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Make Your Travel Dreams a Reality

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 16:23:00 +0000

Let’s face it: your to do list is long, your priorities are many, and as much as you’d like to travel a bit more, it feels like a goal pretty out of reach. I’ve got one thing you can do to make those travel dreams a little closer to a reality: start a journal.

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It doesn’t have to be anything fancy nor does it have to be a travel journal per se, though I do highly recommend the Abroad Travel Organizer/Journal . It just needs to be something small that you can carry around with you so that when you have an empty moment, you can take a 5 minute time out and write in your journal.

Here are four things I’d like you to start writing in it. It doesn’t need to be organized in any special way, but these are the things I want you to start thinking about:

Barriers: What’s getting in the way of having that special travel getaway you’ve been wanting? Is it time or money? Get it down on paper so that you can look at it objectively. Even if it is something serious that you can’t get around, such as an illness or disability, there are always options, such as a smaller trip not so far away.
Experiences: What kinds of experiences do you crave? Don’t think about destinations just yet. Do you want to relax in the sun and do nothing all day, or do you want to hike a mountain and get some fresh air? This is the time to get specific – whether it is spicy food or you want a hotel with a claw foot bathtub.
Others: Ask your children or your partner to doodle a few thoughts of their own. What kind of experiences do they want to have? If they are different than yours, that’s fine, but you need to keep that in mind when choosing a destination. If they’re the same, awesome!
Destinations: Ok, this one is the easy one, especially after you’ve done the previous task. Are there places you speak the language and have always wanted to practice, or locales that just fill you with passion and vigor? Write ‘em down.

Now Make It Happen

Once you have things on paper, start making some tiny, tiny steps to making those travel dreams a reality. For each of those barriers, what can you do now to get rid of them?

If it’s money, how about starting a tip jar and asking everyone to contribute as often as they can? What can you cut for a few months to save some pennies?
If it’s time, then ask yourself the hard question: what’s the worst that could happen if I disappeared for a week or two? The world will continue to rotate on its axis, I assure you.

I’m not saying that if you start a travel journal that tomorrow you’ll be sailing in the Caribbean worry-free. What I am saying though is that if you put your travel desires in black and white and start taking an objective look at what is standing in between you and those dreams, you can figure out how to make them a travel reality. Broaden your horizons and see a bit more of the world: get a travel journal.

Andy Hayes is the Managing Editor of Sharing Travel Experiences, a popular online travel magazine. Check out their extensive travel resources for everything you need to make your next trip rich, more authentic, and experiential.

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Guest Post: Mommy Organizing Tips by Stacey Crew

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 15:25:00 +0000

As moms, we all know that we wind up at the bottom of the priority list. I’m preaching to the choir when I say “remember to make time for you!” But in all seriousness, it’s important to do just that. Here are some organizing tips to help you get time for you!

Sunday Strategy

· Take at least 30 minutes to an hour to plan out the week.
· Review the family calendar to see what’s on the schedule for the coming week.
· Make a list of things you need to buy and shop for them at the beginning of the week. This will save oodles of time.
· Sign permission slips, write checks for activities, arrange car pool, if necessary, and get the dreaded laundry done.
· Choose your outfits and your children’s for the week.

Not having to “deal” with these things on-the-fly will help reduce your stress and create space to enjoy a cup of coffee or tea along the way.

Prepare the night before …

As simple as it sounds, waking up to an empty sink and a freshly brewed pot of coffee can be the start of a great day! Taking the time in the evening will make your morning run smooth. Here are some tips for making mornings manageable:

· Set the breakfast table
· Have diaper bag and/or book bags near the exit door
· Make lunches or set out lunch money

Secret Stash

If you’re like most moms, you spend a lot of time in the car. It is your home-away-from-home, your office on wheels, your mission control. Maintaining an organized car is an important part of reducing your daily stress. Keep what I call a “Mom Sanity Saver” on hand, which includes the following:

· Extra change of clothing—Ever had a baby spit up on you? I’m afraid it will happen, so make sure you’re prepared by keeping an extra shirt on hand in your car.
· Ziploc® bags can be a lifesaver! Whether it’s a dirty diaper and nowhere to dispose of it or a messy spill and you need a place to put a dirty shirt, sealing up the soiled material will keep the smell from wafting through your vehicle.
· Pair of sneakers—You never know when you’ll have a chance to take a walk in the park or just give your feet a rest from those trendy boots you’ve been trudging around in all day.
· Bottled water and snacks, including energy bars for mom—These items can be lifesavers if you don’t have time for breakfast or when you pick up kids from school and all they can say is, “I’m hungry!”
· Folder to place current paperwork to have on hand when running errands (not papers you need to file or coupons that you might use someday).

By Stacey Crew, Mom of 2, Organizing Expert, and Author of The Organized Mom, available online and at booksellers everywhere. www.staceycrew.com.

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Glamajama Rocks JCPenney with Exclusive Line of Hip Baby Clothes

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 00:20:00 +0000

Sooo excited to be able to share this news! Glamajama is coming to a JCPenney near you! I stopped by my local JCP and shot this video to give you guys a sneak peek. The boys pieces are in stores now and the girls pieces will be arriving in March. The line is also available online at JCP.com.

Click here to shop.

(psst...you can also enter your zip code to find a store close to you!)

I truly appreciate your help spreading the word! Please feel free to re-tweet, share on Facebook, tell your friends and family...you name it! This has been a dream come true and I couldn't have done it without you! *hugs*

All the Best,

Young Einstein’s: Raising Kids to Think Big, Really BIG.

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 16:40:00 +0000

One of the greatest lessons I share with my kids is challenging them to think big. The world needs less sheep and more leaders. Big thinkers that can help drive new theories for cleaner living, stronger morals, and innovative technologies that will help us live better. While I don’t have a clue on how to teach them physics, bio-engineering, or even how to program the clock on the microwave, I do know how to teach them to think outside of the box.

One sly trick I use with the kids to encourage them to think big is creative problem solving. I think the universe agrees with me on this one, because it’s constantly giving me new material to work with. It’s amazingly effective. For example, we go to McDonald’s for hot chocolate and the perfectly annoyed teenager chimes back, “No. It’s broke.” My five year old daughter doesn’t skip a beat and pipes back, “Oh, okay…well, you have chocolate milk over there…can you just heat that up and put whipped topping and sprinkles on it? Please?” Oh yeah. I am grinning ear to ear mouthing to myself, “Boo-ya! That’s my girl!” Of course, she’s naturally sharp as a tack, but I think Mommy had at least a little bit to do with it.

Ever since the kids first started talking I’ve encouraged them to think through their own problems, ideas, and theories. If they had a question, they knew Mom would have one too. “Why do cows have milk?” was answered with a “Why do you think cows have milk?” After a few stabs at the answer we’d consult the encyclopedia for clarification. Their early understandings of the world were vibrant brainstorming sessions instead of dull brainwashing sessions. I didn’t teach them what to think, but instead how to think. Maybe I’m wrong, but I figure they will be inundated with plenty of information, facts, and formulas during their school careers. They don’t need that from me. What they need is a role model who encourages them to create their own solutions. An advocate that gives them the confidence needed to dare to build a better mouse trap. And at times, a drill sergeant that can show tough love as I push them to be brave in their intellect.

As the poor kid at McDonald’s consults with his manager on how to answer my little girl, my mind wanders. I daydream about her sitting at the head of a biotech firm announcing they’ve discovered the cure for cancer or her changing the lives of autistic children with her innovative education strategies. I may not know where her big thinking will take her, but I do know it will indeed take her places. As her Mom, I will have plenty of questions to fuel her fire along the way.

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Playful Parenting: How to Raise Stark Raving Mad Kids

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 03:38:00 +0000

I absolutely adore being a Mom for countless reasons. One of which is the fact that my kids keep me young at heart. So young that I’ll probably be the crazy grandma singing karaoke at my granddaughter’s Sweet 16. I’m just giving everyone fair warning. While I’ve got a couple years to work on my karaoke act, I do give other performances on a regular basis. These performances aren’t about applause, but more about nonstop giggles and pleas of, “Mom, stop! I’m gonna pee my pants!” One of my masterpieces is a number I call being “sneaky snakes.”

Judging from the awkward glances I got this weekend, I’m guessing not everyone knows about being “sneaky snakes”. For those who don’t know, let me explain the crazy, inner workings of my mind. This occurs on random nights of good behavior when I get the kiddos to bed on time. I sneak back into their rooms and whisper, “Who wants to be sneaky snakes?” After a trio of hushed “Me! Me! Me!” shouts, the kids slide out of bed and tip toe to the door in their PJ’s, no shoes, and best behavior. “Sneaky snakes” isn’t about going to Sonic for ice cream, it’s a special ops routine for securing treats past enemy lines (read: bed times). The kids are giddy with excitement as they follow the rules: inside the car with windows up is the safe talking zone, you must be ready for bed, and incredibly sneaky at all times since no one can see you in your PJ’s. If you fail your mission, “they” will get you and steal your ice cream. And we simply can’t risk that!

I do this a couple times a month with the kids and it never gets old. To see the serious looks on their faces and their extravagant schemes to avoid detection, you would think the military should be calling. Of course they know that “mommy’s kidding” about the whole ordeal, but no one in this Soccer Mom’s SUV will admit that out loud. Between homework, chores, and schedules, we live in the real world enough.

If you ever meet one of my kids on the playground and they start telling elaborate tales of “sneaky snake” operations, now you know. They’re not imagining things, and neither am I. Being a playful parent to three stark raving mad kids is about as real as it gets.

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Moms Have Superpowers, But What's Our Kryptonite?

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 17:18:00 +0000

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We live in an imperfect world. The “fast lane” isn’t always fast, the 10 items or less line at the grocery store is full of cheaters, and our kids don’t always “know better.” It’s a mad, mad world. What always amazes me is the speed and grace that Moms exhibit as they navigate all these hidden gotchas. Your baby sitter calls in sick 30 minutes before your big business proposal? No problem, plan B is on its way. Your little one catches a nasty stomach virus the day before the family trip? Mommy can fix it.

Moms have many superpowers, but I think one of our greatest is the ability to make the most ridiculous and impossible situations seem completely normal and effortless. We do this purely for the greater “good”, not recognition, praise, or even a pair of Jimmy Choo’s. As Moms, our needs are simple. All we want is safe, secure kids that are full of life and bursting with confidence to tackle the world in all its glory. To know that as we nurture these small minds they will grow to become great minds. Great minds that are full of possibility and purpose and will help make our world a better place.

It’s easy to lose sight of that big picture as we get caught up in the details of everyday life. Instead of feeling proud, I feel guilty for forgetting to pack an extra juice box for snack time, not having the energy to walk the dog, or for letting a DVD teach my three year old the alphabet. These are the voices of “mom guilt” that sneak into our thoughts as we strive for perfection each day. As Moms with superpowers, this is surely our kryptonite.

To help defend against “mom guilt”, I’ve made a simple change. Instead of focusing on all the “things” I need to do to make it a productive day, I now focus on all the “moments” that will make it perfect. My “to do” list starts with snuggle time with each kid, teaching my three year old how to catch fireflies, reading with my oldest, and pink manicures with my daughter. When I look back at my day’s accomplishments, missing those things are what will hurt most. These are my true priorities. I can mail the Netflix tomorrow, but I can’t re-live a missed moment with my kids.

This reality is my best defense against mom guilt and I keep my list close. When life’s little surprises threaten to derail my day, I can check my list and see in an instant I did what counts. BIFF! BAM!!! POWW! My superpowers are re-energized and I'm ready for more snuggle time.

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Tip #18: Teaching our Daughters the Power of Beauty and Brains

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 17:06:00 +0000

As a Mother I can’t help but be heartsick and frustrated as I read some of the headlines that pass for “news” these days. I know I sound like the crazy old lady at church preaching about the “good ‘ol days”, but so be it. Whether it’s Heidi Montag making herself bionic, Britney having a very public meltdown, or Paris Hilton selling her soul (and body) to make a name for herself, I can’t help but pity them. I don’t blame them for their shortcomings, I blame their Mothers.

If they had a strong maternal figure in their lives, much of this bad behavior and obvious issues with self-worth could have been avoided. While it could be argued that there are serious mental illnesses in play here, there’s still no excuse. A Mother who loved her daughter would make sure she got the care she needed. She would NOT parade her in front of the tabloids or feed her to the wolves (aka self-serving “agents”, “managers”, etc.) A Mother protects her child-no matter the cost.

I look at my three kids and honestly don’t know who to be more concerned about? My daughter who sees these girls with all their fame and fortune and may deem them as role models? Or my two boys who will be searching for a normal girl that hasn’t been tainted and jaded by all these false idols? Even at their young ages I can’t help but find myself having conversations with them about the importance of self-respect, letting their uniqueness empower them, that you don’t always get second chances….do the right thing the first time. Even tonight, I sit next to my daughter helping her on her homework. She giggles with each correct answer. I congratulate her and she responds, “See Mom?? Beauty and Brains!” I squeeze her tight, grateful that she has listened to me.

“Beauty might get you through the door, but your brains are what get you a seat at the table.”, as I preach those words I can’t help but wonder if Britney’s, Heidi’s, or Paris’s Mom ever said those words to them when they were young, innocent, and impressionable. I wonder where they would be today if they had. While I don’t know those answers, I do know I sleep better at night knowing that I did. And do.

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Tip #17: Which Diets Can Make You Look Older?

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:18:00 +0000

I’ve never liked the idea of “diets.” As a lifelong fan of fitness, I just don’t believe in quick fixes. If you want to look healthy, have a great body, and the endurance to keep up with the busy life of a Mom, you need to eat nutrient rich food and exercise. Period. The BIG secret is simply burning more calories than you take in.

While I could go on for hours about all the negative side effects of unnecessarily restricting your foods, I have one in particular I’d like to address. Diets can make you look old. You might lose a couple pounds for that weekend trip, but you can also dehydrate your body, create a sullen complexion, and add more fine lines than Mother Nature intended. If "looking better" is your motivation for dieting in the first place, I'm sure these aren't the side effects you're looking for. That being said, there are diets that can actually improve your skin's appearance and help minimize fine lines as well. I've broken down several of the most popular diets below to help explain how they effect your skin and which ones are best for your overall health.

Atkins Diet
Typically known as a low carb, high fat diet.

The Scoop: Carbohydrates help provide our bodies with glucose which is necessary for glycogen production. Without enough glycogen in our bodies, we can become dehydrated which worsens fine lines and irritates our overall skin condition. Glycogen is also a vital nutrient for keeping our muscles and tissues healthy, without it our skin can become saggy and sullen. Low carb diets are also a common source of breakouts and weakened immunity.

Solution: Never completely eliminate anything from your diet, just pick a healthier option. Instead of eating processed carbohydrates that are high on the glycemic index ("white" carbs), switch to healthier whole grain options. Also, monitor your portions....that bagel could actually be two servings.

Vegan Diet
Diet without any animal byproducts, mostly fruits, vegetables, grains, beans, nuts, etc

The Scoop: Many people enjoy this diet simply because they feel "lighter" since there's no heavy foods to digest and it seems "healthy." However, the diet isn't healthy. It lacks the calcium, omega-3 fatty acids, and various other vitamins and minerals our bodies require to function properly. Supplementation can help offset some of these effects, but they're not the same as consuming a well-balanced diet. The lack of protein in the diet will also leave your skin sagging, sallow, and dull. Meat-based proteins are more beneficial for fueling your body's cellular production needs.

Solution: Pay careful attention to properly supplementing your diet and consider adding small quantities of meat-based proteins to your diet.

Zone Diet
Balanced diet consisting of 30% protein, 30% fat, and 40% carbohydrates

The Scoop: This diet was created with the thinking that our metabolism needs to be "retooled" to optimize its function. According to Dr. Sears the optimum formula for achieving a healthy metabolism is 30% protein, 30% fat, and 40% carbohydrates. He argues that we don't need to cut back on calories, just re-adjust where we are spending those calories. This particular diet is praised for its moderate approach to healthy eating and doesn't seem to pose any ill effects to our skin and complexion. If anything, your skin might improve since there is more awareness placed on balanced eating.

Solution: None needed, great program for encouraging healthy eating that benefits our complexions.

Mediterranean Diet
Focus is on healthy fats and proteins found in fish, grains, vegetables, and nuts found in the eating habits of people in Italy, Greece, and France.

The Scoop: The diet is praised for its emphasis on omega-3 rich foods, portion control, and the adoption of healthy fats into daily eating habits. The diet is not overly restrictive and even allows for a glass of wine here and there. The diet can do wonders for your skin as well. Healthy oils such as olive oil are good for hydrating you on both the inside and out. Your skin will be hydrated and plump which can help minimize and conceal fine lines.

Solution: The diet is healthy and good for your skin. The only potential downside is consuming too much of the good stuff such as oils, cheese, and wine can cause weight gain. Keep a close eye on portions and use those ingredients in moderation.

If you're looking to shave off a couple years from your appearance, I would suggest taking notes from The Zone and Mediterranean diets. They are solid "eating guidelines" that will help you achieve a well-balanced diet, portion control, and a strong foundation for a healthy lifestyle.

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Tip #16: Motherhood Brings Out the Best (and Worst) in Us

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 00:49:00 +0000

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As Moms, we are often our own worst enemies. While motherhood can bring out our more endearing qualities such as selflessness, adoration, and servitude. It can also bring out less favorable qualities such as self-doubt, guilt, and feelings of helplessness. We want our kids to have the world at their finger tips. All too often we are willing to sacrifice ourselves to help accomplish that. Our lives are no longer our own. The new priority is nurturing our little one with everything that is good and wholesome. While this is a noble task, it is often fraught with frustration, guilt, and at its worse-depression.

So where did it all go wrong? Ever hear the saying, “If mama ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy”. Let’s just say there’s some truth to it. You can’t raise a happy, emotionally stable, confident child if you yourself aren’t happy. To put it simply, if you want a happy child, you must be a happy Mom. Seems easy enough, huh? It is. At least until you factor in that nasty little devil called “mom guilt”. This little guy whispers in our ears that a solo trip to the grocery store counts as “me” time, that we must wear sneakers 24/7 in case our six week old sprouts wings, and that you need vocal training to sing nursery rhymes. (Feel free to blame him for still wearing your maternity clothes and flip flops to baby’s six month check up as well. I’m sure he had something to do with it.)

So what's the morale of the story? Motherhood isn't about being the real life June Cleaver, it's about loving your little one without abandon and promising to always give your best. To give your best, you must make sure you're at your best. Take care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally. It just might be the best thing you can do for your child.

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Tip # 15: Not Happy? Ditch Your Friends.

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 17:04:00 +0000

Jim Rohn is best known for his classic observation,

"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with."

While you can always argue the details, his reasoning is sound. We are directly affected by our environment. This "environment" includes our overly pessimistic best friend, nagging mother-in-law, and maybe even our depressed neighbor. Day in and day out these factors can weigh us down and contribute to our own feelings of helplessness, insecurity, or apprehension. I urge you to break the cycle.

Take a moment today to sit down with pen and paper and jot down the top five people you spend your most time with. Next to each name write down why you love them and what POSITIVE things they bring to your life. Try to answer the question, "Having this person in my life makes me happier because..."

Once you've finished the exercise, review all your comments. Is there someone you had trouble finding answers for? If so, you may need to think twice about that relationship. We all have a right to be happy and it's our responsibility to attain it. This requires making tough decisions about our lives, but true happiness is always worth the temporary unrest.

"Don't just pursue happiness, create it."

(one of the best fortune cookies I 've ever opened! ;))

Tip #14: The Eyes Have It...Tips for a Quick and Easy Smokey Eye

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 01:26:00 +0000

Smoky eyes are all the rage this season. While the look appears effortless, it's actually a little tricky to pull off. I came across a great "how to" video for an easy approach to trying this sexy and smoky eye makeup trend.
Once you get a hang of it, the look is quite versatile. Use neutral shadows for a soft day look, and go bold in the evening for a more dramatic, sexy look.

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Tip # 13: Be Fearless. Embrace the Makeover!

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 19:24:00 +0000

I can write this one from the heart. I took the "New Year, New You" philosophy to hair extremes and used it as a fun excuse to cut 10 inches of my trademark long, blond hair. I had been playing around with the idea for months and finally worked up enough courage to take the leap last week. While I can honestly say I still don't recognize myself, I'm thrilled that I did it! I think too many times we get stuck in "fashion ruts" and settle for "good enough." Break free this year and challenge yourself to embrace change. You just might end up with a new favorite!

Need some inspiration? Check out Daily Makeover. I'm a HUGE fan of the site and it helped me find my ideal cut. (Jennie McCarthy's bob)

Here's the Daily Makeover transformation that started it all:

Planning a makeover? I'd love to see it! ;)

Tip #12: Hate Razor Burn? How to Beat the BUMPS

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 16:21:00 +0000

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I don't think there is anything more annoying than razor burn, especially after I'm already annoyed by the fact I have to shave my legs in the first place. I simply don't have the patience for it! Needless to say, laser hair removal is at the top of my list for 2010. In the meantime, here's some great tips to help keep eyes on your cute little red skirt and not your red razor burn.

Prevent:

Always shave in warm water, preferably at the end of your shower...hair will be easier to remove since it has had time to soften and the hair follicles are relaxed
Use shave gel and a fresh razor, change them often and steer clear of the 10 packs for $1...you get what you pay for! (clean razors between shaves using alcohol to keep them bacteria free)
Shave in the direction of hair growth, not the opposite. While it might seem like you can get a closer shave by going against the grain, you're risking razor burn and cuts.
If you're prone to razor burn make exfoliating a daily routine, it cleans pores and lifts the hair follicles which helps keep irritation to a minimum

Treat:

Soothe redness after shaving by sprinkling on baby powder
Use an drugstore cure for razor bumps (Tend Skin is the best in the biz)
Apply calendula cream immediately after shaving to calm irritation naturally
Make a paste of two regular strength aspirin and warm water, pat onto irritation and leave for 30 seconds, rinse thoroughly

Have any tips to share? Would love to hear them!

Tip #11: Make Your Shape Sizzle! Shop for the Perfect Fit Online

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 04:12:00 +0000

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Beauty is all about the art of flaunting your best assets while minimizing those not so great ones. One of the best tools for accomplishing this is simply knowing how to dress for your shape. So what is your shape and what should you wear?

Eliminate the guesswork and sign up at MyShape for a custom fitting. After entering in a multitude of measurements you will be assigned a shape profile and have the opportunity to create a custom web shop based on your shape, style preference, and brand tastes. The website is amazingly thorough and features great brands like 7 for All Mankind, Tracy Reese, BCBG, Betsey Johnson, and Calvin Klein. You can order your personalized selections directly on the website and they offer great coupon discounts to get you started.

MyShape is your online personal stylist without the hefty price tag! Happy Shopping!

Tip #10: How to Determine Your Skintone (the easy way)

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 02:06:00 +0000

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One the keys to looking great is making sure your hair color and make-up actually compliment your natural skintone. Skintone is typically classified as being either warm, cool, or neutral. There are several tips for determining which one you are, but they can be a little confusing. Especially if its been a while since you've actually seen your real hair color or can't determine if you "tan easily". Solve the mystery by standing in good natural light, and take a peek at the veins on the inside of your elbow. If they have a greenish tint, you have a warm complexion. If you have a bluish tint, your complexion is cool. If you can't determine a blue or green tint, you're safe going with a neutral shade.

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Tip #9: No More Excuses! 5 Tips for a Romantic Valentine's Day

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 16:21:00 +0000

Valentine's is just around the corner. This year, leave the excuses behind and make it the special day you've always dreamed of. No more should of, would of, could of...just do it!

Dress the Part
Whether you're looking for romance, glam, or just a simple little black dress...we've got the look! All items available at Forever21 for one-stop shopping, what could be sweeter?

featuring Forever21

Items in this set:
Ruffled Wrap Dress, $25
Strapless Double Knit Dress, $12
Lace Trim Chiffon Top, $20
Drawstring Slub Cardigan, $20
Cropped Faux Fur Shrug, $23

Set the Mood
Instead of focusing on just the day itself, why not make it a week long celebration of your love? Spend each night getting to bed early for extra snuggle time, slip love letters in your spouse's lunch/briefcase/gym bag, or even a rose a day with small "Why I love you..." note attached to each stem? The possibilities are endless, just start thinking about them NOW.

Make the Date
Get your reservations NOW at your favorite restaurant, get the babysitter lined up, and maybe squeeze in a couples massage for the day as well. The time is now to get everything planned so when the big day gets closer you can just focus on enjoying the moment (not begging for a 10pm dinner reservation.) Not in the mood for going out? Plan a special night in with maybe a dessert carryout from your favorite restaurant, a special table arrangement, plenty of fresh flowers, and reminiscence all night watching the movie from your first date.

Unplug It All
This SHOULD be a no-brainer, but we're so wired these days its easy to forget. Step back and embrace the time you two shared before Twitter, Facebook, and 24/7 emails. Stop being connected to the world and just focus on being connected to each other.

Make it Last
Valentine's Day is a great reminder to celebrate love, but don't let it end there. Re-dedicate yourself to romance this year and promise to take time each day to do sweet nothings for your significant other. It can be simple tokens of love such as texting them a love note, emailing a pic of you blowing a kiss, or making a ketchup heart to go with their french fires at dinner. Big or small, serious or playful...do something.

Love is a precious thing, make nurturing it your life's work.

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Tip # 8: How to Cure a Bad Mood

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Sat, 09 Jan 2010 17:15:00 +0000

Let's face it, we all have bad days. Whether it's a sick kid, grumpy boss, or just one too many rainy days we can all get a case of the "blahs". Turn that frown upside down by grabbing a cup of coffee and watching a couple of these adorable videos. I guarantee, you'll be smiling in no time! ;)

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Tip #7: Get Schooled! 5 Tips For Sexy Hair (by Tonight!)

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 00:03:00 +0000

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1. Get Healthy
Nothing is sexier than touchably soft hair with lots of bounce. Give your hair a healthy pick me up by washing with a tea tree shampoo that will strip out impurities and then deep condition with a vitamin rich conditioner. My personal favorite is TERAX CREMA, it can transform hair in one wash and won't weigh it down.

2. Get Highlights
No need to schedule a hair appointment, you can do this on the cheap. All you need is a couple highlights that frame your face to create a come hither look that guarantees extra kisses. Pick up a boxed highlighting kit, like Garnier Nutrisse Nourishing Multi-Lights Highlighting Kits. (PS...only mix as much as you need...keep the rest for a later date!)

3. Get Tousled
No matter your hairstyle, nothing screams sexy like a slightly messed up style. The subtle suggestion of bed head hair can help get the imagination going with your significant other. Simply style your hair as normal, but leave a little bit unkept. A slight tease at the nape or maybe tie it back on a sloppy low sitting bun. Need some extra volume? Get waves and soft curls by setting hair with large rollers or even braiding damp hair and letting it air dry. Have fun with it!

4. Get Fresh
Is your hair limp and lifeless by the time Happy Hour rolls around? Fix it fast with dry shampoo. Spray this quick fix at the roots and you'll recapture your bounce in minutes. My favorite is Klorane Dr y Shampoo . Loaded with oat extract and B5, it gives lift without drying your hair out.

5. Get Shining
Hair that glistens just begs to be touched. If your hair isn't naturally shiny, feel free to cheat a little with a couple of spritzes of shine spray. This tip is a great staple for any fashionista as it serves double duty as a cure for frizz and will leave your hair smelling fantastic. If you're looking for one that works as a daily conditioner to boot, check out Biosilk Shine On Spray.

Tip #6: Don’t Let Winter Steal Your Sunshine! How to Prevent Dry Skin.

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 17:04:00 +0000

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Exfoliate

Exfoliate to keep skin looking fresh. Dry skin can look flaky and dull leaving your make-up looking caked on which will age you considerably. Take the time to exfoliate at least weekly or semi-weekly depending on your skin type. Olay has a great system that won’t set you back too much here . Also, don’t forget your lips, rub a little baking soda on a soft toothbrush and gently exfoliate for softer lips.

Moisturize

After exfoliating, your skin will be ready to soak up all the goodness in your moisturizer. Look for moisturizers that contain ingredients such as milk, jojoba oil, grape seed, almond oil, or olive oil. Just make sure you choose a daily moisturizer with at least SPF20 to help combat the skin damage that can happen regardless of the season. Your night moisturizer needs to fit your skin type, but opt for creamier formulas that typically provide more moisture.

Prevent

Winter weather typically means heaters will be running non-stop indoors. While these are great for keeping you warm and toasty they’re notorious for drying out skin and hair. You may be warm, but your skin will be parched and your hair full of static and brittle. Counteract these negatives by investing in a good humidifier for at least the bedroom where you’ll spend most of your time at night. You’ll wake up refreshed!

More quick tips:

Drink up! Water will keep your body hydrated. Check out this nifty calculator to find out how much you should drink.

Opt for lukewarm showers and baths, if the temperature is too hot it’ll dry your skin even more.

Always apply body lotion immediately after taking a bath or shower, it’ll lock in the moisture. (My current fav is Vaseline Sheer Infusion Body Lotion, it's not greasy, affordable, and keeps my skin soft all day-love it!

Consider using a creamy foundation, blush, and lipstick. They “plump” your skin instead of settling into fine lines the way powder based cosmetics can.

Check your bath soap. Certain brands can be very drying, especially if they’re “antibacterial”. Be sure to read the label! (PS...you can't beat Aveeno Body Wash when it comes to soothing dry skin.)

Have any tips to share? I'd love to hear them!

Tip #5, Fix the Buddha Belly you got from the Buddha Delight...

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 23:12:00 +0000

Ever over-indulge on chinese food and end up feeling, well, pleasantly plump? Sodium and MSG rich foods are notorious for causing water retention and can leave you miserable and bloated. Want a quick fix? Eat a banana and drink (2) 8 oz glasses of water. The banana is chocked full of potassium which will naturally pull the excess sodium out of your body and the water will help you flush it out. This is also a great little trick for those nights out on the town when you don't want to rely on Spanx alone! ;)

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365 Glam Ways in 365 Glam Days

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:03:00 +0000

2010 is upon us and like many of you, I am thankful for the fresh start! I’m looking forward to starting the New Year with a new sense of purpose, re-awakened appreciation for the little things, and a better understanding of my own needs. One thing I’ve had to finally admit to myself is that I simply don’t have the time to take the day off, read a book uninterrupted, or even have a regular lunch date once a week. I do, however, have small snip-its of time each day that I can steal away for some much needed stress relief, pampering, or meditation. So instead of letting stress overwhelm me until I feel a breakdown coming on, my New Year resolution is to try a new approach. Instead of aiming for the impossible, aim for the possible.

With this new thinking, came a new idea for glamtalk. I know I’m not alone in my struggle to find balance and wanted a fun way to encourage all of us Moms to take a moment each day to rejuvenate, refocus, and reenergize. So, without further ado, I’m announcing the launch of 365 Glam Ways in 365 Days. Each day I will post a new glam tip for stress relief, life hacks, fitness, health, or beauty. These tips will not only come from me, but from other Moms just like you wanting to share the lessons they’ve learned over the years. In the true sense community, it’s all about Moms helping Moms.

If you’d like to share an idea, please comment or contact me directly heather (at) glamajama.com.

Also, be sure to subscribe to the glamtalk newsletter to make sure your daily dose of bliss is hand delivered!

Here's to a prosperous and glam New Year!

All the Best,

Amazing day with the kiddos at Sea World!

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 03:56:00 +0000

My New Year's Resolution #4...to not miss a moment to make my kiddos smile! ;)

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Remember our Troops this Christmas...

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 14:57:00 +0000

This time of year is always especially hard for our troops overseas. Xerox is sponsoring a great program to help us say "Thanks!" and I wanted to share. Just click on the link below and you can send a printed card to help lift their spirits and let them know they're in our hearts!

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Christmas at Rockefeller Center NYC

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Mon, 14 Dec 2009 17:44:00 +0000

Not the best weather...BUT the tree was gorgeous! ;)

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Glam Beauty: Superfoods for Better Skin

noreply@blogger.com (Heather Nolte) — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:13:00 +0000

We all know the saying, "you are what you eat." It turns out it's more fact than fiction. What we put into our bodies has a direct effect on our overall physical well being. This is especially true with our complexion and skin in general. If you want to put your best face forward, try incorporating these super foods into your daily diet for better skin.

Blueberries: Loaded with powerful antioxidants such as reservatol, they can actually help prevent sun damage. Sun damage is often the culprit in the premature breakdown of collagen that causes sagging, fine lines, and wrinkles. Blueberries have also been shown to reduce the effects of age related memory loss in clinical studies, click here for the study.

Bananas: Full of more than just potassium, bananas are a great source of melatonin. While melatonin has gotten the most notoriety for its qualities as a sleep aid., it is also a feisty antioxidant. It helps fight the damage and premature aging effects caused by free radicals such as pollution and stress.

Cucumbers: These cool and crispy vegetables are high in silica. Silica has been proven to defend skin against inflammation which causes redness, acne, and irritation. They are also beneficial in counteracting the dehydrating effects of alcohol and caffeine. Add a couple of slices to your salad to balance out that latte.

Broccoli: A long time favorite of Moms across the world, broccoli is also a lifesaver when it comes to keeping Mom looking young. Broccoli is full of the dynamic duo vitamins C and E, which join forces to repair damaged skin. Pairing these two superheroes boosts their skin repairing abilities and helps knock out the damage caused by free radicals.

Peanut Butter: Forget the beauty myth of soaking nails in gelatin, if you want strong nails and hair all you need to do is eat a couple PB and J’s with the kiddos. Peanut butter is chocked full of biotin which helps strengthen hair and nails. A deficiency is often the cause of dry and brittle hair and nails that are prone to breakage.

Walnuts: As we enter the winter season, our skin takes a beating from the elements outside and inside as heaters suck out what little moisture we had left. Help counteract those effects by snacking on oily foods such as walnuts. A handful a day will help protect your skin from becoming dry and tight during the cold months.

Instead of always relying on high priced creams and cosmetics, maybe give Mother Nature a shot with your skincare? It’s just a simple detour from the department store to the grocery store. Load up on these super foods for beauty and your skin will thank you!