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MAKING LOVE TO HER

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Wed, 06 Jan 2016 15:46:00 +0000

There are many different ways to make love to a woman -- masturbating her, going down on her or having intercourse with her.

MASTURBATING HER

Masturbating a woman is also known as fingering. When you masturbate a woman, you touch her clitoris and the area around it: the labia and the opening to the vagina. Fingering can give a really arousing feeling and can bring a woman to orgasm. It’s different for every woman and can be different from time to time.

How do you do it?

You can rub around the clitoris or to the side of it – or even right over it.
You can move faster or slower, and stroke harder or more gently.
You can put one or more fingers inside the woman’s vagina.

Ask your partner what she likes. You can ask her to take your hand and guide you. Or show you herself – which can be quite a turn-on!

Body language

Pay attention to her body language. How is she responding to your touch? Is her vagina becoming moist? Is she sighing or moaning? Is her body writhing? Then you’re getting it right! Also listen to her breathing: is it getting faster? That’s also a sign that she’s getting aroused.

Apart from your fingers, you can also use your mouth. See oral sex, below. Only do it if you’re ready for it yourself – not just because the other person takes the initiative and you don’t dare to say no!

ORAL SEX WITH HER

Oral sex on a woman is when you stimulate her clitoris and vagina with your tongue and lips. People also call it ‘going down on a woman’. Many women find this very arousing, and it can bring them to orgasm.

If you’ve never done it, you’re not the only one. Half of all 17-year-olds have no experience with oral sex.

How do you do it?

There are lots of ways to give oral sex. It’s different for every woman and can be different from time to time.

You can lick around or over the clitoris.
You can lick the labia or inside the vagina.
You can lick faster or slower, harder or more gently.

Ask your partner what she likes. Get to know her so you can really give her pleasure. You can also just try something and pay attention to her body language. Is she getting moister and moaning? Then you must be getting it right!

If you can’t keep it up or your jaw starts aching, stop or change position, or switch to using your fingers for a while.

If you don’t like the idea of giving oral sex, you don’t have to do it if you don’t want to. Are you curious? Have a shower together first, so you feel nice and clean. And you can start making love under the shower!

Many women have an orgasm through oral sex, but not every woman. Even if she doesn’t have an orgasm, oral sex can still feel wonderful.

Advanced oral sex

Use your hands and tongue at the same time. For example, you could put a finger inside her vagina and move it back and forth, gently or perhaps then a little harder, while you stimulate her clitoris with your tongue. Many women like it if you switch between your tongue and your finger.

You can give oral sex in different positions. The woman can lie on her back and you can lie between her legs – though this isn’t the best position for your neck. You can also lie down so she can sit on your face. She can also sit on a table or the edge of a chair so you can sit in front of her between her legs. In short… use your imagination!

INTERCOURSE WITH HER

Intercourse – to put it bluntly, fucking or screwing – is when a man puts his erect penis inside a woman’s vagina. And the woman takes the penis into her vagina. Most young people make love in other ways first. So don’t think you have to have intercourse straight away.

How to have sex with a woman

Don’t start lovemaking with intercourse right at the beginning. Build up slowly, make sure you both get really turned on. Slowly undress each other, kiss and stroke each other’s bodies, give each other compliments.

First stroke her belly, her breasts, and the inside of her thighs. Try touching her mons pubis, between her legs, her labia briefly at first, as if by chance, to build up the excitement.

Clitoris

Stimulate the clitoris with your fingers or tongue. You can do this before, during and after intercourse. Most women come when their clitoris is stimulated, not because of intercourse. This is because the clitoris isn’t in the vagina, but outside and in front of it.

G-spot

Some women have a G-spot. This is an area the size of a coin, three to five centimetres inside the vagina, on the front wall. For some women it doesn’t give any special feeling, but for others it’s particularly sensitive.

Only have intercourse when the woman’s vagina is nice and moist, otherwise it’s painful for her.

Pain during intercourse

Some women experience pain during intercourse. What’s causing the pain?

The first time can hurt her because the hymen is stretched.
It can hurt if the vagina isn’t moist enough. Take plenty of time to build up slowly before having intercourse, and be careful and gentle. Only start having intercourse when her vagina is moist enough. If need be use lubricant.

If she finds intercourse painful, it could be because she's tense. This means her pelvic floor muscles aren’t relaxing enough. Take time for her to relax and get aroused. Don't rush to have intercourse. Ask her how it feels.

What Is Sexual Addiction?

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Tue, 05 Jan 2016 15:16:00 +0000

Sexual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive sexual thoughts and acts. Like all addictions, its negative impact on the addict and on family members increases as the disorder progresses. Over time, the addict usually has to intensify the addictive behavior to achieve the same results.

For some sex addicts, behavior does not progress beyond compulsive masturbation or the extensive use of pornography or phone or computer sex services. For others, addiction can involve illegal activities such as exhibitionism, voyeurism, obscene phone calls, child molestation or rape.

Sex addicts do not necessarily become sex offenders. Moreover, not all sex offenders are sex addicts. Roughly 55 percent of convicted sex offenders can be considered sex addicts.

About 71 percent of child molesters are sex addicts. For many, their problems are so severe that imprisonment is the only way to ensure society’s safety against them.

Society has accepted that sex offenders act not for sexual gratification, but rather out of a disturbed need for power, dominance, control or revenge, or a perverted expression of anger. More recently, however, an awareness of brain changes and brain reward associated with sexual behavior has led us to understand that there are also powerful sexual drives that motivate sex offenses.

The National Council on Sexual Addiction and Compulsivity has defined sexual addiction as “engaging in persistent and escalating patterns of sexual behavior acted out despite increasing negative consequences to self and others.” In other words, a sex addict will continue to engage in certain sexual behaviors despite facing potential health risks, financial problems, shattered relationships or even arrest.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Psychiatric Disorders, Volume Four describes sex addiction, under the category “Sexual Disorders Not Otherwise Specified,” as “distress about a pattern of repeated sexual relationships involving a succession of lovers who are experienced by the individual only as things to be used.” According to the manual, sex addiction also involves “compulsive searching for multiple partners, compulsive fixation on an unattainable partner, compulsive masturbation, compulsive love relationships and compulsive sexuality in a relationship.”

Increasing sexual provocation in our society has spawned an increase in the number of individuals engaging in a variety of unusual or illicit sexual practices, such as phone sex, the use of escort services and computer pornography. More of these individuals and their partners are seeking help.

The same compulsive behavior that characterizes other addictions also is typical of sex addiction. But these other addictions, including drug, alcohol and gambling dependency, involve substances or activities with no necessary relationship to our survival. For example, we can live normal and happy lives without ever gambling, taking illicit drugs or drinking alcohol. Even the most genetically vulnerable person will function well without ever being exposed to, or provoked by, these addictive activities.

Sexual activity is different. Like eating, having sex is necessary for human survival. Although some people are celibate — some not by choice, while others choose celibacy for cultural or religious reasons — healthy humans have a strong desire for sex. In fact, lack of interest or low interest in sex can indicate a medical problem or psychiatric illness.

16 Quotes From ‘The Pursuit Of Happyness’ That Will Remind You To Never Give Up

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Sun, 03 Jan 2016 15:47:00 +0000

It’s been almost a decade since the release of ‘Pursuit of Happiness’ and yet it is one such movie that sticks to my head as such an inspirational movie. The film dramatizes the true story of Chris Gardener’s extraordinary journey from homelessness to success as a stockbroker, all while supporting his young son as a single father.

The movie also has a very simple message of ‘Never give up’. Being evicted from their home and facing financial difficulties, the father-son duo faced numerous struggles everyday. Yet, the small bits of happiness they find, despite all advertises, provides a heartwarming plot for this film.

Here are 11 quotes which will make you think and will certainly inspire you to look at life from a renewed perspective.

So, if you feel like life does not make sense or you are just bored today and want a bit of inspiration, you know which movie you need to watch.

10 Lessons about the Female Orgasm

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Sat, 02 Jan 2016 17:26:00 +0000

Perhaps you took a course on human sexuality in college. If you did, you likely remember one thing: the lecture on the female orgasm. Women want to have them, men want to deliver them. But all too often, the fairer sex's big-O falls among the ranks of the Abominable Snowman—great, even magical, in theory, but not something that's often stumbled across.

If women are flummoxed by their orgasms, you're thinking, what hope do you have? Lots, it turns out. Sure, the female orgasm is fickle. But if you follow our 10 lessons about the female orgasm, you'll have the knowledge you need to start studying (and finally seeing) it in the wild. So sit down, listen up, and whip out your pencil. Class is in session

Take Her Off the Clock
Just as you're concerned about lasting longer, many women are so self-conscious about taking too long that they end up faking orgasm or deciding to go without. The solution? Stop obsessing over orgasms—yours and hers. A brain-imaging study by Swedish researchers shows that relaxation is the single most important factor in bringing a woman toorgasm.

So tell her she has all night. The better you convey not just tolerance for a lengthy buildup, but also appreciation of her sexual pleasure—orgasm or not—the easier it will be for her to unwind and explode. Oh, and studies show that it takes 15 to 40 minutes for the average woman to reachorgasm. Going somewhere?

Turn Her On with Your Talent

The best sex starts long before the clothes come off. Talent—more than rugged good looks or a chiseled midsection—is a powerful aphrodisiac, according to research by my colleagues at The Kinsey Institute. (Less surprisingly, poor hygiene and a messy home are among women's biggest turnoffs.)

So nail "Ice, Ice Baby" during karaoke. Or make her die laughing at your self-deprecating display of atrocious dartsmanship. Yes, humor is a talent, too.

When She's Naked, Speak Up
Women who worry about the way they look down there are less likely toorgasm easily during oral sex, according to my research. And a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Research suggests that women who feel embarrassed or ashamed about their bodies have less sexualexperience and are less sexually assertive.

Clearly, you have everything to gain with flattery. If you love the way she looks naked—and you do, right?—share the news.

Always Be Tender Up Top

During foreplay, gently brush the tops, bottoms, and sides of her breasts; these areas are actually more sensitive than an unaroused areola and nipple. Gradually move in toward her nipples, paying attention to how she responds. As things heat up, the nipples will become flushed with blood, and the sensory receptors will become primed for direct stimulation. You'll kickstart the bloodflow and lubrication down below, starting her slow buildup.

Learn Her Key Strokes
One thing many women love during manual stimulation: a slow buildup. Here's how to do it: Lie next to her, lightly bracing the heel of one hand just above her clitoris. Now run your ring and middle fingers along the length of her outer lips. Graze the skin at first, adding pressure as the tension builds. Cup the area around her clitoris with your palm to add indirect stimulation—most women are too sensitive to receive direct contact early on. As she becomes aroused, brace your hand on her mons—her pubic mound, the fleshy area that covers her pubic bone—and tease the clitoris with the middles and tips of your fingers as you move your entire hand.

Change Your Angle
Play Ponce de León and explore various types of penetration to figure out what turns her on most. Your first stop: her G-spot, located about 1 to 2 inches up the front wall of her vagina. This spongy region swells during arousal. Try massaging the area slowly with your fingers. A lot of women find it mind blowing. Not her thing? Just move on.

Use Moves that Multitask
To maximize her pleasure, increase the amount of contact you'll have with her most sensitive parts. Here's one move that will drive her wild: Ask her to lie on her back, with her legs stretched out. Now climb on top. Curl your arms around her shoulders, supporting yourself with your elbows and moving your chest up by her chin. The goal is to bring the base of your penis in contact with her clitoris. Thrust slowly, focusing on up-and-down movement instead of in-and-out penetration.

Another great trick: Move your pubic mound in a circle or up and down against her clitoris. You'll get a break from high-intensity stimulation, and she'll receive focused attention where it often matters most.

Learn to Sense Her Orgasm
Ease into oral sex—don't just attack. First kiss her inner thighs and her inner and outer lips, then work your way inside using firm, broad strokes with your tongue. Watch her hips for a clue to the rhythm she likes. Listen to her gasps and moans as you experiment with different techniques.

And watch for signs she's close to climaxing, such as a subtle deepening in the color of her labia caused by increased bloodflow. Or rest a hand on her stomach and feel for the muscular contractions that immediately precede her orgasm.

Follow Her Lead
Once you reach your point of no return, you'll climax even if you're interrupted by a tuba-playing, thong-clad Bea Arthur. But your lady could hit the "off" switch if you stop or change moves midway to orgasm. We love it when you try new things, and it's important to vary your technique, but once you've found a winner, stick with it until she crosses the finish line.

Let Her Finish First
Stalking the elusive tandem orgasm is an admirable goal, but many women—especially those with sensitive clitorises—respond better to a "ladies-first" strategy. If you rub the clitoris for a long time—during thrusting, for example—it can become too sore or desensitized to respond to manual or oral stimulation later. So satisfy her before intercourse.

Bonus: A woman's orgasm threshold drops after her first one, so it's often easier to bring her to climax through penetration after she's already had one. How does that sound for an encore?

8 Things Men Think While Going Down on You

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Fri, 01 Jan 2016 16:59:00 +0000

The good, the bad, and the tongue pain

The high-functioning part of a man’s brain basically shuts down the minute your pants come off. It’s not that we don’t think; our thoughts just become, well, simple. Naked woman. Must touch.

But that changes when we go down on you because, suddenly, we have a goal. We need a strategy. And we need to silence the me, me, me part of our brains long enough to make you feel totally happy with your decision to get into bed with us. In that moment, here’s what your guy is likely to be thinking.

1. Is That It?
A man’s penis is easy to find. It’s all up in your face like a new Beyoncé song. But your clitoris? It’s more like an original-press Beatles album on vinyl. The early stuff, no less. You can spend hours in a record shop, flipping through the wrong piles. Then suddenly...there it is! Hallelujah!

2. Whoa. Great Angle.
It’s underboob city down here. You look fantastic. We’d be happy to snap some pictures if you’d like.

3. Oh, No. It’s Stubble.
Those little one-sixteenth-inch hairs? They hurt. Don’t get us wrong—we’re still happy to be down here. But if you think about it before our next hook-up, a shave would be nice. Or maybe a wax? If that’s not your style, just grow it out a little so your pubes don’t feel like sandpaper.

4. I Sure Hope This Pays Off in a Blowjob.
One giveth and one receiveth, right? Right?!

5. Wait...Was That an Orgasm?
Again with the mystery! When guys get off, you know it. First there’s the battle cry, and then there’s the stain on the sheets. But with women—most women, anyway—a man can never be totally positive. Plus, we hear you’re prone to faking it. We hope you’re being sincere this time.

6. So, Um, Am I Done Here?
If you didn’t get off, you’re going to let us know when we’re done, right? We don’t want to fall short on our oral duties, but as soon as you’re ready to move on, we are, too. Just let us know, okay?

7. Or Maybe We Should Turn This Party Into a 69.
Actually, it’s okay if you want to keep us down here for a while. But the longer we’re buried between your legs, the more antsy we get for some action of our own. So if you’re not ready to move on, let’s just split the workload. That’s teamwork.

8. Oh, No. Tongue Cramp.
Stall! Bring in the hand! Flex the jaw! No no, we’re fine. Thanks for asking. Now back to work.

Why Your Girlfriend Wants to Get with Another Woman

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Thu, 31 Dec 2015 16:46:00 +0000

Good news: Other women turn her on. But what does that mean for you?

Your girlfriend is probably turned on by other women—at least that’s what the findings from a new study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggest.

In the experiment, women who claimed to be straight actually showed the same signs of physical arousal when watching sexy videos of naked women as they did when viewing ones of dudes. Blood flow to their genitals increased and their pupils dilated

This shows that straight women may have a more fluid sexuality, meaning they could be turned on by men and women, says study author Gerulf Rieger, Ph.D., a psychologist at the University of Essex

Men, on the other hand, tend to be less flexible with what turns them on.

“We have conducted several studies on men, and the majority of straight men are almost exclusively sexually aroused by women,” he adds. “In general, the direction a man’s penis takes is a reliable indicator of his sexual orientation.”

Now, that’s not to say that all women definitely get turned on when faced with another scantily-clad female. Arousal is very individualized, and what turns on one woman may not necessarily rev up another.

Plus, even if the thought of other chicks does turn her on, she may never want to have a ménage a trois.

“Sexual arousal may happen automatically or subconsciously,” he says. “A sexual or romantic relationship with another woman may not be what she actually wants to pursue.”

So how do you know for sure? Gauge her interest by asking if she’d be into watching girl-on-girl porn with you. If she’s game—and she enjoys it—you can then bring up the idea of a threesome in a comfortable place, like her apartment or your home.

OH MY GOSH!Awkward Positions of Sleeping Couples!

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Mon, 28 Dec 2015 18:14:00 +0000

5 Simple Tricks To Impress A Girl Which Really Works…Must Try

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Mon, 28 Dec 2015 17:58:00 +0000

It’s no secret that cuddling makes you feel good when you’re in a new or established relationship. It’s also something that you miss greatly when you’re single.

The otherwise admirable push for gender equality has largely eliminated acts of chivalry like this one

Giving compliments isn’t just a nice way to get someone’s attention, it’s also an easy way to make someone feel good and even make yourself feel good.

Whether you’re apartment-hunting or trying to set your buddy up on a blind date, women enjoy being asked for advice

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noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Mon, 21 Dec 2015 07:09:00 +0000

Hello Nurse! ‘The Hottest Nurse Alive’ Holds This Title For A Good Reason! My God

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Fri, 11 Dec 2015 14:52:00 +0000

Nurses are a known to be a fantasy for many people, maybe due to the outfit, maybe the “taking care of you” part. What ever the reason may be, when we visit a hospital, sadly, out fantasy shatters after seeing a 60 year old nurse. Instagram user kaicyre Brings hope and reviving out lost fantasy as a real life hot nurse! By day she treats the injured and broken, makes them feel good. By night she makes her Instagram viewers merry, what a nurse.

1. KAI IS PROBABLY THE HOTTEST NURSE ALIVE.

Stunning Kaicyre Palmers is a nurse at a New York hospital. She has an active instagram page where she shares sexy photos of herself. Recently she was declared the world’s sexiest nurse by fans. See other photos of her below and tell us if you agree.

2. HER INSTEGRAM ACCOUNT GOES VIRAL AND FOR A GOOD REASON.

She multiplied her followers almost 100 times once someone shared these pictures of her for the world. She is the hottest nurse on Instagram. And you can see why.

3. SHE IS UNBELIEVABLY HOT! IN ORDER TO STAY IN SHAPE, SHE LOVES TO…

do Yoga and apparently she loves to swim. So if any of you girls out there are yearning to look like her, just get to your nearest pool and start swimming. And ofcourse, take Yoga classes.

4. WORK OUT, AND A LOT.

Her gym routine is pretty intense, which is understandable, i mean – look at her! I guess the impressive thing is that with all the time she spends in the hospital, she gets time to spend quality time in the gym to stay in the shape that she is.

5. SHE LOVED SPENDING TIME WITH HER FRIENDS AND GO OUT TO PARTIES WHEN SHE IS OFF WORK.

Adding on my last point, talk about being a great manager. She manages time to give time in the hospital, go to the gym as well as spending time with friends and family. When does she sleep?

6. IT IS RARE FOR A GIRL TO PULL OFF A DRESS LIKE THAT, BUT SHE CAN.

Here she is looking all beautiful and chic in formal environment. I guess if you’re the hottest nurse in the world, you’ll have to pull off all kinds of dresses and this lady does not disappoint.

7. GOING OUTDOORS TO PARTY IS A GREAT WAY TO BLOW OFF STEAM AFTER NURSING PEOPLE.

If we could teleport, this would be the first destination on our itinerary with her obviously. As beautiful as the view is behind her, I think that having her as the focus of the picture enhances the view’s beauty.

8. BUT DO NOT THINK SHE IS NON PROFESSIONAL JUST BECAUSE SHE LOVES TO PARTY.

Even with all the parties and gym and traveling, it is pretty impressive that she works as a nurse with such dedication when she must be getting plenty of offers to become a model. And by god, she can become a model.

9. IT IS IMPRESSIVE THAT THERE’S MORE THAN MEETS THE EYES WITH HER.

Palmers also has a Facebook account, but the public figure has not captured that audience quite as fast with less than 3,000 followers on the medium. The “World’s Sexiest Nurse” shouldn’t worry much, however, since it appears the page was just created September 9.

10. SHE TAKES CARE OF ANIMALS ON HER SPARE TIME ALSO.

Did we mention she’s an animal lover too? Mr. Elephant, you have no idea how lucky you are. And she can clean and sew up your wounds, physically and emotionally.

11. DID I MENTION HER FRIENDS ARE JUST AS HOT?

Palmers could be following the path Kim Kardashian took to become the most-followed celebrity on Instagram. Kardashian has used the medium (and some racy photos) to debunk rumors about her pregnancy as well as make a few dollars with controversial posts surrounding paid endorsements for products.

12. KAI MAKES YOU WANNA GET HURT JUST TO HAVE A REASON TO VISIT HER.

I guess there have been instances, as happens with any celeb, that people go out of the way to meet her. Maybe even hurt themselves slightly and ask for her as the nurse. We won’t condone the actions but can’t blame them for trying.

13. HER FAVORITE SPORT IS BASE BALL. SHE IS QUITE GOOD.

Palmers has pictures taken from around the world as the globetrotter has visited some of the hottest vacation destinations. The internet sensation has visited Fiji, Thailand, Bali, Puerto Rico, the Bahamas, and the U.S. Virgin Islands. The “World’s Sexiest Nurse” has also spent time in Phoenix at the 2015 NFL Pro Bowl and even more time in Los Angeles as a self-proclaimed UCLA alum.

14. HER HIPS DON’T LIE. HOUR GLASS BODY.

I would give her 10/10 for that curvy figure. It’s astonishing to me that she has a Kim Kardashian like figure even without all the facilities that are available to someone like Kardashian. I guess she just has great genes and we should thank her mom and dad.

15. UNLIKE THE OTHER “INSTAGRAM MODELS” SHE IS DOING HER BEST TO SAVE LIVES WHILE ENJOYING HERS, AND IT MEANS SOMETHING!

When Kai isn’t working 12-hour shifts in the critical care unit of a hospital in New York, she’s vacationing and posing for the camera in Fiji, Thailand, Bali, Puerto Rico, the Bahamas, or the U.S. Virgin Islands.

16. AFTER A LONG SHIFT, ALL SHE WANTS NOW IS GO TO THE POOL AND COOL DOWN.

Back in July, the internet went nuts over Rita Mattos, an aspiring model dubbed the hottest street sweeper in Brazil. Now, the internet has discovered Kaicyre Palmers

TESTING SOMEONE’S LOVE IS SELF-SABOTAGE AT IT’S WORSE

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Tue, 08 Dec 2015 17:36:00 +0000

Victoria-era England, women devised a complex system using their fans to let men know whether they were available (fan quickly), interested (rested on right cheek), taken (fan slowly) or horny (ripping bodices). The courting rituals of other societies across the globe and history get much stranger. In old-school Scandanavia, women looking for a partner started to wear a knife sheath. Men would make knives to slip into the sheath of the girl he loved. Subtle, I know. If a girl wasn’t into it, she’d give it back.

These traditions may seem totally unnecessary, but the fact that we don’t have a common language to simplify the dating process is causing self-inflicted heartache and unnecessary anxiety.
Without a decent courting process we’ve had to hack together our own system of answering the most basic question in relationships – “do you like/love me?”
We instead set up complex scenarios to test our partners loyalty or interest. We bait them with the promise of more intimacy. All they have to do is prove their affection.

At first, it’s easy to tell whether someone likes us. We look for obvious signs of affection. Whether someone smiles at us from across the room. Whether they plan a thoughtful first date, or immediately text us back after the first kiss.

When things aren’t clear we are tempted to force situations that would make our date’s intentions more obvious. We tell an intimate story about an ex and look for them to get angry or jealous, which is proof that they care about us. If they aren’t visually annoyed, they must not really give a shit. We dump them.
Essentially, we build individualized sets of rules or conditions that our partners must follow. But we can’t tell our partner about the rules. That would defeat the purpose!!

I had a client who dumped her new boyfriend after he forgot her birthday. Romantic birthdays were the ultimate sign of commitment to her. Of course, they’d only been on 3 dates and she had never actually told him about her upcoming birthday. But she did tell him to connect with her on Facebook and tested to see how deeply he would dig to find out about her. He hated FB and never friended her. She was irreparably disappointed.
We’ve all done something like this at some point. It’s a sadistic but normalized part of our dating culture.

We do it because we fear rejection.

We’re constantly on the lookout for signs that the person we’re dating is using us, playing a trick on us, or ready to upgrade to a thinner, prettier version of ourselves. So we are suspicious of new partners before we even say “want to grab a drink sometime?” It’s not a surprise since we’ve all experienced the trauma of a terrible heartbreak that we never saw coming.
We’ve learned to be vigilant in detecting the early signs of disinterest so we can move quickly to be the first to end things without getting hurt.

Avoiding being hurt has become the goal for many daters. Which ironically, makes it impossible for them to experience the one thing absolutely necessary for a good relationship. Vulnerability.

New lovers ride the waves between total bliss and complete terror. It’s thrilling to be with someone you can open up to and be vulnerable with. That vulnerability is also a stand-in emotion for the things we are most afraid of. A whiff of vulnerability is enough to make some people want to hurl.

Unfortunately. our tests and rules are terribly flawed.

The best lovers see through your BS

Most relationship tests are not very subtle. They feel obviously forced and inauthentic. As a person being tested, you can feel your partner pull away, communication comes to a standstill while they are waiting for you to fail. You are probably staring at an ominous text message or an unexpected moment of drama and you know there’s a right and a wrong thing to say, but you don’t know what it is.

The best partners, the emotionally intelligent, kind, caring and thoughtful ones; they can smell this drama from miles away and choose not to participate. They will kindly opt out of the relationship.

By playing games and testing partners, you immediately eliminate the ones who are worth dating.

The creeps and drama-queens are the ones who know how to play these games and manipulate the rules. These are the people you will inevitably end up with when you test your partners.

Two people constantly testing each other isn’t love.

I’ve seen whole relationships built on the ability to pass these tests. It’s a shaky foundation at best. I talk to women in abusive relationships that stay with their boyfriends because 3 years ago when they were having a meltdown, their boyfriend left work to buy them a bottle of wine and chocolate (hence passing the test and proving their love).

I’ve met people in 10 year long relationships exhausted from jumping through hoops and having to prove their loyalty over and over, under constant suspicion that they’re cheating or that they loved their ex more than their partner. They don’t leave because they’re giving the same tests. They’ve invested too much time to turn back.

My drama is not your drama

These tests are triggered by our own past trauma. For me, this trigger happens at exactly the 6 month mark. That’s when I start to feel too vulnerable. Too comfortable. I start to doubt my relationship and whether my bf is with me for the right reasons. I start to question his relationships with his exes. That’s my first test. That’s because my first 3 boyfriends bailed on me at about 6 months for their ex. That’s my trauma/drama.I build rules and conditions based on the exact story that I tell myself about why those men failed me. Those rules test that my new partner isn’t anything like those other shitty guys.

I can see that’s my MO now. I do everything I can to avoid being a shitty partner at 6 months. It blows over quickly. There is no way for my partner to know that is my history and my story. It’s different for everyone.

We run our partners through the tests based on our old stories and our biggest fears. Unfortunately, that’s completely different for everyone you meet, and there’s no way to know what a person’s story is. So the expectation that your partner will be able to see the test and pass it successfully completely depends on their ability to guess and dodge bullets.

To be clear, there is no correlation between your partners ability to guess your trauma and their ability to love and respect you.

Testing people throws off the balance.

There is nothing more humiliating than failing a test you didn’t know you were taking. Even if a partner passes the test (thanks to sheer luck) they feel disrespected and suspect. They realize that you don’t trust them. They might start to doubt you in ways they didn’t before. It’s the start of an unhealthy cycle.

It can cause an imbalance in the relationship when one person is constantly proving their affection. It’s easy to get used to the easy on-demand attention you get when someone is being tested. Having a man prove his love over and over must feel powerful in a way that is sure to crush a person’s soul. Not exactly the relationship that I would want for you!

Insecurity is not sexy

The simple fact is, testing your partner comes from a deeply rooted insecurity. Maybe you don’t feel like you are worthy of love from your partner (or anyone). Maybe you feel like you aren’t smart enough, or experienced enough, or gorgeous enough for a great relationship. So you need someone to show you that you are smart, you are experienced, you are gorgeous.

The problem is – no person can say or do anything to fully convince you.

You don’t need them to prove their love – you need YOU to prove your love.

Building your self-worth and trust in yourself starts with creating rules, but not for other people. You need to make rules and conditions for yourself. To make sure you are honoring yourself, your body and your emotional self.

Honorable The Chief Justice of India: Fast-track justice for Talwars: Aarushi's parents

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How To Orgasm During Sex: 39 Ladies Tell The Truth About EXACTLY What Gets Them Of

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Tue, 17 Nov 2015 14:59:00 +0000

The female orgasm can be a sneaky, elusive little thing, with many women wondering how to experience it during sex, or if that's even possible for them. When it comes to having an orgasm with your partner, there are two different approaches you can take. You can do the stuff everyone promises will absolutely give you an orgasm, or you can do the stuff that actually works for you. But sometimes, it can be hard to tell the difference. It often feels like every 10 minutes, there's another article by another expert who has come up with four new, no-fail, 100 percent orgasm-guaranteeing positions that will work for all women (girl on top, doggy-style with vibrator, headstand during a full moon in January, missionary while wearing Dr. Seuss hat). When these methods fail to make rainbows shoot out of our crotches, a lot of the time, we end up blaming ourselves for doing them "wrong."

But there's no such thing as a "no-fail" orgasm technique that will work for every woman — we're all built differently, we like and dislike different things, and we have different vaginattention spans. The only way we can figure out what works for us is to conduct our own research, and then come to our own conclusions (luckily, conducting this research is usually pretty fun).

So to encourage you in your future fact-finding endeavors, we surveyed 39 different women on how they really like to get off with their partners. Use their answers for inspiration, motivation, or to help you plan your Saturday. And remember: The only "right" method of getting off is whatever method gets you off.

Mariah, 24

"There is definitely no surefire way to orgasm for me — but the maneuver that always has the most success is oral. No question. During intercourse it's a gamble, but me on top raises the odds because I have more control."

Three other women also pointed to oral sex as their number one way to get off.

2. Cecily, 25

"110% when he's holding my legs above me as I'm on my back. Something about this position hits the spot every. Single. Time (YASSS)."

3. Kristen, 31

"Dirty talk. But by dirty talk, I mean 'Don't ever leave me' or 'I'd kill for you.' Gothy things like that."

4. Erin, 20

"Cowgirl / reverse cowgirl. Also, if there's a lot of foreplay before actually doing it — at least 15 minutes worth."

Six other women also reported that girl-on-top was their go-to strategy for getting off with a partner.

5. Mariella, 27

"On my hands and knees, stimulating myself clitorally, while someone else stimulates me vaginally. Some anal stimulation doesn't hurt, either (and if it does, you're doing it wrong)."

Three other women also singled out clitoral stimulation as their one-way ticket to Pleasure Town.

6. Quinn, 30

"I like to be penetrated from behind while I'm on my stomach, with either my hand, his hand, or a Hitachi magic wand (or lesser vibrator) on my clit (the third option is logistically difficult, but possible, I swear). Please add a little manual attention to my ass if you'd like my head to explode (don't know why I'm writing this like an instructional guide?)."

7. Maya

"Penetration, combined with clitoral stimulation, combined with dirty talk ... a lot of it!"

8. Jessica, 28

"Licking my nipples and speaking in a sexy voice. Like, it almost doesn't matter what you say, as long as it isn't racist, homophobic, sexist, involves calling you 'daddy,' or seeking validation. Other than that, you could basically be reading me the stock report, but if your voice sounds like the Dow knows exactly what I want and plans to give it to me, then whatevs, man. Let's do this."

9. Regina, 32

"My clitoris needs such intense stimulation that vibrators are pretty much the only way to go for me. I'll usually include getting off with one as part of foreplay, and then maybe use it again after my boyfriend comes, if I feel particularly energetic."

10. Marcy, 24

"I think clitoral and nipple stimulation from behind is the way to go. There's a very particular intensity to it that just doesn't come to fruition if I'm looking at the person. Maybe it's more mysterious or raw or risque. I don't know, really. But it's a win."

11. Melanie, 28

"Touching my clit while on top with my hand or a small vibe, or doing the same with my legs on his shoulders or doggy-style."

Three other women also said that their top orgasm maneuvers involved some doggy-style action.

12. Emily

"Going down on me and throwing some fingers in there is like the damn Konami code."

13. Samantha, 30

"I am far too neurotic for anything but fingering to work for me."

14. Vega, 31

"Slow missionary grinding, getting head while being penetrated by a finger, or addition of a vibrator."

15. Amelia, 29

"It's been so long, I forget. Put your penis inside of me? JK ... To be honest, I'm all about the clitoris (so think oral or me touching myself during sex), unless you're just one of the chosen ones who can give me an orgasm vaginally. And that's not about size or even necessarily method. Just every now and then I meet some special unicorn (not literally ... ew) who's able to make it happen."

16. Claire, 24

"Being on top with a lil' bit o' rubbin' is da bomb."

17. Liz

"I always come after he does. Usually I get on top and rub my self against his flaccid penis. Sometimes I use a vibrator, but I prefer this skin-on-skin contact if I can — though sometimes, it just doesn’t happen, you know? A couple of times, I’ve come during intercourse while on top if he raises himself up so that I can rub against his lower stomach, but it takes a long time and detracts from the heat of the moment and the passion that I so enjoy."

18. Elise, 26

"Woman on top, lots of clitoral stimulation, nipple play."

19. Linda, 26

"Girl on top with vibrator — but still rare!"

20. Becca, 33

"Legs held back by my partner."

21. Allie

"Being on top. Like, always. Also oral + fingers."

22. Angela, 21

"Missionary, with legs on partner's shoulders."

23. Judy, 32

"Oral. Or being on top and some grinding."

24. Effie, 25

"D.I.Y."

4 INNOCENT PHOTOS THAT PROVE YOU’VE GOT A DIRTY MIND… #4 LOOKS PAINFUL

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 18:02:00 +0000

5 INNOCENT PHOTOS THAT PROVE YOU’VE GOT A DIRTY MIND… #4 LOOKS PAINFUL

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 17:59:00 +0000

8 Innocent Photos That Prove You’ve Got A Dirty Mind… #6 Looks Painful

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Mon, 09 Nov 2015 17:55:00 +0000

10 Innocent Photos That Prove You’ve Got A Dirty Mind… #6 Looks Painful

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Unknown & Interesting Facts About Sunny Leone You Didn’t Know!

noreply@blogger.com (sagar dudhande) — Tue, 27 Oct 2015 17:44:00 +0000

“What gets me in the mood is a man who knows what he’s doing. There’s nothing like someone who knows how to treat you, touch you and make you feel good.”- Sunny Leone

Not only with words but with her actions Sunny has informed us A LOT about our needs. So, we went down and deep and got a closer look at her life.

1. Her real name is Karenjit Kaur Vohra

2. She used to play with a women’s soccer league team in California. Quite sport-ilicious!

3. Apart from critical acclaim in Bollywood, Sunny has been part of Tamil and Kannada films as well.

4.She is the first adult film star to successfully crossover into mainstream Bollywood cinema in the Indian film industry.

5.Her first job was with German Bakery.

5. Sunny later worked at a tax and retirement firm.

7. She has also been part of Indian TV show Big Boss 5 and was one of the most favorite contestants.

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8. Her First Movie Released Was Titled Sunny

9. She Has Her Own Studio Called Sun Lust Pictures

10. Sunny was also seen in a Hollywood movie called “The Girl Next Door”, which came in 2004, in which she played a guest role.

11. Before made her debut in the Hindi film industry in “Jism 2

12. Favorite actor is Aamir Khan as she is inspired by his work and too considers him as perfectionist.

14. Former Penthouse magazine owner, Bob Guccione picked Leone name where she posted and was considered as the penthouse Pet of the month for the March 2001.

10 Absolutely Clever Answers To Weird IIM Interview Questions

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Fri, 25 Sep 2015 16:08:00 +0000

The IIMs are the most coveted institutions in India. Many people try their best to get admission there, by giving the much touted CAT examination. After getting the required percentile, they are required to go through the GD-PI session and take mock interviews at their coaching classes to nail the interview, and consequently, get the coveted seat.

But what happens when the interviewer asks some weird questions? The questions that make a student go WTF! Maybe they just check our presence of mind, but whatever be the reason, at the end of the day, those are IIM interview questions and the student is expected to answer them with a presence of mind.

So, without much further ado, let’s have a look at these quirky Q&A sessions.

1. IIM-C Interview: When Delhi elections took a toll.

(Background: I was screaming a lot in the Group Discussion as well as the interview. Around the time of my interviews, Delhi elections were going on where Kiran Bedi had referred to Arvind Kejriwal as ‘Upadravi’ for being an anarchist).

Somewhere during the interview,

Panelist 1 (in Hindi): Upadravi gotr ke ho kya?
(Translation: Are you from ‘Upadravi gotr’?)

Student: Sorry sir, I didn’t get that.

Panelist 2 (while going through my marksheets): Rehne do, isko samajh nahi aayega, 10th mein Hindi mein kam marks hain.
(Translation: He won’t understand as he anyways has less marks in Hindi in Class 10th)

Student: Facepalm.

Result: Rejected.

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2. IIM-L Interview: When patriotism hit high

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Panelist 1: Do you know who wrote the Indian National Anthem?

Student: Yes Sir, Rabindranath Tagore

Panelist 1: Ok, sing it now.

Student: [Stood up] Jana Gana Mana…

Panelist 2: Stop, otherwise we have to stand up too.

Result: Selected

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3. IIM-A Interview: When the question of dowry was brought to the table

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Panelist 1: Why exactly do you want to come to this campus, because I feel that it has nothing to do with what we offer but just that you want to go home and brag about getting the admission here to your friends and parents and get a large dowry later on. Why do you want to get here?

Student: I am not aware of the dowry part. But if what you say is correct, I shall surely go back home and renegotiate.

(The interviewer bursts out laughing)

Student: I really want to be here. Period.

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4. IIM-A Interview: When such intense discussion followed

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Interviewer 1: Why are people poor?

Student: Not very sure, sir. Please! Any options?

Interviewer 2: Oh! But you should know. It’s because they don’t have money. It’s simple.

Student:… Apologies Sirs, but isn’t this the ‘meaning’ of being ‘poor’, and not the reason?

Interviewer 2: (zapped)

Interviewer 1 (in his excitement to go one-up): “… He’s poor because he’s not earning. Hence, no money.”

Student: “… apologies Sirs again. But is he poor because he is not earning out of laziness, or he is working and not being paid, or, is he ready to work and earn, but is not getting a job.”

Interviewer 1: Have you studied Economics in your B.Tech?

Student: “No, sir our canteen supervisor in the hostel is really poor, and he has a Master’s in Mathematics”

Result: Selected!

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5. IIM-L Interview: When the love of Math took over

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Panelist: You seem to know a lot of math. What do you like in it?

Student: I like numbers, Sir.

Panelist: Ok. So tell us, what is the absolute truth?

Student: (Wow, what? Where did that come from and how is that related to numbers.) How would I know, Sir? I’m just a human being. They say God knows the absolute truth.

Panelist: Ok then, define God mathematically.

Student: Sir, God is the One. (They smile).

Result: Selected.

Credit: Nishant Agarwal

6. IIM-K Interview: Too much randomness

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Panelist: Spell the word COW in thirteen letters?

Candidate: Well! Caaaaouuuuuuu.

Panelist: (laughs) It’s “SEE O DOUBLE YOU”

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7. IIM-C Interview: When Comparison between 2 B-schools took over

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Panelist 1 (male): What do you know about IIM Calcutta?

Student: Gave a standard well-versed answer mostly from the content on their website

Panelist 2 (female): Okay, tell me what do you know about IIM Bangalore?

Student (taken by surprise): Annn.. Ma’am, it is one of the best B-schools in the country. (Clueless about what more should I add)

Panelist 2: So you know more about Calcutta than Bangalore? Didn’t you get a call from IIM Bangalore?

Student: Ma’am, I do have the call from IIM Bangalore, but its interview is two weeks later. (With a poker face)

Result: Selected.

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8. IIM-L Interview: When Everything was kept aside and the question that lingered on was about email ids.

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Panelist 1: So tell me Abhishek why do you have ‘1993’ in your email-id?

Student: Sir, I needed a bit more professional id as compared to my previous one.

Panelist2: So what was your previous id?

Student: Sir, it was abhishek.perfect@yahoo.com <smiling like an idiot>

<Both laughing at me>
Panelist 2: So you think you are not perfect anymore?

Suddenly the pseudo-intellectual philosopher in me wakes up

Student: Sir, even the air around me is not ideal, how can I be perfect.

Result: Selected.

Credit: Abhishek Rao

9. IIM-K Interview: When things got way too philosophical

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Interviewer: Tell me anything you know whose heading will surprise me and the explanation will shock me. More the impact, more will be your chances of success. Heading and Explanation both can be independent.

Student: Let me try. First of all, tell me what are you fascinated about?

Interviewer: Ok! From my childhood, I was really fascinated about my existence. What am I made of? Why am I here? These types of stuff.

Student: Why you did not choose a career in research?

Interviewer: There are things that are beyond our explanation. Well, answer my question.

Student: Do you know that the life we live is 50% dream and 50% reality?

Interviewer: You are successful. Explain?

Student: Something else. An electron is neither revolving around the nucleus in circular path nor in elliptical paths. It is something like a bee hovering around her honey.

Result: Selected

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10. IIM-A Interview: When someone asks you to draw intersecting parallel lines

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Interviewer: What is the sum of angles of a triangle?

Student: Sir, um, interior angles or exterior angles?

Interviewer: Interior.

Student: 180

Interviewer: Can there be two lines which are parallel and not intersecting?

Student: Sir, can you please repeat the question?

Interviewer: Draw and show it to me.” (Passed a paper and a pen)

Student: Again, after thinking for some time: I can’t, I need a ruler.

Result: Selected

Credit: Rishabh Baldi

Weren’t these questions just out of the blue? I am zapped, for real! What about you?

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11 Foreplay Tips That Will Make Her Go Crazy In Bed

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Fri, 18 Sep 2015 18:07:00 +0000

No matter how many times you’ve had it, you’re always looking forward to it. Yes, we’re talking about sex. And nothing ensures some great sex like good foreplay. Here are 12 foreplay tips that your woman would love.
1. Dirty Talk

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Foreplay can start much before you actually get to lay your hands on the girl. Heat things up by dirty talking just before you two hit the bedroom. Whisper in her ear what you plan to do to her and she won’t be able to resist you.
2. Touch Her At Different Places

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Run your hands down and around her body, graze them against her inner thighs, touch every inch till she melts in your hands as you give her a long, passionate kiss.
3. Pay Special Attention To Her Ears

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Bite them gently, lick them, breathe into them as you give her a slight tug on her hair and you’ll definitely put her in the right mood.
4. Massage Her Sensitive Areas

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Starting from the neck and going all the way down to behind the knees, massage every sweet spot in her body and watch her go crazy.
5. Take Off Her Clothes, Slowly

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When it comes to undressing her, never rush. Take it slow; tease her into the act of getting naked. Break the monotony by kissing her bare body every now and then.
6. Surprise Her With A New Move

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As you kiss her down the neck gently, catch her off guard by unhooking her bra with one hand – a move she just won’t be expecting. It’s not that hard – just slip your index finger and middle finger under her bra strap and unclasp it using your thumb and forefinger.
7. Play With Her Breasts Right

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Most women complain that their men pay attention only to the nipples. Spend a good amount of time discovering new sensitive areas on and around her breasts, come back fro more every now and then. That’s exactly what she wants!
8. Multitask

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A tongue, two hands, ten fingers – endless possibilities. As you play with her clitoris with her fingers, lick her breasts or run your hands over her body and she’ll be groaning and moaning in no time.
9. Kiss Her Inner Thighs

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Kiss her legs and move up. Gently kiss her inner thighs, lick them. Move further up but don’t touch her vagina. The wait will make her go crazy every second. Make her beg for it!
10. Look Her In The Eye

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While it may not be a big deal for you, women love it when their partners look into their eyes while making love to them. It guarantees a higher level of pleasure in women. So, keep her hooked on to you with a passionate gaze as you work your way around her hot, naked body.
11. Lick Her clitoris

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Go down on her and lick her clitoris with the tip of your tongue. Be gentle at first. If she wants you to be rough, you’ll know. Hit the right spots and you’ll have her squirming with pleasure.

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30 Facts About Orgasms You Need To Know

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Thu, 17 Sep 2015 18:10:00 +0000

How well do you know your body? Here are 30 facts about orgasms we bet you never knew!

1. The word ‘orgasm’ has been derived from a Greek word orgasmos which actually means ‘to swell with moisture, be excited or eager’.

2. The use of condoms does not affect orgasm quality. There is equal probability of a woman orgasming with or without a condom.

3. The spark you feel up your spine while orgasming is because of a pair of pudendal nerves that connect the penis/clitoris to the brain.

4. A woman can orgasm by the stimulation of breasts and nipples alone. Yes, nipplegasms are for real!

5. Kegel exercises really increase the chances of an orgasm.

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6. The condition where a person cannot orgasm is called ‘anorgasmia’, literally meaning ‘lack of orgasm’.

7. Orgasm helps you burn only 2-3 calories, though foreplay and intercourse could help you burn upto 50!

8. The areas of the brain that register fear and danger are deactivated while climaxing.

9. An orgasm affects the same part of your brain as heroin does in a drug addict’s brain. Whoa, sex really is addictive!

10. Even though it is popular belief that orgasms stop after a certain age, people older than 90 have also been experienced orgasms according to some studies.

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11. It takes 2 to 10 minutes for an average man to orgasm.

12. It could take up to around 20 minutes of stimulation for a woman to orgasm.

13. But there are some women who can orgasm in under 30 seconds with self-stimulation.

14. Men can also have multiple orgasms and the proof lies in documents dating back to 2968 B.C.

15. Just thinking about orgasming can also result in an orgasm.

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16. Sex toys have been used since hundreds of years for sexual pleasures.

17. The same parts of brain are activated while orgasming as those activated when you feel pain. Hence, the weird sex face!

18. Orgasms can ease your pain for around 10 minutes.

19. It is not necessary for a man to be erect to ejaculate.

20. According to Egyptian texts and legends, this world came into being when their God Atum masturbated.

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21. Circumcision doesn’t reduce the chances of orgasm in a man.

22. But, a foreskin does help in increasing the duration of an orgasm.

23. Not just men, even women can orgasm in their sleep.

24. Although just a tiny percentage, women have been reported to have orgasmed while doing Yoga.

25. The farthest distance any man has ever ejaculated is about 8 feet.

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26. Most women are unable to orgasm from vaginal intercourse alone. They need oral sex or physical stimulation to get them going!

27. An average orgasm in both men and women lasts for about 17-20 seconds.

28. It is possible for a woman to orgasm during child birth.

29. The higher your stress level, lower are your chances to orgasm. So, relax!

30. Doggie-style is one of the best sex positions to ensure your woman’s orgasm.

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11 Types Of Women You'll Encounter In Bed

noreply@blogger.com (Sandy) — Wed, 16 Sep 2015 17:45:00 +0000

After rocket science and algorithms, the most difficult subject to understand is women. They come in various shapes and sizes, and each is unique in her own little ways. Their moods change faster than numbers on the stock exchange. Men, simple-minded as they are, are in constant fear of unintentionally offending or displeasing them. And the situation becomes a hundred times riskier and more challenging in bed. You never know when or how she might react to that new move you just tried? Maybe she was shy only in public, and wants you to do more.

Before you get caught up in the maybes, we list out the 11 different kinds of personalities women act out in bed, and how to get around each.

1. The Dead Body

This kind likes to be ultra passive in bed, and believes that the act of sex is the responsibility of the man. All she does is lie down in bed, frozen like a dead body, expecting you to act upon her. At the most, she can make sex noises to prove you are not having sex with a dead body.

2. The One Who Bites And Scratches

This type is totally capable of injuring you. She reacts wildly to anything you do to her body. She might scratch your back roughly, she might bite your ear, or ‘other things’; she’d claw her way through your body. While most guys like it when women are a little rough, having injury marks the next day is not a very pleasant thing to wake up to. Tip: Apply a light moisturizer before you jump in the sheets with her. Dry skin scratches harder. Also, try biting her back a little. Don’t hurt her, but make it clear you can bite too.

3. The Seductress, The Dominatrix, The Woman Of Your Dreams

If she is confident, makes eye contact, and initiates sex, you know you have landed yourself an alpha female. She knows what she wants and has no qualms in asking for it. The sex is probably going to be great. The only thing you need to worry about here is coming too soon, or before she has come. Every gentleman knows his lady needs to be there, in order for him to be there. And she knows it all too well.

4. The One Who’s Into BDSM

She could be adventurous, she could be a total sissy – there’s no predicting which woman likes it a little rough in bed. She could be into role playing – her favourite roles being that of a victim-perpetrator or master-slave, she could like bondage, asphyxiation, or simply whacking the shit out of you. While this kind can be extremely sexually adventurous and eager to experiment, she is also the most challenging. If you are not experienced enough or a little jittery, you could mess up the whole game. Plus you need to know your moves well – one wrong move could even cost you a lifetime of sex! Kidding, it ain’t that risky.

5. The Hopeless Romantic

Call her the Disney princess, the Simran of Bollywood, she is a hopeless romantic. Pleasing this kind is difficult, especially if it’s a casual fling. Chances are she will not be in a casual fling in the first place. One word: foreplay. Loads of it. Building the perfect ambience is as important. Doesn’t necessarily mean roses and scented candles, but manage a neat good-smelling place at least. And soft music is a must. And she doesn’t have sex, she “makes love”. Caress her, make her feel wanted, lots of cuddling is a must. Oh, and don’t be surprised if she cries after sex.

6. The One Who Likes Dirty Talk In Bed

This one can turn a man on just by talking, for she is one smooth talker. And she loves to be talked dirty to in bed. Be as debauched in language as you can, and she might just let you do anything. Just keep one thing in mind – gauge her limits and don’t go overboard. There are also chances of her being into BDSM. Dirty talk and BDSM often overlap. Congratulations, if you have landed both.

7. The One Who Acts Prudish But Is Secretly Hot For You

This kind acts as a moral police at all times, especially in company. Sex is a no-no, only until she drinks. It’s sleaze fest then. She has repressed it for so long, she is like a house on fire now. She will react strongly to everything you do, so don’t worry about not being good enough. This type makes for a passionate lover. The only thing to keep in mind is that she is rather passive and expects you to take initiative. She has too much of a moral baggage to behave kinky in the beginning. So play your cards right and you have kama sutra in the bedroom.

8. The One Who Freaks Out Too Much

She is probably a virgin or has recently lost her virginity. She is scared and keeps rebuffing all your advances. She can’t decide whether to go ahead or not. And even when you begin making out, going all the way makes her freak out. The onus of making her feel comfortable lies with you. You’ll have to make an extra effort to calm her down.

9. The OCD Victim

The warning signs will be already there. Did she use a hand sanitizer after touching the menu? Does she never eat with hands? If yes, chances are she will carry the obsession to bed too. Forget about getting a head, she might not even kiss after you give her one. Simple clean sex is what she wants, and that is what you will get. If you want to have a good time, make sure you take a bath right before meeting her, or before the act, and make it evident.

10. The One Who Is Getting Over Someone

If things escalate to sex too soon, there can be 3 reasons for it: a) You are too hot b) She is lonely or just horny c) She is getting over someone. While the first two will steam up the sex, if it’s the third reason, hard luck. The sex could be good, but she might still feel unsatisfied. No matter how desperate an attempt you two make, there is going to be a lack of fire somewhere.

11. The One Who Is Too Loud

This one is no secret. She will squeal and grunt as if she is giving birth to a child, only in this case the shrieks are of joy. Now while this can be an instant ego boost for you, you are not sure how well it’ll go down with your neighbours. And if you happen to be married and living with in-laws, awkwardness will be part of your life. Tip: kiss her on the mouth the next time she wants to shout her guts out. Either she’ll shut up, or bite off your tongue. That’s okay, shit happens sometimes.

Women are complicated creatures. They might behave differently at different times, depending on the circumstances, but it’s better to be equipped with some knowledge to be able to understand them better. Oh, and you are welcome.