HappyCabbie

To Jenny Mcdermott from a Whoremonger

2015-12-19T09:21:00.000-08:00

Dear Jenny,

I am not making videos at this time, as I am focusing on my health, so I hope you will accept this open letter. This blog is in response to your recent video to xxxild. There was a time I counted xxxild as a friend but she decided to end it, I am at a loss to remember why, although I do have a few guesses. I do not wish to get involved in the vlog war you have with her. The reason for my response is to refute some of the points you made regarding prostitutes, and I thought you might enjoy the insight from someone who has been with them.

Below is your video for those reading.

XXXild: Whore

I am not ashamed to admit that I have used the services of prostitutes in the past and I am currently considering using them again. My regular audience is aware of the problems I have had in the past year in finding a partner and how I am constantly used as an ATM. Prostitutes would be a cost effective solution to my problem.

There are more things you can do with a prostitute than just having sex. About a year and a half ago I made a decision to be chaste and it was a poor decision to lose my virginity and later to have sex outside of marriage. (For those who remember Brandy, while she did spend the night we kept our clothes on and just cuddled.) In the past I have taken prostitutes to movies, dancing, fine dining and all of it was much cheaper than the dates I recently been on. One one recent date I spent over 200 dollars and she just kept adding things to the shopping cart for me to buy.

While there are no doubt men who look down upon and abuse prostitutes I never did. In fact in all my years when I was a whoremonger only one prostitute refused to see me again. Prostitutes even have a name for the kind of encounter I want. It is called The Girlfriend Experience or TGE for short. One thing for sure though, you can not turn a whore into a housewife. This is something every man knows and should pass down to their sons.

So let's start with the word whore. There is a reason you started your video off with this word. Despite it's dictionary definition, whore is now considered a derogatory term towards women. Words evolve, often far ahead of the dictionary. So is xxxild a whore, technically she was, but I have no doubt that like all prostitutes she had her standards and limits to what she would do for money. In my opinion your use of the word whore was nothing more than an ad hominem attack on her character. However that is all I am going to say on the spat between you two. It is not my fight.

There are primarily three types of prostitutes and I would like to break it down for you.

Street walkers

These by far are the cheapest hookers you can find, but they come with risks. In addition to STDs never agree to go back to their place, often a man is waiting there to rob you. Drugs are also common, as are undercover cops. What you want is a chubby prostitute. Someone with an extra 15 pounds on them. This almost eliminates all risk of picking up a drug addict as the skinny ones are always on drugs. A chubby is also not going to be an undercover cop as she would never pass her annual fitness test. Never agree to pull around the corner, that is a cop and the vice squad will arrest you. If she doesn't get in your car then take off. A cop will never get in your car and someone who is being prostituted against their will (read pimped) will try to stall so someone can write down your license plate. Negotiation for services take place in the car not on the sidewalk. If she doesn't get in right away then take off. Let some other loser get busted or robbed. The advantage to street walkers is the ability to see what you are getting upfront and they are the cheapest, I would recommend avoiding sex with them due to risk of STDs.

Internet Hookers

Sites such as Backpage and Craigslist are full of women advertising themselves online. In addition to STDs the biggest risk is that the lady you get is never the lady in the ad. Often times a picture from 10 years ago or 10 cheeseburgers ago is used or a photo from the internet. Never never do incall, even though the price is cheaper. Never go to a hookers home. Someone might be waiting on you or it could be a police sting. To reduce risk make sure you can see her pull up to your home or hotel from your window. If someone else is in the car do not answer the door and block her phone number. The advantage with internet hookers is that they come to you, and leave when you are done.

Brothel hookers

A brothel is where prostitution is legal. I have been to several brothels in Nevada and even posted my reviews on this blog. Links below. I have also been to licensed brothels outside of the USA. Brothels are the safest for the men, the women are tested regularly and must carry their health certificates at all times. In my opinion having sex at a brothel is safer than picking up girls at the clubs. Girls at the clubs are not tested for STDs prior to showing up. The brothels in Nevada provide a safe space for the ladies but it does have some downsides. The first is the brothel in addition to charging room and board collects half of the fees that the ladies earn. The second downside is that they don't get to set their own hours and often are restricted to staying at the brothel.

Other countries have the ladies pay a flat fee to work and she keeps all of her earnings. It is sadly cheaper to travel to another country and party all night than it is to spend 20 minutes at a Nevada brothel. Competition and less taxes would make things easier for the brothel prostitutes. Still there are no shortage of women wanting to work there.

Final point, you can not do anything you want to with a hooker. You can not take a crap on them and many refuse to do anal. This is where negotiation comes in, you as the client state what you want to do and she comes up with a price. According to one lady I spoke to, she found it easier to simply inflate the price to something outrageous instead of saying no. Like any business transaction the first one to quote a price loses, so I always bid super low and get it out of the way, then real money talk can happen.

Is there abuse and exploitation in prostitution? Of course, and it is not a long term career. It is however a way for a woman to provide for herself. No woman should starve when she is sitting on a pot of gold. I would like to say every profession has exploitation. Many of us have had jobs that we truly hated and felt used. The advantage we have is we can go and get relief while the hookers can not.

Prostitutes are raped every now and then, every prostitute knows this. They will eventually be robbed or even put in jail if they are working outside of the law. To quote George Carlin, why should it be a crime to sell something that is legal to give away freely? If prostitution were decriminalized prostitutes could call the police if something bad happened. They can't do this now, as they fear arrest. The abusers know this, and this is why prostitutes make easy targets. This is why so many line up for a chance to work at a brothel because the brothels all have security.

Jenny, you and I are no better than a prostitute. Just because you do not sell your body does not make you superior, just as I am not superior simply because I have money and they want it. They all have feelings and not all of them are held against their will, many chose to do it because the money is good. I would rather that she work to support herself than to be living on my tax dollars.

Read on
My review of the Chicken Ranch brothel
http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2015/08/chicken-ranch-brothel-review.html

My review of the Mustang Ranch brothel
http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2015/08/mustang-ranch-brothel-review.html

A video response to Heather and ZJ about their video on prostitution

The blog post I referenced in the video
http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2012/01/why-i-disagree-with-zj-and-heather.html

My Balls are huge, now I act like it.

2015-12-08T12:41:00.000-08:00

I was driving my car the other day and I saw a lady who missed her bus. She approached just as the bus took off. I stopped to give her a ride. She was a slender black woman. I usually don't date black women as I have found that they tend to come with too much baggage and poor attitudes but I made an exception.

We began talking and she was on her way home, she lived with her uncle. For some reason I ignored two major red flags. First, this lady was older than me, why didn't she yet have her own place. The second is with the hair. Like many black women she lacked self esteem about her natural hair. (For more on my views on hair click on http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2014/12/the-beauty-of-long-feminine-hair.html which includes several natural black women) She had on a wig, a very obvious wig. To be honest I don't know why so many black women wear wigs, they are not fooling anyone. So after we exchanged phone numbers I asked her to take the wig off. She complied. Her hair was kept short, red flag number 2.

My male readers can back me up on this, short hair on a woman is a major red flag. It is time to abandon ship and run for it. Short hair on a woman is a tell tell sign that emotional turmoil is on the way. Either they are in a meltdown or about to have one. Looking back as soon as I saw how short her hair was I should have just dropped her off at her uncle's house and called it a day. I guess I was lonely or stupid, perhaps a little bit of both.

I scheduled a date with her and had the whole evening planned out. During one of our phone conversations she let on that her shoes were falling apart. I offered to buy her new shoes suitable for the winter. When I picked her up, Wal-Mart was our first stop. She said she wanted to go to a shoe store, but I assured her that Wal-Mart would have a reasonable selection and that I needed to pick up some stuff for myself.

When we pulled up to Wal-Mart I told her we were there for winter shoes at a reasonable price. I did not want to shell out a ton of money for shoes. She said she understood and we went inside the store. The whole time all she did was complain about how this other shoe store she wanted had better selection. I kept pushing her to just pick something. She eventually did. However we were not even close to doing shopping. She started filling up that shopping cart and in the end I paid over $100 and all I got was some Gold Bond and baby wipes. She got new shoes, a new coat, prescriptions, food, and I don't even remember what else I just remember shelling out $100. We spent hours in there and it was too late to do anything else. On the way to her uncle's house she breaks her phone, I guess she sat on it. I want a way to contact her so I offer to buy her a phone. I also buy a cell phone case to keep the new one from breaking. I dropped her off at her uncle's house and went home.

Our second date wasn't much of a success either. Various family members was asking her for rides even though it was my car and my gas. Nobody bothered to ask me. She did comply with my request to leave the wig at home.

Her uncle had asked her to run to Church's Chicken and I foolishly assumed that her uncle had given her the money. We went inside and she even had coupons. In the end it was a 20 piece family dinner and when it came time to pay, she looked at me. Didn't say anything, just looked at me. So now I am buying dinner for her whole family. Great. I am such a fool, but thankfully in the end I do put my foot down, but that comes later, much later.

Somehow we wind up at Dollar General, I am not sure how, I just know it is me, her, and her grandson who wants a toy. She places the toy in the cart, naturally I am paying for it. $158 dollars is the total this time. I thought I was just taking her grandson home, how did we wind up going shopping again? She tells me that the cell phone case broke that I got her so I figure $10 will get a new one. It was a lie, turns out she was taking me to buy her a blue tooth headset. More money. Before I drop her off I remind her not to think of me as an ATM, and that if she ever asks me for money I will "drop her like a hot potato"

The next day I am texting her as usual, only this time no response. I tried calling, it goes to voicemail. Now I am mad. I spent all that money and now she won't answer the phone. She eventually calls me back at 3pm telling me that she just woke up. How is it even possible to sleep until 3pm? Anyway this is the new habbit, I am up during the day and I sleep at night. The night is when she wants to talk, so I now stay up to talk to her. We make plans for a third attempt at a date. I make one request. No wig, just be natural.

What greets me at the door is someone who has never heard of a hairbrush. It is almost as if she intentionally made her hair look that bad just to prove a point. She is also still in her pajamas. It is 5:30 in the afternoon. I am on time but I have to sit in my car for 30 minutes for her to get ready, and in 30 minutes she obviously took a weedwhacker to her hair. There is no possible explanation for her hair looking that bad unless she did it intentionally. Still if she wants to go outside looking like a train wreck who am I to stop her.

The whole time she is on the phone. Apparently her mother needs medication and she is calling other members of the family to borrow the money. Frustrated I tell her I will give her the 80 dollars to get the medication. At least it should get her off the phone and focused on me, right? So here is how it works. She has to give the 80 dollars to her brother who will then get the medication. Looking back I smell a rat. Why don't I just buy the medicine myself and take it directly to the mother, why the middle man?

So we are on the way to her brother's house and she tells me to stop and let her out a block away. I ask her why can't I just park next to the house. "Because he doesn't like white people." Ok so I just gave 80 bucks to some racist who has never met me but already hates me I guess. So after she gets out she noticed that I am parked right where I let her out. Apparently I can't do that either because her brother will assume I am a cop. Red Flag Alert. Why would it be bad if her brother thought I was a cop, exactly what is my 80 dollars going towards. That is it, I start driving back towards her uncles house. This is her cue for her to go bonkers and to completely lose her mind.

She starts yelling and complaining about every little thing and I am just sitting there calmly driving my car while totally amused by the whole situation. Her biggest complaint is how badly she looks without her wig. Two points, first I have seen her hair look decent without the wig, second every other woman I have ever met knows how to brush their hair, including black women.

She then demands that I pay for her to go to a salon to have her hair styled each week or just put up with her wig. I have known this woman for only a few days. I sit and look at her trying to hold back laughter. Eventually I tell her that perhaps its best if we end it. She can go back to wearing her silly wig and I can go back and lead a happy life.

I am so proud of myself for finally having the balls to kick someone to the curb who obviously needed it. I only wish I did it sooner so I didn't have to spend so much money.

She is not the first black woman I have dated but it will probably be quite some time before I date another one. Almost all of them have kids, and they love to yell. Black women, if you want to date a nice gentleman, white or otherwise, here is a few tips. Keep the legs closed and don't jump on every dick that comes your way. You will have far fewer children that way. Wait for a wedding ring. And when you do find a man that you fancy, don't yell at him, learn patience and keep your attitude in check. Every black woman I have ever dated had problems with attitude that women of other races simply don't have. It may be a stereotype but stereotypes are grounded in reality.

Survey results I did a while back on how Black Women can find a white man to date.

Laci Green, The Obese is NOT a Protected Class

2015-10-03T17:23:00.001-07:00

Sadly I have to make this blog post yet again finding myself at odds with a good friend Laci Green host of a online MTV program called Braless. Although the show claims to be about Pop Culture just about every video entry is about Feminisim and regurgitation of long ago disputed claims. While I am so happy for Laci on her YouTube success and branching out to include things such as MTV and the lecture circuit, I am dismayed at her willingness to repeat claims that have long been disputed. Today's entry is no different it is about weight and should it be legal to discriminate.

Let's clarify a few things, despite Laci's claim that this was NOT hooters the waitresses are known as Borgata Babes and a quick Google search disputes that claim. Essentially to be a Borgata Babe you have to be a 9 or a 10. They even put out a yearly calendar featuring their waitresses.

From The Examaner: Borgata Babes calendar launch party

Borgata Babes credit Brian Branch-Price

Now upon further investigation into the story, the weight policy was put in effect after the women were hired. The poliicy was put into place in 2005 and the policy was if you gained more than 7 percent from the time you were hired you were suspended and put into a mandated weight loss program. In 2009 it was revised again to allow the waitstaff to keep working while they got their weight under control. In addition to the weight policy each employee male and female had to adhere to personal grooming standards and appear clean, happy, and comfortable. Needless to say I wouldn't even make it in the door.

Although the policy was put into place after the 22 waitresses were hired, all signed the agreement. No doubt they signed it as they did not want to get let go. However, the Borgata casino hires young attractive women as their servers. They are a casino, pretty girls get bigger tips. Mythbusters even confirmed that bigger boobs get better tips.

You can call it sexist all you want but the Borgata casino knows that a distracted gambler is a poor gambler and the attractive women not only get good tips for themselves but also earn a lot of money for the Casino. Do women gamble? Sure. And any smart casino will provide them with eye candy as well, if not then that is their decision. You don't see too many men working at Hooters and try as they might, nobody has made a commercial success out of Wangers. Sure there is Chippendales, but they are not a restaurant and they are far out numbered by the nudie bars.

The one thing I do fault the casino on is it's alleged advice to women not to take medication that has weight gain as a side effect. However such side effects can be negated by talking to their doctor.

Judge Nelson Johnson got it spot on when he ruled,

“The Borgata Babe program has a sufficient level of trapping and adornments to render its participants akin to ‘sex objects’ to the Borgata’s patrons. Nevertheless, for the individual labeled a babe to become a sex object requires that person’s participation.” Johnson wrote. “Plaintiffs cannot shed the label babe; they embraced it when they went to work for the Borgata.”

So let's get into the other claims Laci Green made in her video.

At 1:13 she said 90% of female waitresses were sexually harassed by customers. That's right CUSTOMERS. You can find the source of this statistic HERE but with funding from the Ms Foundation and support from organizations such as Hollaback (That ridiculous street harassment video) and National Organization for Women you know you are in for some unbiassed reporting. LOL

The research paper primarily blames the tipping system for women facing discrimination and I have to agree. I don't like tipping, working at fast food is twice as hard as carrying a few plates to a table, so why I am I expected to contribute to the worker's salary for carrying food essentially 10 or 20 feet? Charge me for the meal and price it accordingly so your workers can make a decent living. When the minimum wage goes up so does the cost of a hamburger. Several years ago Burger King charged 99 cents for a whopper, now it is almost $3.00. The minimum wage went up as did the cost of fuel so their costs were passed along to the consumer. They are doing just fine. Get rid of tipping, problem solved.

The report also cites managers suggesting that women dress sexier, again see the Mythbusters video embedded above, this is in the waitresses best interest. Flirt with the customer, get bigger tips. The report cites things as asking a waitress out on a date as harassment. I am not making this up.

Finally why do women report harassment more than men? Because men suck it up. Is there harassment from horny customers? Do co-workers and managers make inappropriate comments? Yes and yes. However, men are taught from an early age not to snitch, and to suck it up and show no emotion. Is it a double standard? Of course, but this is life, and life is cruel. Make the best of it. If you don't want to work in a job where you depend on tips from horny harassers, then make something of yourself and get a better job. A waitress position is not meant to be a career. It is entry level, learn how to cook or how to be a manager, or find another field of work.

At 1:22 of the video Laci contradicts herself. She states that "beauty standards" were only applied to women, but says that male workers at the Borgata had to sign a personal appearance standard agreement. The Borgata Babes was and is an exclusively female job however upon further research it appears men worked as Babes. 0_o Sorry but my common sense buzzer is going off. I find it hard to believe a man worked as a Borgata Babe, more than likely they worked as part of the waitstaff, perhaps as eye candy for female gamblers. Of course these "beauty standards were only applied to women aka the Borgata Babes

Men worked other jobs but had to maintain a clean appearance. Obviously I would not make the cut. She says there is no record of men being disciplined for violating this rule. Perhaps the men just kept themselves neat and clean and there was no need. Or perhaps no such reports made the news.

Here is a dirty little secret. Men often have to alter their appearance and maintain physical fitness for their job. Military comes to mind. Young men have their heads and beards shaved off while the women simply get a haircut above the shoulders. Men must maintain much less body fat compared to women. The Army for example Men age 17-20 must have 20% or lower body fat while females only have to get under 30% for the same age range. Most food service workers are prohibited against having beards and this is pretty much aimed at men. Bearded ladies can work at the carnival or on Spaceball-1

I'm the Bearded Lady! Who are you? One of the freaks?

At 1:49 Laci asks shouldn't weight be a protected class like disability rights? She says this after mentioning that weight gain is a side effect of some medications. You can't help being disabled, you can't help being born a certain race, you don't chose your sexual orientation. Being overweight is a lifestyle decision. If a medication is causing weightloss, then these people should speak to their doctor. There are tons of medications out there. The fact that these women gained the weight, got fired, and sued does not make them a protected class. Their medication had adverse side affects and they chose not to speak to their doctor. They work in a job where being pretty and thin is in the job description. If you are no longer pretty and thin, then you don't get to keep working there. The customers of the Borgata expect the Borgata Babes these women could no longer do the job they were hired to do, simple as that.

1:59 Laci says that male bodies are less scrutinized than female bodies. This is true. This is true for the Borgata Babes where it is their job to look pretty and thin and it is true for society as a whole. Just as a man's worth is based on his income or what kind of car he drives. Rich guys always get the 9 and 10s and poor schlubs get the left overs. If you want to attract a better class of female, take steps to improve yourself financially. This can take years of schooling or job training. Women, need only to eat right and exercise. Yes the standards are different for each sex. It is simple biology. Men like pretty women and women like men who earn a decent living.

2:19 one in four women experience sexual harassment at work? Really? I've worked in jobs that had female employees, perhaps I am just working at the wrong places. The source for this claim which you can read HERE also says one in four men fear being falsely accused of sexual harassment. Also noted in the report sexual harassment (at least the reporting of it) is down significantly over the past several years. So this is good news. We live in such as hyper-sexualized culture where men are afraid to even speak to a woman out of fear of being reported. The solution of course is for men to find work that women simply won't do. The skilled trades for example or pretty much any job that is labor intensive, outdoors, and high risk are filled almost exclusively by men. This is where men can be men without fear of being reprimanded.

2:29 Laci says that large women earn less 19,000 less than average size women and that the thin earn even more. So problem solved. Nobody is forcing these women to be fat, they just need to have self control and their income will go up. People need to stop complaining and wanting the world to solve their problems and simply pull up their bootstraps and do the hard work. Hard work gets results and rewards.

2:49 women are 16 times more likely to report weight discrimination. Again, men don't report they just suck it up. Again the problem is simple, take the fork out of your mouth and go for a walk. Being fat is a CHOICE not a disability that needs protection. Fat people are a burden to society and to their employer as they need more medical care than the healthy employees. If you are being discriminated for being overweight nobody is to blame except yourself.

Finally, the judge made the right call. The Borgata Babes were employed to look thin and pretty, if they no longer look thin and pretty they need to find work elsewhere. Being overweight is not a disability.

For more blog posts responding to LaciGreen check these links out below

Response to her video on beer advertising

http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2015/05/is-advertising-sexist.html

My response to her video on being a feminist

http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2014/10/why-i-am-not-feminist.html

about her views on shaming teen pregnancy

http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2014/09/did-teen-parents-make-mistake.html

and a blog post post defending LaciGreen against unfair criticism

http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2014/10/in-defense-of-censorship.html

and a blog of encouragement to LaciGreen about the time she took down her GoGreen18 videos

http://happycabbie.blogspot.com/2013/07/an-open-letter-to-laci-green.html

Why I stand with Kim Davis

2015-09-08T18:27:00.001-07:00

For those who don't know Kim Davis is the county clerk from Kentucky that refused to issue marriage licenses to gay couples. In addition she and her office has not issued any marriage licenses (even to strait couples) since the summer when the Supreme Court declared gay marriage to be the law of the land, overturning many states laws.

While recent elections have shown the tide to be turning in the view of gay marriage, the US constitution does not even address marriage, yet many state constitutions do. In the 90's in fear of the Supreme Court one day declaring this new law the Republican led congress passed the Defense of Marriage Act and was signed into law by President Clinton. In a case of pure irony in 2013 the Supreme Court ruled this law (the very law designed to stop the Supreme Court) unconstitutional. President Clinton himself later expressed regret for signing that bill into law and lobbied for it's repeal.

When the Supreme Court "found" a new right in the constitution the reaction was very similar to when they "found" the right to privacy and legalized abortion. The American people never got the vote and those who did get to vote on gay marriage had all their voted neutralized, along with every law passed by state legislatures. The courts is where liberal ideas are born as they can not survive a public vote in most cases.

The Catholic Church considers marriage to be one of it's seven sacraments. Many other churches consider marriage to be holy. Although I support the right of gays to marry whomever they chose I also respect the right of freedom of religion, even if that religion is bigoted.

Christians love to point to Leviticus when discussing gay marriage but tend to gloss over the Bible's very clear instruction that gays, disobedient children, and anyone who believes a different religion deserves to die. Yet it is their right to pick and chose I guess.

Here in America we have the freedom of religion, we can believe in anything we want. If I want to build a church that believes everyone who doesn't eat their Wheaties to be an abomination and we hold the last supper at the end of the month when my parishoners run out of food stamps that is our business. If I want to preach that homosexuality is a sin that is my right, it is only when I carry out the orders of the Bible and start stoning people that my religious freedom infringes on the rights of others.

With recent court cases involving bakeries being sued for not making wedding cakes for gay couples. So much for the right to refuse service to anyone, now businesses have the right to refuse service to anyone except gays. I one day expect to see a sign that says, "We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone unless they are female, transgender, disabled, homosexual, or basically anyone other than a straight white man." Mark my words that day is coming soon.

Kim Davis is a Democrat and has worked in the clerks office for 27 years before being elected to her current office last November, in the last election she ran unopposed. I strongly doubt the Republicans will put up a candidate to run her out of office as the GOP tends to be against gay marriage, and the only way the Democrats can unseat her is to challenge her in the primary, which really is not going to be a priority for them as they want control over washington, not some hick town in Kentucky.

She can't be fired because she is an elected official, the next election is the only way to out her and given her popularity in her county I don't see that happening. I predict she might even use this to seek higher office.

Now here are some facts to remember. Her main issue was she did not want marriage licenses for gay couples to bear her name. That is fine I can respect that, what I do disagree with is her refusal to allow the deputy clerks who work under her to issue the licenses. The licenses would not bear her name but rather the name of the clerk who filed the paperwork.

Kim Davis appears to be part of a Apostolic church and a very conservative one it appears (based on her conservative style of dress) She of course has been married 4 times but her current husband is also her first. She did have two twin boys outside of marriage but all that happened before she was a Christian as was her 3 divorces. She has only been a Christian for four years. Her apostolic faith would be against a divorced person from being married. Still I doubt if she is checking strait couples to see if either was previously married.As best I can tell, this is the website of her church.

Like I said, we have freedom of religion, even the right to believe and practice bigotry. Fortunately, we now live in the internet age and Thunderf00t said it best, the internet is where religions come to die. People have the right to pick and chose which parts of their holy book they want to live by. Bakeries also have the right to refuse service to anyone, or at least they should.

I predict that if a religious exemption is not made for Kim Davis, the church's will be targeted next. As non-profit corporations they are ripe for the picking if they refuse to rent their halls for a gay wedding, just you wait this will happen. Kim Davis is not refusing to do her job or uphold the oath of office she took when she was elected, the law changed, her job changed. Now she is being forced to do something she feels that her god will judge her for later. FYI the people who were originally denied licenses simply got them from another court. Seems reasonable. My grandfather had to do the same thing when the clerk refused to isssue him a license. He just drove 10 miles.

Kim Davis does not belong in jail, that is not a headline we need. While I disagree with her beliefs I support her right to live by them. The rules of her job changed without her input or consent months after she took the job. I will be surprised if she runs for re-election for clerk, I see her using this to seek higher office. However, if she does seek relection I don't see much hope for whomever tries to run against her. She has become a hometown folk hero.

Shaming: It can be a good thing.

2015-09-06T20:42:00.001-07:00

Ever look at those PSAs on TV or on the radio about texting while driving, what about all the messages we see about drunk driving, or doing drugs. Why are those things not called out for what they clearly are? Those messages are shaming. I was driving down the road and I saw a sign saying how many deaths there was on the highway, followed by a warning against driving drunk. That is drunk shaming.

Most people in my family were drunks. They had to endure the scorn of society as laws were passed outlawing their lifestyle. Their ability to travel was hindered as the law said they must be sober, for some on my family this kept them homebound. They had trouble finding work as they faced discrimination as drunks were considered to unreliable to employ. They couldn't even walk down the street as this was considered public intoxication. Why don't we call this drunk shaming? Because to do so would be stupid. The same should be equally true of fat shaming.

In all but the most rare of circumstances being fat is a intentional lifestyle choice. Not that people chose to be fat but rather they chose to eat too much unhealthy food and chose not to exercise. To call these people disabled or worthy of protection from shaming is and should be an insult to disabled people everywhere.

I once had a blind neighbor who went for a walk everyday. Eventually we became workout partners until he got married and moved away. The fact that I quit exercising is nobody's fault but my own. Long time readers of my blog and viewers of my videos will recall my weight has gone up and down many times. The problem is always the same, binge eating of sweets.

Ever since I was a child I was taught to bury my feelings with food, my mother is mostly to blame for this habit but I am to blame for not stopping it. It is nobody's fault but my own that I am fat. Many of my health problems can be traced back to my size.

You can not imagine my joy when I discovered I can do normal person things again such as using the normal stalls at the public bathrooms or going to a regular store to buy clothes. I still have a long way to go, but I am on the right track again, yay me.

Fat activists are anything but active, they sit around and the moment someone says a fat joke or makes any suggestion they alter their unhealthy lifestyle they cry foul. News flash to my fellow fatties, you smell. You smell because you sweat more, your sweat stinks because of your diet, because you are fat you can't wash yourself like a normal person.

Fat people are unpleasant to be around, they can't carpool without cramping everyone else around them, and if you give them enough time they will break furniture. No the furniture is not cheap, you are just to fat and the sofa can't take the strain of your excess weight.

It is not mean to tell a fat joke, jokes are just jokes and you need a sense of humor, not a trigger warning. Morbidly obese people are the only fools on earth who willingly chose to live disabled, it is not a secret about what you have to do, go for a walk and eat a salad. Just do those two things and the weight will come off, it is that easy.

Quit being a fat activist who complains about being fat shamed, we shame fat people for the same reason we shame drunks and drug addicts and people who cut themselves. Sometimes shaming is the only way to get through to you. You can cite all the studies you can find on Google about how shaming doesn't work, how about you Google some healthy diet tips instead, it might just save your life.

And to myself, because I do enjoy reading my older blogs, don't fall off the wagon again. Stay the course this time and let's get this weight off for good.

So what happened to Trena?

2015-08-17T01:46:00.000-07:00

About a month ago I met this wonderful lady named Trena. At the time she was one of 3 ladies I was dating and she was probably seeing me and at least one other person. Trena by far was the best and I think very soon our relationship could escalate to being exclusive. As a weird twist both times we went out Laundry was the focal point.

I decided it was time to introduce her to YouTube. We recorded a video together and it was mostly just us laughing. She really was a catch. Sadly it appears she has changed her mind. She stopped answering the phone and did not return phone calls. Perhaps she found someone better, perhaps I did something that upset her on our last phone call. Anyway, my last communication was a text message wishing her well. That was sent 5 days ago, there has been no response. It is a shame, I really did enjoy being with her.

I think I am going to take a break from dating for a while, focus more on self-improvement. I am not giving up on women, far from it, I just need time to regroup and recharge. Enjoy the blogs that I have written.

Wild West Saloon Brothel Review.

2015-08-17T01:01:00.000-07:00

This brothel has changed names more times than Puff Daddy and Prince combined. It still has the old website PussyCat Ranch and there is plenty of parking. Centrally located in Winnamucca Nevada about 3 hours east of Reno on Interstate 80. Once parked you want to go for the building on the left. Lineups are required but if you insist on not having one they won't force you. The problem with line ups is you are selecting someone solely on looks rather than personality. Instead I sat down and a few of the ladies had a chat with me.

For a building as small as this one they had quite a few ladies working. The ones I spoke to were very flexible on the budgets. They have a separate room for discussing pricing. It is obvious that the room was bugged with a microphone. There was also plenty of light to visually inspect the man for signs of STDs. I welcomed the light and in my opinion the microphone was to ensure that after I paid up front I would be given the service I was promised. There was also a kitchen in case you were hungry.

Calico Club Brothel Review

2015-08-17T00:38:00.001-07:00

The Calico Club is probably the smallest brothel in Nevada, it's prices are very reasonable for a Nevada Brothel. Located in Battle Mountain Nevada on Interstate 80 pretty much halfway through the state. The place operates in a refurbished house. The back yard has been turned into a dirt lot for parking. Sadly I can't really go into much detail here other than to answer some questions. When I was there only one lady was working and we were not a match so I don't know what the rooms look like other than the bar.

Don't rely on their phone for directions use Google Maps The person who answered the phone had no idea where the brothel was located. Although normally I would assume money talks would take place in the bedroom, the lady had no problem talking money in the bar. Still we were not a match so nothing happened.

Budgetwise I would recommend this place but due to a lack of options I don't know if I can endorse it.

Bella's Hacienda Ranch Brothel Review

2015-08-17T00:12:00.001-07:00

Bellas's is one of two brothels in Well's Nevada which is on Interstate 80 and caters to a lot of truckers as the first town with a brothel on the Eastern side of the state.

Here is their website When I went there I was informed that a lineup was required and that the ladies were not allowed to hang out in the bar area. Well if I could not talk to the ladies I said I would leave and when I did a few of them ran out of the room and tried to beat me to the door. On the hole these were some very attractive ladies. I myself would have probably gone for the tall one if only I was allowed to talk to her.

I left and went next door to Donna's (click here to read my review)

Sheri's Ranch Brothel Review

2015-08-16T23:51:00.001-07:00

Sheri's Ranch is next door to the Chicken Ranch (click here to see my review) Below is Air Force Amy giving a video tour of the house. While she no longer works there, the tour is well done and very accurate.

The road to Pahrump is very difficult to drive over, sharp hills and turns makes it difficult to maintain highway speeds. It is about an hour away from Las Vegas. There are two areas, the brothel and the restaurant/bar which is separated by a curtain. You are only allowed in the brothel if you submit to a lineup. The problem with lineups is you are selected a lady based solely on looks where as it would be better to talk to her first and get to know her. This is only allowed in the bar, more on that later. The halls are very wide and the place is well lit. For those who might be uncomfortable being in a brothel, the atmosphere here is very relaxing.

In the bar the women are only allowed to talk to you for 10 minutes. There actually was a timekeeper. It took about an hour for someone to approach me. Sadly it was someone with short hair and breast implants. While her implants did look good, they were obvious. A petite usually does not have large breasts. I thanked her for her time but suggested that she spend a few years growing her hair out. The next person to approach me had very long hair, but halfway down the hall toward her room I realized that we were not a match. I turned around back towards the bar.

While the ladies can talk about anything and everything, money discussions can only take place in the bedroom. I can honestly say the prices here are probably the highest of any brothel. When I finally found a lady I was interested in, I was quoted a price worth about 2 months salary. It was way too much but her price was firm.

There was a point where I was the only customer in the bar and all the women were on their smartphones. I estimate 5 or 6 women. I watched them for several hours. Now it could be that they had heard that I was not willing to shell out thousands of dollars and thus was not worth their time. Or perhaps there was something really to that Candy Crush game they were playing. I had some lunch and then left.

Chicken Ranch Brothel Review

2015-08-16T23:27:00.001-07:00

The Chicken Ranch is located in Pahrump Nevada an hour drive from Las Vegas. The road to Pahrump is full of hills and sharp turns to it can be difficult to maintain highway speeds. It sits next door to Sheri's Ranch (click here to read my review) Below is 7 year old video that sadly is still fairly accurate of what the place looks like. I think the furniture needs and upgrade.

Now the ladies advertised on their website are not the same ladies I met my day of the visit. It was explained to me that some ladies only work certain times of the year or that they only work nights, I had made my visit during the day. I can tell you that there are many ladies NOT featured on their website. One of these women was in fact larger than me. All had tattoos and many had botched breast implants that look like it was done by Edward Scissorhands.

The hallway to the bedrooms were very narrow and even though I am not claustrophobic just walking through this place made me feel nervous. The hostess insisted I sit for a lineup which I did not want to do. I was not there just to bang some hot chick, I wanted someone I could talk to and not feel rushed. I was told that if I refused a lienup then I would have to sit in the bar. The problem I have with lineups is I am simply chosing a lady based on her looks alone, I know nothing about the woman. How do I know she isn't a nutjob as soon as the door closes?

So I sat in the bar, at least they had country music playing, none of that hip-hop stuff. One by one the ladies shuffled in the bar and began to talk to me. The one I was actually interested in, seemed to ignore me so I went off with another. Financial discussions can only take place in the bedroom. Then she takes the money to the cashier and then you do what you were there to do. The lady and I could not come to an agreement on money as I felt $1,500 was too much.

Now what is important to remember is whatever price is agreed upon the lady only keeps half, the other half goes to the brothel. Out of her cut is fees for room and board, health screenings, and a high tax rate as Nevada funds its budget from sex workers and casinos. Still $1,500 was too much and I wasn't even there for sex. So I left.

How to attract a white man (survey results)

2015-08-16T22:55:00.001-07:00

There are countless blogs, articles, and YouTube videos on how to date black women. This blog is an attempt to show the other side. This is the result of two months of informal research of approximately 100 white men who were asked what black women can do to attract white guys. There are several advantages to dating white guys.

White men typically earn more.

This is partly due to education but also due to the type of industry they are in. There are naturally exceptions to the rule. This comes from the Bereau of Labor Statistics 2013 report on women's earning 2013 see chart 2. I encourage you to read the full report.

White men often put the needs of the home ahead of their own.

There is no link to put here, and there will be exception to the rule. Those surveyed claimed to work full time often over 40 hours a week to provide a good home. In an article found from Stanford University, it states that almost twice as many black women graduate from college as black men. As a result, they often earn more. The article doesn't state this but my own google searches find that white women graduate at a higher rate then men but the number is not as drastic. Regardless of the education level, white men still dominate the top paying jobs due to hours worked and career choices. (BLS Chart 2)

Now the purpose of this blog is not to be a hit piece on black men. For example I found while researching this article that while murder is the crime of choice for blacks, us white people love getting arrested for drugs. Source is the FBI for that one.

Rather this blog serves as a response to all the blogs and YouTube videos about why you should date a black woman and what you can do to attract one. So I listed two good reasons why a black woman should date a white man (although this advice works for all women of all races) Now, I would like to list 5 things black women should do to attract a white man.

Keep the legs closed. Nobody wants to raise someone else's kids. While out of wedlock rates are on the decline, the numbers are mostly unchanged for black women who gave birth out of wedlock 72% of the time. Rugrats are nature's cockblock. It is not uncommon to find a black mother with children from multiple fathers.
Take off that silly wig. Almost every single person I interviewed mentioned wigs and weaves as a major turn off. Chris Rock made a very good documentary about the crazy things black women do to their hair. Here is a link to the movie trailer. The men surveyed essentially told me that if they want to run their fingers through fine thin hair they will find a white woman. There are countless tutorials on YouTube on how to grow your natural hair out and have it look great. While black men may tolerate wigs and chemicals to alter your hair, white men interviewed for this study were far less tolerant.
Don't be high maintenance. Learn the value of shopping at a thrift store. The men I spoke to said that when they see a woman dressed in brand new name brand clothing their wallets tense up. Having money in the bank is far more important than money spent on the finest clothes and accessories.
There is a thing as too much booty. Black women have an advantage over women from other races. That is their curves are more pronounced. The most important thing to remember is that if a black girl asks if her butt looks big, you say YES. However, there is a downside, obesity rates are higher for blacks. (I was not able to find a study that separated by race and sex) The fatter you are the more difficult it will be to attract a mate (and this blog is written by a fat guy) While songs have been written about the female form, things can go to extreme. So it is good advice to keep an eye on your figure as well as your diet.
Check the attitude at the door. Stereotypes exist for a reason, they are based on reality. Over half of the men I spoke to had a negative experience with a black lady due to her attitude. As such they simply moved on. If you want to be treated like a lady, act like a lady. If you want a confrontation, be confrontational. This doesn't mean you have to be a door mat, but there is a time and a place for compromise and even a time and a place for giving in.

Over the past two months I spoke to approximately 100 white men. All were asked the same questions: First, have they ever dated a black woman, and the second is why or why not. Some admitted that they were fulfilling a fetish, while others said that black women were the easiest to score with. If I were to do this survey again I would like to do it more scientifically such as breaking down the married vs single and categories such as age and earnings. Essentially this blog is one guy talking to other guys and writing down the opinions.

For my own findings I have dated some black women, one even seriously for about 6 months. It ended when she kept wanting me to pay her electric bill. I think that relationship lasted as long as it did was because of her child. The child had formed a bond with me and I knew that if I left it would hurt the child. I have never knowingly dated a women with young children since then. I felt bad for the child and still do to this day, but to be honest the child was never my responsibility.

Final thoughts

I don't think you should seek out one particular race over another. Unless you are checking something off a bucket list or fulfilling a fetish. Rather I think ladies should remember that there are good men in all races and bad men in all races. Find someone who is good and remember, be the kind of lady a man wants to introduce to his mother. Don't just be another notch in his headboard, feminine women attract masculine men.

I am becoming Pro-Life again

2015-08-13T18:39:00.000-07:00

Over the past several months I have been becoming more and more conservative in my views. Of course I have never truly abandoned many of my conservative values, but over the years on YouTube I adopted many new points of view. One of those views my my position on Abortion.

Coming from a fundamentalist Christian background I was against abortion ever since I knew what it was. I then modified my views starting in 2008 until recently. I for the most part have always been against the idea of Abortion as a form of birth control. We are talking about taking the life of a child to prevent an inconvenience to the parents. Still I recognized that Abortion is sometimes needed to save the life of a mother who would die if she carried the baby to term. One such example is ectopic pregnancies which according to WebMD happens 1/50th of the time. According to the US Centers for Disease Control 650 women die each year from pregnancy or child birth complications. The CDC does not state that terminating the pregnancy would save the life of the mother. In fact they even list high blood pressure as a complication.

The solution in those such cases would be a healthy diet before getting and during pregnancy. Even ectopic pregnancies techically are not solved by an abortion, rather the tube, cervex or other part the egg attached to is removed. The termination of the pregnancy is simply result of that procedure. In any case, the times that an abortion is needed to save the life of the mother are very rare, but a quick Google search does turn up results so it does happen.

As far as Abortion used to terminate pregnancies as the result of rape or incest the best numbers I could find was 1% of the time. Even with this I am uncomfortable in killing a child because of how it was conceived. I know, I will get letters. So be it.

So what turned me back to the pro-life camp? The recent Planned Parenthood videos exposing them for selling body parts. Is it illegal? Yes. Will they get away with it? Yes. I first heard about these videos on the radio. I went to YouTube and found them. Shocking. It made me re-evaluate my position.

How to reduce abortion?

You will never make abortion illegal. America never got the chance to vote on this. Rather a simple majority of Judges just declared a right to privacy. In recent years our elected representatives have begun to impose common sense restrictions. Such as that a doctor should have admitting privileges at a nearby hospital. Other common sense regulations would be personhood laws aimed at protecting the unborn.

In recent years we have had two very Pro-Life Presidents. Reagan who also had control of the Senate for most of his two terms and W Bush who had control of the House and Senate for most of his years. Other than Reagan insisting on a pro-life statement being added to the party platform, pretty much nothing of substance happened. Regan appointed 3 Justices to the Supreme Court. W appointed two. Other than the "Global Gag rule" (which only applied to clinics in other countries not much was done to curb abortion at home. Although Reagan did campaign on a pledge to push through a constitutional amendment banning abortion, once elected it was not a priority.

So with two of the most Pro-Life presidents you could ask for, a conservative congress, and a stacked Supreme Court are not enough to over turn Roe-v-Wade not much else can be done. Abortion is here to stay, all we can do is what President Clinton once said, make it "Safe, Legal, and Rare."

We can impose reasonable restrictions on Abortion providers to ensure they are fully licensed and have admitting privileges to a local hospital, but what about making it rare? Birth control. While teenage pregancy is thankfully on the decline, it is still far too frequent. According to this survey I found 46 percent were not using birth control. Condoms are still locked at the pharmacy or are behind the register. Birth control pills require a doctor and a prescription. To reduce abortions birth control and condoms need to be more accessible. Put condom vending machines in all the school bathrooms. Yep I said school bathrooms, sadly not every one waits until high school. Parents need to have the sex talk with the kids early on. You just can't leave it up to the schools.

So now that I am pro-life does this mean I will be holding signs and protesting the clinics? No, I don't find that productive. I can do my part by voting for pro-life candidates especially at the state level, that is where the work is being done now. For those who remain unconvinced I encourage you to watch the Planned Parenthood videos. It changed my mind and I can't think of a sane person actually defending their actions.

Are they the only abortion provider? No, but they are one of the biggest if not the biggest. Certainly a trendsetter in the industry for sure. Abortion seems to have this magical cloak of holy sacrament upon it where anyone who dares speak against it is labeled anti-woman. I've been called worse. Furthermore, I personally don't give a smurf as I am not defined by what others say about me. So watch the videos, if you can get through them without breaking down. It took me a few attempts.

Why relying on the courts for social justice is a bad idea

2015-07-03T11:53:00.000-07:00

Well, gays can get married in all 50 states and all 50 states must recognize those marriages. Cheif Justice Robert's in his disenting opinion wrote, that the decision had nothing to do with the constitution. Justice Alito wrote against the fact that a small majority of justices can invent new rights and impose them on the rest of the country. These two dissenting opinions are among the best in my opinion. I also think these opinions have merrit.

Now let me be clear, I am all for the right of any consenting adult to enter into any commited relationship they so chose. This includes homosexuals, but it also includes polygamous familes.

Hollywood, is appearing to be warming our hearts to polygamous familes. There are currently two reality shows that focus on polygamy, and a few years ago we had on Cable a drama series based on it. To fully seal the deal polygamy needs to get on primetime on network television.

Anyone remember when Ellen had her own sitcom and she came out in real life and as a character on the show? Sponsors pulled out in protest. Still she pressed on and now is on top of her own TV empire. Other shows such as Will and Grace brought homosexuals to prime time and as a society we grew used to them.

Then states began to pass laws trying to stop the inevitable. All conservatives knew the day would come and how it would come, via the courts. Ballot initiatives put it to the test almost every single time gay marriage was voted down. It is only recently that the tides have turned.

I challenge anyone to find the right to marry, even men and women, in the constitution. It isn't in there. For the most part the constitution is a limit of the powers of the federal government, especially the first 10 ammendments.

The issue started in Hawaii and eventually found its way to the supreme court. Along the way the Defense of Marriage Act was passed and signed into law by President Clinton and it was eventually partially struck down by the courts along with other state bans on gay marriage.

While I am happy that gays now have the right to marry whom they love, a part of me knows deep down that the Court just invented a right, they did not get that from the constitution. As such the conservative voters of the United States will feel betrayed, much like they did when the courts invented the right to an abortion based on a very lose interpretation of the right to privacy. 30 years later people are still protesting, as they will this decision for years to come.

It is not over, the constitution can be amended, that is part of the checks and ballances that the founders put in. However, such an outcome is unlikely. Pat Robertson of the 700 club was rumored to be on suicide watch. LOL. Rush Limbaugh is back on Oxycotin.

What if the court had ruled 5-4 against gay marriage. Would people be cheering the courts as they are now? I think not. Would the left accept the decision or continue to press the courts. I myself would have like to have seen more voter approval on this issue. It's one of the reasons why Abortion was never really embraced by so many.

The courts should not let public opionion sway their decision but let's face it, they do so all the time and this decision is nothing new. So give the left their victory dance but remember this decision had nothing to do with the constitution and this decision could be undone by constitutional amendment if enough conservatives win the next election.

Should polygamy be legal?

I think so, who is really hurt by it. By law now, a man can only be legally married to one of his wives the rest are essentially shacking up with him, living in sin if they are religious. Consenting adults should be able to enter any commited relationship they so chose. Cohabitation and civil ceromonies is not enough. The right to adopt children, pass along estates, ect, all the rights that married couples now enjoy polygamous families should have the rights to them to. All it takes is for someone to sue in state court. It won't be long, I predict the first case will come from the Fundamentalist Mormons in the Utah/Arizona border.

The courts is not the place we should seek for social justice. Pay attention to your local elections and ballot inititives if you have them in your state. Get the majority of the citizens behind you and win over people the right way, not by fiat by the courts.

What's next now that Gay Marriage is legal?

I believe that people will start to sue wedding halls and churches that don't want to rent out their facilities for gay weddings. More bakery shops will be targeted online when the simple option is to simply shop elsewhere. Long gone is the business motto, "We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone." It is their business, they have a right to decide who they want to cater too.

Just as I, as a man, can not join Curves (a chain of women's fitness centers) unless I Bruce Jenner myself, there are some businesses in the wedding industry that may not want to participate in something their religion teaches against. Instead of suing, just shop elsewhere. However, I feel these lawsuits will become much more common, churches might even start losing their tax exempt status if the President orders it so. Preachers might be cited for hate speech as they are in England. This isn't fear, much of this is already happening. Forget about the right to protest in a peaceful assembly and don't even dream of passing out leaflets.

Let's see how many angry videos are made about this. If you don't like my opinions that's fine I can live with that.

Brett Keane wants to start it up again

2015-06-05T20:47:00.003-07:00

It has been at least two years since Brett Keane and I have parted ways. I see no need for him to start it up again but looks like he isn't happy unless he is fighting with someone over trivial bullwinkle on the internet. Those who know his past know that Brett Keane loves to rewrite history as he believes that his audience is to lazy to check the facts.

Here is the video made by Brett Keane https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0auni1WQO94 it has already been copied by others. It starts out with a introduction to the whitest Jesus anyone has ever seen. Jesus was not white, he was from the middle east and worked as a carpenter, that is outside in the sun. He was likely very dark skinned.

Next you have a message about atheist vote bots down rating videos. No Brett, those are not vote bots, vote bots were an issue in 2008 and would involve an attack of several hundred votes. 20 people thumbing down your videos simply means 20 people don't like you. I get lots of thumbsdown on my videos, suck it up.

Now lets get into the meat of the issue, Brett Keane accuses me of seducing minors on twitter with absolutely no evidence. The only links in the video description go to Brett's other social media. Brett at least if you claim something put a link in the video description.

Brett Keane then shows my HappyCabbieLive twitter account, which of course is no more sadly, but long time viewers will remember when I used to do live shows and would link to random YouTube videos and we would do positivity raids. We had on average 30-50 people each time and we would find channels that had almost no viewers. We would flood the comments with positivity and lots of thumbs up. He then shows two urls but does not dare click on them. Thankfully I saw the URLS and wrote them down for all to see.

Ok passing a deuce, due to the fact that this was 4 years ago I don't know why I labeled this video passing a deuce, perhaps my own twisted sense of humor. But of course Brett Keane can't click on the link because then he will show everyone he is lying when he says this.

Ok so passing a deuce is just some random guys playing football. Here is the URL and you can see some random positive comments in there.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yeBDUPWLcww

The other URL I could not get, as it was cropped off, I tried to find the partial URL but to no avail. If anyone wants to try https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mf270Qac44 but it is missing the last few characters. I do have some theories. One is that someone in my live show asked me to promote his video, or two when I clicked on the video it was a couple of kids doing something on camera and I decided to hep them out with views and ratings. Or shall we entertain Brett Keane's theory that on a live broadcast I went trolling for kiddie porn and posted the evidence to twitter.

You see Brett Keane, there is good reason why you had to crop the URLs you can't afford to have people click on them and discover that you were lying. That is okay. As the only possible way you can appear credible is lying about others I am able to take it. It is like the people who claim I flashed my genitals on video for children. As a network partner I am able to age restrict my own videos. I did so in that video only it wasn't to show my genitals. I was showing a medical issue I was having at the time, which has now been resolved.

Brett let's not start this up again. Go your own way and I will go mine. I have no interest in starting it up again with you. That door closed two years ago. Leave it closed.

What is controversial about Submissive Wives?

2015-05-31T08:22:00.000-07:00

Hollywood has refused to accept the market draw of catering to conservatives and Christians, almost without exception any movie that caters to this crowd is a sure win at the box office. Cable television on the other hand has accepted this and embraced it. Think Duck Dynasty and the Duggars. Even when online petitions have sought to remove these families from television the TV show lives on. Even with the recent scandal involving Josh Duggar and his sisters, I predict advertisers would still line up to put the next season on the air. They even have a spin off show featuring Pastor Bates and his 20 children

The latest show to cater to the Christian right is a TV special called "Submissive Wives" or Submissive Wives guide to marriage." You can hear the misogynists drool and the feminists moan as each form opinions on the show without having actually seen it. Unlike mysogynists and feminists those who believe in equal rights for men and women realize that some times women chose to submit.

This is not submission in the BDSM sense nor submission as it was portrayed in 50 shades of Grey, rather this is women who CHOSE to put the needs of their man first. There is an old saying down in the south, "If mama ain't happy, then nobody is happy." While that is true, it is equally true that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

Some men can only be truly fulfilled when they are providing for their families and some women take joy in pleasing others, not just sexually, but sometimes all it takes to express love is a shoulder rub. Some love is expressed verbally, others express love by doing. It is this second type of love that this show celebrates. Men who chose to be the sole provider and women who chose to stay at home taking care of her family.

Before you blast the show over social media, take some time to watch it. One of the most important things said on the show was a discussion on leadership between two men. "Be the kind of man you wife will want to submit to." It is not about ruling the house with an iron fist, while that may invoke fear and obedience, it will NOT bring about true submission. With fear comes a desire for escape, with true submission the submissive is happy.

Again this is not just about sex, sex is a very small part of this equation as it is with every relationship. One is happy being the leader, the other is happy being the follower. So to the mysoganysts this is not your fantasy, like the conversation on the golf course, you have to be the man your wife will want to follow. To the opposite end of the spectrum, the feminists, this is not your nightmare, it is simply a very common traditional marriage. Then again it probably is a feminist nightmare.

I have always been curious with the left's demand for freedom of choice, but when someone chooses traditional values they are wrong. Traditional values are traditional because they work, if they didn't people would stop using them and we would have a new tradition. Just as the Right has to be open to new ideas, the Left needs to accept that sometimes people chose tradition.

Is Advertising Sexist

2015-05-15T11:05:00.001-07:00

I was going to write a thought out response to my friend LaciGreen's recent video embedded below

In short her argument is based on cherrypicked evidence and generalizations not grounded on any real data.

Had I taken the time to research a fact based response it would essentially be a transcript of this video, only mine would have been a bit nicer, because I consider Laci to be a friend.

The video is 22 minutes long which is long for YouTube but the evidence is presented clearly and backed up with hard data. However if you don't want to watch a 22 minute video then Al Bundy sums it up nicely for Laci and the other feminists.

The truth is advertising that caters to men typically feature sexy women, fast cars, and good food because that is what men like. In 30 seconds on Google you and I can both find products aimed and marketed exclusively for women.

As far as Laci's suggestion that beer companies start marketing towards women, they tried that, it failed. Women as a group are not beer drinkers. Women as a group are not big eaters of burgers and fried food. This is why every attempt to make a male version of Hooters have failed. There are exceptions to the rule of course, however it is pointless to advertise to a group who have time and time again refused to buy their products. It is not sexist, it is basic economics that we all learned in High School.

Please take the time to watch the videos.

The Internet is not a place for good news

2015-05-11T20:00:00.002-07:00

Yesterday I made the mistake of uploading a video showing off this lady I was seeing. I introduced her to my viewers. Almost immediately my comment section was flooded by comments calling her a hooker. Now there is nothing wrong with hookers, in fact I have been upfront and honest about admitting that I have used them. However, I foolishly thought that there might be people happy for me. How very unwise of me.

As an experienced YouTuber, I should have seen this coming. I have since taken the video down, no sense in subjecting her to the harsh coldness of the internet. For those who did not see the video it was nothing more than me showing her off. I pointed out her long hair, as I don't date women with short hair. I ended the video by announcing that I would be spanking her, which of course I did.

We met last week, when I was in town. Part of my job requires a lot of travel and most nights are in a hotel, very few are spent at home. Anyway, last week I needed a taxi, as I often do when I am in a new town. Brandy was in the hotel lobby and offered to give me a ride. I then told her that I would be giving her the money I was going to spend on the taxi. Sadly, that money came out of my pocket, as I can only get reimbursed if I turn in a receipt. Still it was just 10 bucks so no big deal.

I noticed her hair and we exchanged phone numbers. About a week later, I find out I need to head back to her town. I give her a call letting her know. I check back in at the same hotel and then I tell her I need a ride to the grocery store. I get some fruit. When we come back to the hotel, I break open the Chromebook and we get the video perfect on our second take.

Anyway the rest of the evening is spent cuddling and we eventually fall asleap. In the morning she starts in on me complaining about the spanking I gave her yesterday. She then says that I should pay her. I inform her that I was not aware that she was a hooker. She insists that she is not a hooker but still wants me to pay her. Thankfully, my wallet holds money in different places so I just gave her pocket change. Yes she was upset but a hooker usually gets the money up front, her mistake. I then tell her to leave. I guess the internet was right after all, everyone could see she was a hooker except me. In my defense though there were many things that fooled me.

A hooker is always upfront about her fees and what services are included.
A hooker does not waste her time taking you to the grocery store. Time is money, if she is not being paid she is not there.
A hooker will not get on camera unless you pay extra. They won't even let you take pictures, none of them want to wind up on the internet where they can not control their image.
A hooker will not spend all day and then all night with someone without first discussing payment.

Now if I wanted to post a video of me with a hooker I could easily do just that. People have created entire YouTube channels of noting but hookers. I posted the video because I honestly thought she was into me. I was a fool, and an even bigger fool for thinking people online might be happy for me.

There will be no more of her on my channel again. I have no interest in paying for booty right now, but if I do pay for booty I will certainly get one that will not complain.

Here is what she looked like

Compare todays video with one from last month and you will notice the weight loss in just the face alone

Is it wrong to have standards?

2015-04-24T20:07:00.000-07:00

I was looking at my older videos, particually from the 2013 era. I was a bit younger, and in the best shape of my recent years. Much of that was due to walking.

I have written several blog posts about my standards and deal breakers when it comes to dating. As I am nearing 40, are my standards too high for someone in my position?

Let's face it, I am a grey haired fat guy. While I do get some action, in fact I was rubbing some feet last Thursday, I am no where near to getting the action I would get if I were in better shape.

I recently changed jobs. In earlier years this would have been a set back for me. This time I had FU money. I had enough in savings where I could say "screw you guys, I'm going home" This new job is a bit different that what I am used to, but it has more money. Another advantage is nobody at works knows HappyCabbie even exists. At my last job someone recognized me.

A fat wallet can be very attractive but do I really want someone that shallow? For a quick booty, yes, but not for anything longterm.

Today I was chatting up two females who clearly were friends. One was used to being at the center of attention, but my eyes were on the second. Although not as beautiful as her friend was, she clearly took more effort to look her best. She wore her hair long, dressed like a lady, and was courteous. I didn't even give her friend a second look, and that upset her but she had to many deal breakers for me, most importantly, the hair. She clearly asked for the Moe Howard when she went to the hair dresser. I don't care if she is younger and more in shape, beauty is only temporary, yet it is her friend who puts in the time and effort to look feminine is the one I would chose everytime.

What about women's choices? A person with options will always chose the option that looks the best. Just as the front door looked real good at my last job, I likewise now have options that I didn't have when I was younger. When I was younger I didn't make a whole lot of money, and I was still af fat guy. I may have gotten fatter, but so has my wallet. I can afford to be more selective in my dating. For me, being single is better than being in a bad relationship. A lot of my current deal breakers come from experience. Experiences I do not want to relive.

There are things women can do to attract me, the most important thing is to look and act feminine. However, there are things I need to start doing to attract a quality female. Get in shape, go back to wearing shirts and ties, look and act masculine. I used to do these things when I was younger, then I got lazy and allowed myself to get in a rut. I am putting myself on notice, that it is time to get off my butt. Not just to attract a quality female, but simply to better myself.

Invest in new clothes, Clothes maketh the man.
Keep the beard, but the edges are a bit bushy, trim and keep them trimed
Walk every single day, even in bad weather, when it got too cold this past winter I stopped, this winter buy a coat.
get back on that diet, I should weigh less than what I did in 2013 not more

Dating Older Women

2015-04-22T21:01:00.000-07:00

I recently read an article about the downsides of dating older woman A.K.A. Cougars. The author suggested against it. I would like to refute this article, but first I need to define my terms.

A Cougar is a single woman over 40, that is attracted to younger men. They are usually attractive. They are usually recently divorced or in a loveless marriage. An older woman is just that. A woman who is older. For a man there are two times that dating either a Cougar or an older woman works.

The young Buck. The 20 year old stud in his prime.

If what you want is just sex with no strings attached, then fresh out of high school is when you are going to get it. Furthermore, forget about banging Stiffler's Mom

Forget what you see on TV or in adult movies. Those are far from reality. No, what you are going to get is someone with stretch marks, skin like a purse from all the years of tanning beds, and all the effects of heavy drinking, and poor diet for the past 20 years. If you want responsibility free sex, then this is where you are going to get it.

Furthermore, don't get emotionally attached to these women. They are just coming out of a bad relationship, and have no use for someone who still lives at home. What they do want is to be hammered hard by some young stud. Once you grow older, past 20, you are of no further use to them. A cougar has no time for even someone as young as 30.

No don't go into the cougar market thinking it is all going to be sex with no problems. Remember, these women have far more experience than their lovers and will use that to their advantage. They will still do mind games, bullwinkle tests, have mood swings and have a lifetime of experience to really screw you up.

When I was 19 I had my time with some cougars but discovered when I got older the phone stopped ringing. I made the foolish mistake of growing attached. My heart was broken.

Date the 40 year old when you are close to her age.

Older women on the whole are not interested in men younger than they are for relationships. Secondly not all older women are on the prowl for younger men. Those that are, have the option of young 20 year old men at their prime, so why waste time on the 30 year old with love handles? The single older woman has relationship on her mind. Perhaps she wants a new father for her kids, perhaps she wants someone with a good job to bring home a good paycheck. They will still come with tests you have to pass, mind games, and other nonsense that you have to deal with, but like all women there are good and bad.

In closing

Don't go chasing after Cougars because of what you see on TV or in movies. They do not look like this.

If you want to date older women esclusively because that is your fetish, then by all means go for it. Just know you either have to be the 20 year old stud, or someone close to her age. Just understand, that while women do grow older they do not always grow up. Some are just as immature and selfish as they were as teenagers, get to know the person before you get in to deep, and never dip your stick into crazy.

Not guilty

2015-02-23T19:31:00.000-08:00

Just logged back on the internets tonight and got hit with a few messages about an old classic accusation making the rounds again. For the past several years people have been trying to make this pedo accusation stick.

The latest round of attack comes linked to an underage user Emma that I discovered and offered my help to.

People took screen shots of the comments and are making them out to more than they are. I found her by searching for flagged on YouTube and I offered my help.

Over the next month we stayed in contact and I have all the emails backed up. I am not going to drag her into this, but just a fair warning to you trolls, one email from me and she will gladly set all of you straight regarding our interractions.

Since interacting with me I have informed her of the sexual nature of many of the dare videos on YouTube and have helped her understand why she should only do what she feels comfortable doing. I also advised her to remove several videos from her channels as they were attracting the wrong kind of audience.

If being labeled a pedo is the price to pay for helping someone then it is what it is. My reputation is not in question, and will not be tarnished because some people who hold an obvious grudge.

So go ahead make more posts, make more videos. I will continue to help those who need my help.

For the record Emma not only removed the videos I suggested but also closed her YouTube channels as well. None of you took the effort to contact her and get some really damming evidence did you. Did you?

Of course not, that is because there is no damming evidence, had you asked for copies of the emails between us she would have sent you exactly what I said it was. Your hard on to nail me would have fallen flat as a wet noodle.

You wannabee trolls are so pathetic I don't know if I should laugh or feel sorry for you.

No Human ATM

2015-01-24T17:07:00.000-08:00

I recently ended a relationship that only began last week. She approached me and complimented me on my height and asked for my phone number. We began texting the next day. Two days later we got together. I needed a ride and she told me she needed to go to the pharmacy. In my head I calculated the expense of a taxi vs the cost of paying for her medicine. I greatly underestimated the cost of prescription drugs.

Turns out I paid about 100 dollars which thankfully I was able to afford. After we drove around town and before she dropped me off, I filled her car up with gas. This set a bad precident. She saw me as nothing more than some with raging hormones and a big fat wallet.

The very next day she contacted me and she asked me to send her some money to fix her car. Now I admit her car did need some repairs. It needed a new window, a tune up, and repairs to the power steering. I foolishly told her over time I would help her fix her car. Over the next week she never once contacted me just to say hello, it was always about money.

It came to a head last night when I was in the Seattle Washington area and I had just laid down to rest after a hard day of work. She told me she was stranded at Wal-Mart as she was out of gas. She had drove there to use their money transfer service. I was to get out of bed, go find a Wal-Mart, and send her money and I was to do this right now. It had been five days and she was tired of waiting for me to send her money.

I told her I was going back to bed. I told her when I promised to fix her car, I would have to wait until I got paid, once I got paid I would begin fixing her car on my schedule, not hers. I also told her the method I would send the money to her and it was not through some money transfer service that I would have to pay a fee for. She had some blank checks that I would put money on that she could cash at her bank.

Irregardless, she grew impatient, didn't follow instructions, and was flat out demanding, and had no respect for my need to get some rest. I didn't tell her to go to Wal-Mart and run out of gas. As soon as I told her no, she first began to cry. I then told her I was calling it quits, the relationship was over. The tears was quickly replaced with anger.

The mistakes she made was these. First, she started asking for money. Money is the quickest way to kill any relationship. Second, being too demanding. I don't do ultimatums, far too often I call the bluff. Those two relationship killers will most likely apply to most people.

Personally applicable only to me are a few things that she did that got on my nerves. When I asked her to come see me, I asked if she owned a dress. When we met, she was wearing a sweater and jeans. Nothing is more ladylike than a nice long dress. Sure the girl in the cut off shorts and crop top may get all the attention, most men will take the lady in the dress home to meet mom and dad. She told me she would be wearing a dress, but instead showed up wearing the same clothes she was wearing yesterday. Another annoyance is how messy her car was. We never went to her bedroom but I can guess on how it looked based on how messy the inside of her car was. Someone with a messy car doesn't appreciate it, and sure enough after some digging I learned that her car was given to her by a family member. Cleanliness is a skill and if you were to ask around many men and women would value a partner who knows how to cook and clean.

In case Brittany ever reads this or anyone like her, here is my advice. Just because someone you are dating has money does not entitle you to it. They may decide on their own to help out and if they do, be sure to reward them. No partner is too perfect that they can not be replaced. In fact it is preferable to be single than in a bad relationship. If someone does agree to help you out financially, the proper response is thank you, not to place demands on how that help is to be given.

Legalize Prostitution

2015-01-13T14:17:00.003-08:00

It came as a surprise to me that I did not have my views on prostitution in one concise blog post. I was having a discussion with someone yesterday and I had to refer to 3 different blog posts to reference my views. So today I will put my views on prostitution in one blog post and let others decide for themselves if they agree or disagree.

Prostitution is a victimless crime.

By itself prostitution is one person performing sexual acts on another for money. The consumer is not always a loser. He or she could have a fetish that only a professional can satisfy. Others see purchasing sex to be a cheaper alternative than the hustle of the dating scene where dates can run into a few hundred dollars. In addition when it comes to licensed sex workers who submit to health screenings, hiring a prostitute is safer than picking up strange booty at the night club.

So what about the stories of human trafficing, child prostitution, ect. Those are crimes, those have victims. Kidnapping is illegal, keeping someone against their will is illegal, having sex with children is illegal. We will always have crime. There will always be criminals. Let the police go after those criminals. Two people having sex for money is not bothering anyone.

Legalization vs Decriminalization

There are two groups in the push to end the police crackdowns on prostitution. Those who want it regulated and the workers given regular health screenings, and those who want no government control or at least very little. From the best I can understand, the decriminalization crowd wants prostitution to be a private transaction between two or more consenting adults and it is nobody's business but theirs. One reason they resist the push to legalize is that those who wish to maintain their anonymity may not be able to do so with a government registry and declaration of taxes. One can surely sympathize with those concerns.

However as a person who has used the services of a prostitute I favor legalization. Just as the local taco stand has to comply with health and sanitation laws I see no reason why similar laws can't be put in place to protect the prostitute and the client. Laws requiring sex workers to get tested and to carry health certificates is a very reasonable burden in my opinion. To compare hiring a prostitute to a one night stand is to compare apples to oranges. A one night stand is one sexual encounter. A prostitute can easily see 10 clients or more per day. Thus her exposure to disease is that much greater and thus the need for regular health screenings.

You are not going to get rid of the oldest profession in the world. Spending hundreds of man hours to bust a few johns is not going to stop horny people from seeing prostitutes. You could round up all the hookers and throw them in jail and they will go right back to work when they are released. It is a waste of tax payer dollars when there are real criminals out there doing things to real victims.

Street Walkers

My first introduction to prostitution was via street walkers. There are some advantages. First is you know up front what you are dealing with. Any woman that was with a pimp I avoided. I was not going to allow my hard earned money to funnel to a bum too lazy to get off his butt and work. Furthermore, before money changed hands I asked about their personal life. Any mention of a boyfriend or husband got them kicked to the curb. Any signs of tweaking, or sniffing repeatedly got them kicked to the curb. I did not want a druggie. The ladies who did pass my tests were really fantastic people. I had a few regulars I would see on a regular basis. The risk of picking up a new hooker is she may be a cop.

Eventually I did get busted, I paid a fine and did a few days in jail. It didn't detour me. At the time I wanted sex and prostitution was easier than starting a relationship. I first turned to a prostitute after a serious relationship ended. I mostly just wanted someone to hold. Almost 20 years later I still remember her and how loving she was even though it was a business transaction.

If you want to know how to avoid getting busted for picking up an undercover on the street here is how to do it. An undercover cop will never get in your car. Never approach a lady and ask how much or discuss money from the window. Simply pull up and say "get in" or "can I give you a ride." Or my trick I have used is I will pull up and ask for directions, then offer the lady a ride if she will help me find the place. Hookers know to get in the car. Hookers know they can't avoid getting arrested, it is just a matter of time. If a woman propositions you from the window decline. She is a cop. The police can't nail you unless you agree to sex for money. So always decline and never discuss it until she is in your car. If the police do pull you over, hire a lawyer and get out your camera.

The Internet

You would think the police would be happy with this. You didn't have people walking the streets or having sex in cars. Instead people were using the privacy of their own homes or a hotel and not bothering anybody. Well, anyone who has seen an episode of Cops knows that the police hate the internet prostitution sites. They will spend all day and a team of 20 people just to catch 4 or 5 people. It would be laughable if it wasn't so pathetic. Still to my credit I have never been busted for using the internet to score hookers.

My advice to any man reading this, avoid incall services. Never go to the prostitute's hotel. Every single time you see the police stings on TV it is an undercover in one room with a swat team in the room next door. Make the girl come to your hotel room, a undercover cop will never put herself in a situation where she doesn't have control or an exit plan.

The internet does carry some risks and that is you don't know what you are getting. With photoshop and pictures from years past there is no telling what a woman looks like when she knocks on your door. Case in point, I once set up a meeting with a nice lady who appeared to be half white half mexican but what showed up at my door was a black woman darker than the ace of spades. I took her over to my laptop and pointed to her picture and she said that it was the flash of the light from the camera that made her look that way. It was clearly the same woman, but that is way too much photoshop. I threw her out. She threatened to call the cops if I didn't pay her, I called her bluff. The cops never came.

It's still illegal

With both street walkers and internet hookers you are still dealing with some risk. Not only do you have the risk of eventually getting busted by the police, but also catching STDs. Not all of them use condoms, some even offer no condom sex for a high fee. Avoid those women as they clearly have diseases and don't care about spreading them to you. We need to make prostitution legal not only for the safety of the sex workers but also for the client. Safe from disease, and abuse. No matter how cautious you are someone has to trust a perfect stranger not to do them harm. Currently both prostitute and client are easy victims for assault and robbery.

The Nevada Model

Current laws in Nevada allow each county to decide if they want to allow prostitution so long as the population is under 400,000. This is why Reno and Las Vegas have no brothels. The closest brothel to Las Vegas is in Pahrump and is over an hour away. Reno has a brothel that is about 30 minutes outside of town. Of Nevada's dozen brothels I have been to about half of them, so I can speak with some authority. In my opinion, the Nevada model does not work. It is currently the only legal option in the United States but that does not make it the best option.

If you have never been to a Nevada brothel here is how it works. You can request a line up if you wish. This is where each lady stands before you and you select one based just on their looks. I don't do line ups. Rather I prefer to sit in the common area and talk to the ladies. While I do have some standards, such as hair, well pedicured feet, not too much make up, on the whole physical appearances don't matter to me. If I don't like you as a person I can't have sex with you. So I have to talk and get to know someone before I can get down to business.

A fun fact, you can actually strike out at a brothel. I know it is hard to imagine but I have gone into brothels and come out with nothing. I will use Pahrump Nevada as an example. This town hosts two brothels that sit next door to each other. I went in the first one and the first person to try to talk to me was some lady in short hair. Sorry, but if I am going to pay for sex, I certainly am not going to pay someone with a boys haircut. I sat there alone for a couple of hours as every girl in the room was focused on their smart phone. It was in the afternoon and I was the only client in the building. I decided to walk up to the ATM and pull some cash out and then I sat down and started counting my money. Finally this got some attention. Sadly though I could not find anyone I was interested in that was in my price range. I had no better luck next door. As it turns out I could actually save money by flying to a different country and spending the night with a licensed sex worker than I could by spending 20 minutes with someone from Pahrump.

While Pahrump certainly has the most expensive brothels, all nevada brothels are expensive. It is because of this reason, illegal prostitution still flourishes in the one place where prostitution is legal. This is why. Let's say you pay a brothel worker $1,000 for 20 minutes of sex. This is actually a very reasonable price. Yes many do use timers. There is no time for foreplay or cuddling, you are on a mission. Of that thousand dollars the house takes half. So now the prostitute gets $500. There is just one problem. She has to pay for room and board. Then she must declare taxes. In addition, she pays for her health screenings as well as her beauty routine such as getting her hair done or pedicures.

Due to county and state laws, prostitutes are often restricted from leaving. They can't just run into town for some groceries. The last thing they want is to have some dude walk up to them and say hello and then be accused of solicitation. So to protect the house and the workers, the prostitutes are restricted to the house and can leave only with security.

Furthermore, to set up your own brothel, you pretty much have to be independently wealthy. It is not like you can buy land and set up shop for you and a few close friends and call yourselves a brothel. You must pay very high fees to the government and pass a very invasive criminal background check. We all know that competition brings prices down. If more people were able to set up their own shops, they would not only be forced to compete for the best workers and allow them to keep more of the money they earn, but prices would fall for the consumer.

My solution

Treat prostitution as any other business. We don't allow businesses in our residential neighborhoods. So we zone for residential, commercial, and industrial. Just as well allow adult book stores, strip clubs, ect we can also license and allow people to set up their own brothel. Every sex worker is screened and the premises are safe and well light. This makes it so the prostitute and the client does not have to worry about being robbed or attacked.

Just as they do in Nevada, condoms would be mandatory, and clients would be given an inspection prior to service. A license should be reasonable and no more expensive than a food vendors permit. Those who operate outside of the law or don't keep updated medical records would be considered a health risk just as a restaurant that serves contaminated food. Just as the restaurant is shut down, so would the brothel until it is brought up to code.

Competition would keep the prices in check and street walkers would be hard pressed to find clients because everyone is opting for the safe, legal, and affordable services of the local brothels. I have been to other countries and they seem to do prostitution right. It is affordable, safe, and most importantly the women are free to come and go as they please.

Will I return to a brothel in Nevada, possibly, but knowing that it is so much cheaper in other countries even with the cost of travel included, it is not likely to happen often.

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Free Community College?

2015-01-08T21:33:00.001-08:00

So President Obama's latest push is to offer Free Community College. For those outside of the United States community college is primarily serves two purposes. The first is to adequately train specialized skills for those entering the work force. Such programs can include nursing, or other medical fields, mechanics, and a few even offer truck driving schools. Some of these programs, can have waiting lists of up to a year or more. The reason is community college is so much cheaper than training at a private vocational school. The second purpose of the community college is to get an associates degree or other courses required by a four year school at a greatly reduced cost.

While free education works for the most part K-12 it would not work in our community colleges and I will explain why. The reason is simple, capacity. Community colleges are a place for those who are wanting to make their lives better. Unlike universities almost anyone can afford to go to community college. In addition, almost everyone qualifies for the Pell Grant which covers almost all of tuition costs for community college.

To make ends meet, people can live at home with their parents if available, work a second job, or do what I did and take advantage of the student loan program. Unlike high school which has to take everyone who shows up, community college was different. First, there were no stoned kids roaming the halls. Nobody was coasting just to get by. Everyone was on a mission, many people were like me and simply wanted a quick education and entry into a higher paying job.

Now say what you want about our current Student Loan program. I have a few opinions on it. It is a very bad idea to saddle yourself with thousands and thousands of dollars of debt just to get a degree. There is something to be said for the libertarian view for getting the government out of it and let competition bring prices back down. That being said, in its current form community college is very affordable. Making it free is just a bad idea.

I am aware of free universities that do work in socialist economies, however we are not a socialist economy, at least not yet. America became the great superpower it is through capitalism. History buffs will know we tried communism in this country with the landing of the Mayflower and it failed. Private enterprise has been the driving force of our economy ever since.

Community College should be reserved for those that want it. Making it free will simply open up the doors to everyone who graduates high school. Waiting lists will be longer and drop out rates will go up. The reason is unlike high school, community college is far more strict for those who don't buckle down and study. So why should waiting lists for the best programs increase when many more will simply flunk or drop out?

There are a few things that the federal government does right. Education has never been one of them. Keep community colleges local and free of the trappings that come with more federal money. Don't hurt the hard working people trying to improve their life by making them wait behind those who just want a free ride.

Finally, can we at least get our federal budget under control before we give away more freebees?

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Refusing to do bar girls makes me a rapist

2014-12-27T18:56:00.000-08:00

Meet Cocky Turkey videos. A new channel on YouTube that has decided that the way to fame is to trash larger more successful channels. Such a shame. Needless to say such golden nuggets include defending making fun of someone's disorder is okay so long as they deserve it. Making a pointless accusing Jaclyn Glen of plagiarism simply because she tweeted some quote that has been posted over 9000 times by just about everyone. Can I have the 16 seconds of my life back? And of course my favorite, speeding up Thunderf00t's voice to make him sound like a woman and play his own words as if a woman was saying them. Too me he sounds more like a chipmunk but whatever.

CockyTurkey's videos in a nutshell

She is the exact reason why my blog Why I Don't Do Bar Girls was written. If you haven't read that post, stop and do it now. Clicking the link will open a new tab.

Now let's get to her beefs with me. I find them quite amusing. I was actually thinking that responding to this person was a bad idea, as to my knowledge no one else that she has gone after has responded. Thus, my acknowledgement of her might encourage her bad behavior of pecking at the feet of popular channels until someone else responds. Any good parent will tell you that you never reward bad behavior. Still I find her tantrum amusing, but I also see it as a learning opportunity for us guys out there.

Point 1. She hates the word "Do."

Obviously she is not randy and the only shagging she is likely to do in the near future involves a brush and a mirror. I could have used the words, pork, the hunka chunka, draining of the milk truck, taming of the shrew, the corkscrew, Climbing The Twin Peaks, Climbing the Empire State Building, Here cums Peter in Your Cotton Tail, throat yogurt, The Praying Mantis, and my favorite, The Second Cumming. Please feel free to tweet at me more acceptable terms for sex via Twitter.

Point 2. She hates the word "girls."

She goes off on a rant about age of consent but forgets the entire context of my blog that she claims to be so upset by. First of all, this is a bar. Everyone is of legal age. Of course there is the occasional fake i.d. but on the hole everyone is of age. So no pedosex is going on here. Second of all a good portion of my blog is dedicated to consent. For example when I said this.

Rape is rape. Rape is forcing sexual activity on someone who is unwilling, be they male or female. Now you don't have to hold the victim at gunpoint to rape. A person could be unable to consent. For example, if I had sex with a person who was unconscious that would be rape.

Point 3. She could address all of my points, but she doesn't want to.

This proves to be most unwise as right after she "critiques" my 4th point I clearly state my position that getting a girl so drunk that she can not consent to sex is rape. Next time read the whole blog so you don't wind up looking like a fool.

Point 4. Her entire video is a rant against one point I made in my blog.

Literally one sentence. Point number 4 of why men should avoid doing bar girls. I said this.

Rape accusations are far too common when the girl sobers up and regrets what happened.

There were two parts to my blog. The first part is aimed at men and my advice for them. The second part is my advice to women on how they can protect themselves from predators who lurk at bars. Once again let's define our terms. Rape is forcing sexual activity on someone who is unwilling. You don't have to be a thug dragging damsels off in the bushes to be a rapist. If a person is unconscious, she can not consent. If you don't trust her to drive she can't consent. Second as a civilized society we have set age limits for when a minor is old enough to consent to sex. This varies from country to country but most have it late in the teen years. Finally, not all rapists are men, women can rape men.

What should not rape is when two people get drunk at the bar and wakes up with morning regret. I'm not talking about one person spiking the other's drink or something underhanded like that. I'm talking about two people getting drunk and despite this fact, the woman is almost never charged with rape. Thus my advice to men is to avoid drunk women like the plague.

Men should not be going to bars looking for sex. There are better places to meet women and you will meet a higher caliber of woman as well. If you just want sex and nothing else, hire a prostitute, it is so much cheaper and safer than buying expensive drinks for someone who offers no guarantees.

5. The Strawman is strong with this one.
Having admittedly not read my blog she begins to rant against the things she thinks I said, when in fact I said the exact opposite. I clearly stated in my blog that getting someone drunk for the purpose of sex is rape. However, why let facts get in the way of epic self-pwnage. Furthermore, later in my blog I lay out some advice to the ladies on how to avoid the predators at the bars.

6. Not wanting to be accused of rape is not as important as me just not raping people.

My thoughts exactly

Okay, let's get down to it. I am not going to waste my time writing out a long blog detailing the reasons why men should not be raping women. So I will leave you with this.

Robber's know that stealing things is wrong. Likewise rapists know that it is wrong. The thug hiding in the bushes and the pervert with the spiked drinks both know exactly what they are doing and do not care about those they hurt. This whole "teach men not to rape" bullwinkle would be funny if it weren't so tragic in the fact that such arguments are used against anyone teaching our young women things like self defense classes or fingernail polish that detects date rape drugs. Seriously, there are people against these things.

So my warning about getting falsely accused of rape is not an attack on women or victims of rape. There are real victims. The Department of Justice estimates about half of one percent of all women will be sexually assaulted each year. Non-college students are twice as likely to be victims. This of course is a very alarming statistic. Far too many victims. This is why self defense classes are a must.

7. She goes off on a rant on MRA's LOL

Not sure if she is doing another strawman on me or just ranting about MRA's in general but if you think what I have to say about MRA's are bad, you should ask some of them about what they think of me. Anyway she is critical of MRA's being focused on false rape accusations instead of actual rapes. Go find me a MRA who is pro-rape, go ahead. FYI, this can not be an obvious troll who is for the lulz. No go out and find a MRA who posts either on YouTube, twitter, reddit, or somewhere else where he is actively promoting rape.

Rather chances are you will find people talking about false rape accusations because it happens. Granted it doesn't happen a lot, but when it does you will find men trying to raise awareness about it. My guess is because far more men are accused of rape, it stands to reason more men would be falsely accused instead of women. In elementary school we used to call that a little trick called math.

8. In case she is still missing a clue...

Rape is bad m'kay.

She then closes out her video with a big FU. So unladylike. Not to mention that you publicly tweet out that you are an underage drinker. As such you lack the maturity we as a society have decided is a responsible age for consuming adult beverages. You are exactly the kind of person men should avoid. In addition to your inability to make responsible choices, you have your profane mouth. You have the mouth that desperately needs to be washed out with soap. Sure we all lose our tempers and let a word or two slip now and then, but investing in some bars of soap is something your parents forgot to do.

Your entire video is one strawman after another. Admitting to not reading my blog and then deciding to attack it based on what you assume it says only makes you look like a fool. My best advice to you is not to build your channel based on going after one target after another. Doing so only makes you look weak and desperate for attention. Then again, based on your own twitter posts, you seem to thrive on this kind of attention. Such a travesty.

You want to gain positive attention in real life? Clean up your act. Lose the arrogance, speak without the crutch that is foul language, grow your hair out to a feminine length. Unless you are in the military, very few people look good in a buzzcut, and even they don't require their women to buzz it down.

FYI I originally was going to be nice to you until I saw your BionicDance video. If you figure she can take it, then so can you.

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Since this post went up, and I tweeted it to her she set her twitter page to protected so she can shield herself from criticism and has set the video to private. She then set me a tweet linking to this video.

So I agree, we will each go our own way. I wish her well.