tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-52377437278614860052024-09-06T20:45:17.102-04:00High Yellow Girl - (adjective) a term used to describe a light complexioned female of African heritage. Mannerism - (noun) a distinct expressive trait, artistic style or idiosyncrasy. HiYelaGurlisms - (noun) the distinct expressive techniques of this particular light complexioned female of African heritage.HiYelaGurlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15900286491082003265noreply@blogger.comBlogger71125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237743727861486005.post-40668330792113386722011-01-05T16:53:00.000-05:002011-01-05T16:53:11.120-05:00

Please visit my new re-designed site at www.HiYelaGurlisms.com!

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According to Access Hollywood, Vivica A. Fox is ready to plunge into marriage again.  Omar “Slimm” White, the 26 year-old Atlanta nightclub promoter that Vivica has been dating for over a year, reportedly popped the question to the 46 year-old actress while celebrating the holidays on South Beach in Miami on December 26. Vivica and Slimm at LeBron's birthday party at the Gansevoort on

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Today's HOTNESS is not actually a person...it is a love scene. Over the holidays I had the pleasure of seeing the movie "Gun" starring Curtis '50 Cent' Jackson. And while I wasn't very impressed with the movie itself...I was VERY impressed with the talented Mr. Jackson's performance in the movie's only love scene. See the clip here:PARENTAL GUIDANCE SUGGESTED! ADULT SITUATIONS! NOT SAFE FOR

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So it looks like Kim K is trying to prove that she is a “sister”. No I don’t mean because she has “black” in her (low blow I know).  Kim Kardashian debuted an extra Afro-centric braided style after hinting on twitter last week that she was going to change her look.  She was seen walking the streets of LA on Thursday (makeup-less) with the “new look”. The cornrows are basically a

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If you are like me you are still recuperating from your New Year’s Eve activities well into the next day. My New Year’ Day consisted of smeared makeup and no energy. I can only imagine what those who drank too heavy had to wake up to: uncertainty and bad decisions. The New Year’s Eve Hangover. ·         I wonder how many relationships were ruined over New

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I know many people are still stuck on Facebook and haven't upgraded their social networking experience to include Twitter, so they missed out on the spectacle that went on yesterday between Chris Brown and former B2K member Raz B. I struggled with whether this was an issue I wanted to address on this blog because I simple can not tolerate and will not instigate buffoonery but since these two

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As the new year approaches, now is a good time to evaluate the people and relationships in your life. I've been told that a person is a combination of their five closest people to them. What does those five people say about you? Are the people you surround yourself with assets or liabilities?One of the closest people in your life is clearly your significant other. Sometimes it is

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Not that I am an expert on love and relationships (I'm single), but I understand that ultimately a man wants a homie, lover, and a friend. Each title is equally important. The following is my idea of what exactly that is... The Homie: The homie portion of the relationship consists of woman that man can feel comfortable being himself around. She understands him. She understands just because they

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If you know ANYTHING about me; you know that I have a serious fascination with Teena Marie, AKA Lady Tee. Please engage in a moment of silence for the LADY herself before enjoying the lyrical stylings of "Deja Vu...I've been here before"... RIP to the best vocalist of our time (in my opinion)....my voice will never be the same! I am truly devastated.

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What I am about to say will go against everything that self-help and relationship books and even the Bible says…but I like my thoughts deeply rooted in reality!   Most people can't let a past love go until they get angry. Really angry! Anger makes you not care what they are doing or who they are seeing. Anger makes you reflect on the time you wasted with that person and how you were mis-led,

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My answer is absolutely! Many people would disagree, but these would probably be the people who can’t handle themselves in a friendship with someone of the opposite sex. This is so unfortunate because having a friend of the opposite sex can be mutually beneficial.   The problem arises when people don’t respect boundaries. Meaning, if you are in a relationship, you have to set rules for

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If you have questions about your honey's fidelity, check the internet! The internet is an invaluable tool for tracking your boo's activities!There’s websites that are dedicated to getting the low down on the cheater in your life like http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com/ and http://www.dontdateherdude.com/. There are discussion boards like http://www.lipstickalley.com/  and http://

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I'm almost ashamed to admit it but Waka Flocka Flame is kinda hot (in a thuggish, dirty fingernail, A&E's First 48, "I'mma need you to take the rap for me", "Officer I ain't even do nothin", marijuana, dark liquor, dirty boy kinda way). I mean if the dreads were a nice faded hair cut, the neck and hand tattoos removed, a good scrubbing, put him in a suit… a lil penicillin, a lil detox,

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This album was released this last Tuesday, December 14th, but I didn’t get my hands on it until yesterday. Why did I wait so long to get this hot album? This might be his best album yet!  “Now or Never” can be the soundtrack to your bedroom home movies. This album can be listened to from start to finish without pause (unless you need a water break). This is the video for the first single “

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Shaunie dropped by the Los Angeles radio show, Big Boy’s Neighborhood Morning Show where she discussed this season of VH1’s “Basketball Wives”: I found it quite interesting when Shaunie said that there are a lot of ladies who have asked to be on the show but the idea is shot down by the boyfriend/husbands. And really I don’t blame these men:1.    What man would want their woman

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So the first single off of Lil Wayne’s first post jail album “Tha Carter 4” is called “6’7” featuring Corey Gunz.  *Parental Guidance Suggested. Adult Language!* Click here to listen! Supposedly, Lil Wayne is sober on this track…Let me know what you think!

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I’m not saying that Rihanna is color struck, but it does appear that she like boys who can pass the old *Paper Bag” test.*Paper Bag Test – Complexion is that of a paper bag or lighter.She has been linked to R&B singers Omarion, Chris Brown, rapper Drake, and baseball  player Matt Kemp who are all of a lighter complexion. Rihanna with Omarion Rihanna with Chris Brown Rihanna with

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I know from firsthand experience what stalking is. A lot of people jokingly call other people stalkers because of their aggressive nature or over zealousness. That's all fun and games. To those being stalked, it’s no laughing matter! Stalking can range from unwanted attention to fear of physical harm. Whatever the degree, those who do the stalking are pitiful and pathetic! I will not go

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Cameron Newton is the 6'6", 250 lb, 21 year old 2010 Heisman Trophy winner from Auburn University. Cam is not the only football player in his family; his dad, Cecil Newton Sr., and older brother, Cecil Newton Jr. have both played in the NFL.   The quarterback’s college football career originally started at the University of Florida but he left following an eligibility scandal and arrest

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From the “Mr. Me Too” files, I present rapper Wiz Khalifa hugged up on a certain Blacc China! Blacc China and Wiz Khalifa photo retrieved from Twitter The other night Wiz Khalifa performed at the Platinum Club in his hometown of Pittsburgh, were apparently he and ‘China’ got a little cozy. Perhaps Wiz Khalifa reads my blog (see yesterday’s post), and decided he too would like to get to know

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Ahhh Miami! From the warm weather the taut scantily clad beach bodies traipsing about; Miami is a playground for those looking to play. It is difficult for me think that a man who spends an extended amount of time in Miami has any intention on being faithful to his lady Mary Ann back home in [insert hometown here]. King of Diamonds That’s right; Miami strip clubs are unsurpassed. A lot of men

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I am noticing a trend of women claiming bi-sexuality. I have a tendency to believe it is attention seeking behavior more than it is a sexual preference. Not that there aren’t women out there who are actually bi-sexual, but my guess is most of the women who engage in bi-sexual behavior are doing so for the benefit of enticing the male species.This really makes no sense. Why would a woman pretend

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BitchAssNess – When a seemingly heterosexual man displays or exudes female traits like jealousy, bitterness, envy, gossipiness, hate, being argumentative, carrying an attitude, etc.Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot of BitchAssNess including a man attacking the television programs “Real Housewives of Atlanta” and “Basketball Wives” on Facebook, and athletes being attacked by male fans on Twitter for

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Things that scare me….I consider myself a pretty tough cookie but there’s some things in the world that scare me to death…I decided to share them in hopes that someone can offer me counseling.  It’s difficult for me to be this vulnerable, but here it goes:In no particular order1.    Running out of toilet paper – The thought of running out of toilet paper is a huge fear

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Ok I know I should be ashamed of myself for counting down the days (exactly 829) until Daniel “Diggy” Simmons turns 18, but he is so handsome! Actually I am keeping my eye on him for my little nieces.  *wink*  This 15 year old heartthrob in the making makes me wish I could turn back the hands of time to my teenage years.  He comes from Hip Hop royalty; his dad is Run from the

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