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2015-05-31T20:03:00.001+08:00

Dear blog,

I am sorry to keep you away from me.

Unfortunately I was so busy with my study and my workload.

At the same time I was busy with my personal problem also.

Well that is life.

Nothing is easy to survive in real life.

Job Counter Offer - Berbaloi ke?

2014-08-17T12:15:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Masih dalam mood hari raya. Jadi rasanya belum terlambat lagi aku ucapkan;

SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI 1435H

Kepada ahli keluarga, sahabat handai, rakan taulan, saudara mara dan sesiapa yang mengenali diri ini, aku mohon maaf sekiranya ada percakapan, perbuatan atau penulisan yang boleh menimbulkan marah, rasa tak selesa dan terasa hati di kalangan kalian. Sesungguhnya yang buruk itu datang dari aku sendiri, akan tetapi yang benar-benar baik itu datang dari Allah.

Perenggan di atas hanya pembuka, walhal entry kali ni berkaitan dengan tajuk di atas. Pada mereka yang bergelar atau pernah bergelar pekerja mesti tau apa maksud 'job counter offer.'

Tak paham jugak? Ok senang cite job counter offer ni adalah peluang yang current employer boleh offer sekiranya korang nak nak tinggalkan current company. Peluang tu boleh datang dalam bentuk salary increment, higher position in company, or reduction of current workload.

In what circumstances pulak pekerja ni boleh di counter offer?

Below is the reason (based on my experience);
1. You are an experience worker.
2. You are key person for that particular task.
3. Company do not have enough worker. Nak hire new manpower consume time.
4. Company policy.
5. Bos sayang bangat! (sebab bos tak tau buat keje kite tu. Hihihi)

Anyway, ada jugak reason lain kenapa seseorang itu di counter offer. But the question is do you accept the offer?

I think it depends on individual assessment. There is no rule of thumb about counter offer dalam dunia orang makan gaji ni. For some reasons, people will accept the offer based on their thought and how the bosses can convince you about staying in the current company. If the current company can offer you better than the future company, then it should be worth it to accept the counter offer.

But ada jugak people yang consider about working environment. What if the future company has worst working environment compare to the current company? Ye la, nak kene carik kawan baru, nak kene suit with new terms and condition, pastu nak carik chemistry dengan bos baru. At the same time nak buat keje baru. So something that need time to develop. Bila difikirkan the challenges to be faced, so better accept the counter offer.

There are two majors re-consideration that people might think when come about counter offer. Again, your decision is giving the counter offer either worth it or not.

Tepuk dada, tanya minda. Dan tanya selera jugak.

Dove Chocolate : Now I can resume to eat them!

2014-05-27T22:12:00.000+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Rentetan dari cerita dua minggu lepas.

Lepas duk melilau cari orang yang boleh menjawab complaint aku, akhirnya Marketing Manager of Mars Malaysia telah menjawab email aku. After she emailed me, immediately aku buat non conformity report, ala-ala NCR gitu. (Poyo tak?? Huhuhu) dan sent to her. Luckily she understand my problem and promised me to give compensation for the damage I had. But the thing I respect Mars was she immediately apologize to me because of the finding. Tak macam Cadbury yang sombong tak mau mintak maaf tu.

From our conversation, as their immediate action, Mars Malaysia checked available stock at Econsave Batu Berendam. Macam product recall la kot. At the same time, dia akan check all the raw materials in their stock and also the chocolate at their premises. Pastu die mintak aku return balik coklat yang ade worms tu untuk dieorang buat analysis.

Of course dalam complaint aku tu aku mintak ganti rugi, even beli satu bar je pun. But I don't expect they gave a dozen of Dove chocolate in return. Yummy! Dapatlah stock coklat seminggu. Hehehe.

Sorry it was supposed to be 12 bars in a box, tapi aku dah buat pengagihan pada kawan-kawan di opis. Tinggal cuma 3 aje. Hehehe

Ni betul fresh batch die bagi aku. Expired sampai hujung tahun. Nah!

Checked! No pig DNA in this chocolate.

Aku dah distribute more than half the Dove chocolate to my colleagues. Alhamdulillah they like it! Suka tengok memasing happy makan Dove chocolate. I recommend them to eat this chocolate since I doubt Cadbury chocolate.

I am going to eat this chocolate tonight. Hehehe.

Dove Chocolate : Do You Dare to Eat This?

2014-05-18T21:18:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Aku memang hantu coklat. Whatever chocolate based food or drink aku mesti makan or minum. So boleh dikatakan aku memang ade stock coklat dalam refrigerator rumah aku. Sebab I am living with chocolate.

So last Friday (16/05/2014), aku singgah Econsave Batu Berendam sebab nak beli makanan kucing pastu teringat pulak stock coklat kat rumah dah nak habis. So aku just grabbed coklat M&M dan jugak Dove then gi la bayar.

Tibe rumah, aku makan dulu coklat M&M and simpan coklat Dove dalam refrigerator, dengan harapan nak makan la bila coklat M&M dah habis nanti. Then petang tadi (18/05/2014), lepas tolong mak aku kemas pokok bunga, aku pun ingat nak layan la makan coklat kan.

Tapi bila dah bukak wrapper coklat tu, ni pulak yang aku jumpa,

Ade perisa tambahah. WORMS!

Yup. It's WORMS with SPIDER WEB

SPIDER WEB as a new wrapper

Almost to the expiry date, but not expired yet

Aku cuba mencari contact details of Mars Food Malaysia Sdn Bhd tapi semuanye mengarah kepada Mars Global. So aku dah try contact Mars by asking them to get proper personnel so that I can channel this complaint accordingly.

With regards this complaint, aku ade kemusykilan, di mana:

How did they define expiry date of the product?

For this particular batch, how did they produce this chocolate?

How about they raw material used to produce this chocolate? Are the materials are processed accordingly?

How this can escape their inspection gate?

How can be spider web in the chocolate wrapper with the worms on it?

and on the top of all questions:

HOW DID THEY ENSURE THIS WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN?

p/s: Tak sangka aku terpilih masuk Fear Factor. Tapi di manakah Aaron Aziz?

Aku Takde Life?

2014-05-05T19:23:00.003+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Hari yang suam untuk aku. Kene migrain attack pagi tadi. Dah lame tak kena. Tetibe terkena pulak pagi tadi. Badan dah tua, antibodi tak cukup kuat. Tu yang mudah kena penyakit. Adeh.

Yesterday, I had a chit chat with my old friend. Good to have chat with her, considering I never meet her for ages. So just talked about us, the family and the working as well. Until la satu topic yang aku memang tak bape gemau nak ajak borak iaitu topic,

"BILA KO NAK KAHWIN?"

So macam biasa ~~dengan poyonye~~ aku jawab la soalan die tu sebab respect kawan punya pasal kan. Layankan je la. Then bila dah layan tu ade pulak penambahan soalan-soalan die seperti;

"Tak teringin ke nak ade family sendiri?"

"Tak takut dah tua nanti takde orang jaga?"

"Asyik keje je, takde life ko ni. Bile last pegi tengok wayang?"

At the beginning it was very irritating, tapi aku mengambil langkah untuk berpikiran positif. Ape jua soalan yang die tanye aku tak bape nak jawab sangat sebab pada aku tak penting pada die untuk menyibuk even aku tau die amik berat (just want to be positive). Cuma bile die judge aku cakap aku takde life, aku rase agak marah jugak la. Sebab die pun bukan contact aku sangat, suddenly cakap aku takde life.

Memang skang ni aku jarang nak update kat fesbuk aku pegi mane sebab pada aku benda tu tak penting pun. Once in a while kadang - kadang aku check in jugak la tapi not everytime and everywhere. So jangan lah anggap aku ni anti sosial kalau aku tak bape nak gunakan fesbuk tu.

Kesimpulan, ramai sangat orang bergantung pada social network skang ni ye. Sungguh tak sihat keadaan ni. Sape sebenarnya yang anti social? Mereka yang terlalu bengantung kepada social network or orang yang tak bape nak rajin update status kat social network?

Instagram wall aku.

Oh ya, skang ni pun aku jarang berselfie. Baik amik gambau kucing aku. Heheheh

16 April - Happy Birthday To Me!

2014-04-16T21:22:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Another year come, meaning that the increment of the age. I am getting older. Phew! Something that I really need to think seriously as the achievement I made so far in my life is still questionable.

I am become 33 years old today, exactly on 11.30 pm. The age is increasing so did my maturity. And at the same time I really hope that I can achieve more than that even one of my best friend mentioned that I am quite successful right now. Well not really because I am not meet my Mr. Right yet. (Yeah it is quite disappointed.)

I do not receive any birthday gift, ~~considering I am old already~~. Hehehe. But all the wishes are really makes me happy. My facebook wall is full with wishes from my friends, relatives and sisters. And from all the wishes, there was one wish from someone, and I was quite shocked because I don't expect him to remember my birth date.

My "musuh ketat". Hahaha.. But he is really gentleman. Even though we had argument but he was very supportive.

And another guy that suprised me will be my ex-fiancee. He was the one who wish me early in the morning. Well something I do not expect because I thought he already forgot everything about me. Thanks a lot for the wish!

And of course, the wishes that always makes me happy, but at the same time feel very sad is of course from my Mak. I know she worry about me and really concern me even I am old already! That's the love of a mother

This wishes makes my tears fall down.

Again thanks a lot for the wishes. All the doa for the health, wealth and marriage will be appreciated. And I know I still surrounded by the people who care about me.

Thanks a lot!

Oh ya, Google.com also wishing me a birthday! :)

"Macam anak sultan pulak."

2014-02-25T21:13:00.000+08:00

Assalam blogger / readers,

Rase macam dah lame tak online. Hehehe ayat poyo. Padahal ~~hari - hari~~ online kat fesbuk nengok update kengkawan. Tapi kat social site lain aku agak slow ckit cuma kebetulan tadi macam terajin ckit nak pegi tengok kat tagged.

Punya la banyak message dalam inbox. Ramai nak berkenalan, ~~almakluma femes gitu. Eiiyeww~~. Dan ade jugak duk promote barang segala bagai. So sempat la jugak reply message - message itu kan.

Akan tetapi setelah mereply message - message tu tetibe ade pulak sorang hamba Allah ni yang niatnye nak jual barang telah reply gak dengan ayat sentap gitu.

Sila lah tengok ape die reply.

Sy x pakse wk untuk gogle wk ingat wk spe mcm ank sultan plk

Ok die sentap. Maybe sebab ayat aku agak kasar mase mereply message die tu. Sebab ape aku main kasar?

Aku tak bape paham ape yang die cite. Takde proper introduction. Pastu guna bahasa shortform which aku rase tak proper untuk pompuan umo cam die tu.

Die nak sound aku? Aku sound die balik.

Ingat aku cikai sangat ke???

Post mortem of Myself in 2013

2014-01-14T22:23:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Entry tertinggal untuk tahun baru 2014.

Tertinggal disebabkan kekangan kerja dan exam. Alhamdulillah exam dah abis so ade mase dan ruang untuk bernafas.

Tiap tahun aku mesti buat overview pasal diri aku, ape yang berlaku sepanjang tahun 2013. Well here we go with the summary;

Kerja.
It was quite tough especially at the end of the year. I started became meroyan since the people I annoyed most kept bothering me and overwrite my decision, which was I felt it was not very professional. Eventhough he was the one makes my head felt dizzy he also the one who really took care of my health. Well I can say there is a good heart inside even he was not professional. Huhuhu

Relationship.
Alhamdulillah, I was still surrounded by my friends who really loves me. Thank you for that. Love relationship? I am still playing puzzle. Hehehe.

Study.
This was tough too. Semester 2 was quite worst. Assignment melambak-lambak. Then I failed to finish the answer of one question in one of exam. Nape cepat sangat mase berlalu time exam tu? Arghh!! Tekanan betul!

Family.
Alhamdulillah. Semua sihat dan gumbira. Masih tiada penambahan ahli keluarga.

What I hope in 2014;
1. Get myself promoted; or get a new job with a very good salary (I am working on it!)
2. Make a new friend. (Try to find less annoying friend)
3. Solve puzzle in my love relationship. (Ayat tak boleh blah!)
4. Try to please my supervisor for my Master Project. (Well he is Dean ok! Other lecturers start to psycho me. Adoi!)
5. Add new family member, perhaps?

That is a list that I can see will be happened throughout 2014. But I only can plan, the execution is only depend on Him.

May Allah ease my journey for 2014.

Adakah sudah terlewat nak wish Happy New Year?

Ahh! Forget about it!

Malaysia : From Foreigners Point of View

2013-12-22T21:52:00.002+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Aku terpanggil nak buat entry ni sebab aku tengok banyak sangat dalam facebook duk kutuk - kutuk Malaysia ni. Yang kutuk kerajaan tu memang dah banyak sangat lah. Yang kutuk barang buatan malaysia pun ramai gak. Yang mengeluh Malaysia ni teruk pun ade gak. Yang peliknya si tukang kutuk ni adalah anak Malaysia sendiri. Yang dilahirkan dan dibesarkan di Malaysia. Yang mendapat pendidikan percuma di Malaysia. Yang mendapat kemudahan di Malysia. Yang mendapat peluang pekerjaan di Malaysia. Which mean they never see Malaysia from the positive side.

Fine. I know they are frustrated because lately so many increment in utilities bills, toll fare even the food price are getting higher too. Yup aku pun frust jugak sebab gaji dah la tak naik, BR1M tak dapat then kena pulak kos hidup yang makin meningkat. Pendek kata aku 'miskin' di negara sendiri. Tapi tu bukan lah reason untuk aku memburukkan Malaysia atau pun nak menggulingkan kerajaan. That's all nonsense.

So this entry aku nak share kepada anak - anak Malaysia (yang selalu pandang negatif pasal Malaysia) ape sebenarnya orang - orang luar pikir pasal Malaysia. Aku ade peluang berbual dengan foreigner and to be honest it is good to get an opinion from outsiders. Lagipun they are open minded type.

I am working in company which engaging with oversea customer. I am a focal point of my company for technical and engineering side. I can say everyday I am contacted by them (they are located in Belgium, as an aerospace company too) via email, phone even face to face as lately they are often came to my office.

Sometimes I really like to chat with them (out of work topic) about their country, about their working experiences, even about their families. And in return they also like to ask me about the same thing. But what I like to ask them the most is, "what do you think about Malaysia?"

Here is their answer;

1. People
Malaysia people are very nice and warm. They like to smile every time. And they are very helpful too. We are feel welcomed here.

2. Weather / Environment
We like the weather here, warm but we do not prefer come here when there is a raining season. (They do not like high humidity). The air is more easier to breathe, compare to other countries. (but they are not referring to European)

3. Food.
Like they variety of food. The most easiest place to find the all food in one. But do not prefer hot and spicy dishes (major dishes) but still can find food less spicy.

4. "Made In Malaysia"
Proton car had made their name around Europe especially U.K. Impress with Malaysian capability to produce car with Malaysia brand. (Even though it is not 100% Malaysian workforce). Impress for second time when they know Malaysia have second car company (Perodua). They said the car is very nice in design and comfortable too (I was taking them in a ride with my Myvi Elegance).

5. Women in professional career
They are very surprised with the number of working women in professional field. For an example engineer (like me), they claimed not many women working as an engineer, even at their work place. Around 200 engineer, only 1 woman can spotted in the group. The only women at the office are doing administrative work (I guess it would be a clerk or something like that).

Source : my picture file

** All picture taken from google image unless stated otherwise.

Most of the above factors, I really like when they said, "hey you should proud of Proton. They are every where in London. Your prime minister is doing a great job." I guess the prime minister here referring to Tun Mahathir as they still cannot recall Dato Seri Najib Razak. (Sian...)

But there are some other things they made comment about Malaysia, such as;

"Why the stewardess of Malaysia Airlines do not wear hair cover (hijab)? Malaysia is Islamic country is it?"

"I can notice Malaysian drivers had problem on road ethic. I think the government should do something to teach the drivers. Otherwise you can't reduce your road accident rate."

"Malaysian really like sweets right?" You should reduce sweet in your food."

So there are their opinion about Malaysia. Tak semua dieorang cerita tu indah belaka, tapi mostly true. Tapi the utmost reason why they can do their business here is the political stabilization. Even though labor rate Malaysia is quite high compared to Indonesia and Thailand, but they willing to pay a little bit higher because they cannot bear the cost of lost if the country is in ciaos and unstable condition.

So Malaysians, please please please make sure our condition is stable and don't do stupid thing by comparing Malaysia to other countries. We are Malaysian and that is who we are. Kalau tak kite yang mempertahankan negara, then who did? Takkan nak mengharapkan jiran sebelah?

Selalu memang kite nampak rumah orang lagi cantik dari rumah kite, tapi kite tak tau ape keadaan dalam rumah tu melainkan kite melangkah masuk ke dalam rumah tu.

So daripada duk bising - bising rumah kite tak cantik, why not kita buat sesuatu untuk mencantikkannya?

Sakit dan sakit.

2013-12-13T23:34:00.002+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Bertimbun assignment depan aku. Tapi masih slow bergerak. Tak tau napa. Mungkin dah nak tibe dateline baru leh siap kot. Biase la aku kan bekerja di bawah tekanan. Hohoho.

Keje pon bertimbun gak. Ntah kenapa sekarang banyak pulak issue kat project aku nih. ~~Die pun dah tawar hati cam aku agaknye~~. Ngeh!

Semalam nasib baik tak pengsan. Mana taknya tetibe rase dunia aku berpusing jap. Berdiri tak stabil. Risau jugak kalau kene low blood pressure. Gi check up kat Klinik Al Azhim, memang betul tekaan aku. Aku memula tak nak amik MC sebab terpikir banyak lagi keje nak kene siapkan, tapi doktor 'ugut' aku pulak. Boleh gitu? Huhuhu..

Sudahnya aku tido sepanjang hari. Bangun tido macam dah ok. Bukak laptop dengan niat nak buat assignment. Tapi pening datang lagi bile nak kene pikir nape aku tak leh jawapan yang betul. Argghh!! Tekanan betul. Nasib baik ade orang call ~~maybe sebab instinct die leh detect aku tak bape sihat kot,~~ Eceh! Ingat nak mengadu gak tapi ending ade argument lak. Nasib baik tak datang pening aku. Maybe sebab aku dah setkan assignment aku yang highest priority, instead of him. Eh, kalau die bace ni die kecik ati tak? Huhuhu.

First time I had experience low blood pressure effect. Sebelum ni kene high blood pressure tak bape teruk sangat effect die. Aishh dah macam-macam penyakit aku ni. Oh ya, aku pun bukan lah muda sangat ye. Uhuk!

The cutest moment when I saw a cat yawn. Comel gile!

Just a thought

2013-11-28T20:55:00.002+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Wow! It's good to be back in my blog. Eventhough I know nobody waiting update of myself thru my blog, but still writing is the best method to express my feeling.

For now, I am not in the good condition, considering negative aura is shadowing the positive. But I have to make myself strong so that I can survive. Who else can help if not myself?

Last week I felt a bit emotional at my workplace, considering that was my weakest moment. I know I am not perfect but I was trying very hard to accomplish the task and job given. Maybe I am not giving enough, or maybe I am giving too much that people always asking for more?

Or maybe because I am woman I tend to be more sensitive? Well I need to go on eventhough the frustration and the anger overshadowed my judgement. I am paid to do what my superior ask me to do right?

But at the end of the day someone gave me supplement to ensure I am in good condition. Thanks a lot, ~~even you are annoying but~~ you are more caring than other people that should be.

Nahdatul Izah, you are stronger than anyone else. Don't let others put your head down. Allah is always be with you.

p/s: I really really really really need a time off!

Two scenarios, one story

2013-10-23T22:57:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Singgah di sebuah kedai di area Merlimau tadi. Kononnye nak carik simcard baru. Masuk je kedai tu aku nampak ade 2 orang budak perempuan melayu tengah bersuka ria tengok Youtube (agak aku la..) kat laptop. Aku pegi area kat mane dieorang letak starter pack simcard and start looking around. Budak perempuan tu still tengah syok sampai gelak mengilai tengok video kat laptop tu.

Tengok macam aku ni tak di layan, aku panggil budak perempuan tu. Dengan muka ketat tak boleh nak senyum, die jalan slow je ke arah aku dan tanya,

" Ye kak?"

Aku tunjuk satu starter pack and then tanye die ape beza starter pack yg sebelahnye.

" Yang ni yang biasa. Yang ini pulak minimum mesti ade rm40."

Then aku tanye lagi camne dengan call rate, sms rate, internet rate dgn mms setting segala bagai.

" Akak leh tengok kat bawah tu ade tulis call rate dengan internet rate." Dengan muka selamba die jawab camtu pastu takde eye contact dengan aku.

Bile die jawab camtu aku pun dah tawar hati nak tanye lebih-lebih tapi try jugak la tanye berapa harga starter pack,

"RM8.50. Tapi hari ni tak boleh register."

Aku pun tanye kenapa.

"Server problem." Again time die jawab tu die boleh buat muka boring.

Aku rasa time tu jugak aku nak sekolahkan budak tu ~~tapi nanti orang cakap aku ni pemarah pulak~~. So aku pun ucap 'terima kasih' dan terus blah dari situ. Tak dengar pulak budak tu cakap 'sama-sama'.

Kebetulan kat belakang block kedai tu ade jugak kedai yang jual prepaid starter pack. Tapi this time perempuan cina. So aku just nak try usha tengok kalau betul server problem nak register nombor baru.

Time aku masuk je kedai tu, perempuan cina tu senyum dan,

" Yes miss? Ade ape?"

So aku pun pegi kat rak kedai tu yang ade starter pack and asking her the same questions I asked previous shop.

" Ini call rate 20sen untuk sume nombor, sms pun 10sen untuk semua nombor, Internet..... bla.. bla... bla....". Agak lengkap jugak lah die bercerita even bahasa melayu die tak bape fluent tapi aku leh paham.Walaupun ade flyer depan aku dan aku leh baca macam disuruh budak perempuan tadi but still she able to explain it to me.

Pastu aku cakap dengan die aku nak beli starter pack tapi aku dapat tau tak leh register sebab serven problem, tapi die jawab,

" Takpe... kasi IC u nanti I tulis name dengan nombor IC u. Server ok nanti I taip saje maa.. U pun boleh pakai nombor ini cepat."

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Anyway 2 scenarios with one story. Ceritanye nak menunjukkan beza layanan antara perempuan melayu dengan perempuan cina.

Aku sebenarnya tak lah beria sangat nak beli simcard baru tu, tapi bile aku dapat layanan yang buruk dari bangsa aku dan sejantina dengan aku ni, aku rasa tak puas hati. Mentang-mentang lah aku perempuan then ko pun layan acuh tak acuh je. Pastu tak berinisiatif untukbagi solution pada customer. Muka pulak jangan cakap la.. Otot kat mulut ko ade masalah kot sampai nak senyum pun tak boleh. Ingat ko sorang je ke yang penat bekerja? Sebelum tu duk mengilai tengok video kat laptop tak pulak ko penat ye dik??

Aku tak suka nak membandingkan tapi rasa terkilan jugak kalau salesgirl / salesman membezakan layanan pada customer. Aku rasa sangat-sangat tak adil. Memang betul tak semua orang yang masuk dalam kedai akan beli barang tapi at least kena la ade sense of respect dan entertain customer. At the end of the day a customer may leave the shop without buying anything even though the initial objective is to buy something. Kan ke dah rugi tu walaupun harga barang tu cuma 20 sen aja.

So annoying... So irritating

2013-10-08T23:27:00.002+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Kesabaran aku diuji lagi pada hari ni. Kali ni kat tempat kerja. Even though previously I always feel like I am demotivated because I am not given the right to my job but today is more worst!

I am being over right from the outsider (who knows nothing about the project under my in-charge, and most importantly he is not being hired by company I am working now). Suddenly he just walked around my production team, performing an investigation to validate all the information I gave to him and giving instruction to my production team.

Seriously I felt like he was not trusting me and thinking that I am liar. Well Mr Always Know Everything, I think this time I will not spend my time to explain anything to you anymore. It was very annoying that I have to explain one thing for over and over again to you. It was very irritating heard that you asking other people to confirm all information given by me.

We Need Each Other

2013-09-30T22:19:00.002+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Petang tadi singgah Mydin Mall sebab nak beli ~~donut Big Apple dengan~~ barang - barang keperluan. Masa duk belek - belek baju, ade seorang perempuan tegur aku atas sebab yang aku sendiri tak pasti.

Even though at the beginning aku macam confuse kenapa die tegur aku tapi bile berborak dengan die, aku tengok kakak ni memang jenis peramah dan maybe she just wanted to express what she thought about me.

Kenapa aku cakap camtu? Sebabnya mase berborak dengan aku tu die ade cakap,

" Akak memang salute engineer pompuan, lagi lah kalau keje dalam heavy industry. Nak survive dalam bidang keje lelaki memang agak susah. Seronok jugak kalau anak pompuan akak nak jadik engineer. Baru lasak sikit. "

To be honest, first time aku jumpa perempuan berumur yang pemikirannya agak berbeza dengan perempuan lain. Kebanyakan perempuan lain or mak - mak ni tak suke kalau anak perempuan mereka keje berat - berat. Katanye nanti hilang sopan, hilang sifat kewanitaan la, comot la.. But she is different. Bila aku tanye kenapa die suke anak perempuan die lasak,

" Dalam zaman sekarang ni pompuan tak boleh nak bergantung pada lelaki. Memang betul secara fitrah lelaki akan melindungi pompuan, tapi tengok la berita skang ni, macam-macam cerita ngeri akak dengar. At least kalau dia lasak die boleh lindungi diri die sendiri."

She's got the point. Zaman sekarang ni macam-macam leh jadi. Kadang-kadang kite mengharapkan lelaki untuk protect kite but at the end of the day, kite pulak yang kene lari dari die. It's not like I don't like or I am scared of men, cuma rasa berhati-hati tu menebal sikit.

Again, back to fitrah, woman does need a man and so did man does need a woman. But let me rephrase the sentence,

Good woman does need a good man, so did a good man does need a good woman.

" Kami Sedia Membantu".. Bantu la sangat!

2013-09-21T22:38:00.001+08:00

Assalam blogger / readers,

As a tax buyer to my country a.k.a government who manage this country, I think I have the right to express my feeling towards services from government agency. Because at the end of the day, their job is to serve people better.

Almost 3 weeks I do not get the response from them (even they promise to give feedback within 7 working days), I start to insist their reply.

P/s: I guess they need to change their slogan..

Akhirnya terluah!

2013-09-17T20:37:00.001+08:00

Assalam blogger / readers,

Kelaseran mulut aku makin bertambah. Mane taknye disebabkan rasa tak puas hati pada seseorang yang asyik nak taichi keje die aje.

Sebelum ni aku memang rasa tak puas hati sebab most of his task completed by us. (us referring to my team). While keje die cuma compile aje. Even weekly report kiteorg jugak yg kene buat. Dah lah segala brainstorm, data collection, cost calculation dgn final presentation sume kiteorang yg buat, die cuma mintak update itu ini pastu conduct meeting. Best kannn??

Kemuncaknye petang tadi, bile aku terdengar die mintak bos aku buat presentation untuk cost saving activity yang kiteorang penah buat. Tujuannye untuk present ke top management. Walhal presentation slide tu dah bagi kat die tetap die suruh kiteorang gak yang buat. Die bagi alasan nak kenalkan kiteorang pada top management. Bila aku tanya kenapa tak die je yang present,

" aku dah ade presentation aku sendiri. Buat summary pasal saving overall. Korang cuma present ape yang korang penah buat dulu."

Aku bantah dan aku cakap buat ape nak buat benda yang same. Nape dulu time kiteorang present, top management tak datang tengok,

" dulu aku dah jemput tapi dieorang takde mase nak datang."

Habis tu time aku present second time ni confirm ke dieorang ade mase nak tengok?

" itu aku tak tau. Aku nak ko standby je."

Senangnya mengarah aku. Bab nak menjawab depan bos besar pandai pulak ko jadikan aku perisai. Time bos besar puji ko tercongok kat depan.

" aku ni susah sebab nak kene deal dengan bos bos semua."

Ingat aku senang ke? Aku nak kene deal dengan bos, deal dengan production, deal dengan customer, deal dengan supplier pun ade.

" ko cuba lah buat keje aku ni. Aku lagi suka. Aku leh buat keje lain"

Nak cabar aku? Anytime aku leh buat keje ko tu. In fact memang selalu buat pun. Tapi ko boleh ke buat keje aku?

" eh tak boleh la. Aku buat keje kat tempat lain."

Tau pun ko betapa keje aku ni kritikal dan challenging. So ko jangan nak marah aku or cakap aku tak support bila aku cakap aku bz.

As a summary aku mintak die cari team lain yang pernah buat presentation gak (tu pun kalau dieorang nak layan.). Kalau takde yang layan die je la yang kene buat.

Mesti orang cakap aku ni jenis 'jahat' sebab sesuka hati nak sound orang. Pada aku sekali sekala kene jugak bagi peringatan supaya jangan rasa sedap sangat kalau keje tu orang lain siapkan. Masing masing ada keje so siapkan keje masing masing. Stop making trouble for a silly excuse.

Berapa Ramai Lelaki Boleh Jadi Imam

2013-09-16T10:07:00.004+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Sedikit persoalan untuk difikir bersama...

How very true.. Tak habis - habis perempuan mesti pandai masak .. Lelaki macamana??

Macamana nak jadi pemimpin keluarga if tak boleh jadi imam..Kalau kat rumah tak boleh, kat surau or masjid lagi le haru.. silap-silap yg berani pun hanya for Zohor & Asar coz tak dengar suara.. Ni belum kira doa lepas solat yg sempurna, azan dan sebagianya yg sepatutnya on the guys' fingertips..

Here comes our role as concerned Muslim moms to instill comprehensive (bukan basic aje) Islamic knowledge to our kids.. Esok lusa bila Malaikat Izrail cabut nyawa kita, siapa yg akan mandikan mayat & lead solat jenazah?? Our own kids or strangers?? Wallahualam..

Berapa ramai lelaki yang boleh menjadi imam??

Kalau perempuan tidak boleh memasak, dikutuk dan disuruh belajar. Kalau lelaki tak boleh jadi imam kita kata okay saja. Jangan diperbesarkan nanti mereka terasa hati.

"Apalah perempuan, tak pandai masak siapa nak kahwin dengan awak!"

Begitulah kata rakan sejawat lelaki pada seorang anak dara, juga rakan sejawat kami. Maka jawaplah si gadis ayu itu yang dia tidak sempat belajar memasak sebab dari kecil tidak digalakkan keluarga sebaliknya di suruh menumpukan perhatian pada pelajaran saja. Sementelah tinggal di asrama,peluang pulang ke rumah terhad dan tidak sempat turun ke dapur membantu ibunya.

"Habis sekarang kenapa tidak belajar?" Tanya sang lelaki lagi dengan penuh semangat.

"Sedang belajarlah ni tetapi selain sibuk dengan kerjaya saya juga sibuk belajar agama, jadi belajar memasak tetap tidak diutamakan!" Begitu jawab si gadis yang membuatkan lelaki tadi menggeleng-geleng kepala. Baginya tidak sempurna seorang wanita jika tidak tahu memasak.

Wanita sepatutnya buat begitu juga. Syarat utama menjadi suami mesti boleh menjadi imam. Walau ada yang kata, jika itu syaratnya bermakna makin ramai wanita yang hidup bujang seumur hidup.

Lelaki meletakkan kebolehan wanita di dapur sebagai perkara utama dan ungkapan hendak memikat suami, perlu pikat seleranya sering diguna pakai.

Tidak kiralah jika wanita itu berpelajaran atau berjawatan tinggi dan penyumbang utama kewangan dalam rumahtangganya. Sekarang bukan asing lagi gaji isteri lebih tinggi daripada suami. Namun kedudukan suami sebagai raja tidak pernah dilupa walau dia tidak mengambil inisiatif mempelajari ilmu menjadi imam. Ilmu bermain video game di komputer mereka rasa lebih perlu.

Kalau tidak tahu memasak disuruh belajar dan sesudah belajar perlu handal.

Jika handal bukan setakat masak untuk keluarga sendiri, kalau boleh perlu boleh memasak untuk tiga pasukan bola. Begitulah standard yang telah ditetapkan. Bolehkah kita meletakkan undang-undang itu kepada lelaki juga. Kalau tidak pandai jadi imam,belajarlah. Mula-mula jadi imam kepada keluarga sendiri, sudah terror boleh mengimam satu taman perumahan juga.

Sibuk suruh kita handal memasak, mereka tu bolehkah jadi imam? Dengus teman wanita yang lain.

"Betul juga. Berapa kerat lelaki yang menjadikan sembahyang jemaah di rumah bersama anak isteri sebagai agenda utama, selain keperluan memenuhi pelbagai seleranya? Maka bertanyalah wanita kini kepada beberapa lelaki tentang kebolehan yang satu ini.

Ternyata ramai yang menjawap tidak confident menjadi imam sebab takut bacaan al-Fatihah tidak sempurna, salah tajwid atau pun dia merasakan isterinya lebih handal. Ada yang kata lebih elok dia dan isteri sembahyang sendiri-sendiri. Ada juga menjawab, rasa kelakar pula apabila dirinya yang rugged menjadi imam."

Isu ini sepatutnya kita beratkan sepertimana masyarakat memberatkan wanita perlu pandai memasak jika mahu bersuami. Lelaki juga harus boleh menjadi imam supaya kewibawaan mereka sebagai ketua keluarga tidak goyah atau menjadi mangsa queen control. Kalau tidak pandai, belajarlah sekarang.

Jika wanita disuruh belajar, apa salahnya lelaki!

p/s: sumber dari virtualfriends.net

Confuse i...

2013-09-11T21:44:00.000+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Sampai sekarang aku masih mengalami confuse yang agak kritikal disebabkan status aku ni. Well aku masih single dan masih menunggu imam aku yang boleh memimpin aku.

Akan tetapi ada sorang hamba Allah dan jugak kawan aku ni boleh pulak menjadikan aku kayu ukur untuk die mencari pasangan hidup. Pendek kate macam die kene ikut aku.

Memandangkan aku lum kawin lagi so die pun macam tak bape nak heran sebab alasan die "ala izah pun tak kawin lagi, so aku tak payah nak rush"

But then bile aku start berkawan dengan sorang mamat ni, die jadi tak tentu arah. "alamak, izah dah dapat calon. Aku kene cari calon gak. Kalau tak nanti aku tak kawin"

Aipp! Nape leh jadi gitu? Aku pun tak paham. Nape time aku rileks and cool die pun leh jadi tenang? Tapi bile aku start seeing somebody die pun sibuk nak cari, sampaikan die canang ke seluruh pelusuk alam supaya tolong die cari calon suami. Sampaikan die penah ckp "aku tak kisah sape2 pun janji die dah ready nak kawin." Gulp! Sampai camtu sekali?

Until now aku masih tak paham nape die leh jadi camtu.

Tapi yg pasti from my side I am just follow the flow and I don't put any hope.

P/s: is this my imam? *saje bg gambar gitu. Huhu*

Perkampungan Hang Tuah

2013-09-01T21:06:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Korang mesti kenal Hang Tuah kan? Even tak pernah jumpa Hang Tuah tapi mesti lah kenal nama beliau dan cerita beliau.

Hang Tuah harus lah sinonim dengan Melaka. Oleh dengan itu Perbadanan Muzium Melaka telah membuat satu lagi muzium kat area Duyong nun. Muzium untuk orang kenal dan tahu lanjut tentang Hang Tuah and the geng.

Recently opened on 2nd Syawal 1434H, this museum is one of the POI for tourist attraction. Aku sempat lah singgah beraya di muzium ni masepegi beraya area Duyong.

Just a quick info about Muzium Hang Tuah;

1. Nak menuju ke sini boleh guna jalan untuk ke Perigi Hang Tuah.
2. Tiket masuk cuma rm5.00 per person (dewasa), kanak-kanak rm3.00 per person, kanak-kanak bawah 5 tahun free aje.
3. Also known as Perkampungan 5 Pahlawan.
4. Boleh pinjam baju silat untuk bergambar.
5. Yang paling interesting adalah mini wayang yang menceritakan perlawanan antara Hang Tuah dan Hang Jebat. Graphic yang awesone!

Nak tengok yang lain-lain harus pergi sendiri ye.

p/s : Gambar tanpa caption. Harap paham sendiri. Huhuhu

Same dan Serupa

2013-08-27T22:43:00.000+08:00

Assalam blogger / readers,

Mesti ramai antara korang yang minat dan follow drama Melayu. Tak kisah la drama bersiri atau drama satu siri.

Entry ni bukan nak mengutuk drama Melayu tapi aku just nak share pendapat aku tentang trend drama Melayu skang ni. Ape yang aku tengok story line drama Melayu banyak bercerita pasal yang lelaki kahwin dgn pompuan yg die tak suke, pompuan kene kahwin dengan lelaki yg die tak kenal atas sebab permintaan mak yg sakit, or as a summary cite pasal KAHWIN PAKSA.

Which is tak kena dengan situasi muda mudi skang ni. Kebanyakan pasangan yang berkahwin di alam nyata selalunye atas pilihan sendiri.

Tapi kenapa dalam drama semua cite pasal kahwin paksa ni? Yang paling tak boleh blah bile yang isteri tak leh terima suami yg die terpaksa kahwin walopon suaminye hensem giler, kaya giler dan baik giler. Pendek kate suaminye tu ade pakej lengkap lelaki idaman pompuan semalaya (even memang takkan ade lelaki cenggitu), tapi still die boleh reject suami die tu. Tak paham betul aku. Ape masalah pompuan camtu yek?

Yang suami pulak punye lak penyabar tahap tertinggi sanggup tunggu isteri yg tak nak appreciate die. Ni punya lelaki pun aku tak paham.

Pendek kate aku memang tak paham dengan drama yang tak menggambarkan situasi sebenar di alam nyata. Sekali sekala tengok cite camni boleh jugak layan, tapi sekarang ni mostly drama Melayu camtu la story line nye.

Maybe aku salah tapi itu yang aku nampak skang. Producer is too relying on the novel adaptation. For me novel is too realistic and too perfect, but not a mirror of ourselves.

Again this is only my opinion. Kepada yang terasa mohon maaf dipinta. It's not a blaming session, it's more on sharing session.

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri 1434H

2013-08-12T21:54:00.000+08:00

Assalam bloggers / reader,

Rasanye masih belum terlambat nak buat ucapan hari raya melalui entry.

Lambat or tidak aku tetap nak buat entry ni. Huhuhu..

A family of mine with Bonda, Along (with her husband and children) & my youngest sister

SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI 1434H

Maaf Zahir dan Batin

He Knew My Favourite

2013-07-29T19:10:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,
I got a gift from him. Actually the gifts. Hehehehe.

I don't expect to get gifts from him because we just met. And suprisingly he gave me one of my favourite items.

** I think he already skodeng my blog and found I like to collect a perfume **

"Makcik, Saya Masih Melayu"

2013-07-18T22:08:00.000+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Berita kurang baik menimpa aku hari ini. Or aku boleh cakap dugaan untuk aku di bulan Ramadhan ini. Sebagaimana Dayana yang diduga dek Ashraf Muslim yang kawin lain, aku pulak di duga dengan kehilangan purse aku. Adoi aiii!!

Bayangkanlah kalau hilang purse kan? Memacam ade dalam purse itu termasuk lah IC, lesen, kad atm, kad kredit hatta name card aku pun ade dalam tu. Tambah pulak ade cash jugak dalam tu. Nasib baik kad matrik aku takde dalam tu.

Ok entry kali nak cite ape yang berlaku di sebalik kekalutan aku nak menyelesaikan masalah ni. Bile cakap pasal lost atm card, maka wajiblah kene call bank untuk cancel kan card tu so aku akan boleh renew atm card.

Dan sewaktu aku bercakap dengan customer service officer bank tu, tak sangka pulak ade pendengar setia (memandangkan aku call depan bank sebab bank lum bukak lagi time tu). After aku bercakap dengan officer bank, pendengar itu a.k.a seorang makcik tegur aku.

" Melayu ke ni?"

Aku pandang makcik tu sambil buat muka confuse. Tapi aku jawab jugak la sambil angguk.

" Nape tak cakap melayu je tadi?"

Aku confuse lagi dan tanye makcik tu kenapa.

" Ingatkan kamu tak reti cakap melayu, bahasa omputih je makcik dengar."

Aku gelak sambil cakap tu cuma bahasa omputih yang senang aje.

" Tapi jangan sampai lupa kamu tu melayu."

Erkk! Kena sebijik kat aku. Nape pulak makcik ni jaki dengan aku. Tapi oleh sebab urusan IC dan lesen aku adalah lebih penting dari makcik tu makanye aku mintak diri dan terus blah.

Tapi lepas tu terpikir, aku ade buat salah dengan makcik tu ke?

Konpius jap.

When He Propose

2013-07-16T00:14:00.001+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

*entry gedik* hahahahaha

Yang Dirindui

2013-07-14T10:54:00.003+08:00

Assalam bloggers / readers,

Hari ini genap 5 hari anak kucing aku bernama Belle tak balik rumah. Tapi aku suspect dia ni diculik. Sebab for whatever reason dia akan balik rumah dengan adik die dak Uteh.

Tapi aku dah cari die merata, tak jumpa pulak. Panggil die macam nak tercabut anak tekak aku pun die tak datang.

Sedih.

You will be missed Belle!