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Patient's Impatient Journey into Blogdom: Foster Family Talk

2010-09-06T19:10:00.000-07:00

Patient's Impatient Journey into Blogdom: Foster Family Talk

Relationship Quotes for Your Enjoyment

2010-09-02T09:02:00.000-07:00

Sometimes the best way to say something is the way someone more literary than you has said it. In that vein, here are some relationship quotes of note:

"Lots of people want to ride with you in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the limo breaks down."
-Oprah Winfrey

"Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take." -Anthony Robbins

"Some people come into our lives and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never ever the same." -Flavia Weedn

"The act of forgiveness is the act of returning to present time. And that's why when one has become a forgiving person, and has managed to let go of the past, what they've really done is they've shifted their relationship with time." – Caroline Myss

"Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." – Mark Twain

"Well, it seems to me that the best relationships - the ones that last - are frequently the ones that are rooted in friendship. You know, one day you look at the person and you see something more than you did the night before. Like a switch has been flicked somewhere. And the person who was just a friend is... suddenly the only person you can ever imagine yourself with" ~ Gillian Anderson

"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." – Aristotle

"The best and most beautiful things in this world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart." – Helen Keller

"Where does the family start? It starts with a young man falling in love with a girl - no superior alternative has yet been found." – Winston Churchill

"It is wrong to think that love comes from long companionship and persevering courtship. Love is the offspring of spiritual affinity and unless that affinity is created in a moment, it will not be created for years or even generations." – Kahlin Gibran

"To love means to commit oneself without guarantee, to give oneself completely in the hope that our love will produce love in the loved person." – Eric Fromm

"Man is a knot into which relationships are tied." ~Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

"You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete." ~ Keith Sweat

"Our greatest joy-and our greatest pain comes in our relationships with others." ~ Stephen R. Covey

"Love doesn't just sit there like a stone; it has to be made - like bread, remade all the time, made new." – Ursula LeGuin

"Once the trust goes out of a relationship, it's really no fun lying to 'em anymore." -Norm from Cheers

I hope you enjoyed this list of relationship quotes!

Keep Looking Up!
Diane

Three Simple Strategies for Rekindling the Romance in Your Relationship

2010-08-24T21:35:00.000-07:00

by Rachel G. Baldino for http://www.sixwise.com/

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These days it seems that we are busier than ever. We seem to be in a constant state of motion, always racing off to work, or zipping out to run errands, or to take the kids to their various activities.

Inevitably, something is bound to get lost in the shuffle of all this non-stop running around-and that something is often your relationship with your significant other.

This can happen for a variety of reasons. For example, we sometimes fall into the unfortunate habit of taking our partners (and the love they give us) for granted. We assume that they will just "always be there for us," whenever we need them, so we begin to neglect the relationship, rather than nurturing it and doing all that we can to help it continue to thrive and grow.

Once we start taking our intimate relationship for granted, though, the romance is often first thing to go.

If your life has become overly hectic and stressful, and if you think that the health of your relationship with your partner may be suffering as a result, please consider trying some-or perhaps even all-of the strategies described below to reinvigorate your romantic life.

1. Physically demonstrate your love for each other on a daily basis.

Some couples who have been together for a long time tend not to hold, caress, massage, kiss, or cuddle as often as they once did. (Remember, not all touching between romantic partners needs to be regarded as foreplay, though of course, sometimes that's exactly what it is).

Think back for a moment to all the sweet, tender ways you demonstrated your love for each other during your dating days. Now try to reincorporate all those small but meaningful gestures back into your relationship.

A little letter or poem in your own handwriting is a powerful way to rekindle the sparks.

We tend to forget that as human beings, we require quite a bit of tactile attention, particularly from our romantic partners. Just think, each time you lay eyes on one another, you have a fresh opportunity to show your love.

Even if you are both about to run off in opposite directions, there is always time for a quick kiss or a brief cuddle -- especially at the beginning and end of each day.

So, be sure to give your partner a nice shoulder rub, or a foot massage, or a back scratching session, for no particular reason (other than the fact that it will make them feel good).

And instead of sitting in separate chairs while you watch your next movie on television, sit together on the couch, so that you can cuddle, and perhaps even steal a little kiss every now and then.

These small but tender gestures take very little time or effort, and yet they can make each of you feel warm, happy and cherished for hours afterward. They also have a cumulative effect, in the sense that each little kiss and caress builds on top of the one that came before it to continually fortify and deepen your relationship.

2. Write your sweetheart a love letter.

Perhaps you wrote dozens of love letters and love poems to your significant other years ago, when you first got together. Or maybe you have never really been in the habit of expressing your love for your partner in writing.

Either way, now is a great time to start! And in this case I'm not talking about a quick e-mail, dashed off in five minutes, or a little post-it note stuck to the fridge that says, "I love you. Remember to take out the trash later."

Go to the store for some nice stationary, come home, sit down at your desk, and before you even put pen to paper, give yourself an adequate amount of time to think about exactly what it is that you love about your partner and why. Then, just like you did back in school, write a little outline of everything you'd like to include so that you don't forget anything. And once you've completed your brief outline, start working on a rough draft.

The reason I advise you to write your love letter in long hand (rather than typing it on the computer, as you may be tempted to do) is that writing in longhand is a much more intimate, sensual experience.

When you are forming the curve of each letter with your own hand, you tend to feel more connected to the writing experience, which puts you in exactly the right frame of mind to write a heartfelt, meaningful letter to the person you love with all your heart.

Allow yourself to stroll back down memory lane, and then pour those memories (and your feelings about all of those memories) into your first draft. Once you have completed your rough draft, it's time to transfer it to your nice stationary.

Nothing can communicate just how much you care quite as well as a tender, thoughtfully crafted, hand-written love letter.

You may want to give your partner the letter on a special occasion like Valentine's Day, or on your wedding anniversary, or you can just give it whenever the mood strikes, because no matter when you give your partner a gift this personal and intimate, it is sure to be deeply appreciated.

3. Take good care of yourself.

One of the biggest reasons we tend to neglect our intimate relationships with our partners has to do with a lack of self-care.

When you are constantly taking care of others, you may not be taking adequate (or even minimal) care of yourself. After all, there are only so many hours in the day, and it seems that nearly all of those hours are booked up with some activity or other, which means that you have to make a deliberate effort to carve out some precious time for yourself.

Self care means different things to different people.

Some people feel deeply rejuvenated after a long walk in the woods, while others prefer to go to the spa for a facial or pedicure. You may be partial to meditating for a half hour each evening, while your partner may find it more relaxing to go for a run, or to escape into a fast-paced mystery novel. When we take proper care of ourselves, what we are actually doing is recharging our batteries, which in turn makes us feel better equipped to take care of others.

No matter which method(s) of self care you choose, the important thing is to actually follow through with it. After all, the more you take care of yourself, the more rejuvenated you will feel throughout the day, and the more you will have to give, not only to your relationship with your significant other, but also to your relationships with all of your loved ones and friends.

Rachel G. Baldino

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Keep Looking Up!

Diane

Are You In A "Toxic" Relationship?

2010-08-12T20:49:00.000-07:00

There is a huge difference between a healthy relationship and a "toxic" relationship. Sometimes men and women get drawn into one of these toxic relationships very slowly and they don't even realize how bad their situation is. How can you tell if you are in a toxic relationship? Here are some hints:

· Your partner puts you down (verbally) in front of others

· While your partner says they love you, their actions don’t back it up.

· Your partner is controlling – reading your mail or “showing up” wherever you go, just to “check up” on you.

· Your partner tries to make you dependent on them.

· You have changed things about yourself to please them.

People who are "toxic" tend to make other people feel uncomfortable just being around them. It is hard to understand why anyone would want to be in a relationship with someone who makes them feel unsafe, or emotionally hurt. So, why would anyone end up in a toxic relationship?

A toxic relationship has a cycle. There’s a honeymoon period, followed by a blow up, followed by a reconciliation – at which point the cycle begins anew.

The honeymoon stage begins when you first meet a new partner. It is not until you have been together for awhile that you slowly begin to realize that you are in a toxic relationship. By the time you begin to realize what is going on, it has already become extremely difficult to get out.

One reason some people are pulled in so easily to these unhealthy relationships is because they grew up in toxic homes. Because a toxic atmosphere is all they have ever known, they are more likely to grow up and repeat the unhealthy patterns that they witnessed while growing up. For these people, the unhealthy relationship that they now find themselves in is something they did not even realize was happening. And many people simply don't know any better. Some people are so worn down by their past or present lives that they have come to believe that they don't deserve happiness. And there are others who feel as though they alone can help the abusive partner and so they stay in the relationship.

The first step in getting out and staying out of toxic relationships is to realize that you do have choices. Often people who stay in these relationships have low self esteem and often suffer from depression.

Once you realize that you have choices, the next step is to start standing up for yourself. In most toxic relationships, the toxic partner has put a lot of effort into convincing you that everything is all your fault. Once you buy into this, it can be very difficult to walk away from the relationship. For some people, working in therapy groups can help them either get out of or redefine these horrible relationships.

There are some people who are strong enough to break the cycle of toxic relationships. For these people, they have been able to see what is happening and have found a way to leave the relationship and form new, healthier bonds.

Then there are those who are actually able to work through the problems with their partner, manage to repair their relationship, and stay in it.

If you find that you are one of the many people stuck in a toxic relationship, you need to know that most relationship, even unhealthy ones, can often be salvaged. It may not be easy, it may take some time and space, and most likely it will involve counseling. But if both partners are willing to work at turning their toxic relationship into a healthy one, there is every reason to believe that the relationship can be saved.

The first change you need to make is to change the way you view your personal rights within the relationship. You have felt stuck in the relationship for some time and that has to change. You have to know for certain that if the relationship does not improve, then you are willing to walk away. If you are not willing to walk away, then you will never possess the most important tool you have available to you to use in order to make the first steps towards healing that which is dividing the two of you. You MUST be willing to walk away!

Once you have liberated yourself from the dependency that is at the core of a toxic relationship, you can start to assert what you need from the connection. Don’t nag the other person. Simply say “I need your support,” “I need your love,” or “I need your truthful opinion.”

If you don’t get what you need, the other person should know that you’re prepared to walk.

A healthy relationship is a two way street. In a toxic relationship, the street is only going one way. You have the power to change that, but you must take the power into your own hands.

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

Let Her Know She Is Important To You

2010-08-06T11:57:00.000-07:00

It is important in a relationship that both partners give more than they take. You need to learn what your partner really needs from you to feel secure and happy and then do those things! Here are some tips on how you can make your wife or girlfriend feel special and keep your relationship happy and healthy.

*Be yourself. Don't try to impress her by showing off or trying to be whatever your idea of a "macho man" is. A self-confident man is very appealing to women. Just being yourself will make your partner feel more sure of who you are and therefore she will be more secure in the relationship.

*Do the little things. This may mean taking her car in for an oil change, bringing home a box of her favorite chocolate, washing the dishes for her, rent her favorite movie (even if it is a chic flick) and have an evening planned for just the two of you. Men too often think in terms of making some "grand gesture" when it truly is the little things that add happiness and comfort to a woman's day. It is this happiness, comfort, and secure feeling that will help maintain a long relationship.

*Appreciate her. It is so common for couples to take each other for granted. Go out of your way to let her know you appreciate her.

*Make her laugh. While many men will list good looks as being very important to them when it comes to their women, women often will list humour and happiness as what is important to them in their men. If you have an attitude of happiness and are generally positive about life, you have the ability to easily make your partner feel happy too. What better assurance of a long lasting relationship than two happy people who are willing to go out of their way to make each other feel happy.

*Show interest in what she is interested in. Even if the two of you have some common interest or hobby, it is very noticed and appreciated by your wife or girlfriend when you go out of your way to take an interest in her personal hobby or passion. If this means you will have to develop an appreciation for foreign films, so be it. She will take notice of how far you are willing to go to show her that you care. You will be her "one in a million" man.

*Keep yourself clean and neat. Men are all about wanting their women to look good all of the time. Women don't need that quite as much as men, but it is still important to a woman that the man she is with is clean and neat and looks and smells nice. So, shave on weekends. Take a look once in awhile at what is in fashion for men today. Don't let yourself get sloppy and lazy when it comes to your hygiene and appearance. A woman will be much more willing to spend time cuddled up close to someone who is pleasant to her senses and leaves her looking forward to being close to you.

*Be willing to be a part of her circle of friends and family. This is very important to a woman. Make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and her parents. A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices.

*Be willing to try new things. At the beginning of a relationship everything is new and exciting. But, after a while everything tends to become routine. Spice things up and try something new.

Every effort on your part to keep the relationship alive will be noticed by your partner and will go a long way toward keeping the relationship happy, healthy, and long.

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

5 Steps To Getting Your Ex Back

2010-08-05T08:27:00.000-07:00

Relationships are fragile bonds that need to be built up and maintained in order to keep them healthy and allow them to flourish. Unfortunately, break ups do happen, and they are nerve wracking, stressful and frustrating. If you are involved in a relationship that breaks up and you are feeling angry, the temptation may cross your mind to to something to get back at your ex. Stop and ask yourself, "is this really the best move to make?" If you are not happy with the break up and you want to try to heal the relationship, perhaps there are healthier steps to take that would be much more productive.

Lashing out at your ex will likely do nothing more than create more tension between the two of you and could cause your ex to feel reassured that the break up was for the best. Try to stop yourself from acting out on emotional impulses and give yourself some time to step back and think through what the best step would be for you to take. The following 5 steps are good suggestions that could help your ex to see just how much he/she really misses you, and may start a process of healing that will bring the two of you back together again.

1 - Be strong. You need to stop begging, clinging or exhibiting the behavior of someone who is feeling desperate. If your ex sees that you have been able to go on with life without him/her, it just might stir up some emotions in your ex that he/she didn't realize were still there. If you remain strong and move on with your life, yet keeping the lines of friendly communication open between you and your ex, it just might cause your ex to look at you and realize how much he/she misses being with you.

2 - Minimize communication. This may sound just the opposite of the advice given in step one, but here it is not being suggested to cut all communication off with your ex. By closing the doors of communication just a little bit allows the two of you to have a break from each other. This break will give you both some much needed time to reflect on where you want to go from here. It is by taking this break that your ex will be able to clear his/her head and realize how valuable your relationship was.

3 - Be flexible. Do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, a good listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.

4 - Don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself. This is no time for you to be alone. Call your friends and get out of the house. Develop a social network and enjoy some entertainment in your life. This may not mean you need to date, or even pay attention to the opposite sex, but you do need to be getting out and enjoying your time with your friends. Not only will this be therapeutic for you, but it will help your ex to see you in a new light and could result in seeding new interest in him/her in wanting to rebuild what was lost.

5 - Don't try to act like someone else thinking your ex may like you better if you were different. Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

Knowing The First Steps To Winning Your Ex Back

2010-08-02T21:44:00.000-07:00

Did you just experience a break up? Nearly every adult has experienced some kind of a break up. If you have recently been involved in the break up of your relationship, but it is not what you wanted and you really want to work on getting your ex back, then there are some steps you can take to try and win him/her back.

The fact is, it is possible for 90 percent of the couples who have broken up with their mate to pull their relationship back together again,
providing some thought and hard work is put into the effort. It is important that one of the first steps you take is to figure out what exactly happened in your relationship that caused the break up to happen. Even though you can not change what happened in the past, you certainly can learn from your mistakes and grow from the experience.

The break up may have occurred because of a single event, or it may have occurred from behaviors that your ex could not deal with anymore. No matter what the reason was that led to the breakup, you need to get the specifics figured out so that you can deal with the situation if it should ever come up again.

The next step in the process is to ensure that you are not coming off as a needy person. Everyone will feel like they cannot live without their ex, but there is no point in making this obvious. Instead, you should stay strong, and let your ex see that you are doing just fine by yourself. If you let everyone around you see your comfort and self confidence, then you will have a better chance of getting back together with your ex.

Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate. In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have. While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together. Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

Does Your Ex Want To Get Back Together With You?

2010-07-31T11:15:00.000-07:00

Are you wondering if your ex wants to get back together with you? Have you been noticing a little more interest is being directed your way? If your ex seems more interested in going out and spending time with you than before, or if you notice signs that your ex is trying to flirt with you, it is fairly safe to assume that there is still hope for the relationship.

Don't jump into things too quickly. Take it slow and let your ex have the time and space that he/she needs to think things through.
Playing hard to get is ok only to a certain point. Be careful though, this tactic has been known to backfire from time to time. The best way to handle this is to just continue with your own life while taking note of when your ex is making obvious moves to let you know he/she is interested in spending more time with you. If you move forward too quickly, you may find that your ex feels like you are rushing things and may begin to back off again.

When a relationship breaks up, it is only natural that both sides will experience some level of missing each other and possibly even feel a longing to get back together. This is especially true following a relationship of a year or longer. Your ex is probably going to miss you no matter what, because of how many memories were shared together during this period of time. But there are other emotions that come into play including past regrets. If you are wondering "does my ex want to get back with me" the odds are that your ex may be thinking the same thing for the same reasons.

Sometimes when an ex shows interest again following a break up however, it is only a game. They may see that you love them, and they may simply be trying to get attention, without actually intending to get you back. So, unless your ex really seems genuinely interested in spending time with you, they may just be passing the time because they have no other prospects on the horizon. And worst of all they may see this as a way to get revenge for some perceived wrong. This is why it is important not to jump the gun, and why you should focus on reading into the situation before you act on it.

If you really do want to get back together with your ex and you are wondering if your ex wants to get back together with you, remember to take it slow. Keeping a little distance between the two of you until you have both had time to analyze how you are feeling is the best for both of you. By not rushing things, it will help you from not feeling quite so hurt if it turns out your ex is not really serious about getting back with you.

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

Do You Want Your Girlfriend Back?

2010-07-31T06:30:00.000-07:00

Following the breakup of a relationship, many people find themselves asking "is there something I can do to get my ex girlfriend back"? They begin to start thinking and philosophizing about anything that could have been done differently. They even begin to make plans about writing apology letters and doing other things that might be able to help them put their broken relationship back together.

This line of thinking will often lead you no where. You will likely never know what all of the reasons were that led to your breakup. Don't spend too much time and energy worrying and agonizing over what may possibly have gone wrong.

If you really want to find a way to heal your relationship, the first thing you need to do is to stop focusing so hard on how you may be able to win your ex girlfriend back. Instead, focus your energy on something else for while. Get out and make new friends, have fun, and try to put the thought of women and relationships on the back burner for now. Focus on making some improvements in your own life for a few months. Taking some time to step away from the issue of your breakup with your ex girlfriend can work wonders. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.

After several months of focusing on yourself, you will naturally want to revisit the question of whether or not you still want to get back together with your ex. Maybe you have decided you are ready to move on. If you have made a definite decision, act accordingly. If your final decision is that you still want to get back together with her then it is time to figure out how she is feeling about you.

It is important that you think about and decide what your next move should be. Do not jump in and begin begging her to get back with you. Now is not the time for you to break down and be overly emotional. If you have spent enough time away from her then chances are she is missing you just as much as you are missing her. Playing hard to get can have some benefits, but do not over do it! Just keeping a little distance between you and her could very possibly inspire her to begin to rethink things. If getting back together is something that was meant to be, then it will become apparent very quickly.

Take things slow. It is the best things in life that are worth waiting for!

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

Are You Smothering Your Ex? Stop!

2010-07-30T11:08:00.000-07:00

Are you feeling like everything you do pushes your ex further away? Does this describe your situation to a tee? Are you obsessed with the question "What can I do to get my ex back"? Here are some tips that will greatly improve your chances of getting back together with your ex.

Obviously right now you are serious about saving, or rekindling, your relationship. That is what led you to this article in the first place. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way,
causing your ex to naturally pull away. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse.

Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing e-mails or text messaging? Are you trying to make him/her feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are serious about wanting to get back together with your ex, then you need to stop doing these things right now.

You are going to need to take a completely fresh approach. Begin by breaking off all contact for a while. During this time where there is no communication between you and your ex, you can focus on ways that you can improve your own personal life. Try hard not to focus on the relationship issues. This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to require a lot of self-discipline to keep yourself so occupied with your own personal life that you won't revert back to calling and texting your ex.

During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he/she feels about you, since you will no longer be pursuing him/her. You may suddenly seem mysterious in some ways, because your ex is not sure what you are doing or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now that you are no longer smothering your ex, he/she is in more of a position to actually miss you.

You must remember that the key to this strategy of repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. Just keep yourself grounded and avoid smothering him/her. Make yourself appear mysterious and your ex will be reminded why he/she loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (don't over do it) and let him/her make the first move, and you will come out on top.

Keep Looking Up!

Diane

The Secret To Making Your Ex Return Your Phone Call

2010-07-30T10:35:00.000-07:00

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls? Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

BUT...

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WARNING!

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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy...you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!

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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like "John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And the EMERGENCY- "Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest

To Your Advantage

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Two of the most powerful forces in

the human mind are

*Curiosity &

*Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'

So...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what

he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

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2nd WARNING!

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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making

Up System BEFORE you call.

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they

call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not

handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your

call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

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Keep Looking Up!

Diane

above article written by T. Dubb

The Creator Of The Magic of Making Up System

2010-06-05T16:00:00.000-07:00

WELCOME! TAKE YOUR TIME AND LOOK AROUND. FIND SOLID ADVICE TO HELP YOUR BROKEN RELATIONSHIP.

2010-04-09T07:41:00.000-07:00

Welcome to Healing For Broken Relationships! You have reached the site where you will find advice to help put your broken or failing relationship back together again.

Browse through the tabs at the top of the page.
You will find relationship tips by clicking "blog posts".
To see the system that has healed thousands of relationships, click on the "MOMU System" tab.

Keep checking back regularly. I will be adding new tips as often as I can.

Keep Looking Up!
Diane Foster

About Me

2010-03-10T11:07:00.000-08:00

I am a mom of four, ages ranging from 14 to 27. I have been married to my husband for 29 years. I love to write. I am a child advocate. I care about people and when I know someone is struggling with an issue, I try to help. That is why I first started this site. I hope the advice found here will aid in the healing of many relationships.

Keep Looking Up!
Diane Foster

HEALING BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS USING "THE MAGIC OF MAKING UP" SYSTEM

2010-02-09T09:57:00.000-08:00

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