Getting Your LIFE!

Wanna help rebuild the WBT Ballscene? Here's how:

2011-07-18T20:30:00.003-07:00

A committee is being formed to help unify the WBT ballscene. It is still in its infancy stages and hasn't been finalized as of yet.

Anyone interested in becoming a member or adding to the discussion regarding one - please hit up Shady Prada on Facebook. ("Shady Khalil Prada")

Hall of Famer Ms. Theresa Miza invites you to Full Figured Pageant Auditions

2011-07-18T20:30:00.002-07:00

Hall of Famer Ms. Theresa Mizrahi has been a major supporter/contributor for Full Fashion Week for many years and recently posted information regarding auditioning for the coveted event.

I ask for all those ladies interesting in auditioning to come out and strut your stuff!

Win $5000.00

Full-Figured Auditions - August 7th
@ Stepping Out Studios
37 W.26th St. NYC.
3-6pm

This is sure to be the Biggest show in 2012
Registration is FREE!
Wear all black
Good Luck Ladies!

The Twisted Mini Ball Series PT 2 - July 22nd - Newark, NJ

2011-07-18T20:30:00.001-07:00

Mother Kelly Mizrahi
hosts

The Twisted Mini Ball Series" pt. 2
KI-KI HOUSE WITH THE MOST TROPHY FOR $500 ON JULY 22

@ The Globe
161-171 Vanderpool st. Newark NJ
$20 ALL NIGHT

THIS BALL WELL START AT 1AM REGARDLESS

ALL OF THE CATEGORIES OPEN BUT YOU NO BALLROOM BRING ME A BALLROOM LOOK THAT SAY GIVE ME MY 10'S DON'T GAG CAUSE YOU WILL BE CHOP.

1) Best Dressed as a house
2) Realness as a house
3) Sex Siren as a house
4) Performance as a house
5) Legendary Performance
6) Legendary Realness
7) Butch FACE
8) New Face
9) New Runway
10) New Vogue
11)FF Face
12)BQ vs FF Best Dressed (2T)
13)Women's Body
14) Sneaker vs Shoe
15)BQID vs FQ Performance (1T)
16)BQ Prettyboy
17)BQ Schoolboy
18)BQ Executive
19)BQ Thug
20)BQ All American
21)BQID vs FQ Runway (1T)
22)BQ Vogue Fem
23)Commentator vs Commentator
24)BQ Sex Siren (Jr vs Sr 2T)
25)BQ European Runway
26)BQ RWT
27)FF Realness
28)BQ Face (light vs caramel vs dark vs big boy 4T)
29)FQ Sex Siren

Vogue Knights Tuesdays - NYC

2011-07-18T20:30:00.000-07:00

Sex Siren: The Proverbial Mindf*ck

2011-07-10T11:37:00.000-07:00

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed here are the views of the writer and do not necessarily reflect the views of the overall Ball scene. Do not use these opinions as a rule of thumb; edit them as you see fit for your experience. Thank you.

I've been getting a lot of feedback regarding the sex siren category. Some love that the women are stripping down to next to nothing in an attempt to win over the crowd but there a few more that despise that its an attempt to win over the judges... Sorry to say but in the ballroom, majority does NOT rule.

Sex Siren is the allure of being sensual through tease and suggestion from head to toe drawing in the crowd.

So lets walk the description through and break it down:

Sex Siren is the allure...

WAIT RIGHT THERE! Its about the allure. A sneak peek of physical flirting. A hint of lust. How do you sell allure? Your pace to the judges, your choice of entrance music, your commitment to your walk. The allure is about setting the tone much like one would set the mood prior to lovemaking.

Sex Siren is the allure of being sensual through tease and suggestion...

PAUSE! Being sensual (not sexual) through tease and suggestion... Who doesn't know how to tease? Sensual tease is a flip of hair(FF), a peak of abs(MF), bedroom eyes, lip biting/licking, bringing attention to your curves(FF) or muscles(MF) and removing small bits of clothing to entice the judges. Booty claps, splits, back bends, titty shaking, slapping ones ass, grabbing ones crotch are all examples of BODY stunts. They have no place nor importance in the sex siren category.

Sex Siren is the allure of being sensual through tease and suggestion from head to toe...

HOLD IT THERE ONE SECOND! So you've decided to walk and you hit the stage and your hair, makeup or effect is sloppy - You should be chopped. (and yes there is a time that I've personally walked sex siren as a mess and the judges were TOO kind. I should've been chopped) Sex siren is much like preparing for a lust filled night with your lover. You make sure your hair is sexy. You make sure your face/skin is done and inviting. You make sure the lingerie/boxers/swimsuit is fit well. You make sure your toes are done. You make sure that once you seen by the object of your affection (or in this instance, the judges) that they will be blown away and interested to see more of you. Its hard to get randy if you're not looking at eye candy... (That was cute) Honestly that should be the name of the category from now on... Eye Candy.

Sex Siren is the allure of being sensual through tease and suggestion from head to toe drawing in the crowd.

LASTLY, drawing in the crowd is when you use all those elements to work up the judges/audience. Being a TRUE sex siren is when you can have people from every house in the room going off for YOU. Its the showmanship of the category.

so lets recap...

- Set the mood.
- Be a vixen not a porn star.
- Get it Right! Keep it tight!
- The runway is your stage so act accordingly.

Here's a few FAQs:

"Roxi, do I have to come naked to walk sex siren?"

No! Sexy is sexy in a trash bag or a in a thong. You DO have to present yourself in the manner described in the category description though. If it says "in lingerie", find the lingerie that works well for YOU. Nighties, teddies, corsets and full briefs are still considered lingerie last time I checked. You don't have to resort to wearing pasties and a thong.

"Roxi, I was chopped for sex siren. Should I try again?"

Of course! Always remember that a chop is based on a judge's interpretation of the category & description and what's sexy to one may not be sexy to another.

"Roxi, you chopped me for sex siren. Why?"

If you stripped naked for me or jumped your naked ass on the panel - I'm sure I did. Please remove your labia from the judges table, Miss... Reread this blog post and try again next time."

"Roxi, I'm a (MF) and want to walk this but was told that I have to dance. Is this true?"

Uhhhh... dance like what? A male erotic dancer? You don't have to. The Butch Queens don't go through all of that. You should be able to sell sex siren standing still in one spot.

"Roxi, have you ever seen a sex siren category where the women were following the true definition of the category?"

I sure have... 2009 - Dynasty Ball - Epic battle between Aneesa Blahnik & Angel Moulin but you can watch it for yourself...

4th Annual Unity Ball: Love & War Edition - ATL Pride

2011-07-10T00:45:00.000-07:00

The 4th Annual Unity Ball: Love & War Edition
September 4, 2011
Hosted by Legendary Mother Jaimee Balenciaga, Legendary Mother Lady Blahnik-Iman & Mother Reign Moulin

Commentator: Jersey Moulin

Location: Melia Hotel
590 W Peachtree St NW - Atlanta, GA
Time: 4pm - 8pm

www.thebittersweetshow.com

Women
Face - Bring your lovely face in a flattering shade of red lipstick

Runway - Let’s go to WAR ladies! Bring us runway in an army print (Skirt, dress, pants etc…)

Sex Siren - Are you a loving sex kitten (in pink) or are you a rough and rugged sex kitten (in all black) show us how you do sexy $$

Body - This category speaks for itself… Bring it in a red for (luscious) or black (models) nightie

Foot and eyewear - Bring us a hot duo! Make the audience go to war over your pump and frame (labels is not a must) $$

Butches
Face - You have skin for days and a smile that make people stop & gaze so war does not faze you. Sell your face while representing love..

Body - In a red and black effect

Realness - Bring pretty boy vs thug vs school boy vs executive $$

Transmen
Realness - Bring it waving a flag from a country that promotes love not war

Body - You embody the body of a soldier…use your imagination

Male Figure
All American Runway - You have gone above and beyond the call of duty for mens fashion. How would you look to go receive your medal of honor

Sex Siren - Its raining men!!! Bring us sex appeal in bedroom attire (his is not body, you must be sexy from head to toe) $$

Streetwear - Urban vs High Fashion 2011 pieces

Fem Queen
Face - Its all fair in love and war. Block out your competition by framing your face with a prop and show your love by hugging them as you send them on their way $$

Realness - You can walk down the block with your white wife beater and army
fatigue pants and make the boys swoon. Go to WAR against your competition!

Sex Siren - We would LOVE to see you in a tight sexy red number

Butch Queen in Drags
Realness - U have the key to peace and love in the world… are you real enough to cross the border and save our nation $$

Face - The art of make up while selling it like a fem queen

Butch Queen
Face - (light vs brown vs dark) Bring it in something red (whole outfit does not have to be red but one piece of garment)

Runway - Calling all nations. This is love and war! Bring it in a military effect from any country $$

Realness w/a twist - Bring your realness forth like your going to war come back dipping in the name of love

Open To All
New Face - In a red attire $$

New Runway - In all balck

Hair Affair - We July 4th has passed but bring us a creation sure to set off fireworks

Best Dressed - You are going to visit the Obamas to sign a peace treaty

Butch up in pumps vs Fag Out $$

Who’s Zooming Who?

Team Categories
(One in black and One in Red)
(must be from 2 different houses)

Team Realness $$

Team Runway

Team Face $$

Team Sex Siren

Mini Grand $$
FF Big Girl Face - Victoria Secret is looking for a plus size model for their new Angel campaign … Bring us an Angel to life!!

Mini Grand $$
Vogue Fem Soft & cunt in red and dramatics in black with a prop having to do with love and war… who will win the battle!!

Grand Prize $$
House with the most trophies
Make sure you are on point…there is a twist

In Honor of Arbert Latex-Evisu - Latex Ball 2011 - August 20th 2011

2011-07-10T00:17:00.000-07:00

THE HOUSE OF LATEX BALL

SATURDAY, AUGUST 20, 2011
7:00PM - 4:00AM

ROSELAND BALLROOM
239 West 52nd Street
New York, NY 10019-5893

ADVANCED TICKET SALES !
Tickets will be available soon.
http://www.myballroomlife.com/latex_project

Music By: DJ Vjuan Allure

Commentators: Legends Jack Mizrahi, Selvin Ebony & Dashaun Evisu

The House of Latex Project
Presents
‘A Night at the Latex Museum’

The House of Latex Project presents "A Night at the Latex Museum," where the combination of creativity, life and art history will be merging to stimulate our community to strive for the highest level of quality, and celebrate its many achievements over time. The "Latex Ball" has provided a platform for the last 21 years to help bridge the gap between safer sex messages and the celebration of life. The categories at the ball have always celebrated ballroom history, the non-traditional, and embraced artistic heritages from distinct world cultures. The Latex Ball 2011 is dedicated in loving memory to Arbert (Latex- Evisu) Santana, a founding member of the House of Latex, and a dynamic, innovative, and loving leader in our community. He will forever be in our hearts.

The Fashion Institute
RUNWAY/ FASHION CATEGORIES
This section of the museum showcases different exhibitions in fashion, and its influence fashion has had across the globe. The Institute's mission is to highlight great innovations and showcase the intense creativity born through fashion.

Female Figure Runway
3 Trophies/ $$
Drags vs. Fem Queens vs. Women
QUEENS OF FASHION
For Centuries, Empresses and Queens have been regarded and celebrated as the most stylish and extravagant figures in history. Tonight at the Latex Museum, we are showcasing Queens of Fashion- from Cleopatra to Marie Antoinette, Queen Elizabeth to Queen Lili'uokalani. The final piece will be a showcase of you. You are not to bring one of the past Queens to life, but rather create a look that will represent you as a modern day Queen. Be Outrageous- and remember no Queen is complete without her crown!!!

Open To All Best Dressed
2 Trophies
Male Figures vs. Female Figures
THE STATEMENT PIECE
The Latex Museum is more than honored to have you as a presenter of our finest collections of Avant-Garde accessories. From futuristic to opulent to absolutely bizarre, we want to celebrate High Fashion at its best. Donning the finest apparel, you must showcase the most outrageous accessories ever seen. This is a High Fashion Category, Not a Label Category.

Open To All Labels
2 Trophies
Male Figures vs. Female Figures
LE GALA HAUTE COUTURE
Le Gala Haute Couture is the Latex Museum’s world famous gala where only the rich, the famous, and the most fashionable people on earth can attend. Tonight you are our A- List guest to grace our red carpet. You know what we want to see...enough said.

Open To All Bizarre
1 Trophy/ $$
FASHION OF THE WORLD
When one looks at the world's cultures, it is impossible not to be inspired by their fashions. You have no choice to be inspired by their ways of fashion. Throughout history, fashion icons have taken inspiration from other countries and made it their own. Some have even managed to create masterpieces based on that inspiration. Tonight we want you to pick a culture and study their fashion, and translate it into a spectacle for us! Remember this is still a fashion category, but it’s also a bizarre category. Innovation is the ultimate key.

The Cultural Society
REALNESS CATEGORIES
The Latex Museum finally added a Cultural Society Wing for the study of Realness and its early beginnings. The Cultural Society highlights the great richness and the depths of different cultures and looks at traditions that are known and respected around the world. To us, it’s simply Point Blank Realness.

Fem Queen Realness
1 Trophy
MEMOIRS OF A GEISHA
The Japanese culture has always been world-renowned for having a deep, rich, and beautiful heritage. Tonight, showcase the extraordinary beauty it offers by highlighting the Geisha and wearing the traditional Kimono. You don’t need the Geisha paint. Just remember you are still selling Realness.

Team Realness
Butch and Trans Man Realness
2 Trophies
EGYPTIAN PHARAOHS
Egyptian Pharaohs were considered to be both divine deities as well as mortal rulers. The throne of Egypt was primarily intended to be succeeded from father to son. For thousands of years we have been intrigued and fascinated by with the history and preservation of Egyptian culture. Tonight, at the Latex Museum bring to life a “father and son” team in their iconic garb.

The Modern Art Exhibit
FACE CATEGORIES
The phenomenon of Modern Art is celebrated at the Latex Museum. We pay tribute to how the movement changed the world and how each artist in the movement managed to create iconic figures that continue to influence us today. By showcasing creativity and breaking from tradition, it will stimulate the World of Beauty like no other movement.

Fem Queen Face
1 Trophy/ $$
POP ART
The 20th century brought fun into art like never before and gave birth to Pop Art. From Richard Hamilton to Andy Warhol to Roy Lichtenstein to Jasper Johns- they helped break from tradition and introduced us to new ways of looking at artistry and expression by using mass culture and media. Tonight, bring us a look inspired by Pop Art. Do your research and be CREATIVE!!!

Women’s Face
1 Trophy
PORTRAIT OF A FEM QUEEN
The Fem Queen Face Divas of the ballroom have always been the true definition of how we view beauty today. Through glamorous gowns, gorgeous hair, flawless make up, and the timeless art form of selling FACE! Tonight, let’s pay tribute to the true Fem Queen Faces that inspire you. Bring forth a look that will give you the right to grace the same stage as them.

The Natural History Experience
SEX SIREN/ BODY CATEGORIES
The Natural History Experience division of the Latex Museum houses a vast collection devoted to the beauty of Natural History, ranging from exotic animals, rare gemstones, and the natural wonders of the world found above and below ground.

Fem Queen Sex Siren
1 Trophy
HIDDEN TREASURES OF THE WORLD
Ever since the human eye laid its sights eyes gemstones, they have been viewed as one of the most beautiful and precious gifts to us from Mother Earth. From Diamonds to Rubies, Emeralds to Sapphires, they are just absolutely breathtaking. Some of the most talented and skilled jewelry designers have made masterpieces from these stones and this evening the Latex Museum is proud to showcase the rarest, most stunning pieces of all time. Tonight, give us a one- of -a- kind look inspired by the Treasures of the World.

Trans- Man Sex Siren
1 Trophy
THE EIGHTH WONDER OF THE WORLD
We are honored to present the first ever Eight Wonder of the World at the Latex Museum known as the Trans-Man Physique. Show us an effect that will reveal your mysterious sexuality. Remember this is the Natural History Experience exhibit so bring us something that compliments the title.

Women’s Body
1 Trophy
UNDER THE SEA
Oceanography has always been one of the most interesting studies of the world because of the ocean's mysteries. We know more about the landscape of the moon, than what lies beneath the seas. We have found many beautiful discoveries within the ocean and we are more than proud to showcase them this evening. Tonight, bring forth a look inspired by the deep blue sea.

The Entertainment Hall of Fame
PERFORMANCE CATEGORIES
This wing at the Latex Museum is devoted to the World of Entertainment and how it has affected the world and ballroom culture; whether it’s music, movies, performance, photography, television, magazines, or literature. One thing is for certain, it has definitively had an impact on the way we think, live, and look as individuals.

Female Figure Performance
3 Trophies/ $$
Drags vs. Fem Queens vs. Women
THE WORLD OF CINEMATIC CULTURE
The cinema has always made a great impression on the way we dream, act, look, and live. Whether it’s a romantic, horror, suspense, animated, action, sci-fi, or dramatic movie- we all can remember a movie that we have fantasized about living in. Tonight, we are paying tribute to the most influential movies in history. Bring to life a character from any movie of any genre and create a monumental moment in history. No Production. Bring the look and your performance will convey the character.

Old Way vs. New Way vs. Arms Control
3 Trophies/ $$
GREAT MOMENTS IN PHOTOGRAPHY
Tonight we are honored to showcase one of the greatest photographic collections in world history at the Latex Museum. Phenomenal photographers like Helmut Newton, David LaChapelle, Irving Penn, Man Ray, Nan Goldin, Richard Avedon, Annie Leibowitz, Herb Ritts, Robert Mapplethorpe, and many others who have helped reflect the times we live in. Photography has many elements of expression, including fashion, photojournalism, documentary and portraiture. Bring the photograph that inspired you and be ready to bring it to life...

I don't wanna grow up cuz baby if I did - I wouldnt be a ballroom KID!

2011-07-03T21:54:00.000-07:00

First let’s start with Commitment. You joined a house. YOU joined a house. You saw qualities in a group of people that caused you to want to spend your hard earned money, your precious time, and your spare energy to help upkeep their image. Yes I said YOUR resources and yes you must help upkeep what you found to be attractive about them. That’s the one thing that we all forget: the sense of commitment. When you join a house, you must look at it like joining a little league team. This is your team that you will practice with, encourage, uplift and hopefully win alongside of. Don’t look at it as joining a MLB team where you sign on for three years, consider yourself a huge commodity then trade to a new team for more money. If what made the house alluring in the first place is no longer present, what are you willing to do to fix it?

That brings me to Support. Much like a real house, it takes upkeep to maintain the appearance of opulence. Each member has a role, serves a purpose and has a responsibility. When members leave or grow dormant, their purpose goes unfulfilled and slowly adds wear and tear to the house. Others must step in and continue the work to keep the house running smoothly. If you feel like your house isn’t running smoothly; look at how your actions can correct the issue. Are you maintaining contact with parents for information? Are you keeping communication with your brothers/sisters? Are you attending get-togethers/balls/meetings? Are you paying your dues? Are you practicing? Are you walking? Are you being a cheerleader? Are you of any use to the house at all? You should have said yes to all those questions to be considered a functioning member of the house. You can feel it when large amounts of members all answer no to them. The house doesn’t run smoothly. I mentioned earlier that it takes YOUR resources to help upkeep a house image. It does. It takes money to travel to different states for balls, for hotel stays and transportation, for entrance fees, for effects, for outfits… It is not paid for by the house. You must tap into your pockets to pay for that. Be responsible for yourself. Find your own source of support.

Next is Pride. As a new kid, you’re ecstatic to be the new [enter house name here] but do you still feel that way after a year? Your first chop/loss? Your first upset? When they add a new kid to the roster? Or a new kid who walks your category? You should. Even if you think the new face child doesn’t has face, you should be proud to belong to the house. Help the child give the face they should. Instill in them a sense of pride by showing them the support they deserve and building up their self-esteem. [Nice lead-in huh?]

Categories are never won by insecure, shy, socially inept people. They are won by those who can ruffle their feathers proud like a peacock. Self-esteem and confidence is essential to being in a house. You must be confident enough to stand tall while allowing yourself to be judged. Judged by the panel, by the spectators and even judged by your very own house siblings. Yes, don’t be confused. They all don’t see you. It may be shade; it may be personal opinion, but you won’t be the best in everyone’s eye. The leaders of the house are responsible for building up self-esteem in their kids. They cannot focus one on one with each one constantly though. As brother & sisters, you must pick up the slack. Help a runway girl find the right shoes. Research costumes for a realness kid. Buy moisturizer for the face girl. Help each member be their best and build a stronger foundation of respect.

How could you want to sabotage the person who helped you get prepared for a Ball? Helped you practice? Made you feel attractive? Built your reputation? You couldn’t if you had respect for them. Respect is not wanting to cause any harm to them. Emotionally, verbally and physically. If each member, titled or not, are pulling their own weight and maintaining their responsibilities, how could they not respect one another? Having respect is comforting in a house setting and solidifies house loyalty.

Loyalty is standing by someone through thick and thin and maintaining all the aforementioned things with them. (No fair weather friends here, folks!) This is the hardest condition to keep because we don’t always agree on things. We don’t always see eye to eye. Arguments happen and grudges are hard to erase. You have to admit humility at times and boast proudly at others. Picking your battles and respecting the decisions of the leaders is being loyal. Don’t be discouraged in conflict and find a way out. Maintaining loyalty is appreciating your role in the grand scheme and never losing sight of that. Once each member has reached this state of bliss… You see - Unity.

Unity is what the outside world sees. It is the combination of all of the above working in sync. In my personal opinion, this is the shiny aura that people see when looking to join a house. It is the glow that stands houses out from the rest on paper and at a ball. Its something we all want and can’t seem to obtain. Here’s my recipe kids… Don’t let it go to waste.

Xoxo
Roxi

Who runs the world? Girls! NOOO... Its the kids!

2011-07-03T21:19:00.001-07:00

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed here are the views of the writer and do not necessarily reflect the views of the overall Ball scene. Do not use these opinions as a rule of thumb; edit them as you see fit for your experience. Thank you.

Recently, I was asked to write a blog about mothers and what their role and success for a house should be.

I guess I should explain hierarchy in a house (according to my beliefs) in order to better explain my opinion.

Top Rank is Overall Parent. This person is in charge of the overall movement of the entire house. They consult with the regional/chapter parents to ensure that the focus of the house is being met.

Next is Regional Parent. They are told what to execute by the Overall Parents and make sure that the Chapter Parents are doing their job in each chapter.

Next is Chapter Parent. They deal with the everyday running of the house. They are the backbone of the house dealing with the needs and wants of the kids in their chapter.

Some houses have executive boards or “royal courts”. These people have “royalty” ranks such as queen, king, prince, princess, empress, dutchess and duke. They are brought in to execute non-ball related matters. They consult with Regional and Overall Parents to ensure that the house brand is being properly used and uplifted.

Chapter Mothers are the ones who hold the heaviest crown. They are the ones you call when you need ball effects, rehearsals and training. They organize chapter meetings, collect dues, arrange community service, gather the kids for important outings and maintain local buzz about the house. They recruit new members, act as a liaison between other houses and keep the morale up.

Regional Parents should be the ones making sure Chapter Parents have a woo-sah moment every once in a while. Much like the Chapter Parent for the kids, the Regional Parents should be ensuring that the Chapter Parents are running things smoothly. They should be removing members, updating rosters, keeping tabs on house wins and house history.

Overall Parents are not as “involved” in the day to day functions. They are the spokespersons for the house. They make sure that the house or its members are not being taken advantage of. They ensure that the legacy of the house is being fulfilled. They are the brand ambassadors and should be the ones who promote parents or recruit new free agents. They are the face of the house.

The ranks I’ve held were Queen, Regional Mother & Chapter Mother and in much of my former house life, I held all three titles simultaneously. Regardless of the rank, the terms of success range differently. Chapter Parents should be aiming toward ensuring their kids are polished in their category and storming and earning “star” or “statement” status. Regional Parents should be aiming towards getting “as a house” statement status. Overall Parents should be focused on how they can earn “house of the year” and how they can get their statements to become Legends. Not every house or even every house parent has that goal in mind. You would need to consult your parents to find out their thought process and execution plan.

With that being said, why aren’t more houses pushing towards this?

Don’t always blame house parents because the ones who have much to prove and run the show are always the kids! If you have a house of 50 and only 3 walk clearly Regional & Overall Parents can’t focus on their goals. The kids must push to earn their own status in order help the parents to do their jobs.

Now don’t get me wrong, Parents hold a ton of weight in promoting unity within the house. They enforce rules, standards and traditions and their presence, support and encouragement help keep kids motivated, focused and excited to do better on the runway.

Long story short, kids are the blue collar workers and Parents are the white collar bosses… Everyone’s aim should be longevity and until that holds true for every member of the house… It won’t happen.

Any questions?

Xoxo
Roxi

The Iman Time Machine Ball Recap

2011-06-27T11:11:00.000-07:00

NYC Pride marks the coming of the House of Iman annual ball and once again Overall Mother Aisha Iman gathered the bigwigs of community health organizations to sponsor a beautiful venue in order to throw the ball. Free HIV testing provided by H.E.A.T. with support from Hetrick-Martin Institute and GMHC women's program.

My disappointment started first with seeing the lack of support from not only the womens houses and walkers but from the mainstream and kiki scene. No ball will ever be a hit if a minimal amount of people show up or walk. Then it was elevated when seeing how many people showed up so many hours late. I, myself was late due to preparing for my sister's graduation party later on that night but the majority of people arrived at least 4-5 hours late and some even complained that the few categoris that were left were taking too long b/c they wanted to run off to attend a club event that night. If people would have arrived on time, the ball couldnt ended within enough time for all of them to go home, bathe, rest and get dressed to be at the club at a good time.

Ultimately, a ball us only as good as the support, participation and respect from the community is.

I would love to read some feedback from those who attended but for those who haven't attended... watch the following videos and "You Be The Judge"!

Best Dressed

Womens Face

Womens Sex Siren

Womens Body

Shoe & Bag

OTA Runway

Butch Realness

SOOOOOOO "You Be The Judge"...

In Memory of Legendary Jennifer Banks Evisu

2011-06-22T10:12:00.000-07:00

Legendary Jennifer Banks Evisu, Reigning Miss Gay Caribbean USA, Face & Realness Diva, Hair Stylist Extraordinaire, performer and LGBT activist passed away this week due to medical complications. This post is to honor her memory and her legacy. I usually would write on and on about her life, her accomplishments and her contributions but her actions speak louder than any words I could type. (Click here to read her NY Daily News Article) So I leave it to Jennifer to showcase what makes her such a loved, appreciated and well-respected woman in the ballroom/pageant/LGBT scene...

I present to you...
LEGENDARY JENNIFER BANKS EVISU
Pageantry

Stage Performance

Ballroom

Picture Montage of
The Many Faces of Jennifer Banks Evisu
(made lovingly by Grandmother Susan Mizrahi)

Myself and the 'Getting My Life' staff send our condolences to Jennifer's Family and Friends. She was an inspiration and shall be missed.

xoxo
Roxi

More Ass? Less Class? Same Sass? - FQ Sex Siren

2011-06-17T17:09:00.000-07:00

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official opinion or position of the ball promoters or hosts.

Female Figure Sex Siren - one of the two most popular categories has changed over the last ten years significantly. Much like the evolution of societal views of the sexual image, the category has grown exceedingly explicit which begs to question: Has the video vixen image distorted the respect we have for our female figures? Is it possible to remain classy while parading all your 'ass'ets?

In a previous post regarding the Body category (Let's Get Physical) it was discussed that Body is shaking what your mama gave you, which leads to the assumption of being next to nude but does sex siren NEED to lead to the same assumption?

Our sex kitten icons from the 1950s who sold small doses of sensuality have now been replaced with images of spread eagle vixens alluring their audience with much more than a set of bedroom eyes.

Personally, I idolize a classier sex siren entrance much like Legendary Mother Sinia Ebony...

Now sex sirens resort to less clothes...

Shannon Ex-Khan

And now also contain sexual explicit actions (i.e. dancer moves)...

Icon Overall Mother Angel Revlon

Now don't get me wrong, Revlons and Angel fans, I am sooooo not judging her! I'm one of her BIGGEST fans (and no I don't mean big as in wide haha)! As a matter of fact, she's brought back the sensual sex siren walk recently at the Evisu Ball 2010 and I applaud her and think she looked AMAZING!

So now that you've seen both ends of the Sex Siren spectrum... what do YOU think?

Ball Schmall! This Is The Greatest Show On Earth!

2011-06-17T15:38:00.000-07:00

A Ball is a competition where teams of people known as "houses" compete against each other in various categories based on fashion, realness, hair, dance and costume effects just to name a few.

To be honest, a Ball is nothing more than a big show and the judges are forced to choose which house gave the better show. Elaborate costumes, grand entrances, skits and self-confident people displaying their skills and/or talents is what makes a Ball so great.

A Ball is a form of entertainment for those who compete as well as for those who spectate. For competitors, it's showcasing themselves and earning their "oscar" in less than ten minutes. They are fueled on anxiety and confidence that this time they will win. For spectators, its about viewing the outlandish antics, choosing your own winner and hoping that your choice wins.

Many reality tv shows that we watch currently are based on the ideal behind a ball. Our runway categories are mimiced by "America's Next Top Model". Our fashion categories are mimiced by "Project Runway". Our dance categories are mimiced by "America's Best Dance Crew" and "So You Think You Dance". You can find traces of the ball scene in a lot of the competition based shows. Even our couple categories can be traced to the reality dating shows.

A Ball is synonymous with the LGBTQ community but is open to all genders, races, creeds and sexual preferences. Below is a video of the 2010 "Fashion Revolution" Ball presented by GMHC's Latex Project. If you aren't intrigued to see more after viewing this video then you aren't living! (just a joke... I'm pretty sure you're still breathing)

SEX ON THE BEACH BALL FX CHEAT SHEET!

2011-04-28T15:01:00.000-07:00

(ALL CATEGORIES MUST IN SWIMSUITS OR BEACHWEAR)

WOMEN
Sex Siren - (with a Prop)
Cliff Note: The prop is mandatory! Umbrella, beach ball, pail and bucket are cute props to use but step outside the box and be creative. This is a CASH category!

Body - (Model vs. Luscious vs. Athletic)
Cliff Note: Body is rump-shaking and booty-shaking. Model means slim and trim. Luscious means THICK. Athletic means toned and muscles.

Face - (Painted vs. Unpainted)
Cliff Note: Why paint your face in your typical make-up when you can go glossy and look wet? and if you're unpainted, why not use water to show the judges that God has painted you naturally?

*NEW CATEGORY* Nail Flair - (NO FRENCH!)
Cliff Note: You have ten fingers - GO OFF! Do designs on each one, have matching hands or maybe hands AND feet????? Hmmmm...

BUTCH
Body
Cliff Note: Butch body is MUSCLES - Arms, stomach AND LEGS!! Pose for the judges like bodybuilders. Please don't shake like the women... it's not very butch. This is a CASH category!

Face - (in colorful swimwear)
Cliff Note: Be a peacock and strut your stuff! Neons and bright colors - It IS Miami!

Sex Siren - (with a towel)
Cliff Note: How much sexy are YOU willing to expose to the judges? Remember that an attractive face is needed to sell sex; it IS what you see first!

Barber Shop Flow - (Fade vs. Dreads vs. Braids)
Cliff Note: Your only note is designs!!! Think creative haircut/designs!

TRANSMAN
Realness - (Unclockable, Undeniable, Unstoppable)
Cliff Note: Stealth. Period. ALL TRUE TRANSMEN KNOW WHAT I MEAN.

Sex Siren - (Make us wet without water)
Cliff Note: I think it speaks for itself...

OPEN TO ALL
Hat & Eyewear - (doesn't have to be a Label)
Cliff Note: Straw hats and Ray-bans - BORING!!! Cocoa & Breezy/Stevie Boi with custom headwear is CRUCIAL!

Best Dressed - (Pool/Beach Attire)
Cliff Note: Can you make a statement good enough for the water AND the red carpet? Our clue: Match head to toe or Coordinate prints with solids. Golds always look good with a tan.

Runway - (The Floor is Yours)
Cliff Note: Your walk I can't help you with but make sure you sell your outfit like it was Fashion Week. Its OTA runway so European (FF) walks against All-American (MF).

MINI GRAND
Butch Up In Pumps - (Borrowed, Old & New)
Cliff Note: Can you walk NATURAL in a pair of high heels and still be BUTCH? Hmmmm.... This is a CASH category!

GRAND PRIZE CATEGORY
Mr. & Mrs. Sex On The Beach (Team Sex Siren)
Cliff Note: Watch Team Sex Siren - ATL Awards

Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the official opinion or position of the ball promoters or hosts.

The House of Iman Presents The Time Machine Ball - June 25th, 2011

2011-02-15T13:06:00.000-08:00

TIME MACHINE BALL
CATEGORIES

YEAR 3000
GRAND PRIZE RUNWAY OPEN TO ALL (OTA)
1. Open To All Runway: (Female Figures Vs. Male Figures) Your strut is on point
but can you take us full speed ahead to the year 3000! Bring us a futuristic runway effect that will make us know it.! 2 Trophies battle for the $$$

YEAR 2000
WHO IS ZOOMING WHO (OTA)
2. Who Is Zooming Who: Alicia Keys Is Singing ?No One? and is so much in love you exhibit your love in your unique coupling to the judges (Butch & Butch, Fem & Fem, BQ & FQ, Trans Man & Trans Man etc) 1 Trophy

90'S FLAIR
3. WOMENS SWITCH: Come out as a Thug and then bring us back that around the
way girl look and don?t forget your ?Door Knocker? earrings. 1 Trophy $$

4. OPEN TO ALL SHOE & BAG ATTACK: The brighter the better is very reminiscent of the early 90? so surprise us with the funkiest stilettos, sandals and sneakers with over complementing clutches and bags in summer worthy colors, remember it is the 90?s so the brighter the better. 2 Trophies Battle For the $$

80's PERFORMANCE

5. WOMENS PERFORMANCE: Take the floor in a look that exudes Appolonia, Janet Jackson, Taylor Dayne, Madonna, and any other 80?s iconic women, but remember your performance should be on point. 1 trophy $$

6. BUTCH VS. TRANSMAN PERFORMANCE: Let us see your sickening moves in an ovah unique graffiti T-shirt featuring your house name. 1 Trophy

7. BQ & FF - TEAM PERFORMANCE: In a colorful 80?s inspired team effect let?s see how you serve us a synchronized performance. 2 Trophies $$

70?s FACE
8. MINI GRAND WOMENS FACE (Light vs. Dark vs. Big Girls): Take us back to Studio 54 you are done ready to dance the night away with a hairdo to match, for example (Donna Summer, Dianna Ross etc), Recreate a memorable entrance that will take us back to the good old days. 3 trophies battle for the $$$

9. BUTCH FACE (Light vs. Dark vs. Big Boy): You have taken the time machine back to revolutionize race relations and gender biases so, serve that Carta in an over Black panther effect and don?t forget your poster with a positive message that speaks to he audience at large. 2 trophies Battle for $$$

10. FQ VS. BQ FACE: Bring us a Blacksploitation worthy look do your research, hint think (Foxy Brown, Super Fly, Dolomite etc...) 2 trophies Battle For the $$$

11. FEM AGGRESSIVE FACE: The 70?s was known for funky fashion can you serve us that lovely Carta dressed in a 70?s worth effect. 1 Trophy

40's, 50's & 60's Fashion
12. WOMENS BEST DRESSED: 40's, 50's & 60's pick any of those memorable era's, add your own unique twist, do your research and bring those classic looks to life. 1 Trophy. $$

13. BUTCH VS. FEM AGGRESSIVE BEST DRESSED: It?s the Grand Opening of the Cotton Club, what will you be wearing Dapper Don? Do your research and wow the judges. 2 Trophies battle for the $$

14. OTA BEST DRESSED COUPLE: Bring us a complementing look worthy of the Harlem Renaissance era will you capture the audience applause tonight. 1 Trophy

20'S & 30'S REALNESS
15. BUTCH REALNESS (Pretty Boy vs. Thug): The Stock Exchange has just crashed you have no money left, but your executive look inspired by the roaring twenties is on point (hint pin strips) props are a must. 2 Trophies battle for the $$

16. TRANSMAN REALNESS: Sir you have just done the unthinkable you have escaped Alcatraz state prison and you are in full prison uniform from that era. Do your research or you will be sent back and bring your props including a mug shoot. 1 Trophy $$

17. FQ REALNESS: In a 20's or 30's inspired look of your choice, but make sure you reflect the era as you serve your realness to the judges. 1 Trophy $$

BC Prehistoric Time
18. TEAM SEX SIREN: Adam & Eve are in the Garden of Eden can you recreate that tempting duo and don?t forget your apple for the judges.

19. MALE FIGURE VS. FEMALE FIGURE BODY: Can you use fruits, leaves and things from nature to cover your secret places think of Josephine Baker and make it hot. 2 Trophies Battle for the $$$

20. WOMENS SEX SIREN: Nature is full of cover ups grab a piece of nature and hide your secret places while tantalizing the judges with your sex appeal. 1 Trophy $$

2011 - The Final Frontier

2011-01-18T15:55:00.000-08:00

Its finally a new year and the big question is... (drumroll please) is Roxi ever going to walk again?

Perhaps.

There comes a time when you miss the stage, the drama, the stunts, the ooohs, the aaaahs. I miss it. But is the scene I fought hard to upkeep, the same scene I would spend so much to surround myself with? That is the REAL question.

I won't pretend that there is no love lost because wholeheartedly, there is. There are people who have left a bitter taste in my life and made this joy unbearable to enjoy. It causes me to think of one thing I said to another who left their house and wondered; "What's left after the spotlight has faded?". My response was "What YOU make it to be".

There isn't a ball walker or promoter who hasn't destroyed a bridge in the scene. There isn't a person to ever walk who was chopped or sat down and hasn't thought: "This is MY last ball. I'm tired of the shade/people/antics/insert expression here". We ALL feel at a loss especially when we leave a house and find ourselves alone challenging what seems like a pack of wolves.

So where's the lesson Roxi?

The lesson is standing on your own two feet. Walking as a free agent (or should I say, STORMING as one) is a GIFT! You are able to encompass a greater goal than any concocted by a house: the goal of HAVING FUN!

This past Sunday, Legend Jaimee Balenciaga hosted her annual ball in Atlanta for MLK weekend. I believe this was the third annual function. How many 007s turned out? How many even showed up to learn something new or be a part of something different? I'm sure not nearly as many NEEDED or WANTED to be there.

The rules of the game stay the same but it's the demand of the walkers and spectators that change them. WE keep them going. WE keep them fair. WE keep them constant and if WE don't support, learn, encourage and pass it along, WE are at fault for dismissing a vital part of our culture, of our history.

I ask you to do MORE for the ballroom scene. Talk about it. Ask questions. Support them. Enjoy them. WALK THEM! We all get 15 minutes of fame, but baby, on that runway, it's seems like eternity. Go grab YOURS!

Follow me on twitter: @fortRox
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Email me questions about the ball scene: roxibangbang@gmail.com

xoxo
Roxi
(Stay free, agents!)

"STEPHANIE MILAN DAHHHHLING" - LEGENDARY OVERALL MOTHER STEPHANIE MILAN!

2010-10-15T18:17:00.000-07:00

At the Evisu Ball last weekend I was fortunate enough to be stuck in the bathroom with my icon, Overall Mother Stephanie Milan. Stephanie has been walking this scene for almost 25 years and in my personal opinion (and the opinion of quite of few others) is the most elegant female figure to EVER do it. Stephanie has stormed a ton of categories and won more than a ton of trophies.

Sitting in the bathroom with her and having a GREAT conversation with her and Chris Milan opened a new view of my icon. She kiki'd on the girls, dismissed her loss of the night (SHE WAS ROBBED) and wished well numerous other walkers simply based on their dedication to the category and the scene. Honestly, I never laughed so hard in my life and I can see why the House of Milan lives for her, cradles her as their mother and runs to be by her side.

I can go on and on about the two hours I spent with her but I'd rather allow you to see her in her glory. Walking the hell out of fashion, elegantly displaying her face and pumping that hourglass figure.

Stephanie, this is my tribute to you!

"I DON'T BUY LABELS FOR A BALL. I DONT GIVE A SH*T ABOUT A TROPHY... I BUY THEM BECAUSE I LOVE TO FAB. I'M STEPHANIE MILAN DAHHHLING..."

xoxo
Roxi

HER FINAL WORDS FOR THE LATEX BALL 2009

EVISU BALL RECAP VIDS

2010-10-12T19:17:00.000-07:00

The Evisu Ball was probably the most highly anticipated ball since their debut of an awesome movie trailer at this years Latex ball. Below are some clips of the action:

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ITS ONLY $11.00!!!!!

FQ FACE - PRIZE $1000

LEGENDARY FQ PERFORMANCE

POP THAT CHERRY! I promise it won't hurt... (well maybe a little haha)

2010-10-01T10:36:00.000-07:00

A lot of people have been asking me about walking for the first time so here is my POP YOUR CHERRY campaign.

Virgin categories are ideal for you to consider if you're nervous about walking for the first time. They are designed to bring in people who haven't walked or haven't won so that you can start walking or to improve your serving technique. In a virgin category, known walkers/winners are not allowed to participate.

So what is needed if you're walking FOR THE FIRST TIME?

Knowledge - research your category first. Find out who slays the category you're interested and watch them. Much like children, be prepared to mimic what they do to get tens and add your own personal twist to it.

Effects - Most virgin categories ask you to come in white; others may not. Make sure you abide by the rules set for the category. Don't end up getting chopped for wearing the wrong thing before ever showing your skill or talent. (That's the part that hurts)

THE MOST IMPORTANT NEED IS: (drum roll please)

Confidence - it's your best asset. Judges smell fear. You must believe in yourself and be strong enough to be judged by others. It isn't easy to walk out in a large group of your peers and perform.

It is a humbling experience though should you be chopped though. Don't ever assume you failed. Virgin categories are designed to be a learning experience. You can be chopped for two things: wrong effect or you don't fit the category. Always keep in mind that judging is based on personal interpretation of the category and that one judge may not see you and another will. Should you ever get chopped, thank the judges for their vote and gracefully leave the stage. After the ball, ask the judge why you were chopped. They will be honest and tell you why. Take their critiques and use them to walk the next virgin category.

Don't let criticism stop you. Icons are icons because they have compete for 15+ years and have battled numerous people in various states. Legends are legends for 10+ years of battling and statements and stars as well. Point is: we all, regardless of years walking, have to adapt and improve in order to gain a higher title or Life.

SO YOU'VE DECIDED TO WALK. GREAT! HOW DOES A CATEGORY WORK?

The commentator will call the category and all those walking should come to top of the runway.

One by one (or however many the commentator requests) walk up to serve it to the judges.

If you get all tens from the judges, you stand to the side and wait for everyone else to walk and receive their tens or chops. Those who have received tens now enter battle zone where you battle one on one to get closer to the win.

If you get chopped, gracefully exit stage right BUT watch the remainder of the category. See what the others do so that you know what the judges liked and disliked. It'll help you for the next time.

With all that said, I encourage all those interested in walking a ball to take a risk and put yourself out there. Balls are meant to be fun and competitive at the same time.

Here are some virgin category video to watch so you can see clearly what happens. See you on the catwalk!

xoxo
Roxi

VIRGIN FACE

VIRGIN RUNWAY

VIRGIN VOGUE

MADONNA VOGUED SO WHY NOT YOU? VOGUE OF ART: THE CLASS YOU CAN'T MISS

2010-09-29T21:36:00.000-07:00

Located in Midtown in New York City, on the fourth floor of Pearl Studios, you will find a class breaking down walls and stereotypes taught by none other but Mr $5,000 Vogue Evolution alumni Legendary Dashaun (Evisu) Wesley. Here is the where you'll find "Vogue of Art".

Vogue or "voguing" is a highly stylized, modern house dance, that evolved out of the Harlem ballroom dance scene. Vogue was originally popularized in the late 1980s, within the inner-city club scenes of the United States. It gained mainstream attention when featured by Malcolm McLaren in his Deep_in_Vogue #1 single in 1989, and by Madonna in her song and video of the same name, and has recently been returned to domestic and international attention again by the dance group Vogue Evolution of America's Best Dance Crew. (Wikipedia)

"Vogue of Art" is a classically directed vogue beginner class where Dashaun teaches "the vogue blueprint" as well as freestyle techniques forcing students to develop their own style of vogue while maintaining its essence. He alternates between teaching vogue basic steps and choreographed vogue routines. The class consists of a wide array of persons from local ballscene participants to international dance students taking dance classes on student visas - male and female and introduces them to the highly anticipated category in the ballscene as we know it.

Tonight begins with Dashaun's close friend David, warming up the class with basic stretch techniques. Like most professional dance classes, warming up the muscles and limbs are necessary to get the body prepared for the rigorous activity which this class is not in lack of. According to Dashaun, "Vogue Evolution usually vogues and then stretches to vogue again" and with the intensity of this form of dance, most beginners should allow their bodies to get used to the movement.

It was amazing to see the skill set difference between three very different students in tonight's class and yet they kept up (with a few slip-ups along the way) with a sense of eagerness that made the class enjoyable to watch. David, an aspiring actor, proposes a new exercise where each student must vogue freestyle displaying an emotion or character picked from a piece of paper and you had to stand in awe of how Paul, an aspiring ballscene voguer, displays Broadway in his rendition and how Omar, an Italian student here on a visa, vogued like Superman. It was a pleasure to watch as well as trying to figure out which word they picked out of the hat.

After the exercise is over, Dashaun gives quick information and directs them to start rehearsing the choreographed piece from last week's class. Pumping Kevin JZ Prodigy's "Listen Up (Insider Get In)", the group quickly lines up for a catwalk and awesome synchronised hand performances. Noticeably, Dashaun has grown from being a member of a group to a skilled choreographer by first being able to motivate his students and then making sure that even their lines are straight as they execute each step. They are no "kiki girlfriend" moments. He is strict and determined to get the routine in sync not only for my camera but to maintain the essence of the dance. After several more added moves and from-the-top rehearsals, each student ended it in a true-to-fashion dip.

An hour is definitely not enough time to get the true art of the dance but with the schedule he follows, after a few classes you will be able to see your own personal growth and be able to grasp new moves of your own as he tells another student he's done.

Ending the class, Dashaun announces that on October 27th, he will be teaching a FREE class at the studio to give back to all those who have supported him thus far. (That's right - Roxi always gets the tea FIRST!) This class is open to all on that date. Dashaun is also prepping now to move on to bigger heights as he has been asked to teach vogue at the well-known Broadway Dance Center since his contract with Block was arranged. This is a big feat since BDC has had so many popular teachers as Tyce Diorio and Mia Michaels from "So You Think You Can Dance". His move to BDC has not yet been determined as of yet.

When asked why he decided to teach vogue, Dashaun replies "Let the other girls win the next $5,000. I am aimed to give back to the community".

Well said Dashaun. You're paying it forward like a true legend should and on behalf of those who yearn to catwalk, duckwalk and dip like the best, we thank you.

Check out 'Vogue Of Art' every Wednesday at Pearl Studios, 500 8th Avenue between 35th and 36th Sts, between 8pm and 9pm and follow Dashaun on Twitter (@dashaunwesley) to find out more information as well get to-the-minute updates on future shows and events. To see more about the class (if you're hoping to get a glimpse), see the class trailer below as well as Dashaun's $5,000 winning production at the 2005 Atlanta Awards Ball.

xoxo
Roxi

THE HOUSE OF EVISU SENDS YOU A CLUE! OCT 9TH, 2010

2010-09-22T08:26:00.000-07:00

THE CONCEPTUAL HOUSE OF EVISU PRESENTS TO YOU "CLUE 2010"

DATE: SATURDAY, OCTOBER, 9TH 2010
TIME: DOORS OPEN AT 7PM, BALL STARTS AT 8PM PROMPT!!
COMMENTATORS: JACK MIZRAHI / SELVIN KHAN
DJ: VJUAN ALLURE
TABLES: $200
DOOR: $30

ATTENTION: ID STATING THAT YOU ARE 18 Y/O OR OLDER IS REQUIRED UPON ENTRY , ALSO NO GLITTER OR SPRAY PAINT, BODY PAINT OF ANY KIND WILL BE ALLOWED INSIDE. SECURITY WILL THOROUGHLY CHECK ALL BAGS.

LOCATION: THE CATHEDRAL NYC
504 W 41st Street, NY, NY

Women’s Face- (Anna Maria) 1 point
Appearing from country to country to manipulate the poor with false promises of fortune was a trait that was passed down to Mr. Green from his late mother, Anna Maria. But even her teachings may not save her son tonight! Anna Maria lives again in spirit in an effort to free her son from the Clue Mansion.
CLUE= GYPSY; FORTUNE TELLER; MYSTICAL WARDROBE.

Butch Realness- (Casualties) 1 point
Col. Mustard received numerous honors while serving for his country, before conforming to a life of dishonesty and trickery. His bitterness stems from many friends of his that were INJURED on the front line during the Vietnam War.
CLUE= ARMY FATIGUES; BRUISES/SCARS; BLOOD; and WEAPONS.

Women's Runway- (Lady Hero) 1 point
During The War, many barriers were broken and the females in the Service earned positions they've never could have achieved before. Col. Mustard spoke of one particular unforgettable Lady Lieutenant who helped him lead the US to victory. He said her PRESENCE, CHARISMA, SEX APPEAL and SHADE were some key factors that made her an Icon within the Women’s Revolution. Remember her.
CLUE= SEXY LIEUTENANT or HIGH FASHION SOLDIER.

Transman Perfect 10's- (Love For Yvette) 1 point
Shortly before her position as the Mansions Maid, Yvette searched long and hard for her Prince Charming. She often questioned why it was so difficult to find a Guy with the elements of REALNESS, SEX, and SWAGG that she's been looking for all her life. On this evening; profess your love to Yvette and become her Ultimate Companion.
CLUE= A SEXY LOOK showing your SWAGG and selling your REALNESS with a RED ROSE for Yvette.

OTA Old Way- (Law and Enforcement) 1 Point
The police usually play a significant role in the tricky world of crime. Whether it be the Crooked Cop or the Too Nosy For His/Her Own Good butinsky, they too have a hand in the outcome of the game. Some last long, others won’t. Prove tonight that Law Enforcement plays the Game just as well as the Criminals. And sometimes even better.
CLUE= A Male or Female Figure POLICE OFFICER.

OTA Body- (Fully Equipped) 1 point each (mf &ff)
Its definitely hard to conceal anything when everybody is a suspect. For those who are smart, they know that there are a few accessories that make it so easy. Come equipped with only the necessary.
CLUE= Females Figures as Puss -N- BOOTS; Male Figures in Combat BOOTS.

Hands Performance- (You've Been Caught) 1 point
There's nothing more intense than being caught in the act of your Crime. Now the question is whether you will continue to see the job through, or stumble and freeze. You've already been caught Red Handed. What else do you have to lose?
CLUE= A CREATIVE and CUSTOMIZED RED GLOVE.

Bazaar- (Beneath the Stairs) 1 point
The guests pull match sticks to see which pair will team up and search the mansion. As you and your partner in crime pull the shortest stick, it is your responsibility to search the basement. Wadsworth warns everyone to be careful and looks you in the eyes and says, “Especially you. What you will find beneath the stairs will leave you bewildered and confused.” What lies beneath the stairs?
CLUE= Use your imagination

Best Dressed – (The Invitation) 1 point each (mf & ff ) $500 MF and $500 FF
Invitations to the Clue Mansion are only given to a select few. These few are the Who’s Who of Society. When Wadsworth opens the door, he will look not only for an invitation, but also a unique personal style. Keep in mind you will be rubbing shoulders with the elite, so the look should be memorable as well as fashionable.
CLUE= Tastefully done

OTA Foot, Eye and Surprise – (Shock Value) 1 point $250
Mrs. Peacocks eclectic sense of style has been called many things from cutting edge to gawdy yet it all seems to fit her personality to a tee. You see…. with Peacock everything is about Shock value. Can you say the same?
CLUE= Shocking eyewear, devastating footwear and an ovah surprise concealed in a box with a question mark. Fall Winter 2010-2011 pieces.

Interview of Legendary Jennifer Evisu

Interview of Gregg Evisu

Clips of Mr. $5000
Legendary Dashaun Evisu

STOP! Lemme fix my weave! Hair Affair: More than just cuts and color

2010-09-19T19:32:00.000-07:00

So I've been asked a million questions about the contest and what HAIR AFFAIR is. Hair Affair falls along the lines of fantasy hair. Think Derek J and his current show "Hair Battle Spectacular"...

Below are some pictures I've found and a video of Mr. Bizarre himself, G Xtravaganza walking the cat. This forces you to think outside the box. The images speak volumes so I won't explain anymore. GET CREATIVE!

For rules and details about the online ball, click here

xoxo
Roxi

G Xtravaganza "Hair Affair" Rumble Ball #22

"MY NAME'S BOND, JAMES BOND": Why being a fruitful 007 is your best first step.

2010-09-13T01:12:00.000-07:00

Before you consider a house or start your own, ask yourself this: Am I producing results on my own merit? A house, much like a basketball team, thrives on the points that each member racks up and the participation of the team as a whole. So why be on a team if you don't care to play? No one ever strives to the benchwarmer!

A desired house member is a productive '007' or 'free agent' (they both mean you hold no affiliation to a house). Most house parents are looking for members that can be fine tuned, tweaked and slightly improved upon in order to uplift the house name as well as win trophies to continue their legacy. Some parents choose members on what could be while good parents choose based on what is good now and can be better later.

At one time, free agents ruled the ballscene having houses vie for their membership. Every house wants the next hot thing and if you never light your own match, you will never be hot. In this scene, it isn't who you know but rather who you sat down.

In the WBT scene, so many are nervous and fearful of rejection and refuse to build up enough confidence to compete. Some participate one or two times without a win and give up while you have others who study, research, practice and battle time and time again. Guess which of the three will turn heads and earn their Life...

SO HOW DO I GET NOTICED BY A HOUSE?

EASY... WALK! If you show that you are willing to dedicate the time and energy in yourself and put your best face forward, houses will stop and pay attention. They want you to give a challenge. It forces their members to step their game up and gives them a formidable opponent. No one ever wants to win by being the only one walking. How many people do you know train to win by forfeit? The objective is show your skills and get public interest and snag the attention of a house willing to help you go farther than you did on your own.

HOW DO I WALK?

Find a category that best suits your interest and research it. Do you have what it takes to pull the look off. Don't attempt to walk face if you have bad skin. Don't walk butch realness if you can't pass for a boy. Tone your body up for body categories or teach yourself to be tantilizing for sex siren. Find out who your competition is. Study them. Pick a ball you'd like to deal your hand at, gather the tools for your effect and enter the runway! Walking will fill you with anxiety but it's also a great pleasure to entertain the audience as well as proving to yourself that you can do it.

WHAT IF I'M NOT SURE WHAT TO DO...?

Let me help you. Starting Sept 15th, I am sponsoring THE FIRST "BANG BANG" ONLINE BALL! That's right, I'm sending the winner $100 out of my own pocket for the most creative and unique... (no, I won't spill the tea! You must wait until Sept 15th for more details).

HOW DO I ENTER THE CATEGORY? (ok. ok. I'll at least give you the contest entry details)

Look out for my page posting on Sept 15th entitled "SHOT ME DOWN 'BANG BANG' BALL". There you will find the theme of the category.
You must take a picture of your effect with a note that says "ROXI BANG BANG" and email it to ROXIBANGBANG@GMAIL.COM. Contest closes on Sept 30th.
The top ten entries will be posted and YOU, THE PUBLIC must vote to select the winner. (How fair can that be?) Voting ends on October 15th and a winner will be declared! One Entry Per Person/Email! Multiple entries does not increase your chances of winning.

Pretty simple, huh? So subscribe by email below, spread the word and be ready to let your creative juices work for you on Sept 15th!

xoxo
Roxi

"WE ARE FAMILY! I GOT ALL MY SISTERS WITH ME": Runway as a House

2010-09-11T01:08:00.000-07:00

As a house categories show a level of determination, dedication and unity that isn't usually displayed for a regular category. It requires practice and a lot of trust to depend on each member to follow through with the category. Below are some runway as a house teams over the years. (Pls note: I was looking for House of Prada Runway as a House footage from the 2008 Changing Faces Ball but couldnt find any. If you have footage, please send it to me at roxibangbang@gmail.com or link me in the comments box)

xoxo
Roxi

House of Enigma - 1997

House of Infinti - 2005

House of Manolo-Blahnik - 2006

"PUT THAT UMBRELLA DOWN! WE DON'T NEED YOUR SHADE!": The Ballroom Shade Debate

2010-09-10T23:44:00.000-07:00

After having a conversation with my good good BQ girlfriend about various "shady" (notice the quotes) instances in the WBT scene, it was proposed that the women should "get it together because the mainstream scene does it all the time". Emphatically, I have to agree BUT the mainstream scene does it a certain extent. In my opinion, shade is a vital part of the ballroom scene whether it be pointing out another's flaws in comparison to yourself in battle zone, dismissing your opponents props during runway or calling out a fake label when you see one during a fashion category. They speak their opinions about status to one's face instead of the backtalk that has flooded the WBT scene. Personally, I feel that a lot of people speak badly behind each other's back not because they are scared but because they know that it was spark an all-out unnecessary war over an opinion.

The difference between mainstream shade and WBT shade is the WBT tend to touch ENTIRELY TOO MUCH and the mainstream leaves the shade ON THE RUNWAY. They have the ability to see that it is for the function and not take things personally. (I truly believe that some of the WBT take titles, trophies and wins entirely too seriously.)

The one person I know who exposes TRUE shade is Icon Jack Mizrahi (@gorgeousjack) and after searching his youtube channel found the PERFECT example of exactly what I mean. Below is a video taped by Jack at Ashley Icon's 2009 Ball in NYC. Even if you have no idea who these people are or understand the story behind the disagreements, you have to notice one thing: they've said their peace in each other's face AND MOVED ON without incident.

After watching this video and seeing the maturity, even with angered, the mainstream scene has in terms of discrepencies, perhaps you will rethink your choice of getting upset about a comment or action at a function. Truly it isn't that serious.

Roll that beautiful bean footage... (I couldnt help myself. Hee hee)

Any comments? I'd love to read them...

xoxo
Roxi