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		<title>Who Says the Customer is ALWAYS Right?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2014 03:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Everyone at some time or another has worked on the service side of the business – trying to manage the client&#8217;s expectations while, many times, acquiescing to their demands, just to make them happy. Smaller companies and start-ups, whose customers are everything to the business, cannot afford to leave any of their paying clients unhappy. [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Everyone at some time or another has worked on the service side of the business – trying to manage the client&#8217;s expectations while, many times, acquiescing to their demands, just to make them happy.</p>
<p>Smaller companies and start-ups, whose customers are <em>everything</em> to the business, cannot afford to leave any of their paying clients unhappy. But that does not mean being at the beck and call, or relenting to customer demands.</p>
<p>Working in the new media space, we find ourselves educating clients on the new best practices and the new way of marketing, many times to an audience akin to deer-in-headlights, who respond to our presentations with a hesitating nod and uncomfortable grin. They love the approach [or so they say]. They want to move ahead of their competitors and capitalize on opportunities, &#8220;So tell us what we need to do&#8221;, they say.</p>
<h2>Customers buy from those they trust</h2>
<p>Everyone goes through a decision-making process. They ask friends/family for recommendations. They go through the exercise of researching, comparing and contrasting prices and services detail. For B2B clients, they go through an RFP process, exhaustive meetings and legal due diligence and at the end of this process, they&#8217;re quite confident at the choice they&#8217;ve made.</p>
<p>The honeymoon period doesn&#8217;t last very long. The agency says all the right things. The client nods their head in agreement, excited to begin the process of developing this new program that has promise of reaping them amazing rewards!</p>
<p>Everything goes right until it goes wrong&#8230;.</p>
<p>And that&#8217;s when the honeymoon ends.</p>
<h2>When things go wrong, the customer is NEVER at fault</h2>
<p>I recently read a post from my colleague, Amy Tobin, who had written a post for the restaurant industry. It&#8217;s here she stated:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>The Customer is Always Right</em> – one of the most cliched and repeated phrases in marketing. And frankly, I don’t believe it’s true. I know that in some circles it’s scandalous to say, but the reality is that, the customer is wrong, and ANYONE who has worked as a waitress or in the restaurant business probably knows this. There, running into an irate, expectant, obnoxious customer is part of the job… and understanding how to handle and diffuse the situation is also ‘part of that job.’</p></blockquote>
<p>When things go wrong, someone needs to be blamed. The client will never take responsibility because they don&#8217;t have to. When a deliverable is late to market or when things go awry, this knee-jerk reaction to find the culprit always points the client in one direction: the onus is always on the agency to explain what has happened.</p>
<p>A friend, who founded a start-up explained this to me [paraphrased]:</p>
<blockquote><p>An irate customer called me on the phone, and told me of a glitch in his system that caused some of the end-terminals to improperly process customer transactions. He indicated it was working perfectly before we had made changes to it. He asked us what we had done to cause the problem. I immediately apologized and said we&#8217;d look into it.</p>
<p>A few hours later, we realized that the customer, himself had changed a setting within the system that inadvertently defaulted the system to a prior setting. Since the code had been changed, the reset had resulted in the problem identified. When this was brought to the client&#8217;s attention, he remembered what he had done and apologized for the mishap. And all was well &#8220;again&#8221;.</p></blockquote>
<p>So, we let bygones be bygones&#8230; but to the point of complete submission. All for the sake of protecting a revenue stream.</p>
<h2>Are we all Yes-Men?</h2>
<p>I read this post the other day from <a href="http://www.entrepreneur.com/article/65768">Entrepreneur</a>, <strong>30 Ways to Show Your Customers They&#8217;re Always Right:</strong> <em>This primer on customer service will leave your clients happy and your business booming.</em></p>
<p>One particular area angered me. It read,</p>
<blockquote>
<ul>
<li><span style="font-weight:bold;">&#8220;I will take responsibility.&#8221;</span>&nbsp; Tell your customer you realize it&#8217;s your responsibility to ensure a satisfactory outcome to the transaction&#8230;</li>
<li><span style="font-weight:bold;">&#8220;I will deliver on time.&#8221;</span>&nbsp;A due date that has been agreed upon is a promise that must be kept. &#8220;Close&#8221; doesn&#8217;t count.</li>
<li><span style="font-weight:bold;">&#8220;Monday means Monday.&#8221;</span>&nbsp;The first week in July means the first week in July, even though it contains a national holiday. Your clients are waiting to hear you say &#8220;I deliver on time.&#8221; The supplier who consistently does so is a rarity and will be remembered.</li>
<li><span style="font-weight:bold;">&#8220;It&#8217;ll be just what you ordered.&#8221;</span><span>&nbsp;It will not be &#8220;similar to,&#8221; and it will not be &#8220;better than&#8221; what was ordered. It will be exactly what was ordered. Even if you believe a substitute would be in the client&#8217;s best interests, that&#8217;s a topic for discussion, not something you decide on your own.</span></li>
</ul>
</blockquote>
<p>What follows is something more horrific, in my opinion:</p>
<blockquote><p>Neglecting any of these steps conveys the impression that you were interested in the person only until the sale was made. This leaves the buyer feeling deceived and used, and creates ill will and negative advertising for your company.</p></blockquote>
<p>Now, I&#8217;m not advocating for any company <em>not</em> to make those promises to clients. In potentially 80% of the cases, if all goes according to plan, an agency can deliver all those things. However, the reality is things will happen. Directions change in the process; strategies are diverted; decisions get delayed. And yes, many times, miscommunication can lead the agency to make unfortunate errors. But 100% of the time the blame cannot lie solely on the shoulders of the vendor.</p>
<p>When the agency has to come, yet again, to explain the mishap, they must do so without somehow alluding to some client-side mishap that led to the eventual outcome. This is a perpetual state of disrepute that many agencies find themselves in.</p>
<p>A friend, <a href="https://twitter.com/seanmcginnis">Sean McGinnis</a>, recently shared a post that made me aware of one such situation that made me applaud, <strong><a href="http://articles.chicagotribune.com/2014-06-11/business/chi-panera-ad-agency-20140611_1_panera-bread-cramer-krasselt-ad-agency">Chicago ad agency fires client Panera, calling company &#8216;difficult&#8217;</a></strong>.</p>
<blockquote><p>CEO says Panera was a difficult client and &#8220;in the end, no amount of money makes it worthwhile&#8221;&#8230;.</p>
<p>The memo cites “the constant last-minute shifts in direction, the behind-the-scenes politics, the enormous level of subjectivity that disregards proof of performance &#8212; all churn people at a rate that becomes much too much even in this crazy business.”</p>
<p>The “environment of inconsistency” at Panera Bread apparently drove the decision to walk away from a major client.</p>
<p>“That’s hard to do in this increasingly low-margin, high-churn business,” Krivkovich said. “Most agencies just suck it up and take it.”</p></blockquote>
<h2>The ultimate relationship comes back to trust</h2>
<p>In my later years, I&#8217;ve become so much different than when I was a young account executive for a large Ad Agency. Back then we were trained to properly manage the client expectations. We needed to be one step ahead of the client at all times. If you&#8217;ve worked in agency, all contact reports, follow-up emails were necessary, all for the purpose of CYA documentation {ie Cover your Ass} and limiting agency liability.</p>
<p>However, I&#8217;ve also come to believe that clients come to you because of your expertise. You have something that no other agency has. People who hold the purse strings can easily blame the vendor because they have nothing to lose.</p>
<p>What changes the dynamics in the relationship between the client and the agency is a true understanding of the value that the chosen agency brings. Many times clients, who think they know better, will make decisions they feel are best for the business and decide to go in a different direction than what has been recommended.</p>
<p>While this may be true, clients may also feel pressured to perform and they can easily fall back into the tried-and-true. And many times this isn&#8217;t communicated.</p>
<h3>The need for transparency between the customer and the agency</h3>
<p>Where many of my relationships with clients have come to a head, we begin to have transparent discussions about the client&#8217;s anxieties, investor expectations, management pressures. When that happens, it opens the doors to having full context into their world, and what they are up against on a daily basis.</p>
<p>That&#8217;s the opportune time to have the conversation that addresses each of those issues – one by one – and giving the client a new-found confidence that you&#8217;re there to do everything in your power to give them the result possible. But it means a quid-pro-quo:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Identify the issues when they happen.&nbsp;</strong>This allows both sides to give each other the heads up before situations get worse. For better or worse, the investment in this relationship means that both sides need to work together to produce a better outcome.</li>
<li><b>Educate the client.</b> In many cases, the best way to get a program approved is to take&nbsp;the client through a learning curve and teach them what you know. They, in turn, will advocate the program internally.</li>
<li><b>Insider scoop.</b> Until there is trust between customer and agency, will the former keep the agency at bay. But once this has been built, it&#8217;s incumbent upon the customer to provide as much &#8216;necessary&#8217; information to help he agency succeed. This has happened in our favour countless times, and we were able to over-deliver on client expectations time and time again. In the end, the client looks like a hero internally.</li>
</ul>
<p>In the end is a true understanding that doesn&#8217;t leave two parties on opposite sides of a fence. In the end, the customer does not feel the need to continuously test the agency. In the end this &#8216;relationship&#8217; puts both on an equal playing field that allows each to do their job without feeling the anxiety or mistrust&nbsp;that befalls many of the client/agency relationships today.</p>
<p><small>Photo source: <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/beltzner/">Flicker: Beltzner</a></small></p>
<p>This article was originally posted on <a href="http://www.steamfeed.com/customer-always-right/">Steamfeed</a></p>
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		<title>Sir Robert Peel&#8217;s Social Media Principles of Modern Policing #SMDAY</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2014 00:04:19 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Originally posted on <a href="http://walkingthesocialmediabeat.com/2014/06/30/sir-robert-peels-social-media-principles-of-modern-policing-smday">Walking the Social Media Beat</a>: <br />To honor the 5th Mashable Social Media Day, I thought it would be fun to re-write Sir Robert Peel&#8216;s,  &#8220;Peel&#8217;s Principles of Modern Policing&#8221; with a social media focus. Enjoy. Social Peelian Principle 1 The primary objective for policing efforts through their social media presence must be&#8230;]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="wpcom-reblog-snapshot"><div class="reblogger-note"><div class='reblogger-note-content'><blockquote><p>Great stuff from my friend Tim Burrows, who understands how to leverage social media to bridge the gap between police services and the the public.</p>
</blockquote></div></div><div class="reblog-post"><p class="reblog-from"><img alt='Tim Burrows&#039;s avatar' src='https://2.gravatar.com/avatar/bd7e153f67ae225e33b386851e7bbdadabfd65351ee4adf2e44bf4fb6a11aade?s=32&#038;d=identicon&#038;r=G' class='avatar avatar-32' height='32' width='32' loading='lazy' /><a href="http://walkingthesocialmediabeat.com/2014/06/30/sir-robert-peels-social-media-principles-of-modern-policing-smday">Walking the Social Media Beat</a></p><div class="reblogged-content">
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<p>To honor the <a href="http://mashable.com/smday/">5th Mashable Social Media Day</a>, I thought it would be fun to re-write <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Peel">Sir Robert Peel</a>‘s,  “<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peelian_Principles">Peel’s Principles of Modern Policing</a>” with a social media focus. Enjoy.</p>

<p><strong>Social Peelian Principle 1</strong></p>

<p>The primary objective for policing efforts through their social media presence must be that of educating and informing the public to assist them in protecting themselves from becoming victims of crime and avoiding conflict.</p>

<p><strong>Social Peelian Principle 2</strong></p>

<p>Police use of social media must at all times consider the public perception of their activities first ensuring those activities are never used to embarrass, humiliate or belittle the public.</p>

<p><strong>Social Peelian Principle 3 </strong></p>

<p>Police use of social media must convey their presence in the best interest of their community with the end user value placed as the paramount reason for posting information.</p>

<p><strong>Social Peelian Principle 4</strong></p>

<p>Using social media as a threat to…</p>
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		<title>The Perpetual Lie: When your Online Persona Precedes the Real You</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2014 16:40:05 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I believe all humans were created with a reasonable sense of integrity. We are on this earth to do good, right? But along the way, we were misguided. Our egos got the better of us and we lost our way. The real life that we lead can be easily masked, however. We have the haven [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>I believe all humans were created with a reasonable sense of integrity. We are on this earth to do good, right? But along the way, we were misguided. Our egos got the better of us and we lost our way.</p>
<p>The real life that we lead can be easily masked, however. We have the haven of online to safeguard who we really are.</p>
<h3>Integrity and Fakery: Are Some People Invincible?</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve witnessed this on more than one occasion. In my specific circumstance, I have followed people online who seemed reputable, who had the perception of being the epitome of integrity.</p>
<p>I felt honoured to be in the company of such people, who have built a loyal following because of their magnetic words of wisdom, how inspirational they are, as well as through the hypnotic, emotion-laden stories they share.</p>
<p>I, too, have been taken in by these masters.</p>
<p>One person in particular, in my eyes, could do no wrong. When we connected, I felt lucky she made the time to talk. She had been on a pedestal in my mind for many years, as well as in the minds of her many loyal followers. This gal had integrity!</p>
<p>But the community wasn&#8217;t privy to the relationship that I was building with this amazing person. No, this wasn&#8217;t a Jim Jones cult (although it does eerily feel like I was programmed).</p>
<p>I brought this person into my life and we became fast friends. It took some time, but I started really figuring out this individual. The persona that had been so carefully crafted was slowly crumbling before my eyes. She didn&#8217;t reveal herself readily, but nuances of the real person came out.</p>
<p>The person who she claimed to be &#8212; the persona the world knew &#8212; wasn&#8217;t the person who sat before me. She was a sham. She was a hypocrite. And I had been fooled. Shame on me.</p>
<h3>Reputation is Absolutely Everything</h3>
<p>We carefully shape the way we want to be perceived. There are those among us who are calculated in the way they approach situations and people, always mindful of how others will react, and how they will be judged.</p>
<p>When I met people who know (knew) of my affiliation, they couldn&#8217;t believe how &#8220;lucky&#8221; I was to be in the company of such a great individual. How little they know. And how desperately I wanted to shout, &#8220;You have no idea!&#8221;</p>
<p>In real life, we falter. My mother says all she has to do is look into my eyes to see the window to my soul, and when she does, I know I&#8217;ve been found out. I can&#8217;t hide the truth. My actions speak louder than words.</p>
<h3>Online, Somehow, Seems So Much Safer</h3>
<p>For those who have built their reputation online and have carefully honed it to perfection, the online space is a safe haven. The words on their blogs hide their true selves.</p>
<p>Words can easily manipulate and influence the human spirit. We cannot see the eyes of deceit as these words are carefully crafted on the keyboard.</p>
<p>And so we continue to believe the lie.</p>
<p>However, this &#8220;keyboard&#8221; that unites individuals across the social space cannot &#8211; and will not &#8211; ever be substituted for face-to-face contact.+</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve come to believe that.</p>
<h3>Hypocrisy is Perpetuated by the Community</h3>
<p>When I opened my eyes to the truth, it didn&#8217;t seem real that I, alone, could have discovered this false integrity.+</p>
<p>The reality is, there are so many instances of people portraying false personas of themselves.</p>
<p>They continue to walk among us. We can easily point them out. But we don&#8217;t. I wonder why.</p>
<p>And there are many naive individuals who buy into these falsehoods.</p>
<p>They follow in droves and they are the very ones to come to the defence of these manipulators again and again &#8211; because they&#8217;ve been programmed.</p>
<h3>Perhaps Online is the ONLY Place to Hide</h3>
<p>I&#8217;ve come to believe that those who exist mainly online, are there for a reason.</p>
<p>The fairy tale they&#8217;ve built around them is enough to properly shield them from the reality of who they actually are.</p>
<p>If there is disparity between who you are online and offline then there is something very wrong.</p>
<p>As much as I believe in transparency, I also believe we do not have to fully disclose every part of our being to the world.+</p>
<p>But, at the very least, have some integrity. Be true to who you really are.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve become more pragmatic these days. I live online but I also have a balanced and healthy life outside of the Internet.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s what keeps me real and keeps me grounded.</p>
<p>These days, I&#8217;m not as easily fooled by gurus and online pundits. Because sadly, I&#8217;ve learned the hard way to be more judgmental of my online relationships.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve come to believe in the value of meeting people in person. And the value of a gut check. It tends to go a long way towards revealing the truth.</p>
<p><small>This article was originally posted on <a href="http://spinsucks.com/communication/online-integrity-who-are-you/">SpinSucks.com</a></small></p>
<p>photo credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/cuppini/2244761640/">Rickydavid</a> via <a href="http://photopin.com">photopin</a> <a href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/2.0/">cc</a></p>
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		<title>I Fear for Generation Next: Climate Change, World Debt &#038; Rising Health Care Costs</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 May 2014 01:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The next generation doesn&#8217;t have it easy. The world is changing&#8230;and rapidly. What we&#8217;re about to experience globally is nothing like we&#8217;ve experienced in the last century. Enormous shifts are happening that will instigate fundamental changes to policy, jobs and technology. The freedom that previous generations have had to build and to innovate will become [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>The next generation doesn&#8217;t have it easy. The world is changing&#8230;and rapidly. What we&#8217;re about to experience globally is nothing like we&#8217;ve experienced in the last century. Enormous shifts are happening that will instigate fundamental changes to policy, jobs and technology.</p>
<p>The freedom that previous generations have had to build and to innovate will become lost to the future decision makers. Instead, the next generation will be overwhelmed with responding to the growing issues that are creeping to the forefront today:</p>
<ul style="color:#000000;">
<li class="first">Impending world economic crises</li>
<li>Effects of global warming</li>
<li class="last">Impact of an aging population</li>
</ul>
<h2>This Generation is to Blame</h2>
<p>I write this post not as a pundit who understands the intricacies of these issues and their implications, because clearly I do not have this benefit, but as a parent, who has seen my own generation and previous generations contribute to many of these unfortunate events and is saddened by what it means for my children. I write as a consumer who has seen decades of recklessness and irresponsibility and have done little to affect this.</p>
<p>I write as a bystander who heard the message of the real dangers we were to face in this lifetime, and witnessed as we reluctantly relented to change. We dragged our heels, albeit in the right direction. This older generation is to blame for the impending fallout not only because of our contributions but also because we weren&#8217;t doing enough to mitigate the negative effects. We are to blame because we were too selfish to recognize that while the fallout of 80 years later would not impact us, it would impact our children and grand-children.</p>
<p>And now that responsibility falls squarely on the shoulders of this next generation.</p>
<p>I read this <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/worldviews/wp/2013/10/09/map-these-are-the-cities-that-climate-change-will-hit-first/">post</a> recently: &#8220;Map – These are the Cities that Climate Change will Hit First.&#8221; It spoke of Climate Departure, the first time when&#8230;</p>
<blockquote><p>the moment when average temperatures, either in a specific location or worldwide, become so impacted by climate change that the old climate is left behind. It&#8217;s a sort of tipping point.</p></blockquote>
<p>The map shows the earliest instance of Climate Departure will be in 2023. Cities like Kingston, Jamaica, and many bordering Caribbean countries will experience this earlier than most. Other affected regions include Lagos and other countries in Western Africa. However, larger centres like Singapore, parts of India and China are not that far behind.</p>
<p>Those countries that are going to be affected by this unprecedented climate are also those deemed &#8220;that have the least capacity to respond&#8221;. Lagos, is the largest African city of 21 million and currently prone to excessive flooding. Climate departure will hit Lagos by 2029.</p>
<p>Experts predict that (under the current greenhouse emission levels) most of the world&#8217;s population will feel the effects of Climate departure by 2047.</p>
<h2>Species will be forced to adapt, move or die out</h2>
<p>It may not be the end of the world but this radical shift means that the world as we know it will experience a massive upheaval. As <a href="http://www.vanguardngr.com/2013/10/radical-climate-change-predicted-2029-lagos-nigeria/">Ken Caldeira</a> of the Carnegie Institution for Science&#8217;s global ecology department has put it:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8230;.we are pushing the ecosystems of the world out of the environment in which they evolved into wholly new conditions that they may not be able to cope with. Extinctions are likely to result.</p></blockquote>
<p>The effect on the species raises much graver concerns: the risk on our food and water supply; the potential of wider spread of disease; health endangerment; security concerns that come with civil outbreaks. These are realities that much of the world is unwilling to face.</p>
<p>The hope is to mitigate the effects of C02 emissions to slow down Climate Departure. While this may mean delaying Climate departure by, on average, 15-20 years, countries like Kingston and Lagos will feel the impact only 5 years later than expected.</p>
<h2>Demand for transportation increases</h2>
<p>As the Chinese economy continues to dominate, the demand for transportation will have a rippling effect globally. A recent <a>article</a> indicated, that the global demand for cars was largely influenced by China:</p>
<blockquote><p>the global car market would expand in the next few years, mainly because of growth of demand in China where sales were expected to double by 2019.</p></blockquote>
<p>This hurtling demand puts much more pressure on carmakers to ensure dependence on gas is lessened. The question is whether mindsets will be as quick to change. In all likelihood, probably not.</p>
<h2>The Global Economic Crisis: two steps forward&#8230;. one step back</h2>
<p>Europe is a classic example of a stubborn political mindset that has turned a blind eye to the compounding issues imposed by the monetary unions, and had not felt the urgency to make drastic changes to fiscal policy until was too late. This has led to a massive competitive imbalance among the debt-ridden economies like Spain, Italy, Portugal and Greece, relying on the surplus nations like Germany to compensate. It&#8217;s this imbalance that requires radical reform among those economies that have largely relied on monetary unions to dictate their fates.</p>
<p>The US counterparts fare no better. This headline made me chuckle: U.S. Politics 2013 Style: &#8220;Let&#8217;s Kill The Economy&#8221;. To me this is an example of a system that has a huge communication issue, deep-rooted in years of dichotomies. Killing the Affordable Health Care Act by taking the government hostage is a last-ditch effort among &#8220;backward thinking idealogues&#8221;, as Senator Elizabeth Warren put it, who cannot cope with the realities of democracy.</p>
<p>The demands of the rising unemployment, student debt, an aging population and disparities in access to health care require a new order.</p>
<p>The next generation will be, by all accounts, constrained with their own financial woes. This article, <a href="http://www.business2community.com/infographics/million-millions-student-debt-crisis-america-infographic-0646645?tru=QfXkW#DQRzxGWg2a51l665.99">A Million Millions: The Student Debt Crisis in America</a>, states that student debt in the US is now a &#8220;staggering&#8221; 1 trillion dollars. Here&#8217;s how it breaks down:</p>
<blockquote><p>Thirty-seven million people in the U.S. have student loans, and the average student loan debt is $24,301. Of those who graduated in 2013, the average loan debt is over $35,000. The trend is steady and consistent&#8211;education is getting more and more expensive. Student loan debt in the U.S. even exceeds overall credit card debt.</p></blockquote>
<p>In both the European and US situations, governments have no choice but to change their thinking in order to come to urgent resolution.</p>
<h2>The Aging Boomers</h2>
<p>If the Tea Party continues its attempts to manipulate the system to crush the Affordable Health Care Act, it will cripple access from a growing population of Boomers. Here are the facts according to a study by Concordia University:</p>
<p>With another American turning 50 years old every 7.5 seconds, by 2015 Baby Boomers will represent 45% of the US population. The average American over the age of 65 has multiple chronic conditions:</p>
<ul>
<li>Hypertension 72%</li>
<li>Arthritis 51%</li>
<li>Heart Disease 31%</li>
<li>Cancer 24%</li>
<li>Diabetes 20%</li>
</ul>
<p>This group accounts for 1/3 of all health care spending, 1/3 of prescription drug use and 40% of doctor visits.</p>
<p>Canada fares no better. The <a href="http://www.thestar.com/opinion/editorialopinion/2013/01/24/baby_boomers_looking_to_right_public_health_care_not_drain_it.html">reality rings true</a> all over the world,</p>
<blockquote><p>Should baby boomers be feeling guilty now that everyone else seems to have finally clued in to the developed world&#8217;s worst-kept secret: There are lots of us, we didn&#8217;t have enough children of our own to replenish the taxpayer base, and we didn&#8217;t contribute enough in taxes to cover our future health needs as increasingly frail citizens.</p></blockquote>
<p>The result:</p>
<blockquote><p>Our children and theirs are going to be saddled with an expensive burden they can ill afford as droves of silver-haired boomers leave the workforce and consume a disproportionate share of public health resources in their senior years.</p></blockquote>
<h2>Where does this leave us?</h2>
<p>While I worry for the next generation, I also know that extensive measures are being put in motion to alleviate some of this burden. Economies are learning quickly, especially in Europe, that integration helps heal some of the wounds. Realization of fiscal reform is taking hold.</p>
<p>The US is feeling its own civil strife and the results of the lockdown will determine whether there is opportunity to reach some political common ground or face dissension from the voting public.</p>
<p>Dependency on oil and gas in today&#8217;s world will need to be re-evaluated now.<br />
Sustainability is no longer a buzz word. This next generation understands and is more attuned to its moral obligation to fix the economic disparities that exist today. This includes gender disparity.</p>
<p>And while the world awaits for the inevitability of climate change, rest assured there will be a rallying cry, however late, to attempt to delay these effects and prepare for substantive change.</p>
<p>As long as this generation is alive, it&#8217;s in our best interest to finally take responsibility&#8230;. for future generations.</p>
<p><small>photo credit: <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/ubcpublicaffairs/14259956693/">UBC News</a> via <a href="http://photopin.com">photopin</a> </small></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2014 03:20:41 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>As I write this, it is early on a Saturday morning. Trying to find some quiet time before the family rises, I retreat to the dining table, riddled with the incessant flow of paper work – yes, work that I must put on my to-do list– but after I get this post written. As I furiously try to get my mind focused on the task at hand, I am reminded that this is the life that I have chosen.</p>
<h2>There was a time when I worked to live</h2>
<p>I never really had ambitions to do anything great. I came out of business school just wanting a job, to make some decent money, to see the world, and live comfortably. This was no different than anyone out there. I came out of school with mediocre grades, but enough to get a respectable degree that would land me places. It introduced me to a discipline called database marketing, and I was hooked.</p>
<p>In the years that followed, my love for data and its possibilities created opportunities for me in consumer loyalty, banking and B2B. It was here that I was also introduced to the advertising world (ie the client-driven world) of 80 hour weeks. I hated the hours. The weekdays would blend into my weekends. I was losing control of the balanced life that I had desperately sought to achieve. Then along came the internet…. and I changed.</p>
<h2>Wanting to change the world makes you a different person</h2>
<p>It was a new frontier. Everybody was figuring things out. We were on the cusp of developing this new channel into whatever we wanted. Everyone had ideas about how to do it. They all tried. The start-up world became this haven that empowered people to take their ideas to fruition, no matter how crazy. No one waited for judgement. They just did it. Money or no money.</p>
<p>I was introduced to this environment, albeit Yahoo! was not new to the game. In Canada, however, we were a start-up in many respects. After the dot.com bubble burst in the late 90′s, most of the satellite offices were shut down. When I came on board 5 years later, the Canadian office was resurged. It was here that I began to apply what I knew to this online channel.</p>
<p>I was excited, and absorbed every last ounce of knowledge that anyone was willing to feed me. I became consumed with ideas and possibilities. This was an environment that allowed us to try new things, fail, then try again. Engineering and Product were my best friends. They allowed me to “play” and try anything and everything. I became embedded in this world of endless possibilities and I didn’t pay attention to the amount of time it was consuming. I was drinking this Purple Kool-Aid and it started to affect me in ways that continue to challenge me to this day.</p>
<h2>Along the way, family suffers</h2>
<p>During this period, my children were still young. Maddie was 4 and Nathan was 1. The responsibilities at work made it increasingly difficult to manage both work and home.</p>
<p>I am reminded of this post, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/hessie-jones/work-life-balance_b_1712475.html">The Guilt Grind — And Why I Love Every Minute of It!</a>, that I wrote a few years back when I worked at a new and promising social tech start-up. It’s here that I wrote,</p>
<blockquote><p>And while I try to make every soccer practice, hockey game, school play or choir, there have been many times I’ve had to make the disheartening decision to choose this “path” over family. And that has burned me each time. I will never forget when my daughter was four and I missed her first year-end gala, to make a dinner with an important executive coming into town the same night. I’ve regretted that decision ever since.</p></blockquote>
<p>I still remember the performance reports I had to present every Monday morning. For months, I compiled the reports Friday night when they were available for all the 20 Yahoo! properties and proceeded to do the analysis into the wee hours of the morning. I convinced myself that if I could get the work done before the weekend then I could use what was left of the weekend to spend with my family. It wasn’t long before I became friends with the same cabbie, who drove me home every Saturday morning at 2:00 AM, to a family who had long gone to sleep.</p>
<p>The person I became did not separate work from family. They became intermingled, sometimes to the point of annoyance. My husband was losing his patience and our marriage was teetering on the brink of turmoil.</p>
<blockquote><p>I emerged as someone who couldn’t stop thinking about the problem or the task at hand. Sometimes it got in the way of life like a bad drug that you just can’t seem to get out of your system. Many late nights, I remember hearing the song, “Cats in the Cradle” like an incessant ring unwilling to relent. It was telling me something and I was unwilling to listen.</p></blockquote>
<h2>Starting over</h2>
<p>Over the years, I’ve worked at ad agencies and social tech start-ups. Through this experience it became clear that no one was doing enough to move the needle forward when it came to social data and the organization. I felt compelled to take what I’ve known and build a company, <a href="http://arcompany.co">ArCompany</a>. I became convinced that starting this business would allow me to see my kids more. I promised myself that I would make each and every one of their hockey games, skating practices, soccer tournaments and school concerts. Perhaps I could make up for lost time.</p>
<p>Starting a business is hard. It didn’t take me long to realize this. The opportunity to do something different and to challenge the status quo, while compelling, takes an immense amount of effort and will. Amy Tobin, my colleague, can tell you about the number of anguishing conversations we’ve had over the last year.  There were many bleak moments in just starting this business. It takes a great deal of discipline and motivation to get out of bed every morning even when things look like they’re going to fall apart. My friend Nicole McKinney continues to remind me to #KeepMoving and never to look back.</p>
<p>Today, my workplace is the dining room table. I’ve decided that I don’t want to carve any office space in the house for myself. I want to  greet my kids before they leave and when they return from school. My children are now older. Maddie is 14 and Nate is 11. They don’t need me as much as they used to but I want to be present in their lives. It’s not too late.</p>
<h2>I continue to struggle</h2>
<p>I love the foundation that I’ve created for myself.  We’ve built a business that seems to resonate with what the market needs. The work is challenging but extremely fun. We’ve created some amazing relationships and continue to build strong business cases that prove out our business model.  The bleakness of the previous year is starting to bear its fruits and the opportunities are starting to present themselves.</p>
<p>But all this comes at a cost.  It has forced me to focus more of my time on developing these opportunities. My days are spent churning out proposals and reports, client meetings, pitching more business, taking care of bills, meeting with partners.  When dinner’s done, I find myself habitually making my way to my trusted laptop. Sometimes it doesn’t leave me until the early hours of the morning. Where I’ve promised myself to keep my weekends sacred, that is now not the case. My advisor warned me that we are a start-up and what we’re going through is normal. I just have to suck it up. In the same vane, he also advises me that I have to be human.</p>
<p>Through this period, I’m proud to say that I’ve been just as relentless, a hockey mom and parent. It’s still tough, however, to focus when I’m attending a game. While I’m physically present, my mind is not. But I’m trying.</p>
<h2>What is my legacy?</h2>
<p>Sometimes I convince myself that all will be better when we make $X revenue, or when we have budget to hire more people. It’s at that time that I can rest and give more time to my family. But I know that when that time comes, I’ll find other reasons to do more and eventually drown myself in more work.</p>
<p>I’m not going to fight it. For all my faults, I have to acquiesce to the path I built for myself.</p>
<blockquote><p>My daughter asked me the other day me what would be a good job to have when she grew up. This is the advice I offered, “Do what you love to do not because of money, but because it it makes you smile. Do not stay in a job because it’s safe. Move towards jobs that challenge you. And never ever stop learning.”</p>
<p>I am in no way perfect. And I don’t think I want to put in the effort to be. I can be conscious of my own limitations and do what I can do to ensure I keep on course. My family is my priority. Enough said.</p></blockquote>
<p>As a mom, I’ll continue to fight to make sure I become a significant force in my kids’ lives. But I also want to make sure that my existence was worth something while I was here. I love this quote that was sent to me by my friend Bilal Jaffery:</p>
<blockquote><p>Your time is limited so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow truly know what you want to become. Everything else is secondary. -Steve Jobs</p></blockquote>
<p><small>This was originally posted on <a href="http://www.steamfeed.com/start-mom-introspection/">Steamfeed.com</a></p>
<p>photo credit: <a href="https://www.flickr.com/photos/lightfalling/2261753548/">~PhotograTree~</a> via <a href="http://photopin.com/">photopin cc</a></small></p>
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		<title>The BEST Morning Shake via @RyanPannell</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2014 14:45:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Every since my dear friend, Ryan sent me this recipe, I was hooked. It may sound cliche but healthy can taste really good. Another friend of mine calls this my morning green goo! Little does he know how very very good it is for you. So, I used to drink this every morning 7 days [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Every since my dear friend, Ryan sent me this recipe, I was hooked. It may sound cliche but healthy can taste really good. Another friend of mine calls this my morning green goo! Little does he know how very very good it is for you.</p>
<p>So, I used to drink this every morning 7 days a week. Ryan&#8217;s told me that it&#8217;s best to use the kale in moderation: 3-4 days is optimal.</p>
<p>1 apple<br />
1 pear<br />
½ cucumber<br />
1 stalk celery<br />
1 2&#8243; chunk of ginger<br />
1 carrot<br />
½ pineapple<br />
Big handful of kale<br />
Big handful of spinach<br />
1 peeled lime<br />
1 avocado</p>
<p>Juice everything except the avocado (and spinach, if you have a Vitamix) and put in a blender. Add avocado and spinach (if you didn&#8217;t juice the spinach) and 5 ice cubes. Blend until smooth. Serves 2 adults and 2 kids. Tastes like pineapple lime juice in case the ingredient list looks scary! It&#8217;s delicious, even if you hate veggies. </p>
<p>We add ½ cup hemp seeds, 8 tsp of Nu-Greens spirulina (but don&#8217;t try that right away &#8211; it takes a while to get used to that taste).</p>
<p>Cheers! and thanks Ryan!</p>
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		<title>SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT: ArCompany and InNetwork Announce Strategic Partnership</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jul 2013 13:55:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I am so excited today. As we start moving in this social intelligence space, we&#8217;ve built some pretty amazing relationships along the way, including this one with Innetwork Inc. You can also see this at the ArCompany Blog. ArCompany and InNetwork Inc. Announce Strategic Partnership, Combine Social Media Intelligence with Influence Marketing July 15, 2013&#160;&#8211;&#160;Influence [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so excited today. As we start moving in this social intelligence space, we&#8217;ve built some pretty amazing relationships along the way, including this one with Innetwork Inc. You can also see this at the <a href="http://arcompany.co/special-announcement-arcompany-and-innetwork-announce-strategic-partnership/">ArCompany Blog</a>.</p>
<h2>ArCompany and InNetwork Inc. Announce Strategic Partnership, Combine Social Media Intelligence with Influence Marketing</h2>
<p>July 15, 2013&nbsp;&#8211;&nbsp;Influence marketing will be an integral part of the marketing suite for most organizations over the next 18 months, according to&nbsp;<a href="http://influencemarketingbook.com/survey/" target="_blank">a recent study of more than 1,300 brand managers, agencies and PR professionals</a>. However, many businesses lack the resources and expertise to extract real business data from influence marketing campaigns. Announced today, a new strategic partnership between ArCompany and InNetwork Inc. will close that gap.</p>
<p>ArCompany is a thought leader in social media who provides strategic services to leading enterprises with an emphasis on social media intelligence, analytics and ROI.&nbsp; InNetwork Inc. is a cloud-based solution that enables brands and agencies to identify and connect with individually vetted influencers for marketing campaigns, share of voice promotions and product launches.</p>
<p>“Today’s announcement is a natural expansion of the services we provide,” says ArCompany CEO Hessie Jones. “We identify and recommend best-of-breed solutions to best meet our client’s needs based on deliverables and success metrics. InNetwork’s methodology of providing authority-driven influence fits well with that approach.”</p>
<p>In addition to using InNetwork’s solution for client campaigns, ArCompany will help shape the solution for today’s organizational needs.&nbsp; “One obvious synergy would be delivering deeper business data highlighting real business return and which influencers provided true value for the brand, as well as strategic pre-campaign goal-setting,” adds Craig Rennick, COO of InNetwork Inc. “ArCompany’s experience in this field will enhance the InNetwork solution and deliver a comprehensive offering for our clients.”</p>
<p>ArCompany’s leadership team includes Danny Brown, a highly respected social media and marketing thought leader, and co-author of the best-selling book&nbsp;<a href="http://influencemarketingbook.com/"><i>Influence Marketing</i></a>.&nbsp; “The conversation around influence marketing has matured, and moved from impressions and reach to lead generation, customer acquisition and consumer loyalty,” states Brown. “The partnership between ArCompany and InNetwork will enable brands to successfully utilize this growing business segment to drive actionable insights that deliver real ROI and long-term success.”</p>
<p><b>About ArCompany:</b><br />
With offices across Canada and the U.S., ArCompany provides data-driven strategies to help organizations turn social media intelligence into business results. Using analysis and insights from best of breed technologies, they enable their clients to leverage the changing business landscape and be drivers of change within their industries.</p>
<p><b>About InNetwork Inc.:</b><br />
Based in Nova Scotia, Canada, InNetwork Inc. is a cloud-based influence-marketing tool that enables brands and agencies to run highly targeted outreach campaigns. Their human algorithm that vets influencers for authority combined with influencer and audience verified data allows marketers to select and connect directly with the best influencers for their campaign.&nbsp; This, combined with their on-platform workflow and post-campaign reporting, gives marketers a comprehensive solution to run successful influencer outreach campaigns.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><b>Contact:</b></span></p>
<p><strong>Hessie Jones, CEO, ArCompany</strong><br />
<a href="mailto:h.jones@arcompany.co" target="_blank">h.jones@arcompany.co<br />
</a><a href="http://www.arcompany.co/" target="_blank">www.arcompany.co<br />
</a>1.647.999.2348</p>
<p><strong>Craig Rennick, COO, InNetwork Inc.</strong><br />
<a href="mailto:craig@innetwork.net" target="_blank">craig@innetwork.net<br />
</a><a href="http://www.innetwork.net/" target="_blank">www.innetwork.net<br />
</a>1.416.904.8359</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Apr 2013 03:49:18 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I was going about my day when I saw my friend Lindsay Bell post a note on Facebook about an explosion at the Boston Marathon. From the time it took to read that post to the time my kids came home from school 20 minutes later, thousands of posts both on Twitter and Facebook were [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was going about my day when I saw my friend <a href="https://twitter.com/belllindsay">Lindsay Bell</a> post a note on Facebook about an explosion at the Boston Marathon.</p>
<p>From the time it took to read that post to the time my kids came home from school 20 minutes later, thousands of posts both on Twitter and Facebook were shared: drawing attention to the details of the events. It was a whirlwind and yet it seemed to pass by like a dream in slow motion.</p>
<p>When my kids arrived home, I turned their attention to the television set and told them what had happened. The events had taken an even sadder note when we found out this race was in special commemoration for the Sandy Hook victims and their families. It seemed too surreal to imagine that something like this could happen again.</p>
<p>After 9/11, I, like many other families dove head-first and embraced family. It was a time to focus on the hear-and-now and ONLY make time for those things that were important. Hence, my son, Nathan was born in June of 2002. He would always be a reminder of how life should be lived.</p>
<h2>I feel guilty most days&#8230;</h2>
<p>I know I sometimes (ok, most times) treat my family unfairly. I know I have a temper that must be tempered. I know I should be more patient. I know I should call my parents more often. I know that I should spend more time with my Lola, whose time on this earth is limited. I know I should stop putting unrealistic expectations upon others. I know I should stop judging. I know I am NOT always right. </p>
<h2>But I do know I have to be better&#8230;</h2>
<p>I hug my kids everyday and telling them that I love them. I appreciate Shawn, my love, who has shown me more generosity and compassion and love than anyone deserves. I appreciate my parents who, still new to Canada, struggled to raise 4 kids and gave up so much so we could have what they couldn&#8217;t. I never told them Thank You. I still have lots to do to repair a lot of my past mistakes. But I&#8217;m relentless and I&#8217;m going try. </p>
<p>I collected some of these life lessons along the way and regretfully I have not properly recorded their origins:</p>
<h2>&#8230;Have no regrets&#8230;Laugh like you&#8217;ve never laughed before&#8230;Dance like no-ones watching&#8230;</h2>
<p>Tonight, I went to Tumblr to look for inspiration. I found some pretty profound stuff–many from the young&#8217;uns who have experienced more hurt, and have openly shared their souls online. Thank you for making me cry tonight. And thank you for making me appreciate what I have:)</p>
<p>Here are some of those amazing posts:</p>
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<p>There are no words for what happened today. There&#8217;s no point in speculation. It&#8217;s just another life lesson we need to learn. #PrayersforBoston</p>
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		<title>Memories of #SXSWi 2013</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Hessie Jones]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Mar 2013 22:53:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[For all the hoopla about #SXSW I can say the following: I&#8217;ve never seen such a dysfunctional transportation system in my life. Cabs not being available for hours on end was really frustrating! The weather was somewhat fickle. It didn&#8217;t know whether it wanted to be nearing summer or receding to dark, dreary winter. On [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For all the hoopla about #SXSW I can say the following:</p>
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<li>I&#8217;ve never seen such a dysfunctional transportation system in my life. Cabs not being available for hours on end was really frustrating!</li>
<li>The weather was somewhat fickle. It didn&#8217;t know whether it wanted to be nearing summer or receding to dark, dreary winter.</li>
<li>On that note, the torrential downpour Saturday night, coupled with the lack of transportation did not, in the least, keep me amused.</li>
<li>Seeing Twitter and Facebook friends FINALLY IRL was amazing! The connection was the same regardless!</li>
<li>You consistently ran into familiar faces despite the multitude of parties, locations and meetings.</li>
<li>Wifi was everywhere but not necessarily accessible. Except for the convention centre, the hotels and even Starbucks didn&#8217;t allow for consistent connections.</li>
<li>Electrical sockets were few and far between. I felt like a homeless person squatting at the Hilton desperate to find any available electricity to juice my devices.</li>
<li>Food was abundant. See pics below. You could easily gain 10 pounds just by looking at the food.</li>
<li>Canadians were everywhere! It was great that we &#8220;represented&#8221;. I&#8217;m so proud of Rogers for consistently creating an environment for Canucks to hang out!</li>
<li>I finally got to meet some amazing people I look up to including Jure Klepic, Jeremiah Owyang and Michael Brito face to face, and have a bit of conversation! That made my day!</li>
<li>Talking with people who &#8220;speak the same language&#8221; was pretty awesome.</li>
<li>Innovation and ideas were everywhere. Disruptive technology was definitely present.</li>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Mar 2013 23:41:09 +0000</pubDate>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is how I felt this past Friday night! The reason I chose the pic? <a href="http://www.apple.com/support/">Apple</a> and it&#8217;s amazing customer service team. <a title="Happy Apple by n.gottier, on Flickr" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/taste-bittersweet/1216889755/"><img alt="Happy Apple" src="https://i0.wp.com/farm2.staticflickr.com/1433/1216889755_8402620680_z.jpg" width="640" height="480" /></a>.</p>
<p>It all started last Wednesday when I contacted by my Financial Advisor, for the second time in a few days, wondering why he hadn&#8217;t returned my emails. He indicated that he didn&#8217;t realize I emailed me. In fact, when he looked back in his email box, he noticed mine was flagged as potential SPAM. Considering I&#8217;ve emailed him before with no issues, he strongly urged me to change my password just in case my account was compromised. So I did just: I changed my gmail password and made accompanying changes on all my email clients as well as my iPhone.</p>
<h2>I never realized this was a nightmare just beginning!</h2>
<p>Once I made the changes, I received an error indicating the &#8220;gmail IMAP server was unresponsive&#8221;, and asked me to verify my settings. This was happening on my Mac Mail and my iPhone. Gmail itself was fine. For most people, not being able to receive or send email is a huge impediment especially to the day-to-day business grind. Various personal and company domains were redirecting to my gmail account. I had to get this fixed.</p>
<p>So for three days straight I referenced forums because Google itself has NO customer service I could call. Google&#8217;s <a href="http://support.google.com/mail/?hl=en">help pages</a> and forums clearly indicated IMAP server was a known issue but the solutions they offered did not help. I tried implementing various recommendations from the forums but nothing seemed to take. I was getting seriously frustrated.</p>
<p>Ironically, I read Danny Brown&#8217;s blog last Friday: <a href="http://dannybrown.me/2013/02/28/long-tail-brand-loyalty/">On Fostering the Long Tail Effect of True Brand Loyalty</a> where he spoke about <a href="http://www.livefyre.com/">Livefyre</a> and their ability to help him despite the fact he was using a competing comments product:</p>
<blockquote><p>The really impressive thing? I’m not even a paying customer – Livefyre Comments is free, although it does offer premium features for businesses and media properties.</p></blockquote>
<p>It got me thinking: perhaps <a href="http://www.apple.com/">Apple</a> could help me. I had recently purchased a MacBook so perhaps my support warranty would work. When I spoke to the Support Rep, Jason we spent about 20 minutes going through the same exercise I had implemented in the previous few days. He came back and indicated that the issue was clearly the Gmail IMAP server but said he could probably help. He reviewed my settings, and we made adjustments to the ports, stopped my two-way verification, and he made recommendations on some settings that may have been responsible for hindering the emails from transmitting.</p>
<h2>And Hallelujah! It worked!</h2>
<p>When I started seeing the emails coming on my MacMail, I smiled. I immediately asked him to help me with my iPhone and within a few minutes emails started coming into my iPhone mail client as well!</p>
<p>Funny thing: Jason (I wish I knew his name) could have washed his hands from my issue once he realized it had not originated from Apple&#8217;s products, but he didn&#8217;t. He joked that Google should actually hire him considering he&#8217;s run into this issue with many Apple clients.</p>
<p>For the first time in 3 days I finally felt like my problems had been washed away. Apple did that for me. I felt incredibly relieved that I didn&#8217;t have to spend another second dealing with this issue.</p>
<h2>Google, I have this message for you: You need to invest in making sure people are happy with your products</h2>
<p>Troubleshooting forums may be ok for people who are technically oriented. Unfortunately, the rest of us feel like we&#8217;re spinning our wheels. I resent the fact that I was not able to successfully reference your support forums, or help pages to get resolution. From the forums I&#8217;ve read, I&#8217;m not the only one who is frustrated by your &#8220;form&#8221; of support.</p>
<p>Google, you need to change your ways quickly. Apple takes the lead in providing the best customer service ever: from their Genius bar to their email and  telephone support. They provide immediate accessibility, effective follow-up and efficient resolution.</p>
<p>Take notes, Google!! You may be big but you are still vulnerable.</p>
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