you see women ANYWHERE, including at the mall, cafe, park, library, post office or grocery store, or just walking on the sidewalk or while riding the bus or train - it could absolutely ANYWHERE.

It's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And if you haven't yet downloaded my CRUCIAL
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Now, there are MANY important elements to being successful with women.

To find out about ALL my programs for skyrocketing your success with women, go here:

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

EXPRESS Route To The Woman You Want

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Fri, 11 Dec 2015 17:24:00 +0000

During this time of year, a lot of men are looking forward to enjoying the holidays, having time off, and being with friends. But we all know that being with an awesome woman makes the whole thing BETTER.

And because of that, this can also be a very TOUGH time of year as well, because if things are NOT going that great in the "meeting women/dating/relationship" part, the contrast between the ideal expectations, the surrounding environment, and one’s actual reality feels HORRIBLE.

I want to CHANGE all that, and I KNOW I CAN.

If you want to the EXPRESS ROUTE to success in getting the kind of woman you really WANT, a bootcamp with me or a personal consultation with me is the way to go, because it allows me to FOCUS on your EXACT NEEDS, your EXACT SITUATION, and give you a CUSTOMIZED response that WORKS BEST for YOU.

This is about SPEED in getting you RESULTS.

And for ONE WEEK ONLY, I am making my PRIVATE CONSULTATION service available for only $99!

The normal price is over EIGHT TIMES the cost, at $800!!!!!

No two guys are exactly the same, they have different strengths and weaknesses, different goals, different challenges, and in a consultation with me, I take EVERYTHING into account and give you the absolute BEST solutions so that you get yourself the kind of woman you WANT.

I’ve been helping guys get QUALITY WOMEN for over 13 YEARS, solving just about EVERY PROBLEM YOU CAN IMAGINE, and I will help YOU get the kind of woman you want as well.

Is it an “inner game” issue? I will make your inner game ROCK SOLID.

Is it about the initial approach? How to get a woman warmed up, giggly, in those first few seconds? I’ve GOT YOU COVERED there too.

Is it about how to build up the connection so that it’s DEEPER than she’s ever had with any other guy in her LIFE? I’ve got you covered there too.

Is it a relationship issue? I’ve helped HUNDREDS of men recover from screw-ups in the relationship where they almost LOST the woman, but got her BACK thanks to the consultations they took from me.

No matter WHAT the issue, or WHAT the challenge, I’ve got you COVERED.

A private consultation can be in person, but it is usually over the phone, since it is the fastest way for most people around the world to get in touch with me. Over the phone, we will discuss the details of your situation, and I will give you absolute BEST solutions.

It’s very simple: You just ORDER the consultation by following the link below. Then, let me know a time that works for you, possibly a couple of time slots that might work for you, and I will email you to confirm the time of the consultation with you.

I look forward to giving you the SOLUTIONS and ANSWERS to GET YOU THE KIND OF WOMAN YOU WANT, FAST.

How fast? You can take what you learn from me and start meeting and attracting the right women IMMEDIATELY.

Please remember, this offer is for ONE WEEK ONLY during this holiday season, it expires December 18, and the offer begins NOW.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why MOST Men Can't Attract Women Today, And What To DO About It

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Wed, 09 Dec 2015 23:53:00 +0000

There’s something so MASSIVE that I want to share with you, that even though I SHOULD be absolutely EXHAUSTED right now from several extremely long days AND nights, I feel like I’m about to BURST from contained pressurized energy inside.

I realized that I’ve been walking around for YEARS thinking that everyone already KNEW a particular piece of knowledge, but I just realized that in fact most people do NOT know it, and it is MASSIVE for your success with women.

I kind of thought everyone KNEW this by now, but it hit me, that NOBODY talks about a very important REALIZATION- and it’s SO SIMPLE, so FREAKING SIMPLE, and makes a UNIVERSE of difference in terms of your RESULTS with women-yet NOBODY talks about this.

People go on for HOURS AND HOURS AND HOURS dealing with all kinds of aspects of how to attract women, and they never even bother to get to the ROOT CORE OF THE ENTIRE FRIGGING THING.

And it’s because they don’t TRULY KNOW OR UNDERSTAND WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON.

SO, HERE IT IS:

If you’re like most guys who grew up in the western world, you probably heard, in fact, you probably were BOMBARDED by messages regarding how women just want to find a GOOD GUY.

About how most guys are just a bunch of CHEATERS, and how women just WISH they could find a guy who was NOT a CREEP, a guy who was INTO them, a guy who would be FAITHFUL, a guy who was not a womanizer, a guy who was not more married to his job than to his wife, a guy who really was devoted to his woman.

Now, here is the important thing- this happened to HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF MEN ACROSS THE PLANET, who were IMMERSED IN THESE BULLSHIT PROPAGANDA LIES ever since CHILDHOOD.

Since CHILDHOOD.
Do you understand what this means? SINCE CHILDHOOD.

That means that HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF MEN IN WESTERN COUNTRIES were INDOCTRINATED in a PERSPECTIVE OF REALITY THAT WAS TOTALLY FALSE.

A perspective that REALLY MADE MEN BELIEVE THAT MOST MEN WERE JERKS AND EVIL TOWARD WOMEN.

A perspective that made the vast majority of men, who were GOOD DECENT PEOPLE, feel a RESPONSIBILITY to HELP RECTIFY THIS INJUSTICE.

So INFINITE ENERGY was applied to making sure that women were treated with SUPER MASSIVE SENSITIVITY- to prevent being misconstrued, to prevent harassing women, to prevent abusing women, in every way you can imagine, from the sexual, to the financial, to the social, to the emotional, to the deepest aspects of the psychological.

INFINITE CARE WENT INTO MAKING SURE TO JUST KEEP ON GIVING TO WOMEN, TO KEEP ON TRUSTING WOMEN, TO KEEP ON BUILDING UP WOMEN’S POWER, WOMEN’S SELF-ESTEEM, AND TO NEVER QUESTION ANYTHING WOMEN WERE SAYING.

So, men really started to BELIEVE that women really DID just want FAITHFUL RELATIONSHIPS. (And who knows, maybe at one time women really DID just want relationships, but one thing is for sure, the corruption of women changed all that.)

The majority of western men started to REALLY BELIEVE that women really DID just want to have a family and a guy who would be loyal and loving and that the women would be INFINITELY GRATEFUL because such good men were supposedly almost IMPOSSIBLE to find.

Meanwhile, during these DECADES of lies where men were being indoctrinated by feminism, and women were being indoctrinated to believe in feminism as well, women had no reason to STOP taking all the POWER THAT WAS BEING GIVEN OVER WITHOUT BEING EARNED.

And by POWER, I don’t just mean financial or political power.
I also mean EMOTIONAL POWER.

So, for example, a man who believes that women just want a relationship from a faithful guy, and who believes that women are the MORE NOBLE gender, and that women would NEVER take another person for granted, (especially not a GOOD GUY for granted), will BEHAVE accordingly.

So, if a woman does NOT appreciate his great behavior, he will NOT believe this is a reflection of the general state of reality in dating women, he will just RE-INTERPRET the INCONSISTENCY in some way that still PRESERVES the picture of the world of women being perfect that he was INDOCTRINATED WITH SINCE THE MOMENT HE CAME OUT OF HIS MOTHER’S WOMB.

IMPORTANT, THIS.

The moment he was BORN, he was already BATHED AND IMMERSED AND SURROUNDED IN NOTHING BUT FEMINIST PROPAGANDA ABOUT HOW EVIL MEN ARE AND HOW INNOCENT WOMEN ARE AND HOW WOMEN WOULD JUST APPRECIATE A MAN WHO WAS NOT FROM THE EVIL ABUSIVE MEN.

Now, REMEMBER that WOMEN were ALSO growing up in this SAME environment.

So how can THEY be expected to DISAGREE with it?????

And so, WHY ON EARTH WOULD ANY WOMAN RESIST ALL THE POWER BEING GIVEN TO HER, WHEN SHE HERSELF HAS BEEN INDOCTRINATED TO BELIEVE IT IS ALL SOMETHING SHE DESERVES AND IN FACT HAS BEEN TOLD THAT ALL THAT SHE IS GETTING IS STILL NOT ENOUGH, BECAUSE “EVIL MEN” ACTUALLY OWE HER INFINITELY.

Let me tell you something- POWER CORRUPTS, and ABSOLUTE POWER CORRUPTS ABSOLUTELY.

This is why in Plato’s Republic, it states how the leaders of society should be those who DON’T WANT TO BE IN CHARGE, WHO DON’T WANT THE POWER; the leaders should be the PHILOSOPHERS. The PHILOSOPHERS should be the KINGS.

Because they are concerned with TRUTH, not with POWER.

And so when women were BOMBARDED WITH POWER, they didn’t RESIST it, for all the reasons outlined above. People just don’t tend to REFUSE power, especially when everyone is telling them that they DESERVE IT ALL.

FAST FORWARD TO TODAY.

And we somehow WONDER why it is that the feminist movement, aside from a PRECIOUS FEW honest women such as Christina Hoff Summers, is a movement comprised of people who have no knowledge of the TRUTH, or even worse, who don’t CARE about the TRUTH?

We are WONDERING why it is that women seem to have the same or more degrees of CHEATING, and this is not taking into account that women tend to under-report these things.

We are WONDERING why GOOD GUYS are having a PROBLEM with ATTRACTING WOMEN, AND KEEPING RELATIONSHIPS? We wonder why GOOD GUYS ARE GETTING ABUSED EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY, LEGALLY, AND FINANCIALLY by women?

And why men’s needs are being IGNORED by society?

So, NOW, let me get to my MAIN point that I was referring to at the OUTSET of this newsletter.

The REASON that women DON’T FULLY APPRECIATE A GUY WHO IS LOYAL IS FOR THE SAME REASON A BILLIONAIRE DOESN’T APPRECIATE A FREE SANDWICH.

From the time a woman is old enough to date, she is BOMBARDED by attention not just by men who naturally already are attracted to women, but by MEN who are made TEN TIMES MORE DESPERATE BY A CULTURE OF FEMINIST LIES AND PROPAGANDA.

Men THROW THEMSELVES AND THEIR DIGNITY at women in DESPERATE EFFORTS TO GET ANY ATTENTION THEY CAN.

And it’s not just PHYSICALLY.

I get messages from men ALL OVER THE WORLD except from feminist countries, where they are IN LOVE with women who have done NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO EARN THAT ATTENTION AND INTENSITY OF EMOTION from these men.

And it’s not just with SUPER ATTRACTIVE WOMEN, it’s often with just TYPICAL WOMEN, neither here nor there, just regular women.

For DECADES, men were TOLD that all women wanted was a guy who would be devoted, and most men were WILLING to do that, and in fact HAPPY to do that, which is actually pretty hard to believe because men are actually HARDWIRED to be more polygamous, but STILL most men would be HAPPY to give up the polygamous pleasure in return for being with a good woman.

And so what happens is that WOMEN are bombarded with ENDLESS GUYS willing to be EVERYTHING TO THEM and these women DON’T APPRECIATE IT. These women in fact feel SMOTHERED BY IT.

And of course, as these men are REJECTED, it makes these men become MORE DESPERATE, and fall deeper into their own ABYSS of despair, which makes these men then act in EVER MORE DESPERATE, UNATTRACTIVE AND UNCONFIDENT WAYS, CREATING A NEVER-ENDING NEGATIVE CYCLE

MEANWHILE, THE GUYS WHO HAVE NO CARING IN THEIR SOUL FOR ANYONE, WHO DON’T GIVE A DAMN ABOUT ANYONE, INCLUDING ABOUT WOMEN, DON’T COME ACROSS NEEDY AT ALL.

They never bought into any of the B.S. propaganda because they simply HAVE NO CAPACITY to give a rat’s ass about ANYONE or what ANYONE says.

And of course it is these guys who don’t smother women with feelings of desperation.

These guys have no human desire for giving and receiving love, so they have NOTHING EMOTIONALLY INVESTED AND THEY CAN JUST PLAY THE PARTY FUN VIBES attitude PERMANENTLY, and are a PERMANENT CHALLENGE TO TODAY’S WOMEN WHO NEED A CHALLENGE.

And then women wonder why they have slept with 30 guys and they were all CREEPS.

Also, it’s important to realize that this corruption starts early with women- it starts the moment that men start to show interest in them, and in fact it even starts earlier as they hear the propaganda from the moment of birth that “women are superior and that women are innocent poor victims of evil men”.

And it’s important that you KNOW THAT WHAT I WRITE HERE IS PROVEN, it’s not a CONSPIRACY THEORY.

One of the most recent and powerful NEW supporters of the truth I have been writing about for almost 13 YEARS since my book “The Dating Wizard” in 2003 is Christina Hoff-Summers, who refers to herself as “The Factual Feminist” as opposed to the ones who stick to lies rather than facts. She’s fantastic for PROOF of all that I write. She is a woman on the side of GOOD. Of TRUTH.

So you HAVE to understand that OFFERING A WOMAN YOUR FAITHFULNESS, YOUR LOYALTY, means about NOTHING to her in a world where a BILLION MEN are offering her the SAME THING.

This is so ABSOLUTELY IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND, because it FLIPS EVERYTHING YOU KNOW UPSIDE-DOWN and is ESSENTIAL FOR YOUR SUCCESS WITH WOMEN.

Now, I am not saying to CHEAT on ANY woman; I’m saying that the ONLY time that your FAITHFULNESS matters is AFTER she already WANTS YOU BADLY.

And if you put the CART before the horse, so to speak, by emphasizing your LOYALTY, the only women who respond to you will be the women who truly CAN’T GET ANY GUY ON THE PLANET TO BE INTERESTED IN THEM.

So YEAH, of course, to THEM, your FAITHFULNESS is SOMEWHAT VALUABLE.

And my point here is that WOMEN’S DNA didn’t change as a result of feminism; women want the same thing they HAVE ALWAYS WANTED- the same thing ALL humans want, which is to get whatever is most PRECIOUS.

And today, for women, getting FAITHFUL GUYS is not HARD.

And if a woman is particularly ATTRACTIVE, it’s actually a problem for her, because she can’t meet ONE SINGLE DAMN GUY WHO IS NOT INTERESTED IN TYING HER DOWN WITH A RELATIONSHIP before she even KNOWS if she LIKES him or not.

And so all the guys she meets, even if they learn some pick up artist games and tactics, end up BECOMING SOFT AND WEAK AND NEEDY once they FALL FOR HER.

And of course due to SUPPLY AND DEMAND, and BIOLOGY, most men DO INDEED FALL FOR HER.

These women KNOW THEY HAVE THE VALUE TO GET YOU TO WANT TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEM, AND TO WANT TO BE FAITHFUL TO THEM; THEY KNOW THEY CAN GET MEN TO DO THIS!

So, if you are reading this right now, and want to know what to DO to SUCCEED with women, let me state a few things:

1. If you STILL feel WEAK OR DESPERATE for APPROVAL OR RELATIONSHIPS FROM WOMEN, you need to BEEEYOTCH-SLAP YOURSELF SILLY TO SNAP OUT OF IT.

This might seem hard at first, but once you SNAP OUT OF IT, you will see that actually NOT BEING NEEDY FOR THIS IS YOUR TRUE NATURAL STATE, and the fact you WERE feeling low self-esteem or desperate was all part of the BULLSHIT MATRIX THAT THIRD-WAVE FEMINISM WAS TRYING TO MAKE YOU BELIEVE WAS REAL.

You can actually be FREE from ALL of it.

And the IRONY is that THIS WILL UNLEASH your natural sense of fun, of confidence, of MAGNETISM that pulls women into you.

2. STOP DATING TYPICAL WESTERN WOMEN.

In my book, The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today, http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html I go into DETAIL on exactly HOW to find the right women, but for here let me just state that there ARE millions and millions of women that are NOT brainwashed by feminism.

They EXIST, they come from countries where feminism never took off, and they may have recently moved close to you. Just as a clue, feminism took off in North America, Western Europe, Australia, the UK, and a few other places, but that still leaves the REST OF THE ENTIRE WORLD FREE FROM THE POLLUTED EFFECTS OF THIRD-WAVE FEMINISM.

The thing to remember, though, is that just because you meet these women, does not mean there is nothing for you to do- THERE IS ONE THING YOU MUST BE for these women- and that is UNAPOLOGETICALLY MALE.

And this is, IRONICALLY, THE HARDEST DAMN THING TO DO when you have been RAISED IN A CULTURE WHERE FEMINISM MADE YOU FEEL LIKE A CRIMINAL PERVERT EVIL SCUMBAG FOR BEING AND FEELING MASCULINE.

This is where I come in, and where my materials and programs will UNLEASH the REAL YOU, the you that has been REPRESSED BY DECADES OF BAD CONDITIONING.

These women won’t feel BAD WHEN YOU BEHAVE AS A MAN, they will actually feel bad when you start to act like aren’t a man! And the only time they will give you issues is when you start acting like a kiss-up overly-sensitive wuss around them!

They have a sense of humor, they won’t get OFFENDED by a joke. They won’t feel the need to call the cops for a JOKE, for a FLIRT; THEY ENJOY BEING WOMEN AND THEY ENJOY YOUR COMPANY.

Now, obviously, there has to be that COMPATIBILITY as well, where the idiosyncrasies of your personality mesh with hers, but there is no over-arching MASSIVE ISSUE THAT POLLUTES THE WHOLE PERSPECTIVE as THIRD-WAVE FEMINISM DOES TO WOMEN.

Now, if you are reading this newsletter, you can CLEARLY SEE that I DON’T BULLSHIT with you.

I tell it like it IS, and I don’t get my jollies from making things OVER complicated and trying to sound super-smart- ALL I CARE ABOUT IS ACTUALLY STICKING TO THE FACTS, AND ACTUALLY HELPING YOU GET THE KIND OF RESULTS YOU WANT, WITH THE KIND OF WOMEN YOU WANT.

And the BEST THING you can do, aside from getting my programs including my latest book, The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today, at http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html is to either sign up for BOOTCAMP or sign up for my CONSULTATION service.

In BOOTCAMP, you spend two days with me, where I UNTANGLE all the TOXIC EMOTIONAL WASTE that has been holding you back with women for years, possibly DECADES, and I also take you out into real places to approach and attract women, showing you it all in person, and coaching you as YOU do it on women for real as well.

When you sign up for BOOTCAMP, you are ensuring that you LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT WOMEN.

In bootcamp, I can SEE any mistakes you are making, and CORRECT them, RIGHT THERE ON THE SPOT.

I have been teaching men how to attract women for well over a DECADE, and in all those years, all I did was build up credibility, year after year, having my students observed many times by members of the press as they succeeded in attracting women, and during all those years I NEVER “sold out” and NEVER taught GIMMICKS.

My training is and always has been focused on the REAL ELEMENTS that make the DIFFERENCE between SUCCESS and FAILURE.

The fact of the matter is, there is absolutely NO INSTRUCTOR IN THE WORLD WITH MORE CREDIBILITY.

And, in my training, you will also learn how to DETECT the RIGHT kind of women who are NOT brainwashed by feminism, and also how to DETECT great character as well, so that you are not wasting time on the wrong women when you can be spending that time pursuing the RIGHT women.

Plus, of course, you will learn ALL THE COMPONENTS of success, ranging from super-strong inner confidence, to how to unleash your sense of humor, and how to build a strong connection.

Bootcamp is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

The fact of the matter is, that my bootcamp is so powerful, that many, many, MANY men end up meeting the woman of their DREAMS very quickly after graduating from the bootcamp. I’ve even had several men meet the women they ended up MARRYING, just DAYS after graduating from bootcamp.

And these women are striking in EVERY WAY- beautiful, intelligent, wise, loving, and dedicated.

Now, I also realize that not EVERYONE can IMMEDIATELY make it out to bootcamp, so if you need IMMEDIATE URGENT HELP with ANY matter related to dating, attraction, or relationships, you can also arrange PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS WITH ME BY PHONE.

Some guys just need ONE consultation, and other guys keep coming back whenever they have a question they need ANSWERED. It’s completely up to you, I simply GIVE YOU WHAT YOU NEED, AND CAN BE THERE WITHIN 24 HOURS, sometimes even SOONER.

One consultation can be the difference between GETTING the love of your life or letting it slip through your fingers. It can be the difference between a life of JOY and a life of REGRET.

Consultations are at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/PrivateCoaching.html

And if you haven’t yet got my NEW book, DOWNLOAD IT IMMEDIATELY. It is PACKED with ESSENTIAL INFORMATION for success with women today, and it will show you EXACTLY how to get yourself a GREAT woman.

It’s called The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today, and it's at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

Why Not Being "Mr. Model" Can HELP A Man Attract Women

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sat, 05 Dec 2015 06:01:00 +0000

I hate all forms of B.S. And so I am really proud to share this one super-powerful point today:

Due to the destructive forces of third-wave feminism, a lot of women in the western world are CONFUSED and a little on guard when it comes to men who try to approach them to pick them up. These women have been bombarded by negative propaganda about men.

And so, if a guy is too good-looking, and comes across too smooth, a LOT of women will actually start to IMMEDIATELY think that he is a player who probably only goes around sleeping with women and telling them lies they want to hear in order to sleep with them.

On the other hand, if a guy seems he is NOT the stereotypical guy who can so easily get lots of women, and does not seem so extra-smooth and polished in his approach, what actually happens is a wonderful IRONY:

The women often LOWER THEIR GUARD, thinking "Oh this guy I don't have to WORRY about him in that respect" and so the women are actually often MORE RECEPTIVE AND OPEN to the actual approach- and if the guy DOES happen to be TRAINED in the ways of how to approach and attract, he is getting the perfect circumstance:

PREPARATION MEETING "PERFECT RECEPTIVE OPPORTUNITY" SINCE THE WOMAN IS MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY OPEN.

I learned this lesson by ACCIDENT.

What happened is that one day I had pulled an all-niter, and was totally in a rush and had no time to do the regular routine in the morning, and left the house with the first thing I could find to wear and my hair messy, and I noticed throughout the day that wherever I was, it seemed the women were hanging around MORE rather than less.

PART of this, by the way, is also the fact that my mind was totally NOT thinking about pick-up, so the women could sense there was NO AGENDA going on, which was the honest truth- there wasn't-I actually felt there was no way I would get anywhere the way I looked and felt, and so I wasn't giving off creepy pick up artist vibes.

However, the other part also was that I didn't seem like a THREAT, like the kind of guy who could break their heart.

And so, after seeing these women hanging around without leaving, lingering for example, at the book or magazine rack beside me at a store, or hanging out too close to me on the bus without moving, I couldn't take it anymore, and started to open up the conversations, all the while treating it totally like an experiment and not worrying at all about trying to get an outcome, which helped even more as well.

And it was INSANE how CONSISTENTLY this kept on working throughout the day.

The BIGGEST thing that any man REALLY needs for success
with a woman is a CHANCE. And by a chance, I mean having
a woman simply being OPEN to feeling out your personality,
getting to KNOW you.

Most guys end up doing things that SHUT THE WOMAN DOWN
before the guys even say a WORD.

Women feel attraction DIFFERENTLY than men.
Women need to FEEL OUT YOUR PERSONALITY.

But most men end up doing things that make the woman
emotionally shut down and thus prevent the guys from
GETTING TO THE POINT of showing depth of personality.

It was a powerful lesson I mentally stored in the VAULT of my
mind FOREVER, and one that I use to this very day to help men
all over the world who also come to my live bootcamps to learn
in person on women in every sort of place you can imagine-
from bookstores to cafes to public transit and much more.

And what you have just read is just the first few MINUTES
from my MASSIVELY POWERFUL AUDIO PROGRAM onSuccess with Women called THE CHARISMATIC MAN.

This program contains an HOUR full of PURE GOLD
on SKYROCKETING your success with women.

Download this program NOW at:

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And to learn more about my live BOOTCAMP, go here:

The Michael Marks Dating BOOTCAMP

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Opposing Forces Of Attraction

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sat, 28 Nov 2015 21:08:00 +0000

Today, I just want to focus on ONE absolutely OVERWHELMINGLY important aspect of attracting women that most guys STILL DO NOT KNOW-and this is even in a digital age when information is supposedly informing people better.

STILL TO THIS DAY, what I am about to show you is something that MOST MEN STILL DON’T KNOW ABOUT AND WILL NEVER KNOW THEIR ENTIRE LIVES.

And just this ONE thing would make the most MASSIVE difference to SKYROCKETING their success with women. What I am talking about is this:

MASTERING THE OPPOSING FORCES THAT IGNITE ATTRACTION IN WOMEN

This is a topic I cover in more detail in my new book, and it’s one that most men NEVER even REALIZE, much less ever MASTER. The hardest part of understanding how to attract women is that success is a combination of so many OPPOSING forces that must be carefully balanced all at once.

One on hand, there is the force, for example, of a woman’s BURNING desire to completely LET GO of all her sexual inhibitions and all her fears of danger from being with the wrong man or men, this desire to just GO WILD sexually.

This includes her most TABOO desires, and her most TORRID and SHOCKING fantasies, and her feeling TOTAL FREEDOM TO NOT BE JUDGED for having these fantasies. The freedom to let her MIND go into TOTAL “SLUT-LAND”.

Men have been misinformed about women, on both conscious and unconscious levels, regarding female sexuality. For the longest time, men were told that women only had sex for the pleasure of men, that women had no real carnal desires of their own.

Then, on the other end of the spectrum, came certain pick up artists who liked to pretend that women were just interested in being promiscuous, and that is not true either.

But make no mistake about it, women are just as intensely sexual as men, in their own ways.

On the OTHER hand, in addition to a woman's intense sexuality, there are her own internal opposing forces she must deal with, including her desire to avoid any possible NEGATIVE FALLOUT from all of this, such as getting hurt emotionally or physically.

It includes not wanting to be perceived as promiscuous by others and even by HERSELF. Yes, she also has a desire to retain a certain self-image in her own mind that she is NOT promiscuous, vulgar, or “dirty”.

If you learn to master BOTH sides, you put yourself into a category where you have NO COMPETITION from other men.

And it can be SUPER-EASY to actually DO this as a man. It’s just one of many VITAL things I explain in my book The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Now, I’ve noticed over the past few days that a lot of people out there have been making “Black Friday” sales.

I’m not doing that, for one very important reason that I’ve become aware of.

If you’re looking for ENTERTAINMENT, like a big-screen TV, some music, or a sofa or something like that, I GET IT, I understand. Those things can be pretty costly, and they are also not VITAL for your quality of life. So a SALE makes sense.

But when it comes to a MAN getting a WOMAN, especially a GOOD woman, a woman who will treat her man right, a woman who that man also finds ATTRACTIVE and DESIRABLE, and especially in OUR SOCIETY TODAY, this goes way beyond ENTERTAINMENT.

This isn’t the SAME thing as getting a stereo, TV, or sofa.

And frankly, my programs don’t even cost that much, ESPECIALLY considering they help you with the most important thing that affects your OVERALL experience in this world- and make no mistake it, being with the right woman absolutely gives your life more ENERGY, more FUN, more MEANING.

How much is it WORTH to you, to CHANGE YOUR LIFE? To STOP the SUFFERING? To get what you WANT in a woman? For getting the woman you WANT?

Frankly, if it’s not WORTH a few bucks to you, then there is NOT ENOUGH DRIVE IN YOU to get the girl in the first place, and NO PROGRAM on EARTH will help you.

I’ve taken this subject seriously, devoted YEARS of my life to finding out what WORKS to attract women, and ALSO how to detect, find, and attract the BEST women on the PLANET.

So, here are just a few of my TOP recommendations:

First, get my LATEST book, this is absolutely CRUCIAL.

It’s called The No-Bullshit Book On Success With Women Today- download it IMMEDIATELY at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

I also suggest you get my program on unleashing the FUN side of your personality, because being a guy who MAKES LIFE FUN is INFINITELY important to attracting women as well.

The key is to make it a part of your REAL personality instead of trying to be a ‘clown’ for women.

This program is called The Skill of Confident Humor, and you should download it NOW at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/confident-humor.html

And of course, the ULTIMATE step is taking my LIVE BOOTCAMP where I show you and teach you on real women EVERYWHERE, and where YOU LEARN “hands-on” as I coach you through all the skills you need to be able to attract women AT WILL.

BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

My materials are being used by men in over 30 countries, and on every continent, and men from all over the world have taken my LIVE BOOTCAMP program, going on to get the girlfriends and wives of their choices after gaining the skills they learned from me.

I look forward to hearing about YOUR success next.

Till next time,

Michael Marks

How To Show CONFIDENCE To Women

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Wed, 25 Nov 2015 20:05:00 +0000

I have some MAJOR points on how to IMMEDIATELY skyrocket your success with women that I want to share with you today, especially regarding how to show CONFIDENCE to women, which is of PARAMOUNT importance.

First of all, by the way, if you haven’t yet downloaded my brand-spanking new “mini-book” on how to be successful with women today, then DO THAT NOW- DO IT IMMEDIATELY.

This book CUTS PAST ALL THE BULLSHIT, and gets straight to what you actually need to DO and KNOW to start getting IMMEDIATE SUCCESS with women.

Don’t be insane, download this book NOW, at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

Next, I want to REMIND you of something that is EARTH-SHATTERINGLY important when it comes to women, and that is the following:

YOU MUST MAKE THE MOST POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSION POSSIBLE IMMEDIATELY THROUGH YOUR BODY LANGUAGE AND TONALITY.

When it comes to feeling attraction for you, WOMEN INTERPRET EVERYTHING YOU DO THROUGH A FILTER THAT IS VERY DIFFERENT THAN WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.

Their interpretation of your behaviors will either IGNITE their attraction or EXTINGUISH it.

And, this is of even more SUPREME importance in making a FIRST IMPRESSION.

So let me be SPECIFIC.

When you are talking to a woman, or meeting her for the first time, or on the first date, she is actually being MASSIVELY INFLUENCED by the things you are DOING, often subconsciously, such as:

Making fidgety movements.
Touching your face.
Squinting.
Speaking too fast.
Not speaking clearly.
Speaking in too quiet a voice tone, almost being inaudible.
Eyes darting around rather than looking at her straight in the eyes.
And so on and so forth.

Notice how all this so far has NOTHING to do with even the actual WORDS you are SAYING.

And what REALLY used to drive me NUTS, to the point of my blood boiling, is how the GOOD GUYS, who so often CARE ABOUT WOMEN, who are NOT the rapists, who are NOT the abusers, who are the ones who actually LOVE women, and would not harm a FLY---

---Well, it’s THOSE GOOD GUYS who get SHAFTED, because since they CARE SO MUCH, they tend to EXHIBIT the signs of being nervous through behaviors like the ones I listed ABOVE.

And there is NO MERCY in this world when it comes to this stuff.

Most of the time, you only get ONE chance with a new woman who is a stranger, and FIRST impressions are the MOST powerful anyway.

The good guys get EATEN ALIVE and THROWN TO THE DOGS, while the most ABUSIVE MEN who are SUPER SELFISH and couldn’t give a RAT’S ASS ABOUT ANYONE, well they end up coming across as SUPER CONFIDENT, and of course this ATTRACTS women- initially. (In the end, no relationship can last when someone doesn't care about the other.)

It all works on a very PRIMAL level.

THIS is why I get so pissed off at things like third wave feminism that have spent generations trying to BRAINWASH men into becoming MORE AND MORE SENSITIVE, LESS POWERFUL EMOTIONALLY, LESS POWERFUL FINANCIALLY, LESS POWERFUL ACADEMICALLY, LESS POWERFUL IN EVERY WAY....

...While at the SAME time INCREASING WOMEN’S POWER to the point of having a society where women are dominating the men, and then the women COMPLAINING that there are no men around who are interesting to them except the jerks.

Do you feel me here?

I am SWEARING to you that this is no joke, and that women ARE attracted, and ONLY attracted, on that primal level, to men who behave like PRIMAL MEN.

So, the FIRST THING you can do this SECOND is to start PAYING ATTENTION to your body language and STOP any of the behaviors mentioned above.

You WILL ABSOLUTELY notice an IMMEDIATE and MASSIVE improvement in your interactions with women, and THIS is the reason why.

And please, don’t BOTHER ASKING women about this, because if they have to tell you, then they won’t feel attracted to you. They want a man who already KNOWS all this.

Now, here’s something to REMEMBER.

As SIMPLE as this sounds, as SIMPLE as the above advice is, to, for example, NOT make fidgety movements, to NOT touch your face or dart your eyes, or any of the other examples of wrong behavior, the fact is, MOST GUYS will ABSOLUTELY STILL engage in some of those wrong behaviors.

This is because it is UNCONSCIOUS.

And it all stems from one thing- PLACING TOO MUCH WEIGHT ON THE WOMAN’S IMPORTANCE RATHER THAN YOUR OWN.

And guys try ALL KINDS OF THINGS to escape this problem, but usually what happens is OVERCOMPENSATION, so they will act MEAN or act COLD, and that is NOT effective either, and actually shows the SAME problem, because it STILL stems from placing too much importance on the woman on an instinctive level inside you.

So you have to be RUTHLESS with yourself.

WATCH your voice tonality.

MONITOR yourself for how your voice pitch is rising out of nervousness.

STOP yourself from making the fidgety movements.

And the greatest thing about all this is that it will end up CHANGING THE WAY YOU FEEL as well.

The body and mind are INTER-CONNECTED, so changing the way you use your body and voice tone actually CHANGES the way you FEEL, to the point that you STOP placing more importance on HER value and you actually genuinely DO feel more important, more valuable, more worthy, than HER.

And lest this sound “mean” against women, allow me to remind you it is NOT, because actually, the IRONY is that women DESIRE men who are confident and FUN so much that MANY, MANY, MANY WOMEN would rather, and I am not exaggerating here, they would RATHER have a man who is TRULY CONFIDENT and who MIGHT cheat on them than have a man who is SO CAREFUL AND NICE and would absolutely NEVER cheat on them.

You MUST remember this, because in our FEMINIST culture that BOMBARDS you with bullshit advice and bullshit propaganda about how all they want is a NICE MAN who gives THEM the power, it then becomes IMPOSSIBLE for most men to EVER exude the confidence and power that women actually FIND ATTRACTIVE IN MEN.

Now, what you have just read here, as IMPORTANT AND POWERFUL as it is, is just SCRATCHING THE SURFACE of an entire UNIVERSE of important truth that you must know if you want to be successful with women.

If you want MAXIMUM success with women, including how to find and attract the kind of woman that won’t BULLSHIT you with feminist nonsense, then you MUST get my LATEST book NOW.

It’s at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/no-bullshit-book-on-women.html

And to learn how to approach and attract women IN PERSON from me, as I coach you in real life on women in all sorts of venues from cafes to supermarkets and everywhere else, go HERE:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Till next time,

Michael Marks

The Truth About Success With Women: HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sun, 22 Nov 2015 16:41:00 +0000

Get ready for one of the most important newsletters I have EVER written on the topic of how to be successful when it comes to getting the kind of woman you want.

Keep in mind that this is an important statement coming from me, because I actually DELIVER the most precious thing there is in the world today: TRUTH.

Yes, TRUTH.

A lot of people believe in conspiracy theories, and maybe there IS such a thing regarding some things in life and in human history, but one thing is for SURE- and that is that MOST THINGS are NOT hidden AT ALL.

They only SEEM hidden because MOST PEOPLE put NO EFFORT whatsoever into training their mind to ASSESS the truth of things.

They put NO EXHAUSTIVE RESEARCH into the things they allow to pass as TRUTH into their minds.

And this is usually not even happening consciously, they simply have an EMOTIONAL reaction to one thing, or a bunch of things, and then THAT becomes some sort of FINAL WORD, final TRUTH, end of story on that topic, that is, until some OTHER thing gets them emotional, and then THAT is the bigger truth.

And people are PLAYED all the time by this, and USED by others as a result of this. By many companies, governments, and people around them.

Meanwhile, the HONEST people, politicians, companies, they DON’T manipulate people, so they DON’T get their money and their support, and they are NOT believed, even though THEY are the ones saying the TRUTH.

Here’s something else too: Life is COMPLICATED, but that is not a reason to turn LIES into truth.

So, for example, maybe you have heard of the BIG CONSPIRACY OF THE PHARMACEUTICAL COMPANIES, right?

But then again, let’s say someone had Hepatitis B, and then was CURED as a result of medication produced by the pharmaceutical companies. This is what happened, by the way, to Pamela Anderson, now cured.

Or drugs that fight cancer, or genuinely help with issues such as depression, or a host of other diseases.

And so on and so forth.

I’m not saying there AREN'T cases of CORRUPTION, I’m just saying that TRUTH requires the ability to see NUANCES, something most people HATE since it takes ENERGY AND EFFORT.

BUT TRUTH IS THE ONLY WAY TO SOLVE ANYTHING, INCLUDING THE ISSUE REGARDING HOW MOST FEMINIST-TAINTED WOMEN ARE TODAY.

So, the TRUTH is, there is NO conspiracy regarding the BIG issues that affect most people’s lives, ranging all the way from things like OBESITY, to ECONOMIC DISASTER, to TERRORISM, to the INSANITY going on today between GENDERS, and the DESTRUCTION of the FAMILY UNIT.

All these things, could be seen from a MILLION MILES AWAY, the signs for all these issues were FLASHING RED FOR DECADES IN EVERYONE’S FACES, but people NEVER SAW THESE BLARING RED SIRENS AND THE FLASHING WARNING LIGHTS THAT WERE SO BRIGHT THEY WERE VIRTUALLY BLINDING.

So, for example, RIGHT on the LABEL of most food products is a list of INGREDIENTS, and when the number one ingredients on EVERYTHING usually are SUGAR or SALT or FAT or CHEMICALS, people KNOW that CAN’T be a good thing, but they RATIONALIZE IT ALL because they haven’t been trained to THINK CRITICALLY ABOUT EVERYTHING.

So they figure, “Well, everyone ELSE does it, so it must be good, and CHANGING requires too much EFFORT.”

Similarly, the ECONOMIC MELTDOWN that happened in 2008 around the WORLD- that TOO had TONS AND TONS AND TONS of warnings!! There were other examples on a smaller scale in other countries where similar dynamics played out with DISASTROUS RESULTS.

And there WERE warnings, by TONS OF WELL-INFORMED economists, and even IDIOTS could see this if they just LOOKED at even the most BASIC problems going on- lending money to people who can’t pay it back???????????????????

But people ignored it, for many reasons, most of all because in the SHORT TERM, it felt great, everyone getting loans, houses, the banks happy to get tons of interest, everyone just going, “YAYYYY! LAH DEE DAH!”

And then, even AFTER the entire meltdown, almost NO ONE having to be ACCOUNTABLE for ANY OF IT, means it can EASILY HAPPEN AGAIN!!!!!!

No one talks about it though, because “KEEPING THE KARDASHIANS” IS MORE IMPORTANT, and I don’t mean that show literally, I mean the basic idea of preferring to focus on less important things that don’t require an appreciation for truth, since it takes effort, even if it means self-destruction.

And by the way, this is the reason you are constantly BOMBARDED by emotionally compelling but mostly STUPID content on the web, on TV, on the radio, etc.

To get your attention, many companies and anyone else trying to use you, know that NUDITY, CELEBRITIES, VIOLENCE, etc., will GRAB your attention, whereas DEEP MEANINGFUL AND LIFE-CHANGING INFORMATION will actually be REJECTED BY MOST PEOPLE!

WHY YOU ARE BOMBARDED BY BULLSHIT

And to sell their stuff, they resort to BULLSHIT, since it WORKS.

So people stay IGNORANT about the most important things- they are too busy having their minds focused on emotional stuff that isn’t even attached to some kind of quality information but rather usually just selling more bullshit.

And things like terrorism that went MOSTLY IGNORED for DECADES by most of the world. There were DECADES that were available to solve this issue EASILY, but all that time it was LARGELY IGNORED.

It’s not a SECRET that oil companies BOUGHT out promising developments and patents for technology for alternative sources of energy for cars. And then rather than USE this technology, they made sure to do NOTHING with that technology.

There is a powerful documentary on this, called Who Killed the Electric Car?

But how many people actually saw the film? And how many people discussed it? The answer is, relatively speaking, VERY FEW.

But the film TRIED to be heard, it WAS out there, it DID get basic publicity.

Not enough people gave a damn.

Can you imagine the DIFFERENT world we would live in if terrorists were cut off from the places that support them through the sale of OIL?

The truth is not HIDING, it’s in PLAIN SIGHT.

Even in WWII, most countries IGNORED Hitler till he invaded their own space.

And on that topic, for one second here, a lot of people who are against religion like to say how religion starts so many wars, to which a lot of atheists reply with things like this:

“Well, how about the Nazis? They weren’t religious! And how about Stalin, who murdered millions of his OWN people, he wasn’t religious, in fact he abhorred religion!”

Well, guess what? The REAL issue is simply TRUTH versus LIES, and TRUTH versus LACK of TRUTH/DISTORTION OF TRUTH/ABSENCE OF TRUTH.

So, just like religion requires one to accept things WITHOUT proof, WITHOUT evidence, so too Hitler and Stalin SHUT DOWN things like the ability to freely exchange ideas and DEBATE ideas.

The real enemy is thinking without EVIDENCE, without PROOF, and the real enemy is any type of system that tries to SHUT DOWN logic, healthy analysis of ideas, civilized debate, and the free exchange of ideas.

That’s why the first step in dictatorships is to DESTROY all competing ideas, even if they are LOGICAL, hence the famous BOOK BURNINGS by the Nazis- which is an effort to destroy competing ideas, regardless of how logical and worthy they may be.

The bottom line is a war on TRUTH, on LOGIC, on EVIDENCE, or a system of government or a way of life that REFUSES to undergo OBJECTIVE EVALUATION and the test of EVIDENCE.

That’s what all forms of EVIL have in common- they REFUSE to allow LOGIC AND TRUTH AND EVIDENCE.

A quote from Carl Sagan, which was brought to my attention by a friend, comes to mind: If it can be destroyed by the truth, it deserves to be destroyed by the truth.

Even the United States in WWII, it got involved when? After PEARL HARBOR.

This is, unfortunately, human nature, which is why it is so important to CORRECT this aspect of human nature. Human nature seeks the path of least resistance, least effort, and tends to DISTORT things in a way to RATIONALIZE the lazy path as the RIGHT path.

And Europe did the same thing AFTER WWII, as well, basically IGNORING issues that were HEATING UP SLOWLY in their own midst. Economic issues. Security issues.

And Greece with its economic crash.

And the USA with its DEFICIT.

THE FROG IN THE POT

This is the old myth of the frog in the pot of water.

The water SLOWLY HEATS UP, so slowly that the FROG never even NOTICES how BAD it is, until it is TOO LATE, at which point, the frog is now BOILED ALIVE in the water.

The story is a myth, but the POINT is ABSOLUTELY TRUE.

The DESTRUCTION of society does not REQUIRE a conspiracy theory, it just requires a LACK OF PAYING ATTENTION.

And since people tend to NEVER PAY ATTENTION to ALL THE WARNING SIGNALS, by the time the DISASTER HITS, by the time they wake up, it is usually WAY TOO LATE.

There is a great line in the movie Watchmen, which comes from the original comic series, where a character is accused of “hiding in the shadows”. He responds that he is not hiding in the shadows, to which the original character retorts that he is doing something worse- he is “HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT”.

And that is the issue of our time- the real problems are not hiding in the shadows. They are HIDING IN PLAIN SIGHT.

HOW THIS ALL PLAYS OUT WITH FEMINISM, ATTRACTION, DATING AND RELATIONSHIPS

Okay, so now that you can see the FRAMEWORK FOR HOW DISASTERS HAPPEN, allow me to introduce to you again the FRAMEWORK for the DISASTER that has HIT VIRTUALLY ALL MEN in ANY COUNTRY where FEMINISM took off and was left to go wild without CONTROL.

So the TRUTH is, of course, that ALL HUMANS who agree to live with each other in harmony should be afforded respect, dignity, justice, and all the other good things.

There is no need for something called FEMINISM, there should JUST be HUMANISM.

But anyway, to make a long story short, what happened over DECADES was the TIDAL WAVE OF ENDLESS FEMINIST PROPAGANDA IN THE WESTERN WORLD THAT WENT UNQUESTIONED.

Propaganda that has been PROVEN FALSE AGAIN AND AGAIN.

Propaganda that constantly portrayed MEN as being EVIL toward women, and as MEN being evil in general, while CONTRASTINGLY portraying WOMEN as victims, as MORE NOBLE, MORE VIRTUOUS, more EVERYTHING that is GOOD.

Now, like anything else, it takes TIME to change MILLIONS of people’s psyche’s and attitudes towards something or someone or some people.

So, in the 1960’s, feminism EXISTED, but the fact is, most men DIDN’T BUY INTO IT. Now, I’m not saying that things were all PERFECT, as they weren’t, but the picture we get today is so distorted, we tend to think that women must have been treated like GARBAGE back then, they must have been CONSTANTLY RAPED and that women were leading these horrible lives.

The problem is that feminism wasn’t being HONEST. It was PRESSURING women to be like men, under the false assumption that women WANTED to be like men.

I say, let a woman DO what she REALLY feels. If a woman wants to do the same things as a man, that’s fine, but why FORCE her?

Why also create PROPAGANDA to DEMONIZE men?

I am referring to BULLSHIT statistics that have been PROVEN false, on so many issues, including RAPE. YES, rape. Bullshit studies by some women’s advocacy groups that tried to pretend that ONE IN FOUR women on university campuses is a victim of RAPE have been proven TOTALLY FALSE.

And OTHER propaganda, such as false stats regarding VIOLENCE TOWARD WOMEN BY MEN.

Just this week, a WOMAN HERSELF complained of the BRAINWASHING that her SONS are exposed to in school.

Here is a direct quote from the article- the color emphasis is mine:
( http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2015/11/19/men-are-not-monsters.html )

"Last week three of my four boys were herded into school-sponsored assemblies and asked to stand, raise their hands and pledge to never, ever hurt a woman. While their female classmates remained seated, my boys faced intense pressure to say:

I promise
To never ever
Hit, hurt, or otherwise harm
A woman, girl, or child.
I understand
That I am bigger and stronger
Than many women, girls, and children.
Therefore it is my DUTY
To NEVER HARM them,
Protect, Respect, Honor, and Love them
No matter what.

Aghast, my 17-year-old son walked out. Less than two hours later, he went to choir practice, where he and his classmates practiced a parody of "Cell Block Tango" from the musical "Chicago" that features the “six merry murderesses of Cook County Jail” singing about killing their lovers. Here's one verse:

            Hah! He had it coming
            He had it coming
            He took a flower
            In its prime
            And then he used it
            And he abused it
            It was a murder
            But not a crime!

Ironic, eh?"

Meanwhile, in our culture, we are HIDING THE VERY REAL stats that in actual RELATIONSHIPS between men and women, it’s usually WOMEN who are more likely to be assaulting the MEN!!!!

All this crazy SHIT, over DECADES, created a PERCEPTION in MEN that as men we must all BEND OVER BACKWARDS TO STRIVE TO FIGHT AGAINST OUR DEMONIC NATURE TO BE ABUSIVE TO WOMEN.

And this starts in CHILDHOOOD.

I remember in my OWN childhood, that on TV, all the daytime talk shows featured discussions of men abusing women and how evil men are. And I would hear CONSTANTLY from girls how guy are jerks, and how women just wanted a nice guy.

I REALLY DID HEAR THIS, AND SEE WOMEN CONSTANTLY TALK THIS WAY.

And so did HUNDREDS OF MILLIONS OF OTHER MEN AROUND THE WORLD!

Meanwhile WOMEN are told to show NO RESPECT FOR MEN, to rather DO THE OPPOSITE and constantly PUSH FOR MORE FREEDOM, MORE CAREER, MORE INDEPENDENCE, MORE SEX OPTIONS WITH MORE PARTNERS, MORE DRINKING, MORE DRUNKENNESS, MORE PROMISCUITY, MORE MONEY, MORE RIGHTS, because anything less than pushing for TOTAL SELFISHNESS FOR WOMEN is somehow an EVIL of men!

Plus, men were told to NEVER DARE question women on anything, lest they be considered INSENSITIVE and CHAUVINIST PIGS!

So if women believe in superstition like astrology far more than men do, DON’T say a thing about it, lest you be considered a woman-hater. Don’t encourage women to use critical thinking, logic, and exhaustive evidence- that would be evil.

And in our climate of feminism, women are PUSHED to do the OPPOSITE of whatever women have done for MILLIONS OF YEARS, because somehow (according to feminists) men have for MILLIONS OF YEARS BEEN OBSESSED WITH NOTHING OTHER THAN HOW TO SPEND ALL DAY AND ALL NIGHT ABUSING WOMEN.

The EXACT CAUSE of the problem regarding how women treat men today is not some CONSPIRACY, it’s not some MYSTERY, it’s RIGHT OUT IN THE OPEN.

It’s not “hiding in the shadows”.

It’s “hiding” in PLAIN SIGHT, for anyone who so much as just opens their eyes to the TINIEST degree!

As if women were SOOOOOOOOOO STUPID for ALLLLLLLLLLL OF HUMAN HISTORY.

First of all, it simply is not true. And even if men WERE trying to do that, it is a simple fact of EVOLUTION that women would ADAPT and actually find new ways to THRIVE.

And in fact, evolution did exactly that, for other reasons of survival advantage, which is why women have concealed ovulation, but now I digress, but for more on that please read the book The Red Queen by Matt Ridley.

So we really have a society where women are being FORCED to abandon what has worked for MILLIONS of years, and then we WONDER why maybe there is a problem?

And even more importantly, in an environment where MEN are brainwashed from childhood to think women have been so abused, that they need and want men to be EXTRA-SENSITIVE and CARING, while women ACTUALLY are being taught to be more AGGRESSIVE than ever, and to SEEK POWER more than ever, and to MANIPULATE MEN more than ever….

...Is it any WONDER that nice guys get DEMOLISHED AND DESTROYED BY WOMEN THESE DAYS when it comes to actual SEXUAL ATTRACTION and not just getting taken for a ride by doing FAVORS for women?

Also, women not only are NOT these fragile creatures who NEED a “super-sensitive” guy, they also aren’t particularly ATTRACTED to him either. And they never WERE, throughout ALL OF HUMAN HISTORY.

Yes, they DO appreciate sensitivity if you ALSO have the most IMPORTANT traits of a man. Just like YOU appreciate a woman who treats you right, BUT you first want to feel ATTRACTED to her, and THEN you care about the fact she treats you RIGHT.

So it’s not the FOUNDATION of attraction, it’s what helps KEEP the relationship going if you ALSO have triggered the attraction.

Can it just be a COINCIDENCE that, for all the bullshit FEMINIST TALK about wanting a man to be super-nice, and for just wanting equality, that actually women DESIRE AND CRAVE A MAN WHO IS BURSTING AT THE SEEMS WITH POWER ON EVERY LEVEL, AND THE MORE POWER, THE BETTER, JUST LIKE THEY HAVE THROUGHOUT HUMAN HISTORY????????

THE SOLUTION FOR YOU TO ATTRACT WOMEN

Now, the ANSWER to how to attract and approach women isn’t JUST about being MORE (RATHER THAN LESS) OF THE MAN YOU WERE GENETICALLY PROGRAMMED TO BE OVER THE COURSE OF MILLIONS OF YEARS OF EVOLUTION…

…It’s ALSO about how to COMMUNICATE that you ARE this man in a way that doesn’t get you ARRESTED in our modern society.

This is where I come in.

I have spent over FIFTEEN YEARS devoted to the TRUTH in this field. And the TRUTH requires an appreciation for FINE NUANCES.

This becomes ESPECIALLY important if you actually want a great girlfriend long-term, because a woman’s personality doesn’t matter that much if you ONLY are looking for a one night stand with her, and also a woman who is just looking for a one-night stand is NOT looking for the same things in a man as a woman who genuinely IS looking for a real long-term relationship.

I care about TRUTH, and that’s why I tend to WRITE a lot about it.

There are a lot of VIDEOS out there that like to PUSH YOUR BUTTONS and get you emotional, but the truth is that the WRITTEN WORD usually allows for far more DETAILED truth, because it isn’t depending on bells and whistles and nudity and other visual stimuli to distract you and grab your attention in the wrong way.

Of course, there too you have to be careful, because one can also engage in endless bullshit in writing as well- it’s just that if one wants to go the route of fooling someone, they may as well use video since it allows more effective ways of fooling someone through the power of pictures and audio.

Now, on the topic of TRUTH, allow me to clear up some important misconceptions about how to attract women and about getting a great long-term girlfriend.

NUMBER ONE: LOOKS VS. SKILLS

A lot of guys think that they can’t succeed at approaching and attracting women because, in their mind, it’s all about a guy’s looks.

Well, the truth is that although having looks helps, it is NOT everything AT ALL, and the reason for this is because in the REAL WORLD, a woman makes her decision on the OVERALL impact a man makes on her.

What I mean is she gets approached by some guys, and meets some other guys, but it’s not like she gets this endless flow of guys who are perfect in every way, AT ALL.

So, in the end, it all boils down to the OVERALL impact you make. When you approach her, are you able to convey personality? Or do you come across like most other guys who just act like robots?

Here’s another thing to remember- the guys who have it too easy with women initially usually end up not learning how to approach women, they just rely on women who come their way, so they end up NOT APPROACHING women, thereby cutting DOWN on amount of men who actually DO approach women.

And this brings me to the SECOND point:

NUMBER TWO: FUN VS. EVERYTHING ELSE

The great EQUALIZER to whatever a guy may think he DOESN’T have to offer women, is this: MAKING LIFE FUN.

THIS is one of the reasons so many, many, MANY guys who do well with women seem to know how to get women LAUGHING.

And, ironically, enough, this laughing has very LITTLE to do with what most guys THINK it has to do with- it’s NOT ABOUT being a jester, or a clown, but rather about exuding a sense of humor that conveys CONFIDENCE.

Being around a PERSON like that makes HER feel girly, makes HER feel happy, makes her GIGGLY in that womanly way.

So the more you can bring FUN into your conversation with her, and into your interaction with her, the BETTER.

In the end, life is just a bunch of MOMENTS. And the more moments you make FUN with her, the more she keeps associating you with GOOD TIMES, and in the brain, all sex really boils down to is the SAME chemical- it’s GOOD TIMES.

Again, this is why you almost NEVER see guys who are GOOD with women who don’t understand how to also MAKE THE MOMENT FUN.

And again, this is where I come in, because I can show you how to still be DOMINANT in a way that also is FUN, and that combo is the ULTIMATE.

NUMBER THREE: QUANTITY VS QUALITY

A lot of the pick-up artists who just want to sound impressive but are actually spreading bullshit like to say that people who CAN attract the opposite gender always want to be PROMISCUOUS as well above all else.

They will say things like you should NOT care whether a woman has slept with 50 guys or not, and the will say the ONLY reason a guy is not comfortable with that is because HE doesn’t know how to get the same amount of women as she can get men.

THIS IS BULLSHIT.

But it sure SOUNDS interesting, and is a great way to entire clients to take bootcamps that focus on speed rather than on quality of woman, because it’s easier to find promiscuous women who will get physical faster than it is to show some kind of evidence of results with any other type of women.

The TRUTH is that actually, both men and women, when they KNOW they can get quality, tend to actually go for the highest QUALITY they can get in their mind, rather than quantity.

So, for example, let’s take someone like Jessica Simpson. She ends up actually NOT being promiscuous but rather getting MARRIED at an early age. The first marriage didn’t work out, but she certainly didn’t live a promiscuous life.

Same thing with Britney Spears.

Same thing with supermodel Cindy Crawford.

Sports-Illustrated supermodel Irina Shayk had her choice to be with MILLIONS of guys just BEGGING to sleep with her, but chose to be in a long-term relationship with some superstar soccer player, and then in a long-term relationship with an actor.

And even the MEN, who it could be argued biologically are MORE polygamous than women, tend to end up choosing to find quality rather than quantity when they truly have choice. Take a guy like Justin Timberlake, or a Brad Pitt- they could easily be living promiscuous lives, but never really did.

It turns out that actually when you REALLY have ultimate choice, you DON’T go for the quantity; you go for the quality.

Plus, the truth also is that men actually find the idea of actually being in a relationship with a woman who has slept with 50 guys to actually be REPULSIVE on a very primal level, and possibly for very good evolutionary reasons- because it shows she is a bad choice to invest DNA in when she may not end up giving birth to his child, but rather to someone else’s.

And never mind that on TOP of all this, is the very REAL issue of STDs.

So, once again, TOTAL BULLSHIT gets spread, but the TRUTH is out there if you just open your eyes.

It’s not hiding in the SHADOWS.

The truth is hiding in PLAIN SIGHT.

So now is time for you to make a choice.

Do you want SUCCESS in getting yourself a great girlfriend?

Or do you want to WASTE your time, and have your EMOTIONS and attention hijacked by the endless ATTENTION grabbers on TV, on the internet, and everywhere else, whether they are governments, companies, or anyone else trying to MANIPULATE you?

And remember, TIME is the most VALUABLE commodity.

It’s actually one of the reasons I made my NEW book so EFFICIENT- it contains ONLY gold, NO FILLER AT ALL.

The book is called: The No-Bullshit Book on Success with Women Today.

And it is designed so you can read the whole thing IMMEDIATELY, and there is no way you can end up NOT reading it. You WILL finish this book, and you WILL USE IT, and it will PRODUCE RESULTS- ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS USE WHAT YOU READ IN IT!

This newsletter, as powerful as it is, just scratches the surface of what I SOLVE for you in the book- including the very nitty-gritty HOW TO on finding a QUALITY woman that is UNTAINTED by feminism, and how to most EFFECTIVELY approach her, and how to most efficiently attract her, and how to KEEP a relationship THRIVING LONG-TERM.

Order and download this book by clicking this link NOW:

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Once you’ve got the book, the next step is BOOTCAMP where you will learn from me how to most efficiently put it all into ACTION, right before your very own eyes.

You will be doing all this in the real world, on women in all kinds of everyday places like coffee shops, bookstores, supermarkets, and more.

Contact me by email to request any details about bootcamp.

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And if you have any urgent dating or relationship issues that you need addressed IMMEDIATELY, you can also arrange a live phone consultation with me as well.

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Till next time,

Michael Marks

The No-Bullshit Book On How To Succeed With Women Today

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Mon, 16 Nov 2015 01:19:00 +0000

If you want success with women, that goal has now become a MILLION times easier for you than it ever was before.

A Brand-New Book That Cuts Past All The B.S.

I’ve just completed a new "mini-book" that cuts past all the total BULLSHIT out there and gets right to the part about what you need to do to SUCCEED at approaching women and ATTRACTING women.

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How To Get A Woman To CHASE You

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sat, 07 Nov 2015 01:17:00 +0000

If you get a woman to chase you, you know
she's attracted to you.

On the other hand, if you start to chase HER,
you usually tend to LOSE the woman, as she
loses the attraction she felt for you.

The question though, a question I spent YEARS
figuring out the hard way, is:

How do you START a conversation with a woman
WITHOUT making it obvious that you are “chasing her”?

After all, the fact you started talking to her
makes it clear you have at least some interest
in her!

Well, some people like to think the answer is
to give women a series of backhanded
compliments, which is really a series of subtle
insults.

For example, the guy will say something
nice to the woman, like “nice smile” and then say
something like “but you have weird hair” or
whatever other insult they could come up with.

The idea behind all this, is that this way supposedly
you don’t validate her, so now she will pursue you in
her quest to get validated.

Unfortunately, this is NOT ENOUGH, for the simple
reason that a woman has to feel some ATTRACTION
to begin with, before she will care about whether you
are validating her or not.

So the REAL ANSWER to, “How do I approach
a woman without making it seem that I am chasing her?”
is to get her MESMERIZED with you as fast
as possible so that she stops THINKING about
the fact you approached her, and is instead more
more concerned with her OWN interest in YOU
and how to ensure that she gets YOU!

If you do a GOOD JOB at the approach, then,
in her mind, the fact you approached her
only means that you are CONSIDERING her,
not necessarily CHASING her.

Now, at that point, of course you can lean back and
chill out and let her chase you.

If she's attractive, you can be sure she will
enjoy chasing you, (don't go overboard, and
don't get abusive, ever, of course).

So, instead of looking at value from a negative standpoint,
and giving women insults and then hoping they
will want to get validated by you, the best way to
go is to actually CONVEY REAL VALUE –
so that she WANTS to chase you.

By “real value” I mean getting her FEELING
A SERIES OF INTOXICATING EMOTIONS
THAT GET HER HEART PUMPING.

From a chemistry/romance/attraction point of view,
that’s the highest form of value you can give a woman.

In fact, women will become ADDICTED to you
if you can do this, because emotions are addictive,
and the more you can give her, the more she will
become obsessed with you.

This is when a woman doesn't just want you,
but wants you BAD!

As the song goes, she will call you on the phone, and tell you
it's URGENT that you meet her right now:

So now, I’m going to give you some of the WAYS
to convey value and attract her, all of which have
nothing to do with harming her self-esteem or
any other negative stuff.

ONE: THE PARTY IS WITH YOU

This was one of the first “holy *sh%!” moments
for me when I discovered this. Basically, what this is,
is that you adopt the mentality that there IS
a party going on, a GREAT PARTY in fact, and
that you are the CENTER of this party!

And you do this no matter what the heck is
“really” going on- you behave like everyone
around you is VISITING this party or has
just arrived.

And, you behave as if they are all super-friendly
and admirers of you- wishing that you would chat
them up too, in addition to all the other cool people
who you were chatting to before them.

This means ANYWHERE you are, you now
have the LICENSE to do all kinds of fun
playful and even risqué stuff, because it’s
all perfectly fine in the name of the PARTY.

You could get away with more sexual comments,
you could make fun of anything, you could make
any joke, you could SAY anything, if you are really
FEEELING THIS PARTY VIBE.

The key to making this work, is to not even
leave your ROOM or the house or building
until you have gotten yourself into this PARTY
state of mind.

You need to do whatever it takes to get the
PARTY inspiration, but don’t use alcohol
or drugs obviously as that is not only not
healthy but will screw up your performance –
so I suggest you listen to PARTY MUSIC
that you love instead.

The other thing to making this work is that
you have to anticipate BEFOREHAND that
you might meet a woman ANYWHERE
and so this way you are READY for the
moment when the moment comes- whether
it be in the coffee shop, bookstore, elevator,
bus, or school, ANYWHERE.

You have to be ready BEFORE it happens,
not just when it happens, or it’s too late.

Say you’re getting off the elevator and a
gorgeous creature happens to be right in
front of you- you can do something like this:

Give her this look, up and down, and
DON’T DO IT WITH SHAME, do it
like a MAN, and then give her a bit of
a nod, as if you’ve just given her your
stamp that she qualifies, and you could
even say “the party is this way” and
gesture toward where you’re going,
or you could even say "The party is
HERE!" and point to yourself.

Again, this stuff requires you to be
in FULL party state, the reason it works
is because since YOU are in that state
and showing it, it makes it EASY for her
to join this state as well, because the reality
is that EVERYONE wants to be having
MORE FUN, no one wants to get more
depressed and formal and official, and
here you are having a great time ALREADY
and just inviting her to playfully join.

Again, the key is that you are ALREADY
in this state of mind BEFORE you meet her,
so this way she gets to actually feel MORE
comfortable to join your “party” since she
doesn’t have to feel it’s all about HER,
rather it’s about the chance to FEEL GOOD.

And guess what?
If a woman is feeling good and sexual around
you, and the other guys in her life are boring her,
guess who she’s going to BE with?

YOU.

This feeling GOOD stuff is so powerful, and
yet 99% of people prevent themselves from
feeling this by getting caught up in all kinds
of negative emotions.

Make yourself the one guy on earth who IS
her drug, the source of feeling intoxicatingly
awesome.

And the irony is that you will do this best by
NOT doing it for HER, but by already being
in this state BEFORE you bump into her.

Yeah, I know you might say it's the same
thing because you are doing it for her, but
once you do this, you will actually FEEL
way more awesome anyway, and you
really WON'T be doing it just for her!

This is why so many of the most beautiful
women in real life are with men who have
a LIFESTYLE that is compelling/fun/intriguing.

By LIFESTYLE, I mean they way they live
their lives from day to day, how much of that
time is spent feeling awesome emotions
compared to boring ones or negative ones.

You don’t have to be in this state 24/7, but you
definitely want to be in this state if you are out
trying to meet and attract women.

TWO: CHANGE YOUR WARDROBE

Clothing is something we all have to wear most
of the time – and it covers us from almost head
to toe- it’s LIKE AN ADVERTISING BILLBOARD,
but the “ad” that most guys are wearing is saying:

“I’m boring and not social and not looking to
have any fun, ever.”

So you should definitely be pushing the envelope
to find clothing that has STYLE, and that reflects
some of your OWN personality as well- whether
it’s leather with some shiny metallic on it,
whether it’s an unusual but cool denim,
you want to be STANDING OUT and not
wearing the thing that makes you blend in
as one of a billion other guys.

This is a huge topic in itself, but the key
is to remember that no matter what your
environment, whether it’s work or a club
or a party, you can always find the thing
that you can get away with that pushes
the envelope without being ridiculous
in each environment.

Another thing to remember is that most guys
tend to avoid upbeat colors, and it’s a good idea
to incorporate some more color, even if it’s just
a BIT of bright color to offset what is mostly
dark colors.

This was the hardest thing for me to do at first,
because I actually felt so gloomy and angry, I
liked dressing more like Batman, all brooding,
so it took a while for me to have some more range
with some color as well.

No one is saying you have to wear pink and yellow,
or look “gay”, there are a lot of other options besides
that.

You may want to ask the most attractive female
clerk at the clothing store for her help, and while
you’re at it, go for her number as well.

THREE: USE YOUR VOICE

Start things off RIGHT.

When you initially say the first WORD (and after
as well, but especially when you start, to get her
attention the first time) to a woman who is a total
stranger, it’s important that you don’t come across
as weak or without conviction in your decision to
talk to her.

Say it with FULL AUTHORITY in your voice,
whether it’s “Hi” or “Hey” or “I’m on my way to
the King Tut exhibit at the museum”, say it with
TOTAL AUTHORITY, and this way she won’t
question WHY you are talking to her and it will
also get her attention in a receptive way, so that
now you can actually get into the more juicy fun
or interesting stuff you were going to talk about
to her.

FOUR: THE WAY IT BEGINS IS THE WAY IT ENDS

Now, it’s important to realize regarding the above
things, that whatever you do in the beginning will
set up the DYNAMIC of how things will go till the
END.

If you set up the dynamic as highly sexual but without
any deeper connection going on, then your relationship
will likely become sexual but then explode and self-destruct
quickly.

If you tease a woman too much, she will end up
teasing you back hardcore as well, and this might
get out of hand and become annoying after a while.

If you keep the dynamic too “anti-septic” and safe
and free of sexual vibe, you will end up as friends only,
and you don’t want that.

If you play games too much in the beginning, the relationship
will end as a result of these games as well.

So you must strike the right BALANCE in your
interactions with women, and you must do this
right especially at the BEGINNING, so that
things are established immediately and flow
in the direction you want.

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The Most Important Quality To Find In A Woman These Days

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Sat, 31 Oct 2015 23:22:00 +0000

I want to address a really important question today regarding whether or not you can trust a woman with other men who she claims are "PLATONIC" friends.

First of all, if the woman is attractive, then let's just call a spade a spade and not engage in this insane politically-correct culture that pretends there is no such thing as instinctive male sexual drive.

If she is attractive, then most men WILL feel sexually attracted to her, and it WILL cloud the minds of most men. So there is no such thing as a purely platonic friendship, certainly, when the woman is attractive- the guy DOES feel chemistry for her, but this does not mean he can't be in control of himself, of course. But it's not PLATONIC.

The real question here, though, is, can you trust your girlfriend or wife?

The answer to this question really boils down to ONE thing- how RESPONSIBLE of a person is she in general? And in particular, how responsible of a person is she regarding the RELATIONSHIP?

And today, more than ever, unfortunately, many, many women have SHIRKED off responsibility for their behaviors, especially in terms of how to treat other men, due to the influence of third-wave feminism.

I first started to notice this about 15 years ago in nightclubs and college campus pub-nights. Even though I never drank myself, I would notice almost IMMEDIATELY as soon as a conversation was going well with a woman I was chatting up, she would start DRINKING more.

I didn’t realize why this was, as I was still pretty clueless about some things back then, but eventually I learned that what was happening was that many women are extremely promiscuous, but at the same time they don’t want to PERCEIVE THEMSELVES as promiscuous.

So, by getting THEMSELVES drunk, they are in effect getting RID of their ABILITY to make decisions, and also offering themselves a RATIONALIZATION for whatever happens later, so the next morning they can always feel like it wasn’t really them who did whatever it was they did.

This is just one reason why I am not a fan of picking up women in clubs or pubs or anywhere else where they may be drunk. But my main point here is how this is an example of SHIRKING responsibility.

Similarly, over the years, being in this field, I have heard all kinds of INSANE things, such as women saying things like if they cheated while on vacation, “It doesn’t count”, or that sleeping with ten guys while on vacation “doesn’t count”.

Also, the ENDLESS TIDAL WAVE of blaming MEN for everything - for example, when a woman says that she dated TEN ABUSIVE MEN in a row, you have to wonder why she couldn’t find anyone ELSE. Was there perhaps something about those guys- were those guys cool, wealthy, powerful, or some other attractive trait, that these women have to take some responsibility for fully KNOWING what they were getting into but thinking it was worth it?

GROSSLY exaggerated claims of abuse, such as that one in four women on college campuses in the US are victims of rape, which went UNCONTESTED FOR YEARS, have recently been PROVEN as TOTALLY FALSE to the MIND-BOGGLING degree of CLARITY that NO ONE, not even THE MOST EXTREME FEMINISTS, can ARGUE with the recent REFUTATIONS to those claims.

It’s also interesting that some of the most famous feminists who claimed they just wanted equality between men and women, who claimed that the PERFECT relationship between men and women were ones where the men and women were EQUAL in status and power, ended up marrying men who were INFINITELY MORE FINANCIALLY POWERFUL than them, such as Jane Fonda who married Ted Turner.

So with their MOUTHS they SAY things, but they aren’t being RESPONSIBLE about those things.

So, it is in THIS light, in THIS context, that I tend to be very SKEPTICAL about some women who say they are hanging out with some guy who is "just a friend".

It’s NOT because it is IMPOSSIBLE for men and women to be friends.

It is because we are living in a time when women are told they don’t have to be RESPONSIBLE for their behaviors- they can just blame anything that happens on the guy.

So if the woman was in a relationship, and hanging out with some guy for coffee or a dinner or whatever, and that guy started making moves on her, what kind of CULTURE do we live in?

We live in one where it is EASY for the woman to start SHIRKING responsibility, to start BLAMING her boyfriend for not being good enough, for being too good or too nice, for being WHATEVER excuse she wants in order to cheat and not have to take RESPONSIBILITY FOR IT.

It is WRONG for any man to abuse a woman, and we live in a society in the western world that KNOWS this, and AGREES with it, and it is ILLEGAL.

However, if a woman hits a man, if a woman is verbally abusive to a man, if a woman cheats on a man, what we tend to hear are ENDLESS excuses, endless rationalizations, endless SYMPATHY and EMPATHY for the woman.

For example, when Arnold Schwarzenegger was found to have cheated on his wife with the maid, which was wrong to do to his wife, the INSTINCT of most people was to hate on him, but what is so BIZARRE is that NO ONE mentioned the MAID HERSELF!!!!

Somehow, she got off as PERFECTLY INNOCENT, as if she was FORCED to do all this.

It is as if the culture was saying, "There IS NOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYY that she was anything other than TOTALLY INNOCENT, and there is NOOOOOOOOO WAYYY that she was trying to BENEFIT from being with one of the most successful men in Hollywood and American politics, EVER. Nooooooooooooo, it’s only ARNIE who is the absolute villain here."

Do you see what I am getting at?

A society where WOMEN are simply NOT held to the same degree of RESPONSIBILITY for their BEHAVIORS as men are, all thanks to third-wave feminism.

Also, it is interesting how many women end up with BAD BOYS, women who have all the choices in the world. For example, Pamela Anderson and Tommy Lee. And just about EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE KARDASHIANS. And if you have enough experience dating, you’ve probably seen plenty of this as well in your own environment.

So, men are supposed to behave NICE to women, when being overly nice does not work, but when women are mistreated by bad boys, it’s not the WOMEN who are told by feminism to learn a lesson, nope- it’s the EVIL MEN who must change, when in reality most of the guys who are super-sensitive and nice to women end up getting taken advantage of.

So, in a society like THIS, yes I believe you have to be damn careful in your screening process with women, and in not being naïve. We are living in a culture where women simply aren’t put to the same level of MORAL RESPONSIBILITY towards the SAFEGUARDING of a relationship as MEN are.

I have been saying FOR MANY YEARS that OF COURSE I believe in fairness, and women being treated right, and women being astronauts, doctors, or whatever they want is awesome.

What I have a problem with is a MORAL DECAY that results from third-wave feminism preaching a DOUBLE STANDARD, and most of all, preaching LIES.

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And what this means is that if you want a long-term relationship with a woman, you must screen for a woman who is AWARE of this VERY issue, and who is RUTHLESS in her vigor to SAFEGUARD the integrity of the relationship by actually being RESPONSIBLE in her actions and decision-making.

Once you are with a woman like that, then not only CAN you let her do what she wants, but you in fact SHOULD trust her, as when trust is earned, and trust is then given as a result, she will feel no desire or need to RUIN it, and in fact will cherish what she has with you.

Now, there ARE some great women today, who have great senses of responsibility, and honestly, to me, a woman like this is a TRUE "Wonder Woman"- because it takes incredible STRENGTH to STAND UP to the SOCIAL PRESSURE of a society gone MAD.

There is an old quote: "A woman of valor, who can find?" What is interesting here is that the word VALOR denotes noble character, but it especially notes COURAGE as well. It takes COURAGE for a woman to STAND UP up for good values when society's values are corroding into chaos all around her.

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The Most IMPORTANT Skill For Attracting Women And How To Master It

noreply@blogger.com (Michael Marks) — Thu, 29 Oct 2015 03:22:00 +0000

I want to make a few VITAL things clear today regarding how to attract women.

The first is that ATTRACTING a woman is all about unleashing the positive PRIMAL emotions in yourself, which helps brings those SAME emotions out in her.

The more YOU are feeling sexual, confident, dominant, upbeat, and playful, as OPPOSED to feeling like a robot, or feeling worried about the outcome of the interaction, or feeling serious, the better your results will be.

Now the thing is, some guys will read that and take it out of CONTEXT.

They will go too far, or they won’t be intense enough.

It is important to OBSERVE the situation accurately, not only so you can GENERATE attraction, but also so that you can REALIZE an opportunity when you SEE it!

What is required for success is the proper CALIBRATION of those states of minds and actions, which means the proper amount and intensity of those things, depending on the situation and the woman, and depending on where you are at in the conversation.

So, for example, let’s say you are at a major mall and you see a woman carrying a bunch of shopping bags and she looks tired as she is plodding her feet along. You approach her and make a playful comment teasing her on how it seems she has done some real “work” today. Perhaps she smiles at you and chuckles and she says she’s done a lot of “damage” (i.e. to her finances from all the purchases).

Well, now that she is clearly OPENING UP TO YOU, you have to CALIBRATE properly. Do you decide to tease her FURTHER? And if so, how intense should the tease be, so that it doesn’t come across as mean-spirited?

A comment like, "You’re going to really regret it" is just MEAN and NOT FUNNY- unless you reallllly deliver it with the right tonality and expression.

A better comment from you in response to her mentioning how she has damaged her finances might be: "Hey, is the stuff you bought for you?"

This might be better, because let’s say she says that it is, you might then reply with, “Well that’s cool, you know that charity begins at home!”

And now she may smile AGAIN.

So now you have a woman that was a total stranger just moments ago, who has opened up to you, and revealed that she has possibly done something she lightly regrets, (and as such has now engaged in a subtle form of disclosure with you, which is an element you can use to build greater connection as you do the same as well to follow up), and you have gotten her to smile or laugh- all IN SECONDS from meeting her.

By saying something positive like that, you are keeping the conversation upbeat and rewarding her for talking to you, a total stranger. She might smile in response to the “charity begins at home” comment, or she might laugh, but no matter what she says, chances are it will be a positive reaction because you CALIBRATED properly.

But now at THIS POINT, now that you have got her a little more INVESTED in the interaction by mere fact that she is actually speaking with you, you might want to add a bit of SPICE to the conversation by introducing a touch of “positive/playful tension” i.e. not making it too easy for her to get you, otherwise she will likely feel the whole interaction went TOO FAST, and is thus somehow “not right”—this is because women are conditioned to expect there to be a certain amount of “the dance” (figuratively speaking) before she will actually escalate to the next stage with you.

It can happen pretty darn fast, but not TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO fast, or it actually LOSES the very feeling of chemistry, of fun, of romance.

This is why, the IRONY of learning to attract women, once you get some experience at it, is actually about learning to SLOW THINGS DOWN, and NOT speed things UP.

I know that probably sounds strange, right? After all, most guys want to know how to SUCCEED, not how to SLOW THINGS DOWN EVEN FURTHER, right?

But yet success requires just a LITTLE BIT OF SLOWING DOWN for what actually is going to be a FAR MORE EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT result.

Think about it- what do most guys do?

They basically SKIP all the FUN, the vibing, the playful, the connection, and just want to get to “So, do you wanna go out sometime?” or they say something like, “Hey, you’re beautiful, what’s your number?” if they say anything at all.

This SKIPS the entire possibility for creating CHEMISTRY, for creating that VIBE where it’s all about building up the sexual tension, the playful ‘ping-pong’ of energy going back and forth between the two of you as you both engage in repartee, also known as “banter”.

Women UNDERSTAND THIS, WANT THIS, AND CRAVE THIS.

THIS is why a woman, if she LIKES you, will actually try even HARDER to slow it down, so that you actually DO have a chance, ironically.

She needs you to make it feel RIGHT to her- and it's really not hard to do, plus if you think about it, it's more fun for you as well, since it gives you a chance to feel out her personality before going further. Good things in life are never rushed.

All YOU have to do is UNDERSTAND this “mating dance before the mating dance” if you will.
Slow it DOWN, have some FUN, and yet also be AUTHENTIC.

Okay, but you probably are wondering how the heck can you do this when you are feeling NERVOUS about making the approach, right? How can you be PLAYFUL and all the other good stuff when you feel your heart is going to explode?

Well guess what? If your heart feels like it’s going to EXPLODE, that can actually be a GOOD thing as well, because it means you have PASSION, it means that you really LOVE women, it means that you have a lot of ENERGY in you that just needs to be TAPPED properly- and let me tell you something- PASSION is attractive to women.

Passion for love, for music, for art, for your hobbies, for learning, for sports, PASSION itself is attractive.

You can use that passion to MOTIVATE you.

Also, your passion for HER is something she may very well DETECT, and that is NOT a bad thing, it can be a very good thing.

And guess what? It’s OKAY to not be PERFECT in your approach, especially as a beginner, as every single guy HAS to start off LESS THAN PERFECT!!! Your first approaches might very well SOUND nervous, stammered, and you might not be able to keep the conversation going for more than a few seconds- THAT’S OKAY!
You will get BETTER with PRACTICE, you will get better at CALIBRATION.

And also, as I said before, if you are being AUTHENTIC at all times, and not telling her lies, and genuinely trying to connect, she will SENSE that, and it will HELP you.

In fact, this is something I realized that came out of something painful. Personally, I see no point to being with a woman unless there is an intense personal connection that is mutual, but I understand that not everyone is like this.

However, because connection really IS everything to me, it resulted in many relationships where I just felt the connection wasn’t strong enough, and so it wasn’t meaningful enough to me.

I used to think everyone else was crazy, but then I realized that actually I have this innate burning obsession for connection that goes far beyond what most people require or are even capable of- so although it made me feel super alone with almost every woman I ever met because the connection wasn’t strong enough, my burning obsession for intense connection DID result in me creating a connection that the WOMEN felt was super strong, and it wasn’t their fault that THEY couldn’t create the SAME feeling of connection- not most of them.

But my point to you is that connection and authenticity are VERY powerful, so powerful in fact that you will find it is the most important part of the interaction in terms of what you are doing actively. The rest- i.e. you being in the positive state of mind, takes care of most of the other aspects of the attraction.

If you have the connection part down, the rest is simply more about NOT RUINING a woman's natural attraction to you by doing something to WRECK the moment, than it is some major thing you have to actively do aside from the connection. Again, this is because a woman picks up on your state of mind subconsciously from your body language, tonality, facial expressions, all which flow from your state of mind.

The more you genuinely care about these things the better you will do with women.

Of course, learning under my coaching from my books and programs, and learning even FASTER by learning from me in PERSON, will get you to a HIGHER LEVEL OF MASTERY MUCH SOONER, but you can start right NOW with whatever level you are currently at this moment.

One of the KEYS is to realize that the conversation has to KEEP GOING for a certain amount of time, before enough minutes have gone by that you actually pass the “stranger zone” and are now someone she feels she actually HAS a real INTEREST in, whether that is because you managed to attract her so powerfully, or even if you just made a really damn good impression in general through your wit, your connection skills, and your general sense of control over yourself where you give off an air of masculinity and positivity and you make her feel safe and secure.

But TIME IS IMPORTANT, the conversation does have to continue for at least a few minutes, and I have found statistically from experience myself and the experience of the clients I’ve coached, that this is usually about 7 minutes to about 20 minutes.

Past 20 minutes, and you are usually reaching a point of diminishing returns, meaning that it’s not BAD to continue it, but you are not really attracting her much MORE beyond what you already did, nor are you enhancing the connection further, it tends to PEAK at about 20 minutes when everything is done right.

So, that means typically that she has been smiling, laughing, perhaps also moments of looking really seriously into your eyes, and just moment of chilling out being COMFORTABLE IN YOUR PRESENCE, as well as moments where you two are connecting over something shared that is meaningful, whether it is a shared experience, a shared value, a shared element of childhood, etc.

Also, during the interaction, it is important that indeed there IS a time when you are actually doing nothing but just having a nice quiet moment together, where she just feels good being with you, she as a woman with a man, and you just feeling that awesome feeling of being with a woman you like-no words need to be spoken.

So, ALL these things are important elements of a successful interaction, and yet they have one COMMON THREAD- and that is that they all HAPPEN VERY EASILY from you WHEN YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT STATES OF MIND.

And this is why when you put too much pressure on yourself to GO ATTRACT WOMEN, you actually end up often coming across as awkward and not natural at all. And it’s harder to be playful, and to truly be indifferent to the outcome.

And during these situations, it’s easy to end up OVERCOMPENSATING for feelings of anxiety or insecurity by going TOO far with the teasing so that it ends up coming across as hurtful and not playful, or you end up going TOO FAR with the connection stuff and it seems like you are desperately trying to grab at straws for something to share in common.

So here are some things to help you chill out and improve your success when you approach women:

1. Don’t make it the only focus of your activity.

This is why I suggest you include meeting women as part of your OTHER activities, like shopping, playing sports, going to the bookstore, getting a coffee, etc.

Just make sure these other activities are RELAXED or POSITIVE, so that you are ALREADY in state when the moment of opportunity rises.

This way, your mind was already occupied with something else positive, and now that you are seeing a woman you find attractive, you are ALREADY in state, and you haven’t had time to freak yourself out. You are psychologically ready to take IMMEDIATE action.

2. Regarding finding a connection, let’s start with the basics- MAN AND WOMAN.

So if you have started the conversation with an observational comment about something, (keep it positive), or you have playfully teased her, or even if you just went right up and gave her a meaningful compliment that was authentic, the fact is there IS ALREADY one connection you both have.

She is a woman, you are a man.

That’s enough of a reason to already BUILD something together, because as long as you are exuding positive energy and good vibes and you are in a good state, there is the PULL of sexual attraction, and the shared desire to be with each other on a very primal level, even though of course as a modern society we don’t have to ACT upon these feelings at all- but the fact of the matter is they are THERE.

If they weren’t there, there wouldn’t be a society at all!

So in the back of your mind, know this, to help you relax.

And when your mind is FREE to feel RELAXED, your CRITICAL THINKING SKILLS are now UNLEASHED.

THIS IS A SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN FACT. It is BIOLOGY.

When you are feeling PANICKED, your brain shuts down all the NON-ESSENTIAL skills for survival, and puts your body and mind into “FIGHT OR FLIGHT” mode.

This is where you get your heart beating fast, adrenaline pumping, and you are ready to fight, flee, or freeze.

Unfortunately, that is very BAD state to be in when you actually need your MIND to be FULLY AWAKE so that you can PROCESS all the data that flows from her in a conversation.

You want your mind in the most RESOURCEFUL state, where it can LISTEN well, PERCEIVE well, be able to be playful, witty, observe patterns in things she is saying or simply understanding her words, her body language, her tonality so that you can give her meaningful feedback, etc.

So chill out by knowing that it you already have something going for you—the fact that she is a woman who has been HARDWIRED and that you are a man who has been HARDWIRED to feel a certain way about the opposite gender.

THAT is a connection, whether it is SAID or not.

Also, realize that most people could use an ENERGY LIFT in their day, and the GREATEST BOOST in our emotions tends to come from our INTERACTIONS with others, and here YOU ARE, actually putting some POSITIVE ENERGY into HER DAY, making it more fun, sexual, and interesting.

That means there is a very GOOD CHANCE she will be RECEPTIVE to you.

The most AMAZING thing to me is that we are living in a society where you really CAN meet almost INFINITE women, all you need is to have the KNOW-HOW, and it can actually be EASY.

Now, there is a whole OTHER side, which is about how to work on yourself and how to SCREEN the women you meet so that you both are able to enjoy having an AWESOME relationship together long term, but that is a whole other discussion, one that I also teach and that is super-important as well.

But for now, let’s get the FIRST PART handled, shall we? How to GET the girl in the first place.

The BEST thing you can do is take a BOOTCAMP with me, in PERSON.

I will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know, by providing you with PRIVATE and PERSONALIZED coaching as you learn to approach and attract women in DOZENS of different venues from bookstores to coffee shops to public transit to supermarkets and just about everywhere else!

Learning from my books and audio and DVD programs is a FANTASTIC start, and taking my PERSONAL COACHING and BOOTCAMPS allow you to MAXIMIZE your success in these skills.

Every man is different, so the first thing I do is observe your interactions with women, so that I can find out exactly what it is YOU need to SKYROCKET your success.

You will notice a MASSIVE DIFFERENCE IMMEDIATELY upon using what I show you. I’m not just talking about AFTER bootcamp, you will even notice how things change IMMEDIATELY for the better with women for you, upon you putting into effect the things I teach you.

The results and the proof are simple. You take the program. You decide the women you want to attract, ANYWHERE. You see BEFORE YOUR EYES the results, and you be the judge yourself.

To learn more about my BOOTCAMP, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

Remember, in bootcamp, you get PERSONALIZED and PRIVATE coaching. That means the bootcamp is EXCLUSIVE. All my time is spent on YOU and you only. This allows for you to have an ACCELERATED learning rate compared to bootcamps where your time with the instructor is divided amongst another couple of students, or another three students, etc.

And even more importantly, I am the guy who basically CHANGED THE ENTIRE PLAYBOOK for the field of how to approach and attract women. From getting rid of pick-up lines, to generating attraction in a more natural way, to learning how to screen for the kind of women who will treat you right, to raising the entire standard on “inner game”, and much more.

That means when you ask me a question, you are not getting a robotic answer, you are getting the answer from a man who has devoted his LIFE to helping men deal with the CRISIS inflicted upon them from a world where women have been brainwashed, men have been brainwashed, and where men are often made to feel BAD about even feeling DESIRE for a woman!

I understand just how much TORTURE it can be to feel HELPLESS in this area, to feel ALONE, to feel OVERWHELMED.

I truly GET IT.

And when you learn from me, you will learn not only how to attract women, but how to go about the entire endeavor in a way that is consistent with a holistic approach to life in general- you will learn to do it all in a way that is SUM-SUM. You win, the woman wins, and it LASTS.

Again, BOOTCAMP is at:

http://getagreatgirl.com/bootcamp-sign-up.html

And to find out about all my books, audio, and DVD programs, go here:

http://getagreatgirl.com/catalogue.html

Each one of these programs was made with painstaking effort and care, and I know you will benefit from all of them.

Till next time,

Michael Marks