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Laws of Optimum Performance

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 21:47:00 +0000

(Authored by Rear Admiral now leading life of introspection, moderation and spiritual discipline)

“If there is no denying fact about exiting of LIFE preceding birth IT certainly shall succeed death”

“Life must go on” they say and we universally accept that the” life must go on”. But what is this life? Life is the period, between the first breath the body takes on its arrival in this universe and the last breath, when it is being declared as dead. And what is that “must go on” to keep it going? What we must understand to keep this precious life going on and on? Life is what provides mobility, gives requisite activities and enables the body to carry out the intended functions. Let us let us see as to how life achieves this? And what lessons can we draw from the whole evolution?.

2. A child on his birth and after successfully taking little breath can only open his mouth either to take feed or to cry to request feed. It is this life that takes the baby to the man’s status; step by step:-

a) Firstly, the child unbundles his limbs and learns to coordinate their activity in perfect unison. In doing so he makes numerous attempts, mistakes, silly moves. He falls and fails only to try again till he makes correct move for the first time and every time thereafter. He maintains his charms in whatever he does, irrespective of the gravity or otherwise of the move. “It teaches us to keep trying till we succeed, while ensuring the pleasantness of the operating environment”

b) Secondly, the child observes the words spoken by the people around him. He first tries to speak words and then make relevant sentences. You won’t even know when he starts talking /communicating in the same spoken language; independent of the mother tongue of the mother or the father. “It tells us the importance of being a silent observer and then the imperative need for a a good communication skill to be successful in life.”

c) Thirdly, you may observe that whatever we give him to eat. And whatever is eaten by him is successfully used to grow body organs and body systems. He keeps on gaining height along with growing other organs. His focus is only to grow and grow as fast as possible. This is true for other spices as well. “This gives us a clear message that one should not lose sight of the main objective and use that entire one has at its disposal to achieve the same within the given time frame.”

d) Fourthly, a stage comes when the child stops growing despite eating the same or more quantity of food and maintaining himself fit & healthy. What happens to the energy now produced? Is it just wasted out of the system? Or this energy/force is successfully used to strengthen the bones, limbs and other muscles on one hand and to build resilience and latent energy on the other.”While it is important to have a large frame or infrastructure at the same time it is vital that whatever you have it is strong and capable enough to carry out the intended functions with requisite reliability and accuracy off functioning.”

e) Fifthly, in this stage the body tends to decline, show sign of aging and loose hold/control over various organs. Nothing much can be done to stop or reduce the process of aging and withdrawing, after certain age. “The message here is that no activity can go on forever and whatever we have to do or achieve it has to be done and completed in relation to time. We should first make an attempt to achieve the maximum and then be contended and prepared to do your best with whatever you have able to achieve within the appropriate time limits.” f) And in life there comes a time, when the body stops all activities including breathing and becomes lifeless or dead. But what becomes lifeless? It is only a particular body and not the life. It was always around you and shall always remain albeit; it may change from one form to other. This only collaborate what ‘ Maharashi Ramana’ has said “ There is neither creation nor destruction. Neither destiny nor freewill: Neither path nor any achievement: This is the final truth”. We may come and yet the life goes on.

3. The secrets of ultimate successful life thus lies in; attempting in steps overcoming failures and consolidating the gains; mastering the art of good communication preferably in the same language; prioritise and focus energy at the core and vital issue, over handling everything at one go; restrict chasing same activity even after the optimum levels are achieved, adhering to time frame; The feats accomplished after a given timeframe may prove to be as good as not done. And finally, one must build certain amount of resilience or capacity to fall back upon to counter adverse situation as when they arrive.

4. Now let us consider for a moment the scenario, if the body continued to grow instead of stopping and strengthening the same after it has achieved the optimum levels. Or hairs on the eyebrows, under the arms-pits and other parts of the body continues to grow like the hairs on the head. Barring a few terminally ill people, nobody in the universe may wish to die; despite being forced to lead an utterly miserable, unhappy and disgusting life. Now imagine a state if this was to come true! Who would then, like to live in this universe? Once we trim them (hair) they grow, but not beyond the designated length. And they grow to the earlier length and then stop growing; this happens every time you trim them. This is because the body has a built in physical discipline, that it cannot break. Perhaps its life’s own discipline to go on, the difficulties, hurdles etc on the way notwithstanding. Life thus continues to go on and on.

5. Every species on the universe including human being has both a physical as well as spiritual discipline to fallow. All species barring the human being strictly adhere to both these discipline right from birth till death. However a large section of human being not only fail to subscribe to the need to fallow spiritual discipline but also keep interfering with body’s physical discipline as well. It is this very trait alone, which alone is responsible that human being now comprises over 20% of unisex or gay person; as against none among all other species the world over. What is rather sad is that instead of initiating corrective practices we make an all out efforts to convince others of our follies as right. There is no worry, no suffering and no pain as long as we don’t break the discipline. All the suffering on the earth are thus our own creation and we alone can do it by practicing self spiritual discipline as well as restraining ourselves to live within the body discipline

6. The mother earth has enough for everyone in this universe. The trouble however arises, when some of us start drawing or occupy much more than the requirement and then hoard the same for vested interest. When we cannot be happy with extra fat on our body; how can we be happy by acquiring more houses; many wardrobes full of clothes and shoes; number of cars or having many girl friends at the same time? Living with such desires can only bring unpleasantness, unhappiness and add up avoidable worries, stress and strain in life. Did you ever come across someone, who doesn’t want to get rid of the extra flab on his body? On the contrary you must have come with many who are willing to do anything to lose few Kg of extra flab. One must therefore, learn to stop chasing materialistic goals; lest he reaches a stage ,when he has everything available yet he cannot eat; he has many well furnished, air conditioned rooms and well cushioned silky bed yet he cannot sleep. One should therefore, learn to be contended with whatever he has in a righteous manner and lay emphasis to good health, peace and harmony in life.

7. If Life was there even before we were borne; which we know it was; it will thus, certainly be there even after we die and much thereafter. But one cannot recollect/remember the same in respect of past births; as is true for the period preceding birth and few years afterwards. This is because, what we listen and what we speak; is a function of sensory organs, limited to operating characteristics such as language, vibration and frequency etc. Life’s limitation to recall events of the previous life is attributable to destruction of such faculties and after death. One thus cannot deny the existence life both before birth as well as after the death.

“ Be your entity alone, whatever form and status it is; A unique identity, a specific role and a special purpose ; Be witness to happiness-sorrows, success-failure, darkness-light ; As they come and as they go, unhindered and unbothered; Because that’s life, they say Life must go on and on; As mind-thought, body-spirit and energy-consciousness”.

PILLARS OF RELATIONSHIPS & HOW TO STRENGTHEN THEM

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 10:48:00 +0000

(Authored by a Rear Admiral, leading life of introspection, moderation and spiritual discipline)

We know that, no body is perfect 10 in this universe. Even the evil has some good points associated with it. Similarly there cannot be only good without even an iota of evil present with it. So every relationship; be it parent-child, brother-sister, sister-sister, brother-brother, husband-wife or between lovers has plus and minus, likes and dislikes, love and hatred, positive and negative and true and false attributes/ attachment within every relationship. The latter can be termed as pillars of relationships and the relation whether by birth or by choice can exist only if the attribute present attract each other. Under such circumstances the relationship is very strong and exists for long. Otherwise relations do develop cracks that get multiplied under the influence of false ego and emotions.
We are aware that one has little choice about the relationship borne out of birth and still very little in case of relations resulting out of wed-lock. This leaves with relationships between friends and with persons one has to deal with at work place on one hand understanding the relationship between the body and the soul itself on the other.
The one and only one viable option available is to somehow maintain harmony in living, peace of mind, happiness and growth, while ensuring apparent sweetness of relationship. What is essential to keep these relations going on smoothly as long as it is possible? The issue however is how to do it? Can we strengthen them to last long enough? Is it possible to heal / improve relationship that was ignored, spoiled and are lying dormant for quite sometimes? If yes then How?
There can always be many more than one reason that can cause damage to the relationship in one way or the other. What is rather interesting is that each side not only appears to be right, but also stands justified. At the same time no one can deny his responsibility for the irritant that are actually responsible for breakdown of the relationship. This makes each case increasingly exclusive, complex and a problematic issue, necessitating unique and very careful handling. The breakdown of relationship causes avoidable stress, strains, worry and depression. It also fills otherwise bubbling life with arrays of emptiness and suffering. What is universally certain is that; firstly, the relationship exists only in the present form and secondly, it is none other than self who is one way or the other responsible for; whatever good or bad we have created around ourselves. The remedy if any thus lies with none other.
Prima facie it emanates out of ignorance of self and disappears once we start working towards self reliance. The absence of spirituality from our life is the sole cause of mistrust, negativity that precedes breakdown of relationship. The other factors that hastens the process of fast breaking of the relationship are:- glamour of the materialistic world; our preference for pleasure and easy money; lust to acquire each and everything that we can lay our hands; Intolerance in personal, family and community living; rigid attitude; sticking approach and resistance to change or accommodating other’s view point how so ever convincing it may be; unwillingness to ignore /overlook other’s insignificant and harmless habits and mistakes; living on your past glory and total neglect of the present scenario; always demanding your rights while shrieking away your responsibilities and moral obligations etc.
There is no way one can walk out of the relationship arising out of mother’s womb except death. Therefore one must honour his responsibilities and moral obligations arising out such relationship without seeking any type of reciprocations from the other. It is better to repay your debts in this birth rather than accumulate and transfer them to next. The only way out is to learn to love; learn to ignore the negative habits and present vice; learn to accept and appreciate the positive virtues and habits. One should use this learning to accept the relationships in their present form in the first instant and then uses this very force to rekindle and transform one’s own self and thus bring peace and harmony in life.
As regards the relationships arising out of the wed locks, whether through love or arranged marriage one cannot deny the availability of choice. At the same time it is as good as not true/not available. The relationships out of wed locks are always on “Buy 1 and get 10 Free” basis. Further they always come with rider “No choice on Free items” and mandatory clause” that the item once selected and taken away cannot be,” Replaced, Replenished, Refurbished, Repaired or Returned.” It is very important to deal with relationships very carefully. This can be compared to a situation where a buyer has to maintain the Product, as in sold condition at all times. It further carries a warning “That in the eventualities of walking out of the relationship, due malfunctioning or under any other unforeseeable circumstances the Buyer shall be liable to pay penalty as per the maximum paying capacity of the Buyer.” It is thus more than clear that there is hardly anything one can do if they are unable to enjoy the relationship out of the wed lock, as walking out of such relationship have wide spread and far reaching consequences that could be more agonising, painful and disgusting; even to the one who does not happens to a Buyer. My advice in such cases would be to follow the path of joy over pleasure; ignore shortcoming and irritant on one hand and appreciate the positive traits; be accommodating over dominating and demanding; Try occasional introspection and practice spiritual awakening.
Let us now consider the relationship at work place. They are tricky, vital and important, as an unhappy person at work place cannot pretend to be happy on the home front in the long run. One needs to carefully study his team mates and make his own assessment, both of his superior and support staff in particular. He besides being professionally competent should show restraint and be a good listener. Carry out self examination, empathise on positive traits and first attempt to sooth, heal and improve rather than confront / break the relationship.
Last but not the least in the list of relationship comes friends. This is the most wonderful relationship and one is really lucky if he has one or two true friend. It is generally noticed that we quickly enrol and delist friends. This results in a situation where one has no one to fall back in adverse circumstance despite having a crowd of fair weather friends. Someone has very correctly said that a” friend in need is a friend in deed”
There is yet another relationship that lies under developed, dormant till specifically developed and awoken. They are normally ignored and we are not even bothered to even talk about this relationship. This is the inseparable relationship between our own body and the living being (soul). It is this relationship that actually drives and controls all other relationship as well as our entire life span. This includes not only our “Womb to Tomb” journey but also the period much before our conception to birth and much after the death. It is in fact this relationship that decides and defines the quality as well as all other parameters of relationships discussed above. It is this very relationship that alone can be of some help to heal and improve the weak, damaged, and ignored and relationship at the verge of breakdown.
Finally, appropriate meaning of relationship (to make the relationship meaningful, interesting, realistic and enjoyable) can be brought out when we sacrifice our comforts, our pleasure and our desire to be looked after by our willingness to look after. We can transform our once damaged and sore relationship to bubbling and energetic relationship when we learn to share what we have rather than try to share what other’ have. To do this first we have to become conscious of ourselves and learn how the wrong actions are the function of the body consciousness alone and have nothing to do with the inner consciousness that have been protesting the action right from the initiating stage itself. What we have to do is to simply practice to operate through the inner consciousness. You will be amazed to see relationships falling in place, one after the other in row the moment you learn these phenomena and start to practice this in real earnest. 12. Once we have already fuelled, fired and fanned the very relationships that were once very close to our heart. And relationship whether out of mother’s womb or wed lock have already been spoiled ignored or badly damaged. Is there any ray of hope of repairing, healing, improving and putting such relationship back or rail? If yes, then how do we it? Or how do we go about it now? 13. The key to improving and restoring normalcy within the relationships; rests in inculcating spiritual habits and practising spiritual discipline in life. And it is not easy to meditate and inculcate spiritual habits either, in particular, with bad relationship hanging around us. It is under these circumstances that the advice and services of a reiki expert assumes significance, like a doctor once you have already fallen sick.

A NEED TO GET & STAY SPRITUALY ACTIVATED

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 09:50:00 +0000

(Authored By A Rear Admiral Turned Spiritual Seeker, Philosopher and a Teacher )

1.The above quote is an indication of what I have in mind that I want to share with my readers; It is an astonishing fact that most of us realise albeit, quite late in life.

2. Arrival of a child makes couple a parent, when a man becomes a father and the woman becomes a mother. It is a unique experience both for the mother as well as the father. It is generally believed that no woman is complete till she becomes a mother. It is one such feat accomplished by the rich and the poor alike. A couple that is unable to conceive a child of their own for one reason or the other, are willing to sacrifice everything in life, just to become parent. They are more than keen to walk an extra mile even to get a child through surrogate mother, when a lady cannot be a natural mother. They are more than willing to adopt somebody else’s child and rear him/her as their own child. And once you have a, child more arrive in the family as sibling.“ Neither the parent can choose the child nor can a child select a particular parent”. This is equally the case between the siblings, even the choice for being elder or younger is not optional.

3. Having become a parent, they willingly forego all their comforts just to ensure child’s comforts; on one hand and that the new arrival, quickly adopts the family/operating envelopes around him including his siblings on the other, brother/sister; senior/junior irrespective. All parents love their children, in fact consider their own child as the best, his/her physical/mental limitations if any not understanding. As for as a child is concerned his/her “mom/papa is always the best”. Barring a few a childhood habits/incidents cropping up due sibling effects, all brothers and sister have wonderful and unparallel relationship. They are always prepared to sacrifice even the dearest of the dear thing among themselves. This is the stage where you come across many glaring examples of “brothers/sisters before self whatever is the cost of such sacrifice”

4. The question now arises as to why do they, at later part of their life prefer to remain isolated and aloof; or become so intolerable that they don’t even wish to talk to them. Are even prepared to go to the extent of causing material, physical or emotional damage s; that too, at a stage of life when they should be extending a helping hand to each other. What is intriguing is the creeping in of such conduct between financially well placed and children from parents with proven good intentions. Why do brothers as well as sisters with same biological mother and father behave like enemies? Why do they forget their exemplary childhood conduct and assume such position as if they don’t know each other and do not wish to have any relationship? Why this happens when the same blood is flowing through their veins? Why this happens even when we have no materialistic considerations? And why when we are staying quite far and separately? How and why a situation develops when we are left with no emotional, mental or physical urge for the same very individual, for whom we were always ready to sacrifice everything, just a few years ago.

5. There is a yet another scenario where in one is thought to disrespect, disregard, disgrace insult or cause injury to the very individual who has not only brought him/her to this world but has also used /spent everything that they could to make him what so ever he/she is. Why the former cannot treat the latter at least in the same way if not better particularly ,when the former is all set to inherit everything that once belonged to the latter , that too without paying a penny for the same? Why instead of feeling and expressing gratitude and remaining indebted why men (son/daughter) reach the unholy depths to regard them (own parent) as orthodox, backward and unworthy to get associated with? Why is this a universally true feature?

6 Everybody feels attached to respective family. All children love their parents, all parents love their children and so do the siblings. Initially, a child has no options but to unconsciously accept the family situation wherein he/she is borne. The child experiences only the undivided love and affection and even his foolish actions get him applause. Then he/she enters into a stage where he/she realises that neither his contemporary males/females and nor all families are alike his own. He begins to compare and experience discrimination, neglect, denial, rebuke and punishment on one hand and his/her helplessness on the other. As he grows further he starts realising the other options available to him/her vs. the others. Unless the changes are correctly/ dispassionately explained on emotional and psychological plane the child would make and firm up his/her own conclusions ,which may at latter date ,turn out to be distorted or even dangerous? As the child crosses adolescence the self is created when the child becomes fully conscious of his individual status and the freedom associated with it. If the self thus created is not mature enough and spiritually awoken the self interest will everytime precede over the righteous action. It is in this situation where the problems stated in the preceding paragraphs are likely to occur. What is unfortunate is that over 90 % of children grow up under such environmental envelops.

7. As regards the other scenario, it may be stated that such felling arise only when a man or a woman feels that the very children that he/she had brought up after going through lot of hardships and spending their entire youth and hard earnings, do not even care a fig for him/her. On the contrary they not only ignore them but at times behave in a rude, arrogant and shocking manner. This is true that this modern world is full of such children who firstly, do not care for their old and aging parent and secondly, forcefully inherit their belongings. Many otherwise well to do person, abandoned by their own children/ grand children, are forced to spend a miserable and solitude life in old age homes run on charity. Here again, a spiritually activated person is not likely to be called upon to go through such a situation; yet it is certain that even if it happens he/she will not undergo either mental or physical pain / sufferings.

8. A spiritually activated individual would however remain unaffected, in particular, under adverse situations, weather he/she is a giver or a receiver. The problem thus boils down to get ourselves spiritually activate d and to spiritually activate our own children. You can spiritually activate your child only, If we you are spiritually aware yourself. As it is only a spiritually activated mind that can initiate another spiritually. It is important to understand that being religious does not mean being spiritual as you can have/fallow different religion but there is only one and only one spiritualism. A spiritually activated being is one who is fully aware and immune to; Fear, Guilt, Sorrow, Lies, Illusion and Attachment at the first instant. It is always the false that make one suffer; as fear, guilt, sorrow, lies and attachments are nothing but mere false illusions. Abandon the same and be free from suffering and pain if any.

9. A recent survey had revealed that merely 3-4 % of people in America/UK as spiritually activated. An imperative need therefore exits to first, become spiritually aware and then talk of world peace and harmony. We must remember it is only the human being who can understand and differentiate between the physical as well as spiritual need and effectively acquire them.

10, In case you wish you get spiritually activated or have a query please leave a comment

WHAT IS GOD? WHERE IS GOD? AND WHO IS GOD?

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 13:48:00 +0000

“O my God! If you had not held my hand, I would have just gone rolling down for about a kilometre before dying” explained a young girl to a fellow trekker. “O God!! Please take me out of this mess I have got myself into” retorted the other teen aged girl, when she was fed of the black mailing tactics of her boy friend. “Thank you God! For everything you have given us to keep my family happy” prayed a mother. We often hear the word God, weather we believe in God or not. There is not even a single person on this planet earth who has not remembered GOD, in one of the above form or used it as “By God” or “I Swear in the name of God”. Muslim call him ALLAH, Christian address him as JESUS, Hindu worships him as ISHWAR / PRAMATAMA; but in English this all means GOD. Question therefore arises as to; what is God? Where is God? And who is God?

Let’s us understand as to what word GOD stands for :-

‘G’ represents, to generate or to create, that means; God is one who can create/ has created this world including the vegetation, the animal world above, on or under the surface and all types of human beings.

‘O’ stands for, operator or maintainer, that means that God is one who operates whatever has been created by him. In other words god is responsible to ensure that basic necessities (i.e. food, shelter and clothes/ or suitable living environment.) for every living being are available. Everybody is able to grow and carryout the functions he has been born to do.

‘D’ means developer or the one who destroys. God actually helps us to develop us to differentiate body consciousness from our inner consciousness and then to develop the latter to higher consciousness to subtle consciousness and so on to pure unadulterated consciousness or vice a versa. God also prepare us to transform our old/aging physical body to new body.

Nobody has ever seen God yet there is nobody on this universe who has not addressed God even once in his or her life span. In accordance with the Hindu’s mythology there are three different Gods namely; Bra mama, Vishnu and Mahesh. Each form of God has distinct role/ responsibility; as a creator, maintainer and developer cum destroyer respectively.

If you happen to look deep inside yourself, you will realise that human body itself comprises organs for the three functions, stated above, albeit with restricted role. The lower portion { below navel} contains reproductive organs. The middle portion {above navel and below the neck} houses organs necessary to carry out vital functions firstly, to maintain our own body and secondly, to supports our own family members, till they grow sufficient enough to look after their own needs. The portion above our neck holds the infrastructure (soft ware) that actually undergoes transformation or development cum transformation whichever the case is. In other words all living being give birth to their off spring, they feed them, provide them living environment and protect them from all risks. They also help them develop and grow. Human alone have the capacity/capability to feel, assess and evaluate the operating environment and adapt the same to its advantage. If that’s so then what can stop, to call or address a individual being, itself as a God. It is rightly in this context that “Self realisation is also called God realisation”. Hindu’s have a temple in Jammu & Kashmir in India where they worship over 330 millions Gods; in fact it represented the entire population of Indians at that point of time.

Therefore it would be more appropriate to seek answer for the second query, as to where is God? It is simple, as it has to be around you. Swami Vivekananda has stated that, “God has created the Humans as such they are shadow being of God; and it is the Humans again who have created the God , He thus is none but a replica of Humans ”. The Changing faces/pictures of primitive Gods is nothing, but a confirmation of this simple yet universal fact. That there is only one GOD who has created the entire universe, who enables its creations to grow & become powerful enough to make their own contributions towards His creation and then retire, retire gracefully and gracefully enough to make way for others to take their turn to their contributions. And the process goes own, the underlying principle being “that His Creations must remain young/growing and beautiful forever, the other philosophies not withstanding”.

This calls for periodic weeding out of the aging outdated and old humans or for that matter all living beings. The change is an inevitable event; everyone who has been born has to undergo this change. In other words, has to die. At the same time we are well aware that nothing can be destroyed it only changes from one form to other form. It is thus more than certain that any individual who dies is born again. And this process also called as reincarnation continues.

God in fact is a concept, as there is a very thin line realisation of which would establish contact with spirit/’atama’ on one hand and place the mind under absolute control on the other. Once it happens, your inner self is awoken, you get connected to God and a new relationship develops between what you seek vs. what you already have. Suddenly you; will experience perfect peace and harmony in the universe; feel free from yourself and the self created boundaries of gender, religion and nation; above all find the queries as, What is God? Who is God? And where is God? Disappear and loose relevance.

TRUTH – AN UNBROKEN CHAIN OF LIES

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 13:14:00 +0000

Truth is an important aspect of human being, a person who always speak truth are very rare to find. If we go through the history, we may not find many people who would qualify for inclusion in such a list. Truth a five letter word which normally refer to ; what we hear, what we see , what we perceive or a way to describe a event as it occurs for other to draw their own but factual conclusions. One day I asked an expert investing officer, who has successfully solved many mysteries / cases, as to from where he gets the lead when no clue is available, more so when no witness to the scene of crime is available? He told me that , “questioning of the suspect leads to the probable accused; questioning of the probable accused leads to the culprit. During the questioning we ask number of questions, same questions are asked in different context. Questions and answers are then tallied to establish mismatch /contradiction. A single contradiction in answers is good enough to break the chain of their version of truth and the truth comes out of the ocean of lies”.

We normally witness series of allegations by both parties through media and seldom come to the truth. What we know is truth Vs truth, the rumours the counter rumours and then the main issue / topic suddenly disappear. A lie told repeatedly, itself becomes a truth. Notwithstanding weather it is true or false, truth or a lie it has a potential affect on life.

Considering, the laws of attraction, to be a reality, a positive event would bring a positive effect in our life and a negative event would initiate a chain of unhappy incidences occurring one after the other in a row. It is therefore imperative to learn the art of managing truth and thus control the events that have direct or indirect bearings on our daily living. Managing truth assumes further significance as it is essential to keep our relationships, be it, between family, friends or social circles. Truth enhances will power, settles mood (mind), contains desires ( i e aggression, attachment, greed and false pride ) on one hand and causes in explicable events to occur on the other. Following truth alone would ensure that everything else falls in place, sooner or later and fills your life with happiness, peace and harmony.

A lie may avoid embarrassment, lead to monetary gains; get you applause and victory over your rivals on the other hand. But this would last as long as, you are in position to hide the truth by telling another lie fallowed by yet another lie and so on .Telling lie soon becomes a liability as it raises demand on acquiring assets for body comforts, fuels desire for temporary gains, breeds corruptions quick gains and leads to overall dissatisfaction and frustrations. On the contrary a truth never dies, it has nothing to hide, it needs no support and has nothing to support for its existence. It may take time but it always wins.

WHY AM I NOT A BORN; AMERCIAN, WHITE ENGLISH OR A JAPANESE

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 15:06:00 +0000

(authored by a Rear admiral turned spiritual seeker and a spiritual philosopher)

We are quite aware that all living being have a physical and a spiritual body. The former has a definite form/shape/identity, a limited life span and is perishable, the latter is formless/has no shape/identity and t can’t be killed or destroyed. However, it leaves the physical body once the physical body gets incapacitated due to old age, prolonged illness or an accident: the spiritual body leaves the physical body that is then declared dead and commences its journey to adopt a new physical body.

2. The allocation for the new physical body is however made by the creator of the universe. As it is the creator, who controls the fate of souls [the spiritual bodies] in accordance with their past deeds “prarabdhakarma”. It is more than certain that all spiritual bodies are borne as death is not the end but the beginning of new life as far a spiritual body is considered. However the physical body is created A-new by the biological parents. The very basis of establishing parenthood using DNA techniques is in itself a pointer in this regards.

3. Did you ever dream as if you were born in a royal family or in an influential political family? Did you ever feel that you would have had a much better life if you were born in a rich family? Why were you born in a poor or a rich family? Why were you born in India, China, North Africa or any other country for that matter? Why are you from a Hindu, Sikh, Muslim or a Christian family? Is it just coincidence, choice (you’re own or your parents) or destiny? There is certainly a long list of Why’s? Till today, nobody has come up with a scientifically convincing answer to the above self queries. The science has solved many mysteries that belonged to material or the physical world and is yet to make inroads in the spiritual world which is better understood, visualised and experienced by spiritual gurus.

4. Astrology is a science that uses the position of various planets in relation to a particular place on earth, on a given time, where/when a spiritual body has commenced a new life cycle with a newly created physical body to predict major events of life, before they actually occur. An astrologer prepares a “horoscope” accurately working planetary movement with reference to their position at the time when an individual is born, and then interprets to foretell one’s destiny. Believe it or not this art of working destiny has been found to be fairly accurate and reliable in case where exact time & place of birth is known.

4. The various planets having direct bearing on life are; Earth, Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, Jupiter, Rahu & Ketu. This group of planets is popularly called, as “nav-garrah”. It is firmly believed among the Hindus that every child arrives to this universe along with his own destiny. This perhaps explains as to why you are born in a family of a particular social status/standing. The destiny a new born child on this earth can thus be fixed, by the time, where to whom the child is born. It is the “nav-garrah” that virtually governs the total life span, i e from womb to tomb. The spiritual body/ the soul however is independent of the sex of the physical body. According to” Bhagavan Sir, Ramana Maharishi”; “whatever is destined not to happen will not happen –try how hard you may. Whatever is destined to happen will happen, do what you may to stop it. This is certain, he has told her mother”.

5. It is thus a bio-logical mother who gives birth to a physical body for, a particular soul, at a particular time, decided by the creator of the universe that would indeed fix or decide the provisioning / otherwise of a extra ordinary, decent, just ordinary, average or a mix up childhood/part of early life during which the child is wholly & solely dependent on others human beings or the creator himself .Thereafter, the status ,the life style, the friends, ups and down in life including relations with parents, siblings, spouse, friends, partners and others takes shape [happy or remorseful] as per your karmic dharma of the previous births or the cosmic provisioning as per the laws of attraction. While it is possible to predict the turn of events in life, there is very little one can do to change/modify the same until ihe same is also blessed.

6. While performing our tasks which is the sole purpose of this very life, our actions results in/cause certain other tasks that may cause harm, injustice or perjury to others albeit, unknowingly/knowingly, unwillingly/willingly, or unintentionally/intentionally. We are well aware that all manifested creations are subjected to laws of “cause and effect”. This makes our next birth more or less an unavoidable certainty irrespective, we like it or not. This is what is termed as “Wheels of Life”. It is for this very reason that a spiritual man try hard to lead a simple life making sure that his action does not lead to, or necessitate going through yet another life cycle. Even Bhagwad Gita states “you and I, Arujna, have lived many lives. I [lord krishana] remember them all, you do not remember” . It is therefore more than certain that we are likely to be born again and again in this very world albeit, each time with a different physical identity or a new nationality. One would not remember his earlier birth/identity but the new born identity would certainly be governed or affected by the respective deeds/karma of his previous births. Whereas it may not be possible to avoid fresh life cycles, we can certainly make efforts to be born in a place/country of one’s own choice.

7. The choice certainly, is yours provided you incorporate the simple steps stated below in your daily life, irrespective of age and what you have been doing till to date:-

· Adopt truth, in everything you do, the truth as it is and not as it suits you. Don’t worry about the consequences, they in any case they would turn out to be good for you.

· Apply the basic principle of saintly life; ‘ahimsa’ or harmlessness, ‘samatva’ or equality and ‘sarvahatatva’or universal benevolence in your day to day work routines.

· Keep your thoughts, words, behaviour, habits and values positive at all times, as they ultimately become your destiny.

· Let materialistic considerations not contaminate your consciousness, as it is a pure unadulterated consciousness that alone can remain in ‘avyakta’ or un manifested state. Consciousness state closer to this would have priority to be born at places with greater potential, power, resources and sovereign rights.

· Avoid unnatural activities, sexual in particular, infidelity/cheating on your life partner. While the former amounts to interference in laws of nature the latter; causes avoidable shame, pain, mental agony stress,’depression, regret, and may pass them even to innocent human beings.

· Always maintain your financial honesty and integrity at all costs. This amounts to keeping your accounts and expenditure transparent and straight and learn to say ‘no’ to what does not belong to you.

· Remember this universe has been created by the creator, and all living beings can draw/use these resources for their consumption and usage. Care is thus required to be exercised to draw only to the extent you need them for your use.

· Try to connect your inner consciousness, after understanding line separating the same from the body consciousness with universe/ cosmic consciousness.

· Lastly, have faith and firm belief in universal/ cosmic consciousness. Always remember that what we believe, what we think is possible alone is what we achieve.

8. If you are not satisfied with your present country of origin and believe that your life would have been much better, more satisfying and happier if you were born or settled in USA, UK or some other country of influence. Then you are to required to firstly, understand that it is the inner consciousness or the eternal soul or the spiritual body whatever you may call it; that must deserve and qualify (as per karmic laws or the laws of cause and effect ) . Secondly, a physical body is manifested/ created by biological parents of matching social status and standing. Thirdly, it happens at a place satisfying the “nav- garah” matrix, when your inner consciousness is commencing a new life cycle.

9. On your part, all you have to do is; firstly, understand the Para 7 above, in letter and spirit and secondly, adopt/ implement the same in your daily life. It would be apt if you spare some time and carryout weekly/ fortnightly/monthly audit of your deeds as per the guide lines stipulated vide Para 7 above and ensure that non conformity if any is not repeated. Once you are convinced that you have correctly adopted the above aspects in your normal way of living in this world, you can now aspire to visit the country of your liking on temporary or long term basis in the future. 10. While such a practice would help balancing the laws of cause and effect, on one hand it would certainly raise your inner consciousness to higher consciousness to active consciousness and so on to pure/unadulterated consciousness. The laws of attraction would come into play, inexplicit events would take place, filling your life with unexpected happiness, peace tranquillity, and harmony.

Death, the end or a beginning of new life.

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 13:40:00 +0000

Look closely at a newly grown bud, watch it as it grows at frequent intervals, it vanishes into a flower, keep your watch on and soon you would realise that flower is growing merrily and attains full blossom when it starts losing its shine and finally it { flower } dries and falls on the ground The next you will notice that a fruit has taken its place and commenced his journey to become full when a time comes or conditions develop that forces the fruit to part company from the very branch that was holding it ,the fruit is either picked up for consumption or allowed to rot with the vagaries of environment, In either case the juices are taken away but seed remains that with the help a of mother earth re enters the same cycles viz, sapling to tree to branches and so on ! A question now arises!

a. is it the end of a bud or beginning of a flower ?

b.or is it the end of a flower or the beginning {birth} of a fruit ?

c. going further ,is it the end {death} of fruit or the beginning of the process of the re birth of the very tree ?
2. Let us consider another example; we are aware that two part by volume of hydrogen and one part of oxygen under special environmental conditions and forces that combines to form one part of water. A few part s of water joins and forms moisture in the atmosphere as moisture block or it may straight way become part of the great ocean .Neither the hydrogen nor the oxygen has died nor the water thus formed can perform the same functions as hydrogen or oxygen for that matter. Water cannot help us out to breath or light the fire. Similarly oxygen or hydrogen cannot quench our thirst but would certainly help light the fire.
3. Look at the changing climate around the year. You will see spring dies into summer, the summer dies into monsoon and the monsoon dies into winter only to be born again as spring. Over the years we have this happening and we have reasons o believe that it would change. We also know that caterpillar dies to make way for the birth of butterfly. You must have seen that whole grains be it wheat, urad , grams, or kidney beans kept in closed containers automatically give rise to the birth of insect [dora] that comes out after making a hole in the respective individual grain. This very piece of grain if placed in earth would have grown into a whole bush that ultimately yielded lots of grains.
4. So there is no basis for our worst fears that of death and dying, as we shall never die. In other words all of us would be born again and there is going to be “”no stopping on this. We may move on from one life to other, which may have some bearing to the past lives or may all together be different.

5. Belief creates the physical body or a three dimensional projection of thoughts /life around us that keep changing from one finite form to other. Otherwise we are just an eternal, infinite, formless manifestation .Let go the fear of dying and all that fallows and enjoy the fact that we going to be born anew!

ISYOURCONSCIOUS; AWAKE, DORMANT OR ASLEEP.

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:31:00 +0000

When one can see, hear, feel, smell, taste and is generally aware of his surroundings he is said to be awake; however when he/she can neither see, hear, feel, smell or tell the taste and nor is he/she generally aware of his/her surroundings; he/she is said to be un-conscious, provided the sense organs namely the eyes, ears, skin, nose and tongue/mouth etc. are correctly functioning. It means that it is the very conscious that actually sees, hears, feels, smells, tastes and is generally aware of one’s surroundings. Consciousness is thus a vital gear in the chain that co-exits with mind, body and spirit. It is this very consciousness that identifies/establishes one’s own vs others identity/status eg dead or alive. Question now arises is - what is this "conscious" or "consciousness"? What is more important is, is one aware of his/her own conscious ? And the most important is how many of us actually act as per our conscious ? It is rather astonishing that as many as 9 out of every 10 human beings are totally unaware of the presence/otherwise of the very element [conscious/consciousness] that alone can decide if one is dead or alive.
2. All parents are very possessive of their children and want to give them everything that is available on earth and money can buy. They want to teach them everything as quickly as possible. Their eagerness can be measured from the single fact; teaching them to brush their teeth, much before they get them in their mouth. Everyday you will hear the mama calling, get up baby and brush your teeth, take bath, apply soap, dry yourself with towel and then put on clothes. But you will seldom or never hear a mama telling her child to know and always listen to your conscious. You might have seen few mama’s scolding their children for telling lie regardless of the well established fact that it is the very mama who has taught her/him the great art of telling lies albeit, not realizing that she is doing it. How many parents take the trouble of teaching meditation or taking about spirituality with our own children. What we do in the name of spirituality is to tell them to fallow certain religious dictum like saying regular prayers or visiting religious places regularly. What we must understand and fallow is that "being religious is not being spiritual" 3 . Prima facie, we not only are unaware of spiritualism, have no systematic plans for spiritual evolution but are also doing nothing to adopt it. Knowing consciousness is wonderful, yet it would be rather difficult to find a person who is aware of this vital aspect of life or is making sincere efforts to understand consciousness, which is infinite, yet appears to be finite. Only the one who understands this is said to be aware of his consciousness and its three stages viz; awake, dream/dormant and deep sleep/asleep.
4. Let us visit our consciousness or the being conscious. let us try to understand, as to what happens when we are sleeping ; we breathe normally, our sense organ, except eyes are open and functional, but we can’t either smell, hear ,taste or feel anything around us, till our conscious or consciousness returns and we are awake. Does it mean that one’s conscious/consciousness is absent when one is asleep. The answer we know, is ‘No’ as we are aware that we can see [though eyes are closed], hear, smell, drink/enjoy, feel and do much more/rather anything that we can think off ,we can do in that state, but that goes off the screen/ physical world, the moment consciousness returns and we are awake. In other words one can know and do anything at anytime, provided this very consciousness state is achieved when one is not asleep, but up, wide awake and active. This is the spiritual state of a pure consciousness that is omnipresent, omniscient and omnipotent.
5. Every human being is born as a pure conscious being, however it is the operating envelopes, religious beliefs and social responsibilities/commitments that grossly corrupts our spiritual being/the consciousness stage as one grows in this physical world. It is widely believed in spiritual circle that the growth of child within the mother’s womb is supervised by these powers and they fade away soon after the birth and lie dormant at the end of spinal cord, normally called as "kundlani" or the serpent powers. The knowledge in spirituality exits in abundance, however firstly, it needs to be channelized and secondly, spiritual evolution is a process and not a procedure. Thus it would vary from man to man and is rather difficult to teach the same like other subject.
6. Every human being has these spiritual power, need however is to recognize the necessity, find a right teacher/spiritual seeker, make a plan, set goal and make sincere efforts through meditation till you come to know/experience this great wonder. And the rest shall come in place, automatically.

SHACKLING THE UNCONTROLLERABLE MIND

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 21:31:00 +0000

- By RAdm(Retd) SM Sharma (My Father and my spiritual guru)
"Life they say is a space between two breath, the first, one has already taken and the second he/she may take any moment". Most of this time is lost in a state when we are not aware about the happening around us, what to say the residual effect activities. By the time we actually become aware of such activities our self assumed responsibilities/commitment takes over be it towards self, family, profession, society or nation. Nothing can be more unwanted /annoying if this very little space is spent worrying about matters that does not exit or going through self created imaginary pain that is otherwise avoidable. Whenever we are injured or hurt it, results in pain but we are aware of this pain, we know where it is paining and once we treat the injury the pain as well the associated sufferings disappear automatically. Similarly if we have a internal problem or a disorder making our life uncomfortable or sick, there are well qualified doctors/surgeons who treat us and make us free from pain/agony. All this is possible because it happens with our physical body and it is now possible to pin point the cause through experience/knowledge or using dedicated instrumentations. But the problem actually arises when our physical body is hale and hearty and no abnormality is noticed using all sorts of instrumentations/tests, yet one still feels/undergoes pain and suffering.
The answer in such cases is simple once we understand the presence of spiritual/cosmic body as main player, though one can neither see nor can we scientifically deny or confirm presence of such a body. Why do we go into a state of shock when we hear that someone close to us has been seriously injured, suffered a severe attack or has passed away? Why we cannot control crying unmindful of the surroundings on hearing about a involving someone close to you? Where actually it hurts within our body or from where do such pain originate? Why does the specialised equipment fail to localise the trouble spot in such cases? Have you ever pondered as to why sometimes in the middle of the night your sleep is disturbed and all your efforts to go back to sleep fails? The answer to all these problems is our own mind.
The human mind is venerable to cosmic vibrations namely ‘sabad’ [sound], ‘ sparsh’ [touch]’ drishti" [sight], ‘rasah’ [taste] and "ghund’ [fragrance/smell]. One or more of such cosmic vibrations causes the mind to create a thought, as these vibrations keep changing due various known as well as unknown reasons; a large number of thoughts are created, one after the other in a row. A mind comprising higher levels of negative energy generally creates negative thoughts and the one with positive energy creates positive thoughts . In any case thoughts are created in a quick succession and the mind keeps jumping from one to other for which no justification can be offered. The mind is indeed unmindful of thoughts created and the more we try to suppress them the more vigorously and vividly they are created. Under such circumstances we have only two options available. Firstly ,to take sedatatives and be physically asleep under their effect or be consciousness and calm our mind using simple techniques. While former would offer temporary [lasting till the effect of medicine] relief the latter shall not only provide you permanent relief but also strengthen your spiritual body bringing in internal peace and ability to remain calm and quiet unmindful of external inputs/happening .In any case it does not result in /lead to any harmful side effect. Before , we go further about our mind we may require to know about our breathing and its obvious and long term effect on mind itself. As we know that we are alive only till such time, we are able to breath or our physical body continues to breath in a satisfactory manner. We have been breathing without break for a number of years till now. But how many of us are sure that they are breathing correctly? And how many of us know what correct breathing is all about ? The first and the most important step to control the mind is to breathe correctly. Handling mind could turn out to be as simple as driving a motor vehicle, once you have trained yourself and practiced yourself for sometimes . Just as reading any amount of literature or books of references cannot provide you the bare minimum skills to drive a car till an expert driver actually sits with you. When you roll the car on the road for the first time there is every possibility that you may bang the car and till end up causing severe damage to your car as well as to yourself. Such possibility exits even if you have been driving the car for a number of years. However it is impossible to get to experience any ill affects on matters related to mind. On the other hand the silver-lining is that working on mind will not only guarantee you good health, peace and happiness but also lead you to self realization. The expert driver in this case is a divine/spiritual guru,[one who has himself /attained self realization], There are so many so called spiritual /divine gurus in this world. Still you seldom come across a real spiritual guru to give you the required initiations in this process. Under these circumstances presence of strong urge and a firm belief in the "supreme" power/ the "creator" of the universe are mandatory. In the absence of which [the urge & unshakable belief] it is impossible to achieve/make any worthwhile progress. The next important aspect is our own conduct in day to works, they can be discussed under two categories firstly , the one those having bearing toward our social responsibilities/conduct. They are: a}"ahimsha" , the principle of non violence, our conduct be physical, vocal or in actions should be such it causes no direct/ indirect agony, pain, injury, insult or suffering to anyone. It should not create any fear or discomfort among others. We should treat everybody equal irrespective of caste, creed, nationality or race. b]’satya", truth one who wishes to know the mysteries of mind has no options but to stick truth, he should exactly say/bodily act what he has heard, as he has seen or has experienced/felt within his mind. You should not speak or do something that you might have to hide from somebody or other or that you cannot or do in the presence of somebody else. c]"brahmcharya" the loyalty to your own wife or husband is absolutely essential to shackle your mind, there is no scope for cheating over wife/husband as the case be. There however exits no need to shun sex with your own legal partner or you normal duties/responsibilities toward one’s own family on the pretext of brahmcharya . c} Aaprigrah" human have a tendency to own everything and then to hold them weather they actually require them or not. Such a tendency in the long run creates artificial shortages and denies the availability of such items ,even in barest minimum number to other persons , mainly the weaker and underprivileged. It is therefore prudent that a person seeking spiritual knowledge does not indulge, firstly in owning worldly facilities luxuries in numbers more than actually required by him/her and if they happen to own them in excess ,they should distribute them among the needy persons. d}Aasteye" this aims to protect ownership of property/other belongings of person who has acquired them in a lawful manner. This calls upon the spiritual seeker to refrain from even having a desire/ wish to acquire anything that belongs to other person without his/her permission, even in his dreams. As regards the rules/principles having direct bearing to the individual, They are mentioned below:
a]"Shouch" means personal cleanliness. He/she not only maintain high degree of personal cleanliness, but should not cultivate any malicious ideas/practice about anybody. In addition he should try to keep his thoughts pure and positive.
b] "Santosh" means a fair level of satisfaction He/she should maintain a fair level of happiness with his/her present status. Instead of cribbing about what he is not having he should make sincere effort to acquire them using sincere and upright approach.
c} "tup/jaap" means to gracefully accept the difficulties, failures ,accusations including insult /injury while carrying out your struggle to obtain/achieve aims , objectives and ultimate success in lawful and fair manner.
d}"Swathayha" He/she should study literature related to spirituality, authored by prominent spiritual gurus and may raise self queries about various aspects of physical/spiritual entity. e]’Pranidhyan/Prayer’ he/she should firmly believe presence of a omnipresent, omniscient and omnipotent supreme power and always keep in mind that he cannot hide intentions as well as actions from this invisible supreme power .
I would certainly fail to achieve my objective of writing this article ,if I do not write down steps to look deep into our mind wandering into various positive/negative energy field and creating a host of thoughts that may in turn make us feel happy, upset, angry or suffering pains that may not be there .To avoid such feeling on one hand and keep yourself free from all sorts of worries, mental tensions and live in more amiable/conducing environment, it is essential to devote some time playing with our own mind.
Step 1 Having made up your mind, the first step is to arrange a palace for practice, it could be a small room in your apartment itself. It is preferred that nobody enters , when you are carrying out your practice, the idea is that no body should physically disturb you in between. The room may have curtain drawn and no bright light be switched on.
Step 2 You should earmark a place to sit and fix suitable position [aashan] that means a specific sitting posture so that your spine always remains straight at all , and can remain comfortable in that position at least for 20-30 minutes, without making any changes. You may start with less duration and increase the same slowly to an hour or so [use alarm till mind takes over}. You can keep your legs crossed or hanging as the case be.
Step3 Relax yourself in this position. Remember/recall the creator of the universe as your divine guru and take his permission to start. Step 4 Now slowly close your eyes as if you are seeing through the middle of your eyebrows , approximately at 2-3 inches from the tip of your nose. Stay in this position; just see, don’t observe or imagine. Just breathe normally;
a] counting , as you inhale/exhale correcting stomach movement outward/inward respectively. Let your mind run freely wandering into various thoughts good ,ugly or bad whatever they might be don’t fallow them just, keep counting as you breathe keeping your count equal as you inhale or exhale occasionally watching/correcting the stomach movement.
b] fallow as you breathe as if air passing through the left or the right nose hole, correlate left or right as you inhale/exhale. Feel the air moving down/coming out as to breathe. c] raise self queries as to; how we see and who actually see? How do we hear and who actually hears? How speaks ? and from where the sound is coming ? Trace various activities as they happens within your own physical body.
Step 5 If your are sitting in a place where you are vulnerable to external noise, just ignore whatever you hear don’t think or /respond / react to them . Slowly you will notice that your will become immune to such noise/disturbance.
Step 6 Slowly open your eye when wish to end the session. Before opening the eye don’t forget to thank the divine guru respectfully.
Step 7 Once you start the process, do it at least for 21 days without any break, preferably at the same time and twice a daily. By now you are bound to make significant progress on your path to spiritualism, you will also notice changes to your mood, peace and harmony both in your daily life relationship with others and many mysteries opening up to you. If you are lucky and blessed you may have a glimpse of where soul exits.

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Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 19:39:00 +0000

- By RAdm(Retd) SM Sharma (My Father and my spiritual guru)

Once upon a time there lived a rich man who wanted to buy everything and keep the items thus bought under his control at all times .In the process he became bit greedy and kept on acquiring everything he could lay his hands on ,houses, cars ,clothes , gold etc. He took pleasure in everything he bought irrespective of weather that particular item was required or not. His house was less of a home and more of a store house having almost everything under the sun. He enjoyed himself as a proud owner of all those and kept planning ways and means of acquiring still more wealth. One fine morning there was an earthquake close to the area where he lived when everything he had owned was turned into rubble just in a moment and was left with nothing. He indeed had nothing, because even if the earthquake has not damaged his materialistic treasure, he couldn’t use any of such items once he breathed his last and neither could he own them any longer. Can you call this man to have everything with him or he virtually had nothing.

Look at another situation, here a human being, who is not having penny in his pockets while walking on the road comes across a place where a car has met with an accident and the owner is lying on the road unconscious in a badly injured state. This man with nothing to call as his own takes this injured man to a nearby hospital. Soon the rich parents/relatives of the injured man arrive on the sight and pleads the doctors to provide the best treatment irrespective of the cost of such medicine. But the doctor tell them to procure blood of particular group if they wish to save the very life of this youth as it belong to a rare group and even drop such blood is available in the blood banks. He empathised that the particular blood is immediately needed as the patient is sinking. When no source of blood is in the sight and everybody is pondering over the worthiness of the wealth and resources they had at their command. This very human being who brought the injured to the hospital now offers to donate his own blood, of needed group free of cost. What will you call this man, a popper having nothing or everything needed to save life/ provide lifelong happiness to a family/their relative/community or nothing that indeed was more than everything?

Long time back a retired army officer doing a housekeeping job in a govt. Hospital narrated, a very interesting episode. He said that when his co-brother was employed as a truck driver he stole a truck he was driving and was loaded with number of brand new scooters [two wheeler] . He somehow managed to dodge the police and the owner of the truck. Later he sold both the truck as well as the scooters in the black market. Soon he became a small time transporter only to slowly grow into a transporter to reckon with in the state. All his children were married and he even had number of grand children. All of them manage the same family business and lived as extremely happy joint family.

When he was just 50, he had a severe stroke. Though he survived, he was bedridden /wheeled for the rest of the life. Though he has acquired almost everything he wanted to acquire, albeit, using in correct means , yet in his own life, he today, is one of the most unhappy and miserable men in the world. As nobody listens to him, nobody cares for him and he is merely an item like the very bed on which he lies or the wheel chair on which he sit/move. All of them now manage the same family business that he has set up and lives as a extremely happy joint family except him, Is he having everything, or everything is there in the view of his own eyes as earlier, but nothing is his.

The three examples try to illustrate as how incorrect and unconnected are we with the status of having everything or having nothing. When we are born we are having nothing, but we know that it is not true otherwise how we start getting everything that we need be it milk, bed, toys or other comforts of life. On the other hands when we die nothing that we owned or possessed so dearly to our heart goes with us, they just lies there as if nobody owns it, till a new owner claims it. Our efforts to acquire everything in life create negative thoughts, encourages us to speak negative words or indulge in wrong deeds, knowingly/unknowingly. Whereas a firm belief and awareness of the creator not only keeps you away from such notions/desires but also makes sure that all your needs are adequately met/addressed. Such feelings generate positive thoughts, feeling of tolerance/ forgiveness and keep you away from wrong deeds.

Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything

Reiki and Me

understanding the spiritual body

Miracles of reiki

Fighting depression

Tera Mera Rishta Purana

Forgive and forget

Analyzing situations

Our relationship with god

Communicate with god

Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Reiki Healing

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 21:15:00 +0000

When I was introduced to reiki self healing for the first time, I was not very convinced and receptive about reiki healing. My education and scientific (text book knowledge) did not support it's powers. Over a period of time, I started to sense its powers and capabilities. I would say the power of self and capabilities of the energies within. I got attuned and it changed my life for ever and for good. I have been using Reiki for almost everything for quite some time now. After I received my Reiki attunements, I was not too sure whether I should discuss reiki healing with anyone or not. But then, I owed it to the society and to the world. Well someone introduced me to it and I realised that I should not be selfish and help others out there too. Ever since I started to practice reiki spiritual healing,I have been successful in healing and comforting a lot of people in need. Reiki spiritual healing helps old people with problems, patients in pain (specially point pains in joints/back, kids in need and people suffering from learning disabilities. The wonders of Reiki healing have worked for all that I have tried on. I recommend Reiki for the following :-
1. Healing therapy for Old age people.
2. Reiki chakra healing for patients suffering from pain.
3. Healing with reiki for young adults in personal problems.
4. Healing with reiki - Depression and anxiety.
5. Children suffering from disability.
6. Reiki distant healing - Relationship problems.
7. Ease out stress.
Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything
Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

understanding the spiritual body

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 18:49:00 +0000

- By RAdm(Retd) SM Sharma (My Father and my spiritual guru)

There are two aspects, the transitory and the eternal for anything that has life be it plants & vegetation, animals abode underwater, on the surface or high above in the sky.
(1) the physical aspect that has a definite shape that we can see, peculiar properties/characteristics that vary from type to type. In other words they are sakkar, sagun .
(2) The other is the spiritual aspect that neither has any shape nor any characteristics/properties. It only when both these aspects coexist that gives life a meaning or a beauty that we can perceive in the azure sky, the blossoming of flowers, the waves of the ocean, snow covered high peaks/ ranges of mountains and warm rays of the rising sun are all transitory in nature. But well beyond all these transitory forms {bodies} lies a beauty that is complete unlimited and eternal yet it never take an external form. It is beautiful in itself, complete in itself that is whole {puran} never ending yet unfragmented and infinite.
There is a prominent saying that "every coin has two sides that cannot be separated, while retaining physical body has to retain its identity as a living being. There is no option for the physical body except to commence decay soon after the spiritual body leaves and perish ultimately. Physical body comprises air, water, fire, soil and space. All physical bodies gains live status with the first breath and retain the same till it breaths its last, when it starts integrating into those very five constituents. The physical body completely perishes with only with the comprising constituents going back to the respective reservoir. On the other hand spiritual body or casual body comprising layers of energy fields of varying intensity/levels. We are very clear about construction of almost all types of physical bodies, however little is known about the spiritual body except that it has no definite shape, no characterises it neither has a beginning nor a end, it is unlimited /boundless and it cannot be destroyed. As regards the spiritual body one thing is certain that the energy field or ‘ATAMN’ the cosmic mind or chit could be nothing but satya [the truth], chit [conscience] and ananda [ byound happiness/ sorrow] that indeed what we term as’ BLISS’. When this spiritual body is associated within a physical body it is called/or termed as ‘JEEV ATAMAN’. In addition it has two more compartments, namely tamas and rajas along with satya. Tamas comprises kam[sex/desire, krodh [anger], lobh [greed] moh [attachment] and ahnankar [negative pride]. Whereas satya as the name suggests is a positive energy, tamas represents all negative energy put together. The rajas do the balancing act and are made of analytical/reasoning powers, logical intellect, talent, diplomatic skill s etc. Stronger the rajas the greator is the possibilities of gradually reducing /neutralise the overall effect of tamas. Satya is the pure cosmic energy of the supreme power that has created this universe. The satya, tamas and rajas that inherited along with self retained tendencies are either accumulative from past lives or self learnt or practiced /habits as result of operative environment/culture of the present lives. The percentage composition of satya, tamas and rajas decides the overall purity level of the spiritual body inter-alia availability of positive vs negative operative energy levels to the physical body. The silver lining is that human being have been gifted with simple technique to work and reduce the quantum of tamas and thereby increase satya/rajas as the case be, the options or vice a versa are also widely available. The choice soly rests with the particular physical spiritual body combination, the duo if so desire and have the requisite determination can attain pure [satya state] consciousness while continuing his present life. What is required is to activate the chit on this path that would end all the confusition, duality, ignorance, inhibitions, the need for resources and corrective action notwithstanding. The first and foremost decision, Yes I want to identify my spiritual body, Yes I want to feel presence reservoir of positive energy with my own physical and tap it. Come on make up your mind, the universe/creator is willing to share all that you wish to and acquire.

Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything
Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Miracles of Reiki

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 05:43:00 +0000

I am a very busy person, work and family are two very important aspects of my life. When I recieved my reiki attunments, I was confused as to how I would be able to take out time to practise reiki every day. This was about two years back, I used to leave for office at 7:00 AM in the morning and come back by 8:00 PM. I used to travel almost two hours in the morning and two hours in the evening. So I started using the travel time for meditation and reiki healing. I practised distance reiki healing during travel time , I used reiki for improving my performance at work and I was amazed to see the results. I started visualizing how I wanted things to go in office and whatever I visualized became a reality. I wasn't sure whether all that was happening was just a coincidence or it was actually because of Reiki. So I started writing down my experiences, in my manual I listed down whatever I wanted to accomplish , I defined time frame for each goal and one by one all tasks were accomplished.
During those days I realized that I wanted the best of all the worlds. I wanted to work but at the same time I wanted to spend good amount of time with my family...... with the help of Reiki I have now established my self independently. I came across people who showed keen interest in my work and gave me projects on which I could work independently.
Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything
Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Fighting depression

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 12:03:00 +0000

Depression is very painful. I have suffered from severe depression once and was absolutely clueless about where my life was heading. Depression made things very difficult, I was finding it difficult to express myself and one day when I could not hold the anxiety within myself ,I exploded..... and I thought that was the end, I felt very miserable that day and I felt like had lost everything in life. I remember going to office the next day, I was absolutely numb, no feelings, no emotions, no joy, no complaints nothing, my mind had stopped thinking ,I could even feel my heart beating louder, but there were no tears in my eyes. Within the office premises there was a small temple, that day I paid my first visit to the temple and I told god," I see that you have not supported me much in difficult times, so now I have decided that I am going to support whatever you have in store for me." It was a very strong decision, I surrendered myself completely to god's will. Since then till date, everyday when I wake up in the morning I have many reasons to thank god, infact I thank god so much that "thank you god" has got associated with every breath I take. With one decision I got involved in a very special relationship with god, I don't think I share a normal human-god relation with him as he now exists in everything in and around me, I think I am now more close to god than my own parents!!! . I bounced back really high after hitting rock bottom and after achieving so much in life, so much of happiness and prosperity in life I actually wonder why people are scared to die? If I don't die how will I meet the one who actually created me ? I think death is not painful, it is a learning experience. With my personal experience I can only say, god does not exist where depression exists, inviting god in your life is same as inviting happiness and prosperity into your life and getting access to the abundance of all the good things in the world. If you choose to remain depressed and lost in your own miseries you will never find a way to solve problems in your life.
Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything
Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Tera Mera Rishta Purana

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 13:49:00 +0000

No matter how much we advance technically, there are some mysteries that will always remain unsolved. I am an electronics engineer, I have been working in the IT industry for past 8 years, I have achieved many awards in my 6 years of industrial experience and now I am an independent contractor. Although I am a hardcore technical person, there are many things that lie out side the technical sphere and have always bothered me. Since 2004, I have been researching on the facts of life: Are thnigs actually the way we see? What is god? Who am I? What are emotions? Reincarnation, Lucid dreaming, Healing etc. I am a Reiki and Seichim Master, in last one year I have conducted many experiments, and I am amazed with the results, there is lot more to learn. I am opening an Estore for people like me so that they can find items of their interest easily here.

Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything
Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Forgive and forget

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Sat, 08 Nov 2008 01:50:00 +0000

Why Forgive?

We all face difficult situations in life, at times we develop so much of hatred for someone that the very thought of that person agitates and disturbs our mind. I have studied some cases of disabled children, in 90% of the cases I have found one similarity- mother being depressed during pregnancy and in most cases it was the inability of the mother to cope up with the depression which affected the growth of the child. By not forgiving , negative emotions gets blocked in our mind and many physical problems such as back ache, arthritis , knee pain are a result of these emotions. If you hate someone its only going to harm you because the intensity of these emotions is so much that we are not able to think of anything else. It is best to forgive but it is important to learn your lesson and avoid the people with whom you don't get along. Otherwise these emotions will not let you move on in life.
Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything
Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Analyzing situations

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 01:44:00 +0000

What is frustration?

Frustration is a reaction, your reaction to an obstacle that stops you from achieving what you desire. You like someone but your parents want you to marry someone else- Frustration. You are creative but you are in the wrong job where your views are just not appreciated - Frustration. You study so hard but you do not reach the top - Frustration. Everyone is frustrated because there is something or the other blocking our way to success, love, wealth, fame etc. etc., but if you carefully analyze your problems you will realize that obstacles are not created by people, situations or events, it is all created by your mind. Your inability to stand for your self, speak for yourself becomes your weakness, and your weakness is what people take advantage of.

It is human nature we do not value anyone till someone proves himself to be competent and worthy of our appreciation, we don't even spare god, many believe that the creator of universe, planets, creatures, seasons, feelings, emotions has still not given enough of proof of his existence and powers. I have heard many people say ," Do prayers actually work?"

You will not be appreciated in life, till you start loving yourself. You will not be appreciated at work till you prove that you have the potential to make a huge difference. Your parents will not believe in your love till you prove that your choice is right.There is no faith when there is no surety, there is no surety if you don't have faith in yourself, you don't have faith in yourself is same as not having faith in god. If you do not value yourself, no one will value you, we can not afford to live a life that goes unnoticed, we all have to accomplish some goals, not living your life to the fullest is like insulting a creation of god. When he created you he had something in mind, he thought you were perfect and sent you to this planet and look at you...... you spent your whole life cribbing and crying.

"A journey of thousand miles begins with a single step", the first step is your decision, if you spend too much time in thinking and evaluating you will lose an opportunity, so at times it is best to follow your heart even if it seems impractical.

Tell me if you have come across any successful person who has reached the top cribbing about the the system, leaders do not crib they analyze the situation and implement strategy.Tell me if you have ever come across any successful person who never believed in self, anyone who reached the top without facing failure. Your potential lies in how high you bounce after hitting rock bottom, every failure is a blessing in disguise, when you reach a point in life where you think its all over, think of it as a new begining and rise.Keep on moving, ome what may your journey to accomplish the impossible should not stop.

Just for a thought... If you were to die this very moment what do you think will be god's response to all your complains? I'll tell you what he will say, " Agreed situations were difficult but what efforts did you put in to tackel the problem?"... thats why we say god helps those who help themselves.If you cannot speak for yourself, god will not stand by your side. He gave you one life, you own it. Keep on trying and divine help will come for your rescue.

Our relationship with god

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 04:47:00 +0000

God our parent

Surrendering yourself is nothing but accepting life the way it comes. We all face ups and downs in our life. Sometimes I wonder as parents we are so protective for our children, we do what we know is the best for our child, no father or no mother would do anything that they know is harmful for their child, if as a ordinary human being I can go to any extent to keep my child smiling all the time then think what God can do keep his chlidren smiling all the time. If I tell my daughter that she should finish her homework before going to bed it is for her good. Now that she is young, I can sit next to her and ensure that she does what she is supposed to do but maybe 5 years from now I just may not even think of reminding her, If she does her homework thats good, but if she does not do it and is punished then maybe even I won't listen to any of her excuses, but I will still love her the most.

It is the same way with god. When we are born, we are in the divine frame of mind. Infants don't get agitated by reactions of people around them, they are loved for what they are, all children are adorable because they are free from all tensions busy in their own world, not bothered about whats right and whats wrong. Infact many believe that children are human form of god.
God loves all his children, he is in close contact with us when we are born as we grow old we form our own opinions as to what we have to do in life, we all know what is ethical and what is unethical, in all holy books of all religions god has revealed the right path to follow, these books are easily available to every common man , its just that we don't have time, we don't have time to listen to our parent, is it right then for any person to blame god for his miseries or to even complain .

You Get What You Ask For

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 07:06:00 +0000

Communicate with god

The language in which we communicate to god, our spiritual guides and the universe is the language of feelings and not the language of words. While making a wish or actually asking for something god scans your innermost feelings related to your wish. If you are praying for a salary hike but in your mind you fear that your boss may not give you a justified salary hike chances are that what you fear will come true. This is because in the language of of feelings you are communicating your fears to god and the intensity of this
feeling is so strong that your actual prayers no longer hold any value.

God is the creator of the entire universe and we all are his children, there is no reason why the child of the creator should fear anything in life. Feeling of fear only indicates that you have no faith in god. When you have no faith in god why will he listen to you. No one on this planet is mighter in god, You can say that you have faith in god only when you know that come what may thy divine help is always by your side.

Its a commmon saying that the rich keep on getting richer and the poor keep on getting poorer, have you ever wondered why? Its because the rich feel they deserve the best and the poor feel that nothing is going to help them out.

If parents are not able to spend quality time with their child then the possibility is that child may feel neglected develop complexes and in later years develop a difficult attitude towards life, this does not mean that the parents are bad , they are probably working hard for the child's future but the child interprets otherwise. Same way, god is always working towards our betterment but fears and complexes within our mind does not allow us to believe that god is always there for us and so we ourself mess up our life. Believe in god and ask what you desire, feel the excitement of getting your wish fulfilled, believe me nothing would give god more pleasure than seeing the joy on your face. Life is very easy when you know that god is standing just next to you guiding you all the time.

Astonishing Power Of Emotions

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 08:11:00 +0000

It is very important for everyone of have complete control over emotions.

A healthy state of mind for any person is:

Not letting anyone or anything distrub your peace of mind ,Always talking health and happiness to whosoever you meet.
Make lots of friends and appreciate their existence in your life.
Be Optimistic, delete all negative thought from your mind.
Remove negative and depressing people from your life.
Believe that you are born to experience the best and to work for the best.
Be enthusiatic about every goal in your life.
Forget the past, there is no point thinking over it again and again.
Smile, all the time :).
Respect all living beings.
Do not criticize others.
Take all criticism positively as that will only help you improving yourself.
Love yourself.
Remember life is very easy and you are capable of attracting the best for yourself.
Be too happy to permit worries, anger and fear in your life.
Think well of yourself but do not boast.

.... The Secret.

You are 90% healed if your emotions are within your control.

What ever I have written above is easier said than done, we all know that these are the goden rules to lead a good life. Many of my friends tell me how can I be happy when I am in so much of trouble, but the fact is that you are inviting troubles in your life only because of your worries, fears, reaction to difficult situations in fury.Your actions get over but the residue remains, you keep on thinking I wish I had done this, I wish I had done that.
The only effort required to overcome any difficult situation in life is to smile. You may find this difficult
in the begining but eventually it will become a habit and you will see that events and situations will turn in your favor.
We are what we think we are not what the rest of the world thinks about us. If you think you are healthy and slim, chances are that your life will shape itself to your need and somehow get you in a state that you think you are in.
If your boss shouts at you and says you are stupid, that does not make you stupid. You become stupid only if you believe him and convince yourself that what he says is right and then land up making same mistakes again and again.
A couple of weeks back my cousin lost her young daughter, she died in a road accident, the sad news really disturbed my peace of mind, I am very close to my cousin and kept on thinking about what she must have gone through,after a couple of hours I started thinking how my family would feel if something like this happened to me.How would my mom feel if I met with an accident, a few hours later I was crying I had taken my thoughts further ahead I was thinking even I am a mother what if... and then something inside me stopped me, and I realised that I was thinking too much unnecessarily and subconciously thinking wrong about myself and my family that too when everything is fine in my life. I was in office that time , I immediately went to the washroom washed my face, from there I went to my friend's desk and said, tell me a joke, I want to laugh and within few minutes I was fine. I came back to my seat and thanked god for taking care of me and my family and for blessing me with a wonderful child. I thanked him because I am alive and I am taking good care of my family and near and dear ones. I thanked him for eveything and got back to work.

The only effort that you have to put in to achieve anything in life is effort to keep yourself happy and believe me it is not all that difficult

Effective Meditation For Wealth and Prosperity

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Sun, 22 Jun 2008 00:57:00 +0000

Meditation For Wealth and Prosperity

Lakshmi (Laxmi) for Spiritual Wealth and Luxuries

Close your eyes and meditate on the music meditate on what you have and what you would like to achieve, count your blessings and thank god for whatever he has done for you

Everything is nothing and Nothing is everything

Reiki and Me
understanding the spiritual body
Miracles of reiki
Fighting depression
Tera Mera Rishta Purana
Forgive and forget
Analyzing situations
Our relationship with god
Communicate with god
Astonishing Power Of Emotions

Are you confused about your life?

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 07:46:00 +0000

Get Rid Of Confusion

Its human nature to get confused and mess up life but there is always a way out of confusion,I will tell you how. Basically there are important parts in our body which are involved with the thinking process: Mind & Heart.

Mind will always confuse you because mind interprets situations through words, situations, events.Basically, Mind is manipulative in nature at times it will prompt you to do things which will eventually land you in a lot of problems, mind messes up life, it is where all your fears originate.

Heart on the other hand is where feeling of faith originates it will give you only one option, it will tell you what is the right thing to do, even if it sounds impractical follow it, because heart interprets situations through feelings. Listen to your heart it tells you what god wants you to do.

And believe me no matter how hard it seems, you will never fail if you are on the right track.

Activation of first 5 chakras

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 14:32:00 +0000

OM NAMAH SHIVAY

This mantra is the most powerful tool to remove all negativities surrounding you

Play the video and feel the positive vibes :)

Medicine Mantra For Healing Any Kind Of Ailments

noreply@blogger.com (Meenu Kohli) — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 13:58:00 +0000

This video plays the healing medicine mantra. It is very effective. Close your eyes and listen to this music, imagine all blockages being removed from your body.