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		<title>Welcome to Grace App</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Jun 2023 07:24:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Teach Yourself to introduce Grace App for picture communication.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Nov 2019 20:39:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Lisa]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Grace App Workshop is online to take whenever it suits you. That includes the middle of the night when you might finally have a minute to yourself. Log in, take it in stages and go back to it whenever you want to refresh. Its me talking and demonstrating in a video with inserts of... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/teach-yourself-to-introduce-grace-app-for-picture-communication/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Grace App Workshop is <a href="https://cattsireland.com/onlinetraining/lisa-domican">online</a> to take whenever it suits you. That includes the middle of the night when you might finally have a minute to yourself. Log in, take it in stages and go back to it whenever you want to refresh.<span id="more-1377"></span></p>
<p>Its me talking and demonstrating in a video with inserts of the actual app.</p>
<h3 id="yui_3_17_2_1_1467192760739_5175">When you complete the <b>Grace App training</b> you will learn:</h3>
<p>1. “Everybody Communicates” and how to identify what your learner is already very interested in communicating, and get ready to set up Grace App”</p>
<p>2. Finding, taking, creating and installing the pictures that you will need to engage the learner and show them how to communicate with Grace App</p>
<p>3. Using Grace App as a personalised tool to teach functional communication that has meaning for the learner.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you have any questions, I&#8217;m available to contact via my Facebook page, email and twitters.</p>
<p>@graceapp</p>
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<div>Facebook:  Lisa Maree Domican Living With Autism</div>
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<div>and email:  lisa@graceapp.com</div>
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		<title>Book Lisa for Autism and Grace App training</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Sep 2019 11:13:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Lisa is co-creator of Grace App and mother of Liam and Gracie Domican who both have autism. As a parent, Lisa has had 14 years experience of raising her children with autism and has been attending courses and studying evidence based interventions for the last 10 years. As a mother, Lisa fought to understand her... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/book-lisa-for-autism-and-grace-app-training/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lisa is co-creator of Grace App and mother of Liam and Gracie Domican who both have autism. As a parent, Lisa has had 14 years experience of raising her children with autism and has been attending courses and studying evidence based interventions for the last 10 years. As a mother, Lisa fought to understand her initially non-verbal son Liam, and learned to interact with him using the things he liked most. It was the introduction of a simple picture exchange system that prompted Liam to begin imitating and attempting to say the words on the cards he used to make requests.</p>
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<p><span id="more-1373"></span>Having created and launched The Grace App on iTunes in March 2010, Gracie’s personal communication development has improved vastly through consistency of use, and the ability to control her own vocabulary by taking and adding pictures via the app.</p>
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<p>Grace App Workshops are in 2 formats:</p>
<p>The first is presentation style with me at the front of a big room, like a lecture theatre or function room with AV set up.<br />
It lasts for 2 hours* with a half hour for questions. After the first hour I take a break and let people ask for treats with the Grace App.</p>
<p>It works best with a large group. I can plug my iPad in directly to the A/V set up with projector or LCD screen. (Can also mirror with Apple TV)</p>
<p>The second way is &#8220;round table&#8221; For this I bring a few extra iPhones/iPads with me so people can practice while I present. This would require a big screen to mirror my iPad, but I also do this in classrooms where you have interactive white boards or LCD screens.</p>
<p>This enables a group to work through practical issues. Attendees can stop me throughout the presentation to ask specific questions about pupils they may be working with. The plug in screen means that everyone can see what I am demonstrating. Again I stop to let people practice requesting. It takes about 2 hours with 30 minutes for questions too.</p>
<p>Another option is the new schools online training service for SNAs and teachers &#8220;<a href="https://educationnation.ie/lisa-domican/?fbclid=IwAR1-gGN-K2wCxJ8E_3lLuNgYuYVhfwJldzjeJp4Tl_2LBn5lnZYc6y4BSzk">Education Nation</a>&#8221;</p>
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<p>My Grace App training and Autism101 training are in that system, as well as lots of other courses, which would be available to all your school staff for an annual fee. (This option is only open to schools, and has the full online catalogue, so that schools can access and request training that they need, when they need it during the year).</p>
<p>Each course video can also be shown in full screen, which means if you want to link a phone, or laptop to a projector or electronic whiteboard, you can use it to host staff in service days.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>Please take a look at my online training modules <a href="https://cattsireland.com/onlinetraining/lisa-domican/?fbclid=IwAR0eTC9slTY3NvCpGLiMvrvfvpbN5EFYDcaAkpBepctxGo23tLvVmQxAYBo">here:</a> <a href="https://cattsireland.com/onlinetraining/lisa-domican/?fbclid=IwAR0eTC9slTY3NvCpGLiMvrvfvpbN5EFYDcaAkpBepctxGo23tLvVmQxAYBo">CATTS Education Nation </a></p>
<p>When you complete the <b>Grace App training</b> you will learn:</p>
<p>1. The Six Steps to setting up Grace App as an Alternative Augmentative Communication (AAC) system.<br />
Alternative Communication Strategies:<br />
2. Saying No/ and Wait<br />
3. Teaching First, Then<br />
4. Differential Reinforcement<br />
5. Asking for Help (Replacing inappropriate behaviour)<br />
6. Tell me Where it Hurts<br />
7. Shared Attention.</p>
<p>For<b> Autism 101</b>:</p>
<p>• What is Autism?</p>
<p>• Flags for Autism<br />
• Autism as a Sensory Disability<br />
• Techniques that help<br />
• Using Visual Supports<br />
• Motivation and Reinforcement<br />
• Inappropriate Behaviour<br />
• Social Stories</p>
<p>-For question time I demonstrate responses to issues raised, but I also do a problem solving using a Flipchart.</p>
<p>I am happy to present to parents and professionals at the same time (I can be tactful) but no children or clients themselves. I talk about behavioural issues frankly and it isn&#8217;t fair to them.</p>
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<p>For more information or to book a workshop, please email lisa@graceapp.com or to book through CATTs</p>
<p>Joe Morris</p>
<p>Practice Manager</p>
<p>086 467 9292</p>
<p><a role="button" href="https://www.facebook.com/#">jmorris@catts.ie</a></p>
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		<title>Going on Holidays with Autism</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2019 11:10:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Its that time of year again, in the Northern Hemisphere we are all thinking about, planning and hopefully soon going on holidays. As a family with 2 adults with Autism, proper full strength Autism, we have been away as a family almost every year since 2004. I&#8217;ve learned a thing or two and here are... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/going-on-holidays-with-autism/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
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</a>Its that time of year again, in the Northern Hemisphere we are all thinking about, planning and hopefully soon going on holidays.</p>
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<img class="aligncenter wp-image-1339" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/1-300x251.png" alt="" width="402" height="336" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/1-300x251.png 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/1-768x644.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/1.png 940w" sizes="(max-width: 402px) 100vw, 402px" /></a></p>
<p><span id="more-1338"></span>As a family with 2 adults with Autism, proper full strength Autism, we have been away as a family almost every year since 2004. I&#8217;ve learned a thing or two and here are my top tips:</p>
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<p>There is nothing better than walking off the plane and straight through the baggage area to go outside and get in your pre-booked taxi or to collect your hire-car. Being ahead of everyone else means less queuing, less waiting and less stress. You do not need more than you can pack in a cabin sized bag.</p>
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<img class="aligncenter wp-image-1344" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/6-300x251.png" alt="" width="325" height="272" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/6-300x251.png 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/6-768x644.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/6.png 940w" sizes="(max-width: 325px) 100vw, 325px" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I learned after our first holiday when everything else is different, our kids like things to stay the same.</p>
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<p>A big tip on the first visit will ensure the staff will look out for you when you come back. I have literally had a table set up for us when we arrived during a busy time. Going to the same place at the same time each day will help your kids feel more comfortable too. And we always get free cocktails on our last night!</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">This changed everything. Now I&#8217;m free to relax in the cafe without worrying about &#8220;entertaining&#8221; my son. Most places have free wifi for customers but with the EU roaming, we bring our own data package on my mobile phone. My son has logged on and started watching youtube before the waiter even arrives.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/9.png"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-1347" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/9-300x251.png" alt="" width="336" height="281" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/9-300x251.png 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/9-768x644.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/9.png 940w" sizes="(max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px" /></a><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/10.png"><br />
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<p style="text-align: center;">Going on a family holiday with kids with Autism is NOT like taking a gap year to go back packing across Europe!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">You are there for a break. Save the &#8220;new experiences&#8221; for when you travel on your own. Its a big enough change for your kids to be away from home and school. Find a routine, stick to it and enjoy the peace. It will actually make your holiday seem longer!</p>
<p>Its also a good idea to make visuals  to represent each activity you will do each day. Your kids are probably used to that from school and it will give them a sense of control, which reduces anxiety.  <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/grace-4/id360574688?mt=8">Download Grace App</a> and email me for the steps to print and set up a daily schedule to bring along.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/10.png"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-1348" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/10-300x251.png" alt="" width="344" height="288" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/10-300x251.png 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/10-768x644.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/05/10.png 940w" sizes="(max-width: 344px) 100vw, 344px" /></a></p>
<p>It took me a number of years to realise that the reason Gracie wanted to wear her &#8220;Autism School&#8221; teeshirt every day on holiday was because she was anxious about everything else. So I learned to buy 7 identical dresses and 7 identical nighties just let her be. We still bring the &#8220;Autism Tee-shirts&#8221; to wear over swimmers on the way to the pool. They are an easy way to tell everyone who we are and why my adult sized daughter is squealing like a little girl and splashing everyone in her zone.</p>
<p>My son used to watch one movie, every night for the entire 2 weeks, despite the fact that he had packed a very heavy selection of DVDs in a folder in his carry on bag. We must have seen &#8220;Garfield&#8221; 100 times by the time we got home. The following year it was Harry Potter, at least there were 8 films then to have on a permanent loop!</p>
<p>Again it took me several years to realise that he wanted some kind of continuity so I started packing box sets of our favourite tv shows. Now we have a tradition of rewatching all seven seasons of &#8220;Parks and Rec&#8221; every year. I&#8217;ve already bought the box set of 30 rock ready for this year&#8217;s trip. Same characters, same setting, but a few more episodes.  It&#8217;s our holiday thing and it works for all of us.</p>
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<p>This is the world&#8217;s greatest initiative and they have been doing it for years. Dublin Airport Authority have ready made Social Stories to help you prepare for going to the airport and getting through all the steps to getting on to the plane. Go <a href="https://www.dublinairport.com/at-the-airport/passenger-information/special-assistance/autism-asd">here</a> to download. Once you are booked, you can also request a wristband or lanyard that will make it easy for staff to identify you all as a family who needs extra help. Doors will literally open when they see that &#8220;Important Flyer&#8221; card so be sure to get on to the website and get your request in.</p>
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		<title>How to say where it hurts.</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Dec 2017 20:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When my Boo was a little boy and we didn&#8217;t yet know he has autism, he used to get rampant tonsillitis, I would take him to the Doctor, get the antibiotics and then fail hopelessly at getting him to take them (because he was so sensitive to taste and smell) so the infection would escalate... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/how-to-say-where-it-hurts/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When my Boo was a little boy and we didn&#8217;t yet know he has autism, he used to get rampant tonsillitis,</p>
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<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">I would take him to the Doctor, get the antibiotics and then fail hopelessly at getting him to take them (because he was so sensitive to taste and smell) so the infection would escalate into something even stronger and more painful.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Even with this septic mess of a throat, Boo would continue to run around and play until suddenly he would go pale and listless.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">I would take him back to the Doctor only to see him CRINGE as he examined the tonsils and say</div>
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<p>“They are VERY infected” then look at me like I was the worst mother in the world, write a new prescription and say firmly “complete the course” as if I was deliberately neglectful. I eventually found a way to get him to take his medicine (wrapped up in a towel like a cat) but it took a bit longer for me to realise that our kids do not know how to “act sick”</p>
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<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Everybody has a different pain threshold, and Autistic people feel pain to the same degree as anyone else. But they can be incredibly stoic and they need to be taught, step by step to ‘act” like they are in pain.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">You can observe this regularly when flu goes through your house. Mums will grab a box of tissues, take a decongestant and get on with all the chores they usually do. Whereas men tend to develop the dreaded “man-flu” and take to their beds or the couch where we must bring them things until they recover. Acting sick when you are sick gets you attention and help. Not acting sick means you often get sicker. So we have to teach our kids with autism that it is rewarding to tell us when they are in pain.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">You must do this in context, when they are actually feeling pain. For ethical reasons you have to wait until they trip over or get a bump that you know is painful.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><b>DO NOT TRIP THEM OVER ON PURPOSE! Okay?</b></div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">When they do, you go and comfort them immediately with a hug while pointing to the place that hurts. Say clearly “Sore knee” or “Sore Elbow, owie!</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">This works really well with kids that are able to imitate speech. I did this with my son Liam who learned very quickly to repeat what I said, and to tell me whenever he was hurt. In fact Liam will demand an ambulance if he gets a hangnail.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;"><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/IMG_1521.png"><img class="aligncenter wp-image-1283" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/IMG_1521-300x225.png" alt="img_1521" width="443" height="332" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/IMG_1521-300x225.png 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/IMG_1521-768x576.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/IMG_1521-1024x768.png 1024w" sizes="(max-width: 443px) 100vw, 443px" /></a></div>
<div style="border: 0px; color: #555555; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; font-size: 15px; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">I encourage this because I know when he gets a tummy ache or an ear ache, he can tell me and we can go and see the Doctor before it gets worse.</div>
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<p>For non-speaking kids it is much harder. My daughter was a picture communicator from an early age and I struggled with teaching her to tell me when she was hurt using the same steps, so I made a visual “pain chart” with pecs pictures.</p>
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<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">As I said, you have to do this IN CONTEXT, when she actually feels the hurt. and the pain chart was a laminated A4 page with slightly gross pictures of body parts, too big to carry around. So, when she did get hurt I had to make a choice, do I run and comfort my daughter or do I try and find where I left the stupid pain chart?</div>
<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Gracie had a lot of anxiety and behavioural issues as a result of her autism. But sometimes I wondered whether it wasn’t just “autism” but a real pain like a toothache or earache. I had no way of knowing and it really tormented me. Until I created <a style="border: 0px; color: #cc6699; font-family: inherit; font-style: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline;" href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/grace-picture-exchange-for/id360574688?mt=8&amp;uo=4&amp;at=10lc5B" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Grace App.</a></div>
<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Because, while you may have left the picture cards in a drawer at home, you always have your phone, so I made sure during the development of Grace App to include a section called “My Body”</div>
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<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">When the pain happens, I grab the phone and select “My Body” Hand over Hand so the child is selecting the category picture with you</div>
<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Then prompt them to choose “Sore”and “knee”</div>
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<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">And give them a lot of care and attention around that poor sore knee. Saying “Sore Knee” and pointing to the pictures and the actual knee, a lot.</div>
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<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">In a separate exercise; (when they are no longer in pain) you teach all the other body parts using flashcards or standard picture exchange requests.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">How do you request a body part? Try using our friend Mr Potato Head as a 3D teaching tool.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Set up a mirror and the potato man and keep hold of the body parts. They can request “I want nose” and “I want eyes” using the phone.</div>
<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">At the same time do a little “show me your eyes” and prompt a nice point at eyes looking in the mirror together. So it is real, not abstract.</div>
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<p>In school they make puzzles of her favourite characters and she requests each piece using the app. It is a great way to keep her interest while making sure she learns in context.</p>
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<div style="border: 0px; font-family: 'Open Sans', sans-serif; margin-bottom: 1.625em; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Being able to describe pain and get relief is a basic human right. Unfortunately we do not prioritise it enough for the non-speaking and our health services need to address this. My goal is to make this easier, so that everyone regardless of whether they have a voice or not, is able to say how they feel.</div>
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		<title>Grace App on for Accessibility: now with &#8220;Tap to Speak&#8221; option on Apple&#8217;s App Store</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Did you know that Grace App is the most affordable &#8220;Tap to Speak&#8221; Picture Exchange Communication App on the Apple App Store? This time last year, Grace was featured on the iTunes &#8220;Accessibility&#8221; store in the company of some very impressive Apps: And for good reason, Grace is one of the most accessible, adaptable &#8220;User... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/grace-app-for-accessibility-now-with-tap-to-speak-option/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
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<p>This time last year, Grace was featured on the iTunes &#8220;Accessibility&#8221; store in the company of some very impressive Apps:</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1238" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity-231x300.jpg" alt="Grace app on Accessiblity" width="231" height="300" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity-231x300.jpg 231w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity.jpg 540w" sizes="(max-width: 231px) 100vw, 231px" /></p>
<p>And for good reason, Grace is one of the most accessible, adaptable &#8220;User Driven&#8221; Apps for communication delay and disability.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity-crop.jpeg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1239" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity-crop-300x163.jpeg" alt="Grace app on Accessiblity crop" width="300" height="163" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity-crop-300x163.jpeg 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-app-on-Accessiblity-crop.jpeg 505w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a></p>
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<p>With the latest update to  <strong>Apple&#8217;s operating system</strong> we were able to create Grace App 3.1,  and it became possible not only to add and edit individual pictures, but to create and edit your own categories; making individualisation much easier.</p>
<p><strong>What a lot of people don&#8217;t know is that you can now select &#8220;Tap to Talk&#8221; and turn your picture exchange communication into a speech generating App. </strong></p>
<p>Just open up &#8220;Settings&#8221; on your device, (little grey cog symbol) scroll down until you see the pink Grace App logo and click on that. Then look all the way down through the settings until you see &#8220;Tap to Speak&#8221; and select it:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Device-menu-.png"><img class="size-medium wp-image-1244 alignleft" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Device-menu--169x300.png" alt="Device menu" width="169" height="300" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Device-menu--169x300.png 169w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Device-menu--768x1366.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Device-menu--576x1024.png 576w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Device-menu-.png 1125w" sizes="(max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px" /></a><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-settings-menu.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1245" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-settings-menu-169x300.png" alt="Grace settings menu" width="169" height="300" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-settings-menu-169x300.png 169w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-settings-menu-768x1366.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-settings-menu-576x1024.png 576w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Grace-settings-menu.png 1125w" sizes="(max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px" /></a></p>
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<p>If it doesn&#8217;t work, be sure to check you have:</p>
<p>a) the latest version installed: 3.1</p>
<p>b) <strong>the latest Apple  iTunes software: iOS 8.0 or newer</strong></p>
<p>c) you have de-selected &#8220;mute&#8221; from your device menu:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Check-mute.png"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1243" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Check-mute-169x300.png" alt="Check mute" width="169" height="300" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Check-mute-169x300.png 169w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Check-mute-768x1366.png 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Check-mute-576x1024.png 576w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/Check-mute.png 1125w" sizes="(max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px" /></a></p>
<p>When you edit or create a new card with your own photo, be sure to add text so that it will &#8220;speak&#8221; when you touch it too.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13659095_1035016666536212_3988109099678924842_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1241" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13659095_1035016666536212_3988109099678924842_n-169x300.jpg" alt="13659095_1035016666536212_3988109099678924842_n" width="169" height="300" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13659095_1035016666536212_3988109099678924842_n-169x300.jpg 169w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13659095_1035016666536212_3988109099678924842_n.jpg 540w" sizes="(max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center">As I did with my yummy breakfast on my recent holiday in Spain.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13669053_1035016706536208_5910254936411506594_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1242" src="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13669053_1035016706536208_5910254936411506594_n-300x169.jpg" alt="13669053_1035016706536208_5910254936411506594_n" width="300" height="169" srcset="http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13669053_1035016706536208_5910254936411506594_n-300x169.jpg 300w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13669053_1035016706536208_5910254936411506594_n-768x432.jpg 768w, http://www.graceapp.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13669053_1035016706536208_5910254936411506594_n.jpg 960w" sizes="(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px" /></a></p>
<p>Adios!</p>
<p>PS. If you too are having a vacation abroad this summer, be sure to install Grace on your iPhone and then set it to the language you need. Grace can be translated into French, German, Spanish, Danish, Arabic and Brazilian Portuguese and then back again. Read more <strong>HERE</strong> and Bon Voyage.</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jun 2016 21:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When we have the means, my little Autism family enjoys a trip to Spain for a couple of weeks every year. We do things &#8220;our way&#8221; following a few simple &#8220;rules&#8221; that are very different to what typical families might expect from a vacation; but I think we have an even better time than most. AND]]></description>
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		<title>What do you mean &#8220;Non-Verbal&#8221;? We are already communicating!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2016 08:23:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If there is one thing that really annoys me it is when people who do not speak in audible words are not being listened to. And by that I mean that the Needs, Interests and Human Rights of the so called &#8220;non-verbal&#8221; are being overlooked.That&#8217;s why I feel passionate about creating a simple means of... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/what-do-you-mean-non-verbal-we-are-already-communicating-2/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If there is one thing that really annoys me it is when people who do not speak in audible words are not being listened to. And by that I mean that the Needs, Interests and Human Rights of the so called &#8220;non-verbal&#8221; are being overlooked.<span id="more-1196"></span>That&#8217;s why I feel passionate about creating a simple means of communication that incorporates independent choice which can be universally understood. Because it is much harder to discriminate against someone who has the ability to tell tales.</p>
<p>It is why I feel so passionate about getting the parents, teachers, tutors, supervisors, therapists and carers of these people to enable them to access this means.</p>
<p>You see, these kids (and young adults) are all actively communicating and shaping <span style="text-decoration: underline"><em>our behaviour</em></span> in order to meet their needs right now. How do they do it?</p>
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<p>See if you can guess what these kids are really saying:</p>
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<div style="text-align: center">Can I go home now?</div>
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<div style="text-align: center"> If you think I&#8217;m going in that you&#8217;ve got another think coming!</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">Stop talking and pay attention to ME!</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">I am <strong>so</strong> not eating that.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">Come here&#8230;</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">Too Loud!</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">I&#8217;m sure I can reach that very interesting thing up here. Maybe if I just stood on this pot&#8230;</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">Get off the phone Mummy and come and spend some more time with me.</div>
<div style="text-align: center">(with you cleaning up this whole jar of expensive face cream)</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">You call that a door latch? Let me show you what I think of your locked door&#8230;.</div>
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<div style="text-align: center">Leave me alone.</div>
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These photographs were sent to me by good friends of small children. In each case it was possible to catch and hold or physically re-direct the child to a better way of getting their needs.</p>
<div style="text-align: center">But what happens when they are too big to hold? How do you teach a young adult an appropriate way to say</div>
<div style="text-align: center">&#8220;You are talking too much and I&#8217;d like to leave now&#8221; when they are 13 and 5&#8242; 5&#8243; ?</div>
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<p>Because at the moment when Charlie pulls her Gran&#8217;s hair to get her to stop talking, it is kind of cute. But if Charlie was 23 and that was the only way she knew to get someone to help her find a quiet space, people might be a lot less understanding.</p>
<p><strong>Adults with intellectual impairment or communication disabilities will often end up medicated and in  residential care because they had no appropriate way of getting people to listen to what they need and want. The hair pulling, the dragging, the running away or the self-harm  really got people&#8217;s attention quickly. And without anyone dedicated to teaching them to communicate by alternative means &#8211; disruptive, aggressive and distressing behaviours are their only way to be heard.</strong></p>
<p>Make a commitment to learning what your child is really saying and give them the power to say it another way.</p>
<p>The very first thing we must teach, is How to Say What they Want.</p>
<p>xx</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over the years I have had to explain many times why Grace App does not &#8220;speak&#8221; for the person using it. Why does the user have to select pictures, then go and find someone who will point, pause and if needed verbally prompt each word as represented by the picture. &#160; It would be so... <a href="http://www.graceapp.com/blog/speech-vs-communicating/">Read the full story</a>]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Over the years I have had to explain many times why Grace App does not &#8220;speak&#8221; for the person using it. Why does the user have to select pictures, then go and find someone who will point, pause and if needed verbally prompt each word as represented by the picture.<span id="more-995"></span></p>
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<p>It would be so easy to add an electronic voice to the App. In fact, anyone can add an electronic voice to it using the device accessibility settings.</p>
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<p>The reason I don&#8217;t do this is because I believe 2 things are fundamental to the App.</p>
<p>1. It is not about &#8220;speech&#8221; or &#8220;vocalisations&#8221; &#8211; it&#8217;s about communication. So if an individual can select a picture of something they like, need or want and show it to you, they are communicating.</p>
<p>Speaking if it happens is rewarded, but if it doesn&#8217;t, the meaning is still clear and the needs can be identified and met.</p>
<p>2. Why should the person with the disability have to imitate our speech sounds in order to be accepted and understood? Sure, I realise there are many many people with autism who rely on speech generating systems to communicate fluently. But there are many many others who think and communicate in pictures who deserve to be treated equally. They do it without autoclytics or standard grammar. They also do it without nuance. They take the shortest route to being understood in order to get what they need without getting frustrated or resorting to inappropriate behaviour that causes distress.</p>
<p>If that is enough for them, it should be enough for us. That doesn&#8217;t mean we should not encourage and reward &#8220;extra&#8221; efforts with communication. I can&#8217;t help but be absolutely delighted when my daughter calls me &#8220;Mummy&#8221; &#8211; and she knows it.</p>
<p>But I am also very happy when she shows me a picture of the nightie that I just put in the wash because she wants it back. That is much better than crying and screaming and trying to pull it out of the washing machine. Or she shows me a picture of the &#8220;Bear in the Big Blue House&#8221; DVD that she wants me to order.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t expect her to say she wants to &#8220;wear&#8221; the nightie or &#8220;watch&#8221; the DVD. Her meaning is implicit in the request. And her request is valued.</p>
<p>I can answer in kind by selecting the &#8220;no&#8221; symbol for the nightie (which has to be washed after an accident) or the &#8220;wait&#8221; symbol for the DVD, which is followed by a search on eBay.</p>
<p>I can then help find a few Youtube clips of the Bear and watch them together. I can also set up a drawing game on the iPad where she requests each of the characters from &#8220;Bear&#8221; or any other show she likes by colour and I draw them. I get to share this activity with her because I know what she likes by following how <span style="text-decoration: underline">she</span> communicates.</p>
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<p>It comes from her and she decides what it means. And that means everything to me.</p>
<p>And this is why:</p>
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