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I am Trayvon Martin

2012-03-13T22:50:00.000-04:00

Trayvon Martin, 17

As I write this, the biggest part of my mind is weary. When is this foolishness going to end? When will being Black in public stop being a crime? All I can think of is the pain and unbearable grief his mother is going through right now because a man was so caught up in trying to be the neighborhood hero, he saw a boy through (dare I say) racist-colored lenses, confronted him even after he was advised to stay back from the boy, shot and killed him. Trayvon was only carrying Skittles and iced tea. Skittles. Iced tea. He was walking back to his father's home, probably thinking about what he was going to be doing later that day.

Except now, we will never know what he was thinking. George Zimmerman, in all his careless, stupid, gung-ho grandeur, shot and killed Trayvon. As brave as George had been, even packing heat on his neighborhood watch, he confronted a teen half his size, approached him as if he had no right walking in that neighborhood, then shot and killed him, claiming self-defense.

Meantime, the police are putting up a half-assed front, saying there is no evidence to contradict George's claim. It seems they are dragging their feet on releasing the dispatch recordings that indicate what actually happened. How the dispatch told Zimmerman to stay away from the boy when he called to report someone suspicious in the neighborhood. Instead, he is free as a bird, no arrest seemingly on the horizon. Trayvon's family has to suffer through knowing this man walks the streets while the cops put on a lethargic investigation into the incident.

My question is this - where are all the celebrities? Everybody and their mama seem to want to go after Kony, but aren't speaking that loudly about the boogeyman here at home. Yes - I said boogeyman, because Zimmerman and his ilk is the stuff bad dreams are made of. What happened is every Black parent's nightmare, and is the experience of too many of us. If you have ten Black men as friends and family, most - if not all of them, have been subjected to driving, eating, walking, or just existing while Black. Every Black male I know, from children to old men, have been trained to be extra careful and courteous so a police officer won't get a knee-jerk reaction and shoot you down like Amadou Diallo, or Sean Bell. I have been subjected to extra questioning, or assumptions about my talents and abilities because of my color. We won't even talk about how every time a young White woman gets attacked or goes missing, all she has to do is claim a Black man did it and the community tweaks out with rage (except when they find out she lied, then it all goes quietly away, with apology buried on page 6).

So this is my way of saying I am sick and tired of being sick and tired. I pray for the day when someone like Zimmerman won't be able to walk free after committing such a heinous crime out in the open with the police sitting on their thumbs, seeming to drag out the investigation until it is forgotten. And I am not going to put up Zimmerman's picture, especially in the same post with such a sweet young man who was full of promises, life, and hope. What I will do is keep bringing attention to this, and if I have anything to do with it, Trayvon will not be forgotten.

What are you going to do? Will you join me in supporting his family until we see justice? Will you watch out for our young men, related or not, and fight for a world where all our children can enjoy a walk to the corner store for some candy, just like anybody else without the George Zimmermans of the world so willing and able to gun them down? Where are all the famous people?

I am Trayvon Martin. Are you?

Happy Freakin' New Year!

2011-12-31T14:20:00.000-05:00

Happy New Year 2012 Bit-chezzzzz!!!!!!! *TWEEEEEEEEEEEE*

Wow. 2011 flew by like it had wings on it. So many things have happened in the world this year that it is almost impossible to think more crazy ish can happen in 2012. 2011 brought us:

Arab Spring - people are getting tired of despots and iron-fisted stripping of human rights, and this is one of the results
Mubarak is gone from Egypt. He was their leader almost my whole life (and I am up there in age!) and now he is gone. Egyptians say Good Riddance. Let's hope 2012 brings them peace and leadership that has their best interests at heart
Ivory Coast even kicked out their leader who wouldn't leave on his own after elections. Let's hope ninjas just leave when they ain't wanted...
Prince William got married. Yay for Princess Diana's son. That's all I got for that...
The death of Osama bin Laden (he got his azz really handed to him) brought on by Special Forces (SEALs) in Pakistan. Remember when President Obama said bin Laden would be found in Pakistan, but the naysayers said he ain't know what he was talking about? Remember the announcement came during the last part of Trump's (aka Swirly Lacefront) Apprentice show? All this after President Obama revealed his birth certificate again to shut the assholes down so he can be about business. Spectacular!
The space shuttle Atlantis made the last space shuttle flight for the shuttle program. Who knows what our next space transport will be?
There was an earthquake on the east coast of the U.S. - some glasses moved across a table, some damage was done (the Washington Monument has some cracks in it), and folks had something to talk about around the now-tilted water cooler.
Qaddafi was killed, ending a long, long period of his grip over the Libyan people. Let's hope they find their way and new (competent leaders).
The Iraq War is over. Funny how political opportunists who want to make this about lose or win just overlook the fact we were supposed to leave at the end of 2011 any way (SOFA agreement), and the President was just holding up our end of the agreement. Aaaannnnnd...we are starting to downshift in Afghanistan.
Gay people can get married in New York, and contrary to what anti-gay marriage folks would lead you to believe, the world did not stop turning, and families did not die off. And guess what? Kim Kardashian still got married and separated in spite of gay marriage, I still got married, and as a matter of fact, heterosexual marriages still happened. Wow. Imagine that. And some folks are still against it, even though they have been proven wrong...I have a wish that they start making common sense freely available to everybody.

All of this, and we still have to go through a crazy election year. The GOP is throwing candidate crap at the wall to see what sticks, Tea Party folks are finding out the hard way that reading is fundamental and ignorance is NOT bliss, and folks are getting used to the fact that the repeal of Don't Ask, Don't Tell is not ending the world! Gay folks can serve freely and openly while identifying as gay, and guess what? The military is not crashing down around us.

The Mayan calendar has the world ending in December of 2012, and the GOP says we are on the brink of disaster if President Obama gets re-elected. So I will do my best to bring on the apocalypse by helping him win re-election by getting folks registered and educated about voting. As for the Mayan thing...it's a wait-and-see thing, right?

So have a safe and Happy New Year, and make 2012 the best year for YOU! Let's love more, treat each other better, be kinder to family and friends, and think before we speak and act.

What is your New Year going to be about? I don't do resolutions, but do you? Please do share...

What Would You Do for a Klondike Bar?

2011-12-21T20:46:00.001-05:00

If you have watched any news at all, or been on Twitter at all, you might have heard about the two brothers who got arrested, and while in the back of the police car, one brother coaxes the other one to help him get rid of his cocaine. The ounce he had hidden. In his butt.

Yeah, I know, right? I have been imagining this conversation in my head:

Big Brother: DAMN! I can't believe dis shit right here, bruh! We got big trouble...

Little Brother: Man - I told you we was gonna get caught up, main! How we gettin' outta dis one, tho?

BB: I got a plan. But you gonna hafta do a little sum'n sum'n...

LB: Like what?

BB: I need you to get rid of my coke, dawg.

LB: What coke? The only coke you got is that ounce in the plastic you put in yo azz.

BB: What if - while dey outside the car - what if you get the coke and get rid of it.

LB: Main - I'm handcuffed just like you nigga!

BB: Naw - just scooch down in the seat and grab it wit yo mouf, man! It's in my butt...

LB: o__O

BB: Don't look at me like dat, Nicca. Just...

LB: O__O

BB: If you don't we bout to go down hard.

LB: Man, if you tell ANYBODY bout dis...

This man begged his younger brother to eat his hidden drugs because he didn't want to catch another strike, but since LB didn't have any, well...

Since he did this favor for him, he died almost instantly after ingesting the drugs. Went into convulsions and died right there. And what did his big brother do? Tell the cops he must have ingested some residue from the seat. The police looked at the video from the inside of the car and were in utter disbelief and shock at what they saw.

Whatever happened to looking out for your family?!?!?! How could he even think this was even remotely okay? Granted - it wasn't like they were members of a brain trust or anything, but C'MON SON!!!

Last I heard - the police are looking for him since he bonded out or something. Woulda had him in custody had they looked at the video right away. Jesus really needs to take the wheel on this one...

I know this is the Holiday season, but can't folks at least try to do better? A little bit?

Finally, please take care of yourselves out there. You nay not be the drunk fool behind the wheel, or at the big party draped over the balcony, but you might be impacted by one. Be nice, be sweet, and be back for the New Year! BTW - 2012 is the year the Mayans said the world is supposed to end, right? Aaaaannnnnddd...the Presidential election is next year, too. Looks like interesting times ahead!

Should a Presidential Candidate Be Smarter Than the Average Bear?

2011-11-10T09:46:00.004-05:00

You would think somebody running for the office of the leader of the free world - President of the United States would be smarter than the average bear, right?

Hey Boo Boo! Where's my Pic-a-nic basket, ninja?

I mean, it should be important to know basic stuff, like the Constitution, so you know the powers and limitations of the three branches of government, and the rights responsibilities of the citizens of this great country. You should know something about the world - allied countries, border issues, foreign policy, who is leading what - basic high school world geography and civics stuff. A leader should be able to name at least one world leader and country off the top of his or her head, address some global issues as a world citizen, and still reach out to all people - rich or poor, Black, White, or other. Aaaaaannnd - this is a big one - represent the best interests of all your people, rather than push the personal agenda of a few to the detriment of the many. Doesn't sound that hard, right? Instead, all I keep seeing in these laughable Republican debates and sound bites are:

For real, tho?

I will be completely honest with you here. I am a supporter of President Obama, and although I may not agree with everything he is doing, I temper that by admitting I don't know what is going on behind the scenes, and well, he is not just my President - he is the President of the United States. Plus he is fighting through a Republican-majority Congress with an obstructionist agenda, and Democrats that have no...ah, but all that is for some other 'nother post. What I am addressing here is the debacle I am seeing unfold before my very eyes. I listen - I really do. I firmly believe if you have a problem with the way the President is doing things, rather than complain, offer up solutions. But - what I am hearing is:

Michelle Bachmann stating that everyone should be able to pay at least a little taxes. After all, for the equivalent of two Happy Meals, a poor person should be able to pay something for the year. Give back some of what you take. So - is she going to give back some of that farm subsidy money her family took? For the equivalent of some of her farmland laying fallow she should be able to give something back.

Herman Cain with his selective and ever-changing memory of whether he met the woman who came public about his "proposition", and then taking pics with her, as well as not knowing, then knowing a little, then aware of some of the foggy details...all this on top of calling it a "lynching" by the media. Not to mention the accusations that happened before during is time as President of the National Restaurant Association. But Herman - you said racism is a non-factor these days, Why call it a lynching? If you want a true, graphic example of lynching, go here. It doesn't get more real than this. Stay away from the Clarence Thomas playbook - folks are smarter than that these days. To top it off he does not know anything. He keeps saying "That's what my people are for." Or he tries to Jedi mind-trick you by bouncing your question back to you. I could do a whole post about him alone, but he is being thoroughly "vetted" by other, more seasoned bloggers - shout out to AverageBro, OneChele, and Field Negro. Herman - you need new people.

Rick Perry not knowing crap. He knows nothing. And he thinks that ish is funny! Is he high on something? Does he take a tab of E before he goes on stage? What the HELL, Texas? I think he is punking us. I keep expecting Ashton Kutcher to pop out from behind a curtain to let us know we are being punked just to say "Man! You should see the looks on your faces! We got you this time - HA!" Plus - he co-signs that whole birther crap. iCan't with you, Rick.

Mitt Romney is all but being ignored in this whole crapstorm. Ultimately, I think his Mormon beliefs will hold him back, as Mormonism is being considered a cult by some. Yep - somehow in this country, there is some unwritten amendment that states the not only do you have to be a Christian to run for President, but you have believe in the correct Christianity to be considered seriously. Seriously? Seriously, as serious as Herman Cain's campaign manager sucking on the cigarette at the end of his porn-tastic campaign video. (Shout out to Damon Williams and the TJMS!)

The rest of the candidates are just side shows to this hot, runny mess. I am really just stunned. I'm not even talking about how all of these guys keep blaming POTUS for the deficit, when most of it happened before his watch. Or how they are pissed we are leaving Iraq, saying President Obama cost us the war, when the SOFA written during the Bush presidency clearly stated we must leave by the end of 2011. Don't even get me started on the whole being mad that bin Laden was killed during President Obama's term.

In other words, all we are getting is:

I want to hear solutions, not sound bites and catchy phrases. I want to be able to hear what you said, then be able to look it up - research it for validity. I want to see your sources and be able to gain an understanding of what your platform is. If you really want to see some facts, just go here or here. Neutral fact checking sites that will give anyone with a computer and some motivation for truth the scoop on the stuff you may question. To do some homework, you don't even have to be a brainiac.

You mean I don't have to wear these glasses?

The President needs to be smarter than me. He or she should be able to answer my questions and not kick me to the curb by telling me they are not going to answer it. The potential POTUS should be able to represent us on the world stage, because at some point, he or she has to leave this country and interact with the world. The President needs to represent good, wholesome family values, and embrace the idea that this country is diverse, with folks from all walks of life and persuasions. Say what you want about any policies you agree or disagree with, we have a POTUS that represents these and then some. No N-word Head rock in his front yard, no homophobic rants and clinics, no paranoid conspiracies. No playing find the pickle with random women. Just leadership that represents all of its citizens and the idea that this is still the Home of the Brave and Land of the Free *cue the National Anthem*.

What do you think we need in a President? Do you think the current field of Republican candidates sincerely have our best interests, or are there some selfish, ego-driven agendas going on? If you had to choose a Republican candidate, which one, and why? It doesn't even have to be one on stage. Just keep it civil, please.

Happy 4th of July! Declare Your Independence - From Your Box!

2011-07-04T17:52:00.000-04:00

Happy Independence Day! Anyone with a basic knowledge of Independence Day knows that it is celebration of the day the thirteen colonies decided to gain freedom from the British Empire, and create a nation of its own. Great speeches are made, some good food is BBQ'd, fireworks are displayed, and we celebrate with family and friends. So - what are you going to celebrate your independence from? I am going to celebrate thinking outside my own box. The box I created when I bought my home and began to just live to pay bills to keep the house where I live to go out and work to pay bills to...you get the picture. Since this time last year, I have been getting better financially, I am happier in general, I earned by Bachelor degree, and I met my soul mate. So guess what now? I am seriously considering moving. Leaving Virginia. Going away from the house I have been living in since it was new construction.

I have always heard you should settle down when you get the chance. So, I did that. Now - I am not unhappy. As a matter of fact, life is pretty frickin' awesome, and God has overflowed my cup with so many blessings, I almost can't contain 'em all. But my recent visit to Georgia has opened my eyes to opportunities and possibilities. To top it off, my man said he has no problem making that move with me.

What holds us back from exercising our options and taking advantage of new opportunities? Afraid to take a leap? Probably. Concerned about what others may say? Meh - could be. For me, I was worried if my mother would want to visit, or in the future, come live with us. She says she has no desire to move south, and it may well be she won't want to come and stay with us. But at this point, I can't make life's decisions on what others may or may not want for me. In the end, I am the one (and my sweetie) that must make these life decisions so we can be truly happy. And to me, that is what true independence is all about.

What is keeping you in your box? Or have you already made the decision to take that leap and follow a calling or a different path? Please - do share...

To Tweet or Not to Tweet - That is the...What the $&#% Did You Just Send Me!?!?!

2011-06-06T18:02:00.000-04:00

I have a question. What is going on with perfectly grown-A adults finding the time (and apparently the balls) to post crotch shots and body shots on very public sites like Twitter, Face Book, and other social sites? I mean - is this the new obscene phone call? Really?!?!

Definitely not the sharpest knife in the drawer.

Today, Rep. Anthony Weiner admitted he tweeted pics of himself and his package to women other than his wife. He admitted he lied because he panicked when he was exposed, and is now coming forward to tell the truth so he can continue to do his job without this hanging over his head. Now - there are a whole lotta jokes in this paragraph already, so I won't go there. However, has he been living under a rock? Does he not know of other public figures getting outed for doing this Very. Same. Thing.

What makes these folks indulge in the modern-day version of the dirty phone call, knowing that once something is out there, it stays out there. Images of his underwear tweet will be available as long as there is an internet - and that ain't going away anytime soon. And to top it off, he was exposed by Andrew Breitbart. Yes Andrew Breitbart - the man who takes credit for the downfall of ACORN and jacked up Shirley Sherrod (she is suing his azz, I think). If anything, knowing there are folks out there just salivating at the chance to bring you down and distract the nation from what's really going on, you would want to keep pants on. Mr. Breitbart even bogarded Weiner's press conference, and he is soaking up the attention. Just goes to show that nasty pervs are not just part of one political party.

Now - why is Rep. Weiner so important? Why is any of this important for that matter? To me, it distracts the general public from the issues that are really important, and allows current political discourse to devolve into some whiny, catty, name-calling, useless process that doesn't get anything done. What is the motivation behind exposing this stuff? It seems counter-productive and just plain stupid, and doesn't elevate the current climate to something better.

The pictures - ick. And Ewww. Andrew Breitbart, and anybody making it their crusade to insert this crap into the political conversation - ick. And Ewww. As for me, I will keep my eyes on the issues, and not be distracted by shiny things. Or dangling things. As for the whole sordid thing (including you too, John Edwards):

I am so done with all y'all!

Hot Garbage Report

2011-05-24T18:49:00.000-04:00

Well - this is the first entry of my Hot Garbage Report. To be considered worthy of a Hot Garbage post, your behavior must be inexcusable, trifling, beyond sympathy, and just plain ol' ratched. Without further ado, my first report is devoted to: actor Richard T. Jones! Yes, the same Richard T. Jones of the Why Did I Get Married movies, and who has a pretty impressive TV and movie filmography. He was tapped to be the commencement speaker at UMUC (University of Maryland University College). When presented with this honor, it would have benefited him to be well-prepared, including, maybe, having something to say. Or at least gibbadamn. Just watch:

When I first saw this on Media Strut, I thought: it cannot be that bad. Perhaps he might have stuttered or had a microphone malfunction. No - he didn't even try to have anything relevant or worthy to say. As I watched this, my heart sunk for the graduates and their relatives and friends who attended this ceremony. I think that if you spent time, money, and brain power working hard to get your degree, the least a speaker could do is be prepared to give you words of wisdom, or even some encouragement and good feelings to take with you.

Nah - that was too hard. He could have phoned it in and it would not have been worse. Heck...I am quite sure if he asked, he could have had somebody write him a decent speech that would have allowed him to keep face and keep from embarrassing the UMUC faculty, staff, and students.

This is not a good look, and you really cannot un-ring this bell. Mr. Jones owes the school and the graduation attendees a serious apology. He could contact me and I could write one for him real cheap. I mean...wow.

Does Richard T. Jones owe UMUC an apology? Have you witnessed an embarrassing speech or had an event get screwed up because somebody wasn't prepared? Is this an example of how we have GOT to do better?

Makes Me Wanna HOLLA!!!!

2011-05-23T18:17:00.001-04:00

Is it me, or are Black women coming under attack from everybody? When I say everybody I mean everybody. It seemed that all last year, every media outlet had some study on Black women. I mean, really:

Why are so many Black women single?
Why do so many Black women have bad attitudes?
Why are so many Black women overweight?
Why are Black women more educated than Black men?
Why are there more Black single mothers than anyone else?
Why are Black women having fewer children?
Why are Black women's wombs so dangerous?

Even CNN had Black women on blast using their representative of Black women, Soledad O'Brien, to host the series of shows meant to spotlight us and help us solve our collective problems ::rolling my eyes HARD!:: Guess what? We are still single, getting educated, having or not having babies, and living life like it's golden. So what happens next?

This guy right here - the authority on all that is attractive

Yep. Satoshi Kanazawa. He wrote an article for Psychology Today that showed his study of the attractiveness of women. He concluded through his exhaustive, totally scientific, and relevant study that Black women are the least attractive of all women. I know, I know. He is a sexy specimen of a man - he has a beauty mark on his cheek and everything! And it seems we are the least attractive because we have an over-abundance of testosterone coursing through our veins. Hm - so perhaps if this is his theory, then the least attractive men would be those lacking in testosterone (see above picture). Regardless, his article has been de-bunked, torn up, and is disregarded by anyone who is a real researcher. So - dismissed.

So, while driving home, I was listening to Michael Baisden. I enjoy stimulating conversation and provocative topics like everyone else, so why do I think Michael deserves a head thump? His topic today - why White women are winning at getting married. Yes - you read that correctly. He says that with all the gorgeous, beautiful, and classy Black women around, why can't we get men to marry us? >blink< He goes on to say White women seem to have no problem finding husbands - perhaps they have more positive examples of marital role models. Or their horizons are greater because White women are more open to dating and marrying outside their race. What the ...? I tried to call in, but to no avail. So I am taking to this blog to let Mr. Baisden know how I feel about his choice of topics today.

Hey Boo!

Michael -

I can call you Michael, right? What was the inspiration behind your choice of topics today? Did you even think about your timing? After all, not too long ago, we (Black women) were targeted by the Right to Life movement for endangering our unborn, and having treacherous wombs. Then Mr. Kanazawa decided to publish his insulting and ridiculous article. Now - we can't get some man to marry us. Yep - we cannot get men to marry us. Tragedy, really. You kinda gloss over the fact that men are not trying to get married. THAT should have been the topic. And really - comparing us to White women? Wow. Why? And about that marriage thing, where did you get your statistics? What demographics were used in this study? Just as there are a variety of Black women, we are across many demographics. Were we evenly represented across urban, rural, and suburban lines? Did the study talk to women in the military, or in school, or even in careers that need a lot of time and sacrifice? And...this is important to me...by getting someone to marry you, are you counting the ones that stayed married to the original spouse? Or are you counting the ones that married young and many times? Is that what you call "winning"? What about those of us marrying later in life and staying married? I am shaking my head at you, Mr. Baisden.

There are more questions, but I want to leave you with this, Mike (oh and hey George!): women listen to you and support you. But it seems in your need to have provocative topic material for your show and get tons of callers, you just piled on us with the rest of the folks who do not seem to be feeling us. This does not affect my opinion of myself, or the beautiful and wonderful Sisters I have the privilege to know. If you are really feeling us, Mike, as Brownstone would say - show it...prove it...do it. Oh, and to Mr. Kanazawa, in the immortal words of Rick James (as spoken by Dave Chappelle): F*&^ you and f*&^ yo' couch!

Hey - am I being too sensitive, or have you been fed up as well? What are your thoughts on this apparent pile-on of Black women? Do you still strut your stuff, regardless of the negative press and lop-sided studies? What say y'all?

What Veteran's Day is Really All About

2010-11-11T08:27:00.000-05:00

All day long today, you will see the ads on TV for Veteran's Day sales, free meals at chain restaurants, and flags waving everywhere - all in honor of those who have served or are still serving our country. But what happens tomorrow? Where is the gratitude and love after the free meals and spontaneous handshakes are gone?

Anyone who knows me, knows that I served in the military for 20 years. Actually 20 years and 17 days, but who's counting? The point is, I retired from military service relatively unscathed, and even though I have bad knees, a cranky back, and may have been exposed to asbestos, I came back in one piece with a sound mind and a body that will last for 30 more years. God willing and the creek don't rise, as the old folks say. There are those veterans who are worse off than me, and deserve more than annual shine or "tokens" of appreciation. So - how can we honor those who gave the ultimate sacrifice?

Like everything else, America seems to have a short memory. Just having one day of remembrance is not enough. I know, I know - what about Memorial Day? Ooh - TWO whole days to thank someone for giving their life for this country! Thanks, guys! No...what I am saying is that it should be something that happens all year long, spontaneously. We should not let this opportunity be hijacked by Pseudo-Patriots, you know the folks who tell you that if you don't agree with them and all their policies you are un-American. The hate and anger being spewed out like active volcanoes has become rampant, and has clearly hijacked the democratic process in this country. We need to take it back in honor of those who have served so that we ALL can exercise our freedoms. Here is how we can start:

1) Get your facts right before talking about an issue. You hear folks all the time who come out on Veteran's Day and talk about how Americans died for the freedom to say what they want, when they want, how they want. However, most of the dead would come back and scissor kick some people in the back of the head if they heard and saw what is going on now. Yes - I am looking at extremists who talk about Death panels (Sarah Palin), Sharia law in America (Sharon Anggle), experiments on mice to have human brains (Christine O'Donnell), the President is a racist (Glenn Beck), and others. If you don't believe me, the links are at the end of this article. Now, to the educated, or even awake, these would seem to be preposterous, full of shiggity (shout out to Bougieland!) and worthy of intense laser-beam side-eye (pilfering Bouge again). But a large part of our population has bought into these things, with gusto and enthusiasm. Google any one of these and you will see what I am saying. So, in honor of veterans everywhere, the next time you hear someone promoting something garbage-can worthy, take the time to get the real information, print it out in big letters, and staple it to that person's shirt, fanny pouch, or Hoverround.

2) Become more vocal. It is okay to get a little loud when you are intelligent. The loudest these days seem to be the ones with the - how should I say it - the softest brain matter. At least with the least wrinkles. It is true - there are studies that show the human brains with more wrinkles have been used the most. Thinking is not an option. We have to be smarter than the average bear. That is not to say we have to be in lockstep and agree on everything, but when you have the facts, and you know them to be real and not an illusion, you have to be louder than the person who rides the little bus with the strawberry-flavored windows. Case in point: all we have heard in the past two years, is how the President is a Muslim, and yet he attends a Christian church, his family is Christian, he doesn't abide by any of the tenets of Islam, etc...But the falsehood is all you hear. Fight ignorance and stupidity - be on the intelligence front line! (I know - got caught up a little bit there!)

3) Encourage progress. It seems we are living in an age of intolerance and anger. People who have humble roots and are now prosperous are quick to shun those who are still struggling. How is it that anyone can be against healthcare reform when millions of children previously in danger of having no medical coverage can now get proper care? Folks previously shut out of institutions because of skin color, gender, or sexual orientation (soon) can now participate. Not saying we are there, but we are moving forward, and it just completely baffles me that there are those who want to move backwards to the "good old days" when things were infinitely easier for the majority than the minority. Tell those folks to shut up, suck it up, and act like real Americans and embrace change.

So - in honor of veterans everywhere, I will exercise my rights with more responsibility, intelligence, and enthusiasm, and not let them be twisted and manipulated by the less responsible. And I will do this every day, not just on one or two days. They fought for them, and many have died for them, so I will not waste these golden opportunities. What are you going to do this Veteran's Day?

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/08/07/palin-obamas-death-panel_n_254399.html
http://tpmdc.talkingpointsmemo.com/2010/09/odonnell-in-2007-scientists-have-created-mice-with-human-brains.php
http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-20019405-503544.html
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/politics/2009/07/29/2009-07-29_fox_news_glenn_beck_president_barack_obama_is_racist_with_deepseated_hatred_of_w.html

Trying This Again!

2010-11-09T19:20:00.000-05:00

Well - I am trying to do this blog thing. I comment on other great blogs, and I seem to always have something to say. Sometimes it may be interesting and relevant, and other times my comments seem completely random and "out there". However, I always try to come at these things honestly, and interact with other posters. So - I am going to try to post interesting stuff, and all I ask is that when you post at my site, come with it! But act like you got some sense - no need to insult other posters or use out-of-pocket vulgarity. If you don't like a point of view say so, but be ready to take it as well as dish it out - no meltdown into the Dozens game here!

For my first blog, I am going to let you have the floor. What is your latest rant or rave? What is getting on your nerves, or should I say, WHO is getting on your nerves? If it is about fashion, books, relationships, or politics, nothing is off-limits.

So - let me have it! The post is yours...