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		<title>You Limit What You Control</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2026 13:34:51 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I’ve said &#8211; and seen &#8211; it for years &#8211; You limit what you control. It’s easy to agree with that principle until someone does something differently than we would....</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p data-pm-slice="1 1 []">I’ve said &#8211; and seen &#8211; it for years &#8211; <strong>You limit what you control.</strong></p>
<p>It’s easy to agree with that principle until someone does something differently than we would.</p>
<p>Then we want to step in. Make an adjustment. Take back the decision. After all, we’re responsible for the results.</p>
<p>But when every decision requires my approval, I limit the team to my availability. When every idea has to originate with me, I limit the team to my creativity. When everything must be done my way, I limit what others might teach me.</p>
<h4><strong>Eventually, the organization can only grow as far as I can personally carry it.</strong></h4>
<p>That’s a problem. Especially if I’ve surrounded myself with capable people.</p>
<p>One of the myths I address in <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Mythical-Leader-Seven-Myths-Leadership-ebook/dp/B01MTML0V7/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3MLQQD3U19RHD&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.RUkSds9g2c_M0hV3W_q3CdXbZvaPTV0UXexeW3F8bz1CK3tY_3a3z27kI2Cszel94xuicauAGiSe2SBqVjkw3mzSN_sHYFA1-nkHhs3sCSFFc59Ah1cGmMbIQ0jNaC1pQcH3qKNwX_GwYq2xjeqQW3d4IM1uvHYMBcbxP6xNaQ8-MJemSb3dA8W9TStrb3u-nc_RPqTywmGUYnxIXYU5UN6akeX6vlBkMxlneMnOtkU.HxkFidpHtTQaLXfdHzv19EE9LgTJi3Dz_RccpwpYmVs&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=mythical+leader&amp;qid=1792503135&amp;sprefix=mythical+leader%2Caps%2C148&amp;sr=8-1"><em>The Mythical Leader</em> </a>is that leaders accomplish by controlling others. We may get compliance that way, but we miss much of what people could contribute.</p>
<p>People stop offering ideas when they know we’ll replace them with ours. They stop making decisions when we continually overrule them. They learn to wait for instructions.</p>
<p>Then we wonder why no one takes initiative.</p>
<p>Of course, releasing control requires leadership. We still establish direction, clarify expectations, provide resources, and hold people accountable.</p>
<p>But we also give people room to accomplish the goal differently than we would.</p>
<p>They may make a mistake. We’ll need to coach them.</p>
<p>They may also discover a better way. We’ll need the humility to recognize it.</p>
<p>Here’s a question I try to ask myself:</p>
<h4><strong>Am I protecting something that matters &#8211; or simply protecting my preference?</strong></h4>
<p>The answer may reveal where I need to let go.</p>
<p>I want to lead a team whose potential exceeds my own. That means giving people opportunities to lead beyond what I can personally direct.</p>
<h4><strong>If I insist on controlling everything, I shouldn’t be surprised when I become the limit.</strong></h4>
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		<title>People Care More About Their Comfort Than Your Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2026 16:01:40 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><b>People usually care more about their comfort than your change.</b><b></b></p>
<p class="p1">That’s human nature.</p>
<p class="p1">As a leader, you may see a better future for the organization. You’ve identified problems, considered solutions, and developed a plan to move things forward.</p>
<p class="p1">You’re excited about the possibilities.</p>
<p class="p1">But the people you’re leading may not share your enthusiasm.</p>
<p class="p1"><strong>They’re often more concerned about what the change means for them.</strong></p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Will I lose something I enjoy?</li>
<li class="li1">What if the new way isn’t as good as the old way?</li>
<li class="li1">Will I have to learn something new?</li>
<li class="li1">Will my role or influence change?</li>
<li class="li1">Why can’t we just keep doing what we’re doing?</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">And here’s something I’ve learned after years of leading change.</p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>People don’t always resist the change itself. Sometimes they’re resisting the discomfort the change creates.</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">Every change evokes an emotion. Even good changes can bring a sense of loss.</p>
<p class="p1">Something familiar is going away. A routine is being interrupted. An expectation is being challenged. And what seems like an obvious improvement to the leader may feel like an unnecessary disruption to someone else.</p>
<p class="p1">That’s why understanding the emotional side of change is crucial to leading it effectively.</p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>You can’t simply communicate the vision and expect everyone to immediately embrace it.</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">You have to give people time to process what you’re proposing.</p>
<p class="p1">Listen to their concerns. Explain the why. Acknowledge what they’re losing. Help them see what could be gained.</p>
<p class="p1">And remember, you’ve probably had much longer to get comfortable with the change than they have.</p>
<p class="p1">But there’s another reality.</p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>You can’t allow everyone’s desire for comfort to determine the future of the organization.</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">If you do, you’ll seldom change anything.</p>
<p class="p1">Leadership requires moving people toward something better, even when the journey is uncomfortable.</p>
<p class="p1">The goal isn’t to eliminate every negative emotion. That’s impossible.</p>
<p class="p1">The goal is to understand those emotions well enough to lead people through them.</p>
<p class="p1">I’ve made the mistake of moving too quickly and expecting people to catch up. I’ve also made the mistake of moving too slowly because I didn’t want to make people uncomfortable.</p>
<p class="p1">Neither serves the organization well.</p>
<h2 class="p1"><b>Effective change leadership requires caring about people without becoming controlled by their discomfort.</b><b></b></h2>
<p class="p1">Be patient with people. Be persistent with the mission.</p>
<p class="p1">And learn to recognize the difference between someone who needs more time to process change and someone who simply doesn’t want anything to change.</p>
<p class="p1">That distinction can make all the difference in your leadership.</p>
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		<title>Helping Team Members Find Their Next Opportunity</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 14:13:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I believe in helping team members find their next opportunity, while still working on our team. I’ve done it multiple times.  Some people might think that’s strange. After all, why would...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I believe in helping team members find their next opportunity, while still working on our team. </span><span class="s2">I’ve done it multiple times. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Some people might think that’s strange. After all, why would I want to help someone leave our team &#8211; especially if they’re a valued team member (which in these cases &#8211; they usually are). </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Well, that’s easy. I want what’s best for the people I lead. Even when what’s best for them may not be what’s most convenient for me.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Several times in my career, someone helped me get to my next assignment. They opened a door, made a phone call, offered advice, or simply encouraged me to take a step of faith.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><strong><span class="s2">I’ve always wanted to do the same for others.</span></strong></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I want people to grow while they’re on our team. Plus, I want to help them discover their gifts, develop their leadership, and find the place where they can make their greatest contribution. I’ve told countless people &#8211; sitting in my office &#8211; <em>When you look back at your career twenty years from now, I want this office to be a positive part of your story. That’s my legacy.</em></span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Sometimes that place will be right where they are. But sometimes it will be somewhere else.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And I’m okay with that.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">In fact, I’d much rather someone include me in the process of figuring out their next opportunity than feel they have to hide it from me. That helps me and our team as much as it helps them. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Once they feel safe enough to have that conversation, I can actually help them. I can be a sounding board, help them process opportunities, make connections, or serve as a reference.</span></p>
<h2 class="p1"><span class="s2">But I also recognize there are some realities to leading this way.</span></h2>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">1. It will be awkward at times.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Once someone tells you they’re considering leaving, things change a little.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">They’ve essentially admitted they have one foot out the door.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">You still have a job to do together. They’re still part of the team. You still need them fully engaged in their current responsibilities.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And you may not know whether they’ll be there six months from now. (It’s taken a year or more at times.) </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That creates some tension. I’ve learned to live with it.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">2. There will be emotions involved.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Especially when the person loves the team and the team loves them.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">They may be excited about a new opportunity and sad about leaving at the same time. (BTW, I usually hold this information in confidence between me and the other person.) </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">As a leader, I may be excited for them and disappointed about losing them.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Both can be true.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve found it’s better to acknowledge those emotions than pretend they don’t exist.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">3. They may go back and forth.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve seen this happen numerous times.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Someone feels confident it’s time to move on. Then an opportunity doesn’t materialize. They have a great week at work or begin thinking about what they’ll miss.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Suddenly they’re not so sure.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And that’s understandable. Career decisions are rarely as simple as they appear.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But I’ve also found that once someone has mentally committed to leaving, it can be difficult to return to normal. Sometimes I’ve even had to remind people of what they told me they wanted.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Not to push them out the door, but to help them remember why they started considering a change in the first place.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">4. Occasionally, it will get difficult.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Most of these experiences have been positive. A few haven’t.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Sometimes expectations change. The process often takes longer than either of us anticipated. Occasionally, someone mentally checks out before they actually leave.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And when that happens, I still have a responsibility to the rest of the team and the organization.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Helping someone find their next opportunity doesn’t mean ignoring their current responsibilities. There still have to be healthy expectations and honest conversations.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But those few difficult experiences haven’t changed my philosophy.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">I’d rather lead with an open hand than try to hold on to people who are ready for something else.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I don’t own the people I lead. I’ve simply been given the privilege of investing in them for a season.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Of course, I want great people to stay. We work hard to create an environment where they can thrive, grow, and want to remain for a long time. </span><span class="s2">But I also know that not every season lasts forever.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And if I can help someone take their next step, even when it means losing a valuable team member, I consider that part of my responsibility as a leader.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">The greatest compliment someone can give me isn’t necessarily that they stayed on my team for years. Sometimes it’s that their time on our team helped prepare them for what came next.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">I want to be the kind of leader people can trust with their future, even when their future doesn’t include me.</span></h4>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2026 13:48:55 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><span class="s1">There are leadership challenges in ministry marketplace leaders may not fully understand. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve spent my entire adult life in leadership &#8211; leading</span><span class="s2"> in the business world, government, nonprofits, and the church. Gratefully, I’ve also coached leaders in all of those environments.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve learned </span><span class="s1">good leadership principles work in almost every environment.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">People need clarity. Teams need direction. Organizations need vision. Leaders have to make hard decisions.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But there are some unique challenges to leadership in vocational ministry even the best marketplace leaders may not fully understand.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’m not suggesting ministry is harder than leadership in other fields. Every profession has its challenges. I’m certainly not complaining. I love what I get to do &#8211; most days. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But there are some differences worth understanding.</span></p>
<h2 class="p1"><span class="s2">Here are five I’ve experienced.</span></h2>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">1. Letting someone go from employment is often more complicated.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve had to make difficult personnel decisions in both business and ministry.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Neither is easy. You’re dealing with someone’s livelihood, their family, and often their sense of identity.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But in the church, you’re also dealing with unique &#8211; even spiritual &#8211; relationships. In the church, every paid staff member has their own “tribe” of people who depend on them for spiritual guidance or direction. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">The person you’re letting go may be someone they have prayed with, worshiped with, and walked alongside through some of life’s hardest moments.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Their spouse may serve in the church. Some or all of their children have often grown up in the student ministry. Their closest friends may be members of the congregation.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s a different dynamic. But people often don’t see what happens outside of Sunday morning. They only know what they know. And they seldom know the whole story. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Yet, because of those personal attachments, people may want explanations you simply don’t have the freedom to give.</span><span class="s1"> Sometimes the hardest part of making the right leadership decision is knowing you can’t explain everything behind it.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And yet, the decision still has to be made.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">2. Holidays don’t always work like they do for others.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I get asked this question all the time around Christmas &#8211; “Are you going to see your kids for Christmas?”</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I appreciate the question. People genuinely care about our family.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But Christmas is one of the busiest seasons of the year for a church. Easter, which often falls during spring break, is another.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">While many families are traveling to see relatives, pastors and ministry staff are preparing to serve the people who will be coming to church.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Our children are grown, live plane rides away,  and have families of their own. One is now and both have been in vocational ministry themselves. They have their own schedules, responsibilities, and holiday traditions.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And sometimes those schedules don’t align with ours.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">We may celebrate Christmas on another day. We may travel after the holiday. Sometimes we simply have to miss being together &#8211; especially around the holidays. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’m not asking for sympathy. Plenty of people work holidays &#8211; medical professionals, first responders, retail workers, and others.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But I do think it’s something church members don’t always consider.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Some of the most meaningful days of ministry for the congregation require personal sacrifices by the families of those serving.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And those sacrifices aren’t only made by pastors. They’re made by spouses, children, and extended families, too.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">3. Your work and your personal life are often closely connected.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">In most marketplace environments, people can leave work and find an entirely different community of relationships outside their employment.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s harder in vocational ministry.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">The people you lead are often the people you worship with. They’re your friends, your neighbors, and the people with whom you share much of life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">You might see someone at dinner who was frustrated with your leadership decision that morning. They might attend a small group with you after you’ve dismissed one of their favorite staff members (see point number two).</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Again, this isn’t necessarily bad. Some of my deepest friendships have come through the churches I’ve served.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But it does create a unique challenge.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">You have to learn to care deeply for people &#8211; walk with the closely &#8211; while accepting that you can&#8217;t personally meet every need &#8211; and that there will be times they don’t understand your “work” role.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s a tension I’ve had to work through repeatedly. And it’s one reason healthy boundaries are so important in ministry.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">4. Every decision has a spiritual component.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">When I was leading in business, people certainly cared about decisions. They had opinions about strategy, budgets, staffing, and change.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But in the church, those same decisions can carry spiritual significance for people.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">A change in worship services isn’t simply a scheduling decision. It may affect something a family has treasured for decades.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">A staffing change isn’t just an organizational decision. People may see it as a reflection of the church’s spiritual direction.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And sometimes people sincerely believe God is leading them to one conclusion while others believe God is leading them in another direction.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s not always easy to navigate.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">As a pastor, I have to take those convictions seriously while also recognizing that not every preference is a biblical principle.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Spiritual leadership requires biblical conviction, organizational wisdom, and a great deal of patience with people.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve learned you need all three.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">5. You’re often carrying burdens other people don’t know about.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">This may be one of the least understood parts of pastoral leadership.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">On any given Sunday, a pastor may be celebrating a baptism, praying with someone facing a serious diagnosis, counseling a struggling marriage, and dealing with a difficult organizational issue.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And then it’s time to preach.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">People come to church carrying their own burdens. The pastor has the privilege of helping carry some of them. But many &#8211; maybe most &#8211; of those burdens are confidential.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">You can’t always explain why you’re distracted or share what’s weighing on your heart. And you certainly shouldn’t use someone else’s pain to explain your own.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s part of the calling.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I remember learning early in ministry that some of the most exhausting days weren’t necessarily the days I worked the longest. They were the days I carried the most emotionally.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Ministry leadership involves a unique combination of managing an organization while shepherding people through real life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Those two responsibilities aren’t always easy to separate.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s1">A final thought</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I have tremendous respect for leaders in the marketplace. Many of them deal with pressures I’ll never fully understand &#8211; and many that I do.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I believe churches would benefit from learning more from good marketplace leaders. I’ve spent years encouraging that kind of partnership and incorporating it into my own leadership. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">At the same time, I think marketplace leaders who serve on church leadership teams need to understand some of these unique dynamics.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">The same is true for church members who love and support their pastors.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">We don’t need special treatment or people to feel sorry for us. And we certainly shouldn’t use the uniqueness of ministry as an excuse for poor leadership.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">We simply need to recognize that some leadership environments require different considerations.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Good leaders learn to understand the environment they’re leading in. And good churches learn to understand the people God has called to lead them.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">What would you add? If you’ve served in both the marketplace and vocational ministry, what differences have you noticed?</span></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’d much rather lead by principles than policies.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Good organizations need both. I understand that. </span><span class="s2">But policies tend to tell people exactly what they can and cannot do. Principles help people understand </span><span class="s3">why</span><span class="s2"> we do what we do.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And I think that distinction matters.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s2">Policies often create boundaries. Principles create freedom within boundaries.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">As a leader, I want people to understand the guiding principles behind our decisions. I want them to know what we value, what we’re trying to accomplish, and what matters most.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Then I want to give them freedom to figure out how to get there.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Not everyone will approach a problem the same way I would. In fact, some will find a better way than I ever imagined.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s one of the advantages of having good people on your team.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Of course, there are times when policies are necessary. Some things need clear, nonnegotiable standards. And principles without accountability can create confusion.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">But I’ve also seen organizations develop so many policies that people become afraid to make decisions without permission.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s2">They stop thinking for themselves &#8211; waiting to be told what to do.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And eventually, the organization becomes limited by the number of decisions a few leaders can make. </span><span class="s2">That’s not the kind of organization I want to lead.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">I’d rather spend my time helping people understand the principles than enforcing another policy.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s2">Because when people understand the </span><span class="s3">why</span><span class="s2">, they can usually figure out the </span><span class="s3">how</span><span class="s2">.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And when they have the freedom to do that, they often surprise you with what they can accomplish.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2026 13:49:13 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post is a shoutout from a leader to a manager.</p>
<p>I love leadership &#8211; dreaming about what could be, challenging the status quo, and helping organizations move forward.</p>
<p>There’s a difference between leadership and management. I’ve written on it before.</p>
<h4>Leaders lead change. Managers guide systems.</h4>
<p>But here’s something I’ve learned through the years.</p>
<p>Good leadership without good management can take us somewhere wonderful, only to discover we don’t know how to stay there very long.</p>
<p>A leader can cast a compelling vision, rally people around it, and move an organization to new heights.</p>
<p>But someone has to build the systems, manage the details, and create the structure to sustain what’s been accomplished.</p>
<h4>And frankly, that’s not always the leader’s greatest strength.</h4>
<p>I’ve seen organizations grow beyond their ability to sustain the growth. Sometimes because the leadership vision outpaced the management systems.</p>
<h2>Leadership helps us get there. Management helps us stay there.</h2>
<p>We need both.</p>
<p>So here’s a shoutout to the great managers who often work behind the scenes, making sure the vision actually works.</p>
<p>You may not get the applause for the big idea or the bold new direction.</p>
<p>But without you, many of our greatest leadership accomplishments would be short-lived.</p>
<p>Leaders, don’t just appreciate good managers. Empower them. Listen to them. And give them room to do what they do best.</p>
<p>Your next great leadership success may depend on it.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There’s a delicate tension of leading change &#8211; <strong>Patience and Drive</strong></p>
<p>One of the hardest tensions in leadership is knowing how hard to push change and how patient to be with people.</p>
<p>I’ve been leading change in organizations for a long time. And I’m still learning how to balance these two.</p>
<h4>Change leadership requires both patience and drive.</h4>
<h2>You have to be patient with people.</h2>
<p>Every change evokes an emotion. Even good change can hurt.</p>
<ul>
<li>Something familiar is being replaced.</li>
<li>Someone may feel they’re losing influence or control.</li>
<li>People may have invested years in something you’re now asking them to do differently.</li>
<li>Others simply need more time to understand what you already see.</li>
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<p>Remember, as a leader, you’ve probably been thinking about the change much longer than everyone else.</p>
<p>You’ve processed the problems, considered the alternatives, and imagined what could be.</p>
<p><strong>Now you’re ready to move.</strong></p>
<p>But everyone else may just now be hearing about it. You can’t expect people to embrace in a moment what it took you months to process.</p>
<p>Good leaders understand this. They listen, communicate the why, give people time to adjust. And they recognize that resistance isn’t always rebellion. Sometimes it’s simply grief over what is being lost.</p>
<p>But there’s another side to this tension.</p>
<h2>You also have to drive the change forward.</h2>
<p>If the change is necessary and worthy of the mission, you can’t simply stop every time someone is uncomfortable.</p>
<p>Some people will resist any change. Others may never fully embrace the direction you’re leading.</p>
<p>And sometimes the greatest resistance comes just before you begin making meaningful progress.</p>
<p><strong>Leadership requires courage.</strong></p>
<p>You have to make decisions. Push through obstacles. Keep reminding people where you’re going and why it matters.</p>
<p>You have to help write a better story for the organization, even when moving forward is difficult.</p>
<h4>You can have change without leadership, but I’m not sure you can have leadership without change.</h4>
<p>If you wait until everyone is comfortable with change, you may never change anything.</p>
<p>And that’s where the tension gets difficult.</p>
<p>Push too hard and you can damage trust, exhaust good people, and create resistance that didn’t have to exist.</p>
<p>Move too slowly and you can lose momentum, frustrate those ready to move, and miss opportunities that may not come again.</p>
<p>I’ve made mistakes on both sides.</p>
<p>There have been times when I moved faster than people could reasonably follow. Looking back, a few more conversations or a little more patience would have made the change healthier.</p>
<p>And there have been times when I waited too long. I allowed the desire to keep everyone comfortable to slow down something I knew needed to happen.</p>
<h4>Neither extreme is healthy.</h4>
<p>If you don’t have both patience and drive, you’ll either burn yourself out trying to get everyone to move, or you’ll burn others out trying to make them move too quickly.</p>
<p>So how do you manage the tension?</p>
<h4>I think a few things are important.</h4>
<p><strong>Keep the mission clear.</strong> People can endure more discomfort when they understand why the change matters. Never assume you’ve communicated the why enough.</p>
<p><strong>Seek to understand the difference between resistance and legitimate concern</strong>. Sometimes people are resisting because they don’t like change. Other times they’re seeing something you’ve missed. Wise leaders know the difference, and they’re willing to listen.</p>
<p><strong>Be flexible with the pace without compromising the destination.</strong> Not every part of the change has to happen today. Sometimes slowing down one part allows the overall change to move forward more successfully.</p>
<p><strong>Celebrate progress and allow people to catch their breath.</strong> An organization can only absorb so much change at one time. Constant change without opportunities to celebrate, adjust, and regain energy will eventually wear people down.</p>
<p><strong>Keep moving.</strong> Patience shouldn’t become an excuse for avoiding difficult decisions. If you’ve done the work, listened well, and believe the change is right, there comes a time to move forward.</p>
<p>Perhaps one of the greatest skills a change leader can develop is learning when to press the accelerator and when to ease off a little. And realizing you may have to do both in the same week.</p>
<p>Here’s something I’ve learned after years of leading change.</p>
<h3>You have to care enough about the mission to keep moving forward and enough about the people to be careful how you get there.</h3>
<p>That’s the delicate tension of change leadership.</p>
<p>And getting it right is never a one-time decision. It’s something you have to keep managing.</p>
<p>Ultimately, leadership isn’t simply about getting an organization somewhere new. It’s about bringing people with you.</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Ignorance, Arrogance, Indifference &#8211; or Inability?</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Whenever a team member isn’t functioning as well as they could, I want to understand why.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Over the years, I’ve found the problem usually falls into one of four categories &#8211; </span></p>
<h4 class="p3"><span class="s3">Ignorance. Arrogance. Indifference. Or Inability.</span></h4>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">And knowing which one you’re dealing with matters, because each requires a different response from the leader.</span></p>
<h4 class="p3"><span class="s3">Ignorance</span></h4>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Sometimes people simply don’t know.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">They don’t know what is expected of them. Training &#8211; or onboarding hasn’t been adequate. Or perhaps they don’t realize how they are coming across to others.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">This is often the easiest problem to address.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2"><strong>Teach</strong> them. <strong>Coach</strong> them. <strong>Clarify</strong> expectations. Give honest <strong>feedback</strong>.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">You shouldn’t punish someone for something they were never taught. (Or where your systems let them down.) </span></p>
<h4 class="p3"><span class="s3">Arrogance</span></h4>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">This is different.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Arrogance says, </span><em><span class="s4">I know, but I think my way is better.</span></em></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">They may believe the rules don’t apply to them. Some resist feedback because they assume they already have the answers. Sometimes success has convinced them they are more valuable to the organization than they really are.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Arrogance requires <strong>confrontation</strong>.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Still not harshness (we are to remain people of grace), but with truth.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Healthy teams can’t allow one person’s ego to become more important than the mission.</span></p>
<h4 class="p3"><span class="s3">Indifference</span></h4>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Indifference says, </span><em><span class="s4">I know what needs to be done and I’m capable of doing it. But I just don’t care enough anymore.</span></em></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Sometimes the person has mentally checked out long before they physically leave.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">You can usually see it in their attitude, effort, responsiveness, or willingness to go the extra mile.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">This requires a conversation about <strong>engagement</strong>.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Is something happening personally? Have they lost confidence in the organization? Are they burned out? Or have they simply decided they no longer want to be part of what the team is trying to accomplish?</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">You need to know.</span></p>
<h4 class="p3"><span class="s3">Inability</span></h4>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">This one is sometimes the hardest for leaders to admit.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">The person may care deeply. They may have a wonderful attitude and may understand exactly what is expected.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">They just can’t consistently do what the role requires.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Maybe the organization has grown beyond their capacity. Perhaps the position has changed. Maybe we put a good person in the wrong seat.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">More training might help, but sometimes it won’t.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Inability requires leaders to <strong>evaluate</strong> fit.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">And keeping someone in a role where they cannot succeed isn’t kindness &#8211; to them or to the team.</span></p>
<h4 class="p3"><span class="s3">Diagnose Before You Respond</span></h4>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">One of the mistakes leaders make is treating every performance problem the same.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">But you don’t solve ignorance with confrontation.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Arrogance isn’t solved with more training.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">You don’t solve indifference by lowering expectations.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">And you don’t solve inability simply by telling someone to try harder.</span></p>
<p class="p3"><strong><span class="s2">Before deciding what to do about an underperforming team member, determine what you’re actually dealing with.</span></strong></p>
<ul>
<li class="p3"><span class="s3">Ignorance needs instruction.</span></li>
<li class="p3"><span class="s3">Arrogance needs correction.</span></li>
<li class="p3"><span class="s3">Indifference needs engagement.</span></li>
<li class="p3"><span class="s3">Inability needs evaluation.</span></li>
</ul>
<p class="p3"><span class="s2">Good leadership starts with the right diagnosis.</span></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2026 13:32:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Frustration. Every team has it at some point. If you work on a team long enough, you’re going to get frustrated. That’s not necessarily a sign you’re on the wrong...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1">Frustration. Every team has it at some point. If you work on a team long enough, you’re going to get frustrated.</p>
<p class="p1">That’s not necessarily a sign you’re on the wrong team. <b>Teams can be frustrating because teams are made up of people.</b><b></b></p>
<p class="p1">And people are different.</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Teams are made up of different personalities.</li>
<li class="li1">Everyone process information differently.</li>
<li class="li1">We work at different speeds.</li>
<li class="li1">Our priorities, pressures, strengths, and weaknesses all show up with us.</li>
<li class="li1">We don’t always communicate as clearly as we think we do.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">Put enough people together &#8211; even really good people who love Jesus and share the same mission &#8211; and eventually someone will frustrate someone.</p>
<p class="p1">The goal isn’t to eliminate every frustration. That’s impossible.</p>
<p class="p1"><b>The goal is to learn how to handle frustration without allowing it to damage the team.</b><b></b></p>
<h2 class="p1">Here are five things that might help &#8211;</h2>
<h4 class="p1"><b>1. Recognize and Respect Differences</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">Not everyone thinks, processes, or works like you &#8211; and that’s a good thing.</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Some are big-picture dreamers; others are detail guardians. Both are needed.</li>
<li class="li1">Everyone feels misunderstood sometimes. That’s normal.</li>
<li class="li1">We each tend to see our area as most urgent or important. That’s part of caring deeply about what we do.</li>
<li class="li1">Sometimes what frustrates you about someone is the very strength the team needs from them.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><b>Unity doesn’t mean sameness; it means shared purpose.</b><b></b></p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>2. Keep Small Things Small</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">Don’t turn a 2 into a 10.</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">The world &#8211; and the church &#8211; will never be perfect.</li>
<li class="li1">You’ll never have every tool, answer, resource, or person you want exactly when you want it.</li>
<li class="li1">Not every inconvenience deserves a meeting.</li>
<li class="li1">Not every irritation needs to become an issue.</li>
<li class="li1">Choose which frustrations are worthy of your emotional energy.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">Some things need to be addressed. Others simply need to be released.</p>
<p class="p1"><b>Peace often comes from lowering unrealistic expectations.</b><b></b></p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>3. Check Your Heart and Motives</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">Before reacting, ask yourself &#8211;</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Am I frustrated because I want to be right &#8211; or because I want what’s best?</li>
<li class="li1">Could I be misunderstanding or missing part of the picture?</li>
<li class="li1">Am I making assumptions about someone’s motives?</li>
<li class="li1">Would I respond differently if I knew everything they were carrying right now?</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">Frustration has a way of convincing us that our perspective is the complete perspective.</p>
<p class="p1">Usually it isn’t.</p>
<p class="p1"><b>Humility invites perspective; pride multiplies frustration.</b><b></b></p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>4. Practice Humility and Move On</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">Ephesians 4:2-3 says, <i>“Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”</i><i></i></p>
<p class="p1">That’s good theology. It’s also good teamwork.</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Don’t let small annoyances harden into resentment.</li>
<li class="li1">Be willing to apologize quickly.</li>
<li class="li1">Extend grace generously.</li>
<li class="li1">Don’t keep a running scorecard of offenses.</li>
<li class="li1">Remember, we’re on the same team &#8211; and Jesus is the head.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">Sometimes the healthiest thing you can do for a team is address something, forgive it, and then refuse to keep bringing it back up.</p>
<p class="p1"><b>You can be right and still be wrong in your tone, timing, or attitude.</b><b></b></p>
<h4 class="p1"><b>5. Use Your Voice Wisely</b><b></b></h4>
<p class="p1">You have a voice. And it&#8217;s a needed voice or you wouldn&#8217;t be on the team. Use it kindly, honestly, and responsibly.</p>
<ul class="ul1">
<li class="li1">Don’t add to the frustration.</li>
<li class="li1">Finish. Do your job. Follow through.</li>
<li class="li1">Say what you mean in love. Don’t say yes when you mean no.</li>
<li class="li1">Don’t complain to five people about something you’ve never discussed with the one person who could actually address it.</li>
<li class="li1">Clarity is kindness; confusion creates tension.</li>
<li class="li1">Speak truth, seasoned with grace.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">Healthy teams aren’t teams where nobody disagrees.</p>
<p class="p1">They are teams where people have learned <b>how to disagree without becoming disagreeable.</b><b></b></p>
<p class="p1"><b>Healthy teams communicate early, clearly, and respectfully.</b><b></b></p>
<h2 class="p1"><b>One Last Thing &#8211; Keep the Big Picture in View</b><b></b></h2>
<p class="p1">This may be the most important one. Remember why we do what we do.</p>
<p class="p1">For those of us serving in the church, our purpose is bigger than our department, our preference, our idea, or whether everything happened the way we wanted it to happen.</p>
<p class="p1"><b>We are here to reflect Christ and advance the Gospel.</b><b></b></p>
<p class="p1">Frustration grows quickly when we make the mission about ourselves.</p>
<p class="p1">Sometimes I need to remind myself &#8211; <i>This isn’t about me.</i><i></i></p>
<ul>
<li class="p1">Not my preference.</li>
<li class="p1">Or my recognition.</li>
<li class="p1">Not getting my way.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1">We are part of something much bigger.</p>
<p class="p1">The body of Christ is made up of different parts—with different gifts, personalities, responsibilities, and perspectives—but we share one purpose.</p>
<p class="p1">And perhaps one of the greatest witnesses a Christian team can offer is not that we never frustrate one another.</p>
<p class="p1"><b>It’s that, even when we do, we choose grace, humility, forgiveness, and unity &#8211; and keep moving forward together.</b><b></b></p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2026 11:54:55 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Disciplined Rhythms I’ve never really believed in work-life balance. At least not if balance means every important area of life gets equal time and attention every day. Leadership simply doesn’t...</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="p1"><span class="s1">Disciplined Rhythms</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve never really believed in work-life balance.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">At least not if balance means every important area of life gets equal time and attention every day.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Leadership simply doesn’t work that way.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">There are seasons when the demands of leadership are intense. There are days when you have to work longer than you planned. Problems don’t always arrive conveniently inside office hours.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That’s life, but that’s even more so in leadership. And my family has had to learn this as much as I have. </span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">You may never achieve perfect balance. </span><span class="s1">But you can discipline the rhythms of your life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">That means when there is margin &#8211; take it.</span></p>
<ul>
<li class="p1"><span class="s2">When you have a chance to decompress &#8211; decompress.</span></li>
<li class="p1">When you can rest &#8211; rest.</li>
</ul>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">And sometimes, when you’ve stared at the same project for two hours and nothing productive is happening, give yourself permission to shut it down.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Go for a walk. Exercise. Spend time with people you love. Do something completely unrelated to work.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">I’ve learned that forcing productivity rarely produces my best work.</span></p>
<h4 class="p1"><span class="s2">Sometimes the most productive thing I can do is stop.</span></h4>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Of course, disciplined rhythms require discipline. If you never stop, eventually your body or your mind will stop for you. If you constantly fill every open space on the calendar, you shouldn’t be surprised when you have nothing left to give.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">Leadership is a marathon, not a sprint.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">There will be seasons when you run hard. There should also be seasons — and moments within those seasons &#8211; when you recover.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s2">You may never perfectly balance everything in your life.</span></p>
<p class="p1"><span class="s1">But you can develop rhythms that allow you to keep leading well for the long haul.</span></p>
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