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	<description>Getting Past Your Breakup and Becoming The Best Person You Can Be!</description>
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		<title>More on Control</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received a few emails that had &#8220;I want to control&#8221; all over them.  So I&#8217;m rerunning the control post
Had I been present at the creation, I would have given some useful hints for the better ordering of the universe. - Alfonso the Wise
One of the most challenging parts of living a healthy life [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Saturdays in the Park…every day’s the 4th of July</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2008 23:27:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I had a nice 4th. I spent the 4th with the ex in-laws.  
My ex and I were high school sweethearts so I know these people from way back when.  I did not see much of them when the kids were still visiting him and then we lost touch when the kids and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Didn’t know that I didn’t know</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2008 20:47:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cat asked for some of the posts that talk about I didn&#8217;t know that I didn&#8217;t know. Cat, if these aren&#8217;t what you&#8217;re thinking of, let me know.  Thanks.
http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2007/07/19/719-tftd-on-experience/
http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2007/05/19/519-tftd-on-difficult-people/

http://gettingpastyourpast.wordpress.com/2008/01/24/the-abusive-and-semi-abusive-relationship/
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		<title>07/06/08 Check in Thread</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2008 12:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[How is everyone doing this week???
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		<title>Learning to Learn</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2008 12:57:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Edited post from 12/06
&#8220;I am always ready to learn, although I do not always like being taught.&#8221;  - Winston Churchill

When I first started my journey toward wholeness, I spent a lot of time wishing that someone would feel sorry for me, take pity on me, see that I had been through a lot.
My first [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Using Tools As Weapons</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 05 Jul 2008 04:52:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wrote a post called &#8220;Using Tools As Weapons&#8221; when the blog was only a few weeks old so perhaps many of you haven&#8217;t seen it but some of the comment discussion reminded me of it.  
Before I post it I&#8217;d like to say that a lot of people like to play at recovery [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Asking the Right Question leads to Doing the Right Thing</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 13:01:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently received an email from a person who has decided to be friends with her ex in the hopes of him getting over &#8220;whatever it is&#8221; (her words, not mine) to resume their relationship.  He comes over and talks about new women he&#8217;s seeing and sometimes they sleep together.  Her question was: [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Am not sure about getting over it</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 00:05:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last summer I posted a post called &#8220;I&#8217;m not getting over it.&#8221; after I received mail from people who say to me, &#8220;I&#8217;m not getting over it.  Is it possible to not get over something?&#8221;  
Recently I&#8217;ve spoken to a lot of people who aren&#8217;t serious ABOUT getting over it.  They might [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Women’s Retreat Registration Open</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 21:50:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[An overnight retreat in a peaceful setting in Briarcliff Manor New York on November 15, 2008 where we will explore women&#8217;s issues in relationships, out of relationships, in life and love.  This is absolutely limited to 12 registrants.
We will do grief work, anger work, talk about families of origin, mothering, daughtering, sistering, read and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Obsession Redux</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 17:17:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I posted this back in March but noticed a HUGE uptick in the hits this post is receiving as well as a few questions in email so I thought I would repost it here.

Obsession is typically defined as recurrrent, intrusive thoughts.  It&#8217;s ruminating and thinking over and over again about situations that you can&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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