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		<title>The Unfailing Compassion of God</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2026 18:03:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[By the time Jeremiah wrote Lamentations, he’d gotten the vision from God about the destruction of the city, warned the populace about it, was arrested, beaten, ostracized — and then witnessed everything he’d warned would happen happening all around him.]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I have often been drawn to Lamentations 3:22-26.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Hebrew word for lamentations is&nbsp;<em>eychah</em>&nbsp;(אֵיכָ֣ה) which means, “Alas! How!” It is also the first word in the book. “Alas! How lonely sits the city so once full of people.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">By the time Jeremiah wrote Lamentations, he’d gotten the vision from God about the destruction of the city, warned the populace about it, was arrested, beaten, ostracized — and then witnessed everything he’d warned would happen happening all around him.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Lamentations was written because he lamented in his very heart and soul. It’s a crying out – think clothes torn, sobbing on your face.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Chapter 3 opens: <em>&#8220;I am the strong man who has seen affliction by the rod of His wrath. He has driven me and made me walk in darkness and not light.&#8221;</em> It goes on to name the bitterness, the hardship, the desolation — even that God had shut out his prayer.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">And then, right in the middle of all of that:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This I recall to my mind, therefore I have hope. Through the Lord&#8217;s mercies we are not consumed, because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness. &#8220;The LORD is my portion,&#8221; says my soul, &#8220;therefore I hope in Him!&#8221; The LORD is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him. It is good that one should hope and wait quietly for the salvation of the LORD.</em> — Lamentations 3:22-26</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>This I recall to my mind.</em> Jeremiah had to choose to remember. Grief does not naturally lead there. He made himself go back to what he knew was true: the compassions of God don&#8217;t run out. They reset <strong>each.new.day.</strong></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In the last 3 years, I’ve learned <em>recall to my mind</em> to wait for the Lord, to intentionally keep my hope in Him. In overwhelming grief, waiting can be. However, my hope is in God’s faithfulness. In the waiting, I have learned to surrender my fears and anxieties, resting in the promise that God is working on my behalf – just as these words promise.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The Lord is good to those who seek Him, to the soul who seeks His presence. God has compassion for us. &nbsp;When we intentionally seek God’s presence and goodness, we open ourselves to experience His transforming power. By turning our hearts toward Him, we discover His goodness and experience His sustenance. And, it’s new&nbsp;<strong>every morning</strong>.</p>
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		<title>The Amazing Stories That Inspired Homeland’s Hope</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2026 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[WHILE the story of the special team of operators I named The Virtues is entirely fictional, set in a fictional town, and comprised of fictional characters who form a fictional military division, every single one of my fictional heavenly heroines was inspired by a real World War II heroine and the story was inspired by &#8230; </p><p><a class="more-link btn" href="https://halleebridgeman.com/the-amazing-stories-that-inspired-homelands-hope/">Continue reading</a>]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">WHILE the story of the special team of operators I named The Virtues is entirely fictional, set in a fictional town, and comprised of fictional characters who form a fictional military division, every single one of my fictional heavenly heroines was inspired by a real World War II heroine and the story was inspired by real events.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Today, <strong><em>Homeland’s Hope </em>IS 99 cents! </strong>You can get it in ebook form <a href="https://halleebridgeman.com/vav02_amz">at this link.</a></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Here are the amazing stories that inspired the writing of&nbsp;<em><strong>Homeland’s Hope</strong></em>,<strong>&nbsp;Part 2 of the Virtues and Valor Serialized Story.</strong></p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The fictional character Virginia Benoit is inspired by the very real heroine Josephine Baker.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image size-full"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="620" height="412" src="https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/02-RE-Josephine-Baker-in-her-military-uniform.jpg" alt="" class="wp-image-2431" srcset="https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/02-RE-Josephine-Baker-in-her-military-uniform.jpg 620w, https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/02-RE-Josephine-Baker-in-her-military-uniform-600x399.jpg 600w, https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/02-RE-Josephine-Baker-in-her-military-uniform-300x199.jpg 300w, https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/02-RE-Josephine-Baker-in-her-military-uniform-602x400.jpg 602w, https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/02-RE-Josephine-Baker-in-her-military-uniform-272x182.jpg 272w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 620px) 100vw, 620px" /></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Josephine Baker’s heroic actions during the second World War are less well known even to this day. Born into poverty in St. Louis, Missouri in 1906 as Freda Josephine McDonald, she would later be known to the world as Josephine Baker. Despite her dire circumstances as a child, she loved dancing and learned how by watching and mimicking the dancers at the famous Booker T. Washington Theater. At the age of 10, she won a dance competition and decided on the spot that she wanted to be a dancer when she grew up.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1917 she witnessed the St. Louis race riots and the “black exodus” that followed. A sea of people fleeing the murderous riot behind them as they crossed the St. Louis Bridge toward her was forever etched in her mind. What she saw in those days spurred her heart to spend much of her adult life confronting and fighting racism.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1925, after spending much of her career dancing in New York City, Josephine went to Paris to perform in La Revue Nègre at the Théâtre des Champs-Elysées. Paris loved Josephine Baker, and she loved Paris. Soon, she was among the highest paid entertainers in France of any race, a stage and movie sensation. She came to be known in various circles as the “Black Pearl,” the “Bronze Venus” and even the “Creole Goddess.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1928, Josephine went on a European tour and witnessed how racist much of Europe was becoming. Nazi run newspapers condemned her for performing on the same stage as “Aryan” performers, and some places even threw ammonia bombs at her. After that, Josephine rather correctly equated racism with Nazism.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1934, Josephine took the starring role in a French film, Zuzu, a great success in Paris. The name Zuzu comes from Zuzana, a Czech/Slovak form of Susana, but for whatever reason it stuck and Josephine’s close friends often called her Zuzu in private and in letters after the film’s release.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1936, the same year Jesse Owens won four Olympic gold medals in Berlin, Josephine returned to America to perform, but was treated with open racism and general hostility. She returned to France, heartbroken by the way her home country had treated her. When she returned to Paris, she married Jean Lion and became a French citizen.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On November 9, 1938, Nazis in Germany destroyed Jewish homes, synagogues, and businesses in what is today called Kristallnacht (Night of Broken Glass). After that night, Josephine joined the International League against Racism and Anti-Semitism.<br><br>An organization in France called Deuzieme Bureau was looking for undercover agents who could afford to work without pay and who could travel without suspicion. They approached Josephine and asked her to be an agent for them. Without hesitation, Josephine embraced the opportunity. After several weeks of training in weapons, self-defense, and memory, she was given her first mission: attending parties at the Italian embassy and reporting the information she overheard.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Her chateau, which was a large rural home in southern France she had named Les Milandes, became a stopping-point for Resistance workers, a safe house for refugees, and occasionally was used to store weapons. Eventually, the Germans grew suspicious and started watching her home, and she left. She traveled through Spain, Portugal, and North Africa, performing, attending parties, and listening. Just like the fictional Virginia Benoit, the real Josephine Baker used invisible ink and wrote what she saw and heard in the margins of her sheet music.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In June 1941, she became very ill and was hospitalized in Casablanca until December 1942. When she was finally released and strong enough to perform, she performed for the Allied troops, insisting that the audience, which was traditionally seated with white soldiers up front and black soldiers in the back, be desegregated before she performed.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">After the war, Josephine received the Legion of Honour with the rosette of the Resistance, and became the first American born woman to receive the Croix de Guerre. These are two of France’s highest military honors.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When the war ended, Josephine returned to her chateau, Les Milandes. In 1947, she married again, this time to French orchestra leader Jo Bouillon. She adopted 12 children, all of different nationalities, which she referred to as her “rainbow tribe”. Her intent was to impress upon the outside world that people of different colors and ethnicities could live together as a family.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The “incident” with the radio personality which fictional characters Radden and Benoit stage is based on an actual event which occurred in New York’s Stork Club on the night of October 16, 1951. To set the record straight more than half a century later, by all accounts the radio personality, Walter Winchell, was utterly innocent of any wrong-doing. He was simply also present when the incident occurred. The blame for the mistreatment Josephine Baker suffered should have fallen squarely and fairly upon the shoulders of Stork Club owner, Sherman Billingsley. The problem was that no one had ever heard of Billingsley while absolutely every “Mr. and Mrs. America and all the ships at sea” knew the name of Walter Winchell in 1951.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Josephine continued to perform her own show at the Roxy to sold-out crowds throughout the remainder of the season, though the Stork Club incident continued to haunt her career in the United States from that day forward. Despite bad press, Baker took several trips back and forth to America in the 1950s and 1960s to help with the growing Civil Rights Movement.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On August 28, 1963, two separate parades were held for male and female civil rights leaders during the famous March on Washington. The men marched down Pennsylvania Avenue. The women—including Josephine Baker, Daisy Bates, and Rosa Parks—marched down Independence Avenue. When the groups met at the Mall, on the platform, Josephine stood right beside Martin Luther King, Jr., and was the only female speaker at the march, preceding the famous “I Have a Dream” speech by Reverend King.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Whenever she performed in America, she insisted on a nonsegregation clause in her contracts. Most places honored them, causing a desegregation in clubs that never would have happened otherwise. The NAACP eventually named May 20th “Josephine Baker Day” in honor of her lifelong efforts to end racism.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1973, Josephine performed at Carnegie Hall and was received with a standing ovation. Two years later, she performed at the Bobino Theater in Paris to celebrate the 50th anniversary of her Paris debut. Celebrities in attendance included Sophia Loren and Princess Grace of Monaco. Just days later, on April 12, 1975, Josephine Baker died in her sleep. She was 69 years old.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">At her wake, an estimated 20,000 people lined the streets for her funeral procession. For her service during the war, Josephine Baker became the first American in history to receive full military honors in a French funeral.</p>



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					<description><![CDATA[WHILE the story of the special team of operators I named The Virtues is entirely fictional, set in a fictional town, and comprised of fictional characters who form a fictional military division, every single one of my fictional heavenly heroines was inspired by a real World War II heroine and the story was inspired by &#8230; </p><p><a class="more-link btn" href="https://halleebridgeman.com/the-amazing-story-that-inspired-temperances-trial/">Continue reading</a>]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">WHILE the story of the special team of operators I named The Virtues is entirely fictional, set in a fictional town, and comprised of fictional characters who form a fictional military division, every single one of my fictional heavenly heroines was inspired by a real World War II heroine and the story was inspired by real events.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Today, <em>Temperance’s Trial </em>IS FREE until May 28th. Yes! FREE. You can get it in ebook form <a href="https://halleebridgeman.com/vav01_amz">at this link.</a></p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Here are the amazing stories that inspired the writing of&nbsp;<em><strong>Temperance’s Trial</strong></em>,<strong>&nbsp;Part 1 of the Virtues and Valor Serialized Story.</strong></p>



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<figure class="wp-block-image size-full"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="226" height="223" src="https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Pastor-Andre-Trocme-and-his-wife-Magda.jpg" alt="" class="wp-image-2420" srcset="https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Pastor-Andre-Trocme-and-his-wife-Magda.jpg 226w, https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Pastor-Andre-Trocme-and-his-wife-Magda-100x100.jpg 100w" sizes="auto, (max-width: 226px) 100vw, 226px" /><figcaption class="wp-element-caption">Pastor André Trocmé and his wife Magda</figcaption></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The hometown of fictional Marie Gilbert and her brother Edward, Le Chambon-sur-Lignon, is an actual place and the great and honored reverend Pastor André Trocmé as well as Pastor Edouard Theis were actual people. These men of God inspired the entire town to smuggle uncounted Jewish children and their parents, possibly as many as five thousand or more, out of the country and to safety. Those children who could not be safely evacuated were taken in and “adopted” by families who informed the Nazis that the children were visiting relatives or war orphans.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When the Gestapo or the corrupt and collaborates Vichy police would raid the town, the citizens would routinely risk their lives by hiding children and parents anywhere they could and using elaborate schemes to signal when the coast was clear. Many residents were eventually arrested by the Gestapo. Sadly, the Reverand Trocmé’s own cousin, Daniel Trocmé, was sent to Maidanek concentration camp and tortured to death.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It may be significant to note that the townspeople received contributions from the Quakers, the Salvation Army, the American Congregational Church, as well as other Jewish and Christian ecumenical groups, the French Protestant student organization Cimade, and the Swiss Help to Children. All of these organizations helped to ensure that the Jewish refugees were housed and fed and could travel in relative safety to Switzerland or other safe havens.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In 1990, the entire town became the only French town and one of only two towns on earth to be recognized as “Righteous Among the Nations” for their humanitarianism and bravery under extreme danger during the Second World War.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Marie Gilbert, code named Temperance, was inspired by the incredible Eileen Mary “Didi” Nearne who served as a wireless operator in the Spiritualist Network in Occupied France under the code named “Rose.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Like Temperance, Didi Nearne, her brother Francis, and her sister Jacqueline fled the Nazis as the German war machine rolled into France. They eventually made their way to Great Britain via Spain.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">All three of the Nearnes entered service with the British Special Operations Executive, or SOE, which was called “Churchill’s secret army.” A group within the SOE was called the F Section Networks. These networks were established in France to transmit and receive coded messages just like Temperance does in Temperance’s Trial. Due to the ease of detection and the German’s determination to track down these operators, it was one of the most dangerous duties assigned to agents within the SOE.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">While Didi’s sister, Jacqueline, was sent to France to act as a courier (much like Temperance’s friend, Prudence), Didi stayed in England as a signals operator and received the encoded messages coming from France. After some time, she volunteered to go to France and act as a wireless operator for the F Section.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On March 2, 1944, Didi became one of only 39 women to parachute into Occupied France. She used the aliases Mademoiselle du Tort, Jacqueline Duterte, and Alice Wood – and went by the code name “Rose”. She worked as part of Operation Mitchel, which organized finances for the resistance. During her first five months in France, she transmitted an astonishing 105 messages.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">After many, many narrow escapes, including a time on a train when a Nazi soldier offered to carry the suitcase containing her wireless radio, Didi was finally arrested. While in Paris, she had sent a coded transmission from her room, much like my character Temperance. Within minutes, the Gestapo arrived and found her in possession of her wireless rig.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">According to wartime records, Nearne “survived, in silence, the full revolting treatment of the baignoire” in the torture chamber of the Paris headquarters of the Gestapo on the banks of the Rue des Saussaies.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">She nearly died from the torture. They beat her, stripped her, and repeatedly submerged her in a bath of ice cold water until she started to black out. Yet, she did not break. She stuck to her story of being an innocent French girl who had been duped into helping someone by sending messages she didn’t understand in return for money to buy eggs and bread.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">She never once revealed her true identity. She never told of the other agents with whom she worked. Despite days of endless torture, she never gave up any information of planned operations.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">At the time, Eileen Mary “Didi” Nearne was only 23 years old.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On August 15, 1944, she was sent to the infamous Ravensbrück concentration camp near Berlin, and from there was sent through several forced labor camps. She refused to work in any of the camps, even under threat of being shot. Instead, she defied her captors to shoot her, and ended up being transferred each time instead.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Eventually, she ended up in a camp in Silesia. There Didi finally realized that the only way she would survive this experience would be to give in and work otherwise she would starve. During the bitter cold winter in December of 1944, the Nazis moved Didi to the Markleberg camp, near Leipzig, where she worked on a road-repair gang for 12 hours a day.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">On April 13, 1945, while being transferred to yet another camp, along with two French girls from a work gang, Didi escaped. The trio evaded their pursuers by hiding in the forest. Astonishingly, they were apprehended by the SS in Markkleeberg, but she used her French language skills to fool her captors into letting them go. In Leipzig, a Catholic priest hid her until the arrival of the United States troops.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image size-full"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" width="460" height="276" src="https://halleebridgeman.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Jacqueline-and-Eileen-Nea-010.avif" alt="" class="wp-image-2422"/><figcaption class="wp-element-caption">Jacqueline and Eileen “Didi” Nearne — <a href="http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/mar/30/my-aunts-the-unlikely-spies">Photo Source</a> the Guardian</figcaption></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Sadly, American intelligence officers initially identified her as a Nazi collaborator and held her at a detention center alongside captured SS personnel. Once London verified her identity as a secret agent, the Americans finally released her.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">After the war, Eileen Mary “Didi” Nearne was awarded the Croix de Guerre by the French government, that nation’s highest award given to foreigners, and was appointed a Member of the Order of the British Empire (MBE) by King George VI for services rendered in France during the enemy occupation.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Given what she underwent at the hands of her captors for years and years, her very survival is remarkable. When asked how she kept going, she replied, “The will to live. Willpower. That’s the most important. You should not let yourself go. It seemed that the end would never come, but I always believed in destiny, and I had a hope.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Didi lived with her sister Jacqueline until her sister’s death in 1982. Afterward, she lived alone, a total recluse, haunted by her experiences as a captive of the Gestapo.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When Eileen Mary “Didi” Nearne died alone on September 2, 2010, it was several days before her death was discovered. It wasn’t until officials looking through her belongings hoping to find a relative whom they could contact that they discovered her true identity. Once they realized her incredible bravery and service, the entire community of Torquay, England, came together and gave her a funeral worthy of such an amazing war heroine with full military honors.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Unsurprisingly, there are very few actual photographs of Didi from the war and none of her operating a wireless rig. For the cover of this book, another suitable individual was selected. Pictured on the cover in place of “Temperance” and operating a wireless radio is none other than Mrs. Mac.</p>



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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2026 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[People say: God will never give you more than you can handle.
That's actually never found in scripture. What is found in scripture are things like:]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">People say: God will never give you more than you can handle.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">That&#8217;s actually never found in scripture. What is found in scripture are things like:</p>



<blockquote class="wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow">
<p class="wp-block-paragraph">&#8220;So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.&#8221; Isaiah 41:10</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">“Be strong and courageous, and do the work. Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the LORD God, my God, is with you. &#8221; 1 Chronicles 28:20</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For He Himself has said, “I will never leave you nor forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><br>I rest my comfort in knowing that no matter what terribleness I&#8217;m going through, God is right there beside me. I can face ANYTHING because no matter what, I am not alone.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Will He give me more than I can handle? Lord, I hope not. I hope I can handle it all. But, God knows, I&#8217;ve seen the boundaries. My toe has brushed close to that foul line. Yet, I know that no matter what, I&#8217;m not alone &#8211; that God is with me. And that is what gets me through the next second, the next minute, the next hour, the next day.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">As Jeb said to our dear friend whose wife (my age) was dying and we were all reeling from the idea of a life without their Aunt Carrie, &#8220;God is good even when it sucks.&#8221;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">And He is here, right by my side, even when it sucks.</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">So when Jesus had received the sour wine, He said, &#8220;<strong>It is finished!</strong>&#8221; And bowing His head, He gave up His spirit. (John 19:30 NKJV)</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Just three words in English. One single word in the original Greek: <em><strong>tetelestai</strong></em>.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When Jesus spoke those words from the cross, He wasn’t sighing in defeat, as if to say, “I’m done for.” He was declaring that the work was complete. The mission the Father had given Him—planned before the world began—had been carried through to the end.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>Tetelestai</em> means more than simply “it stopped.” It carries the sense of something brought to its full and intended goal—accomplished perfectly, lacking nothing. It’s finished, and the results stand forever.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">All that the law demanded. All that the old sacrifices had pointed toward. All that the prophets had foretold.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">For generations, people had brought lambs to the altar—temporary coverings for sin, repeated again and again, never quite enough. They were only shadows. But on the cross, the real thing arrived. The true Lamb of God took on what those sacrifices could only hint at.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It reaches all the way back to the first promise in Eden—that the serpent’s head would one day be crushed. It runs through Isaiah’s picture of the Suffering Servant, pierced for our wrongs. It echoes the psalms that described the agony of crucifixion long before that form of execution even existed. Jesus brought every thread of the story to its completion.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">John tells us that Jesus knew everything had now been completed so that Scripture would be fulfilled. And then He said it out loud: “It is finished.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The debt of our sin wasn’t pushed off or partially covered. It was paid in full.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The holy wrath against sin wasn’t overlooked. It was satisfied in Him.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The way back to the Father wasn’t left half-open. It was thrown wide open and secured.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Because of that cry from the cross, we don’t have to scramble and strive to earn God’s favor. It’s already been accomplished. We simply receive it and live from it.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The cross wasn’t some tragic detour in God’s plan. It was the very fulfillment of it. When Jesus bowed His head and released His spirit, it wasn’t the end of hope—it was the moment redemption was made complete.</p>



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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2026 14:36:58 +0000</pubDate>
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<div class="wprm-recipe-summary wprm-block-text-normal"><span style="display: block;">My husband will rate a restaurant on whether or not the tamales are good. It is truly one of his favorite dishes. I found this recipe in an old Better Homes &amp; Gardens cookbook called &quot;Cooking Mexican&quot; and it is a true family favorite.</span></div>
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<div class="wprm-recipe-block-container wprm-recipe-block-container-columns wprm-block-text-normal wprm-recipe-author-container" style=""><span class="wprm-recipe-details-label wprm-block-text-bold wprm-recipe-author-label">Author </span><span class="wprm-recipe-details wprm-recipe-author wprm-block-text-normal">Hallee Bridgeman</span></div>

<div id="recipe-1999-equipment" class="wprm-recipe-equipment-container wprm-block-text-normal" data-recipe="1999"><h3 class="wprm-recipe-header wprm-recipe-equipment-header wprm-block-text-bold wprm-align-left wprm-header-decoration-none" style="">Equipment</h3><ul class="wprm-recipe-equipment wprm-recipe-equipment-list"><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">1 saucepan</div></li><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">1 blender</div></li><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">1 large bowl</div></li><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">1 mixer</div></li><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">measuring cups and spoons</div></li><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">mixing spoons</div></li><li class="wprm-recipe-equipment-item" style="list-style-type: disc;"><div class="wprm-recipe-equipment-name">1 steamer pot with basket</div></li></ul></div>
<div id="recipe-1999-ingredients" class="wprm-recipe-ingredients-container wprm-recipe-ingredients-no-images wprm-recipe-1999-ingredients-container wprm-block-text-normal wprm-ingredient-style-regular wprm-recipe-images-before" data-recipe="1999" data-servings="6"><h3 class="wprm-recipe-header wprm-recipe-ingredients-header wprm-block-text-bold wprm-align-left wprm-header-decoration-none" style="">Ingredients</h3><div class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-group"><h4 class="wprm-recipe-group-name wprm-recipe-ingredient-group-name wprm-block-text-bold">Red Chili Sauce</h4><ul class="wprm-recipe-ingredients"><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="0"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1/4</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">cup</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">chili powder</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="2"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">2</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">TBS</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">olive oil</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes-faded">(I use extra virgin)</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="3"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">14.5</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">oz</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">canned tomatoes</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="4"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">2</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">ea</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">garlic cloves</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="5"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1/2</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">tsp</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">salt</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes-faded">(sea salt or Kosher salt is best)</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="15"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">2</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">tsp</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">honey</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="6"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1/2</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">tsp</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">dried oregano</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="7"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1/2</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">tsp</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">ground cumin</span></li></ul></div><div class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-group"><h4 class="wprm-recipe-group-name wprm-recipe-ingredient-group-name wprm-block-text-bold">Tamales</h4><ul class="wprm-recipe-ingredients"><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="9"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">12</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">ea</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">corn husks, foil, or parchment paper rectangles</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="10"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">2 1/4</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">cups</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">Masa Harina flour</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes-faded">(I use fresh ground dried hominy flour)</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="11"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">cup</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">warm water</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="12"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">3/4</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">cup</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">palm shortening</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes-faded">(can substitute beef tallow)</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="13"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1/4</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">tsp</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">salt</span></li><li class="wprm-recipe-ingredient" style="list-style-type: disc;" data-uid="14"><span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-amount">1</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-unit">cup</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-name">cooked chicken</span>&#32;<span class="wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes wprm-recipe-ingredient-notes-faded">-finely chopped</span></li></ul></div></div>
<div id="recipe-1999-instructions" class="wprm-recipe-instructions-container wprm-recipe-1999-instructions-container wprm-block-text-normal" data-recipe="1999"><h3 class="wprm-recipe-header wprm-recipe-instructions-header wprm-block-text-bold wprm-align-left wprm-header-decoration-none" style="">Instructions</h3><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-group"><h4 class="wprm-recipe-group-name wprm-recipe-instruction-group-name wprm-block-text-bold">Prepare Corn Husks</h4><ul class="wprm-recipe-instructions"><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-0-0" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">If using corn husks, soak in water for several hours.</span></div></li></ul></div><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-group"><h4 class="wprm-recipe-group-name wprm-recipe-instruction-group-name wprm-block-text-bold">Make Red Chili Sauce</h4><ul class="wprm-recipe-instructions"><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-1-0" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">In a small saucepan, cook and stir chili powder and oil over medium-low heat for 4 minutes.</span><div class="wprm-spacer"></div><span style="display: block;">Place tomatoes, chili powder mix, and garlic in blender. Blend until smooth. Pour into saucepan and add spices, honey, and salt. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 10 minutes.</span></div></li></ul></div><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-group"><h4 class="wprm-recipe-group-name wprm-recipe-instruction-group-name wprm-block-text-bold">Tamale Dough</h4><ul class="wprm-recipe-instructions"><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-2-0" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">In a large mixing bowl, mix flour and water. Let stand for 20 minutes. Using a hand mixer, beat in the shortening or tallow until well combined.</span></div></li></ul></div><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-group"><h4 class="wprm-recipe-group-name wprm-recipe-instruction-group-name wprm-block-text-bold">Assemble Tamales</h4><ul class="wprm-recipe-instructions"><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-3-0" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">Spoon slightly less than 1/4 cup dough onto each tamale wrapper, spread into a rectangle leaving space at either end. Spoon about 1 TBS red chili sauce onto the dough. Top with 1 TBS chicken.</span></div></li><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-3-1" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">You have choices about how to bundle these:</span><div class="wprm-spacer"></div><span style="display: block;">Fold the long edge of the wrapper over the filling so that it overlaps, then roll up. Tie ends with pieces of cornhusk or string. If using foil, tuck ends under.</span><div class="wprm-spacer"></div><span style="display: block;">-OR-</span><div class="wprm-spacer"></div><span style="display: block;">Fold the sides of the cornhusk over the filling, overlapping them. Fold the bottom pointed end up towards the top, creating a package.</span></div></li><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-3-2" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">Place tamales on a steamer basket in a large pot. Add water to just below basket level. Bring to a boil. Cover. Reduce heat to medium. Steam for 35 to 40 minutes.</span></div></li><li id="wprm-recipe-1999-step-3-3" class="wprm-recipe-instruction" style="list-style-type: decimal;"><div class="wprm-recipe-instruction-text" style="margin-bottom: 5px;"><span style="display: block;">Serve with red chili sauce. Makes 12 tamales.</span></div></li></ul></div></div>
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<div id="recipe-1999-nutrition" class="wprm-nutrition-label-shortcode-container"><h3 class="wprm-recipe-header wprm-recipe-nutrition-header wprm-block-text-bold wprm-align-left wprm-header-decoration-none" style="">Nutrition</h3><div class="wprm-nutrition-label-container wprm-nutrition-label-container-simple wprm-block-text-normal" style="text-align: left;"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-serving_size"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Serving: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">2</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">ea</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-calories"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Calories: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">535</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">kcal</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-carbohydrates"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Carbohydrates: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">48</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-protein"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Protein: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">13</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-fat"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Fat: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">35</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-saturated_fat"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Saturated Fat: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">8</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-polyunsaturated_fat"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Polyunsaturated Fat: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">10</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-monounsaturated_fat"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Monounsaturated Fat: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">15</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-trans_fat"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Trans Fat: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">3</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-cholesterol"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Cholesterol: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">18</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">mg</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-sodium"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Sodium: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">568</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">mg</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-potassium"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Potassium: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">603</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">mg</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-fiber"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Fiber: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">8</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-sugar"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Sugar: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">6</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">g</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-vitamin_a"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Vitamin A: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">3177</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">IU</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-vitamin_c"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Vitamin C: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">9</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">mg</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-calcium"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Calcium: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">140</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">mg</span></span><span style="color: #777777"> | </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-container-iron"><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-label  wprm-block-text-normal" style="color: #777777">Iron: </span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-value" style="color: #333333">6</span><span class="wprm-nutrition-label-text-nutrition-unit" style="color: #333333">mg</span></span></div></div></div></div>]]></content:encoded>
					
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					<description><![CDATA[When people ask whether sexual purity is “realistic,” they are rarely asking about biology. They are asking whether obedience is practical. We live in a culture where:
Sexual compatibility is treated as a prerequisite to commitment.
Cohabitation is considered responsible.
Waiting is viewed as repression.
Desire is framed as entitlement.]]></description>
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<h2 class="wp-block-heading">When Paul wrote to the Corinthians, he did not write to a modest culture.</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Corinth was morally chaotic. Sexual immorality was normalized, spiritualized, and commercialized. Self-control was not fashionable.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">And yet Paul wrote:</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">“But if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.” 1 Corinthians 7:9</p>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">He did not conform to the current culture.  He faced the normalization of sin head-on, and not only said, &#8220;this is wrong,&#8221; he provided a solution.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">That same normalization is part of our culture.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">The Question Beneath the Question</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When people ask whether sexual purity is “realistic,” they are rarely asking about biology. They are asking whether obedience is practical. We live in a culture where:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Sexual compatibility is treated as a prerequisite to commitment.</li>



<li>Cohabitation is considered responsible.</li>



<li>Waiting is viewed as repression.</li>



<li>Desire is framed as entitlement.</li>
</ul>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">So when a couple chooses abstinence, the reaction is often not curiosity. Instead, what you get are the kind of questions like:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Is that even sustainable?<br>Is that even necessary?<br>Doesn’t love justify intimacy?<br>How will you know if you&#8217;re compatible?</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Interestingly, those are not new questions. In fact, Ecclesiastes tells us that, &#8220;There&#8217;s nothing new under the sun.&#8221; </p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Passion Is Not Sin</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Scripture does not treat sexual desire as shameful. God created it. Genesis 2 presents union as a gift. The Song of Solomon celebrates attraction and sexual fulfillment.  Marriage is described as honorable and the marriage bed undefiled (Hebrews 13:4).</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The issue is not desire. The issue is context.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Fire in a fireplace warms a home.<br>Fire outside its boundary consumes it.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The covenant of marriage gives desire its proper place.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">What Makes Sex Holy?</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">This is where the modern mind often stumbles.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If two people love each other, are committed, and intend to marry , then why should a legal document matter? The question assumes that marriage is primarily a civil contract. Biblically, it is covenant.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A covenant is:</p>



<ul class="wp-block-list">
<li>Public.</li>



<li>Binding.</li>



<li>Witnessed.</li>



<li>Accountable before God.</li>
</ul>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">It is not merely emotional commitment. It is declared, vowed, and entered into before witnesses.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In Scripture, physical union reflects covenant reality. When the physical precedes the covenant, something is inverted. Not because passion is evil. But because our God is a God of order, and order matters.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Self-Control Is a Fruit, Not a Personality Trait</h2>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">One of the quiet assumptions in the modern dating world is this:</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">“If we’re strongly attracted to each other, abstinence is unrealistic.”</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">But self-control is not about personality strength. It is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22–23). Which means it is cultivated in surrender, not willpower alone. Waiting does not prove someone is unemotional. It proves they are willing to subordinate desire to obedience. That is not repression or backwards thinking. It is obedience and maturity.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">“But Is It Actually Possible?”That may be the most honest version of the question.</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Yes, culture has shifted. Access has changed. Temptation is amplified. But, temptation is not new.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Corinth was not digitally connected, but it was immorally saturated. However, Paul did not tell believers to lower the bar. He told them to live differently.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">Why This Matters in Story</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In <em>Black Belt, White Dress</em>, Travis and Traci have been together for over two years. They love each other deeply. They are physically attracted to each other. And yet they choose restraint.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Not because they lacked opportunity. They are adults who lived alone, so it would have been very easy to just give in to temptation and be done with it. Yet, despite the want and access, they chose not to.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Not because they lacked desire. But because they believed covenant should precede consummation. Their struggle is not portrayed as effortless. It is portrayed as intentional.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Fiction allows us to examine these tensions at a safe distance. Through characters, we can explore what conviction looks like when tested.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Never to shame.<br>Never to idealize.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">But to ask ourselves whether obedience still matters when culture says it does not.</p>



<h2 class="wp-block-heading">A Final Reflection</h2>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The deeper question is not whether abstinence is realistic. It is whether we trust that God’s design for sexuality is protective rather than restrictive. Scripture does not frame sexual boundaries as deprivation.It frames them as wisdom. And wisdom is rarely loud — but it endures.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If you’re wrestling with what sexual integrity looks like in a dating relationship, you’re not alone. These are not theoretical questions. They are lived ones. And sometimes fiction gives us space to examine our convictions without defensiveness. If you’re interested in seeing how this tension unfolds in story form, <em>Black Belt, White Dress</em> explores love, desire, covenant, and the cost of obedience in a modern world.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">(I&#8217;m about to age myself here!)</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">When I was in middle school, we had a Commadore 64 computer. The 1984 Summer Olympics had just concluded. The United States and USSR were fully engaged in the Cold War and the US had just rocked the world in the Olympics. My dad bought us a video game that took a couple of different floppy discs to play that was called something like Summer Games. We were Olympians perfecting dives and running races and doing long jumps with our mad joystick skills. It was the best summer! (I&#8217;ll add that Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom also came out that summer. And Karate Kid. And The Last Starfighter. AND Red Dawn! Do I need to go on?)</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">I love the Olympics. I have always loved them. I love the variety of sports, the comraderies of the teams, the national pride. I don&#8217;t care if it&#8217;s winter or summer &#8211; those 2 weeks of games every 2 years are some of my favorite times. I know a lot of that has to do with nostalgia of being a kid in the 1980&#8217;s, but that doesn&#8217;t detract from my love for the games.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">In fact, I love the Olympics so much that when I decided to write a book about a summer silver medalist and a Team USA hockey player, it was super easy to decide to donate money to Team USA. Making me a sponsor for that year and &#8212; the BEST part &#8212; that put us on Team USA&#8217;s mailing list. Which means we get regular mail updating us on Team USA and all of the fun stuff happening around it!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">To celebrate this Opening Day of the 2026 Winter Olympics, a true YAY of a Fri-YAY, I&#8217;ve put any version of <em><strong>Jade&#8217;s Match</strong></em> on sale 50% off! AND &#8211; unlike other Fri-YAYs when the coupon expires on Sunday, this one will be good until the games end!</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Praise God the Almighty,&nbsp;<em><strong>Love Makes Way&nbsp;</strong></em>is FINALLY on Amazon is ebook!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Wow. What a crazy four months of backs and forth &#8211; dozens and dozens of emails. I pray I never have to go through that again.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">But we&#8217;re celebrating today!</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">If you&#8217;ve been waiting for it to come to Amazon, you can get it <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0GL4LBGQ7?tag=halleethehomem-20">at this link.</a> If you&#8217;ve already read it and loved it, please leave a review. If you know someone who&#8217;d love it, please share it!</p>



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