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Rumors of the Jay-Z love Child come to the surface,Do you think it's True or False!

2011-09-15T15:16:00.000-07:00

The rumors have started again that Rapper Jay-Z has a 9 year old love child by a model from Trinidad has came back to the light.

I know that Jay-Z is a rich rapper and I would hope that if this was the case, he would step up to the plate and take care of his child that he helped create.

It all started in 2007 when Shenelle Scott, a Trinidadian model claimed that Jay-Z is the father of her nine year old son. Jay-Z denied it and there were rumors of child support, a $1 million dollar payout and somehow the matter went away quietly and quietly.

Now this week the boys grandfather talks to Star magazine and the story is set to hit the news stands again!

Jay-Z is a Terrific Rapper either way!

As told to the Star by Jerard Andrews (who is the father of Malik Sayeed, who thought he was the real father. That makes Jerard Andrews the “Grand-baby’s Daddy)

‘At the time [he] was born, my son Malik thought he was his child, but they did DNA tests,
It’s been determined that [the child is] Jay-Z’s baby.’
‘Maybe two weeks later, he called me and said, “Daddy, I got some bad news. [He’s] not my son,”‘
‘I said, ‘How do you know, Malik?’ He said, “He doesn’t look anything like me!”‘
‘Shenelle told me that Jay-Z gave her $1 million to keep her mouth shut,’ ‘My understanding is that he’s paying her child support.
‘Shenelle took the money and bought herself a really nice house in Trinidad that the whole family lives in now.’

When asked directly about the DNA tests, Andrews states,

“I know Shenelle, but I’ve never spoken to her or my son about this. They’re very private people. The stuff about the DNA test was on the Internet. It’s all from an old article on the Internet, I don’t know if it’s true.”

Andrews then tells the Daily News,

Scott is now married to a professional basketball player, and that her new husband bought the house.
“The house wasn’t purchased by Jay-Z. It was paid for by her present husband,”

I bet that Beyonce wasn't too happy about this. But at least she's also giving him a child.

As far as I'm concerned, it's all GOSSIP and if not that's his business... if Beyonce likes it! " I love it"

You can't have your cake,ice cream, gum and candy Baby!!!

2011-09-13T15:23:00.000-07:00

I have a really close friend that has been seeing this guy for 4 years and she just recently found out he had 2 kids and that he still pays his baby mama's bills. She doesn't want to make a big deal about it because she's afraid that he may leave her and go live with his baby mama.

I have tried to explain to her that he was wrong for keeping this info from her and that if he would hide this type of information... then what else could he be keeping from her, I told her that in order for the relationship to grow he would need to be honest with her and tell her about his past.

OKAY!!!

My friend called me in tears! saying, that she took my advice and told him he needed to keep it real about his past and now he's mad with her and says that if she can't trust him... then he would move out!

Is it me or is he tryna make this her fault because his lieing a** got caught and he wants to have his cake, ice cream, gum, candy and all that good stuff..lol

This is a example of a man that wanted to keep it good on the other side of town just in case things went bad on his side of town.

Girl, tell him to KICK ROCKS!! and be with his baby mama!

10 signs your mate is cheating on you!

2011-09-13T06:52:00.000-07:00

1. If your mate has to work late all the time.

2. If your mate starts to wear different clothes then they use to and perfume or cologne.

3. If your mate is always to tired to be intimate with you.

4. If your mate is on a call and hangs up when you come in the room.

5. If your mate keeps his cellphone in the car or his ringer on silent.

6. If he keeps extra clothes and hygiene products in the car.

7. if your mate starts to argue with you about any and everything for no reason.

8. If your mate finds all kinds of reasons to go kick it with you in public.

9. If your mate gets these family members you never met and now they exist.

10. If your mate has the scent of the opposite sex smell on them.

If you are dealing with any problems like the ones I have listed above you need to drop that mate ASAP!

How to treat your woman like a Queen

2011-09-12T08:53:00.000-07:00

I love my relationship but sometimes, I feel my man has no clue what it takes to make me happy. For starters... I would like for him to listen to me when I talk and or vent about my good are bad day at work. I would like him to be more of a listener and a active communicator and tell me what he feels...so that I don't have to read his mind and assume what he wants and needs from me.

I would like for us to have date nights and pretend we are just meeting for the first time, so that we could keep our relationship fresh and exciting! Most of all I want him to noticed... when I go to the beauty shop and nail shop trying to look good for him and have him to acknowledge my new outfit that I have own. (looking very Fine)

Most of all, I would like him to tell me that I'm beautiful and make me feel that I'm his queen that he fail in love with. So making a woman happy doesn't have to always be a financial commitment...It can be the smallest things that can make your woman happy and keep her happy.

PS, Diamonds are a girls best friend.