<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111</id><updated>2024-08-28T09:11:02.730-07:00</updated><category term="Bersiaran Kembali"/><category term="Kerjaya"/><category term="NowSeeHeart"/><title type='text'>Hamparan Citra Diri</title><subtitle type='html'>Berbicara mata, lidah dan minda&#xa;&#xa;&quot;Lihatlah Apa Yang Di Kata dan Bukan Siapa yang Berkata&quot;</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default?redirect=false'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-1336074216193212386</id><published>2012-02-20T20:44:00.003-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-20T20:58:04.161-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Tai Chi:- Satu Project NFC ( Formly known as Project lembu punya susu ; sapi dapat nama</title><content type='html'>Ini cerita bukalah berkenaan isu semasa berkenaan rasuah, tipu dan memperdaya.  Lebih kepada skop bila culas menjalankan tanggung jawab dan kaedah-kaedah bila kerja pun terlalu banyak...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Didalam arena pengurusan; istilah orang kulit putih ( mungkin spesis albino bagi warga Afrika dan Asia Selatan) ia dipanggil &quot;  deligation&quot;  atau &quot;empowerment&quot; yang disempit ruangkan untuk kepentingan sendiri.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Untuk menceritakan hal-hal tersebut.. kita akan berbicara  dengan kaedah :  &quot; Projek&quot;  dan &quot;Kajian Kes&quot;. Lepas tu tanpa merujuk mana-mana buku undang-undang sekalipun  perkara tersebut telahpun menjadi budaya dan dibudayakan oleh kebanyakkan masyarakat kita,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Subjek kajian kita adalah manusia  yang berkerja digelar  golongan pelaksana ( dahulu dikenali sebagai Kumpulan sokongan) serta golongan pertengahan (sekarang dikenali sebagai (jawatan yang dijumudkan).  Kita akan bersambung bila idea penulisan ini akan datang... tunggu....</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/1336074216193212386/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/1336074216193212386' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/1336074216193212386'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/1336074216193212386'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2012/02/tai-chi-satu-project-nfc-formly-known.html' title='Tai Chi:- Satu Project NFC ( Formly known as Project lembu punya susu ; sapi dapat nama'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-6880829155757545882</id><published>2012-02-13T15:15:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-15T02:14:32.022-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Bengang dan Tegang</title><content type='html'>Bila sebut kedua-duanya. ia sebenarnya membawa makna perubahan . didalam skop certita pendek aku nie pula bagaimana nak melaksanakan perubahan yang ditentukan oleh orang lain&lt;br /&gt;maklum sahajalah, golongan gred pertengahan nie seringkali di rendahmartabatkan samada oleh pentadbir mereka mahupun orang yang mereka tadbir itu sendiri&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sebagai penjawat awam, Isu-isu proaktif mahupun reaktif sebenarya sukar wujud; kadangkala tidak wujud langsung pun ada. Malahan halangan-halangan tertentu senantiasa ada selagimana penjawat awam itu mengikat akujanji setia . Oleh demikian mari kita menilai suasana &quot;perubahan&quot; yang ingin dilaksanakan oleh golongan pelaksana yang dahulunya digelar &quot; Saya Yang Menurut Perintah&quot;....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Masalah pertama ialah isu-isu kerja hakiki.&lt;br /&gt;Institusi pendidikan kerja hakikinya berhubungkait pengajaran dan pembelajaran. oleh demikian, apa -apa aktiviti harus melihat dan berobjektifkan perkara tersebut. Natijahnya juga adalah hasil pengajaran oleh golongan akademik dan pembelajaran oleh golongan sasar mereka, tetapi hari ini mereka bagai melupakan kewajaran arahan-arahan tersebut. Segalanya diarahkan supaya dibuat, hatta menebas semak samun, menjarah hutan mahupun menjalankan perkhidmatan bukan PnP tersebut.  tetapi bila masa penilaian prestasi, dengan biadap dan kurang ajarnya mereka menutur.. &quot; Berapa Kelas dan aktivit PnP di buat semester lepas&quot;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Transformasinya.  Golongan Akademik yang berstatus elit di pusat pengajian tinggi tidaklah dipandang mulia dan bagus pun dialam pekerjaan, Malahan ada sindiran-sindiran elit industri  mengatakan membazirnya kamu belajar, nilainya sama taraf PMR mahupun SPM yang telah kami ambil terdahulu, natijahnya.. Layakkah kamu mendapat gaji status ijazah muda sedangkan nilaia kamu dimusnahkan oleh pendidikan kamu terdahulu. Secara tidak sedar, anak didik tersebut menaruh dendam dan kecewa atas sikap-sikap kita sendiri.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reformasinya.&lt;br /&gt;Seluruh unit-unit didalam organisasi tersebut harus menilai kembali kesesuaian objektif dan arahan yang hendak dilaksanakan. Sebagai contoh , ISO 9001 harus bermula dari peringkat jabatan utama organisasi seperti unit kewangan dan sumber manusia bukannya unit penjanaaan dan pelaksanaan matlamat seperti PnP. Ini kerana asas pengurusan bermual dari situ lagi.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;untuk contoh lain mari kita merenung kembali buat apa&quot; buat apa kau disini&quot;....&lt;br /&gt;Aku ditugaskan sebagai instruktur dan guru teknikal sepertimana namaya pun pegawai latihan.  Tetiba. MAD, tolong bayarkan bil elektrik rumah aku. Pakai duit ekau dulu.  Lepas tu &quot;Your core job is follow everyting from my kepala hotak&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Setelah beberapa tahun bekerja:- Dia pun Berkata; Aku rasakan ekau x layak jadi pegawai latihan coz bla-bla -bla... Sedangkan jenuh peluh air liur dan kudrat buat kerja tersebut.. Siap beberapa anak didik pun berijazah dan berkerja pulak...</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/6880829155757545882/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/6880829155757545882' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/6880829155757545882'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/6880829155757545882'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2012/02/transformasireformasi-cara.html' title='Bengang dan Tegang'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-8493798496996853922</id><published>2012-02-09T17:04:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-09T17:04:00.951-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="NowSeeHeart"/><title type='text'></title><content type='html'>&lt;div align=&quot;center&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Quote Dari iluvislam .com &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot; ;font-size:large;color:green;&quot;  &gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Adab Memberi Nasihat&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:small;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:red;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Object&quot; id=&quot;OBJ_PREFIX_DWT74&quot;&gt;&lt;a target=&quot;_blank&quot; href=&quot;http://www.iluvislam.com/&quot;&gt;www.iluvislam.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;color:black;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Dihantar Oleh : Ain Farhana&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;   &lt;span style=&quot; ;font-size:small;color:green;&quot;  &gt;Editor: Isyrak&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div style=&quot;text-align: justify&quot;&gt; &lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-size:small;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Object&quot; id=&quot;OBJ_PREFIX_DWT75&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Daripada Abu Ruqaiyyah Tamim ibn Aus al-Daarie  r.a. bahawa Nabi SAW telah bersabda: “Agama itu adalah nasihat.” Kami  berkata: “Untuk siapa?” Baginda bersabda: “Untuk Allah, untuk kitabNya,  untuk RasulNya, untuk para lmam kaum muslimin dan untuk umat lslam  seluruhnya.”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Hadis riwayat al-lmam Muslim.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div align=&quot;center&quot;&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;.................................................................................&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Di dalam hadith ke-7 dalam &lt;strong&gt;Kitab Hadith 40&lt;/strong&gt; yang telah disusun oleh &lt;strong&gt;Imam Nawawi&lt;/strong&gt; ini, jelas telah digambarkan oleh &lt;strong&gt;Rasulullah SAW&lt;/strong&gt;  tentang perihal pentingnya nasihat menasihati di dalam perkara  kebaikan. Nasihat juga digambarkan besarnya seperti sebuah Agama Islam,  menunjukkan bahawa Islam ini melingkari seluruh aspek kehidupan seharian  kita. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#008000;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Pengertian nasihat&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Agama Islam adalah agama Allah, dan agama menurut Rasulullah SAW adalah nasihat yang terbaik untuk umatnya. &lt;strong&gt;Dalam Bahasa Arab, nasihat membawa maksud yang dinasihati akan mendapat faedah daripada nasihat yang telah diberi&lt;/strong&gt;.  Ia juga membawa erti bahawa yang menasihati hendaklah menggunakan  perkataan yang terbaik dan ikhlas bersih dari maksud yang tidak baik.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;color:#008000;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Adab-adab memberi nasihat&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;1. &lt;strong&gt;Meluruskan niat sebelum menasihati&lt;/strong&gt;  seseorang supaya tidak ada yang berasa disakiti. Ikhlas menasihati  saudara semuslim semata-mata karena Allah. Seharusnya seorang yang ingin  memberikan nasihat itu perlulah bersih dari segala bentuk niat yang  terpesong kerana ia akan memberi kesan ke atas nasihat yang ingin  diberikan. Janganlah menasihati seseorang itu kerana ingin menunjukkan  kitalah orang yang benar, tetapi tegurlah kerana ingin mengajak sahabat  ke jalan yang benar.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align=&quot;justify&quot;&gt; &lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;2. &lt;strong&gt;Menjaga ukhuwah semasa menasihati&lt;/strong&gt;. Diusahakan supaya menasihati saudaranya dengan tidak diketahui orang lain. Sebahagian ulama berkata, &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Barangsiapa  yang menasihati seseorang dan hanya ada mereka berdua, maka itulah  nasihat yang sebenarnya. Barangsiapa yang menasihati saudaranya di depan  banyak orang, maka yang demikian itu mencela dan mencelakan orang yang  dinasihati.” &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;Islam mengajar umatnya supaya mempunyai  akhlak yang tinggi. Dalam hal menasihati juga terdapat perkara ini. Ini  menunjukkan bahawa Islam amat menjaga hati dan maruah orang yang  dinasihati supaya tidak berlaku perpecahan kerana perkara nasihat.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;3. &lt;strong&gt;Bersih hati semasa menasihati&lt;/strong&gt;.  Menggunakan bahasa yang halus dan menegur hanya untuk perkara-perkara  yang salah. Kadang-kadang kita sering menggunakan perkataan yang sangat  teruk untuk meluahkan nasihat kita. Dalam ceramah-ceramah dan  kuliah-kuliah yang berbentuk menasihati, kita lebih gemar menyatakan  salah orang lain seolah-olah mereka yang melakukan perkara tersebut  sangat jahat dan sudah tiada ruang untuk bertaubat. Seharusnya selaku  seorang pendakwah, nasihat adalah senjata utama yang perlu digunakan  sebaiknya.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;4. &lt;strong&gt;Memikirkan cara yang terbaik untuk menasihati saudara.&lt;/strong&gt;  Seboleh-bolehnya mengenali dulu saudara yang bakal kita nasihati itu.  Nasihatilah mereka dengan kasih sayang dan jadilah sebahagian dari  mereka, kerana dari situ kita akan tahu apa puncanya mereka begitu.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;5. &lt;strong&gt;Memberi waktu dan kesempatan&lt;/strong&gt; kepada  saudara yang dinasihati untuk mengubah sifat buruk/ kesalahan yang  dilakukannya. Manusia perlukan masa untuk berubah, jangan memaksa mereka  untuk berubah mendadak, ia bukan dalam lingkungan tugas seorang  pendakwah. Dalam berdakwah perlu akan sifat sabar dan berserah kepada  Allah. Jadilah orang yang sentiasa mengharap pertolongan Allah dan  jangan mudah putus asa di atas nasihat yang diberikan kerana itu mungkin  ujian yang telah ditentukan oleh Allah untuk menguji kesabaran. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Ayuh semua sahabatku, kita renungkan kembali perkara yang  telah kita lakukan selama ini, nasihat yang telah kita berikan kepada  orang lain atau nasihat yang diperolehi daripada orang lain, adakah kita  sudah melaksanakan amanah ini? &lt;span style=&quot;color:#ff0000;&quot;&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Jangan jadi golongan yang hanya tahu menasihati sedangkan mereka tidak sedia untuk dinasihati.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/8493798496996853922'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/8493798496996853922'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2012/02/quote-dari-iluvislam.html' title=''/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-7039787381532644481</id><published>2012-02-08T22:40:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2012-02-09T00:52:05.102-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Buat Kali Kedua</title><content type='html'>Atas rancangan dan keperluan semasa. Rasanya tidak adil untuk terus meleyapkan diri dari lalam bog ini walaupun sekadar cuba-cuba.  Tetapi kali ini, keterbatasan akan terus diingkari mahupun ditempuh walaupun agak sibuk dan malas mengetik papan kekunci bagi menukilkan sesuatu yang indah mahupun pahit&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rasanya, didalam kesibukkanlah, Pelbagai idea serta rasangan  isu-isu semasa mengamit keperluan bertukar dari bersifat orthodok kepada elemen-elemen yang baru. Ini bagi menguatkan terjahan-terjahan minda dan fikrah samada menyingung hal-hal ekonomi, akademik dan sosiopolitik Malaysia hari ini.&lt;br /&gt;Walaupun begitu, singgungan-singungan isu semasa tersebut masih dibatas warga malaysia yang kena patuh dengan macam-macam akta dan enakmen sang penguasa dimana bumi yang dipijak serta langit yang dijunjung</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/7039787381532644481/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/7039787381532644481' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/7039787381532644481'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/7039787381532644481'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2012/02/buat-kali-kedua.html' title='Buat Kali Kedua'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-7129996640213736222</id><published>2009-11-30T23:27:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2009-11-30T23:30:09.118-08:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Bersiaran Kembali"/><title type='text'>Bersiaran Kembali</title><content type='html'>Dok tengah cari kekawan EH220 dan AS 115 uiTM shah Alam. Coz banyak yang menyepi diri dan tak tau perkembangan terkini. Diberi sekelumit masa untuk menaip seringkas cuma.</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/7129996640213736222/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/7129996640213736222' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/7129996640213736222'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/7129996640213736222'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2009/11/bersiaran-kembali.html' title='Bersiaran Kembali'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-5582742056609688629</id><published>2008-09-15T01:18:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2012-02-16T02:35:27.959-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Conflict</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt; Sekadar mengambil dari The Star . Ia bagai memberi sedikit gambaran dalam menghadapi konflik kerjaya. Lebih Utama lagi ia boleh dipelbagai tujuan memahami kenapa sesuatu konflik itu terjadi.  Menokok sedikit paparan The Star ini seharusnya kita lebih jauh memahami kehendak diri serta komuniti disekeliling kita.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&quot;ORGANISATIONAL conflict can occur at several levels: between individuals, between groups and between organisations. While this article will focus on interpersonal conflict, the principles and ideas discussed here are also valid for inter-group and inter-organisational conflicts.&lt;br /&gt;Confl ict typically proceeds through four stages even if each step is not recognised as such. The phases identifi ed by theorist Louis Pondy are as follows:&lt;br /&gt;Phase 1: Latent&lt;br /&gt;When two or more parties must cooperate with one another in order to achieve a desired objective, there is potential for confl ict. Latent confl ict is often created whenever change occurs. Examples are a budget cutback, a change in organisational direction, a change in a personal goal or value, a new crisis project added to an already overloaded work force, or an expected occurrence (such as a salary increase) not happening.&lt;br /&gt;Phase 2: Perceived&lt;br /&gt;This is the point when members are becoming more aware of a problem, even if they are not sure where it comes from. Incompatibility is perceived and tension begins.&lt;br /&gt;Phase 3: Felt&lt;br /&gt;The parties begin to focus on differences of opinion and interests, sharpening perceived confl ict. Internal tensions and frustrations begin to crystallise around specifi c, defi ned issues and people begin to build emotional commitment to their particular position.&lt;br /&gt;Phase 4: Manifest&lt;br /&gt;The outward display of confl ict occurs when the opposing parties plan and follow through with acts to frustrate one another. Confl ict is very obvious at this point.&lt;br /&gt;As confl ict proceeds through the stages, resolution becomes more diffi cult. People become more locked into their positions and more convinced that the conflict must be a win or lose situation.&lt;br /&gt;The ideal situation is to recognize conflict early and work for a resolution that is a win for each of the parties.&lt;br /&gt;Calming things down&lt;br /&gt;There are five basic behaviors that will help you resolve conflict in almost any situation you encounter. They will allow you to benefit from positive disagreement without having those disagreements escalate into out-of-control personality conflicts that damage the morale and productivity of the organization. These basics are:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Openness&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;State your feelings and thoughts openly, directly, and honestly without trying to hide or disguise the real object of your disagreement.&lt;br /&gt;Don’t attribute negative statements about the other person to unknown others. Use I-statements and talk about how you feel and what you want. Focus on current specifi cs and on identifying the problem.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Empathy&lt;br /&gt;Listen with empathy. Try to understand and feel what the other person is feeling and to see the situation from his point of view. Demonstrate your understanding and validate the other person’s feelings.&lt;br /&gt;Comments such as “I appreciate how you feel”, “I understand your feelings” and “I’m sorry I made you feel that way” let the other person know that you are sincere in understanding his views.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Supportiveness&lt;br /&gt;Describe the behaviours you have diffi - culty with rather than evaluating them. Express your concern for and support of the other person. Let him know you want to fi nd a solution that benefi ts both of you.&lt;br /&gt;State your position tentatively with a willingness to change your opinion if appropriate reasons are given. Be willing to support the other person’s position if it makes sense to do so.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Positiveness&lt;br /&gt;Try to identify areas of agreements and emphasis those. Look at the confl ict as a way to better understand the entire situation and to possibly find a new and better solution.&lt;br /&gt;Be positive about the other person and your relationship. Express your commitment to fi nding a resolution that works for everyone.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Equality&lt;br /&gt;Treat the other person and his ideas and opinions as equal. Give the person the time and space to completely express his ideas. Evaluate all ideas and positions logically and without regard to ownership.&lt;br /&gt;Successful resolution of small conflicts can diffuse the possibility of more serious conflicts and result in better working relationships. &lt;br /&gt;- Source: Straits Times/Asia News Network&quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Demikianlah bagaimana  &quot;conflict&quot;itu diurusakan mengikut kata pandang mereka. Tetapi bagaimana pula kekuatan  kita bila   yang  dihadapi sukar menerima realiti persekitaran. kerana kita punya agenda.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/5582742056609688629/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/5582742056609688629' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/5582742056609688629'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/5582742056609688629'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2008/09/conflict.html' title='Conflict'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-1843310189621493906</id><published>2008-09-04T20:06:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-09-04T20:12:41.786-07:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Kerjaya"/><title type='text'>Be a better team player</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Paparan yang di ambil melalui the star. Sebagai pedoman dalam melakukan kerja berpasukan.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;A &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:arial;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;team environment facilitates a brainstorming of ideas as each individual brings to the table different ways of solving a problem, handling an assignment and new approaches to running a project more effectively. &lt;br /&gt;Through this, the team can leverage on the synergy that is created. Each team member has varying strengths and weaknesses but often, the sum of the individual parts outweigh the weaknesses, thus enabling the team to achieve the 1 + 1 = 3 formula that represents synergy. &lt;br /&gt;Having such synergy enables the team to create more impact and propels it to greater success. &lt;br /&gt;So what does it take to be a team player? Here are some essential people skills you need to hone: &lt;br /&gt;Seek to understand &lt;br /&gt;In his bestselling book, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, leadership guru Stephen Covey says that the key to emphatic communication is to “seek first to understand, then be understood (Habit 5)”. What this means is making the effort to understand the other party before choosing your response. &lt;br /&gt;In the corporate environment, each team member needs to understand the vision, objectives and goals of the team. &lt;br /&gt;Why does this team exist and what does it hope to achieve within the given timeframe? When members understand this, they will know what role to play and what sort of accountability is required of them and precisely what they are able to contribute to the team. &lt;br /&gt;Be cooperative &lt;br /&gt;Everyone wants cooperative team members who are able to meet the team’s objectives and fulfil their individual responsibilities rather than a teammate who merely wants to outshine the rest. &lt;br /&gt;To achieve the team’s goals, you should not only be very competent and demonstrate excellent performance but also have a cooperative spirit. &lt;br /&gt;Be assertive &lt;br /&gt;Assertiveness in this context means to speak one’s mind. It springs from having self-awareness and confidence. It is also means that team members are not necessarily fixated on the need to be politically correct. &lt;br /&gt;With this attitude, the team member can contribute his experiences or challenge the ideas brought up by others for the best interest and effectiveness of the assignment at hand. &lt;br /&gt;Being assertive does not equate to aggressive behaviour such as running people down and screaming at the top of your voice. Assertiveness facilitates open communication — each team member has the right to speak his mind and contribute for the team’s benefit. &lt;br /&gt;Build trust &lt;br /&gt;To have a truly effective team, other members must know that they can count on you. So walk your talk and do what you say you’re going to do. If you say a report will be completed by next Monday, make sure it is delivered as promised. If you agree to take on a task or project, make sure you follow it through. &lt;br /&gt;Be solutions-oriented &lt;br /&gt;All members in a team essentially solve “people problems” — problems with customers, the boss and organisations. &lt;br /&gt;Every team member should be solutions-oriented and when issues arise, which are inevitable, effective team members should not blame others, circumstances or the management. Instead, they should acknowledge it and seek solutions, which can be done through brainstorming with other teammates. &lt;br /&gt;Be tenacious &lt;br /&gt;There is a saying that goes, “There are no half-hearted champions”. Only when a team member is tenacious enough to press on towards the goals and objectives of the team with a “never say die attitude” will the team win. &lt;br /&gt;In any project or assignment, there will always be obstacles, difficulties or setbacks. But are you just going to give up when you face difficulties? If all members are able to push on in the face of adversity, then success will be yours. &lt;br /&gt;Be a mentor &lt;br /&gt;All teams will have some members who are “stronger” than others. And it is the weakest link that will cause a team to fail. So if you have certain strengths that your teammates can benefit from, take the initiative to help the weaker ones by mentoring them. &lt;br /&gt;Keep growing &lt;br /&gt;The world is marked by constant change as technological breakthroughs revolutionise the way we live and work. &lt;br /&gt;To cope with all these changes, you need to have a spirit of growth within you to become a more effective individual. No team can survive with stagnant members as every team needs to change to stay competitive. &lt;br /&gt;Thus, as a team member, you must always seek to improve and challenge yourself, your paradigms, the way you work and the strategies and approaches of your organisation. &lt;br /&gt;Working in a team presents many challenges. But the ability to function as an effective team player is fundamental to success in almost any setting, be it the football pitch or the corporate boardroom.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family:Arial;font-size:85%;&quot;&gt;Tapi apa yang diharapkan selalunya sukar menjadi kenyataan. Ini kerana sikap individu dalam kumpu;an serta tindakkannya. &lt;/span&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/1843310189621493906/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/1843310189621493906' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/1843310189621493906'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/1843310189621493906'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2008/09/be-better-team-player.html' title='Be a better team player'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-221015118534805111.post-3789273156764792089</id><published>2008-07-09T22:04:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2008-07-09T22:04:14.884-07:00</updated><title type='text'>ctkay&#39;s: Imbasan: Sikap PAS Kes DS Anwar 1998</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href=&quot;http://penawarrinduku.blogspot.com/2008/07/imbasan-sikap-pas-kes-ds-anwar-1998.html&quot;&gt;ctkay&#39;s: Imbasan: Sikap PAS Kes DS Anwar 1998&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Insya Allah, PAS konsisten dalam hal tersebut, Malahan perbicaraan beliau yang tempang dalam sistem perundangan Malaysia  telah meletakkan beliau dianiaya oleh Kerajaan BN serta sistem mereka. pindaan tarikh serta tempat jenayah serta pindaan hujah petuduhan  meletakkan sangsi kebenaran pemerintahan Malaysia hari ini&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sebagai umat Islam berbangsa Melayu, anggap sahaja Fitnah ini tajaan dan buatan musuhnya. Musuhnya telah lama tercemar wibawa dan akhlak mereka. musuhnya berbudaya fitnah sejak dahulu lagi. Kita memusuhi fitnah serta benci kepadanya samada pencipta fitnah dan penyebar fitnah dan memaksa rakyat mempercayai fitnah mereka dengan sumber cukai dari rakyat</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/feeds/3789273156764792089/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment/fullpage/post/221015118534805111/3789273156764792089' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/3789273156764792089'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/221015118534805111/posts/default/3789273156764792089'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://paparan-nurani.blogspot.com/2008/07/ctkays-imbasan-sikap-pas-kes-ds-anwar.html' title='ctkay&#39;s: Imbasan: Sikap PAS Kes DS Anwar 1998'/><author><name>Marikh</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03793833177088831614</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgF8Q1QFXMHETWxPbr7FcyQai4xSxP1ywb_EbPPKTHfBQDlqaRksTMI_DEpn145gPYu_2tL5ZJI24BdQ6GXxnO0XV3rRaceeHRxCACp3j1TNhX0y0_hVzQHBliibskJWg/s220/DSC01102.JPG'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>