HELP with Cancer Men

Cancer Men in 2012 | Zodiac Secrets

2012-01-02T11:15:00.000-08:00

Jonathan “good news” Cainer is predicting that 2012 will be an excellent year for Cancer men. However, don’t pin too much on this prediction as Jonathan Cainer predicts all star signs – people born under any section of the zodiac – i.e. everybody on the entire planet is going to have a good year and has been doing for about 25 years. Most of the Astrologers on the HELP with Men! Website are convinced that the water signs but particularly Cancer and Pisces are going to have one hell of a crap year unless they actually take measures to avoid it. However (again) whereas half the Pisces men (those who swim upstream) will be able to take evasive action Cancerian men aren’t that well equipped to avoid stuff. Typically our crustaceous friends withdraw into their shells but – as anyone who wields a small hammer will know – these are not much protection against the big bad world.

So get them Cancer men out of their shells and get them to face up to some home truths. Firstly sitting around in the guise of a couch potato is NOT going to do them any good. The world will not come to them or, for that matter, will the unemployment office. What should they do?

What is needed is a two clawed protection strategy. What is NOT needed is a two pronged attack. Cancer men should not attack. Small steps made in one direction will achieve much but small steps made any which way will be just as tiring and get them nowhere. So how can you make sense of this gibberish and attempt to indicate to the Cancer man in your life the best way to avoid disaster in 2012? Firstly take it on board that the problems which could get out of hand relate to family and business.

Family will need the Cancer man’s help. Cancer man should be given the space to do this and so partners should do as much as they can to help them. Overly needy partners of Cancer men who prevent this happening will very likely be dumped in November/December 2012. Partners who take the obtuse, obstructive approach will undoubtedly be blamed for anything that the Cancer man has not been able to prevent which befalls his family.

A similar approach should be offered towards the business, job or studies of the Cancer man. His business/money making/self-advancement problem is that his family will take his eyes of his goals and the knock on effect will be the less than necessary concentration needed to optimise returns. Although he may be able to fluke ample results during the first half of 2012 in the second half he’ll need as much time as possible to spend on his main occupation (be it work or study) as he can wrest from his family members in need of his ministrations and money. Thus only the greedy, manipulative, selfish partners will get a look in but, if they want this man in their life, they’ll wish they hadn’t have by the end of the year.

Cancer Man in Love

2011-12-08T13:30:00.000-08:00

Cancer men in love! Forget what you've read about the Cancer man in love on popular slush laden websites and tacky lifestyle magazines and cast your eyes over this. The HELP with Men! sites do not pull their punches. Cancer men in love is complicated and, what is more, Cancer man in love is unusual.

You’ve got to honest with yourself when you are deciding whether your Cancer man loves you or not. You might be attempting to convince yourself that his possessiveness is a sign that he is in love with you. You might register that his gallantry when it comes to repairs and renovations of your home is a unspoken confession of his love for you… but, you know deep down that you need more evidence than this.

Possessiveness and helpfulness will be present if a Cancer man loves you but you need to look out for much more than that. The trip with a Cancer man is the women he is attracted to. You think that a woman lacking confidence, without natural independence, minus the go-get-‘em attitude would be a natural fit. After all, the Cancer man likes to play the lead as though the partnership is some sort of protracted ballroom dance so a somewhat submissive partner would be ideal. Wouldn’t s/he? No she wouldn't.

Perhaps that’s why Cancer men don’t fall in love so quickly – compared to all the other star sign… even Aquarius! The women they can slip out of their shell for are fiercely independent, career driven, succeeding against the odds in a male dominated world and a male dominated sector. To fall in love truly a cancer man needs to be free of his shell at least some of the time and it is this type of woman that he will leave his shell (see it like an invisible safety blanket) for.

Let’s put this in a context which is attainable. After all, we can’t all be like the exceptional female* scientist, the tremendous female inventor or the leading female Wall Street or Stock Exchange banker. Realistically there are not that many women born into the necessary privilege or fortunate enough to receive the requisite education. Thing is, when there is real love from a Cancer man the love object feels they are as powerful and outstanding as the roles outlined in this paragraph. The Cancer man makes them feel that way.

In short, you know that a Cancer man is in love with you because you feel on top of the world. If you have nagging doubts, the slightest feeling of annoyance or detect that in him - you have to face it: he does not love you and, for that matter, he does not love you.

*In this article the words female and male, man and woman are interchangeable but this entire website is about Cancer men.

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The Best and Worst of Cancer Men | PART ONE

2011-12-08T07:29:00.000-08:00

This article is not purely based on studies of Cancer men via their charts. We found the best way of getting to the nitty-gritty heart of Cancer men and researching beyond the slushy home-lover who has a mother fixation and looks for her in his partner – the caricature painted by the mainstream Astrologers who want to keep everything nicey-nicey was to go out and talk to as many partners of Cancer men as possible. We are glad we did because we unearthed several consistent good and bad characteristics which have been overlooked by the “tell you what you want to hear” group of Astrologers.

The Best of Cancer Men

Of course it is a subjective call on what is the best and what is the worst and made complicated by our researchers accepting what the partners and ex partners of Cancer men enjoyed. For example many of the happiest partners of Cancer men were really pleased that Cancer man liked to stay home all the time or as much time as possible. Surely this would drive many women to distraction? Anyway, we speak as we find and now state that, among the partners and ex partners of Cancer men we interviewed the Cancer man’s propensity to stay home was one of his best attributes.

Cancer men seem to be very loving and caring. This was no surprise to us as this is the only characteristic to have been touted by mainstream Astrologers over the years. What sort of woman would find that annoying? You’d be surprised but Scorpio and Pisces (the other two Water signs) number among them as do Capricorns. Aquarius females on the whole quite like Cancer (it surprised us).

The mother fixation is strong. For some women this was a good aspect of Cancer but for others it was the worst – so read PART TWO for that. When it was one of the positives about Cancer men it was because they came with respect for women built in. He wouldn’t expect his mother to work that hard or be subjected to that sort of treatment so there was no way he’d expect you to either. This principle was applied to his daughters and nieces too. The best, nicest most uncomplicated Cancer men make dutiful sons, partners, fathers and uncles to the females in his family (including the extended family – it is a though the union has put all family member in his sea and he'll look after them all while they are there.

Read PART TWO for the Worst of Cancer Men CLICK HERE

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The Best and Worst of Cancer Men PART TWO

2011-12-08T07:19:00.000-08:00

In PART ONE of this article we looked at the Best of Cancer Men. We also outlined the methodology we used to check our Astrological conclusions by talking to partners and ex-partners of Cancer men. CLICK HERE to read PART ONE now.

Worst of Cancer Men

Although the mother fixation could work and be of benefit to the partner of the Cancer man – it brought a readymade respect for women to the relationship – there were some partners and more ex partners of Cancer men who believed that the fixation ruined the partnership. “How could I live up to her standards?” said one ex-partner. Worse came when the mother was dead. She may have been perfect in real life but after death she was revered as a living saint, a hero and the best at everything – this aspect, when it manifested, had their partners giving up.

We uncovered a propensity to cheat on partners but not with their or their partner’s friends and not with work colleagues, not via online dating sites. No the propensity was to pay to have a relationship. It was as though this type of Cancer man was so addicted to being unfaithful that he needed the certainty of a liaison and the best way to ensure this was to pay for it. In addition it might be that he got an added kick by using his partner’s hard earned cash to pay for this liaison. The absolute worst of this was two cases of partners who were convinced that their cheating Cancer man had not used protection and therefore actually endangered their sexual health.

There were a few cases of Cancer men who conformed to the image of the nicey-nicey, sweet home lover for a year or so but who then descended into the gutter. Lying, cheating and obsessed with certain types of websites and self-pleasuring.

CLICK HERE to read The Best and Worst of Cancer Men | PART ONE

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Derek Jeter A Boring Cancer Man?

2011-09-05T03:00:00.000-07:00

We do not uphold that all Cancer men are boring, mother-centric individuals but this star sign surely has examples of boring men. Actually most partner searchers want to end up with the domesticated, polite and dreamy type of Cancer man but perhaps not until they are middle aged... or even older.

When one Astrologer looked at the charts of Derek Jeter and Minka Kelly s/he (we don't know which) found that their relationship would have been very boring. This is based on an analysis of their sun and moon and the positions of the planets Mercury, Venus and Mars.

Read The Reasons Derek Jeter and Minka Kelly Split up CLICK THIS LINK.

Links to Other Sites in this Astrology Series

2010-02-08T04:45:00.003-08:00

Below are the links to the other sites in this Astrology Series devoted to the men of each star sign. The links accompany the dates for each star sign and the individual star sign's glyth. (Glyths are ancient symbols dating back more than 3,000 years). Click on the Star Sign you are interested in to go to the front page of the website you are interested in.

As I write this only Aquarius Men has much content but this will be rectifies as soon as possible and this notice will be removed when or amended until all webpages have been added.

Zodiac Signs with their Glyths and Dates

^Aries:

March 21st – April 20th

_Taurus:

April 21st – May 21st

`Gemini:

May 22nd – June 21st

aCancer:

June 22nd – July 23rd

bLeo:

July 24th – August 23rd

cVirgo:

August 24th – September 23rd

dLibra:

September 24th – October 23rd

e Scorpio:

24th October – 22nd November

fSagittarius:

23rd November – 21st December

gCapricorn:

22nd December – 20th January

h Aquarius:

21st January – 19th February

iPisces:

20th February – 20th March

All You Ever Wanted to Know about Cancerian Men

2010-02-07T18:32:00.000-08:00

The series of articles about Cancerian Men (men born under the sign of Cancer) to appear on this site soon, will have been published elsewhere. All these articles are original and written by me. Once I have published all of them the site will (normally) only be updated during the Cancer season or when the Sun is in Cancer.

If you have any questions to ask about Cancer men please do so in the comments section. If I can answer them I will. Also, please leave any comments. Feedback is always appreciated.